Why are so many helpful and then this...

NethioX · 2016-12-22T06:57:37+00:00

You should work on your feeling of self worth , regardless of women. The notion of being a "weak animal" should be rediciouls to you

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-12-22T09:06:33+00:00

There are plenty of trolls who post in seddit. Don't feed the trolls.

Some of these naysayers are acting on behalf of specific groups that intend to demoralize the PUA community in general, by giving messages that it's all futile. If you see someone that repeatedly posts with this message, contact the moderators. This is behavior that will get you banned from seddit.

Thewelshpill · 2016-12-22T08:40:31+00:00

I have trouble with getting the thought out and switching back to optimism.

because you lack self assurance, stop being so easily influenced and have some conviction in your own beliefs and self worth

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-22T16:40:11+00:00

Only positive actions lead to positive results. That's always been my motto and it continues to be. These attacks are nothing more than cyber bullies who probably have much worse lives than any of us. I feel nothing but pity for them. And yes, anger or sadness can crop up once in a while too, but that's nothing we can't overcome. Focus on positive advice and don't look back. PM me if you need any help with this.

XeroMotivation · 2016-12-22T10:29:04+00:00

80% of people will get married at least once.

uniquan · 2016-12-22T11:44:06+00:00

Fill your head with other ideas. Overload the brain.

Xanarxses · 2016-12-22T13:40:41+00:00

That response sounds like the response of a dude that does not in fact get laid and instead he just jerks himself off in front of his computer.

Don't listen to that. Even if that is someone who isn't bitter and trying to make himself feel good about his lack of action.

When people say things like that, usually it's not a matter of being "redpilled" or "hardcore realist". It's a way of coping with their own inadequacies.

I don't accept ideas or notions that tell me I won't get laid. Because if I do accept them then I won't get laid. It's pretty simple. And furthermore, I can't accept them because I simply have no rationale in order to be able to. I can't follow an idea to which I don't see any logic. That's why I tend to feel not as great when I get hit with AA. I simply have no... excuse. I can't make one up.

Someone says you can't do the thing you wanna do? Fuck them. Don't let someone else's negativity poison your mindset.

Y'know you do have a choice. There are very few dudes that simply cannot get laid.

I had a guy in my class who was the punching bag of our class. I mean we just mercilessly made fun of him. He was loud, annoying, his breath was awful, he had a problem with his spine so he was always slightly hunched over. Y'know he got humiliated when he got his ass kicked in front of our school, by his rather ugly ex.

Just no mercy. He was a clown and he put himself in that situation really. It's not a dude that just minded his own business. He just provoked this unreasonable anger and annoyance from everyone. Not even with things he said but it's just that it was him.

That guy got laid before the dude that has had 15 girlfriends(or so he said). And he has had sex with more chicks than I did. I had a girlfriend and I was pretty damn good in bed, unlike him according to the girls he had sex with(and he had a small dick apparently). Still he had more chicks on his dick than I have.

This guy was out of shape, he wore braces(which often had food in them), he had a very crooked mainstream fashion sense. It's like someone trying to dress fashionably but he just didn't quite do it well because I dunno.

I have better hygiene, better body, better sex skills, better social skills, more than likely a bigger dick, I'm better looking than he is by a LOT, I'm smarter than he is, I'm funnier than he is and I'm cooler than he is.

What's the difference? He just did the do. I didn't. I got myself a girlfriend and fucked myself over.

If that guy could get laid then so can you. In fact maybe I should turn this into a motivational thread on here.

Basically, I'm a guy that has every advantage OVER him but yet his dick has been in more pussy than mine has. Though I'll also say that's because I've made some bad choices.

Sakura48 · 2016-12-22T13:46:43+00:00

Meditate and learn philosophy, to realize other people's words have absolutely no power to our mind and we shouldn't pay too much attention to them.

Jacob_961 · 2016-12-22T13:10:23+00:00

If I punch you will you break? There are always going to be people stronger or better than you but that doesn't make you less than what you are. If I tell you, you are strong, it doesn't make you strong. If I tell you, you are attractive, it doesn't make you attractive. Validation doesn't change anything in you. If I tell you that you are weak, you don't become weak because I devalidated you. You still are the same person, with the same skills, with the same brain and with the same body. But it needs strength of mind and character. If you punch a mountain, you hand will break, you have to know what you have and what you are objectively and stick to it always. Deep down you know your worth and yes there are people better than you. If you are average, you are average and no amount of validation will change that so in life you have to decide to either be brutally honest with yourself and others or try to delude yourself and others. Nothing happens when someone compliments me, it doesn't matter, it has 0 impact because it is fake. Heroine feels amazing but it kills you so what is it, a miracle drug or a death syrum. You have to decide whether you want to live in a dream world or reality. Once you decide to live in reality, what other people say think and do stop mattering to you because no one can argue the truth. Pretend as much as you want a $100 will always remain a $100, you can pretend that your $100 is a $1,000 and feel good but the crash will come sooner or later when you try to buy an item worth $1,000 and you realise you don't have a $1,000, you just have a $100. There is no shame in having a $100 and one day you could have a $1,000 but it comes with time and effort, not by pretending.

Title	Why are so many helpful and then this...
Author	Aeon199
Upvotes	11
Comments	34
Date	December 22, 2016 6:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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