Why even tinder

mikeeangelo91 · 2017-12-21T14:35:08+00:00

No you can Def find massive success on tinder. Just make sure your text game is on point, one fuck up and you’re getting ghosted. Friendzone, mess around, and don’t take them seriously, beg like you’ve never negged before. Trust me

ImJustSo · 2017-12-21T15:58:39+00:00

Online dating is a learning process, just like day gaming and night gaming, or gaming anywhere.

I started out in person, on campus, I was decent, but not great. I got better.

Night game at clubs, bars, etc I was decent because I'd already been gaining experience.

Next was online gaming and holy shit, I never got replies at first so I changed my approach. I started getting replies and then ended up where you are. After that I got better and better, but the amount of women I've spoken to now is in the thousands. I messaged hundreds of women on every social app I could find, women everywhere, all over the world, all over the US, all over my state, and all over my city. I learned how to speak to women and what makes them keep wanting to speak to me any chance they get.

You will still get ghosts, that won't change, but you'll have like 47 women that still want to meet you. It won't matter anymore!

Nowadays it's a combination of everything. When I see a woman in person, if I want to speak to her, then I do.

If I'm at home or work and the urge to meet women is there, then I go online and start swiping. Practice makes perfect, but women don't change. You can and you will. Just keep at it, you'll feel like a fuckin wizard one day and wonder, "How the fuck did I make that work?! Awesome!"

vaiostation · 2017-12-21T19:05:22+00:00

You are not following the two rules of tinder correctly...

sorry_mommy · 2017-12-21T06:52:15+00:00

They can sense how needy you are. And if you're on tinder and a guy you're needy by default.

ghlibisk · 2017-12-21T08:37:37+00:00

Tinder is dirty trash water. Get Bumble or Hinge or CmB.

natephant · 2017-12-21T18:27:07+00:00

You can’t keep the conversation in the tinder app itself.

I call tinder a “back burner” Where I’m not necessarily looking to meet people that day, or even that weekend... but if you are get the phone number, take the convo there and set a plan to meet up.

If you’re like me and not trying to meet up with people immediately for whatever reason make the transition over to Snapchat. Snapchat is a great way to shelf or incubate a conversation and then pick back up out of the blue reasonably well.

Steve_Savage · 2017-12-21T22:19:30+00:00

Dating skills take time and effort. Tinder is mainly for the short attention span types who want to get quick sex, and they have little time for dating amateurs.

The_Reddit_Jester · 2017-12-21T18:24:32+00:00

Online dating got me a lot of success but it's also not a good way to game just because of the whole grass is greener thing. So many options make it hard to stick with one for a long time. You can't take no response personally.

ls737100 · 2017-12-21T21:09:51+00:00

Hey this, don't message more than a few times, suggest meeting up the next day or so. You can't seduce someone through the ap. I was trying to screen through the app. Now I just exchange a couple messages then suggest we meet, ask when will work, set it and then go. Don't even confirm, just be there. See what happens. I had two last week, one was terrific, meeting her in Jan when I'm back in town.

Tm19997 · 2017-12-22T07:07:43+00:00

Whenever I message girls on tinder it’s just a simple hey with a smirk emoji if she responds my go to line is almost always “you look like the kind of girl that enjoys cuddling” (what girl doesn’t like cuddling) winking emoji. I’ve gotten 3 lays from tinder following this philosophy, working on a forth shits easy man. I don’t even live in a super densely populated area either which I would assume makes it more difficult to find matches. And I’m by no means an ogre either, I posted on r/rateme and most people gave me a 6.5-7 which was motivating to say the least.

prettyfatgirl · 2017-12-22T12:06:10+00:00

This happens to girls too unfortunately:/ But my best advice is if she doesn’t respond DO NOT KEEP MESSAGING HER ONCE A DAY that’s so creepy and obnoxious also don’t ask for her phone number five seconds into the conversation like bitch I barely know you why would I give you the ability to text me

Jean-Victor_COTE · 2018-02-27T17:45:13+00:00

There are bots -> https://www.theregister.co.uk/2014/04/07/tinder_bot_malware_attack/

There are scams -> http://metro.co.uk/2016/07/26/dont-fall-for-this-tinder-scam-cheating-people-out-of-money-6030776/

At least, it doesn't seem to be built in, as on some other "dating" sites.

Title	Why even tinder
Author	MysteryZee
Upvotes	10
Comments	23
Date	December 21, 2017 6:30 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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