Wtf am I, a pretty lady, doing wrong?

dingleburry_joe · 2022-04-13T00:23:13+00:00

Simply put your not ltr material at all. I don't even have to know you, and other dudes know it

And I while I feel it's most women in general, it's the massive entitlement and ego. Watch what you call other people it comes back always.

appmanga · 2022-04-13T01:09:35+00:00

If you come across in the wild like you do in your posts it would give me pause for thought, and I'm a pretty brave guy when it comes to sex and women. You seem to be thirty as hell and come across like a horndog guy who thinks he's a gift to the kind of women who wouldn't touch him with a barge pole.

There's simply too much incongruity for a guy who has the least amount of decent things going on in his life. You might be good looking, funny (to you), and smart. You just don't seem that interesting.

Comfortable-Chest747 · 2022-04-13T07:13:41+00:00

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BensonInFL · 2022-04-13T00:44:22+00:00

First, you're not alone. I'm a guy in my 40's dating 20yr old girls, and SO MANY of them have told me that young guys today basically just want you to go over to their house, smoke and have sex. No going on a date, no spending money, no EFFORT at all. Just by doing things that I consider normal behavior, like planning a creative date, I'm already way ahead of the pack.

Second, occasionally I used to ask girls whom I've already slept with show me their tinder account... we would sit together and swipe left and right on various guys in a playful way.. I was kind of doing it to show them that I wasn't jealous and didn't care who else they were talking to, but of course I wanted to know what my competition was. I was completely blown away when I picked out some really hot dude, and the girl says 'NO', I ask why, and they say " If he's this hot, I just assume he's a fuckboy".... Three different girls have said various versions of this to me throughout the years...

Third, no one is going to buy the cow if you give away the milk for free. If you present yourself more as a challenge, you will get better results.

-B

Comfortable-Chest747 · 2022-04-13T01:37:32+00:00

My question to you would be "What are you doing to find what you're looking for besides looking good?"

If all you're going to do is put bait on a hook and go fishing, then throwing your bait anywhere isn't going to work. You have to know where the fish are that you're looking for, and go to them. They're not going to come to you, unless you get lucky and find the one that just happened to be passing through.

That's the first part. The second part is effort.

You can't simply just go outside and expect a man to do everything else. The reason why you're only attracting ugly men and men that just want to have sex is because you're in the wrong place and you are not putting in effort beyond trying to look good and going outside.

As a self-respecting guy who gets attention from women and has been called "a good dude," I'm not going to simply approach you just because you look good and hand you a gòod relationship. You're going to have to put in some effort too.

So rather than being disappointed by the guys that are coming to you, go out and try finding the guys that you want and at least meet them halfway.

iplaysmitegame · 2022-04-13T04:05:01+00:00

Damn girl. Try hanging out with normal people and stop seeing yourself as a sexual object.

You're telling us what you have to offer, being your body, and asking why men only want you for your body?

shushravens · 2022-04-13T00:54:32+00:00

Are you working on yourself? It doesn't just mean working out, but finding things you enjoy, becoming a complete person. Are you approaching the kind of guys you think you want to be in a relationship with? It is always a numbers game. If you want hook ups the sub will tell people to go to clubs. If you want something more the sub will tell you to go to libraries, or parks, or talk to people while doing activities or hobbies.

NoDatabase1552 · 2022-04-13T04:10:40+00:00

Because most women put up similar barriers. The men that have learned how to break thru, will not stick around. They just want a sample. It's hard to settle down with one, when there's access to many.

Most men are so bad at seduction that when they break thru, they tend to settle.

You're very likely rejecting lots of decent guys, using your intuitive system.

TooMuchJibberish · 2022-04-13T02:55:45+00:00

Because I am only attracting ugly men

Hahahahaha, if a guy said he was only attracting ugly women on reddit all hell would break lose.

"You're not entitled to beautiful women you misogynist!"

In this case, you're not entitled to good looking guys

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-04-13T01:31:41+00:00

Well..

No ones gonna be able to tell you without knowing more detail of your life and how you act in person. But the facts are that you are struggling to attract or keep a high value man.

There is something about you that high value men consider you non relationship material for.

I’ve seen this happen many times over in life and based on my observations, it can be 1 of 2 things:

You have a high body count (few self respecting men have relationships with sluts)

Or you are sassy and difficult to be around.

It has to be one of them, maybe even both. Considering you said maybe it’s arrogance, I’m interested to know why you call yourself arrogant? If you consider yourself arrogant, a high value man most definitely will consider you it too, and discard you of any relationship possibility.

TheDimLighter · 2022-04-13T01:49:14+00:00

Rip dms

nopenotmedude · 2022-04-13T04:21:57+00:00

You want something that the average boy your age isn't capable of. You'll have to date someone a little older that understands courtship. Also don't have sex for the first couple of dates.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-13T11:58:53+00:00

Could be the way you dress combined with how crass you seem to be about sex. Guys might not be taking you seriously.

Title	Wtf am I, a pretty lady, doing wrong?
Author	Comfortable-Chest747
Upvotes	0
Comments	46
Date	April 13, 2022 12:14 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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