[xMODx] Give Back! Help by participating in /r/AskSeddit

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-08-30T04:08:40+00:00

I have been redoubling my effort to drop in on AskSeddit more often and moderate it more actively. But I can't be everywhere and read everything. I could use some assistance in keeping an eye out for trouble. If you see flamers or spammers or other disruptions, please flag the comments using the report button.

I will also remind sedditors, you don't have to be an expert mPUA to help beginners in AskSeddit. But you should try to help them connect to the basic concepts and methods of the seduction community. You may not know much, but if you are one step ahead of someone, you can at least direct them to useful resources that helped you get ahead.

MonDew · 2013-08-31T19:30:33+00:00

I've been working on my inner game a lot lately, so much that it occupies much of my free time. Been reading into The correct mindsets, how to interact properly in social enviroments and such, and i'm definitely noticing improvement, which is also fuelling more improvement and motivating me.

One problem i've noticed though is, sometimes when i see girls paying a little more attention to me, i start to look into that way too much. I do things like debating whether or not they're interested way too much (i know i should assume attraction, working on it), and even sometimes nominate them as potential partners, just because they pay a little more attention.

I see this as being me being too "beta" and would love to know how i should counter such reactions.

readonlyuser · 2013-09-02T10:32:01+00:00

I find that 80% of those problems can be resolved by more field experience, but I don't want to keep writing that over and over.

The_DukeDevlin · 2013-09-02T19:29:12+00:00

Thanks for bringing awareness to r/askseddit. In my humblest of opinions r/askseddit is where the actual learning goes on, and the advice given:advice taken ratio is much more in balance.

tha_nice_guy · 2013-08-30T16:00:47+00:00

My co-worker (25 yrs old, HB8) is obviously flirting with me, but I've confirmed with several of my friends who work there, that she's in a relationship. Im 19, but she's only playing games (as in ENJOYS the game rather than actually looking for someone) correct?

Signs of flirting she's given:

Strong eye contact (even gives this weird facial expression like she's expecting something)
Light kino (arm touching, touches my back)
Playful response to normal conversation topics

I've been a AFC my whole life, never had a gf and recently lost a lot of weight (she's only known me as skinny btw). But I shouldn't over think this stuff and I shouldn't pursue, right seddit?

HasALeatherJacket · 2013-09-02T14:52:44+00:00

There's a girl at my work who recently put in her two weeks, so I got to act quick. I only see her on the weekends since school started, but I want to get her number before she quits.

How should I ask for her numbers?

I'm thinking of just giving her a piece of paper and pen and saying "Hey, write down your number, I want to get to know you more since you're leaving."

I know she's attracted to me, so I'm pretty confident with getting it. I've just never done it before so I'm not sure where to start.

LuperFlipino · 2013-09-02T18:07:56+00:00

There was a blog about a guy who didn't like marriage or relationships with women but was really good with them. It was called master of my fate or captain of my soul blogspot, something from the poem invictus..does anyone know what it is?

Title	[xMODx] Give Back! Help by participating in /r/AskSeddit
Author	puaCurveBall
Upvotes	80
Comments	26
Date	August 29, 2013 11:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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