We all want the hot 8, 9 or 10/10 that literally everyone is staring at, even the girls. But when we try to get them, we realize how difficult it is, and we lose hope.

The problem is that our ego is so big that we aren't willing to hook up with the 4s or 5s, so that we get better and eventually are able to hook up with the 6s and 7s. We train long enough with them so at some point we can hook an 8, and then finally a 9 or 10.

The simple truth is that all these great Coaches that we look up to once started with 4s. Or perhaps even with 3s or 2.

And no, I'm not telling you to settle for anything lower that you want. All I'm saying is that if you want to improve, you have to be willing to hurt your ego. That's how we get better.