Women often use shame to manipulate peoples behaviors: dont take it from me, take it from an actual woman herself

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-07-19T15:18:10+00:00

For sure there are times when the shame is warranted, but the majority of times it is just made with self serving intentions.

Examples? calling men insecure for certain preferences or boundaries.

which is quite ironic, because when a woman standards stem from insecurity, people usually see them as boundaries or preferences, examples?:

Insecurity, this is the main go to everytime certain women want to make a guy feel bad about himself, but is ridiculous because when you point out a womans insecurities and how men are willing to deal with them they automatically go to "there is nothing wrong with being insecure, we all have them".....if there is nothing wrong....whats the relevance of pointing out a guy is insecure? shaming him to manipulate his behavior perhaps?

Is quite funny because those same women claim that gender roles are outdated (only when it doesnt benefits them) yet still hold men to this traditional masculinity standard of stoic secure confident warrior that never has doubts or fears.

"Im gonna make a guy wait for X time before sleeping with him because im scared he might just use me for my body and etc", this is blatant insecurity, but hey, a woman should sleep with a guy whenever she feels comfortable no matter what her past is or her culture or whatever, but i cant help but wonder why such blatant insecurity is called a boundary or an standard and it isnt shamed like men's (which most of the times they arent insecurities).

And like these there are plenty of more examples that im too lazy to bring up but im pretty sure most of you all have experienced something like that.

Exciting_Pay_1898 · 2023-07-19T16:34:37+00:00

Men tend to use physical violence while women tend to use social violence. Shaming is a kind of social violence.

Eschew_Sloth-232 · 2023-07-19T16:56:13+00:00

What's the name of her channel?

James_Cruse · 2023-07-20T07:19:11+00:00

Where are all of the women showing evidence of what this video says NOT being true?

Shame, guilt & being a victim are women’s main ways of manipulating anyone into doing anything.

No-Vermicelli1103 · 2023-07-23T02:35:55+00:00

I watch her vids she’s a good YouTuber

ConvolutedMaze · 2023-07-19T16:00:05+00:00

Tradcon beyonce back at it again

Peacesquad · 2023-07-19T18:58:52+00:00

How dare you lmao

Fresh-Code-4366 · 2023-07-20T11:01:27+00:00

Excuse me but why the #### would you care what a woman thinks? Did she care about your opinions and thoughts about her when she was partying and sleeping around with dozens of men when she was 18? Please, use your brain.

Title	Women often use shame to manipulate peoples behaviors: dont take it from me, take it from an actual woman herself
Author	Opening_Pattern_301
Upvotes	23
Comments	21
Date	July 19, 2023 3:16 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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