People say all the time about how dating is only unfair on dating apps, but in real life things equalize. They're so so wrong. There's nothing more black-pilling than trying to meet women in real life.

I have a group of friends that I regularly go on nights out with. And seeing how all of our experiences vary based on our varied traits just fills me with misanthrope fuel.

It's not a suprise that the shortest guy in our group, 5 ft 6, gets rejected all the time. I've genuinely never seen him dance with a girl, let alone make out with a girl. Even though he's a slim and good looking guy, he's super kind and charismatic, even clinically obese middle-aged women reject him.

I have another friend who's the gymcel of our group. He's the most muscular in our group. He beats everyone in arm wrestling. He can bench press 100kg. He's not a bad looking guy either. He's able to dance with girls a bit, he does a bit better than the short guy, but he has aspergers so he never goes further than 30 seconds of dancing with a woman. Even obese women, they always reject him.

Then I have another friend who's the chad of our group. He's 6 ft 1, white, blue eyes, slim (no muscle). But he's super quiet, always speaks in a monotone, and he literally never approaches women. He's even asked me for advice a few times on how to approach women because I always do it, but even after telling him how I do it, he never gets the courage to do it. At the club, he doesn't dance, he just nods to the beat and wags his fingers a bit. Yet women approach him all the fucking time. Every night out without fail a woman will approach him and make out with him. He has no charisma, he has no wit, I can't remember the last time he's actually cracked a joke, yet women are always chasing him, he's always dating multiple women, and he's always adding new ones to his harem every night out.

I'm personally able to occasionally dance and make out with women. I made out with a pretty girl last weekend. I even got a one night stand a month ago. But it's just because I'm 6 ft and slim. My personality has no part to play in it. I've actually noticed that the more I make a woman laugh, the more chatty she is, and the more she smiles at me, the more likely she is to reject me. Because the more sociable she is, the more she sees me as a potential platonic friend. The more nervous and reserved she is, the more she sees me as a potential boyfriend, making them nervous about messing things up, and making them less interested in chatting and more interested in kissing and fucking. Looks are the only thing that matter.

But the thing is I get no actual dates from doing this. After making out for a bit, they're never interested in going on a date later. I actually get way more dates from dating apps. Iget quite a lot of likes and matches on Tinder and Hinge. And that's actually the same with all of my friends, even the short guy and especially the gymcel - he gets tons of likes and matches because they can't tell how autistic he is online. The unfairness of dating apps is just a complete myth. If you fail on there, you'll fail in real life aswell.