Wife wants a divorce but has done nothing about it. She won’t go to counselling which disappoints me.

Over the last few months we’ve been having some heated discussions. You said, I said type stuff.

I raised my voice a few octaves and pointed at her. (As she did to me) no squaring up or bad language etc. Now she’s saying I scare her and make her afraid. Have a recording of said incident and it’s a non event.

Concerned she’ll try a barring order as I’m not going anywhere in a hurry.