I am just heading down the divorce path after 18 years. Right now its very amicable. We still love each other, but we both recognize that over the years we stopped making each other happy as we focused on kids, careers, life etc. We are mostly at peace with it all. We continue to share a house and co-parent - which we are hoping to do to avoid my son having to change schools. We are both starting to see other people and are open about it. We intend to split assets and finances equally - even though she was the at home care-giver and I was the goto work provider for our marriage.

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Am I just living in dreamland and this is all going to turn bad? what are the things to look out for ? Interested in anyone else who has managed to do this successfully. thanks