So here’s my situation. Any advice would be awesome. Been separated for about 2 years. Divorce was finalized in December. She took the house and I had to move in with my parents to start to rebuild my life. The problem is, my parents live 5 hours away from her and my two kids (11 and 8). We had a custody agreement drawn up and it was actually pretty good. We go from getting along to not getting along at all pretty frequently, depending on who she is dating at the time. Well, my boys were supposed to come here for Easter, but my parents are very paranoid about the virus, and my ex lives in a “hot zone” about an hour outside nyc, so they said they can’t come here. So I talked to my ex and she said I could come there for a few days and stay with them (it’s a big house with plenty of extra bedrooms). But my parents said that if I go, I need to be there for 14 days to make sure that I don’t show any symptoms before I come back here. Well my ex balked at that and said maximum of 3-4 days.

I miss my boys very much and just want to be with them. Any ideas?