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[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
Deleted comments are gold:
https://snew.notabug.io/r/AskFeminists/comments/d1xtkb/are_feminists_against_hypergamy/
[–]Spicy-kittyFDS Disciple36 points37 points38 points (4 children) | Copy Link
When I was younger, i used to think (liberal) feminists were the true feminists, and (radical) feminists were ugly hairy man haters, the last thing I wanted to be(pick me syndrome)
But then I realized that liberal feminists simply want to "play nice and fair" with men, while men are still treating women like garbage.
Where as radical feminists know and understand the true nature of men and social and biological dynamics of men and women, and know we have to use it to our advantage as much as we can to avoid getting hurt( if we choose to date men). Otherwise, men are pretty much a "lost cause" and we're better off separating ourselves, and not trying to fix them like liberal feminists think.
I think society hates women who are aware of sexism and know how to best use it to our advantage (hypergamy for example, not saying women can be sexist)
How dare women ask for a man who will pay for dates, it's not like we're at risk of getting raped, murdered, unwanted pregnancy, etc/s
"Equality" is mostly defined by men, who are the default. Men and women may be equal legally, but we are not equal socially or physically.
[–]hoIds_up_sporkFDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
i used to think this too. and even when i started becoming a GCfem/radfem, i thought liberal feminism was just mildly annoying but ultimately harmless. but it's so insidious and dangerous for girls and young women. they are being taught the same patriarchal bullshit as previous generations but under the guise of empowerment. teen girls getting strangled and thinking it's part of a normal sexual experience, girls being taught that six inch heels and makeup are "empowering", girls as young as 10 having makeup collections worth hundreds of dollars. girls being taught to "get that dick" with no regard for the emotional or physical consequences that could come with casual sex, etc.
[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist[S] 20 points21 points22 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Radical feminism was mischaracterized and buried on purpose by the male powers that be and LibFems helped them trying to be “cool girls”.
[–]Spicy-kittyFDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely, men were doing this to first wave feminists, which is ironic because men today like to claim that the only good feminists were the ones asking for the right to vote.
But of course there are men who hate that women have a choice to begin.
[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple24 points25 points26 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't get the outrage over hypergamy.
Every living creature that reproduces sexually endeavors to find the best mate. Yet somehow, if a woman does the same thing it's somehow evil. Even guys who talk up biology to justify their behaviour will rage if they're not chosen.
[–]Spicy-kittyFDS Disciple12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
True, I rather be alone if I can't date the best. Men suck the life and energy out of women
[–]popfridayFDS STRATEGY COACH20 points21 points22 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You are fighting the GOOD fight sis.
Holy shit. I don’t think I could ever step foot in that den of women hating pick me’s. At least men have something to GAIN from their misogyny. AT least I’d know WHY a man would fight me for saying I won’t fuck him on the first date or be his mother while raising his children and supporting the family. A shit man is going to protect his low efforts at all cost. We agree to disagree and he keeps loving his low value life.
But WOMEN?! I mean this would be laughable if it wasn’t so sick. Literally the motto of this sub should be “fight for our rights! BUT not if it offends men dear god please don’t say anything inflammatory or they might not respect us as women.”
News flash: Either way, they don’t give a shit about you and yet everything about your activism is centered around not stepping on men’s toes. Lol I wonder if they think the MRA’s have “NO MISOGYNY” in their side bar. 💀
How can you call yourself a FEMINIST and fight tooth and nail against “the horrors of misandry” over the needs and safety of actual women?!!
If I marry and have kids, he will be able to support all of us. If he ends up fucking me over, I’m taking half and living my best life with my children. He can visit.
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist28 points29 points30 points (9 children) | Copy Link
These women are a joke. Just having this conversation is apparently misandry and then they shut it down with just find a different type of man/ date a different man. Good luck with finding a good man when you call it misandry to discuss how crap men are and put your head in the sand. Pair this with their porn apologia and they're sure to find a great mate! Just wait until these women have kids with these men and it all goes to shit.
There is no feminist thought in any part of that sub. Barely any thought at all.
I was really shocked by that one pig that said that women deserve zero compensation for doing all of the reproductive labor, just threw out absolutely everything that we suffer and die to perpetuate the human race and said it was all worthless. Then in the next sentence he dismisses it with it was her choice to get pregnant. I love how they are using choice now to excuse every way a woman gets screwed by men and society. I guess we should just get rid of child support, he solved it! It was her choice to get pregnant. The man clearly wasn't there fucking her, ejaculating in her, telling her to keep the baby...
Next they will be saying women don't deserve maternity leave because it was her choice to get pregnant. Then they'll probably say it's patronising and makes women look weak giving them maternity leave and that our bodies need no time to heal.
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[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Whatever leads to zero male responsibility, just like patriarchy promotes through the New Feminism. These women are such idiots they won't stop until women have nothing.
[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist[S] 12 points13 points14 points (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah LibFems have a cult like devotion to denying reality. The deleted comments on this thread are gold, especially u/boopdewoop5 and u/TruthTellaaaaa
https://snew.notabug.io/r/AskFeminists/comments/d1xtkb/are_feminists_against_hypergamy/
[–]jalapenopancakesRuthless Strategist17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Reasons why I left liberal feminism number billion.
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist14 points15 points16 points (4 children) | Copy Link
I can't believe this, only the removed comments have any feminism. These women are total idiots. Stepford feminists I saw someone else dub them, who will pick men who watch porn and contribute "half" and tell her the ways he screws her were her "choice". If she asks for an orgasm he'll tell her she's responsible for her own and then do nothing for her while using her vagina as a flashlight for his dick.
[–]hoIds_up_sporkFDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points (3 children) | Copy Link
i'm so tired of the "terfs aren't feminists" nonsense. lmao do they think suffragettes believed that tRaNs wOmEn ArE wOmEn? do they think second wavers who were fighting for birth control and abortion would agree with their derailing of "nOt aLL WoMeN hAvE vAginAs" nonsense? THEY are the ones who hijacked feminism to make it all about men and their
dicks"girldicks".[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist8 points9 points10 points (2 children) | Copy Link
These women would have been the ones against women having the vote back in 1900 saying that women don't need to vote because men represent their best interests.
[–]hoIds_up_sporkFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
"it's eMpoWeriNg to not have the vote because I suck my husband's dick twice a day so I have the power in the relationship and thus, his vote is actually mine!"
"it's EmPoWeriNg to not be able to own my own bank account because that means my husband has to give me money! I have the power, teehee!"
Libfem logic
[–]extraacct1234Ruthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god! Spot on!
[–]kinnnionFDS Disciple13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Idiots, literally bringing us ten steps back
[–]signm3upsc0ttyFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Question... if it’s a “male’s biology” to sleep around for life, the what makes us think it’s realistic that ANY of us ends up with a committed man? Especially since some PickMe’s go after specifically married men?
:/
[–]perhapsbutnottodayFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I left that sub today. Totally unrelated issue about are Transwomen women. Just so you know, I think not. Im a feminist and I know there’s all kinds I’m not sure that sub has my kind of feminism .
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