So I did a thing and accepted a change of plans the morning of AGAINST my better judgement and out of a place of feeling lonely which makes it even worse. I had first date plans with a man tomorrow evening and early this morning he asked if we could change it to this evening instead. Normally I would not even consider it but a friend had just canceled on me for an evening workout which I was bummed about blah blah and I figured why not? DUMB. So anyways, I cut my work out short, rush home, wash my hair and put makeup on and an hour before we are meant to meet he texts “I hate to cancel on such short notice, but feeling super sick I just had to leave work early :(“ fucking hate smilies in texts first off.... and I just laughed. This is the universe kicking me in the butt. Never ever accept change of plans last min OR rush for a man. I’m so thankful for this honestly but curious if I should even reply or just straight up block (which I would do after anyways) ps I do love when men show their true colors before I waste a meeting 👌🏼