If you find a career-oriented man, that doesn't mean he is husband material.

Some of these men will commit to their education and careers on day 1 but not do the same for the lady in his life. I've heard all sorts of stories coming from my friends about med students, engineering students, and law school students. A lot of these ego-filled men are attracted to careers that have status and high financial reward.

Some of these men will respect the woman in his life when he's the "little guy" but as soon as their status improves, they'll start looking for something "better." Think about the first wife of the main character in The Wolf of Wall Street. She built him up and supported him in the beginning.

A HVM will make sacrifices in his life to improve yours. You won't have to beg for him to be there for you, he will check up on you, and he will give you useful advice. Not only will a HVM be your partner, he'll be your teacher. A HVW will appreciate him as much as the HVM appreciates her.