I think I just red-pilled

DangZagnut · 2019-05-29T15:12:20+00:00

You fucked up. You didn't read Briffault's Law and truly understand what it means.

Just to go over it again.

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.

Make sense? You were no longer useful. You were her bitch. She used you because you were stupid enough to do all her work for her.

You are not friends, you may think you are, but you're nothing to her, and never will be.

Get over her, and never, ever, help a woman again. Never give your time and money to someone who will absolutely never give a shit about you. Either you're fucking her, or she's fucking you over. That's it. Don't waste your life on chasing women or wasting your valuable time and energy on them. If you're writing her paper, she needs to be under the desk blowing you.

Docbear64 · 2019-05-29T15:41:35+00:00

but she makes me question my sanity.

Don't ever talk to her again, the most insane I've ever behaved, the most fucked up I've ever been the most out of character I've ever become was when I was chasing a woman trying to mend my broken heart. I am typically a very emotionally and mentally stable individual but during that period ? my emotions were going up and down , I couldn't sleep and other times I didn't want to wake up .

Nothing is worth your sanity , there will ALWAYS be other women but you only get 1 YOU , don't fuck yourself up by trying to hold onto a woman whose already made her choice.

She is not supportive of you and trying to find support in her will drive you to an even darker place. if there's anyone better in your life to rely on and connect to please do that. For your sake and health .

OLD-TRUCK · 2019-05-29T15:20:07+00:00

Nice guys finish last.

StiuNu · 2019-05-29T16:03:30+00:00

If you have the papers you wrote for her...report her.

You spent a lot of time writing those. You should get credit for it.

She needs a bit of wrath in her life. If you don't this bitch will become you equal in the field, but because of affirmative action she will end-up you boss someday.

You think that's something you want in your future?

Edit: spelling

pwnzusauce · 2019-05-29T18:21:24+00:00

You were her beta provider, while she fancied and fucked Chad.

I don't believe in friendships between men and women, I cut all my female friendships by cutting the head of the snake (((Facebook))).

Women will either fuck you or use you, or both.

She wasn't yours, it was just your turn.

jstrockmeyer · 2019-05-29T15:16:01+00:00

If you are asking what to do, you have not "red-pilled" enough.

What do you think you should do? How are the scales tipping for you right now?

I think this belongs more on another sub, but I may be wrong.

ElMatador_33 · 2019-05-29T15:20:15+00:00

30-40 year old women aren’t young. Theyll still use you. They always want something from you. Your money, your time, your attention. Hey, maybe even sometimes they want sex. Usually it is just time and money.

cypresstalker · 2019-05-29T16:23:43+00:00

There is no reality where you are going to be friends with that girl again. You're strangers now OP

sagilny · 2019-05-29T16:51:19+00:00

Hey buddy. I'm truly sorry you've invested so much in her. And I'm glad this happened at 21. It breaks my heart knowing all my brother's whom went through the same over and over. As I myself went through it years ago.

You have to understand that we're currently living in a gynocentric era. And in this era, feminists are taking over. The man whom started putting women on the pedestal kept them wanting more.

The greed that has poisoned their hearts made a void that could never be filled. And that void is called hypergamy and monkey branching. It keeps them fucking dudes over for better. Never satisfied.

Chivalry made women feeling entitled. They could not open doors themselves. Doors were so heavy back then. Made of thick wood to prevent robberies. They had to stay hours at a time waiting for a strong man to open the door. Then Man invented the electric door to stop that bullshit. And the women became empowered. With police around, and financial security, Man is now disposable. Any woman can walk a dark Ally feeling safe. No need for a man to keep her safe and rely on. 911 or whistle, and she's safe.

They ask for equality. But simps keep giving them power.

You were born and brought up sucking blue milk, watching blue material Disney, eating and drinking blue food. soy juice "milk", plastic bottles and containers and GMO that reduces your testosterone levels. Keeping you simping and paying up to the system.

Manginas and white knights who simp and still are contributing to the rigged system, are slowly recovering from all that social programming and engineering everyday. Hence, you. And that's ok. Welcome to MGTOW. But what's not ok, is fighting MGTOW and calling them incels. We don't care though. Because all of us here are pursuing one goal. And we'd want to reach it. And not some white Knight mangina put up some new rules that could prevent this goal.

Eitherway, Rule#1, you do not talk about MGTOW irl. Or you're going to be "THAT GUY" to them. Keep on taking your daily dose of redpill through the videos on the sidebar "about". It's a huge pill to swallow.

Side tip, don't relapse ;)

RealBiggly · 2019-05-29T17:02:27+00:00

Dude, you were literally getting stamps in your Nice Guy booklet, while she goes off and jumps on some asshole's dick.

So many cliché posts today I'm wondering if y'all trolling or something..?

KneeDeepThought · 2019-05-29T18:10:02+00:00

I know it hurts man but think of it in the big picture: you paid a very low price for a very valuable lesson. Most guys get on the hook for decades of child support before realizing they were used as a disposable tool for her benefit. Never forget, you're nothing but a resource to be drained in their eyes.

CptBishop · 2019-05-29T21:27:16+00:00

Nobody is worth wasting your time n effort. focus on yourself, make other people chase you, not the other way.

2019-05-29T15:35:25+00:00

Dude, it was your turn, now it’s another man’s turn. Go Your Own Way bro and cut contact with her

CAYF · 2019-05-29T16:48:35+00:00

You a virgin?

I lost my virginity at 26 to this girl I thought was the love of my life. It's very similar.

Id go to her house and sleep if there was ever a crazy news story murderer on the loose. I'd give her money when she needed it even though we made the exact same money. Id help her, give her all of my attention. We were "together" for a year. Cheated on me the whole time and by the end of it, it was as if the entire thing was fake. She didn't have the slightest bit of remorse and was probably already back to sleeping with other dudes by the time I packed all my shit and moved on.

You know some might argue its bad enough to loose that innocence at such a late age but what's really fucked up is loosing it to someone like that.

The kicker is that AWALT. There's no exceptions dude, Think about the stories, so you literally prioritized this bitch before yourself and she fucks some dude a week after meeting him right?

Think about it man. Really do. She doesn't care about you. Like she could give no fucks. If anything she probably cums harder with that 1 week dude knowing that there's dudes out here that are willing to stay up 1:30 in the morning doing her paper while she is cumming all over the place. You really think women aren't like that? You dont think her pussy gets wet af knowing your doing all this work for her, thinking about her night and day while she is blowing another guy?

Remove the question from your mind infinitely. There is no question, this is her in a nutshell. Don't be a cuck. Don't serve or bend into becoming this kind of man because you will lose yourself into a sick sick matrix.

Ukhupa · 2019-05-29T19:28:32+00:00

I want to tell you this, from personal experience.

Don't be the nice guy. Just don't. You will be used and taken advantage of. By women and men.

It can take a while to internalize, but trust me, you will be respected more if you become the stern, not easily approachable man that others have to work to get access to. Knocks on doors, asking if you are busy, working on your time, real payment for your work, you get the idea. Otherwise get used to people dumping their stuff in front of you while saying "Hey, give me a hand with this.", expecting you to drop whatever it is you were doing.

Save favors for family and friends that deserve it. Yes, not even them get free passes. I once dog-sitted for an entire night and half the next day at my best friend's house while he and his wife were out of town.

My mother didn't like it, remarking how I just jumped at the opportunity but every time she asks something from me I sigh and do it reluctantly. For me it was easy. My best friend has been there for me many times during the 11 years I've known him, has not once before asked me for anything, said I was his first choice when it came to picking someone to take care of his dogs and treated me to dinner the night before he left to show me the house and give me directions. I love my mother, but it seems like she needs help with something or has an errand that needs to be made almost daily.

Anyway, excuse the mini rant there. Conserve your energy and time and only spare them for people that truly value them.

BetterDerailed · 2019-05-29T18:21:55+00:00

"Support each other" - seems like you did all the supporting. What ways is she going to support you?

treesplease12 · 2019-05-29T21:33:50+00:00

You were a good guy my friend, you ARE a good guy, and she didn’t DESERVE your goodness. She used you to get her through classes she couldn’t manage on her own. She used seduction as a carrot to keep you helping her, and you didn’t deserve that... you wonder if you should continue speaking with her? I say NO, loud and strongly, NO! Cut the cancer out of you now, and you will slowly recover from this.

gbevans · 2019-05-29T20:30:39+00:00

stay blocked, complete ignore, then just think where you're going to be financially 10 years from now and where she will probably be. also, while it feels terrible now, realize how lucky that you're not married with kids in that situation.

2019-05-29T22:06:31+00:00

My lads, I don't know what to do.

You just said you were studying in a fantastic school, correct? Focus on your studies, graduate and get workin'. With the money you can, or will make, you can fuck as many women you want that are 10 times hotter than her.

Was I not a good guy? Did I not sacrifice my time for her? What did I do wrong? Granted, I am not the most masculine man out there,

Here is the issue. You are being a 'good guy'. She's walkin' all over you. Take your time, use you for a orbiter. All in all, this one statement shows that you got played, just like every other guys she's probably pulled the same stunt with. Also, you are in college. College women do this shit all the time. They know they have a horde of slaves for the pussy at their disposal. Don't be a 'good guy. Be a mother-fucker. Be a son-of-a-bitch. Be a bastard. Don't give a shit, and move on. I know that's probably a ton to digest, but as you get older, or deal with more of these types of people (men and women), you have to set boundaries and DO NOT let people use you, or take you for granted. The only person I allow to currently do that is my mother. And that's, well, simply because long term reasons and biological mother. Outside of that, I treat most others as a potential threat until they prove otherwise.

but I believe I had earned the chance to at least be considered as boyfriend material.

I hate to say it to you, but this is really where you went wrong. You felt, or possibly were entitled to think you could be a 'boyfriend'. Honestly, the best way to look at this is the following: You just dodged a bullet, and even if you were 'boyfriend/girlfriend' she still would be fucking guys behind your back, while you play the simp role. We've seen plenty of posts on this sub with that exact situation. So don't fret it. You are young, and still have somewhat of a set of ideas on how romance/relationships work. That's all part the social programming. Either way, look at it as a positive learning experience.

Focus on you, your studies, graduate and go crush your enemies and see them driven before you. That way you can hear the lamentation of the women.

Cuntplainer · 2019-05-30T05:25:21+00:00

Block her. You were her doormat, free tutor and shrink. You were used and your relationship was one-sided.

_kephri_ · 2019-05-29T17:00:12+00:00

Question: at any point, did you ask her out in a romantic way? Date in a romantic way? Ask to be exclusive? Because I get being pissed and jealous, or disappointed, but it's possible that your failure to act caused her to assume you weren't going to, and she moved on.

TheKnightRunner · 2019-05-29T18:36:58+00:00

Cut your losses, learn from the experience, and move on. A woman choosing you isn't earned by being a good guy. Actually quite the opposite. It's solely based on a temporary emotional feeling of tingles and butterflies. I'm guessing the Chad she started banging did nothing for her except text her a couple of mildly amusing memes. He probably largely ignores her except when he wants sex, and she eats it up like a dog when it sees table scraps fall on the floor. Truth hurts, but apparently you need to hear it.

She never wanted you. She only wanted what you were willing to offer her, which was emotional support when she needed it and someone to do her homework for her. She dangled that carrot of flirting from time to time to keep you around and made you think getting her was a potential outcome for all your hard work. Exactly why she's still contacting you from time to time now. Keeping you strung along for the next time she needs you.

MuleFool42 · 2019-05-29T21:52:52+00:00

She used you the whole time and never had any intention of being with you. She intends to use you again next semester so you did the right thing in cutting her off.

Yes, she doesn't 'owe' you sex but she used the prospect of sex to manipulate and use. Women use other people, especially men. I don't understand why using people isn't frowned upon more, it is the absolute worst thing a person can do to another person.

Consider this part of your education and promise yourself to never be used again. Stop doing other people's assignments.

If you suffer from depression, get help, but get the right help. Most therapists are women who don't understand what it means to be a man.

Keep your friends close and be a good friend to them. Get your degree, and then keep developing yourself. This girl is actually toxic, you may have thought that she was a nice person, but the reality is that she is anything but.

Best of luck to you. Keep us updated. Stories like this help others learn about life and helps them see the red pill world around them instead of the fantasy that they've been fed.

Jbij06 · 2019-05-29T22:28:26+00:00

You come off like a genuine and intelligent human being. You are the "perfect prey" for the AWALT woman. She was and is trying to manipulate you. She truly knows how you feel about her. Remember this rule you cannot force attraction/desire. She does not have any romantic feelings for you. Just take time in investing in yourself and hobbies. Women will come and go. Get in the gym, set financial goals, and make life about your happiness. Women should be an addition and ALWAYS be ready to walk away from them. Nothing lasts forever and it's true. Don't get married, cohabitate, or marry one. See them for what they are which are opportunists. I wish you the best my young brother. P.S. you don't have to die a virgin... GYOW!

Borgmeister · 2019-05-30T07:52:21+00:00

Karma lol

supporttranskids · 2019-05-29T15:01:22+00:00

I'm sorry that she used you, but it was ultimately her choice whether she chose you or this other guy.

Title	I think I just red-pilled
Author	wake-eat-cut-repeat
Upvotes	48
Comments	60
Date	May 29, 2019 2:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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