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Mother-of-two admits she finds her husband so unattractive she can't LOOK at him in the bedroom - but won't leave him because she needs his 'financial support'

furchfur

April 23, 2018
371 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5645713/Woman-refuses-leave-husband-doesnt-love-him.html
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Title Mother-of-two admits she finds her husband so unattractive she can't LOOK at him in the bedroom - but won't leave him because she needs his 'financial support'
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furchfur

Upvotes 371
Comments 33
Date April 23, 2018 9:36 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8ea7pw/motheroftwo_admits_she_finds_her_husband_so/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/mother-of-two-admits-she-finds-her-husband-so.902394
https://theredarchive.com/post/902394
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Comments

[–]TheRavenousRabbit 45 points46 points47 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The story seems to have a lot of nuance, if we take everything the woman says as truth. Though knowing women, and how many stereotypes she touched on when in this article, she is lying.

[–]3-10 35 points36 points37 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

She is a horrible human being. I hope when she leaves him, he hammers her in court and get primary custody of the kids.

[–]jaheiner 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, someone that is so lazy and selfish that they'd stay in a marriage just so they don't have to get a job doesn't really seem like an ideal parent. That being said, we're only seeing one side here and while I do think her actions/thoughts are shameful there is always the other side of the coin that has to be considered.

[–]3-10 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She’s giving her side and it’s not flattering to her. What is he going to say? I work massive amount of hours, exhausted at her spending habits and I still love her and am trying to make it work. It won’t improve her side at all.

[–]jaheiner 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The fact that if he really did tell her that she's "nothing without him" it would at least kinda make her behavior shit though it is make a little more sense and at least give some context.

People hear that they are worthless and can't make it on their own for long enough and thats what they really believe. I'm in no way justifying her actions as I DON'T know if this is the case or if she's just a selfish bitch that really only cares about getting a free ride. I'm simply saying that with context things do change and yes the picture she painted is VERY unflattering.

I'd just be intested to know the whole context before I made up my full opinion though we obviously will not get more information than we alread have.

[–]3-10 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt he said that. My ex, which I have commented about before, said the exact same thing when she was in court explaining her psychology of staying with me when she was claiming all sorts of abuse.

It came out it was all a lie, she made it all up. It still cost me a career in the Army, but at least I am clear of any of the charges.

It’s so stereotypical claim, I don’t buy it. The only time I have ever seen it used was a druggy (she’s a year clean now) I knew in the neighborhood growing up and her dealer/pimp said that.

[–]The__Tren__Train 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope when she leaves him, he hammers her in court and get primary custody of the kids.

that's not how this works

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope he opens his eyes and leaves her.

[–]jubbergun 33 points34 points35 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a pretty sad situation. Too bad she didn't take her husband and herself to marriage counseling instead of going on a radio show. This is something they need to work out. If they can't, then they need to part ways. It's really not fair to either of them for the situation to continue the way it is.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

All about the $, even from the responses. Why not tell her to leave the children with her husband, who can take care of them, and "go find herself," or whatever. She can pay support when she gets a job.

[–]hatefulreason 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or she can go to debtors prison, like a "real man"

[–]thrway_1000 35 points36 points37 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Not one person mentions that she's using a man. Totally shows how shitty our society is.

Archive -- https://archive.is/PGwtn

[–]ObjectiveInternal 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The comments call her out

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Is her name Melania?" Made me giggle, unfortunately I am at work!

[–]lethrowaway4me 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just wanted to thank you for being so diligent with archiving these articles and sites. It should be a rule to always use it, especially for crap sites.

[–]3-10 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt he said that. My ex, which I have commented about before, said the exact same thing when she was in court explaining her psychology of staying with me when she was claiming all sorts of abuse.

It came out it was all a lie, she made it all up. It still cost me a career in the Army, but at least I am clear of any of the charges.

[–]p3ngwin 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'It's really hard, there's no love there anymore and I don't want to have sex with him anymore. I think he thinks I am still into him - he's not really getting the signs.

'I know he has said if ever we were to split he wouldn't pay child support because he reckons I am nothing without him.'

Jackie O also revealed that the woman had said off air that she 'winces' when her husband touches her.

'Yes that's right. Everything about him just freaks me out but I can't just say "go away it's over" because I know he won't financially support us anymore,' she said.

She wants him to leave her so she can get child support and alimony, but she's a coward and can barely muster some "signs" instead of being honest with him.

[–]Nude-eh 32 points33 points34 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She is just a lazy whore. Not a good one, just a whore for money.

[–]jaheiner 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I only continue to honor my marriage vowes because my husband won't keep paying for everything if I leave him to find greener pastures.

While I do think it's fucked up if he really told her that she's "nothing without him", the woman said herself that basically she's bored with him and has been for years so instead of trying to fix the parts of their marriage that are failing she just wants to leave and is only staying cause her free ride is over if she does that.

If you're so adamant about how horrible your life is then get a fucking job and pay your own way so you can move on with your life. How fucking lazy a piece of shit do you have to be to stay in a marriage you claim is loveless with your two kids rather than get off your ass and get a fucking job.

[–]boringcarpets 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Never marry

[–]Goddamnedengineer 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This. She is putting on full display every MGTOW philosophy. This poor guy is holding up his end of the bargain while she stopped performing long ago. What’s worse is she finds it completely acceptable. If society was just this man could just walk out on her without a dime of future support. Like flipping a switch she will be back to arching her back with a better attitude.

No. Instead this guy is FUCKED and this thankless bitch can continue to use him, to a slightly less degree, when he gets tired of jerking off while fitting the bills.

[–]Mythandros 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So... She's a lazy, gold-digging cunt. What else is new? This is exceedingly common.

[–]glass_tumbler 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why I am also childfree.

[–]jeff_the_nurse 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What’s she afraid of? She’ll still get it if she leaves him.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is a word for people who sleep with other people in return for money.

I've not judgements on that count, but most of those women are honest enough to admit the nature of the relationship. This woman is simply a sociopath.

[–]dredawg1 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I came here to see why someone was writing about my life....

[+]TSPepe20201 points 8 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Females are primarily lesbians.

[–]AmbitiousPlankton 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Did I stumble into r/incels? 🤔

[–]Flaktrack 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

incel/blackpill, TRP, and other assorted weirdos show up here once in a while. It's always entertaining.

[–]bufedad 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lesbians are primarily females.

[–]DevilishRogue 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TIL...

[–]v574v 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Somebody doesn’t know how babies are made...

[–]AKnightAlone -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd like "Problems caused by capitalism" for $500.

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