Mother to father: That's MY child!

DanteLivra · 2022-02-23T17:29:19+00:00

But when it's about money, suddenly it becomes YOUR child.

intactUS_throwaway · 2022-02-23T16:44:08+00:00

I'd love to hear these biddies try that in front of Judge Judy. That happened once and... it didn't go well for the woman who went there.

ABBucsfan · 2022-02-23T17:35:14+00:00

That's what I've seen too.. unfortunately at least in my case she sees all the time she 'allows' as doing me a favour basically... Her lawyer in mediation even basically said I have to earn her trust to have more time.. I've told my lawyer if they are t budging we are going to w binding decision process. I was tempted to tell her lawyer well I don't trust your client either.. so where does that leave us?

I think there is definitely an emotional aspect of 'i carried them for 9 months' (not like we had a choice and elected them.. still has our dna, I still did a lot of raising especially when first born). It's not something I can fully grasp, but it's also not fair. On average men do tend to be a bit more logical, but it obviously varies, just like there are some guys who try to get majority (very rare from what I've seen, most jjst want close to equal)

MotorCityTrucker · 2022-02-23T18:40:31+00:00

Family law will be fair when judges start stipulating that an angry woman will say anything to get her way.

Until then, gents, documentation is your only hope.

qianxiaonai · 2022-02-23T20:46:04+00:00

"just give me all your money", "what's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine", real words that have come out of my wife's mouth. Women evolved to outsource provisioning to men. Until 2010 in England a man had a common law duty to maintain his wife. Until 1970 the husband had conjugal rights. Someone please explain what institution rises to replace the state sponsored single mother free tampon child support ocracy - oh yeas, the female courts where the best interest of the child is whatever the matriarch wants.

CryingMadGirl · 2022-02-23T20:49:58+00:00

My mom does the same. “You can’t take away my child!”

“Why aren’t you buying your child this thing?”

ChancySoul-on-Reddit · 2022-02-23T20:16:17+00:00

Perhaps nature has ordained, and history has shown that women are more likely to lose their minds and commit atrocities against the children if 'losing them' is in view. To prevent these horrors, judges flip a loaded coin. In my case, I was treated like a sperm-spraying infection unworthy of anything resembling rights. They will get zero dollars until the youngest turns eighteen, except the meager dollars they steal from me. Let them use their Master's, or let them call their daddy. He paid for the Esquire, he can pay support. Our constitution is CONSTITUTIONAL in nature, meaning You Must Be Willing To LIVE, DIE or BECOME INCARCERATED to promote constitutional solvency.

My second-to-final day in court was to make certain EVERYONE PRESENT saw the true effects of alienation. My last day in court was to tell them "I'm heading home to build a park & get my mind right".

The kids were lost to me. No contact. They were bereaved of me, and I of them.

An expert witness testified that I am an EXEMPLARY father after two years of microscopically-monitored therapuetic supervised visitation that drained me of most assets & tools.

Nothing budges a judge when an Esquire-team rules the court. Nothing budges a man within his constitution.

"A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still"

This is a Chancy thing.

throwaway3357305 · 2022-02-23T18:59:46+00:00

I used to want kids and a wife when I was a kid. As I got older I realized finding a good woman today is damn near impossible and finding a woman who would be a good mother is also impossible odds.

Even if you do find a good one the courts incentivize them to break the family and run off with monetary gains.

You just can’t win as a guy.

morfeuzz · 2022-02-23T23:40:13+00:00

What can I say bro .. same situation here . It is how the society behaves . There are two things I tell myself Amor Fatti and Level Up What I despise the most is the fact that men especially the wimpy simpy ones unabashedly support this and even more .

stingermamabee · 2022-02-23T17:07:32+00:00

I wish I could be angry at this, but I can't be. I acknowledge that I'm guilty of this same type of language with my son's father. And I think a lot of that has to do with placing separation on the two parties. As a couple, it's OUR child. Because we are a team, we are a couple, we are a family.

After a separation, we're angry. We're resentful. So they become MY child and YOUR child instead of OUR child. Because I'm speaking from an emotional place, I'm trying to put as much distance between us as possible, including when it comes to our child. The examples you've given, yeah when you put it into perspective... it's pretty nasty language and from the point of view of others it can really seem vindictive.

I'm commenting from a place of someone who's guilty of doing the same thing, and I can't speak for others, but that's just how it is for me personally. Your post has made me rethink that language quite a bit though...it takes two to tango after all.

Smokey9000 · 2022-02-24T03:50:23+00:00

My parents are still together but whenever we were bad shed refer to ilus as my fathers kids

Censorship_sucks964 · 2022-02-28T11:14:45+00:00

Because Western society is one in which women are empowered by outside forces to wage war against the man. Rebellion from within supported by external hostile forces.

They can pick up a mystical magical device and press a few buttons and can summon a trained attack force to your door in minutes, demonstrating and exercising power and authority on some levels greater than the Kings of old.

There are places where this is simply not a possibility. The understanding is that the man makes the rules, and disobedience of the rules is accompanied by consequences. If some man physically disciplines his wife, in those cultures it is viewed as not only his right but his responsibility. Discipline should be differentiated from abuse. If someone calls the cops they will not show up, or if they show up, they will query the man about what happened, maybe take a peek to ensure the woman isn't being obviously abused and leave.

I suggest living in one of these places. Places where people inherently understand the wickness, manipulation, deceit and general low nature of the woman and also understand the indispensable, productive, protective nature of the man.

Are all women bad and all men good? Of course not. Experience however has shown me that the Biblical narrative regarding male-female relationships is true. Men must rule over women, and the desire of a woman must be to her husband. Not her boss, not her "education" (brainwashing) and no, not THE MAN'S child. Women give men children, men don't give women children. A woman's first and chief desire must be the pleasure and satisfaction of her husband, not because she is a slave but rather because she is a MEMBER of a TEAM, and that team is led by someone that AINT HER. Likewise a man's desire should be to God.

One could argue there are so few Godly women due to a lack of Godly men, especially in regards to being convicted in regards to what is right what is wrong, and how to enforce right and discouraging/ disallow wrong.

Everything that is going on today is backwards and upside down literal Satanism. Contradictory to the word of God rule for rule, point for point and the chaos and pain that comes as a result is predictable.

All those involved will be punished, as clearly stated in the Bible.

sinusquestion123 · 2022-02-23T20:39:01+00:00

I feel this is par for the course in any divorce proceeding because you divorced for good reason.

Idg what the issue is here though.

It’s a pretty esoteric thing to hyperfocus in on.

Title	Mother to father: That's MY child!
Author	CawlinAlcarz
Upvotes	101
Comments	26
Date	February 23, 2022 4:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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