Most women want more than just a mans love. Most women don't just unconditionally love a man. A womans "love" is usually based on conditons such as societal standing, resources, having a good looking successful guy that she can show off. And yes I am aware that physical attraction does come into the picture. I personally won't date women that I don't find visually attractive to me but I think that is obvious to both genders. I am an average looking white male, 6'2 170lbs in decent physical shape who doesn't make a lot of money nor do I care about money. My main focus is on inner peace and self improvement and looking at reality in the proper context. I will make more money at some point in time I'm sure so I can do more of the things I want to do and have financial freedom, but Im just trusting the process and building up my life the right way and building a solid inner foundation. I am invisible to women at even my own level of looks and even maybe a couple points lower than my looks unless they are a single mother. I am about a 7. So basically I would have to become more finacially sucessful and/or be more muscualar to attract most women that I would be attracted to. I'm not mad about it, its just the way it is. It has actually turned out to be a good thing that more atttractive women aren't attracted to me because I have done a lot of self improvement and have increased my inner peace and confidence and through that process realized that most women aren't worth dealing with anyways. Maybe I'll just stay single for the rest of my life. I am ok with that though. Even when I do make more money, I will probably remain single because most women would disturb my inner peace anyways.