Hi everyone!

It's been a while since I posted so I first wanted to thank everyone for your help and let you all know that I am now engaged!! I'm so excited to marry the man of my dreams and it's all thanks to everyone here.

Now things have calmed down, I'm starting to run into awkward situations. I wanted everyone's advice because I feel redpill women get etiquette and so I hope it's ok to ask here.

In essence one of my coworkers have been actively trying to get herself invited to my wedding. From downright saying she'll save the date to saying she and I can plan my wedding...just the two of us and "it'll be our little project!"

This reaches out to other areas of my life. I had a small party a while back and she saw on my Instagram story and was pissed she wasn't invited. I just made the mistake of posting some of the food from my most recent party on instagram that she saw and I'm hoping she doesnt say anything tomorrow.

How should I respond if she does ask why she wasn't invited? To make matters more complicated I'm about to be promoted and will be trained by her soon.

How can I get her to understand my wedding is private and my life is private from work. I've already let her know the guest list is mostly family and a few close friends but it feels like she is still trying.

We literally never have hung out, barely talk, and I don't feel I can see us being friends outside of work.