I was introduced to the red pill back in 2016 and it helped me become significantly more successful with woman. There is a lot of good and there is a lot of toxic that went into my head and it's taken me a while to figure out what to take and what to leave.
I would start dating around and would often run into problematic woman. They would pull some bullshit like not responding to my texts, bailing on a date with shitty excuses or whatever. I was under the delusion that since I had slept with them or they were showing IOIs they were interested and I needed to play the game back.
When you play games like this the focus is still on the woman. She has control and has you by the balls. I would play aloof, I would use no contact, or fake break ups as manipulation tactics to get the woman to like me more or behave accordingly.
The problem is I'm willing to sacrifice my own peace of mind and well being for pussy. These woman clearly don't care enough or aren't willing to play ball unless it's on there terms. Chances are they're on their hot girl shit and are getting attention and dick from all over so why tf will I continue to play games hoping she'll realize what a catch I am and come back to me cause I used the right chest codes?
I show myself respect by not playing these games with woman and being willing to walk away. If they want me they'll come around or be more agreeable. If they don't give af or are trouble through and through they show you early. I've gained so much more self respect, self love and peace of mind by being willing to walk away, enforce boundaries and not play games with these woman. There are plenty of woman that would love to date me and will make it easy. They deserve my attention not these other hoes. Love yourself, focus on your mission, and continue to grow. Fuck the dark triad and manipulation tactics for woman. That's energy you can give somewhere else to someone else who deserves it.
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