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Learning seduction

CptConfused

November 2, 2013
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Title Learning seduction
Author

CptConfused

Upvotes 3
Comments 9
Date November 2, 2013 7:54 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]magicalbird 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Models by Mark Manson

Also read some articles about how to get rid of shame because shame is some toxic stuff.

[–]CptConfused[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

could you recommend any? I like models, except most that the most part is about lifestyle and I'm doing pretty well in that.

That's what bothers me about most of the programs they don't just assume your attractive and tell you how to seduce a woman and get over your fears, rejection and oneitis. Sex is one of those needs I felt I never had control over, I realise now its my responsibility to fulfil that need.

[–]magicalbird 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Best advice I got is find a place where you can bring women and actually get close and mess up a few times. If a girl really likes you she'll give you a few chances to get the sex right.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTheeRyanGrey 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm going to save you time, money, and frustration and teach you 3 things every seduction book/teacher/class is going to throw your way

1.Better Yourself. Until you feel good about who you are, how you look, and what you do, your confidence will always come off as insincere.

2.Escalate. Touch her immediately(Kino); Be it a handshake or a hand on the middle of the back, just touch her. From there escalate the touching. Hand holding. Cute Hair Pull. Spin her. Get her used to touching you because that's what people do when they like each other: they can't keep their hands off.

Kiss her. Escalate by kissing her more. Grab her butt. Kiss Her neck. Escalate. Escalate. Escalate. Kino. Kino. Kino.

3.Outcome Independence. Your happiness can not be dependent on a woman saying yes. It's like when women say other people affect their self esteem. ITS CALLED SELF ESTEEM. You need to learn to put your happiness in front of everyone else's.

4.Abundance Mentality. There are over 3 billion women in the world, stop falling in love with every girl who gives you affection or attention. If you go to college there will be thousands upon thousands of women. If you live in a big city there's millions of them. Get rid of the idea of a "SoulMate" , there's just people who make you happy and those who don't.

Lastly, get over rejection. It's so hard for men to do but you must get over it. I get rejected all the time, sometimes by women whose league I am out of. It happens. Don't let it get you down. Unless you're famous or ridiculously good looking, you're never going to be every woman's type.

[–]skinisblackmetallic 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not a bad idea to run some technique, as a beginner.

[–]Sol_Invictus 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Why can't you post a link?

[–]CptConfused[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

wasnt clear on the rules of link posting on this sub, so decided to post none. But I realise its just posting other links from reddit that is forbidden

[–]EleriumAvenger 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

use a snapshot

[–]dischordiasnightmare 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy. Kind of expensive, but an investment. He's like Yoda.

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