Red Pill Sexting

nightdepartures1 · 2015-12-02T18:11:34+00:00

I use Snapchat instead of texting for this, but I play a different angle. I use it to my advantage to remind her she's lucky to have a fit, sexy man. I don't use it to get nude pics from her - those are a bonus.

I am always well-dressed, so I will send suggestive pictures of myself. No dick pics, just suggestive ones showing belt undone, bit of skin (abs/leg/thigh), arms, chest etc. They are not as visual as us, so dick pics are a big no-no. A picture of yourself in a nice shirt, wearing a watch, looking classy as fuck? You've got her interest.

If she responds in kind, I'll play a little bit then leave it. The last thing you want to do is overdo it.

Redneck001 · 2015-12-02T17:32:21+00:00

My wife used to say "I'll never send pics via text."

I get pics now whenever I ask. Sometimes when I don't ask. I don't know if it's leading to anything; never thought about whether or not it leads to sex. It's fun, flirty.

She likes to send them at inopportune times. I'll be in a meeting, get a sext pic, and lose my concentration. Fun as hell. If only my colleagues knew why I'm stuttering.

But I think it falls under "start gaming her the minute your feet hit the floor in the morning."

I'm going to send her a "whatcha got?" text right now.

FearDearg2015 · 2015-12-02T16:33:25+00:00

I've done the sexting thing. It's fun, especially if your wife gets in on the action, but it's a tricky one to manage. You need to be ultra clear in your mind what you are trying to establish. Ideally, the texts would just be some fun in their own right. Don't let it become some covert contract. If you make a commitment by text to "do a thing", then make sure you follow through. In other words, don't say you are gonna fuck her in the ass and then chicken out later when she lays on the LMR. Say it and initiate, or don't say it at all. If she makes any "commitment" to do anything to you, then make sure you discard the idea immediately. In other words, if she promises to suck your balls dry, don't let yourself think for a second that that shit will happen. Watch what she does, not what she says.

You gotta ignore any resistance or negativity in the replies she sends, and agree/amplify or amused mastery a lot. You can act out an alter ego even.

All in all, sexting is a bit of a waste of time unless you are enjoying it for what it is (playful sexual banter with your wife). Once you can avoid the covert contracts, then go nuts.

J_Incognito · 2015-12-02T16:54:32+00:00

OP, my favorite opener sext - "what color panties today" It always initiates a fun 5min exchange which get increasingly dirty and leaves us primed for later action.

I also do well with invoking a fantasy. Example, text right before lunch: H "meet me at home in 10min". W "why" H "naked in the kitchen" and so on...

However, don't over do it - you're done for today (stay radio silent). And don't turn it into a covert contract for sex when you get home. It should just be a sexy interlude in an otherwise routine day.

cholomite · 2015-12-02T16:56:30+00:00

When I'm trying to get my girl hot over text, I think it's important to focus on you, and how horny you are and all the things you want to do to your woman, as opposed to setting up arranged sex for later in the day or saying "I'm going to do X to you tonight". Leave it open ended so maybe it will happen today, tomorrow, on your lunch break. I've never had real success trying to get her worked up with the time and place already stated. She'll play along all day then when the time comes it's nothing. So I always leave it open ended, and focus on what you want to do, not what you want her to do to you.

Plus I think by not explicitly stating a time or place, just the things you want to do, it kind of makes her hamster spin a little bit. Like "he didn't say a time or place, hopefully another girl doesn't come along before I get to him". Maybe I'm reaching a little but I think there might be a little truth there.

Countpudyoola · 2015-12-02T16:39:28+00:00

I think it works for some women, but you have to know your audience.

AWALT in all women like some buildup, but not always respond via text.

MRPguy · 2015-12-04T14:13:03+00:00

No sexy time for me last night. As soon as we got home I got the preemptive "I'm tired, I'm bloated, the dog ate my homework, blah blah blah"

For most of the guys that are new to MRP, or the guys who still don't hold a consistent frame on a daily basis, sexting will have this same outcome.

Really all you are doing in these cases is giving your wife many hours to come up with reasons to not have sex with you. She literally has all day to develop those reasons. Don't do this. Spare yourself. Remember, she can say (text) anything but all that matters are her actions. Guys get excited by what their wives text, only to be let down in the real world.

Title	Red Pill Sexting
Author	Quarter_Century_Club
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	December 2, 2015 4:08 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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