So I decided to try some dream game on a new LTR to see how it would work.

As background, this girl was everything I wanted in terms of personality. We were crazy about each other, exactly the same interests, could spend all day every day with eachother.

So I am meant to be going over hers one night. I tell her I am going out for a quick drink with a friend and I will see her at 7.

7:30 rolls around and I still haven't left, I text saying I lost track of time with friend and I'll see her soon.

Get there, we chat, everything all good. She asks who I was at the gym with. "Just a girl I met at the gym, giving her some diet advice and stuff".

I thought that was good dread game, but the night went sour. She went quiet and cold, stressed out. She brought it up after about an hour saying it bothered her, I made light of the situation but it didn't seem to help, she said I was acting differently, but that was purely because where I normally get great convo out of her, I was getting nothing. Its hard to be fun and chatty with nothing coming back at you.

That night, no sex. Wake up in the morning, no sex.

The next few days, no messages. Normally she is messaging me 10-15 times a day. I got absolutely nothing for 3 days.

Eventually messages me saying where have I been. "just busy". She goes cold again.

After 5 days of that I think fuck it, I call her up and say shes gone all cold and weird, I wanna break it off. She agrees, she wants the same. Says she wanted it since I mentioned going out with other girl.

How did I mess up so bad? She went from being in complete love with me, messaging all day, telling her friends and family about how great I am, begging me to come see her. Then into just absolute silence and cold and wanting to end it.

It sucks because she was really fucking nice. I wont lie either, got a little case of oneitis for her, but I know it will pass. Just wondering how I fucked it up so royally.