I'm an idiot

DebonairD · 2017-11-25T11:54:26+00:00

Well you’ve made a royal mistake, but the damage isn’t irreparable. You have two choices: let the mistake leave you worst off, or allow it to be a learning experience to help you become a better person

LeonardoDiDraperBond · 2017-11-25T12:17:15+00:00

Visualize where you want to see yourself in a year. And in 5 years. Decide what you want to improve about yourself and how you are going to do that. Then start monk mode. Focus only on improving your life. Lift, read, grind. And don't concern yourself with girls for a while.

m3ch1n4x · 2017-11-25T15:28:15+00:00

Holy shit OP. You are in the most apex postion you could possibly be in to reforge yourself.

Read, Keep lifting, Game bitches, Develop the hobbies you're passionate about, Create new habits, Become the best version of yourself.

thechaosz · 2017-11-25T17:55:44+00:00

Future; "Chasing checks, never chase a bitch".

redhawkes · 2017-11-25T12:27:42+00:00

At least you're aware of the mistake you've made. Learn from it, and move on. Keep lifting, find a mission and work towards it. Read the sidebar, all of it, and apply the knowledge.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-11-25T13:02:20+00:00

well you suck it up and own it. OWN IT!

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2017-11-25T15:36:38+00:00

You get to start at square one with so much experience on how to not be a chump. And you're still in shape? Youve got nothing but opportunity

brinkleybuzz · 2017-11-25T15:51:17+00:00

Acknowledge to yourself that you fucked up. Learn from your mistake but don't beat yourself up over it. Happens to the best of us. Might help to share what happened with the group.
Never make the same mistake again.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your life back on track today.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-25T17:09:12+00:00

Any advice on how to stop being a butthurt little bitch and move forward?

Yes.

Stop being a butthurt little bitch, and move forward.

Lesson learned I hope: self first, women second, individual woman third.

Psychocist · 2017-11-25T19:34:14+00:00

Which country did you move to?

This is all about perspective, man. I just gave up my job, friends, family and apartment AND GF to move to a different country for ME. Now you're in a great position to do exactly the same thing, because you've already done most of it. Focus on yourself.

Did you move to a country where you can live a better lifestyle? I moved to Thailand. I live cheaply and absolutely a better lifestyle than where I'm from. I do whatever I have to (except become ladyboy) to stay. If you're in a similar situation, do what you can to STAY there. This is a massive learning opportunity. No social circle, nobody to lean on.. great. You'll be forced to stand on your feet or resign and leave. Of course, if you're in a worse country with a worse lifestyle, GTFO.

So please try to look at this from a different perspective.. maybe this was a huge mistake, but maybe it was an incredibly happy accident.

Scheme00 · 2017-11-25T23:08:18+00:00

In a new country and fit? You're in the best spot ever man. Don't forget that. Flip your thinking.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-11-25T16:38:57+00:00

Learning opportunity and new experiences. Only stagnation is a negative.

dongpal · 2017-11-25T20:08:16+00:00

I dont understand. you went to a different country for a woman, which means you actually already moved in at the person, no?

milksteak24 · 2017-11-25T20:20:41+00:00

You’re not an idiot. You’re a wimp with very little self worth. And I mean that in the most constructive way possible.

Now lift, eat healthy, start working hard etc. Do all the shit trp recommends to build better self worth and frame

Eclectiqque · 2017-11-25T22:27:09+00:00

you learnt

chrysanthemumtaffy · 2017-11-26T02:11:22+00:00

You moved to another country for a woman you didn't even want to live with? TF?

GreenPiller · 2017-11-26T00:54:27+00:00

So you didn't move to another country?

bluepillcarl · 2017-11-26T02:24:24+00:00

Things could be worst. You could be a stuck beta provider in a house with a bunch of kids and a lazy ass wife. Cheer up and look at things like this: you learned from your mistake, you're healthy, you can lift weights. Opportunity is now here, take it its yours.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-11-26T02:29:39+00:00

You played yourself

pleasehelpkpopme · 2017-11-25T18:07:15+00:00

You have to realize that single mother's are the worst people in existence, they have children as an accessory, not for the sake of the child but simply because I want a kid at age 26 is what they selfishly decided. Of course parenting the poor thing doesn't matter. Nothing is her responsibility, the government and the cucks she attract raise and pay for her child, and then she takes credit, as though she is some hero.

Never, under any circumstances enter a relationship with a single mother or raise someone's kid.

krayg__ · 2017-11-26T00:05:18+00:00

Everyone in this post is saying “ acknowledge you made a mistake”.

Thats it. No ones actually giving him solutions. He has no job. He lost his friends and family and you guys are telling him to go pick up bitches. Reminds me of one those guys who spends all his time trying to pick up girls, especially young ones cause he has no life

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-25T14:39:05+00:00

How long have u known about trp?

RedPilledRoaster · 2017-11-25T13:32:31+00:00

Quit whining and fucking work

Pluglord · 2017-11-25T13:09:56+00:00

You have a walnut of a brain

Title	I'm an idiot
Author	dumbarsefuckup
Upvotes	60
Comments	34
Date	November 25, 2017 11:45 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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