Plates and "the talk"

fnordsnord · 2018-06-18T17:57:05+00:00

Start by kicking it down the road. "Woah. We have a lot of fun together, but I feel like you barely know me. It's too soon to talk about that."

dandar4600 · 2018-06-18T19:00:35+00:00

The answer is to the right of your post under Frequently ASKTRP'D Questions with heading Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."

abudun79 · 2018-06-18T18:37:20+00:00

No matter how many plates you spin in your life, 99% of them will break some day. If what you do works for now, it is fine. They will notice over time, and that is the better than sit them down to talk. Just don't lie to them.

If something goes down the drain, be prepared for it and learn from it, if there is a lesson.

Until then Don't try to hard to do everything someone around here ever said.

redd_reality · 2018-06-18T20:51:27+00:00

They don't think you're exclusive. See them every day or every second day and then they'll get that impression.

boy_named_su · 2018-06-18T21:47:02+00:00

if you're raw-dogging them, they might think you're exclusive

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-06-18T18:08:37+00:00

Talk usually comes around the three month mark in my experience. Sometimes earlier, sometimes never. Older women or women in relationships rarely give the talk.

MattyAnon · 2018-06-18T18:13:17+00:00

but I'm concerned they think that I'm exclusive with them (although I have never hinted at that).

What's the problem?

The thing is I will sometimes do activities with them like get ice cream or go for a run before fucking them, just because I enjoy it. Also, I/they will usually be spending the night after sex.

hmm m ok.... they might get the wrong idea here.

Am I doing it wrong? How do you guys handle the inevitable "talk"?

God damnit, if only there was some sort of information page about this. That was somewhere convenient to find. Like in the sidebar, that was kinda bar shaped. And at the side. And if only someone gave it a handy title that you could easily search for, using words like "the" and "talk".

If only there was a place like that. If only.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-06-19T01:18:33+00:00

Either they will want the talk, or they will get the idea that you're not exclusive with them and find their own BB. When they ghost you, you will know that they're having an exclusive boyfriend.

TheYambag · 2018-06-18T18:39:22+00:00

Can your society sustain itself with no children, or with children who are raised by either beta's and single mothers?

Do you think children are better off raised by single women? Would you rather your civilization be overrun by a different civilization?

If the answer to this is "no", then what are you going to do to about it? Are you going to just hope and pray that other people raise children who will take care of you when you are older, or are you going to man up and create a child and raise him properly with good values?

"Plates" are fucking blue pill. They aren't healthy for you, and they aren't healthy for the plates either.

The red pill often focuses way too much about learning how to attract a woman, and not nearly enough on learning how to maintain a woman. "Nexting" a girl is often (not always) a negative reflection of your ability to keep a woman or teach and work with her to build up your relationship.

If a girl will make a strong mother, and a good partner, then you should engage in an exclusive relationship.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-06-19T01:08:39+00:00

Give it another month. The talk will come.

Spending night after sex or even juat hanging out is missleading. They probably think that they are in relationship.

tr1cks1414 · 2018-06-19T02:54:18+00:00

Plates break.

It doesn't matter because there's an endless amount of girls.

Redpillswole · 2018-06-19T15:01:11+00:00

Just be honest. Say it's too early to commit and you don't enter things so quickly.

Even if they're upset and "break up with you" if you gave them good dick they'll come back.

Don't be afraid to lose them. You might lose some, but whatever

Title	Plates and "the talk"
Author	tr1cks1414
Upvotes	48
Comments	72
Date	June 18, 2018 5:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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