Texting is shit.

Working on curing, well managing, my oneitis and one of the ways i’m doing this is to be less available. However at times its difficult - in particular the times when shes unavailable.

I’ve noticed that when shes meeting friends she’ll leave me unread for hours (3-4 hours potentially).. how would you deal with this?

When she does message i don’t want to be bouncing on her messages straight away.. if i mirror her 3-4 hour ploy it looks like game playing. (Note -She normally tells me these plans in advance to be fair).

Am i overthinking this: micro managing due to oneitis? Should i not give a fuck and stop stupid texting games or should i fight fire with fire?

One concern i have is that if i stick the oneitis out when things open up and she goes out to bars with her friends i know i’ll not hear from her all night which drives us oneiti crazy!

I’m already making plans yo remedy that by going out too and on the nights i can’t just continue to be focusing on money, lifting and social endeavours.