has anyone else experienced this?

I find that if I really clean up /put something nicer on / groom / show off my physique more going out - women seem to avoid me more / give me less indicators of interest

There days where I look like ass or just average- throw on sweatpants, cap, messy hair, I'm feeling like crummy - maybe I'm getting over a sickness or just am dragging that day - poor body language blah blah blah you get the picture. go out to a bar with buddies/solo and women will chat with me / be friendly with me etc etc etc

now some days, I'll throw on nice jeans/pants/do my hair nice - where a t shirt or shirt that shows off my physique well (I'm a part time physique competitor) and I can "feel" women avoiding / distancing themselves from me - it's not like I'm TRYING as im usually just out with friends/havin a good time - but its something I notice thats pretty clear.

in fact, I'll say on days (where I'm not approaching and just focused on having a fun time), there is a clear inverse correlation between how good/primped up I look and how many women chat with / are warm to me.

What is going on? I wonder if its' because when I groom up I look "gayer" and women assume I'm gay?