Red Flags Advice

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-29T19:11:27+00:00

Just be honest?

I answer these questions honestly. Here you go, these are my answers:

Red flags in a woman: Entitled, disrespectful, impulsive, past cheater, reckless behavior, jaded, negative, habitual liar, not being able to apologize for anything, and not caring about by opinion. I think you get the gist.

My red flags: Sexually liberal lifestyle. Cannot be monogamous. Brutally honest, a bit too brutal at times. Sometimes I lack a bit of empathy or it takes time for me to understand the other person's point of view before I understand why I hurt them. I can also be a bit egotistical.

If you can't be honest... ask yourself WHY you can't be, and what you have to hide. Honesty builds trust. Honesty means you date people that actually like you for who you are. And not someone you pretend to be. The goal is not to win every girl. The goal is to win the right women for you.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-05-29T19:17:04+00:00

idk what my answer would be exactly if asked but ones that come to mind are:

- Who your friends are? I dated someone with shitty friends, she was a great girl but her friends became a big issue for us. SHe was too much of a people pleaser to call them out and then got mad at me for calling shit out. Then i realized this girl just loved being around toxic peopke, they made her feel needed. But tbh, i just could no longer trust that her friends would have her best interest at heart and i realized that i want friends in my life that have my best interest at heart because if im ever about to fuck up id want them to pull me back. But if she ever was about to fuck up for whatever reason it felt like they were the "he will never know" types of friends.

- Can you hold it down for yourself? I have a good job, i dont want to feel like you are just prancing around not really have much of a retirement, not good at saving, just want to spend, spend, spend because you have a rich BF. If we broke up tomorrow id want to know that you can hold it down for yourself. You dont need me, you just choose to be near me.

- How you handle arguments? Like can you take blame and be honest and genunine about why you know you fucked up or do you fight it even though you know you are wrong? Is an apology just a way to shut me up or do you actually mean it?

Slow19godd3ss · 2026-05-29T19:26:12+00:00

You spend your time looking for red flags instead of just looking for someone you actually enjoy being around. If you are constantly scanning for reasons to leave, you are just going to end up alone.

South-Excitement1720 · 2026-05-29T21:01:29+00:00

Depends if we were seeing each other regularly or someone I had just met.

If it were someone I had just met I would just reframe and move on to something else.

epimpstyle · 2026-05-29T22:34:10+00:00

Do you really believe she will take your answer seriously? Come on mate! It's just a filler to pass the time, nothing more.

Turn it into a joke: "If she has beautiful eyes (big ass, long legs, deep cleavage etc) because it completely distracts me from whatever she's saying... My red flag? I get distracted way too easily.. if you have big ass/deap cleavage/long legs don't expect me to remember anything you said."

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-05-30T19:55:58+00:00

Taking the question seriously would be failing the shit test. I’d just say if she has crooked nails and then ask to see her hands

My red flag? I’m too loving and compassionate.

ethicalhooping · 2026-06-05T23:55:41+00:00

I'd make fun of her for getting dating advice from tiktok

ApocalypticBroccoli · 2026-05-29T19:08:19+00:00

“Asking me about red flags is the biggest red flag”

Title	Red Flags Advice
Author	pharoah9999
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	May 29, 2026 7:06 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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