I know for some guys in the game, makeouts are nothing but for me it was a huge step forward. I wanted to share my experience and what I learned, and what I could have done better.

Since I started going out about 5 weeks ago, I have been trying to make a point of being friendly with staff/bouncers at venues that I frequent. And this night was where it paid off.

We get to the bar/lounge, and there's a line around the corner. My 2 wings want to go elsewhere, but I say let's just say hi to the bouncers who we've already met a few nights earlier and see what happens. We walk up to the front, we say hi, and they say "These 3 are good." Boom, we skip the whole line, and now we have social proof through the roof with all the people on line. They're looking at us like "who the fuck are these guys"...

The place is pretty lively, and I'm feeling great. We start approaching, I decide to start high-fiving random sets. I open a few, but they don't go anywhere and I'm feeling great because I'm not emotionally invested. I understand the concept of just having fun, and no one is there to throw that feeling off. I was on my path, and no one could affect that.

I find a 2 set, 2 very cute girls, and my wing says, "open them." So I walk up, and say "It's my birthday!" with my hand up waiting for a high-five. They both respond and laugh, and I find out it's the taller girl's birthday (it wasn't my birthday at all). I pull her in to lean into me and I say, "It's not my birthday, but I wanted to meet you cause I thought you were cute." She giggles. Her friend says something negative (I forget) but I used a line I've been experimenting with, "I can leave if you want...", strong eye contact. This puts pressure on them, and most often the girls don't want to come off bitchy, but it flips the frame and makes them WANT you to stay longer.

I start chatting them up, they're still uneasy about me but I'm plowing just talking. My wings come, but surprisingly, they are not receptive to them only to me.

So now I know it's just me and the 2 girls, but they have friends coming so I know that will allow me to isolate my target without leaving the friend alone. So I tell them to come with me to the bar, I want to start location changing both of them so that they both feel good about me when their friends come and they don't ditch me.

We're dancing and laughing, I'm teasing my target about where she's from and how she brags so much. Here I was building rapport and comfort, but I was still challenging her (for ex., "you just lose some cool points", "Do you always brag this much?") and it was working wonders.

Eventually, her 3rd friend gets there and she's on line. The friend says how the line is so long, so I say "follow me." I lead them out front and ask her to point her out. I walk up to the bouncer, who I'm cool with, and ask if he can help me get a girl in and be my wingman, he laughs and asks who. Within 1 minute the 3rd friend is inside. Boom, crazy social proof.

Now that they're all there, I start chatting the 3rd friend so that I'm not seen as a threat, but I address the group as a whole. I'm in charge of that group and leading the conversations, and just being the party. At some point, I say I want a drink and ask my target to follow me. I grab her hand and tell the 2 friends I'm going to steal her for 2 minutes, they say ok.

I lead her to the bar, and now I'm working on building the tension more. We're dancing, I'm escalating, I'm allowing silences in the conversation while holding eye contact and a smirk. I can feel it, this is it, finally, I'm sure i can get the kiss here, but I don't know how to cross that bridge. So I tell her to give me a kiss on the cheek, and I point to the side of my face, then I point to the other side and say, "now here". Then I point to my lips, she moves in smiling and we start making out.

I get my drink, she has to use the restroom, I wait for her and when she walks back I grab her without saying a word, pull her close and start kissing her again. She's getting turned on, and I pull away and say, "let's go find your friends."

We start dancing some more and by now we're really physical with the dancing. I start seeding the "afterparty" and her friends agree to let her go with me as long as I get her home safe (Jackpot!). My girl now says she wants to go sit down somewhere cause her feet are tired, and I lead her to this secluded area that's dim.

We sit and start talking, but I keep interrupting the conversation by kissing her and then I pull away and continue talking as if nothing happened. I can tell this was driving her crazy.

Fast forward to the girls leaving, but they're now really protective and tell me that they're going to leave with my girl. My girl gives me her number and says to text her later so we can meet up.

I later find out that they found one of my wings and asked about the afterparty, and he had no clue about anything of course so they got freaked out for some reason. Whatever, lesson learned.

TL;DR: Been going out for 5 weeks, and got my first makeout last night, with a VERY cute girl who was taller than me.