The Quest for Ass.

DaygameCoach · 2014-06-17T14:20:28+00:00

You need to communicate and subcommunicate (and screen for) casual. I wrote about serious vs casual here:

http://www.daygamer.net/2012/07/06/how-to-get-the-right-girlguy-communication-skills-101/.

skinisblackmetallic · 2014-06-17T14:33:34+00:00

much deserved coitus

You can believe you deserve coitus all day long, but ultimately, you have to convince someone else to participate.

lord_of_vader · 2014-06-18T13:57:41+00:00

Mmmm I love it. The fire, the passion, the energy. Being 18 is awesome.

First time for a generic dad talk.

You need to focus on yourself. Seduction and pick up can be boiled down in a simple (although brutal) way.

If you're not getting laid, you're not a guy girls want to have sex with.

If you're getting laid, you're a guy girls want to have sex with.

Seems obvious right? Apparently not. So for now, you need to focus on creating a product that you're going to sell to women. That's what pick up is; sales. Lift weights, eat right, invest in some nicer clothes, learn a skill, pick up a hobby. Take your time young man, you've got a solid decade of ass-crushing ahead of you. Also, quit jerking off for a few weeks and see how that improves your sexual energy.

After that, study and practice. You can read all the material you want but until you walk up to a girl and say "hi", none of it means fuck all.

You must approach and you must do it every day. Pick up a skill, an art form that will be perfected and honed over the course of years. You can't read an article on seddit, walk over to Starbucks, and suddenly have girls fighting over who gets to suck your dick first.

You want to be a Man? A noble endeavor that brings me joy to hear. The world is short of Men these days. 25 year old boys living with their parents sitting on a four year degree in communications, 30 year old boys who are 50 lbs overweight who have never so much as lifted a hammer.

To be a Man is to glare the reservations and fears of the big wide world in front of you, roll up your sleeves, and say "fuck you".

Having sex with a beautiful women is a by product of your hard work. It cannot be your goal; you must never put her on a pedestal. You must be the pedestal.

clouds_smiles · 2014-06-17T14:30:11+00:00

online...OKcupid, tinder, etc. you will find what you're looking for there. you'd be surprised at the amount of girls on there simply looking for sex.

NAILGUNSODOMY · 2014-06-17T14:43:11+00:00

Be clear in your intent. Just go for it and once you've hooked up with a girl ask her what she is looking for, and regardless of her answer just be honest and say that you are just looking for fun at the moment.

The key is abundance. If you keep meeting women and taking them back home, you are bound to run across some which want the same as you.

Also as people have said, Tinder and Online Dating is brilliant for hookups. Just don't let it affect your real life game; I've done a lot of online dating and have found that unless you are honest in what you want, you will waste your time and other people's, as well as having medicre dates. Don't be ashamed of saying that you are just looking for hookups; it is widely scolded in the community, and the impression I get is that /r/OkCupid hates seddit, but I've hooked up with a lot women on OkCupid and Tinder because I'm tastefully honest. Don't just say 'yeh I wanna fuk, u 2?'. Show how interesting you are and women will like that and want to hook up so long as it translates into real life.

Hope that helps, best of luck dude.

iamthesage · 2014-06-17T19:02:54+00:00

My frame is different. I always want sex first, and want it to happen ASAP. First comes sex , then relationship or casual.

This frame has helped me get laid many times recently.

And don't be afraid to go for the sex (latest 2nd date) even with the girls who bluntly say they want a relationship. It is better to be aggressive and strike out,than to be nonaggressive and not get anything.

Hope this helps.

BAWS_MAJOR · 2014-06-17T19:44:07+00:00

If you talk like you write there's a point you can start working on.

joshsway · 2014-06-17T20:30:19+00:00

For one, do not tell girls you want to be FwB. This is a mistake, EVEN If they are ok with it. Honestly, your approach is correct EVEN if you want a relationship: always move for sex as quickly as possible.

WorldsWorstDancer · 2014-06-17T22:07:35+00:00

Head to the strip club on a tuesday, it should be empty. Just find a girl who is interested in talking out of boredom, let her know your just there for a few drinks, not dances. And just talk to her, if shes interested you'll leave with a number and maybe even leave with her after her shift is up. I do this all the time. You'll need a fake id since your younger. But trust me, this will work for you if you are not ugly or boring. It also helps to be original, relaxed, and have some style. Confidence and relaxed humility is the key.

Title	The Quest for Ass.
Author	bluwalrus
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	June 17, 2014 2:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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