Number One. Don’t Approach. When you see a woman you are attracted to and you don’t approach her you already lose!
As Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.” There is no way to play if you don’t even get in the game. You must approach the women you find attractive in order to have a chance with any of them.
When you don’t approach the women you are attracted to you are going to have regret. It is better to get rejected then have regret. When you get rejected at least you know you took the shot and with regret you never know what may have been.
Number Two.Take Rejection Personal. When guys do finally decide to start approaching women they take rejection very personal. Most guys start to think, “I’m not good looking enough, tall enough, rich enough” etc. Most of the time that has nothing to do with why women reject you. Women will reject you for a lot of reasons that are out of your control. She may hate men, be lesbian, have a boyfriend, having a bad day, just broke up with her boyfriend, etc.
Of course some women will reject you because they won’t find you attractive, think you’re too short, not her type, etc. So what! Not every woman is going to like you and you aren’t going to like every woman.In the beginning of your journey of approaching women you are going to take the rejection personal. As long as you keep approaching you will get use to the rejection and it won’t faze you.
So just keep approaching because in the beginning it is going to be a lot of rejection. For the first 3 or 4 months it is going to be hard to approach and the rejection is going to suck.If you can get through that initial pain period the game will be much easier. If you want to get to the point where the rejection doesn’t bother you go out and get rejected (intelligently) a lot.
What you need to do is go out 2 to 3 times a week and approach 50 women a week. Let’s say you go out Thursday, Friday and Saturday.Thursday night approach 10 women, Friday night approach 20 women, Saturday during the day 15 women and Saturday night 20 women. That is 65 women a week! 260 women a month and 3,120 women in a year!If you approach that many women rejection will be a joke! Now go out and approach some women.
Number Three.Fall In Love/Get In A Relationship Too Quickly. Once you start to have women in your life obviously it starts to feel great and it should. However since you haven’t had any new women in your life in a while you are going to make a huge mistake.
You are going to revert back to your clingy behavior and fall in love (rather think you are in love) and try to get in a relationship with her too soon (less than 3 months).When you do this it is going to drive away every woman you come in contact with. Here is the way to overcome that; first improve your inner game. The book I highly recommend you read ASAP is the way of The Way Of The Superior Man by David Deidea.
That book will help guide you on how to be a man that women find attractive and help teach you the behavior you need to embody in order to keep women around LONG TERM.The second thing you need to do is continue to approach and date other women. This will help you keep an abundant mindset. This will keep your skills sharp and keep her on her toes because she will know you will have options.
Men with options NEVER fall in love very quickly or try to get in a relationship with a woman quickly. If anything women have to be the ones who bring up being in a relationship with a guy who has options. Be that guy!
Number Four. Have No Boundaries. So now you don’t fall in love quickly or try to get in a relationship quickly however a lot of guys have no or weak boundaries.What I mean by no or weak boundaries is that you can’t say no. You say yes when you mean no and no when you mean yes.
When it comes to women if you have no or weak boundaries you will get abused and used. I can guarantee it. Practice telling women NO and what you will or won’t accept i.e. having preferences and standards.Nice guys have no or weak boundaries and as you know nice guys finish last! I suggest you read the kindle book called, 7 Easy Ways to Say NO to Difficult People. That book will help show you know to have strong boundaries. It helped me out A LOT!
Number Five. Make A Woman Their Entire World.
Let’s say you are in a relationship now which after approaching for a couple of years you are going to find a woman you are really into. Having an awesome relationship is great. However if you make a woman and the relationship your entire world you will lose that woman. Not only will you lose your woman but you will lose your mind and be unfulfilled.
You will lose your mind because you will realize that women are emotional beings and are never 100 percent happy even if you do everything for them. Also a man if you don’t have a mission you will feel as if something is missing. While your woman can be an important part of your life she shouldn’t be your ENTIRE life. Being honest women don’t want a man who’s woman is everything to them even if they say that.
Women are attracted to and have more respect for men who have other things going on except them. So keep your passions and hobbies and if you don’t have any find some. It will be better for you and the woman you want long term.
Number Six. Lie. Most men lie when they meet women. They put on a front and try to be something they aren’t. They lie most about what they want from a woman.They act like they want a relationship when all they want is sex. Be honest about what you want from women when it comes to intentions especially sexual ones just be honest.
Women will respect you for it and you will stand out from most men which will get you more women. If you think she has an amazing ass or great tits say so. Don’t pretend that you are asexual and you want to learn her life story when you just want to fuck. If you express your intentions you may spark some attraction just by being that upfront and honest about your intentions. However it is more effective to have attraction then be honest about your intentions.
Be honest about your intentions and it will be much easier to attract and keep women around. Now you don’t have to be honest about everything and tell her all of your business. Keep some things to yourself. She is a woman you want to seduce not your therapist. Keep all 6 of these mistakes most men make in mind and avoid them like the plague. You will have a lot more success with women if you do. Wishing you much success.I also have a conversation and texting guide that I'm giving away for free.
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