I tried to put together a small list of game changers for you guys. When I get my blog up and running properly I'll have a longer list for you guys to read over. I encourage everyone to add their own though and perhaps we can make this a worthwhile list.

  1. The most important to me: Remember that one day YOU WILL DIE. When you die, the world effectively dies with you. This is your world so make it the world you want it to be. Get off your ass and go approach. Get blown out. Get success. Do something with your world but don't piss it away with irrational fears of a conversation both of you won't remember after a day or two.

  2. Body Language and Confidence are the most important aspects of pickup. Don't waste your time worrying about your new opener and the possible responses you may receive and then your cocky responses for those responses. Just go talk to people.

  3. Talk to EVERYBODY. Befriend EVERYONE (especially gay guys). Not only are the conversations helpful in working on your social abilities, you'll meet a lot of cool people who will help you out later on in life, and those cool people will know a lot of people and your resources eventually become limitless. Why do you need gay friends? They're amazing social proof, great wingmen and they know a lot of hot women.

  4. Make your life something women want to be a part of. If you're living in your basement working a shitty job that you hate you're going to find it hard to bring anyone into it. Change it. Every possible response you have for not being able to do so is a fucking excuse and excuses get you nothing.

  5. 80% of all pick up is complete and utter bullshit. It serves a sole purpose of making you feel comfortable enough to open up women as if you have a magic spell that you can cast upon them.

  6. Calibration, calibration, calibration. With the ability to calibrate correctly you'll learn that all rules in pick up are to be broken, it's just your responsibility to calibrate correctly enough to do so.