Alot of men, especially nowadays, who are young and in their 20s, spend way too much time simping on and chasing down women they want via social media. Then when they arent seeing the success they want, they double down on the sadboi lifestyle as if a womans sympathy is the key to getting laid.

Those of us who are patient, stop chasing women so much, and double down NOT on dating but on finding a purpose and a drive that can propel us forward to success (financially and socially) will assume far more success in the dating world. The socio economic conditions of todays society dictate that a man usually is not valuable in the world until he has reached his 30s, built a solid career and foundation for himself, built a solid social network, and has established himself in his masculinity and self sufficiency. Those of us who are taking time to build, staying with the rents to save money for a condo or a house, working 60-70 hours a week and sacrificing our social lives to do so, will eventually gain far better opportunities later on.

So for those of you who constantly are getting ghosted, flaked on, cheated on, having your time wasted, I want you to understand that these are not your failures as a man. This is happening because your intrinsic and external value in society are not at PEAK level and so women (who have access to dating apps and social media to perfectly curate their social lives to their exact standards) simply have better options with older, already established men. Why should they give you the time of day? These older men are more attractive (just how biology works), they have resources (always attractive to women) and they have experience. Just be patient and work so you can be one of them, and stop wasting days a week cold approaching and chasing girls at clubs, your failures will slow down your momentum with self improvement. Just let the girls come to you eventually.