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[–]Ancient-Window-3572 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Seems to me like a genuine request.
I'd go for it
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So should I ask questions that I have planned for the date?
[–]Ancient-Window-3572 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe ask some general things you'd like to know, like cute stuff, but not into too much detail.
When on a date you could easily introduce questions/topics you chatted about, you'll have more things to talk about plus you get a vibe of what she's like beforehand, boundaries, red flags etc
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cute stuff? What do you mean?
[–]Ancient-Window-3572 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I'd need more context to answer that, like silly stuff you make up as you go
Like quote Bruce Willis from die hard (movie set in newyork)
Hey buddy, get in line!
I don't know lol
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So what should I say on the call? And what if she’s one of those that doesn’t like being asked questions lol? Any suggestions? No criticism just advice/tips pls
[–]Ancient-Window-3572 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just take 10 minutes, sit down and imagine your on a date with her, like play it in your mind.
Try to imagine what you'd talk about/ask (that applies to her or any girl really..)
Then write down what you'd ask and talk about on a piece of paper.
During the call start with general small talk and read what you wrote down to her.
Relax, It's not rocket science :p
[–]CocoBabeNYC 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Just schedule a call, jeez.
[–]hoothoot6996 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
man you can only find that out when you call her. Be cool ask her questions don't judge her, flirt a little is it's the appropriate time and if it's reciprocated
I’ve had women before who throw in the “I’m traveling for this week”/“I’ll be away for 2 weeks” line before and it hadn’t turned out well so I don’t know lol. Could be a tactic they employ. If it is, what would you do in the situation?
[–]hoothoot6996 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I say take her words for this time. Keep talking to her but if she stops responding or that you start really seeing different energy than the one she's giving you right now. it could be one of two things. either she's not interested or (after reading your post I'd say) that something bad happened in NY. when you said you would pray for her, it's a gesture that you care for her, so if she's little distant talk to her ask her if everything went well in NY. give a shoulder to cry on if something did happen. if not
then boom that's your chance to get out
[–]explorebear 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s a mom with twins. She ain’t got time for anything but the truth. You don’t need to play or have games, just talk to her like a genuine friend, it’s all about the intent.
[–]putcoolusernamehere 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a she’s genuinely interested in you buts wants to know more before meeting up. Schedule a phone call.
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Now she is asking me about my sales job. Is that she ran out of questions to ask me😂?
[–]EatSleepGamez 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you not texted people before? She's trying to have a conversation and get a feel for you. That involves asking questions ablut things like work.
Also, this isn't an interview. If she's running out of things to ask you, it's because you're not giving her anything to work with and not good at conversating. Don't make her do all the heavy lifting.
First of all, I usually be doing the heavy lifting lol
And second, she is asking alot of questions right now and I would like to know how to keep her at bay until next week so that too much info won’t be given before the date which can spoil things (speaking from experience). Any advice?
[–]EatSleepGamez 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just try to expand a lot on the subjects being brought up, or talk about shit that happened in your day.
[–]putcoolusernamehere 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you never had a get to know you conversation before? These are extremely standard questions and requests she’s making, i don’t understand what you are finding so weird about it.
[–]mightymite88 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a better title for your post
[–]burncushlikewood 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guys get on this sub asking questions about scheduling a date with a single mom, you should strive to develop an abundance mentality, just remember there are tons of other women out there. If this one doesn't work out you should be playing the numbers game and have another one in the pipeline. You'll soon see how fast women will be interested in you when she finds out you're playing the field. I have no advice, ask her out or set up a call if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out on to the next
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The key is too be mysterious .. you can’t let her know too much about you & don’t ask too much about her. The reason why is because thats what dates are for. Getting to know a bit about each other but not a lot because you wanna leave opportunities to talk on 2nd & 3rd dates.
As far as texting .. hit her up with greetings until you see her .. for example, hows it goin? I hope your having a good day so far .. again don’t say too much on a text. Wish her a good day & leave it at that
[–]putcoolusernamehere 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes people on here need to stop overthinking things and just take stuff at face value. This is a busy women who is somewhat interested in him asking to know more about him. Fuck being mysterious and all that other pua nonsense. Call her and talk, have a nice convo, and ask to continue the convo over dinner when she’s back in town. Isn’t rocket science.
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And what if she asks to know everything before the date? Like she asks questions
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you simply keeps all answers simple .. for example,
her: do you like baseball ..
you: yes my favorite team is .. i hope they make it to the world series this year.
Not
her: you like baseball?
you; yeah i use to be king of little league. Matter of fact I was one hella pitcher. Then when i got in high school i tried out for the team but it didn’t work out that way. I think it was because i sucked at the try outs. One day i met the head coach of my favorite team & blah blah blah
see what im saying? Don’t let her know everything about you in one phone call before the date even happens ..
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What if she gets turned off?
[–]zertsetzung -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep her around just to fill silence but maybe focus on other women for now.
[–]MistressVixen007 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No I’m just getting lo no l
[–]ikeepon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Just be flirty over text. That’ll be enough
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So how should I be flirty? Examples please
[–]ikeepon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Just google flirty text. Point is to not be boring or reveal too much as others said.
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What if the mind goes blank on what to say?
[–]ikeepon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s text, lol. Don’t you text people?! Just relax and be fun.
The ones I see on the google site are very direct for someone I just met today. Do you have your own examples to share?
[–]ikeepon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Me: It was nice meeting you yesterday
Her: same here
Me: Do you always give your number to strangers? 😅
…
Try not to double text. Good luck!
[–]GWARY54 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My opinion: if she has any interest, give her space, let her handle this emergency if it is one and let her respond back. Don’t smother
[–]PondScum420 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean she’s interested, obviously. Just send her memes here and there / text her random shit when you think of her. “Have you seen this movie, I’m watching it now, I think you’d like it.” Can be anything really. She wants an emotional connection, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants a serious relationship, but if you’re not into it, keep looking.
[–]Competitive_Duty2502 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t hold back
[–]_____Skip_____ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
DON'T TAKE ADVICE FROM SINGLE PEOPLE 1st off "Every morning, good morning beautiful how you doing?" She wants to know about each other so share how your day is and ask her what she has in mind for her future goals and stuff. Put some context on what you would like to do with your life also. Make sure you put your values out there and point her in the direction you want to go with this. Her being 30 with kids she is ready for something more serious more than likely. But make sure she knows if you are gonna go that way that you like open and honest people because the last thing you want to do is put time into something and waist it. If you just wanna have fun and have a friend with benefits just tell her up front. She can handle that much easier then being led on for something you honestly don't want. Do not say things that leave her open to question and be clear so she doesn't miss read into something your not intending to also. Good luck of you need anything further dm me.
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well she’s in her mid 30’s to correct you and now she is asking alot of questions right now and I would like to know how to keep her at bay until next week so that too much info won’t be given before the date which can spoil things (speaking from experience). Any advice?
[–]_____Skip_____ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean it is kinda rude if you don't answer her. So make it about her more than you. Answer one and ask her what about you. You always talk about what she is interested in also. It is a even push and pull. Don't just ignore her though.
[–]Mysterious_Tour_8106[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t imply ignoring her of course that’s rude. I was asking for ways to pivot the conversation so she won’t be asking too many questions
[–]_____Skip_____ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Favorite shows to watch. A lot of girls like murder mystery and scary stuff. Tik too lol I hate tik too but a lot of girls love it. Favorite restaurants and what she likes to eat most. Arts and crafts or baking. I sound like an asshole picking apart majority of girls interest now lol. Buy you have to find out, she may be unique in what she is into.
I always say enough about me let's talk about you lol
[–]Czekraft 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not constantly.
So how many days or times in the week would you recommend?
[–]Czekraft 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Assuming you are working, then at your leisure.
How many days a week though?
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