Tips for sexualizing things?

futuremo · 2022-10-16T20:01:30+00:00

If you need more physical tips, look up the escalation ladder (you don't need to follow it to a tee, you can use it as more of a guide).

Mark Manson also has a lot of good tips as well as thoughts about the mindset behind it in his book Models.

If you do a search on this sub, you'll find a bunch more.. the info is here man, just do a bit of research and try it out

Dangerous-Service-69 · 2022-10-16T16:09:20+00:00

Easiest way is staring randomly at her eyes or lips and not stating way, her imagination will do the work

OrzhovPalatine · 2022-10-16T15:07:39+00:00

I feel like you need to do this at the first date or even after?

Nah, do it ASAP to make it clear the interaction isnt platonic. The sexual tension is what separates the potential lover from just that friendly guy who's platonic.

And yes...that means you have to take a risk and create sexual tension. You cant pussyfoot around the issue.

Creating sexual tension can range from a simple stare her up and down, let her catch you and remark on it in a witty way to pointing at a feature shes self conscious about and saying "I like that".

Aggressive_Winner_43 · 2022-10-17T03:47:05+00:00

Have you tried yourmove.ai? Won't help on a date, but great for building up tension before you meet.

Letmeinterviewyou · 2022-10-17T01:28:02+00:00

When there’s a break in the conversation say you’re really horny and then start rubbing your crotch.

donelgringo · 2022-10-17T09:26:13+00:00

Look. It's something you have to feel. It's about self worth here too. If you had a lot of interactions that turned sexually pretty quick you'll see how exciting it is. The direct opposite of boring. Be a bit shameless from time to time, not because of an agenda, but because you don't like boring girls! If she gets excited too you're on the right track. But a bit of caution here, no woman loves an escalation right away, they'll all want to have a bit of giggles and connection before anything. And some women just love the game. They'll not let you do a shit until you grab your balls and kiss them out of the blue. Still that doesn't mean they'll suddenly want sex talk. It depends on her aswell, you'll need to feel it out.

Darkzeal_NOCL · 2022-10-16T18:21:02+00:00

As soon as I see them watching or looking at my lips when I talk, and we are on the same tone I turn on the heat, that's when I start touching and asking and maybe even smell lmao. I also tell them what they want to hear 🤣🤪 I told a 47 y'old the other day : you and I could have so much fun, you can't even imagine what I can do to you 🤪🤣 ( no lies I am a man of my words ) and I'm off before I get banned lol

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-16T17:41:42+00:00

usually i just wait until they sexualise things. women are more than capable of going after what they want and i appreciate and accept that assist.

GLight3 · 2022-10-16T20:21:17+00:00

Inject your conversation with innuendos, just try not to sound like you're 13. Push the conversation boundaries gently and see how she reacts.

Wazzock_PP · 2022-10-16T21:27:25+00:00

You can stimulate sexual arousal from your first interaction. Kino escalation is what it’s called in the PU community.

Just being a man and taking the lead is enough in most cases. Like when talking gently reach forward an grab both her hands an say “let’s get out of the way” back away till your resting your back or butt against something comfortably. You just accomplished 3 things. You you made physical contact so it’s not weird if you do it a few more times, you led her like a man which shows dominance, an now your in a position that looks like she’s trying to pick YOU up so even if it doesn’t pan out, subconsciously you will appear more attractive to the women that seen this.

Personally I don’t like to sexualize things verbally. Even if I get asked in private I’ll respond with “It’s rude to kiss an tell” or “i don’t talk about my sex life”. I do this because it adds a layer of mystery to my honestly boring persona.

I do however LOVE sneaky flirts. Under the table inner thigh squeeze, stealing their panties smoothly wile they grind on the dance floor. pull her in an do a quick make out when every one is looking away. It’s like a game we play to see how far we can go without being caught. An to do this you have to establish your sexual nature fast so she can decide if she’s feeling it or not.

Jasonhardon · 2022-10-16T16:36:09+00:00

Have you tried pulling out your penis? That usually works 😋🙃

SeaPen333 · 2022-10-16T18:36:47+00:00

Smile and wink. Or bite your lip, smile and wink.

Mojito_koctel · 2022-10-17T03:17:22+00:00

lostat17 · 2022-10-18T01:11:28+00:00

Coming from a 20F I think the best ways to sexualize things for a man is eye contact. Seriously. Staring at a girls eyes, then her lips and then back to the eyes. When she is talking act like you are entranced or distracted by her and then be like “sorry I got distracted by you”.

Also you can start a fake fight, that’s always enticing and sexually fun if it’s nothing “serious”. Don’t pick anything political.

Don’t be afraid to be like “I just really need to kiss you right now”. Most women prefer a man to be dominant so it’s all about you taking the first steps.

Rolls your sleeve up, stretch your back, and sit in a manner that is open and inviting. Confidence screams sexy !!!

Kenan_benan · 2022-10-17T01:55:24+00:00

For me I find what works if i say some stupid shit. “Tips for sexualizing things” “tip haha”. Or if someone talks about how wet it is out side go off of that

atomant88 · 2022-10-19T06:49:41+00:00

depends on your conversational style. i use anecdotes because thats my style. start with raunchy humour and then drift into sex talk if shes receptive.

Title	Tips for sexualizing things?
Author	Letmeinterviewyou
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Date	October 16, 2022 2:39 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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