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The Red Pill is the sub. That's how it's called. Red Pill is the red pill itself.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 06:40 AM
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1 submitted topic in TRP. (Removed.) The only proof required to safely say it doesn't matter what quality the content is, but what mood the mods are in on this sub. Content was well received, yet removed. It ain't my first acc, pap.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 05:34 PM
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That's BS. TRP is a movement. For what, I don't give a shit, but this sub is as ideological as it could be. RP isn't. Differentiating between TRP (this particular sub and its manosphere politically interested offsprings) and RP, the core toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 12:59 PM
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that part of her denial is an attempt to frustrate OP to the point where he loses his temper and 'violates her' forcefully I did have that experience a few times with a gf, can confirm...
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 09:52 AM
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Turns out she didn't need to get fucked 5 times a day, just needed to be worn the fuck out twice a day Wow this is golden
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:23 PM
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That doesn't tell much about her taste in men or personality. I find it worthwhile to try to figure out why a woman likes a certain man. Then you can focus on those qualities and give those qualities to that woman - or not, if you don't have them. Seems like you have a quality that this chick is into. Or she's just curious. It's something she can never experience - she'll never be a man kissing another man, etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:21 PM
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Dunno what type of chicks you're into, but it might be worth looking at it. The type of chicks that are into me are usually into guys who are "free spirits" (excuse the language), therefore anything I do or say that resembles that ideal reinforces their attraction.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:14 PM
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lmfao
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:12 PM
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My favorite is the chick drawer. Google "chick drawer blackdragon" its the first link.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:12 PM
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Guys who get laid a lot don't care about a woman's sexual history, especially a plate. That's not true. The problem is here guys get oneitis even if they're plating, because she's hotter/Not Like The Rest™. He's getting oneitis (or twoitis, perhaps it's two girls). I feel more like OP is leaving some details to himself, like it's just a single girl out of many.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:06 PM
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Nickname checks out...
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:00 PM
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Then you're golden. I was totally expecting a "no, we didn't" or "sort of" kind of answer, way too prevalent on this sub (i.e. "I punished her for something she didn't know she was going to be punished for"). I'm positively surprised.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:52 PM
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It's also funny coz people at psychedelic parties sometimes feel transcended, but the women are just as AWALT and sexual marketplace is just as in place as they are everywhere else. It's hilarious to watch, and the guys are generally leaning more towards feminine side (moreso mentally than physically), so if you can throw in some masculine features here and there and maybe play a didgeridoo the chicks really dig you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:04 PM
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Right. I'm not into philosophies or ideologies per se, I don't believe in anything. My point is, things you "have to do" are means to satisfy the desire to prolong your ego beyond your lifespan. Therefore it is as fleeting as chasing fun. The ways people have fun can be shallow and devastating, but fun isn't innately those things.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:01 PM
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You could be aboit to be putting your dick in her and she'll ask If you like her. Srsly most annoying type. Makes you want to slap her in the face and throw her outta window.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:56 PM
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I've got a RP lesson when I was high on LSD with my then-GF and she got a bad trip, thus I had to guide her. I knew the way, etc. but I'd forget it every 20-30 seconds or so because she'd keep doubting if I know the way. She'd say she kept forgetting. Could be true; regardless, I was in her frame so much.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:55 PM
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"fun" is fleeting like everything, lol shallow and devastating completely not true
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:50 PM
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I never liked clubbing, because the music is trash. These days I go to music parties or festivals with music I like (psytrance, dub, techno, etc.), without drunken idiots that tend to absolutely ruin any atmosphere. So generally no EDM, house, trap, hip-hop parties for me. I sometimes go with my friend who's into pickup, but it's not like I have exceptional fun at those kind of parties, I go there with a frame like I'm going to an alien festival really coz majority of those people's behaviours a…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:48 PM
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Not sure if sarcasm or serious, which makes it even more beautiful
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:10 AM
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No, it hasn't, and I don't think it ever will.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:08 AM
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Whats up JANE shows no rapport, better to recall something she said, or you commented, or you both laughed at. It can ez become ur "inside joke" chit chat as in small talk, short sentences. if texting its usually 1 sentence that's replying to her, followed by another sentence that leads the conversation going, or a meetup. It's like 1-3 texts from me at tops
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 10:36 PM
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they provide they provide... more pleasant scenery = value what you're doing looks like mental gymnastics to me
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:36 PM
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the few things I took out of texting are 1) always be leading, i.e. in your text there must be a question or a statement that she has to follow through/confirm/deny/reply to, put pressure on her 2) do very short chit chat (following 1), recalling something u know about her or something u shared when u first met. then transition it into arranging meetup thats how i keep it to the minimum
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 04:24 PM
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I'm glad we found common ground
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:15 PM
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That's what I don't understand tho, if you'd rather look at 8/10 than 2/10 while having sex, 8/10 has more value to you. Simple.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:15 PM
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It's essentially realising you'll die one day and trying to extend your ego's life beyond your lifetime.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:41 PM
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Clothes and food. Even if you're a skinny fuck, buying fitting clothes will improve your game towards that group of girls who are into skinny guys. Then you're going to the gym anyway. Always buy fitting clothes, unless you know what you're doing
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:41 AM
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I can enjoy blowjobs more than regular sex. You bring good points. Thanks
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:00 PM
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Thanks man, this strikes me accurate
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:59 PM
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I do enjoy the sense of pride/ego boost as well as the connection the woman gives me when I open her up sexually
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:02 AM
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Censoring the Internet has to do not just with intersexual dynamics red pill, tho. It has to do with all the red pills.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 12:31 PM
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Gym (turn on airplane mode if ure using apps for gym) Listen to some beautiful music Go for a walk talk/hang out with a buddy Acknowledge I'm feeling down - label emotion if possible, say it out loud. This works best for me, and is proven scientifically to work. You'll feel even worse for a maximum hour after doing that, but then you'll notice your mental state changing
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:44 AM
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Just focus on yourself dude. She could be more self conscious, that she's not among the most attractive women. Therefore she treats you good and believes in this investment, because she knows she can't get absolute top men. She knows reality of importance of looks. I can only advise you, be wary of how complacent you can get with her because of this. Obviously she has her limits as well. But you can get really low with her simply coz she allows you to. Be your own mental point of origin, your ow…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:17 AM
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I'm surprised, I've met plenty of people like that. Half of my friends (including me) get these effects from MDMA: 90% indifference, sometimes anxiety, anhedonia, not being interested in people, or music, or anything really, sedation. This is really good MDMA as well, others roll their asses off. One girl gets aggressive on empathogens in general. I enjoy(ed) rolling, but on APBs or MAPBs. Those worked well for me. MDMA never did, and I don't think it's the fault of taking those APBs, because a …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:20 AM
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Experienced this today for sure
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:23 PM
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Thanks guys
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:55 PM
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Look at blackdragon. Age 45 and plating 20s
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:21 PM
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It does
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:00 PM
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Nope, just someone with ability to use critical thought, like many others. OPs situation could have dozen other RP explanations, obviously he omits a lot
/r/askTRP12/02/19 12:29 PM
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Drug addiction hasn't killed me either. But gaming addiction had hindered me more than I could imagine. My point is far from "gaming is bad", it's relative and subjective just like you said. In my case, Dota was free, easily available on my computer, very stimulating and rewarding. Drugs, in comparison, weren't free, weren't in my room 24/7 and weren't as socially accepted as gaming. I could play 16h a day and my mom or friends would only mention it. In comparison, if I banged meth for 16h a day…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:17 AM
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OP never said she was or wasn't in LTR with those guys. OP missed so many important details it is either irrational or troll from you to "reason" this way
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:04 AM
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That's a huge generalization. Dota addiction has been worse than heroin or any other drug I've tried in my life.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:02 AM
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At the level of people you've described, it doesn't matter who gets more girls, because you already have enough.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:58 AM
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obviously, yes
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:57 AM
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There is no such thing
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:56 AM
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♂
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:56 AM
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I think it could be just her feeling insecure about losing you. This thread needs someone more experienced than me tho.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:54 AM
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Hippie woo woo shit is a great way to discredit this. Maybe it was useless to you, and that's okay. However for me psychedelics tell me about things that are bigger than you, me, ego, pesky politics, silly human problems. If that experience doesn't convince you, that's your path.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:28 AM
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No, MDMA is addicting AS FUCK to YOU. About half of my buddies don't enjoy MDMA. Me included. I don't find it euphoric at all. I agree and disagree with you at the same time. I found a specific computer game incredibly addictive - Dota. It was worse than IV heroin, or meth. Though I agree with LSD & shrooms being much safer.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:23 AM
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Lmao I remember I was at a music festival where I was introduced to a new female, we bounced off, soon a friend of hers came in and said I must not be from here (we had those IDs on our chests). I haven't even said anything yet, and the female said that I'm not from here, so I kept up with the joke and started talking in English with Russian accent that I'm from Ukraine. I kept bullshitting her friend for straight 40 minutes to the amusement of her. Surprisingly, her friend found it super easy t…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:14 AM
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I like this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:01 AM
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Women communicate feelings in order to foster group cohesion. This includes seeking mates, keeping families together, bonding with their friends, building communities, etc. Men communicate ideas in order to coordinate action. In fact, there's a version of this argument that says sports is a training mechanism to ensure that young men learn the coordination required for business, warfare, politics and other activities that often require rapid action by many actors at once. Chiming in, this is the…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:00 AM
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One of the reasons women love conversation as a social-sexual tool is that every talk is a chance to accidentally hang yourself. It's like being interviewed by the police. Never do their job for them, even if you're innocent. Accidentaly hang yourself? Not a native speaker, would you explain this to me?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:56 AM
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There's not much to add. If you're above average with your body yet you feel like you're less than above average, then you need to do a reality check with yourself in the mirror. I don't know, I've never had severe dysmorphia. Every time I gain, I am closer to being 100% confident with my body, I don't mind being somewhat confident with my body already. If you're jacked and still believe you're small, you could ask some people who beat dysmorphia
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:54 AM
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Most people do not understand what introversion is. It is not autism or social awkwardness. I agree, it's exactly why I've put "autism" in quotes. Introverts are drained by social encounters and energized by solitary pursuits. Extroverts are drained by solitary pursuits and energized by social encounters. This is a pop psychology simplified version of what introversion and extraversion means. Those terms were never designed to be characterizing person as a whole. You could define a portion of pe…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:51 PM
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even though there are many days where I feel small. Damn dude get some help, dysmorphia sucks any confidence you could get outta your body. You don't BELIEVE you are attractive, you believe you're unattractive, that's why you miss all the signs, coz they don't pass your belief system.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:37 AM
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Lol if you're an INTJ you're very likely to be "autistic"/robotic in social encounters. Start reading basic people skills books like How To Win Friends and Influence People, and body language books like What Every BODY is Saying. These two are very good. Also look into Blackdragon's blog, he's an INTJ and leads a dating/pickup blog. He explains a lot of shit that isn't suited for me, but like grand majority of it is gonna be suited to you, like what not to talk about with women etc. simply coz h…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:30 AM
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You need to tell us the secret or we can't help you.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:27 AM
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If you want to benefit from typing, look into original Jungian theories, not MBTI interpretations. I am somewhat into it and it has helped me come to terms with that majority of the time I'm not into SJ women (and they're not into me), and grand majority of my friends and intimate interests are intuitives. That alone crosses like 50-60% of females off my interest, unless some change occurs in my mind that I do not expect. Another thing is that I'm somewhat feminine, sensitive by my personality (…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:02 AM
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I think it's more interesting to both you and her when you use words with ambivalent meanings, such as "interesting", "curious". This works both as push & pull and as something that stimulates you. At least that's the case with me. Just saying that I find her outfit curious puts me into a state where I find things I like about it and things I don't like about it. Mind you this works for me because I am interested in fashion, looks, colour combinations, etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:58 PM
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Dunno dude, I feel dishonest with myself this way. I prefer Blackdragon's rule on that - on a scale from Ugly, Average, Cute, Hot, go only for Cute & Hot girls.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 11:04 AM
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who cares, he's dead now and it doesn't matter who rules the world unless he sucks
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:36 PM
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Go to a good CBT therapist, bro.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:05 PM
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Beautifully written
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:02 PM
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Could be post orgasmic illness syndrome.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:02 AM
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No. With edging you need to observe your arousal levels. Read my other reply
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:06 PM
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Stop a few times during edging for a minute or two and observe your arousal. Observe your breathing. Same after stopping, you need a few minutes to calm down and observe arousal & breathing
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:05 PM
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How exactly are you edging? Describe it. I'm confident you're doing a mistake somewhere
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:23 PM
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Masturbate (not to porn) with death grip 3x/day Don't do this OP, edge instead. Up to 30 minutes w/o orgasm.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:22 AM
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Why pay people when you can share motivation with your friends? Mentor each other on things you excel in or had experiences with.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:47 PM
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Last time I checked majority of humanity were social creatures If something changed, please let us know
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:48 PM
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That's partially true because you're missing a few factors: 1) you are examining only the divorces, and nowhere else where loyalty is considered 2) women have been given enormous power in marriage thanks to the legal system in US, the marriage rape. Look at any point in history: man or woman, power tends to attract people who are corrupted, and power in itself corrupts, especially when you're given legal system approval and social cues that what you're doing is okay. When beating children was le…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:44 PM
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Still, where I live I don't see men being that much more loyal than women yo imply there's a substantial difference worth mentioning
/r/askTRP18/01/19 04:35 PM
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I'd be turned on.
/r/seduction18/01/19 01:17 PM
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Care to elaborate why you think that?
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:05 AM
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Instead of thinking alpha-beta, think: I know my strenghts and are proud of them, I know my weaknesses and I work on them, I realize other men's strenghts and I respect their strenghts.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:09 AM
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Dude, every week there's a post here by some guy asking if he should leave his girlfriend despite her treating him because he improved himself during the LTR and thinks he deserves a better looking girlfriend. Or just wants to fuck around and asks if that's okay, and everyone tell him to just leave his GF if he wishes so. I'm not saying girls don't do that, but I see so many examples in my life of guys not being loyal at all that I just don't buy that theory.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:06 AM
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Vulnerability instantly creates strong rapport. It opens the girl up. You open up once about something from the past casually, and she feels inclined to do the same - essentially she starts doing most of the talking, but you're the one leading the conversation, because she won't open up further than you, both of which are great. I don't get what you don't get about vulnerability.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:05 AM
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No decent chick says "we are not having sex tonight" to start with. quoted for visibility
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:57 AM
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views that are more “BP” are often ridiculed and silenced by people trying to be internet-alphas trying to be internet-alphas Fuckoffwiththatpurplepillbullshit
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:55 AM
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"I find you physically attractive"
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:55 AM
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You must be experiencing really shallow sex. More to explore upon you!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:13 PM
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Sometimes, but not for me. Those methods in OP are the most reliable.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:11 PM
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A mistake I made over and over is peacocking That depends on your style. I'm into hippie girls and it definitely works for me. Another thing is psychology of peacocking that isn't discussed here. Implied that you're at a party of mostly new people - whether a small party or a venue, it matters not. Say you're wearing a pink hat. What is the purpose of the pink hat? It's to be easily identifiable. You walk around the party, meet new people. Other people whom you haven't met yet will notice you mo…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 10:52 AM
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Or, what about, "Why are you slowing down/stopping? Is something wrong?!?!?" when you are just trying to delay your orgasm. What are your experiences with this reaction?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 10:35 AM
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Why did you have to lie to her?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 10:34 AM
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If you read his reply, it's right there: that sort of attraction
/r/askTRP26/12/18 03:12 PM
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It's called I Have Some Distance Towards Myself Rating System. Neat!
/r/askTRP26/12/18 02:38 PM
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FYI, you are also scientifically correct. The body does distinguish from masturbation. CBB to search for the paper right now.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:27 AM
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Testosterone does have a lot to do with it, just try steroids and see how it affects the problem OP stated. But it doesn't explain it fully. There are guys that truly don't get demotivated by either sex or jerking off. I find this extraordinary and wonder how is it possible. It is also not matter of strictly prolactin levels being elevated and thus dopamine levels being tanked. One could try taking bromocryptine or cabergoline and see it for their own - those prolactin suppressors don't (nearly)…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:21 AM
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He asked how to maintain interest. Therefore it doesn't answer the question That being said, I think your solution is the best
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:44 PM
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Because to make music you need to have the balls to show who you really are, what you dig into.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:29 AM
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Dude I stopped reading at "didn't think anything of it". Look. I'm new at this as well. Years of behaving like a pussy is a habit. It's not your personality. You just gotta keep putting yourself in those situations, make mistakes and remember that it's better to be too bold than too meek. Wanna read even more cringe worthy story? I've got a number from a girl recently. She even was hot to my standards. She even invited me to her fucking apartment. And I didn't fuck her. End of story. No wonder t…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:08 AM
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Unless she's deeply falling for him (which she is not), this isn't going to maintain interest
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:55 AM
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Same. I don't do nofap, but last several years I don't fap more than maybe once a week or two. Last time I was at a club, approached maybe 20 girls total and zero action. I fap after, next day I go to the club and talk to just 2 girls and got to date both.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:51 AM
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Then it's hard mode
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:27 PM
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That's what I was saying, he might want both. He wants to be bold regardless of the girl And yes, picking a girl who makes him confident is dumb. The fact that you're a girl IMO explains your stance. Man should strive to be confident by himself, not because a girl makes him so
/r/seduction22/10/18 08:19 AM
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But he said he's not looking for that kind of relationship. He wants to be bold, not settle for a girl who lets him be unconfindent.
/r/seduction21/10/18 10:52 PM
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That being said, choose girls that you find attractive physically. Just a yes or no scale. It's not rocket science once you get a hang of it
/r/seduction21/10/18 10:47 PM
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Introverts? Stick around.
/r/seduction21/10/18 10:45 PM
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Meditation, yo. The best answer anyone can give you. You're also giving too many fucks. Try Manson's book.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:36 AM
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Thanks for the elaborate reply. Makes sense, and I think I've found some of my own reasons to try DJing as well. There's only so much time you can put into one thing in your life, IMO: I don't want to be doing something all day all week, I can't be creating music everyday for 8 hours, that doesn't work for me. However! Making mixes is a different thing. And listening to new music can go both ways: DJing and creating my own music. Time management! Live mash up, acapellas, looping, hook switches, …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:20 PM
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led them well
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:13 AM
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What kind of DJing do you do? I know a lot of dub techno, however I find most of it boring. There are some interesting dub techno tracks though. Is the DJs work then to put together a mix of music that he finds interesting?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:06 AM
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Hey man, I really appreciate your post. It's great to see a post with game where you're treating women like human beings. Well explained, congruent and resonates with me. Looking forward to see more of you. Added to RES-friends!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:03 AM
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It sounds boring because it is playing someone else's songs. I don't see the point of being a cover band when I can create my own stuff and control much more of the parameters coz of the access to all separate tracks. It just doesn't sound like I have much control over how the whole tracks are being played. As for instrumental music, I've never bothered nor had motivation to learn someone else's songs as well. It's not that I deem it beneath me, I genuinely have little interest. Tell me more abo…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:35 AM
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It's not absolutely an enhancer. I have no libido on M.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:08 PM
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DJing sounds boring as fuck tho.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:06 PM
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Don't try to look like you fit in. Fit in.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:05 PM
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What is red pill about being a tradcon
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 09:55 PM
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u srs?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:19 PM
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Why, so she can be a mainstream tradcon woman?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:18 PM
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Yes, men are hypergamous.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:15 PM
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I think you're missing my point. I am not questioning that they're "ruling" or "winning at life" (however you define "winning"), only that they are happy. They're not. I have not asked if they're "doing fine". Majority of people are "doing fine". My question is, are they long-term happy people? Have you personally met those people and can vouch for that they are long-term happy? I have met people who believe their rightenousness, yet, if you question them deeply, you'll find that they're long-te…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 09:01 AM
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Have you seen such a person? That harms others and is happy?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:10 PM
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I have a few days as well. I have post orgasmic illness syndrome.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:43 PM
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RP only fully supports amorality of sexual strategy With regards to going to the top over the dead bodies and the part that you quoted, have you ever seen someone who had a lot of things going for him, but was a jackass of a person, a traitor, liar, etc. and was happy at the same time? I have personally never seen a person who intentionally harms other people and is a long-term happy person. I think this fact is evidenced by observance.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:12 PM
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And if you fail to pick up a chick, after a few months of yoga you can blowjob yourself instead.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:01 PM
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read more blackdragonblog.com
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:40 PM
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TRM is pseudo-science trash. The only valuable essays are those that are on Feminine Imperative.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:55 PM
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Did you have any journeys with nofap in tandem? havent been fapping for years and it doesnt do shit for me
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:53 PM
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Nice waste of your mission time
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:50 PM
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Indifferent: Ok. walks away
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:04 PM
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Agree and amplify is usually done in a non-serious tone
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:02 PM
2

Yeah if you're prone to anxiety, caffeine can worsen that way more than even harder stimulants. I should also make it clear that I try not to be super douchey with the whole “Straight Edge is life bro drugs are for pussies” trope that a lot of people stereotype, it’s a personal choice for me and I don’t really try to concern myself with the choices that other people make. I'm glad it is that way. It is definitely the way to live a happy life - not concern yourself with other people's choices. It…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:44 AM
1

Yea I like his physique when it comes to proportions. It's a little too ripped for my taste, but other than that it's really really good. Interesting. What does straight edge incorporate for you? Do you allow anything at all ?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 08:42 AM
2

Lol i googled Jon Skywalker and found an incel forum. what the fuck also morally what the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:32 PM
1

You end up hoping for the same in return (you're human and bp) because you've put so much effort into trying to make her happy, surely she sees that! Right? Hell naw man. If you only do things for people because you want them to reciprocate, I feel sorry for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:29 PM
1

Yea but for Aromasin you also have an extra variable you have to account for - that is, if you overdose on Aromasin, it takes twice as long to get back to normal E2 levels.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:23 PM
1

You're not RP if you don't recognize sluts low value. What kind of value are we speaking of? Human value? Mating value? Family value? Value of decent sex? Because if you're saying high n-count makes them somehow a less valuable human, I beg to differ. That is an utterly depressing way to live your life - to judge people's value based solely on their achievements. Let the achievements be achievements, and worthiness the worthiness. If that's not the case for you, then I almost envy you, as there'…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:36 PM
0

IDC about n-counts. Fuck societal standards and labels.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:37 PM
3

Argue? There's no argument. Anyone having a quick glance over TRPW sub can see that. There is no other strategy over there besides "Be a good tradcon woman, catch the guy and have babies with him"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:08 AM
2

Because it's not the sex you're seeking, but the confirmation that you're attractive. You're not going to get it from a hooker. If anything, a hooker reinforces the belief that you're not attractive, because you have to pay her.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:18 PM
12

Yea I did numerous times before and never managed to stick with the habit. I'm not living alone and I don't currently have the money for it. I do aim to live alone eventually, but until I am, the flatmates (or whoever) often annoy me because they exist in what I feel like is my flat regardless whether I'm sharing it with anyone. Having headphones on gives me the isolation I need, whether it be from flatmates, or external noise, or other people in the park. Whatever. Regardless, I rather meditate…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:13 PM
1

So i distract myself with hobbies: Lifting, playing guitar, meditating, learning a language, etc I'm sorry but you're not treating yourself with proper respect if your interests are "distraction hobbies" to you
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:11 PM
2

I've become less. I never was conservative to begin with though.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:08 PM
15

Have you tried it that you have such negative experience with it? I've been using it for the past few weeks and I see nothing but benefits
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 12:55 PM
11

why have them around? I could be 100% happy by myself.” this guy knows how to therapy.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 05:01 PM
6

Until I've found the one I really like, I'd rather not wear any fragrance than wear one just to wear it. I think many guys believe that you need fragrance. U dont. But if it compliments u, do it
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:57 PM
2

oneitis only comes from a lack of women This. Related: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/05/06/levels-of-belief-regarding-women/ If you're at any level below 4, you're prone to oneitis. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:14 PM
1

Perhaps you just need a healthy dose of fantasy in your life. Read new books/fantasy instead, in healthy dosages. I recommend Frank Herbert's Dune.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:08 PM
1

being pure lazy Which is what, exactly? Is being lazy something ingrained in you? Is this a static label? There's too much discussion on what laziness actually is, therefore I think it needs explaining. Other points I agree on.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:06 PM
1

In my opinion CBT approach is better in the case of self-esteem. You do not need to do anything in particular to have a healthy self-esteem. By having a belief of having to base your self-esteem on some particular thing you: 1. Delay being confident until you achieve that next great thing 2. Thus slowering your progress For what cause? Noone external is going to judge you for your confidence except whether you are confident or not. Better to become confident and self-worthy right now.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:59 PM
1

The solution is to obviously limit your exposure ~~with ~~ to alphas when approaching women. Fixed, that "with" made me pause for a second.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:30 PM
1

You're selecting facts, not looking objectively. I am confident you can find similarities.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:29 PM
1

My point still valid
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:44 PM
1

he gets married why in the world would he get married? that's stupid. Just have the kids outside marriage with a parenting plan.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:40 AM
1

I like the way you stated this. I am an extroverted, energetic guy myself and I've noticed similar stuff. The end game is, you shouldn't change your personality completely just to fit into some arbitrary "alpha" model. Rather, fine-tune those aspects that make you exploitable and abusable to others. On the other hand, the people who will disrespect me and walk over my kindness - do I give a single shit about such people? I think the best of both worlds is to: 1. Balance between the two as you've…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:34 AM
2

In my opinion I'd hold it implied. That is, don't tell her explicitly because it's not a big deal, and if confronted just tell her the truth coz it's not a big deal. But it matters a lot how you play it. If you look insecure when confronted, stumble words, hesitate, body language anxious etc. obviously it IS a big deal. If you just tell her like if it were the weather she is likely not to take it as a big deal. I'm not a fan of lying, because eventually you're either faced with having to tell th…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:25 AM
2

Which biography are you reading? Is it good?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 08:18 AM
2

Yeah but how are you concise? I speak kinda automatically.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:15 PM
5

Any tips how to make this a habit? Maybe train some phrases before a mirror?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:37 PM
4

There are guys like Nikola Tesla - 6'3, handsome AF, genius level intelligence - but they choose to focus on their work instead of women. That guy truly didn't understand women. He was like from another dimension (or women were to him).
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 07:51 AM
-3

That's a derogatory term though. Cannot there be balance? I highly doubt world would turn its wheels if every man was 100% masculine and every woman 100% feminine. That'd be boring and predictable as fuck. What is a woman then that is masculine?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:52 PM
4

It's not a trap and you shouldn't "hope" you don't fall into it, you just don't do it based on rational thought.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:02 AM
16

I will repeat it, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FEMININE. Unless it is a man who is feminine, or a woman that is masculine?..
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 08:31 AM
2

Become self-employed
/r/askTRP03/07/18 08:28 AM
1

Gotta visit 'em Serbian & Croatian girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:58 PM
3

^ commenting for visibility. Sane words among anger phase rage posts
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:55 PM
1

Honestly I disagree with this as the basis for this is that men need to be sure that the child is theirs. However in the era of DNA testing you can always be sure if the kid is yours therefore there is no need to continue this pointless shaming.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:49 PM
1

He's addicted to cuddling man. How is he going to imagine that? He has to hate-cuddle those girls after a big pump workout.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:43 PM
2

That sounds just like me.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:42 PM
1

lol OP i have the same i can cuddle for hours and moan in the meantime.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:38 PM
1

Yes that's exactly my point. There's only one girl in question. Which means the number of your study's participants equals 1. That's zero credibility. Secondly, you disregard how you screen yourself out of some girls' radars by running game. All game styles/personalities are going to have a weakness, they're not going to work on some types of girls. Question is, are the girls that you're hitting on successfully with your game your target market? Or is it a market that you're not interested in?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:35 PM
2

We A/B tested the same girl with our styles of game One fucking girl, n=1, are you kidding me?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:23 PM
14

What? Intellectualism is frowned upon? Intellectualism is dead? I've noticed NOTHING like you describe, in fact the opposite. Today's word is over-intellectualized, over-focused on the mind and the intellect, while neglecting insight and connection.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:38 AM
1

I'm not grading who I am by a test. Rather, I've noticed there are things that cannot and shouldn't be changed. I'm not going to become an accountant or focus solely on money because TRP says so. I am asking coz the standard "be silent, cool smooth alpha" protips don't suit me at all. Zero congruency. Since I'm in the minority, I'd rather ask people that are alike to me. I don't care about the fucking test itself guys, I care about finding the alike minded people.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:39 AM
1

Generally speaking, the same things work for all girls. Apparently they don't. I've met a few girls that aren't attracted to Alpha 1.0s. They'd rather fuck betas or 2.0s. And I'm not asking about girls. I'm asking about the man. I don't give a fuck about the goddamn personality test dude, you miss my point. My point is to find alike people for whom the generic TRP advice to be reserved aloof smooth guy doesn't work becaue of the discrepancy between the generic ideal and their personality. You gu…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:34 AM
1

You are incorrect and it's exactly the kind of response that has been useless for me because of being so contridactory to my experience. You believe all man are made the same and all women are made the same. They're not
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:33 AM
1

Hey man, no need to settle for great actors. Might get trennies instead.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 03:42 PM
2

I've searched for that post online and read it on Woujo's site. I don't disagree with all of it, but some parts of it definitely. Could be because I'm not into Lambos, I'm not a thinking type person. As much as I value other Woujo's post, this one doesn't resonate with me almost at all, as hiding one's emotions is inauthentic for me. His article reads like if you're a more emotional guy then you're a beta and you can't do anything about it unless you drop your personality completely, which is un…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:29 PM
11

I've read that men finding themselves in this kind of situation where another male is present get this fight-for-dominance feeling that surprises them. Be aware.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:54 PM
2

It gets ridiculous enough in the middle, but Poe's law in place. There are extremists that would write this piece truthfully to their beliefs
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:42 AM
13

This may work only for smooth cool introverted rational alpha type guys. For the more emotional, extraverted and high-energy guys, I'd say only the posture tips apply. The rest will come off inauthentic
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:23 AM
3

I think more important is to have multiple sources of income. That way ure golden
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:17 AM
2

Can't please everyone
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:50 PM
1

Do u enjoy unhappiness.? I doubt it ss
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:47 PM
2

I don't get your point.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:33 PM
1

Can u PM me ur name? I'm not an english native speaker, I'm rly curious. Won't bother u about it.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:29 PM
1

Boring. That's me tho.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:57 PM
1

this has ruined for me socially on many levels Yeah I'm absolutely convinced it's the name that's RUINED you on so many levels. I don't know what your name is, but I know that I hated mine for all my teenagehood. Then one day I've realized that I don't know any person by that name. Therefore it's just me. So it's because I associate myself (the name) with some bad, unworthy person. If I am a good guy, then suddenly my name is going to evoke positive emotions in (almost) everybody (you can't plea…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:53 PM
2

Do you have very good pictures though? Also, PM me your fucking face. I mean just your face, not the face you make when you fuck. I don't believe you're that hideous.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:55 AM
2

I'm confident he was being sarcastic
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:53 AM
7

How is your thread a personal question or theory clarification request? asktrp is filled with way too much of such garbage
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:48 AM
17

Every couple days someone comes and says that what you're doing isn't enough, you also have to do MMA/music/skydiving/help the poor/art/politics/activism/be a scientist/pat kids on the back or whatever. it'd be fine if they just came and said "hey, i've got this hobby, here's what it did for me, here's what was hard, here's what you need to be wary of" but instead there's the narrative of "you're okay, but here's why I'm better because I do this one thing that you don't, you need to do this or e…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:10 PM
-1

I can eat more, maintenance cals is now 3,300 How the fuck is that a benefit? Now you need to spend even more time eating during a bulk.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:05 PM
1

Im currently on antidepressants and namely paroxetine,i feel like they help me abit but at the same time numb my emotions the fuck out. Try selegiline or other classic MAOIs. Selegiline is better because it has no diet restrictions. I can highly recommend it as it puts me in less emotional up-and-down states and the mindset that is present on it conjures well with TRP mindset.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:05 PM
4

How can they ALL be like this, yet uphold the good-girl image so perfectly and sweetly? They’re all fucking whores. My view on this is that the society as a whole: the poor and the rich, the middle class, both men and women, the adults and the elderly, all are responsible for what is now. See, in this sentence you prove that YOU are responsible for this revelation as well. The moment you judge someone for his nature, he/she is going to learn how to hide it well. The moment your friend(s) and fam…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:26 PM
1

you should go to a CBT or a CBT-derived therapy
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:44 PM
1

It's not chasing if you're not chasing. If you're approaching, you're approaching. That's not chasing. Chasing is when you're investing a lot more than she does into the interaction, past the initial point where you approach which is 100% your investment and 0% her investment. The percentages should get closer to each other with time in interaction somewhat quick. If they don't, you're now chasing, so why bother? There will be another woman around the corner who is actually interested in you lik…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:43 PM
3

the situation demands xD its the amused amused mastery.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:32 PM
2

Witcher 3 was amazing. Some well written (and modeled ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) female characters in that too. Those game's characters were amazing. Women as well. All of them.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 01:10 AM
15

Dunno, are you yelling? I find yelling (in an argument) a weakness of character. If you can't state your point without yelling then something's wrong with your point... And you.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:58 AM
1

Only if he's getting married in a country/state that enforces prenuptial agreements and doesn't ditch it. If he decides to marry regardless then he's a stupid fuck.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:59 PM
-2

GO TO EBAY BUY USED "FEELING GOOD" BY DAVID D. BURNS READ IT EXERCISE IT ??? PROFIT
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:55 PM
1

I already do a lot of those things, but I always was interested the most in learning how to orgasm without ejaculation. My take on this is that the tantric books are filled with a lot of gibberish, Nat Eliason's book is solid advice tho since he skips the gibberish. I haven't yet tackled that particular skill coz of focus on other things. I already sometimes refrain from orgasm, for practical reasons such as that I'm tired after, and that having an orgasm makes me desire woman & life less for a …
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:00 PM
1

I don't know many girls that watch porn. But then, I think it's pretty natural for a woman to want an attractive man's cum.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:14 PM
2

It's like they want to be worthy of bearing your child.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:03 PM
1

(I practice tantric sex so orgasm isn't the goal) What exactly do you do?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:02 PM
2

Yeah porn is the most accurate description of real life sex
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:01 PM
1

That's cause dick is too short for conversations.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:24 AM
1

But since taking the trp, it seems I tend to over analyze and focus too much on strategy as opposed to being fluid. And that's why you come to askTRP to ask about it? You should do the exact opposite: think for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:21 AM
1

Why are you in a relationship with a woman that screams at you and is physically dangerous in the first place?
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:48 PM
0

I said I am against weapons of mass destruction.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:28 PM
0

I'm not anti gun. What the fuck?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:54 AM
3

Most people spend their whole lives in a co-dependent state, relying on other people to furnish them with “love” that is actually just validation in disguise. Was guilty of this very badly.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 09:31 AM
9

Playing an instrument works for loneliness every time. Highly recommended.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:35 AM
3

All of tren*
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:32 AM
1

But mass gainer shakes ARE bunch of processed sugars. Just get some milk and blend it with wheats. There you go, gainer shake.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:29 AM
1

Also Poland is super cheap to live in if you come from more wealthy country. Think Ferriss' 4 Hour Workweek. Source: I live in Poland.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:22 AM
2

Whether it counts depends on whether it was a man or a woman.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:20 AM
1

You miss 100% of the alcohol high with the shots you don't drink. My friend's dad
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:20 PM
3

It was from a standup video, IIRC Elephant in the room.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 04:59 PM
3

underrated reply
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:25 PM
13

What is pleasurable about giving her so much pleasure that she shakes? Dude, have you ever heard of mirror neurons, or even empathy? Or even just doing things for others? If you don't get any pleasure whatsoever with doing things for others I'd say you're a psychopath
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:03 AM
-4

A women needs to lure that man with her beauty and playful (sexual) behavior (if not that, what else?!). Your pussy needs to be removed. Now the question is: how are you going to keep your man?..
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:58 AM
2

my dad handled everything smoothly Curious how he did it?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:44 AM
1

Don't settle, have two
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:42 AM
1

Your claims aren't supported neither by science nor by real life examples. I've got most of my close friends tested for T because most of them were depressed at some point. The most emotional of them, a guy who I consider annoying because of his incredible focus on the feelz (I often have to remind him of his irrational mindset), had a T of above 1000ng/dL and a healthy average E2 levels, which is on the high end and a better result than the majority of this sub ever had. Then another friend of …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:17 AM
1

The problem is that those black and white statements aren't getting questioned. Instead, everyone is going to treat your reply as some kind of insult to me, or ostracism from the group. Males do a similar degree of irrational shit, just in different settings and have different rationalizations for their shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:43 PM
1

we really are suffering when we're out of shape. I think there's something wrong either with your psyche or body or both if you have such 1-0 reaction to lifting
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:40 PM
3

grey tops dafuq? Also are you taking TRT doses or blasting?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:38 PM
3

Blah blah blah, I dislike this type of black and white thinking. You guys on TRP believe that men are much more rational that women. Imagine a graph, where Y is number of people, X is rationality to irrationality and there are two bell curves, one representing men and another representing women. There are two options: 1. Men really, on average, are much more rational than women and I'm just far on the side of the bell curve, overlapping with a woman that's just a little more rational than an ave…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:34 PM
4

Me neither, glad we could stroke our egos together
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 05:47 PM
1

How do you respond to her verbalized comments or requests?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:20 AM
1

(were not savages). Oh we are, just civilized savages!
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:22 AM
3

Communication is the key. How do you combine it with the ever prevalent notion on TRP on how the man should lead and should never ask, otherwise he seems like he doesn't know what he's doing? Genuinely curious
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:20 AM
19

This. The whole "get back on her" revenge drama plot is just silly, guys.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:19 AM
10

It's hard It's not, you just have a habit
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:52 AM
13

No, they want the validation. Prostitutes don't work, because they're going to have to pay for a whore. Whore doesn't desire them, that's the problem. If they wanted sex, they'd have went and got it. They want to be desirable and validated. I can't blame them. Going for a whore will just further prove they're neither desirable nor validated.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:36 AM
1

I am not. Read my post.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:28 AM
0

I suppose I've taken my point a bit too far. I only have a disdain for wars and killing, not the guns or weapons themselves. Although the thoughts of humanity creating even more fearful weapons of mass destruction, such as atomic bombs or poisonous gases, are truly depressing for me. I don't hate the guns, I hate what their existence is transformed further into. Create a bigger and more deadly weapon, then you get a guy who will create even bigger and more deadly weapon. It's insane and the proo…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:24 PM
0

The burden of proof lies on him.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:18 PM
1

There are 2 camps, one says it's gold, another says it's dumb, fake and inauthentic.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:13 PM
3

He said relationship type
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:02 PM
3

i really liked how you finished it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 05:15 PM
1

I've never said that. My point is, unless you can elaborate on the topic don't quote that Freud or anyone else said something, coz it adds nothing to discussion. It's not saying anything, it's not moving it forward, nothing, except that some dude thought something but you're not expanding on the topic so noone knows what's up. You didn't even say if you're agreeing with it or quoting it for the sake of it; in the case of the latter it'd be even more useless. Don't get me wrong, I agree with a fe…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:50 PM
1

yes
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:48 PM
2

Blackdragon says, it's not oneitis unless you act on it. Just feels and thoughts are not oneitis
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:17 PM
2

Maybe not luck, but other factors in play. You'd have to spreadsheet it to really find out
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:16 PM
2

Try to emphasize with women and you'll see that every time you do shit like that i.e. not escalate it is a sign of disinterest from you to them
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:15 PM
0

Yeah coz Freud's theories and methods have proven all right so far
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:07 PM
2

I dont have anything against interest in firearms, but interest in military is IMO just fucking dumb. Way to waste your life fighting in someone else's war killing other people who are just as dumb as you.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:03 PM
10

This is a good related video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csP3SXj6-aw Basically never kiss her ass, she's the one doing ass kissing otherwise you're fucked. I did this mistake recently and I'm paying for it dearly. Never kiss her ass. Her lips were destined to kiss your destined ass and she'll thank you for it, and despise you if you ever kiss her ass
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 03:49 PM
3

Daylight makes me sleepy. Then at night, I'm wide awake. Try low dose modafinil, like 25mg or 50mg tops
/r/askTRP04/06/18 11:00 AM
1

You're a natural and you can't wrap your head around why all those guys can't get the girls the same way you do, so you come here and whine how we're wrong. I've seen it before. Don't take advice from a natural coz 90% of the time he can't explain what he's doing. At best you can observe him and even then, he could have different temperament/style/size, which could make his ways not work for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:53 AM
1

I haven't tried it but there's an ebook that supposedly teaches how to do that. I am planning to buy it in a few months and see if it works for me - I'll write a review then, until then, its name is Ejaculation Freedom I'm 100% sure it is possible for any man to learn how to do this if he knows how as I've experienced long hard pounding sessions a couple times in my life when the stars aligned - it's a matter of just the right amount of stimulation, control over your body breathing and tensing a…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:47 AM
1

In addition, I am excessively hairy, as in it covers a solid 95% of my body. Think like Robin Williams. I'm lost on how to handle that, do I shave or wax it? I think it would look weird if I did that but left hair on my arms and legs because its so thick. Don't shave it, trim it., it's attractive
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:40 AM
2

Certainly not a hidden one, where a bunch of random dudes get upset at me because I don't read their mind.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:38 AM
4

According to their conscious thought
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:56 AM
1

++ i had 245ng/dL and was horny regardless
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:40 PM
1

You could easily argue that you're choosing monogamy because you're too insecure someone else fucks her better than you ever will. You should check actual cheat rates bro. The fact that the society went this particular way where more and more people choose not to be monogamous means it doesn't work. Because, you know, when something works, people stick to it. That's the fact of life.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 11:13 AM
1

Was saying that very intelligent is pretty rare.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 05:55 PM
0

If you're taking tren then depraved is the right word
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:46 AM
1

I'm interested in comments as I feel similar. Hijacking. The only things that matter to me seem to be women, music and having lots of free time. The rest is a nightmare. And whenever I sign up to some music project to do with someone else I lose interest very fast because I don't want to do what someone else tells me to, or because I feel the pressure to perform and that my art has to be some way - then I no longer feel it's art or that its mine. I've come to the end of my studies and I don't ev…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:41 AM
2

A bad trip can be like being in the worst horror film you can possibly imagine. Just a note that you can fuck up your mental and physical health if you are unprepared and unlucky during a bad trip. Please be careful guys, start low, have trip sitter, don't use psychedelics recklessly, always know your dose, source, yourself, etc.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:11 AM
1

that is some good shit thanks
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:07 AM
1

Ah okay. Ive mistaken financially independent for independent.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:03 AM
6

You feel inadequate because you compare yourself to them in a manner where you leave out your strenghts and focus on your weaknesses that are their strenghts at the same time. Grab a piece of paper and list in 2 columns your strenghts and weaknesses. Respect yourself for your strenghts just as you respect others for theirs
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:55 AM
1

Independent financially Decent job or working towards one How do these compute with each other in your book?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:49 AM
0

Yeah man I agree, let's go back to the Dark Ages, they were the best /s If monogamy was sustainable, it would have sustained. It didn't, and it failed for centuries, people divorcing and cheating on each other, because it doesn't work. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:58 AM
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Since we're on it, SIDS is almost non-existent in Japan. USA has high rates of SIDS. Japan does not give vaccines to children younger than 2 years old. USA gives vaccines to kids in the very first few days after they're born.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:22 AM
0

I don't get your point. So basically you two wanted different things and her dropping you due to it is suddenly AWALT and whatnot? What the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:19 AM
3

this. the whole "you do it for yourself" gets boring after a while once you look deep down into yourself and realize it's not true. like Jiddu Krishnamurti says, there is no life in separation with other beings. Life is a matter of your relationships with every thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:14 AM
2

Just do the CBT exercise where you try to foresee the feelings pleasure and mastery you believe you'll have from playing the game, then after playing the game, write down the actual pleasure and mastery you've got from playing it. I've noticed this way I enjoy games much less than I've used to, especially if I play a lot, which has automatically led me to spend less time on them. If you play a match-based game, like MOBAs or CS:GO, write each match as separate event. For example, I've found that…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:09 AM
79

Wheel barrowed your balls to the dance after that one. Not a native English speaker, can you explain?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:02 AM
1

try "feeling good" book if u feel anxious depressed for no reason
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:37 PM
3

If you are 18, I'd capitalize on your strenghts. Strenght of an 18 y/o is that you know how to relax, let go and have fun. Notice how the older people get, the more likely it is that they're unable to fully let go and have fun.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:34 PM
1

I feel kinda stuck in a catch 22: I don't enjoy the women I have to the fullest because they don't inject me with this kind of anxiety/excitement about them, and the women I would enjoy the most I am too anxious to deal with. What I'm living right now really is some bastardized version of life I desire. Everything in my life feels like it. Never giving 100% of me in my life, and thus never getting 100% in return. Don't get me wrong, I like my gals. But my novelty- & excitement-seeking brain just…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:22 PM
1

Hey, As of now I weight 67kg and I am 186cm tall. If my face looks like it looks when I'm 67kg at 8,1% bodyfat, I don't think it'll look any better when I'm 85kg at 8,1% bodyfat. Except more confident, lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:56 AM
5

Negative thinking, self-esteem issues and depression can get in the way of abundance mentality as fuck. I have two women in my rotation with whom I can have sex at least several times a week yet my abundance mentality and outcome independence near new prospects are close to zero.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:52 AM
1

op, there's a whole two chapters in "Feeling Good" by David D. Burns dedicated to validationwhomdore.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:50 AM
3

sack tap
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:48 AM
3

Not sure why you're getting downvoted, since you haven't disagreed with anyone on the facts - just the attitude.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:47 AM
12

Some women will just do that to 95% of men. Which only says he's not 5%, not anything else.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:12 PM
0

very intelligent Which is like a promile of the population? Why put this in there?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:50 AM
1

Honestly I have 8,1% BF right now and the difference just isn't there compared to when I was 13% BF. I guess that's the way it is when you have a really narrow bone structure. Fortunately, I believe I have a somewhat attractive face so whatfuckingever.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:48 AM
2

Watch some Jiddu Krishnamurti on yt, he knows what he is saying. This. I can't imagine getting into spirituality and not exploring with this guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:43 AM
3

that was unexpected
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:58 PM
25

I'd just move out ASAP
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:03 PM
0

You need to keep to some rules like only meet with sex implied, i.e. don't do dates that are without sex. Then she'll always expect sex during meet
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 11:29 AM
3

Forget the science of “overtraining”, most programs are made by people trying to sell you stuff. Do you think your ancestors cared about overtraining? Sorry but you have no proof of it not existing either, neither do you know anything about our ancestors. These kinda tips make people overtrain and then sleep 12 hours a day, have dramatically reduced appettite and increased thirst and reduced testosterone production due to exhaustion, which are things that happen to me if I train too often or too…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 10:29 AM
2

I agree. The trick is to buy experiences, not things. I used to be of belief that money doesn't matter that much. It still doesn't matter that much for me, at least it matters less for me than pursuing my passions, but it matters a lot more than "eh, money can't buy happiness". It definitely can if you're late with your dentist appointment several months because you don't have the money for it. Or if you've got to choose between having 4 exotic self-made meals a month and going to a trip to your…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:54 AM
1

don't go out with the sole intent of approaching. Why not? If your city is truly small (more like a town), you should definitely go for a walk... Around the city. And enjoy it. And approach women along the way.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:22 PM
3

inb4 OP gets deleted, which happens way too often in such threads.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 10:59 PM
1

Money buys happiness until a point. According to studies, 60000$ a year for US citizens is where it stops.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 10:51 PM
1

Develop some desires How would you proceed to do that?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:59 PM
1

Depressed people are known to make incredible mental gymnastics to put themselves down. Studies say that one's attractiveness has no effect on one's happiness. Otherwise all the beautiful women would be the happiest people on Earth.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:55 PM
1

That's not what the book says, or even the wikipedia.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:52 PM
1

The fact that you don't have time depressed is exactly that. But I'd say then you're addicted to whatever brings you relief, addicted to action, you can't function without it. It doesn't cure depression, it just moves it aside, for a while. It's unpractical and unreliant in my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:51 PM
1

I'm still dealing with all what you've described, post MOBAs addiction. These games bring out the addict in me like nothing else I have ever done in my life, and I've done a lot of addictive shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:49 PM
1

Have you tried CBT specifically? Other therapies have been unsuccessful for me. Just "therapy" doesn't say about what kind of therapy is it. Try the book I've recommended. Have you tried selegiline (Emsam)?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:47 PM
1

Maybe you are wired differently. I am more of an emotional guy, and there's not much that can be done about that - I'm not going to change myself from a Russell Brand-kinda extroverted guy into a smooth mysterious alpha just because TRP says so. How I feel matters. It influences my motivation, happiness, desire to do things, desire for sex. I've never said lifting for the wrong reasons doesn't count, please read carefully, not "or something". I've said that if you're lifting for depression, you …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:45 PM
1

I've tried various psychedelics but honestly they work for me only as temporary booster. Lasting benefits only came from understanding through CBT (or other) work for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:39 PM
1

Yes, I've noticed that too. Sometimes, you've made a change to your beliefs and you no longer rely on external validation (that you've been getting) as much as you've used to, or external goals. But then you become depressed, because you've never given yourself the validation before. Therefore sometimes you change something in your life to the positive - you remove something fake, fake happiness, but now there's a hole that needs to be filled, though, you might not yet know how.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:37 PM
1

I went on TRT and still had depression, even despite fixing T and E2 levels. HCG made it better, but obviously one needs to fix his thinking patterns and his beliefs about oneself and the world.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:34 PM
1

I've gotta say the book itself has been quite effective. I think reading this CBT book and doing its exercises is better than going to a rando psychotherapist whom you know nothing of his methods, i.e. if it's not CBT.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:20 AM
1

My point is, I was low T and did take Longjack. It did increase T for me. Nevertheless I later went for TRT anyway.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:21 AM
1

I sometimes overheard my male friends talking and some of them are like, oh no way a girl is going to touch me anywhere else than my penis - it's gay! Literally they treat touching their body as if it's gay.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:19 AM
2

Who said anything about dumping responsibility and commitment? You can be committed and responsible and be non-monogamous. You can raise your child while being non-monogamous and already lots of people are doing it - albeit by cheating (worst option) or non-official open marriages. You can read Blackdragon's blog for statistics, I'm not going to repeat him here. Monogamy itself doesn't change shit. Why do you people keep making up stuff like that you can't raise a child in a non-monogamous relat…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 11:17 AM
1

He has oneitis for his wife. Google it
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:32 PM
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Small portion of men will get all the women. What the actual fuck are you talking about? NO. This will never happen. Firstly, not everyone will be non-monogamous. Secondly, you have 3 plates. Do you give a fuck about who they fuck? No. Therefore, you're not "stealing" any women from other men. You're sharing them. Noone loses anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:29 PM
2

That doesn’t mean it’s not rewarding. We’re just so damned used to focusing on our individual freedoms and welfare we abhor terms like loyalty, trust, duty, and legacy. We’re really selfish cunts Except monogamy is BS. It provides little benefit with all the cons. You can have all the things you've listed without monogamy. If you're doing something just for the sake of it and deem it rewarding, that doesn't seem rational at all. It's like my flatmate and his GF. He believes in monogamy because s…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:25 PM
1

Fucking Brad pitt....fucked it up for the rest of us Don't dramatize it. It's not such a big deal.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:39 PM
2

6.CBT
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:35 PM
1

Your point being?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:31 PM
1

MDMA has never worked for me since. I just get upset on it, unlike other empathogen-like drugs. I don't use empathogens anymore though, as I find my empathy very high, especially when compared to most men, including on this very sub. These days I'd rather do phenibut. I've found its social lubricant properties to be highly preferable. Seems like it really targets some of my weak spots, possibly stress and chronic illness related. Fortunately you can't take it all the time, so you have to work on…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:49 PM
1

Dunno if it's better. Like I said, I've used it once, wasn't even doing it purposely for this reason, and my dance insecurity vanished forever. For me it makes no difference if you do it under influence or not if the result is the same.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:43 PM
3

If you're not attractive, how is NGAF going to change anything in reality besides your own feelings?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:42 PM
1

Here's proof: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23810842 It's a mild AI, but it is an AI nevertheless.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:00 PM
6

Take a low MDMA dose (~60mg) Dance Forget all your insecurities about dancing forever. That's how it worked for me. One MDMA time, I can dance sober however I like with absolutely zero insecurities, and I was a guy who would feel very awkward. 180 turn.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:58 AM
1

are these erogenous zones? IME any zone can be erogenous for a woman specifically. For some men (like me) as well, however society deems it as "gay" therefore it's not so prevalent.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:56 AM
2

Truly not giving a fuck overrides everything else. Only if you're attractive to a girl in the first place. Otherwise you're just a guy who doesn't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:54 AM
1

It's a mild AI though, therefore it's highly likely it does.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:11 AM
2

scars from cutting (doesn’t matter if it’s in her past, it means she’s borderline personality disorder) That's load of BS. I've met BPDs and none of them cut themselves, meanwhile the ones that did had no BPD.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:12 PM
2

If your estro is high when you boost testosterone you're still going to have the same T:E2 ratio, i.e. your estrogen is going to raise together with testosterone. You need to drop the body fat down
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:00 PM
0

I've only ever had good results with Longjack, because it's a natural AI.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:59 PM
0

A good sex life should be a compliment to an already otherwise good life. It shouldn't be what makes your life good. I have to disagree. Every thing (that matters to you) compliments to a good life.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:49 PM
1

Depends. Sex with a woman with which you don't know each other particularily well is average to me. But sex with a woman where we both know how to get off each other and we've known each other for months, years, is amazing and you have no idea. That being said, every late bloom virgin should follow the advice to get laid with a prostitute and get it over with.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:48 PM
1

I don't find every pussy attractive. But I do find them arousing. How about you?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:06 PM
1

Yea boy, give it time. I wish you the best but are you SURE she's had only one guy before you? Did she tell you that? Yup. I'm not from America though - different degree of rules apply to other, less feminized countries. And judging by her sexual expertise at that time (she was an anti-social 16 y/o nerd), she couldn't have had sex more than a few times. I couldn't care less. YES! Precisely! This is what you want. When you marry someone, you should also have children with them. You want a woman …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:10 PM
1

I was asking estrogen, though. If that's the case, you've got a psychological hurdle based on beliefs that you're probably not aware of, you need to go to a therapist, nothing else is going to help. Such beliefs could be worded like "pussy is disgusting" - you need to ask yourself why you believe that and if that belief has any rationale in the real world, then replace the belief with a more rational belief, on paper. It doesn't have to be "pussy is amazing", just a more neutral one. Even if you…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:42 PM
1

That's untrue. I sometimes get compliments on my smell. I never get told I "stink, so the belief that you'll stink if you don't use artificial fragrances is also debunked. Most importantly though, by not using artificial fragrances I don't stink to myself, which makes me much more happier than if I succumbed to other people's advice to use cologne... And stink.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:38 PM
-2

I don’t really remember why I wanted to join the Army. I think that's because of the meme that army is somehow a manly thing to do, therefore it attracts a lot of males who believe they're pussies - this belief is especially prevalent in the US, where US military is glamourised and full of the best country in the world myth. Maybe it is manly, but certainly it's also dumb. I'd rather become a smart man than just a man. Personally, I think going to military is dumb, as is fighting for a "country"…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 12:34 PM
1

Maybe you have high estrogen. When I started on TRT a year ago, whenever I had too high estrogen I'd become disinterested in pussy.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:37 PM
1

None. Colognes stink. I prefer my own smell.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:33 PM
1

Nah, I was asking, what partical word replacement do you suggest instead of "my woman", which I believe is the most adequate and practical, even if you assume she's never yours.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:27 PM
1

I think you're dramatizing it too much. I can't agree on this part: No. When a woman is a virgin, she pair bonds to that ONE man.. after that she'll never connect with another man like her first. My now ex GF had only one guy before me, yet was quite pair bonded to me. but don't think you'll be having a relationship like the guy who deflowered his wife. I don't think I'd want such a relationship, never marriage. This kind of relationship smells really risky. You could end up with a prude.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:26 PM
1

What practical replacement do you suggest, then?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:13 PM
13

western toilet clown society I'm gonna save this
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:05 PM
6

Yes, but the way manipulation is described here often reads as "master manipulation", at least somewhat conscious you need to be to reach a mastery at something.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:05 PM
11

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2011/09/27/dont-screen-women-instead-categorize/ For me, I don't get how men tend to put a woman in "no relationship" category when she's slept with many men but other than that she's good. Sounds to me like those men are basing their decisions on very emotional reasons. Figure out what traits in a woman are important for you. One woman could have slept with 30 men and get damaged irreperably (whatever that means), another could have slept with 40 and can pair bond…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:45 PM
2

You don't need to care just yet. Wait until you've tested. If it's not your child, it's not your bussiness anymore. Go on with your life. Profit. If you want to forbid your woman from having sex with anyone else than you while having sex with other women yourself (for whatever emotional reasons you have), just do so, but don't try to DEER it by pretending you're living in a fantasy place where paternity tests don't exists. Just do it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:54 PM
4

though your main woman is potentialy mother of YOUR future kids and therefor can't fuck somebody but you. That doesn't make sense dude. There are paternity tests available.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:50 AM
2

The books are full of stuff that make me question the reality. You've just listed the most fantasy-esque stuff that's found in the books, completely omitting all the dialogue techniques that are used or society, ecology, religion, philisophy questioning. I guess we won't agree on this: I need high novelty and excitement, and solely real life doesn't do it for me. Do read books
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 10:27 AM
2

allowing the anger and shitposts that happens on this sub nah, its boring and waste of everyone's time.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 08:21 PM
2

Can't agree with this. Read some Frank Herbert's Dune and then tell me his work has no insight into real life. Also, you need relaxation as well. You seem like one of those people who shit on entertainment and people who create these things, then goes on to listen to music on the radio on his way to work. That'd be hypocrisy.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:33 PM
3

But you could have any type of relationship with her, as you are the one setting the relationship vibe. Unless you demand/screen for a specific type of relationship, you don't need to bail on everything. My point is I can have multiple relationships of varying degree of commitment, frequency, etc. so if there's someone more trustworthy/fun, I can spend more time with her and trust her more, but if she's just fun but cannot be trusted (due to those drugs you've mentioned) I can still spend time w…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:11 AM
5

This. Guys are insecure about their weaknesses. They hide them and make a big deal out of them. No wonder women see this as weakness and lose attraction - after all, the guy's frame tells them that it is his weakness. W. Anton writes about this in his "The Manual": males hide that stuff from women which makes them dishonest and obviously women's distrust skyrockets. It's not about what you say, it's about how you say it and how you behave about it. If you behave like a low self-esteem sucker whe…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:07 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that. Majority of people do that, men included. If she were problematic due to taking drugs, would just keep her within level that doesn't influence my happiness (FB).
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:56 AM
4

I wish that my SMV had been high enough at that time for her to choose me over the drugs. That doesn't happen. However, she had to make a choice. It was me, or it was cocaine. Your reasoning surpasses my abilities right now - why would you do that?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:54 AM
2

Yes. Don't finish, it's not the goal. Masturbating with the goal of orgasm when you're "insensual" and inexperienced with your own body will cause you to, as it is with goals, focus on the end-game. It will be a distraction. Your goal is to explore your reactions, build sensitivity & sensuality, see what is pleasurable for you and what is not. Don't think of it as a drill, it's a sexlife-changing experience once you stop expecting shit. There will be no pressure to stay hard or anything. I'd say…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:41 PM
3

Try this: masturbate but don't use porn for it, only your imagination. Do it SLOW and SOFT, be very gentle to yourself, don't rush it, especially that you WON'T ORGASM. Only bring yourself to the brink of an orgasm. Then stop. That's it. Repeat a few times a week. Expand your imagination and be as imageful and detailed as possible. it's a dead noodle unless I personally beat the shit out of it. This means you're going to be intentionally slow, soft and gentle. Like, super slow and gentle. Don't …
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:26 PM
1

Thank you. I will start by doing daily walks approaching people.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:20 PM
1

Thank you. I will start by doing daily walks approaching people.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:20 PM
1

Any method that would help me overcome the anxiety eventually, even if it takes more time, as long as it's effective for my case. "Just approach" hasn't worked for me so far
/r/askTRP01/05/18 10:55 AM
2

That I can agree with. I put it this way: on top of more static things that bring part of the happiness equation such as enough money, regular sex, friendships, there is also the other part of the equation which is more elusive and dynamic. It's ever changing working on your mission and, in some people more in others less, novelty. That need for novelty can modify all the previous needs, including the static happiness equation. So you may have regular sex, but you might seek additional novelty i…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:20 AM
1

"men unlike women don't make happiness a goal" That's bonkers. You took it out of your ass. This generalisation is just plain wrong. I don't know many men whose goal isn't happiness. In fact even in English manosphere men aim for happiness... At least the smart ones. Blackdragon comes to mind. On the other hand we kinda speak of the same thing! Since what you describe as pursuit of happiness is happiness in itself. You realise what makes you happy. In OP case his stuff doesn't make him happy.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:03 PM
0

Care to explain why are you angry? Poly lifestyle is often embraced by those in such situations
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:08 AM
1

No FBI is going to knock at your door for getting shrooms once dude. Just go get em.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:46 PM
-1

Just have sex with someone else
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:33 PM
22

"there's this one girl"
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:31 PM
10

Where do your thoughts about preying on her come from? Can you rationally support your stance? Life tip: if you can't rationally support your opinion, or get defensive or emotional, it's something society has ingrained in you. It has no fucking real reason to it
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:24 PM
1

Why not?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:41 PM
1

So much this. You attract what you fear.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:26 PM
1

Then be polyamorous and her polyamory won't bother you
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:23 PM
7

The way you write tells me you'd benefit a lot from book The Unchained Man. Go read it
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:55 AM
1

Fuckzone
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:46 AM
1

When I say it out loud it sounds melodic, like taken out of a poem. Musician approved
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:28 PM
41

Also avoid RAPE IIRC: Religion Abortion Politics Ethics(?)
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:55 AM
6

I don't envy your body, I envy your dad. Glad I'm figuring out step by step how to create myself without one.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:37 AM
2

This. I don't get slut shaming on this sub. Don't people enjoy sluts? Do they rather work for sex, put up with bullshit such as LMR, ASD and dishonesty, the whole act how prude the girl is?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:30 AM
1

Anegdotally, my woman likes it, but only because she considers her body to be my property. Any possible harm done to her is talked about after it is done. Despite that, with the mindset that the body is mine, very rarely does she feel harmed by me. In short, she enjoys free use.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:21 AM
1

This is so right! Every word. Only sex where her body belongs to me has meaning and sense to it. Anything else I'm not interested in and couldn't understand why would anyone settle on such bullshit
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:17 AM
0

Right. Why are you on this sub if you don't understand it? Why even try to delve into something if you haven't tried it before!? That's dumb!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 08:27 AM
0

No. Read more blackdragon
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:48 PM
2

Blackdragonblog.com
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:44 PM
1

I don't want to commit to one woman at a time, because I find it against my nature and boring, inauthentic. In a society like today, one doesn't need to go through hoops to get sex or companionship. I don't think the choice for the society is to be either promiscuous or sex restricted. I'm a proponent of do what you like as long as it doesn't hurt others. This way stable families will always be there, meanwhile people who do not wish to create a family don't have to go through hoops, shaming. I …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:13 PM
2

I wasn't saying to be single. Only not to get married. Do commit with a woman to kids
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 02:37 AM
3

Yes but commitment is commitment, marriage is marriage. No need to legally give her more power for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 02:37 AM
8

I am good with how society is. Promiscuity benefits me, as I do not believe in monogamy. I disagree with that casual sex is detrimental, casual how? It's a spectrum, not binary thing. I don't want to go back to times where when I have sex with someone I have to consider her for life. That's dumb and it will never come back simply because of contraceptive technologies. They aren't going away, and anyone thinking they can roll back in time is serving themselves an illusion.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 02:40 PM
3

If you come back to America/western world with her, she'll become American woman. So this doesn't change anything.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 02:34 PM
-4

Honestly I don't get why are those people hung up on getting married. You don't need to get married to have kids. It doesn't change shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 02:33 PM
8

Why do you care? If he's attracted, more power (diversity) to him, he's got more choices and you do as well.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:22 PM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:13 PM
1

Russell Brand. Feminine man staying alpha.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:02 PM
0

Wat is ur point
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:37 AM
6

Well put
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:06 AM
1

You're overreacting. Be consistently inconsistent with texts.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:22 AM
1

I disagree on not answering immediately. Instead, be consistently inconsistent (that's from Pook IIRC) . Sometimes answer immediately, sometimes wait, sometimes not answer. It is better coz when you do answer ASAP the girl is so happy that you did, and also cannot argument on you that you ignore her on purpose (coz sometimes you do answer fast).
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:21 AM
6

Very well put. All of it. Please do post here on ask. People need more responses like yours. I've got used to downvotes
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:05 AM
2

Blackdragon has and his techniques work for me as well, so you should look up his blog.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:55 AM
21

Dude I don't think the fact that you've been putting up with her silent treatments for years having no real response for them and letting her have control of the relationship through these treatments says good of your LTR game. Silent treatment is a form of drama and you're sucking it up like a beta. You shouldn't tolerate that Are you living with her?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:52 AM
1

Yes but when you're in a LTR the emotional investment will make the sex you don't want in animalistic sense good. I don't live with my girl and we meet couple times a week. I maybe want sex twice a week. But when I meet her and we're at it either she or I can't stop ourselves. One can become aroused from the sole fact another is aroused. IMO OPs girlfriend isn't as invested and attracted. I can "convince" my GF and myself to have sex by stroking the right spots enough times
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:46 AM
1

Just a note. Having more feminine traits or being more feminine doesn't equal being beta. You can be a feminine guy and still be alpha. For famous example look up Russell Brandt
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:39 AM
0

Untrue. It's RP. It's about abundance and IDGAF. One note though is that you need to already have some kind of value.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:46 PM
1

Try being attractive physically and have a Mission that is creativity-based. It works. If creativity is not your thing though, you won't be able to fake it. Either way, get to know a creative musician or someone like that, for whom his art is the most important. IME these guys don't even need to be popular musicians, yet they need little game.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:30 PM
16

To each of his own. People here treat men like one size fits them all. My cock goes limp with a stupid woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:21 PM
1

How do you guys lift everyday? I get fatigued and overtrain quickly. What's the benefit of that?
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:09 PM
3

Shitty responses IMO. No dude, you should focus on learning the skills to be able to pick up a woman so you can have sex with her. You should learn how to get sex.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 01:44 PM
3

if you're a loser, it's because you are choosing every single day to be a loser rather than choosing to take actions that will take your forward wear a nice watch Great, now I'm a loser coz I don't wear a watch. Thanks bud
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:00 AM
0

Care to explain your point?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 07:00 PM
2

Where exactly do you choke? I think there are some safety rules.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 06:54 PM
1

You are correct. However I wouldn't say RP isn't for everyone. But definitely not everyone can become a Chad. Or should, for that matter. Take me for example. By RP standards I'm gay, because if I don't find a woman's personality attractive, I'm done for. I'm not attracted to her sexually, even if she is attractive to me physically. My interest is close to zero and I can't force myself to want her. It just doesn't work. Moreover, I'm somewhat emotional guy. ENFP MBTI type. If you wanna know what…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:44 AM
2

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2017/10/30/tells-shes-pregnant/ This and nothing else
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:22 AM
0

At least two pics of your face smiling differently on each photo or otherwise this is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:20 AM
3

I can't upvote this enough to emphasize how true this is, even in other areas of life.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:19 AM
1

First you should leave porn as to what arouses you and find out in real life. Do you find yourself submissive in the relationship as well, or just sex?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:03 AM
3

In my opinion military service is pretty stupid. Getting ordered around and perhaps sacrificing yourself in an artificially created war that does not matter is dumb. Not to mention the sacrifice you're doing is blue pill as it gets
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:31 PM
1

Hey man, you can also look in someone's eyes just because he's a human being. No need to assert dominance every second of your life lol
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:44 PM
1

Is it me or is the creatine getting to me? lol
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:42 PM
102

Frequently imagine her sucking another mans dick. I know it sounds brutal but its good way to obliterate the idea that shes "yours". Obviously you dont want her cheating on you but if she does.... no surprise. Its happened since the beginning of time. It'll be much easier to cut her off if you keep this in the back of your mind. Shes sucked dick before you, she will suck dick after you. Just enjoy while shes on yours. What the fuck. Way to live in constant fear and jealously. Well fucking played…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:48 PM
17

That's a fact you can observe, not philosophy. Tell me, if you deeply understand something, you can pinpoint every single reason behind its behaviour, you understand everything about it, can you hate it? You understand its motives and thus you can relate to them, can you hate it for its motives if you understand that being in its position you would do the same? I don't hate the birds for shitting on my car. They're birds, they don't understand cars. They just sit on the tree and shit right down.…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:45 PM
2

I can't imagine how someone would rather raise a kid shitty way than not have a kid, just because he wants a kid. That's egoistic as fuck. Myself I' won't have a kid if I can't give him the absolute best - my time, custom home schooling, good environment. I've already
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:41 PM
4

How would you suggest I meet an INTJ. I am fairly convinced those girls most likely want to end up in fields like architecture, maths, physics, pharmacology, research. I wouldn't say they're more geeky, but they're less interested in all these womanly stuff. what would you say to the men who will say that you are too confident in the perfection you've found? Has your relationship conducted itself in this manner for many years? The relationship is 4,5 years old, so I'd say it is something. She al…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:37 PM
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Yep. Don't be most people. Don't work two full time jobs. I don't believe you can raise your kid well by throwing him into school and daycare. Why pay for those things? Work less, spend more time with the kid. Problem solved
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:11 PM
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There is no hate in true understanding.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:48 PM
0

You shouldn't put the kids in the daycare in the first place if you want to raise them well. You should be raising them yourself
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:34 PM
-2

Yeah, coz men don't have feelings. Gtfo
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:30 PM
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I believe AWALT as a spectrum. A hard example of almost NAWALT would be my GF. She's close to zero drama. She never tries to change me. Never cheated and has a hard time convincing herself to be looking for someone else. In the context of TRP, she is contrary to what you've experienced with women - them wanting to change you and seeing your imperfections as something that bothers their soul. I've had exactly opposite experience with her as she supports me in a way that a male friend would. On th…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 11:36 AM
1

Have you read the book? There's a whole step by step instruction on how you should be talking, what to talk about, when to say what and et cetera. It's not a conversation anymore, it's a script you're playing, you're not connecting with a human being anymore. And frankly, I think now Roosh, those few years later, would agree.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:33 AM
1

You should read The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/12/17 01:35 PM
2

Roosh is a cool guy in some areas, but I'm not into his Day Bang at all. Tricks and playing someone you're not. It's a really sad way to deal with women.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:41 PM
2

At the same time, you may not be lying. Good
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:30 PM
3

What usually happens and after how long have you started feeling better ? This depends on the individual. Because the individual is the one who helps himself. The individual is the one who does all the work. The therapist is there just to guide the individual and ask him the right questions. Maybe it's the cold weather, I always feel better when I see the sunshine. Sure I get you. During fall-winter I am a depressed fuck and my mood change like average woman's mind.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:51 AM
5

Rule #0 of TRP should be outcome independence. Why give a fuck about what other people do with their own lives? Teach and lead by example. /u/nyuuji/ , what I do is spend the least possible time with those people. I find more valuable friends, who think for themselves, question what they believe or are at least susceptible to my instilling doubt skill. That's it.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:09 AM
2

But it's just as funny
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:11 PM
7

I've got into an LTR with a low self-esteem girl. Ofc it's possible
/r/askTRP25/12/17 05:55 PM
4

Haters of the book who haven't read it hate on vulnerability concept. Meanwhile if one actually reads the fucking book he notices it's all about outcome independence.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:20 PM
12

Since I began lift she wants to have sex everyday, and if not sex, suck the dick. Can confirm
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:18 PM
0

He still doesn't own her
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:17 PM
2

I don't find anything wrong with this if that's what you want to do. But I think if you were to invest so much in it, might as well lift, bro. I used to be 60kg a couple months ago (at 186cm), right now I'm 72kg. While in fact I don't agree with putting women first (quoting BD's woman's "I am attracted to a man with a spark in his eyes... But I don't wanna be that spark."), I know that you won't take the advice to put women a little further down the priority list. So, you might as well go lift.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:16 PM
1

Why do you need 2g of protein per lb in the first place? Check your facts: https://www.liftlearngrow.com/blog-page/how-much-protein-do-you-need
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:19 AM
2

My advice to you - stop trying so hard to get girls. Let go of PUA, Its very needy, creepy, uncool, and only exists to make money off of desperate guys. I find this advice pointless. Obviously he's obssessed with girls. It's predictable that he'll become frustrated by his lack of success compared to yours, in which you've put close to zero effort, and that will, if anything, push him further to get girls... In one way or another.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:16 AM
1

if she can tell that you have some sort of agenda behind approaching as opposed to just for the sake of making conversation you've already lost What about making it obvious (keep intentions implied) but continue the convo indirectly
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:11 AM
2

I don't understand how that in his eyes is a bad thing. My values are women enjoy sex as much as I do. Therefore where's the problem?
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:06 AM
-2

HIS niece His niece? He doesn't own her. She has her own body and own brains.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:05 AM
1

She won't tell either haha
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:41 PM
2

Good tip on not getting into negging too deep. It backfires more often than not. It really is an advanced technique
/r/askTRP24/12/17 12:22 PM
6

Because they are taught that they should be attracted to something else, that standard being set by the society. Being attracted to what you describe makes them a slut in the eyes of the society and the judgemental, therefore they play the role that they are given. Men do it too, but in different scenarios.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 11:25 AM
5

Don't listen to other guys, they'd argue that licking woman's pussy is beta. What you do in your bedroom doesn't matter shit. In the relationship you're the man, during sex do whatever you want coz in sex normal rules don't apply. Though "is into BDSM" doesn't mean shit. Does it mean the relationship is BDSM? or just sex? Obviously you don't want to submit outside of sex. Unless that's your kink, but then what are you doing here. If you are willing to enjoy BDSM with her sex-wise, just tell her …
/r/askTRP24/12/17 11:19 AM
2

Thanks for your taking your time to explain your points. Yeah, I agree the guys must be mega surprised. It's something I've never experienced with my LTR. My mom was a drama queen NASA rocket though. I'm glad I moved out. Now if she did drama, I'd know what to do - soft next. Right now I am in a LTR, though the girl is low self-esteem. I think this changes a lot. I had quite a few heavy frame fuckups during over 4 year relationship yet every time I got back up from it, she's back to treating me …
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:25 AM
1

I appreciate your answer, thank you. Not many people care to elaborate on these
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:42 AM
1

but there is such an abundance of other guys that why should she stick around? Because other guys will have their own set of weaknesses
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:31 AM
3

This is a part of TRP I kinda disagree with. Coz I don't see how men don't say "I love you" and mean it right now. How else the would he mean it? I've also seen many men "fall out of love", for whatever reason. Does it make them less loyal? Women, generally, want to find the best-suited partner to fulfill their needs. Same do men. And this sub is proof of that. Now before people drop the "this is a men sexual strategy oriented sub" hammer, those beliefs are often said about a difference in men a…
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:27 AM
1

upcommented for visibility.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:23 AM
1

she sees that you are nonjudgemental How would you do that
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:20 AM
1

metabolizing lmao you should see a red pilled doctor hahahahah
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:19 AM
0

She's FWB so no
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:53 AM
4

What kind of friendship is it if you don't want to hear the truth? I'd rather have a friend who told me his bitter opinion rather than hide it from me and 2 years later I hear "yeah man, I was sure it won't work, but I didn't tell you coz X". Fuck that shit
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:32 AM
3

where the fuck do you get these examples from. A self help self-proclaimed guru?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:29 AM
7

I rarely see such authenticity. As a man I agree 100% men "take sex from women" Just wanted to quote that for visibility. This is exactly the dynamic in my relationship and it's the dynamic I want in any future possible romantic relationship. It's the way it's meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 04:01 AM
6

My grandpa is 112 and he has no trouble pulling 9s and 10s out of the club
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:28 AM
0

What you do during sex is only a couple's bussiness. It has nothing to do with holding frame or being a pussy in the relationship
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:27 AM
1

why are you living with her in the first place
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:17 PM
1

Yup thanks to him I can read all his dicksuckers' funny replies
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:22 AM
1

I didn't say anything about an exclusive relationship. I said relationship. How do you define serious? Stay with the spouse for the rest of your life, therefore you're screening for someone like that?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 01:40 AM
1

I think it's a pointless speculation, because noone is going to examine steroids thoroughly because they're illegal. Also, if your point was true, everybody would be eating healthy, because healthy food is healthy (and it's proven). And nobody would drink alcohol, because it's unhealthy. You get my point. Healthy/safe is also relative. Don't take me too seriously though, I'm arguing for the sake of the argument. It's not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 01:40 AM
1

Sorry dude, but there is nothing about inequality. Power dynamic does not mean the same thing as value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 11:22 PM
1

If it's safe then every dude under the sun would be on gear... No, it's a stupid argument. Not every dude will go on gear because not every dude wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 11:16 PM
1

Ex-PUA woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 11:09 PM
1

I am literally with mine 24/7. We run a business from home, and pretty much do everything home, alone. We live in the middle of nowhere -- it's just him, me, the cat, and the baby. I guess I live a Disney life. Your solipsism is striking. You just cannot fathom how someone can live his relationships differently than you are doing. This I live with my partner 24/7 and any else kinds of relationships are 100% casual and I never care for those people, therefore it is impossible for anyone to have a…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 10:30 PM
1

You fail to see that there are shades inbetween FwB and relationship you described. Just because you're not able to invest in somebody whom you're not expecting to be with whole life (coz that's how I understand your post, that investing in anybody who you're not "serious 4life" with, whatever that means, is never worth it) doesn't mean other people cannot. You seem to put it in black and white, either you don't give a shit or you commit 100%. There's no middle ground based on boundaries that on…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 08:49 PM
1

I'd argue it's pretty close though. I agree on the kid Point is, most people don't need a girlfriend, or don't want a girlfriend, but they're programmed by society to think that they do want a spouse. I was disappointed. Not with the girl, she's awesome, but with the fact that I've found myself in deep in a situation that wasn't fully congruent with me. Oh, and last but not least. Spending huge amounts of time with a girlfriend, the younger you are, most men are going to be extremely vurnerable …
/r/askTRP09/12/17 07:49 PM
1

emotional connection and romance You can have these casually as well
/r/askTRP09/12/17 03:27 PM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 03:24 PM
-1

oh waow kiss close
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:15 PM
2

Honestly, the way you break up may not matter at all depending on the context
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:10 AM
1

Question is, do you want this kind of women in your life?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:31 AM
4

The way I see it there's two types of passionate sex: making love or having sex. Why not mix both? And I don't see how one "type" of sex would lead to more lonelyness than another rest is on point
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:55 AM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:08 AM
4

It's a way of rejection.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:52 AM
1

I don't feel like fighting all the time. When I go to a girl I'm done being warrior
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:22 PM
2

Touch her and escalate. At your own pace, by the way
/r/askTRP29/09/17 12:59 PM
2

That's not the solution. The solution is not to lie and pretend you like something when you don't. When you're not authentic and true to yourself it is the ultimate beta because you value other people liking you more than yourself
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:20 AM
8

None. Ironically, this attitude will get you quality women and quality friends, because both will be polarized by you. Why the fuck bother with people who don't value and respect you for what you do, for who you are? Does that makes you happy?
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:21 AM
3

Prague is Czech Republic and Czech Republic is Prague. I don't think other cities are worth living in, Prague is beautiful. Highly recommended
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 11:20 AM
4

It's a very liberal country dude. As opposed to op, I am looking to actually MOVE there
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 11:13 AM
20

Yet most of the people here will advocate that alcohol's okay.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 09:30 AM
1

This is awesome. Though, were your girls more social /extroverted kind?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 02:31 PM
1

What interest is created? What do you mean by women realising men are competition? I don't get your post. Would you elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 10:05 AM
3

OP, Id turn this around and say something narc, like "yeah, I'm happy to be handsome" (and not have such problems)
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:08 AM
1

Isn't compliment/comforting/validating the way you should treat comfort tests, and you clearly said it's a comfort test?
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:06 AM
2

Yeah. Don't double standard on this. People use "that's in my nature" often as an excuse for shitty behaviour or having no responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:35 PM
1

Nah. How I understand it is no communication would lead to divorce eventually. Who wouldn't divorce? Should marriage be something you put up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 06:05 AM
1

Superficial but works
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:52 PM
1

Nope. You're taking it out of your ass. Perhaps he just wanted regular sex that he does not have to work for. Which is more likely since they had just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:51 PM
1

I don't know what you're talking about. It's obvious I would not stay with a person who refuses to talk with me about something that is of importance of me. If I am to be sexually exclusive to a person, who in turn refuses to have sex with me and communicate about it. That's not a good deal for me, that's a terrible deal. The topic was about partner refusing to communicate, that means a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:25 PM
1

They are judged in the sense that being boring as a man brings you way more consequences than being boring as a woman. There's somebody who will enjoy a woman despite her being boring (be it her beauty or sex). If you're a boring man you're fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 03:52 PM
1

I think "Interesting" is a word that cannot be used to ultimately set label on a person. Yes, there are more and less interesting people to me. Those more interesting for me are usually good discussers. Have something to say, and can listen. What I mean though. I know a lot of people who are interesting to me only during a period of time. Greatest example can be a woman you're interested in for sex. However after sex you may be not as interested in her as you were... Thus interest as a spectrum.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 03:49 PM
1

Dunno man. Often NOT. Example: my dumbass buddies from high-school. Nothing but soccer, memes and "funny" how I got high/drunk stories. Oh well, maybe sometimes something about cars but I am not interested in that. What I mean is that they do nothing wrong. Our interests just do not match. I can meet such people once in 6 months and that's more than enough for me. Same with women. Many do not have anything interesting for me. I've learned to try push the flow into my interests. People usually re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 03:34 PM
1

If you're right (this isn't so clear to me) then OP needs to 1. Stop fucking lying to his women 2. Get his shit together and go to BD's blog, as OP is clearly interested and okay with polygamy
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:28 PM
1

Actually he'd be saying that no communication would mean no interest in getting to know the issue. No communication is the divorce threat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 03:21 PM
1

Yep. Nothing about cheating there. Just plain polygamy/polyamory. That's not cheating
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:09 PM
2

He never said he's cheating
/r/askTRP03/09/17 08:02 PM
5

This. A serious issue for newcomers on this sub that isn't talked about or even mentioned... EVER. I've almost Ramboed and trashed my relationship because of this. I wish this was a sidebar & sticky post really. Poor people and there are more like the Op but we never hear from them coz they don't write "I am paranoid", they just come here after the facts and write nothing about how reading those insecurity-instilling faggots has influenced their subconscious behaviour because they do not realise…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:06 PM
1

I've been on nofap before I've fallen ill. I do tap once in a while because I don't think it's bad, but it's like once in a few months. Funnily enough I do not get the same degree of symptoms when I fap compared to when I have sex. I sometimes barely feel any symptoms if I fap, whereas with sex it's definitely noticeable, up to very bad. Because of that, I am absolutely sure that sex is significantly different from masturbation and noone can prove me otherwise. It is definitely not just biologic…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:21 AM
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What doesn't make sense here? What I'm saying is that I'd rather find the cause of an illness and fix it at its root rather than fix symptoms. Which is what you've said as well so I don't know where your confusion is coming from. You can have a headache and take an aspirin, that's fixing symptoms. Or you can figure out you haven't been drinking enough fluids and fix the root cause. Obviously the latter is preferred, but not always can you wait for it, or is it even doable, depending on your illn…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:14 AM
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I am not surprised he tries to avoid TRT. If I were to choose between finding the real cause of my issues instead of fixing the symptoms, I'd choose to do the former. TRT at 22 means you are not fighting the cause, you're fighting the symptom. Low T is not a cause, it's a symptom of something else going on WRONG in your body. I had 245ng/dL and it took me 3 months before I convinced myself to fuck it and go for TRT anyway. My reasoning was, OP, that I have a very rare disease (Post Orgasmic Illn…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:25 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:17 AM
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I wouldn't have hopes, because of the cheating
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 11:15 AM
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Well in my opinion if you settled down when you didn't want to that'd just lead to problems down the road, regret and whatnot. I have similar situation right now. I am 22 and my LTR girl is serious. However I cannot live in with a woman as it just makes me feel bad after a while. Plus I don't feel like being monogamous really. So there it is, a girl that sacrificed most of her life for me and I can't take it further because I want a different lifestyle than she does (she wants living in together…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 11:14 AM
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I have a problem in that I read very very slow, I keep having to go back to re-read the sentence or paragraph or page before
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:46 PM
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I strongly disagree on not reading fiction books. Check out some Dune by Frank Herbert, or Stanisław Lee's books, or even The Witcher. People disqualify fiction as if everything was Harry Potter class, but it isn't. The sci-fi/fantasy books that are truly worth reading are full of deep insights on life, social constructs, philosophy, even meta physics (think Dune especially). And if you're like me, you get really bored with reading mostly theoretical books. If they're not well written it feels w…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:41 PM
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Did you read the link?
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:15 PM
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I rarely "argue" (raise voices?never) with my LTR. A few times in 4 years, she's really calm. But the last time I told her I felt jealous about her (just FELT. Ive never done anything in my actions towards that, like stupid text checking or smth) which was couple months ago. Couple weeks later she was saying she wants to quit the relationship because she can't be with someone who's jealous. And that's one of the smarter, more self-aware women. Hamster full spin.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:43 AM
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I love making food for others but I'd never make food for a group of people I don't know alone. I'd invite either someone I know from the group or, better, someone I don't know from the new group. Do that and there are benefits: you get to know somebody from the group and you don't put yourself in a situation where you get disrespected. Now if you do get disrespected it's two of you, it's very unlikely
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:33 AM
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As much as I wish I didn't have to agree on this, after 4 years of LTR I have to. My girl handled way more opening ups than she should have. I keep my tongue in check now. However I think some degree of opening up is needed. Just not that much of feelings. As you say, information. Otherwise a longer term girl may start to feel dishonesty from you. As for dishonesty, I am very against lying to women or anyone, it makes me feel like a fraud. And there is nothing more shitty than for a man to feel …
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:23 AM
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Offensive to who? They talked to each other, not in vicinity of a cancer patient.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:19 AM
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Holy fuck, what the hell?... Hey, at least Ema is somewhat aware of her hamster.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:08 AM
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Yea. How the fuck is this guy an "endorsed contributor"
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:58 PM
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You would love Jiddu Krishnamurti'teaching. You're on point with your love statement.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 09:12 AM
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Testosterone. I was taking very basic singing lessons during my recent academic year. At the end of it, I also started TRT at high dosage of 200mg weekly. Since then I am often randomly fooling around with my voice, exercising it and trying to sing lower and deeper and it works. And it's just the beginning. I've seen first effects after 2 months of doing this non-religiously. I knew it could deepen my voice but I did not expect it. Just thought it could be fun to mess around with. Lately I am tr…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 12:17 PM
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