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-12

Honestly, if you did this to me, I would end up taking your girl
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:34 PM
2

Instagram is like your CV in dating and socializing nowadays.
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:03 PM
0

Ultimately, cold approaching itself, as in walking up to a stranger… CAN and SHOULD be done in a skillful & seductive way. You should be calibrated, grounded, smile with good body language, lock eyes, open the conversation and pause for her to feel your presence. Then starts your ”seduction” phase lol. No, it starts the immediate moment she sees you.
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:55 PM
6

Lol. Most of my approaches are smooth and the girls love it. Not sure what the hell are you talking about. And I approach a lot.
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:14 AM
4

What crap are you talking about? How the hell do you get to the ”seduction” part, unless you cold approach?????? Especially cold approach in a smooth, seductive way.
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:40 AM
11

What a load of shit. Cold approach is by far the most efficient if you are limited by time and dont have time to build and maintain a social circle. You are just bad at it. Cold approaching for me works like a charm.
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:40 AM
1

Nightgame is fresking fun, what are you talking about? Just let loose and socialize with people. You can do this sober.
/r/seduction12/05/24 08:17 AM
0

Dont date when depressed snd overly miserable. Extremely unattractive.
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:02 AM
2

Real. Life. Approaches.
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:00 AM
2

No. I see a girl, I go in.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:59 AM
2

Bullshit. You anyways build social circle by cold approaching.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:57 AM
1

Socialize with everyone
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:54 AM
1

Flirt
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:50 AM
1

When I find that special girl which is very rare.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:49 AM
0

Flirting for me.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:48 AM
3

Dont rely on this strategy
/r/seduction27/04/24 11:44 AM
1

I live in Helsinki, we can go out together. Let me dm you
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:30 AM
1

Walk upto her, pull out my nipples and shake them. Then ask her if she wants to suck on it
/r/seduction24/04/24 04:05 PM
4

Go up to a girl and ask her for sex right away. Her strong reaction is a result of btch shield. Girls definitely give you shit (mostly unconsciously) to see if you are the man, when they are not quite sure. All that being said, at this point in my journey, these things doesnt really even cross my mind in my game. Im mostly just fooling around and in a state of self-amusement and even if the girl shit tests me, I find it amusing. This + a bit of social intelligence and you wont be making her feel…
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:16 PM
2

I have a very feminine side in me and I believe it helps me attract girls even more 😉
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:12 PM
3

Its fine if it fits your personality. I prefer something more spicy right away to spice it up and get her hooked faster.
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:28 PM
-1

Clubs are the best books.
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:27 PM
3

Flirt. Flirt. Flirt. And dont get into the friendzone in the first place.
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:26 PM
2

Go upto a girl and say hi, what’s up? And banter. Wish them a good day / night at the end. Repeat this for 100 times to begin with. Then you can worry about techniques and shit
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:48 PM
3

I think you are in the wrong subreddit for this.
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:53 PM
1

Be more of a man.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:37 PM
1

Yes of course.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:36 PM
1

Find someone who doesnt have this bad insecurity problems
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:36 PM
1

Nice
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:35 PM
1

As you wouldnt like if ur gf and some guy did this to you - dont do it yourself.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:34 PM
15

You still need to cold approach them to invite to your party. You need to be decently charismatic to close them in your party. You need to have decent social skills to do 1. & 2.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:34 PM
1

React to her story.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:32 PM
12

Stop reading and go out there and talk with people.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:31 PM
1

No. This scarcity thinking is creepy.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:30 PM
3

Improve your personality.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:29 PM
1

Come to Finland, I’ll take you out
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:13 PM
3

Not true. Most women who are single are down for ONS if you do things right, but they arent all outright looking for ONSs or a relationship.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:28 AM
3

You need to get into Sales to get your shit together first.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:27 AM
8

Means you are the shit. Even if you see not externally. As long as you internally believe it.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:22 AM
48

Alone. Not only for the obvious reasons but also for the fact that it grows you 100X more as a person. You learn the skill to be able to make friends pretty much anywhere you go to. —— You also have false beliefs. Most people dont give a fuck if you are out alone. As long as you own it. The most common response I get is respect for going out alone. And I’ve done it 300 times.
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:27 AM
8

Going out into the real field and doing the real shit improved my game.
/r/seduction18/04/24 01:39 AM
1

Why dont you show me proof that you are not a moron first? So far I have seen none. You are unnecessarily obsessed with me. Let it go.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:58 PM
1

Sounds like lack of interest. And / or you are doing something really awful in-between.
/r/seduction17/04/24 11:36 AM
1

Self-amusement is key.
/r/seduction17/04/24 09:49 AM
1

Then find one who does
/r/seduction17/04/24 09:48 AM
13

Wtf
/r/seduction17/04/24 09:41 AM
1

Start going out regularly to meet new women.
/r/seduction17/04/24 12:24 AM
2

Very good.
/r/seduction17/04/24 12:23 AM
1

Meet them in real life to leave a better impression.
/r/seduction17/04/24 12:23 AM
0

Yes, do it now.
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:57 PM
3

”Heyy, what’s up?”
/r/seduction16/04/24 04:55 PM
10

Im just speaking generally. You dont literally need to keep count. But just approach actively women for a year. Most issues will fix itself.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:19 PM
1

Of course I would symphatise with women in that case too if they are that fucked up internally due to society and their environment. Your conclusion-jumping is bizarre. Looks like you are projecting yourself onto me.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:18 PM
5

Get your finances taken care of first and then move.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:16 PM
3

Who knows. Stop talking to her and focus on better girls
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:14 PM
1

Talk to the girls there
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:35 AM
-1

Inner game
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:35 AM
6

Asking for advice is definitely needed to save enormous amount of time.
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:34 AM
1

Like I said, google Ikigai. There is also a book written about it.
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:31 AM
1

”Helloo, you look very lovely!”
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:41 AM
7

Of course life is miserable when you base your whole life on superficial stuff. Take a break for yourself and go search for a deeper purpose. Ikigai is a good place to start.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:41 AM
68

The ultimate secret is that you approach 500 women. Then most of the issues will fix itself.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:38 AM
2

What are you on about? You seem disturbingly obsessed with me.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:35 AM
0

Because it signals everything about you
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:34 AM
1

Go there to socialize and meet people in general.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:31 PM
2

It’s all about the root cause.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:30 PM
1

Too many. Girls gives all sorts of shit to weed out all the weak wimps. It’s your job to keep frame and remain ungrounded.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:28 PM
1

Common sense
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:27 PM
0

Especially if you are attractive, you should use that to your advantage and approach.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:26 PM
3

Yes of course. But how miserable must one be psychologically to go around stabbing innocent people? He probably lived in Hell on Earth.
/r/seduction15/04/24 04:26 PM
1

Very good.
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:16 AM
2

Theres a lot of things you can do to make her more comfortable and relaxed.
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:15 AM
1

If she is toxic, clearly more cons than pros, drop her.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:48 AM
1

Just do it.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:48 AM
1

Of course it works there.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:47 AM
2

The best guide is talking to 500 women.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:47 AM
1

What is the problem? Just start approaching.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:46 AM
2

Persistent in a high value way is key. Not just with girls but in life.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:46 AM
2

Yes. Optimize your IG.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:45 AM
1

Just approach. You’re going to have to do it sooner or later. The sooner, the better. Start slow. If its really bad, you can talk to ugly people, guys, grannys
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:45 AM
4

Probably was too platonic.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:44 AM
1

Good. But dont rely on this strategy.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:43 AM
1

Good. Just approach the girl.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:42 AM
1

Clubs.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:42 AM
1

You are overthinking. Just enjoy her company and talk to other girls.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:42 AM
2

Yes, you could have gone for the number if there was any flirting going on.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:41 AM
5

Like how it happens everywhere else as well.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:40 AM
10

Its a terrible state currently for men in our society.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:39 AM
6

He should go to to therapy.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:39 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:38 AM
1

You never know. Talk to more girls. Thats always the solution.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:38 AM
3

Eckhart Tolle - The Power of Now Also The New Earth from him.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:20 AM
6

Befriend all, especially the leader of the group
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:16 AM
3

Fuck them. Focus on living your life.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:31 AM
2

So what? I dont have wings either and ive gone out 300 times.
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:09 PM
1

Where do you live?
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:51 PM
0

Going out and actually talking to girls is how you fix this.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:41 PM
1

Depends on how embarassed you were about it vs how much you owned it.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:36 PM
2

No. It’s probably the best time, especially if you have your finances taken care of.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:34 PM
9

You are overthinking this. What you should have done is take charge. Confidently. The moment her friend came there, you should have been ”ohh is this your friend?” ”Yes” ”Lovely, nice to meet you. What’s your name?” With a smile. Handshake. Tell your name. And go from there. ”I saw your friend, and she was adorable, I had to come say hi”. With a smirk. Blablaa And there transition to bantering, small-talking, flirting etc. Key is positive, playful, friendly energy all throughout the convo. Espec…
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:32 PM
3

Lol at your ego. Don’t improve / strenghten your ego. Instead, let it go.
/r/seduction12/04/24 04:26 PM
2

Get in the same position so many times that it starts becoming normal
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:06 PM
1

Pull your dick out and invite her to suck it
/r/seduction12/04/24 12:29 PM
1

Shake ur tits and invite her to suck on your nipples
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:48 AM
8

Just ask them out properly and save time from uninterested girls.
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:22 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction11/04/24 11:15 AM
3

Yes, imagine talking to a really fat, ugly girl.
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:44 AM
1

Like I said, meet new women.
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:43 AM
1

You have oneitis. Google it.
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:37 AM
0

Well, you are coming accross very wrong to us. Cant please everyone.
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:36 AM
6

More experience. Google how to properly satisfy a woman.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:58 PM
3

Dont apologize for things you didnt do.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:53 PM
17

”Is there a way to learn how to do it without actually doing it?” No.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:50 PM
13

There are plenty. Open your eyes.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:46 PM
18

Talk to more girls. You’re too much in scarcity.
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:54 PM
1

Take you for example. How do you behave in front of a hot babe 10? And how do you behave in front of a fat ugly girl from a third world country? What is the primary reason for the difference in behaviour?
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:52 PM
1

Unfortunately that’s the level of our humankind’s psychological and moral development. This is why people resort to things like ghosting. They can’t face their own bullshit.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:58 PM
8

I skimmed through. Some good stuff like coffee date but most stuff probably bunch of shit, overthinking and ”butthurt-selfishness”. If you want to pull the girl from the date home, dont do quick dates. But yes, typically it’s good to go for low effort and investment type of first dates like coffee / ice cream / walk.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:46 PM
6

Just 80% of male population.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:03 PM
31

A ”nice guy finish last” type of nice guy is definitely not authentic. He is full of shit in his niceness in order to get pussy. Dont fool yourself.
/r/seduction10/04/24 06:57 PM
94

Learn to be more authentic and honest. Both with yourself and others. If you take authenticity and honesty seriously, there is no way you can behave like a wimp.
/r/seduction10/04/24 06:09 PM
2

This sounds like the easiest thing ever. How to proceed? Dont do anything weird. That’s all.
/r/seduction10/04/24 05:58 PM
13

Tease and flirt
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:20 PM
3

Too many damn redflags.
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:19 PM
18

If you are young, you are probably very bad in bed.
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:19 PM
1

Dont hit on the friends.
/r/seduction10/04/24 03:38 PM
1

Practice it. You can look yourself in the eye through a mirror. Also, you can go online and look up hot chicks who gives the deadly model stare
/r/seduction10/04/24 11:59 AM
3

If you are complete beginner, go to the clubs. Better for beginners.
/r/seduction10/04/24 11:58 AM
3

Go out there and meet other women.
/r/seduction10/04/24 11:48 AM
3

You are building up too much pressure for yourself that you’re likely to fail
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:50 AM
1

Talk to more girls. You are thinking too highly of yourself now. It will never be anywhere close to 100% success rate.
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:49 AM
6

Two rules to texting: Keep it playful Aim towards setting up a date
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:48 AM
4

Twerk ur ass and invite her to grind on you
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:46 AM
19

Making a list like this
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:28 AM
1

You are missing the point.
/r/seduction10/04/24 08:21 AM
5

Yes. Seduction is about doing the fundamentals right in the beginning so that later it is a smooth sailing - rather than an uphill battle.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:52 PM
1

Imagine how you would text these girls if you had a bunch of HB9s you were already dating.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:49 PM
1

Dont do rocket science when attracting women. That’s what you dont get. A robot cannot be charming like a true Don Juan can.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:48 PM
11

You sound very eager in your texting.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:47 PM
6

You are overthinking this.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:44 PM
42

Just meet more women. Learn the skill. Have abundance and you naturally won’t put them on pedestal.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:43 PM
1

Pull her like you would pull any other girl. Introverts can be some of the wildest girls in bed. Their repressed extroverted side can come out then.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:43 PM
4

You are overthinking it. Just go ahead and ask her out.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:42 PM
3

You are overthinking this. If she doesnt re-engage later, you can do it. It’s still very good.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:41 PM
248

Bro code definitely is valid in 2024 wtf. It’s called being a decent human being and it’s gonna be valid for as long as human beings exist.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:40 PM
8

Depends on what you said to them before they left you on delivered. Most likely they lost interest.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:39 PM
2

Flirting is not a dry, logical kinda thing. It’s the very opposite of it. A robot will just never be as emotionally stimulating to a woman as a physical man, ever. Perhaps a cyborg will.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:35 PM
2

Well, if you have 5 HB10s wanting to suck your dick, then an 8 comes along and wants to suck your dick as well, how would you behave towards the 8? Quite nonchalantly I would assume.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:33 PM
0

Hence the word ’perhaps’.
/r/seduction09/04/24 03:57 PM
2

Some women you just never know. Perhaps with this women she was attracted to you but in the convo you came across a bit too weak / off so she was mixed about you.
/r/seduction09/04/24 03:34 PM
2

Short guy here as well, and I run laps around my tall friends.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:14 PM
8

Confidence = stop chasing for anyone’s approval and validation.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:14 PM
1

”Yes, call me daddy”
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:13 PM
1

With that wall of text without any paragraphs, my answer is yes without having read it.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:12 PM
2

Clubs.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:12 PM
2

Stop giving a fuck. What does it matter what others think of you
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:11 PM
14

A fucking machine is never going to flirt as well as a human being.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:09 PM
1

Meet new girls who are more interested.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:09 PM
1

So, what is the problem here?
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:32 PM
1

When you meet a new girl, be in a lover frame first and then transition to provider later on if you want to.
/r/seduction08/04/24 08:38 PM
26

Women as well as men, prefer to get with people who are above them in sexual value. Ignoring someone is typically a behaviour from someone who has more sexual value than the one being ignored. And this is what is being signaled.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:15 PM
1

Yes. Move on.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:13 PM
3

So what?
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:06 PM
0

All this crap is spiritual nonsense. If you have a random hot girl naked in front of you wanting to suck your dick, you aint gonna be thinking about all that nonsense frame shifting you are trying to bullshit yourself with. Here’s the real solution: approach so many hot girls that it starts becoming normal.
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:04 PM
2

Flirting and leading.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:57 PM
1

LOL. After you have approached 500 women in real life, then you can complain about it not working out.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:56 PM
14

Then it’s your inability to make it romantic for her.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:54 PM
19

Your personality probably sucks.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:27 PM
4

By going out there and socializing.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:26 PM
6

Dancing. Art.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:26 PM
5

By treating it all as one BIG JOKE.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:25 PM
1

You should be a man and talk to her then and there for 5-15 mins and then ask her out FACE TO FACE.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:24 PM
1

You answered your own question. You need to escalate and flirt more.
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:06 AM
2

She doesnt know anything about your personality and charisma, so she gets bored very fast. Also, texting is boring.
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:04 AM
13

Not normal. Seems like deliberately wanted your money.
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:03 AM
1

”Hi, you look very lovely” ”Hi, you look like a dragon!” Doesnt really matter, as long as you have good energy.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:51 AM
2

Lol. If it was that simple and easy, we wouldnt have hundreds of millions of guys struggling to get laid.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:50 AM
2

How often do you get friendzoned?
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:48 AM
3

Lack of masculine energy from your side.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:48 AM
1

Maybe just find women elsewhere for romantic purposes.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:47 AM
3

Yes, what were they?
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:46 AM
2

Weak numbers. Get to know more about them, share some cool stuff about you. Banter. Small-talk. Not rocket science. Ask for the number after 10-15 mins. Minimum 5.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:46 AM
2

What have you learned?
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:45 AM
28

As a man, you gotta lead the connection to where you want it to go.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:44 AM
4

No. Women like men with options. And men with options are not pushy, they’re quite nonchalant.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:44 AM
2

Make the conversation more about them. And dont do any weird shit
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:43 AM
3

Leave her. She deserves better.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:31 AM
4

If you dont want anything serious, move on.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:31 AM
1

You can escalate verbally too.
/r/seduction07/04/24 08:30 AM
4

Most girls who like you will give you signs, especially in the beginning - and wont overtly express it. This is why it’s called game.
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:18 PM
4

Yes. That’s why you proactively socialize instead of being passive.
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:48 PM
2

Tease her more.
/r/seduction26/02/24 06:55 AM
2

Sorry but you’re too much in scarcity. No technique or skill is going to help you.
/r/seduction17/02/24 09:27 AM
2

Try to be as social as possible throughout the whole day. Then it is much easier to transfer that to a specific case.
/r/seduction17/02/24 09:25 AM
13

Start with the basics. Next time you’re out, approach and be social with 10-20 people, whether guy or girl. From there you can start being more flirty.
/r/seduction17/02/24 09:23 AM
1

You can approach 20 girls per night in a club.
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:28 PM
1

”Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, what’s up?” Doesnt really matter.
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:59 PM
1

Is it hard for most kids to socialize? No. It comes naturally for them. We have learned all sorts of negative behaviour patterns blocking us from socializing and having fun.
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:39 PM
1

It’s over. Move on.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:48 AM
2

Because we have been programmed for decades in a way that makes it hard. This is not so much about learning more but more about unlearning.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:47 AM
3

If you want more, start behaving accordingly. If you don’t, don’t talk about it. Never bring it up.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:45 AM
6

Shake your tits.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:44 AM
1

Flirt more. Make it normal. I approach and flirt with 50 girls a week. It’s just a second nature at this point.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:43 AM
6

What is this? Just go talk to her.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:42 AM
1

By developing charisma, social skills and your personality.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:37 PM
58

Go out and socialize with people. This is the most cheap and efficient investment.
/r/seduction09/02/24 12:13 AM
3

Sounds like she lost interest during your last date. It may have been your social skills, personality and game. It may have been the fact that you didn’t take her to bed and so she got bored. It may have that she fucked someone else after your last date and got attached to him and so, lost interest in you. Whatever it is, you should just move on and meet new women.
/r/seduction09/02/24 12:08 AM
1

You are overthinking it. She gave a good response indicating interest. Not everyone always remembers to ask back even in real life, not to mention via texting. The way to “forget” is to meet more women.
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:40 AM
5

Yea but you need to have strong inner confidence and self-belief.
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:35 AM
6

You shouldnt text her daily nor frequently. Your next text should be playfully suggest and set up the next date.
/r/seduction05/02/24 04:12 PM
12

If emotional escalation doesn’t work. Then as your last option, you can just logically talk with her about it. Obviously don’t make it judgemental and don’t be mad. But just in a loving way ask her what’s stopping her from moving forward.
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:47 PM
2

There is def something called buying window.
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:39 PM
2

You can deal with it by putting the pressure on them. “Do you guys know each other?” “Ohh you don’t. Look, you seem really cool but we have a conversation going on here so give us a moment okay?” Now if they try anything to get in, they seem try hard. If they wait there passively and quietly, they seem try-hard.
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:35 PM
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I usually bring the girl back home within an hour. Doesn’t have to be longer than that.
/r/seduction05/02/24 09:19 AM
22

You are overthinking this. Tipsy women are everywhere when you go to the night life. It’s completely normal, even ideal to talk to them. Avoid drunk girls.
/r/seduction05/02/24 09:11 AM
16

There is not a single guy in the world who gets every single girl to like them.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:18 AM
1

The key is to start moving it to a date asap, but not as the first msg.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:16 AM
11

All that high value stuff doesnt help you if you don’t put yourself out there and meet these attractive women.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:15 AM
18

The problem comes when you start dating that rare gem. That one that’s super hot + personality is pretty much perfect & you connect with her very deeply. It becomes very hard to meet someone better.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:14 AM
5

Be social with almost anyone you possibly can. Much easier to talk to the girls with this momentum.
/r/seduction05/02/24 06:08 AM
3

Approach people and be social.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:15 PM
0

Because we are on a community where the goal is to develop our skills, rather than mental masturbate. Indirect approaches are fine, I never said to never use them. They can be used, mostly as a self-amusement thing, just like in your Mystery example. When you go indirect like ”whats a good coffee store?” And she replies ”that one” and she doesnt want to join you, then you pretty much lost her. Because if you stay afterwards, you come accross manipulative and with a huge agenda. When you go direc…
/r/seduction04/02/24 02:46 PM
2

To create sexual tension, all you need to do is stop talking and look her into the eye.
/r/seduction04/02/24 12:07 PM
-1

Hmm, I’m pretty sure the title said Best, rather than My best. But maybe I read it wrong. Now, when it comes to direct vs indirect approaches during the day. There is something called Smooth Direct as well. It just takes more skill to pull it off. Things like the eye contact, smile, pause, tone of voice, presence, confident body language are crucial. And when I say direct, I don’t mean that the first words out of your mouth have to be sexual. It can just be ”Hey, excuse me” and then you express …
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:58 AM
2

Welcome back. There are no secrets to it. Just put yourself out there and start taking action. Remember that action taking is 10X more valuable than reading theory.
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:26 AM
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Definitely not the best opener as the title says. Generally always go direct unless you are badly interrupting her. Also, if you show your personality a bit more and connect a bit more, your chances of getting an insta date increases by a ton.
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:23 AM
8

Tbh, my flirting is not even much about what I say but more about my eyes and facial expression.
/r/seduction04/02/24 11:21 AM
2

Meet women in real life, so much better because you can leave a much better impression.
/r/seduction01/02/24 11:50 PM
1

”Thank you!”
/r/seduction31/01/24 07:54 PM
1

Must have been socially very uncalibrated.
/r/seduction15/01/24 01:16 AM
159

Just stop talking, pause for a moment, look her into the eyes, and kiss her. Be a man. Not a boy playing games.
/r/seduction14/01/24 04:27 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction10/01/24 12:53 AM
1

Surprise Surprise that looks and status only get you so far, if your personality and character are weak as hell.
/r/seduction07/01/24 08:27 PM
1

Do you know how to make it man to woman?
/r/seduction03/01/24 04:45 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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