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| -12 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowHonestly, if you did this to me, I would end up taking your girl | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Oldman curious about IGInstagram is like your CV in dating and socializing nowadays. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Ultimately, cold approaching itself, as in walking up to a stranger… CAN and SHOULD be done in a skillful & seductive way. You should be calibrated, grounded, smile with good body language, lock eyes, open the conversation and pause for her to feel your presence. Then starts your ”seduction” phase lol. No, it starts the immediate moment she sees you. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Lol. Most of my approaches are smooth and the girls love it. Not sure what the hell are you talking about. And I approach a lot. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?What crap are you talking about? How the hell do you get to the ”seduction” part, unless you cold approach?????? Especially cold approach in a smooth, seductive way. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:40 AM |
| 11 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?What a load of shit. Cold approach is by far the most efficient if you are limited by time and dont have time to build and maintain a social circle. You are just bad at it. Cold approaching for me works like a charm. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Nightgame feeling boringNightgame is fresking fun, what are you talking about? Just let loose and socialize with people. You can do this sober. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:17 AM |
| 0 | I’m in desperation mode. Please help.Dont date when depressed snd overly miserable. Extremely unattractive. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 05:02 AM |
| 2 | I have a stunning inability to get the women I want on dating apps - no idea if its race or height but something is up in TorontoReal. Life. Approaches. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you wait for signs to approach?No. I see a girl, I go in. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsBullshit. You anyways build social circle by cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Need help fixing my club vibeSocialize with everyone | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate friendliness from IOI.Flirt | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | When will you be done with pickup/active dating?When I find that special girl which is very rare. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Making it a Man/ Women FrameFlirting for me. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?Dont rely on this strategy | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Helsinki? Anyone been - any spots you like?I live in Helsinki, we can go out together. Let me dm you | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Opinions about "Excuse me"Walk upto her, pull out my nipples and shake them. Then ask her if she wants to suck on it | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?Go up to a girl and ask her for sex right away. Her strong reaction is a result of btch shield. Girls definitely give you shit (mostly unconsciously) to see if you are the man, when they are not quite sure. All that being said, at this point in my journey, these things doesnt really even cross my mind in my game. Im mostly just fooling around and in a state of self-amusement and even if the girl shit tests me, I find it amusing. This + a bit of social intelligence and you wont be making her feel… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Biggest differences between masculine and effeminate male personalities?I have a very feminine side in me and I believe it helps me attract girls even more 😉 | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Opinions about "Excuse me"Its fine if it fits your personality. I prefer something more spicy right away to spice it up and get her hooked faster. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:28 PM |
| -1 | Books on the subjectClubs are the best books. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.Flirt. Flirt. Flirt. And dont get into the friendzone in the first place. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:26 PM |
| 2 | How's The rules of the game to start learning pickup?Go upto a girl and say hi, what’s up? And banter. Wish them a good day / night at the end. Repeat this for 100 times to begin with. Then you can worry about techniques and shit | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 04:48 PM |
| 3 | I had a unexpeted hook up and I feel bad about itI think you are in the wrong subreddit for this. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | A long series of failed attempts. Are there universal rules of seduction?Be more of a man. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Has your anxiety drastically reduced since you started approaching more people + women?Yes of course. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle a girl that flaked due to self esteem issues?Find someone who doesnt have this bad insecurity problems | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Night game success FR: Screw her friendsNice | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl with a boyfriend texting meAs you wouldnt like if ur gf and some guy did this to you - dont do it yourself. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 15 | This whole getting laid thing is ridiculously simple.You still need to cold approach them to invite to your party. You need to be decently charismatic to close them in your party. You need to have decent social skills to do 1. & 2. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Reaching out to a classmate from a year ago?React to her story. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 12 | How do you learn, Actually?Stop reading and go out there and talk with people. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to make girls agree on a date from the 1st meeting ?No. This scarcity thinking is creepy. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Dating is kinda painful when you’re personality somehow kills their attraction.Improve your personality. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Where to go in EuropeCome to Finland, I’ll take you out | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)Not true. Most women who are single are down for ONS if you do things right, but they arent all outright looking for ONSs or a relationship. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:28 AM |
| 3 | What are good and free activities or jobs you can do to expand social skills/circle and meet woman?You need to get into Sales to get your shit together first. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:27 AM |
| 8 | What does having strong "frame" mean?Means you are the shit. Even if you see not externally. As long as you internally believe it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 48 | What’s better going out with friends who don’t approach or alone?Alone. Not only for the obvious reasons but also for the fact that it grows you 100X more as a person. You learn the skill to be able to make friends pretty much anywhere you go to. —— You also have false beliefs. Most people dont give a fuck if you are out alone. As long as you own it. The most common response I get is respect for going out alone. And I’ve done it 300 times. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Did reading books improve your game?Going out into the real field and doing the real shit improved my game. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didWhy dont you show me proof that you are not a moron first? So far I have seen none. You are unnecessarily obsessed with me. Let it go. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women I've spoken to recently don't go out of their usual routineSounds like lack of interest. And / or you are doing something really awful in-between. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How to be funny without being a performer and a joke teller?Self-amusement is key. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | She told me she has no time dating meThen find one who does | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:48 AM |
| 13 | 60 year old nurse told me she's working till 9 tonight, completely unpromptedWtf | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Broke up and need to get back into this worldStart going out regularly to meet new women. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Danced with a stranger for the first time at a clubVery good. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I keep getting ghostedMeet them in real life to leave a better impression. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Worth starting cold approach now when braces come off in 3 months?(20M)Yes, do it now. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 11:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I open with this girl ?”Heyy, what’s up?” | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 04:55 PM |
| 10 | How to get really good with women?Im just speaking generally. You dont literally need to keep count. But just approach actively women for a year. Most issues will fix itself. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didOf course I would symphatise with women in that case too if they are that fucked up internally due to society and their environment. Your conclusion-jumping is bizarre. Looks like you are projecting yourself onto me. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:18 PM |
| 5 | How to get really good with women?Get your finances taken care of first and then move. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Why would she text me out of the blue (month or more) after a couple dates, I respond..then she doesn’t reply?Who knows. Stop talking to her and focus on better girls | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get LaidTalk to the girls there | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:35 AM |
| -1 | How to look confident without being boisterous?Inner game | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:35 AM |
| 6 | Having the desire to ask for advice on picking up girls means you feel worthless.Asking for advice is definitely needed to save enormous amount of time. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Lost My Mind In The ProccesLike I said, google Ikigai. There is also a book written about it. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you open girls who smile at you on streets?”Helloo, you look very lovely!” | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:41 AM |
| 7 | Lost My Mind In The ProccesOf course life is miserable when you base your whole life on superficial stuff. Take a break for yourself and go search for a deeper purpose. Ikigai is a good place to start. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:41 AM |
| 68 | How to get really good with women?The ultimate secret is that you approach 500 women. Then most of the issues will fix itself. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didWhat are you on about? You seem disturbingly obsessed with me. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:35 AM |
| 0 | help me understand why eye contact is such a big thingBecause it signals everything about you | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up?Go there to socialize and meet people in general. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didIt’s all about the root cause. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Kiss attempts rejected but still progressed into a long date and coming homeToo many. Girls gives all sorts of shit to weed out all the weak wimps. It’s your job to keep frame and remain ungrounded. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it important to fix your ig?Common sense | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Just got approached in the grocery storeEspecially if you are attractive, you should use that to your advantage and approach. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didYes of course. But how miserable must one be psychologically to go around stabbing innocent people? He probably lived in Hell on Earth. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | strange behavior after a positive impressionVery good. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Going GhostTheres a lot of things you can do to make her more comfortable and relaxed. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Having my female bestfriend as a wingwomanIf she is toxic, clearly more cons than pros, drop her. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | How Should I Tell Her?Just do it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Daygame/Cold approaching in Australia?Of course it works there. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | how to lay girls guide still works?The best guide is talking to 500 women. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:47 AM |
| 1 | College campus and bar gameWhat is the problem? Just start approaching. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Kiss attempts rejected but still progressed into a long date and coming homePersistent in a high value way is key. Not just with girls but in life. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Is it important to fix your ig?Yes. Optimize your IG. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t done a cold approach….in 4monthsJust approach. You’re going to have to do it sooner or later. The sooner, the better. Start slow. If its really bad, you can talk to ugly people, guys, grannys | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Going GhostProbably was too platonic. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Just got approached in the grocery storeGood. But dont rely on this strategy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to stop drinking for a while ...Good. Just approach the girl. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Pickup in STLClubs. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Freshman College AdviceYou are overthinking. Just enjoy her company and talk to other girls. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Did I fumble this?Yes, you could have gone for the number if there was any flirting going on. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:41 AM |
| 5 | How do hookups happen in college?Like how it happens everywhere else as well. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:40 AM |
| 10 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didIts a terrible state currently for men in our society. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:39 AM |
| 6 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didHe should go to to therapy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask her on a date?Yes. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | strange behavior after a positive impressionYou never know. Talk to more girls. Thats always the solution. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Any tips on how to improve my weak ego?Eckhart Tolle - The Power of Now Also The New Earth from him. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 08:20 AM |
| 6 | What's the best way to approach a girl in a group, when the group has both guys and girls?Befriend all, especially the leader of the group | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 08:16 AM |
| 3 | How do you not feel bad and upset about teens having more experience than you?Fuck them. Focus on living your life. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | 35M Struggling to find intimacySo what? I dont have wings either and ive gone out 300 times. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?Where do you live? | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | 35M Struggling to find intimacyGoing out and actually talking to girls is how you fix this. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How clumsy is this?Depends on how embarassed you were about it vs how much you owned it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?No. It’s probably the best time, especially if you have your finances taken care of. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:34 PM |
| 9 | First time cold approach; did I misread?You are overthinking this. What you should have done is take charge. Confidently. The moment her friend came there, you should have been ”ohh is this your friend?” ”Yes” ”Lovely, nice to meet you. What’s your name?” With a smile. Handshake. Tell your name. And go from there. ”I saw your friend, and she was adorable, I had to come say hi”. With a smirk. Blablaa And there transition to bantering, small-talking, flirting etc. Key is positive, playful, friendly energy all throughout the convo. Espec… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Any tips on how to improve my weak ego?Lol at your ego. Don’t improve / strenghten your ego. Instead, let it go. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | She is interested in me… now what?Get in the same position so many times that it starts becoming normal | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Hug AlternativesPull your dick out and invite her to suck it | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Hug AlternativesShake ur tits and invite her to suck on your nipples | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 8 | Coffee or Clear Intentions?Just ask them out properly and save time from uninterested girls. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | She broke up with me yesterday, today I lashed out, is there any hope?No. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a man to truly understand friend zoningYes, imagine talking to a really fat, ugly girl. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:44 AM |
| 1 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusLike I said, meet new women. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusYou have oneitis. Google it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:37 AM |
| 0 | 20M, have everything to get laid but am scaredWell, you are coming accross very wrong to us. Cant please everyone. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:36 AM |
| 6 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?More experience. Google how to properly satisfy a woman. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Possible fumbleDont apologize for things you didnt do. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:53 PM |
| 17 | Crippling social skills”Is there a way to learn how to do it without actually doing it?” No. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:50 PM |
| 13 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusThere are plenty. Open your eyes. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:46 PM |
| 18 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusTalk to more girls. You’re too much in scarcity. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?Take you for example. How do you behave in front of a hot babe 10? And how do you behave in front of a fat ugly girl from a third world country? What is the primary reason for the difference in behaviour? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?Unfortunately that’s the level of our humankind’s psychological and moral development. This is why people resort to things like ghosting. They can’t face their own bullshit. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Dating tips as a man (to save time and money)I skimmed through. Some good stuff like coffee date but most stuff probably bunch of shit, overthinking and ”butthurt-selfishness”. If you want to pull the girl from the date home, dont do quick dates. But yes, typically it’s good to go for low effort and investment type of first dates like coffee / ice cream / walk. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:46 PM |
| 6 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?Just 80% of male population. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:03 PM |
| 31 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?A ”nice guy finish last” type of nice guy is definitely not authentic. He is full of shit in his niceness in order to get pussy. Dont fool yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 06:57 PM |
| 94 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?Learn to be more authentic and honest. Both with yourself and others. If you take authenticity and honesty seriously, there is no way you can behave like a wimp. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Give me advice on how to proceed.This sounds like the easiest thing ever. How to proceed? Dont do anything weird. That’s all. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 13 | How could I be more seductive as a “good guy”/“goofy” and be more confident.Tease and flirt | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Is she even interestedToo many damn redflags. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 04:19 PM |
| 18 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?If you are young, you are probably very bad in bed. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Girls found me using dating apps?Dont hit on the friends. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact issuesPractice it. You can look yourself in the eye through a mirror. Also, you can go online and look up hot chicks who gives the deadly model stare | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approach ; I need guideIf you are complete beginner, go to the clubs. Better for beginners. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 11:58 AM |
| 3 | (M23) Needs advice on how to proceed (F40+), (22F)Go out there and meet other women. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 3 | (M23) Needs advice on how to proceed (F40+), (22F)You are building up too much pressure for yourself that you’re likely to fail | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | What should I doTalk to more girls. You are thinking too highly of yourself now. It will never be anywhere close to 100% success rate. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:49 AM |
| 6 | How can I improve my texting game?Two rules to texting: Keep it playful Aim towards setting up a date | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:48 AM |
| 4 | Hug AlternativesTwerk ur ass and invite her to grind on you | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:46 AM |
| 19 | Ways to Lose A Girl!Making a list like this | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?You are missing the point. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:21 AM |
| 5 | How do I navigate thisYes. Seduction is about doing the fundamentals right in the beginning so that later it is a smooth sailing - rather than an uphill battle. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I navigate thisImagine how you would text these girls if you had a bunch of HB9s you were already dating. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I trained an AI to help me flirt betterDont do rocket science when attracting women. That’s what you dont get. A robot cannot be charming like a true Don Juan can. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:48 PM |
| 11 | How do I navigate thisYou sound very eager in your texting. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Already fumbled this. But what would you have said?You are overthinking this. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:44 PM |
| 42 | How to not put women on a pedestalJust meet more women. Learn the skill. Have abundance and you naturally won’t put them on pedestal. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How to pull shy girls?Pull her like you would pull any other girl. Introverts can be some of the wildest girls in bed. Their repressed extroverted side can come out then. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Asking out cashierYou are overthinking it. Just go ahead and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Did I play this wrong? Did I lose frame?You are overthinking this. If she doesnt re-engage later, you can do it. It’s still very good. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 248 | is the bro code valid in 2024?Bro code definitely is valid in 2024 wtf. It’s called being a decent human being and it’s gonna be valid for as long as human beings exist. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 8 | How do I navigate thisDepends on what you said to them before they left you on delivered. Most likely they lost interest. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 2 | I trained an AI to help me flirt betterFlirting is not a dry, logical kinda thing. It’s the very opposite of it. A robot will just never be as emotionally stimulating to a woman as a physical man, ever. Perhaps a cyborg will. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?Well, if you have 5 HB10s wanting to suck your dick, then an 8 comes along and wants to suck your dick as well, how would you behave towards the 8? Quite nonchalantly I would assume. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Need some advice.Hence the word ’perhaps’. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice.Some women you just never know. Perhaps with this women she was attracted to you but in the convo you came across a bit too weak / off so she was mixed about you. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Few words for my short friendsShort guy here as well, and I run laps around my tall friends. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 8 | 🚫 Stop Trying To Be Confident (try these instead)Confidence = stop chasing for anyone’s approval and validation. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to age difference”Yes, call me daddy” | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I massively over thinking this.With that wall of text without any paragraphs, my answer is yes without having read it. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Where to find wingwoman?Clubs. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop feeling insecure about interracial dating?Stop giving a fuck. What does it matter what others think of you | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:11 PM |
| 14 | I trained an AI to help me flirt betterA fucking machine is never going to flirt as well as a human being. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Help neededMeet new girls who are more interested. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | [Daygame] Should I approach more?So, what is the problem here? | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Lover vs ProviderWhen you meet a new girl, be in a lover frame first and then transition to provider later on if you want to. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 26 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?Women as well as men, prefer to get with people who are above them in sexual value. Ignoring someone is typically a behaviour from someone who has more sexual value than the one being ignored. And this is what is being signaled. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is this a hard no?Yes. Move on. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How to socialize in a college club full of women?So what? | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:06 PM |
| 0 | What is the best way not to feel negative when you are rejected?All this crap is spiritual nonsense. If you have a random hot girl naked in front of you wanting to suck your dick, you aint gonna be thinking about all that nonsense frame shifting you are trying to bullshit yourself with. Here’s the real solution: approach so many hot girls that it starts becoming normal. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.Flirting and leading. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upLOL. After you have approached 500 women in real life, then you can complain about it not working out. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:56 PM |
| 14 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.Then it’s your inability to make it romantic for her. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 19 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.Your personality probably sucks. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:27 PM |
| 4 | How to socialize in a college club full of women?By going out there and socializing. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:26 PM |
| 6 | What is a cool hobby that has helped you attract?Dancing. Art. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:26 PM |
| 5 | What is the best way not to feel negative when you are rejected?By treating it all as one BIG JOKE. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Approach Result keeps happeningYou should be a man and talk to her then and there for 5-15 mins and then ask her out FACE TO FACE. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | What to do as a beginnerYou answered your own question. You need to escalate and flirt more. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Approach Result keeps happeningShe doesnt know anything about your personality and charisma, so she gets bored very fast. Also, texting is boring. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:04 AM |
| 13 | Venezuelan girl wants tip for sex is that normal?Not normal. Seems like deliberately wanted your money. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:03 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?”Hi, you look very lovely” ”Hi, you look like a dragon!” Doesnt really matter, as long as you have good energy. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Advice for hookups on dating appsLol. If it was that simple and easy, we wouldnt have hundreds of millions of guys struggling to get laid. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”?How often do you get friendzoned? | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:48 AM |
| 3 | She said i’m pretty like a girl?Lack of masculine energy from your side. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Transition from working to romantic relationship?Maybe just find women elsewhere for romantic purposes. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Failed shit testsYes, what were they? | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Be brief or flesh it out?Weak numbers. Get to know more about them, share some cool stuff about you. Banter. Small-talk. Not rocket science. Ask for the number after 10-15 mins. Minimum 5. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Slump / downward spiralWhat have you learned? | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:45 AM |
| 28 | I (24M) had a girl (22F) over but all we did was talk from 8 PM to 3 AMAs a man, you gotta lead the connection to where you want it to go. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:44 AM |
| 4 | Do Women like to be ignored?No. Women like men with options. And men with options are not pushy, they’re quite nonchalant. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:44 AM |
| 2 | How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date?Make the conversation more about them. And dont do any weird shit | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:43 AM |
| 3 | I have a strong urge to cheat on my pregnant wife!Leave her. She deserves better. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:31 AM |
| 4 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?If you dont want anything serious, move on. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate things over the course of a date?You can escalate verbally too. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:30 AM |
| 4 | I hate These "how to Tell if She secretly likes you"Most girls who like you will give you signs, especially in the beginning - and wont overtly express it. This is why it’s called game. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Do you lose 'social value' if you are seen by yourself?Yes. That’s why you proactively socialize instead of being passive. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How to develop a “spark” or “romantic feelings” or “chemistry”Tease her more. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game!Sorry but you’re too much in scarcity. No technique or skill is going to help you. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Sat next to a cute girl on a bus today but couldn't open my mouth. How do i stop doing this?Try to be as social as possible throughout the whole day. Then it is much easier to transfer that to a specific case. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 09:25 AM |
| 13 | Mortified at my sheer lack of game.Start with the basics. Next time you’re out, approach and be social with 10-20 people, whether guy or girl. From there you can start being more flirty. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | I'm very charming when I'm not flirting, but I'm very dorky when I am. How can I reverse this?You can approach 20 girls per night in a club. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Openers for speaking to girls”Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, what’s up?” Doesnt really matter. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is game so difficult?Is it hard for most kids to socialize? No. It comes naturally for them. We have learned all sorts of negative behaviour patterns blocking us from socializing and having fun. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How to proceedIt’s over. Move on. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Why is game so difficult?Because we have been programmed for decades in a way that makes it hard. This is not so much about learning more but more about unlearning. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:47 AM |
| 3 | When to have the talk about how do I and the girl see us?If you want more, start behaving accordingly. If you don’t, don’t talk about it. Never bring it up. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:45 AM |
| 6 | How to dance together with a girl twerking?Shake your tits. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm very charming when I'm not flirting, but I'm very dorky when I am. How can I reverse this?Flirt more. Make it normal. I approach and flirt with 50 girls a week. It’s just a second nature at this point. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:43 AM |
| 6 | The Moan Game (Pre-“Date)What is this? Just go talk to her. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless?By developing charisma, social skills and your personality. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 58 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Go out and socialize with people. This is the most cheap and efficient investment. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 12:13 AM |
| 3 | She seems distant after I kissed at the end of the second date, time to move on definitely?Sounds like she lost interest during your last date. It may have been your social skills, personality and game. It may have been the fact that you didn’t take her to bed and so she got bored. It may have that she fucked someone else after your last date and got attached to him and so, lost interest in you. Whatever it is, you should just move on and meet new women. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Texting AdvicesYou are overthinking it. She gave a good response indicating interest. Not everyone always remembers to ask back even in real life, not to mention via texting. The way to “forget” is to meet more women. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?Yea but you need to have strong inner confidence and self-belief. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Tips for texting a tinder date?You shouldnt text her daily nor frequently. Your next text should be playfully suggest and set up the next date. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 04:12 PM |
| 12 | Need tips: Getting a shy woman to open upIf emotional escalation doesn’t work. Then as your last option, you can just logically talk with her about it. Obviously don’t make it judgemental and don’t be mad. But just in a loving way ask her what’s stopping her from moving forward. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Note** Always escalate immediately.There is def something called buying window. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | When other guys (try) to steal the showYou can deal with it by putting the pressure on them. “Do you guys know each other?” “Ohh you don’t. Look, you seem really cool but we have a conversation going on here so give us a moment okay?” Now if they try anything to get in, they seem try hard. If they wait there passively and quietly, they seem try-hard. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:35 PM |
| -4 | How long do you wait before inviting the girl home?I usually bring the girl back home within an hour. Doesn’t have to be longer than that. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 09:19 AM |
| 22 | Dealing with intoxicated ladies?You are overthinking this. Tipsy women are everywhere when you go to the night life. It’s completely normal, even ideal to talk to them. Avoid drunk girls. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 09:11 AM |
| 16 | My insecurities why I don't cold approach. Help me how to deal with them.There is not a single guy in the world who gets every single girl to like them. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps / Ghosting / Text gameThe key is to start moving it to a date asap, but not as the first msg. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:16 AM |
| 11 | How to Develop an Abundance MindsetAll that high value stuff doesnt help you if you don’t put yourself out there and meet these attractive women. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:15 AM |
| 18 | How to Develop an Abundance MindsetThe problem comes when you start dating that rare gem. That one that’s super hot + personality is pretty much perfect & you connect with her very deeply. It becomes very hard to meet someone better. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:14 AM |
| 5 | Feeling like a fish, what can i doBe social with almost anyone you possibly can. Much easier to talk to the girls with this momentum. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Advice for hookups during Spring BreakApproach people and be social. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 03:15 PM |
| 0 | My best daytime opener (try this!)Because we are on a community where the goal is to develop our skills, rather than mental masturbate. Indirect approaches are fine, I never said to never use them. They can be used, mostly as a self-amusement thing, just like in your Mystery example. When you go indirect like ”whats a good coffee store?” And she replies ”that one” and she doesnt want to join you, then you pretty much lost her. Because if you stay afterwards, you come accross manipulative and with a huge agenda. When you go direc… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Flirting advices: I struggle to create sexual tension with womenTo create sexual tension, all you need to do is stop talking and look her into the eye. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 12:07 PM |
| -1 | My best daytime opener (try this!)Hmm, I’m pretty sure the title said Best, rather than My best. But maybe I read it wrong. Now, when it comes to direct vs indirect approaches during the day. There is something called Smooth Direct as well. It just takes more skill to pull it off. Things like the eye contact, smile, pause, tone of voice, presence, confident body language are crucial. And when I say direct, I don’t mean that the first words out of your mouth have to be sexual. It can just be ”Hey, excuse me” and then you express … | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Getting back into the gameWelcome back. There are no secrets to it. Just put yourself out there and start taking action. Remember that action taking is 10X more valuable than reading theory. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 11:26 AM |
| -7 | My best daytime opener (try this!)Definitely not the best opener as the title says. Generally always go direct unless you are badly interrupting her. Also, if you show your personality a bit more and connect a bit more, your chances of getting an insta date increases by a ton. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 11:23 AM |
| 8 | What do you guys talk when you’re flirting?Tbh, my flirting is not even much about what I say but more about my eyes and facial expression. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting backMeet women in real life, so much better because you can leave a much better impression. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | You look like a fuckboy”Thank you!” | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How to Escalate when Girl is at your Place - A Tip that Worked for meMust have been socially very uncalibrated. | /r/seduction | 15/01/24 01:16 AM |
| 159 | How to Escalate when Girl is at your Place - A Tip that Worked for meJust stop talking, pause for a moment, look her into the eyes, and kiss her. Be a man. Not a boy playing games. | /r/seduction | 14/01/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date?No. | /r/seduction | 10/01/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls ask me out regularly... and I hate itSurprise Surprise that looks and status only get you so far, if your personality and character are weak as hell. | /r/seduction | 07/01/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce girls?Do you know how to make it man to woman? | /r/seduction | 03/01/24 04:45 AM |
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