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| 3 | How to deal with competition? (Club + night game) | MisterBurgerFace | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 08:47 AM | |
| 3 | How do some guys do it? | MisterBurgerFace | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 02:58 AM |
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| 2 | Does being a tall guy make you at least a little more attractive to girls disregarding how you look?Unpopular answer: No. No it doesn't. Reason: Tall guys tend to be more confident because they automatically ASSUME they are more attractive therefore it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Does that mean that there aren't a lot of girls that prefer taller guys? No it does not. But it doesn't mean that the majority prefers taller guys. I've been out and around and a lot of shorter girls don't mind shorter guys. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 07:38 AM |
| 10 | You can’t have my Number but you can have a Selfie - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 6It's too late. I'm already parked outside her house fondling my favorite axe. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Invested too much without getting any sexI absolutely agree that a person does better when they aren't trying to think about the sex part at all, but how do you do this? Everytime I approach a girl I find that the anxiety I get either stems from me feeling insecure BECAUSE I know she has more sexual experience, or because i'm worrying about her laughing at me naked, etc. etc. This backwards mentality causes failure before I even start. Because now my brain is sabotaging me to fail because it perceives failure as imminent and would rath… | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:46 AM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.I'll definitely check them out, man. I try to avoid too much reliance on videos and prefer to push myself to go out there, but since i'm finding it too hard to push myself to that point (of approaching without being hostile), I will take the time to see what Tyler has to say about energy, as that would help me out a lot. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Once a beta, always a beta...Your entire way of thinking. Just look at your title for example. You've destroyed yourself before you even got to the actual body of your post. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I need helpI lack experience myself and can tell you that I recommend against using online dating apps. Nothing can replace face to face and body language based contact. So you need to get out there and practice that. Hundreds of times. Period. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Once a beta, always a beta...You're digging yourself into a mental hole. People on here can only offer a hand to help you out. They won't go into the hole and carry you out. You need to take the hand being offered. If you keep thinking like this no one is going to be able to help you at all. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:29 AM |
| 3 | How do i convert tinde matches to real dates (not hookups)Because they all have moustaches and he wants to deceive us all. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Do techniques like Dan Bacon's "The Flow" work on REALLY smart girls ?There are two types of intelligence. Mental and emotional. You need to work on emotional intelligence. It doesn't matter how high her IQ is. If you know how to talk and dominate, it doesn't matter what comes out of her mouth because you would redirect it to topics YOU feel smart about. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't listen to this guy or people like this guyOh and btw. Just as a side note. Tyler (PUA) looks like shit. He's fat, balding and usually looks a bit like a bum. And yet he's probably fucked more girls than you will ever see in your life. So what's your defense there? I mean, he wasn't rich when he started out his PUA career. What else you got up your sleeve man? | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 08:21 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't listen to this guy or people like this guyYou did say it though. You're defending a guy who bases everything on looks. If you didn't agree with him then you literally don't know what you're standing up for. It's really hard to debate with you when you can't read. Did you just google the first thing that came up? Do you even read what you link here? Do you have any idea what the article you just posted is saying? Did you see the psychiatric illness part of it? Here you go man: https://www.nature.com/articles/tp201596 Learn how to focus a… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Do people mind if you invite yourself over at high school parties??Depends man. If you're rocking grey hair and have a creepy face then you should go hit on dem high school girls. I call it the 'Prison' method. It's really effective. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't listen to this guy or people like this guyWhat do you mean how do I quantify it? You and him are basing everything on looks, right? So, i'm basing it on looks too to knock over your argument. Most people out there aren't exactly Chad 6'2 with square jaws and 6 packs. So yeah, that's how I quantify bad genes. Too many short, facially unappealing, and overall low quality people. Seems to me like you understand how dumb this method is, which is my whole point. They help get your foot in the door, nothing else. Unless you are literally a 10… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't listen to this guy or people like this guyActually, no, he didn't. I mean, i'm not Brad Pitt, but i'm not ugly either. I'm a bit above average and i'm OK with that. But you're wrong about natural selection. Go outside and look at everyone. The majority of people have undesirable genes. Looks mean fuck all with girls if you aren't confident. The guy in the video talks about looks like they seal the deal. I have 9/10 looks wise friends, and even though they get laid a bit easier, they get absolutely demolished by uglier guys who have game… | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Emojis: Sometimes, always, or never?Lol you are so stupid man. He's 100% right. Text game is valid but only for pussies if you don't escalate within a day or so. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Fuck you for making me read an unbroken paragraph like that man. Thanks for the actual content though. Really helpful and inspiring. I wish you would go a bit deeper though. I already know my problem is congruence but I can't switch myself on after I shut down in a loud and crowded environment or after pushing myself to approach someone who is very attractive. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Don't listen to this guy or people like this guyHe's an idiot. There is not a single ounce of truth to what he is saying. There are more bad genes out there than ever. That's because bad genes can mate with bad genes. There is no such thing as natural selection in todays world. He's saying if you are ugly and short, get money to get laid. I've met PUA's that make this guy look like a little bitch that say otherwise. Game can be learned. It's not something you're born with. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?LMFAO. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?Take a wild guess. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?It's OK man. You will start getting true answers after 100 times of reposting this same thread. Promise. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?LOL. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?I feel sorry for anyone who works with him LOL. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You should continue to hide your intentions and be nice to her and she might have sex with you eventually. Or you know, you could just call her right now, stop being a pussy, and tell her you feel sexually attracted to her and that you want to take her on a date or for drinks. I'll leave the choice to you, cowboy. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:59 PM |
| 2 | U.K.) did theee girls like me or bullying me?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8hi4gi/uk_did_these_girls_laugh_at_me_in_a_bad_way/ https://www.removeddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8gjsqm/uk_did_these_girls_like_me_or_mocking_me_somehow/ Just trying to keep track of this mental breakdown by OP over a bunch of girls laughing at him. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How to fix every problem in game. Solutions to every beginner and intermediate question here inside.This is actually both good and terrible advice. It doesn't apply to everyone. A lot of people on here suffer from things like anxiety, and cold approach can make those issues much worse since most people get rejected a lot and negative results from cold approach in the beginning. I argue you don’t deserve or won’t keep a girl unless you can get a girl of her caliber or above from cold approach. You don't need to ever 'keep a girl'. Not everyone is looking for relationshops. I fuck and drop. That… | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Uk) did these girls laugh at me in a bad way?You're not getting answers because what you're asking us is not mentally stable. No matter how many times you make these posts, you still won't get the answers you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Uk) did these girls laugh at me in a bad way?https://www.removeddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8gjsqm/uk_did_these_girls_like_me_or_mocking_me_somehow/ You tell me hotshot. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Uk) did these girls laugh at me in a bad way?You have SERIOUS mental issues. I remember the last two times you made this post. You're STILL fuming over this, even after a week? | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Uk) did these girls like me or mocking me somehow?Doesn't matter. Stop being a baby. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Smiling to a girl on the streetSmiling isn't always indicative of something. She could smile nervously and not be interested in you, or feel intimidated and not smile at all even though she IS interested in you. Stop playing charades and go talk to her, that's the only sure fire way to find out if she's into you. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over oneitis, especially when your ex or another girl you like starts dating another guy?I don't know why you would cling onto someone like this, first of all. Second of all, realize that there is always a better looking and more fun girl than the one you like out there. Thirdly, stop saying oneitis. That way you're making it sound OK and justifying doing it. It's called CLINGING, and the more you use the correct terminology it will make you realize how serious and useless CLINGING is. Finally, clinging is going to bend you over and go to town on you, so you better stop doing it now… | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Uk) did these girls like me or mocking me somehow?Who gives a shit what other people think? If you're going to let 3 girls get under your skin this easily you might as well just go live in the forest, because life isn't going to get any easier for you. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Hey guys, i'm making a lot of progress, but I have a quick question..LOL | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Tindie girls: What do you want ?Can confirm. Went to a bar last week and started yelling 'TINDERELLA' at the top of my lungs. All the girls in the bar left with me.. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 06:05 AM |
| 12 | When a girl smiles at you does that for sure mean shes into you..Does it mean for sure she's into you? Nope. Not even close. Does it matter? Nope. It doesn't matter. When a girl smiles at you that's your cue to go flirt with her, and give her your best. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 06:04 AM |
| 7 | Tindie girls: What do you want ?I'm pretty sure they want you to stop calling Tinder girls Tindie girls. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 06:02 AM |
| 3 | What's the best way to give a girl my number through snapchat?Yeah man stop stalling. Man up and take charge. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I think I fucked upLol who cares? You talked to one girl who wasn't interested. So what? There are millions more girls for you to go talk to. Stop beating yourself up over a single person and go embrace the millions of BETTER opportunities out there. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 03:36 AM |
| 4 | What's the best way to give a girl my number through snapchat?First of all, stop flirting on SnapChat. It makes you look like a total wuss. Charmingly or wittingly ask for her number directly and call her. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Drawing a chick in art classSure man. If you think you can pull it off. If you make it awkward you could fuck it up. Don't try too hard. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Drawing a chick in art classDepends on how you ask it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Drawing a chick in art classJust remember to make your intentions clear from the beginning. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | I am afraid of showing interest in a girl if I know i will have to keep contact with her afterwards. How do you continue if she is not interested?Psychologically, the only reason you would feel this way is because you are seeking validation from these girls you know. Once you realize that you have nothing to prove, you will stop feeling this way. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 10:21 PM |
| 15 | God damnit I wish I found this sub soonerYou didn't fail with shit. It's not failing. It's learning. Don't have crushes. It's dumb and time consuming. There are billions of more girls out there for you to go fuck. Put in the work and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 10:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep a conversation moving?How are people on here going to tell you how to converse when conversation itself isn't a constant? If conversation was a constant, there would be cheat sheets on here and this subreddit would be useless. People would just memorize the cheat sheets and get laid. End of story. Having a conversation is a skill. You need to take what the other person is saying and give something from your end as well. You both need to contribute and keep it going together. No two conversations are the same. It's an… | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Negging fashion models?Better be careful man. If I didn't know any better, i'd think you were trying to neg ME. Simmer down. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Negging fashion models?Leave him be. Some people just want to argue, not learn lol. He can whine while me and you flirt with models. Whatever floats his boat. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Negging fashion models?Your first and biggest mistake is grouping all models into a category. I can tell you right now that every model you will meet is different and has a different personality and would respond to 'negging' differently. Also, stop calling it negging. Stop trying so hard. Models sometimes have a pretentious attitude, sure, but if you approach them confidently and you refuse TO PUT THEM ON A PEDESTAL, they will respect you and come around. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:54 AM |
| 2 | A girl likes me, but I like her sister. Am I out of luck?INCEST WINCEST | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Went from a decent level in seduction, to close-to-zero ability. Am I the only one?It's because you're another example of a guy who thinks in terms of 'beta' and 'alpha'. You're setting yourself up and pushing yourself to be someone you're not. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:42 PM |
| 3 | My journey to finally getting laid. A full break-down.Good job man. This is what this subreddit needs to be more about. No bullshit, just trial/error and then results. A lot of guys would have been crushed after the fourth one, but you kept on going. Good on you. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | If there is one thing you'd say gave you the most success with women, what would that be?Acetone. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Wholesome Values?Yeah this is a frequent problem with people who pursue casual sex. Leave Tinder and either sign up for a dating site or go talk to girls during the daytime. Much more meaningful relationships. I would give this one a chance or two but if she isn't responsive then just ditch her mate. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Wholesome Values?Yeah, that's the other thing man. You sound like you are clinging onto this one chick a bit too much. If it's not working, drop her and go find another chick. You don't seem to have one-itis yet, but you're definitely leaning in that direction. That is what you NEVER want to do. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 10:02 PM |
| 9 | After convincing my wife, we gave a ffm threesome a try and we found a wonderful woman to be our fwb. Can I make them fall in love?Why are you trying to make them fall in love? What if it backfired on you and she leaves you for the other woman? Don't bungee jump over a live volcano my friend. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Getting back into the game... sharing a few thoughtsTone down the robotic analysis of your game. Contrary to what most speculators would have you believe, it's not a science and never will be. Just list down the basic pro's and con's and put down what you think you should improve. Never read too much into your most specific gestures unless it has a profound effect. Otherwise you will dig a hole and bury yourself in it. 85% of communication is body language. Relax, smile, and don't get a boner in public and you should be fine, cowboy. Love the det… | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Wholesome Values?Sex before marriage is like saying I want to buy this house before I go inside and look at it. Would you ever buy a house without checking it out? Not even pictures? The answer for most people is no. So sex before marriage is a VITAL aspect of a healthy relationship. Don't let religion turn you into a sucker. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Trouble locking girls inIf they are already feeling you up and kissing you, all you really need to do is park your van in an isolated area and get your acetone ready. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 09:54 PM |
| 10 | I'm a 25 y/o virgin and now I'm too afraid to hook up with a womanYou're experiencing the same problem nearly all virgins over the age of 21 experience: You are letting your virginity eat away at your soul. I'll tell you what I tell all the other virgins who pretend like virginity is a source of shame. Don't let your virginity keep you down. The only reason you are ashamed is because you are letting societies interpretation of 'normal' get to your head. Take a deep breath and realize that there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Now make a decision about wh… | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 09:53 PM |
| 9 | I asked a girl to come over. Now what?Now you play Call of Duty with her to see if she can hold her own. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What keeps you going despite the mistakes you make?You're so stupid it actually hurts to listen to all this BS. 'Challenging' seems to be a phrase you pulled straight from google and are pretending to know what it means. There is a huge difference between 'challenging' and berating. You're an absolute fuckwit if you think insulting people makes them do better. I suggest you google actual psychological experiments regarding this, in order to actually learn something for once in your life. Also, no one said we should pat him on the back and give h… | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with negative comments from other men?So let me get this straight. You're going to let some nobody shatter your confidence with a blanket statement like that? How do you expect to be able to survive seduction if you're letting guys like this clown impact you so much as to come on Reddit and whine about it? Also, this is a good opportunity to start being a man. Instead of bottling it up speak up next time, tell him it's not OK or fire back at him with a witty comment. Or shrug it off and don't give a fuck. If someone like that told m… | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Neither. The secret to being so laid back is to not give a fuck. Stop being so self critical. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 9 | Approached a 18 year old girlAnything over 18 is fine. Don't let society tell you who you can't fuck. Society's expectations can go suck my dick. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | What keeps you going despite the mistakes you make?How about you shut the fuck up man? You're not helping with the pussy talk, and I think people like you encourage people to not learn from their mistakes because it harbors shame. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Am I just a hopeless case...?Yeah, you're a hopeless case. Are you happy? Is that what you wanted to hear? Otherwise, stop ripping yourself a new asshole because you messed up with ONE chick.There are millions of other chicks to go practice on, so you better get busy. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Newbie at college partiesNope, go around and talk to everyone to build social value. This will make getting laid easy as fuck. Also join a fraternity. But be careful. In smaller colleges, i've seen people try to hit on the same girls every party or go around trying to do this PUA stuff at every party and it can get you labelled, and then you are fucked. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 04:29 AM |
| 75 | How NOT to do it!!Don't hate on him man. He's obviously a pro, using the famous 'clingy crazy creepy serial rapist' pick up method. It works 10/10 times as long as he finds out where she lives. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:57 AM |
| 3 | I am extremely sensitive to being ignored and I fucking hate itYou're needy, clingy, and desperate for attention. Change that, or I promise you will end up on /r/incels | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:07 AM |
| 3 | How did they have sex with girls after only speaking for 10 minutes?Buddy, the answer to this is exactly what you would expect. There isn't a magical mind blowing answer here. It's all what it is. It's a bar. People are there to get laid. Both parties think the other is attractive. It's the end of the night so they are a bit tipsy. Conversation goes well. They go home together. It might look nuts to someone who is still starting out or working on their social skills, but that's literally all there is to getting laid. That's why 95% of pick up artist 'products' a… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Interesting WikiHow on seduction written by a female bartender for an English class.Read it all. There are pros and cons in regards to this article. The good news is it focuses on basic psychology, and the pathos-ethos-logos is very valid and can be implemented to get you laid. The bad news is it's too basic to be an effective guide and also gives out bad information sometimes, like telling you to buy a girl a drink and encourages you to put her on a pedestal. All in all, I would say this is a good start if you are looking for things to google and learn more about seduction, mi… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 02:00 AM |
| 18 | What are the little things or tricks that makes a girl fall for you on a date?Finger in the bum. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:39 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?Fuck yeah. Even her friend gave her a 'wtf are you saying' look. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?I was kidding but wow if I had a weaker mind that would have destroyed me. That's what it's about at the end of the day. You either break or you become stronger. | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | My height makes me feel insecureAlright, then that's that, man. I cannot help you if you don't want to help yourself. You're stubborn and adamant and want to keep arguing, then that's fine. At the end of the day, you will continue being bitter and not get laid, and everyone else will continue to have sex. Feel free to PM me when you want to turn your life around. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | My height makes me feel insecure/r/incels Unlike you, I know he gets laid for a fact. Don't know how you get laid (I doubt you EVER get laid), but we bring the women back to a house (mine, his, friends, whatever), and trust me, I can tell when someone is getting laid in the next room while i'm banging some chick. He gets laid, bud. Nothing to do with height, just your SHIT and GARBAGE personality. Sucks to face reality, huh? I am also short myself (not THAT short, but shorter than average by quite a bit), and I ran into a few … | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Text game improvementMy reaction to the title of this post | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Tinder lowered my confidence to approach womenTinder isn't a reflection of how high quality you are. Tinder is a reflection of how good you are at making pictures look good. That's all it is. If you post 5 pictures that suck and you are actually the worlds best PUA, you still wouldn't get more than 1-2 matches per month. If you were a creep who managed to put out 5-6 GREAT pictures that make you look hot (good lighting, no selfies, etc.), you would get matches every single day and replies assuming you don't let your creepy vibe leak into yo… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Amazing first date to ice fucking cold...You became needy. You lost your composure. You fucked up. Good news? There are millions of other girls out there. You better get busy. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Asked a girl out via text, she agreed, but...Listen man. I don't know why they don't post this in bold text in the sidebar, but i'm only going to say it once: ALWAYS CALL HER IF YOU CAN. I DON'T CARE WHAT THE REASON IS, JUST PICK UP THAT PHONE AND CALL HER. It's OK to text after you date once or twice to confirm or to send her one or two word acknowledgements WITHOUT EMOTICONS, but texting game this early on is going to bury you, my friend. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:28 PM |
| 49 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?So you're not resistant after all, are you? Look, only an extremely fucked up individual would deflect 100% of the rejections and hurtful things that are said to you when you are learning, OK? It's impossible not to care. Your goal shouldn't be not to care, your goal should be not to nitpick and linger on these thoughts. Learn what you can and move on. When I was first starting out, I ran into some very horrible people. Not just people who were rejecting me, like seriously horrible people. There… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out via text, she agreed, but...My reaction when I read that he asked her out via text | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | My height makes me feel insecure/r/incels I think you should go there man. You caved under the pressure because you are weak and now you're bitter and stupid as fuck. I'm sorry but either you get back up on your feet and face the reality or you can go become a creepy rapist or incel or something, bud. 5'8 at the SHORTEST? Are you retarded? My friend is 5'2 and he picks up chicks. The reason you are repelling chicks isn't your height, pal, it's because you sound like an idiot and a disgusting person. SOME women will reject you … | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Being called Cheeky in response to flirting?so is she, and shes quite shy too. though i dont want to make this point about my particular situation. I'll assume sh She definitely doesn't sound like she is shit testing you. You should escalate. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:18 PM |
| 3 | What should be my next step?Ofcourse you failed. That's how you know you are succeeding on the long term. Keep talking, keep talking, keep talking. You will know when to ask for numbers, just keep practicing man. There are no 'set in stone' answers. Every conversation you have in life is different than any other conversation that happened. It's all about improvisation. You need to stop being awkward when you escalate. It's going to take a lot of rejection to get you in that 'don't give a fuck' state. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Being called Cheeky in response to flirting?Ok, firstly, don't text game. It's going to guarantee that she will look down on you. If she calls you cheeky in person, don't say 'i know'. That's a bad response whether she is shit testing you OR flirting. You need to be more witty and tease her when she tells you that you are cheeky. A condescending way doesn't necessarily mean certain comments. You will be able to tell if it's condescending by the way she says it. If she says it and looks at you in a way that basically says "How fucking dare… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:08 PM |
| 21 | **Women are sadden by this act of their close male friends**If a relationship is ruined by the man asking the woman out, then it was a toxic relationship to start with. The problem is a lot of men don't tell her how they feel and they get put into a metaphorical box. It's the friend box. Some women use the men in this box and take advantage of them. A type of woman that does this is the gold digger. There are other types of woman who use men in this box if they are cruel or heartless. Other women don't use the guys in this box, and stick to doing only st… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Being called Cheeky in response to flirting?Depends. It can be a shit test in certain contexts, and it can be a flirtatious compliment in others. When chicks use it in a condescending way towards me, I diffuse the situation with more cheeky comments. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I am 22, never wore any cologne/perfume. Are they really effective?This reminds me of the time where I was having problems talking to women and then got Axe deodorant after seeing a commercial where it said girls dig it. I sprayed some on and no joke I was jumped by 10 10/10 girls and had the best 10-some of my life that night. Been spraying it on ever since and getting laid with a different chick every night. OR, you can stop obsessing over the way you smell and focus on your game. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is Tinder Dead?No, there is just more competition. Step it up, man. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 10:42 AM |
| 5 | I have zero text gameSaying you have zero text game is like saying you suck at hunting Unicorns. Why? Because text game doesn't exist. You either call them or you do yourself a favor and feed your phone to a pitbull. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 10:41 AM |
| 2 | I've been told I'm really attractive but have absolutely no gameIt's just like people who were raised around wealthy people and have wealthy parents are more likely to make more money when they grow up (there are a lot of exceptions though, if you are determined enough). Overall, fitness and fashion are important but Game is the most important skill of all. Game isn't only about getting sex, it's about being the king of the social game no matter where you go. Do you ever notice that all the big time PUA's, even though they are full of shit a lot of times, th… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 09:01 PM |
| 3 | I've been told I'm really attractive but have absolutely no gameAttractive people usually have good game because they get a lot of attention from girls AND guys from an early age. When that attention is distorted or not present, that's when they become 'weird', which is just awkwardness and can be worked on just like anything else. Problem is it can be a pain in the ass for a grown man to work on awkwardness that should have been resolved in your teenage years. But it's still possible! | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Clinical Social Anxiety/Depression and PickupUnless you feel like you can beat it without AD. Very hard to do though. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Quit Being NegativeYou care what a few people thought of you, so much as to make a pointless thread. I'm not slandering. I'm 100% correct in calling you generic and selling stuff that can be found for free. Please feel free to prove me wrong or show me any unique additions to the industry you have provided. I was reasonable, even when you started throwing insults my way because you were throwing a hissy fit. Not the sign of a socially dominant man, i'm afraid. Anyways, thanks for talking to me. Have a nice day and… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 04:08 PM |
| -1 | Quit Being NegativeI'm not Bitter, Christian, quite the contrary. I love helping others and actually my first comment to you started with a whole bunch of compliments because you aren't an idiot by any means, just generic and misinformed in some situations. But I proved my point. Look at you, a man who has worked for years in this industry and gathered a lot of information and tactics, sinking down to the point where you are getting defensive on Reddit and calling me an angry 12 year old because you don't like wha… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Quit Being NegativeBecause it's not honest business Christian. It's manipulation. You prey on the people who are down on their luck or simply aren't getting pussy and push all their buttons by using terms they don't understand very well and then take all their money and provide them with services they could have gotten for free. The rivalry between TRP and Seddit is not stupid at all. It's there for a reason. TRP is built on valid concepts but 90% of it these days is hate and angry bitter men. That's where you lur… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Quit Being NegativeNo, actually I disagree completely with you. The blanket term usage of these unnecessary phrases has led to more confusion than you think. Go ahead, define alpha and beta for me? Most people can't do it correctly, because these terms don't apply to a single way people behave. They are used incorrectly in seduction. So, no, nobody knows 'exactly' what you are talking about. People think they know what it means and then get triggered and try to be 'alpha' when in reality they are not being alpha o… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Quit Being NegativeIt's not. Years of people using blanket terms like 'beta' and 'alpha' to describe a set of traits instead of a singular personality trait has led people to generalize and think in black and white. He uses the terms to trigger a response from people, in this case advertising his program. Simple psychology, very poorly done. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 01:24 PM |
| 2 | I've been told I'm really attractive but have absolutely no gameBy going out. Believe it or not, girls are everywhere. Go talk to them. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 12:16 PM |
| 3 | I've been told I'm really attractive but have absolutely no gameWhat are you still doing on Reddit? Go out and talk to girls!! | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 12:10 PM |
| 13 | I've been told I'm really attractive but have absolutely no gameYeah, this is a very common experience. A lot of guys think they are good looking and that's all that's required to have sex. You're an idiot if you buy into that. Most of the people on here not getting pussy are very good looking. Some of them are even in the top 20%. But unless you are a 10/10 don't expect to get anywhere with your looks by standing there. Don't 'capitalise' on your good looks. Forget your good looks. Go talk to girls and learn how not to be a total 'deer in the headlights' pe… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What do I do next now?So you're asking for permission on here to call her and ask her out? What are you waiting for, man? I was taught game on the street, and one of the best sayings we had was if you're not banging her tonight, some other guys is going to be between her legs on the kitchen counter. Also, what are you doing texting her. Texting game is for knuckleheads. Call her, take her out again, escalate. ASAP. Shitting where you eat is usually a bad idea, but since you don't work in the same department it seems … | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 12:04 PM |
| 1 | (25M) is my (25F) co-worker putting me through a giant shit-test?So my co-worker is very flirty in person but just not a texter, I tried asking her to a movie when she was busy and never got a reply. She apologized in person but didn't mention re-scheduling the movie for another time.... This was a movie she expressed interest in seeing. Ok, first off, never use text game again. If you do, you don't deserve advice because you are a slacker and half assing your entire game. Either you commit to this like a man or you might as well just chop your dick off and w… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Clinical Social Anxiety/Depression and PickupYou know the answer to this, so I suggest you stop asking. Either you get up, push through your limits, medicate and do whatever needs to be done, and start talking to people. Or you give up and never get anywhere. Totally up to you, man. Think long and hard before you make a decision. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Need some help with a long time crushStep number 1: Never EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER crush on a single girl. Please let me know if you would like that in a bigger font. You have no idea how cringey and weak one-nitis makes you look. Move on and have sex with other chicks, bro. Don't ever give leverage to a woman over you by crushing on her. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Quit Being NegativeI'm not negative, i'm objective. For example, you know a lot, and I admire that. You also preach a lot about psychology, and I admire that too. Your core when dealing with women is solid, and I like that in a guy, because there are too many guys out there who aren't consistent with who they try to be. Now, on to the bad stuff. You're a bit dumb when it comes to psychology. I know psychology because I studied psychology. Your explanations from psychological standpoints USUALLY check out, and whil… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 11:53 AM |
| 4 | What do guys say that's creepy, that they don't realize is creepy?Absolutely not true. Common misconception. Creepy is lack of confidence and awkward body language. Literally has fuck all to do with your age or your shape. I promise you if Brad Pitt was not confident, and awkward, and said 'let me eat that ass', he would be labeled a creep on the spot. Happens to all of us. Best to just suck it up and move on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 09:26 AM |
| 6 | Going up to a woman when she's with her friends?Ok, I don't want to burst your bubble, but if you don't know what to say to them then you most certainly cannot 'pull it off'. Know your capabilities, otherwise you are just going to embarrass yourself. Alternatively, you can give it a shot anyways and learn from the experience. You should stop asking for scripts though. Go approach them and wing it. You don't sound like you know how to nail it, but at least you will practice improvisation. Also don't ever say they look nice. Attractive girls he… | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 06:35 AM |
| 21 | My height makes me feel insecureYour entire post is a carcinogenic. You already know the answer to this, so stop seeking validation from people on this sub. This is the exact kind of behavior that REPELS women. You're short? Who gives a fuck. I've seen midgets pick up more girls than 6'4 idiots who don't know how to talk. You're letting people walk all over you mentally because of your height and it shouldn't matter in any way, EVER. If a girl is shit testing you about your height, be witty and don't give a fuck. If a girl is … | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 06:25 AM |
| 8 | Going up to a woman when she's with her friends?Depends on if you can pull it off. A lot of newbies find it much more difficult to maintain composure and smoothness with multiple chicks, especially if they are all attractive. If you think you can pull it off without sounding awkward or giving out weird body language, then sure, go engage all of them. Otherwise, your best bet is to approach her alone OR when she is with an ugly/non attractive friend, because thats always easy. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 06:22 AM |
| 7 | How to game city women?Thanks for the insightful and revolutionary philosophical window you have opened into our crumbling society. Now shut the fuck up and go talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 3 | So I got stood up today...Careful. You're falling into the clinginess trap. Don't be that guy. Also, fuck her (no pun intended). She doesn't seem interested, so find another girl in class to date and then sit with her in clear view of this one so you can finger her while making eye contact with this one to show her what she's missing. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | I am addicted to hookups and want advice?https://giphy.com/gifs/B3bTtJdFIlynK I found a gif of you when you hit on girls from your mothers basement. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:20 AM |
| 1 | I am addicted to hookups and want advice?You're so salty LMFAO. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6bxy4n/my_weight_issue_has_been_hurting_my_game/ I hope you manage to save up for that liposuction some day, blubber. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:18 AM |
| 1 | I am addicted to hookups and want advice?Nah fam. I am probably the only person who likes you on here. I understand that you have mental issues and none of this is your fault. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:12 AM |
| 6 | What do you text a girl you randomly added on FB?I mean, you should just go all in and drive down to the kiddie playground and hit on all the kids there, too. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Should tinder dates be short of long?The fact that you think you can put a time cap on all dates is ludicrous. Every date is different. If you can't stand her and it's awkward as fuck, then you obviously want to make it short. If you're having a blast, then by all means, spend 12 hours on your date and then get married in vegas and wake up without a kidney. Do you, man. Stop using numbers on variable events. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:08 AM |
| 3 | What do you text a girl you randomly added on FB?Bro, is she 18+? | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I game in an anti-social college?I know I am making excuses and am being a coward, but I don't know how to go to parties or meet girls if they aren't going out in the first place, especially without their cliques. Most parties in our school are Greek only, so they and the others go to raves. You make excuses for yourself because of your weak mentality. Read your own words again. How can you expect to achieve social success when you incorrectly label yourself as a coward? You have let society fence you in the corner and are deme… | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I am addicted to hookups and want advice?Bro, you've outdone yourself. Your past submissions have been pathetic, but this one takes the cake. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Pickup LinesIf you use pick up lines, you should swing by the hospital and sign up for a volunteer castration as a favor to the human race. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:56 AM |
| 3 | What do you text a girl you randomly added on FB?You sound like a teenager, so go ahead and text her. But me, as an adult, I don't believe in text game, so I would grab her number and call her. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:55 AM |
| -1 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceShy and introvert have nothing to do with each other, pal. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Advice to guys on hereIf I were jealous of YOU, i'd have to seriously reconsider my standards and where I set the bar for jealousy, friend. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:48 AM |
| 46 | Just lost my virginity at 25So I've been a coward my whole life and chronic procrastinator. Weird looking to boot. Never had ANY physical contact with a woman. There's your problem. And believe me when I say, just because you got laid once doesn't mean you are going to evolve with your seduction, especially if you have THAT mentality. If you truly believe that procrastination and approach anxiety equates to cowardice, then you need a lot more help than anyone on here can give you. I'm glad you got laid, but this self shami… | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Advice to guys on hereHey man, don't mean to be a dick, but what's the point of this post? You gave us three paragraphs telling us what? That we need to believe in ourselves? That's like telling a thirsty man in the middle of a desert if he found water it would make him feel better. I don't understand what you are getting at here. And the rest of your post is a not so humble brag about how you can get laid and how you got your ugly short fat buddy to get laid. You are also too full of yourself: https://www.reddit.com… | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:27 AM |
| 21 | Almost 22 and never had a girlfriendDownvote me all you want, but i'll give you the hard truth: All the jokers on here talking about 'improving yourself' aren't good at seduction. If YOU are buying into the whole 'work on yourself', then YOU are clueless about seduction as well. Do you know how much seduction has to do with improving yourself? It has NOTHING to do with it. Sounds crazy, right? Let me tell you why: As long as YOU are happy with YOURSELF, and are NOT REPULSIVE (Aka, EXTEMELY OVERWEIGHT, STINKY, WEARING RAGS, etc.), … | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 08:51 AM |
| 2 | How often do you guys feel burnt out?I'm not at the level you're at, but I can relate because I find myself having to take a break from regular approaching, going out to get laid, flirting, etc. for a few weeks or sometimes a month or so before I get back in with renewed vigor. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong? This girl seemed like a slam dunk.I think you turned her off faster than a bucket of ice turns a candle flame off if dumped on it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 11:29 AM |
| 7 | How do I get taken seriously instead of being cuteThere are two types of comedy: Smart and purposeful comedy and slapstick dumb and dumber comedy. I think you are using the latter, so they think you're an autistic or brain damaged simpleton and they don't want to hurt your feelings. I think they are wondering if the nurses are looking for you after you broke out of that mental institution. Stop trying so hard to make them laugh. You're not their jester. Stop being so needy and stop being desperate to make them value you. You need to be yourself… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Spitting gameThis is actually bullshit and a very common misconception. Most people who learn game are here for the social skills you develop to use when AFTER you approach the girl and BEFORE you fuck her. If you can go to a girl, interact with her, get her alone, and fuck her and you didn't learn game, then you really don't need to learn game because you've developed the skills that game teaches already, whether by natural gift or simply by growing up with the right mindset and sexual progression that EVER… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Girl problemIt might be too late already. For all we know he is camping outside her house right now lololol. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 02:09 AM |
| 7 | Girl problemYou should track her down and stand outside her apartment/house naked until she comes out to talk to you. It's the only way to assert dominance. Or you know, you could just shut the fuck up and move on, since she's not the only chick in the world. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Dating is unfair for both men AND women... and I'm taking advantage of it.This article is pretentious garbage and the guy is trying so hard to be funny and witty that it makes me cringe. As far as his points go? He doesn't have a fucking clue what he is talking about. Dating CAN be unfair, but throwing a blanket statement like 'DATING IS SO UNFAIR THESE DAYS' is a very narrow minded thing to say. Also, keep in mind that this guy is under the impression that dating is easier than ever. I've never seen so much bullshit come out of one article. Dating CAN be easy, but it… | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Quick advice needed to approach. 21 y/o with no experience here.How do you expect people to work out a specific approach to your situation when they aren't there? All you have to do is go introduce yourself and then just talk about stuff. If it doesn't work, move along and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Being stood up LIVEBeing remorseful sounds like manipulation to me. Be straight forward and let her know how you feel. You're a man, start acting like one. If it happened to me personally, i'd ditch her ass faster than her brain would take to comprehend that she got ditched. Don't let girls walk all over you. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girls number at a partyIt's this mentality that breeds clinginess and needy qualities in people who don't think they are worth a lot. You're inspiring insecurities and a need for validation by posting stuff like this. You're not wrong when you say social value is important, but it's not nearly CLOSE to being everything. And if you think that being the 'center' of attention is a feasible thing to do the entire time you are at the party, then you're wasting energy on seeking validation instead of getting laid. You need … | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Did marijuana lower your sex drive/sharpness in game?It depends on the product and your reaction to it. Everyone is different. I find that weed in small doses makes me more social sometimes. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Being stood up LIVEWhy are you whining to the people on here? She clearly doesn't have as much respect for you as she should, so either assert this to her or ditch her and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | To everybody that has AA due to the fact that they think that they are creepy; you're not creepy at all.This post is decent, but OP is a bit misinformed. Most guys who have AA to a higher level and approach girls while displaying very awkward body language will most LIKELY get labelled as creeps. I speak from experience and having seen guys that I winged with get stuck in this cycle. Now, this doesn't mean that you ARE creepy. Creepy is used way too often these days by girls who judge a guy negatively based on the first impression they give off. It is also used by the few girls who are just bitchy… | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:33 PM |
| 8 | [rant?] those girls that seem into you and then block youSo move on to the next one. Who cares if some chick flakes on you? | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 03:12 AM |
| 10 | Its more about body language then verbal communication. All you really need to say is hiIt's actually not all about the eye contact. It's about the congruence of your body language to your verbal tone. 85% of communication is body language. If you're even 10% anxious it might blow your chances. This is why socially awkward guys or people with anxiety find it 1000x harder to seduce, even if they look amazing and have a great personality. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 03:11 AM |
| 22 | Never has a girl texted me "I'll let you know" and then proceeded to do exactly that...This is why we tell you not to text game. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do about approach anxiety anymore...Then see a free counselor or get someone that you can talk to about your personal problems. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 09:51 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what to do about approach anxiety anymore...Social anxiety isn't a black and white type of condition. It's a very vague and complicated type of anxiety. It can be general, like if you were anxious to talk to anyone, or specific, like you're experiencing in this situation. You have a specific type of social anxiety and if you do not deal with this it's going to become worse. Approach anxiety IS a form of social anxiety, which is present in everyone (yes, even master PUA's). But usually it's not enough to cripple someone from talking to gir… | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do about approach anxiety anymore...You have severe social anxiety, from what you're describing. This isn't related to pick up specifically, but to socializing, obviously. Either start working on your anxiety to reduce it by yourself or seek professional help and get some meds/start seeing a therapist. There is no way around this so you have to deal with it before you start making any meaningful gains in your seduction. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what to do about approach anxiety anymore...Don't give him advice on Exposure therapy if you have no idea what it actually is beyond a simple google definition you happened to look up just the one time. Exposure therapy is much more complicated than 'facing your worst fear', and it can actually make him WORSE if he exposes himself to rejection and then allows it to hurt him. The final statement about a therapist I totally agree with though. He might even need medication from a psychiatrist. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 09:40 PM |
| -1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?Yes and no. There is always that initial judgement based ONLY on your looks, but if you have game or a magnetic personality and are able to show that part of yourself smoothly to that chick, most of the time it will win her over. That's why you see fat ugly neckbeards with lots of game get laid with 8-9/10's regularly. I've seen it firsthand. That aside, there are SOME girls who don't like certain TYPES of guys. Like for example, if you are shorter than 6' or are white (not joking), some girls w… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 07:30 AM |
| 23 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?Well I just made a thread about this. The thing about being creepy is that it happens when you lack the correct body language and specific confidence in a social situation. By default, people who never had sex or escalated before with a stranger are going to keep coming off as creepy until they have gathered the necessary skills to progress. Also, most girls these days, especially when approached by a stranger, are very picky with guys. Not looks-wise, but just the way you come off. If you're aw… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?No one says it doesn't work every now and then, but it's beta and girly. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 02:48 AM |
| 0 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Even if I WAS 12, i'd be more stable than you. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 02:48 AM |
| 0 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Jesus man, do you want a tampon? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?If they don't pick up the phone with me, I leave them in the gutter. I don't do texting. I'm not a girl. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:30 PM |
| 0 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?No one hurt me. You need to stop being sensitive. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:29 PM |
| 0 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Seriously, that's your conclusion? Well, at least you're having sex, man. Just don't get any kids, we don't need any more single digit IQ people on this planet. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:14 PM |
| 0 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?LOL. Maybe it's time to become gay? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Not at all. Text game is pathetic and doesn't build rapport. Go look around the sub if you don't believe me. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:09 PM |
| 3 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Ask for her number then!! | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 07:09 AM |
| 5 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Why don't you call her instead of wasting your time making yourself look like a total beta male through texting? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:30 AM |
| 2 | I became awesome and the girls didn't comeAnyone who thinks pick up is about getting hobbies or a degree is absolutely naive and knows nothing about pick up. Improving yourself on the aesthetic level IF YOU NEED TO (example, you are overweight or you have a BO) is all that is necessary to start gaming. After that, gaming is learning how to socially maneuver any conversation and turn it into positively charged sexual energy. Has nothing at all to do with your hobbies, paygrade, heritage, culture, or anything like that at all. Anyone who … | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:16 AM |
| 3 | need advice on how to deal with failing in a reloI don't know if you are trolling, but if you aren't, you need to stop asking to kiss and stop apologizing. Be a man. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 10:20 AM |
| 3 | need advice on how to deal with failing in a reloWHY DID YOU APOLOGIZE LOL? Go talk to her about it and never apologize again. Next time work on timing. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Hey guys, last year I had it mostly together and things were going well, until I fucked it up with one girl and I lost almost all confidence. Today I feel like shit, and want to get back to where I was, but don't know how. Would you mind giving me a hand?Just stop giving a shit. That's what I do. Go find some other girl to shag. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:54 AM |
| 2 | My personal trick to be more charismaticHow are you getting upvotes for this lol? You just listed an example and then the advice you gave was for a different situation LOL. This is what politicians do in arguments. You didn't advise anyone on how to act if they are the third wheel in a 3 way discussion, as your example suggested. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | On the outside everyone thinks I'm confident and secure, but I am insecure as hell on the inside.You know what vibe I got from your post? More than just insecurity. It's stinks of a desperate need for validation by girls. Stop caring about what they want and just focus on yourself. It pains me to see guys ripping themselves apart over what girls want out of them. Why should you torture yourself on the behalf of what some girls want? | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Do gays get erect when they see pictures of guys they like or see them in public?Man, go lie down on the highway. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:49 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the very informative description. Because as we all know, all types of awkwardness with outgoing and confident girls are 100% the same and we will all be able to provide you with VERY specific answers to your life problems. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Do gays get erect when they see pictures of guys they like or see them in public?I think my face fell off from cringing. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Has improving your game also improve other parts of your life?Ofcourse. Game isn't about having sex. Game is about acquiring numerous skills socially that you can use in any given situation with just about anyone (job interviews, speeches, fight diffusing...) It's a lifelong process and needs to be practiced nearly all, if not all, the time. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Hey guys, last year I had it mostly together and things were going well, until I fucked it up with one girl and I lost almost all confidence. Today I feel like shit, and want to get back to where I was, but don't know how. Would you mind giving me a hand?I think I gagged a little reading your post. It's written like a cheap romance novel. Listen man, this might sound a bit aggressive, but stop being a little girl about all of this. Have you considered growing some balls and just forgetting about her? There are other fish in the sea and you shouldn't let her fuck you up to this extent. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 06:46 AM |
| 2 | It seems as though girls DONT WANT to be approachedThen it's obviously the way you are going up to them. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Men now need more than just money to be 'marriageable'If you're being categorized as marriage material, 80% of the time she is just using you for something. You're being a beta and she's looking to you as a provider and not a lover. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys, what would text a girl, if a girl started not to reply your text or takes hours to do so?Why are you texting her man? How many times do we have to tell you to stop texting? | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this an IOI ??How are we supposed to know? Next time you should try talking to her. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 11:57 AM |
| 14 | Does it mean anything when girls talk to you about their girlfriends?She's trying to set you up with this girl. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | It seems as though girls DONT WANT to be approachedVideo? Infield? I bet you $20 your delivery is more awkward than you think it is. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Why do I fear rejection even though I'm good looking?It's because you are so self absorbed that you have rated yourself 8-9/10. That shows to me that you are insecure and are afraid of being told otherwise by girls when you approach them. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 11:54 AM |
| 2 | How often do you go out to meet womenDon't go out with the intention of meeting women. Even though some people find success doing that, it's actually a very faulty mentality. Your goal is to be spontaneous, not to go out with a set goal, because then you are going to fall short of your expectations, especially if you are unskilled. Go out and talk to everyone, men, women, children (assuming it's in the middle of the day), and yourself (in the park without any clothes one). I'm joking about the last part but you get my point. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there ever a situation where messaging is fine?Good luck :) | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Is there ever a situation where messaging is fine?Just call her and build rapport. Only use texts for simple replies that don't need calls. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:40 AM |
| 3 | I have a 12 hour layover in Berlin and I think its time I got out of my comfort zone. Challenge me!Well, you might see some of them again, but I get what you are saying. Most of the time you will never see them again, so go nuts, as long as you don't do something outrageous. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Is there ever a situation where messaging is fine?No. Never. Ever. Looks like you're downvoting people who tell you it's not good too! You're obviously a very secure and stable person. Let me put this in easy terms for you: You can't build rapport through texts. Man up and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | What are good places for a guy to meet girls without going to a bar or club?Then you are putting her feelings on a pedestal. You're digging your own grave. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:38 AM |
| 5 | I have a 12 hour layover in Berlin and I think its time I got out of my comfort zone. Challenge me!Canned phrases are for people who don't want to get out of their comfort zone. I think it's time you developed your natural conversation technique. Make us proud. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 10:29 AM |
| 2 | How actually do you get a girlfriendAlright cool. Keep approaching and never give up! | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 08:25 AM |
| -1 | How actually do you get a girlfriend15-20? Oh, you poor thing. How can you possibly survive. How can you possibly go on after hitting on 90% of the population. Please understand that some of us approach 50 girls per DAY. Do the math. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:03 AM |
| 1 | What are good places for a guy to meet girls without going to a bar or club?Not true. Not true at all. Not even close to true. And the guy beneath me saying creepy is not looking good is clueless as well. Downvote all you want (it shows how insecure you are), but the truth of the matter is girls will label you creepy if you come off as awkward. And so what? Just move on to the next one until you get it right. Stop being such a baby. I see guys like you making excuses all day long. No one is preventing you from approaching people. Go do it and then complain. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:01 AM |
| – | What are good places for a guy to meet girls without going to a bar or club?Um, literally anywhere? Talk to girls wherever you go. Bus, bus stops, library, subway, cafes, restaurants, supermarket, street, mall. Come on man. Believe it or not, there are tons of better places than clubs or bars to meet women. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 03:53 AM |
| 6 | When to approach and some observations.I approach all the time. Even if just to say hello or ask for directions. It's not about approaching, it's about engaging. Stop reading too much into it. If she's unresponsive, move on. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 03:51 AM |
| 2 | I do worse at pick up when i'm looking great than when i'm looking normal..Thanks for the reply. I was referring to more than clothes, for example a new haircut, clean shave (rather than some facial hair), a radiant glow, etc. But your answer can apply to all of those as well. I guess if I always look my best, it wouldn't be such a big deal anymore. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 04:40 AM |
| 73 | Peacocking in my 40sWhat in the actual fuck did I just read.. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to pick up an Asian girl?Put your arms under her armpits and lift up as hard as you can. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Habit vs Irregular Battle.Actually, for a lot of people on here, it's the opposite of boring. For a lot of people on here, approaching people on a daily basis is a bit traumatizing because of the anxiety and stress it puts on the system. Also, talking to people is only step 1. A lot of people talk all day and night to people and still can't get within a mile of a pussy. It's about talking with INTENT and sexual INTENT that is going to get you laid. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:42 AM |
| 2 | I speak like a retard, can I improve?First of all, stop calling yourself a retard. How do you expect to improve when you are pouring self pity? It's pretty cringey and you need to cut it out. Next step would be speech therapy. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What is a "nice guy" ?To be completely honest with you, there is no such thing as a nice guy. There is only labels and silly social stigma's. Now, i'm not saying people labelled as nice guys are doing the right thing, because they aren't, but the way people label them and then do the exact same thing is just a bit stupid. Nice guys are simply people who are bad at manipulating women. 85% of the people on here and TRP modify what a nice guy does essentially in order to get laid and not be labelled nice guys. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Come on, I think we can both agree 'your mom' is still very popular between arguments on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Possibly biggest fuck-up possible...Jeez, man, I have no earthly idea why someone who calls themselves an idiot and is publicly putting themselves down online, clearly agitated over what happened in the past, would have a hard time getting a boner during sex. It's baffling. Really unexplainable. You should relax and never bang your roommate. Use common sense. | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...You think so? He told me he was done with me and then replied 3 more times. Stop riding him. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl and stop being a beta. (EXPLICIT)http://imgur.com/a/KpPHY Just go lock yourself back up in the basement, weirdo. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...Man, I am actually disappointed in how easy it is to get under your skin. You need to reassess your life and possibly get some mental help pronto. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Well boys, it finally happened...Calls me a plonker, then accuses me of insulting. Ad hominem. It must really suck to be at the mental level of an ape, huh? I nearly feel sorry for you. NEARLY. Go back to your moms basement and be a good boy, you simpleton. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Well boys, it finally happened...Your overly dramatic way of arguing only makes you look stupider. I had to say something. I suggest you stop being so defensive and learn to talk and type normally so that you may grow as a person. Also, throw away your fedora's, I can only CRINGE at what your game must look like. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 02:04 PM |
| -3 | Well boys, it finally happened...The only thing worse than your intellectual capacity is your inability to convince everyone that you aren't a triggered manchild with insecurities stemming an entire planet. Keep up the good work. You let me walk all over you and embarrassed yourself. Clearly you are used to being a doormat. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 01:41 PM |
| 18 | Man Boob DilemmaI mean, you and everyone here knows that the only real solution here is to hit the gym and lose the moobs. Stop delaying the inevitable by posting rhetoric questions. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 01:37 PM |
| -4 | Well boys, it finally happened...God bless mentally challenged people like you on this subreddit. Where would we be without ignorant neanderthals like yourself to make the rest of us look good? No, silly, Introversion doesn't have anything to do with going outside either. I can see you have a single digit IQ, so i'm going to do you a favor: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraversion_and_introversion Now, remember, the key is to READ SLOWLY, because I know your brain won't be able to keep up. So come back in 2 months when you re… | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Well boys, it finally happened...You don't grow out of being introverted. Introversion is an orientation. Introversion has nothing to do with ability to have sex. You might be talking about shyness. Please read up on this stuff. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 11:40 AM |
| – | But what if you are a phenomenal person but have severe social anxiety?Ok, fair enough. But I meant making things intimate in general. Like if i'm talking to a girl and we're having a good time I have no clue how to make it intimate without being awkward. This goes for everything, including touching, hugging, kissing, and ofcourse proceeding to sex. It's all a progressive thing and I have no idea how to not make it look forced and awkward. Everytime I try it doesn't come out confident and assertive because I feel like a no legged man trying to ride a bicycle. This … | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | But what if you are a phenomenal person but have severe social anxiety?Thanks for the answer, but I disagree. The treatments have enabled me to resume my everyday life and I am able to do EVERYTHING without having attacks except this one thing. So obviously the treatment has worked. I'm anxious because I have no clue what to do when it comes to getting laid. I'm not 'struggling', i'm literally 100% LOST. Like completely and utterly confused. Also, i'd like to address the last part of your answer. I've had conversations with women AND men without any expectations. Y… | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 12:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you correctly time your text game?let me tell you something you don't want to hear. Text game doesn't exist. If you're texting to build rapport, you've already failed. How about calling her and building rapport like you're told to do on here? It's the only way you're going to build it effectively. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I hate myselfI used to let rejections hurt me a lot and then I realized I was the only one who could bring myself down. Don't let others drag you down. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 07:53 PM |
| 0 | I hate myselfWell, stop being a slave to your emotions. Shrug it off and keep going. You need to be hard, like a rock. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 07:50 PM |
| 2 | I hate myselfJust the fact that you are saying you hate yourself, calling yourself a coward and giving us this depressed, bleak attitude explains EVERYTHING. How do you expect to get anywhere if you are labeling yourself like this? You need some serious therapy before you get started on PUA, buddy. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?You too, nice to see you aren't fuming anymore. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?I can't speak for anything but Tinder, which i've tried and seen other guys try. Now, my profile on there isn't great and it's a work in progress, but from what i've seen so far, is the hot girls on Tinder swipe right on guys out of their league and swipe left on a ton of guys for no good reason. I also know a lot of girls who are attractive and own a Tinder for the sole purpose of getting validation. I personally feel like going into a club/bar and learning how to charm girls and the groups the… | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?What about one night stands? Where getting to know each other isn't as important as the vibe you put out for that short period of time between hitting on her and sleeping with her. Unattractive guys who work on their social skills and have a good mentality/attitude, can get one night stands with girls out of their league, is that right? | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Are average or slightly sub average guys completely screwed when it comes to dating?Then how about leading with the last part instead of writing the dumbest piece of garbage advice I ever read. You're one to talk about hypocrites when your entire paragraph sounds like a bitch fit. I never called anyone in the wrong for preferring hot people, I was asking a simple question. If you feel this strongly about the subject then you've got severe problems, buddy. Don't post stupid shit next time if you have nothing intellectual to contribute with. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Too Confident?Are you good or bad with girls? You're not being specific so we can't help you out. If you're good with girls, then you aren't being confident, you're being cocky/arrogant. If you're bad with girls, then you aren't being confident, you are being aggressive, which is a defense mechanism in these situations. Elaborate and you will get better answers. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Longest rejection streak you been on?First time I got into this, two hundred and twenty five. My wingman left me and told me I was never going to do it. Night after I got laid. Persistence is most definitely the key. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 03:03 AM |
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