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| 52 | is there a way to "win" ?This made me think because I’ve invariably become an independent professional and have been single by choice for some time now. So maybe that really is the way, or at least one of the ways. Edit: This works for ME. A “win” for everyone is different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 62 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?Trust me they do it to every girl. It’s them not us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:35 AM |
| 167 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?Every single “friend” I’ve had has approached me eventually either for a relationship or sex. The same has happened with many girlfriends. I haven’t been friends with any guy for this reason for like 4-5 years now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Thanks to FDS, this young adult isn't afraid of ageing anymore! 💕👸🏻I’m 36 and don’t have even one wrinkle yet. So take care of yourself and stop worrying. There’s a long way to go. Besides, wrinkles are beautiful too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:02 AM |
| 13 | how women are viewed. this is why you don't use OLD, and refrain from sex or even men because they really are not worth the stress and trouble.There’s one thing I thank the pandemic for. I stopped dating. And my life is infinitely better now. I sleep better and have no man-induced stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 20 | Beware!This is half truth. Full truth is that marriage makes the man’s life better. And the woman’s life worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:52 AM |
| 20 | Beware!Get married if you are sure you can leave at any time. Be financially secure. Have your own money. Have your own friends and support system. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:51 AM |
| 6 | Hint; this is done on purpose. It's not that men/grown boys can't aim, it's an assertion of dominance over women.I would love to hear what your joke was lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 39 | This man messaged me asking about FDS just to tell me how difficult it is for men to perform simple tasks such as housework..And men think of themselves as the stronger sex lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Ma’am. What exactly is the purpose of this ferine creature you call a “husband”? 🥴Even children help out more than this “husband” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menAre you me? This is it! My situation is exactly the same and it’s great that we are smart and compassionate enough to not date when we aren’t feeling our best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 8 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?He has sent this so that you keep the door open for when he wants to come back. Shut the door and don’t tell him. Do not respond. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:50 PM |
| 3 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolDoesn’t even have to be that big of a difference. My ex boss who is 46 and divorced kept pestering me for months to go on a date with him. Even though I said no every time. I’m 33. First of all look in the mirror. Second of all, the audacity my god! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:22 PM |
| 11 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftIt’s funny how scrotes are the same everywhere. I’m in India and have seen literally all of these things mentioned in this thread, in online dating profiles here. Weird but not surprising. They’re all like boring copies of each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 11 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!Don’t get me wrong, I get the frustration. But aren’t we amplifying such insignificant, irrelevant scrotes by posting them here? Such tweets should be ignored and left alone to die. I just don’t think they need a wider audience, even if it’s fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Would have laughed at this video before. All I can think about now is “after 8 years???? That’s the proposal???”It’s funny how women are supposed to want marriage so bad when the institution benefits only men and actually makes women’s lives worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 13 | Joining the celebration! 🎉 I also choose me!Very pretty! The ring design as well as the colour of your top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 26 | The body shamersI hope you know this isn’t true and stretch marks are extremely normal. Much love to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:55 PM |
| 157 | Men : "wat do u bring to the table" Also, men :Pretty sure some woman will swipe right on this dude wanting to change him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:16 AM |
| 237 | Dad’s an HVM ❤️I want to hold this girl by the shoulders and shake her up. You’re 17. You’re not supposed to be understanding of this dude’s “stress” and you’re entitled to expect more! Sigh. I wish girls knew they deserve better than what they settle for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:39 AM |
| 32 | The body shamersWhat exactly did he say you must do about the stretch marks? Because they sure as hell cant be removed no matter how much we shame someone for them. So basically he did it just for the lulz? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 57 | I don't understand the point of this situationship, getting anxiety over a delayed text, knowing its gonna be over on his term, letting him take up space, for what?What I don’t understand is why does anyone need a pAnDeMiC cOmPaNiOnShIp with a man who clearly doesn’t want you. This was a time to be single and work on yourself. A time for self love. And it makes me sad that some people have wasted it worrying about trivial shit. Also, he doesn’t make you happy. You don’t know what makes you happy. You won’t know until you spend some time alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Disgusting invasion of privacy - let's date!Every time I’m required to give my number at a showroom or restaurant I give my dad’s. This is why. Learned the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 26 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.I’ve been watching The Crown and all I could picture was Diana, Charles and Camilla. This is the same bloody thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 51 | If the first thing your boyfriend does when you show up to a hotel room is call someone else to give them a tour. That man isn't really your boyfriend.I stopped reading when I read the ages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 227 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”Men are so desperate to marry they cannot even be bothered to spend time on a proper proposal lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 65 | When ugly old men remove themselves from the dating pool >>>What makes him think a feminist would date him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!5 bucks says he will continue to follow from an anonymous account. Scrotes don’t change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 86 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️This post gave me yet another sign I never want to marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 202 | Why do guys have to remind women that we're physically weaker every chance they get?In a world where most people have desk jobs, and aren’t even supposed to do physical work like go to war, it’s hilarious that this is the attribute they think that makes them better. Sadly, most of them use their physical strength on their women only. Violence is the only power they have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 13 | Talking to your ex is like a watching a gore video. Yes you might be curious, and think it's going to be ok. But it will just lower your frequency and you'll regret it.This. I’ve done my share of stupid stuff but I have to say I’m proud I have never ever contacted an ex. Not even while drunk. Once you’re out of my life you’re out for good. I have replied when they have contacted but that’s in the past too. I’m radio silence with them now. Or if it’s someone not very significant like someone I went on a couple of dates with, then I respond with “who is this?” coz it is damn entertaining how much it pisses them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 14 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I have a feeling the woman wrote this because men are never this self aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Kicking off the weekend with flowers for myself. This is a reminder for you to do something you love this weekend 💛Carnations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 15 | Just thought this was sweetWhat irks me is that this man chose to shoot this. Doing nice things for your wife is so rare that you must document it and share with your followers for points haan? Cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 15 | He's a virginIt’s a red flag in the sense that dudes generally don’t wait so long. In fact they’re desperate to have sex as soon as possible. So why hasn’t he, yet? Also another issue that’ll creep up is that you’ll likely become “practice” and he will later want to have sex with other women because now he knows what it feels like and he will think he hasn’t had enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Is this a long term relationship with a love bomber?Leave at the very first sign of disrespect. And in this case there have been way too many. This guy will drain you and completely break your self confidence eventually. Save yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 70 | Strongly against porn - how and when do I find out if this is a deal breaker with a potential partner?It makes me sad that I don’t believe there are too many men out there who don’t watch it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 22 | Men "Going their own way" etc, why are you stalking us so intensely? FDS went private for a short amount of time and all these LVM have nothing to do other than stalking us. May I suggest therapy? Why are you so obsessed with us?This was dark but made me laugh so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 10 | Why do I see so many posts like this on OLD looking for women to be free prostitutes to them?To show up on the app for younger women who have set an appropriate age range. They want to bypass that because they’re disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 55 | Right...Fair. Some of them already look like they’re pregnant and they PMS all the time anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.What the actual fuck! I felt physically ill just reading this, and this woman is asking for advice?! Run, woman. Run as fast as you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 146 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)Here’s an example that men look beautiful when their thoughts are sorted. Good on him for speaking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:53 PM |
| 9 | The sheer audacity...Which app is this, btw? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 36 | How do I know if texting habits is a red flag or not?I didn’t read beyond the ages. Not cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 220 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30He used the word sex 4 times in just a few messages. That answers your question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 39 | Love the self awareness 👏 😂I’m scared if that works for anyone. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 251 | Three hours between these messages... that mask came off QUICKOne of the “tests” I use in the beginning while texting with a guy is slow responses. It can reveal a lot about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:57 AM |
| 80 | Man asks for tips to help him stalk a Twitch streamer because her likes her. We can’t have anything nice without men trying to insert themselves and their desires.This is terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:11 AM |
| 43 | I- have men always been this dirty or is it an uprise of unhygienic guysBut women have to wax and shave everything below their eyelashes down to their feet because hYgiEnE right? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 11 | Well...Which is why my comment said I hate the idea of public proposals. And that it’s important to know beforehand what their answer will be which can only happen via communication. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:15 AM |
| 139 | I read this, and I don’t doubt this in the slightest bit. I’ve been in similar shoes like this.I’m sorry but if he already told her he doesn’t want a relationship and she still did this for 6 months, that’s stupid. Don’t expect a man to change his mind about you by doing things for him. Asking a guy to label things is just demeaning. Get out before he kicks you out. I’m being harsh but sometimes that’s what’s required. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 5 | When a woman doesn’t value herself enough to embrace being valued by a manAmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Mr "Feminist_Murderer" over here is cranky because we prioritise women's safety & wellbeing over male feelingsWow. Can you imagine. A group for women...is female-centric. Who would have thought?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 10 | At least they are warning us upfront now 🤷🏻♀️I seriously hope not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 347 | Well...How does someone even propose without having a basic idea of whether she will say yes? And I hate the concept of public proposals. Such an impersonal thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 27 | Is it strange that potential date sent me an unflattering photo?He has probably sent it to 5 other women without thinking. Men are stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 13 | On “forever girlfriend”Yeah that makes sense. This is what I was getting confused about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Been doing it for few years and it’s changed my mindset completely. I have set the bar high for anyone else coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 8 | On “forever girlfriend”I agree with you. That’s why I haven’t married yet. Would rather wait or even not marry than be stuck in something bad or even mediocre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 18 | When a woman doesn’t value herself enough to embrace being valued by a manThat is possible in the dystopian world we are living in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Good you did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Yaaasss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 4 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.We’ve all been idiots in the past. Glad we learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.They sound lovely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Lucky to have found them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Please do. It’s a great way to feel loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Such a simple step for a happy day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.lol what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.I know right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Lol. Just make sure you get flowers that are not poisonous to cats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Yes you do!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Yes we do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.They lift the mood instantly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Luckily here I can get a flower bunch for under $10 depending on what I’m getting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Yes you do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 7 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.In my country one can easily get a beautiful bunch for under $10-15. There’s absolutely no excuse to not buy someone flowers here lol. I regularly send bunches to my girl friends. I’d be happy if a guy even gets one single rose sometimes. The point is that the ones who do drama in buying them for you don’t care about making you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 37 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.I think I remember that! Wanted to remind everyone to do this often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:56 AM |
| 11 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.We all do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 9 | Is this a non-issue?A lot of the friends I have are people I met online. If you can do OLD you can do that too. It’s a matter of perspective. I have depression and anxiety so I too have found it easier to make friends online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 9 | Is this a non-issue?But you seem to be finding men just fine for this advice it seems? Seems like you’re looking for the wrong people in the wrong places. It’s not that hard to find female friendships. And for networking it’s not just events. Maybe you should be reading some of the comments on this post more seriously instead of shooting down every suggestion. We’re looking out for you but at the end of the day it’s your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Is this a non-issue?Then perhaps your focus should be on networking with more women who can mentor you. Find friendships. You don’t have to fuck people for knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!He is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Is this a non-issue?And what exactly are these questions that only men can answer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 31 | Is this a non-issue?Bad idea to get advice from men. They don’t know what it takes to succeed as a woman and they’ll likely take advantage of you. There’s plenty of good advice out there by women. Get a library card and read books by women. Listen to podcasts by women. Watch YouTube videos by women. In this day and age there’s no excuse to do what you’re doing and putting yourself in danger and emotional harm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 23 | Spotted on a post about how it’s messed up that women have to use fake names/numbers to manage male rejection/anger. Per enlightened-Reddit-Man, all we need to do is arm ourselves to the teeth and become violent like them and men will respect us and act right 🙄Any time someone says this doesn’t happen, direct them to When women refuse . It’s a collection of stories of violence inflicted on women who reject sexual advances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 28 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!I mean look at Peter Dinklage. The man is 4’5”, has played iconic roles and has been married for 15 years. It’s not the height that bothers us. It’s the insecurities that most men have because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 34 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!Imagine flaunting your insecurities like that looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 55 | In the absence of your own desire to improve yourself, lie to the allegedly superficial women who want an educated, driven partner. His post, my answer. The comments were a cesspool of twisted validation for him and denigration of her. I had to say something.Men : “it’s totally okay for men to want beautiful attractive slim women with big butts because we like what we like and can’t change it” Also men : “how dare you want a partner with an education and career” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 29 | ...anyways,One time a guy got pissed because I didn’t give him a compliment in return. He actually admitted to me that he compliments women in the hope that they will compliment him too. What a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 66 | How hard is it to put on a nice shirt?Not gonna lie I have literally walked out on a date because of the way he was dressed. Dressing well is a form of good manners and I just don’t waste time on people with bad manners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 137 | I had not texted him back for over a week, he sends this message todayThese idiots assume we’re dying for a relationship with them when there are plenty of other much better options. I’d rather be single for life than be with someone who just assumes I wanna be with his dirty ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:48 PM |
| 9 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!Genuine compliments from men are hard to come by because they’re looking for something in return. They want you to compliment them in return or give them attention or your time. That’s why it’s hard for them to fathom how women can hype each other up. I usually ignore compliments from men or say a quick thanks without emojis or any compliments in return or anything that shows I’m too excited about it. (In the beginning of course. Once there’s an established relationship it’s ok to compliment the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 66 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!You didn’t thank him and fall at his feet after that compliment, you ungrateful woman /s Edit: don’t thank them for their compliments in the beginning and it reveals a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:27 AM |
| 28 | Your dating pool is the men who are interested in you romantically and want a relationshipWell, I’ve only ever dated men who were interested and pursued me and they were still shit so... Yeah this is your dating pool but it doesn’t mean the selection is great. You’re just wasting less time going after the ones not interested at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 39 | Help me break my Pick-me urges!The minute you find yourself making excuses for a man, you know you’re talking about a LVM. Stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 33 | Did she lie?!⬆️⬆️⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 136 | Did she lie?!A friend of mine told me her second boyfriend shamed her for blowing her first. He asked her if she did and poor girl told him because “honesty”. Had she known better she would have ended it. But she told him and he was literally judging her for being sexual when she didn’t even know of his existence. Scrotes want virgins but will also want them to be amazing in bed and do “kinky” stuff. Without prior experience. Okay then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 29 | Men seem to have no empathy and relate everything to themselves (or, why my abuse was My Fault™️)I’m sorry you had to go through this. But I don’t think you cheated. You were trying to escape an abusive situation that you were groomed into in the first place. Try and forgive yourself, be kind to yourself and yes men will always find a way to blame you. Don’t fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 63 | Scrote gets what he deservesJesus Christ. And she’s still blaming herself. I will never get over the fact that men expect you to give up your career and money to raise kids but will leave you penniless after divorce. You were just doing the most difficult job in the world of raising a family but pphhhbbbtt you still don’t deserve anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 12 | We are unstoppable when we choose to beI wish this didn’t say “female” but the message is good, nevertheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 15 | On self love.Don’t know how this harmless message about self love has attracted such critiques. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:14 PM |
| 17 | On self love.Don’t know where you’re drinking coffee but sitting in a nice café sipping coffee in a beautiful mug reading a book is a great date with yourself. It’s just an example though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:28 AM |
| 14 | On self love.Narcissism has hardly anything to do with liking the way you look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:26 AM |
| 15 | On self love.Exactly. Absolutely nothing wrong with admiring your own selfie. Women have been shamed enough for it. It’s about damn time we own it. I take selfies to document some makeup looks I do just for myself!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:26 AM |
| 12 | On self love.Taking a selfie when you’re feeling cute doesn’t mean you’ll post it. I take selfies and like to look at them a year down the line when my phone reminds me of the photo memories. It’s nice to look back on your fabulous looks or be reminded of cute outfits. The point is to not take selfies for anyone else but yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:24 AM |
| 15 | On self love.The message overall is about doing nice things for yourself. For some it may be a coffee date. For you it might be something else. The message doesn’t get diluted because of these specifics. It was an example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:22 AM |
| 50 | A girl "friend" of mine showed me the sexual market value (SMV) TRP graph. Please kindly correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't this graph shows that a 15 year-old girl (a CHILD) has higher SMV than 25 year old man?!!!Go on any dating app and you’ll see how badly men age. This person has no clue what she’s talking about. Also it’s disgusting to measure people’s worth on a graph. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:42 AM |
| 108 | A girl "friend" of mine showed me the sexual market value (SMV) TRP graph. Please kindly correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't this graph shows that a 15 year-old girl (a CHILD) has higher SMV than 25 year old man?!!!The fuck is this. Also have they seen men over 40? Only a rock will be attracted to...that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:30 AM |
| 40 | Made me smile 💁♀️I hate the “why are you still single” question. As if your relationship status is a reflection of how attractive or smart you are. As if it’s a reflection of other people’s interest in you and not your own standards and choices. Patriarchal society wants us to think we should be paired up asap and not being so means something must be wrong with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:18 AM |
| 11 | Has this already been posted? LolThe same, girl. Learned this from experience. They’ll never let you forget they are short and will have a host of other insecurities because of it. And they’ll lash out on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 36 | In a LTR that did not begin with FDS standards, how can rising queens overtly or covertly remind their boyfriends that they are not married and that he is taking her for granted? BF is overly secure in 3 year relationship but I feel like a burned out housewife with promises of a future but no ringLeave. Because a HVM would never string you along like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 14 | Has this already been posted? LolThey themselves bring it up, more often than not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:48 AM |
| 76 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsHoly hell that is low even for a guy. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 45 | Has this already been posted? LolHonestly I only date tall guys because short guys are hella insecure and I don’t want to be someone’s therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Thanks to FDS I can see all the red flags in this sloppy attempt to reel me back in. They know what they’re doing & they don’t care till their access is revoked. He’ll be waiting for that reply forever.Yes exactly. They don’t know what hit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 10 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Sounds like defending their actions if you’re suggesting they can’t bring up the guts to say “I didn’t feel a connection with you”. I have said it to guys so why can’t guys say the same instead of using the I’m not ready BS? That’s the whole point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.I got a feeling it was more about the emotional investment and effort he would have had to do. They get intimidated real fast sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 8 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.I definitely haven’t texted people for 3 more days if I didn’t feel a spark. I texted them the same night that I don’t see it going anywhere but I wish them all the best. Not said “I’m not ready” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Obviously but he asked me out again and texted me constantly for three more days. When I haven’t felt spark on a date I’ve said so the same night. Still, at least he said so even if it took 3 days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 10 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.EXACTLY. I prefer having these nice meals in my own company instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 23 | How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex?“What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done” is never an innocent question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 17 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.In this case, he actually did pay and also took me to a great place. Maybe he knew all along that he was wasting my time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 23 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?How did this person have a child without knowing what vaginas look like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 47 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Most of them do it to string women along for months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 81 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.My most recent date ended with the guy asking me out on a second date but in 3 days he texted me he’s not ready and I was actually glad he did. At least he just wasted my 3 days not 3 months! We hadn’t even slept together yet. He did the bare minimum thing by being honest but I was grateful for it. Told him thank you and never texted him again. However, what I don’t get is why a 36 year old man went out on a date if he wasn’t ready, or why ask someone out again. Just don’t do it. It’s plain and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 7 | OLDListen to your gut feeling. It’s not for everyone. I’m trying OLD lately because it’s not possible here to meet someone outside due to covid. Almost everything is still shut. I see no way of running into anyone and honestly wouldn’t want to as it’s not safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 15 | Is it just me or is talking to straight men literally the most boring thing ever?My theory is that they’re usually not smart because they never had to be. The world gives everything on a platter to mediocre men so they don’t have to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 20 | OLDOn OLD, it’s a matter of sifting through garbage to find a gem. Two of my friends found their significant others on an app and they are genuinely good people. It’s possible if you have patience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 15 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Men usually approach women for “picking their brains” for free even when they barely know them. An old colleague recently did this with me and I told him I can send him my portfolio and monthly charges. He never asked again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 40 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.“Gold digger” used for women is usually projection by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 38 | What's the last reason you rejected a guy for?He breathed in my general direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 46 | How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex?I walk out if I’m asked this question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 49 | Thanks to FDS I can see all the red flags in this sloppy attempt to reel me back in. They know what they’re doing & they don’t care till their access is revoked. He’ll be waiting for that reply forever.Respond with: “Who is this?” And then ghost him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.And then they say they can’t get any dates 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 17 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Or a girlfriend he will use for her brains and body while he takes the credit for everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Oh of course. Unmatched immediately after my last message seen here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.YAS. Even typing these curt responses felt like a chore but he needed to be told I’m not his goddamn friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 11 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.They want everything for free without making any effort themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 10 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.PRECISELY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 15 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.As if our time isn’t valuable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 16 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Lol I wish I had said this to him. Unmatched him after my last text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 49 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.So much entitlement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 42 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.I don’t think he’s intelligent enough to pull off that metaphor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 106 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.I mean how ridiculous does one have to be to ask for free labour from a woman you haven’t even met. Imagine what he’d do in a relationship. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 62 | How rare is this! I don't mean to applaud a fish for swimming, but it's so rare to find someone praising the fact that they're married on twitter. Don't date guys who act like marriage is a ball and chain or make you have to nag for commitment. You get what you settle for!The entire sentence is a red flag. “Good woman” “life hack” “to raise a family”. He sounds like he didn’t fall in love with a person. He completed a project. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 83 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!Oh 100%. This just reminded me of the guy who considered me a “trophy girlfriend” to show off because all that mattered to him were my looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:34 AM |
| 128 | How rare is this! I don't mean to applaud a fish for swimming, but it's so rare to find someone praising the fact that they're married on twitter. Don't date guys who act like marriage is a ball and chain or make you have to nag for commitment. You get what you settle for!This is still benevolent sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:23 AM |
| 12 | OLD match forgets about our arranged date & claims to be unavailable for the foreseeable without an explanation, but still continues to try and talk to me on Instagram 🤷♀️🤷♀️Sharing your Instagram with them is a classic mistake. He will never ever plan a date but will watch your stories forever. Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:32 PM |
| 48 | This surprisingly gets near to 50 upvotes. Wow.This is why I’ve deleted Instagram and Twitter despite being on there over a decade and gaining thousands of followers. They’ve gotten toxic and my life is better away from this negativity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 15 | If this is love I do not want it🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:09 PM |
| 8 | How to propose in 2020... the bar was already so lowWhy even get married if you can’t even afford a bloody proposal?! How will you afford any further responsibilities? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever beaten a guy in any sport? What was his reaction after losing?Lol one time I beat 5 men in a beer chugging competition (not even a sport) and my ex hated me for it. He said I have too much confidence so I dumped him. Took a few weeks to get rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 24 | First message asking me to travel 85 miles to meet himThe catch is that most men are not good in bed so tell your aunt it might be a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 8 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”Why do you have to be nice to a guy you barely know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 6 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”Lol any time an old date from years ago texts me (it happens a lot) my only response is “I’m sorry who is this”. There is absolutely no other appropriate response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 32 | Some good adviceHeard of so many married women who don’t even have their bank accounts. The most foolish thing you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 34 | Just another tip for wading through the vast sea of garbage men on OLDAlso add “No drama” “Positivity only” “looking for someone chill” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Dumped.. 😞You should be thankful that he dumped you because sometimes we ourselves don’t do it despite so many red flags. Life will be better for you now. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Can we please not normalize make up sex/hate sexMake up sex is not hate sex. The kind of make up sex I’ve had has been full of tender moments, apologies and sometimes even tears. It can be great for bonding because you do tend to say hurtful words during a fight. Agree with you on angry sex. That’s just disgusting and I’ll never agree to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:21 AM |
| 57 | Men meet tons of high value relationship worthy women every day and they just aren’t interested. High value women are a dime a dozen. Meanwhile we are thirsty for every single drop of attention a mediocre male gives us.Women are able to love again after years of abuse, harassment and oppression at the hands of men. Meanwhile men get dumped once and lose the ability to love and hurt every woman that comes their way in future. Makes me wonder if they were capable of love in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I have no wordsWho wants to bet that even after this she will have another child with this dude? Just, stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | High value woman can’t find a HVM.I’d like to commend you for posting this because it’s okay to admit you’re lonely. It means you know your situation but won’t settle for less than you deserve. Good luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan!This explains why most guys become cold the minute you show any interest in them. So basically they only want women who don’t want them back? This is why their concept of consent is so twisted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 5 | The audacity... At least he's honest, I guess.These are the kinda men who will complain about never getting any matches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:10 AM |
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