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what is the point here? yeah man after months of ogling some chick I paid her two compliments and got shot down What are we supposed to learn here? Go in with confidence and be ok with being rejected? The reason why you were okay being rejected has nothing to do with you being confident or over rejection. It was because you knew you were getting rejected and set up a buffer in your own mind to ease the frustration. That's not confidence. That's cognitive dissonance. I know because you nuked your…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 10:25 PM
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I offer anecdote, then data I dropped sugar from my diet in April. My blood glucose is 1/4 of what it was, my A1C Hemoglobin is less than half. I was diabetic. No longer. I dropped 12.5% of my body weight. I didn't increase exercise. I was dealing with intense stress at work. plant based foods (sugar, corn, potatoes, rice) drove up my blood sugar. Meat, Fish, eggs even cheese and dairy have driven it down. Many years ago, the sugar lobby bought harvard scientists and paid for a study that sugges…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:16 PM
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rule 1) do not talk about your TRPness rule 2) do. NOT talk about your TRPness putting Law 38 into action involves sublimating your own ego. unchecked ego fucks up all the shit it touches when your ego is on lockdown, you hear stupid shit and it cracks you up when your ego is ruling you, you hear stupid shit and you need to fix them. Fuck them motherfuckers. you owe them nothing. many guys I know go out trying to correct other people because they are so insecure in their beliefs they need agreem…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:38 PM
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so much category error here. How we value women is not based on the quality of their personhood. It is in the pleasure they provide us. Is she good to look at, fun to fuck and sweet enough that I can excuse her laziness, lack of agency and accountability/integrity amnesia. She does not drive us to greatness, she is the comfort we enjoy when we accomplish our goals and attain greatness. We are driven by our own ambition, not the desire for a piece of ass. IN short, if you are seeking motivation o…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:43 PM
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Please join me in welcoming the throngs of new readers who will no doubt venture our way. Some of whom will no doubt stay and learn and improve their lives
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:55 PM
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I tend to use the 2-8 scale that scouts use to evaluate the skills of athletes. 8s are the elite. Almost non-existent, because they are three standard deviations from average. 7s are rare, 6s more common, 5s average, and so forth I agree completely with your notion that 10s don't exist because perfection does not exist. Likewise, I think far too few strive to maintain their peak upside, that 9s are non-existent as well. Everything is relative and subjective, so what I find attractive is not goin…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:33 PM
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"Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth..." Birth control is a yes. Specifically, take control of the conception by not allowing it to happen.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:11 PM
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Is the supplementation of B12 capable of combating the estrogen precursors in soybeans? I ask genuinely because I have read regular soybean consumption contributes to higher estrogen levels in men.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 09:10 PM
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Les Etats Unis d'Amerique sont mort. Vive Les Etats Unis d'Amerique! Goodbye America
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:29 PM
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recommend you get you T-count checked. It is entirely possible that you have a suppressed production of testosterone which is contributing to those feelings. Never discount chemical/hormonal imbalance in these situations
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:34 PM
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Paraphrasing the wisdom of the Joker: These feminized people - they'll eat each other
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:51 PM
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Shrug, "It's complicated." change subject Never, ever, ever disclose information you do not need to share
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:32 PM
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go for the threesome Run game on every woman you encounter. Make that your new rule One warning, there be mad crazy here. If they are that overt then you will want to be upfront about the chill laidback way you want to proceed. Keep things casual, just hanging out, having fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:58 PM
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There is no such thing as a good girl. The good girl who displays a lack of promiscuity is merely evaluating options/holding betas in orbit until a suitable strong alpha comes along that creates within her a fierce urgency to fuck If she does not need to fuck you immediately, you are not her highest sexual priority. *edit - added strikethrough for good
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:55 PM
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maybe so. Doesn't make them any less true
/r/askTRP10/09/14 02:29 PM
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sluts gonna slut
/r/askTRP10/09/14 02:28 PM
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Step 1 - be attractive Step 2 - don't be unattractive Step 3 - tell her to do whatever sexual thing you want her to do, confidently and with an air of amusement Step 4 - maintain frame
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:21 AM
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kindly refrain from projecting your biases onto my argument. you associate disposability with the fact men have to fight. At no point did I assert anything like that. That is not, has not and never will be how I base disposability
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:25 PM
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Did you actually say all that?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:47 PM
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How did you learn about TRP? You found a community where there were knowledgeable people and you observed what they said and did. Nicely most every community has a place you can go and hang out, enjoy a drink if you're of age and watch these games while folks like me will speak to no one in particular about the subtle nuances of the game. You learn through immersion. Go and watch and listen and ask questions. The guys there will be glad because your ignorance will make them feel smarter. And you…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:40 PM
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It's FAIL all the way down
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:38 PM
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I'll see your false assertion and raise you. Some religions have been denying evolution for millennia. I agree with your premise, though.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:35 PM
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From a RP perspective this is at the heart of sexual strategy. Men are the disposable sex. This has been true for millennia. The primary reason why is that within a young woman are a finite chances at additional humans to propagate the species. Men can produce infinite amounts of sperm. Therefore from a strict logical perspective, men are disposable because they are so easily replaceable. This is why hypergamy exists. Women have evolved to filter for quality males. This just proves in a nutshell…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:31 PM
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Best defense against her bad behavior is a good offense to get other women to behave towards you the way she does to the men she drools over. Remember you are a rock. Her childish behavior has no impact on you
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:52 PM
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First step, continue to blow it off. Make fun of her in a light-hearted way. If it bothers you, never let it show. Also, if it bothers you, work on getting over that. It is a shit test and she is looking to see if she can get you all butt hurt. Second step is relentlessly elevate your value. Workout more. Take better care of your appearance. Get clothes that flatter the way you look. When you do this you show her that you can draw attention too. This is a mild application of dread. In doing this…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:37 PM
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I know just what you mean. The problem is our conditioning is so strong and we have accepted it so thoroughly that only when we are drowning will we grasp the lifeline. At this moment, your brother feels like he is at the apex of his life. He's getting married, which to him means something, else he wouldn't be doing it. He has a reasonable career. This is the place where he feels like he is becoming the man the world expects him to be. You can plant a seed and ask him if he's content right now. …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:05 PM
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Mastery and Art of Seduction are both Robert Greene books.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:37 PM
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Book of POOK Mastery The Art of Seduction
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:05 PM
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He's not ready to be unplugged. How did you learn about TRP? If your experience matches mine, some bad shit went down in your life and forced you to reexamine all the shit you believed that wasn't working for you. All you can do is live your life to the best of your ability and when his starts circling the drain throw him a lifeline
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:04 PM
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best way for me to find out what actually happened sodium pentathol Seriously, you will never know for certain. You need to accept this now. Right now. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW FOR CERTAIN There will always be trickle truth. You best course of action is to understand how you betafied yourself that she felt like she should go out of town on a bachelorette party. That way when this marriage ends, you won't make the same mistakes again (getting married, letting your wife go to a bachelorette party, etc.…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:21 PM
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The operative was epic in his alphaness. Stoic, driven, purposeful.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:38 PM
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This is a top Alt download on the iTunes, kids. You give a listen you here regrets and incessant acting out to numb the pain of losing her alpha. Some lyrics for the flavor of what she's saying Staying in my play pretend Where the fun ain't got no end Can't go home alone again Need someone to numb the pain You're gone and I got to stay high All the time to keep you off my mind High all the time to keep you off my mind Spend my days locked in a haze Try'na forget you babe, I fall back down Got to…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:36 PM
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gracias we always have a choice when dealing with people's actions. Reward or punish being active, passivity is an option, but passivity is a tacit reward. Half the problem with thirsty dudes is they will put up with sooooo much shit hoping for a little ass they'll never get. And it just emboldens bitches to act out in the worst of ways
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:29 PM
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This. This, this, this! A million fucking times this Marriage 2.0 was about stripping men of their rights and larding on their responsibilities. Fatherhood 2.0 follows the exact same convention.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:26 PM
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I think it goes beyond sexuality. I think it's endemic to their femininity.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:53 PM
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yes. It's a shit test. And an excellent application of dread game. Might not have been your intent. But the presence of something that disrupts one's regular pattern of behavior prompts that kind of rationalization. It's far better to put forth the work on self-improvement than to tell her. She may respond negatively, that's her prerogative. You hold your frame, don't apologize and you'll see more responses like the one that met you following your last successful swatting away of the shit test.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:52 PM
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I'd tend to agree with you that throughout history using mysticism, religion, legalities and appeals to authority, men have tried to repress women's hypergamic nature. It's not really women's sexuality, as it is their evolved instinct to pursue and copulate with the best available alpha they can obtain. TRP in general acknowledges women's hypergamy and advocates not measures to control or repress it, but to operate in an environment with awareness and choice. I agree with your fundamental argume…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:18 PM
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In what way do you infer the discussions on this sub are geared towards "control[ling] female sexuality"? Fundamentally, Red Pill strategies are geared not around what we want the world to be, but around what the world is. Or as /u/rollo-tomassi often puts it, don't wish it were easier, wish that you were better. Attempts to control others is inherently weak, which is why I always caution men against mate-guarding. However, self-control is a hallmark of strength and value. As is the awareness of…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:24 PM
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Two things, first is the basic fear of missing out that tends to impact teens and twenty somethings without fail. But second and more importantly, to a mind saturated in the feminine imperative, any male disqualification of her is catnip.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:29 PM
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They think it's cute because men still want to get with them even though they are annoying as hell Thirsty bros reward epically bad behavior all in the name of the mighty vagina
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:27 PM
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I'm unaware of any legit benefits to marriage. Tax advantages have been eroded by the increase of taxation in subtle manners (such as FCC fees for your cable and cell phone, FAA fees for airline travel, etc.) that are not or cannot be diminished through filing status. Notionally, the benefits of marriage were to enter into an enforceable covenant that required access to marital benefits (aka sex), forbade infidelity, and ensured the care and well-being of any offspring. Modern marriage has gutte…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:24 PM
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Is that a dealbreaker? I don't know. Can't speak to your personal preferences. If it is a deal breaker for you, don't proceed. If it isn't have at it. Your choices must be your own. Think critically and ask logical people to check your logic. I hear that it freaks you out, which is an emotional reaction, so think about it deliberately and offer your best sense. I bet you'll realize that you don't need the affirmation of a bunch of internet strangers. But since you asked, if you're just casually …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:50 PM
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I tend to let them move on. Usually there need to be prerequisites to the taking the pill. It's not like anyone can see what they are doing wrong and adapt their behavior to reality. Most people need to get busted in the mouf and then re-examine how the fuck they got to this point in their life. Younger guys tend to be looking for different reasons and seem to possess the mental plasticity to accept truth without hitting a wall of preconceived ideas. Older guys like me take a longer time to dige…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:43 PM
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you cannot convince him to see reality. He has to be willing to do so. He has oneitis for this girl and in that emotional state of mind, he's blind to rational thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:57 PM
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If goal state is women, then you are living your life for women, which is really no different than your typical blue pill white knight. the goal state is attaining your upside. Transforming talent into actualized skills and ability. More than the ability to bed chicks, the end goal for me is to become the best man I can. Stronger, fitter, smarter, well-read, calm and rational. In being the best version of me, and living my life with true confidence, women will naturally follow. Doesn't mean I wo…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:43 PM
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Fetishes and kinks are developed through nurture more than nature. Prior to discovering the red pill truths I identified as fairly submissive. I recognized this was in no small part due to the mental schema I possessed. I hated all my masculine qualities. As I have developed a more positive attitude towards my own masculinity, the more I identify as dominant. Your mileage may vary. My perspective is that your desires are not set in stone. Understanding who you are will help. Also give "no more m…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 11:12 PM
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No. Femdom and cuckoldry as kinks are not compatible with red pill behavior. I suggest you determine which you want more - to be a red pill man, or to practice these fetishes. You cannot effectively do both. I have found most fetishes are the byproduct of something you experienced in adolescence. What, at age 13, made femdom appealing. You'll find the root of your fetish there. If that represents who you are today, follow it. If not, re-examine your kinks and seek to become the man you say you W…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:35 PM
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All women are capable of infidelity. There is no way to tell which women will or will not act on it. Infidelity is driven by their hypergamous nature. Hypergamy is the condition wherein a woman will seek the strongest possible man she can attract based on her current desirability in the sexual marketplace. Men can mitigate the likelihood of infidelity through ruthless self-improvement and an understanding of basic red pill truths. Read the Sidebar on the main subreddit and you'll understand more…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:33 PM
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Good luck
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:27 PM
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much obliged for the gold. Go and ruthlessly improve yourself. That builds your worth. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:10 PM
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So I mean I wouldn't call her a unicorn or anything, but she is probably my best pull ever (I am probably a 4/10) Ahh the sweet fragrance of scarcity mentality. Or in verse You were the best I'd ever had If I hadn't blown the whole thing years ago I might not be alone So you're what 22, maybe 23. A little doughy around the middle and not objectively hot. This girl likes you, for reasons you may not understand. Maybe she was less hot when you met. Maybe she was always hot, but you slipped as you …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:35 PM
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Not surprised. Those emotions are what caused you to descend deeper into your beta stance. Accommodation becomes easier when the threat is not directed at you but at someone who depends on you and for whom you feel absolute, unconditional love. You stay for them but it guts you. And when you're a mere shell of yourself, there is nothing you can give them of worth. This is why to give them the best you can, you must recover all that you can be. That begins by reclaiming yourself and not accepting…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 08:15 PM
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It's a terribly bad idea. You are demoting yourself and you attain servile status. Sometimes you have to take the "L" The past mistakes you've made have put you into an untenable position. You can continue to shore things up and work to affect some positivity, or you can decamp, find new ground and improve your lot. I think your better pattern is getting out of the environment. Staying close just says you'll be there and you need to show her that you're gone, while showing your boys you will alw…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:23 PM
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True. Punishing bad behavior by removing himself from the equation is an excellent negative reinforcement.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:20 PM
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I tend to disagree with the negative notions you are expressing: Gotcha! If you don't communicate your ethics to a woman, you will eventually find her leaving for a guy who does---or wishing she could. Dread works, but not by itself, over the long term. Women prefer mystery to full disclosure. Plus if she leaves, that's fine too. If we accept instead that it's necessary, we still don't have a choice. Strawman. I didn't say it was necessary. I said that we need to have awareness of options and ch…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:47 PM
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If you are committed to the idea of an LTR, then pass. If you want to go for the bigger reward, practice applied charisma on both in front of each other. amused mastery, cocky & funny, don't give a fuck what they say. Be an asshole, see how they respond. To my mind, this is a great opportunity to practice, because from the outset, you're getting a shit test and the strong vibe that you're not getting your dick wet tonight. I suspect you have given off the vibe of I wanna be your boyfriend and th…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:29 PM
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More important question, is her best friend a dude or a chick?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:15 PM
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Agree with /u/bicepsblastingstud If you are looking for diversification, my recommendation would be gold and silver due to the structural faults with the Eurozone and US economies at the moment. The potential is you buy them through an intermediary and squirrel it away someplace they cannot easily find. Safe deposit boxes opened under the intermediaries name, with the key hidden elsewhere. Not an ideal solution as you shed wealth in creating those safe havens and they will find it. The value to …
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:13 PM
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Are you suggesting Wilson's comments are not valid statements? Or the furor against him is invalid?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:09 PM
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You're attempting to first rebuild a frame that has been shattered. Cut your losses. Stop dumpster diving: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. You have torched whatever fra…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 05:07 PM
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I agree with the notion that the choices we make are governed in part by our situations. An action in one circumstance is beyond the pale, while in another it is justifiable and upright. I have some trouble with this: That said perhaps one of the more depressing aspects of game, is that the entire goal is influencing a woman's subconscious reasoning. Influencing someone's subconscious on your favor is "manipulation". So quite literally, it's not possible to romance a woman without manipulation. …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:50 PM
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just because the the truth is immune to moral scrutiny does not extend that to you. If a guy sleeps with my girlfriend then he's an asshole. If he uses game to sleep with her---he's still an asshole. I think you're missing my point. Game is objective. Morals and Ethics are inherently subjective. Therefore, your code of ethics cannot be universally adapted and applied to all situations and circumstances. We can strive for ethical ideals, and we should, but ethical ideals are no more truth than yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:29 PM
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Agreed. The amorality of Game is what makes me annoyed when Game proponents suggest the universal application of their individual ethics to others. Roosh's point is the driver of my thinking.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:15 PM
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this is fantastic advice and well worth repeating.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:11 PM
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I'll stipulate that the rigor applied to actual scientific research is much stronger. However, scientific research has not consistently employed those rigors in recent years. The influence of money, politics and ego has biased data collection. Between the utilization of sampling bias and arbitrary end dates in modern research into social sciences (as well as some hard sciences) I have no qualms asserting that the combined experience of the community, when noted against our observations of our pa…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:05 PM
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that's less sex addiction than it is mating urgency driven by ovulation In other word's she in heat
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:35 PM
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AWALT is exactly right. The hang up about fucking married chicks is one of the effective social conventions that comprise what I am calling Ethical game. I wrote my theory post before seeing your comment, but it's in the same vein. When we think that not all women are like that, we accept the notion that we should apply gradations of behavior to women based on some circumstance, "oh she's married, I shouldn't fuck her," and in doing so, we surrender our strength and dominance
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:05 PM
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Exactly. When we lose frame, we show weakness, which to the feminine is like blood to sharks.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:43 PM
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The fundamentals of modern scientific theory are basically postulate test revise retest repeat steps 3 and 4 until consensus is achieved There is inherently no difference between that and the collection of men's experiences into a valid sample pool from which conclusions may be inferred. Anyone who claims otherwise has no true grasp of how science is done int he modern era.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:15 PM
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The minute he capitulated is the minute he lost all standing.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:50 PM
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The story itself is more of a blue pill example, but it reinforces why it is essential that we as men maintain frame in all interactions. The CEO made a completely valid point, the products his company sells are geared for slim, athletic women and once those comments were picked up on by the feminine imperative, they needed to punish the offensive man who spoke truth, specifically that women with fat thighs will wear out the fabric of pants quickly. As soon as Chip Wilson posted his facebook apo…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:43 PM
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Yes. Understanding and accepting the world as it is and not as we would like it to be is valuable at any point in life, but in high school it enables you to maximize your potential as a man Put simply, we all have a ceiling on our upside. The sooner we begin to develop our upside, the greater the likelihood of us maxing our upside. So by adapting your behavior to match what the world is, you'll go through life with greater confidence. TRP is a sexual strategy at its core, but it's efficacy is no…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:32 PM
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He let the plate drop and she wanted to get him back. That's a frame grab. The biggest shit test women pull is to get men to alter their behavior for pussy, either the reality of getting some, or the potential of getting some. So when OP decided that he would revisit things with this girl, when she in effect was the pursuer, he showed her that he would capitulate and reverse his direction for a quick lay. She had grabbed frame control. Left unsaid by OP is how he reinforced her frame grab throug…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:08 PM
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Yes and no. Dread is a continual state of being in a long-term relationship. If you are spinning plates, dread is not important, because your unwillingness to commit to an exclusive relationship is the most powerful overlay of dread out there. In an LTR, dread is the subtle, covert emphasis that you are a man who has options and more importantly knows he has options. Dread is not really applicable.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:01 PM
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A popular truism: There is no such thing as failure, there is only more information about how to be successful. Your analysis is correct on this point in particular: When a girl communicates explicitly it is a last resort. She’s run out of options, and is forced to tell you something in her most unnatural way. However, do not discount that even in this confessional moment of "openness" there are subtexts and covert messages. Would it surprise you to think that getting you to reverse your decisio…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:02 PM
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well done, but a note of caution. Women communicate covertly as a general rule. If she did acknowledge she wanted to test you, confessed she had never met Shawn and that she openly expressed that she loved you up and leaving the ay you did because it made her feel like she was next to nothing to you overtly that should concern you about the level of crazy she is going to bring to bear when you actually walk. Also, from a strict practical perspective, Shawn became a test the minute he didn't show…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:48 PM
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the fundamental flaw with your theory is that once a woman has observed you in a less than dominant, red pill accepting, frame-maintaining, shit test destroying way, she tends to constantly test to ensure you don't lapse back into unreformed blue pill mode. And while you in full frame maintaining mode can deal with that, why would you want to? Women who shit test all the time bring little value into your life. With a mindset that embraces the abundance of wonderfully fuckable girls out there, yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:27 PM
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The first question, I'd like to ask is how valuable is societal stability? Stability is in effect sameness. Growth occurs occasionally and in a fashion that does not disrupt the status quo. Given the trend of current society, is stability a good thing? To make the point more clear, we are in effect working as subversives, seeking to change our part of society by acting rationally in an irrational world.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:03 PM
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I see loads of guys get a girls attention like that and do nothing. And that's what's truly sad. It's the flipside of the pedestal. We all know that men who pedestalize women will supplicate to her wishes and demonstrate their lack of fitness for her. The pedestal also places a woman so far out of reach that a beta will be incapable of acting on the urgency of his primal desire and fucking her senseless, because in doing so he would shatter his carefully constructed image of her as a perfect lit…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:36 PM
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refer back to the wisdom of Pook: Women would rather share a successful man than be attached to a faithful loser. For the strong man, he has tacit license to spin plates, because his value to her is sufficiently strong that she will do whatever she needs to in order to maintain some measure of his cock him in her pussy life. And remember, the definition of the stud they want that you enunciated, doesn't exist. I refer you to one of the classic RedPill jokes: The Husband Store
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:31 PM
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He stormed off, ignored everyone, in a cafe where nobody has ever done that before. It was hilarious, and a reminder what NOT to be. As important as it is to learn how to be, it's important to remember how not to be. The two rules of attraction of course illustrate this point perfectly: Be attractive Don't be unattractive I remember in my younger and heavily beta days a girl propositioned me in front of dozens of other people saying me she wanted to milk my dick. I was taken aback by her overt s…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:23 PM
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I picked up information about freezeouts from reading the sub. The freezeout is exactly what it sounds like. If you get hit with the massive shit test that is last minute resistance, the best display of dominance is to freeze the girl out. You enforce the idea that you are the prize. You display confidence in yourself. You demonstrate you are not beholden to your urges and in no uncertain terms, you are not a slave to her pussy. You show her that she isn't choosing to have sex with you, you are …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 09:50 PM
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my eternal guiding advice when it comes to bpd do not stick your dick in crazy since you have acquired a taste for crazy, my advice is of no use to you.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:09 PM
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it is for the main sub.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:09 PM
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she's def bpd BPD as in borderline personality disorder?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 08:38 PM
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Next you're effort at moving on has made her desire you once again, but only in a you'll do manner. She wants you around as a backup plan in case her new relationship goes sideways. You have this problem because you remain in her orbit. You need to establish escape velocity and break free. Specifically, by hooking up with another girl, as soon as possible. Preferably before vacation is over
/r/askTRP04/08/14 08:28 PM
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I think that is more effect of shit testing. On Heinlein's Luna, as with most any pioneer society, the idea that women held all the options was prevalent. To the point where the recruiting of Stu was done because he failed to observe the local customs and attempted to escalate with a slot machine girl. Sure, Stu needed Game, but the response of eliminating a new chum who doesn't get the customs is more akin to white knighting than it is to strong, dominant men. Additionally, the martial customs …
/r/RedPillBooks04/08/14 08:22 PM
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An entirely reasonable alternate course of action.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 08:15 PM
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it doesn't hurt to seek whatever resources and strategies help you ensure you attain your highest potential Most programs are built on the core concept that you are out of control and that you are seeking to fulfill some aspect of your psyche that was damaged or underdeveloped. If you are familiar with psychology, giving Alfred Adler's ideas a read may prove illuminating. He was a strong proponent of behavioral studies, in particular what we understand about inferiority complexes and compensatio…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:56 PM
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several questions actually: If I stop 'playing' her, will she lose interest? Yes Or would we be able to have a mutually-respecting friendship+benefits (is that possible?) You are already in a mutually-respectful friendship with benefits. I guess to me she seems smarter than a typical girl, and maybe even capable of swallowing TRP. There be oneitis here So main points I'd like to hear your thoughts on: Is this a girl who even has to be 'played' to maintain as a plate? This is a vital concept you …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:43 PM
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in that instance, play to your strengths. In this environment, because the club scene is your office, own the environment. Create situational dominance and play off that energy. Flirt, escalate, do the things you need to that illustrate she may be with you, but you're the one with options. That's going to establish more credibility with the other women in the club.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:37 PM
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My presumption is that these girls for whom casual interaction won't work likely have at least one and more likely several things in common. In a nutshell, they fall into what society calls "a type". In understanding what your type is, you can get to the root of why you do not respond rationally to girls who fit your type. On some level, you are cognizant of the detrimental nature of this kind of oneitis. You seek out more opportunities to prevent yourself from becoming settled into a relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:28 PM
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wing women often backfire. They can create social proof, which is useful, but not necessary. To really understand the cost-benefit you need fill in some of the costs and benefits. First is opportunity cost. You are spending time, energy, attention and effort on what is for all intents and purposes an unattainable woman. If the value you derive from other women and/or club owners compensates you adequately, deploy her as a wing woman, increase your social proof and pull more tail. In other words,…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:18 PM
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BPD girls will drag a man into a hell of crazy, kept thanks to remarkably intense sex but with the ever-present threat of violence, either to herself, you, others, you name it. Stay far, far away
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:04 PM
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recommend moving to the sub for offtopic posts /r/TRPOffTopic
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:56 PM
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she exhibits traits of borderline personality disorder. Feel free to look that up. Then. Run Run far away
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:44 PM
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A lot of fail here, so let's be patient: going to the movies with a girl I know for 6 months She has felt no urgency to get with you. and KNOWS that I want to be "more than friends" with her she knows too much about you. Women love mystery and a guy who is thirsty to get with her isn't mysterious. He's thirsty she even lied to her boyfriend saying that she was going to meet a girl friend and not another guy So on this point she's trustworthy? She's lying to her boyfriend, lying to you or likely …
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:31 PM
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Mistake the first: LTR material girl No such thing Mistake the second: i am completly alpha, trp material...i made an appointment with both of them with the intentions of spilling the shit out of her. Am i going wrong by doing this or she should learn her place? (maybe go out storming from the bar and end it :D) TRP material begins with not giving a fuck. So why make an appointment to spill the shit out of her. Give zero fucks about her and her bullshit. Mistake the third: i told her she is my g…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:21 PM
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Makes sense. Every four years, every chick wants to be a gymnast, not even realizing they do more complex gymnastics mentally every single day. Never take them or their shit seriously.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:15 PM
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the nature of rationalization is that anything used against the rationalizer is bad, but anything that can be used against someone "bad" (in the mind of the rationalizer) is good, even if it is the very thing that the she previously decried as bad. Case in point - consider the US congress critter who recently declared that she and her colleagues did not seek the impeachment of a former president, even though she was one of the co-sponsors of a resolution seeking just that. Same thing, only in a …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:11 PM
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you used a modified version of the freeze out. Instead of leaving, you just nonverbally expressed, "whatever, I need sleep, more than I need to stroke your ego by continuing to make a play for sex." At the heart of that behavior is a version of dominance that she ultimately found irresistible - "I am a man with options and if you're not putting out you won't be one of mine." By rolling over and going to sleep, you passed her version of the last minute resistance shit-test. I think you're wise to…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:00 PM
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Fair enough. To each his own. I think the analogy to your bandmate stretches logic, but you have your justification and your reasoning. I disagree, but you don't answer to me, so play on.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 09:44 PM
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agreed in full. The right of individuals to enter into legal contracts for services rendered for a designated period of time should not be infringed upon under any circumstances
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:43 PM
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The character of Mike (the sentient computer for the uninitiated) is among my favorites in Heinlein's canon. Very similar to Valentine Michael Smith in Stranger in a Strange Land. It's clever, quickly paced and well-worth a read. However, lunar society is largely matriarchal, for entirely logical reasons. The issuance of pussy passes is fairly consistent. In one area Heinlein rarely flinches is the depiction of women characters as prone to emotion. Wyoh is nothing if not driven by emotion. Manni…
/r/RedPillBooks01/08/14 09:41 PM
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proving the point that concern trolls gotta troll
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:32 PM
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May I recommend the inclusion of the concern troll prohibition post to the sidebar, as I recall we've had gluts of concern trolling before. Not that they'll read it...
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:16 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. Let me remind you of one thing: Time is your total capital, and the minutes of your life are painfully few. You speak of four months as if it is a trifle. It's not. Time is the one commodity you cannot add more of to your life.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:56 PM
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To our current society, especially in the West, anything that does not explicitly benefit women is by virtue of its lack of benefit to women detrimental to women and therefore must be banned. edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:46 PM
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Agreed. I'm not railing so much against the practice as highlighting it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:07 PM
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On the heels of the news that Rhode Island's inadvertent legalization of prostitution reduced rape, one would think that would be a solid justification for doing away with the criminalization of prostitution. But this slate pieces goes out of its way to bemoan the plight of sex workers as a reason Canada and Sweden should stop trying to discourage the sex trade. Because heaven forbid we advocate for policies beneficial to men for their own sake
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:03 PM
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act audaciously and reap the benefits. Go and do likewise, gents.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:33 PM
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Like others have said, that was the wife of his neighbor. Go find some other meat. So long as it was not your wife, why trouble yourself? TRP is fundamentally amoral. If she is going to act on her urges, rational self-interest says, why shouldn't I benefit from that? If an individual chooses to subscribe to a moral code, that is an exercise in one's own will. As men we are empowered to make our own choices. Quit fucking shaming a guy who acted within his moral framework just because it differs w…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:32 PM
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Here's the advice I am stunned no one has given you. Break up for the duration of the internship If you haven't read this I'll gloss it for you I’m sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship. That’s correct, you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a legitimate relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM text. Understand me here – you ha…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 04:29 PM
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Simplest explanation don't respond. You being busy is a good thing. It suggests you have options. Further, never respond immediately to her or any girl's texts. That implies you are at her beck and call. You're not. Who gives a fuck what she thinks?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:49 PM
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Women are not allowed to be hypergamous. It is their very nature. Likewise, it is in man's inherent biological nature to scatter his biological material among many women. Allow is a concept that suggests you require permission to be yourself. You don't. You refer back to this idea that cheating is the lowest of the low. It's not. It is inauthentic, which may be called for in a particular situation. What is the lowest of the low is tailoring your behaviors to fit someone else's expectations of yo…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:47 PM
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to what are you sucking at responding?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:44 PM
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rational self-interest says that if she will anyway, why not enjoy the fruits of her infidelity? The key in my mind to this is that the men who truly are red pill aware will act in their self-interest and not get hung up on social conventions that are prevalent today. The one against cheating are particularly difficult to shake. But like most social conventions they are in place to protect a woman's interests.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:18 PM
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two of the most successful guys I knew were under 5'9. Both were committed to their physical attractiveness. Lifted regularly and with abandon. They recognized they might not be tall, but that they would be the baddest motherfuckers around. And they were But you know, if doing that seems like a waste of time, don't worry bro, just be yourself, dem bitches'll love that
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:11 PM
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ruthless self-improvement. The prevalence of feminists is a factor that you cannot control. Once you accept that, you will not be angry. Until then, channel your anger into strengthening your mind, your body and your will.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:10 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions in your two situations. And Red Pill awareness is amoral, so the questions of morality are set aside. Both situations are the result of biological imperatives. From that perspective there is no difference. But that's like saying there is no difference between you and I because we both have reddit accounts.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:37 PM
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so you dont believe her when she says she won't be getting it on with her boyfriend (traveling with him suggests he is not as ex as she is saying) but you want her to think of you? Are you saying my comment is invalid or your request is?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:16 PM
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Seriously? Do you actually trust that she will reject the ex-boyfriend? Your best advice for while she's gone is for you to forget this girl and find another
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:07 PM
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get the impression you're directionless right now. At that age it makes sense.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:03 PM
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did it come from the friend or your LTR? If from your LTR's friend direct, mock him or ignore him. If it came from the LTR, cocky and funny, like /u/MasterMH suggests. Whenever you act out of emotion the situation will backfire. If you're pissed about the situation you aren't thinking clearly, if you aren't thinking clearly, you tend to make bad decisions, if you make bad decisions, you get more shit tests. Don't get more shit tests
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:15 PM
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I'd cancel for Saturday and go radio silent. A few different potential outcomes She sees you as a man with options and herself as a lower priority, and therefore decides she's needs to get with you (your absence creates urgency) She finds another beta to draw into orbit (because if that's what she actually wants she'll get it) She re-comits to her not former boyfriend (because he isn't an ex and she's thinking about exploring her options) She makes no decision about you, her boyfriend or beta or…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:09 PM
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next she's trying to draw you into orbit. Women act on emotion and with urgency. When you met her, did you escalate? It doesn't sound like it, so you may have friendzoned yourself. Have you been out with her since you met? Her action says she wants an orbiter, but she's saying she wants more. Pay attention to what she does.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:52 PM
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you cannot save him. Unplugging AFCs is a dirty business (paraphrasing from Rollo). He either wants to be the master of his life or he wants his life to be the master of him. It is highly likely he needs to fall before he is ready to be unplugged
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:34 PM
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You're doing fine Pay no attention to what she says (why are you eyefucking all those sluts, Enphuego?) Pay attention to what she does. Each incident is followed by sex. She is rewarding the behavior she wants you to continue, which is being attractive to other girls. More on point (cause solipsism) she is cognizant that if she doesn't keep your dick wet, some other slut will.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:31 PM
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you can light your strawman on fire, too. bitches always be trolling. That's what shit tests are. An emotional outburst is never justified. When dealing with women it is always a mistake to get emotional. It makes you look weak, pathetic and unstable. It shows you will accept her frame and that she can through the right combination of behaviors control you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:21 PM
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See an emotional outburst is huge fail because it shows her that she can control your frame. She's trolling him. Hard. Supplication feeds the troll. Emotional outburst feeds the troll. Amused mastery at her immaturity starves the troll. Frame is all about starving trolls
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:04 PM
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Rational self-interest says no marriage. Teh feelz says what's rational self-interest. The men who hamstring themselves are not your concern. You are.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:01 PM
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don't listen to what she says. Pay no attention to it. Pay attention to what she does.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:49 PM
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you can light that strawman on fire. I'm saying that you should not get tied down to any girl in particular. Her going is not a personal attack on you. It is however a sign that whatever you think you and she have is not what she thinks you and she have. It's a sign that she wants to be free, without tacitly saying to you that she wants to be free. Rational thought says, hey, you're a cool guy, I've got this thing next month when I'm going to be in Europe, so getting together now isn't a good id…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:42 PM
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It's a yes or no question. If you can't it's fine but I'm not going to wait around for you to decide when I could do other stuff. too much in response. What you said wasn't unreasonable, which is the problem. You are providing rational thought to an irrational creature. What she said to you was that you were at the top of her list unless someone higher than you gives her a better offer. Remember: A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl un…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:33 PM
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tell her you hope she has fun, and that you're going to be at some super cool time with your buds What she does has no impact on you. That's abundance mentality. I could ask how long you've been together and how long she's going to be gone, but that shit doesn't matter. She's traveling overseas with her female friends and more specifically without you which says a ton about where you are on her pecking order. Further, girls tend to not see their slutty behavior in the same light when they are tr…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:25 PM
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You fucked up. She expresses a desire to see you cum, but she won't do anything to facilitate your climax is a shit test and by jerking off you failed it. She wanted to see if you would bend to her frame. You did and as a result, you're now the creepy dude who jerked off in her room, not the guy who was fingering her and playing with her tits When that happens, you laugh, you walk and you never look back. No slut is worth debasing yourself for her entertainment.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 08:08 PM
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So she goes fucking nuclear and insanely overreacts to an obvious business meeting due to the gender and appearance of a client. Irrational. Due to fear. And he makes the biggest mistake he can possibly make: He demonstrates to her that she does, in fact, still have power and control of the relationship. Worse, he demonstrates that bitchy, irrational anger works, so that's her new go-to move. That which you reward, you will get more of. That which you punish you will get less of. It's all about …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:01 PM
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Rollo on Soft Dread and Progressive Dread Dread at its basic level is the idea conveyed non-verbally that the man has the greater power in the relationship. /u/Archwinger broke it down well. The wife knows she is fundamentally powerless and is puffing herself out and sexually blackmailing the man to remove the threat.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:28 PM
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This isn't dread game. Dread game is subtle, a hint that I have options. Always remember women prefer covert communication and shy away from overt expression. Even in her yelling there is covert messages, unsaid, and expected to be picked up. So for the friend, the advice is simple. Maintain frame. The next time she brings up the client, he needs to tell her that he's keeping the client and her behavior is childish and immature. And he needs to do this in a calm fashion. Under no circumstances i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:37 PM
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the verdict is still out on monogamy being the strategy that fits men best Jury's been back for awhile, monogamy is absolutely not the best strategy for men.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:39 PM
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nothing you do, nowhere you go, enables a man to evade the reality of the sexual marketplace. LTRs and marriage force men to surrender options and therefore power. Your only choice is to ruthlessly apply your charisma to maintain the highest possible SMV. Otherwise all ends in ruin
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:29 PM
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that's not shit testing. Those are neg hits. The best negs are not quite compliments. Among my favorites, that's the second best [whatever she is doing/saying/wearing you want to highlight] I've seen today. Ostensibly nice, but the right amount of neg. Someone was better than she was. It caffeinates the hamster. However, you inadvertently raise a very important point in intersexual relations. Men need to make sure the girls that they spend their time with are worth the sacrifice of that resource…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:19 PM
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thanks for the praise, but like all of us, I'm still learning every day. Trial, error, success, failure, all teach so long as one is open to learn
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:04 PM
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But Drrrrr, won't I lose her if I don't buy her things? Won't I lose her if I don't validate her and make her feel like the center of my world? If I'm too alpha, I'll lose her! This in a nutshell is scarcity mentality and will invariably lead to a steaming pile of FAIL. I'll agree (and amplify - natch) that by entering a LTR the average man, RP or not, is surrendering power, which naturally results in a contest of wills between man and woman, typified by incessant shit testing. Nature abhors a v…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:34 PM
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first point of order. No one makes you do anything. Internalize that. Accept that. Make that your mantra. You choose your actions. On that basis, apology is appropriate for those who you have wrong. And not the bullshit apologies, ohhh, I'm sorry if I offended you. Take responsibility for what you did. I'm sorry I spoke harshly towards you.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 06:19 PM
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The biggest thing that women inherently cannot understand is the opportunity cost of commitment, which is why men are reticent to commit now. In effect a man who declares I love this woman and am willing to be exclusive with her is saying that he is giving up his greatest source of power - options and the freedom to act on them - for her. As rational creatures we expect that the enormity of this sacrifice will be coupled to ceaseless devotion. An even exchange, reciprocity. Due to their inherent…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:41 PM
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Question the first - do you want to add her to your harem? This is really all that matters. As for the information you presented, her blowing up your social media gives you an indicator that she is more oriented towards social media. Since you didn't give her much attention at dinner you got her hamster spinning. So she tries to solicit your attention on social media. My advice would be to tease her in front of folks and call her your stalker, gauge her reaction, she should be feeling some tingl…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 08:59 PM
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Select option 1. Remember that the medium is the message. The longer you remained in a medium that serves her needs, the less confidence you displayed. In text/kik/snapchat/skype/reddit PMs/email/IMs/telephone conversation/you name it it is easy for a woman to feign interest and keep you hooked entertaining her. And at the end of the day, that's all you did. Mike Danger delved into this recently: Two critical takeaways They don't like to be alone They can't occupy their time For as long as she c…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:51 PM
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An extraordinarily powerful read. Read it in public for a reminder of the timelessness of its application.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:18 PM
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The two ideas you enunciate are not opposed. They are the apex of masculinity. We hone our skills to seduce as many women as we desire, but we surrender our freedom solely to those who are skilled at identifying the tactics of lesser men than us. We are the prize, but if we are to commit, must not they be of such value that we can justify the surrender of freedom and opportunity that commitment represents? Therefore we cannot commit to one who falls into bed with anyone. Your question is categor…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 04:16 PM
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Also heightens your mysteriousness. Mystery leads to tingles, because you require her to qualify for your attention, interest and validation.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:52 PM
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stop trying to qualify yourself. stop caring what she thinks about what you're studying. She can't even spell physics. You're a badass physics studying atom bomb making motherfucker. Be the prize. She picks up on your trepidation to share your course of study and she associates that with a lack of confidence. So respond, confidently, then transition to her course of study. neg what she's studying whatever it is with a backhanded compliment that leaves her wondering whether she should thank you o…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:49 PM
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As you note, these women are using you as an outlet for their hypergamous inner slut. However, that they play this game with you is not surprising. Connect the dots. They won't just use you in this manner. They won't just do this in a "safe" environment. Hypergamy gives exactly zero fucks that you are the safe friend. Hypergamy gives exactly zero fucks about the rapport you have with these girls. Hypergamy sees single future doctor and demands some of that super premium provisioning cock. It's n…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:59 PM
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As other have said, you cannot negotiate desire. Desire rises up from the primordial ooze within the reptilian parts of our brains. It's instinct. It's felt not told. It's in the bones, not the brain. Thus if she's not feeling like you're a rock star and she's a groupie, the relationship is already foundering. It's not mismatched libido. Call it what it is. She doesn't desire you the same way you desire her. As a result, you tacitly need her more than she needs you. She has picked up on this and…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:48 PM
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Next - jerkboy style (gay/lame/.../no/got enough friends) or just ghost. Doesn't matter. About that which she says give no fucks. Stop trying to make sense of her. She would say yes because she thirsts for attention and you were an option until a better one came along. Lift - ruthless self-improvement Spin - find other girls who can answer the riddle of your username She is trying to pull you into orbit. Be limitless.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:14 PM
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Love is what we call a series of chemical/hormonal reactions within the human body. So after four months, you feel those hormonal/chemical reactions. Not sure why you are asking for advice. You know what you should do. You also know what you will do (which isn't what you should do). You are seeking from us justification to do what you want, even though it is bad for you. There is an easy way that your gf can date others. That she doesn't have the decency to break up with you to seek her preferre…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:12 PM
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That's a difference without distinction. To her mind, you're sorry something bad happened = you're sorry your actions caused something bad to happen = you're sorry. An apology, even properly contextualized, is a statement of disqualification. We have become societally conditioned to accept responsibility for accidents. Accidents by definition lack intentionality. Therefore why apologize for something that happened due to happenstance. Do we apologize when it rains? Many of us have and some of us…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 04:45 PM
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Acknowledging a mistake is not the same thing as apologizing for an accident. Accidents imply no fault. Therefore, why apologize?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:06 PM
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"A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of small minds" to continue the quote
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:05 PM
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I get where you're coming from. And I appreciate that you think you're different. And maybe you are. I don't know. I'll forgo further discussion of why I think you're making a devil's bargain.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 01:37 PM
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So I've found myself in situations with women quite often, where there's some interest on both sides. I'm always honest about the fact that I have a girlfriend, which often puts them at ease. Once you've opened up and honestly explained yourself you won't be able to turn the corner with these girls. Because you have destroyed all the mystery surrounding you. That's why the girl thought it was gross because you dispelled all illusion. Here's the better way to handle it. You're out, looking to get…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 09:15 PM
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The Rational Male by /u/Rollo-Tomassi His blog is well worth your attention as well.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:14 PM
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Sure. You can use the red pill to fix this relationship. But why do you want to? One of the key points of adopting a Red Pill Frame is that you have an abundance mentality. Because you have that mindset when it comes to your relationships, you don't subjugate yourself to hostile behaviors from your girlfriend - like withholding sex. Further, you don't subjugate yourself to a relationship structure where you are giving boyfriend all the time (emotional support, being there for her, listening to h…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:03 PM
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At what point in your reply did you use the argument that men being hardwired for sex makes chasing women useless? I didn't see it. Why is it that you regard healthy sexuality and an individual's path to enlightenment as mutually exclusive? What I infer is that you are suggesting that I advocate or pursue solely sating my instinctual urges at the exclusion of all else. Is that the case?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 08:03 PM
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If a man commits himself to a long term relationship, then he is inherently putting himself at risk of betrayal (fuck yeah, hypergamy!) and depending on the depth of his entanglement being subjected to the divorce industry. When a man enters into a LTR or marriage, he is therefore on notice that he could suffer this loss. caveat emptor let the buyer beware. If a man is ignorant of this reality and enters a relationship, he is not protected ex post facto due to his ignorance. The ignorant man wou…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:19 PM
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just started reading this sub Please keep reading. My answer had less to do with banging chicks than with attaining high value. is banging a ton of chicks that big of a deal? It's part of a man's biological imperative. From a strict evolutionary psychology perspective, the furtherance of one's genetic material is hard wired into us, and for men that means banging a ton of chicks. That said, to each his own. There is literally no point in chasing women. Sex is a biological need. As you note it ca…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:06 PM
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It sounds like your "edge" was the residue of social proof from the previous attractive girl who you banged a few years back. Social proof plus looks is often enough especially in an environment like college/university, where status is as simple as "I'm banging so and so's ex and he's sooooo hot." Basking in the reflected glory of a previous fling, especially one for whom you went the full beta (never go the full beta), is hardly an effective strategy to meet and bang girls long term. Each succe…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:19 PM
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let's see, higher value and status... unemployed bad-boys status, situational alpha, tingles from frame control, aloofness and general assholery drug-addicts situational alpha. If he's holding, she's so down for what the fuck ever he wants. petty criminals willing to flout societal convention, again alpha gang-bangers see petty criminals. You're projecting your view of these guys onto the solipsistic hamster. Women like men with balls. Bad-boys, addicts and criminals, typically have the balls to…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:02 PM
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Late to the party, but that's never stopped me before. The legal ramifications that /u/Pushnikov notes are well worth your consideration. But once you clear that hurdle, the choice in all senses is up to you. There is nothing immoral about such a relationship. She's offering to a be a kept girl, and you will be her keeper. Such is life. If you feel like helping her is no big deal, trivial, like traveling to a resort or procuring entertainment, then so be it. Do what you want. Is it red pill? Fuc…
/r/askTRP14/04/14 09:20 PM
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There are no unicorns. There are no semi unicorns. The minute you think you might have found one who is soooooo damn close to being the girl, stop, take a big step back and demolish the pedestal you are building.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 06:44 PM
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meh. It's BP reinforcement. Women are the sex-selectors, her circumstances are what make you more appealing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:40 PM
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Yes. Next question. Oh you want elaboration. Your general premise is correct. Sex work being illegal and/or societally shamed is a means of ensuring that women retain sole control over how and when and how often a man can meet his sexual needs. One caveat: Illegal prostitution preys on vulnerable girls. Legal prostitution exists at the sanction of the state and thus prevents many of the negative externalities associated with prostitution. Only the most radical feminist or moralist will argue tha…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:09 PM
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There is a reason for this. To acknowledge that for a man to attract and close multiple women is a learned skill would acknowledge that men are the sex-selectors, not women. Dominant social convention is that men "get lucky", thus there can be no skill involved and therefore women are the sex-selectors. This is solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:02 PM
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Thanks for the pointer. I discovered the danger of taking a moment to catch my breath recently. Your book and your blog have made a substantial difference in my life. You have my gratitude.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:26 PM
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Thanks for doing the AMA, Rollo. I've seen it frequently asserted in the community that the more partners a woman has the harder it is for her to pair bond with a potential husband. Intuitively, this strikes me as correct. Thinking about this in the context of War Brides, it occurred to me AWALT. Is it possible for a man with high SMV and tight game to overcome the enhanced hypergamic nature of sluts?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:07 PM
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Fathers raise sons. A mother cannot and should not attempt to raise a boy. She can mother him. She can take care of him. But she cannot raise him. You said it yourself, men and women are hardwired differently. The allocation of labor you have laid out with your SO is essentially correct, but if you choose to procreate with him, he needs to understand his responsibility will be to provide for the family and to raise his sons. He needs to model positive masculinity so they have a buffer against th…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 10:07 PM
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Indeed. I'm a few years your senior and that's the pattern. It's like strength training - the more work you put in the better your results will be.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:47 PM
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/r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:44 PM
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saying she doesn't believe in monogamy doesn't make her red pill. It makes her very likely to be a slut. Which makes her less valuable as a potential LTR. If she doesn't desire exclusivity, why are you chasing it with her? If you just took the position and are not sold on the idea of an LTR, reverse course, agree with her that non-exclusivity is the way to go and then spin more plates. This will naturally buy you more leverage. If you are truly desirous of a LTR, then next her, find a girl who i…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 05:17 PM
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If he don't want to get unplugged, leave him in the matrix. You can and should Next your friends too.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 04:27 PM
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The freeze out used correctly. She's isolated herself with you. Your intent is clear. She doesn't want it, per the terms of the prisoner's game, tit for tat. When she exhibits bad behavior, punish her. When she exhibits good behavior, reward her. She immediately reacted correctly and apologized for not going along. And here's where you missed the layup. As soon as she said that your next move was to tell her how it's going to be. "Hey, tomorrow night, make it up to me." Instead you've let a week…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 03:05 PM
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"I know" Say it like Han Solo
/r/askTRP10/04/14 02:54 PM
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you are doing it wrong. For starters LDRs are - quoting /u/Rollo-Tomassi - the most insidious form of ONEitis. In maintaining exclusivity with a woman who is not physically present with you when you want her there, you pass up on better options. Next, at your age, exclusivity is not worth giving up. Date in a non-exclusive fashion as it reinforces the perception that you have value and therefore further social proof with other prospective plates. Men are only as strong as their options, when you…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 02:51 PM
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Exactly. Opening another person is overt communication. Women excel at covert communication. When a woman resorts to overt communication she has exhausted all other covert means of conveying her intent.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:02 PM
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Due to societal conditioning, women are incapable of handling rejection. Hence their intense forms of rationalization to dispute the rejection or to modify their behavior to mitigate rejection. I'm thinking back to a recent field report where the guy was out with his LTR and she was acting out and he made it clear he was walking away and her behavior flipped entirely. Or the notation on the "you're not getting lucky" post from a few hours ago that: You have, for one night, given her excitement a…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:53 PM
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This. I've grown weary of hearing the concept of dude's getting lucky. That reinforces the false paradigm that women are sex-selectors. In the spirit of positive masculinity, men are the catch. And purging this notion that reinforces the feminine imperative is vital to recognizing that we are the catch.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:00 PM
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That's the way to be.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 01:57 PM
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whatever you need to tell yourself. From a ruthlessly pragmatic self-interest perspective, this is a clusterfuck and you're ass deep in it.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 09:02 PM
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I'll stipulate that she's all that because I don't know, and really I don't care. My point is, I can't see why you'd welcome drama where you're plotting to assault and batter another person is valuable when there are literally hundreds if not thousands of other women as sexually appealing, if not more sexually appealing than your current LTR within a short drive of your present location. By giving her exclusivity, this guy becomes your problem, not just hers. This is why giving exclusivity is ba…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:18 PM
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Next A million times next. She's 32, which means she's heading straight towards the wall, if not crashed into already. If she is truly concerned that he poses a lethal threat, she should arm herself. A restraining order is a ridiculous idea, because when seconds count the police are minutes or hours away. Further, has she not changed her cell phone number or relocated since breaking up with this dude? After 12 years I would think she has a different phone number, address, etc. What isn't she tel…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 07:33 PM
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Tits or GTFO
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:37 PM
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You're holding out for an ideal that you may not find as idyllic as you hope it will be. I'll cite Rollo (Iron Rule #3) When a woman makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. It’s sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroo…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 05:07 PM
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Why did I care what other women did. I realized that women sleeping around is not a fucking crime, that it's their fucking choice and I need to get over it. Ahhh the rejection of anger at the way things are, replaced by acceptance via it's none of his business. But if he internalized the Red Pill to any extent, he'll pick up on the truths. They will smack him in the face when he witnesses some girl's hypergamy. When he sees some guy drop a neg on a girl and watch her respond and qualify herself.…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:45 PM
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Invert the situation. If you've cock blocked other guys, what could they have done to get you to back away. Then sprinkle in some cocky and funny and apply it. I like to think of /u/scottishredpill's antics and how he would deal with people who would interrupt. Generally the more outrageous the response, the more confident you need to be in asserting it So you're at a party, guy comes up, interrupts your conversation, cut him off, thank him for being so kind to refill your and her drinks. Or ask…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 08:56 PM
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Men with lower SMV than their girls will be tempted to mate guard due to the perceived threat of an potential alpha on the scene. This instinct needs to be resisted. typical male mate guarding efforts include but are not limited to: approaching your girl while she's talking with another guy to assert the BF presence cut in if she's dancing with another guy Those were relatively benign. She gets the happy feelz of he cares about me. But it plants the seed of doubt that maybe you don't got this sh…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 08:47 PM
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Simple response is best. Be cocky and funny. But you lost your frame the minute you asked what she was up to. That put her into the position of declaring her activity, and not requiring that you be a part of it. Now, no matter what you say you'll sound like you're qualifying yourself. So ghost. Soft next her and don't say anything. Let her come back to you seeking to qualify herself.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 07:44 PM
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Good luck. Seriously. With regards to the degree, I'd encourage you to read up on what Captain Capitalism writes about worthless degrees. His Bachelor Pad Economics might be worth a perusal as well. Part of the procrastination I suspect stems from the dissatisfaction you feel in your relationship. Would the interesting hobbies disrupt your home life? Men are conditioned by the feminine imperative to think that manning up and becoming a provider is the key to our transition into adulthood. You've…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 05:06 PM
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No such thing. I'll take it a step further. There are no 10s There are no 9s AWALT
/r/askTRP02/04/14 05:00 PM
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dread game is a tool to show your LTR that you have other options. So develop more options. Hang out with female freinds. Go to places (bars, clubs, whatever) with her and your mutual friends and flirt with the women there. One caution. Don't be quick to assume he's just an orbiter. Women effectively see men in one of three ways: Who is that again? He gets me things and I don't have to do anything for him I'd so fuck him If she's isolating herself with him, he's either 2 or 3. And if he's cocky …
/r/askTRP02/04/14 04:39 PM
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You know what struck me from what you wrote: like my GF Hence you're unmarried. That makes my universal advice applicable Next Lift Spin Let me dispel a misconception. Solid income is a tool. But not one on which your frame relies. You seek to be a provider. Why? Because that's what a woman wants? What do you want? In the end what makes you attractive to others is your own passion and zest for your life. And guess what, I don't give a damn about your life and neither does anyone else. You're the…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 04:18 PM
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The advice already posted is pretty spot on. But since you're asking: recognize that her hypergamous nature will always have her seeking alpha cock and that you're nothing more to her than a means to an end. You buy her stuff. You give away your valuable time which affirms and validates her and you give it away for nothing. you suggest you are in no way emotionally attached to her anymore. Stop lying to yourself. You're meeting up with her with the intent of getting sweet sweet revenge. Revenge …
/r/askTRP02/04/14 04:03 PM
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He is so screwed While looks and masculine physical triggers in men are still an important attraction factor, her desire for a personal association with a man’s status and affluence begin to sublimate her physical priorities for attraction as she increasingly realizes the necessity of these attributes for her (and any offspring’s) long term provisioning. It should be noted that the appeal of a man’s potential for provisioning is proportional to her actual (or perceived) need for that provisionin…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:23 PM
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To build on the excellent comment from /u/_whistler social media is a time suck. You spend your most valuable resource, the one you can never get more of either seeking validation on giving it to others. You add nothing of value to yourself or the world. It's like pissing yourself while wearing a dark suit. You have a fleeting warm feeling, but you've just pissed yourself. Stop pissing yourself. Go build something. Start with you. Lift. Read. Focus on validating yourself. Not seeking validation …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:03 PM
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General text advice for the future. Text less. Try to initiate texts less. Also, stop asking. Start telling. No more of the "want to go out?" Reframe. "Meet me here then" where here is a place where you're known (your regular hangout) because social proof creates tingles and then is whatever time you want to get together. If she says no, that's fine. Because you are outcome independent. Don't be the guy who keeps checking in to get the first get together or the second follow up. If she doesn't s…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:25 PM
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I don't know what it is, but this one seems different from all the others. It's called ONEitis. There is a simple cure. Next. Lift. Spin.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 10:17 PM
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This one: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/21915v/field_report_i_am_not_a_redpiller_but_i_want_to/ He was convinced that by being nice he could get girls to like him and refused to engage in any actual discussion of his logical fallacies. By the way, the logical fallacies picture is stellar.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:11 PM
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I deleted my facebook account at the end of last year. Never looked back. It's a time suck filled with attention whores.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 10:09 PM
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Now I understand
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:46 PM
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I saw you removed the "field report" from the troll yesterday, but my reference was to the presently top rated post. No worries either way, just there's been an uptick in sniping about the way people make their points rather than addressing the point made on its merits.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:31 PM
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I've grown weary with the nitpicking over phrasing. In the house party writeup I saw enough examples of people harping on the use of swallowing in the title. Have we societally slipped our grasp on logic and deduction that we can't get the reference to the red pill? It echoes the point you're making on the deconstruction of analogies. In these instances it's willful disregard for the author's (commenter's) intent when deploying the analogy or reference. And for those who enjoy playing gotcha gam…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:22 PM
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AKA Threadjacking
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:12 PM
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I know, don't feed the trolls. But... Then why go out to be nice to girls? If you want to be friends with them, then how can you logically claim your efforts disprove TRP. 17 random hollywood starlets would 100% give me there phone number if I wanted. /sarcasm Seriously, just because you say she would doesn't mean she would. Then she responded to your physical value and was assertive. I'll caution you (not that you'll listen) this inversion of gender roles generally leads to failed relationships…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:34 PM
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TRP is not at all about trickery. I agree that it is about signifying status, but more so it is about developing authentic status.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:00 PM
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You just added to the nearly limitless pile of proof that by being nice you won't get phone numbers or sex from random girls.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 06:45 PM
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Red Pill thinking is just that. There is not prescribed lifestyle. The critical thing is that you open your eyes to the reality of the world around you. Step one you have begun to do. Accepting that you are idealizing this girl is a start. Allow me to ask a few more questions. When you think of yourself, how readily do your thoughts go to your girl? When you think of your future, how much of it is tied to the person with whom you want to be? Finally, what other pressures are interfering with you…
/r/askTRP24/03/14 02:32 PM
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Your decisions and behavior are independent of her. Pay for dinner, or don't. Pay for drinks or don't. But whatever you do, always maintain your frame, do what you want, how you want it, and avoid giving in to women like the Hamburgler No qualification necessary because AWALT
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 09:27 PM
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Dammit kids, do not shit where you eat! In answer to your question you established social proof by hooking up with another girl in spite of your burgeoning relationship with Kate. Secondly, you displayed high value by saying hey cool go do what you want, I'ma get some. You gave no fucks about what she thought. So yeah, you upped your standing. But you are making some horribly bad choices. You're admittedly playing it slow because you work with this first girl. You stopped fucking girl number too…
/r/askTRP21/03/14 07:57 PM
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As a baseball player you may appreciate this: There is an anecdote in Dollar Sign on the Muscle about a scout recommending that you scout your girlfriend before you make her your wife. And that's what it's all about. Ballclubs are making a comparatively small investment in talent at the draft or signing a kid out of Latin America but they scout the hell out of the tools, the skills and the makeup of prospects before putting that dollar sign on the muscle. Likewise, before you put a dollar sign o…
/r/askTRP21/03/14 07:44 PM
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Well said
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:32 PM
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The common advice would be to mate-guard, i.e. talk with her, express this isn't cool or go and make a strong display of your high value to drive off potential suitors. Fuck. That. Shit. Counter intuitive and relevant recent post from the Chateau To be precise, beta men and lesser alphas are chronic mate guarders. Established alpha males don’t typically mate guard — at least not obviously — because they don’t fear their women cheating on them or falling under the spell of other men, and, less be…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:31 PM
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Next. A million times next You have surrendered frame control utterly and at this point trying to get it is to endure an incessant swarm of shit tests that will push you back into your previous state of surrendered frame control. After you next her, you need to abandon the girls entirely for awhile. Spend some time sorting out your mission. I don't know what you want to be and frankly I don't care. In fact the only person who really cares right now is you. And if you aren't defining that objecti…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:48 PM
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It depends. If you haven't determined your mission, then do so. Nothing is more important to a man's self-actualization. If you have determined your mission and have largely succeeded at it, then you need to discover new ideas, new objectives and grow yourself to achieve them. I'd recommend this post from Danger & Play. I agree with the assertion that we have six categories of needs into which all our needs can be classified. Certainty Uncertainty Significance Connection Growth Contribution Wher…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:45 PM
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Thanks for the tip
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:18 PM
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maternal nurturing
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:44 PM
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Same. I remember wanting to see Race when it debuted on Broadway in 2009. Never got around to it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:10 PM
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It's just a goldmine of fantastic observations, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:37 PM
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well said. Our insecurity is born of our thirst for accomplishment. We doubt ourselves because we inherently understand that to be men we must prove ourselves
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:01 PM
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excellent observations from you and /u/Grainslol on the same passage. The need to accomplish, to push yourself and to be pushed by your peers, your competitors and a society that will judge you rigorously is necessary
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:58 PM
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Dutch was a great example of a lower beta male, especially the episodes with Hiatt and Garces.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:21 PM
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Thought so as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:59 PM
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Absolutely loved The Shield. Fantastic RP show.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:58 PM
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Of particular note: Christopher Hitchens writes in his memoir that his mother taught him, “There is nothing worse than boring people.” The worst sin, therefore, of America’s slouch into slovenliness might be that it creates a culture of boredom. Less drive, aggression, and energy lead to less excitement, fun, and variety. If there is one element of life that should forever live with immunity to boredom it is sexuality, yet America has managed, against all the odds, to make sex boring. Pop cultur…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 02:53 PM
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Okay. Let's break this down. It is an entry point to get her to swing You're attempting to ease her into a balanced power dynamic that begins with you surrendering your power, i.e. your agency to determine your own sexual destiny, while empowering her to go get what she wants that isn't you. she just doesn't realize itr yet. And you're electing to do this is a shady fashion and not being authentic or up front, which leads me to believe that you don't hold the whip hand in the relationship to beg…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:43 PM
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Continuing the unanimous streak here, next. Ideally when he saw her walking "close" with the other guy, he tells her, "why don't you walk your ass on back to wherever the hell you just came from, cause if you think you're coming home to me, you're sadly mistaken." And then all contact is cut and a mutual male friend gets her stuff from said domicile. It's disrespectful to break plans for a flimsy reason such as I decided to hang with another guy. That's it. No other justification is necessary.
/r/askTRP13/03/14 08:26 PM
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LDRs = invisible friends I'll quote Rollo because it's gold LDRs are the most easily identifiable form of ONEitis, and it would be laughable if it weren’t so damaging to a guy’s life progression. The LDR man generally sacrifices years of his life in this pitiable effort to pursue his ‘soulmate’ across the planet or even a hundred miles away. The very thought of refuting the idea that an LDR can work is equatable to denying his belief this fantasized ONEitis fueled idealization that he’s swallowe…
/r/askTRP06/03/14 08:23 PM
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you allowed something outside of your control to obliterate your entire frame. In this instance the proper response is amused mastery, not an abject display of low value. Please read up on the battle to maintain frame control
/r/askTRP27/02/14 09:26 PM
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Another of my favorites. Heinlein was a goldmine of truisms
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:08 PM
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Robert A Heinlein as he wrote in Time Enough For Love Do not confuse "duty" with what other people expect of you; they are utterly different. Duty is a debt you owe to yourself to fulfill obligations you have assumed voluntarily. Paying that debt can entail anything from years of patient work to instant willingness to die. Difficult it may be, but the reward is self-respect. But there is no reward at all for doing what other people expect of you, and to do so is not merely difficult, but impossi…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:52 PM
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Be authentic. That may hurt her. You have no control over how she feels about your action. To worry and fret about it diminishes the focus you can pay to the areas of your life over which you have control. Epictetus is useful here: Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens. Some things are up to us and some things are not up to us. Our opinions are up to us, and our impulses, desires, aversions-in short, whatever is our own doing. Our bodies are not up to us, no…
/r/askTRP18/02/14 02:50 PM
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Or in a nutshell: Women who like pussies are lesbians
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:45 PM
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"All is chasing after the wind"
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:51 PM
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about which she says, give no fucks. If she asks, and really it's none of her business, you're busy. If you're not really busy, then you're "busy" - and don't do the air quotes. When she asks what is keeping you busy, I like one of /u/scottishredpill's old lines, washing ducks (when asked what he did) or something equally off the wall. If you want to fuck her, game her. If you want to move on, move on. But be resolved in your won mind about what you want before doing anything.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 10:41 PM
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Marriage is inherently dangerous in modern Western society because the punitive measures taken against men depriving them of property, resources and children. This is logic - acting in one's self-interest is inherently logical - which she as a woman will not understand. She may pay lip service to the idea, but never for a minute think she actually gets it. Now the reason marriage is tricky is because the typical man will think, hey we got married, I gave commitment, thus things should be hunky d…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 09:57 PM
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borrowing from the wisdom of /u/Guurzak: go out, fuck three chicks and you'll discover the problem has solved itself. I'll further echo /u/RedBigMan and say regardless of how the culture and law perceives your action, shitting where you eat is a bad decision. Always.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 09:19 PM
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I haven't ever watched it, but on Sheen's reputation alone I'll stipulate.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:34 PM
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Most every film and television show made in the last four decades. We talk about the Red Pill entertainments because they are the exception. And almost as rare as unicorns
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:41 PM
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Love is what we call a series of chemical/hormonal reactions within the human body. Doubting its existence is akin to doubting the existence of gravity. The question I think you are asking to the best of my understanding is what affect should love chemical/hormonal reactions have on my choices. The answer to that is none whatsoever.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 11:07 PM
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It largely depends on how you define game. I'll take your succinct comment do and say things you wouldn't normally for the sake of getting a woman to accept you enough to date/fuck you. routines and stupid clothes and tyler durden lecturing a bunch of naturally subdued/introverted dudes on how to act like desperate attention-whore level extroverts to attract women. as an indication of how you regard game. To my mind, game is also the skill by which a man navigates shit tests and builds desire wi…
/r/askTRP16/01/14 08:19 PM
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I was thinking it would be the situation that a red piller should be getting sex through game. Sure. Obviously, getting sex by improving game is preferable to relying on the oldest profession to sate one's basic needs. But let's say you wanted something to eat, would you stop everything you were doing to run home and make food, or would you find a quality offering from a restaurant? It would depend on your mood and your budget. I see nothing wrong with getting take out trim. Other than that you …
/r/askTRP15/01/14 07:23 PM
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From the indispensable 16 commandments of poon: III. You shall make your mission, not your woman your priority Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be "The One" or the center of a man's existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man's life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the …
/r/askTRP10/01/14 04:47 PM
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Next. Frame is totally gone at that point, because she took all the initiative to make something happen. It's nice to be pursued, sure. But this much? Consider: She has trouble sticking with a decision She overcompensates for the poor choice she made After making herself a news story, she then cocoons out of respect for the privacy of the individual whose privacy she excessively disregarded to find Suggests to me that she lack impulse control, has difficulty acknowledging mistakes and accepting …
/r/askTRP03/01/14 07:04 PM
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Accept responsibility - check, you've done that. Owned it, even acknowledging you initiated it Understand why you did it - other than adding a notch and it seemed like a good idea at the time, have you given this much thought? Don't do it again - self-explanatory
/r/askTRP18/12/13 07:07 PM
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Not speaking for /u/strosst but my take is that he was illustrating the speciousness of your argument by unilaterally applying it to another group that never would be accused of being a cult, i.e. feminists. The comment about TRP being a cult was sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:31 PM
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Now, I just have to improve myself, through working out, indulging in my hobbies, and working. Meanwhile, I'll just be sargeing around for the next one. I've still got a couple lined up which I would like to go through. Well said. That's the right attitude to have
/r/askTRP04/12/13 11:03 PM
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nexting her seems a sound strategy. That said, it's not about hating her. /u/W_O_M_B_A_T is spot on with outcome independence. Her choices whether it's putting up some LMR or whatever have no impact on you because you are not dependent on a particular outcome. However, just an aside, when you ask us to make you hate her, you're going for the wrong thing. Hating her is the same thing as pedestalizing her. You are focusing your energy on her. Do not give a fuck about her. Let me say it again Do. N…
/r/askTRP04/12/13 09:04 PM
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Anytime
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:01 PM
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start here: Dread Games Continue here: Soft Dread basically, dread is a means of emphasizing your understanding of your value. Such that, your girlfriend or wife knows not just that you have options, but that you know you have fucking options. There are few things as powerful as a man who understands his value.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:08 PM
3

Next, Lift, Spin Plates words to live by
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:07 PM
2

As with all courses of action, your response should be based on what matters most to you and your objectives. If you are interested in a girl as a potential sexual partner and she says, let's just be friends, your response needs to be "No" or some variation of that. Don't ghost. Even via text. Say "No" and let it go. If she asks, tell her what you will. You don't owe her an explanation. She isn't your friend and you aren't fucking her, so telling her nothing works just fine. Awkwardness is a ref…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 09:21 PM
1

I'd suggest Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. Someone linked to a blog that broke down individual chapters and sections before, but I'm too lazy to look it up at the moment.
/r/askTRP12/11/13 06:47 PM
1

I won't sugar coat this, you're essentially screwed. At 25, you are at the age where your objective sexual marketplace value is going to soon be in decline, thus diminishing your overall attractiveness to the higher value men. Second, your debt load will be significant even after graduation, which will be a anti-marriage red flag to many men who correctly recognize that via marriage, your obligations become theirs. Next, you will have minimal time to engage in relationships for the reasons you a…
/r/askTRP31/10/13 05:12 PM
1

Getting snipped is not a bad idea, but at 17, you're better served by making sure you use protection and that you control the protection. Specifically, don't risk her damaging the integrity of your condoms in the event that her goal is to get knocked up. All the above advice is solid. You severed the exclusive relationship. Her expression of desire to get back with you is either a willingness to enjoy a non-exclusive sexual relationship or she believes that because you responded to her sexual co…
/r/askTRP30/10/13 02:40 PM
9

Never shit where you eat. Otherwise job well done internalizing the lessons life teaches us when we have our eyes and minds open to reality.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 03:58 PM
1

Concur.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 03:13 PM
10

Looking at most musicians catalogues is an exercise in rampant blue pillery. I took quite a liking to Stubborn Love by the Lumineers. But when I had but a taste of The Red Pill and listened to it, I felt sickened by how plugged in the song is: She'll lie and steal, and cheat, and beg you from her knees Make you think she means it this time She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair But I still love her, I don't really care How's that working out for you, pal?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 10:58 PM
-2

This is also the same conundrum that confronts newspaper editors when crime rates declines even as the prisons fill up. Their grasp of causation is minimal
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 03:52 PM
2

troll
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:49 PM
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Society's adoption of The Feminine Imperative has made almost all media sources expositors of their tripe. Commercials, sitcoms, many dramas are so steeped in blue pill examples as to bugger belief.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 06:24 PM
1

YMMV
/r/askTRP18/10/13 12:36 PM
5

"It's complicated" functions on several levels: It instills mystery It passes the shit test It demonstrates high value It establishes a frame of non-exclusivity It's quick. Remember the proper pattern for initial patter for a guy is ask, listen, comment. Asking establishes interest. Listen as she divulges details about herself. Comment in a way that reinforces push-pull dynamics, playful banter, mild negs that get her thinking. By being mysterious when you respond to her questions, you build her…
/r/askTRP17/10/13 07:47 PM
1

Do you think marriage is ever worth it? No. Can you believe in love and subscribe to TRP at the same time? Love is what we call a series of chemical/hormonal reactions within the human body. Doubting its existence is akin to doubting the existence of gravity. Correctly recognizing what love an element of Red Pill thinking Is shit testing conscious or subconscious or a little of both? Both. Is shit testing bad or is it necessary? Both. Is every compliment I give my boyfriend a shit test? Is there…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 08:31 PM
2

Most shit tests are requests to do or say something you would not ordinarily do or say. It's an attempt by a woman to get you to qualify yourself. Any serious response to her query is bending to her frame and will cause you to fail the shit test. You see plenty of potential mechanisms to overcome them. Agree and amplify, ignore, etc. I'm fond of the rhetorical device of reductio ad absurdum when propositioned with an absurd request (carry my bag, can you bring this down to my car for me, etc.) r…
/r/askTRP14/10/13 07:11 PM
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An awkward first date is an unrecoverable error. Learn from the mistake and move forward. What I would like to know is if she had any interest at all she would of texted me back right By apologizing at the outset of your communication with her, you accepted responsibility for the poor date. In a sense, you validated her impression that the poor date was your fault and therefore you owe her some kind of make up date. A typical girl will recognize this posture and see an easily friendzonable chap.…
/r/askTRP14/10/13 06:59 PM
1

I'm basing my comment on your initial intent. If a guy pulls one of my plate that's fine. I wasn't offering or desiring exclusivity. If I don't regard her to be LTR material, what do I care if she has other FWBs. Now, if she was a serious girlfriend, the reaction is dump her, tip the cap to him and find some plates to spin. If I'm married to her, divorce her and repeat the other steps above.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 06:51 PM
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I wouldn't describe the overall problem solving mentality as arrogance. However, when it edges beyond abstract problem solving into person fixer status, I see that as trending to arrogance. So the next question that your response prompts is whether you regard this woman a fixer upper? /u/RPreboot's point about the value she brings is appropriate. In the process of leaving her better than you found her you likely will give her more value than she gives you. Is that a tradeoff with which you are c…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 07:56 PM
1

Keep it light, breezy and above all playful. That you laugh is not the problem as much as how you laugh. A scoff carries a well played neg. A giggle however wrecks the value.
/r/askTRP11/10/13 06:30 PM
2

One takeaway I have gotten from your comments past was an emphasis on authenticity. In particular that your game is an extension of who you are naturally. You're describing a transition from that natural asshole frame to a different one. And there's nothing wrong with that on the surface. What I would question you about is this: I don't want to waste my time, and even if I don't select her, I want to leave her better than I found her. She's fragile, and needs my protection. She needs a rock, whi…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 05:57 PM
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Great FR. Co-opting her male friends was a great display of high value. As /u/Black-Legion noted, flirting with/pulling another girl could have been another means of overcoming the shit test. I think you played it quite well. One comment about the type of game you ran. This was somewhat chosen game. She pre-selected you because you stood out. You handled the first shit test perfectly. And because you didn't kowtow to her when she couldn't make the original night, she readily isolated herself wit…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 05:25 PM
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I like Dagonet's The Quest for 50. I know Matt Forney and Aaron Clarey do podcasts. but I haven't listened to them with any consistency to judge them good or not. Clarey's youtube videos are pretty spot on.
/r/askTRP11/10/13 01:08 PM
2

When we describe women as children or as driven by hypergamy we are rejecting the premise that women are rational agents. In all honesty and fairness, most woman under the influence of sufficient game do not have agency regarding their sexual behavior; their biological responses to alpha stimuli are stronger than any conscious decision-making process. I understand and to a certain extent agree with what you are expressing here. I do not believe that women are rational agents, nor are children, b…
/r/askTRP10/10/13 07:36 PM
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Blame is the wrong frame. Blame is steeped in emotion. A rational consideration is to hold people accountable and responsible for their actions and choices. Women have agency. She does the deed and chooses to be irresponsible about it, she is accountable and responsible for the mistake. By suggesting a woman is not at fault for her choices is to deny her agency. She may be following her evolutionary instinct to the hilt, but that does not absolve her of her responsibility.
/r/askTRP10/10/13 05:11 PM
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Not entirely sure of what you're asking here. But that won't stop me from suggesting an answer. Agree to the date, but tell her she's got to look sexy. If there is a particular outfit you like, tell her to wear it. This is you taking the lead and telling her you want her dolled up and looking hot. In doing so you establish the frame that this is a date and you have standards for dates, specifically that she better look her best. That should initiate the tingles and as long as you maintain that f…
/r/askTRP10/10/13 04:58 PM
4

She must be seeing that wall flying at her
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 08:24 PM
0

Let's assume just for a moment that we are all one extinction event away from a return to the conditions that made the biological imperative vital 5,000 years ago. Why should we assume that? Because we are. On an instinctual level humans realize this. Consciously, not so much. The future belongs to those who show up. That makes the biological imperative eternally relevant.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 05:28 PM
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Next. Maintain your frame, emphasize that whatever happens between you and her is on your terms and if she doesn't want that, you move on to the next girl.
/r/askTRP09/10/13 03:55 PM
1

The ideal workplace TRP strategy is do your job and get out. Depending on the level of bureaucracy within your organization as well as the state in which you work, you may face reprimand for push-pull, light negs and other game like behavior. HR is a beast that you are best not fucking with.
/r/askTRP09/10/13 03:01 PM
2

One nit pick with an otherwise exceptional field report. I basically ignored both of them the entire night. Silent version of Dread game. Dread Game is more applicable to LTRs where you make it clear to a SO that you have options and she better toe the line, or else you can and will walk. This strikes me as displays of high value (you've got more important stuff than her going on, the skill at singing) followed by verification through social proof. It's pre-selection played perfectly. Your actio…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 02:50 PM
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either BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) or BSC (Bat Shit Crazy). Either way, you don't want or need whatever it is she's got.
/r/askTRP08/10/13 09:55 PM
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This is spot on. Reminds me of war brides. Women will adapt to the new environment to survive. They will do whatever it takes to retain the provision of a man and avoid being ostracized by their peers and their community.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 06:36 PM
1

Yes, but going to a mall is all in public and gives no opportunity for isolation. Where a club can be public and private all in one. You're also pursuing this from a mindset of scarcity. You went out with your boys bar-hopping after the date with "I". So there was disposable income you could have parlayed into something, anything better than the mall. As /u/RedSunBlue says, have a plan. Your plan needs to be thought out so you can maximize the likelihood of escalating, isolating and closing the …
/r/askTRP07/10/13 10:26 PM
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shrug and move on. If she proves persistent, next or assert that you're not offering exclusivity and then leave it in her hands if she accepts you on your terms. Explaining yourself bends to her frame.
/r/askTRP07/10/13 06:15 PM
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Excellent FR.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 10:22 PM
1

I'll dig up what I found regarding white and gray matter. Not to mention read the pieces you linked to rather than just skim them.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 09:34 PM
3

No doubt about that.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 09:32 PM
1

Important to note, and I forget where I read this (so if anyone recalls who posted it, or noted it before, please correct me), but in terms of percentage of brain mass, women have more white matter than men. In terms of overall white matter, men have more, due to the larger brain size.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 09:15 PM
4

Fair point. Game is an important element of self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 06:24 PM
3

Stipulated. My takeaway is that by working on oneself, a man builds his highest value. That doesn't reduce the need for game. Being adept at game is part of one's self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 05:36 PM
3

I'll bite. How do you know?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 04:55 PM
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Avoid assigning blame in general. Instead, learn from mistakes. Blaming anyone for anything is an emotional exercise. Emotion is at the heart of all bad decisions. A dispassionate analysis of mistakes enables you to avoid making them again. I'll take it a step further, blaming your friend is misguided. He reacted to the situation in a normal fashion. Her actions are equally blameless normal. Your friend displayed higher value, she tingled, they fucked. That's biological, with no malice aforethou…
/r/askTRP04/10/13 04:45 PM
3

I hadn't seen this post from Alex Ding anywhere in the last day and thought it worth sharing. The TL;DR is this: Alpha defines the inner quality of a man, not what he has. He is secure in himself. He is confident in himself. He changes what he can and accepts what he can’t. He has skills and add value to society. He knows how to trade his value for money. He can survive and support himself without other people supporting him. He overcomes his fears. He is not afraid to ask for what he wants. [..…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 04:19 PM
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Indeed, it is Benedick, but as the plot of Much Ado About Nothing unfurls, he finds his heart aflutter for Beatrice and in his love for her challenges his friend Claudio to a duel to defend the honor of Hero. Claudio as well as the other characters incorrectly believed Hero had been unfaithful on the eve of their wedding. Despite the Red Pill truth Benedick spoke, the play in many ways mocks Benedick and that truth. Further, it plays heavily on the theme of infidelity, being effectively undetect…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 06:57 PM
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Reading your last paragraph, I was reminded of one the things Robert Glover suggests in his book "No More Mr. Nice Guy". He advocates "Nice Guys" to take time away from your social circle to be alone with yourself and your thoughts and feelings, working on yourself so to speak. He terms it a vacation and suggests going someplace new where no one knows you. You're describing why that activity helps a man realign his thinking to be more ego-centered. It is typical to overshoot the goal of red pill…
/r/askTRP03/10/13 06:16 PM
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There was a nice thread about a similar phenomenon about a month ago. And that coincided with a post, not sure where, that advised a guy has a limited window to get back together with an ex (like 24 - 48 hours) before she fucks another guy. It's a consideration of proximity, in my opinion. She's not going to choose a beta orbiter, because he's friendzoned already. But hooking up with a friend of her guy, either while in the relationship or immediately after it has ended, validates her value in t…
/r/askTRP03/10/13 05:49 PM
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Yes. Quoting from the above referenced Wiki page for it: ...essential features are a pattern of marked impulsivity and instability of affects, interpersonal relationships, and self image. The pattern is present by early adulthood and occurs across a variety of situations and contexts. Other symptoms may include intense fears of abandonment and intense anger and irritability that others have difficulty understanding the reason for. People with BPD often engage in idealization and devaluation of o…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 05:11 PM
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Endless applications, works on so many levels. Just enough neg. The idea about joining local organizations, like the Chamber of Commerce or what have you, is a solid one as well. Social proof and pre-selection effect, similar to what one would experience as a regular at their favorite bar/pub, but with a slightly different audience.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 03:49 PM
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It should show up soon.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 01:59 PM
6

Three words: Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 12:56 PM
1

Paperback
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:24 PM
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She will also view you as low value, because you still want her. You were by your own admission higher value before you dated. But despite the wardrobe upgrade, gym work, new job and hobbies, you still see her as a catch. Even though you "quite frankly" were higher value than she was. Go out, approach, nurture some potentials, start spinning plates, re-establish your value by not giving a fuck what your ex thinks. You have one-itis. There is a relatively easy cure. As Dr. /u/Guurzak will tell yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:41 PM
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Online interaction follows very closely the principle of diminishing marginal utility. One witty comment is great. But every subsequent one is a cry out for attention and reeks of desperation. Remember, any online haven that has a significant population of women is an arena where women get effusive validation and affirmation, which amplifies their entitledness. Keep your online or text communication direct, brief and above all push to get together in the real world. You can farm online dating si…
/r/askTRP02/10/13 03:35 PM
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From the comments it appears you feel a stronger sense of trepidation due to the deceit and not to her past history. I think that is correct, but that both are valid and legitimate concerns. Lies never help. And in this case, it's a sign of her own insecurity. You described the early stage as: Straight shooting talk, upfront about what we're looking for at this point in our lives etc. I'll grant that one does not proffer full sexual history disclosure upon initial meeting, but at some point, she…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:13 PM
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As others have noted: Next. And let's apply some logic to your evaluation of her as an HB8. Because logic calls bullshit on your lying eyes: She has an STD - 1 She has ridden the carousel hard -1 Would you feel concern at nexting a 6? I think the strategy that you discussed with /u/2comment is quite sound. It is better to part on good terms and leave open other benefits, social proof among them, than to burn the bridge entirely.
/r/askTRP01/10/13 02:58 PM
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You are attempting to rationalize the wrong choice by talking yourself out of the right one. To wit: Investments of time. Why throw good time after bad? You will share new memories with new people regardless of whether you stay or go. This is not a reason to stay. It is sentiment. If pair bonding was strong, she would not have peeled off with this other chap. I'm not sure I follow the fall out from networks. You are choosing to avert infidelity in your marriage by ending it. How would this impai…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 08:54 PM
3

I am more than a generic, one-size fits all term that sprouts from an equally ridiculous origin. I am a man, and I am fine to leave it at that.
/r/askTRP30/09/13 06:21 PM
1

I remember your story, /u/5upernova. Glad you got confirmation that you were following the right course. My only experience with anything like this was in my pre-RP days and I handled it totally wrong. My advice would be to sever contact and get her stuff removed swiftly. /u/Clauderoughly has a solid plan of action. Cut off the contact and move forward.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 07:29 PM
3

absent is absent. so in answer to your first question, yes. In response to your second question, nurturing and supportive doesn't work. By holding her to standards, you are being caring.
/r/askTRP27/09/13 06:40 PM
3

More often "Daddy Issues" are related from an absent father, as that inhibits a woman's ability to pair bond with one male. Much like riding the carousel impairs a woman's ability to pair bond with one male.
/r/askTRP27/09/13 06:27 PM
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Women respect strength. It doesn't matter if it comes from a relative or a potential mate. They generally blow off men who exhibit weakness or too overt a display of feelings. If you accept this about women in general, then why would your cousin be any different? In my not so humble opinion, fathers and father figures being compassionate and nurturing is typically what fucks girls up to begin with.
/r/askTRP27/09/13 06:21 PM
1

Nope. Unintentional and soon to be corrected
/r/askTRP27/09/13 01:48 PM
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Without knowing how you got this far, it's difficult to assess whether you've created an image in her mind of beta fux bux or alpha fux. I tend to agree with /u/Guurzak that she sees you as the former. How to bail is easy. Say no. You're busy. Your time and money are valuable. If you have no specific plans, then make some with guy friends, or spin up a few other plates and find the right combination of expended effort and resources for a more certain shot at sex. EDIT: typo now struckthrough and…
/r/askTRP26/09/13 05:11 PM
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Avoiding them is not the answer. If your goal is to spin plates, then you need to make it explicitly clear that you are not entering into an exclusive relationship. Girls of that age have become accustomed to setting the rules. By asserting you won't bend, you display high value, namely, you're above her desires, and more importantly, you live life on your own terms, which is the whole damn point. Giving a shit about her assumption that you are exclusive is adopting her frame. To be blunt, fuck …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 05:46 PM
3

I'd like to start a long-term relationship Okay but don't want to get married. I'm still with you so far. Is there any alternative to marriage? Long term relationships generally serve as an alternative to marriage. As you are looking to start a long term relationship, why not enjoy that for what it's worth? Official status is a construct and an artificial one at that. Are you seeking it to provide security for yourself or the person with whom you wish to start this relationship?
/r/askTRP25/09/13 04:44 PM
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Controlling your feelings is about maintaining your frame. As others have noted, read the sidebar, go check out /r/becomeaman, work on developing and improving yourself above all else. A key element to controlling your feelings towards women is to recognize that your efforts are not focused on them. It's not hating them, it's putting the emphasis on yourself and your growth ahead of them and their wants (specifically, your time, your attention, your validation, and your resources). This is how y…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 03:11 PM
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True. They held dominance due to military might, but they were undone succinctly by a Theban general and statesman who recognized Spartan weakness and ruthlessly exploited it. The story of Epaminondas is worth some attention and note. His daring campaign against Sparta is comparable to that of Patton in the second World War or Sherman in the US Civil War, by taking his army deep into enemy territory and routing his foes.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 06:13 PM
3

Thanks for the pointer. Definitely worth the time to listen and learn
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 06:08 PM
4

If a man thinks that by being a stay at home dad his wife or girlfriend will respect him and find him desirable because contemporary society suggests that, he's delusional. She may appreciate his efforts and find herself drawn to his companionship, because the release of oxytocin is inevitable. But she'll find his lack of virility repulsive and as other commenters have suggested, seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere. Interestingly, this only applies when children are involved. A stay at home dude, …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 02:44 PM
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Maintain your frame. If you know what's true, not even an army of blue pill pushing people will sway you from that. You know that many leaders of ancient Greece and Rome personified ideals of masculinity that are to be emulated, not diminished. I'd counsel the following course, continue to educate yourself outside of the framework of the class. Read Thucydides and the histories of his contemporaries. Seek out modern scholars such as Donald Kagan or Victor Davis Hanson who celebrate the great lea…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 02:30 PM
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Let me put this to you, why is a baggage-laden girl who recently bailed from the carousel relationship material? I don't care how hot or "calm" she may be, if the baggage is frustrating you, move on.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 07:33 PM
1

What feels wrong? run[ning] the typical ignore/never-contact- again/bang-another-girl-ASAP route to deal with this or all the fucked up shit? Or both? It's not like they are mutually exclusive. Regardless, my advice would be to re-establish and maintain your frame. You're doing right by walking away and moving on.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 07:27 PM
4

Indeed. An acquaintance once described herself as having been a LUG when she was in college. I asked what was a LUG, and she explained, lesbian until graduation. As she attended an all-girls school she, and likely many of her lovers, had a fluid sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 07:16 PM
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Stuck now on wanting more from her. Oneitis alert. Accept that she rejected you for more than friendly drinks. She continues to get emotional validation from you - specifically the reciprocation of the friendly/flirty banter - and doesn't have to give anything up. If that's acceptable to you, carry on. If not, I can see two solid courses of action: Next her Follow the advice of /u/trplurker and convert her into a wing woman.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 08:08 PM
3

In many ways, the members of this community and the blogs and sites that make up the so-called manosphere are already providing a measure of mentorship, by sharing their experiences, their thoughts, what they discover that jives with what we nebulously call red pill thinking. I learn by reading the exploits of our fellows like /u/scottishredpill or /u/TRPsubmitter or discussions on theory and ideas relating TRP to the world around us. But any online interaction pales in comparison to true mentor…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 07:58 PM
13

If you just do it to impress girls, fuck it. In absolute agreement here. Dancing because it is fun and releases endorphins is one thing. Dancing to impress anyone is bullshit. By the same token, if you're lifting to impress girls, fuck it. Lift, dance, whatever to improve yourself and do what you want not to impress anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 03:42 PM
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Nice FR. One bullet point I'd suggest in addition to the many you pointed out: Dancing establishes high value through social proof. Dancing with one girl who looks like she's having a good time being led by you instigates others to want to find out what you got that is making her so damn happy.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 03:37 PM
1

take the bank job. Gives you a steady income while you sort yourself out. As you understand what you want to do, consider getting a security job. I thought the advice here was pure gold. Taking control of your life starts when you set goals and position yourself to attain them. And that starts with what you are doing already. Keep working out. Educate yourself. Read and experience life. Overcome your AA by doing cold approaches. Good luck
/r/askTRP18/09/13 09:43 PM
6

Well done. Keep focused on your mission of self-improvement and the world you live in will be the one you want to be in
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 07:55 PM
4

Thanks for your service, 5upernova. My advice also would be to hold off on getting married. Abundance mentality and all. Secondly, you dodged a bullet the last time you gave commitment. Painless divorces and reasonable child support payments are the exception not the norm. And as you say, prenups are only as binding as the judge you get. I only see risk with a minimal amount of reward. edit:spelling ["me fail English, that's unpossible -Ralph Wiggum"]
/r/askTRP17/09/13 06:29 PM
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/u/Guurzak makes a ton of sense. Focus on living your life in the manner that suits you. I suspect the prison of your mind you describe is the primary limiting factor to doing that. In breaking out of it, you need to make yourself accept the lack of comfort you feel when going out for a few drinks, skateboarding, jamming with friends, etc. Bringing back the IDGAF will help.
/r/askTRP30/08/13 08:54 PM
2

Some questions: * How long have you been in the relationship with your current GF? * Are the kids from this relationship or the previous one? * Do you presently own a skateboard or a guitar? * What did you previously do for work, and why did you choose to pursue a degree now?
/r/askTRP30/08/13 06:42 PM
3

As much as I agree with the ideal of the First Amendment and mourn its irrelevance to modern times, I'll note that Federal Courts have proven quite adept at rationalizing plenty of violations of the Constitution and its amendments, including affirming laws that abridge the freedom of speech. RIP - free speech
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:47 PM
2

the first rule of /r/EvenRedder is you do not talk about /r/EvenRedder
/r/askTRP30/08/13 01:14 PM
4

Sounds like you didn't know the other guy at all, and that she was enjoying the vibe you were bringing. As far as I am concerned, you did not cross any line. That said, you blundered severely. When pressure came from others' disapproval of your actions, you backed down. In doing so, you displayed lower value. Your daring in going for the kiss sitting next to the guy she was with was a huge display of tingle inducing high value. One more minor point, you are not stealing a girl. It is up to you w…
/r/askTRP30/08/13 01:03 PM
3

Vox Day (writing at Alpha Game) has commented that Game and Christianity are not incompatible I'd encourage you to search your preferred search engine for "Christianity game site:alphagameplan.blogspot.com" for some examples from his blog.
/r/askTRP30/08/13 12:49 PM
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Daniel Craig in the first half of Casino Royale, sure. But he had some serious Oneitis with Vesper in the back end of that movie. I'd exclude Bogart in African Queen as well. Maltese Falcon Bogart is serious Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 05:14 PM
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Not necessarily manosphere specific, but Glenn Reynolds is fond of remarking: Chivalry was a system, and one that made demands on women every bit as much as on men.
/r/askTRP29/08/13 12:55 PM
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Who do you think told him that? Wife would be my first guess, too.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 08:34 PM
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One note, the guy writing into Dear Prudence (and writing in to a reliably horrible advice columnist is major league display of low value) said that the cuckolded husband asked him not to have any role in the son's life. What struck me as a total example of blue pill mentality is this: Cousin marriage is common in much of the world and I think the remaining laws against it in this country should be repealed. Yes, there is an elevated risk of passing on genetic disorders, but in absolute terms it…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 07:40 PM
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I've posted this piece of advice before, but it seems applicable to you. Read and educate yourself. Relying on school both now and whatever institute of higher learning you eventually attend, to provide you with the skills necessary to thrive in our culture is folly. Members of this subreddit have posted past reading lists beyond the sidebar in /r/TheRedPill (here, here, here and here.) Secondly, approach. Talk to girls, practice interaction, develop the skill to read their indicators of interes…
/r/askTRP20/08/13 03:29 PM
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This is golden. In the world of business development, practicing golden silence is continually advocated. Allow your client to share their goals, issues or concerns and to fully articulate them. The individual who submits too often to the pressure to speak displays lower value. Comfort in silence is a massive display of higher value
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 03:15 PM
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Intuitively, this seems correct to me. And in conducting a modest bit of research, it seems the jury is still out on how applicable Maslow's hierarchy is. (Source: here)
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 02:45 PM
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Agreed in full.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 10:19 PM
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I've said this before, so please pardon me quoting myself, love is what we call a series of chemical/hormonal reactions within the human body. If you feel love is valuable on its face, then act accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 06:49 PM
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I wasn't suggesting that the cost is a negative reaction from a woman. It's more of a consideration of does saying this advance my mission. A man should make his mission his first priority and not telling a girl he loves her unless it advances his mission. That's the cost benefit analysis I was advocating.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 03:04 PM
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Internalizing the Red Pill is about action. Where you go to meet people is up to you. What are your interests, hobbies and passions? You're young yet, so spend some time figuring that out. Pursue what matters to you. If that's restoring cars, do that. If it's philosophy read and study. Build your value as an individual. No one will do that for you you. You have to do it yourself. What you do about your ex is very simple. As u/Guurzak often remarks, "fuck three other girls first, and you'll find …
/r/askTRP16/08/13 01:24 PM
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Before saying anything, one should weigh the benefit that statement provides and its costs. I can imagine few situations where the benefits of saying "I love you" to a girl outweigh the costs.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 01:16 PM
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This is spot on. Part of the red pill mindset is learning to accept other people's choices. As much as we don't want to see friends and family make huge life-smashing mistakes, they have the right to make that choice. Asking him the question is all you can do and if he is open to a conversation, then try to lead him to greater understanding and common sense.
/r/askTRP14/08/13 10:00 PM
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TRP will not help you pick up chicks and get laid. You will. The principles and ideas of evolutionary psychology will help. But you need to put in the effort, learn about how to handle approach anxiety, overcome shit tests, maintain your frame and embrace the concepts of outcome independence and that we live in a world of abundance. Start with the /r/becomeaman sub and work on approaching strangers, lift, get out of old habits and make better ones. This is not a how to get laid seminar. This is …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 10:00 PM
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So I dont get choose to interact with women TBH. Fixed it for you. I encourage you to go out and interact with women in situations outside the office. A girl in your office playing mind games with you never ends well. If you're lucky HR doesn't get involved.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 06:23 PM
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Love is what we call a series of chemical/hormonal reactions within the human body. Doubting its existence is akin to doubting the existence of gravity.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 06:20 PM
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I think the primary issue is you are failing to lead this girl in any way. So you want a date and rather than say, "hey, [girl with whom you have been talking awhile,] let's go out [whatever night works for you]" you put the responsibility in her hands and ask her when you and she are going to make it happen. She wants to be led. She wants to maintain plausible deniability for her actions, so if she makes a decision, she's responsible for the outcome, and she can't have that. Your response, toni…
/r/askTRP13/08/13 06:12 PM
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I just want him to man up a little to his wife so me and my best friend can hang out again. It's tough when your growth propels you forward, past those with whom many memories are shared. But that's what it sounds like has happened with you and your friend. Continue your growth, branch out and find more friends who share your values and desire for continued self-improvement and when he can see and understand and grow, he will. He has made his choice, you must make yours and no amount of explanat…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 05:45 PM
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Females will only change when men don't buy into their bullshit anymore. Correct. I'm reminded of a concept. Wars will continue until nation-states can no longer attain their ends by war. And peace will endure as long as nation-states can attain their ends through peaceful means. As long as women can continue to have their cake (ride the carousel) and eat it too (find a AFC to support them and their alpha spawn) without consequence, they will not change. Only in rejecting their BS can men reclai…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:44 PM
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He sported a helluva case of Oneitis in The African Queen, too. I'll stipulate Rick as Blue Pill up to a point. The closing sequence in sending Ilsa to go with Laszlo while he took charge of his own life with Renault was certainly more Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:26 PM
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The comfort and stability you enjoy is just an illusion applies to so damn much
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:21 PM
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I'm 37 and took the pill in the last three months. Before then I inherently knew that I was making poor choices, but would not be able to say that I understood the idea of the Red Pill until this year. I am still working to purge the old ways of thinking, so I wouldn't say I'm living it. Not fully yet.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:07 PM
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I watched Bogart in The Maltese Falcon with my college roommate way back when. He was in awe of the direct, forthright way that Bogart carried himself. As was I. This was Humphrey Bogart - professional badass. Right now it clicks, my old college roomie was a Red Pill savant, and I - infused with a stubbornly blue pill mindset - was determined to do everything opposite from what he did. Better late than never.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 08:04 PM
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First the preliminaries: Excellent advice. And may I say, I appreciate the hell out of you taking a contrarian position and laying out exactly why you take it. It's solid advice regardless of where you are in life, but it's especially relevant to guys like u/TRPteen. My only caveat is that dating should not be the only means young men his age utilize to attain comely companionship. Depending on the cost-benefit analysis, random hookups at parties, pulling a girl at a club or night out, or cultiv…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:00 PM
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Continue to read and educate yourself. Relying on school both now and whatever institute of higher learning you eventually attend, to provide you with the skills necessary to thrive in our culture is folly. Members of this subreddit have posted past reading lists beyond the sidebar (here, here, here and here.) Secondly, approach. Talk to girls, practice interaction, develop the skill to read their indicators of interest and balance the delicate push-pull of interaction that holds a girl's intere…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 07:52 PM
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Good for you getting out of your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 05:39 PM
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In response to edit 2, attractive or manipulative women can eschew actual application of intelligence because orbiters. That's laziness, straight up. Breeds entitlement, too. Additionally, the greater their SMV, the more likely their orbiters form an echo chamber that prevents the penetration of objective thought. Actual intelligence erodes from this scenario. And then she doesn't even see that wall into which she's about to run headlong.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:28 PM
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By its nature, the Red Pill is bitter, hard to swallow. Despite that, and perhaps because of it, it remains the best thing you can internalize. Focus on you. Your first mission is to make sure you have arrangements for your accommodations. If she can't afford the place on her own, she can move out. She has treated you with contempt and she'll spin it back on you that if she cheated it's your fault. So stop fretting about her. It's extremely hard. But you must do this first and above all. Your di…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 05:00 PM
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