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I left this sub 5 years ago because it was the same stuff every day, I come back to check on it and I see it's essentially the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:18 AM
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It doesn't help when political groups only think a few marginalized groups are affected and that there is no societal level destruction going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:52 AM
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Yes, it's like housing cost inflation. Sure, property value (women's standards) is going way up, but the homes are essentially the same, or even decaying and need a lot of work, and yet are still unattainable for more and more people. Then when people complain about the cost of living and get dunked on for complaining, of course they will radicalize or become bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:51 AM
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That's like saying people who are struggling to find an affordable place to live need to go live in another country. The end result is simply to depopulate your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:47 AM
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Very good list for men. I also wish men would stop: - Using hook-up apps - Watching porn (at least not excessively if they can't fully abstain), using OnlyFans - Stop buying stuff from online "alpha" males; they are grifting you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:13 PM
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Manosphere traditionalist men seem to be trying to blend the blue and red pills together. The blue pill would be having one partner and raising a family, having a household, etc. The red pill is the woman is submissive to him and plays the role of a 50s housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:06 PM
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Isn't that usually what they are swiping for in the West as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:24 PM
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I would take it. I'm over the hump and also value other things more than sex, such as financial security and retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:20 PM
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You can potentially peak 35-50 because your competition dwindles to almost nothing. A peaked 25 year old still has a bunch of other guys to contend with who haven't let themselves go yet or are in the process of letting themselves go. You would much rather peak later in life than earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:16 PM
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Then let's look at the people who make up most poor urban neighborhoods who have had tough lives for generations. It hasn't made them more robust in a way that will eventually lead to a renewal of civilization any more than barbarians were able to maintain the high-civilization of Rome. We are looking at dark times ahead as opposed to a turn-around. Except it will all be new because of modern technology, and dystopias don't seem to be a recipe for creating strong future societies. Drastically re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:00 PM
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TikTok and women's gym culture has created a new creature of female solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:50 AM
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Drastically replaced, you mean. There's no reason why the tautology of tough times create tough men will always be true, if it was ever true. We're already 3 generations past the boomers and young men are just as annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:44 AM
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Unworthy father in fairy-tale terms from a scientific theory that hasn't been proven and another scientific theory that is barely over 100 years old. No wonder people are so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:41 AM
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Simple solution is to offer more support services to older people who had children. Childless people are capable of working more, focusing on their careers, etc, but they did nothing to contribute to the population, and thus, continuance, of society. Let them only have access to their private investments and savings, while gov't programs go to the reproducers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:39 AM
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I predict there will be some kind of reaction or death to Tinder and similar apps. Word will get around and be too strong for what it is like for the average guy and maybe they'll drop out of it. I don't know what will replace it, but probably some AI driven weird shit. I base that prediction on what younger people searched for most on Porn Hub last year, basically, not real women but cartoons and animations. In a way, perhaps the dateless will find something for themselves while they become dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:24 PM
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I guess we're going to find out. I think it's highly likely there will be more and more people who will be fine being single and adapt to that lifestyle before they adapt to dating people they don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:19 PM
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I took a huge break from this sub, over a year, and when I read this sub regularly and participated in debates, etc, I started to develop a negative and cynical attitude toward dating and the opposite sex. Then I unplugged. All of that negativity went away and there have been no signs of things "getting worse" IRL. I still see plenty of people dating, getting together, meeting mutuals, getting married, and so on. The internet tends to bottleneck information and makes us all think things are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:17 PM
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Life would be pretty drab without women. I've worked at places with almost no women and, while fun and low stress, I'd eventually miss the dynamic they bring. They are also much more pleasant to look at. Women also tend to be good at small talk so it's easy to pass the time at work with them than with men. If a woman is really attractive she's sometimes a joy to be around, even when she's boring and quiet, because it brings something out at the cellular level, like your body is simmering, primed…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:15 PM
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I think I can say this sincerely when I say this: no one cares. People would rather have good problems than bad problems. Having to choose between multiple great suitors is far better than having to settle for one mediocre one. It's like being a super successful salesman and complaining about all the appointments you have. The broke salesman would kill to complain about having too much work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:41 PM
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I have limited experience but here it is. As a geriatric millennial I found my wife at college. I remember thinking at the time that that was when I needed to lock one down because options after college seemed non-existent (which they were until Tinder, because the eHarmony stuff was pure garbage). This attitude of find your spouse at college seemed prevalent among my generation in college during the early 2000s. My nephew is Gen Z and managed to avoid being addicted to the internet and he is hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:38 PM
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They're simulated problem-solving tasks, many of which are mundane as hell (repetitively collecting plants in Skyrim, for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:26 PM
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People are free to have whatever expectations they want but it isn't always going to align with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:14 PM
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I agree with NAWALT, hypergamy, some of the PUA stuff like push/pull, kino, agree and amplify, agree with abundance mindset and inner game. I think some understanding and application can assist a dude who is normally unsuccessful with women to have more a chance. I disagree with RP when it comes to overemphasis on lifting, spinning plates, hanging onto negative opinions of women, like 'it's just your turn', and how basically full application of RP ideas will only put men onto the kinds of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:10 PM
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They are grifters and con men. Look at their net worths, look at the net worths of any of those guys teaching incels how to get women. They're not gaming women, they're gaming men and making money off of them, selling them good feelings and hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:00 PM
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It's short-term solution that encourages degenerate behavior. I also don't care for the 'just lift bro' stuff repeated endlessly, like it's some new revelation that hasn't been around forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:07 AM
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People are happy to argue that there's "systemic racism" but then they ignore or deny that we now have "systemic inceldom" in our society. Equitable distribution of pair-bonds is lopsided and continuing to break down. I don't see this trend reversing either. Society will have to figure out a way to deal with the long-term consequences, which I guess is little more than replacing the native population with a foreign population that has a more equitable distribution of pair-bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:58 AM
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Not to mention there is still going to be an 80/20 split in those 14.5% of men concerning which are attractive and which are not. Height doesn't always equal nice face/body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:46 AM
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I've seen tons of 6+ dudes who are ugly, gangly, skinny-fat, and plain creepy looking. Can't imagine they slay girls the way the internet would make you think they should. Girls want tall model-looking dudes, which is even rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:43 AM
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My two cents. By your 40s you definitely should already have a family and not be messing around with the single life anymore. I don't see the point of sterile serial dating as a long-term option. If I were in my 40s and still unmarried and childless, I'd give up, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:40 AM
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It's definitely true even when you are aware of it and don't want to give in to it. I have found myself enjoy the hell out of bland conversations and interactions with attractive coworkers and fight the urge to yawn or escape when I'm interacting with ugly coworkers (unless they have really pleasant personalities, which happens). I think attractive people not only get more interaction, but their interactions are more pleasant. The better you look the better your "personality" is unless you are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:04 AM
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Don't let strangers on reddit dictate to you your behaviors offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:01 AM
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I looked through your post-history OP. Is this person you broke up with the same person you complained about having a dead bedroom with? If so, then your feelings are simply undealt with. You knew this person was not a person you wanted to be with. Perhaps you have been lying to yourself or are unwilling to see things as they are. You are still painfully young and immature. Women do not fix that. You may still be mourning the loss of your mother, you lost her at a very young age and for that you…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 06:23 PM
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I was hypothesizing. My broke married ass isnt going to latam anytime this lifetime
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 01:49 PM
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Oh they can? Damn ok that would suck
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 01:27 AM
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What's to keep a lad from impregnating them and never returning? They can't extradite a guy for that.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 07:57 PM
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This is what I wanted trp to be doing for men. Glad to hear you got saved from that ugly situation.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 06:36 PM
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I would reevaluate these "friends" ruthlessly. What if they influenced you enough that you took the plunge and it destroyed your life? It's a huge deal, no different than if your friends wanted you to try some crack because they think it'd improve your life. These friends think so little of you they would have you date someone completely beneath you, I don't think friends would do that.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 02:14 PM
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Youve got to realize Thats a little boys potty humor thought. Women are not going to be making any comments about icky bodily fluids unless they are super trashy and love the trash. Wtf would someone move into a part of the pool where they are commenting someone may have peed.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:55 PM
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Yeah he showed he is still a little boy with potty humor. Not suave at all.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:51 PM
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This is basically it. She has to show that she actually wants it, she goes for it, and she wants you to have a great O without you having to get her off first. I think a lot of sex becomes duty sex because it's: first let's get you off, then me. Shit's exhausting and boring. Every now and then all one partner needs is for the other to do whatever they can to give their partner a mind-blowing O and the partner can reciprocate another night. Why's that so hard?
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:43 PM
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Church. Supermarket. Wal-Mart. Park. Bars. Basically any place that people have to go to in order to function in society, not everyone can stay indoors all the time. That's all you have available to you.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:36 AM
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Stop masturbating, stop any and all porn if you indulge in that. Start chatting to randoms at work or school about whatever is on your mind, even if it's very very brief. All of this will prompt your brain to stop seeing social interaction as so scary. Journal about your insecurities, why does rejection scare you, why does virginity bother you, etc. Once you start interacting with girls don't have the goal of sex in mind, instead try to enjoy her company. You may have to interact with enough gir…
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:38 PM
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My theory is they have inherent abundance mentality.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:40 PM
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Stop masturbating, the anxiety will disappear without you even noticing. In fact, you will have to be conscientious of not holding too strong of eye contact.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:32 PM
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I appreciate the kind words, I really did hope it would be helpful for many.
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:22 AM
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Ahh bullet dodged very nice work
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:46 PM
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It makes much more of a difference than you can imagine, especially if you've never gone more than a week or two without m'ing your entire adult life. For me, I found that any social or approach anxiety disappeared.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:59 PM
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Well, I've been aware of seduction stuff for over a decade and had a decade of regular experience before that.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:58 PM
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Yes and no. Definitely be as polite as possible and give yourself and her an easy out. Unless they have a wedding ring on there's little reason why not to approach in a public setting, but one definitely has to be on alert for indicators of "get me the hell out of here." Some people are also very outgoing, flirtatious, but have no interest. But I said what I said because many women you see when you're out and about you will never see again, so if you see what you like, take some kind of shot whi…
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:57 PM
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That was my hope, I see a lot of the same complaints over and over.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:55 PM
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That was my hope, I see a lot of the same complaints over and over.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:54 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:54 PM
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Nice! See how she opened you in a very polite and neutral way and it just escalated from there. So easy. Eye contact. Ice breaker. Small convo and then being clear about your intentions.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:31 PM
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I would suggest journaling and reading No More Mr. Nice Guy and probing your subconscious for mental barriers. The emotional pain you are experiencing is the reaction of your id and you id is like a tyrannical toddler that wants everything and wants it now! Believe me, I've had emotional pain from looking at women before, I used to feel a lot of emotional pain whenever I saw a beautiful woman, but consistent journaling and digging way down deep into myself to find answers helped immensely and no…
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:35 PM
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Because women aren't going to approach enough men for their to be enough relationships for enough babies for the species to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:19 PM
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This is an interesting point bc when you think about it bad boys are very genuine about their emotions while nice guys are very subdued or fake.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:06 PM
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If you think about it this is how guys ask out other guys and make friends. Kids do it naturally too. Adults who want the sexy sex end up making it super high stakes to ask someone out and need tons of strategy to overcome the intense fear they experience.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:18 PM
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Further divide by location and how many might be in a 15 mile radius who also find you attractive and youre down to 0 or 1 at best.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:25 PM
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Every short guy ive seen with a moderately attractive woman is almost always very fit and has a face like a model.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:22 PM
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An asspic response lol nice. I can just imagine sending a pic of a hairy dude ass with no words. Pure gold
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:41 PM
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I believe you need to add "bitch" to the end. This neg will cause her to want to qualify herself to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:08 PM
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Are there though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:26 PM
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In the case of the US they definitely will bc even lesser opportunities for the homegrown is still better than their home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:46 PM
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My understanding is this: promiscuous women have lots of sex < high N-count means less ability to pair-bond < less ability to pair-bond means less LTRs/marriages < less marriages means less children, especially children born into strong family units < less children from loving families means less people have skin in the game. Hypothetically, when there is a lack of people with skin in the game, people without kids will be pocketing all of the rewards of society but not taking the risk of contrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:59 AM
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It's an attempt to refute the phrase that women are the gatekeepers of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:49 PM
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This is a non sequitur. You are attempting to delegitimize an entire group of people who probably don't exist. There is no reason to believe redpill men live up to every single idea redpill men have ever come up with anymore than there is reason to believe all Christians abstain from sex until marriage (and at least there there is a strong argument to be made that they shouldn't be fornicating). People don't follow instructions like machines and TRP is no exception. No amount of straw men can cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:41 PM
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OP is correct in that many FDS and TRP users are going through the grieving stage of hate. This is the id crying out with rage because the world isn't unfolding how they expect it to unfold. They want to be attractive and successful with the opposite sex, but they lash out against the natural barriers they cannot resolve magically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:15 PM
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Activists go after the guys who promote it and show their face (I forget who he was, but some kind had committed suicide because everything he built was cancelled). The sub itself has been quarantined for years. It's basically actively censored and banned on most social media nowadays, like you can't get anything near the level of content you could 10 years ago. Also, a lot of the big movers and shakers moved on with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:36 PM
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Aye theres the rub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:57 PM
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No its a celebration of a catholic saint that the secular world perverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:43 PM
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I am here to get an idea of where the culture is at in terms of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:05 AM
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This is a strawman argument. Redpill views are not negative or positive, they are attempts at describing reality and then it's up to the men who ascribe those views to women to determine if they will do so negatively or positively, hence why redpillers talk about different stages of grief after the pill and you seem to think men are stuck on the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:45 PM
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Wife and I will be eating chocolate all day until one of us gets too sick and stops eating. The loser becomes the other's fuckmeat for rest of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:44 PM
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Wrong. Both are A leading to B.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:24 PM
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It would be the end of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:08 PM
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Ive had to come up with strategies to not ogle attractive women dressed and done up sexy out in public. Just like how women dont want to be approached whenever they are out I dont want to be sexually aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:25 PM
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My hope for TRP was that it would help a bunch of civilization-building men, the ones with valuable skills and intelligence and the desire to form families, be able to land the wife they want instead of ending up as beta-bucks or incels. So many guys could benefit from even a little game and gym-inspired confidence and society would benefit from it. Society doesn't benefit from serial monogamy and hook-up culture, although I know you can't dissuade young people from this, but if younger men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:35 PM
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I remember at school in the 90s how everything catered to girls to help girls succeed and boys were ignored. Some people worried about what would happen if boys were left behind and here we are with surprised pikachu faces everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:41 PM
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Some ted talks guy also made the point that civilizations die out when young men are no longer willing to sacrifice themselves for the nation. I cant imagine todays generation being willing to go off to war for their nation, particularly the main stock of the country. A world war that is, not police action against feeble nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:32 PM
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Thats bc it is bothersome and why men need some game so it comes across as more innocent and accidental. I wouldnt approach at work tho like OP.
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:26 AM
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Which culture uses queen so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:35 PM
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It is hypergamy, yes. As the economy worsens men drop out of college and dont get very good jobs or bluecollar as you say. Women overvalue degrees and careers and wont date down. Its just AF now the BB is disappearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:34 PM
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I think this could possibly break the power of pornography and allow bright young people to focus on their careers. Not sure how they would transition to family formation, guess we would have to cross that bridge when we get there. The chief benefit would be eliminating the tremendous energy people waste looking for love when it is hopeless for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:35 PM
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It is a privilege that can lead to a downfall. Like if you born in a rich family but became a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:51 PM
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It is a privilege but it is not always an advantage. Look at your sister: sure, she doesn't lack for sexual partners or interest from others, but the sheer volume and nonstop attention has invariably caused her to place less value on people which will undermine her ability to have a long term healthy relationship (she's already divorced once). Permanent cycling of dudes in sterile relationships doesn't sound like a privilege, it sounds like a limbo-state where finding a good partner becomes almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:40 PM
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Definitely spot on about the needing to be a cool guy, or at least a normal guy. Knew a guy at my job who hadn't had any luck with women but he was like 6'3" and super fit because he was bodybuilding. Problem was, he had long dirty ponytail hair and a stupid ass biker-like beard. He was always amped up with nervous energy, had creepy vibes like not knowing basic common social cues (maybe autistic, but he would start conversations and didn't seem to know how to listen very well, didn't seem to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:37 PM
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Its bc, like many people, we arent taught about boundaries and how to enforce them. Doesnt help that the sex drive will whatever it can to make sure its needs are met first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:34 PM
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There is no reason to think civilization will go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:55 PM
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Just throwing this out there but they probably want new users to get hooked and think it will work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:25 PM
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This is true, one thing I notice when I look at pictures of people from 1800s and early 1900s I notice how tough, masculine, and good-looking almost all of the men are, and the women are just... 95% fugly. I've gone through the pictures of my own ancestors and we've gotten progressively less chad over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:45 PM
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Brothels seemed to have worked for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:42 PM
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The poors, women included, have always had to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:40 PM
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As a man, my only caveat thought here is that women are not plain attracted to or desire many men in the way they desire Chads. This means sex does become transactional for her and the guy will need to offer up some beta bucks as part of that transaction. The beta simply cannot negotiate this desire, he is aiming too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:44 PM
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This is a way a male will test a female. Because, let's face it, if your goal is to become married and have kids, life will be more challenging than if you remain single. Being married gets difficult, you have ups and downs, and having kids makes it a lot more difficult because you take on a new level of responsibility together and have to work together so life doesn't become hell. If someone can't accept that people are occasionally weak and vulnerable, then they aren't relationship material, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:00 PM
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As a dad myself it's still a lot of work. Many times you pick the entirety of house chores plus work because your partner is suffering from sleep deprivation (and you are as well, but not as bad) especially if the baby didn't take to a bottle, as mine did. I mean, some guys might do jack shit, but a lot of men these days are more involved than say, Boomers were, because guys now typically change diapers, get the kids dressed, fed, take them places, take them on walks, soothe them in the night, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:50 AM
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Im noticing in this thread it seems to be men who are mostly regretful, not very many women. Just makes me go huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:36 PM
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In my experience some of them are so braindead they really don't recall.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 11:03 PM
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A lot of older people have actual life experience and some of them have been thoughtful about it. In the same way people can learn from others online they can learn from others irl. A therapist is not someone who magically has greater ability than others, especially because they are not supposed to fix anyone but guide people to find things out about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:02 PM
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It's well done I encourage you to finish it. Formatting was fine, I'm glad you aren't trying to be too descriptive and flowery.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 06:04 PM
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At every job I've had there were men who were my age or 10 years or more older than me who had experience I could draw from if I were open to it. I'm sure most guys will get access to that in their working career, and if they don't think they will then they should specifically seek out jobs that are male dominant. Some of them have to be open to offering a little advice and mentorship to a guy though, as guys who pedestalize women are often very close-minded and thick-skulled and won't listen an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:46 PM
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I don't agree. Many men lack male friendships and community with other men who are older and more experienced. I've seen male therapists as well and most of them come across as your typical bluepill guy who isn't successful with women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:42 PM
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I don't know if therapy is the right solution. I think a guy would do better to have a few male friends and acquaintances who are older and more mature than him and can straighten out his flawed thinking because they've either been there or done that or know guys who were like that and have seen the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:33 PM
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Damn this should be printed out in a poster and given to every male who comes of age.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 04:21 PM
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Good post, well written and thought out. I wanted to point out something also about your very good point: they don't care what you DID for them. The women I've had never cared about things I did for them. Back in my white knight days it didn't matter that I helped a girl avoid jail and losing her brother (she was from a seriously broken family, but I was a simp back then) she recently rescued from her step daddy. It didn't matter I helped her get an apartment by cosigning (again, serious simp en…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 04:19 PM
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It is not a need. You can live without it. Look at some of the success stories of guys going long-term hard-mode nofap. Personally, I'm glad to be getting older where it feels like a lot less intense of a want. When someone is young and horny it will feel like a need they can't live without, but it really isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:50 PM
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I disagree since there is still something healthy and wholesome about men approaching. A man who approaches at least signals that he thinks of himself as worthy and he's mentally fit enough (if not under the influence) to go after what he wants. If a girl goes around approaching random guys, who knows what creeps, psychos, weirdos, she will end up having to deal with. There are a lot of weird guys women have to deal with, and even nice guys can have weird porn addictions or a complete lack of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:44 PM
3

They don't simply because there isn't the prevailing notion of divorce-rape ever applying to women, even if it does happen from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:35 PM
1

Because women want a guy who has the option of sleeping around and men want a girl who hasn't slept around a lot because the former thinks the men must be high value and attractive, and the latter thinks it will keep a girl more loyal to him, less likely to divorce or abandon him. Women protect their eggs, men protect their livelihoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:36 PM
0

Wouldnt emotionally unavailable only apply in the context of being in a relationship, not when you arr minding your own business?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:29 PM
1

She has inherent value to the man who wants to put his thing in her thing. Men don't value women they have no attraction to in the same way they value attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:43 PM
17

Male version of baby trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:10 PM
2

Not sure why you're being downvoted, I guess some guys get butthurt when confronted with truth. What you are feeling sounds like crabs-in-a-bucket mentality which can be solved by focusing on your own mission. If you are maxing out life doing what you want to do, being who you want to be and don't care about comparing yourself to others, then you won't feel pressure around girls like OP. Once you hit your stride you'll mature and be genuinely oblivious to someone's wealth (or lack of it). That w…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 12:52 PM
2

People definitely need to learn how to assert boundaries and avoid covert contracts. Unfortunately it isn't something young people learn about unless they are lucky enough to have the good fortune of many practice relationships in high school/college or have long conversations with a mentor who has "been there, done that." Hence why they complain about the symptoms of not having those things and wonder how others seem to have healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:44 AM
1

One of the truths about life you learn as you get older is that hypocrisy and double-standards are the norm. Women will always be able to get away with certain things men can't and vice versa. Same goes for Democrats getting away with things Republicans can't, whites getting away with things blacks can't, the rich can get away with stuff the poor can't, the beautiful vs the ugly, and vice versa to all. Only an individual can overcome double-standards by choosing equality in their own judgment. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:41 AM
1

This would be a red flag. Just like how you dont know how good or bad an employee will be until they are actually working, there is no way to predict how someone is in a relationship hence the need to date. I would reserve this question to be asked by yourself if you were contemplating marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:31 PM
3

And less autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:34 PM
1

Women IRL seem less disagreeable, less opinionated, less confrontational, less openly ghetto queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:56 PM
6

They have no idea what love is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 12:43 AM
1

Its worth discussing but not worth debating because a debate is more than an attempt at persuasion it is in pursuit of truth which I do not believe can or will happen here. And of course this is a debate sub on one of the most subjective topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:10 PM
1

It tends to devolve into personal anecdotes or dismissals because of generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:04 PM
4

I check in from time to time and sometimes see thoughtful questions but the comments ruin it for me and I stand by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:37 PM
2

And that makes it useless to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:04 PM
11

This was a very convoluted way to say men act like women when they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:10 PM
1

Those women shouldnt date until they've dealt with their baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:52 AM
2

Cause they kweens and there no HVM to take advantage of. Women are extremely ruthless and practical bc they see themselves as inherently valuable. Society would have to become patriarchal again for this to balance out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:29 AM
1

The answer to your question is to look at how boys are raised. Porn, video games, toys to simulate combat, black and white comic hero ethics, muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:53 PM
1

I dont even know if there is a way to know what mens sexuality would be like if they never consumed porn even once in their life and how satisified that would make them with their wife/gf. I suspect they would be a lot happier since they would never know how much greener the grass could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:46 PM
7

"You've got a lot of guts you know" as she looks down at your belly then leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:02 PM
0

"You'll never have this." And then she kisses me while directing my hand to squeeze her butt then she walks away and out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:01 PM
4

Just gonna say it: women are lucky men's sex drive is so high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:54 AM
8

Its important to lay off the porn completely and not even look at pics of naked women. When you recruit your own biology like that you crave everything about the woman a lot more. Ive also noticed more feminine girls will drive me crazy.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 12:17 PM
4

I didnt think so in the past but today people are a lot more radical and so I dont think its a good idea for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:27 PM
2

Withholding sex in a monogamous relationship is equivalent to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:06 PM
0

This. Everyone knows unattractive dudes are incels the problem dudes complain about today is when perfectly normal guys cant get a girl bc of OLD, metoo, rape culture stuff, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:06 AM
1

Many people are afraid of looking and sounding stupid. To overcome this start speaking your thoughts to people more. Over time you will realize its not so bad and you feel less pressure to talk to people. Look at how extroverts talk loudly about the stupidest things and dont give af what you think. I used to think I was very introverted but the reality was I was scared of looking stupid so I suppressed things I wanted to say. Looks didnt give you confidence because of this other fear. You dont b…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 11:42 AM
2

My take filled with assumptions: men in their 30s who want to date have to accept that a lot of women around their age already have children and are divorcees. Its simply a new aspect of life and dating for the 30s. Guys may want a hot college girl but if the guy has matured at all and grown in life he will find young women to be childish and annoying and resent her lack of life experience. Dating should be easier for a guy in his 30s because its enough time for him to emotionally mature and gai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:06 PM
5

Maybe guys just respect your clear body language that you arent interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:30 PM
1

This. I am so much more emotionally mature in my 30s it astounds me. Time and experience can give a lot of perspective young people are not aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:58 AM
54

Women dont seem to get that, when you can easily get dates and have the interest of hundreds, if not thousands, and you dont find someone then YOU are the problem. It just doesnt seem to compute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 06:07 PM
2

Just read books and consume high-brow stuff on your own.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:02 PM
51

Excellent post. Along similar lines, I've noticed Hollywood also fetishizes the genius who knows the answer or solves the problem effortlessly, when in reality no one does that, even very smart people are often wrong, or have no idea if they are right, and it may take them years to figure something out (or never). They also don't show smart people going through typical smart-people problems of imagining too well the potential problems or downsides, which creates ridiculous anxiety and paralyzes …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 08:20 PM
6

Maybe they want a gentleman in the streets and a psychopath in the sheets.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:03 PM
7

I think there is a logical explanation. Think of your typical nofap male. He is super happy for any kind of vanilla sex with most women because of his healthy sex-drive. A fetish or kink is not even necessary for him to get his rocks off. Then think of your typical porn-addicted "scrote" who can't even get hard for sex, or can't come unless he imagines porn. Women are like the porn-addicts in that they need harder stuff to get off because their sex-drive is not like a healthy normal male's drive…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:01 PM
3

Is it really too much to write something coherent or proofread?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 02:25 PM
30

Ironically, the oldest profession, now online, doesn't even provide the one thing it provided to men in the past.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:54 PM
7

Bc some guys want to know they can get girls first and then find one to settle down with.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:43 PM
3

I see it as a red flag anyone who has been on tons of dates. Unless their specific goal is to sleep with as many people as possible they are being too fickle amd judgy and who wants to work on a relationship with someone who is so quick to dismiss.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 12:11 PM
12

Yep. Male thirst is too strong. Only option is to just work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 12:58 PM
3

You fed the troll. Look at the troll's account.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:52 PM
1

What would filter better than the charcoal in brita?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:45 PM
12

It makes me really believe the incels came here. So much weak inner game.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:37 PM
52

I bet a lot of guys start watching porn as soon as they hit puberty and maybe even earlier. I was able to access porn in the 90s when I was in middle school and at best I could download a couple of pictures. Cant imagine how easy it is for young guys with smartphones to access it and how much more damaging it is with the video quality and unlimited aspect.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:29 PM
2

Monk mode to rid yourself of your bad habits and replace them with good ones. You lack control over your emotions. Observe how you respond if you deprive yourself of videogames and the internet. Can you go a week without either? Unless you need the internet to make money for work, or you use it at work, then try to get off it completely (just long enough to dispel its hold over your mind). Let your parents temporarily hold your game system and games. Uninstall any games on your cpu if you use yo…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:51 PM
1

I am assuming they can choose at least one woman, and if you can choose one woman, you can choose others, albeit your choices will have natural smv limits. The men who are complaining shouldn't be because they are being inadvertently rescued from their own immature naivety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:55 PM
1

Why wouldn't he try to improve himself in any way? It seems unlikely that someone won't mature in any way over time, especially if they were able to have at least one girlfriend. Any post is going to have to have some assumptions, and make generalizations, but as long as the assumptions are not outlandish, the post can still be up for discussion; it's not outlandish to assume a beta can get a date, it's not outlandish to assume a beta who gets a date will ltr and wife up that date (eventually), …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:53 PM
1

Maybe, but I think they will at least have a chance at doing better, which is better than no chance at all and gambling with more risk by going with the first woman they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:49 PM
0

A bit of hyperbole, perhaps. I'm saying a guy isn't settling for his first woman. A lot of betas who would normally do that are now forced to date a few different women. If it takes him a decade, yeah, that's probably a problem, but I'm also thinking of the college boy who marries his first girlfriend, instead of dating a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:42 PM
1

Sure, I guess it's possible, but I think a man who settles with a woman just because he has the chance (not option, but chance) is doing so for immature reasons. If she dumps him it gives him the opportunity to mature and vet future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:25 PM
-5

Nobody says that but it's what a lot of guys do. Marriage-minded guys are in a rush to settle down. Every guy I knew tried to get married during his college years. The ones who didn't, ended up marrying the first girl they found to date years after college. The men who can't even get a date obviously have a problem, but again, they are not the subjects of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:22 PM
1

And all I am saying is some guys may miss the opportunity to be with a younger chaste woman because he stayed with the first woman who gave him a date, when the better match may have been two or three girlfriends away. So if girls, who are using OLD, think they still have options, then stop the relationship with him, it helps him in the long run, giving him a second chance to find the better match.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:15 PM
1

I agree that my post is biased toward some of the subreddits and my own personal life. I assume that if people are commenting on particular dating issues, there must be a lot more lurkers who feel that way but don't comment, the silent majority. Of course the silent majority could easily be people who don't have these problems. I'm glad your relationship has done well, I have literally nothing against that happening to people, it just isn't the majority case of those who I have known in my own e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:13 PM
-3

Better to have choice leftovers than to get food poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:58 PM
-1

Hence the natural advantage he gets when women don't allow him to settle down with them. It gives him extra time to figure things out that he wouldn't otherwise have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:57 PM
0

He gets the benefit of having time to establish himself instead of getting divorce-raped. By the time he is able to get a girl, ideally, he will be better aware of the risks and start vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:01 PM
13

Simple truth here but people are blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:22 PM
3

I am still trying to get better at it myself by writing more and more. I find writing helps concentrate one's thinking. Thinking a lot about something before writing about it also helps.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 12:11 AM
2

On the surface this seems to make sense, but I believe meaning to be inherent in life because of the nature of life and consciousness. If you were not conscious, sure, there's no meaning. So now you are conscious, but if you were also eternal, you would have to create meaning for yourself. Since we are mortal, and we know life ends, the limited amount of time creates a scarce resource, and all scarce resources have value. This value can be cheap by squandering life by abusing your body, mind, an…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 12:10 AM
3

I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me here or doing your own thing, but I have to disagree with Jung and the idea that you shouldn't let anyone tell you how to live (to an extent). A lot of men are victims of having no father figure, or other male role models, to teach them how to be a man. A boy cannot forge his own path, his own way, without some kind of male mentor. The boy must ultimately decide if he will follow advice, but a good father (or mentor) wouldn't allow the boy to squander. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 11:46 PM
2

This applies to the point I made about the mind, or intellect. Go to your local library and check out half a dozen books on personal finances. Go read articles from a dozen different websites. Seek and search for various rules on spending money and adapt yourself. My only rules on money I try to adhere to is to not take on debt. So, no credit cards or loans. Buy as much as you can cash (or debit). There's nothing wrong with saving a lot, cash on hand is very liquid, and can buy up assets during …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 11:35 PM
7

You created like four or five threads about eating people.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 11:21 PM
3

I appreciate your vote of confidence. Monk Mode really is misunderstood, but it can be so helpful if utilized properly.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 11:13 PM
3

Not at all, I appreciate your comment and your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 11:12 PM
6

Sounded to me like that was an invitation to show her your abs "oh you mean like this? lifts shirt just enough"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 01:22 PM
5

Sounded to me like that was an invitation to show her your abs "oh you mean like this? lifts shirt just enough"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 01:21 PM
3

Men have no inherent value you say? A society without men to defend it wont be around for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:55 AM
6

No, that is for beta male writers to write about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:19 AM
0

So what was the question again? I'm glad you aren't suicidal anymore though, it sounds like it would have been a tremendous waste of potential. I can't help but shake my head whenever a dude, especially a guy who says he's hot shit, has absolutely no abundance mentality whatsoever. The last time I was in a retail store on a Sunday I saw several dozen women that would make the grade for me. You need to inundate yourself with RP material until the idea of abundance embodies you.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:42 PM
3

And then, if they truly don't believe in God, that all those believers are totally deluded, they then go and blame the God of the bible and His violence on . . . Himself? Like, don't they make the connection that maybe the Hebrews were a violent genocidal tribe (albeit in the midst of other violent genocidal tribes)? What about the Hebrews history ever made them peaceful, and therefore religion of peace types, in anyone's eyes? How are they today. I dunno, just things I see that get overlooked.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 08:37 PM
5

He's not incel though? Just wants to get better chicks.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:33 PM
2

Lol damn that video. The guy was so unintimidating you couldn't help but feel bad for him, like a little lapdog yapping. Such bad genetics too, super short, giant head, skinny fat as all hell, it would take a heroic attitude to get over that.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:30 PM
3

So you're looking for a religious minded wife on Tinder?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:09 PM
1

I think it shouldn't be assumed anymore, like a covert contract, that respect and boundaries are a thing in a proper relationship. Of course that is the ideal, but I think couples now have to be much more open and intentional about it, and I'm not entirely convinced that's possible when people are still at an immature age. The prude puritanical mindset is one that discourages and shames open discussion of a man (or woman) still sexually wanting other people, even when they are in a committed rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:08 PM
18

I find it ironic that the atheism vs. religion debates of the early 2000s seemed to have had this underlying tone against religious legalism (following ethics as rules), particularly involving sex. People didn't like the idea of a church telling them how to act, or who they could be, hence the major fights about homosexuality and gay marriage. I think a lot of dudes didn't like Christianity simply because it condemned pre-marital sex. Anyway, I find it ironic because now the secular world is enf…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 02:32 PM
1

Not my problem you can't think like a man, and it's not yours either. No one fully knows another's thoughts, but the internet can give us a little insight here and there. My wife also checks out hot guys when she's out, and she and her girlfriends still discuss hot guys in their texts every now and then. I've seen what pigs women can be, which was eye-opening for me, and I'm not so sure if "nice girls" are actually a thing. I guess the prude puritanical mentality is still very strong in the cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:04 PM
1

Guys want to have their cake and eat it too. Of course I would like to have a strong romantic connection with one woman and also have the opportunity to sample hot pieces of ass with no strings attached on the side. That's what powerful kings did in the past, they had the wife to have legitimate children with, but they also had harems when they just wanted some ass. Regular guys simply don't have that power, and so they'll settle for a long term thing if it is too difficult to get the variety th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 01:50 PM
3

What I would recommend is start a bodyweight routine you can do at home. Once you are regularly working out (and building a basic strength preparing for weights) then try to figure out when the best time for you to workout at the gym is. When I lived where there was a gym 5 minutes down the road I went everyday no problem, any time of day. When I had to go to the gym before or after work, and the gym was 15 minutes away, I skipped a lot. The better shape you get in, and the more dialed in your d…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:40 PM
6

Men are too thirsty. Stop bedding landwhales.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 12:33 PM
5

Appreciate the post, it's useful to have this kind of thing put together in one spot. Sadly, the email list signup you got for the book isn't working for me, but maybe it is for others.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 12:55 AM
41

That works for a natural, but most guys need help, just take a walk around any college campus to get the picture.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 06:27 PM
-9

crab in a bucket mentality
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 06:26 PM
18

It's fascinating how decades of society doing everything it can to put women first and we still have so many women like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 05:15 PM
3

Mothers definitely project their fears. Mine didn't even want me to date. She was worried I'd end up getting a girl pregnant. As such, this delayed my entry into the market, messing with my confidence and making me timid and upset at my inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:47 PM
-2

I just felt that if someone sought out why they aren't getting laid, or how to figure out women and game, they end up here or other forums and by the time they read something like The Rational Male it will come across as a reminder that spells things out and structures them, but it won't teach them any seduction, so how do they benefit? Perhaps they benefit from the mindset of TRP sinking in a little further.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 12:41 PM
4

That makes sense and thank you for your comment. I recall seeing a few videos of Mystery in action on YT back in the day and they were boring, slow, and uninspiring. I believe it that The Game was an advertisement for Neil. He made himself look really good and his talent as a writer made all of them appear better than the real life version. That being said, it seemed like he didn't get laid a lot, or at least I didn't get that impression, it was more like he successfully opened and got a lot of …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 12:40 PM
1

It has its ups and downs. Mostly, we have a kid, and that alone made it worth it. It's very fulfilling to have a kid, and if my marriage were ever to break down totally, I wouldn't feel the need for another. I've reproduced, I've experienced the wedding and all that. If you dig through my comments you'll know it hasn't all been good, but I would recommend it if our society wasn't so heavy-handed toward divorced men.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 12:35 PM
0

I guess it's because I think if a guy spent a few months reading TRP and AskTRP he would already know or pick up on the general idea of things and not need a comprehensive version. I don't think a guy could read The Rational Male and then be able to go out and pick up women or spin plates. Sure, it's good information to have sitting at the back of your head, and I did like the way he defined things, and I do respect his length in the game, after-all, his site is still up when others are gone. I …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 12:33 PM
2

That's one I haven't read yet and I have the pdf of it somewhere on my computer. Will definitely read it and write something up (eventually . . .).
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 12:28 PM
1

Reward good behavior.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:32 PM
5

I do wonder why people are not into foreplay. Is it laziness? Unless someone is really horny hardly anyone is in the mood immediately. And if only one partner is horny and the other not, are either one of them going to do the work it takes to make the magic happen? I don't care for sex with my wife if she wants me to get it over with quickly and she's barely wet. I also don't want sex for a quick orgasm, because that's what masturbation is for, instead, I want sex to enjoy the full body and pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:26 PM
8

My wife brings all those same things to the table. Still a pain in the ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 02:58 PM
8

Monogamy works if the whole culture is invested in it. Ours no longer is.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 01:55 PM
1

Soft next
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:51 PM
-1

Does extended foreplay do nothing lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:32 PM
1

It makes sense but doesn't tell the whole story because there are obviously bedrooms that are not dead and I know of several couples from my wife's friend group that still have sex 3 or more times a week 10 years into their marriage. From a male perspective, a sort-of-dead-bedroom can occur when the sex always involves a condom (reducing pleasure drastically) and a paranoid fear of impregnating your wife. Because, contrary to Dr. Hill's assessment, men do have a lot to risk by having a kid becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:30 PM
3

Most guys never get much, if any, positive attention from women, or if they do, it is interpreted as professional niceness and curtesy, so of course they assume good-looking women with lots of male attention must have high self-esteem. They simply cannot compute being sexually wanted combined with low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:37 PM
1

But if shes trying to show interest he can end up going on and on oblivious to tye fact she doesnt give af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 04:32 PM
3

And a guy working in a union based factory job can be making a lot more than average middle manager professional types.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 01:47 PM
6

But I'm talking about the uglier guys ive known. They have always seemed to meet women through their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:14 PM
4

Makes sense from her pov, but I definitely think the bluepill thought is to love bomb her because if you're so in love you should want to spend every moment together... forever.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 08:18 PM
20

This person gets it. A lot of the time, these anecdotes don't mean the guy is getting laid every weekend by a new girl, just that he is typically not single for long, and he can tell you about the many girlfriends he's had even though you *know* he has nothing special to offer. It usually comes down to him being an extrovert and doing nothing more than talking to women. These guys also tend to know enough people, being extroverted, that they have a lot of action because of their social circle. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:07 PM
2

I laughed immediately. Are you some kind of badass? Replace the hat with a bandana and wear an oversized white t-shirt. Show how gangsta you truly are and aim a pistol at the camera. 2nd pic I thought you were with your boyfriend in a locker room. 3rd pic what are you doing with your hands? Looks awkward, like a sex predator eyeing up his next catch. Creep vibes.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:41 AM
1

No, but sometimes I wonder if opposite genders were created specifically to torment each other.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:24 AM
1

You have to cultivate the chill, quiet guy image. A strong silent type. You will only get exhausted trying to be someone else.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:15 AM
1

You asked why men are not taught to be attractive. It's because men who are naturally attractive don't know how to teach it because it's natural. Only recently have there been unattractive men who have taught others how to get women. Not sure how you missed it, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:48 PM
3

I thought the original question was why most men are never taught how to seduce women? I liked that question better but everyone addressed it with attraction. To me, they are different things. Attraction is the initial ice-breaker, seduction takes things to the next level. I didn't read a single comment addressing men's lack of seductive technique. A lot of Chads may be able to initially attract a woman, but can he seduce her or does she just throw herself at him and he does no work? I think thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:35 PM
3

I think a culture convinces itself something is attractive by having a lot of advertisements, movies, music, corporations and individuals all showing a preference and trending. For instance, look at some attraction differences between cultures, where say, in Brazil, the focus is on a woman's hips as their primary asset. In the US, it was breasts for a long time until recent developments in the ass movement. It is no longer cool to have a flat ass. Some things are universal, like symmetry (which …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:24 PM
20

Self-respect is more important than women.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 10:13 PM
10

Dudes be thirsty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 09:58 PM
4

A lot of women say the only kind of beard they like is a well groomed one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 12:28 PM
2

Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:17 PM
12

All my life there has been outreach toward women to succeed, in sports, in STEM, college, careers, any field dominated by men they try to get more women in there, you name it. I can't recall anything targeting young men for success. Maybe it was assumed men had so many advantages already they didn't need anything, and I believe a lot of the types of men you are describing were still being successful. Now it seems like the types of guys who were always historically successful are falling behind (…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:55 PM
2

Imagine if it got so severe men went back to wearing heels to appear taller and show off their calves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:36 PM
15

I get the feeling a lot of the commentators here are young they dont realize how easy it is to be friends or very friendly to women amd maintain no expectation of a relationship because you yourself dont need one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 12:07 PM
8

Sounds like living well is the best revenge after all, even though I know you werent seeking it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 12:02 PM
2

Better the direct approach than the nice girl who doesnt complain but one day accuses you of rape or divorce rapes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:24 PM
8

Imagine how fucked most women would be if men exclusively went after 6 ft or taller women built like athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:15 PM
2

For a second there i thought you were saying 6 foot + women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:12 PM
30

This is good post. I encourage guys to even start a once-the-month group thing, even if its doing things like watching classic 80s movies, a science fiction book club, HEMA, or playing cards and shooting the shit. Gradually invite other guys and make a thing of it (PS - it should be a boys club thing, no gurls allowed). Dudes need to relearn to invite people over and make friends like how they used to as kids. When I was a kid I made a best friend because I learned we both liked the same video g…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:43 PM
21

Honestly sounds like the death throes of a civilization.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 03:27 PM
1

I assumed she would mature and "grow up" but now I know better that people dont suddenly develop a work ethic.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 01:04 AM
2

This sub has taught me how stupid it is for people to think getting an attractive partner will be the solution to all of their problems. Take a look at all the high school hotties or celebrity hotties from decades ago and see where they are now. Not many of them retain their level of fitness or youthful looks. Just because someone is fit or beautiful doesn't make them a good person (see Jersey Shore) or partner, but the same can be said of any level of attractiveness. And yet, everyone still wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 06:32 PM
2

Great question and I realize I didn't offer a method for vetting. If I could do it all over again, I would vet in the following ways: I would try to notice what she complains about. Does she complain about people? Work? School? Herself? Family? Who or what does she complain about and what does that reveal about her? I would want to find someone whose complaints (after all, we all complain about something sometimes) are few and are about specific things instead of general bitching and moaning. I …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 06:22 PM
0

I've read it from Cernovich and others that men are generally the worst and most obnoxious followers to have. They can't help but be right about everything and mansplain, even to other men. On a blog I follow the term snowflake emerged because every time the blogger posted something that could be personal, people started talking about how they were this or that thing (example: he mentions a good thing about dog people, cue comments flooding with posts about how X is such a dog person and is trus…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/21 02:06 PM
3

I read it like that too haha
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:52 AM
11

This reminds me of a time I noticed some attractive girl profile liked every single old picture on my fb profile and tried to friend accept me. I knew something was up, so I looked at her profile and then clicked on her friends list and they were all older dudes who looked pretty rough (and not in a swarthy sexy way). It was then I realized how absolutely shitty a lot of older men appear to be, all the rejects who grew up and got old. It's a good lesson for men to look at what women look at so t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 01:49 PM
10

This is why RP self-improvement involves pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. If a guy is too afraid of women, or lacks self-confidence, he should at least develop a backbone with his hobbies and interests.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 01:23 PM
2

Are you surprised given the statistics on covid? It's like people recently learned about death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:19 PM
12

Next time I see or hear anyone brag about their connection to animals: "...you know Hitler was good with dogs."
/r/seduction06/02/21 10:27 PM
6

Uhh post-marriage? Sex went down the shitter. In my case it was because before we were married my wife saw pre-marital sex as a forbidden fruit and it drove her sex-drive. After marriage it was no longer forbidden and she dried up like a raisin, crying on our nuptial bed. It took me a long blue-pilled time to realize she was a broken person who wanted a thug as a partner. Sure, I was never lonely, never lacked for connections to people, and did have regular sex that was okay, and I also don't re…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 05:28 PM
1

They did it all for the nooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:29 AM
1

Yeah real cruelty would be openly calling men ugly and shaming others into fearing being called simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:48 AM
1

I can't tell jokes, but I have often been the funniest person someone has known once they get to know me (I am never funny to new people). My type of humor is situational. Things don't even occur to me until the moment happens. And when I'm being funny, what I'm really trying to do is get a reaction out of people, not necessarily be funny, but because a lot of people end up laughing, it fine-tuned me to spit out certain kinds of comments at the right time (and timing is everything with my humor,…
/r/seduction31/01/21 03:48 AM
2

For me, purpose is a no-brainer: to live a long time for my child and be able to help them. Now I have a good reason to self-improve because I can't let myself go, doing so would let my own genetic progeny down and I can't live with that. If being a badass successful person is your goal, take any one thing you do and make that thing better than what others do with it. If you read books, start writing reviews and cliffnotes of them and blog about them. If you lift, start documenting your physical…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:22 AM
24

I feel for you guys, I do. I got married and had a kid, and while AWALT, I will never be lonely because of my kid. I will always have an excuse to have my shit together because kid, which means financial stability, being healthy enough to live a long time, not becoming an emotional burden to others, etc. It is also easy for me to connect with people because I share something in common with many, namely, marriage and parenthood. It is automatic social proof. I have never had trouble being friends…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 03:13 AM
1

Think about Roosh for a second. He did all of those things you are talking about, but he was also successful with women and could hang out with guys who were his fans when he wanted. He still ended up miserable and had to turn to religion to cope. If your only mission is "success" or self-improvement, you will never be satisfied. You need to find a mission that suits you. Your mission will bring you satisfaction so long as you stick to the plan. Why are professional athlete's always in better sh…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:11 PM
1

Because I didn’t successfully cut afterward and I got used to eating junk food.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:26 PM
14

Wish I hadn’t dirty bulked. Wish I had gotten into coding earlier and neglected all of the other intellectual things I wasted time on. Wish I had ended a bad relationship. Biggest regret was addiction to online gaming. Rather than cut out games fully bc I don’t think I could have, I wish I had played a variety of games instead of massing time on 3 which I think fed into the addiction as I was decent and became too competitive for my own good. It would have been far better to try and make my own …
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:37 PM
4

The lesson I learned from this is women love to be validated. And. That's... it. They just love validation. Enjoy your fleshlight.
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:43 AM
5

It was probably just a polite way to decline his advancement without insulting him. If he was older she would have said she preferred younger guys, etc.
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:41 AM
3

I don't why I just got the image of one those 'how it started' 'how it's going' memes where in the first pic you are approaching a woman and in the next you are in the backseat of a police car.
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:35 AM
1

He probably literally went under the underwear to scratch his ass and basically fingered himself.
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:33 AM
1

You were young and conditioned to allowing others decide for you all your life. Part of the RED pill is to free yourself from the lies in society that keep you in a trap. Unfortunately, youthful ignorance is a very powerful force.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:51 PM
1

That's like trying to tell kids not to take a bad major, or not to go to university and accumulate debt that can't be discharged. Divorce (and college) rapes the inexperienced, naive, and innocent youth. Many guys don't know what the hell a red flag is, no matter how much of trp they read (just look at all the idiots in asktrp like "should I end things with my long-distance gf who is fucking this other dude, and she wants to get married?). Some of our laws seem intent on punishing the ever-livin…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:48 PM
1

It definitely helps hanging out around older women and seeing how they are still just as annoying and selfish as young women can be, except a lot less attractive.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 01:12 PM
3

I've said it once, I'll say it again, my wife is basically the same person now at 37 as she was at 24 when I met her. I don't have experience with those in their 40s, but personality seems to indicate maturity more than age (and responsibilities tend to enforce maturity with painful repercussions when not followed, hence why it's better for society to have young people create families and raise children than party until their 40). That party girl who gets drunk will still do the same in her late…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 01:12 PM
27

It does mean a guy can never grow attached to a girl because he will be suspicious of this behavior and need to be ready to walk at any moment. It completely undermines the basic trust necessary for a solid committed relationship, thus undermining civilizations need for families. Not only will single moms be more prevalent, I can't imagine there being much extended family support within a few generations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 01:05 PM
21

Wouldn't surprise me. Journos are not the romantic version of 1920s and 30s muckrakers, the H.L. Menckens who went out and interviewed and corroborated stories, etc. Now they are nothing more than skillful liars doing their best to generate endless content.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 01:03 PM
53

You know that feeling of disgust you get when you see an ugly girl and know deep down you could never get yourself to bang her? That’s how women feel about 80% of men. Guys don’t realize how unattractive they are to women and how far they are from attractive men. It’s why the universal rule is to lift bc if you don’t look stunning naked you have no chance no woman will desire you (but some can hold their nose).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:36 PM
6

Ahem. Take charge young padawan. Tell her you want to see her play with herself and then you climb on top and keep making out, grab a little boob here, a little ass there. YOU keep the foreplay going and naturally move her hand from her to your tiny little guy. Or dry hump her a little bit, or reach down and see if she's wet. Ask her what she likes, anything to keep the room temperature above tepid. Use this time to explore and appreciate her body, after all, it's what you wanted, why not take y…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:12 PM
16

It’s bc they’re blue pilled. He doesn’t know any better but he’ll learn that his fantasy isn’t going to work out the way he thinks it will. Also, people rationalize that their situation is unique and bad things happen to other people, not them.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 01:04 AM
21

Pretty much this, although I know one guy who is currently making it work. To me, dating single moms would have to consist of flings and friends-with-benefits situations instead of the marriage-line. Once the kids have grown up and are out of the house I don't see why not shack up with an old lady, because by then I'd be old too and maybe want the more constant companionship. Otherwise, they (and I, because single dad) already had our chance, let the single childless have their shot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 05:50 PM
1

Man what the fuck. As a married couple without kids who gives a fuck if she doesn’t have to work, she has to get a job. Even more income means you can save faster and start putting away a good nest egg for retirement. You don’t just blow all your income on pure waste like that. You are probably very young, you don’t know how long you will have this job, or what the economy or your personal health will be like 10 years down the road. If your wife can’t keep the place in good shape, and she has no…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:18 AM
1

She still gets fifty percent and he will have to do 100% of the chores.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:10 AM
12

Sounds like she was the typical chick who gives you tons of sex the way you want it to lock you down, but then it broke down when you lost your way, or she lost attraction to you because of the oneitus. She would have been the type to stop sex right after marriage and you'd be wondering what happened to her sex drive (if you were bluepilled). You have to remind yourself of your mission. Stick to the plan. Keep the success grind going so future you has it even better. I also like to remind myself…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:11 PM
7

The U.K. is a post-Christian western society. Just think of how the west was before Rome and before Christianity: pretty barbaric. India has been civilized for far longer, it just hasn't had the same material benefits the west has enjoyed (and squandered) over the past hundred years. Even the Middle East sustained high levels of civilization for longer periods than Europe has. Europe got lucky once in the cycle of civilization, but you see how we devour our own and leave nothing for others.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:42 AM
5

I made good friends in college and guess what? I haven't seen any of them in at least a decade, many more of them I haven't seen for almost two decades. Since then I've made friends at every job I've had. If I wanted to make more friends I would join at least one group that is in an interest area of mine (reading, writing, a sport, etc). You did everything right in college because you set yourself up for a better future. Connections with friends aren't always what they seem, but now that you hav…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:38 PM
16

Getting angry is the reaction they are looking for. You bust someone's balls for the reaction. Tons of guys do it, intentionally or not. We used to bust on a guy at work for having a bubble-butt, but he got butt-hurt over it because I guess he was self-conscious of it. We stopped because we aren't shitheads, and honestly all it took was my recognizing that he didn't laugh about it like he did other things, and so I addressed it, and he admitted he didn't like it, and because he was my friend I a…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:31 PM
70

That, and a quick calculation of how many STDs they might have to be tested for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/21 09:58 PM
1

Reread this again and tell me how strong you think your inner game is.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 11:46 PM
4

That’s when you whistle as loud as you can, like one of those finger whistles and you shout “Hey! Hey hey hey hey hey heeeeeeey!”
/r/TheRedPill05/01/21 11:45 PM
2

I would not. Sexual attraction is a part of life, it’s part of your internal drive. Sure, it can suck at times, but that can drive you to be more disciplined. It’s like that story of the guy whose favorite weather was any kind of weather because he couldn’t control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:36 PM
3

It’s almost like people are more honest on the internet and sometimes need to vent anonymously. Also, someone might have a little hate one day and be cool the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:46 AM
1

I was by no means a successful weightlifter. Didn't like going to the gym, and ended up not being able to completely overcome ego when there. I've also never taken testosterone. Now I just want to be healthy and fit without needing to leave my living room. I've saved tons of time and I'm doing okay with it. If bros want to lift, fine by me, it's just not my cup of tea and I'm okay with my joints aging well.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 08:36 PM
3

Tell that to the judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:09 PM
26

Well you could respond with, “jeezus tryin to eat.”
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:40 AM
22

I am following the routines from Convict Conditioning. Variations of pushups, pullups, squats, legups, bridges, and handstand work. I also added on a few things I got from another book: sprawls, freestyle boxing for 30 second rounds, mountain climbers, wrestling shots, power stand ups, and sit throughs. I idea with those types of exercises is you'll be a lot more ready for a sudden fight and the movements your body would have to do than if you never did that stuff. Not that I'm looking to get in…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 10:53 PM
31

I’ve been doing bodyweight exercises and zero weightlifting the past two years and I have just as much muscle as when I was weightlifting. Biggest diff tho is I actually feel strong whereas when I lifted weights I only noticed strength when moving weight but doing anything bodyweight related I felt weak. Basically I feel more balanced and like I can exert more strength than before in any position. It also just feels good to be able to move your body itself easier
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 07:46 PM
3

Ghetto/thug culture is the endgame. Tough, masculine, violent dudes who are, as a whole, more attractive than their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:57 AM
1

Others have already said this but in separate comments, so here it is, this is how I went from socially awkward idiot to passibly normal person: How to Win Friends and Influence People Sales job
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:54 AM
2

I worked a seasonal job this year for some extra money and I have to say: out of dozens of girls who I worked with I could count on one hand the ones with even some attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:52 PM
2

Sleep discipline: You will pay dearly the next day for staying up late because little kids never sleep in and are not independent. You gain more physical discipline because you are forced, daily, to cater to someone's every need, you've gone through years of never having a break. (I am bringing up rearing a child situations because men typically don't experience parenthood without being married). You use your free-time better because you have so little of it. You learn to control your panic and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:58 PM
8

Marriage (with kids) creates self-improvement opportunities in similar ways as getting a physical job affects your weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:14 PM
4

All good points, and I think another factor is it takes more work for a woman to sexually please a porn-addicted man (or moderate user). Maybe he only wants a certain fetish played out, or, it just takes him a lot longer to climax. Either way, it's a lot more work for his significant other, and—dare I say it?—many women are physically lazy. The biggest revelation between porn actresses and my own married sex-life was how hard those actresses worked. They're acting/working, of course, and trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:10 PM
3

https://www.rooshvforum.com/
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:02 PM
80

His forum is still there but changed a little. Thing is, you don’t need to read very much beyond the side bars. Once the red pill is internalized it’s simply a matter of taking action and living it.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:47 PM
1

This is it: Easy or attainable is an aphrodisiac all on its own (for men who can't get laid by more attractive women anyway, so one with something undesirable attached, i.e. a kid, appears realistically doable, and that changes the game).
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:42 PM
1

That’s his cross to bear. It’s more likely you will be pulled down to his level than him rise to yours. If you were in real trouble could he even help you out? Like another poster has said, your bro needs to hit rock bottom. All the video game does is delay the inevitable. What would he do without it? Without any electronics at all? Anyway, yeah it sucks he’s doing his thing, you have to continue making your own life. My bro has autism and lives off of disability, even he has a part time job, ha…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:22 AM
1

Who is enabling him to be a leech? He needs a deadline where family won’t support him 100%. If he is an intelligent able-bodied person there is no excuse. His behavior is very shameful if he isn’t disabled, is he unable to see how bad his future will be once his provider decides to cut the cord?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:23 PM
9

And she will still be able to have hot guys as sexual partners up until she hits the wall and not even be aware of all the time she is wasting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 12:17 PM
9

True. Men mostly take care of everything else for their own happiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 11:56 AM
7

Lol @ fake teeth
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 08:19 PM
15

It's basically a gigantic forum. Back in the day, when I was a part of a small (like a few hundred) forum I felt like I was involved in a large fraternity. We always argued and shared stuff and I got to know better some of the names over the years. Reddit is like that but on a much larger scale where you end up becoming anonymous. I don't like how reddit is considered social media because it's a lot harder to follow people or make yourself known by creating content. Also, there's a lot of conten…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 09:12 PM
1

I know a lot of this is just a repeat of what others are saying, but I'll add my two sense anyway because it suits me. Currently I am not totally self-reliant. I don't have financial freedom, I am not able to do all the things I want to do. So, my mission is pretty simple: become self-reliant. I'm a slow learner, but I've learned through the years that only I can make myself happy. Not just that, but I can't rely on others to fix my problems for me, only I can do it (not to mention others usuall…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:36 AM
3

I'm 36 and work around a few women ten years my junior. Honestly, they don't look any younger than me, they know all the same pop culture things I do, I can have conversations with them about whatever, they're just mature enough where I barely hear any drama come from them, but still youthful enough where they have the hope, energy, and excitement that comes with youth. My wife, whom I've known for a decade, basically hasn't changed, except her face is slightly aged. She wasn't any healthier ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:36 PM
1

I guess it would depend just how much softer the mental toughness is of the higher paid careerist. As long as whoever is earning the bacon knows it's absolutely off the table that they quit their job if it means it will throw the family into turmoil, especially if the other person would have eventually had a stable, and mostly okay, income-wise, career. So, for example, my wife graduated a year before me, and we moved to her country because she started her career and was earning much more than I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:11 PM
1

I did that and boy did it backfire. She got overwhelmed and quit and left us destitute. I had to sell all our assets and get a temp job to make ends meet while she was a shell of a person. She has not restarted and I have lost a lot of time and still struggle with low paying jobs. The lesson? The more mentally tough person in a relationship need to be the career one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:19 PM
-1

I’m sure most of them are aspergers too. I’ve yet to meet a normal dude who is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:57 PM
0

Maybe that’s a good thing. Purify the gene pool a little bit. With modern medicine and access to resources and less wars we have more people then ever. Why do ugly obese people with shit personalities need to mate and procreate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:56 PM
5

Be confident. Ugh so-and-so is such a know-it-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:29 PM
1

I have a suspicion women automatically attribute a dog owning man as more masculine, depending on the breed, and women just love dogs in general.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:52 PM
2

Who profits from the misandry of men? Society has always given a pass to attractive masculine men, and shits on beta males. With lower testosterone, obesity, more estrogen and plastic in everything, more men on average are less masculine then before, objectively speaking. So, what I think we are seeing is society's reaction to a major influx of weak men, especially because we aren't living through an age where a large proportion of marriageable men have died in war. Also, women don't need men fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 12:59 PM
1

Try to get a physical job, even if it's retail. The activity will force you to take better care of yourself if you don't want to be in pain all shift, and you'll definitely lose weight. I got a seasonal job at Target just so I could get a lot of walking done (had quit my shitty desk job that didn't like me going out for walks on my break), and I get around 20,000 steps in per day. Because I'm not a youngling, I had to learn to stretch every day so I wouldn't get so stiff. I eat less junk because…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:36 PM
4

Black ghetto culture is the extreme endgame of where this all leads.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:57 PM
4

He was a nice guy and nice guys don’t do well at all in situations like this. A woman with a kid like this absolutely has to be with a man who wants to take charge and won’t take any shit from her or her kid. I know a guy who did that, shacked up with a girl and her kids, both from diff fathers who were out of the picture, and when he first started dating her he said the kids were like animals. Long story short he put his foot down and disciplined the kids and demanded his place in all of their …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 12:02 PM
25

It’s the equivalent of them saying fat/ugly girls are beautiful because of their personality.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 01:16 PM
1

Imagine if men could change their height we’d all be 8ft plus lol. You can always wear platform shoes when going out. Using a little deception to appear more attractive when going out is no diff than a woman putting on makeup.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 12:31 PM
29

And that’s why culture and traditions are important because they force stupid young people who don’t listen to end up making the best long term choices that keep civilization going. We are seeing the decline of civilization happen before our very eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 01:29 AM
9

You get her to stop by taking her complaining as a clear green light to your moving in on her. She will either stop and find a way to end the conversation/things with you, or you successfully move in on her.
/r/seduction27/11/20 02:13 AM
4

A lot of nice guys are just inexperienced and naïve. They listen to a girl because they are attracted to her, and because he doesn't know what else to do, he stays for the ride because it may lead to something else (it doesn't). He also may think he's getting stellar pointers, because he still believes what women say, so when he hears her complain about bad dudes, he's thinking, "I'm not like them at all, she'll totally dig me, she's ready for a guy who will treat her right." Sadly, he is mistak…
/r/seduction27/11/20 02:08 AM
1

Then why lift at all?
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:16 AM
10

The reality is, if a woman only likes assholes or dates assholes, can only have chemistry with them, etc, it is because SHE is an asshole too, and doesn't realize it. She will treat the good men just like how the asshole Chads treat women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 02:48 AM
12

The argument holds up IF the woman is attractive enough to make men want to engage her. If she isn't attractive enough, where like no guys engage her with romantic interest, then she has to deviate from this traditional approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:31 AM
6

Sometimes I wonder if this was because boomers were terrible at passing on these skills to their kids. The ME generation was so overly concerned with itself it neglected rearing kids and grandkids. I know my own boomer parents showed me virtually nothing about courtship/dating, in fact, they actively discouraged any dating. I used to think that was because they didn't want to have to deal with my knocking up a girl, but now I think it's just because they didn't want to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:28 AM
4

Date older guys if the ones your age are too immature for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:24 AM
7

I guess even 40s men can fall for women and think she may work. He has to stamp any possibility of marriage out of his mind at that point. Also, depending on his strength of character and holding frame, she will manipulate him into feeling guilty about abandoning her and her family. It is beyond me why any man in his 40s and older would want to marry, to me, marrying and having kids is a 20s and 30s game. By the time you're in your 40s you should already have some kids and a divorce.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 01:53 AM
7

My thoughts on this, assuming all of it is true. Were women always this predatory? I want to believe women are becoming more predatory in their 30s/40s because of student loans and the general lag of the economy. They have to bootstrap the only way many of them know how, by wed-locking a successful man they can stomach (hamstering that all couples have less sex overtime anyway). One blessing for redpill men is they should see this behavior before they fall into her trap. I think the general decl…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 01:49 AM
10

Yep. The sooner you realize you’re alone and no one is coming to help the sooner you take command of your life and begin to thrive.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 12:18 PM
2

The older I get, the more I think men want women who will put in the work it takes to have a family, whether she's a worker bee or homemaker. An independent woman also won't suffocate you with their clinginess. A woman who can take care of herself is going to be more capable of helping take care of a family (especially if times ever get hard) than a woman who can't pay her bills on-time or needs constant emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:00 PM
1

At least you aren't married to her or have a longer history. It's always difficult for men to accept women abandoning their loved ones because most men would never even think of such a possibility. I personally believe a lot of women do this because they are, deep down, still children. They've been taken care of all their life, had all their emotional needs met, and it's left them extremely weak, so they break down at the first actual hardship in life. One of the great benefits of being a man is…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:56 AM
5

I grew up among rural Christians, then, went to college among rural/suburban Christians. Almost every guy I knew from my church and my dorms married the first girl they dated (which was typically in their college years). The thing is, they are all still married (but you wouldn't envy their wives, trust me) and have multiple kids. But they are a different demographic of society than your typical secular urban folk. I wouldn't encourage any population to marry that never had an idea of marriage be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 02:47 PM
1

I remember an old article Roosh shared that women's voices have been getting deeper.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 02:34 AM
5

You have to take it for life, but some guys, like Cernovich, said they were fine when they went off of it (but now he's back on it).
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 02:30 AM
1

They still want it because the fantasy of marriage is very strong, which is why divorced people will still marry even after a bad marriage. Any future personal event laden with reward that overshadows the actual work involved will be a permanent fixture of society. This is also why parents warn the childless how hard it is to raise kids, because for most people, it's more work than they've ever had to do. An unfortunate thing about marriage is that it takes work, and given all the things I've se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:20 AM
3

This is probably the best answer. A lot more people would be happy with marriage and stick with it if they don’t rush and are very careful they are with someone who doesn’t have red flags and personal issues (and that they also don’t have the same).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 07:02 PM
22

It’s becasue of their abundance. If guys could be with an okay girl and then get a hot piece of ass on the side on occasion then they would. Most guys have to settle for the first girl they are lucky enough to date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 06:41 PM
5

That's why guys need to learn day game because those women eventually go out and shop for stuff. I do seasonal work at Target and it's like working at a candy store.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:13 PM
7

This is why “youth is wasted on the young” because youthful emotions tend to waste incredible amounts of time and opportunity.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:15 PM
3

I do think prostitution should be legalized, even if only to end abominations like Tinder and Onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:08 AM
4

A lot of dudes who have to resort to prostitutes wouldn’t do so well in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:09 PM
1

Could be a phase. Keep going and see if you snap out of it or it remains. If it remains you are discovering information about yourself, like what your values are or what you may be suited for.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:46 AM
3

Dude. wtf? You're not around any women at school? Is it some kind of all-male school? If you think you don't have any options to be around women now, then man, you are in for a rude awakening when you are working full-time, commuting, taking care of all your own meals, etc. You either see women everywhere or you don't. A lot of young guys have way too high standards (they want the 9s and 10s when 5s see them as 3s or 1s), lower your attractiveness standards a bit just so you can get some experie…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:11 AM
-4

"Oh? Do I amuse you?"
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:04 AM
1

Sounds like both of them were a little codependent.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:02 AM
5

Detox from it. Get comfortable with feeling bored. Tackle some hobbies you always wanted to do but never had time for. Reconnect to social media in a better way by focusing on your niche hobbies. At that point, all you really need to do is know how to moderate your usage. There's really nothing more pathetic than someone glued to their phone all day, who can't pursue even one thing that would make them happy because they are sapped of all motivation.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:59 AM
1

Try a therapist if you can. Ignored problems only grow worse, look at how your anxiety has immobilized you. A big problem with men is their inability to seek help. Would you say your mission in life is to become self-reliant? You have to become the person you can most rely on.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:55 AM
0

I read in a comment so and so is your friend. In that case, just point it out the next time he's bossy. "Hey bro, why are you being so bossy?" Him, "what?" "You're always telling me what to do, like, I know what I'm doing (dude/bro). I feel like you're bossy." If your friend is of good character he will realize he is being a dick and you don't like it and then he will make an effort to stop. Who knows, maybe he doesn't realize he's being a dick, a lot of young guys are oblivious to how they come…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:45 AM
1

"that pregnant" implies she still looks a little pregnant. Vague, one word answers are best in those scenarios: "Hey X, what are you so insecure about?" (ROFL) "My weight, I look pregnant." "Naaah." Proceeds to drink and changes topic.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:38 AM
7

For some of us, it takes a long time to learn how to enforce boundaries. A boundary is a value you hold. Let's say your girl loves to stay out all night drinking and getting wasted but you don't. She wants you to come along and once or twice you do, but you were uncomfortable and didn't enjoy yourself. That's a boundary. Next time she asks you to go, you refuse. You also then go the extra mile and dump her because you don't want to be with a party-girl who is out late getting wasted. You don't n…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:29 AM
2

Drop the nuke or ghost her. If you still want her, be ready to lose her, but you will have more self-respect in the long-run if you just lay all the cards on the table. Truth is, though, it's already over. No one who is doing school as much as she says she is suddenly forgets she has midterms. That is, unless she is a complete doofus.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:21 AM
-1

It's a necessary pain in order for society to go back to more traditional self-sustaining norms. Or, society will be replaced by a population with such norms. One net negative would be other civilizations' not learning the lesson from Western female behaviors. Western women are more depressed, drugged up, and unhealthy than they've ever been despite all of modern society's advances. Why destroy a civilization to make women happy? I don't think the lesson will be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 02:09 AM
2

Weak social skills? All you need to do is read Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. The book is full of timeless principles. Since you aren't an incel, you should already know that girls aren't going to solve your insecurities. You could get a new job, something in sales, just to learn that social skills are overrated, especially if you are naturally suited for independent work and hobbies. You could also benefit by having one friend who is super social and tag along when the…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:57 AM
1

Agree and amplify. Get her volunteering in every inner-city thing she can do and constantly remind her of what values she is parroting as a way to guilt-trip her.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 12:33 AM
7

They are children who want to go on all-inclusive vacations where every detail is handled for them and they are along for the ride with no responsibilities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 12:20 AM
8

I'm in my mid-30s (male), have had a marriage and a kid. I don't feel any need to repeat that experience. At this point, I feel reasonably not-picky (but definitely still standards). Like all humans I crave physical intimacy, but I 100% do not expect or need a love-connection. These women who are older and think they will find an older man who has his shit together are living in a fantasy world. Unless the guy is a major red flag to begin with, normal men who are older are definitely wise to how…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 03:31 PM
7

Statistically, it's most probable she works for the gov't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/20 03:23 PM
-6

If you have money and she doesn't, it would make sense to pay for the drinks. If you have no money, then don't go on a $$ date. If she's a working girl, she should pay for her own, or at least a portion.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:47 AM
1

Loneliness can be solved with male friends, hobbies, a purpose, etc but physical intimacy can only be solved with a woman. If you are lonely who will even know/care of you are with a 3?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:14 PM
2

People not liking you reveals their character. If they can't handle you not being a doormat, then they are the asshole. Pretty cool people respect that you have boundaries, and when you assert a boundary, it doesn't bother them or turn them off to you. I find true alphas to not be bothered by the smallest modicum of conflict. It's losers (both men and women) who seethe with revenge fantasies and bullshit over rejection. Just remind yourself that society really wants/needs stronger men, there's p…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:44 PM
13

So what? My dad is 10 years older than my mom, they been together forever. You can't long-term any girl who is still riding the cc anyway. If you want a long-term thing you vet hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 10:55 AM
46

I remember how shocked I was when I was leafing through a picture book showing photographs of clothing fashion in the 1800s. Almost all of the time the men looked pretty handsome, rugged, tough, sharp jawlines and trim figures, almost every guy was in shape (or low bodyfat) in comparison to today. On the other hand, the women were straight-up fugly. Women aged pretty roughly back then. I guarantee the reason through most of history men married very young women (teenagers) was because that was th…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:23 AM
29

If you aren't still attracted to your girl when she has no makeup on and she's dressed in unappealing clothes, then end it. This is because that is how she will look 90% of the time if you ever marry her.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:19 AM
6

Step 1: Look like a shredded male model. Step 2: Take a pic that could be put on the cover of a trashy romance novel. Step 3: Sit back and profit.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 02:22 PM
6

I've heard about this. It's possible the women were wealthy but busy full-time career types who are now too old to mess around with dating apps or bars. Their options are probably a lot more limited than you think, particularly if they are too busy to have an actual relationship. But you should totally use nuke-tone dread on your girl the next time she messes up, "bitch, I got women willing to pay me for sex and you can't even do the dishes?"
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:04 PM
3

And in this day and age, being financially self-sufficient is almost like being in shape (although not a replacement for being in shape).
/r/askTRP08/10/20 11:36 AM
62

A big fat red pill is learning women are always talking about Chad, never any other guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 01:58 AM
7

Would you look weird with a beard?
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:29 AM
23

Well spoken regarding the next thing. I fell into that trap thinking my wife would finally relax after: the wedding, the move, a stable job, a house, etc. But there were always new stressful things popping up. It’s very discouraging for someone who isn’t built that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:13 PM
3

“Where have all the good men gone”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 01:42 PM
26

Imagine a world where women worked on themselves and made efforts in their relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 09:43 PM
10

It's especially important to not get fat because once you get fat, and are unsuccessful in getting rid of it, year after year, the years of failure will take a psychological toll on you and you will see yourself as a failure and be reminded of it everyday.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:44 PM
3

It seems to be common for guys later in life to look back and recognize how stupid they were in their 20s. Your 20s is the decade you set up a lot of the rest of your life with. You can make the worst mistakes here, in fact, most of your worst mistakes you make in your life is in your 20s. From marrying the wrong woman, to blindly forging ahead with high college debt and a bad degree, to siring children with no plan or stability, to wasting years of development taking shitty jobs and living life…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:36 PM
4

"I know a little about a lot" means has an opinion on everything and thinks opinions and feelings are just as valid as facts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/20 05:00 PM
2

Here's what I think: If enough men who were nice guys and, frankly, unattractive, took TRP and started to work out, take health and style seriously, and offer some small amount of game, the world would be better off. TRP isn't needed for guys who can already get laid. We focus on sex because it is one of the primary attributes of a valuable male (any idiot can see how incels are shat upon endlessly). TRP is also primarily for young guys. They are usually the most incompetent around women and hav…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:51 PM
9

Man the options leftists have...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 02:00 AM
2

Just get a job bro. Go into monk mode with the goal of spending all day, every day looking for work. You are the only one who will take care of yourself long term. You need to make yourself the one person you can rely on most.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:10 AM
1

Meet women in a group setting. I don't know if you have guy friends or not, but if not, you need them as the solo gig isn't working for you. The only funeral that should stop you from lifting is your own.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:07 AM
3

Sounds like your LTR needs professional help. Doesn't sound normal to close up like that. Maybe you just aren't valued or needed by that person. Maybe your LTR is immature and has absolutely no idea how to deal with trauma.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:02 AM
1

I don't like to drink because I hate feeling drowsy. An exception would be if I am at a party. As an introvert, having a buzz can extend my ability to put up with a crowd and larger groups of people.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:59 AM
2

What you have discovered is a boundary based on some value you have. Your GF has naturally penetrated your boundary and it's making you upset. Either enforce your boundary or remain upset. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 02:56 AM
1

Only experienced anger when I learned that women weren’t the sinless pure creatures my Christian upbringing led me to believe. It was more anger at being lied to than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:40 PM
1

The wall is fertility. Men can impregnate much longer than women can be impregnated. It doesn’t have to do with looks per se bc there are plenty of ugly young people. 30s gets thrown around a lot bc that’s when the fertility window starts to give women baby fever. Also people in general who don’t take good care of themselves lose a lot of their attractiveness in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:37 PM
5

The problem is romantics are not usually attractive and have to lock down a partner who will stay. Attractive people with options don’t have as much of a reason to do the same at least when they are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:26 PM
1

I recommend it because it's simple to read, has several different things you can follow, explains the nuances and labyrinths of investment clearly, and basically condenses dozens of other financial books in an all-in-one capsule.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:51 PM
1

I eat a lot of raspberries, some dried prunes, nuts, avocado, and potatoes. I don't like to get fiber from whole grain stuff, I can usually get 15-25g of fiber from fruit/nuts/veggies.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:44 PM
7

Tony Robbins teaches NLP (neurolinguistic programming), which is a pseudoscience that doesn't actually work, at least not in the way it's intended and marketed by guys like Tony. Most of his stuff is based on NLP, but Money is based on actual sound financial advice and information. Also, if you listen to or read some of the more honest reviews of Tony's seminars they sound very sketchy and incorporate high pressure sales to upsell you ridiculously expensive programs.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:49 AM
1

There is always insufficient information in these kinds of scenarios. It's like reading the plot for a novel but never reading the details in the book. If we can speculate as to why so-and-so made X decision, we will never know the real answer. They say all's fair in love and war and this story follows that format.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:40 AM
3

Men have never had it as easy as we do now. I read a lot of history books, and believe me, you wouldn't want to be a man in any other age (except boomer, of course). We are all safer then we've ever been. Your chances of dying horribly are almost nil, but obviously our society is pretty keen on bringing back the horrors of the past. Incels today in Western society can still work very hard on themselves, they just don't have the patience to wait 5/10 years for something to happen. Just like how w…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:34 AM
-2

Have you ever had to talk to an engineer before? Talk about self-important I'm-so-smart jackasses.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:24 AM
1

Are you trying to get married and have kids? The wall only applies if you are trying for multiple kids and you guys end up needing fertility clinics and such, and only because you want to lessen the risk of mentally disabled offspring. If you are looking for a ONS, what does it matter?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:21 AM
12

A normal guy (who doesn't read) should read Money by Tony Robbins so he has no excuses when it comes to making better financial decisions. (Ignore literally everything else by Robbins). Oh, and get enough fiber in your diet. Nothing more satisfying than one torpedo in the morning and no gut problems the rest of the day.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:19 AM
8

I sold cars for a year and got to drive just about everything on the road. The thrill of a nice car goes away pretty quickly, before you know it it's just a vehicle to take you from A to B and you hardly get to enjoy stomping on the gas anymore. I just can't believe you would want a Nissan though.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:09 AM
1

I don't remember gaining anything from having a large social circle in university. My closest friends live very far from me now and I haven't seen them in a decade, let alone talked to them (but that's besides the point). Unless you need social game to get with higher quality girls who need higher trust, don't bother. And whatever you do, don't try and wife up anyone who isn't a citizen of the same country as you (learned that one the hard way myself).
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:05 AM
2

“I see your lunch and raise you a walk in the park.” Honestly just take it since in sales an appointment is an appointment don’t read too much into it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:53 PM
3

I need a skill not everyone can do. Since I was a kid I wanted to know how to code but never had the courage to stick with it. I want to make things and understand computers a lot better than I do now. A coworker of mine has an in with his dad who has been in CS for decades. If I get competent enough I can land a gig. I can also work from anywhere and make myself a lot more employable with some experience. As it is my current degree and work experience are dead ends.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:28 PM
3

Wait until you are almost 40 and in the same boat. I am learning to code strictly online and in my free time. I don’t care how long it takes but it’s basically my only way forward.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:04 PM
1

I have a thought on this that people might seem disrespectful because they aren't expecting a happy-go-lucky person to react violently or badly to their tactlessness. They will push more with diss-oriented jokes because your smiling/laughing self lowers their guard. I know I sometimes cross the line and do that with guys who I would never expect to turn on me. Don't change your happy self tho, just lift so people (men in particular) naturally respect the dangerous level of force you are capable …
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:28 AM
2

Bro... you don't have kids with this person, you aren't married to this person. You are now free to explore vast fields of new women. In time you will get over this person, you are very young and because this was a first LTR you are hit very hard emotionally. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy and see if any of it makes sense to you, if you already read it, read it again. Time and working on yourself will help you get over that person. Also, put yourself in places where you are seeing a lot of other wome…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:24 AM
57

People become complacent and comfortable in their daily routine. Even people who think highly of themselves don't want the responsibility that comes with corporate leadership roles.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 02:15 AM
1

If this was true I think the lesson is, if you're a HVM don't meet random chicks online. They need to be vetted for sanity long before any interaction. Since this guy was a top tier physique competitor, I find it difficult to think he'd have trouble finding the kind of girl he wants. A typical LVM/beta will never have to deal with this because no woman will ever DM him his whole life.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 02:11 AM
1

It's just human to want to be accepted by every person, even if you yourself have no interest in that other person. A mark of maturity is to accept that this is not going to be the case, but you are comfortable with yourself regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:02 AM
1

Modern women face the issue of social media. No other generation has had the temptation and attention one can get from social media. This is all new territory and no one knows exactly how to deal with how this messes women up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:47 PM
1

It’s a problem of selection bias and echo chamber. The same thing happens whenever you follow any pundit. They always point out this or that news that confirms their bias and ignore everything else. The more someone spends their time on the internet the more skewed their perception of reality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:45 PM
1

What you are saying is betas need to have more confidence. The confidence to enforce their boundaries and face possible rejection for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:35 PM
4

I don’t think utilizing porn subs is a good way to make a point instead point out the decades of male models looks compared to females. Females only need to eat within their calories to look good, men need to lift, take steroids, and be genetically gifted facially. When is the last time we saw a male mode without abs and a defined chest? Or simply point to romance covers. Or point out how women can hide flaws with clothing and makeup and men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:14 PM
6

Gen Z is coming of age. An entire generation of porn addicted incels acts differently now than past generations. I imagine it will get worse, although I don't know exactly how.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:15 PM
48

Specialized knowledge is also usually the most difficult because you have to know enough to know what to specialize with. This is where mentors come in handy, and also explains why people browse almost endlessly for information because what they seek is specialized they just haven’t come across it yet.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:56 AM
1

I second this bc it’s what I’m doing and I don’t have a lot of free time. Ahh to have the free time of a 20 year old again.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:07 PM
1

AWALT. It helped prepare me for when it happened to me that I was just another beta shlub who had his turn. A lot of RP knowledge also prepared me for a woman's tendency to blow up her family for no good reason. Learning to have my own boundaries and have abundance mentality has been hugely beneficial in getting over her.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:32 AM
4

Hypergamy.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 02:29 AM
1

I think I know why this is. It’s because of our modern lifestyles. If we were all nomadic hunter/gatherers we would be so busy being humans living and surviving we wouldn’t have time to ponder the universe instead we would feel connected to it and a part of it. We are all domesticated wild animals that don’t thrive under domestication.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:15 PM
2

Interesting I’ll check it out
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:19 PM
13

Sooo many redpills available to a guy if he gets a chance to snoop through a girl's phone.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:23 AM
2

Honestly I’m not too sure but I will be applying to every web developer and junior software developer position I see
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:51 PM
1

My reply was deleted. But I decided to start with Java and JavaScript because of how common they are. There are tons of websites and resources, and I choose Java because it is used to develop apps. I've discovered that the more you learn the deeper the well goes, and there are things to learn beyond just a language.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:28 AM
5

Freecodecamp is web dev stuff so html css JavaScript and other things you’d want to know for web dev. I am also going through a learn java in one day book so I can learn a programming language alongside web dev. The more I learn the deeper the well goes but I’ve seen enough positive encouragement on Cscareers to keep going. Btw I’m mid 30s and finally taking the plunge to learn to code.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:08 AM
3

You can technically just do exactly what he asks and pass but I tried to make it look a little bit decent. Like right now I’m doing the second page and although I passed all the tests my page looks like old school html so I’m taking some time experimenting with the css to make it look better. It’s worth and I’ve had to google a lot and go back and forth on the site but it’s fine bc I’m here to learn it.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:04 AM
3

This is what I’m doing now and I’m loving it.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:26 PM
1

The BB narrative refers to late 20s and early 30s. Basically, at this point women are done riding the cock carousel and are ready to settle down and have children and this is when dateless nobodies who focused on their career suddenly find dates with post-wall women who rejected them while they were in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:14 PM
6

It always depends. I lifted in high school but I never gained any weight. I was a hardgainer ectomorph with a shitty diet (and I mean seriously shitty diet). Very few kids were as skinny as me so I may have been an exception. Instead of telling my teenage self to lift I would have instead tried to get him to fix his diet and join the track team and embrace his thinness.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 07:26 PM
3

I second this it helps to know that porn is nowhere near your friend but is meant to take over and inflame your passions so you are more easily controlled. Also reading page after page of normal girls lamenting their porn addicted boyfriends shows how destructive it is.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:08 PM
8

3 weeks dry. I realized I had never lived any portion of my post puberty life without porn. It was always present and effecting me. With a smartphone it became even more invasive on my mind. In the past I had to be on a cpu but now I can access it anywhere. I decided I wanted to live life, even a part of it, without porn. I never had any plans for porn it just became a habit I assumed would go away once I was married and had regular sex. Except it didn’t go away. It actually interfered with my r…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:04 PM
4

Men pursue interests and rarely people. A guy might be lonely but he probably doesn’t want to chill with people all the time he would rather be working on something. That is if he is an introvert. There are plenty of men who are extrovert who have lots of friends and chat with strangers and colleagues all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:42 PM
1

You never know what gear people are on. Lifting heavy is great and all but it’s very hard in the joints. Those guys might never have been out of shape and were always athletes. If you are out of shape trying to get in shape you don’t want to be lifting what they are lifting because of your joints.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:39 PM
9

Prostitution is illegal in most places?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:32 PM
1

Succinct and spot on I like it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:11 PM
3

It’s also a drug where people absolutely blame the victims.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 09:55 PM
6

You’re talking about the anger phase. A lot of guys are insulated from the female world and are in for a rude awakening when they find out women aren’t perfect angels. You have no idea how brainwashed guys used to be before the internet revealed everyone’s behaviors. Sort of like how white people are beginning to wake up to the fact the police can be very abusive because of so many videos shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:23 AM
11

Married 9 years currently separated (her choice after cucking me). Worked hard at keeping things going for our kids sake never wanted to have my kid grow up with divorced parents but in the end it wasn’t up to me. I’d have to say that when I finally got a breath of fresh air from her I realized how far I’d come. I started improving rapidly. Guys have no idea how much a partner can bring them down. Whenever I was up and happy she’d have something to complain about from her work. She was never con…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 01:46 PM
1

TRP definitely makes you see your past self as the cringe you were. Thankfully it won’t always be that way and it’s good you learned at an early age.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 03:53 PM
2

Pretty much /thread
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:08 PM
6

I'm 36 and just as sensitive as I ever was. Getting older shouldn't make a difference. Just lay off the porn and don't masturbate for as long as you can. The sensitivity will come back.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 11:20 PM
16

I was just going to post something similar to this, so I'll just comment here. First off, I agree with all that you said. I was attempting to say something helpful to people in pornfreerelationships but then I found out the hard way that place is full of idiots and I was banned. Good riddance to them I say, I don't have time for unteachable morons. Porn is absolutely a weapon. I read E. Michael Jones 600 page book Libido Dominandi and he outlined a fairly long history of sexual revolutions. Porn…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 11:17 PM
1

Probably didn't want her to die by cracking her skull open on the pavement.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/20 10:46 PM
1

I agree with everything you’ve just said. It seems like the FDS crowd are talking about men who don’t stay in shape or don’t peak in a career who assume they are aging like fine wine. Meanwhile women can stay fit and sexually active for a very long time, it’s only when they completely let themselves go they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:55 PM
14

I lurked FDS the past few days and it gave me some things to think about. It confirmed for me what TRP has been saying for a long time. Basically, men need to have perfect hygiene game. Men need 6-packs. Men need money. Men can’t have any character flaws. If any guy doesn’t have all of those things then he is wasting his time looking for women. Also, older men, and older means 30s+ are mostly disgusting and gross. I did think they had a good point about the wall. They said women don’t experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:07 PM
1

No longer live there but this was in the cheapest town in Ontario Canada. Mortgage was 850 a month we paid the taxes every quarter. One car was used and older so like 225 a month and the the other was a lease at around 300. Ins another 300 for both and the house. Internet was 80, phones 100. Loans were another 300. So more like 2155 but I was saying 2k bc it sounded cleaner.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/20 04:16 PM
4

More like that news that went viral of the polygyny family of one hideous woman with a bunch of simp men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:40 PM
44

I helped a couple out with a refinance and together they cleared maybe 100k. Even if half of it was taken with taxes etc it would be around 4K a month takehome. They had 0 savings, like none. My monthly expenses with a house, two cars, insurance, internet, phones, groceries would usually be about 2k a month. I was like how do you not have thousands and thousands saved up? No retirement accounts either. It felt bad man bc they didn’t even have student loans.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/20 01:34 PM
8

I dug through my comment replies and found the few times I’ve been called an incel (I’ve been with my wife for 11 years) and it seemed that whenever I used TRP language is when it happened. It’s definitely a shaming tactic to keep men in line or a way to mock men. Thankfully it seems to be an internet phenomenon but maybe younger Zs are using it in person? I can imagine every middle schooler in the world using it ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:23 PM
7

I am reading a book on debt forgiveness and this post reminds and reinforces for me that we live in a society dominated by creditors. The creditors will always win in the end over any Bob. Look at the generations of student loan debt slaves.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 02:48 PM
2

I want to know how parents can still get stuff done. I’ve been in quarantine for 4 weeks at home with wife and child and I can’t get anything done other than spring cleaning. I am so drained by the end of the day I don’t even know what goals I want to work. In contrast when I lived by myself I could get a lot done. I guess other people drain my energy and focus and then I get little done. That being said how do introverted parents get shit done?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:25 PM
8

My advice is don’t spread yourself thin. Pick one thing and go full bore on it. Since I’m quarantined with my small child I don’t have the luxury you guys have but if I did I would be spending all of my time learning how to make games on game maker. This is also a good time to observe what jobs are essential or basically recession proof. Never go without money again.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 02:12 PM
12

As if they aren't already affected?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:58 AM
7

I imagine a lot of men who want to focus solely on their mission would be free from the time and effort it takes to get laid. I think there would be a lot more productive men who are otherwise incels.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:57 AM
3

This is a good time for me to start a survival garden.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:42 PM
1

I do convict conditioning workouts so no worries there. I have been using the time to spring clean since I will be away from work for 2 weeks due to a person testing positive. I have tried to read and take it slow, spending more time making meals, but the reality is I have a 5 year old and they take up all my time so no opportunity to really work on anything other than my relationship with my kid. It’s good for me and them but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t jealous of people who can do whatever…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:48 PM
14

Which leads to permanent sterile dating and no family formation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:53 PM
1

Don’t stock up on any food for the coronavirus quarantine so you are forced to ration and fast.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:13 PM
1

What would I google to find that if I have it?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:06 PM
1

You never go over them again after the wedding day and it’s lost in the noise of your own personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:28 PM
2

They mean literally nothing to everyone. None are held accountable for them the culture doesn’t take them seriously and no one has the personal honor of keeping their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:57 PM
1

Don't ever tell people your intentions or plans, they don't care unless they asked. They were busting your balls, it's what guys do, especially young guys, you are overthinking it.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:22 AM
1

Stop fapping so that you are naturally hornier. Dinner date? Get a booth. Escort her to it with your arm out. Halfway through the date, tell her you want to show her something you recently saw on your phone. Squeeze in next to her. Keep talking, keep the date going, have a few drinks. Start to slowly touch her, her hand, or jewelry, point it out, make a comment, whatever. Brush her hair behind her ear, tell her you're fixing her hair. Eventually you get in close, like 6 inches, as if you are goi…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:14 AM
2

It's not really burning a bridge. She was never a bridge in the first place. Burning a bridge is more like ending a longstanding relationship, economic or otherwise, where you may potentially need that person's help or assistance down the road. As a rule of thumb, it's wise not to burn bridges, but it's also rare for someone to actually be a bridge, who can and would help you if you needed it.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:58 AM
3

Jaw and neck exercises, save up for a nose job, wear elevator shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:20 AM
1

I think there's definitely going to be problems to overcome for many guys if we consider the platforms they must use, but the field is essentially ripe and ready because it's a new era, dating apps are fertile field for guys to learn how to game, mystery's old stuff isn't really applicable anymore, the rational male has always been heavily theoretical, the best practical guy, roosh, has found Jesus and you can't get his hold stuff, which was all gold, roissy was deplatformed, RSD has long since …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:49 PM
3

definitely. the guys who were OG are now old, some have even been deplatformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:14 PM
1

bro you are nowhere near ready for any kind of commitment. You said it yourself, will she take away your personal time for hobbies? Of course she will, she will take every last damn minute and guilt you for pursuing your hobbies. when you are ready to have no free time, or very little alone time, then you are ready for a commitment. kids also = literally zero free time except when they are asleep.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:12 PM
1

It's interesting what people become simply because they are given a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:06 PM
3

Probably because almost a lot of the OGs no longer discuss sexual strategy. Supply is low and demand has kept high, might as well make a few bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:01 PM
5

Men feel love through sex. If a man marries a woman, and they do everything together, going on dates, watching movies, cook together, they do little chores for each other, they say kind things to each other, they travel, go to wine tastings, hold hands, BUT, they don't have sex. Guess what? He won't feel loved. Sex comes first for a man. It's his non-negotiable. Why do betas get salty when they cultivate a relationship with a girl for months before she gives him sex and then they learn she gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:54 PM
1

Because men have to try dammit! People don't just give up because they realize they aren't that attractive. You are being too autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:35 PM
5

This is stupid because birth control circumvents whatever evolutionary thing you make up. People are going after only the most sexually attractive people because there are no consequences. A woman couldn't ride the cock carousel for very long if there was no birth control. In the past, beta provider men were not disposable, because women just weren't economically successful. Why do you think some cultures celebrate male births and despise, or abort en masse, their female babies? Families used to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:28 PM
9

that escalated fast lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:01 PM
87

I'm trying to think if I ever was shocked by this. Most young guys know they are not Chad. A lot of them struggle with merely approaching and talking to girls. Because of their lack of experience, they build up in their mind this ideal picture of what girls are like. A lot of young guys, even the smart ones, are reprehensibly stupid and will ignore direct evidence because of their pride. So, what shocks them, eventually, is that women are not better, or more moral, than they are. A lot of guys, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:51 PM
1

bro you gotta read wallstreetplayboys or something. you are in a position to retire in your 30s if you manage your money well, don't let women take over. THEN, in your 30s, you will be able to grab high quality women. invest, save, hang out with other alpha men instead of women and pursue happiness with other things in life. if you want a great girl go find yourself some frumpy religious girl who is dying to serve a high quality man and see how that makes you feel. ​ unfortunately, it sounds lik…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:24 PM
88

It's really very simple. Get fit, get a job (don't EVEN THINK about becoming an entrepreneur, you don't have the mindset for that yet), read books that deal with your psychological issues and then read financial books, get a new wardrobe/haircut/look, find a hobby. I also just wanted to comment on getting a hobby, if nothing appeals to you, come up with a few completely random things and then go pursue that thing. Here's some examples: you choose something like skiing. You google who are the bes…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 11:26 PM
3

So? People are very immature this day and age and can’t hold down a relationship but this doesn’t invalidate when they are at their most attractive. It’s a cultural problem young people are still immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:50 PM
3

In my opinion most people settle because they wait too long. Most people are at their peak physical attractiveness in their late teens and early 20s although if someone stays in shape they can keep it going for another decade or two. I just know that when I look up people I used to know from high school both men and women have gotten fat and lost a lot of their youthful attractiveness and they are barely into their 30s now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:44 PM
1

The advice here is good. At least make the effort to read a dozen or so financial books. No reason to be ignorant.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:38 PM
2

Sounds like you have been grinding and are getting beaten down by it. You made a comment that you want to travel and al that. You are stuck spinning your wheels. Also your own entrepreneurial shenanigans mean you never have time off. You are burnt out.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:31 PM
8

And a lot of guys who see themselves as nice will be surprised to find out their girl/wife whatever doesn’t think they’re nice and will never mention that stuff to her girlfriends. Being nice means something to males bc we might get into life altering fights. It doesn’t mean the same thing to women they perceive it as weakness bc they want a fighting/aggressive male bc they don’t suffer the consequences.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:25 PM
1

If the sex was truly lame then you were probably upset about that the most and how it forced you to confront it. You gotta drop the nuke on her before you nut. Otherwise she doesn’t know she’s misbehaving. If she’s a plate then she’s a plate for good sex nothing else. She’s not going to tolerate weak sex from a beta so why should you tolerate it? Next her.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:21 PM
36

I regret not dating more and settling too soon. And then there’s always that one that got away.
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:57 PM
1

If you already have debt (I do too), then you should be making it a priority to pay it off with whatever income you have. Be frugal for a period of time while every extra dollar you earn goes toward your debt. Just don't take out additional debt. Take on new jobs that pay you to train and acquire a skill. I always recommend sales because there is infinite level training available in books, YT, and websites. You can learn quickly in sales whereas a skilled profession it might take longer to feel …
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:17 PM
4

The first step is to get a job. I always recommend sales because there is no downside. Even if you fail you still would have learned a lot. But of course you’re broke and have no vehicle so you’re going to have to take public transportation. You’ll get a social circle at a job. Don’t worry about time or girls. You want to be independent by the time you’re 30. Stay out of debt. While looking for sales work start reading sales books from your library or read as much as you can online. Try to get a…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:13 PM
39

Other than good sex, not just plain sex, there is nothing she will do to make your life better than what you can already do on your own. The other purpose for her would be to raise a kid with you, in which case extreme work ethic and morals are the prime attributes, not sex appeal.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 07:16 PM
1

The culture is broken when it comes to masturbation. NoFap takes it too far and is ultimately no different than my evangelical church. Tons of guys are highly addicted. The truth is you have to eventually be okay with the fact that you are a sexual being and your sexual desires are valid. If that means you have to fap every now and then so be it. Do it and then stop feeling guilty afterward. If you want casual sex go for it because a) no one can stop you and b) it may force you to improve becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:10 PM
4

Sex is safer than its ever been and yet prostitution, which was legal not that long ago, is still illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:51 PM
5

People don’t seem to understand you can’t shut off sexual desire any more than you can shut off hunger and thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:48 PM
14

It’s better to know how to deal with others who are angry. Getting angry in return will create a fight. Getting submissive will fan the flames of the other. Being indifferent shows the other their anger has no effect on you and they had better find another way to deal with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:16 PM
1

People have to be trained how to snap out of their physical laziness. The laziness didn’t happen overnight it happened because parents and schools get kids to sit all day long. Sitting has become more enjoyable than moving because of technology so nowadays whenever you see someone who is in shape you automatically know they have a lot of physical discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:04 PM
2

Because they don’t have the discipline to do anything about it. They truly want others to do things for them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:56 PM
13

Twitter is a cesspool of trolls baiting each other into responding.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 02:57 PM
1

You also have a lot more free time as a teenager. In high school I would get home before 3 and stay up until maybe 10. As an adult I get home from work at 6 then I’m so tired I don’t do much of anything then I’m in bed by 9. weekends are taken up with family things so at the end of the day, I don’t have any time to hang out with friends. And we forget about proximity. As a teen all of your friends live close by. At college you are all on campus all the time. As an adult everyone goes their separ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 01:54 PM
2

No one can do anything about it. People can’t create jobs magically and they can’t resolve emotional issues with magic either. It sounds like these people are still children living in fantasy land. At no point in their adult life will these kids have the same opportunities to socialize as they do in their teenage years. A lot of people have hard lives where they are forced to work themselves to the bone. Most of humanity had it hard and had to survive most people they knew dying to disease or ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:18 PM
7

Yep. And despite 10 years of evidence college isn’t worth the price they are still going in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:10 PM
3

They can snag an older guy in late 20s who is slightly established and more mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:08 PM
1

I’ve been in and out of churches my whole life and went to two different Christian colleges. You won’t find much purity there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:32 PM
4

Those girls aren’t anymore pure than any other girl unless they are physically loathsome. The true virgins are girls you don’t even look at irl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:59 PM
1

Just watch magic mike and you will know what all women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:45 PM
1

The older I get the less I want to look like a bodybuilder and the more I want a physique like a fighter. Just a tough and hard exterior with functionality as strength.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:42 PM
1

1) workout routine that I can be consistent with (at home body weight workouts for me) 2) mindset change (I believe I have to be the most reliable person I can know, self reliance leads to self improvement) 3) books. Select ones that target a specific problem you have or area you want to learn. 4) podcasts. They sometimes offer me ideas and motivation 5) fasting
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:05 PM
2

I get what you are saying for unmarried women but for married women they definitely should be held to a higher standard and to account for their actions. Civilization depends on strong families and women who decide to take on the burden of marriage need to know the gravity of what they are doing. If they end up settling with some Schmoe then that’s not my problem she has to figure that out and be responsible for who she decides to date and marry.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:37 PM
111

It’s important to blame her. At the end of the day women need to be held responsible for their choices and dyscivilizational behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 09:45 PM
1

Damn op I’m sorry to hear about your condition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:50 PM
1

Umm that’s why it’s called the red pill. It removes the illusory matrix men have been living in and they see reality for what it is. I grew up going to an evangelical church and from their teachings and omissions I basically concluded men were always the bad guys and women were generally innocent and pure. Women were put on pedestals and seen as better humans. At least that’s what I concluded until I had my own bad experiences with women. A lot of men who don’t have many interactions with women …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:36 PM
1

Tired of the outrage culture the internet has spawned just so unloved people can get attention.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/19 03:23 PM
1

I feel like if you see a hot chick on tinder it’s almost a red flag for crazy or extremely unpleasant.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:14 PM
5

I only did monk mode once and it was when I was in a job I hated and wanted a new job. Basically I spent every free moment looking for and applying to work and avoided all else until I achieved my goal of getting a better job. It’s amazing what you can accomplish if you decide to sacrifice everything else so you can laser focus on one thing. As soon as I got a better job I went off monk mode and went back to enjoying regular things again. I think dudes go into monk mode with a very vague goal of…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 05:25 PM
14

Reduce expenses as low as possible and then go monk mode grinding for decent work and save save save.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:29 PM
2

I noticed this too and I see a lot of women drive them too. It seemed that the lower income or more rural area you were in the more you would see. My last neighborhood I lived in everyone had a truck. As far as I know they see it as a regular vehicle but different style. It’s stupid of course bc a lot of them have super duty or off road packages and the vehicle has never seen a hard day in its life.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:59 PM
4

Note to self stay away from the big ones. But seriously it seems like a lot of guys have done it with obese girls and I have to ask: was it ever worth it? How do you have sex with someone you have no attraction for? Did any of you actually enjoy the sex? Didnit require tons of booze? I’ve just never had even an ounce of desire to harpoon a whale and whenever I’m near one I dread catching a whiff of their terrible odor.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 06:33 PM
2

I don’t think the average guy thinks it’s fun to be an attractive girl but I do think they envy how easily those girls are desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:52 PM
1

I guess just date around and see if there is a person you want around. Maybe you didn’t click with girls bc your intention was sex not a good friendship but then again you need both.
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:58 PM
2

Put down the phone. It’s not helping you. I’ve left my phone at home the past couple of days and I’ve been much more productive at work. When I had downtime I would read a super dry book on HVAC bc I work for a large hvac company and want to be a salesman here someday. Before I would dick around on my phone and waste time, but worse, waste energy so when I had the time later I had no desire. Put down the phone. You will see your free time grow immensely. Don’t watch tv or play video games and yo…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 11:43 PM
16

A huge problem women have is they aren’t good enough to lock down a true alpha. They get pumped and dumped and blame men when they really should be looking at why alphas don’t want to stick around because most alpha men I’ve known want a steady thing it’s just that they know they have options once the girl shows how low smv she truly is.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 08:16 PM
1

Top 3? Tough question bc there are different aspects of every book one can get a lot out of. A Mencken Chestomathy by HL Mencken would be my top. No one has ever made me feel as dumb as Mencken has. Recently I really enjoyed Lincoln’s Melancholy. A thorough and deep biography of Lincoln. I also just finished Louis Lamours memoir which reinvigorated my love for reading. The man was fascinating and deserves more attention.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:22 PM
10

Who cares? You either take action and do the work, or, you sit and theorize until the cows come home. I'm in my 30s, I too went through college and I've read 1000 books, I have a wife and kid, and my wife has many girlfriends. I have life experience as many guys here do. Guess what? Every single one of my wife's friends (and my wife, who wanted me to do a dance like MM for her) adores Magic Mike. I've seen the Facebook conversations, they all want hot guys (or even just hot guys attention), have…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:29 PM
13

Is she unhappy and you think everything is fine with the relationship then she is probably cheating or putting herself in situations where she can cheat. Does she have girls nights out? Seeking opportunities. Her girlfriends won’t say anything to you or try and stop her. Anytime she’s home late is suspect. When she stops texting and talking to you or she is much more quiet than normal. If she stops seeing you as sexy, you’re done, relationship over.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 05:43 PM
2

Women swing branches like a monkey not letting go until they grasp another and men go without any branch for short or long periods.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 09:28 PM
1

I sometimes wonder about that. If most of the women we see are attached, even those who shouldn’t be, and a lot of guys aren’t, then are there a ton of extra guys in the population? Maybe men have longer single cycles and so it appears there are more single men than women.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 07:38 PM
1

Think of it as a benefit. You won’t be overly preoccupied with sex and can focus on your self improvement.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 04:04 PM
1

Are you on nofap too? You gotta let your body help recruit motivation. Starve it of easy sexual satisfaction. You also remind of how some guys need to warm up before talking to a girl. Meaning you say hi to a bunch of people and talk to more and more people that are no risk until you feel fully geared up and chatty.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:25 PM
-1

Everything women say they want they want in the sexiest alpha men. What they don’t want and have never wanted are betas no matter how the beta acts. The beta is only desirable so long as he has money and is naive about women.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 03:59 PM
36

Roosh also began to only game girls who gave him clear IOI. Like in sales you can waste a lot of time effort and energy going after nothing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:32 PM
1

Cool I appreciate the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:55 AM
2

Just curious what change you made to increase yourself one point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:00 AM
4

I recommend from recent memory The Lonesome Dove Tv series. You will see many red pill concepts at play. Read Louis Lamour books.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:05 PM
4

It’s all grist for the mill. Even full blue pill fiction with retarded sjw content can be useful in showing what the exact opposite of red pill looks like.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:43 PM
15

I also have a huge ego and I find it helps to create smaller attainable goals I can reach in 90 days that eventually stack upon themselves. So for example because you want money you set a goal to grind through 10 books on finance in 90 days to gain financial literacy. Then I remind myself why I’m doing what I’m doing (current thing: I want to create a consistent level of grind at my job so if I stay at this place I will be better able to take the next level position when I get the chance).
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:29 PM
7

I wonder if your disgust from their sluttiness was because of some hindbrain action. In the back of your mind you were probably thinking if they were so instantly slutty, swapping bodily fluids with each other so freely, how many dudes and women have they been with? I think guys have a limit on how much slut they will accept and those girls crossed that limit from their behavior. Kudos to you for not engaging in sex with any of them because A) co-workers friends is, to me, still shitting where y…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 08:24 PM
68

It’s also disheartening how often women will encourage and support their girlfriends cheating on their significant other and justify it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:22 PM
3

Or just watch Gordon Ramsey’s ultimate cooking course and read cookbooks
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 12:58 PM
1

Steroids didn’t exist to create jacked people until recently so for most of human history it would be pretty rare to have thicc dudes
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:33 PM
2

I think people think that way bc so many fitness gurus never publish their blood tests to hide the fact their fitness is based off of steroids. So a lot of people think it’s just hard work and diet and then wonder why they have no gains or lift similar weight as the jacked dude but don’t look anything like him. I truly wonder what the diet and fitness industry would look like if steroids were legal. In fact does anyone know what it’s like in countries where steroids are legal?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:31 PM
3

Don’t overthink or analyze what you are doing. It will feel completely mechanical and unnatural if you do.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:37 PM
2

You mean being told to lift gets old?
/r/askTRP14/08/19 04:31 PM
3

Going to be going through a similar thing except 10 years younger. She is already having cognitive dissonance but the boat has already sailed.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 02:29 PM
6

What I don’t get is why hypergamy doesn’t stop beyond reproductive years. Sounds like she already had a good man and had kids so why does she still need to do better? It makes sense why a young woman would bounce around and go for the best but for an older woman? To still be seeking after decent men is a complete mystery to me she should be seeking after a compatible companion not a good guy who wants marriage and kids.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 02:21 PM
1

Who cares? Have you ever had a dude drone on about something you didn’t care about? The only reason why I would want someone I was with to have a hobby is if they get clingy and don’t let me enjoy my own. For better or worse I think most young women are always thinking and talking about their feelings with each other. The few times I’ve seen conversations from FB or text it’s all about feelings or relationships. It also showed me they only care about Chads nothin else.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:36 PM
5

This is like a microcosm of OPs question. He doesn’t care about the sidebar he only cares about how we make him feel by directly answering his question.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:04 PM
1

Uhh yeah I agree that guys need standards of never settling for less than 6
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 05:26 PM
1

Your biological imperative also wants you to consume as much junk food as possible. Don’t you hate being obese because biological imperative? Oh well I guess it’s just natural.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:04 PM
1

Have you not seen all the times guys have bitched about ugly/fat girls having unrealistic expectations? Where does that come from other than them regularly getting sex from higher smv guys. It changes incentives and expectations. In a way chad is stealing sex by leaving behind alpha widows.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 01:26 AM
1

I mean guys need to stop handing out dick to women who are 3 or more points below them.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 05:38 PM
6

Men need better standards. Such low standards across the board make all the women less attractive for all of us.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:46 PM
6

I had some comments on that thread that got nuked. The study proves its women’s fault that they are single if they have higher education.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 04:41 PM
2

It’s been this way for awhile. It’s also not even red pill. It’s blue pill to say all you have to do is get in shape and you’re good to go. Tons of guys have been getting into shape for many decades and it doesn’t mean they are going to have successful relationships. It’s the frosting on the cake. It’s also an excuse bc you can easily admit you aren’t fit enough to start gaming.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 12:49 PM
-6

Jacked? Steroids are a schedule III drug, no thanks. It's also expensive from what I've heard. I'm just not going to be able to compete with roid users if that's what women want.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:33 PM
6

“People tend to ignore you when you aren’t pleasing to look at.” Damn cold hard truth there. We live in a world where people need to be good looking. No amount of self delusion can make a difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 03:42 PM
3

A lot of tall guys can be very goofy looking and lanky.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 03:33 PM
24

You needed to be in the background playing "Kiss the Girl" from The Little Mermaid on your phone.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 12:12 PM
1

I was thinking a new job every year, and job hopping simply because they didn't like the previous job, not because they are about to take something better. Can't fault anyone for taking a better job and then hopping from that for an even better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:54 AM
1

I agree, there's definitely a trade off. Some of my friends who got married straight out of college (22-23) are still married with kids, and theirs will be mostly grown by the time they're close to 40. One friend has brothers who also did the same pathway, and they are doing okay. So it's definitely a trade off that depends upon the maturity of the couple. Those guys, as far as I remember, already seemed like adults. I was a late bloomer and wouldn't have been able to hold down a marriage at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:53 AM
1

Sex is a scarce resource for a man. He can't rid himself of his sex drive, so he marries a woman he wants to have lots of regular sex with. By marrying her, he is forsaking all other women. Also, as a side note, there are still a lot of religious men who were duped into staying virgins until marriage. This makes them even more laser-focused on sexual satisfaction in marriage since it will be their only outlet. If you can't understand the male sex drive, don't bother asking this kind of question.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:24 AM
1

Wouldn't care about what her job or level of education is. I would care, however, about her work history. Does she job hop a lot? Can she at least hold a job? Can she take care of herself or do others have to take care of her? That kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:19 AM
8

I think too much time on the internet makes people gravitate towards their inner tribal-self. A lot of the manosphere gurus talk about endgame, such as marriage, and they point out statistically significant things, like higher N-count partners tend to divorce, getting married later means fewer kids, older people who couldn't hold down a relationship have more baggage, more likely to find single mothers at that age, etc. My thoughts on anyone, male or female, settling down at 20 are this: if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:11 AM
1

On the internet it's a sellers market, and the sellers are women. The buyers, men, can only choose between so many girls selling (someone they'd be willing to meet), compared to how many men are buying (men will buy just about anything, so demand is always high). IRL I mostly see couples who are about the same on the SMV chart. Couples, mind you. People who simply hook up, who knows, because they are difficult to spot IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:02 AM
1

it's not like chads are impregnating tons of bitches tho
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:54 AM
2

lower testosterone. addiction to easy dopamine hits. had access to smartphones when they hit puberty. maybe they are so thirsty they just want attention from girls, not even sex. weak male family figures. decades of propaganda coming to fruition.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:50 AM
3

active social media, meaning, they are into it, post a lot, comment a lot, have a lot of followers, have tags or made up names for themselves to look like they are a somebody lazy bored all the time always stays over/ quickly jumps from living space to living space complains about her job gets offended easily car/place is a disaster
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:46 PM
1

Absolutely right about it not having ROI. It's pure consumption. I sometimes think of all the many centuries of tribal living, then farmer living, the vast struggle for survival, all culminating into one overweight, out of shape, depressed descendant spending most of their time looking at a small screen consuming bites of info for the dopamine.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:58 PM
51

This. It’s why inner game is so important. Also a reality check that you need to lift.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:00 AM
3

You're definitely on to something here. I've theorized, although I don't have any evidence, anecdotal or otherwise, that if a young wife simply had plenty of hot sex with her husband, stayed fit, was good-natured, happy, friendly, positive, and enthusiastic about cooking, cleaning, and taking care of household items, the guy would naturally have the extra time, energy, motivation, and drive to make something of himself. When I was younger I was obsessed with sex. If that need was fully met I cou…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 08:19 PM
15

I’m embarrassed for my gender. Never understood guys with no scruples.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 02:47 PM
18

What? You don’t want to listen to girls who can’t name two types of clouds prattle on about how important it is for someone to do something about climate change?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:22 PM
3

Go to that /rateme sub and you see that most guys really have no chance.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:19 PM
5

I don’t think those guys are looking for solutions I think they are rationalizing decisions and life experiences.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:18 PM
31

As a married man with a kid I get called an incel anytime I bring up redpill stuff. It’s a chuckle for sure as it reminds me of how petty and shallow most people are.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:03 PM
5

It builds trust between two engaged in conversation (why can't I just say conversers, stupid spellcheck). It's not that you don't like small talk, you don't like the time it takes to build trust with someone enough to have deeper conversation. Since you aren't interviewing someone or being interviewed, small talk is the bridge between no trust and mild trust. Think about the person who immediately tells others about her life problems. Why are they doing that? Don't they know strangers don't care…
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:17 PM
3

I know a guy who is half Asian and slays with above average girls. He’s darker skinned but he’s short. Good facial structure and he looks like a complete douche/ bad boy. Skinny but fit like 140 at 5’7.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 05:56 PM
3

Silly and stupid propaganda from leftist professors, one, a 26 year old white male, the other, a 45 year old white woman. Silly, because they don't represent anything redpillers talk about accurately. Stupid, because anyone who paid even the slightest attention to social media could have told you a bunch of manosphere men preferred Trump over Clinton. Anyone at all with access to statistics could show you white men overwhelmingly voted for Trump. There is literally nothing of value to this artic…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:09 PM
2

Hey man, good luck to you in your journey. You have to rely on yourself from now on, but I think you will find, as a man, you are more than capable of it and will bask in it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:35 PM
4

It's always difficult for some to accept they are worse than trash to people they are attracted to. Working on yourself can overcome these feelings, but still, some guys can't handle it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:32 PM
2

That’s a good point. Families used to be a lot bigger and closer there was no real loneliness unless people were physically isolated. With people having smaller families and moving farther away and such.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 08:30 PM
7

I've meditated and I've fasted and fasting gave me the same benefits of meditation except it's also extra healthy to do. If sitting and doing nothing isn't your thing, try fasting 18-24 hours and you will regain a good degree of focus.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:43 PM
9

In the last decade I've read roughly 1000 books. None of them have given me purpose. It has always been up to me to find purpose. A book can't give you purpose any more than a movie or video game. One thing I learned the hard way is don't get caught up in intellectual movements. You think you are improving yourself by reading a lot of good books, but in reality you are simply replacing other entertainment. However, there are two books that prompted me to reflect enough to dig in to finding a pur…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 11:20 AM
4

Back in the day, masculinity was a must to carve a homestead out of a wood and then run a farm. Men were smaller, but they were hard as wood. Today, men are either cremepuffs or artificially jacked from extra testosterone. Muscles are no longer for use, just looks. Masculinity is becoming the same thing, artificially pumped up for looks, not living.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 11:09 AM
18

Some guys seem to be trying to bring marriage back depending on who you follow because they are concerned for western civ. That’s why this will constantly be brought back up.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 01:57 PM
1

OP are you one or two SMV points higher than her? If she’s equal or greater then you know she’s a slut bc your relationship is primarily sexual. Does she dress like this all the time when you go out? It’s unfortunately a red flag.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:39 PM
-9

Meh. Men go on dinner dates just for a chance at sex and that’s a lot bigger value exchange than dinner when any girl these days can take herself out for food.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 12:30 PM
1

Don’t worry bro I got the joke.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/19 07:54 PM
3

Damn it’s gone way downhill. I guess good space now for some solid up and coming talent to take the stage. Men will always need to get laid and the old school guys are getting too old and don’t know what it’s like for younger guys now.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:12 PM
1

He has good hardball sales scripts and that’s about it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:09 PM
8

They don’t need to bring in fertile women but they need men with normal testosterone levels who are still capable of reproduction since there’s projections all men in the west will be sterile by 2050.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 02:51 PM
4

Also when she gets a high value man she rarely keeps him. No point in swinging from high value man to high value man until she is infertile.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 01:04 PM
1

No villains but society dies out anyway. Yeah who cares about that? To be fair that’s exactly how the elites want this to go down so the frog of society isn’t going to realize it’s boiled until it’s too late.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 01:00 PM
14

The older I get the more I realize a major part of parenting is to teach your kids the lessons you learned so they avoid the pitfalls but it takes a lot of coaching and patience. A good father ensures his son can get laid and his daughter can avoid endless dating.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 01:00 PM
1

It always had a short half-life bc of the nature of the game. TRP has longevity bc there is always fresh blood. Roosh has been doing this for so long it’s actually incredible. These guys also get a lot of heat and over time it makes sense they’d tire of the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:09 PM
7

I wish he would just recognize his Bang and Game material is helpful to married men who landed a wife but doesn't know how to keep her interested. Sometimes even the simplest seduction material will help a guy with no game maintain his LTR or wife a little longer, granted he never bonded with a slut.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:35 AM
5

You can still get Game and Day Bang which should be enough. Bang seems to be done. Glad I read it earlier this year. It’s not even that bad it’s just practical advice on how to pick up a girl and seduce her in the most innocent way possible. It’s not like roissy or guys who believed hugely in asshole game.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:19 AM
2

You don't need game if you're a natural like your friend is. It's like a guy who's 6'6" who kills it at basketball giving a short guy advice. Game is for guys who can't naturally pull girls. TRP is for guys who can pull girls but probably need help keeping them or going for higher quality girls or they lack inner game.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 06:48 PM
3

He was just giving her a soft next.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 03:50 PM
2

Think of how many are on anxiety meds. Then think of how many don’t work out at all and injure themselves doing regular stuff. Some might be thin but they aren’t eating much and still drink a lot. My wife is constantly throwing out her back, suffers from headaches, has anxiety and ocd, drinks too much etc. Her friends are basically the same way.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 03:45 PM
6

It's amazing how casually this woman, who is a 2, talks about having flings and dates. She's post-wall, ugly, feminist, married to her work, and basic. She only craves men because of her biological clock. This woman easily fell for the propaganda of modern life. She went on the career road in a huge city. She had fun for almost two decades and has nothing to show for it. No one is impressed by your job. No one even cares if you wrote a novel. Now she's old but flush with easy cock. She's picky, …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 01:16 AM
10

I also thought 5 was pushing it waaaaay too high. To me she's a solid 2. I'd pick a one but she's not fat. 4 is like still ever so slightly bangable, but I couldn't imagine going anywhere near this.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 12:59 AM
6

To add to JellyRev's thought, I would just like to point out we have a fairly good tradition of married couples raising children and we don't have much of a tradition of unmarried couples or "villages" raising children. It might be possible theoretically, but why recreate the wheel when we know what works? Low or no N-count women, pair-bonded to a single masculine man, symbolically and legally bonded through marriage, have the best chance at raising a healthy children. High N-count partners tend…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 11:50 AM
11

I'm finding the narrative here to be evidence that marriage is to be avoided, which ultimately means less reproduction. Since our genitals are the most important part of the body, and satisfying lust is the main goal of life, it seems like this is a way for the elite to propagandize further abolition of the family unit.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 12:59 AM
6

Never knew about this. Thanks a ton. Roissy's site was always a bit of a bitch to navigate for old stuff.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 11:46 AM
12

I’m convinced it’s never been that way and that’s why it was put into law. It’s human nature to believe gossip and blatant lies. I think it’s why for so long in history women weren’t given the kind of power they have now bc we are seeing how destructive it is. I always hear guys talk about being reasonable but I rarely hear it from women.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 08:30 PM
2

Nah not these guys. Not even a single immigrant doing any work here and this is a sanctuary city. Turns out people don’t want you to do their hvac work if it’s cheap shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 05:47 PM
6

Nah this is a local place it’s not a corporation. It’s not all white male but mostly white males. No chance of hiring h1bs to do hvac work since the image of the company among an aging white boomer population is important.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 02:28 PM
4

Almost as if it was planned.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:44 AM
14

So true. Provider game only works in the third world now. Women aren't attracted to providers because they can provide for themselves, but their id still makes them seek men with status, so if you are a hot alpha they still won't settle down with you if you aren't higher status and income than them.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:44 AM
5

To be fair, porn is good at reducing a man's desire to get laid, and it's a part of the agenda. Before I was married I would fap to porn to reduce my desire for women when I went out so I wouldn't be distracted. Now I know better, but easy access to high speed internet porn is a huge problem that damages men's sex drives. Sex is pushed in our faces everywhere, but since most men aren't having sex they have to turn to porn for some kind of satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:40 AM
23

It makes them so damaged it's impossible to marry a girl with that kind of N-count. Whatever bluepill beta bucks she tries to marry in her mid 30s she's going to cheat on within a year or two. A decade after that she may drink herself to death while she still brags to her co-workers what a catch she is and how beautiful she is (inbetween conversations of her cat and dog children).
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:36 AM
38

This is exactly the outcome the elites want. They don't want people reproducing and raising families. Strong male leaders, normal, resourceful, and intelligent families are the greatest bulwark against wholesale tyranny. A lot of things start to make sense with this worldview. Every kind of sexual deviancy is being pushed but normal healthy heterosexual sex is rape without layers of consent built in. That's why TRP is quarantined, because it promotes healthy masculinity, which leads to men locki…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:34 AM
3

When I was early twenties I went after a girl who was pretty damn broken but she was the most attractive girl in my social circle. I worked so damn hard as a blue pill for her only for her to end it quickly because I treated her so well and she had no idea how to process it. In retrospect it’s good for a guy to learn that lesson and actually understand what happened as early in his life as possible.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 09:15 PM
9

A lot of guys do seem to be asking questions to have someone validate their decision to stick with their ho. It's human nature to stick with what you know and rationalize it than leave something behind and go out again into the unknown. I'm learning a big part of TRP is building yourself up enough to the point where you can venture into the unknown with healthy anticipation instead of dread and fear. Before these guys go after a solid feminine woman who meets his needs, he needs to know how to l…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:51 AM
4

This has been going on for so long there’s no way you can suddenly be red pilled and battle it. Don’t even try because these people are in control. The best you can do is stop watching and do your best to protect your kids from it (like drag queen story time). We live in sick times and many people are broken but the good news is men are still redpilled even with all of this propaganda.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:45 PM
2

The guy already sees his future. Why wait?
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:53 PM
16

You are not physically escalating.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:54 AM
24

" I now know that I am the one that does the choosing. I am the one who escalates physically. That entire interaction was up to me, and it was left to be my decision on whether or not we kissed. " ​ This reminds me of something I read by Roosh recently. Men reject women just as much, if not more, than women reject men. It's just that we reject women in our mind, so women are blissfully unaware how much they are being rejected.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 10:39 PM
1

Bro you’re a virgin here to shit on men and lecture them as incels. You just want attention. You have no experience or insight. Go to /fPUA if you want help this is a man space.
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:12 PM
16

Ain't it the truth. Girls are basically all hype these days. Beyond sex, what do they do? Party? Work? Drink? They might make you feel good, but are they going to bitch about waking up with the baby every night. Bitch about how exhausting toddlers are? Complain and moan about missing their girls nights out as they fail to apply makeup for a month straight because family work is harder than any bullshit job she's ever had and she's always too tired to bang? Just like how alpha men are rare, quali…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:32 AM
0

Project much? A virgin girl is coming onto a man's sub and lecturing men on seduction? How many men have you seduced? You obviously shame incels too. So why is it an insult for a man to be a virgin but it's a virtue for you? Double-standards? No, it's reality. I applaud men who try to game women and be successful with them because it's difficult for men. Men are not wired to approach and game women, they were always set up and matched in tribal societies. Woman's game is nothing more than existi…
/r/seduction01/05/19 11:19 AM
0

You need to go to therapy then for your daddy issues. Here is why it's important, 6 signs you have daddy issues: You Fall For Emotionally Unavailable People. You Have A Hate Love Relationship With Your Dad. You Are Terrified Of Commitment. You Have Trust Issues. You Over-Invest In People. You Sabotage Your Healthy Relationships. ​ See why it would be important to fix that? A truly high quality guy who isn't going to pump and dump you can't have a relationship with you if you exhibit any of the a…
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:39 PM
9

They say read the sidebar but I’m just gonna shill for roosh and say read Bang and Day Bang. Those are the ones I wish I had read right away. If you have nice guy issues then also read No more me nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 08:02 PM
4

There isn’t much to know tbh. The knowing is the easiest part it’s the doing that red pill is all about and that’s hard to discuss on social media. I think of this sub as a place for likeminded guys to chat and come together.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 08:01 PM
0

Girl game is stupid easy. Make strong eye contact and smile. Be pleasant when he approaches. Be thin and have long hair. Dress feminine. If she’s gaming online it’s as easy as responding to whoever she wants. All girls say they want a high quality man when they aren’t a high quality girl. If she doesn’t want to be pumped and dumped she has to show strong feminine abilities like caregiving, cooking, cleaning, sensible budgeting, traditional values, loves kids, has a good relationship with her fat…
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:15 PM
11

Okay... so just fire up Tinder and you will be saturated with male attention.
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:19 AM
1

You are at your apex of SMV. You aren't able to trick your brain into thinking you have abundance if you don't actually have abundance (fucking girls, but, more importantly, knowing you could get laid with an attractive girl if you wanted, but this happens after fucking other girls). Is this girl thinking about you like you think about her? You talk like you are big value, but you debase your value and put this girl on a pedestal. Maybe she likes the chase, but all girls are gonna flake. Just fi…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:54 PM
2

Is this some kind of trick question? The answer is undoubtedly yes, it's why a lot of guys expatriate and look elsewhere for wife material.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:43 PM
5

Sounds like you don't have any frame. It's okay, a lot of us have been there. I learned how to get my frame back by reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. You sound like a nice guy, so you will need that information if you haven't already read it. If you have read it, then you need to go back and reexamine your boundaries, because it sounds like you aren't enforcing your boundaries with her. Also apply a little dread game. She needs to know you have plenty of options besides her and her emotional behavio…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:00 PM
2

This kind of thinking is autistic. Are women reproducing today? Birth rates are declining in the west if you remove the immigrant populations. What value do women have if they don't reproduce? Less than men, I would assume. We are also seeing before our very eyes what happens to a civilization when women are exalted over men. Women are fucking the Chads, but are they reproducing with them? Most people are avoiding raising children. When men become less valued, and weaker, women rise up to fill t…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 11:52 AM
1

Sounds like she's about as good as they come for this day and age. So if you want to wife her up then go and do it, don't let some guy from trp tell you you should NEVER marry. A lot of marriages I see that go well it's because the girl is more traditional and conservative. My own didn't go so well because I ignored obvious red flags, but I don't really see many flags in your description.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 11:51 AM
1

Not even willing to be his gf, only to send nudes for money, lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/19 12:43 AM
1

She sounds about as good as they come, I guess. Her N count is 3, you say, but as Roosh says, no man can ever know the real number, but it's probably more like 5. Not too bad, but not great. Sounds like she has two beta orbiters you have to deal with. The strong relationship with her father is good, but how closely have you examined it? What kind of man is her father? How much of her history do you know? The social awkwardness might mean her bang count is closer to 3, but if she's still socially…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:35 AM
1

Sorry meant day bang by roosh
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:29 PM
8

Sounds like you were hanging out with Omegas. How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10? How many girls do you approach and bang? You sound like you're an introvert, and unfortunately, the world doesn't give a fuck about introverts. If you aren't extroverted to some degree your social game will suck. Learn how to have conversations with people. Read Day Game if you don't know how. You absolutely have to provide some kind of value that makes it worth it for someone to be your friend, whet…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:15 AM
0

Your 9 might be his 5 tho
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:44 PM
1

It depends. Are you a 6 or a 7? If so, then yes, it's fine. If you are a 5, then even better. If you are an 8 or higher than it wouldn't be recommended. If NONE is your only alternative to 5's than obviously 5's are in your league and as you game better and make yourself higher value you can go to 6's.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:42 PM
2

Dump her. You are young but let me tell you it is never worth it to let your girl go out and party like that without you. It is a boundary for you and you aren’t enforcing it.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:40 PM
-3

I never benefitted from lifting. Ended up injuring myself and could never get rid of the ego. Now I do body weight exercise and I feel great. Muscles are way denser and it is easy to move my body whereas with weightlifting I always still felt weak.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 02:26 PM
3

Like Roosh has said men have always had it hard. At least we aren’t dying off en mass in horrible wars and civil wars or starving or slaves or facing a terrible plague. Our great battle is a broken sexual marketplace. We at least have material comfort. It’s relatively easy to get in shape and learn some game in comparison.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 02:04 PM
1

After enough time I feel like these people don't know how to live life without their electronics. Imagine going 90 days without your phone, TV, computer, tablet, video games, porn, etc. How many people could do that? I know I couldn't. I'd need my phone to stay in touch with people via facetime and messenger. I like to listen to podcasts and read blogs or TRP and TRP-related stuff. I rarely watch movies, but I don't think I could go 90 days without watching something. What would I do with myself…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 12:02 PM
3

Either your friends were all her beta orbiters and you thought they were your friends or, your friends are damn thirsty. Either way, they sound like losers. OR you are very young and in high school or college, in which case it's annoying but DGAF since you won't be around those guys after graduation anyway.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:30 PM
6

I almost feel like guys write posts like this to get people to give out real material in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 12:07 PM
3

This guy gets it. Journaling helped me figure out what several of my core beliefs were and how they were limiting me. It is an easy way to contemplate. I see a lot of advice on this sub telling guys to take action by getting up early, lifting, meditating, working until they drop, reading a novel then bed. No time is set aside for quiet contemplation? How are you ever supposed to process and digest the information you consume on a daily basis? Sleeping helps, but I've found it good to think about…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 12:06 PM
2

rooooooofl!
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:47 AM
3

I noticed that too and rolled my eyes. I guess most of the people on this sub are pretty young and inexperienced. But yet these posts are always at the top like a generic post about lifting.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 04:45 PM
1

What's your gut tell you op? If your gut says to cut and run, do it. If you continue to have sex with her, make sure you got it recorded so you aren't falsely accused or anything.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:43 AM
6

You always want to use a condom bro. Keep them in your jacket pocket or car.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:39 AM
4

Don’t worry about it. It’s a lot harder for a guy to be this way and a halfway attractive girl can be like this with no effort.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:22 AM
3

Tinder, sausage fests, bitchy attitudes, cockblockers, girls using you for drinks, having to stay out until 3am. Very little ROI unless you have picked a great venue where good looking girls are in equal or greater ratio to guys. I'd stick to day game to be honest.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:42 PM
4

So many bad answers. Look for girls at the mall, grocery store, clothing store, coffee shops, bars, clubs, bookstores, busy street corners, wine tours, sports events, to name a few. You are going to have to day game a variety of venues to find a place with good flow since night game is pretty dead.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:18 PM
15

It's an interesting thought. I think if the men who generally seek to be married and find fulfillment in one woman, and men who are in the top 20% or top 5% if we're talking Tinder, start turning away to realistic sex dolls we will see a huge disruption in the sex market. No one cares if incels start banging bots, that won't change anything any more than all of those men using porn on a daily basis.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:47 PM
2

The only way to approach when you steal a number like that is, in my mind, to pretend like he's messaging someone else he just met, typically with the elderly opener like asking the person a question or their opinion and then opening up conversation. Once he's "figured out" he's messaging the wrong person, then he can try to gauge if what conversation they've had is any good to proceed. Still, even if he ends up doing really well in the text game it would be extremely hard to ask the girl out on…
/r/seduction04/04/19 12:01 AM
3

Maybe she doesn’t like the shredded vascular look?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 04:58 PM
1

Ghetto culture. Men will soon need street cred and thug lifestyles with absolutely no beta traits.
/r/seduction30/03/19 07:25 PM
5

I don't know, BUT, I learned a little bit about storytelling from reading Gerry Spence's "How to Argue and Win Everytime." If I remember correctly, and forgive me it's been a few years, you can embellish a story with descriptive and emotional language. So, instead of "We walked to the tree" maybe try "It was hot that day, the sun beating down on us at high noon. We saw a tree, a great big maple tree flush with leaves, inviting us with its wide shadow. Weary, we made our way into the shade and th…
/r/seduction28/03/19 11:56 PM
1

I'm no pickup artist, but I've read some stuff. Whatever workout she's doing, guess what? That's what you're going to be doing. Ask her if you can work in sets like you would any bro. Don't treat her differently just because you want her to squeeze your dick in between those big black ass-cheeks. Then you can try the regular day gaming stuff that Roosh has in Day Game. Like, strike up a conversation, and if you talk for a bit and she asks a personal question start asking her stuff that leads to …
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:36 PM
22

Dude. Don't worry about it. Her boyfriend is just having a turn. You may be the next branch she grasps. Don't waste the opener by acting weirded out she has a boyfriend. Stay open to that interaction. It's probably a waste to stay open, but don't let her enter your frame and destroy your vibe. She can see the value and pedestalization you put on her by acting all weird and insecure once you found out she has a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:26 PM
6

The piano playing bit is good bait for you to use as well. She heard the piano and she opened you perfectly. You can use that as bait in the future, mentioning your piano skills, or asking a girl to come back to your place to hear you play.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 10:20 PM
16

Waistband tuck move. You were doing day game, no girl is so relaxed she'd be okay with some dude approaching with a boner. The point of game is to not look like a thirsty beta begging for sex. Your dick already put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:12 PM
3

If it makes you feel any better I'm 35 and trying to turn my life around. I went monk mode and worked on myself. I found reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, Bang, and Day Bang were a form of therapy for me. I am doing the Convict Conditioning workouts and I'm eating a lot cleaner (I renounced pizza). It helped me get over a ton of issues I didn't realize I had built up from 25-35. You are at a point where developing inner-game is very important, because that will hold you back a ton. I'm going back in…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:05 PM
1

She definitely wouldn't, but I highly doubt OP is one of the highest level alpha males of his generation. Most likely he just didn't game her well enough to build a good attraction.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:24 PM
1

I guess it depends. If you aren't involved in anything outside of work, or your own mission, then the days are long and your evenings boring. If you are actively working on things then your free time is zapped almost immediately. A busy girl might have some quality, it's certainly better than a girl with a ton of free time who goes and drinks when she's bored. Like I said, 3 weeks (especially if you are full-time but work is more like 50-60 hours with overtime and the commute calculated in) is n…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:22 PM
3

For working people 3 weeks is nothing.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:13 PM
1

I second this and was thinking the same thing. Change your wardrobe to one older, but classy, men wear. Change your hairstyle to something older attractive men wear. You already said you have a beard, it's supposed to help you not look like a baby. Lowering bodyfat seems to help with the face because a little fat in the face makes you look like a baby/child. Also, learn how to agree and amplify your way out of that shit test since it obviously bothers you.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:11 PM
1

Zero experience, eh? First off, find another job, you won't gain any transferable skills at a factory. Get a sales job because you live with your parents and can afford to fail, but the experience and growth you will experience will be very helpful down the road. Read Day Bang and practice rambling about props. Practice rambling about props with your parents at dinner. The idea is to build an awareness that you can hold a conversation, even if it's about the glass your drinking out of. If you ca…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:38 PM
2

I second this and recommend Roosh's stuff, and I have Game on paperback order right now, but I've read Bang and Day Bang and they are both helpful for getting your feet wet in thinking about how to talk to girls (or people, in general).
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:27 PM
1

It's not hard to find sales jobs.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:58 AM
5

It sounds like it was addressed when they were still eating, when she mentioned she thought the guy was a potential business contact. That's a reasonable excuse, and since he doesn't know this girl, he can either accept her at her word and drop it and have fun and get laid, or, if he thinks it's a red flag and disrespectful/rude/undignified/2nd-date violation, or whatever, then he should address it right then and there and then leave if he feels so inclined. Not leave the confrontation of it to …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:53 PM
2

Bro, this was a tinder match he had who was from out of town. Drinks later in the night and then close the deal. I think he pedestalized the girl and gave her way too much value. If he really didn't give a fuck about her and just wanted to get laid, then there was no need to next her for her actions because a less than 5 minute conversation and a number is meaningless in game. If she were a local girl and he was seriously considering making her his girlfriend, then sure, go ahead and next her, b…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:18 PM
1

I'm not an experienced PUA but even I can see huge gaping flaws in this whole mess. First, you brought a Tinder match out for dinner? You go out for drinks, don't waste your money on dinner. You created a good vibe and absolutely destroyed it after 40-something got her number. She barely spoke to the guy so she didn't build any connection. He probably lied to her about his consulting experience just to follow up with her. You have serious inner game problems because of how much it bothered you t…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:10 PM
1

I've observed something similar. I find people who are either fit or out of shape and little inbetween. I find it rare to see older people (basically anyone who isn't a teenager) who are just lean and neither fit or unfit, like you can't tell if they work out. Pictures and movies of people in the old days, people had varying levels of natural fitness, but even the stocky people looked burly, or at least masculine, as opposed to the cream puffs in existence today. I myself have been trying to low…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:36 PM
4

Interesting. I was looking through her twitter posts and I could not help but think they are meant to make her look smart with an exciting variety of interests. It also felt like a sham. It's a veneer, a sheen, of looking like you are something you are most likely definitely not if you strip away the layers. It's no wonder, though, as many women, this one in particular, looks almost masculine and has the phizz Chateau Heartiste would warn you to stay away from. If she weren't able to artificiall…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 04:36 PM
1

Serious answer: as long as it takes to meet the goal you went into monk mode for, and, when you meet the goal, STOP. When I wanted a better job, I went into monk mode and devoted all my extra time toward getting another job. You can't really monk mode getting in shape because that's a lifestyle change. But, you can monk mode cooking your own meals and going through cookbooks, teaching yourself to cook and focusing completely on making great tasting healthy food. You can do a mini monk mode and c…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:23 PM
1

Eh? I've done it a few times and it was anything but joyless. It is definitely an odd experience because you don't know what to think, but it does seem to be helping me overcome feelings of masturbation being an escape fantasy into women I want but don't strive to have. If I want to go ahead and masturbate, I will do so without shame, but I won't disassociate from my body and imagine myself somewhere else with someone else.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 12:27 PM
3

Just downloaded it, thanks for the recommendation, never heard of this book but it does sound like a good supplement.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 02:07 AM
1

It's exactly his point in the book that nice guys tend to have very poor sex lives, if they have any at all. The masturbation is not meant to be a substitute for sex, it's meant to learn to be comfortable with your sexual side, which many nice guys are not and don't know how to resolve that. But, what about masturbating regularly even after you have a wife who you have regular sex with? I was masturbating compulsively even when my wife was my gf and we had sexual contact every day. For nice guys…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 02:02 AM
1

Absolutely and it is often too late to do anything to salvage it but you never know. Gotta approach the future with a different mindset.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 09:06 PM
1

You might have to read the book to get the whole part about healthy masturbation. It may not apply to you but it sure as hell applied to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:33 PM
1

I won't deny that, but it didn't interfere with the message for me.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:33 PM
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A lot of us grew up in Christian households that made it feel like sin itself when you masturbate. Most of the time when men masturbate it's to porn or they fantasize about a woman. If you masturbate but keep your mind blank it's a different experience. You don't feel worthless or like a moral failure when you're done. This helps you overcome your subconscious feelings that it's morally wrong to pleasure yourself, and if it's morally wrong to pleasure yourself, you better believe you bring that …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 02:47 PM
3

Of course. If anything, it will help you maintain frame as you will have a much better of grasp of what frame is and when your frame is faltering.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 02:44 PM
4

Hmm, I didn't know that. I read the one by Robert Glover
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 02:43 PM
1

I dunno then, it sounds like you are already in her frame. If you communicated to her the reason why you suggested evening church, because of the morning date you had already planned, not something that's a whim of the moment kind of thing, and she still threw a hissy fit then you already have your answer. It sounds like this is a boundary for you but she doesn't get that.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:16 PM
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Does she know you had a date planned and needed to do the thing in the morning? If it's a simple miscommunication then just tell you can go together to church next week, but this week you had a date planned out with her. Also, do B if you haven't already communicated about the plan. Like you already suspect, if you do the nice guy routine of supplicating and going to church and canceling date plans, you aren't going to get your needs met. You also both have a fundamental difference in worldview …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:41 PM
5

Reminds me of a comment I read a long time ago where someone mentioned how a lot of African men in an area were very attractive and a lot of the women were ugly. When women have the pick of the litter every time the men get beautiful and when men have the pick the women look beautiful. Tinder demonstrates this and you can see if this was exactly how all mating happened in an area what would change over time.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 07:03 PM
3

I think of it as people with happy lives lurk or don't appear on this site, or only post on specific subs, so you are noticing the rest. One thing I've noticed about comments is how many people talk about themselves or relate some subject to him/herself. I do this a lot too, because, hell, I don't care about others I care about myself and my thoughts, so it's an easy trap to fall into, as St. Carnegie told us many decades ago. I also have a theory the more lonely someone is the more they go on s…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:02 AM
2

I don't see a problem with that, it's the downward spiral of needing harder and harder stuff to get your fix that's the problem. When regular "vanilla" sex is no longer desirable and you need your kink satisfied.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:16 AM
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Just your brain seeking novelty. You can reset it by doing the nofap thing. The advice that is hardest to follow is often the most helpful if executed.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:03 PM
4

It’s a natural fear of the unknown and unpredictable behavior. It’s less risk to talk to no one and do nothing that sets someone off. Put yourself in a girls shoes or watch another guy try to cold approach and see if you can feel anything creepy about the interaction. Like a good salesman you have to be charming and disarm peoples instinctive no reaction and turtling up.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 01:54 PM
5

Don't go back on what you decided, you will get harder and it will be easier to maintain frame next time so you avoid this mental anguish from happening again.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:37 PM
1

I imagine the ones who are virgin are also the ones you don't find attractive in the least. That, or they're very aware of how valuable they are and have the guts to shut guys down.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:13 PM
1

In an odd kind of way there will be messed up people who see her and think they can do better. Life is random and involves a lot of luck. Can't be bitter about this woman's success, as the great philosopher Yogi Berra said, "it ain't over til it's over."
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:02 PM
1

I feel like there is a lot of context missing from this question. Does this happen when you are with her? Does it happen when she's at the bar waiting to meet up with you? Does it happen when she's out for girls' night? Something obviously doesn't sit well with you by how she admitted this, and I'm guessing it's the flirting bit. A ton of women who like to drink do this, and you will know how serious she is with you if she admits she turns them down. Basically, if you feel in your gut to next he…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:12 PM
2

I agree with the Testosterone theory. I feel like mental toughness and aggression is lacking. Watch movies from the 70s and earlier and look at who the male heroes were and how they behaved. When I listened to an interview of H.L. Mencken, from the 50s, I believe, I couldn't help but think that I never hear men talk that way. It's not just physical intimidation, but men used to be seen wise with sharp intellects if they weren't just downright scary. Men today take shit from everyone. They just t…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:48 AM
2

What kind of men hold women to account? Jerkboys. What kind of men absolve women of personal responsibility? Niceguys. Women don't want a toady, they want a challenge, someone who will call them out on their shit. Jerkboys give them that thrill. It's obvious then, you can build frame by holding girls to account for their shitty behavior and then stick to it and never apologize. It's up to you to decide how much to apply this, I can see you taking it too far, but that may work with girls who want…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:18 PM
1

I was having bad rashes from deoderant but then discovered Old Spice didn't give me a rash. I've been wearing Old Spice ever since and have, not once, deviated. Good luck finding something that doesn't give you a rash.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/18 10:31 PM
2

That's just your own mindset. When I read the post I laughed and enjoyed OP's breakdown. It's amusing. If you are still in a bitter phase I guess I can see how it would make you react the way you did, or if you think others will react this way. You're basically just concern trolling and shaming OP like a woman would.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:35 PM
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Sounds almost like a bot wrote this it's so devoid of personality and full of cliches. "I will be a nice girl to you" "I will treat you with respect" Translation: I'm done being a dirty girl in the bedroom, I'm ready for missionary and starfish for the rest of my life because I respect you. Like OP I'm glad to be RP aware too. I've fully accepted just about everything and nothing surprises me anymore. It's just better to live this way because, honestly, it sucks being ignorant of human nature. T…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:28 PM
3

If you like to read some intellectual waxing on and on about weird psychology shit then this book is for you! If you want actionable self-help then look elsewhere. After awhile I found every chapter to get increasingly annoying. It was like I was reading an amateur book on mythology and theology. It was nothing like what I was expecting, and it quickly turned me off to anything JP again.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 02:29 PM
1

It's a hard truth but it's best learned early on that women abandon. They are willing to abandon a family in need just a much as some guy they're dating. They will abandon a child and a hardworking father for tingles or tears. The Red Pill is, yet to date, the only thing that seems to recognize women aren't virtuous just because they're attractive and seem capable of love. They're just a hole your body wants in the moment because of the look of their skin, the shape of their body, and how wet th…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 02:09 PM
1

Try imagining yourself doing the thing for a friend. If that doesn't help at all, then you could probably use some good ole self-discipline. Start by practicing something that will be good for you in the long term, but the practice is a little boring. Say, for instance, dribbling a ball, playing an instrument, learning math. Anything that is boring while practicing. Learn to stay in the boring moment and conduct repetitions. Hell, it could be meditation and focusing on breath for all I care. Any…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:19 PM
4

The more true hardship you go through the less empathy and patience you have for other's hardships. Part of this is because you realize people are bitching about bullshit that's no big deal, and the other part is you realize more how little it matters, in the grand scheme, anyone is having a hard time. There is no way one person can measure how much pain someone else is in, especially with emotional pain. We all know it's real when we feel it, but when someone else is feeling it, we just... don'…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:42 AM
0

Whats his notch count?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:21 PM
2

Most likely she will feel disappointed and wish you would make a move bc she knows she cant make the first move.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:41 AM
1

I would at least read a couple dozen books on finance and money. Then I would look for a job I would really like doing and not care about the pay. Preferably something that would allow me to take a lot of mini retirements and still be able to come back to the job. I wouldnt start my own business either unless you wanted to stick with being an electrician. Read a bunch of blogs from guys who live off of passive income like mr. Money mustache or smartpassiveincome. Those kind of blogs could give y…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:49 PM
2

You're in a tough spot. I've been reading, meditating, lifting, eating better, and gotten better with interacting with people for years and yet I don't feel as though I've improved, and even if I have improved, it hasn't made a material difference in my life. Self-improvement forces you to focus on the end goal, so anything in between feels almost like wasting time if you aren't "improving." You have to learn how to enjoy those activities for their own sake, not because you think they are the en…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:25 AM
1

One of the hardest things to overcome this day and age is receiving dopamine hits in exchange for doing nothing.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:04 AM
3

Guys sometimes just feel like chatting about this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 02:14 AM
2

Its probably nothing more than publicity.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 11:48 AM
2

It is an antifragile mindset so if a black swan event happens it wont fuck them up and they will be able to rebound quickly or grow from the experience. Relationships are fragile and mindset is the antifragile response. DGAF and abundance mentality are the same thing as his glass metaphor.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 12:46 PM
13

They might be testing the waters to see how much hard work you put in. If it looks like hard work most people will pass.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:04 PM
36

People think giving advice is being charitable but it is vanity.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:02 PM
1

When the woman has a low N count.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:43 PM
4

Your remark on Rollo makes me think of Married Man Sex Life and when I discovered his wife was a fat fugly. It just made me lose all interest in his material.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:51 PM
20

Its eugenics man... their history of slavery also meant they were selectively bred and not all got to reproduce or survive. Do pure African men ever strike you as dominant? Its always the post-slave blacks who kill it in sports and not the African countries.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:57 AM
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I used to play a ton of CS and a few other games. I played them too much and they went from being fun to being competitive and felt like work. When I look back on my life, I almost always remember people and activities or places I've been, and never the games I played, no matter how much I enjoyed them. I never have nostalgia for my gaming days, and your online friendships don't benefit you, because how are those guys improving themselves if they are always gaming too? My gaming cpu died a few y…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:34 PM
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I finally got a job that will pay me more than I have ever made (which, frankly, isn't much) and has opportunity for advancement. I have felt for a long time that until I make more money, everything else I'm doing is secondary. When you've been poor for awhile you start to internalize it and I've needed a win, which I finally have. It means I'll be moving and separated from my family for a time, but things aren't progressing for me in my current place. I lost 15 pounds in the past month but now …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:27 PM
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Sounds like you're on the right path and finding out how easy it is, at least in comparison to the old BP ways. When I think back of how BP I used to be I just shake my head in disgust with how many opportunities I threw away. I could of had a very feminine and cool girlfriend but I smothered her in beta-tude and pushed her away within a week. Another chick I found decently attractive, and maybe could have had some fun with, but I was too concerned that I wasn't attracted enough to her, and well…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:20 PM
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I disagreed with most of what I remember. I primarily hated the fact that it read like a long and light weight blog post. Like a weaker post you would find in this blog. My overall impression is that the guy is a scam artist selling weak drivel to teens. It wasnt the only red pill book that came across that way but it was certainly the last I would allow myself to read.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:24 AM
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It was so bad I swore to never again spend a dime on any manosphere book. I felt scammed and ashamed for falling for its recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:51 PM
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The way of men is pure garbage.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:52 PM
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One of the few times I hoped for bullet points and to the point instruction. Sad to see a good topic ruined.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 06:03 PM
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Heartiste was right in that black America is a living example of what white America will become if we stay on this trajectory of AF/BB writ large. Many men who are a catch and good civilization builders are being robbed of their birthright.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:31 PM
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This is why: so long as doing the wrong thing is profitable people will continue to do the wrong thing. Banksters will continue to siphon wealth, politicians will continue to be bought, unproductive immigrants will be championed, etc. People will not rise up until food becomes too expensive. Once it is clear the good life is unattainable for most they will want change but it wont come. Noone has ever revolted when a dictator tightens down only when they ease up and the US left is in its tighteni…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:41 PM
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It took a long time to recover from the Roman collapse. Declines take a while but the fall will suck hard.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:31 PM
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Diff ans but in car sales u would ask if he thinks his wife would say no. If he says no then close him. If he says yes or he has to talk to her ask him if she would say no to the price or the car. If price then start negotiating and have him sign the close on condition of wife agreeing and at least you have a good chance of seeing him again. If car then see if shes close by where he can drive over to her and if not try to close with same condition if he has no other objections than his wife.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 10:54 PM
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The hardest part probably is kids will never have any sympathy for their parents. If they hate him it will be very difficult to reverse that especially if they are young. I dont think there is a winning situation for him so has decided to take it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:57 PM
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On youtube watch How to speak so people listen by Julian Treasure.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 01:07 PM
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Women are fickle. I've had one do this to me before and I never got closure. The Red Pill taught me, years later, I became too beta and had her on a pedestal, and that is why she ditched me. I don't blame her anymore and I've moved on, and although you may not have done anything beta, your LTR most likely grabbed onto another guys branch and let go of yours.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:38 AM
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Depends on what you are negotiating. If it's an expensive item, like a car or a house, then demonstrating you can close or purchase quickly can give you leverage to get a better deal. You have to offer something the seller something of value besides paying the price, especially if you are going to be paying less than normal. Research how long a car or house have been on the market. If something is selling like hotcakes you are most likely not going to negotiate a huge deal for yourself. Read the…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:33 AM
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Mike Cernovich has a few good podcasts on conversations. If I can remember correctly, he had 3 primary points he learned from a top lawyer, which are: "That sounds...(interesting, difficult, unusual, etc)" "That must have been...(hard, easy, scary, etc)" "Tell me more... (about X, of X)" Ask those questions and you'll improve your conversations. If anything, people will think you're a great listener and you won't need to feel like you have to say interesting things.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:26 AM
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You seem to be over-explaining. It sounds like you have no affection or attraction to this girl. You can't find anything obviously wrong with her but in your gut you sense it wouldn't work out. I had a girl like that once. Decently attractive, kept herself dolled up all the time, nothing unpleasant about her, and when I got to know her I wasn't dating but I was damn picky about what I wanted, so I never asked her out (knowing that if I did she would say yes). I don't regret it because I knew in …
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:19 AM
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You could try Obsessed by Grant Cardone.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:04 AM
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Know that you have time. You may feel like you need to chase girls now and sharpen your game. Thats fine but you want to focus on your mission which is career success. That will grow you and set up yourself up for great living in your 30s, the time most people realize they fucked up. A ton of attractive women will always be available to you but it is time to get serious about how you are going to make money. Get financially literate and make at least 30% of your self improvement purely career fo…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 12:02 PM
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I have been going to the gym consistently for a month now and the biggest difference I have seen in myself is my level of energy. I used to constantly focus on how low energy I felt. I was sleepy by midday and thought I needed to diet better, or have time to myself because I'm introverted. Nothing I did made any difference until I started getting exercise 6 days a week. Once I had the exercise down, the energy came back. It turned out I didn't need time to myself, or a better diet, or better sle…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:37 AM
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I do not find these truisms helpful. They are vague and would not do a single thing to help one improve one's thinking. My post is trying to move away from stuff like this.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 11:37 AM
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I second this.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:26 PM
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I didnt figure out that my mom wanted me to be a frumpy incel until my late 20s. Feelsbadman bc you definitely lose something of real value if you dont chase girls as a young guy.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 09:28 PM
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I feel like the older I get the less male role models I have. Any action star was a rolemodel in my youth. Any intellectual in my college days. Now they are self-made businessmen if I have any to think of. Perhaps the last fictional character that almost became a role model was James T. Kirk. I liked the way he led. He almost always got his ass kicked but he was still the undisputed alpha a great model for assertiveness.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 12:12 AM
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I was angry bc i felt mislead and lied to. It is almost like seeing the human side of one of your heroes and finding out he is just as flawed as everyone else. You never really cared about the hypergamous behavior of women you werent attracted to but the ones you are. Once the feelings pass you will feel peace. Suddenly you have closure for every relationship you have ever had or will have. When things make sense and show order in the world over time you will have an easier time accepting the re…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:41 PM
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That is why my thesis stated primarily instead of universally. It is also only applicable in the context of myself although I hoped others may find it useful. You may have studied 48 Laws of Power and it has changed your life but when I read it I felt it was made up of bite sized points with very little connection to each other and historical examples of say Napoleons behavior were useless stories that were out of context.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 06:41 PM
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I def agree. It was my first sales job and I didnt know how to work people for referrals until too late. Def had trouble selling outside of work bc I had a wife and new baby to attend to. Thats cool your place does $250 a referral. Mine only did $100 which probably wasnt enough AND it wasnt cash it was credit toward service.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:06 PM
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To answer some of what you said the dealer does well off the financing and the financial manager makes a killing but the sales guy doesnt see any of that. Oh he may get a little bonus if warranty is sold but its nothing to write home to mama about. The internet changed things so you dont have to be so wary of sales guys anymore. You can easily shop him right from your phone and go and buy down the road for $100 less (this happens a ton). He has a big uphill battle to fight. If you arent complete…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:02 PM
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It depends on used or new. New I wouldnt even care for price discount until you have negotiated free winter tires (if you live North) and tint. Used cars might have 3-5k profit for the dealer or 0-500. You never know but it is worth a shot to bargain a lower number. The magic words are "I will buy it right now if you can do X." Dont open with that of course. But if you get to that point and they still dont lower then you know they wont be making money so you are wasting their time. Of course don…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:50 PM
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Went into car sales a few years back. Read the same guys as you. Practiced closes and everything. I could demo and write up like a boss and knew closes but I still failed and they fired me after a year. The place I was at I could get maybe 1 walkin a day and I would see about 20-30 walkins every month. I averaged 6 sales with that kind of traffic which is normal if anyone here knows about walkins. I knew what I needed was to see more people but nothing I read or asked others about taught me how …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:41 PM
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I think you are right it is a beta trait. Betas need to think twice because they are weak and vulnerable to risk. Alphas regularly take risks because they can handle the consequences. I learned about the dangers of overthinking from Schwartzeneggar's biography Total Recall. I realized he rarely over thought anything and opened himself to new experiences and people with no fear of the outcome. Overthinking leads to no action, and remember, alphas are all about action.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:15 PM
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I have been trying to lucid dream for a year and still cannot do it well. Some dreams are more vivid than others but the whole looking at your hands and having strong intentions isnt working. It is like I have amnesia and forget to try any techniques during sleep.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:08 PM
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The primary thing I learned from that book that I wish I had known earlier is "everyone cares most about themselves." it is a duh kinda thing but the action you want to take is to take advantage of that fact in all of your interactions.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 01:31 PM
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Thank you for that link. Never heard of that site before but glad now that I do. Read this book in a couple of days and it is very well done. I found the wisdom in it to give me many moments of understanding something but not being able to put it into words. The biggest takeaway for me was his more effective way to analyze our values. I love books that do not sugar coat anything and for the first time my eyes were opened to some shitty values I have.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:34 PM
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I dont see anyone mentioning anything about living the full human experience. There are many things you dont just get until you have experienced it for yourself. Marriage mostly, not always, leads to kids. Both aspects of life are radically different from living alone. When I got married and had a kid I noticed my emotional reactions to a lot of movies has changed. It makes me feel like I was a sociopath as a teenager and I think most teens are since most shit doesnt faze them. To fully understa…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:14 PM
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But you should if you prefer civilization over despotism.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:07 PM
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This is a good reminder and thanks for introducing me to Jordan Peterson, looks like an interesting site.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:03 PM
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Is 20 hours scientific? Didnt have time to watch the vid or read his book. I like the 21 days to form a habit because its based off of how long the brain takes to learn a limb is lost.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 01:23 PM
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Advice i would give myself: you are not going to follow through on any good advice so for fucks sake dont get into massive debt.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:28 PM
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You said in a comment you already know some coding languages. Why not bid for projects on Upwork and make money as a freelancer? It would pad your resume and lead you down a better work path than what power washing would do although the sales portion of power washing and keeping your books in order is good learning. Look for a sales job the skills are timeless.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 10:45 PM
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Yep. Whenever I feel down about my intelligence and abilities I recall how my brother who is highly intelligent and taught himself how to code as a kid almost starved to death because of his inability to take action and do anything. He is aspergers but it goes to show mind power alone is not enough to survive and thrive.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:52 AM
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Oh of course. Like for instance I worked my ass off to try to be a successful car salesman but I couldnt produce. At the end of it I know I learned a lot of new skills that will stick with me but I would have rather made a killing selling cars.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:40 PM
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Other than ghettos and slums or depressed rust belt cities Im thinking of the premise location, location, location. If you are a tech guy living in an industrial city you might have a hard time finding work or vice versa. Some people can transcend this but most people either take a ridiculous commute or are forced to move, maybe even cross country or internationally.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:36 PM
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Hmm. Premise is if you work hard enough you can succeed. This is survivorship bias folks. There are most likely plenty of people who have worked their ass off and still cannot succeed, maybe even just because of the city or town they live in. The first part of this post is true though being that life is unfair. Its so unfair you might do everything right and never succeed.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 01:06 PM
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Sidetracked Home Executive
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 10:45 PM
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Great write-up. Believe it or not the best thing I ever read to help me stop procrastinating and become disciplined was a book meant for housewives. It taught me to develop a system for cleaning with daily, weekly, monthly and so on tasks and my house has never been tidier. The habits you build by cleaning up after yourself spill over into other areas of life and now im a lot more productive.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:33 PM
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Literally what I was thinking. I primarily need motivation if I am considering doing something I have never done before.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:25 PM
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Best post I have seen on this board. Cliffs notes is really all you need of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:21 PM
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I interpreted it as asking out girls that are realistically your smv or lower and build your skills instead of going straight for your massive crush and failing so hard you stop altogether.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:18 PM
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Yuuuuge post. From Tony Robbins Money book people who view stress as your body energizing for a new challenge dont end up having stress negatively affect their health. Truly, mind over matter.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:31 PM
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Yuuuuge post. From Tony Robbins Money book people who view stress as your body energizing for a new challenge dont end up having stress negatively affect their health. Truly, mind over matter.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:31 PM
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Measure your activities not your results.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:42 PM
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A lot of books I speed read, but not all depending on hiw important I think the material is. You have a lot more freetime to read than you think if you dont spend much time gaming or on social media or television. The majority of books are shortish, less than 300 pgs and its easy to read two of those a week. I still make efforts to read longer and more difficult books. My goal is always 100 but I dont let that effect what I read instead I just use most of my freetime to read bc I dont have a ton…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 11:50 AM
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For me self esteem is simple. The more experience I have in something the more self esteem I have and vice versa. I sold cars and had high self esteem once I knew what I was doing. Now Im getting into mortgagesnand Im always second guessing myself and feeling inadequate bc my experience is nill. No amount of happy talk will change my anxiety until I am confident I know what im doing.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 12:52 AM
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I have around 400 physical books, half of which ive read and a 1000 on my kindle, read maybe a 4th of those. This year im dedicating my reading to work on my older books. Ive had Churchills history of the english for a decade and I am finally reading it, 2 volumes down 2 to go. It feels good to read stuff ive had for awhile bc you end up getting hopelessly behind, even if you read 80-100 books a year like I do. Sometimes I look at my physical books I havent gotten to yet and feel a little bad, b…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 12:45 AM
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Betas cant provide with steady jobs like they could in the past. They have nothing to offer that separates them from alphas. Similarly women cant offer feminity and homemaker skills. They only offer their holes and expect that to be enough. This is simplified but my perception of whats happening. Economics and incentives play a huge role.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 12:57 PM
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