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The Lord has made it clear that I am to stay at my job until He provides something else, and the job is sucking the life out of me. I’m just hanging on at this point and can’t see a way to really move the needle in this area. I'm heading to a new job in the middle of September. It took 3 weeks between first contact, interviews, to offer. First point is that it doesn't need to take long. But the second point is more relevant to you. It's easy to reach me. My LinkedIn profile is up to date, with m…
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 04:15 AM
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/u/TrenGod37 -- You delete shit to hide your shame because you want to hide how much of a faggot you are. You should just embrace it. You don't have any frame with your boss either.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:23 AM
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Did you know that re-wiring mental processes requires 1) activate engagement and 2) continual effort? What do you think the role of Rule 9 is in this process?
/r/askMRP12/08/21 06:57 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 05:51 PM
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I'm curious how you enforce this boundary? I am in a similar spot and I feel what I provide isn't appreciated and is taken for granted. I make sure other people feel the pain. If they don't want the carrot, they can have the stick. In this case, I remove my effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 03:40 PM
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There's a couple of things that I'm particularly proud of: family work 1. Family They get the life. The opportunities my daughter gets are incredible. I grew up as an only child, single mother from a foreign country. It was hindering in many ways. My daughter's growing up in a whole different world. Loving mom, loving grandma, stupid amounts of presents, lots of opportunities for sports, activities, etc. I went to a play date that some of the parents at her daycare organized - it was incredible.…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 08:06 AM
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You're going to get a rule 9 probably It's a beautiful thing that all the regular posters can see it coming from a mile away. What's even better is that you guys all get why rule 9 is such an important thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 07:19 AM
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Are you sure you're fat in the colloquial sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 07:17 AM
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So why are you here? Unemployed sack of shit Get a job. You know how long it took me to find a job back in 2014 when I finished my PhD? 3 hours. I went to the u-haul that was looking for moonlighters and they were willing to hire me for $12/hr. I turned it down, but it said to me that if I wanted to work, I could do it without any issue. But I guess the difference between me and you, is that I have a PhD and do shit, while you're a worthless sack of shit that sits home, smokes weed, and plays vi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 07:08 AM
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How can anyone get better if the current shit they’re failing at isn’t allowed to be discussed? Yeah. What a great question. How can anyone at OYS get better??? If only there were a few dozen examples of guys doing exactly this, but alas, life is pain.
/r/askMRP12/08/21 06:50 AM
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J/k. Perma ban for no value add.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 08:55 PM
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Rule 9. We should implement a whiny fat fuck rule too. alas.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 08:54 PM
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Also - rule 9 and 3kl bans.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 05:05 PM
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still not feeling attraction from my wife. You're not supposed to feel the attraction from your wife. She has a 10 year history of you being a fucking loser. Instead, you're supposed to feel the attraction from women in general, and that'll change the demeanor with which you engage with your wife. If you have young kids, you see them everyday, so the fact that they're growing fast as hell is lost because you see all of it. For a 3rd party who only sees them occasionally, the changes will be much…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:42 PM
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hit my goal of reaching 185 lbs hitting 185.6 yesterday. From about 15 months ago I gone from 260+ lbs down to 185. Holy shit man. Congratulations!!!! Marriage/sex: I would suggest seeing how you do on the sexual marketplace. Get the validation of the "new" you -- and figure out how much you're willing to but up with bullshit nowadays. I'd bet your entire perspective will change and your subconscious communication will blow the fuck out of your complaining wife. It sounds like you've done the ea…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:38 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:34 PM
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The thing is that there's constantly that "she" part that keeps appearing in my thought process. I am feeling horny. I initiate and get a part of what I want - so there's sex, but with an unwilling partner. It's my fault that I haven't incorporated any kino/buildup during the day. So if I want to have a willing sex, I need to make sure SHE is in the mood - now if that's not about putting the "she" thing on a pedestal, I don't know what that is. You're gonna get rule 10'd here. If she's not a rec…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:32 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:27 PM
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lol. :p
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:26 PM
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Rule 9. Edit: unbanned. i'm on the fence about the interaction with the new boss, but on a re-read it doesn't feel like it's enough for rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:22 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:19 PM
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Trainwreck here. Wife is six months pregnant and we have not been in the best place in the last couple of months. This has culminated in a cold war/silent treatment that was sparked off by a short argument about a barbecue. Cold shoulder for a week, despite some attempts to bridge the gap from me, which was topped off by her cancelling a birthday weekend away. She didn't bother to say anything until I suggested we travel and finally talk about it on the way up. Why are you putting up with shitty…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/21 10:12 PM
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New company actually. Old company's CEO was ousted in a hostile takeover (that occurred over many years). Now the old company is part of a fortune 100 healthcare company.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/21 03:32 AM
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I had a goal of being director level by 40. Got my offer today (1 month past 35). Do I have the skills needed to operate at the Director level? The company obviously thinks so. Me? I have no fucking idea. What does it mean to be a successful at the director at a 300-person company? Fuck if I know. As far as I can tell, and I'll have to get this cleared up, is to set the vision, build the team, and make sure I'm giving enough guidance for them to execute - and not root around in the nitty gritty,…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:08 PM
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That tells me all I need to know about how engaged you are with your wife. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's ...
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 07:39 PM
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I always have to ping /u/rocknrollchuck for this. I swear I'll bookmark that thread some day.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 04:54 PM
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Two in the pink and one in the stink
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 03:18 PM
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I planned a “surprise” vacation this weekend with no kids for me and wife to a beach on a plane. If you're looking to buy sex, let me suggest hookers. They're cheaper and more professional. Kids If you're as trash at being a husband as you at a being a parent, I feel bad for everyone around you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:50 AM
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"You've never done any self improvement this long. What's your end game, are you leaving me?" That's so funny. I love it. Also, rule 9 She's sending me dirty texts trying to get me to come home right now. Not sure the relevance of this, maybe someone has some insight. Congrats. You're some worth putting in an effort to keep around. Be careful because you're playing with dynamite and at risk of blowing shit up. If she cries to bitch tits bob, and he comforts her, I bet you she'll lap up that secu…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:41 AM
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Chess - Two upcoming tournaments, long-term goal of FM title nice. the username makes more sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:35 AM
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"Your bullshit pisses me off, but that's a me problem."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:33 AM
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Are you going to use this to justify cheating? The phrasing is too combative. I'd shut that shit down hard. I'm not a fan of disagreeing or fighting - I find it annoying. But shit, if wife wants to have a go, I guarantee you I'll win just to remind her why it's a shit idea. I'd much rather spend that time and energy being happy and trying to do fun things.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:31 AM
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I liked you better when you were fat hahahahaha. nice. "guess you need to work harder woman." the fear isn't being replaced, the fear is being replaced without warning. it's the uncertainty and edge that sucks. if you can provide some level of certainty, i think you're fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:22 AM
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So Saturday, after I get some work done and errands run, she drops the kids off with my mom and springs an afternoon/evening with me car shopping and then shopping with me mainly for me. I look at what I want to look at. I go buy more clothes for me along with new cologne. We have dinner, we go home and have sex before getting the kids from my mom's house, and she's into all of it. I'm impressed by how you've used "she" statement in your post. This is the first post I've read in 5+ years where t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:15 AM
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This weekend marks the 3rd time I've had a fat husband accuse me of trying to bang his wife. He made a fool of himself publicly yelling about it. Congratulations. Dudes probably recognize that their wives want to fuck you and are projecting. Maybe you should back to wearing hawaiian shirts?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:02 AM
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Nice example of why Rule 9 and being able to focus on your own wants/thoughs/etc. is so important. It's not about you vs. someone else, but that's inherently reactive. You're trying to judge someone else's mindset, which is impossible. Instead, simply set out your plan and figure out where and how you want or need to compromise.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 09:51 AM
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If you have that much time to remember specific exchanges, you're not engaged enough in the conversation. It's not about the words, but the feels. Anyway - Rule 9 ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 09:48 AM
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Rule 9. Post removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 02:40 PM
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Rule 9 and post removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 02:38 PM
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I make 150K a year. I have nearly a half a million in net worth. Have you considered getting some hooker with all that value you have?
/r/askMRP30/07/21 09:34 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 05:58 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 05:57 PM
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Rule 9 - and post removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:30 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:29 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:29 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:27 PM
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Rule 9 and Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:27 PM
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Rule 9 and 3KL's rules. Post also removed for the same reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 04:26 PM
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Rule 9. And you seem like a douche, so you get an extra special ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 05:53 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 02:08 AM
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I know a guy who married the same woman twice because he lost himself the first time, and decided not to lose himself the second time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:38 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:37 AM
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Nah - it's not that it doesn't need to be there. It's more of a question of how do you reframe it so that you're the one leading the decisions and figuring out what you want or don't want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:36 AM
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she's afraid I'll leave her. "I have no plans on leaving. Are you planning to give me a reason to?" You're bordering on rule 9. with that last paragraph. You should figure out how you can make that paragraph about your vision, goals, or leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:30 AM
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Shut the fuck up. If you don't like it, you don't have to read it. In case it wasn't obvious, the above poster has been banned. OYS posts are for you by you. The fact that there are other people who might read or comment doesn't really matter. You'll get the most by focusing on the shit that matters to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:26 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 07:23 AM
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Rule 9. But I'm not banning you for it. What are you willing to tolerate?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/21 07:18 PM
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Have you tried communicating more?
/r/askMRP24/06/21 10:40 PM
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I'm not involved with the askMRP dumpster fire.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 10:39 PM
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I'm on rule 9 duty this week. You guys are doing great - but I'm sure each of you already knew that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 02:42 AM
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I bet OP is overweight and, as a consequence maybe, overbearing. Or does being overbearing lead to being overweight? Edit - OP, this is not the right forum to ask this question. We're not nice people here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:55 PM
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Banned OP. Leaving this up. Been a slow week. This'll give an opportunity to all of the captain save-a-hoe lurkers. Enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:53 PM
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Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 08:44 PM
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This is post hoc venison.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 08:43 PM
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Your problem with vaccinations is 2-fold. You're not playing to win. You're trusted less than some random fuckwads on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 09:21 AM
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Here's some tactical advice. We have a shared calendar. Anything that needs to be blocked out gets put on the shared calendar - somethings are more optional than others (e.g. play dates). If the time isn't blocked out, there's nothing that I need to deal with immediately. "We have nothing planned but I don't want to sit on my fat ass alone." isn't a good enough reason for me not to go do something. Short version is, set the expectations ahead of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:44 PM
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On Sunday I went to work out, after my wife demanded that I not do that. I got series of text messages with things “like not a team player” and “if you don’t want to be here then don’t be,” I was told this was because I spent time with friends, mowed the lawn, and now was going to work out. Your woman is going to act as shitty as you let her act. You may want to figure this bullshit out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:37 PM
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Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:22 PM
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Rule 9 and post removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:16 PM
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I wonder will this lead to a main event? Because, when I imagined it in the past there were many things I thought I would say. Now, there is nothing I want to say. With someone you don't even like? Yikes.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:15 PM
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I have no intentions of trying to fuck her and shitting where I eat. I do however plan on gaming her though, as practice. This is bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:09 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 01:58 PM
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rest of my flair is probably due for an update as well. Don't be a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 07:08 AM
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Wrong. We literally do this every single week.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:28 AM
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This. you're missing the point. someone mentioned stfu up there. gonna let you give it a try instead of deering.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:27 AM
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wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:26 AM
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Rule 9. The core of the dancing monkey attraction program. The what might be the same, the why is completely different.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 07:42 PM
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I'm with you. This "we" shit triggers me so hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 01:33 PM
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the problem is right now you don't have the experience to ask the right questions. trying to figure out what the right questions are is going to be how you deconstruct your mental model. that's something you'll have to struggle with on your own. what is really important to you vs. what do you think is important to you are things that you have parse out on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 09:47 AM
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Trauma Nice. Start with a conclusion and work backwards from it. Changing mental models isn't based on trauma. For you, it might be based on trauma, but that's the road you've decided to choose. It has to do with the 4 stages of competence. Ignorance, idiocy, active, afterthought. You're right though - if this were the first time you've jumped into the sage, this would be a slow episode.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 09:24 AM
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Nope. Lift, stfu, sidebar are for building discipline, not frame. The frame comes from the "why". Rule 9 and Rule 10 are more about why and who gets to judge. If you're the sole arbiter of judgment, then you're the solely responsible for deciding what's ridiculous and what isn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 09:21 AM
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Just to cut short the conversation, it's not really /u/DirtyNuke's fault that you don't follow the brilliance of his threads. There is so much depth and meaning in the few paragraphs he posts every week. It's fascinating to watch. Not everyone is meant to be meaningfully contemplative, I get that. But it's not their fault you don't get it. Same reason we ban a whole bunch of people at MRP -- they're just not a good fit and would dilute the value of this place. It's not their fault they don't get…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:56 AM
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Almost responded, Enjoy your quick break.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:42 AM
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Between this and your comments above, you're clearly delusional. But oh well.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:37 AM
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I think so, but HOA wrote a whole damn set of posts on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:35 AM
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In practice it’s about building a barrier between us. This would go under rule 9. The reason this is rule 9 is because you're being proactively reactive. You have a frame issue. when I’m angry Anger again is a frame issue, because you feel you have no control and so want to lash out. If you had Bill gates money, would you be angry that you're not getting the time of day? Or would you just buy the place and fire everyone?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:33 AM
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I have no idea what the fuck you're on about. Fix your own shit before worrying about "problems of our generation". Actually, you know what? Feel free to fuck off for another 180 days while hanging out with the rest of your generation and your peeps in the shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:29 AM
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Had set back on validation behavior, being too clingy. Again.Was called out on it by wife with massive shit test. There was yelling, snarling, and drooling.Anyway, the point of this is that I experienced something different with my attitude about shit tests and my relationship.In the beginning of my MRP journey, shit tests went from “I hate my wife”, to “trying to not worry about her”.However, now, during this shit test, I felt sorry for her for the first time. I felt sorry for the monster that …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:27 AM
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Done deal.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:27 PM
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5'10", 214 lbs. Lets talk about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:26 PM
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She's fearful-avoidant as fuck You're an asshole /u/hornsofapathy . Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:24 PM
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I see more and more that there is no “being right” with my wife, since I’ll always be the one who’s at fault. omfg you whiny bitch. first question -- according to whom? you are such a bitch. i banned some guy for being a self pitying whiny bitch the other day. no tolerance for this shit. engage your brain, read your own posts, and ask the right questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:22 PM
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And I guess, I’m not alone with this misunderstanding towards this newly evolved digital native generation. As a parent, this is my grand mission to understand and to manage the coexistence of the digital and analog world of our children. Does it make you feel better that there are people just as bad or worse as you?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:19 PM
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This is a great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 06:05 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 06:01 AM
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I keep oscillating between being negative and being positive. I feel so alone. I have no friends. My default thought is that everything is high stakes, that it must be done right. Everything seems overwhelming. I’m always worried about making a mistake. I’m always thinking just keep to yourself, don’t expose any weakness, don’t admit what you want. stfu and lift are the general first steps for a reason. it's simple. it's easy. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:54 AM
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And the truth is I didn't tell them they them they were sexy because I'm scared to. How do you think this impacts your interactions in the subcommunication part of prize vs. prize? Hmm... I wonder.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:50 AM
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I know my numbers are still low but I am very happy with the progress I have made here. Why? There's nothing to be proud of really. Great, you're going to the gym. But the numbers themselves - 16 year old girls pull those numbers. You're a 6'3" grown ass man. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:48 AM
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Rule 9 + 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:44 AM
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The obvious answer is because I don't have options, I still have oneitis, and the other litany of Nice Guy behaviors. But, I suspect it's because I'm just afraid of being rejected again or the fear of all the hard work with boundary enforcement I'll have to do. And you don't think your wife recognizes this? What's the prize exactly? Some shit no one else wants? See also : 30.3% BF (Scale) v. 29.4% (Stongur) Would you want to fuck yourself? The answer damn well better be no. 5'11" 230 is absolute…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:42 AM
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I do not like doing the barbell row. Hated them too. Went with dumbbells instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:39 AM
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We should add time for Rule 10 as well. She mentioned sex controls me, I don't control it, and that I get butthurt when she denies me. Where have I read that before? Definitely need to improve my OI, I know there has been progress but clearly needs more work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:31 AM
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Good luck. I look forward to week 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 11:53 PM
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your why is the most boring platitudes you could see on any motivational poster. i think you'd related to live, love, laugh. Sex as a reason is at least realistic. The crap you posted is pure fluff and non-sense. It's like you read some shit on the internet and thought it'd be good to parrot it. Let me go through this step by step -- Your why: "To ultimately be happy and at peace with myself." Your action: " I cut down from 235 lbs to 190 lb over a 10 months with a combination of OMAD, running, …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 10:24 PM
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Wow. How insightful and meaningful.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 08:55 PM
1

You've done a bunch of things. Do you know why you did them?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 07:27 PM
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It's not the trip, it's the timing of the response. "You get a trip, so I get a trip."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 07:24 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 06:12 PM
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Told my wife about it to give her the heads up, and the response was “oh yeah I should plan a trip too with the girls.” Me: “Sure babe, sounds fun.” This strikes me as off.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 06:12 PM
1

Fuck your pity party. There are kids starving in AFRICA right NOW!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 07:06 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 06:58 AM
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It's actually the delivery along with the intent and the ability to let it lingering. It's similar to when a woman tells you "You're bad."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/21 02:48 PM
2

hmm..... i wonder....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 06:11 PM
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When was the last time you told a woman she was sexy?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 05:35 PM
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As I’ve begin my red pill journey, I’ve started to see the truths everywhere. I was in Costco the other day and noticed a lot of the married women were glued to their phones while their husbands were totally oblivious walking around looking at things. I even saw one of the women with an iPhone using the telegram and not the default iMessage. It could have been nothing and it doesn’t really matter but I could help but think that she was chatting with an AP. Rule 9. This is some weak beta male shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 03:48 PM
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I was tempted to quit OYS again. I asked myself why I have this temptation, and concluded it's my fucking ego. I find myself wanting to embellish, bullshit, and "craft a narrative" to get comments and upvotes, as I have previously done on other attempts. This is old validation-seeking behavior. In response to that, I want to bar myself from OYS. But that's a dumb response because it deprives myself of the benefits I'd get if I just drop the bullshit and stay disciplined with it. Awareness is ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 03:47 PM
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Relationship: Wife is still not attracted to me. We don't really fight anymore though. At least I don't remember the last one. Testing still happens. I just don't really engage. Most initiations are met with that's "disgusting" or "inappropriate". The dirty secret is that you're most attractive to your wife, when you're attractive to other women. You should never be asking whether or not your wife is attracted to you -- your metric should be whether other women find you attractive or not. If you…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 03:38 PM
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I'll be the first to say congratulations. There's one specific reply to your OYS that I remember. It was about spending money on a vacation. I remember your mindset was all messed up because you were worrying about all the wrong things. You had the money, you could afford what you wanted to afford, but for some reason you were struggling against it for some unknown reason. Now it sounds like you've dialed in on what matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 03:26 PM
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Quality FR. The value in this is there's theory that others can go and field test.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/21 01:42 AM
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That's interesting. Maybe you should suggest pegging for your honeymoon too.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 06:42 PM
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That's great. If she were talking about pegging your ass for a while, would you do that for your honeymoon too?
/r/askMRP28/05/21 04:09 PM
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If I were her, I'd probably go fuck the first prince I could find. Driving around in a camper as a honeymoon. lol. And not having the money to do it today. What a joke of a life.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 01:35 AM
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Rule 9. Figure your own bullshit out.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/21 12:46 AM
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Pretty sure you're writing this to try to impress MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/21 05:44 AM
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If you can't figure out basic shit, you can get fucked. That's the philosophy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/21 03:08 PM
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No we won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 07:11 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 07:05 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 07:04 PM
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It's not caring. It's that the person is a waste of time and energy. I focus on the things and people that matter and get rid of things that don't
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/21 06:57 PM
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waaah waaah wahh
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 02:05 PM
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Hopefully this doesn't catch me another ban, I'm trying to keep it "I" as much as I can -7 week dry spell ended last weekend, with wife. She asked me if I'm fucking other women because I've been out so often. I said no. She initiated a hug. Next night I initiated sex, she was into it. are you fucking retarded?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 07:40 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 07:36 AM
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then don't bitch about not having sex. see also: rule 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 10:22 PM
3

Why are all these women rejecting you?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 08:04 AM
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I have a theory that we aren't meant for monogamy. I bet if you fucked a few other women, you'd like your wife more.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 07:12 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 07:05 AM
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I haven’t had sex in 6 months Why haven't you had sex in 6 months?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 06:52 AM
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Want the next stage? Figure out how you can be self amused while adding value to all of your interactions. That 25 year old? How can your presence make her life better?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:27 PM
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Rule 9. I generally don't ban for Rule 9 in the comments, but you're a special case.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:23 PM
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The girl (24 y/o) I have been going on dates with wants me to buy her a ring to show my commitment. She is desperate to get married and overtly expressed that she is reaching the end of her shelf-life. The whole thing is just bizarre: she's never been to my place, I have never been to her, we have never fucked and yet she wants that type of commitment. I am the hapless beta she wants to fulfil her dream of being married at 25. The fuck? Have you made a move?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:22 PM
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you didn't get banned because no one took a look.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:16 PM
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If you read through your post, do you get any sense of what you want? I don't.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 03:45 PM
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You should send your wife to post at MRP. She seems pretty cool. Rule 9 is pretty simple. If you're going to spend all your time trying to read her mind, just send her in and have her post instead. Save us all the trouble. Once a month is more than enough for her with you.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 10:39 AM
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You're dead on on this. Taking a shit. Banning the user. #multitasking
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 06:56 PM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 06:48 AM
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Spam.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/21 03:25 PM
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Overall, I'd rather work on daytime in person cold approaches rather than online dating. I feel like that is a lot scarier and harder, and therefore more effective. Plus the type of women I want are out doing activities, not swiping on Tinder. Focus on yoruself faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 06:03 PM
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is simply "it doesn't matter why. It was unacceptable." According to whom?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/21 08:54 AM
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Her requests starts politely with “please” but I find myself often negotiating through polite but outrageous requests like candy for breakfast. Have you ever asked yourself "Why is candy for breakfast not okay"? Do you have a good answer for that that would make sense to a 4 year old?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 04:20 PM
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She rides me for a few minutes, duty sex, then rolls off, presenting starfish. I drag her to the edge of the bed and go caveman. After I finish cavemanning, I’m tense again for a moment, thinking, “she must be disappointed that I finished so quickly.” Then I get back to my own frame, “I would have liked it to last maybe another minute, tops, but honestly I just wanted to get off, so mission accomplished.” And of course my fears were unfounded anyway—instead of getting irritated, she said, “that …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 03:38 PM
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ctrl-f "she" your last comment. what are you doing to drive the vision? it sounds like you're doing jack shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 11:39 AM
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Reading: The Ethical Slut. ...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 11:21 AM
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I have started a weekly Zoom call with a couple of guys who are the same age who both recently got out of LTRs. The objective has been to set self-improvement goals for the week and hold each other accountable. This may be the gayest thing I've read so far. Why does a zoom call seem like a good idea???
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 11:18 AM
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Sex IV drip every 2-4 months Rule 10. As you're starting out, set your goals so you're setting yourself up to succeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 11:16 AM
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bullshit. you tell yourself you look like a stocky dwarf. everyone else sees a fat midget.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 11:05 AM
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Make enough money where it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 03:59 PM
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Because your insecurity is negatively impacting your team and ultimately yourself. You went out of your way to make one of your team feel shitty for taking PTO that he or she has earned as part of their contract. The way I would've handled it is "Cool. Anything you need me to pay special attention to?" A team member wanted to take a day of pto, I told them to not worry about putting it on the calendar and just take the day because I've seen how hard theyve been working. Their PTO isn't mine to c…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 01:16 PM
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This user has been banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:51 AM
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you should ban him then. the catch all rule is no value added.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:49 AM
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This poster has been banned. Feel free to ask why, but it should be self evident.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:34 AM
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I felt disrespected by my most assertive subordinate. He announced wanting to take a day off the day before the fact, almost like giving me an FYI rather than asking. I'm all for working to live rather than living to work, but the timing was risky. I did a self disclosure that it was making me uneasy and for the future I ask for longer notice in advance. He reassured that his part was done, and agreed to be on call in case of emergency. I felt better, and didn't just keep the resentment bubbling…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:33 AM
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this guy is an example of why you shouldn't respond to anyone before OYS #7.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:32 AM
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Are SMART goals how you try to optimize gwent? Maybe you forgot to log into your alternate account? SMART goals are corporate b.s. - you know that right? The only thing worse than have no metrics is having bad metrics.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:28 AM
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My CFI is a 73 year old pilot at the flying club I've joined. He's still constantly flying around on commercial gigs, but fucking hell if he isn't good at flying, talking about flying, and all the other stuff related to it. He trained in the military 50+ years ago I think. That's my CFI. What are you that passionate about that you could just talk about it for days on end? From your earlier posts, it sounded like you had something.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:03 AM
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My daughter leaned to cry on me so that I could comfort her. I did not know was what going on, but felt deeply bad about the event and some intense feelings of guilt that I would normally have tried to avoid, but given I need to own my shit I sat with those uncomfortable feelings trying to examine just what about the event was so triggering for me. Here's the issue - you got disrespected - and you didn't do anything about it. Did you ask them to point out the guy? Did you have a nice chat with t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 06:51 AM
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I've heard professional photos make a huge difference on apps. $300 for a quality photo shoots for both apps and professional photos?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 06:10 AM
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your username should be "imawhinybitch".
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 06:08 AM
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Great synopsis. You're getting flair for that when I'm off mobile.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 01:44 AM
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This is huge. Congratulations on not sabatoging yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 02:58 PM
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don't worry. love conquers all.
/r/askMRP30/03/21 02:35 PM
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You sound like an indecisive pussy.
/r/askMRP26/03/21 02:16 PM
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I'm married and take the same approach as you. Bring value, and if you don't, I have better things to do. My wife's an adult. I expect her to act like one. I treat her like one. If it costs me money, it costs me money. People, human nature, is incredibly resilient. If we were as soft as modern day has us believe, we'd all have been extinct a long time ago. All the guys who want to see themselves as High Value, why? Why is important that you can label yourself as a HVM? If the answer is for the v…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/21 07:14 PM
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See you next week. Nope. Edit: lucky got here first and without a word.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 12:36 AM
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Rule 9. Also, you're a gigantic pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 12:35 AM
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Interesting “test” which I can’t quite put my finger on. I’ve been told a few times that guys are flirting when I am not around at this resort, like when getting us drinks. I’m not quite sure what exactly the idea is behind these, but I just respond with either a joke like “oh that guy? Yeah he is high as fuck he was flirting with me too.” Or something along the lines of “of course babe, you’re hot, I’d be flirting too.” I know these things can’t necessarily be put into an obvious category but t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 12:11 AM
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I started my new job in a new career yesterday. The money isn't the greatest, but that's temporary as they are putting me in a mentorship program for 3 months. You're putting the cart before the horse. If you're any good, you're increasing your salary by 30-50% every year for the first 4 years till you get to a cap of ~200k depending on how good you are and where you live. She keeps getting more and more slobby too, leaving dirty dishes on the table, leaving her shit laying around, etc. My first…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 01:04 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 01:59 AM
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Leaving this up as a Field Report.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 04:27 PM
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Goodbye.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 09:45 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 03:01 PM
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Fair enough. good on you for taking input, distilling it, and coming to your own decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/21 02:25 PM
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Another dom/sun guy for you /u/hornsofapathy
/r/askMRP13/03/21 04:56 PM
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This is good, because like you, I'll always bet on myself (I think it was you who said this on your YouTube show) That was horns.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 03:32 PM
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Yeah - Canada shut down real hard. I tried to get there because prices were good, but the border situation was a mess - so I axed that. Edit: it looks like Canada is now allowing people to visit again. checked again, nevermind.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 03:06 PM
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If you can't afford a house, you're poor. It's weak who go and point at others and say "those guys are poorer!" I'm interested in people doing better than me. I get no satisfaction from those doing worse.
/r/askMRP12/03/21 02:15 PM
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I want to be the leader of our future family You ever ask yourself why? Why do you want to be the leader? Most people think they want to be management. Most people suck at it. A person at work switched to a product role. Our tech VP asked them "How is your role different now?" The reply was "It's pretty much the same, but with more authority." How do you think the VP thought about that? So - why do you want to be a leader? And the only correct answer is "because my will be in a better position t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 08:40 AM
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she came to bed with nothing on and I initiated again. “You got some this morning, so no!” You really should learn how to stop making shitty mouth noises. There was never a no in there. The right attitude, "Sure thing." There's a classic PUA line -- Her: "I have a boyfriend." You: "I have cat." Her: "What does that have to do with anything?" You: "I thought we were talking about shit that didn't matter."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 08:28 AM
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Your summary hasn't changed, ever. You may want to take a look at that and reconsider if it's still applicable.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 08:00 AM
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This is bullshit. You know it. I know it. We all know it. You're not gonna do shit about cancelling your vacation. You're not gonna do shit about having standards. If you use the word ACTION a few more times, I'm sure you'll continue to feel better about yourself. But the truth, which we all know, is this - you're not gonna do shit that would meaningful change the dynamic - because changing the dynamic is scary. And it's great, because you're at least you're having revelations. And those revelat…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 07:49 AM
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"Then I will have time to do the things I have waited on doing".. WTF why would I wait for that. Things in OYS that should make people stop and go hmm..... Good realization.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 07:42 AM
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Your career section was so interesting. I had to go back and look at your age to figure out where I am comparatively. There's so much organizational complexity happening, and I have no power to really influence it in any short time frame. It's such an interesting space. I wonder what your organizational complexity is like.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 07:40 AM
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Certain select people are a maybe. I know /u/rstonept was going to do a vegas event for his patreon.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 07:33 AM
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Here lies the difference: my work history doesn't support my current resume. I took a sabbatical and buffed up my skills but don't have the experience to prove it. It's an interesting problem that isn't uncommon.. We got 500+ resumes in a week for a data science internship. Most of the applicants haven't done shit - and if they've projects, they been in the box type projects, all pretty boring. You could consider it the equivalent of lifting - they were told the needed to do a project, so they d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/21 11:36 PM
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UK property market is fucked Why is it the property market and not the fact that you're poor?
/r/askMRP11/03/21 11:30 PM
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I'm not sure how to feel about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:50 PM
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She kept saying she just wants me to be her friend. This sounds dangerously close to LJBF. Your interpretation is wrong. What you've done is kind of retarded. You guys have been on a journey. You've diverted course. And now you've throw her overboard and told her "you're in the middle of the water." You've should've had a near term plan ("nothing changes"), a medium term goal ("i want to respect myself first"), and a long term vision ("i'm not sure what the long term vision is yet. you'll be fir…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 07:49 PM
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10 years ago I would have been mad for hours. There's a lot of wisdom in various types of gaming communities. This one sticks out in particular. Similar vein, but hockey related. Which all leads to question of - what is happening that is so damn important that the only reasonable solution is to spend hours stewing and fuming? Does it help you? Does it make the situation better? I'm guessing no. So what are you wasting your mental and emotional energy for? And I love flaming, and I love trolling,…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 10:05 AM
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So what will happen if I am fucking couple of these women? Maybe focus on this after you've done something.. you know, like, go on a date with any 1 woman? Focus on crawling.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:58 AM
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less dread, more frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:55 AM
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I went out on the weekend and got more drunk than I’d like and I flirted with a group of women pretty overtly. This got back to my wife through a friend of a friend. Huh? When I have fun I feel guilty? This does not further my goals. I don’t currently have the value for this to be effective dread. I have an overinflated sense of value because I’m 50lbs down from a year ago. The result of this was lots of solicited talking and temptation to DEER all over the place. My participation was virtually …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:44 AM
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I just want to say that I think you're a swell moderator.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:34 AM
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What I want it is to truly believe that I am the prize, so that whether it’s my ex or some dime coming after me the response is the same “yea, I’m high value, why wouldnt you be attracted to me?” You don't actually want to believe you're the prize. You want validation that your belief is valid. Very different things. See, I'd like to think I'm pretty good at my job. If I applied for a new job and didn't get the offer, would I be less good at my job? Nope. Whatever company just didn't recognize t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:29 AM
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W&S told me to consider taking a different woman on my anniversary trip. Here's a new thought - why don't you just take me on your vacation? I won't put out, probably, but I'll guarantee you'll have a better time. And think for a second what the fuck that says about your upcoming anniversary vacation if what I just said is in fact true. Why in the fuck would you even want to spend the money on something of that quality?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:27 AM
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I am a definitely not an alpha. What's the obsession with labels? Open question to the broader audience, why do you want to be an alpha? The easiest way to be an alpha is to buy a GLO shirt.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:21 AM
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but that's ok because I know they aren't like words from a man. lol. you're a fucking moron. seems like some you go boy ego defense shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:19 AM
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disagree, but whatever.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 09:18 AM
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Not that pricey during covid. You could call it a pandemic discount
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 11:51 PM
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Pay a marriage counselor imo.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 09:07 PM
2

Have you used Scotts? What do you think about them?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 08:29 PM
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How the fuck do you remember that entire conversation? Do you think the words really matter that much?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 08:13 PM
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I run my own with proprietary algorithms. Tips to share? Use flights.google.com/explore. If you have a specific destination, figure out how much you care.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 07:41 PM
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I look for flights that are best value with some type of theme. I'm not trying to go to Dubuque, Iowa, for example (although I might if the points earning is right). FLL was because my daughter had some friends going, so we'd hang out there. Idaho skiing was because flights were a decent chunk less than usual per person - we got tickets for $173/person - when usual spring break prices are closer to $600 ($800 as I just checked). Flights to Central America have been pretty good recently. If Costa…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 05:15 PM
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man - you let some random guy's comment completely change what you were doing. insane.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 03:32 PM
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Two weeks ago, I spent time in Puerto Vallarta. What a great city, absolutely beautiful. Bars, nightclubs, strip club, blow, splurging. It was the first time I'd spent $1,000 in a night. It was fun. I'd do it again. Taking off with my daughter to FLL this friday. I'm looking forward to that. Family trip coming up at the end of this month. Buddy and I cancelled Vegas for April. Looking for a replacement trip. Where to? tbd. The point here is that I'm pretty happy compartmentalizing different part…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 02:52 PM
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I don’t really have frame. Ie I don’t really know where I am going in life Find a Morpheus. You're a 47 year old fucking idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 10:29 AM
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Academics: 3.6/4.0 Why is 4.0 the goal?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 08:47 AM
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Look: I’m the product of a single mother who was (tangentially) responsible for publishing half of the 2nd and 3rd wave feminist writers. I fucking ate lunch with Andrea Dworkin (and others like her). We all know I’m a trainwreck. I don’t think anyone’s saying it doesn’t matter. I seriously hope you're making this up. Otherwise, this gives a whole lot background.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 08:44 AM
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I pissed her off for sure Why do you care? You know what you need? You need a girlfriend, or a friend that you can just go and fuck. I'd guarantee you'd give way less fucks and stop being such an angsty bitch. Got a no and I pushed against it. Got a harder no. I said I have been waiting for this and I don't want to wait any longer. Was told I can just wait or take care of it myself. I, not so boldly as I imagine Horns might have said, but said it nevertheless, "I don't want to do that anymore. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/21 07:14 AM
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You sure this you want to do? Pretend to give advice instead of focusing on your own shit? We see this all the time - guys who make posts not to add value, but for their own ego. I also just noticed your username sucks. Bye.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/21 07:07 AM
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I was asked to wear something to support an organization for my wife, which I responded I would do but would get to pick what she would wear on another night, then STFU. Did you get any agreement on this? I'm guessing not. So you just went ahead and made a covert contract. Good for you, you fucking idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/21 05:21 AM
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there's a lot more to it, but start there imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/21 02:39 AM
2

Congruence is really about making a choice for yourself and not worrying about it. "I'm going to do x." not "I'm going to do x. Unless <ABC> doesn't approve, then I'll consider doing Y. Unless.. <Z>." And after you've done x, and someone brings up "why did you do x?" "Because I wanted to." "Well X was stupid because <reasons>. I can't believe you <judgement>." "Yup. Agree." or "Nope. Disagree."
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/21 08:14 AM
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Frame- I know that there is a lot of me vs her, but this is the frame I’m dealing with now. I feel that she is an unreliable first mate, being inconsistent in her actions. But this is a problem for me because I’m getting shit on from things I have expected her to take care of. That’s ultimately is my fault, I know. Because of this, l continue to find myself sliding back to her frame every time I try to leave it. I’m realizing that she is giving me enough shit to make me seem incompetent, and so …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/21 08:07 AM
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Dude, I do not understand how you can read a little post and know so much about me and this situation. Because it's not that unique or special. I did climb on top of her Do you know who does this? Women. It's a very feminine/stripper-esque move. Did you try to straddle her as well? I'd be creeped out as fuck too. I came over to her and really forced her to bend over and spanked the tar out of her (maybe like 60% force) like 3 or 4 times. I was absolutely FLOORED to witness her being delighted by…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:01 PM
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I'd love to see you come back to OYS and just start posting snark. The last few comments, especially responding to dudes on askMRP, amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:29 AM
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I feel like you should get a ban for bringing those guys over here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:21 AM
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Edit: removed paragraph here ranting about STBX because it was not owning my shit, and contained info about other people that I don't have a right to share What the fuck. I'm extending the ban because 1) it's idiotic you redacted that after being chastised and 2) I didn't get to read that idiotic drivel.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:18 AM
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Maybe this is rule 9 material but I want to put them down in detail. Cute. I don't know why you idiots keep thinking you're somehow special.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:13 AM
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I would advise against living in the past. Lifts/fitness: BP:160x5, SQ:175x5 DL:195x5 OHP:105x5 BR:110x5 Your lifts are enough that you should be able to pick her up. So the test gets started, a request to reword that, a request to apologize for wording it wrong and creating bad feelings, and an explanation that if I really wanted it I would bring it up in a way that meets the standard of compliance. "Okay. Let me be more direct." Because I'm betting at this point your body language isn't right.…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 07:11 AM
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This is your OYS huh. A whole lot of nothing happening.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 06:59 AM
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Adjusting mental models is an incredibility difficult thing. Don't undersell the fact that 1) you're still or 2) that you've made progress. It's very much like trying to watch a glacier. Powerful and environment changing, but hard to see in real time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 02:09 AM
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Here's what you need to figure out. 1. Monthly income. 2. Monthly expenses. You use 1 and 2 to calculate your monthly net (cash flow). Ideally you've broken this out into categories - so you can figure out where you need to adjust. Any interest that you have to deal with is added straight to monthly expenses. So if you have 5,000 credit card debt at 20% APR, that's $100 added directly to expenses every month. I try to keep my yearly net cashflow to be close to 0. This means that my actual spend …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 08:10 PM
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always kept it a secret. I was scared of what my wife would think so I ran cartel level money laundering schemes to hide purchases and shipments. So when I ordered my latest shipment I did a show and tell and described how each one worked. I didn't expect any sort of a positive reaction, and didn't get one; but it was a success because I did something I'm afraid to do, didn't apologize, and I'm not hiding it anymore. Got a disgusted comment that "you waste an incredible amount of money on yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:37 PM
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I journal and self-reflect on the interactions between me and her, b God you're a needy, whiny, crying, little faggot. Rule 9. On the bright side though, you shouldn't be surprised when she finds someone better. Shouldn't be that hard tbh. You literally have nothing redeeming going on right now. The worst part is that you're going to read this, and your first thought is going to be about the chick and relationship instead of about yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:32 PM
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Post is also removed so others don't have to waste their time reading this crap. I'll make you a deal - get your wife to re-write this entire thing for you so we can get a first hand account and I'll put it back up.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:26 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:24 PM
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I think you're doing great. Seems like you're finally taking some steps on the journey instead of waiting for someone to give you a push. Do you really want to handle finances? If so, I can give you the basics that'll get you covered.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:09 PM
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There's a lot of stuff happening here that's pretty by the book Not tolerating bs. Talking - why you shouldn't... [Accusations of affairs 101] [201] DM with questions. The other experience that I've had is my wife had to come to terms with the fact that what she brings isn't and won't be enough. What I like about my wife isn't what I'll like about a 25 year old party girl. What I like about a 25 year old party girl, wouldn't be what I'd want in my day to day. Human nature. Grass is always greene…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 03:57 PM
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Did you ever fuck that HB7 from the gym that arrange a playdate?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 03:28 AM
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This is like saying "Being an adult means having a job." It's the very, very baseline.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/21 06:09 PM
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Get fucked. Read it or don't, christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/21 06:06 PM
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Growing a spine can be done overnight. It's being able to deal with the obvious shitstorm that most guys fail at.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/21 05:53 PM
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It's not that you don't know how to respond about these statements. It's that you don't even know how to think about them.
/r/askMRP27/02/21 05:51 PM
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she loves me, thinks we're perfect, and she doesn't deserve me". I had a stripper that told me my dick was a 10/10. It's pretty good, but trust me, it's not 10/10 good. I'd hope she's be telling you the right things.
/r/askMRP27/02/21 05:07 PM
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Bring a different woman who'll actually appreciate the trip.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 07:04 PM
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"Let's stop this. We're not going to fix the past. If you really want do go down this path, let's do it but nothing good will come of this."
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 04:44 PM
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She'll lay things on pretty thickly when she knows I'm going to initiate that night. The old classic example is honey, I have a headache. She'll start stating how "incredibly tired" she is hours before we go to bed. Her favorite is shark week, buys her a week and a half. You don't see any issues with the entire way you've framed this entire thing? Is cause-effect a difficult concept to grasp? On the plus side she did mention sex in a positive way this week. She mentioned how she likes sex when i…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 11:18 AM
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I always enjoy your posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 11:14 AM
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reason reasons don't really matter. there's a great documentary that goes in depth about this. easy to consume. it's called kung-fu panda.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 11:10 AM
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I suck because living at home in a big place serviced by maids is very conformable and working very flexible hours for the family business is more conformable than working at some retail store again. I would like a tech job again, but I bomb the 2 hour interviews every single time because socially I suck and given enough time I screw myself over. You can only fake a smile and socially game them for so long before the mask slips that you are an anti-social autistic nerd that holes up in their dar…
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 11:07 AM
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Glad your son's doing well! The first night we were there she basically forced a confrontation at the dinner table and wanted her mom to apologize for “allowing those idiot doctors over there to screw her up surgically.” My wife refused – I truly believe she did the best she could under the circumstances of living in a communist country, having a husband who was a severe alcoholic, and paying for everything out of pocket herself. She continued to pick at her and provoke her daily, and on Saturda…
/r/RPChristians26/02/21 11:06 AM
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That’s not me. My bad. See in school, it was sharing. at home, it was bedtime. both of these answers are wrong. you've answered the what. you haven't answered the why. it's like asking new posters to mrp "why are you here?". "my wife won't have sex with me." that's a what, that's not a why. I made her understand that misbehaving in school or at home leads to her tablet and tv privilege being taken away. I know that you're not teaching her what you think you're teaching her. I don't think you've …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/21 10:59 AM
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By design. askMRP is the dumpster fire.
/r/askMRP26/02/21 10:52 AM
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I struggle with this because i tend to ask myself the question of "what did I expect to happen"?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 01:18 AM
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You may want to focus on your own shit a bit more than trying dig into everyone else's shit. It's not that your questions are bad. They're simply misguided. There's a question of are you actually trying to add value, or are you just trying to seem cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:51 AM
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I spend daily time talking with my kids Is that the metric of what it means to be a good father?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:47 AM
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She told me to say please. lol. love it. she rocks. what a flex.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:45 AM
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I don't give a fuck if you're suffering. You can do that on your own time. Lots of pity parties all around reddit for you to join.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:43 AM
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Your solution is actually really easy. No one else matters. Just you. Let me know where to send the consultation bill.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:42 AM
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I could not imagine what kind of tantrum a four year old could have to get suspended from school. Spanking her only made her angrier. I was defeated by a four year old. What exactly do you think you're teaching her? Seems like she's following behavioral models pretty well. Do you have any idea why she had a tantrum? Do you have any goals with your punishments? Does she understand why she's being punished? Weren't you the guy who had shit anger issues w.r.t parenting to start with?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:34 AM
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Learn how to shut the fuck up instead of yapping like a fucking idiot. I'll help.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:30 AM
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crying the next What are you crying for?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 07:25 AM
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She’s not attracted to me- this is correct. If she were attracted, we would fuck. If she was attracted and there was actually a logistical issue, she would say so. I know by her actions that she's not attracted to me, so this isn't mind reading. This is the same as "I don't want to have sex (with you)". Same thing I tell all guys who are hyperfocused. Who else is attracted? Who else would fuck you? She said, rather mournfully, that "you're never nice to me, never spend time with me, and just wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 01:38 PM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts. What I realized is I'm looking for a team member who is well aligned with me - as well as risk tolerance. If I'm taking a 10% risk of my net, I'd want a partner who's willing to do that proportionally as well (with a greater net). That's what I think would provide the sustainability and mitigate failure risk. I'll update if/when there's progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 05:52 PM
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It's a process. You're looking for progress. Hard to make progress if you're walking in circles but trying to convince yourself you're getting somewhere. That's why it's important to pay attention and not bullshit yourself. As you've correctly identified, who you are drives what you do, not the other way around.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 01:47 PM
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Your wife has years of history seeing you be a retard. Gym girl doesn't. Those things add up and matter. Whether you give a fuck or not is up to you. Good for you for enjoying some NRE.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 04:54 AM
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Bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 08:33 PM
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Career beta, nice guy, It shows in how many words you use. It's been an interesting observation. We have some guys who use as few words as needed to get a point across - they expect others to understand. Then there are others that will write entire books around shit that doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 04:58 PM
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I don't think it impacts me in the same way that relationship_advice and deadbedrooms don't impact me. I'm looking for specific people for my team, other people don't matter. Could I invest $100,000 into this if I wanted to? Sure - but I'm not at the point that I want to. Maybe that's naive and sends off the wrong message, we'll have to see. Call it a warm up set. Will it be a challenge to establish rapport and elicit investment with your abundance mindset when so many investors you encounter ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 04:23 PM
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Obviously I still have weak frame Maybe - but you also don't have trust that comes successful leadership. Don't mistake the two.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 04:14 PM
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During sex she told me her pussy was sore from the last time. I guess I pounded her too rough. So I told her to go slowly, but then she moaned and making a rough move herself. I'm confused. She also said she wanted to limit sex to monthly. I told her no deal because I'm horny everyday. I keep on initiating daily. Are you an autist? Do you take things literally? People make all sorts of mouth sounds because they've been conditioned to make them. "Do you know how angry I am at myself?" (Hint: she'…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 03:41 PM
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Met with a potential investor yesterday. It was a learning experience. Positives that came out of this: Thinks the idea is great - believes my thought that we could take on and kill Scott's Cheap Flights. We're building something people don't understand they want yet. Concerns: I'm not fully committed. Differences of opinions in strategy. He thinks we should take competitors on directly and compete on price. I'm looking for someone who's aligned with my worldview. This particular guy wasn't it -…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 03:33 PM
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Is it venison season again?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:57 PM
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You're 18 dumbass. You don't have an LTR. You have a girlfriend. Your trigger is you're 18. Your problem is you're a pretentious douche.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:16 PM
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We're not here to tell people what to do. We're here to tell people what not to do. I suggest you stick to your subreddits.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/21 04:40 PM
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Wanted to also add -- I want to fuck women AND have good female friends. I'm giddy like a little kid about doing this. I started searching for a non-romantic female adventure partner to take on outdoor adventures. I found two single good looking women that are highly interested. One lives close by, the other far away but has money and will travel. The latter had covid already so I feel I can hang out with her safely. She keeps talking about a romantic comedy about doing a romantic trip with a ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/21 05:44 AM
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The TI Counselor wrote a very negative letter about me to the plus I can't believe how rude the interviewers often are Your negativity is toxic and pervasive. All those assholes you meet in the world? That's a you issue. Are you also the type of guy who thinks every other drive on the road is a dick?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 07:28 AM
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Rule 9. The simpler answer might be that your wife is a hoe.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 02:03 PM
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he told me “Daddy, just let me go down the hill by myself.” My daughter said "You can't tell me what to do." I was like "the fuck?..." and responded "Yes I can." Not sure why this reminded me of this, but it did.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 09:23 AM
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Welcome. Hope you stick around a bit. Let's see where in 3-, 6-, and 12- months time. Look back at this post when the time comes.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 09:06 AM
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/u/threekindsoflucky . i know you like things like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:50 PM
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Reality of the situation, imo, is /u/hornsofapathy has oneitis for his wife. That's not a bad thing. But he's fighting not red pill nature, but human nature based on and validated by extensive psychological and sociological experiments. Not much to talk about here. He's good with his life. I'm the asshole outside looking in.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 10:18 PM
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It's pretty straight forward market demand and human psychology. Familiarity breeds complacency. Repeated stimuli become less effective. I bet the first day you walk into a new office you're overwhelmed. By day 7, it feels old hat, until you explore a new unknown corridor.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 07:59 PM
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"Hey, I'm going to make all these self improvements and get really jacked+abs and be more fun and assertive. These guys on Reddit have all done it and now they have like awesome sex lives and their wives are so happy." That seriously sounds like something I would've said to her if it hadn't been clearly outlined here to not talk about this. You did great on not talking. That's a season load of venison. Thanks for not banning me too! I tried hard on writing that all correctly : ) Gotta get to thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:31 PM
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Difficult to avoid mentioning it at all as it's central to my current shortcomings. I understand the rule and appreciate the warning. You're doing a great job pondering and thinking through it right now. When you get to "this sucks and I can't do anything about it" is where I respond "Fair enough. but I can."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:06 PM
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cause you're a stupid tween bitch asking stupid tween bitch questions. and how frequently and often you respond makes it obvious that you're insecure like a tween bitch too. that's why.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 05:13 AM
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Under pressure: I feel a mounting pressure building. Leaving me with 3 options: 2 of which include breaking vows, the other is out of my control. 1) Masturbate (I vowed not to) 2) Find a different hole (I vowed not to) 3) Wait, use current hole if/when it becomes available I’ve waited a long time and I can plow horse a little further, but I’m nearing a breaking point. Not in a I’m going to snap today sort of way. It’s been building for years. I’m approaching an inflexion point; something has to …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:37 AM
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Never once in our almost 20 years together has such a blatent manipulation tactic been tossed at me. You know where the manipulation started? Her pussy is your golden picture frame -- and you're treating it as such. Basic rules: you should be getting chased. Some of y'all try to chase the golden pussy like a greyhound chases a mechanical rabbit.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:29 AM
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That said, you don't want to be that pink haired commander bitch from Star Wars the Last Jedi.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:16 AM
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​I’ve also reluctantly agreed to go to 4 couples counselling sessions "When I say no to couples counseling I feel guilty." Do you know why you don't want to give her info on what you're reading? Or is it just adopting the MRP frame? When pressed hard again on what I was reading I resisted up until tears were about to enter the picture. "I'm not sure yet. I'll let you know as soon as I figure things out. For the moment, it means gym, lifting, and not being a whiny bitch." On the bright side, your…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 04:11 AM
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Action: Keep my focus on me, ask myself "what do I want?", try to give myself validation rather than seeking it from her. Keep trying to stay true to my own view of reality. lol. did you read your preceding section?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 03:56 AM
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god this is idiotic.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 03:52 AM
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so please don´t make a fuss about my choice of expression. Get fucked idiot. Rule 9 ban. It applies to MRP as well. Write what you're going to write and let the rest of world do what it's going to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 01:16 AM
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insurance rates vs. 6 weeks delay. tough choices.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 01:13 AM
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meh. you'll do you. i don't think you'll find satisfaction down this road no matter how hard you try to will it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 01:12 AM
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my wife’s reactions are useful data it's not useful data at all. it's biased, which means it's shit - which means you chuck that shit out because it's a terrible gauge. randomly sampled data in blind experiments are the only data that are generally accepted as valid. I’ve called a couple therapists to try to setup initial consultations 6+ week appointment times for telehealth according to recent data from work. you're better off calling a hooker and talking to her for an hour. same outcome, prob…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 11:44 PM
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Maybe if I saw a juicy steak in a restaurant I'd look at it and marvel at how delicious it might be. But I make steak exactly the way I like, on my grill that's been seasoned perfectly, and that's not boring. It is tasty. This is you bullshitting yourself, imo. But keep telling yourself what you need to. No matter how many times or way you cook potatoes, after a year, it's still a starchy vegetable. On the flip side, there's no reason for her to really give a shit. I bet if you were on the road …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 11:38 PM
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Officially hit my goal of reaching advanced level in all my lifts. How's your form? Nice leadership on the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 11:29 PM
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We're not here to tell people how to live their lives - even if the end result might be predictable.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 09:45 AM
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You don't want him.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:58 PM
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Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:58 PM
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fyi - a whole lot of you are banned for taking a dump on this place by engaging.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:56 PM
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She acted hurt and asked in a low, trembling voice why I couldn’t ever just be nice to her (I had just made dinner for her so this wasn’t exactly accurate). Solid manipulation game by her. Shit deer by you. I generally pressure flip - because I'm not responsible for her appreciating the things I do. Do you want me to be not nice to you? Because I can be. I can be a total asshole if that's the road you want to go down. It's a lack of appreciation and gratitude - most likely in the moment - but it…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 03:15 PM
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Meh. Still no frame. Rule 9 - 30 days for being banned again for the same shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 03:11 PM
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I usually ask if we're going to have a problem with getting X to happen. Haven't had any issues, but I dont have a history of tolerating shitty behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 08:40 PM
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Here's the thought process for /u/good_looking_man and yourself. If I want the door closed, I'll make sure it's closed. Making sure it's closed doesn't necessarily mean that I'm doing it myself, but the door isn't staying open. I give 0 shits who's fault is where and whether I FEEL like I'm being respected or treated fairly.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 05:57 PM
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You're going to need to change your username. On the flip side, why not let my professional success fuel a mentality of me as the prize? It can and should flow both ways. Covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 11:01 AM
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Don't be a parrot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 10:57 AM
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If my wife leaves the door open out of spite, I won't close it for her. If she left it open by accident, that's a different story. This is keeping a scoreboard - and reactive. Dance monkey dance. Look at how many she statements you have in explaining your position. If this were a regular post, you'd be banned for trying to be a super smart mind reader and trying to outgame her by what you think she's thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 06:12 AM
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Rule 9 - longer than normal ban because this shit is egregious.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 08:54 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 08:51 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 11:13 AM
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The answer isn't to go and declare "I shall not be disrespected!" The answer is driven by your internal sense of respect manifested to a easy confused look on your face, "is this happening? really?".
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 07:30 PM
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I'm often asked to help with projects that benefit other people and really do nothing for my advancement; You can't figure out how to market this?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 12:46 PM
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The third however I really fucked up and my old real self came out. Also - rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 12:45 PM
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Had an epic shit tests this past week, one of the worst thrown at me since I started MRP. Just absolute vitriol spewed at me. It took me by surprise and I simply failed it. After months of good sex, hanging out well and generally enjoying my wife’s company, I got shit thrown at me about how bad I am at communicating about the kids, that I can’t just make decisions by myself, that we are an equal partnership, that there are no subordinates in the relationship, and that if I can’t communicate well…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 12:31 PM
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My username is snark. What's yours? Doesn't sound like snark to me, which means I'll most likely tell you to fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 12:19 PM
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maybe she realized you were short
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 11:59 AM
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Later that evening I got a DM from her on FB messenger. We talked about a lot of things related to the office, but then all of a sudden the topics became more personal about her marriage situation. At the end of the day, I was able to trigger a little desire from a pretty woman who was 10 years younger than me just by being a little more outgoing. If I can do this once, then I can do it again and again. Welcome to abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 05:59 PM
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my kids to not fail, but son has all F and one D+ You fucking suck. It's one thing for you to be absolute shit at life. It's a whole different thing for your kids to suck at life. Your son's gonna be a dropout and your daughter a slut. Congratulations - your leadership is going to set them up for that type of life. Let me give you an example. Both wife and I work 50+ hours per week. Dead bedroom w/ sex perhaps 3x per year. Caught wife in physical affair w/ 60yo beta coworker. If the dude your wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 02:52 PM
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Rule 13 - You had sex. Well done! I know your proud but keep the fucking details to yourself. Nice double entendre.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 02:39 PM
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She has responded well some days, and increased stiffness other days. I’m sure I’m still in her ass at times. On that note, babysitter is on weekly, and first week out this week will be date night. Really because wife wanted to go out with me. We haven’t don’t dates night until I started leading these past 2 months, and she likes them. I made all the plans, but also told her that there will be days that I’ll be out by myself and she can do whatever. Rule 9. I also didn't read the rest of it beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 09:32 AM
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I was easily able to convince about 5 of my friends to join me for 2 months on "the cleanse." Why? I made some moves to try to arrange a new years kiss and came up short, which is fine. Huh? You're a clever little schemer aren't ya I want someone more in line with what I'm worth. You're worth exactly what you're getting. Avoid the delusion incel mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 09:29 AM
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If I know a cheat meal is coming, I will plan for it so that I stay below my TDEE at a minimum. I am absolutely through fucking around with this. Fuck you and your lack of discipline. Feel free set yourself up to fail as much as you want, just take the time to decide that wasting mrp reader time is how you want to do it. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 09:26 AM
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Career is going well. Just negotiated a bonus and additional RSUs. Typical BetaBux stuff. What a shit attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 09:24 AM
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Nice work on the holiday fuck up. With covid, shit goes wrong. As you may have seen on the livestream, my family's flight got hella messed up - and I thought we had our bases covered too.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 11:09 PM
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apologize bitch
/r/askMRP05/01/21 04:08 AM
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How the hell are you 5'7", 151 pounds, and 26% body fat?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 10:02 PM
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use common units next time. unless you're in the UK, then it's on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 09:45 PM
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It's less STFU and more focus on things that you can control and influence in a situation that isn't to your satisfaction. There's no real reason to stew on all the reasons that you're in a puddle of shit other than because you like the smell of it and love wallowing. Accepting that you're in a pile of shit, what now? Is it to drag someone else in? Is it to get yourself out? Is it to find someway to wash up? Do you keep the clothes you have or do you just get new ones? Those are all things you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 06:48 PM
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Caught wife in physical affair at late 50s beta-male's house lol. you also talk too damn much.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:47 AM
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I just think being married will slow me down from experiences I could be having (travel related) while continuing to work on myself. You have so many limiting beliefs it's crazy. Why does being married stop you from traveling solo? Is it because you're either too stupid or too lazy to figure out how to make it happen? Or is it because you're too much of a pussy to actually do it? Either way, the issue isn't being able to travel solo while married. Prior statement is applicable broadly.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:35 AM
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BANNED: Back from my lengthy ban. I got a 14-day ban, so I argued about it like a dumbshit. Ended up with over six weeks in purgatory. Missed you fuckers, oftentimes I feel like you guys are the only people on earth who can relate to the shit I’m wading thru. Hopefully you learned the really important lesson buried in here. Testing the market to see where I stand? Certainly. Your interactions will be a fuckton better if you recognize that you have the power in you having sex. What you've done is…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:21 AM
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user reports: 1: It's promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability Whoever made this report, feel free to speak up.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:12 AM
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and in general, yeah
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:11 AM
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my highest weight in about 5 years which you didn't even list. guys like you come in here and want to act like they're clever - so they only put the stats they're not totally ashamed of and can lie about- as if we can't see through the bullshit. guys like you try to do the same shit with their wives, acting like you're soooo sneaky and clever. it's transparent as fuck. we're not idiots.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:11 AM
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I get fake it till you make it but it seems like a very different thing to understand a concept intellectually and to feel or know its truth. Fine. Use a different model than - try four stages of competence instead. Same damn thing. My wife doesn’t listen to me. I need to stop blaming her for being the way she is and continue progressing myself to the point where maybe I have something to say. I will say that being interrupted constantly when I’m trying to make a point is extremely annoying. I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:58 AM
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flair has to be earned.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:52 AM
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/u/good_looking_man is 47. draw your own conclusions. i bet you're way fucking fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:44 AM
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Edits to avoid rule 9, u/alohamaui808 I was going to say good on job on the focus on "I" statements and personal focus. I hope you get to the point where that's where you're actually at mentally instead of having to bullshit it. Given circumstances that was as far as I was going that night. You'll fuck the fatty but not the girl you actually like? Doesn't make sense to me. not going to let myself get too comfortable Like I mentioned above, you're not anywhere close enough on the mental models si…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:38 AM
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I know I’m not in the best shape compared to a lot of guys here, but I’m damn sure proud of the progress I made in 2020. Idk why you're comparing yourself to what you think other dudes here look like. You physique is great. Start hammering your mental models.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:35 AM
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Read r/financialindependence instead. OP has been perm banned for breaking Rule 12 - Shitty Advice. I've given him the easy out of demonstrating that /r/financialindependence has actually led him to getting a decent level of wealth. I doubt this will happen because the r/financialadvice mental models are terrible - and don't actually lead to success, hence the ban in the first place. The lesson here is don't take financial advice from people who haven't achieved significantly more than you have.…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:28 AM
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Pretty obvious you're a useless retard. Not surprising you act like a bitch. Learn to google idiot.
/r/askMRP30/12/20 02:18 AM
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I'd rather get banned for typing out faggot than trying to skirt around language and thought policing. Also, Congratulations.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 02:13 AM
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The nirvana has always been in understanding the purpose of the journey. Metaphorically and literally. I say this doing 110+ mph on the Portuguese A1 today. It's a beautiful drive and freeing feeling when the roads are smooth.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 03:06 PM
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Quality people don't magically get let go.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 08:59 AM
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how many women have you fucked since then? and why is that number still 0?
/r/askMRP28/12/20 12:10 AM
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He texted me saying that my girlfriend was sitting on the lap of a guy there and even made out with her a bit. But doesn't take a photo? I don't know about you, but if I was going to snitch, I'd take a photo.
/r/askMRP28/12/20 12:04 AM
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this was hella boring. i stopped reading you. i understand why therapists charge $150+/hour now.
/r/askMRP27/12/20 02:34 AM
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Rule 9. 60 days this time. Post removed
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 02:06 AM
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Don’t teach them if you don’t have teaching experience. Get the basic lessons instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 08:59 PM
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You could've made I statements. She stopped nagging could've been more "I stopped tolerating nagging and other shitty behavior" if it's true. Instead of taking any responsibility for simply expecting better, you write this as if this shit happens magically. Post removed and user banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 06:13 PM
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Hmmmm.. I disagree we're lacking. Goodbye.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 12:34 AM
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She statements .. common, do better. You fuck it up again, and it's 45+ days. You can post to TRP if you want to write a ton of she statements. Lead bitch lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 08:44 AM
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questions belong at /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 12:58 AM
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Those are nice. Too bad they're Nikon!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 08:05 PM
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I am at the point now where I can pass shit test situationally. But the long drawn out shit test of “I know who you really are, your a little boy pretending to be a man”....That shit test I am just starting to crack. Yes, I still think I deserve validation, that shit needs to end. I am still in the dancing monkey phase, but this shit needs to end too, because I am better than this. This section reeks. Will have to draw attention to on Sunday.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 12:46 PM
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feel free to come back when you've reached the level of confidence you're happy with.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 01:57 AM
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so?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 01:51 AM
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I dug out all of my old camera gear What kind of glass do you have?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 01:49 AM
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This realization of lack of frame has carried over to other areas. I began asking myself, “Who am I doing this for?” I lifted because I was supposed to. I STFU because I was supposed to. I tried to lose weight because I was supposed to. I sidebar because I was supposed to. Why/how would each of these activities look and feel differently if I did them only for me? Caveat- I do think to start with, I needed to what I was told to do. Action can precede knowledge and understanding when taking the co…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 07:38 PM
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Dirty secret : the payment processor doesn't work wheb you put in a fake name. 🤫
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 04:26 PM
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When I sign up I feel guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 08:12 AM
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Nice. Expect a message sometime on Sunday night.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 08:11 AM
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Having jackknives on the livestream was fun. If you want to come on the livestream and review your OYS in person, let me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 12:42 AM
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do you also enjoy orgasms? Gotta contextualize. Do you enjoy orgasm from boring duty sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 10:25 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 05:24 PM
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Ctrl-f + "she". Your worldview is still lacking.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 05:10 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/20 03:59 AM
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Join the MRP discord, you can see the thread in #moderators-only.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 02:26 AM
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p.s. I think I have a case of the covids. Don't die of covid, you'll prove the commies right.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 01:23 AM
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/u/Blarg_Risen - you should post your comments in this thread so we can have the dialogue here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 01:19 AM
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Are you taking about options? If so, risk manage the hell out of it. Losing money is a large probability. Lots of stories of people getting fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 10:16 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I'll make a note of it and see what I can do. That's where we started, but then I thought themes might be better. Given your feedback I'll figure out how to do both.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 06:06 PM
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Good on you for signing up. It's always nice to have the option to focus on people who want direct advice. Like HoA said on the stream, sometimes I like that I'm speaking directly to somebody. There's no reason to throw money at the stream. I showed some guys in chat my Roth IRA gains this year. I've posted about $TSLA gains on Twitter - and the fact that I crossed 1MM in assets earlier this year. If you really want to fine, but know the money isn't a blip on my radar. I appreciate the sentiment…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 08:57 AM
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My bad. You're not transparent at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 04:46 PM
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I am impressed by your solid response. The way you took a caustic response, parsed for what value existed, and responded accordingly was deft. What I Do care about is that, in 2020, my financial situation is green. 6 years ago it wasn't. This is what matters - or should matter. And it highlights something I saw in your OYS. You led-in with income (as a way to give external validation), but it's a contrast with the rest of your post where it's full of negative self talk. I'd imagine you're not ve…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 04:41 PM
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Relationship: Can fuck when I want 95% of the time. LTR 3 years, Engaged lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 09:20 AM
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also pay for some conversation lessons with some hot latino girl online You fucking retards are so damn transparent. Why don't you go talk to some senior citizens instead? If you can't game 60 year old ladies, you can't game 20 year old ladies.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 09:16 AM
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I have a fantastic VP level sales job with total income at $250k+ Why is this the lead? Is it because you feel validated by it? Does this make you feel good about yourself? It's a quantifiable metric that puts you in the top 3% of people in the US? What if I told you that I'm 20 years younger, at $200k in a Midwestern city? Where do you think I'll be when I'm your age? Would you still be proud of that $250k income? Weak men have this tendency where they try to compare themselves to the people be…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 09:13 AM
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It’s all my responsibility to do fun stuff but it’s complicated with 3 kids, You're a fucking idiot. How about you do things you enjoy and then invite people along? Instead, you want to try to act like a fucking mind reader. she asked if I wanted to, but there wasn’t any physical reply at all. I still said let’s do it, and very passively she laid next to me, and then started talking about the kids as my hands were in her pants. I sat back a bit and chatted too, which was initially the right thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:47 AM
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The message here seems to be if you lift and aren't so ugly, the confidence will come. Nope. No idea where you read this. The message is if you can build muscles, you can build discipline. If you can't build basic discipline, you're already fucked so get lost. Nothing implies that going to the gym is going to do shit other than to cover the bare minimum.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:45 AM
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I allowed myself to get sucked into a few anxiety-ridden meltdowns over whatever random issue she has that day. If I took a giant shit in my hand, put it in your hand, and said "Oh man.. we've got a massive problem on our hands." What would your response to me be?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:43 AM
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My main issue this week was realizing I get hurt by things she does and then I react. I Rule 10.,
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:41 AM
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Also adding some time for rule 10. OTOH her having rejected my last two initiations is no accident. You've got no other options motherfucker and that's the reality you're living. Get fucked. Seriously. If you get fucked by someone who isn't your fat fuck unattractive wife, send a message to modmail.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:39 AM
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I was being clear, assertive, and drawing a boundary. I’ve been at this for 20 months and nothing has changed. Jokes. Feel bad for your wife. Send her to MRP. I'm not sure what you think a boundary is, but you should look up the definition because you either don't understand the word, or you're a complete fucking moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:37 AM
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*FIRE: Goal is $3,000,000. Net Worth: -180,000 Net wealth has improved by $20,000 since March 2020 Nice! You've made 0.6% of your goal in 9 months. At this rate, you'll get there in 150 years! Congratulations!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:25 AM
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I next need to start up home work outs again Try "I started home work outs again." next week after you've decided to fuck around doing nothing about it this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 08:24 AM
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On my last OYS the mods called me out for this wishy washy ness on this topic. I made the decision that I want to fuck my wife. I initiated 34 times in the past few weeks. I was rejected 33 times and responded with zero butthurt. Wow. You sure showed that mod that you aren't a retard didn't ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 07:01 AM
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If you're not on the signup page, you don't actually count. The bar's pretty low, but following basic directions is a pre-req for the 101.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/20 03:20 AM
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Push for day 2?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 01:11 AM
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who knows.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 05:19 AM
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some chick spamming thinking her opinion matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:02 AM
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lmao. solipsism.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 02:50 AM
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Okay - but I banned OP
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/20 05:51 AM
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I'm sorry you're such a helpless retard. You're just gonna have to take your ass fucking with a smile I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 09:46 PM
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Do you feel accomplished when the odo hits 100,000 too?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 09:37 PM
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make sure my kids have a leg up when they start their own lives. This isn't because of a pool of money you've set aside. Sure that'll be nice, but this will be because of the opportunities and experience they've had growing up. Camps, activities, ventures, etc. I met a guy in Sydney who paid off his son's $500k house (son had a young family). I asked him why he did that - and his answer struck me as incredibly insightful. "He's my only son. The money will go to him anyway. But it makes a huge im…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 04:21 PM
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From what you wrote, why not give it a go? If you think you bring different is going to be a game changer, and you want it, why not?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 09:39 PM
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Most people put off travel until retirement because they can't swing it currently - because of their job, money, or both. I bet you've got the means to do it all. If you can have your cake and eat it to, why retire early if you're already doing the shit you want to do? Just my 0.02 and something to think about. My daughter's school impacts family travel more than anything else. Although that's just been shuttered. I say this as someone who just flew to Kansas City city today with a 5 year old in…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 09:28 PM
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Lack of abundance oozed through your behaviors. Results as expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 04:16 PM
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Questions are questions. They're not good or bad. It's about how you answer them - and how much you obscure yourself from the truth of the answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:49 AM
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Your posts are sad. Are you looking for a reason to ditch the wife? Let me break it to you straight - you don't need to have a reason. It's not about her, it's about you. You're lording whatever admission she makes or doesn't make over her head, thinking it empowers you. It doesn't help. And it doesn't solve. You make the choice to get over it, or you don't. But you getting over it or not has absolutely nothing to do with your wife. Trying to act as if it were her looking to you for redemption i…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:37 AM
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I initiated 3 times and was met with a hard no each time. I handled the first two no’s well (abundance helped here), but the third one got to me a bit Let me guess, you aren't currently fucking the other girl and your wife is back to being the single source of pussy. It was a cute costume.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:27 AM
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Listen, if you're going to get fucked as badly as you say you are in divorce., take me up on my offer of personal consulting at $10,000 / month. There are 2 benefits to this: 1) you reduce the amount of capital you have to get fucked by, and 2) I will tell you exactly how you should live your life. Because that's what you're asking for right now isn't it? You're asking us how you should live your life. And if I'm going to take on that level of responsibility, I may as well get paid for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:18 AM
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But I'm also not. Nothing like I was a decade or a year or even a month ago. If anything, the biggest shit I need to own is how unbearably perfectionistic I've been toward myself, always looking at what I have left to do, never focusing on what I've already done. You must love the "What is your biggest weakness?" question.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:09 AM
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No woman's ever been like "that guy has 2% too much belly fat" so I'm not going to fuck him. Just more reasons for bitch ass men to do bitch ass men things.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:06 AM
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Over the past week or 2 while we’ve had sex, I often hear her asking me “Am I beautiful enough for you?”. This is noteworthy because this is what a woman says to a guy when they think he’s a higher SMV than they are. It made me stop and think how far I’ve come over the past 8 or 9 months. Over the past year I’ve lost almost 30 lbs of fat, gained around 18-20 lbs of muscle, and regrew much of my hair by taking finasteride. When I look at holiday pictures from last year, it’s like I’m looking at a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 08:03 AM
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Why do you let her get away with a shitty behavior?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 07:59 AM
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You're 5'11, 220 pounds. Look in the mirror. Would you want to fuck yourself? Shit, I bet you're so fat that only you have sex is if she's on top. . I certainly wouldn't fuck me At least you recognize it. On the flip side, there was a dude who was 240 fucking a 23 year old. So beyond the fact that you're a tub of lard, your personality can't be all that good either.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 07:53 AM
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On the recent livestream, I mentioned it's important to celebrate your wins. I'm going to caveat that by saying if you're going to share your wins, make sure they're thing that are actually worth celebrating publicly. If you're celebrating things that you should've been doing anyway (e.g. getting a job that lets you pay rent), you won't be doing yourself favors. Here are some of my recent highlights [note the use of past tense and lack of future tense]: I committed an initial $4,000 on private p…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 07:43 AM
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longer-term financial goals [...] I earn in the high 100s and my wife earns a third of what I earn in a city with a pretty low cost of living. I got a nice raise last year and expect a much smaller one this year due to covid’s effect on the overall business. Job security is quite good. 401k maxed, mortgage (just refinanced at 2.875% last month) and 2 car payments are the only debts. 3-year plan is to pay off the cars. 5-7 year plan is to buy a lake house. This could be complicated if another kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 07:13 AM
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Why do you think you find enjoyment in it?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 06:43 AM
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Having hit triple digits on squats makes me feel accomplished. Why? Because you can now do what the 90 pound 13 year olds at my gym can do? Are you proud that you can wipe your ass after you shit too?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 03:10 AM
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Ex told me what a mistake she made, wants to try again etc. [...] I’m not going to get back with her but I struggle to move on to the degree I want. Do you enjoy digging through the garbage? Do you like the smell of rot? If so, you should give this a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 11:29 PM
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He chose to fuck off, unsurprisingly.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 07:48 PM
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Given that posts expire, you might want to start a wiki page.
/r/askMRP25/11/20 04:09 PM
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Removed. Post to OYS or askMRP. You won't get any traction if it's under a throwaway again though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 10:45 AM
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Assuming this is all real, where's the MRP cut asshole? Good on you. The effort, courage, and benefits is all yours. I'm just here to laugh at retards while they fail over and over again.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 07:50 PM
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I had to leave the house to avoid showing butthurt on Friday morning, to which I lied and said no, If your wife isn't a social retard, which she isn't. You were already communicating both of those things. You think she just magically asked out of the blue for no reason? So now, not only are you an unattractive retard, but you are someone who shouldn't be trusted either. Congratulations! Back then I worked retail (with my now-wife) and hit on and was hit on all the time Besides the fact that she …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 03:35 PM
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Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/20 08:50 PM
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Watch /u/rstonept 's latest video on youtube.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 11:07 PM
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Because they're trying to measure if they're making progress and trying to feed the ego. But more importantly, they're not banging 23 year olds on the side.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 08:56 AM
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I guess subtly telling you to cut it out didn't work.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 01:48 AM
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Your kink is being a voyeur on every else's posts while your shit stinks. Consider this your 1 warning that you need to stop that shit and focus on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 01:36 AM
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I mistook me doing chores as caring for her. But I was wrong. She interpreted it as me not being able to know what to do, which is actually correct: I didn't. Now I know that to care for her, you have to care for her. That is, her physical, spiritual, and mental health. You need to provide comfort: agree and amplify her feels dumps, impromptu foot massages, back massages, warm cups of coffee/tea, bring her favorite deserts or breakfast, etc. You need to treat her like you treat your kids: praise…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 01:31 AM
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Knowledge is power. Now that you know you have an issue, realize you're smart enough and Machiavellian enough to use your disorder to your advantage.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 06:18 PM
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I've always felt you had a wisdom and thoroughness to your posts that I appreciated. If you're ever open to jumping on the livestream, I'd love to have you.
/r/askMRP18/11/20 06:51 AM
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Whenever I get a reply from a more experienced member who advises me to go against my current belief, I spend much more of my time trying to figure out why I'M right and not why THEY'RE right. "There's a part of the equation you omitted to consider!" That's my mistake #3. Great insight that you've succinctly made. Here's another example of a guy doing exactly what you've said.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 06:19 AM
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I didn't realize you were 60+. Massive respect to you.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 09:13 PM
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You reflected some - so I'll give you the answer. The question is, what do I have to lose by doing this? You would be going out of your way to demonstrate how unattractive of a person you are. Attractive men don't clutch onto fake boundaries from months in the past and expect it to have any bearing on the present. If it's a boundary, you deal with it immediately. If you're not dealing with it immediately, it's not a boundary and all you're doing is posturing - which is incredibly transparent. Wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 03:11 PM
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The question is, what do I have to lose by doing this? You seem pretty intent on doing this. If you can't figure this out, I guess you'll have to experience it. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:50 PM
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A part of me thinks its weak to just tuck it under and put my head in the sand. I have evidence that a boundary was crossed. For me, I need to give her a clear warning shot on what to expect if she ever decides to cross it again. Wait... so a boundary was crossed 9 month and your response is to "talk about it" now, in the present tense. Hate to break it to you, that's not a boundary, that's a man child being butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:39 PM
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Learn to read for yourself you useless idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:23 PM
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Do you? Because you keep writing the same wishy washy crap. Make your choice and act on it. Pretty sure my 5 year old is more decisive than you. I can't imagine having to go through life dealing with your indecisive b.s. every single day for years at a time. I feel bad for your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:18 PM
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At some point in time, I need to let her know that I know. Why? What do you gain by opening your fat fucking mouth? So you can be all like "Oh look at me mommy! I fucking told you you dumb bitch! Should've respected me more back then when I was a fat piece of shit huh!"
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:13 PM
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Just to clarify - do you want to fuck your wife or no? I couldn't tell from your mess of a paragraph. It's also pretty easy to tell that you're a passive aggressive whiny piece of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:10 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. Most of the guys and material I read recommends to “stay away from women at the wall”, “don’t get involved with post wall women”, or “the woman is past the sell-by date by 30” - etc. You're a 38 year old letting some 18 year old virgins tell you how to live your life. The fuck is wrong with you.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 12:02 PM
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Focus on me. You failed this spectacularly. I wasted 3 minutes of my life that I'll never get back about your horseshit situation. Let me help you - if you want to shorten your duration, come back and have your wife write about her affair instead of all the bullshit you're suspecting and sleuthing over. Lets just get it from the horse's mouth.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 11:55 AM
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Married Red Pill (MRP) is a discussion for married men or men in long term relationships that want to adhere to red pill philosophy and methodology while remaining in that relationship. You're talking about the subreddit description. What you've chosen to focus on and emphasize speak volumes about your mindset. Good luck. I'm not sure you're going to last very long here. See also, Bet you won't though. Because I bet you're a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 11:50 AM
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I thought the aim of MRP is to have a healthy relationship, as opposed to a BP relationship. Where'd you get that impression?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:50 AM
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when my wife is upset with me (regular complaints being that I am cold, secretive and don’t communicate) is that a sign that I am doing it right or doing it wrong? Do you care? What do you think? Or said another way - who the fuck does that bitch think she is that she gets to cast judgment on your shit? Stupid cunt can go think whatever the fuck she wants and fuck herself. Next time she's casting erroneous dispersions, try dropping a "Go fuck yourself you dumb bitch." Bet you won't though. Becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:34 AM
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For the dense, you're only a real many if you hunt with crossbows.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 07:35 PM
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Of course people are going to judge you. But it's on you to care about being judged.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/20 04:08 AM
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single mom who is also 24 for the past two months. Well i recently discovered that for the past 3 years she has been a carousel rider. this is a massive shocker. i'm stunned. i can't believe this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 11:17 PM
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I am 24 and i've been having sex with a single mom who is also 24 for the past two months. Well i recently discovered that for the past 3 years she has been a carousel rider. I did not know that and just respected her decision not wanting to suck my dick. We live in two different cities. She visits me over weekends and we just have sex almost the whole time. The type of sex we have is more like making love. It gets rough for a while but mainly because she struggles to hide the slut inside her. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 11:15 PM
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Overriding this ... I want this to develop.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 11:14 PM
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Go to r/marriedredpill and post your OYS today! Do the work. You're a fucking asshole. That's 2 more clicks that us mods have to make to ban this guy. edit: nvm, i rescind. he came and went.
/r/askMRP11/11/20 04:26 PM
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2nd.md
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 04:18 AM
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Oh yeah? So why didn't you deal with it?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 04:10 AM
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Go fuck the 23 year old. Christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 10:52 PM
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Even after getting cheated on, about to throw away millions (why not just burn it or gamble it away), and all the other shit -- the person you focus on isn't even yourself. You suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:59 PM
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Let's revisit this alpha widowing thing in 2 years.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 04:10 AM
2

Do you often like posing in front of guys?
/r/askMRP09/11/20 03:26 PM
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I mean - if you want to see his ass, you probably will.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 05:03 PM
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Don't give this post gold. If you want to show appreciation to /u/RStonePT, go to his patreon.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 03:03 PM
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Here's your next article - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/51pfvj/talking_why_you_shouldnt_do_it_and_why_you/
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 02:51 PM
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It's a great question. New posters to OYS will generally be of lower quality. It usually takes around 7-9 OYS posts for something to click. All OYS is is a forum. It's for you to post about the things that matter to you. Where guys fuck up is they'll usually post about other people. Does the MRP community prefer that members like myself who are short on reading/lifting post questions directly to r/askMRP instead? Can't give you a direct answer, but consensus is that askMRP is a dumpster fire of …
/r/askMRP03/11/20 03:29 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/20 03:10 AM
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Sign up link is in the body of this post. It's there for you to use to volunteer yourself or highlight someone else. When you don't, I just sign up people I think are interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 06:03 AM
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In what world do you live in where you will see a 50% raise in salary every three years? This is why your advice is basic. If you're at $50,000/year and you can't pull off a 50% increases every 3 years for a 10 year span by increasing your skillset, I'm not sure what to tell you. With the right skillsets, this is very doable because 50k per year implies almost very little market demand skills. Combine skills + experience and execution, and the path isn't unreasonable. It might be unreasonable to…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 08:38 PM
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You're not getting to $3mm in savings on 50k a year bro. You're not getting 7% on that 3mm per year bro. If you're at 50k a year, and you're thinking of stashing 10k into a 401k instead of on your ceiling, I don't know what to tell you other than you're doing it wrong. There's a rule on giving shit advice. The rule is don't. Edit: Expanding on this point Compound interest is the most powerful thing you can leverage. Compound interest only matters when the amount of money to compound matters. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 05:53 PM
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I hate this type of financial advice. This is the blue pill equivalent of financial advice. That subreddit sucks. The reason I hate this advice is because it doesn't focus on the important stuff - which is raising your hourly rate. If you can 5x or 10x your hourly rate in the next 10 years, that $1000 you're stashing away won't matter. The vast majority of compound interest doesn't kick in until you have a substantial chunk of money. (e.g. look at the growth rate over 30 years and when the major…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 02:42 PM
1

Okay so it's not so much that it makes you more confident, it's your mental masturbation that you think you'll be more confident.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 06:41 PM
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Tattoos make me look and feel more confident in a very casual, alternative, or fitness situation. Why?
/r/askMRP26/10/20 05:02 PM
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Hahaha. Did she tell you it was an accident?
/r/askMRP17/10/20 09:46 PM
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For $10 a week, I can guarantee we look at his OYS. Doesn't mean it'll so anything for him. I don't know about you, but my hourly professional rates start at $300+/hr. I'm guessing you're higher given that you have more experience.
/r/askMRP17/10/20 01:09 PM
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Generally, one of her friends had her cell phone out on campus, they aren't supposed to use them during school. My daughter joined in making a harmless video. Teachers caught wind of it. All the girls who were in the video got detention. My daughter knew better. Her cell use has been restricted as a consequence. Idiotic rule imo. Unless it's disruptive, it's an abuse of authority. I don't think I wouldn't punish, but I would reinforce the need to play the game to get ahead (especially if it's a …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:52 AM
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It was something stupid and totally understandable that she did what she did. Still it was against the rules these two statements don't jive for me. you watch the youtube video? we talked about your OYS for 30+ minutes. you might be interested.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:13 AM
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Sign up link for the OYS stream added to the main post.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 02:53 AM
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ILYBINILWY Get over it pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 11:10 PM
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I wasn’t as good here this week as I wanted to be. Not bad, but not good. I got frustrated and let that effect my interactions with my daughter. I caught it and brought myself back on course. I used to give myself a pass for it, ‘oh well you are blab la bla so it’s understandable’ etc – and that’s true but it’s still not what I accept from myself. Good progress
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 02:17 PM
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It's not really interesting responding to you about the shame shit every time you post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 04:07 AM
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LTR keeps accusing me of dating and she is now scheduling sex with me because "it is all I want." Jesus christ. Is this the type of person you want to spend your time with? You're going keep being treated like shit because you let yourself be treated like shit. submission You may want to re-think your conclusion here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 03:59 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 03:53 AM
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Fuck. You won. Faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 03:21 AM
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Find another wife and make another kid when you're done legitimately grieving. They literally just grow. Reality of the world. I watched a deer run away so the mountain lion would eat her newborn baby. This is reality - and she can be cruel. Or you're happily flying along and a random flying object decides to fuck your ability to live. My wife would 100% abort her child if it had a special need and I understand that choice I've had this same conservation and agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 11:19 PM
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Brutal. I have no advice. But you have my condolences. I pray you find peace and learn to accept you did everything you could and forgive yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 06:09 PM
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Is that how you learned to love the buttstuff?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 05:38 PM
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Seems like Trump's always had things going on the side for him. (See 1st divorce, 2nd divorce, and [allegedly] Stormy Daniels as examples.) If Melanie ain't fucking him, I'd bet money someone is. Doesn't seem like we can say the same thing for Mr. Parscale.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 05:37 PM
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Is there an OYS post that should be reviewed live? Do you think your OYS post should be reviewed live? Sign up with this link. Use a fake name and email.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 05:31 PM
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Sign up info in this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 12:10 PM
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Wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 03:33 AM
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Only correct politics allowed.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 01:50 AM
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What's the problem here? You're afraid that mommy will be mad?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 09:36 PM
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https://twitter.com/unkwndes/status/1310253836020396035
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/20 01:14 AM
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To be fair, that's only a 14 day ban. From mod mail, it's been one of the most effective rules we have for newbies.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 07:09 PM
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Like /u/Cloudy_Pirate mentioned below, it's been a slow week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 05:28 PM
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Leaving this up. Feed away. Know that this might be bait.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 03:59 PM
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Original post by /u/HornsOfApathy. This week's OYS Live stream will be on Sunday, 10/4 at 9:00pm EST. If you would like your OYS highlighted, please send a DM to me, /u/weakandsensitive. Massive response so far. Here's the current list - in order. MRP5248 dust2dust45 SpareTireBob KoolAidMan7980 AntiqueAsh jaackknives ItsRedThyme EastEuroLongshot ApostropheSs (bottom of list) AurelianReflections (top of HoA's list) Deathmetal_deadlifts Vonfahtz NotEvenMyFinalF0rm While I think this is an awesome …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 04:14 PM
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perma-ban me when people post dumb shit like this, I usually permaban to pre-empt anything. makes it easy to fill requests. but mostly, it's laziness on my part because i am not your accountabilibuddy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 03:26 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 03:23 PM
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I would be honored if you would read mine. I can not watch live, but I usually catch it the next morning.​ You're supposed to send a DM you idiot, not post it here hoping I read this during the middle of the week. Want something in life? Be proactive about it. For this reason alone, you're going to the bottom of the list.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:56 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:49 PM
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at least you have autistic stfu down. figure out what comes after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:47 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:46 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 02:41 PM
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It was eye opening for me that W&S has that turned on. He's clearly beyond that being a concern. If it's going to be a problem, I can always turn it off. It's an easy way to coordinate logistics
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 12:39 AM
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Hahaha, other already mods already took care of the ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/20 07:38 PM
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Link - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3FG0jQOQc8 Shoutout to /u/threekindsoflucky and /u/johneyapocalypse for joining the stream.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/20 01:15 AM
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You've hit on one of the big reasons why I'm so fast to ban people who lack self awareness.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 04:09 PM
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Be an adult dipshit.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 04:06 PM
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If you constantly buy into hyperbole, you never focus on making it with for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 10:56 PM
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You guys have /u/johneyapocalypse to thank for taking the youtube video series main stream. Having /u/HornsOfApathy on made it so I had to plan out the timing. We've gotten good feedback and I'm glad you guys get value out of them. More importantly, I enjoy doing them. For the near terms, Horns and I are scheduling a regular Sunday stream from 9PM-10:30PM EST. If you want your OYS post to be highlighted, send me a PM. However, if too many of you delete your account because you're a soft whiny bi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 03:57 PM
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Pretty good advice, but rule 11 is about not engaging with low value posts other than to ridicule and belittle.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 04:50 PM
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Whole bunch of people are about to get banned in this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 04:31 PM
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Beyond the 2 compelling points made by the other guys, I'll just say that maybe you married an absolute fucking retard, but I'm pretty sure I didn't. I don't go around saying "Maybe you don't want to do that....." unless it's something that'll impact me directly (like budgets). "Oops I didn't mean to" isn't an acceptable from my 5 year old*. Why would it be for a grown ass woman? * This doesn't mean that accidents don't happen. It just means that inattentiveness doesn't absolve ownership of the …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:37 AM
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I'm banning you because you talk/respond too much. Give it a day and see how much of this commentary is worth responding to. If after this ban's up you still feel things are worth replying to, then do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:34 AM
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This is legit. I'm impressed by this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:32 AM
2

If it's not supposed to accomplish anything, why even open your mouth?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 06:17 PM
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betrayal What do you think the betrayal is here? To me, it seems like everything was 100% transparent and on the up and up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 05:21 PM
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just one boundary. Doesn't fix the underlying problem. Probably doesn't even fix the symptom. His wife would rather be somewhere else. Why would you want to spend energy on someone who doesn't want to be where you're at? I hope you guys don't spend too much time on this type of flawed thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 05:20 PM
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I'm a winner in you guys eyes He didn't call you a winner. He just said you win. I definitely agree with him. You win something.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 05:18 PM
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No. Fuck off faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 05:15 PM
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You guys shit test worse than my wife. I intend to keep spraying these jewels of wisdom all over your faces. They will drip into your heads. And you'll use them in your God-given marriages to make the world a better place. I do this in gratitude to what this community has led me to. I removed most of OP's posts because he's a little bitch, but I'll copy this one to just demonstrate the point. Will copy and paste his ban message to my collection and update if/when it happens. Edit: Got some hate …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 04:24 PM
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Only change I'd make is to realize "fuck her for not recognizing and appreciating the value add I was offering."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:08 PM
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Important question seems to be how to make sure your parents are taken care of and shielded.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:05 PM
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Rule 9. This post seems like a bitch ass male doing bitch ass male things.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:01 PM
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Idiotic.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 01:59 PM
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Good for you! Congrats on not dying. I'd be concerned about any long term/chronic impact from the accident - to be aware and to figure out how to take care of those things.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:22 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:17 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:15 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:14 AM
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I had to stop reading because you were such a whiny bitch. I hope you don't act in the way that you write in your OYS. You fucking suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:13 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/20 06:02 AM
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The only motivation I need You'll be amazed how much more useful discipline is than motivation. Shut up, do what you need to do, take care of shit even if you don't want to, and watch how results just magically happen. with trainer Your trainers goals are directly at odds with you. His goal is to get you to pay him as long as possible. Your goal should be to get rid of him as soon as possible. As a result, I bet your trainer is going to tell you to do a bunch of weak shit that'll be machine exer…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 06:10 AM
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Had my first session with private trainer yesterday. We developed a workout and diet plan, followed by an hour of cardio and body weight exercises. This particular trainer specializes in fat lard asses such as myself. It felt good to be back in the gym. Why? Why do you need someone to hold your hand through basic bitch shit? Is being so fucking fat really impacting your ability to do shit for yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 06:05 AM
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If you're going to spend time reading a bunch of crap, make sure you re-read your own OYS posts to see your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 06:09 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 05:41 AM
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Attitude has been shittier, and she’s ramped up her Constant Complainer tendencies, with most of her shots aimed at me. We had a major disagreement on whether we should attend that weekend with friends, considering our area is experiencing a resurgence in Covid cases and these types of events are being actively discouraged. I reread HOA’s Anxious and Depressive posts, part 1 and 2, as she certainly fits this type. Now I am re-examining the likelihood that her attitude is simply a reflection of m…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 05:39 AM
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that's fucking right! right here!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 04:20 AM
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every guy should be able to cold approach and instadate. bullshit or not of this video isn't really relevant. I want to find guys who think this shit doesn't happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 02:45 AM
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Good news. What's next for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 01:04 AM
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so?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/20 11:46 PM
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approving this. there's value here. let's see if you guys can figure out why I think this.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/20 11:46 PM
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I can ban. Np.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/20 09:19 AM
2

cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 10:36 PM
2

you've talked with a lawyer? doesn't sound like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 10:16 PM
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lol. you got downvoted. you're the only person's not getting banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:37 AM
1

Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:34 AM
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Removed. A bunch of rule 11 bans handed out tooo.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:34 AM
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It's nice to want, but feel free to fuck off until you stop being a whiny bitch who can't figure jack shit out. 60 day ban for not adding value.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 04:36 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:13 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:12 AM
1

Rule 9 Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:11 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:07 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:06 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 04:06 AM
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still no sex you mean "still no sex with her"? 2 kids under 3 this is a lot though.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:54 AM
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Rule 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:51 AM
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I should make a rule that provides standard bans for people who talk in primarily future tense.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:36 AM
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I suck at STFU with anyone, but especially to my wife. Every time I get the chance I have open my mouth and show off how smart I am. I go brain-dead and just regurgitate bullshit. To address this issue, I have started stay busy and get shit done or just fucking leaving the house. Wife is having friends over? I go to my garage and lift for 3 hours. Her sister is coming over? Grab some kettlebells and drive to the park. I started getting up earlier so I can get more shit done, and then the wife st…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:18 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:13 AM
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Your post sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/20 03:01 AM
1

i'd say askmrp but meh
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 01:17 AM
1

Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:36 AM
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don't make boundaries you can't enforce you're a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:35 AM
1

you should buy hey more things so she won't recognize she's dating a loser or be embarrassed in front of her friends. is $100 too much for you to handle you broke bitch? man up brah.
/r/askMRP02/08/20 06:36 PM
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why do you want those things? how do they connect to your personal value? because it sounds to me like wanting validation that you're good enough to follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 03:34 PM
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why? what's wrong with being comfortable?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 03:32 PM
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For how long you've been here, this entire thing was a gigantic whine fest. You wrote this whole thing as if you're a helpless victim. Get over yourself - there's so much "I feel...", "I need..." crap in here.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 06:21 AM
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What do you want out of life?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:49 AM
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It's nice to want.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:37 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:31 AM
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I haven't written an OYS for 13 weeks. I've hit a hard plateau. I've maintained most of the progress I've made, but I haven't progressed much beyond it in that time. My ego that makes this hard to talk about, but I've had major depressive disorder since I was 16. I don't like admitting it to others or myself. Now it is unavoidable. I've largely denied it or attributed the something else; the relationship, work, finances, lack of exercise, diet, low testosterone. One by one I've made massive impr…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:24 AM
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Sounds like things are going really well. Whats the biggest problem you are trying to solve?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:17 AM
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Even reading your post is boring. There is no ownership.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:09 AM
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Your lifts don't count when you're lard ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:07 AM
2

Shit isn't useful just sitting around not being picked up.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 05:06 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/20 04:59 AM
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neutral in performance reviews is already a fail, just as an FYI. performance reviews are fundamentally set up to make it so that it looks like you're doing well
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:01 PM
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there's a song by the tones and I that I think you'd like.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:59 PM
3

go fuck someone else then
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 10:16 AM
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rule 9 and 10
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 10:15 AM
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rule 9 - dancing monkey
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 10:13 AM
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fatass, get the fuck over it and stop whining about this shit every fucking day. every day you're writing some stupid shit about how you grew up with some fucked up believe. it's annoying as shit to read. it must be way more annoying to live with. do like Elsa and recognize the past is in the past or feel free to fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 10:11 AM
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I (22M) have been dating my LTR (24F) for 7 months. The last 4 months have been exclusive. Our relationship has been super healthy. I have been treating this relationship by the book (TRP) for the most part, I’ll explain. My issue is that I have been living a lie.... MY AGE. Back when she was just a plate I played the mystery game. She only knew bits and pieces about me for the first 3 months when she was in the plate stage when I was banging 2 other chicks apart from her. I never told her my re…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/20 10:59 PM
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Sounds like a you problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/20 05:31 PM
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I think you've posted this in the wrong subreddit. We assume "If I get my shit together, work a great job, make lots of money, have good friends and hobbies etc... I'll be a man worthy of respecting, and my wife will respect me" Not anywhere on MRP do we talk about this. In fact, we actively and continually discourage men from being dancing monkeys. I've taken the post down because it fails Rule 9. Give me reasons why you think this should be on married red pill. I understand why this would be o…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/20 04:50 PM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 05:26 AM
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You talk too fucking much.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 05:25 AM
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If I'm not interested in it then I'm not. then shut the fuck up and stop responding. Where on earth did you get the idea that im broke? you're either broke or a financial idiot. i went with the more generous assumption.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 04:44 AM
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I didn't say that. Its an honest statement of my finances. Pretty good shape really. CC debt steadily being payed down. Why do I give a fuck about some you being a broke motherfucker? I have no interest in learning FOREX. That better? the whole thing sounds like a pyramid scheme to me with rather small returns. You've already shown you're an ignorant fuck. Embrace it instead of walking it back.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 04:35 AM
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Several friends have recently gotten into FOREX trading but the whole thing sounds like a pyramid scheme to me with rather small returns. You don't understand it, therefore it can't be a you problem, it must be a someone else problem. Instead of educating yourself about how forex works (www.babypips.com), you just dismiss it as a scam. What a douchebag attitude. I make around 170K a year. I have %150 stock savings/ RRSP matching. Should I be impressed?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 04:12 AM
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I live in Spain but work in English. Lack of confidence in speaking Spanish has been an excuse not to increase my sociability and friendship circle. I’m working my way through a Spanish course, a little each day, and have been watching Spanish movies and TV with Spanish subtitles. Before I’d only watched things with English subtitles, but it turns out that I can follow enough to not need them. Why not do an actual in person language learning course?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 04:10 AM
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So, I made an OYS post. Can I please be allowed to participate anywhere else again? Fuck that. Fuck you. Good bye.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 03:59 AM
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30 days added for replying again
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 02:41 AM
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Which one would you rather be fucking?
/r/askMRP13/07/20 02:05 PM
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I am quitting smoking weed - 2 weeks now, I have already quit all hard drugs for 1+ years, and i'm quitting porn and masturbation - 2 days now. i did smoke weed. amazing how much a single person can suck.
/r/askMRP13/07/20 04:18 AM
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She sucks my dick nearly everyday when I ask her to. She'll give me a hand job at a moments notice if I ask. If I want to fuck her she will let me. That's cute. And they say beggar can't be choosy. Ha! You showed them.
/r/askMRP13/07/20 04:12 AM
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Some dude's pm popped up, and you were on the list of active chats. I'd written If you focus on only the things you connect on, then you can be more authentic in how you're helping. If you can be authentic and accept yourself, I think you'll be okay. That might very well be choosing to be a fat lazy asshole who wants to coast through life. The problem is you'll have to figure out what you're actually okay with.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/20 05:21 AM
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Jesus fucking christ. This is the type of guy who spends all his time posting on askTRP. Copying post and user (/u/alphaonthecomeup) for historical records. The kids need a place to grow still. 20 and 18. They are not dead beat losers and they are not leeches. They are her children. And if she’s smart she’ll choose them over you. If she doesn’t then I don’t know why you would even want her. The kids are not YOUR problem. Which is good that you realize , but don’t expect her to drop them out of h…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 04:16 PM
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Rule 9. Also validation seeking in every aspect of your life. Really sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 05:45 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/df0oxb/oys_posts_are_for_you_to_own_your_shit_not_to/
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 04:53 PM
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You're going to get a ban for rule 9 tomorrow. Self awareness doesn't matter because the idea is to unfuck your mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 02:25 PM
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Too much she in your last paragraphs.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 02:23 PM
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Okay. So then if there is going to be no progress or change until you get an answer, why do you keep posting about it?
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 04:52 AM
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Glad he's wasting time on your subreddit instead of mine then.
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 04:50 AM
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It's a normal part of being attractive, no need to draw undue attention to it. Bingo. Imagine the flip side - being the wife of a husband who wasn't attractive to anyone else.
/r/RPChristians04/07/20 08:21 AM
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Between this and your FR full of "She" statements, I can't believe you've been at this for 1/2 a year and no one's pointed out how much of a dancing monkey you still are and how much you're looking for mommy's approval.
/r/RPChristians04/07/20 08:20 AM
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You've been on a career change for about a year now. What are you doing to enable this? It's been very passive for a long, long time.
/r/RPChristians04/07/20 08:19 AM
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Sucks man. Best wishes. You can't die yet though. We gotta connect on discord still.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 06:53 PM
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Condolences for your loss
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 04:04 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:06 AM
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ctrl-f "she" and consider frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:05 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:03 AM
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CTRL-F "She". This post is a joke. Have your wife write her perspective next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:02 AM
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Stop and consider that you're the type of guy women need to lie to because you're too fragile of a fuck to be told the truth. On that note - rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 05:26 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 01:53 PM
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So what about this dichotomy - enjoying life and lifting, yet at one time being eager for death, and comfortable with it now? The one issue, one constant, is always fear. "Why is your wife leaving such a big deal? Because I'm afraid of being alone." "Why are you so afraid of dying? Because I'm afraid of not knowing what's next." But if you accept that it's part of the journey, what's there to fear? For me, it just ends up being a puzzle to optimize. Your posts over the past few weeks have been r…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 01:18 PM
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So the short version is that you think this is fiction because you don't relate? The guy had an easy run because the worst thing that could go wrong is that she had a meltdown and moves out. No home loss, no teen about to sit their finals assesments or whatever. That's the whole point of owning your shit so you're actually empowered to make the difficult decisions you need to without resorting to excuses. "this guy had it easy wah wah wah". How is it his fault that you're too much of a pussy to …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 05:15 AM
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Why do you think this should be harder? Why do you think there should be many books?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/20 04:45 PM
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Nice work and congratulations to you. You've demonstrated that you don't need to journal every week in OYS so long as you have your own goals and can hold yourself to account. Holding frame hate this phrase. hate how misused it is. it's not a door. it doesn't magically swing open and shut. it's the frame. it exists or it doesn't. your have it or you don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 08:34 AM
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r/marriedredpill Lots of things going on in life. MRP and the greater manosphere is not interesting enough to take precedence. I'm looking for someone who wants to take on the role of filtering for rule 9 and rule 10 in OYS to keep these running smoothly - cases where guys are in someone else's frame, even if that's MRP's frame. so, if you want to be a mod and help MRP say focused on helping the men that help themselves, send me a PM.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 05:23 AM
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I am again finding ex extremely frustrating, she is saying I am ‘intimidating’ her, when I do anything. Basically I have to stand there with her snapping at me and can’t say anything, I mean that quite literally. Luckily she can’t help herself and also does that in text so I have record of the bullshit. Pussy. This video is relevant to your shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 04:57 AM
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There are fights worth having, and fights not worth having. In your day to day life, things that aren't worth fighting are the things that feed the sheeple - which are all driven by narrative and fear as opposed to any semblance of fact: covid-19 police brutal racism Shit doesn't matter and it won't impact you. Fear, uncertainty, doubt will always be the best narratives.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 04:49 AM
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Pretty sure that one of their most profitable markets is China. You've got more KFCs there than McDs.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 04:29 AM
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Rule 9. Shit is steeped in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 06:28 PM
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No one cares. Go fuck yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/20 05:38 AM
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no one cares. go fuck yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/20 05:37 AM
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Because he doesn't know better yet. And that's okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 02:46 PM
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tl/dr just skip to the summary.. this is trash. If you don't value the shit you write, there's no reason I should either.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 10:36 AM
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This is my main focus this week. Both dealing with work and preparing to be out of work. Thanks to WISNIFG I used fogging and negative acceptance during a chewing out by the queen bee. I spent the weekend reviewing the other techniques in WISNIFG. I still need practice with negative assertion and negative inquiry. I also realized a lot of PON applied as well - my ego getting in the way and generating a lot of pointless fears. Meanwhile, I get along well with the teams I work with - its great job…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 10:54 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:46 AM
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at a fairly advanced level How do you figure? From this post and your responses, I'd take the under every day.
/r/askMRP23/05/20 10:19 PM
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Not a mod here.
/r/askMRP23/05/20 07:35 PM
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You already know this, but for everyone that doesn't, this is the correct answer.
/r/askMRP23/05/20 07:28 PM
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literally my wife keeps going on about her weight now. The question is what other value does she add that you give a shit about?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 07:23 PM
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I believe in having solid narratives that people can buy in to. I wrote about talking some time ago. What is the vision you're selling?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 07:21 PM
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I think you got the difference. It's about generating buy-in versus creating hostility and combative environment. The goal of the game is to play to win so part of that is also setting yourself up not to lose. Some people get it, some people don't. That's okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 08:59 PM
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Ah. I gotcha. We needed to move because of my daughters starting kindergarten at a school 40 minutes away from where we're at currently.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 03:09 PM
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For that 3% gain? Pretty soon you'll be a thousandaire!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 10:10 PM
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Historical broad market gains are 7% annually over the 10+ year window. Our markets are not at peaks and mortgage rates are incredibly low. If the market doesn't outperform the mortgage rate over the next 15 years, I'm just buying guns and ammo because it means we have much bigger problems. Quoted APR with the PMI is 3.2%.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:24 PM
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I'm jelly about the gambling losses.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:21 PM
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I took 7.5k in feb and turned it into 45k now. I took profits and reduced exposure. Too much murk in the water. Hard to go broke taking profits. But yeah -- I love roth options.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:20 PM
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The 529 wasn't any good for me. No match, shitty investment choices, and marginal tax benefits on top of spending restrictions. I just opened an investment account for my daughter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:18 PM
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Definitely a point to be made about what you think you can afford to lose versus what you can really afford to lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:15 PM
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Even if you're not, it still puts the ball in her court and she has to figure it out for herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 05:58 PM
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Yeah your post was what inspired this 201.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 05:57 PM
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The Western Australian real estate market took a massive s****** when oil crashed. Not a great investment in that part of the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 04:14 PM
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If you read through the comments on the linked thread, your concern has been covered a couple of times..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 02:19 PM
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Like I said -- this mindset is pretty basic bitch TRP.. Like /u/so_woke_da_wookie -- who's frame are you in? If you're going to worry about shit that's out of your control, like what someone else is thinking or doing, go do that over at askTRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 02:18 PM
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"I would never cheat, that is against my morals................when I'm ready to start fucking other women I'll let you know." Yeah.... that was covered in the 101. No need to repeat my work back to me. Try to put some effort into understanding the 201 version. Just noticed the never cheat thing - kind of defeats the point if you start the sentence with a lie instead of authenticity.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 10:01 AM
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If she's going to fuck other men or think about fucking other men, what's that say about your value? 0 fucks given about losing out on you. If there were standard basic bitch TRP advice, this would be up there. And it's not "omg I'm gonna be a cuck", it's I give zero fucks about how she thinks because end of the day, if she's taking the risk, she's taking the loss.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 10:00 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/2lhXtFp How the fuck are your feet so fucking fat? Your vision is too short sighted. Why the fuck do you think fasting now is a good idea? It's like turning off the light to save electricity when your house is on fire. You're focusing on the wrong problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 09:01 AM
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I'd up the displays of alpha prowess, flirt with her outrageously and do everything I otherwise wouldn't have from fear of upsetting her. Especially since I knew she'd be ovulating over the weekend. What's the worst that could happen? She'll move to sleeping in a tent on the patio? The fact that you're even thinking about her response is stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 08:58 AM
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That's my mindset for every job I get into. I'd love to stay at 1 job forever. Unfortunately, they haven't moved as fast I want in terms of comp and opportunity - while other companies have. On the flip side, me leaving hasn't ever been a surprise and I always give 4 weeks to wrap everything up nice and clean.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 02:22 AM
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Oh, you take advice from GLO - the worm looking faggot? What was your point in asking about the autism? Never mind, I have my answer. Do you have any suggestions for identifying concrete mental goals? Specifically, what should I be focusing on instead? How can I work on this area? If you want consultant type answers, feel free to pay my consultant rates.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 02:54 PM
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I say I'm a "loyal company guy, and I find myself working really well for a place long term." But it's possible they can read into me even if I say nothing. Are you? If you told me you were a loyal company guy, I wouldn't believe you. And if you actually were, I couldn't imagine wanting you to lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 02:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7qhvml/men_with_no_frame_and_the_things_they_do/
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 05:53 AM
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On the bright side, $1200 in Trump Bucks buys a lot of unicorn swag.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 05:50 AM
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Funny - not a single mental goal, just the basic bitch superficial shit. Shutting up and maintaining frame has been difficult. Unsurprising. You actually need to have frame before you can do something with it. Half you idiots (probably more) don't even understand the concept correctly. Serious question - how autistic are you actually?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 05:48 AM
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You're almost 65. How close are you to having enough money to tell people to go fuck themselves for the rest of your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 05:42 AM
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I made it clear that I am an adult You're 31 living at home. Fuck off with this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 11:13 PM
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It's difficult to know if it was shit-test (LMR) or a comfort test. Would be pretty rare to get a comfort test before we're fucking though. Doesn't fucking matter does it. Know your value. Know your expectation. And if either of those aren't met to the level you want, that's not a you problem because you can walk. All testing is congruence testing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 07:11 PM
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If you were a thirsty simp asking how you could this fuck this model you've been orbiting, what advice would you give yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 05:29 PM
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On further thought, you've given me the idea it was less about me and more about who he knew would be surrounding me Nah. I don't buy this. For the same reasons he had concerns. I'm overqualified, I'd get bored, I am worth more in the market. He needs stability, this role has had recent turn over twice now. Most of these things aren't you problems. They are him problems. "Right now, I want to be here and solve your biggest problems. What happens after are problems for you to solve."
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 05:03 PM
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I'm overqualified, I'd get bored, I am worth more in the market. He needs stability, this role has had recent turn over twice now. He's not sure this role was one of the top 5 areas of the business right now, and given my past success in rapid growth and entrepreneurial attitude I could get frustrated. I gave the genuine answer of "I don't mind being the middle reliever in the pitching rotation, coach. I don't have to be the starter to be satisfied." Your answer is bullshit. It's the equivalent …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 04:42 PM
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He came back later and said he couldn't hire me. Why? Still don't see a why that isn't bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 04:35 PM
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He thinks I’m worth 350k in the market and they can only pay 250k. Fears I will leave in a year or two when he knows I will get it, and he needs stability right now. What? Structure a contract that boosts bonus options over salary then.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 03:51 PM
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If it wasn't worth responding to, then don't respond.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 04:29 AM
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I will be a successful MRP. Just like your data science crap, this is all bullshit platitudes. Here's a ban. If you want to be unbanned, send a message telling me what exactly "successful MRP" actually means.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 07:34 PM
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Been doing good on the online courses I have been doing. Data science and Financial Analyst. What degree do you have? What level of math do you have? What level of programming do you have? How well can you navigate business problems? My company had a data science internship position targeted at graduate level students. It had 600+ applicants. How are you, at 19, going to be able to differentiate yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 07:32 PM
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I posted this in AskMRP yesterday, but saw no feedback. I could use some outside eyes on my current OYS. It's nice to want isn't it. If it's that important, pay someone. Otherwise go fuck yourself and stop begging for charity.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:41 PM
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You think a 3 year old is gonna understand that? that I need to say things in a way that reminds me that I can't force others to do things. you can force a three year old to sit there. you could force her to eat too. would you want to? probably not.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:36 PM
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My weakest mental area is self esteem and anxiety. Your mindset's still fucked. You look fine. Someone would fuck you. GAME gaming the wife continues wtf. why? "I know your wife, she can't excercise is fat and is even a bitch and controlling to people she dosent know. You can do way better, what is fucking wrong with you her cheating would be a win"... Fair play. I think what I've realized is you're a pussy. You're too afraid to push outside your comfort zone and just do shit. You clutch onto th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:35 PM
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I wouldn't be manipulative or micromanage. For example, if I'm not giving her a choice, she's not getting a choice. I don't want her thinking about making choices that attempt to please me. I also don't delay punishments for my daughter. She's too young to grasp long term consequences. Her punishment is usually sitting with me for X amount of minutes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:33 PM
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My house came with a pool. I got rid of it because I hated the maintenance.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:31 PM
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She was warned by both me and STBX many times that if she didn't stop Well - there's your problem. How many times is many? You've taught her entire life to not take you seriously. There's a line I have, "if you keep doing that, you're going to be punished." And then my daughter gets punished. Btw - your 3 year old has better frame than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:08 PM
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Social - I made my first post in MRP. I'm usually quiet and passive in social situations, content to just watch and listen. I need to work on taking the lead in conversations and social circles to improve my social skills. This post was part of that for me. This is bullshit. Posting crap online != talking in real life. Don't be a weeaboo. Instead - have something you actually want to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 02:26 PM
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Too bad that's how you feel. Unfortunately, you're not a good cultural fit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 05:55 PM
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This forum exists because we want all men to succeed. And to this point - I've said for a long time OYS is the only thread that matters. Recently, it's at a point where I don't even need to post, comment, or read OYS anymore. The only thing I'm doing recently is banning people for Rule 9 violations. When I go through it, the commentary already exists. The advice already exists. The people in that thread are doing what they need to do and they have a support structure to unfuck themselves both ph…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 05:17 PM
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That was only an example. I'm actually so alpha I don't waste time cleaning.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 05:08 PM
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This forum exists because we want all men to succeed. This forum also exists to make sure effort is focused towards men who are actually going to succeed - not those who are going to waste people's time with whiny bullshit. If you don't think is appropriate, feel free to go to any of the ask*, relationship advice, or dead bedroom forums that exist throughout Reddit. This post seems like a good medium to continue beating on this message.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 05:03 PM
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Fuck that. Fuck you. That's not leadership, that's being an asshole. To add some value -- the funny thing about leadership is that you filter for people worth leading. Most people aren't worth leading because they'll only go as far you pull them along.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:41 PM
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Must be a shitty personality then.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 02:48 PM
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Post removed for being low quality
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:45 AM
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K. Bye. I have no interest in keeping the company of idiots for no good reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:38 AM
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one could argue we do have an entire subreddit here all dedicated to how to tell idiots to stop being pussies and value themselves. Sure, you could argue it. And you'd wouldn't be wrong. But what MRP doesn't do is a 12 step guide to not being a retard. Here's how cleaning your butt after pooping would go - Make sure your butt is clean. If it's not clean, clean it again. This is like -- Tear off 3 sheets of toilet paper. Fold them neatly so it's graspable. You want it to be graspable so you don't…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:32 AM
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I've been doing a ton of interviews this week. The people who are a straight no are the ones who come across as needing step-by-step instructions and detailed how-to guides to get anything done.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 12:34 AM
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The fuck did this need 10,000 words for? Are we doing how to guides for idiots now?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/20 10:16 PM
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Feels like spam doesn't it?
/r/askMRP08/05/20 01:40 AM
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I'm not allowed to mod ask MRP
/r/askMRP08/05/20 01:14 AM
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All the bold text makes this feel like a clickbait buzzfeed article. No commentary on the content itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 03:40 PM
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OP is banned. Post can stay up.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 03:01 PM
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Strength, Motherfucker. Jesus christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 05:12 AM
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Going to echo this sentiment. I think I first saw this on twitter. I'm surprised to see it here. This article has literally nothing with you not being allowed to be in a good mood. This has everything to do with you going out of your way to tell other people that they should be more positive. Specifically the follow up to the sentence you've posted. “Telling someone who is hurting to be positive is well-intentioned, but it backfires,” said therapist Sherry Merriam. “It asks people to stuff their…
/r/RPChristians02/05/20 07:15 AM
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It's the approach to making disciples I see as the main issue. The MRP parallel is trying to get a wife to love him versus being a guy who's worth loving. At MRP, if your goal is to make your wife love you, you're almost guaranteed to fail. That's why we always suggest having a great live and putting in a conscious effort to invite your wife along. I imagine if the goal is to make disciples, you'd fail in a similar fashion. On the flip side, if you live a life worth following, and reach out wher…
/r/askMRP01/05/20 01:58 PM
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well - on the bright side, I'm glad this conversation is going to take place on rpc. I'm sure /u/coachdad8 will keep harping his transparent "validate me" message over there until you bow dow and acknowledge that Jesus was a validating seeking bitch with no frame.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 07:32 AM
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To go to the source of the red pill - even Neo needed to be told by the Oracle, "You're not the one," when we all know he was. It wasn't true. But it was what he needed to hear. "Maybe in another life." At the end of the movie, he was shot, died, and came back to life. The metaphor being the old has to die before you can arise anew.
/r/RPChristians01/05/20 07:27 AM
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Love that this makes sense to a guy who spends a ton of time of video gaming related subs. Great job of highlighting the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/20 05:24 PM
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Rule 9 for your relationship and sex section.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 09:42 PM
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Between she, shed, and sheath - this post lights up likes it was written by a brand new poster. You should cross post to one of the erotic literature subs.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 09:41 PM
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wtf dude. ctrl-f "she" on your own post. how are you possibly at OYS 25?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 09:40 PM
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It's cute that you talk about your future income but talk about her income in the present tense. Also - rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 09:38 PM
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Don't flex for photos unless you're going through every minute of life flexing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 09:37 PM
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Have a link to read -- https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/64ibgi/lets_define_hard_mode/
/r/askMRP21/04/20 04:25 PM
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Wouldn't the question be "Is Therapy Effective?"
/r/askMRP21/04/20 02:49 AM
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He's been banned from MRP for a long time because he posted these types of diatribes. No worries about him posting thoughts there.
/r/askMRP20/04/20 11:17 PM
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The irony of the worst of the RPC mouth pieces was that Jesus' mission was internal. I'm pretty sure I've never heard about how Jesus went around looking for followers and begging them to come on his mission. It was the disciples that were told to go spread the word, but not Jesus himself. From everything I know, homie just walked the path and people wanted to follow. I'm not a theologian, but it seems pretty obvious that one of those people was internally validated while thirteen of those peopl…
/r/askMRP20/04/20 05:22 AM
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I don't like her. You don't like her? Or you don't like how she is a reflection of you? I'm pretty sure most people don't get married to people they don't like.
/r/askMRP19/04/20 01:21 PM
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It's a big issue with the RPC types. "It's not a personal issue. It's gotta be something else." Lots of word, tons of cheerleading, full of hype, but very little stuff. -- and the answer's God.
/r/askMRP19/04/20 01:09 PM
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belongs in askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/20 05:14 AM
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(in which I wasn't allowed to fuck anyone) hahaha. also: ctrl-f "she". Edit: I can't respond to comments because I have been permanently banned from the sub. I think you guys are assholes, especially you Horns. You yourself hit rock bottom at the 6 month mark. Did anyone ban you and kick you while you were down? Fuck you. Fuck all of you. You're all a bunch of validation seeking fucks. Have fun jerking eachother off. hahahaha i'll be in the real work getting my shit together. hahahahaha but seri…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 07:09 AM
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It's because we all recognize OP's full of shit. His jump to divorce is a defensive mechanism from his ego. He admits as much up top somewhere. For example, if a guy were hot as fuck and confident in his decision, you think he'd be here asking a bunch of retards on the internet for divorce advice? But just because his wife doesn’t treat him well doesn’t mean someone else won’t. And that's the problem. If he doesn't actually fix his shit, whatever other relationship he gets in will be fucked too.…
/r/askMRP17/04/20 06:41 AM
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Note that everyone called you out for being inauthentic and insecure. Nobody knows shit about you - and look at how easy it is to tell that you're full of shit just by the way you try to portray yourself. Uh.... My hair is thinning a bit, though I'm treating it with minoxidil and infrared Why do you care? It's because you know that you actually aren't hot shit.
/r/askMRP17/04/20 06:40 AM
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We fight more than anything else. What is this we fight? As in she fights with you and you get suckered in or you choose to fight with her for whatever reason? Either way, sounds like a you problem. I am now CEO of a company with 20 employees. This company is going through growing pains, especially now with the virus, but I have made good headway. Q4 was our best quarter since I joined. lol. so that's supposed to be a humblebrag right? what I learned is: It's not even your own company. It's not …
/r/askMRP17/04/20 06:19 AM
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I hate to have 'she/her' too much here, but the section name requires it... It really doesn't. And that type of thinking would generally earn you a 14 day ban. Next time you think the section is about her, have her write the section for you instead. I'd rather get her thoughts anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/20 08:46 AM
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How do you know when you're succeeding?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/20 09:19 AM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 03:52 PM
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Rule 9 Also - you recommended rich dad/poor dad somewhere else. That's dumb basic bitch advice. Talk less.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 03:45 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 03:43 PM
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OP is banned obviously. Some regular posters also got 1 day bans for choosing to interact with the willfully ignorant.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/20 06:38 AM
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You talk too much and let other people judge you. Congrats on having sex. :thumbsup:
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:55 PM
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My issue is just with everyday, dumb shit. Like one example- when people were hoarding toilet paper, I couldn’t control myself lambasting them verbally to my wife, making fun of those people on social media via memes, etc. I would go on and on about why they’re so stupid, etc, and people would laugh once, but I wouldn’t stfu about it. That's not a need to be heard. That's a need to have your worldview validated. Completely different things. This former is about them; the latter is about you. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 08:19 PM
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Askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 03:07 PM
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I made tea, gave her a massage and helped her to bed. Hahaha. Does his shit sound familiar?
/r/askMRP01/04/20 08:05 AM
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Another spreadsheet guy. Objectively, in his mind, I am Superdad Your dumbass kid doesn't know any better. If he called you a retarded pussy, would that wreck you? From what I can, probably. And that's why you suck. Basically unchanged from last week and would rather focus on the above topics in the upcoming week. Starting an OYS is like drinking from a fire hose, it's easy to try to do too much, write too much, change too much. I am taking a deliberate paced approach, which is always subject to…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/20 07:49 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 09:53 PM
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removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/20 02:46 PM
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Not really surprising. It's a common recurring theme. and I just noticed OP is so insecure that he actually removed his girl shorts photo after he was told to eat shit for it. sad.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 02:09 PM
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I learned of some of the concepts then. Clearly not. You come on here. Try to impress a bunch of retards on the internet by posting your undersized girl shorts -- and then you check me out and try to flirt with me. That's flattering and all, but I'm not into cucks. Anyway, I'm sure you want it, so have the last word and you can demonstrate how manly, masculine, and financially successful you are to the crowd. But here's the real wtf - you talk about marriage 18 months ago, don't do anything abou…
/r/askMRP27/03/20 01:41 PM
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6+ years and you're still the RP equivalent of a basic bitch. At the very least, I appreciate the contrast between the 15 year old who does work and you.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 01:23 PM
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No you're not you fucking faggot. The very first thing you did is show off your girl panties to a bunch of dudes on the internet. Don't give me this bullshit about "trying to improve". And then on top that, you ask dumbass questions. How do you align what you said with the nature of this subreddit? If you aren't past the dipshit phase by 3 months, that's on you. And you've been at this for 6+ years.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 01:15 PM
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Background lists a bunch of shit that doesn't matter, but does point to extensive need for validation and obsessiveness. I didn’t feel comfortable giving her assurance of all of my commitment forever. Woman has doubts. Can't do 1+1. Lol. I remained calm, cool, and collected, but internally Doesn't have the frame for 1+1. lol. Good ol' TRP right there.
/r/askMRP27/03/20 01:09 PM
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I'm glad someone else noticed what I did on the first read. Even before /u/HornsOfApathy, dude was putting in work. Before any lifting, the kids was out there hustling. This is much less a story about HOA, and much more a story about a 15 year old kid who was willing to do the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/20 10:49 AM
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more value add, less cliche quips.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/20 08:18 AM
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I have to know. Are you a dunce? Is Convert last set to AMRAP then. When you break 12 on the last set, I'd bet you could do 5x5 @ 155. really that hard to understand that you feel the need to clarify? Or is it that you just have 0 confidence in your ability to understand and interpret? The way I'd expect a normal person to take that comment is :+1:. Try it out, do it, figure out if it worked, and then come back with a "cool. it worked." or "that didn't work. dude's an idiot." Not "idk what amrap…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:13 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:10 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:09 PM
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Do you know what AMRAP is? I'm guessing no. And since you don't know, you didn't think "hmm.. maybe I should google what AMRAP is so I can understand the conversation." I have no idea why you responded 1x12? Can do. Shitty reps with shitty form don't count.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:06 PM
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You don't have one.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 05:58 PM
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I've been stuck in this 150-155 range for a month, I can readily do 5x5 at 150 Convert last set to AMRAP then. When you break 12 on the last set, I'd bet you could do 5x5 @ 155.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 05:55 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 04:56 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 10:11 AM
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You just spent 100 words avoiding responsibility by changing the subject. You wanted me to tell people what to do. I told you what you should do. You responded... You think one thing about God, I think something different What makes you think that you're such a unique snowflake to be the only person allowed to have a different opinion. I haven't seen you call out foolishness from the men who should be further along in their progress. Gee.... I wonder why that is... hmmm... if only there were a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 01:28 PM
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Did the maccas shut down or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 08:50 PM
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Here's what I'll tell you. You proselytizing religion is the wrong path. You're worshiping a fake boogie man out of a lack of personal raison d'etre. And you should stop. It's the wrong way and stunting your individual growth because you're using a fake boogieman as a cop out. Now tell me, are you going to listen and stop now? I'm not in the business of telling people how to live their lives. I tell people what they shouldn't do. And here's what I'll tell you - you shouldn't assume others have t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 02:32 PM
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Sure, but this was his end goal. He wanted to pursue this path. Not my position to tell him what his end goal should be. Like I wrote to the OP, we should all know it's embellished.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 02:11 PM
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Done.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 06:59 AM
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Lol you fucking moron
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 11:33 PM
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hmm.... what an acute observation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 07:16 PM
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Gonna have to be more specific than that Nah.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:59 PM
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This subreddit has never been about saving marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:15 PM
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Moralizing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:07 PM
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Give you a hint - you aren't alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:07 PM
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Warned for Moralizing. Also - how do you know she was bound to have an affair?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:06 PM
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One day, Lucca took a picture of <redacted>. Her husband found the picture, and shit hit the fan. She lied, saying we only fucked one time. The next time I saw Lucca, her eyes were exhausted and puffy from crying. She explained that she couldn’t see me any longer. She had to fix things at home, where her husband was wildly alternating between wanting a divorce and another baby (what?). I wasn’t butthurt, I didn’t ask her to stay, and I wasn’t afraid of her husband contacting my wife. Instead, I …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 02:24 AM
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I mean... it's easy enough to say This goes against my morals. I'm not going to continue. and stop being a participant.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 02:13 AM
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Waah waah waah Not sure how it's his fault you still are a fucking loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 10:47 PM
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Banning people isn't hard. No worries about bringing out haters.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 07:01 PM
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feel bad for the husband Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 07:00 PM
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Wrong. That's handling accusations of affairs. That's not tactical. It never implies spewing your guts out like a chump.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 06:57 PM
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Good report. Fun to read. Here's something interesting to think about, and posting to twitter on.. Lucca is married. What if she were single? What, if anything, changes?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 06:57 PM
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Banned. Platitudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 02:36 PM
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As others have said, you have this fanciful story in your head. We're here to tell you that the story you're telling yourself is crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 02:35 PM
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Banned. For asking the wrong questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 02:34 PM
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90% of the time, I'm not having the same meal multiple days. I'm talking literal food here.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/20 11:51 PM
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How do you guys not realize this is a shitpost?
/r/askMRP13/03/20 04:21 PM
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uncomplimentary lol.
/r/RPChristians13/03/20 06:09 AM
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That's a narrative to craft over some time. Me doing my own independent thing occasionally has no bearing on wife or family's QoL. I, and by extension wife, know my priority will be my happiness -- which means their happiness by extension. I have no plans to fall in love. Put it this way -- what's your favorite meal? Could you eat it every day? Would you want to?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/20 04:52 AM
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It was fun to read. Inspirational, even, on some level.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/20 12:24 AM
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The tricky shit is realize that at the end of the day, we're all men that are worth cheating on and not lose your shit. She's not yours, it's just your turn. "Okay. Bye." On the flip side, My wife last night tells me how happy she is with life and I'm like "would you feel that way if I had girlfriends?" Her answer, "as long as my life is good, I'm fine."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 07:50 PM
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How open are other women to fucking you? Complying to you? Validating you? When are you going to choose from the buffet instead of trying to salivate with the buffet sushi that's on front of you?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 05:59 PM
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that being said, you know the cure to mental issues. investigate and purge incongruence. what do you really want? do that That's the annoying shit. I knew what I consciously wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 02:34 PM
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thanks! i saw it otc over in cambodia and wanted to check it out. hindsight man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 01:07 PM
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I meant that the websites doesn't work for Minnesota.... I can't get to the point of taking to a doctor. I think a primary care visit will be needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 12:47 PM
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heydoctor doesn't work in my state. annoying. seems like a good option. guess i'll schedule my physical.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 03:55 AM
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I don't know. We'll have to figure it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 03:34 AM
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what if it were more mental than physical? same considerations apply?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 11:01 PM
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No you fuck wad. You don't just go in the gym and do some half assed crap thinking you'll get better. Why would you do the equivalent for your mental models?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 09:17 PM
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Do you know what's even more unattractive than the usual you? It's the usual you mixed with in with a bunch of incongruence. And that's exactly what you did right there. At least with your usual desire to engage and you engage in, it's something that's expected. What you did no one has any idea including yourself what to think about that. It's all just a confused f****** mess.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 08:55 PM
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Your mindset is still weak as hell. Hasn't changed for s*** in the last 6 months. And the mindset is the only thing that matters. You even recognize that you're still an autistic f*** and that you haven't done anything about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 08:52 PM
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Gay platitudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 08:14 PM
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Also - just looked at that thread. You know what you never texted? Very important, but you didn't do it. "Stop." You started off passive aggressive and retreated from there. Terribad. And I'm on her side. Your responses suck dick. Like an autistic retard. Is that how you actually wanted to respond or is it because some retards on MRP told you that's how you're supposed to? Here is what I would've told you. Clearly she's freaking out. You either prioritize dealing with it, or you don't. But you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:48 PM
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this relationship in a direction I am happy with, so to build the life I want may require a divorce. What makes you think the next one will be better?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:45 PM
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My wife doesn't see my absence as independence or as potentially losing me; she sees it as abandonment of my duties and responsibilities. Why do you fucking care and what do you think that means? I'm unsure that my wife will ever be able to follow correctly Why do you fucking care and what do you think that means? My gut says the way out is probably a divorce, but I might as well take this time to practice game and dread against a tough opponent. Wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:16 PM
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appreciate the insights.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:59 PM
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first thing i see "not for human consumption". good price though.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:51 PM
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good advice. pricey though. do you know if rx will cover? j/k. apparently they have coupons for the generics.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:34 PM
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Morning wood - not too recently. Ill - not really. Small cough. Porn - same type of situation, can get hard but not raging. Unsatisfying.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 05:49 PM
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You don't try and create dread. That's retarded. You have dread as a byproduct of who you are. It's like the spoon scene. "Don't try and bend the spoon. It's impossible. [...] It is your mind that bends."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 02:25 PM
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You don't go and try to implement dread you fucking idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 01:27 PM
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You sound like you know what you want a lot more than when you started.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 01:21 PM
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the my dick ain't working edition right Looking for some Reddit medical or armchair medical advice. Last year, at my annual physical, I requested a testorone level test. The results came back at 500ng/dl - which seemed in the middle of the range - so I didn't worry about it. Over the last week or so I've been having issues staying hard. I'm trying to figure out if it's a physical, chemical, or mental block. I'm guessing it's probably mental, but if I can cheat my way through without dealing with…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 01:20 PM
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Talk is hella cheap. Wanna know the truth? Ask her if she thinks you're a bad boy or nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:00 AM
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I would never ever take dating advice from retards on the internet (myself included) - and especially ppd. Doesn't matter if she's a ONS, gf, wife or somewhere on the spectrum, if she's not worth your time or effort, don't spend it on her. That assumes you have better things to do. You do have better things to do, don't you? (Same applies for women about men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:21 PM
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so why is he an ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:06 AM
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human nature has it where that rarely happens in a vacuum. if you like him, then most likely there's a decent amount of women who would also like him. most attractive people are generally attractive. i hope that you can get that figured out sooner rather than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:02 AM
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You'd rather be with a loser who no one else wants? If that's the case, there are a ton of morbidly obese men and incels out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:40 AM
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It's pretty funny seeing how all the top comments are "Of course I wouldn't if I'm in a relationship." Especially considering that the statistics don't bear this out. Here are some statistics from forbes about office affairs. More than half of employees have engaged in an office romance. Almost one in five employees who were in a committed relationship have had an affair with a colleague. A whopping 18% of employees reported having a random hookup with a coworker. Almost three in four (72%) woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:31 AM
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Basic leadership -- set the expectation and adjust to how capable people are of handling information. e.g. Coronavirus as a pandemic to drive irrational fear.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 06:09 PM
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Here's one to dabble: My wife doesn't shit test me very often. Stone + Bogey have this addressed. Fake drama. signal blue sometimes What the fuck does this even mean if you're fully congruent?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 05:30 PM
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The part I hate about this open communication is instead of me felling something, processing it and moving on it encourages me to dwell on it, to ponder it, to consider the alternative viewpoints and assure her that she's still a good person and none of it is her fault and ... Solution to this is making it clear that she only gets access if she can handle it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 05:28 PM
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Probably simpler than this treatise is the fact that most men (and people in general) don't know how to communicate effectively. Neither of you defined communication. While you implied it with your signals, neither of you explicitly pointed out that the vast majority of mouth sounds don't matter. Does communication work? Absolutely. Do most people know how to communicate? I'd argue not. Maxing dominance and alpha is. Meh.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 03:24 PM
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Many of the most valuable posts on this sub started as opinion pieces. No, they didn't. The valuable posts on this sub started out as an analysis of experiences.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 11:54 PM
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No one cares
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 11:19 PM
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Your plates still have to audition
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 06:29 PM
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Good troll post
/r/askMRP25/02/20 03:46 AM
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User has been banned for this puke. What's the value add of some guy coming in and shitting all over the subreddit?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/20 06:27 PM
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AskMRP is the dumpster fire. We're here to watch it burn. Don't take it too seriously. I'm not even a mod here.
/r/askMRP22/02/20 03:32 AM
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Being truly happy is the only thing that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 08:02 PM
2

You wanted a HT10?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:59 PM
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Looking at this again, I'll say something else - the use of strategic thinking and execution changes based on objective. The objective behind the job search changed along the way. Same way most people's objective changes along the MRP journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:48 PM
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Probably started in 2010 tbh. Doesn't really matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:43 PM
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Go back to your vidya need. Doesn't mean you're necessarily wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:36 PM
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Lol. "Real men" vs "(all) women". Get the fuck outta here.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:35 PM
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Unexplored area or shit that doesn't need to be talked about?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 07:33 PM
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Not sure how it's anyone elses problem that you don't get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 05:13 AM
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Authenticity to yourself is the frame. Knowing what that means for you individually is the challenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 04:03 AM
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What makes you think OYS aren't for this type of post?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:59 AM
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Nah. No one's gonna get called a faggot for being honest. People will get called faggots for being dishonest. It's like fat people at the gym. No one's gonna give them shit. And if you do, we're gonna kick them out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 03:58 AM
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She kept interrupting me saying shit like: “Kid2 just knocked down a plant” and “Kid3 just tore out a couple pages from a library book.” It got under my skin. In retrospect, I probably should have just taken the initiative and found a way to engage the kids quietly until I was done. Alternatively - "Go fucking take care of it then." Although this works better when you're not the homemaker.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 03:59 PM
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-Increase my wages 50%-60% Like I say to my 3 year old (when she was 3) - it's nice to want.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 03:55 PM
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ASD. that it was fine if I wanted to sleep there. "Okay - but no funny stuff."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 03:53 PM
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oops. it was chocolate dipped strawberries. and i like those.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 03:11 PM
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2 dozen roses for $20 and boxed chocolates for $9 at Whole Foods this week.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 02:47 PM
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Propositional logic clearly isn't a strong point.
/r/askMRP12/02/20 07:39 AM
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I should ban you under rule 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 06:40 AM
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You spend 4 years teaching someone they can be slack, and it's not like they're going to revert overnight.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 09:30 PM
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In case you didn't realize it, it's not your wife you find unattractive. It's how she's a reflection of your leadership that you should find repulsive. Not uncommon and a core component of the anger stage.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 08:26 PM
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To be fair, she doesn't put in effort because you've taught her she doesn't need to. You chose your wife. It's up to you whether you go and set the expectations. It's up to you whether you give her time to deliver on them. It will be an explicit renegotiation of expectations, with you giving her the choice of if she wants to choose to meet them or not. She'll probably fail at first, and recognize it'll be your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 08:23 PM
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I think the mods make it confusing on purpose as a right of passage. Yeah.. as it weren't the first link on google.
/r/askMRP10/02/20 11:23 AM
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You're doing the 50 year old man thing where you're trying to cram a formula and talking about shit you don't really know. I'm gonna suggest you want to spend more time focusing on yourself and less on other people trying to make yourself feel better. I don't need a bunch of retards going "lifts and sidebar bruh". Through the thread, you're giving people shit for not following your formula. You're not trying to add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/20 09:49 AM
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That's a consulting service question.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 01:56 AM
2

to be fair - this absolutely doesn't apply to Eazy E. "Cause the boyz n tha hood are always hard"
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 10:21 PM
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WHEN THEY'RE ACTIVELY ASKING/SEEKING FOR IT I've said this before, but will repeat it again. We're not here to help your dumb asses. We're here to laugh at you stupid fucks while you fail over and over again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 10:16 PM
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would be glad to get your feedback.... Like most people in the red pill space, I'm available for consulting (as you can see from my reddit profile). Unlike most people in the red pill space, I don't have or want clients. So that means unless you want to pay me for my time for specific feedback, you'll get feedback if, when, and at the quality I choose.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 04:23 PM
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Can't watch idiots blow their lives apart because they want to take the easiest path. This is the akin to the guys who think a girl liked them in high school because she wasn't a dick to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 03:14 PM
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Mental: Since the beginning of the year I've felt a lot better. Consistently positive and low on anxiety. It's hard to explain, but rather than endlessly ruminating on upcoming situations, real or imagined, I'm trusting "future me" more - that guy can handle it, no need to rehearse. Maybe you realized that reality isn't going to be worst case, and it's usually not that bad, especially with some semblance of competence. Or maybe you're just delusional.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 03:10 PM
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don’t make loads of cash It's not really about the cash; it's more about passing the bare minimum of being a basic adult male. People who are making good money, generally have a better vision of where they are and what they want out of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 03:08 PM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 02:21 PM
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If you really want to learn game, learn how to communicate non-verbally.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 04:55 AM
2

I’ve acted needy and emotional since this event. “I want a divorce” devastated me. I made it worse by talking about my feelings. PUKE. Made all the mistakes. Man... if only you were bringing home 20 year old thots. Since kids, I switched careers (3.5 yrs ago) to be home more for the kids. Good job being a babysitter. As a household we do well—with her job, my business income, and two rental properties that bring in money every month. So money, as a whole is fine. We’re not extravagant people. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 04:51 AM
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Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 09:12 PM
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I'm reapproving this post. This can be our weekly highlight.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 07:59 PM
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you're right. we should cherish him while we can. i've updated his flair accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:28 AM
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I was trying to provide a complete picture your story isn't that special, and on top of that nobody cares. and you respond too fucking much, which means you probably talk too fucking much as well. i bet you struggle with letting someone else have the last word.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:24 AM
1

dance monkey dance
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:23 AM
1

Rule 9. Although you're already banned for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:19 AM
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Listen -- I've noticed you like to do this schtick where you're parroting advice. You need to focus on you because it's clear as day that you're talking about shit that you aren't living. If you aren't able to speak from your own personal experience, you're not in a position to give advice. you start to take off the wife goggles and assess what value she is providing today. and here's what you wrote in this weeks OYS Areas of weakness currently critical: ONEitis, guilt-driven decisions, risk-ave…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:18 AM
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If she wants to date girls. Maybe she's fine with you plate spinning ? this is an incredibly stupid line of thought. stick to your shitty deadbedrooms posts. I think I have a deadbedroom, or almost... we have sex maybe once a month, and when we do.. its a "quickie", or a "guilt fuck" for her necessary wife duties. fucking dickheads thinking their dumb ideas should be shared with the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:16 AM
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then a direct statement like this for her to recognize that I've got options. Bitch please. Seems like it took you a year for YOU to realize you have options. I bet you she still doesn't realize you have options.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:13 AM
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Well this was fucking retarded to read. Especially after ... I'm not a medical professional but have dealt with some health stuff in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 08:09 AM
2

Agreed. It reads like you're making progress -- like the build-up to the crescendo in the middle of the movie before the downward spiral at the conflict point.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 06:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/51pfvj/talking_why_you_shouldnt_do_it_and_why_you And controlled anger is good too.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 02:12 PM
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I hate you fucks and your "for the kids" bullshit.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 05:15 AM
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Oh cool. If you want to make excuses for her, that's on you. Also, go fuck yourself.
/r/askMRP02/02/20 04:04 PM
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I'm not you. You're not me. You couldn't do what I would do. You haven't done jack shit for research, because you'd know that spousal abuse is one of the conditions for protection under green card status. -- https://my.uscis.gov/exploremyoptions/green_card_battered_spouse_or_child_or_parent
/r/askMRP02/02/20 11:30 AM
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Undermining like this in front of the kids has happened before where I put my foot down but the wife will ignore that and do as she wants. this is a boundary (undermining me in front of kids) that I don't want to tolerate You tolerated the boundary violation just fine. I would suggest not being an autistic fuck and stomping your feet even more ineffectively. This is super petty and I cannot beleive I've been living with someone so petty. Really? Have you looked in the mirror? I'm pretty sure the…
/r/askMRP02/02/20 06:42 AM
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So your wife has most likely cheated on you. Not a conclusion I'd actually jump to. It's not out of the realm of possibility, but I'd guess it's more of a existential crisis.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 06:03 AM
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OYS post or askMRP post. Also -- read this -- https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7bnz0y/attractiveness/
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 05:55 AM
1

What specific problem are you trying to solve?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 05:45 AM
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My friend and his wife are "taking a break." Something she basically forced on him against his will. Their therapist has been pushing for it for awhile. I'm trying to do my best to keep a solid boundary in place and not tell him how to live his life. I've offered some guidance before and I'll do the same if he needs it but for now I'm trying not to get sucked into the shit of it. Watching one of my closest friends go through shit like this is hard and historically I tend to take on other people'…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 05:40 AM
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I want good sex Do you want good sex? Or do you want good sex with her? One of those things is in your control. The other one is not.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 05:35 AM
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MRP Approved Doesn't mean shit. They're still just retards on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 04:10 AM
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If you're so great, how is she so great that is worth keeping her around for? Your goal 3 is about controlling and manipulating someone else's behavior. You have zero control over that you retarded fuckwad.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 05:53 PM
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Hahaha. Not a bad reputation to have. For the newbies, as long as you're using mostly I statements and you're not trying to tell everyone else how long they are,, I don't care that much.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 05:49 PM
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You're thinking about it all wrong. You list a bunch of shit. To which I say, so what? What's new? Women fuck attractive men? People like fun and excitement? What's the surprise? who are more successful than me, confident than me, better looking than me. How do you know this? Or is this because you're just a big bitch with a massive inferiority complex? This truth about women is what I'm angry about and trying to reconcile. Your "truth" is a fucking joke. Faggots like you that live in the consta…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 11:17 PM
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Think of defensive coding. You don't want to be broadsided by a situation you didn't foresee. Have contingencies for the cases you think could reasonably happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 03:22 PM
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so it is kinda-sorta a "her" problem. At least in her case. Wrong. I guarantee you she doesn't have a problem. His problem is he's twiddling his thumbs in his ass and not making a choice. This deflecting of responsibility is prototypical of bitch ass thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 03:19 PM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:37 AM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:35 AM
1

Rule 9 and Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:32 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:32 AM
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Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:29 AM
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I'm just going to fire you right here before you waste any one else's time.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 06:25 AM
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I don’t trust my wife, and I won’t trust any other woman ever again. Well that's a stupid fucking way to go through life. I don't know why you'd want to make a "you" problem into a "her" problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 08:27 PM
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I'm bored of reading the same crap every week -- with the subsequent DEERing and justifying yourself to everyone. It's so boring. You suck and everything spirals from there. Maybe reflect on that for the next month.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 08:22 PM
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"In two or three years it is my goal to be able to buy my own home with my own credit. You are welcome to be by my side when that time comes. However, understand your name will not be on the lease. I will talk to a lawyer. I will discuss with him arrangements to ensure the house stays in my name regardless of you. You will sign any papers relinquishing your rights to the home I buy. Should you choose not to, I will consider it grounds for divorce." This is retarded because it's unenforceable.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 08:18 PM
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I’ve been trying to focus on what I want. But fuck. I feel like I keep spinning my wheels. I have a general sense but it’s not very precise - or actionable…And different sides of myself seem to want conflicting things… I usually just pick something, but I'm pretty good at making long term strategic choices. Now, if they threaten to change the channel, he just gives them a warning look and they back up lol Another vote for corporal punishment Surprised you can't learn from your kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 08:12 PM
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Why can't you say what you want to say? Do you feel guilty or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 06:53 PM
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Dance monkey dance. Same shit we talk about w.r.t. relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 03:52 AM
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Fuck you money vs fuck you mindset. What do you think the difference is?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 08:44 PM
1

kids know how far they can push boundaries too
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:23 PM
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When you get more of a spine, you can drop "stop being a cunt."
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:22 PM
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Removing this post. No value add. It's platitudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:11 PM
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Yeah... you ever consider that bitch ass mindset is how you end up in your position as a 60 year old? Your mindset, and the FI save like a miser, only focuses on floor. When your floor is high enough, how do you transition to thinking about raising your ceiling? It sure as shit isn't the BP financial advice you're trying to push. The RP financial mindset is knowing you're valuable enough that should you leave, you can go out and make more than what you're currently making because you add enough …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 02:06 AM
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she has been less of a cunt because I have been ignoring her funny how that works isn't it. you don't tolerate and reward shitty behavior, and you see less of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 06:05 PM
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oh. well then. there we have it. he's very fit.
/r/askMRP26/01/20 06:04 PM
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then shut the fuck up and don't say stupid shit that you don't mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 05:59 PM
1

rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 05:58 PM
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Why does everyone keep thinking we want newbies around? Isn't the message of "we don't want you here" loud and clear?
/r/askMRP26/01/20 05:40 PM
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Context says a lot. All I know is you're fat. But nowhere do you actually say how fat you are right now. I'm guessing you're really fucking fat. going to school for Dr. If she was in med school, she's fucking dumb. If she wasn't in med school, she wasn't going to school for Dr. Luckily, I just tweeted about women like her earlier. I drink coors light, maybe 4-5 beers, 4x weekly. lol
/r/askMRP26/01/20 02:39 PM
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2019 was a good year. Professional My income before taxes, deductions, etc. was 150k. It's enough money were I don't really need to worry about spend. Like I wrote earlier last year, I'm at a point where I don't need to worry about money. This year will be more. I expect this trend to continue. Professional growth happened last year. New opportunities with the job change. It's going well. New job has started the conversation about converting me from contract to full time. Since it's a small star…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 08:54 PM
1

Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 07:06 PM
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Bring it up again, and I will divorce your ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 02:38 PM
1

Rule 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 12:32 PM
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“Honey, I have asked you several times not to threaten me with divorce. I am not taking this or future threats seriously until you hand me divorce papers. If you choose that route, you should be aware that I will not be leaving the family home until it is sold or you buy me out.” She didn’t respond. Trashbag response. Just absolute shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 12:30 PM
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Should we talk about the fact that you're such an incel that even your schools social teams don't want you? From how you responded, it really is that easy to tell you're an unlikable loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 11:41 PM
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Raised by single mom and currently live with her. I’m taking steps to lead us into a better family, but it’s not easy. When she notices a shift in power dynamic, she’d often test my frame. I usually just ignore or pressure flip, but then she’d pull out the “we-need-to-communicate” card often. And I usually double down. Wait. Are you fucking your mom too? I thought those videos were bullshit, but maybe not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:57 PM
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I got a 10K raise without asking for it. Enough for you to stay? 10k seems minimal to me... although I admit my numbers on salary are skewed. I fucked her too hard. Ovarian cyst exploded at the end. She has been bleeding for 6 days. Constant mild stomach pain. You may want to take ownership and figure out if she wants your help fixing it. Then I come home tired and just want to de-stress. You got a 10k raise. Pay someone to do it if you really care that much. Grew up poor with a dad who looked d…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:44 PM
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what do you mean man? this is like all of TRP and askTRP.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 02:47 PM
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do you need us to fuck your wife too?
/r/askMRP20/01/20 06:14 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5jw1f7/how_to_handle_accusations_of_affairs_101/
/r/askMRP17/01/20 12:09 AM
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bit of a problem isnt it
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 01:34 PM
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credit cards are lined up and have enough credit to get us through two months at a minimum. This is a huge red flag and goes against the basics of credit card use 101. Credit should never be treated as income or cash -- and it sounds like that's what you're planning on doing. You need to cut down spending and get a highly liquid source of savings that covers 6 months (the length of the average job search).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 12:56 PM
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Between my career and community involvement, it’s a target rich environment. Now my challenge is figuring out how to involve my FO. She would rather sit on the sidelines than get in the fight. She has never been inspired by my Alpha heroics, so I am thinking about using Beta traits to make her “feel” more valuable and beneficial to the mission. I tried to ask u/weakandsensitive about this during his dumb AMA but he gave me some Chinese proverb shit that I haven't been able to figure out because …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 11:29 AM
2

Burn it down is also not usually the most effective strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 04:00 AM
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I'm with you. Just a regular old Tuesday.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/20 03:59 AM
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I know I'm not the only one who makes mistakes but I don't see anyone else getting in trouble. No shit huh. Gee... I wonder why that is.... Between this and what you wrote below -- you'd be at the top of my list of people to fire. And I wouldn't trust you to get anything done.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 06:32 PM
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21 I don't care for bars and clubs Screams fucking weirdo to me - just know that that's the impression you're leaving. I'd hope you get to the point where your frame overcomes this. You're better of looking into structured game and memorizing routines. Classic PUA shit. You should be learning how to talk to everyone. Fractional plates have arrived and I've And what the fuck is this? Why aren't you going to a gym?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 08:43 AM
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I because don't give my best. Obviously.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 08:37 AM
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The 28 day ban is for your shitty responses more than your lazy post.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:39 PM
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Obviously OP is banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:27 PM
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I don’t want to become one of those dudes who’s been married 4 times and laments that it never works out….Then again, there’s no point in flogging a dead horse… Right now you're at 2 sets of kids with 2 women and both of those relationships are dysfunctional at best. Just because you don't want to apply a label to it, doesn't mean it changes the underlying dynamics. Also - congrats on being employed again!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 07:11 PM
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you should've never decided that being a SAHD was a good idea. because if you weren't, divorce seems like the best option.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 04:11 PM
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Wife/LTR will see through this sooner or later and so it just hurts your cause in the long run there's a reason why we don't advocates practicing on your wife...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 02:46 PM
1

How do other women feel about you?
/r/askMRP13/01/20 08:40 PM
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hahahahaha. this is amazing. thanks. i love mr. big dick six bucks talking about status, wealth, power, and fame.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 05:40 PM
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post dms please
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 04:35 PM
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why are you such a faggot that you give a fuck what she wants? best case, you're better than what she wants. worst case, she's a low tier cock carousel riding ho who you're trying to wife up. in either case, it doesn't change the fact that you're an insecure bitch.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 06:06 PM
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Honestly the whole thing has just made me more confused - I thought that if I cheated I would leave my wife for sure but despite the sex being fucking way better I didn’t get that strong desire to leave my wife. I’m basically just going with it for now with no plan which seems dangerous but fuck it. because sex isn't that important, but it is fun
/r/askMRP12/01/20 04:50 PM
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Wait.. they have combined $200k in the bank, and the dude has $6? Did I read that right? Obvious solution is to ask mommy for an increase in the allowance.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 04:28 PM
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It's about building your frame, building your mission, building your goals, knowing your wants, knowing your desires, knowing your true nature and then deciding if you are going to allow her - or any other woman - into your frame, into your life and into your bed. Sure, if your want to be in the top tier. Many people are good with simply not being unhappy anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 11:02 PM
1

I updated it to 888 days... because 8 is a lucky number.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:55 PM
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Dude -- thanks for this link. We both agreed to this plan. I’m very good at many things and my earning potential is much greater than hers. Im not making a lot now, but I’m earning $80 an hour on my design / advertising projects, my apparel company is passive income - I get $5 to $20 a day by doing nothing - and that will grow, and I make $300+ an hour writing music for television shows. The problem is, I don’t have enough projects to earn a lot. But that will change. In 2 years I could be earni…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 10:50 PM
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Both of your responses are filled with platitudes. You're a greeting cards type of person.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 09:30 PM
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it's par for the course from that type of person. i'd bet money none of the mods read all of it. i for sure didn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 08:58 PM
3

This is classic dead bedroom advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:40 PM
2

This answer presumes attraction and compliance - the desire of the woman to please the man. If it's doesn't exist, this advice is creepy as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:38 PM
3

Are you the type of person who tells unattractive people to just be themselves?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:36 PM
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I've reapproved, but OP is banned. I'll post his modmail messages as soon as I can. Modmail messages
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/20 05:35 PM
2

Yes. It hinders mindset. Because it pigeonholes thoughts and attributions. On the flip side, 80% of people think they're better than average.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 02:59 PM
3

This is so gay. OP is banned with the note "If you don't give a fuck, I don't either."
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 11:34 PM
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She also said that she was surprised that I had the balls - not only to pay for sex, but also to then tell her. ^^^
/r/askMRP07/01/20 02:19 PM
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You may want to do a search for "She" and look at how your post lights up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 08:29 PM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 08:24 PM
1

Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 08:23 PM
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2 years in and still with such a shitty mindset and inability to just get things done. Too bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 08:21 PM
2

https://modernlifedating.teachable.com/?affcode=332052_onqkhmwwv bit of a preview in /u/RStonePT's latest video -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nln7vc4tDPQ
/r/askMRP04/01/20 12:52 PM
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Probably
/r/askMRP04/01/20 07:17 AM
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I prefer not to have my ass violated on the back end. I've learned this more than a few times in my life.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 07:12 AM
1

Can you go wrong with Franks?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 06:50 AM
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The ability to be introspective and then act on it. The acting part is hard. Sometimes it requires pushing the boundaries of comfort.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 06:49 AM
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What China (Shanghai) has done is import a bunch of high end hoit culture thinking that having the brands is what is impressive. So you walk around the Shanghai IFC seeing Gucci with a red rope for an empty store. All the while, every single employee is heads down, fingerfucking on their phone. What China has failed to realize is that those brands are valuable because of the attention to detail put into those brands, not the fact that those brands are well recognized. The end result is that they…
/r/askMRP04/01/20 06:43 AM
1

Married. 33. A few relationships and some friends.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:44 AM
2

Bangkok is surprisingly developed.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:43 AM
1

Yes
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:43 AM
2

I always thought wearing a boa was sad. I never bought into peacocking at that level.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:42 AM
2

Wrong approach. Game people.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:41 AM
2

Don't know. Never been in that position or thought about it. Try pimping?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:41 AM
2

You're asking the wrong questions.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:40 AM
1

Do you need a FO or this FO?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:39 AM
4

Meh. He thought of us as equals. I didn't think about him.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:37 AM
3

It's nice watching people grow. not often that you see a sociology experiment in real time.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:37 AM
1

The cambodians were able to do it pretty well.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:36 AM
2

You're a freak.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:35 AM
1

Whoops.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 05:34 AM
14

She doesn't want you. The problem for you is that there's no one else in the world that wants you either. Fix the latter problem first.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:11 PM
9

MRP is the place to go if you have a low tolerance for bullshit and no desire to be coddled and no desire to be a victim. What your exact circumstances are don't really matter. if you're separated, and unsure whether you want to get back, Why would you want to go back?
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:45 PM
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I’ve always wanted to ask you this: what’s “behind” your approach to advising people? I only tell things to people that they already know. A guy puts enough effort into this and they'll realize things aren't working, but they don't know why. I try to verbalize and make it easy to understand the why -- and only 1 thing at a time. For example, I've been telling /u/foxshitnasty that he should go fuck other women for 1+ year now, and he's finally getting to the point where he's realizing he needs to…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:44 PM
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you actually have to be able to fuck women when you talk about fucking women. i assume that the men who are married have at least fucked and been in a committed relationship with 1 woman. can't guarantee or say the same about trp.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:29 PM
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Cheating is more of an issue because of the breach of trust than the actual act of fucking another person.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:26 PM
2

Non-verbal communication is pretty key. I'd read about the psychology behind non-verbal communication as well. E.g. what's regarded as personal space vs not. There was a twitter guy who just released a video series on it recently. I know it's a dumb question, You have to give me more details if you want more depth
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:24 PM
2

And I'm guessing that your body language isn't serious in terms of intent.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:10 PM
15

I don't really remember. It was around 2015 when TRP was blowing up big, but I thought TRP was a bunch of edgy twinks (still do) and someone pointed linked married red pill. It was a smaller community (3000 or so?) and it was more grounded. I called some people retarded faggots like they deserved, and the community responded well. So, I stuck around. There've been a couple of communities where it didn't, so I didn't.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:09 PM
15

Every time I try to flirt, I come off as super corny. How do I make it more serious? What does this even mean? Also, should I shave my chest hair? Into the shape of a penis. Demonstrates virility.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 02:01 PM
1

WAS commented in his YT OYS series that he sees me trying to live through my son (BTW man, keep those videos up, it's great to hear your thought process as you go through OYS's every week) Thanks for the feedback. I'll probably do another session on Saturday when I'm in France. China internet no good.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/20 04:08 AM
1

you use a lot of hedging language which means you don't like being decisive.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/20 02:04 AM
1

Just thought it was something maybe some guys could use. It is. But what do you think most guys will do with it? It took you how long of introspection to get to this point? And in 1 year or 2 when you suck less, you'll look back at this phase and think "damn.. that was stupid and not at all useful." self-compassion doesn't lead to results. results will lead to self compassion.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 12:12 PM
2

Some of us torture ourselves over mistakes; That's a you problem. You need to fix that shit. If you can't fix that shit and want to wallow, we ban you. It's that simple. There are enough subreddits dedicated to coddling people that we only look for people putting in the really hard work to make progress. DaddyThundercock was permabanned because of this. Does he need compassion? Absolutely. Does he need self compassion? Absolutely. Am I going to wait around endless while he's trying to figure thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 10:35 AM
1

Why so difficult? Here is the budget, here is the project, you manage it. Overruns get cleared by me first.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 07:58 PM
1

Get out of the house
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 07:28 PM
1

10% of monthly spend.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 07:08 PM
2

yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 06:50 PM
2

Recognizing that we fuck up isn't self compassion, it's being human. Telling yourself it's okay to continually be a fuck up isn't self-compassion, it's bullshit. Self improvement is bullshit. If you need someone to tell you it's okay to make progress one step at a time, I don't know what to tell you. This post fails rule 0.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 06:49 PM
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Not okay to just be "self-compassionate". If you aren't expecting better from yourself, get fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 04:18 PM
1

Educating kids is hard. "Here is how I will help you. I will tell you what you need to do and you will do then. If you don't do them, that's on you, but you won't get any more help. You definitely won't get handouts." I might offer to manage the money for a 10% fee with final say on shit he can or can't spend money on. "Cheaper than overdraft fees."
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 06:45 AM
2

Question is, what are you going to DO now? The answer doesn't really matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 04:29 AM
2

wrong
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 01:26 AM
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What the fuck is this? You talked to a person and might have even had sex. Congratulations. Fucking retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 01:22 AM
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You do you and just be yourself.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 12:26 AM
3

Yup
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 06:54 PM
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Congratulations?
/r/askMRP28/12/19 06:54 PM
2

Start instead by focusing on your mission, your mindset, and how you attack the world. lol. shit advice not because it's wrong, but because it's not useful. new guys have no idea what this even means. you may as well tell him to just be himself.
/r/askMRP28/12/19 10:58 AM
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whomever else decides to cross paths with him at the same time. Apparently not. The fact that he can't win friends and influence people means he's shit at being attractive. He doesn't understand the laws of power. And from the sounds of it, he's not self validated either. You make him seem like he's just a combative douche. , it hasn't been medically diagnosed, mainly because he can't afford to see anyone about it right now. He's focused on finding a job that has good benefits so he can go back …
/r/RedPillWives28/12/19 10:55 AM
4

Have a mistress
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 04:34 AM
2

read up on rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 02:11 AM
1

rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 02:08 AM
1

rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 02:05 AM
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ometimes I think I’m not going to ever get what I want in this relationship again. Other times I think I’m a giant loser and deserve exactly what I’m getting. Why not both? She's been condition for many years she doesnt have to win your attention or compete for you. What reason have you given her for her to try?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 01:58 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 01:54 AM
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rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/19 01:54 AM
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One concern is that the more frequent sex is an elaborate charade so I can get her pregnant and that my wife will get complacent again with pleasing me sexually after we've had another baby. Could be. But you control how often you have sex. She controls how often you have sex with her. When you get there mentally, you're gonna walk around and she's going to know she needs to adding value to keep you around. The marriage will continue to adapt accordingly, or I'll grow beyond it. exactly right so…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 08:33 PM
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14 day ban for rule 9 violation. https://imgur.com/a/nbuMVXw solid frame my ass
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 08:29 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/19 12:55 PM
1

Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 10:44 PM
3

Hahaha. No. My flex was in Twitter, @whinemoreplease. Airplane wifi is not dependable.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 09:06 PM
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Fuck. I've tried writing this 3 times. It's gotten wiped 3 times. Let's put it this way -- life is easy as fuck. Figure out how to make that shit easy for you. Want to fuck bitches? Let's go fuck bitches! Update: you guys ever want to practice frame? drive around on a moped in southeast asia. there are no rules and the entire situation is organized chaos. the rules are this -- you're responsible for not hitting the person in front of you, and other people are responsible for not hitting you. if …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 06:43 PM
1

You're shadowbanned by reddit.. you may want to redo your username or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 02:28 PM
1

My condolences.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 02:24 PM
2

I was fully aware of my potential anger and emotions and kept them in check. You know why people get angry? Unmet expectations from outside sources. What are your unmet expectations? And then work on understanding why it's bullshit that you have them and what you're going to do about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 02:21 PM
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I'm gonna stop you right here. If every week, you're gonna post how much of a weak faggot you are -- there's no point in having you around. Zero progress this week. If you can't do the basics, go fuck yourself with a cactus. A panic attack led to a 3-day depression spiral and it all went to shit I don't give a shit about your reasons. Doesn't change the end result which is you suck and failed.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 02:18 PM
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damn you guys are needy. i'm just trying to fly over to asia and drink for the rest of the year. we'll get to it when we get to it. it's on you guys to not engage with content you don't think is valuable
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 04:09 AM
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Im the furthest thing from a cheater Sounds like we've hit the root cause.
/r/askMRP22/12/19 01:24 PM
1

I really want right now is an ounce of respect at home Be a person who respect themselves, and you'll eventually learn to kick out people who suck. to get my dick wet once in a while to take the edge off. $200. Or did you want to imply "with my wife"? There are a lot of options out there. If you're not attractive enough to get them, that's on you. When you're attractive enough to get them that's on her. Tbh, as sad as it sounds, I feel lonely as fuck right now and OYS really helps with perspecti…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 07:29 PM
1

I see a lot of posts on this sub ridiculing this milestone. who cares what retards on the internet think?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 04:26 AM
1

Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 04:25 AM
1

So what do you want out of life?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 04:16 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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