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beatles-lover/r/MGTOW12/06/19 12:48 PM
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The Big Questionbeatles-lover/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 10:31 PM
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Fuuuucking hell, of all the places I wouldn't want women to mess me over, it'd in space or deep in the fucking ocean Agreed. I think even most feminists don't want to be astronauts. They want nice cushy office jobs where they can call in sick when they feel like it.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 04:09 PM
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Read on here somewhere that I believe in Sweden they did a study and found that woman lead companies are far less successful than male run companies.....surprise, surprise....NOT! I'm surprised that such a study would see the light of day. But even without a study, it's obvious just from simple observation that women lack the attributes necessary to build and run successful companies. Most successful female-led businesses actually have a man who runs the business and the woman is just a figurehe…
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 03:27 PM
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The article is a bit misleading because there is still a huge bias in favor of hiring young attractive women, just not quite as much as in the past. SJW's are kinda right when they say that if you are privileged, equality feels like oppression.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 02:46 PM
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I think a lot of what's going on is that male astronauts have to be the best of the best of the best. So if there is the slightest hint of personality problems they are OUT. At the same time, there is intense pressure from the gynocracy to have more female astronauts. But very few women have any interest in the risks and discomfort involved. And fewer still meet the physical requirements. So NASA has to scrape the bottom of the barrel.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 02:38 PM
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The feminist explanation is that when companies are in trouble, women are brought in to take the blame. But what's telling is that it is extremely rare for women build up a successful company from scratch. The only exception is when the woman herself is the product, e.g. Oprah Winfrey or Madonna.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 02:32 PM
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Men have a much higher incidence of NPD and BPD. This is incorrect. BPD is much more common among women than among men; NPD is the reverse. But the key point is that the incidence of BPD (or any personality disorder) among men is irrelevant to the discussion. Because men are not automatically believed when they make accusations of misbehavior. We live in a society where women have a special privilege: A woman can accuse any man of sexual misbehavior and her accusation will be taken seriously eve…
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 11:01 PM
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it's probably because there is substantially less women using the app than men. this is supposed to attract women to use the app which is good for you, It's good for you if your goal in life is to fuck as many sluts as possible. Not so much if you are looking for a traditional woman to build a life with.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:11 PM
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It's kinda interesting that Tinder caters to women given how thirsty males are their major spenders.. Dating app makers generally focus on attracting women. The thinking is that if you get women, men will follow.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:09 PM
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They want to attract more women to the app. They know that if they get more women, men will follow. It's as simple as that.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:07 PM
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The ad shows her in bed waking up with one of the guys. 0:42. Sex is clearly implied. At 1:09 she's shown pulling off her shirt and then naked in a tub.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:05 PM
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Why post a video on youtube if youre gonna disable comments and like/dislikes. The point is to pander to women's feral desires while insulating them from judgment or criticism.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 08:02 PM
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If I had fuck-you money I would hire actors and make gender-flipped versions of movies and advertisements. What would happen is that you would get zero mainstream attention. Based on the sort of things which do get attention, it's easy to think that getting attention is not too difficult. But in actuality, it's extremely hard. And something which goes against the popular narrative would be extremely extremely hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/19 09:05 PM
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Yeah, one thing I've noticed is that TV dads are always presented as bumbling idiots, unless they agree to play the role of captain save-a-ho to some single mom. Then -- and only then -- they are portrayed sympathetically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/19 03:04 AM
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So if they’re married would the house be half his if they divorce? This isn't legal advice, but I'm pretty sure that in most jurisdictions, generally speaking the answer is "yes." That for the most part, the courts ignore whose name the property is in and decide if its "community property." If a house is nominally owned by one spouse but the other spouse has been contributing to the mortgage payments, I'm pretty sure it would be seen as community property.
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 01:17 AM
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Women who are well off are like women with height. They won't deal with anyone with less then them. Of course not all women are like this but for those that are it's part of their shallow materialistic bs. It's interesting you should say this, because when this woman started dating again, the most important thing for her was to meet a man who was financially successful. Logically this makes no sense because she herself is well off and she is too old to have more children. But of course the hyper…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 04:40 AM
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No, what I think is being described here is that the woman owned the house, and the husband, not knowing this, was somehow tricked into paying rent for 10 years, possibly to a third party. And the wife was just taking that rent money and keeping it Yeah, that makes sense. Although presumably the wife was using the phony rent money in large part to make mortgage payments.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 04:26 AM
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I think that in most jurisdictions, it doesn't really matter whether the family house is in the name of the husband, the wife, or both. The legal system will typically treat it as joint property.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 01:58 AM
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Obviously a troll, but anyway, I like the analogy of an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. AA is a support group for people who want to get away from the negative and destructive influence of alcohol. At meetings, it's not just a sunshine and rainbows chat where people talk about their lives without mentioning alcohol. No, people talk about their negative experiences with alcohol; the traps they have avoided (or fallen into); the negative effects on their lives from the use of alcohol, and so on. Dis…
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 01:55 AM
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Does she have overdone eyebrows too? Just checked, and no, her eyebrows are fine. Trimmed but nothing crazy. This girl is actually pretty cute, her eyes are the main problem. I guess that her skull in that area (the intra-orbital?) doesn't give adequate support to her skin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 01:15 AM
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On the plus side, she doesn’t have kids, I wouldn't be surprised at all if what she means is that she doesn't have custody of any kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 01:06 AM
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are y’all seriously hating on her....this is an absolutely fine profile to have pls stop being pissbabies It depends on what she's been doing for the last 25 years. Did she marry young and her husband got successful and dumped her for a younger woman? Or (more likely) has she been riding the CC for all this time? Admittedly, the profile doesn't contain the usual clues. It doesn't say that she is "tired of the fuckboys" or that she is "finally ready to settle down." On the other hand, the way she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:54 AM
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You know what if its a taller lady I dont mind that they want someone as tall or taller. Yeah I am a manlet at 5'7" and I don't have a problem with a 5'9" woman who would reject me over my height. But if a 5'9" woman is going to reject short men, she needs to understand and accept that if she is going to expect men to have traditional male qualities, e.g. being taller than her, it's fine for men to expect women to have traditional female qualities. Almost all women are complete hypocrites when i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:50 AM
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make-up to hide her imperfections (like bags under her eyes), etc. This point sort of hit home with me. I have a 24 year old female acquaintance who is cute but is already developing noticeable bags under her eyes. Nevertheless she's your typical woman who thinks she is all that and a bag of potato chips. Anyway, she recently changed her profile pic to one in which she is wearing makeup, and admittedly she looks amazing. She is desperately looking for a husband and I kinda pity the guy who gets …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:42 AM
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Why do they always say their children are their world? I think a lot of it is because they feel ashamed about the parade of men coming through their children's lives. Possibly they are worried that the children's father will find the dating ad and use it as evidence against them in a custody proceeding. Or that the children's classmates will find it. What I DON'T think is that it's to give Billy Beta fair warning that he will not be a priority. Because that kind of goes without saying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:35 AM
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Honestly at this age, with 2 kids Im betting on divorce instead of whatever else It's remotely possible that she is a genuinely good woman who settled down early and ended up divorced due to her husband's misbehavior. I know a woman like this who married her college sweetheart, he became a successful doctor, and he had a classic midlife crisis and ultimately dumped her for some young hottie in her 20s. Now she gets a nice fat alimony check but is looking for a man for companionship. Of course sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:30 AM
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I wonder how she feels about men who pursue a hedonistic lifestyle. Probably she sees them as boys who selfishly refuse to "man up."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 12:16 AM
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That i dunno for sure, it depends how much ego one has in this. Anyone who puts mental energy into honing their pickup skills and trying to bank chicks is going to feel good about himself and validated when he finally bangs the hot chick; it shows a certain level of mastery. In the same way, a person who puts time and energy into physical fitness will feel validated when he finally runs that 6 minute mile. The difference is that with the hot chick, women as a group are deciding whether or not Le…
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 02:00 PM
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If by some miracle a woman had done this, we'd never hear the end of it.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:36 AM
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You'd never ever ever fucking see a woman doing this, she'd be on the sidelines screaming Agreed, women have a very strong tendency to freak out in emergency situations and fail to act effectively. What the man did in this situation is illustrative. In literally less than a second, he saw the problem, assessed the situation, and formulated a plan for dealing with it -- i.e. dropping his bag, running over, pulling the biker off the tracks, then pulling the bike off the tracks. It doesn't take gen…
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:35 AM
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One of the dirty little secrets of modern culture is that a man's sexual attraction for his wife fades astonishingly fast. In a 50-year marriage, you are fortunate to get 10 years of satisfying sex.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:20 AM
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I have a few problems with Leykis, the biggest one being that he is basically a PUA. i.e. one of his main activities in life is to fuck as many hot chicks as he can. The problem with this is that he is handing women the power to determine his self-esteem. It's natural for us men to judge ourselves based on how women judge us, but I think this urge needs to be resisted. Women are essentially children. Handing them the keys to our self-worth is a recipe for misery.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:17 AM
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You just socially slow then chief, I can tell within 5 minutes of meeting a bitch if she real or a Thot. Great to know that you have never been used; never been tricked; never been the victim of manipulation. Not once, not ever. We should all be as perceptive as you.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 03:12 AM
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Or now here me out, stay away from shitty people man or woman Society doesn't automatically believe men when they make accusations against someone - male or female. Besides, it's sometimes hard to know in advance if a person is shitty.
/r/MGTOW15/06/19 02:58 AM
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Wow, her breasts are really unappealing. But what's even more of a turn-off is the word "ready." I would guess that a woman who uses that word in her profile typically has n>50 and often n>100.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 07:46 AM
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That's not rare. 0.001% is rare. Yes, I think this is an important point. The average man interacts with dozens of women per year in school; at work; and or in his romantic life. That means that during his life, an average man can expect to interact with hundreds of women. If 1% of women have BPD, it means that the average man regularly interacts with women who are practiced liars and manipulators and will think nothing of lodging a false accusation if it strikes their fancy to do so.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 08:59 PM
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mine never did It could be she had both!!
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 04:54 PM
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bpd sounds a lot like my ex wife who had bipolar. People with bipolar often have periods of clarity where they express remorse for their misbehavior. Not so with borderlines.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 04:42 PM
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Great summary. Thanks. The only thing I would add is that BPD, as a personality disorder, is often entwined and even mistaken for other personality disorders. I agree that the lines are very blurry among different types of personality disorders. But ultimately, it doesn't matter because if the woman has any personality disorder, she's bad news.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 03:22 PM
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I can't believe people get paid to dress up the word 'cunt' with poetic jargon. That's all these BPD people are, a bunch of cunts. It's that simple. I think there's an advantage of thinking "BPD" over "cunt." Which is that there are certain behavior patterns which occur again and again with BPD. If you spot a couple of those behaviors, you can predict that the woman is likely to exhibit the other behaviors.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 03:01 PM
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While full blown BPD is rare (1-10% of women), my experience with women has led me to believe that there is an NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and BPD spectrum, and that most women are on one of these spectra. Yes, I think that in many ways BPD can be thought of as simply a failure to mature. Small children are dishonest, manipulative, impulsive, and engage in splitting. People don't perceive them as evil simply because that's the behavior expected of small children. Most people get more…
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 02:58 PM
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'Old school' - I think what she means is that she'd like to pick all the nice bits from the past and all the nice bits that she likes from the present If "nice bits" means "stuff that benefits me," then yeah, I agree 100%. But what's depressing is that approximately 99% of women think this way, including most feminists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/19 06:23 AM
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Social media provides quite the window into female narcissism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/19 05:40 AM
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Not one normal angle and not one shot of the bod except for the tits hmm... Also every shot of her face is filtered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/19 09:34 PM
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I agree to an extent but I think a big part of the problem is that your typical wife subconsciously resents her husband because he's not Chad. Or if he's Chad, he's not super-Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/19 01:22 PM
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The thing that still confounds me after many years of perusing these ads is why they insist on mixing "back in the day" pics with current pics. I would guess that a lot of the time they don't realize just how far downhill they have gone. For one thing, women get lots of positive feedback on their looks and very little negative feedback. More importantly, I think that there is a huge difference between male and female perception on this issue. In terms of overall aesthetics, the changes in appear…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 06:54 PM
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I call fake on this one. For one thing, Leftists don't normally refer to themselves that way. They might say "progressive," though. It would also be pretty rare for a fat leftist to refer to herself as "overweight," since the term concedes that there is a normal, healthy weight range. Your typical fat feminist believes that being fat is completely normal, healthy, and beautiful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 06:32 PM
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If she is slender, young, cute, and loyal, then it's a pretty good deal. Assuming that she's willing to compromise in the looks department for a guy who has money. Basically she's a sugar baby and she's offering something which is in many ways much better than marriage. In reality, she's probably overweight, unattractive, and has a bad attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 06:26 PM
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Good insight in the title u/anyoneinamerica. If a woman spams pics of her kids in her profile, she's emphasizing needing a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability. Either that or she's trying to pimp out the child. Are there moms who would do such a horrible thing? Absolutely, particularly if the mom in question has a drug problem and is desperate for money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 11:04 AM
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It's nice that these THOTs are stupid enough to advertise their high partner counts and general jadedness by putting words like "sick," "tired," and "ready" in their profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 08:13 AM
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The "lives with parents" stigma is something that needs to end in America. I moved back home because I'm in graduate school and working full time. FWIW all things being equal I would prefer a girl who always lived with her parents (especially her father) than one who has been on her own. For one thing, she will have a better attitude if she has always been subject to male authority. For another, it's more difficult for such a girl to slut it up. However, in this case it would appear that she's f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 08:07 AM
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Women hate hate HATE betas I think this isn't quite right. I think women's feeling towards betas is roughly analogous to that of a white southerner towards blacks during the post-civil war era. He's okay with blacks who "know their place," so to speak; who just do their jobs and don't demand equality. In the same way, I think most women are okay with betas who serve and sacrifice for women without getting "uppity," which in this case means acting like a sexual being. But as long as can be viewed…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 12:48 AM
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They're the result of a culture that absolves them from all blame and gives them too-convenient targets to shift that blame to. Most of them have been trained away from even having the thought that they're responsible for their own actions. I think that's another way of saying that women tend to have poor insight. "Insight" means the ability to understand what's going wrong in your brain. So for example, in the case of a schizophrenic person who experiences auditory hallucinations, if he has poo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 12:15 AM
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Women are capable of insight Not in my experience when it comes to dating. Of all the thousands of articles written by non-anonymous women in their 30s complaining about their difficulties in finding a relationship, I defy you to identify 3 which correctly diagnose the problem and accept responsibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 09:00 PM
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Sorry, but I am pretty sure this is fake. Women just don't have this level of insight into their poor decision-making. They don't have this level of acceptance of responsibility for the outcomes of their poor life choices. When verifiable women write about the stable provider types they rejected, it's usually something like "the chemistry wasn't there," or "he was socially awkward." When verifiable women write about the string of bad-boys they fucked, it's usually something like "I seem to attra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 07:55 PM
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We had a similar thing at my university several years ago. Guess what happened? 80% of the men who wore green (traffic light party, green was available / to go) were ignored, of course. It doesn’t mater if you measure the amount of ‘desirable men’ in a jug, a cup, a bowl, a dish or a whiskey tumbler. Yes, it doesn't matter how you slice things, it won't change the fact that by definition, there aren't enough handsome princes to wife up every woman who thinks she deserves one. If this woman start…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 06:19 PM
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It’s funny how /TRP is quarantined and described as a “hate subreddit”, but a sub like TwoX that shits on men constantly is allowed to operate with impunity. Yeah somehow a lot of people get automatically subscribed to it. It seems like most of the posts there are dubious stories which fit the narrative of "men bad women good."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 04:40 PM
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Well, if a woman knows she won't be getting anything from a man she wants, whether it be sex or a promotion or a flat tire changed, she doesn't really have much interest in him either. Yes, and that's fine. Ultimately all relationships are transactional. What women seem to object to is that men see sex as the primary value women bring to relationships. That and the fact that a lot of men won't simply serve them without expecting anything in return.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 04:28 PM
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Men react to women's sexual strategies... you can thank feminism for creating this hook up pump and dump culture. The thing is, there are plenty of men out there who would commit to a long-term relationship with her -- but not Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 04:15 PM
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I have a feeling most people that end up shopping with those 'flirt baskets' will be middle aged women. Yeah, fundamentally the problem is not with Tinder, the problem is in the way this woman thinks about men. She wants commitment from a man who is "handsome," but it doesn't occur to her that it's not mathematically possible for handsome men to commit to all the girls who want men who are handsome. Almost all dating problems people complain about boil down to "you're not attractive enough to at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 04:13 PM
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How old is the authot? Mid thirties I’d wager. Almost all of these types of articles are written by women over the age of 30. In fact, I've never seen one written by a girl in her 20s. Which is interesting because you would think that girls in their 20s would face the same problem of getting Chad to commit, if to a lesser extent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 03:47 PM
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and women said I should’ve remained friends and waited. In those types of situations, 99.9% of the time the "friendship" is extremely one-sided. The woman expects the man to do favors for her and listen to her complain about stuff, but when he needs her for something, she's nowhere to be found. It's funny because the normal societal stereotype -- that men have a sense of entitlement to women's bodies -- is actually as wrong as wrong can be. In reality, it's women who have a sense of entitlement …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 03:16 PM
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He wants a relationship or nothing. You should prefer that over a beta orbiter. Why would a self respecting guy want to get into a close platonic relationship with a girl he has feelings for so he can watch her get into a relationship with another guy? Most women really like the idea of having a male platonic friend who serves them without seeking any kind of sexual attention in return. I can think of 2 examples of this from popular culture: In Sex and the City, Sarah Jessica Parker's character …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 12:30 PM
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She couldn't believe it and got annoyed at me. I mean, you have the choice to only want to be friends in the same way that I have the choice to be straightforward and not play these pussy games. Yes, and even if you totally enjoy each other's company, it's reasonable for you to avoid having a non-sexual relationship where you are sexually interested in the other person. Also, if entering into a romantic/sexual relationship is a priority in your life, it's reasonable not to waste time with a love…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 12:10 PM
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People with traditional values and good families still exist. I'm in southern US where lots of wealthy, Christian families in semi-rural areas are not completely gone. Private schools, homeschooling, tight knit communities, good neighborhoods, church - these things exist for this reason. I agree to an extent -- the nature of the surrounding community is at least as important as whether the father is strong and good. Although not all communities are as good as they seem. Search the word churchtho…
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 11:31 AM
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Google Translate needs a Thotspeak to English feature. What is needed to met a normal and upstanding guy in his late thirties that wants to hang with me? translates to What is needed to met a normal and upstanding guy in his late thirties who is in the top 10-20% of physical attractiveness that wants to hang with me? ___________ Most males I have come across are only after one thing. translates to Most males I have come across who are in the top 10-20% of physical attractiveness are only after o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 11:23 AM
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It may be a problem for the US. But it's definitely not a problem for Ahmed down the street at the 7/11 Where do Ahmed's daughters go to school and what will they be taught there? I'm pretty confident that if they go to public schools, a large percentage won't wear burkas when they grow up. Why does this matter? It matters because if an extremely small percentage of fathers are "not beta," it suggests that it's not an easy thing to accomplish. Will you concede that it's practically unheard of fo…
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 05:04 AM
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Moscow alone boasts more than 3 million single women between the ages of 25 and 50, out of a population of 11.1 million (that’s three times the number of single Muscovite men) Of those 3 million single women, how many are slender, childless, fertile, sane, and have a low partner count? I can understand Russian women objecting to men who are alcoholics, but as usual with these types of articles, there is ZERO discussion of women's flaws. They expect their girlfriends and wives to clean for them, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 02:17 AM
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I'm going to bet quite a bit this was posted by a guy. Yeah, I made a post saying it's fake before I saw yours. When women talk about failed relationships, they almost always spin things to make the guys seem extremely unreasonable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:49 AM
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This is 100% fake. Women never describe their exes in such positive terms. If it were real, he would be described as "controlling," and "posessive." She would spin things to make him seem much more unreasonable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:46 AM
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Also, I'm not sure if the mods/veterans here still got the link to it, but if you have been settled for, you are gonna be cheated on. I wouldn't put it at 100%, but yeah, I'm pretty sure this is a huge risk factor. If she perceives you as a beta provider, then her instincts will be screaming at her to fuck Chad behind your back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:40 AM
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If Chad hit her up you can bet that her "exhaustion" would evaporate in a heartbeat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:24 AM
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I have five friends off the top of my head I could call who would loan me a grand with no questions. I can’t think of a single woman who would do something like that. Yeah, but it's actually worse than that. How many female "friends" can you call and say "I'm feeling really shitty, can you meet for a couple hours at the local bar and listen to me complain," and they will drop what they are doing and meet you? Almost all of the female friends I have had will spend time with me only if they have n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:18 AM
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The word "hypocritical" is completely inappropriate -- the men are being completely consistent Yeah, I am having difficulty wrapping my brain around her argument, but it seems basically to boil down to the usual female complaint about the friend zone, i.e. that men will often act in a friendly towards women with the ulterior motive of wanting a romantic/sexual relationship. Which is a ridiculous complaint, but even more so in the context of a woman who works the desk in a gym. As if male gym cus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/19 01:08 AM
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You seem to be looking towards the crowd to justify your actions. No, I'm simply scrutinizing your claim. If less than a tenth of a percent of American dads are "good strong fathers," that's a problem. Because it suggests that it's very difficult for a man to be a "good strong father." I proposed a solution, which is: don't be a beta father. Yes, you proposed it but I'm skeptical that it's a satisfactory solution. Women in the West are bombarded every day with the seductive messages of feminism.…
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 10:14 PM
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Because none of you have ever flirted because it’s something fun to do? I can't speak for other guys here, but I've never led a woman to believe she had a chance at a sexual relationship with me when in reality she had no chance.
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 09:48 PM
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This is a pretty bleak view on things. I don't think it's true. If you're a good, strong father and foster a good relationship with your daughter she'll be much less interested in degeneracy What percentage of American men are good strong fathers? What percentage of American girls are truly traditional and will put marriage and family first? As to the second question, one needs to distinguish between girls who are raised in traditional religious communities and girls who grow up in the secular w…
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 09:23 PM
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There's another issue here. Even if you find yourself a nice traditional girl, what happens with your children? If your daughters go to school; if they have access to the internet; if they watch television; if they engage with other girls, they will constantly get all the destructive messages of modern western culture, among them, that women should prioritize education, career, and the cock carousel over marriage and family; that men suck; and so on.
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 08:21 PM
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Uh, this one I can't really agree with, doesn't matter how many partners you had as long as you're clean/healthy. I would have to disagree with this. Having a lot of sex with different people changes who you are as a person. Each new person you have sex with lessens the emotional impact of sex with that person. Just looking at the dating profiles posted here, you can tell who is jaded and its a very unappealing quality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 06:46 PM
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Arguably it's just as bad if she never liked it. Because it means she liked Chad enough to do degrading things in order to keep him around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 06:31 PM
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They all hate fuckboys, but not enough to deny them sex so they wouldn't be "fuck"boys anymore. They hate fuckboys the same way that alcoholics hate booze.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/19 05:28 PM
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They'd pass a law that allows them to qualify for retirement earlier. I have absolutely zero doubt. Actually there are South American countries where women get to retire earlier on the ridiculous theory that it gives them time to be home with their husbands. The way I learned about it was some dude -- I think it was in Argentina -- had himself declared to be a woman so he could take advantage of early retirement.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 08:41 PM
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"Gender Mortality Gap" would become a common cry of feminists even if men and women died at the same age. Much like how there's no real wage gap, they'd find a way to become the victim even if things were equal. Yes, I've actually heard feminists complain that average Medicare spending per year is greater for men than it is for women. The reason for this is actually pretty simple: The majority of Medicare costs come towards the very end of a person's life -- because that's when people are at the…
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 08:34 PM
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By "the one" she means Chad. Yes because it's not just that women are obsessed with looks, it's also that most of them are unaware of how obsessed they are with looks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 04:51 PM
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The ring is an aftermarket attachment to assist in pulling the bolt back. 22/45s don’t have slides, they have semi-enclosed bolts that you’d normally pull back while basically pinching the tabs at the back of the bolt. Ok thanks, it all makes sense now :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 04:02 PM
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Society's primary objection to shorter male life expectancy is that it makes it more difficult for women to find romantic partners.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 04:00 PM
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They legit should do that show with 40+ singles. They do -- in Sex and the City as well as 90% of romantic comedies. And they are wildly popular among middle aged women. The only problem being that it's tricky to do this concept as a reality show. But I do think there's a fortune to be made creating a phony reality bachelorette type show where all the men are handsome and successful and all the women are 40+.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 12:39 PM
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"Horrifying" is a strong word for somebody's completely reasonable dating preferences, don't you think? I think what's "horrifying" to women is that Leo gets 40-50 years of being highly desirable while no woman gets more than 20-25 years. (Of course your average man gets literally ZERO years of being highly desirable, but very few women are able to think about the sexual marketplace in a rational way.)
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 12:01 PM
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I've never met him, can't speak to his personality or morality, but he does seem to take his work seriously and I respect that. I actually disapprove of him pursuing this hedonistic lifestyle. The problem with the feminists is that they are criticizing him for the wrong reasons. Feminists are criticizing him primarily because he is a man. Feminists think it's great for women to fuck the most attractive men they can without regards to building families and long-term stable relationships.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 11:56 AM
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Don’t understand why? Jealousy. Agreed, but jealousy of whom? To an extent, it's jealousy of younger women but I think the real issue here is women can't stand the fact that the wall for men is much gentler than it is for women, particularly if the man accumulates wealth and social status.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 11:39 AM
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Can I get an Id on that gun? The purple throws me off It looks like a Ruger 22/45 target pistol to me: https://www.keelyarms.com/product_p/rug_43915.htm Although it looks like the gun she has appears to have a prominent lanyard ring at the back of the slide. Which doesn't make sense to me, I have never seen a pistol with a lanyard ring in that spot and it seems like a bad position anyway. Maybe it's just a trick of the light.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 09:07 AM
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I'm old enough to remember when girls shunned computer programming because it wasn't cool. Once a subculture becomes cool, girls start flooding in. I suppose you could call it cultural appropriation.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 09:30 PM
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As the saying goes, what if the grapes really are sour?
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 09:17 PM
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This is mostly true, but have you ever played Overwatch? Everyone gets shit on there male or female and it’s hilarious I should have said that -- according to the fantasy -- women are subject to more abuse than men online. Which of course is completely false. In fact, if it were true, women who post and play games would simply choose masculine sounding screen names. The reason they don't do it is because they know perfectly well that in reality women are treated better than men.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 04:26 PM
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You have to understand that most of reddit is cucked. Most of society is cucked. Between women's natural in-group bias and (most) men's desperate desire for female validation, there is constant hostility towards men in virtually all mixed or female spaces.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 04:47 AM
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Yeah, there's this fantasy that women are constantly harassed online, but nothing could be further from the truth. It's easy enough to verify it by setting up a throwaway account with a feminine sounding username. Immediately guys start showing up from out of nowhere to defend your arguments.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 04:38 AM
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At least where I'm from in California, I've seen many guys making between 60-85k landing good looking women in their 20s. Average-looking guys? Or Chad?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/05/19 06:57 PM
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I can't believe this isn't a parody Yeah, I really would like to believe it's fake, but you never know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/19 06:48 PM
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Fake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/19 06:45 PM
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It's just an echo of larger society. There's a taboo against saying anything that puts women as a group in a negative light; saying anything that hurts women's feelings etc.
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 06:42 PM
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That's a very vague statement. What kind of money should a man in his 40s be making to keep up with their physical decline? Depends where he lives, but in a city like New York, SF, or LA, I would estimate it at 250k a year assuming he's stayed in shaped and hasn't lost his hair. Men on average tend to be better off single in their 40s. Especially if they want to settle down and have a family. I would have to disagree with this. Your average guy in his 40s is going to be in mediocre physical shap…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/05/19 06:39 PM
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whatever he is now. Thanks and yeah. My sense is that most of these career PUAs end up burned out and dissatisfied.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/05/19 05:52 PM
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Unlike women, men's bodies don't quit on fertility until much later. Which means men can be 45+ and have kids while women usually cant. This is true but men don't have forever either. If a man who is 45 decides "ok, now it's time to settle down with a nice girl and have kids," he's going to find his options to be rather limited unless he's spent the previous 20 years earning lots of money. Nowhere near as limited as a 45-year-old woman, but it's still a significant difference. Not to mention, th…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/05/19 05:41 PM
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Ok, but if a fat chick compliments you, do you feel harassed? Or would annoyed be a better word? No, but even if I did, I would think about the actual facts of the situation before reporting her for harassment. Just because someone makes you feel uncomfortable doesn't mean that they objectively did anything wrong.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 10:10 PM
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Why? Basically the same reasons as with women. It increases his chances of having a disease; it makes it more difficult for him to commit to a monogamous relationship; it takes away time that could have been spent building a family. If a man decides he's going to have fun while he's young and settle down later, he has more time to play with than a woman does, but he will still face diminution in terms of his fertility and attractiveness. I think that in general in life, following a hedonistic pa…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/05/19 09:55 PM
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the trade off for pumping and dumping hundreds of women There is an idea on this sub that the Chads have things great, i.e. that they get lots of great sex while other guys have to deal with the leftovers/consequences. You could say that Chad gets to ride the Cunt Carousel. And while most guys would ride the Cunt Carousel if they had the option, I would argue that it's destructive and unhealthy. Perhaps not as bad as a promiscuous lifestyle is for women, but pretty bad.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/05/19 08:08 PM
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But you would have zero dollars? I'm middle aged and never once in my life have a seen a pretty girl pushing a lawnmower. It's actually pretty rare to see any woman pushing a lawnmower.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 04:22 PM
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You could also argue that 90% of current episodic, network tv shows are feministic, unrealistic, blue pilled, simp oriented, cucked out crap. And you would be right. Yeah, pretty much the only time fathers are portrayed positively on television is when they agree to act as a father to another guy's child.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 04:16 PM
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Probably this tweet is from the type of woman who screams for the right of women to spend their 20s slutting it up with the most attractive high status men they can find. The inevitable consequence being this type of relationship. I also would prefer to live in a world where guys like DiCaprio are discouraged from hopping from woman to woman. But getting to such a world will necessarily require social norms that restrict women's rights. That's just the logic of the situation.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 04:07 PM
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I think they are doing this ironically or they would be smiling if serious Yeah it seems to be performance art intended to mock and ridicule Western culture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/19 12:56 PM
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They are welcome to come and read here, for free. I agree . . . of course the trouble is that it's considered "misogyny" to warn women that they have a very narrow window to find and lock down a quality man; that many of the things which they consider desirable in men (experience, education, being aggressive) are NOT desired by men in women; that the most desirable men will be happy to fuck them but will NOT commit to them -- it's just not mathematically possible. This is actually extremely usef…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/19 12:49 PM
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Even IF things are better there, it is only temporary as this whole mentality continues to progress and infect every part of the planet. Yeah, with each passing month it becomes harder to find a traditional woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/19 03:27 AM
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She wants someone to help her with «life’s challenges». Those challenges wouldn’t happen to be paying for diapers for another man’s kids, would they? If she is receiving a nice child support payment, she should probably mention it in her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 08:15 AM
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Someone really needs to write a book to re-educate women on how to box inside their weight class, both literally and figuratively. It doesn't need to be a book. A short paragraph will do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 08:14 AM
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It is funny how she says what she wants instead of what she can offer. Probably it never even occurred to her to talk about what she can offer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 08:10 AM
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She wants a handyman to fix her shit for her but they had better be able to cook and clean for themselves as I ain't doing shit for them in return. Yeah, she's a typical modern woman who expects men to do the traditionally male tasks while refusing to do traditional female tasks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 08:09 AM
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In my experience, they almost always have the attitude of "traditionalism for thee but not for me". Virtually all women in the West have this attitude. The few unicorns who embrace their traditional roles are extremely unlikely to end up divorced. Because (1) such a woman will stand by her man unless he's acting really badly, i.e. she won't lifestyle-divorce him; (2) your typical guy will do just about anything to take care of such a woman; and (3) this type of woman is going to choose a decent …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 08:00 AM
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She didn’t inherit the fashion house just as Madame Clicquot did? I'm not a fashionista but there are claims out there that her designs were important and influential. Most of the times, when these types of claims are made about a woman, it's just feminist bullshit. However, I'm ready to believe that in the context of fashion design that there really are innovative women.
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 07:45 AM
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It sounds like a sneer but it’s not. People pursue the most effective strategy and for women that isn’t working hard and innovating it’s being sexually appealing to those who do. I agree, and I would add that there is nothing inherently wrong with such an approach. The traditional deal is that women share in the fruits of male labor and male innovation in exchange for being devoted wives and mothers. Unfortunately, modern gynocentric society demands that women enjoy these benefits while giving l…
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 07:40 AM
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What are some in which men weren't the defining pioneers? I'm willing to allow that there have been a few pioneering women over the years. Coco Chanel comes to mind. Obviously fashion design is not a field of human achievement like science, medicine, or engineering.
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 02:36 AM
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Women simply don't have the passion for knowledge men do. I think part of it is that women don't have the instinct to take risks. For women, the safe bet is to see which men accomplish great things and then use their sex appeal to share in those accomplishments.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 09:19 PM
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Yeah, it's very rare for women to build anything from scratch. Instead, they prefer having a structured program in an established field of endeavor. In pretty much every field of human achievement, the pioneers are men.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 09:17 PM
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Do women just stay mentally 14? Lmao I would say that most women reach their peak emotional maturity around age 15 or 16.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/19 09:10 PM
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Nearly all of them think they look considerable younger than they do. Yeah, I think it's pretty normal. In an objective sense, the actual visual differences between a 35 year old woman and a 25 year old woman are often very subtle. So it's pretty common for a 35 year old woman to look in the mirror and think she looks about the same as she did 10 years earlier. What women don't fully appreciate is that millions of years of evolution have made men extremely sensitive to these subtle changes. For …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/19 09:08 PM
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We do regulate men. If a man impregnates a woman, he can be aggressively pursued for child support. Unpaid child support is one of the few debts that will get you imprisoned for non-payment. It will get your passport revoked; your professional licenses suspended; and probably other draconian measures imposed. All of these measures can and will be imposed even if the man is tricked or defrauded into impregnating the woman. Even if she rapes him. There is no other obligation in the Western world w…
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 08:13 PM
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Anybody who uses the word sapiosexual automatically gets written off. Basically it's a pretentious way of saying that you prefer your sex partners to be intelligent, assuming that they are otherwise attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/19 05:47 PM
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That’s why so many married men literally have a cuckold fetish - they just accept the fact their wife fucks other men and tries to maintain some composure and learns to adapt to it Is it really that common in actuality though? It gets a lot of attention when it happens, for sure. But I think that for the most part it's a kinky submissive fantasy that some guys have, just like a lot of women fantasize about being kidnapped and raped even though most don't act out their fantasy in real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/19 01:13 AM
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It's amazing how poor the signal to noise ratio gets when the subject of BPD comes up. Anyway, the important facts -- which are indisputable -- are as follows: A significant percentage of women have borderline personality disorder. I would estimate it at about 10%, but even if it's only 1% a man is likely to encounter numerous women with BPD during his lifetime. People with BPD are extremely prone to lying, manipulation, emotional blackmail, triangulation, etc. All kinds of nasty behavior. For o…
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:14 PM
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are you sure about that? plenty of cucks nowadays willing to be those post wall hag’s little obedient pets and money sources. I'm pretty sure. Hedonism has a price. If a woman spends her 20s riding the CC and still ends up with a nice beta provider, she will feel frustrated and unfulfilled for the rest of her life. Unless he is a literal cuck who accepts that his wife can openly date other guys. Even then, it will be difficult for her to pull Chads once she's post wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 09:56 PM
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Basically saying that most of the people who attend woman's match are not healthy human beings. Yeah, I have a neighbor who went. I don't know if she's actually diagnosible with anything, but she's your typical overweight bitter middle-aged woman who feels that life dealt her a rotten hand even though she lives in a nice house in the suburbs; has a husband who supports the family by working every day at a demanding professional job; goes on a nice vacation every year; and basically wants for not…
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 06:13 PM
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Yes, good point. It made me think of a thought experiment: Suppose one of these "my children are my world" types gets the opportunity to go to a desirable concert on the same night as her children's PTA meeting. Is she going to turn down the concert tickets on the ground that her children come first? Of course not, she will go to the concert and invent an excuse to blow off the PTA meeting. Because when she says her children come first, what she really means is that they come before her beta pro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 05:02 PM
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Bullshit though, rory is now an incel because due to his low height it never began for him, now he's 28 and lost all his hair, he wageslaves for a six figure salary that only gold diggers are interested in and is about to rope himself. Sometimes these situations turn out well for the Beta; sometimes they don't. But they ALWAYS turn out badly for the woman and they are terrible for society in general.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 04:54 PM
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...almost all women are pathological liars. I'm not sure I'd go that far, but I do think that women, being far weaker than men, are programmed by biology to to use lies and manipulation as weapons as opposed to physical force.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 12:41 PM
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28%, no fucking way. Not unless you stretch the definition of pedophilia to include normal underage sexual experiences, like fifteen year old girls making out with 16 year old boys. Yeah, if this 28% figure is not just completely made up, it's the result of some feminist study which relies solely on self-reporting and carefully words questions to generate lots of positive responses. They probably ask something like "When you were a child did an adult ever touch you in a way that made you feel un…
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 12:36 PM
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I wonder how many people with mental illnesses are self-diagnosed? Is BPD a more fluffy way of saying 'insufferable cunt' just like 'cuddly' is a fluffy way of saying 'fat'? With borderline, I think it's pretty unusual. For one thing, it is heavily stigmatized since people with BPD tend to be extremely vile unpleasant people. For another, people with BPD tend to very much deny that there is anything wrong with them. I agree that Tumblrina types often love to self-diagnose, but they tend to choos…
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:28 AM
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Is anyone here really surprised? Haven't met a woman that wasn't batshit insane on some level. I think part of the problem is that society doesn't like to acknowledge that for the most part women are children. If "sane" includes the idea of being able to function as an adult in society, then where does that leave women?
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:25 AM
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Actually we are talking about borderline personality disorder not bipolar. But anyway, mathematically speaking the overall lifetime incidence of BPD is going to be greater than the single year incidence. Some sources put it at 6%. Also, borderline is much more common in women than men, so for women it's much higher than 6% and for men it's much lower. Again, that's just the mathematics of the situation.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:22 AM
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The problem with BPD women, like my ex-wife, they will go to their death believing they do not have any problems. Yeah, people with borderline personality disorder tend to have extremely poor insight into their condition. Anyway, I agree it sucks for people with BPD who acknowledge it and work on it to come into a thread like this and hear again and again that people with BPD are terrible vile disgusting people. But at the same time, we guys need to protect ourselves. We live in a society where …
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:19 AM
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...I read in that that 70% of BPDs have experienced trauma in childhood...usually sexual trauma...so here again...it's our fault...always our fault. When studying BPD, it's totally uneasonable to rely on self-reporting. You are dealing with women who will lie about literally anything in order to get sympathy, attention, or some other perceived benefit. And yet feminists do it anyway because they want to find ways to deflect the problem. Not that it really matters, because whatever the cause is, …
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 10:09 AM
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You know there are now special requirements to diagnose women as BPD as without them they were "overdiagnosed" I wouldn't be surprised by this. Women in general and feminists in particular are allergic to the idea that some negative traits are a lot more common in women than in men. For example, in society these days there are a large number of delusional fat people. e.g. they insist that they don't overeat and are fat due to some metabolic process in their bodies; these people also tend to dema…
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 09:59 AM
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Interesting I never thought of it as being a made up diagnosis due to perhaps overwhelming numbers of peoples just being assholes If you meet enough women with BPD, you definitely get the sense that (1) there is something seriously wrong with them; and (2) for the most part, they are crazy in roughly the same way.
/r/MGTOW20/05/19 09:51 AM
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The funny thing is that women use Chad just like they use Billy Beta, it's just they are using Chad for his genes like they use Billy Beta for his money. Men are expected to be these cold-hearted fucking machines, but a lot of men -- perhaps a majority -- would prefer to have a long term meaningful relationship with a woman who truly loves them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 12:22 AM
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How about financial abuse - that ideas getting traction in the media these days. What it really means is that he didn't give her his money. Yes, this is not even hyperbole. If you google "financial abuse," it really does include situations where the man withholds money from the woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/05/19 09:39 PM
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You should really read up on some psychology. It's common knowledge that BPD is an emotion regulation problem that results from being traumatized on childhood. Statistics show that around 28% of women are victims of pedophilia for example which is why there's many with BPD. Studies show that most women with BPD claim to have been mistreated as children. But why should anyone believe that when these women are well known to lie about everything else? I'm actually quite well-read on BPD. I also app…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 03:56 PM
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I think BPD is just the result of a female just facing no consequences for their actions and continually being gaslit by society (other women and thirsty men). This may exacerbate the problem to an extent, but most parents of children with BPD report trying a lot of different things -- including imposing consequences for bad behavior -- and none of it seems to work. It seems that people with BPD stop maturing emotionally around age 4 or 5, although they continue to develop intellectually and phy…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 03:51 PM
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They have one or zero close female friends. Dozens of male "friends". I agree that this is common among women with BPD, but I don't think it's a reliable indicator. Because there are a lot of relatively sane women who realize at some point that men make better friend than women.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 03:45 PM
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"Women who slut it up in their late teens and 20s and then find religion as a convenient way to seek out a Beta Bailout" Even as a MGTOW this surprises me. I mean I've heard of pornstars who conveniently found religion once their looks started fading but regular women? Is this how low women will stoop to get a guy to marry them? I haven't seen it firsthand, but I have heard a lot of reports from men who start attending Church as a way of meeting a nice Christian girl but instead meet a lot of si…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 12:08 PM
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Yea let’s just make shit up. Why don’t we just say 90% have BPD Look, there are scholarly sources which estimate the lifetime incidence of BPD is about 6%. When you combine that with the fact that the vast majority of BPD sufferers are women, 10% is about right. Not that the difference between 5% and 10% matters all that much. Even if only 2% of women are batshit crazy, that's still cause for great concern. Here's an analogy: Suppose 2% of men had a mental illness which made it extremely likely …
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 12:06 PM
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And 90% of the single women are within that 10% of the whole population with bpd I wouldn't go that far, but I do agree that as age increases, single women are much more likely to have BPD. It's just a mathematical consequence of the fact that people with BPD have great difficulty maintaining long-term relationships.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:59 AM
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And lots of them don't get diagnosed. My ex's father was BPD and she showed all the same major symptoms yet she never thought she had a problem Yeah, I know a lot about the subject and most people with BPD refuse to accept that there is anything wrong with them. Generally they will get treatment only if ordered by a court or by a parent on who they are dependent for financial support. Once in treatment they will start spinning their lies with their therapist to make it seem like it's other peopl…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:56 AM
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Way, way, way, way, waaaaay too low. The sane woman is an exception, not the rule. I'd put that BPD number at around 50% and 30% have other disorders. Like "depression" - you know, not the real depressions but the women version. I wouldn't go that far, but I do think that borderline personality disorder is basically an extreme version of the typical female personality. Almost all women are at least somewhat emotionally immature and manipulative. Almost all women will instinctively use lies as a …
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:53 AM
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They should teach this shit on schools, "how to detect cluster B: before your sanity and life is destroyed" I think the key telltale sign is that women with BPD have great difficulty maintaining long-term relationships. They usually end up alienating 90% of the people around them with their constant lying, emotional blackmail, manipulation, etc. So if you meet a woman, pay attention to the way she talks about her relationships. How many long-term friends does she have and is she still in touch w…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:50 AM
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I think 10% is about right. According to a lot of estimates, the lifetime incidence of BPD is about 6%, but this combines males and females. So in a population of 20,000 people, about 1200 have BPD and about 1000 of those people with BPD will be female. Which makes it about 10% of women. I have a cousin with BPD and as can be confirmed by anyone with a BPD family member, these women are among the most vile disgusting human beings around. Constant lying, manipulation, emotional blackmail, etc. Th…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:45 AM
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She is not religious (or is an atheist) - Look I'm sure why this is but a lot of really nasty women claim to be religious even though they engage in behavior that is clearly contradictory to their faith I think that there are a lot of women who slut it up in their late teens and 20s and then find religion as a convenient way to seek out a Beta Bailout. Those women are definitely to be avoided. There are also women who take their religion seriously and it's not just a matter of convenience. Howev…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 11:23 AM
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What really needs to happen is what used to happen - if a claim like this is made, it is innocent until PROVEN guilty, and there must be more evidence than just a person's word I agree that the fundamental problem is this idea that we must automatically believe women. If this idea is rejected, then of course it will lead to situations where a lot of men get away with rape because there is no corroborating evidence and it's literally a "he said/she said" situation. But people should be okay with …
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 09:14 AM
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I basically agree, but it's actually somewhat worse than that because women with these conditions are markedly more promiscuous than average women. So if you meet a woman who is willing to jump into bed with you right away, the chances that she is manic or personality disordered is a good deal higher. As a side note, I would add that even though manic women are a total shit show, they typically don't have the same experience with lying and manipulation as women with BPD. Women with BPD lie and m…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 09:05 AM
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Yep because most western women have taken more pricks than a second hand dart board by the time they are 25. And even if they don't, they cheat, use, and manipulate at least as much as men do.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 07:36 AM
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Definitely I can look into some journals and email my professors as I am a psychology student and intern and libertarian so I have no need to defend feminist ideology. Obviously you are a woman (or White Knight) who -- like most women -- is unable to accept that some negative traits are much more common in women than men. It's equally obvious that your post is simply a regurgitation of feminist talking points. But please, feel free to share your sources. Links, cites, and quotes please.
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 12:50 AM
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BPD is developed as a extreme form of ptsd. BPD is not developed until after a very traumatic event like rape. This is feminist nonsense -- nobody knows what causes BPD. It is known that people with BPD frequently claim to have been the victims of childhood abuse, however only a feminist would accept this sort of claim at face value. People with BPD are incessant liars and their claims about childhood trauma should be treated skeptically. Also, BPD in men is more often diagnosed as NPD until the…
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 12:30 AM
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That's precisely why it was one sided. I would guess she never even gave it any thought. Sadly, at a subconscious level, women see men as utilities to be used and discarded. If you are buying a car, it would never even occur to you that the car might reasonably want to know about you as a potential driver. In the same way, I doubt it ever occurred to this woman that in a carfax type situation, she would have to disclose her history. To be sure, there exist women with enough intellectual horsepow…
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 06:12 PM
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Women suffering from BPD are some of the most vile, manipulative and horrible women alive. Yeah, I have a cousin with BPD and she is just a horrible horrible person. In fact, like a lot of people, the way I learned about BPD was through a Google search for "manipulative women" -- I was trying to figure out what the hell was wrong with her. Feminists like to claim that a woman wouldn't make a rape accusation unless she had actually been raped, but anyone who has had the misfortune of dealing with…
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 04:33 PM
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As a man, I would have no problem with a system where everyone had to disclose their relationship history to potential partners. I think it would be mainly women who would object to such a system.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 02:15 PM
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I think it's worth keeping in mind that there is a psychological condition known as "borderline personality disorder." BPD primarily affects women.. One of the signature symptoms of BPD is constant lying, manipulation; lack of empathy; etc. These girls get very good at playing the role of the sweet innocent victim and they have no emotional maturity to speak of. Making up a rape accusation over a dispute like this is just the sort of thing someone with BPD would do. It's also worth noting that B…
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 02:07 PM
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This has been going on since time immemorial, it's just that it hasn't been taken seriously until recently. 30 or 40 years ago, if a female teacher banged a male student, people thought "so what, he's getting some good experience."
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 09:30 AM
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It's funny how she is honestly surprised that there are consequences for violating other people's rights. Probably she's had the pussy pass thing going for the last 15 or 20 years. Anyway, I guess she's going to get off extremely lightly so I hope those protestors sue her. In many jurisdictions it's considered assault and battery to grab something out of someone's hands.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 09:26 AM
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I see your point, but keep in mind that most guys have played along with the gynocentric system to an extent. Also, although MGTOW is not about activism, if the system is going to be fixed there needs to be broad consensus among almost all men -- this is necessarily going to include some White Knights.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 09:12 AM
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But of course. Men all place unrealistic, crazily impossible demands upon women It's funny how almost all of the criticisms leveled at men apply to women much more strongly: That we are obsessed with looks; that we are selfish and immature; that we prioritize having fun over settling down; that we prefer our relationship partners to adhere to their traditional roles; etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/19 09:01 AM
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If she wouldnt be playing the scientist then the main story told wouldnt have anny women in it. This is just to make the show more enjoyable for the general public. It's not accurate but I don't blame them. I blame them. Going along with evil in order to score a few ratings points? That's pretty shitty in my book.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 11:13 PM
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How does anyone even know that false accusations of sexual harassment are rare? There is no way to measure these kinds of things. However, I do know a few things: When people have incentive to lie a large percentage of people will do so. Approximately 10% of the female population in the United States has borderline personality disorder. People with borderline personality disorder are well known for constant lying and manipulation. The conclusion from these premises is that there really is risk i…
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 11:07 PM
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Stop pining away for something that never existed and go your own way. What I'm pining for is a society that keeps female nature in check.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 10:46 PM
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It will never change, it's only going to get worse. I think it will definitely get worse, but then things will turn around. Why? Because there exist a few patriarchal subcultures where women aren't given free reign over their sexual decision-making. And those subcultures are rapidly growing in numbers relative to the rest of the population.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 10:20 AM
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Why are women so delusional There is a societal taboo against saying things that hurt women's feelings. Which means they get very little negative feedback. The key to having a sane view of the world is feedback loops.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 12:07 AM
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You all should find this encouraging! This person is choosing to stop taking the easy "fun" path and is working on themself. To an extent, I agree, but I see 2 problems here: First, the poster doesn't seem to accept or understand that in reality she's perfectly normal. Sexual attraction fades in every relationship. It's just a fact of life. Second, and perhaps more importantly, the problem is not with individual woman so much as with a culture that permits and encourages women to engage in destr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 12:02 AM
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ala carte Christian = modern woman. I LOVE the husband must take care of the wife thing because that means he has to listen to everything I say. Submission? That was just the incel Paul blabbing. We don't follow THAT! What? The two commands are in the same paragraph? Well, obviously Paul meant that men must love their wives but a wife listening to her husband is awful patriarchy. That is not Christianity! REEEEEEEEE! Yes, except that I wouldn't limit it to modern women. Women have ALWAYS been im…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 07:10 PM
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How is it a problem if some of these guys are a little awkward socially I think that "socially awkward" is a code phrase for "not Chad." Ultimately, a big part of the problem is hypergamy. The vast majority of women are simply not attracted sexually to the vast majority of men. Which means that if a Christian woman of average desirability gets married, it will almost certainly be to a man for whom she has zero sexual attraction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 10:12 AM
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I suspect it has to much to do with the "you go girl" and "never settle" mantras heaped on women everywhere At the same time, women pretty much NEVER get any negative feedback. There's just too much of a taboo against saying anything to a woman that might make her question her sexual desirability. How often does this woman get told that since she's a single mom, men will be a lot less interest in her? Probably never.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 09:54 AM
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This is the best illustration I've seen in a while of the alpha widow problem. Almost certainly, one brief fling with Chad has ruined her forever. Even if she settles and gets with a man of average height and penis size, she will always be unsatisfied and resentful towards him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 09:48 AM
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I would guess she's an "a la carte" Christian, i.e. she follows only the rules which are convenient and beneficial for her I'm pretty confident she will use her Christianity as an excuse to deny sex to Billy Beta (until they are married). What happens if Chad snaps his fingers? Probably in that case she fucks Chad and then repents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 09:36 AM
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It would be so tempting to Chadfish her. Because I bet this "I won't give you sex right away" rule will go straight out the window if Chad snaps his fingers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 09:16 PM
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agreed. which also means they are worthless when it comes to giving men dating and relationship advice. They are actually worse than worthless because what's in a man's best interests is not necessarily what's in the woman's best interests; a woman who is giving dating advice to a man will be subconsciously biased against the man and in favor of the women he is engaged with. By analogy, if a Korean store owner were having an issue with a black customer and needed advice, he would be stupid to go…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/19 02:01 PM
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I do see more women than men in these churches In the 20-30 age range?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/19 08:04 AM
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I basically don't watch new movies or television shows any more. Virtually everything new is infected with Social Justice man-hating nonsense.
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 11:30 PM
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The deeper lesson is that most women have poor insight into their sexual preferences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/19 11:14 PM
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I think a big part of the problem is gynocentrism itself. Generally speaking people don't like to see women getting dumped on and humiliated and made to look foolish so in many genres of film (including comedy) it's difficult to cast women in important roles and have the film succeed.
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 01:11 AM
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Im sorry, but isnt it the same to say that all men are potential rapists? Not exactly, since women too are potential rapists. So it's misandrist to single out men for this kind of stigma. By contrast, when it comes to sexual assault allegations, women (but not men) are automatically believed. So it's reasonable to say that "all women are potential false rape accusers." That said, I have no problem with women being cautioned about being alone with unrelated men.
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 12:47 AM
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My default mode when I communicate with ANYONE is 'Don't lie to me' that is granted by default and expected from everyone That's the thing -- most people start out pretty trusting. Being lied to a lot makes them cynical and jaded, which are very unappealing qualities in a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/19 12:26 AM
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There used to be this concept of "Wife Goggles" where the bride of your youth is faithful and her breasts satisfy you always I think Wife Goggles buy you 5 or 10 extra years of sexual attraction, but that's about it. What really keeps men in line is the severe financial and social consequences which come from leaving your wife for a younger woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 04:53 PM
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It's funny how important honesty is to her. Because it's extremely likely that she is lying about her age. Regardless of her age, it's fairly obvious that she is very much damaged goods. If she's been lied to (and taken advantage of enough) that she needs to write an entire philosophizing about honesty in her bio, then very likely the poor schmuck who dates her next is going to pay the price for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 12:02 PM
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24 looking 42 Did you notice she requires a man who is between 18 and 24?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 11:58 AM
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In the past, women mated with aggressive men out of necessity. In todays world, that aggressiveness isn't nearly as useful but women are still biologically attracted to strong and dangerous men. Now women are fucked because their relationships are doomed to instability. Mate an alpha and he will cheat, hurt you/kids, or leave. Marry a beta and you won't be attracted to him and will cheat or leave. Women simply can't win. The genes they were bred to desire are simply not good for today's world. I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 08:50 AM
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translation: does anyone have any jedi mind tricks that will make me want to fuck a beta male? I think there are some tricks that will work to a small extent: Most importantly, avoid advanced education and high status jobs. If you are a call center representative with a high school diploma, then Billy Beta with a masters degree will seem somewhat more appealing. Second, avoid exposure and contact with attractive men. Which means no more Tinder; no more going out to night clubs; etc. Because part…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/19 08:44 AM
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Don't white knight. Agreed. These situations don't get reported unless something very serious results, but I'm pretty sure that every weekend in America literally hundreds of men get beat up or otherwise harmed as a result of trying to assist m'lady.
/r/MGTOW08/05/19 10:35 PM
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I'm sure there are tons of guys who want to be monogamous with her but since they are not part of the top 20%, they don't exist to her. Yes, there are plenty of guys who don't date multiple women at the same time because they simply don't have that option.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/19 09:41 PM
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Women are not required to submit to all.men I wasn't trying to imply this. By "male authority," I meant specific male authority figures like husband or father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 05:05 PM
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lol embrace being a cuck great job Sure, if a "cuck" means accepting anything less than a virgin bride.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 12:53 AM
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Of course. Young guys go where young girls are. They are not yet developed enough for the girls to chase them or to pick and choose their litter. Yeah, it seems that the problems with churches are an echo of the problems in greater society. Women would like to follow a dual mating strategy which works against the interests of the vast majority of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 07:54 PM
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I'm pretty average with the exception of height. I don't struggle that hard. I'm really curious how many guys are standing in their own way. If I may ask, what is your age, height, weight, job, marital status, and (if married) how long you have been married for, how old is your wife, and how close is she to being an ideal wife?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 07:46 PM
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Yes, but they are still higher than Western countries. I agree. Higher but falling fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 07:45 PM
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Maybe Islam is, but that's not Christian. One clue is that birthrates are falling pretty dramatically in Muslim countries. That's a symptom of female empowerment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 07:26 PM
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I think it's possible she is 24. She's obese; the lighting is poor; and she has a very pronounced forehead which makes it seem like she's losing hair. I've met many young women who look like this.
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 07:00 PM
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Difficult not impossible At the level of the individual, I would agree with you. At a societal level though, it's mathematically impossible for a large chunk of men to find venues where they are among the more desirable. That's just the way markets work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 05:54 PM
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What is happening is that when they're young, neither gender has any use for the church I think that young men would go to church if it meant they would have a good chance of meeting a traditional Christian girl for marriage. So the real question is why young women aren't going to Church. And the answer is that for a young woman, there are lots more fun things to do than go to church.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 05:49 PM
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Yeah, this woman claims to be a Catholic but in reality she is almost certainly an a la carte feminist who just picks and chooses aspects of the religion that she likes while ignoring everything else. I would like to ask her straight up: "Do you accept that Christian women must submit to male authority?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 05:45 PM
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Well to play devil's advocate, I can see some benefit of having men only and women only groups. Absolutely, but in addition to single-sex activities, the question remains as to the extent to which churches should facilitate contact between single men and single women. Theoretically, it seems like it would be nice if Christian men would go to church in order to meet nice Christian girls and vice versa. But in practice, that's not what happens. Because the female hypergamy and dual-mating instinct…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 05:41 PM
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I'll go a deeper then. You need to find your market. If you're going to a church/bar/anywhere and getting ignored by women you're in the wrong place. You need to find a place where you're in the top 30% I agree, but the internet and smartphones have made it increasingly difficult for an average man to find a local dating market where he is perceived as desirable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 03:46 PM
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Oh for FUCKS sake. Where, in what country, do women actively honor men? Saudi Arabia? Most relationships have the honeymoon phase but then men are just tolerated/exploited I would say it's pretty unusual, especially after having children. Women normally make their children the priority in their life. Which most guys can live with if its THEIR children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 03:44 PM
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dude research telegony and microchimerism. If you marry and have children with a non-virginal woman then all of her previous lovers dna will spread to your future children. What is the percentage? Call me a cuck if you want, but I would rather have a wife would had one past partner who contributed .01% to our kids' DNA than a wife with 100 past partners who contributed zero percent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 03:41 PM
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It's a pill that might even have another color... Yeah, I have become pretty much black pilled over the last few years. I think that what really did things was the combination of hypergamy plus easy access to Chad. I think that if a man has a cute girlfriend, and one day he has the opportunity to fuck a beautiful woman, he might do it and he might not, but he won't end up being repulsed by his cute girlfriend. By contrast, if a woman has a decent-looking boyfriend but gets the opportunity to fuc…
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 01:32 PM
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I know a FUCKTON of good men. They are athletic, handsome (well, some of them), and accomplished. But according to Ok Cupid, they are the "bottom" 80%. Agreed. This woman writes them off by saying they are lack basic social awareness, which I am pretty sure is yet another euphemism for "not Chad."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 01:26 PM
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That's true. However, there's a way to beat the system. It's not foolproof, but it works for me. I would say it depends how desirable you are in terms of physical appearance. If you are in the top 10-20%, girls will chase you -- inside church and out. If you are in the bottom 50%, you will get little or no interest from the marriageable women in your church. If you are between the 50th and 80th percent or so, I agree that "game" can help, which includes being careful not to chase.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 01:24 PM
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Even if you aren't religious, What's funny is that most guys would gladly go every week to a Church/Synagogue/Mosque and sit through boring services if it meant they could have a traditional, devoted wife without any baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:38 AM
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then I could get with a born again woman. They also said that the previous partners a woman fucked didn't matter, since she is "forgiven". By the way, it's funny how much society is structured around the female dual mating strategy. If a man is making a lifelong financial commitment to a woman, it's completely reasonable for him to look for a woman who is young, childless, and has a low partner count. And yet any man who expresses such a preference is relentlessly attacked, mocked, and ridiculed…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:22 AM
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the modern church has now become a retirement home for former sluts. You will note that these "where are all the good men" articles are NEVER written by women who are between 18 and 25.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:17 AM
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PSA: Christian women are no different from other women. Yes, they choose the wrong guy. Yes, they are promiscuous. Yes, they act on their hypergamy. Yes, they are demanding. I basically agree. Even among the ones who get married young to their high school or college sweetheart, it's very common that after being married for a number of years, they decide they need to "find themselves," i.e. they've been missing out on the opportunity to fuck Chad. The successful religious marriages I have seen ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:12 AM
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Same is true of Muslim community too. Yeah, I'm not surprised. The fundamentals of the situations are the same everywhere. There are just very few marriageable women (i.e. women who are young, slender, and childless), and virtually ALL women -- if left to their own devices -- prioritize physical attractiveness in men over whether the man is solid, dependable, and likely to be a devoted husband and father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:05 AM
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And there's a big part of her problem, right there. She wants Catholic Chad, and not "Poser Catholic Chad Yeah, it's pretty obvious that it's the same old story. If she were serious about finding a good Catholic man, she wouldn't worry so much about supposed social awkwardness (which almost certainly is a euphemism for looks). She would mainly be concerned about whether the man will be a devoted husband and father. But instead, her main priority and deal-breaker is to find a man who excites her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:00 AM
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What do you think she mean by "in want of basic social awareness?" I think what's going on is the "halo effect." If she's with Chad and he says something socially awkward or inappropriate, she subconsciously finds a way to interpret it which puts him in a positive light. In reality, at least 85-90% of men have basic social awareness. They may not be Mr. Smooth, but they can carry on a basic conversation and respond to basic social cues. My guess is that this woman -- like most women -- is obsess…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 09:50 AM
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By the writer's admitting she is none of the above, 32 year's old, childless Actually she says nothing in her article about whether she has children. I did an image search on her and I think it's pretty likely that she's a single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 09:44 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe *both* sexes are becoming less religious. Which means while there are fewer Catholic men, there are also fewer Catholic women competing for them. So the entire premise of her article is false Not only that, but there are plenty of nominally Catholic but non-observant men who would eagerly start attending Church every week if it would give them a reasonable chance of meeting a woman who is young, slender, and traditional. But most of these men are "awkward" …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 09:42 AM
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nobody wants a single father, he's damaged goods I think it's not so much that he's damaged as much as there's going to be a big crimp on the old cash flow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 09:36 AM
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Yeah, I think that the concept of joining a Church -- or doing any activity -- with the idea of meeting women is a losing proposition. What you discover as a man is that there are numerous subtle and not-so-subtle barriers preventing you from having contact with women who are young, childless, and slender. Not the least of which is the women themselves who are inundated with male suitors . I recall reading that George Sodini -- the Pittsburgh health club shooter -- had been kicked out of his chu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 01:50 AM
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Oh, and check out the picture in the original article: https://www.catholicweekly.com.au/for-want-of-a-lot-of-good-men/ Basically it turns reality on its head by depicting a date between a man and a woman and the man is talking on his cell phone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 10:42 PM
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Yet for someone like me – a 32-year-old single Catholic – the situation looks bleak indeed. I honestly wonder what she's been doing for the last 10 or 15 years. Desperately looking for a husband? Or "finding herself"? If they’re single church-goers, they’re usually awkward and in want of basic social awareness (a big turn-off for most women). If they’re more worldly, they’re generally not single or not religious I'm pretty sure that in context, "awkward" is a code word for "unattractive." Person…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I have thought for a while that this is the most bitter red pill of them all. That if you are an average-looking guy in a long-term stable relationship, there's a pretty good chance that your partner is not sexually attracted to you and NEVER was. There's this idea floating around that if a man gets rich he can attract women. And it's true, but even if he uses his money to attract a decent girl who isn't consciously using him for his money, it's very likely that she's secretly repulsed by …
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:28 PM
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Who the fuck do you think repairs, maintains and runs the world, you fucking stupid woman? I think that most women don't give this any thought. I rarely read science fiction penned by women, but once I was reading an anthology and there was a short story by a woman. It was one of those "waiting for the end of the world" stories where everyone knows that in a few weeks a meteor will crash and kill everyone on the planet. As is usual in these types of stories, there was chaos, rioting, etc. But wh…
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 07:01 PM
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Women seek status by buying more expensive products. Even though she is complaining about the cost her status seeking monkey brain that controls her every action will buy the more expensive one any way. Agreed. Can you imagine a commercial for men's products using the slogan "Because you're worth it"? Of course not. This is yet another case of women acting foolishly and blaming their folly on men.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 07:54 PM
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Agreed, advertisers take advantage of female narcissism and childishness. Women are much easier to convince with slogans like "I'm worth it" and anyway it's usually men's money they are spending.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 07:50 PM
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What about car insurance? There is a myth out there that women are better drivers, but I think that the difference in insurance rates is mainly due to men driving more miles and driving more highway miles.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 07:48 PM
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44 is just 1 year to menopause Yes, that's what's so funny about this ad: She wants a man to give her his best (the ability to hook her up financially for life) when she's already given away her best (her youth and fertility).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 06:21 PM
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When I see a woman claim to be a devoted wife, I’m immediately skeptical That is wise. I think the problem is that it's difficult for the man to exert authority. If he says "you're not being devoted enough so I'm cutting your allowance this month," she has the option of filing for divorce and extracting her allowance using the state. It's possible to work around this problem, but challenging.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 06:04 PM
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I agree with this to an extent, but I would turn down a woman with a high n-count even if I somehow knew that she was disease free and was a solid person. Why? Here's an analogy: Suppose you gave your girlfriend a necklace for her birthday and she wore it every day. Except that later she found out it was a re-gift. You had given that very necklace to your previous girlfriend and the previous girlfriend returned it when she broke up with you. If your girlfriend found that out, she'd be pissed. Be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 05:54 PM
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She knows what most men want but she’s 25 years too old to be able to make it happen. Yeah, it's such a tragedy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 05:43 PM
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How delusional /entitled does one have to be to think they DESERVE to just latch on to someone who’s already done all of the hard work to become successful and then they can just waltz into the life and reap all of the benefits I don't know what her face looks like, but 20 years ago she could have probably pulled it off if she were serious about being a devoted wife. There are plenty of successful guys with money who would gladly share it with a bona fide traditional woman. But of course the rub…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 05:40 PM
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Answer: Hypergamy, You think you're an 8 when really you're a 6. Probably she's a lot worse than that. If she were a 6, should get 8s and 9s for P & D action and she would be complaining that men are all Peter Pans who don't want to commit. Probably she's a 3 or a 4 but only attracted to men who are 8+.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 11:11 PM
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Of course “pretty” is relative. I think most men can be attracted to a woman who is plain looking as long as she's not obese. There's this idea that men are obsessed with looks, but I think that comes from focusing on the most desirable men who are in a position to be choosy, so of course they choose the most physically attractive women. In reality, it's women who are the ones who are obsessed with looks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 10:47 PM
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I’m supposed to be happy, upbeat, well-dressed, thin but not too thin, successful but not more successful than the man I’m dating, funny but not funnier than the man I’m dating, I wonder where she got these ideas from? For the most part men don't care about a woman's degree of success. I myself am successful . . . why would I need a woman who is also successful? As far as "well-dressed" goes, the bar is extremely low. And men absolutely don't need women who are funny as long as they are able to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 06:49 PM
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I agree with /u/topoccasion29 Almost certainly the problem here is that she has unstated requirements about physical attractiveness. Assuming that she is not fat, any large American city has plenty of educated, successful men in their 30s and 40s who would by happy to date a slender 27-year-old. But probably she has zero attraction for the ones in the bottom 80% of physical attractiveness. Which means that she not only needs a man who is Chad in terms of looks, he also has to be making 6 figures…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 06:39 PM
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You're an idiot if you think any of that is what actually happened Agreed. In real life men don't just start threatening women out of the clear blue sky. Obviously she did something to provoke him. Without more context, it's not clear if he was misbehaving, but it's virtually certain she's leaving out important facts. Same thing with tantrum guy. If a man is with a woman he is interested in romantically, it's virtually certain that he's not going to throw a tantrum absent extreme provocation. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 06:17 PM
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women are manipulative by default, it's the societal pressure (that no more exists in the west world) that keeps women in check, it's patriarchy that controls women's manipulative behaviors. Agreed, but I would add that men are manipulative by default too. There are plenty of men out there who will say pretty much anything to get sex, promise to love the woman forever, etc., and then disappear. That's why we have norms in place against caddish behavior. Societal pressure is needed to keep everyo…
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 04:57 PM
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Out of curiosity I just pulled up a couple of these sites and found these gems: If you were thinking about cutting your hair short, then banish the notion. Save that impulse for the day after your wedding. . . . Men want their wives to hold similar religious beliefs to theirs. If you’ve got your eye on a rich man who goes to church on Sunday, it wouldn’t hurt to attend a church service with him once in a while. That way, he’ll feel more confident that you share his religious beliefs, or that at …
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 06:20 PM
2

There is a big difference between overall aesthetics and sex appeal. Men get to decide what's sexually appealing in women and women get to decide what's sexually appealing in men. That's why women have a wall. The changes in appearance from age 25 to 35 are often quite subtle but they have a massive impact on how men perceive a woman's sex appeal. The wall exists mainly in men's subconscious minds but that doesn't make it any less real. Women are often in denial about the wall because when they …
/r/MGTOW28/04/19 06:05 PM
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When did this become your dream? I think it's a dream in the same way a typical 250 pound behemoth sometimes dreams about getting in great shape. She may even join a gym and eat healthy for a week or two before giving up. In other words, it's something she wants but she's not willing to make it a high priority in her life. Similarly, this girl probably wanted marriage and a family but never made it a priority in her life. So she dated and fucked the badboys and fuckboys who obviously were not ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/19 12:26 AM
1

At least she has a pretty face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 03:52 PM
3

I think this guy is actually trying to redpill people in a sneaky way.
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 09:13 PM
2

In 99% of the (Western) world, it's 24-hours-a-day of vagina worship. Is it so terrible to have a few spaces where it's socially acceptable to criticize women as a group?
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 09:01 PM
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Yes, let's blame everything on the Jews in the same way that feminists blame all their problems on men.
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 04:02 PM
27

Just another conservative pining for the good old days where men worked themselves to an early grave. I think most guys are okay with working hard and making sacrifices for their families if society would give them proper respect and appreciation. Instead, we have a society that constantly shits on men, treats us with utter contempt, denies us credit for all the marvelous things we do, while instead blaming us for all of society's problems.
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 03:49 PM
2

Not only that, but I'm pretty confident that if you surveyed fathers about their attitudes and then checked up on their children 20 or 30 years later, you would find that the children of men who believe in male authority and male leadership do lots better than the children of simps and cucks.
/r/MGTOW26/04/19 03:44 PM
2

I think my limit would be 8 or 9, which accounts for 1 serious partner every year or 2 from late teens to mid 20s. That would be for a woman who is otherwise fantastic. But yeah, ideally 2 or 3. Having a virgin is a nice fantasy but if the girl is over the age of 21 and still a virgin, I would worry that she has some kind of sexual hangup. Unless she is from a super-religious background.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/19 06:04 PM
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Have you noticed that Lauren Southern is not married, not a mom, and (quite likely) not a virgin? There may be a few NAWALTs there, but a true conservative woman would accept that it's not appropriate for her to cash in on her looks and waste her youth by setting up a Youtube channel and parroting men's ideas.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 09:15 PM
1

For white guys, the main advantage of Asian girls is that they are more likely to perceive you as a Chad. If you are a 5/10 guy but women suddenly perceive you as a 7/10 guy, you will instantly notice that they treat you a lot better. What I've learned over the last couple years is that women are obsessed with men's physical appearance. Even though they will date and marry men they find unattractive, they will resent and hate and cheat on and cuckold and divorce-rape such men. That's a big sourc…
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 07:17 PM
5

Quite likely when she told her friends about the situation, she spun things to put all the blame on her husband. That's standard female operating procedure. As far as what really happened, who knows, but in my experience it's usually the moms who freak out about their kids' college and it's usually moms who feel justified in cheating the system for the sake of their children. Also, it's very unlikely that the feds would charge her unless they had solid evidence that she was a a full-on participa…
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 06:06 PM
29

To paraphrase a popular saying, if you are offering yourself at your worst, you don't deserve me at my best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 05:56 PM
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At this time in my life i.e. Chad got to party with her, now it's up to you, Billy Beta, to clean up the mess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 05:51 PM
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SHE STILL GETS MANY MESSAGES! WTF!?! :shrug: She's 22, she has a nice figure and pretty legs. For a lot of guys that's all it takes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:53 PM
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Then I'm thinking ... ok, this has to be a new undiscovered kind of mental illness Actually, there is a condition known as hypergraphia which is thought to be associated with bipolar disorder and certain kinds of epilepsy. From Wikipedia: Waxman and Geschwind were the first to describe hypergraphia, in the 1970s. The patients they observed displayed extensively compulsive detailed writing, sometimes with literary creativity. Anyway, it seems pretty likely that this girl is some kind of head case…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:52 PM
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I'm speculating a bit, but I think this is another consequence of hypergamy. A man who is average in terms of desirability can be attracted to a woman who is average in terms of desirability. However a woman who is average in terms of desirability will generally find an average man to be unappealing and undesirable. Women are better suited than men to having 1 long-term partner, but only if that long-term partner is highly desirable. Or, to put it another way, in a long-term monogamous relations…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:44 PM
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Believing a story from 4chan is the first mistake here Yeah, I'm pretty sure the story is a deliberate troll post. It's designed to pit feminist types (who automatically believe and sympathize with any alleged rape victim) against normal guys (who will be quick to observe that the girlfriend went against her boyfriend's wishes and is probably lying).
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 07:33 PM
2

Tyler ain't going anywhere.. He will fuck... U will pay the bucks. Totally agree. If she actually wanted Tyler out of her life, she would simply block him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 07:12 PM
1

Marriage to whom? I think most of the guys here would be okay with marrying a woman if she were traditional and devoted. The trouble is that it's difficult to be sure that you've found your NAWALT.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 04:42 PM
2

I don't have any female friends at the moment but I have had them in the past. The thing is, there are very few women out there who are (1) interesting people; and (2) would help you out in a jam. Even if it's a strictly platonic relationship, most women tend to be flaky and overly self-absorbed.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 04:39 PM
1

As for false accusations, if there’s no witnesses or documented proof then it will never get to court I wonder what the evidence/proof is in this situation.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 04:32 PM
1

The amount of times we've missed a turning because she freaks out is way too many. Yes, I have never once met a woman who is able to stay calm during a stressful driving situation.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:59 PM
1

Women can't do shit under pressure. Yeah, in all my years I have met a few NAWALTS who were solid and loyal friends, but i have never once met a woman who is able to stay calm and think accurately and quickly in a high stress situation. TFM has a theory about this -- that adrenaline reacts differently with testosterone than it does with female hormones.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:57 PM
2

One thing I've learned over the years is that when things go terribly wrong, there are almost always at least 2 or 3 contributing causes. So that if you have an agenda, you can focus on the causes which serve your agenda and ignore the others. In the case of military aviation, I'm pretty sure that stuff is always going wrong. Especially if you are trying to land a fighter jet on a small boat which is bobbing up and down in the ocean. A competent pilot will be able to deal with these problems and…
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:46 PM
3

She was lying about the rape. The truth came out a few months ago. I would like to believe you, but in reality this story is at least 7 or 8 years old. Looking at the poster's posting history (which include complaints about strange medical ailments), I would guess he's trolling.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:30 PM
1

A woman doesn’t leave a club with two unknown guys in if she doesn’t intend on cheating. I agree, but I would go further: A woman who goes to a night club without her man is seriously considering cheating or at least looking to see if she can do better.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:19 PM
1

This isn't the first time something like this has happened. A girl accused 3 men of rape because they had a train going on in the bathroom with her, but she didn't want a guy she had the hots for to think she was a dirty slut, so she accused them of rape to hide the fact that she was a dirty slut and to gain sympathy from the guy she liked. These types of scenarios happen all the time. It's worth keeping in mind that approximately 10% of women have a mental condition known as "borderline persona…
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:14 PM
2

If she didn't call the police then she's faking it Agreed, but I would add that this kind of thinking is how a lot of false rape accusations come about. i.e. woman cheats on her boyfriend/husband; boyfriend/husband finds out; woman claims she was raped; boyfriend/husband challenges her to go to the police.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 01:11 PM
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The datingoverthirty sub is a portal into the future for these sad thots. They’re given all the answers right in front of them and they still march blindly forward singing whatever the new feminist anthem is. Yeah, I think feminism is a lot like fat acceptance. It's basically a rationalization for these women to indulge their base desires while blaming the inevitable negative consequences on someone else. Fundamentally, fucking Chad is no different from having an extra order of french fries. It'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 01:08 PM
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I do online dating and get a lot of matches, but they don't seem to go anywhere. This is what the "fizzle" looks like from a woman's perspective. From the man's perspective, the woman is putting very little effort into the interaction; she waits a long time to respond to messages; her responses are just one or two words; she cancels dates at the last minute etc. Significantly, the woman is often unaware that SHE is the one who is sabotaging the interaction. She is unaware of the actual problem: …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 01:00 PM
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I'm pretty confident that she's still in love with Tyler. That any man who dates her is going to have to accept that she will be fucking Tyler from time to time. And that Tyler Jr. will be a constant reminder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:09 AM
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Now THAT'S what I call degeneracy. Yeah, but I'm pretty confident that a lot of the women on /r/sluttingoverthirty have had sex with random men while blackout drunk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/19 10:02 AM
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but verbally abusing people is wrong Do you think it should be a crime just to call someone a name? Also, aren't you concerned about the possibility of false accusations? If I have an argument with a female protestor, she can get me arrested and prosecuted by simply telling the police that I called her a cunt?
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 09:30 PM
1

They aren't there. I would guess that's a big part of it. I had a navy buddy who got married and his wife cheated while he was at sea.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 09:22 PM
3

Can someone explain this graph to me? I don’t understand It shows the danger (for average-looking guys) of entering into a long-term relationship with a woman. See, if you are an average-looking guy, you might think it's simply a matter of finding an average-looking woman and pairing off. What this graph shows is that most women find average-looking men to be unattractive. What that means is that if you are an average looking guy married to an average looking woman, there is a good chance she is…
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 09:11 PM
3

That fact that a document like this exists tells us that women by nature are not like this. Agreed. Was there a similar document for men urging them to work hard and make a good living so that they could take care of their wife and kids? I doubt it. It's true that some men are self-centered, but we have some degree of instinct to take care of our women. Women have essentially zero instinct to take care of their husbands and must have it drilled into them in order to be devoted wives. By analogy,…
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 08:56 PM
3

Even at the age of 38, she's still behaving like a 20 year old bimbo. She is still chasing chad. Notice her mention of dating/fwb and we'll go from there. She is looking for commitment but is just being sneaky about it. It does seem that she is fantasizing about meeting a handsome kinky billionaire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 06:41 PM
1

I guess she is losing her own hair and wants to give her children a chance at a better life. Which would be understandable if she didn't have so many other demands. She is probably better off aiming for a dude in his 40s since that will give her a good sense of his hair genetics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 06:37 PM
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The advice being given doesn't even make much sense. If you are not ashamed of your past; and if you don't want to be with the sort of man who judges you based on your past, then why not disclose it right on your online dating profile: I've lost count of the number of sexual partners I've had, but it's at least 100. Part of the problem is that I frequently wake up in the morning with no recollection of the previous night's events but their are semen stains on my panties so probably I had sex wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 02:11 PM
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I wonder what happens when you are out with you wife and kids at a local restaurant/bar and you see a couple drunk guys a couple tables down pointing and laughing at the guy who wifed up the village bicycle. Anyway, my main objection to these types of discussions is how dismissive people are of men's feelings and preferences. Most men prefer to be with a woman who has a low partner count. Claiming that sexual history is irrelevant is not very respectful of men's feelings. There are all kinds of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:58 PM
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But of course, a low n-count guarantees you nothing, least of all lifetime faithful commitment from her... Yes, unfortunately our toxic culture is going to be telling her that she's missing out on something truly important by skipping the cock carousel. And to make matters worse, all she has to do is literally hit a few buttons on her phone and Chad will be by in less than an hour to fuck her. If I were a young man right now and serious about getting married, I would join a hard core religious s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:39 PM
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I wonder how "confident" these types of women act when they are with Chad? I'm pretty sure that if Ms. Strong Independent Woman is at a bar and for whatever reason she starts having a conversation with Mr. Tall Rich & Handsome, all of this bravado goes right out the window. That she will act sweet and submissive and in a deferential way. ​ I think that's part of the reason men are turned off by a display of confidence by a woman. Because men know that women know what men prefer. A display of con…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:29 PM
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Anyways, I’m trying to make the point that women like these have never been checked and put into place by men or life. Agreed, our society has become so gynocentric that it's taboo to give women the negative feedback they desperately need in order to have happy and satisfying lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:15 PM
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Imagine if the sexes were reversed. An article in a men's publication telling men that they are so awesome and desirable that they are having trouble attracting women. Of course such an article would be completely ridiculed and rightly so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:12 PM
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There never is. The belief seems to be that hubby goes to the office to spend his days funning it up by the water cooler, perhaps sipping Scotch and puffing cigars while occasionally reaching up to pluck dollar bills off low hanging tree branches. More or less. And even when women do go to work, they normally claim that they are working 10 times as hard as the men and getting only half the credit. And getting underpaid. I'm fairly convinced that a lot of it involves the therapist using various m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:10 PM
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I agree to an extent: I would consider dating a cam-girl if she were otherwise desirable. My objection is to the gynocentric attitude that it's illegitimate for a man to prefer a relationship with a woman with no history of sex work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:53 AM
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Actually there was a recent post where a woman was dating a man; cyber-stalked him; and discovered that a few months earlier he had filed for divorce, which meant that he was technically married. Of course all the other women on the sub freaked out about it and agreed it was horrible that he did not volunteer up front that he was still technically married. (He had never actually lied about it, he just didn't volunteer it.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:38 AM
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She also wrote an article about how horrible it was to cook dinner for her husband and 2 children and how her husband wasn't appreciative enough and how she finally just stopped doing it. Of course no appreciation, gratitude or recognition of the fact that her husband was going to work every day to support his family. Here's the article: https://www.glamour.com/story/now-that-im-divorced-im-never-making-dinner-for-a-man-again ​ Incidentally, there was also mention in the article about how she an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:26 AM
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Yes, it's interesting that she didn't spew the usual fantasy that he was "abusive" and "controlling." Instead what she says is this: I was content with my little life, content with the promise of more, later, eventually. But “more” never happened. This is why men need to be so cautious about the idea of finding a girl who is young, debt-free, innocent, with a low partner count; marrying her; pair-bonding; and living happily ever after. It's not a bad idea, but the girl's instincts will still be …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 10:08 AM
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It's funny how she gives literally zero thought to the man's perspective. To reflect on what she has to offer that might attract a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 09:55 AM
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I think this is off-topic since she is not looking for financial commitment. It seems she is looking for a BDSM type relationship. I don't know the details of those dating markets, but from what I hear there is an extreme shortage of kinky women who are also thin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 09:53 AM
1

Go tell your mother that. I dare you. Why? What's the point of hurting her feelings?
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 09:34 AM
1

This is just typical gynocentrism. Women stress about money more simply because they get themselves into stressful situations more as a result of childlike money management and spending practices. If the sexes were reversed, the article wouldn't be trying to obscure reality by framing the issues in terms of feelings of stress.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 06:13 PM
1

The mistake is in thinking that the problem is with the dating sites. That if they could only tweak the algorithms; adjust their pricing; or whatever, then an average guy could put in a little work; a little game; find his match; and end up in a satisfying long-term relationship. In reality, the problem is not with the dating sites, it's with human instincts. Any way you slice it, the average woman finds the average man to be sexually unappealing, particularly if she has frequent and easy contac…
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 05:10 PM
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It seems like you are not much better. Sure, 90% of people will cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife if they have the option. The difference between men and women is that it's far easier for women to get casual sex.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 04:05 PM
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It isn't that religious women are not promiscuous, if is that they are to afraid to actually indulge in it. The fear is of social disapproval from their community.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 04:03 PM
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Probably the age-gap explains most of the discrepancy. Not an expert, but so many things go wrong with old people, I would expect them to be harder to diagnose. Most of the people under 60 who have heart attacks are men. Feminists are always trying to spin statistics to make it seem like medicine is biased against women. In reality, women have far more money spent on them than men in terms of medical care and enjoy longer life expectancies across the board.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 03:12 PM
1

Approximately 10% of women suffer from borderline personality disorder. Most BPD-sufferers are women, and they tend to be extremely difficult, unreasonable, entitled, childish, selfish, dishonest, and completely lacking in empathy for others. Just speculating, but I would guess that 80-90% of prominent feminists fall into that category. In other words, I it's truly a movement led by people who are mentally ill.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 03:06 PM
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The reality is that in virtually all of these subcultures, a woman need only parrot the ideas of a few men and she will be showered with money, attention, and status in the community far in excess of that of the men she rips off. This idea that women are treated unfairly in social movements is literally as wrong as wrong can be.
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 02:11 PM
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Yes I'm sure most of you would tell me to chase younger women but I doubt that would work out well. I think that fundamentally, the problem is that most men are unattractive to most women. That's why the OKCupid study is so important -- it vividly and starkly shines a bright light on female nature. To your average 31 year old woman, your average 32 year old man is simply unappealing. That's why she ignores him on internet dating; that's why -- if they do match -- their chat will usually consist …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 10:02 AM
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Gentlemen, this is the power of the hamster IIRC there's a funny line on her Facebook page where she complains about her ex-husband taking her divorce case to trial. Which makes me think that SHE initiated the divorce and was upset that her ex didn't simply go along with her demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 09:37 AM
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to immediately leap into a FWB relationship with some guy a month or two after the divorce, and then separate "as friends" (because he wouldn't get into a LTR with her I bet) so she can pine away for a man she deserves. That's the most charitable spin. I would guess it's pretty likely that her relationship with Mr. FWB was was triggered the divorce. Probably her husband was some straight-laced Christian type who was completely blindsided by his encounter with unbridled hypergamy. Probably he's o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 09:35 AM
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It's been argued that this pairing off (monogamy) is what allowed our civilization to progress I find these arguments persuasive. And a key aspect of monogamy is that it operates to frustrate the sexual instincts of 90+% of the population. It prevents men from putting together a harem of young hotties and it prevents most women from following their instincts to fuck Chad. Unfortunately our modern gynocentric society finds it abhorrent that women don't get their desires catered to at all times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 09:26 AM
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Literally 81% of men are on the wrong side of the mean. I think it's not quite that many since there is some degree of variation in women's preferences (although not a lot). Perhaps 30-40% of men are able to be considered attractive by SOME woman. The rest are probably better off just going MGTOW. Because if you are in a relationship with a woman who doesn't find you attractive, it's bad news.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 02:20 AM
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Women contact those men because they want attention, and because they need a provider and/or want children. Agree. I think they also do it because of social pressure. All their friends are getting married and they feel like it's time to settle. But whatever the reason, I think it leads to a lot of problems. In a lot of these relationships, the woman is literally NEVER physically attracted to the man she dates and ultimately marries. From the very first message on OKCupid until the ink is dry on …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 02:16 AM
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Not meant seriously ? Yeah, it seems she is a comedy writer. In our gynocentric society, it's perfectly permissible to make jokes about maiming men.
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 11:41 PM
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War brides is a broad term used to represent women who choose to lay with the enemy also Fine. I have no dispute at all with the observation that women are sexually attracted to social status in men. Being a soldier on the side of the (seemingly) winning army obviously raises a man's social status. I also don't dispute that women are sexually attracted to men who have the ability to be good providers. In an occupation situation, a soldier in the occupying army has the potential to be a good prov…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 11:18 PM
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Read these two articles. And then let me know your theory on why French women, while not isolated from French men went for German men during world war 2. I thought that by war brides, you meant women who were literally kidnapped during (or in the aftermath of) war and had no choice about their husbands. As far as French women who "went for" German men, my theory is very simple: They "went for" the most handsome men and they also "went for" less attractive men who were perceived to be in a positi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 08:37 PM
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So there is nothing wrong with 80% of guys being invisible. Of course there is something wrong with it. In an ideal world, people would be sexually attracted to their looks-match. Then we could all just pair off and be happy. I don't blame women for being so picky that an ideal world is impossible; I do blame for society for trying to obfuscate this fact.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 08:18 PM
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I think this visual test is geared towards men. Women usually factor in a lot of other data to reach levels of high attraction: personality, financial stability, intelligence, emotional availability, talent, humor, values... You aren't totally wrong but the problem with this kind of thinking is that it leads to an assumption that for women, all these factors contribute to a one-dimensional measure of attractiveness. That a man can make up for a substantial looks deficit with money. Or a winning …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 08:00 PM
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I don't think that's the case. True, women might have been restricted contact within the victor's community but that is not always the case. You're conflating how Isis operates to mean how everyone would have operated. I challenge you to identify 2 cultures where (1) the taking of war brides was common; and (2) women taken as war brides were permitted to have contact with men outside of their family or their husband's family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 07:16 PM
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As I've said before, it's very easy to discreetly have your kids tested in infancy. Paternity fraud is a bit like cancer: If you catch it early, it's much easier to address. No matter how much you love and trust your wife, you should always have your kids tested. Keep in mind that literally millions of years of evolution have perfected women's ability to seem completely sweet and innocent and loyal while cuckolding their husbands. I think the only time a man should skip paternity testing is if (…
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 05:57 PM
1

Probably it's not meant seriously, but can you imagine the uproar if a man published a book joking about doing something equally nasty to women?
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 05:36 PM
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Even though she did not fuck 8+, she will at one point if she can. I basically agree. The main thing that would stop her is that there is a societal norm against female infidelity. But our gynocentric society has been chipping away at that aggressively for some time now. In the earlier part of the 20th century, female infidelity was seen as a scandalous betrayal. By the late 20th century it was seen as being on par with male infidelity. As we move into the 21st century, more and more people are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 05:06 PM
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Also, in long-term relationships woman can learn to feel a degree of attraction for a man (edit: at least enough attraction for her to initiate sex) who has protected her and provided for her even though the first sight of him (edit: or even the current sight of him) did not induce massive tingles. I think that if she has regular contact with Chad, her instincts will be screaming at her to fuck Chad and not her husband/boyfriend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 04:53 PM
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When you are a 4 and married a 8, I wonder how these guys think they found love or that their wife is in love with them. Probably they think it's their personality. But the more interesting question is what happens when the man is a 5/10 and the wife is also a 5/10. Especially if the wife fucked a few 9/10s before they got married. Then what?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 04:50 PM
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Well of course there are bad women, but all of these blanket statements are killing me. Almost certainly you are either (1) a woman; or (2) a man who has internalized society's gynocentrism. That's why information which is unflattering to women is so offensive to you. The fact of the matter is that women fundamentally animals whose nature is the result of a process of natural selection -- just like men are fundamentally animals whose nature is the result of a process of natural selection. Theref…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 04:47 PM
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It's funny to read the ridiculous explanations being offered for such overwhelming evidence of female hypergamy. My favorite is that men are bad at taking and choosing self-pictures. In reality, if it were possible to clean up at online dating through the simple expedient of paying a couple hundred dollars for a professional photo shoot, men would be lining up around the block at photo studios. People are so hostile to even the slightest suggestion that women are anything but sugar and spice and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 11:40 AM
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I am still waiting for that one match with a guy who looks like I could be friends with him. That's a very interesting way of saying that she's waiting for Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 11:28 AM
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It's not that they hid it. Women want protection, provision and validation. Before internet and welfare guess what they needed most. Guess what that found attractive. Women are very malleable in mind. Look up war brides and Stockholm syndrome. I think the key point with war brides is that they were isolated from unrelated men. An ISIS war bride is literally not permitted to leave her marital residence without her husband. (I'm not saying that we should go back to the days of war brides, but we d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 11:25 AM
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It's not like we needed any graph to know this I think it's helpful to understand exactly what's going on. If you are a man, it's seductive to think that if you only "maintain frame," you can keep your relationship problems under control . Or that if you get rich and start wearing a Rolex watch it will fix your problems with getting girls. Before the internet, girls did a pretty good job of hiding their obsession with looks in men and their dual mating strategy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 09:10 AM
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Agreed, because the lesson goes far beyond the obvious consequence that internet dating is a sucker's game for average-looking men. If you are an average-looking man who is married, there is a pretty good chance your wife doesn't find you sexually attractive and NEVER found you sexually attractive. This is not like the situation of a guy who would rather fuck a hot actress than his wife. The difference is that such a man still has some degree of attraction for his wife. Or did at some point in t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 09:04 AM
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When women and white knights are presented with these graphs, their usual response is that (according to the blog post), women nonetheless send and receive messages with men they rated as below average. Which may very well be true, but the study didn't measure the level of enthusiasm in these women's messages. Were they eager to learn more about the men they were engaging with and to set up meetings? Or was it a more typical low effort conversation with one-word responses only after long delays …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 08:56 AM
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Yeah but his advice was atrocious. Probably yeah, but why is it "mansplaining"? Very frequently women give bad advice.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 09:32 PM
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Actually there are two catches: (1) she can't take light-hearted teasing; (2) she's a hard-core feminist.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 09:26 PM
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The danger comes from the horde of simps, whiteknights, and the govt standing behind her, ready to crucify you at the point of her finger. That and the fact that as men, we ourselves are programmed to seek the validation of women, especially attractive women.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 09:18 PM
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Are they under the impression that the women's profiles and stories on here are all fake? In a sense, yes. Because your typical gynocentric person hates being reminded that female sexual attractiveness and fertility have a short expiration date. They also hate when people point out that women have an instinctive dual mating strategy. That's why there's no quicker way to get banned from your typical gynocentric subreddit than to talk about "the wall," the "cock carousel" or to say that a woman in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 06:02 PM
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Basically all complaints they have of men are mere projections. Yeah, it was pretty surprising to me when I learned it's really women who are obsessed with looks; it's women who are afraid of committing to a decent man in hopes that a better deal will come along; it's women who use men for sex and resources; and so on.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 05:10 PM
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I fail to see how you consider me a feminist Actually what I said was that you are spouting feminist nonsense. Which is in fact true. What disgusts me is the open hatred of all women as a whole If "hatred of all women" means the belief that men and women are significantly different, then yeah, I hate women. Too bad that the truth disgusts you. they are de facto slaves If anyone was a de facto slave it was men due to historical conscription. Even today, men are de facto slaves to any woman who ra…
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 05:07 PM
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How could any part of that be interpreted as mansplaining? I wonder who is more likely to volunteer advice that is bad or ignorant -- men or women? My sense is that women are somewhat more likely to give this kind of bad advice that nobody needs.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 05:00 PM
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They know women control 70% of household spending That may be part of it, but it's not the whole story. Consider television shows and ads directed at men. Do those shows (and ads) incessantly portray all women as bumbling idiots while men as portrayed as smart and competent? Generally not. I think a lot of it is that women are simply childish and immature and need this sort of stroking. In the same way, it's common for children's shows and movies to portray adults as bumbling idiots.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 04:57 PM
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That scenario happened to a rich friend of mine a while back. He met an attractive young woman while in Spain for work. They went on a 2 or 3 dates but nothing physical happened. She claimed to have "trust issues" She was still willing to let him take her to a nice meal. All the classic signs were there that she was trying to turn him into a beta orbiter. She would call him only when she was bored at work or had nothing better to do. At other times when they chatted, she would give low effort re…
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 04:49 PM
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The corollary to that should be that if the man is financially providing for you, then treat him like a king.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 04:34 PM
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I would say that most women don't even notice guys who they think are average or less, which is why like 80% of men are basically invisible to them. So, when you hear them talking about "male privilege" or how "it's a man's world", etc., realize they are only basing their judgements based on the top 20% best-looking, tallest, most successful guys out there. It would be like us assuming that all women are sexy super-models and so of course they have great lives. Agreed 100%. That's also a big par…
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 04:29 PM
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If it were me and I lived in Europe, I would just drive to the closest jurisdiction where home testing kits can be easily purchased; buy one; and test the child without the mother's knowledge. The main problem I see here is that even if the kid is mine, the fact that the woman is reluctant to have a test done means that she is not sure who the father is which means she's a huge slut.
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 10:45 AM
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It's not safe to get involved in other people's disputes. And it happens all the time that some guy gets it into his head to be the White Knight and gets himself killed or seriously injured in the process. Usually when that happens, m'lady ends up taking the side of her supposed attackers. No, the thing to do is call the authorities and let them deal with it. They are armed, trained, can easily call for backup, and have the legal authority to handle the problem. The real outrage here is the atte…
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 10:39 AM
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The main problem I see here is that this woman sees it as a chore and a sacrifice to focus her time and energy on being a mom. There are a decent number of guys out there who are financially successful enough to give their wives an allowance of $15k a month, but of course any such guy is going to shy away from a woman who sees the relationship purely as a business transaction. Edit: Of course even if this girl were devoted as I described, I doubt that she is beautiful and young and slender which…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 10:17 AM
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You are taking my words too literally maybe. No, I am interpreting your words reasonably. Now that you've called out on your feminist BS, you prefer to pretend you said something different from what you actually said. So it's cool that historically, men in power made laws that made women property Ahh, so what you ACTUALLY MEANT was that historically, there were laws which treated men and women differently. And yes, that's completely "cool" as far as I am concerned. There was a time where they co…
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 10:07 AM
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There were instances of daughters being bought from their father. I guess technically it would be called a dowry. Either way, money changed hands for a bride. Aside from that, a woman had no rights in the 1800's she was to do her husband's bidding Look, if your claim is correct that "laws made women property," then you should be able to cite instances when husbands (legally) sold their wives in the English speaking world in the last few hundred years. If you can't do that, then you should just a…
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 11:52 PM
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So it's cool that historically, men in power made laws that made women property When did this happen historically? When's the last time that a man in an English-speaking country legally put his wife up for sale and sold her? Please enlighten me. There are corrupt amongst both genders so your arguement that all men are saints and more trustworthy than all women is kind of bullshit. Lol, nice strawman. I'm not saying that all men are saints. What I am saying is that men can be trusted to protect w…
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 04:51 PM
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I'm pretty confident that there's a lot more to the story than this woman is letting on.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 03:29 PM
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Wouldn’t they approve of the idea of the men who only want women for their bodies staying at home with a squishy silicone doll, instead of being out in the world bothering them? No, I don't think so. Being hit on by "creeps" may be a bit annoying (but I do think women exaggerate it as a way of humble-bragging), but deep down women know that endless supply of deference, resources, social status, and power they are constantly handed are the result of the male need for female validation. Anything t…
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 02:33 PM
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I gotta say that I like the look of that red head doll with bj mode enabled. I have a strong feeling that deep down that feminist wants and needs a man to take control over her; apply (loving) corporal punishment; and -- yes -- to demand regular fellation.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 02:28 PM
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So condescending.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/19 02:23 PM
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Not like the guy in the right has any other thing going for him Yes, quite likely he is your classic White Knight neck-beard who thinks that by being a feminist ally he might get a women to give him the time of day. As far as the guy on the left goes, whether he's Chad or not doesn't really matter. Although I agree that his appearance rebuts the feminist charge that anti-feminists are men who are unattractive.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 10:50 AM
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I'm surprised that you guys actually think that giving rights to women is bad. Disgusting. Why? If women are given power in society -- the sort of power which men have traditionally wielded -- women will inevitably abuse that power and oppress men, harming themselves and society in general in the process.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 06:46 AM
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The problem is that either women will be second class citizens or men will be second class citizens. There's really no way to have equality. Why? Because in general women are very biased in favor of other women and men are slightly biased in favor of women. So if you start from a situation of equal power, the system will inevitably slide into more and more bias in favor of women. The only thing limiting this process is that runaway gynocentrism is expensive and destructive and anti-natalist. To …
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 06:43 AM
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Mr. Imbred is sexier and gets more pussy lol. Probably but we need to resist the urge to judge men based on their attractiveness to women.
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 06:36 AM
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I really like science fiction and yeah, I tend to skip over any books written by women. Even if the woman is not some feminist type who relentlessly pushes her agenda, women sci fi authors tend not to be interested in (or good at) world building or problem solving, which is what I enjoy about science fiction. The last time I read science fiction by a woman, it was a short story in an anthology. The story was one of those end-of-the-world scenarios where everyone knows the world will be destroyed…
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 10:01 PM
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This has to be a goof, it's way too absurd. Yeah this is obviously trolling/parody/a joke
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/19 06:56 PM
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Well, in cases where babies get mixed-up in the hospital and mommy might have the wrong one, people do seem to think DNA matters. But, hey, that's mommy's baby we're talking about. Yes, imagine if a study came out showing that even 1% of babies were accidentally switched at birth and mom got the wrong baby. Can you imagine the freakout that would ensue? Of course legislatures would IMMEDIATELY spare no expense to make sure this never happened again. The fact is that DNA matters a lot, it's just …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 07:29 PM
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but we can try to make a deal that paternity testing is done immediately for each newborn, and if it is proven that the baby is not ours, it's immediate grounds for proving adultery and divorce. There do exist jurisdictions where paternity fraud is grounds for avoiding child support. So yeah, what you envision may be possible. But that's not the smart move because it relies on the fantasy of a straight-shooting system that enforces agreements, holds women to their promises, and does justice even…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 02:47 PM
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Probably she gets 5 or 10 bona fide marriage proposals every week.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 01:45 AM
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If you follow those guidelines your success with women becomes so much easier. That may be, but why judge yourself based on what women think of you? Why turn over your self esteem to a spoiled child? Logically it makes no sense. Admittedly, we guys are programmed by evolution to place a high premium on female validation. But why not try to resist this destructive instinct?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 01:44 AM
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They ban you if a woman reports you too, even if you havent said anything particularly bad. What is their end game? I guess it's mainly about money. The idea is (1) cater to women's desires; (2) get more active female users; (3) the presence of women attracts lots of men who will pay extra for add-on services. Keep in mind that it's all about feelings. There's nothing stopping you from rejecting fatties, feminists, single moms, etc. if it's done subtly. In fact, I am pretty sure that's a better …
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 10:22 AM
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What happened to preferences? Is Tinder really telling men they're not allowed to have exclusions? I would guess that more precisely, they are telling men not to say stuff that will hurt women's feelings. The people who run dating apps know that they always have a shortage of women, especially young women. So they are desperate to get more women to sign up, knowing that if there are a lot of women, the men will follow and pay.
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 10:16 AM
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Actually there is something wrong with desiring physical beauty, which is that you are handing a lot of power over your life to someone who has the emotional and intellectual maturity of a teenager. Admittedly, desiring physical beauty is a strong male instinct which is difficult to suppress. But the next time a pretty girl smiles at you and as a result you feel happy and you get the urge to do nice things for her, keep in mind that your natural urges can be very destructive.
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 10:11 AM
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I question the validity of the entire thing, forget who did or didn't discover the "algorathim" to create a picture. I think its feminist/science propaganda. That bitch didn't discover shit. Yeah, I too am skeptical of the entire thing. With that much data, it would be relatively easy to play around with different algorithms and tweak here and there until you got an image that looked like a popular conception of a black hole. Then quietly discard all of your negative results. In fact, if the who…
/r/MGTOW12/04/19 10:04 AM
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There are always outliers. I'm not slamming anyone just stating facts. Of the people who are smart, creative, and driven enough to make an important contribution to science or technology, 99% are men. At the same time, gynocentric society wants to pretend that the number is 50% and is willing to go to great lengths to dissemble, distort, or outright lie in order to support this phony narrative. Therefore, any time a woman is touted as having some important scientific or technological accomplishm…
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 07:02 PM
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Bouman clearly deserves the credit for writing the core code here. The thing is, it's pretty rare for women -- especially attractive young women -- to have actual bona fide scientific or technological accomplishments. At the same time, it's extremely common for our gynocentric society to pretend that women are having such accomplishments. That's why very strong evidence is required to support the claims that (1) Bouman deserves primary credit for this black hole thing; and (2) what she did is si…
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 06:44 PM
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because it shows sexism against men and the blatant hypocrisy of females It's funny because the conventional wisdom is that men are constantly stealing the credit for female innovation. The reality is 180 degrees opposite.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 06:15 PM
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If a woman (especially an attractive woman) is credited for any kind of scientific or technological achievement, the chances are at least 90% that she's stealing the credit from a man.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 06:13 PM
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What do you consider is 'her league'? Yes, I think you have found the fatal flaw in this poster's ridiculous claim. When she says that men are "focused on good looking bitches," what she actually means is that CHAD is focused on good looking bitches. One of the key insights you learn in forums like this is that (1) generally speaking, women do not perceive the bottom 80% of men as sexual beings; and (2) women have poor self-awareness about this fact. That's why it seems to women that men are obs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 05:36 PM
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I don't have to experiment, I have been trying to find serious relationship with normal person online for past ten years, and I used to be higher than five (less weight and younger), now I am 31 Send me your pic; unless you are obese I am pretty confident that within 7 days I can get you messages from 10 men in their 30s, each of whom has a steady job and expresses interest in a serious long term relationship leading to marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 05:02 PM
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Right at the beginning you move the family to one of those Muslim countries where the man has all the rights to the children and she can't even remove the children from the country without your written permission.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 04:58 PM
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Camversity = Cam girl Yeah. In a way I have respect for her. She's not an entitlement princess who thinks she deserves Chad and only Chad. She's not looking for a bailout. The goods are up for sale is all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 04:49 PM
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Within her league and looking for longterm relationship? Not much if any. I disagree, want to make a low stakes bet? Let's pick out a picture of a woman who is about a 5/10 and 30 years old. We'll make a generic profile which clearly expresses interest in a serious long-term relationship ONLY and that any replies which don't express similar interest in a long term relationship will be disregarded. I predict that within 7 days the profile will get at least 10 personalized responses from men who a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 04:44 PM
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She hopes to get alpha bucks but she won't. Probably not, but the sense I get is that she is a lot more concerned over the "bucks" than whether the man providing them is alpha, beta, or anything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 08:15 AM
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It's the same thing with men? Plenty of good women out there yet you are focused on good looking bitches A bit, but not really. Your average man is a lot less picky than the average woman. If you don't believe me, make a fake dating profile with the picture of a 30 year old Plain Jane and see what kind of responses it gets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/19 08:09 AM
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Yeah and you larping faggots expect a 30 year old woman to be a virgin and live your fantasy muh trad wife. Lol, that's quite a clever insult. Disagree about virginity, but yeah, a 30 year old woman should have a low body count if she reasonably expects a top 1% family-oriented man to make a lifelong financial commitment to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 10:06 PM
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she makes 150k and doesnt seem to have kids this doesn't seem that unreasonable. Disagree. What percentage of men in their 30s are 6'+; not bald; not fat; and make 6 figures? 1% is a reasonable estimate. Of that 1%, how many are both family-oriented and still single? Practically none. Anyway, let's assume that she is looking for a top 1% guy. Is she herself in the top 1%? It's very unlikely given that she is 31 years old. Her age and likely sexual history are already a big strike against her. An…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 09:59 PM
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I just read "Not bold" and didn't go any further. I'm not a fucking Knight that slays Dragons. Oh woe is fucking me. LOL I think she means "bald"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 09:55 PM
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Lol! 18 year old virgin models with a trust fund and an A+ in Home Economics would want this guy. Yeah, especially when you consider that "face can be slightly ugly" probably doesn't mean what most guys reading it think it means. Most guys would interpret it to mean the top 80-90%, i.e. anyone whose face is not very ugly. But she probably means it to mean the top 50%. Another problem is that a man who meets her physical and financial qualifications, who is also devoted and family oriented, will …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 09:54 PM
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Not sure this belongs here. Seems she's basically an amateur escort / sugar baby. I would guess her strategy is to take Alpha bucks / Beta bucks / anyone's bucks-- and then she fucks. I admire a hard working person. I have a strong feeling that she would be perfectly fine with a wastrel trust fund baby who takes her on a nice shopping trip every date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 09:45 PM
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This is an obvious shit post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 08:07 PM
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I don't think it's an exaggeration to estimate that fewer than 1% of men in the 30-38 range are 6'+; not bald; not fat; and earn 6 figures. Also, when guys read "face can be slightly ugly I don't mind," we interpret it to mean the guy is okay if he is not in the bottom 5-10%. But I don't think that's what girls mean by "slightly ugly." For women, "slightly ugly" probably means above the 50th percentile. All that said, the defining issue for us is this: I'm looking for serious relationship becaus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 08:01 PM
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It's possible that she really is looking for sex and is just worried that her boyfriend/husband will see her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 08:23 AM
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Probably a lot of the guys here would be perfectly fine dating a woman who doesn't fuck (before marriage). As long as we know that her rule applies to everyone, even Chad. In fact I would prefer to live in a world where people saw dating simply as a vehicle for finding a good husband/wife and not and end in itself, a way to have fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 08:20 AM
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Yeah and what happens is there are guys in their 30s who are decent looking but not Chadesque enough for Tinder who go onto sugar baby web sites and pretend to be rich.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:24 PM
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They act like "going through boyfriends" is something perfectly fine and it doesn't have any consequences to their psyche Yeah, society doesn't pay enough attention to the fact that going through the cycle of having a relationship with someone has tangible effects on a person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:21 PM
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Why does every single woman think she's a catch? Part of the problem is that women in our society almost never get negative feedback. Everyone tiptoes around their feelings. There is a serious social taboo against saying anything that will make a woman feel bad about herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:18 PM
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. Yes, there are women that are serious about marriage as I have outlined but have not been married yet in their 30s Unless she is obese or physically deformed, literally any woman can be married to a decent man by age 25, i.e. a man who has a job, no criminal record, and will make an okay husband and father. There's just that much demand for young women. The woman in this post shows she did not take dating seriously since she has been "going through boyfriends." She is analogous to fat slob who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:16 PM
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the single greatest lie that women tell each other is that they are a “catch.” If you really are a "catch," it shouldn't take more than 2 or 3 months to get "caught" by a desirable member of the opposite sex. Besides, any woman who's jaded is not a "catch." A 30 year old woman who is "tired" of "boyfriends" has probably been through at least 10 or 20 unpleasant breakups.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:03 PM
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I disagree to an extent. A rich guy can definitely get a young hottie, but the problem is that if he is unattractive then she will secretly be repulsed by him which is likely to poison their entire relationship. I think that's the reason you see a rich internet exec with a mistress who is rather plain looking. He can definitely fuck hotter chicks, but for whatever reason that chick is actually into him. And intimacy is a million times better if the woman is actually into you. ​ ​
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 09:11 PM
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Imagine the feminist freakout if the difference went in the other direction.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 09:00 PM
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"Be gone thot"
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 08:31 PM
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It's not MGTOW so much as the categories. Plenty of "professional" 30+ men would sign up if they had a chance to meet women in the 18-30 category.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 08:30 PM
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Married a hottie 10 years younger than him. He paid for her schooling and bills. Yeah, I have heard a lot of stories like this. I think that if you want to have a stable relationship with a woman, you need to be a bit Machiavellian about it. It's great if she loves you for the nice things you do for her, but she should also have some dread for the negative consequences if she ends the relationship. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 07:13 PM
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I am sorry to hear about your situation. I think that woman in general don't have much capacity for gratitude or a sense of obligation. So a man can't do nice things for the woman and expect that the relationship will stay healthy due to her feeling grateful. Instead, he must arrange things so that on a going forward basis, she is better off staying in the relationship than leaving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 07:05 PM
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I ask, with absolute curiosity. What is your plan to avoid, or triumph over a false-rape or a sexual assault accusation? (1) take the time to get to know the person before getting intimate; (2) don't get intimate if the person is intoxicated and it's early in the relationship. (3) learn the most common reasons for false rape accusations - regret, alibi, and revenge -- and plan accordingly. Thus for example, if you are going to end a relationship, don't do it in private or even in her presence. I…
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 12:36 AM
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It works just fine until you make women rulers over all men. Yes, there's nothing wrong in principle with the idea that access to attractive women is one of the rewards for success. Women just need to have proper respect and appreciation for male achievement. Which they don't if they are given power.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 11:19 PM
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If you want kids, just have 5 kids. Agreed. The only reason to get married is to have children. And if that's what you want, you push for children immediately. Because once she's a mom, she's much less attractive to other men and the kids will keep her busy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 11:04 PM
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The guy didn't realize it, but he was just a stepping stone to a better provider anyway. His job was to get her through medical school, at which point he was to be discarded so she could chase after doctors. Yeah, he is fortunate that he got out when he did. The sad truth is that it's dangerous for a man to help his wife or girlfriend's career. The increase in her status and earnings will inevitably diminish his appeal to her. And she is likely to come into contact with more desirable men. Maybe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 11:01 PM
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Paying a penalty is, in many ways, a lesser hassle than facing legal trouble Agreed. The thing to keep in mind is that if there is a domestic legal dispute between a man and a woman, the authorities are very biased in favor of the woman. She has all kinds of options at her disposal to make life very difficult for the man. That's why if you discovery your wife/girlfriend is cheating, it's vital to play it cool. You need to save the evidence and don't say a thing until you've carefully planned out…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 10:54 PM
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I think the best thing to do is just to go elsewhere, let the gf pay the bills, if she wants to stay. No legal entanglements there. To an extent I agree. In most jurisdictions she can cause him a world of trouble if he just kicks her out. That said, there is something better to do: If you find out that she cheated, you save the evidence, but you don't say a freaking word. Instead, you pretend everything is fine and take a couple months to find a plausible way to get her out, for example have her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 10:51 PM
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I usually end up with fat angry looking waitresses. Makes it easy to keep my money I usually tip pretty well as long as the person is attentive and friendly. Male or female, hot or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 08:59 PM
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You get nothing out of paying extra money to have a woman fake flirting with you. I disagree. It makes me happy to have a cute girl serve me. Well worth the extra $5 or $10 to turn a basic tip into a nice tip. If you let women walk all over you for money, you’ll never stop being a doormat. "Doormat" implies that the woman is abusing me. The situation in a restaurant is generally not abusive. Why? Because I am a sophisticated customer who knows exactly what he is paying for; exactly what he's get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 11:18 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about. You’re rewarding women for working a low skill job and existing. And rewarding them for flirting with you when they just want your tips. It teaches women they can flirt money out of men. There's nothing per se wrong with a cute girl flirting money out of men -- if the man gets a fair exchange. It becomes a problem when the girl acts abusively in bad faith, for example by dangling the possibility of a sexual relationship in order to get resources out of the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 09:31 PM
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No more emotional tampons and beta orbiters. That's just the beginning. The reality is that women are utterly dependent on men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 08:05 PM
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Not to mention the ungodly amount of tips most attractive women get. I say that we should stop tipping women, stop carrying things for them, stop helping them in ways we wouldn’t for men. At least until they start acknowledging there is a problem. Otherwise nothing will change. The thing about tipping is that the girl is providing a service. It's a much more enjoyable experience for me if I have a pretty girl bringing me my beer and nachos and I don't mind paying extra for it. Especially if she …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 05:01 PM
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Well I guess I'm in the minority because I'm not looking for a woman to care about me. And I have no interest in sex bots Perhaps yeah, but the reality is that in most jurisdictions in the West, laws against prostitution are not enforced very aggressively. In terms of getting arrested, I would feel safer hiring a call girl than driving at 80 mph on the highway. ​
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 04:57 PM
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Um. What really annoys me is when women complain about the "skin gap," i.e. the fact that women tend to wear clothing which is a lot more revealing than that worn by men. Even though the reality is that outside of places like Hooters, there are essentially zero places in the West where women are required to wear revealing clothes. But at the same time, when societies enforce social norms or laws which require women to dress modestly, women complain about that too. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 04:54 PM
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Feminists both hate porn and try to call it empowering. It’s hilarious to watch them convolute themselves. Yes, because if you give women freedom, some will choose to do things that please men even if it's only due to self-interest. Which is one of the most vile things about feminism: Feminists instinctively hate anything that benefits or pleases men, even if it doesn't harm women in any way. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 04:37 PM
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She can't play the victim card, if she said that. Yes, but the other thing is that if a man is below the women's threshold of looks/money/status, he is not even perceived as a sexual being. That's why it's so common for women to complain that there are no men interested in her when in reality there are a lot of men interested in her. The unattractive men are filtered out at a subconscious level and never receive any conscious thought. They simply don't count. That's also part of the reason women…
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 03:30 PM
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Many of the "self-made" are women who got half of their husbands' companies in the divorce. Yes, with the exception of a few entertainers/actresses/athletes, I would be surprised if there are any actual self-made female billionaires out there.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 03:07 PM
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Even the "self-made" women are probably business partners of men doing the actual work 99% of the time. ​
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:24 PM
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Even now, you can bet she gets regular marriage proposals from men. "I would like somebody to 'step up' and date me" = "I would like somebody who is suitably tall, rich, and handsome to 'step up' and date me" Literally 100% of the time when a woman complains about difficulties finding a man, you need to insert the qualifier "who is suitably tall rich and handsome" into her complaint to make it accurate. ​
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:23 PM
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When women are replaced by machines, men will have a few decades of hedonistic bliss until they, too, are replaced. I don't see this as a necessarily bad thing. If we all have access to robotic lovers, we will all have the option of going our own way. I don't wish any harm on women as a group; I simply don't want to be enslaved to them.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:17 PM
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Women and prostitution is redundant. Of course women are genetically programmed to trade their most valuable asset (sexual access) for resources. As someone pointed out above, making prostitution fully legal won't solve the problem of the huge power imbalance which has developed in favor of women. The problem is that men want more than simple sexual access -- they want exclusive access to a woman who genuinely cares about them; who is physically and mentally healthy; and who preferably has a low…
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:09 PM
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I think this is a good point, but I would go a bit further: Men also put a lot of value on being with women who are genuinely into them, at least somewhat. Perhaps some sugar babies are truly sweet girls who really like men (or are extremely good actors), but I would guess that most of them are obviously "lying back and thinking of England," so to speak. A sexbot could be programmed to genuinely care about and adore her human master -- at least as much as an actual woman cares about her husband.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:53 PM
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Men are frequently accused of feeling entitled to women's bodies, but what's far greater is the sense of entitlement women have to men's resources. The post itself is obviously fake, but it's still informative how women and cucks react. They are outraged over the idea of a man restricting a woman's access to his resources when she misbehaves. They want to cut off every possible avenue by which a man might obtain power in a relationship while expanding every opportunity for the woman to exercise …
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:36 PM
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This is obviously a fake post written by a MGTOW shill, but I still think it's worth pointing out that just as there are forces pushing men away from marriage, there are also forces pushing women away from marriage, i.e. feminists who urge women to spend their prime years pursuing education, career, and the cock carousel. ​
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 01:20 PM
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Yep. A serious problem to their finances. hahaha Agreed, but it's not just money. As she goes throughout her day, your typical Western woman constantly has the rough edges of life smoothed by men who want her to appreciate them. From the policeman who lets her off with a warning; to the boss who looks the other way when she is late to work; to the random guy who offers her help when she is carrying something heavy; to the white knight who leaps to her defense when she is called out for saying so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 01:09 PM
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Yeah subconsciously women are well aware that the main source of their wealth and power in modern society is the male need for validation and sex from females. What gives the game away is their outrage when even undesirable men start finding alternatives. You would think that they'd be ecstatic if the least desirable men retreated to lives of porn and waifus. Because it means one less "creep" awkwardly asking women out on dates. But instead they see it as a serious problem. ​ ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 12:29 PM
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They're still trying and are having some success I don't know how old you are, but back in the day, it was extremely common for feminists to push studies which purported to show a link between pornography and rape. You don't hear so much of that any more; instead what you hear about is glass ceilings and sexual harassment. They still make a big deal out of rape but you don't hear much about the porn angle anymore. They may still be trying to ban porn, but it seems pretty clear they've back-burne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 12:24 PM
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but the study found that they were less likely to consider unattractive men even if he had more desirable personality traits. I'm not the least bit surprised. But the real killer here is the dual-mating instinct. If a man finds a woman physically unattractive, it's very unlikely that he's going to enter a sexual relationship with her in order to extract resources from her. By contrast, women do this ALL THE TIME. The studies show that women find 80-90% of men to be physically unattractive. Which…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/19 09:36 PM
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Unfortunately there's no other way for a study to control for dishonesty. I agree, which is why any reasonable researcher, reporter, or other person who is talking about the findings should say something like "women SAY that they are freezing their eggs because of [whatever]" ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 05:56 PM
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My bet is that these losers where very attractive physically in one way or another but that attractiveness is only skin deep. They are rotten on the inside. I've found that one of the biggest lies that feminism has told is that men are only interested in looks and sex. If we're honest with ourselves, I've found women to be just as bad or worse then men when judging looks Yes, this is something I've noticed over the years. In reality, women are MORE obsessed with looks than men. Society doesn't l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 04:57 PM
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Women who advocate female spaces can't respect male spaces. Yeah, but it's actually worse than that because most of these male spaces are associated with particular religions and the female invaders are never adherents of the religion in question. Also, there are often equivalent spaces for females but those are never good enough.
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 04:37 PM
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So, quick poll: how many of the men commenting on this could just easily pick up a bow, start hunting and foraging, and basically pull a Katniss? I’m a bit curious... Not so sure about "easily," but I am pretty confident that I could learn how to forage reasonably effectively if necessary in a few days if I had access to reference materials and in a few weeks if I had to do everything from scratch. To be sure I would mainly use traps as they are much more effective than actual hunting (which is …
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 03:40 PM
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Funny thing is... hunger games MC was written for a man. I would say it's a female fantasy. To be Strong and Independent AND to have men falling over each other to serve you. In reality, if females were put into a hunger games type situation, they would all either (1) fall to pieces; or (2) survive by fucking the toughest males. ​
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 03:15 PM
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What a fantastic point. Saving this, thanks! Thanks, actually any time a woman complains about her lack of success in finding a date/boyfriend/husband/whatever, it's easy enough to shut her up by offering to find her one if she simply provides a picture for you to set up a dating profile. Literally 100% of the time a woman complains that she can't find a man who satisfies some criteria what she really means is that she can't find a man who satisfies that criteria and is suitably tall successful …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 02:36 PM
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Who would have thought ageing career women would have trouble finding men willing to commit. The joke of it all is that there are plenty of guys willing to commit to them. Just not guys who are tall rich and handsome. I guarantee I can find a willing husband for any woman under 40 who is not obese. The guy will have a steady job history; good credit; and no history of domestic abuse or any other criminal past for that matter. ​ ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 11:50 AM
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In typical gynocentric fashion, researchers ask women about their motivations and accept women's self-reporting as gospel. Even though its widely known that everyone -- male or female -- lies about their motivations to make themselves seem more noble and less to blame for any problems. If it were us men being surveyed about our motivations, you can bet they would have disclaimers like "men claim" or "men say." The reality is that any woman in the West who is not obese has a window between ages 1…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 11:44 AM
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So it appears no one wants to reproduce with foul mouth feminist Plenty of guys do, but these broads want Chad and only Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 11:27 AM
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This is one of those ads where you wonder if the woman is subtly and deniably trying to prostitute out her child. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 03:13 PM
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So, yeah she is 'joking' but only enough to seem cute and attract a man Agreed. If an average looking guy messages her and says "Of course you can have half my stuff - because I have nothing," you can bet he will get no response at all. But if they same guy mentions that he's a surgeon, you can bet he will get a response. ​ Another thought experiment: Imagine if a guy's dating profile said "I just want you to strip naked and give me a blowjob every morning - I don't think that's asking for too m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 03:11 PM
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You never hear the whole story Yes, on a related note a guy in my neighborhood started having an affair a couple years ago. Everyone thought he was kind of a jerk, but reading threads like this made me remember that a few years earlier, the guy's wife confided in a mutual friend that she had married him for money. That made things click a bit, and now I am pretty sure that the wife was providing sex that was infrequent and unenthusiastic. She had also let herself get pretty fat. I think that in …
/r/MGTOW01/04/19 09:04 PM
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Yeah, I realized in the last couple years that there are a lot of guys who are not incels but who have never had the experience of being with a woman who was authentically sexually attracted to them. These are the guys who bear the brunt of cuckoldry; divorce rape; and so on. ​
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:43 PM
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This video is so disgusting to watch once you're red-pilled. Agree 100%. Society's been convinced that if a woman whores around, it's just harmless fun. The red pill truth is that it's extremely destructive behavior.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:27 PM
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well said. i remember having a discussion with a woman who tried to argue having sex with a woman with experience is better because she knows how to please. ha, "experience" means she will never be satisfied and will constantly evaluate your performance in comparison to all her other suitors (trust me they're still 1 text away) I think that for most men, they would much rather have sex with a woman who is completely into him but inexperienced than a woman who is experienced but not as much into …
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:24 PM
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How about an ad featuring a guy traveling the world and banging different types of women using Tinder? Of course they won't make such an ad. It's pretty rare to see ads which pander to male desires. Even the makers of products primarily consumed by men are wary of pissing off the gynocracy. ​
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:21 PM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with women preferring more attractive men to less attractive men. What I object to is that women tend to be very contemptuous, hostile, and unreasonable towards men they find unattractive. They also tend to date up and then blame men as a group when Chad won't commit.
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 06:17 PM
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bro, woman have been whores since the dawn of time. True, which is why traditional cultures have always strictly regulated women's freedom to interact with unrelated men. ​
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 05:48 PM
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It's also harmful for players/Chads/whatever you want to call them. Just look at aging PUA types. They end up burned out; infected with STDs; and unable to form long term relationships. The fact is that the human body and the human psyche are not adapted to promiscuous behavior; it's not harmless fun; and it's destructive to everyone. ​ ​
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 05:22 PM
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Why blaming em tho? I don't blame them at all. What I object to is (1) When they complain about being thought of as prizes for male achievement even though they act exactly like prizes for male achievement by getting with high achieving men; (2) When they demand that society hand them the fruits of male achievement directly and by force rather than as a result of free negotiation; (3) When they manifest a sense of entitlement to the fruits of male achievement without feeling obligated to offer a…
/r/MGTOW31/03/19 04:39 PM
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