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Red Pill Theorybobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:34 AM
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Field Reportbobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:59 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/trpGAME05/11/14 11:38 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/becomeaman17/07/14 09:46 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:06 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP07/07/14 08:25 PM
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Field Reportbobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:47 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:07 AM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:26 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:30 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:42 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP14/07/14 06:24 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:35 AM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:44 AM
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Red Pill Theorybobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:02 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:12 PM
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Field Reportbobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:11 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:52 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:35 PM
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Metabobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:22 PM
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Field Reportbobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:01 PM
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bobbybluepill/r/askTRP24/11/14 06:50 PM
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Rant/Ventingbobbybluepill/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:30 AM
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Don't do this. Bringing it up shows that you care. You should act as if you don't care and fake it until you make it and genuinely don't. Women want to be led. If it's truly not THAT bad, she won't care if you conduct yourself in a manner that leads her believe that she shouldn't care either. In the meantime, keep up the good work. Use stretch mark creams to try to lighten up or get rid of that shit.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:03 AM
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Bingo. I'm in my early 30s but am constantly told I look mid-20s. I set my online stuff to "30" because a lot of girls under 25 will set 30 as their highest age limit.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:14 PM
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There's a guy on here who books 3 dates over an hour and a half or something in order of hotness and flakes on the later dates if it's going well during an earlier date. Also, if he gets flaked on, he's got two backups. I do like your idea though. "I'm auditioning." Hilarious. If you try it, write a FR.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:40 AM
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You're 100% correct. OP doesn't know what he's talking about and obviously Googled "fuckboy." I know, because I read this post, thought to myself "what? did this guy just read some stupid shit on Google?" And Googled it myself. The first post is a Complex article talking about two women arguing over the definition. They want it to mean, "a guy who sleeps around without commitment...the worst kind of guy." That is not what the term means. It was used in prison for bitches. Made its way to the rap…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 04:09 PM
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Women care about status more than anything else. This is why celebrities and the insanely rich get laid. It's not just those who are amazingly good looking or in top physical shape. The issue with high school is that you've already been "type cast" as to what your status is. It's extremely hard to gain more social status in that type of environment. My advice to you is to forget about the girls at your HS. I was not the biggest guy at my HS but I had three very hot girlfriends during HS and took…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't worry about the apps too much. Almost everybody I know (both men and women) use Snapchat and WhatsApp. If she's on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, or Happn (which are all dating-specific apps), then you know she's only plate material at best.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:10 PM
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Right. So, you can either cut all emotional attachment and plate her (I'd advise applying Dread, of course), you can just go No Contact and never speak with her again, or you can do one and then the other. Viewing it from any perspective though, you can't call her out but you also know you can't ever trust her.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:08 PM
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Snooping is a slippery slope. If you go in to her phone looking for dirt and you find it, you can't really confront her on it. It doesn't matter what she is doing behind your back. She's deem this a trust violation and deem you as insecure. Ultimately, she'll lose attraction that will be harder to earn back than if you just went out and found another girl. You always need to keep girls waiting on the bench. You don't have to cheat emotionally or physically, but you do need to have a girl or two …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:12 AM
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Or, you could wait until 2018 (hopefully) and get Vasalgel.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:12 PM
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So your LTR is cheating on you... Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. It doesn't matter either way--she's violated trust and either needs to be downgraded permanently or removed from OP's life.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:59 PM
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This is the correct response, provided you are able to control your emotions. Like OP, I also dated a girl for 4+ years, needed to end the relationship, but wanted to downgrade her to plate. Ultimately (I've tried to plate her twice over the past 2 years), feelings creep back in and I'm unable to view her as I typically view plates (e.g. if she's out with her girlfriends, I will wonder what they're up to, I will become jealous, I will feel anxiety, etc.). But at the end of the day, I know I can'…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:56 PM
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The creator just replied to me: Holy cow, I went to sleep with 20 subs & awoke to 300 spartans. This is madness. Now I feel some real motivation to keep making this content So, I sent him a PM about this place. Judging from his post, I think TRP strategy would be a benefit to him.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:14 PM
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Tunas don't normally enjoy being devoured by Great Whites, just saying. Good point and completely true, but if/when OP says this to his LTR, she'll vehemently deny wanting to be devoured too if he were to say, "And you'll love it!" I'd just avoid it--she'll understand and agree with the analogy. That type of ego inflation is better than anything to a woman. Most women would throw their whole lives away, children and LTRs and all else just for a brief glimpse of that, and still consider it worth …
/r/askTRP01/07/15 10:17 PM
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To be honest with respect to girls going to clubs - it's absolutely never the agency that tell them to go there, but rather when the move to a new city there's guys that go out finding out who all the knew girls are, gets their numbers, and sends out a text at 5pm every day saying x/y/z is happening in this cool place with these cool people. Both are true. My friends promote like that but there are "model lofts" in SoHo where the girls sign contracts, stating they will appear at X event per week…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:12 PM
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When she's invited to events, does she always decline?
/r/askTRP01/07/15 08:11 PM
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This is half-true. A model in NYC will date a doctor, if he's accepting of her lifestyle. The doctor will be Beta Bux while men of much higher status will fill Alpha Fucks for her. If she feels like she can branch swing, she will. But, if she's smart, she won't give up a high-value Beta Bux for anyone else unless she has real commitment. Check out my parent comment on here about my ex... So, I broke up with that girl and I spin plates, etc. She continues to live her life and still isn't employed…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 07:59 PM
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I have real experience with this. As a model, she will be expected to attend extremely high-end events, even if she's with a minor agency. If your LTR is over 5'10" she'll be coveted at all of the major events. These events will be some of the most exclusive in the world, not just NYC. She'll be seated with celebrities, multimillionaires, and politicians. These men will pay $35,000-$50,000 USD in one night to keep themselves, their friends, and their tables flooded with alcohol and personal secu…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 07:48 PM
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/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 04:06 PM
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Great observations and write-up explaining the fallacy of spending money on women. “For Everybody” by Juicy J. Additionally, everybody on this sub should give this a listen.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:54 PM
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If you're contemplating revenge for plates that dropped you're not RP at all. Exactly. A year and a half ago, by ex cheated on me and I hated her. Wished her nothing but the worst. Now, I don't wish anything about her one way or the other. I wish I hadn't acted like such a bitch while I was with her, if anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:22 AM
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I've thought about this too. I try to keep strict with the following rules for plates: Any communication that is not done in-person is done solely for logistics. Only see a plate two times maximum within a 10 day period. "Pass" Comfort Tests without giving commitment. i.e. Let her know you enjoy spending time with her, you're open to a relationship with the "right" girl, you're happy with the way things are naturally progressing, etc. Ultimately, you've got a decision to make. If you follow my r…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 02:41 PM
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You'll encounter two types of tests... The Shit Test is designed to allow a woman to see if she can break your frame and rapport. If she can, she knows that she holds power over you and is subsequently less attracted. The Comfort Test is designed to allow a woman to see if there's any chance for a future with the two of you. This happens after you've destroyed a good deal of Shit Tests. She's discovered that she's ineffective at breaking your frame and controlling you. This makes her attracted t…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 11:16 AM
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Correct. The "24 hour wait time" is jurisdictional. I had an issue a few years back where I was living and the police told me if the person didn't show up within 12 hours they could declare them a missing person. In addition, they sent cars immediately to the area where the person was last seen and did a brief search with flashlights--they just didn't put out a "formal" missing persons notice. Contact the police immediately.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:46 PM
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There's not a straightforward answer because the gutter margin will change depending on how many pages are being bound. Here are inside margin guidelines for use with Amazon's CreateSpace (I'm assuming this will leave you with .25" of negative space, since they reference that as their margin minimum elsewhere): Page Count Inside Margin 24 to 150 pages .375" 151 to 300 pages .5" 301 to 500 pages .625" Ultimately, you need to speak with the company binding the book and determine exactly how much o…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:17 PM
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I really don't know either, as I've never used LaTeX. My brief understanding is that LaTeX requires code work, whereas InDesign is more WYSIWYG.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:33 PM
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For tax purposes, a company makes more sense. You can then write off server fees, etc. against your book sale royalties, if everything is umbrellaed beneath the same entity. It would also provide a bunch of other options plus legal protections. You'd be insane to dismiss a $300 New Mexico LLC with a paid organizer (invisible NM LLC) plus annual registered agent fees and taxes versus an individual having to account for income on their 1040. Just my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 03:53 PM
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No. They are mutually exclusive. If you fathered a child, but never married, you're a bad father by default? Horse shit. Just because things ought to be intertwined does not mean they are intertwined.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:36 AM
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We could have it up for sale within a month.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:35 AM
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Right. The content will most likely not be censored by any of the online retail channels. And from a monetary standpoint, you can price the ebooks identically to the printed books and just have all of the money sent to the same entity. My suggestion is to either a) go all in and publish across all platforms or b) simply make a PDF to distribute and monetize via a hosted shopping cart or via donations through PayPal or something similar.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:30 AM
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Exactly. The left and right gutters need to be set so that the margins visually appear equal, but knowing that you need to leave extra paper for binding. It's not difficult to do, even in Word. It's just something to keep in mind and something that doesn't exist within epub. This, just not just as simple as converting an epub file into something else. Many, seeming small, and annoying, elements will need to be changed correctly for a print version to look good.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:25 AM
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Yes. QuarkXPress used to be the gold standard, but that's since changed to InDesign (Quark is regarded as #2).
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 11:00 PM
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I just looked over the PDF v.2... This will be relatively easy to format because there aren't any graphics, tables, charts, etc. You may have to change around some page breaks and your TOC will completely change as well. I'd also suggest changing the font to something like Garamound--this will be easier to read on printed text.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:22 PM
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What is the best format for a physical form factor? Here's what you need to consider... You need to scale the manuscript to the appropriate size for your book. Octavo (6" x 9") and quarto (9.5" x 12") are the most commonly published sizes. This differs from your standard Letter or A4 (European) sizes that we typically print off for school and business. In addition to making sure the book looks good at publishable size, you need to alternate (odd vs even) the size of the inside margins to leave r…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:10 PM
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The book is already formatted in epub format epub will not translate well to a physical form factor. Rollo is already selling a Red Pill book so is Jack Donavon there are plenty of people who don't give a fuck. Understood. I'm simply pointing out that someone will have to associate themselves with a physical book. It needs to be known and that person needs to understand the repercussions associated. This is a physical hard copy so this isn't a concern I sell many more e-books than physical books…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:39 PM
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I have experience publishing books. Currently, I have a book published via Amazon which is available in paperback worldwide through 100s of retail channels--you could go to a bookstore in pick it up. My book is catalogued by the Library of Congress as well. Additionally, it is available for download on Kindle, iTunes, and Google Play. I have a PDF version available at a website for a discounted price also. There are three big hurdles in doing something like this: The handbook will need to be for…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:17 PM
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Username [bobbybluepill] Verified. We are now storing your new login for future use on Puerarchy.com. Looks like we're good now. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:02 PM
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Registered via mobile and was taken to a Reddit sign up/login form on submit. No confirmation, no mention of trpbot.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:28 PM
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Oh, this is exactly what will happen. Happens every time. Check out the subscriber growth chart on RedditMetrics and you can see all the peaks. Anticipating another.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:28 PM
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This is more or less what I do as well. "I'm a beekeeper." "I play stage drums occasionally (the large concert venue near me)" "I blog about women's rights." "I care for a large colony of feral cats and make my living from others' donations." I can't explain it, but it's way that I say it... The women never take me seriously and know that I'm joking. If they follow-up, I'll say that they sound like a gold-digger. Again, I'll say this is a way that sounds light-hearted and joking. But, once you j…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:20 AM
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Male vs female ad tactics are widely different for the most part, but our behavior research shows that the gender gaps are closing as more men become effeminate and vice versa. Men are becoming more effeminate and women more masculine. There you have it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:28 AM
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We run fancy algorithms to "project" those numbers using documented studies on honesty and disclosure. Interesting, indeed. On this subreddit, as it pertains to things like sexual partner count, we regard the assumption that women are more likely to report a dishonest partner count as a rule (obviously, there are exceptions). I'm curious, do you have any insight as to what these studies say about men and women in terms of general honesty and disclosure? e.g. Are women typically more/less honest …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:24 AM
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Thank you for creating this wealth of information. Would you be able to perma-sticky this thread and continually update it? Would that avoid any/all problems of adding this to the Sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:08 AM
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Incorrect. You do want to know--always. I'm mobile now, but run a search for /u/gaylubeoil Get the Ho Fax. This is the info you need to objectively learn if this girl is worth your commitment or not. Additionally, you need this info to determine her current attraction to you. She swallowed other guys but won't give you a BJ? Bam, you know she's not into you. She's done anal but won't do it with you? Bam, she's not that into you. It works the other way too. She's done some shit but is trying new …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:58 AM
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Yeah. I decided in college to sleep with everything I could. Not the most attractive group.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 01:53 PM
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How the fuck do you guys deal with this? Was it as surprising for you as it was for me how much shit these women have done? I feel incredibly intimidated from this. I'm not the same man as you, but I'll share a bit regardless. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and had slept with over 100 girls by the time I had graduated college. It's not surprising to hear this shit at all, because younger girls have been in those situations with me. How do I deal with it though? Honestly, it kind of sucks. I d…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 12:50 AM
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This was their plan in the beginning. Support dadbod and give all the betas that nice ego boost, then shoo this "mom-bod" shit in to catch them off guard. I said the same thing while talking to my brother this weekend. The only reason women are promoting the "dad bod" is so that they can enter bikini season declaring their "mom bods" as "attractive." What a load of horse shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:01 PM
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Agreed. I'd also like to add that I stayed with a girl who had a tumor on her pituitary gland and would use it as an excuse to avoid sex (it can legitimately demolish your sex drive). In any case, I stayed with her for several years, having sex like once a month, and as soon as the tumor went away and her sex drive returned... yep, she cheated on me. Do. Not. Waste. Your. Time. If the situation was metaphorically reversed, there's no way she'd stay with you. And don't feel bad. Sexual strategy i…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 02:37 PM
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Post this to /r/altTRP
/r/askTRP19/04/15 07:50 AM
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My childhood was actually really good. What you need to understand though is that stress, psychologically, is identically experienced relative to the subject. So, for example... a really rich girl who has a disaster happen during her Super Sweet 16 with all of her friends and family present experiences the same level of stress and trauma that a young boy in Darfur experiences when Muslim extremists are systematically exterminating members of his village. Maybe she gets over it quicker and is abl…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 08:27 PM
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Thanks. That's pretty much where my issue is... I know that I can successfully build Frame and improve upon it utilizing basic meditation. But, having said that, uncovering childhood trauma and having a process to integrate that into yourself seems pretty beneficial. A friend of mind is a psychotherapist and we were discussing this--it's apparently very Freudian and my friend felt like it would probably work to build Frame. My issue is just that I don't want to a) waste time and/or b) become sof…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:42 PM
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I don't want to speak about our sexual histories as there's things I've done that she wouldn't want to know about I think it makes you look weak to say that.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:05 PM
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The problem is I don't want the mentle image of her doing shit with other guys in my mind. I accept that it has happened but I don't want to think about it. Yeah, that's just something that you've got to accept and move past if you want to be with the girl. The only way you get around this is 1) you never ask about a girl's sexual history or 2) you date an extremely inexperience girl (who is possibly a liar anyway). You've just got to accept it and not let it bother you. If it helps, literally, …
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:44 AM
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I hear you... Right now, I'm in a situation where I'm dealing with a girl who I used to date who didn't fuck me that much. I've worked on my SMV hard over the past 6 months and now she's super interested. There's no future for an LTR, because I know this girl can't be loyal. But, having said that, she's doing everything in her power to "rope me in." She put her current LTR "on a break" and has spent the past two weekend treating me to insane sex. I'm talking a dozen times between Fri-Sun. In fac…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:22 AM
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Exactly. You want to encourage her to be open with you about everything she's done. You want to escalate based on that and try to exceed. If you know she's done things for other guys but she refuses to do them for you, then you know that she's not that attracted to you. At that point, you'll be equipped to make a decision about how to react (are you OK with everything, do you plate her, do you cut her off, etc.). Don't get all pissy because your girl has been a dirty girl for other men. They all…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 11:10 PM
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I can't even upvote this enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:26 PM
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You're right. But...you're showing you still care what she thinks of you by deleting her as well. My thought is that the non-action demonstrates that you're OK with keeping her as a Friend (holding Frame) versus deleting her (I'm so upset that I went and logged into Facebook and actually took the time to delete you so that you can't message me anymore, because otherwise I'd be tempted to respond...or worse, I can handle looking at your pictures and awesome life without me, because I'm so in love…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 11:08 PM
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This post is full of great reason and analogies. OP should really take this to heart.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 04:06 PM
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I hear you... He should really just delete Facebook entirely.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 04:04 PM
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Then you aren't ready to walk away. You still have hope that she'll think of you as something else one day. Sorry to burst your bubble dude, but the truth is hard to swallow. I don't know... For me, I don't delete girls from my online life either. I think it comes across as being butthurt in public. No one I know really deletes anyone from Facebook, unless they were in an LTR and the breakup was terrible. I, myself, was in a 5 year LTR, and my ex cheated on me while we were living together. She …
/r/askTRP07/01/15 03:01 PM
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I've got a similar situation. I've got an 8 who I slay from my social circle. I'd noticed that she was setting rules, so I started gaming and ignoring her. She's retaliated by hooking up with a few of my friends. Honestly, that behavior FIRMLY established her as a Plate and nothing more--any feelings of Oneitis vanished. Now, my boys and I openly talk about spinning her out among friends. IDGAF and neither do my friends. Having said all of that, since I was first and since she feels like I've so…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:44 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I first found this sub in February when my ex cheated and I immediately broke up and moved out--went to live some place else until finding a new place. I was extorted into a pseudo-committed relationship until August, when I was finally able to go No Contact (there was an unavoidable commitment keeping us in contact previous). Since August, I've been swallowing the pill hard and have been practicing in the real world. Having said that, I've got some real issues with Frame.…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:10 PM
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I've been looking for motivation to take my reading more seriously. Right now, I have several TRP Approved books in electronic format but I find myself beginning and not continuing them. A few books I have are: 48 Laws of Power No More Mr. Nice Guy Sex God Method King Warrior Magician Lover The Way of the Superior Man How to Win Friends & Influence People The Book of Pook The Game My suggestion is to start at the very beginning from the books listed within the Wiki and move through them all. We …
/r/RedPillBooks17/12/14 10:44 PM
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I'm curious to see how you play this out in your interactions... You don't start with this line, do you? Could you post some screen shots? Not sure how I feel about this approach overall... Yes, ultimately, you want to find a girl who will follow your directions (this is true regardless of what you're looking for, be it new plates, LTR prospects, or a wife), but I feel like overtly saying so isn't you coming from a position of status and/or power. Shouldn't you just meet a girl, lead, and see wh…
/r/ThankTRP17/12/14 10:37 PM
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I completely agree. Having said that, they're trying to say that "drinking Jim Beam is a 'bold choice.'" We should know that's horse shit--drinking straight moonshine is a bold choice. Abstaining from drinking at all is a bold choice. drawing inspiration from a commercial eh? I don't know if I should laugh or SMH... That's missing the forest for the trees, IMO. If someone were to edit out the Jim Beam logos and references at the beginning and end of the video and replace them with a red pill and…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:01 PM
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You actually care who produced it...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:45 PM
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Yep. This is the TRUTH right here.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:11 PM
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No. Don't text them. IMO, it makes you look like a girl.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 08:24 PM
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Great perspective here!
/r/askTRP03/12/14 08:22 PM
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Right, but if he was FAMOUS then the age wouldn't be a problem at all for her... STATUS counts more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:38 AM
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Compared to myself before my last relationship and finding this sub, I'd say I'm having about the same amount of sex as I was, but with higher quality women and for considerably less effort. Additionally, I'm not obsessing over girls that I am having sex with or would like to have sex with. I wish I had a larger and more stable soft harem of women, but I've only been working to build mine for 4 months (I have 3 girls whom I can have sex with on demand, currently... I've also slept with plenty of…
/r/askTRP30/11/14 09:09 AM
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Even if you are looking for a long-term relationship eventually, if you're not interested in this girl then you should still plate her and reframe the dynamic so that she knows she's a plate. If she's not interesting, why would you date her? If you know you're not going to date her, but have a good time outside and in the bedroom, why wouldn't you keep that going? Make her a plate. Treat her as a plate. Continue looking for a better LTR girl, if that's what your goal is.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 11:50 PM
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They care... I don't have this issue with any plates currently, because I've framed all plate situations as exactly that. They know that I'm only interested in sex, because of my actions. How would I handle it? I'd just A&A then freeze them out. Hopefully, this corrects the behavior and frames the relationship correctly. "You're right. I don't care and I'm only interested in sex." You need to do this as if it's a clear joke though, you can only be taken slightly seriously. But, after this, immed…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 10:29 PM
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Yeah... I think you should have flipped it. "I'm not pinky promising anything. You should pinky promise me that if I decide to come by, you'll be wearing nothing but panties and high heels." Or something along those lines. There could be better replies here, because you'e kind of bargaining (which is no good), but it's my first thought.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 10:07 PM
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No crosslinking anything from reddit at all. Not in submissions. Not in comments. If you want to post a conversation or post between members on reddit you must take a screenshot, and edit it for the following requirements: No URL in picture or post, Subreddit name must not be present in the picture or in the post, Must be self-post with analysis. No low-hanging "look this guy is a moron" posts. Constructive posts only. Everything else will be deleted without warning. That's from the Rules posted…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 05:29 AM
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Girl came over and refused sex from me, I ignored her for a couple days. This is a good move. Then she makes me promise to come over tonight because her roommates are gone. Woah... She shouldn't make you do shit. You completely played into her Frame and have already failed a massive shit test. Then today she says maybe, if I'm not too sick. Is this a shit test? what do I do if she says no once I try to go over? At this point, /u/jacks_not_surprised has already described my thoughts in the parent…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 05:26 AM
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Or I'll kick your ass. PM me your address. Let's fuckin do this shit!
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:46 AM
1

Did you read that post? No? I am not having an issue becoming emotionally attached as a result of sex. What I am having an issue with is really enjoying sex without there being a pre-existing emotional attachment. I haven't had any ED issues. But I'm finding that it's exceptionally hard for me to cum. That post was about my overall enjoyment of sex and being able to cum during sex. It wasn't "I don't have sex" or "my dick doesn't get hard" or "I'm butthurt and broken because my ex cheated on me.…
/r/askTRP25/11/14 12:21 AM
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I think you're right. I'm not sending anything until later tonight, but I'm pretty sure I'm going with just the wink.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 09:12 PM
1

Yeah, it was eyes closed monkey but no text at all. My initial read on it is that she's basically asking me, "Should I be embarrassed?" and is hoping that I'll reassure her that she shouldn't be. I like your suggestion. I could wait until tonight and just reply back with a wink. Rules are made to be broken.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:46 PM
2

You know... This is also entirely possible. Let me give you a little backstory on the situation, if you care to read it: A few months back, a good friend of mine (who is also my most solid wingman) had his smoking hot friend (she's a 9) from college come to visit. She used to live in the city we live in, but moved to another major city that is very far away. We planned to go to a nightclub where we had a table and comp bottles, the whole thing, and she asked if she could bring a friend. This fri…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:35 PM
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Username dudesondudes. Two dude lions snuggling. MMF threesome thread. This is getting hilarious.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:26 PM
2

I really don't know shit about emoji... I'm thinking I may just wait until tonight, then send her the exact same emoji back.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 07:58 PM
2

Baahahaha! Yeah, bro. I'm going to go with this suggestion.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 07:54 PM
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♂
/r/askTRP21/11/14 07:30 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/trpGAME20/11/14 10:16 PM
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In USA I can launch a civil suit against you for writing this rubbish. No. And it's clear from your comment that you have no idea about how the system in the US works. Source: Went to law school, in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:36 AM
2

Here's the issue... At this point in time, you can't really call women (unless maybe you're older than 35 and so is she). It's almost to the point where it's considered creepy. Speaking on the phone these days is reserved for family, work, and LTRs. Girls today prefer text. That said, it is now also know that "text game" is not the best path to success with women you've just met. While it may work in building attraction, the odds are that it will actually just provide you a large opportunity to …
/r/askTRP19/11/14 04:12 AM
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Don't get me wrong, because I'm in complete agreement with you. Having said that, it's still ridiculous to downvote because he chose to get jacked enough to pull easy Tinder pussy. If you can do it, you should.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 04:57 PM
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You getting down voted is ridiculous. I am commenting to say that I hope to aspire to your greatness.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:08 AM
1

I've got about 10 friends (all guys) who are begging me to go on that. They "claim" it will be a slaughterhouse filled with good looking girls. I think it will be a 50/50 ratio full of bigger guys than me in a place I can't leave for a week. Just curious though.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 07:31 PM
2

Groove cruise, bro?
/r/askTRP17/11/14 03:20 PM
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Enjoy it while you can. I'll be taking it back on ____ at ___. Yeah, I like this a lot better.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:36 PM
2

P.S. It's definitely a shit test.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:08 PM
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Her: That shirt is comfy as hell, im soryy I cant make any promises it will be returning to you :). I want to say A&A this (as it's my default), but it seems weird to me... How would you go about this? "I know. You love everything about me and will sleep in that shirt all week. Can't wait to take you out of it..." Thoughts? I don't want this dude to lose his shirt if that blows up.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:06 PM
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Correct. The girls who call are very much into you, but you will have an extremely low conversion rate against the total number of girls whom you've exchange numbers with. Unless, of course, you're extremely attractive and women throw themselves at you. I, personally, do not call lower value women and wait for them to call me. Anything that's higher value though, I'll hunt. My advice to OP is to call these women ASAP. Don't wait 3 days or anything like that. Text them the same night with your na…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 11:40 AM
1

I hit on girls in crowded places all the time. You don't even need a hook. "I saw you and wanted to introduce myself. I'm Bobby. What's up?" It may just be the beta hand reaching out of the grave, screaming "I'm not dead yet" Yup. something tells me a girl will be put off by "that guy" talking to her when the car is otherwise silent. Who cares?
/r/askTRP06/11/14 10:14 PM
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How do you dump that girl? I'm going to directly address your question because I was you just 8 months ago. Here's how you get over it: You accept that she's eventually going to really hurt you. I'm telling you, bro. If you're afraid she's going to ride the CC immediately, you should be more afraid that she'll jump on it while you're together. Know the old saying, "It's easier to find a job when you have a job"? That's how girls think about men. She's going to try to find a new man before she br…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 09:42 PM
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Thanks, bruh. Lost 15 lbs over two months and am working hard on my business. Been doing new and interesting things and ignoring the girls in my social circle (blacked out Saturday with my buddies having a good time, woke up boning a girl from my social circle that only one guy, who's higher SMV than I consider myself, has ever taken down. In the process of plating her now for my enjoyment.
/r/trpGAME06/11/14 05:17 AM
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Well, it's funny... He had to give off the "I'll fight you vibe" initially but he was 3X my size. I kind of think it's funny that I came back and got him all emotional, even though I could have had my ass seriously beaten. Having said that, being broken up and brug away my bouncers, the 10 wasn't even looking at her BF but was staring at me with "fuck me now" eyes. If/when I see her out with "the girls" I'm totally going back in.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:30 PM
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Don't give up on yourself man, get out there and keep looking. Awesome. Your post got me thinking because I got into a physical altercation two weeks ago. There was a 10 with some guy we'll call McSteroids. He told me that was his girl and I told him cool but, as a man, I hoped he'd respected that I'm going to approach any 10 anywhere I'm at. He said he did and I walk away... Then, maybe 45 min later I see he's talking with is boys and the girl is probably 10 feet behind him looking bored as hel…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 08:38 PM
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Delete and ignore is BY FAR your best strategy. Good job.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 08:16 PM
1

I try not to see ANY of them more than twice within a 10 day period (once per week maximum would be even more ideal). Occasionally, I'll fuck, spend the night and the next day with her, then spend the night again. If I do this, I consider it to fall under the twice over a 10 day period rule. If I do the two day stint, I do not buy dinner or go for walks, etc. pretty much, we lay around drinking, smoking, and fucking.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:41 AM
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This is completely true. I've had two girls in the past month mention tagging me on FB... When I explain that they can't, they immediately ask if I'm on Insta. I explain that I'm not on any social networking. Both asked the same question next: "So, how am I supposed to follow you." Me: "I'll just tell you to follow me when I want you to." Fucked both.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:57 PM
1

Sounds like a pretty fancy restaurant, bro. Make sure you bring enough cash to cover it!
/r/askTRP04/11/14 10:54 PM
0

I got downvoted to hell for suggesting this before, but check out CycleBeads (Google it). You can learn to effectively monitor when she's fertile and when she's not, and if you be responsible enough to pull out, you can really reduce your risk of pregnancy. Worked for me for a long time. Additionally, maybe you should look into that non-hormonal copper implant. For me: I'm distrustful of any LTR where the girl's hormones are being altered.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:51 PM
1

Glad that it's working out for you. In the future though, if she suggests something like that (her idea), you don't shoot it down. But you counter with something else you'd rather do. You want to establish that you lead the relationship dynamic, not the other way around. When something like this happens to me, I'll hang on to her idea, then suggest we do that like the 4th or 5th time we see each other, and I suggest it as if it were my idea in the first place. Keep it moving though--you're on th…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 04:40 PM
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Just don't be thirsty about it. Make it casual, but enough so that when you text her to make it happen it's not out of the blue. You want to get her semi-committed, without appearing as if you need to reassurance.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 02:19 AM
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This is your next move. Having said that, my opinion is that you should have set a loose time and date before you'd ended the interaction. Not immediately after she said it, but I've always found that setting a loose date and time before texting a girl later results in a higher percentage chance that she responds and follows through. Fore example: "What's your schedule like this week? Great--let's plan to catch up after work this Tuesday. I'll text you." Then, I'll text her on Tuesday with a fir…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 12:05 AM
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You're exactly the reason why women should be able to the use the "but he's gaaaaaayyyy..." excuse when hanging with other men. Men and women just aren't meant to be "friends."
/r/askTRP31/10/14 12:00 AM
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Keep those plates spinning, boys. Good pussy is good pussy even if she was mate-poached or had threesomes or whatever. Just don't invest in her. Exactly! So many guys get hung up attaching pussy to personality. Unless you're looking for an LTR, you're not trying to put your dick in her personality.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:38 PM
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Yeah... My big issue is the contradiction between these two points: I don't want her to come away thinking "It's all OK. I saw Bobby and I can interact with him. It was no big deal that I cheated and hurt him." I don't want to appear as if I care, at all. So, I think I acknowledge her. But, at the same time, I don't engage in any meaningful conversation and essentially treat her as a creepy girl who's creeping me out. I'll view her as a fat and ugly girl who is trying to talk to me and conscious…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 09:29 PM
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It totally works--I know gay guys who occasionally bang out attractive girls. Obviously, you should never use this. You don't need to lie to get laid, nor should you want to. Here's the real takeaway though: When a girl tells you "Oh, he's gay!" because she's hanging out with some guy, you know that it doesn't matter. You knowledge that gay guys occasionally fuck girls prepares you to treat gay men the same as straight men. Men are men and should be handled identically. Don't let the "He's gay" …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:43 PM
1

Thanks, man. I know what I need to do, but the impending event still has me anxious (which I rarely ever am). The reassurance is extremely helpful. Maybe I'll post a FR of how things went later this weekend or early on Monday.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:31 PM
3

I'm older.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:04 PM
2

Thanks. I felt the same way playing it out in my head, but wanted to see what others thought.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:56 PM
2

That's my exact plan. If her new man is there, what do you think? My thought is that I treat him as any other guy. I don't know him at all and he's not friends with any of my social circle--complete outsider. He's innocent and doesn't understand what he's signed up for.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:53 PM
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If I am well versed in the topic at hand I will simply ask them questions under the guise of being inquisitive. With the sky colour question example above, I would ask say, "What makes leaves green though? Isn't it chlorophyll?", "What about light from the sun, doesn't that have something to do with it?", "Is colour really a limited resource on this planet?", "How does colour actually come about anyway, isn't it just reflected light?". You want to get them thinking about the topic in a sensible …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:03 AM
1

This is truth, but sometimes you wind up in an argument because you fucked up and now have to deal with it.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 04:02 AM
1

I think you take it on a case by case basis, where you consciously decide which frame will result in higher personal benefit to you, both shirt and long term.
/r/becomeaman30/10/14 01:21 AM
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Agree & Amplify. Example: "I'd promise you the world and for 3-4 months we'd live out a movie romance fantasy...until you discovered the cheating and lies. We'd still hook-up after that, and hey, it might even spice up our sex life. See you on DATE."
/r/askTRP30/10/14 12:42 AM
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Would it have been better to ask other random girls even though I can't dance to save my life? IMO, yes. You sound like me when I was your age (I'm early 30s now, but I started going to school dances when I was about 12). If I knew then, what I know now, I would have just socially DESTROYED everyone. It's OK--you'll feel the same way when you're my age. Everyone does. But yeah, if there are girls dancing with other girls and they're more attractive than the thick girl you wound up dancing with, …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 12:39 AM
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My current gf is 25 and naive when it comes to TRP truths. Men and women cannot be friends. Ha! You're the one being naive. She knows that the men she sees want to escalate sexually. She knows and she loves it. Either outplay these guys (e.g. keep her so busy she doesn't have the time for them, period) or run soft dread until she drops them all. Do what you can to actively knock these guys out of the picture.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 12:05 AM
1

Here's the real answer... You go out and order water on ice with a wedge of lime. You game, but you don't ruin your week. If anyone questions you, you've "got a lot to do tomorrow" so you're "taking the night off." You don't need to qualify your decisions any more than that.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:02 PM
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I'm going to give you a piece of advice about college that was given to me... I was told, "There are three aspects of college life..." Academic Athletic Social And then, I was told, "You can do two successfully, but you can't do all three successfully." The point is, I think you need to view Krav Maga as an Athletic element to your college experience. I think you should be able to focus on both your studies (Academic) and Krav Maga (Athletic), but you will not be able to focus on making friends …
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:57 PM
1

you tell her you want some time apart and she offers an alternate time you can see each other Exactly. This interaction is OK. I don't think she's really trying to be decisive, but rather, she's just trying to tell you her schedule because she doesn't want to have everyone at school say "How was your Halloween?" and not be able to include "Well, I saw domferrell..." as part of that answer. Especially, if you're been dating 2 years. I think you've can agree to it, but /u/AlphaAsFAQ is correct tha…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 04:48 AM
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I like the advice /u/AlphaAsFAQ offered up. Here's an additional scenario, and probably the one I would roll with... What's the issue if you're entertaining S and C together? You've said yourself that C is platonic, so you're probably not getting laid. But, S may not know that. Also, even if C is platonic, she still may get jealous of the attention you're giving S, starting a jealously cycle between the two that could work to your benefit. If it were me, I'd chill with both of them, take them bo…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 04:37 AM
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I don't understand why you're being downvoted. The data seems like it shows a "soft wall," as you put it. Men should be aware of that. Having said that, I'm over 30 and I'm not worried about it. I close women in their early 20s all the time. Provided I stay fit and high value and continue to expose myself to women in this age group, I don't see it being an issue. I, personally, know a lot of girls who married guys 10+ years old than them. It happens. Be the guy it happens to, if that's what you …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:10 PM
2

Honestly, Montreal is unreal! I've heard good things about BC, but I've never been. Also, in Quebec, the laws are in your best interest as a man.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:32 PM
3

The same way we deal with all issues on this sub. Remain Stoic. Detach all emotion and act.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 03:51 AM
2

So, you're living this life for money? To get what you want, yes, you'll need to change your life. Get a new job, move to a large city with amazing transit. I recommend NYC and Chicago.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 03:49 AM
2

Hahaha you're the best. I was wondering if you'd go Ghost or Jack-o-Lantern.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 03:13 AM
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THIS!
/r/askTRP24/10/14 11:52 PM
1

Nice. Someone really needs to.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 10:08 PM
1

Nice--always down for an afterparty!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 09:26 PM
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By saying something like "so be it" after no response from her end I feel i conveyed I was disappointed but, well, whatever. You sound like a bitch who's butthurt. Just remain silent and delete her number. Move on to the next one, it happens to all of us. There are plenty more of them out there, go find them!
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:26 PM
1

I've been man-scaping for over 15 years. The above post is exactly what I do, but I also shave my ass crack and the butthole. Getting your balls licked is awesome, but so is getting your asshole licked (don't kiss her later tho or you're disgusting!). I trim the shrubbery with a beard trimmer with the guard set to 5. Then, I use a Mach 3 and shaving cream to shave my shaft, sack, and crack. The crack is the trickiest part, you may need to squat over a mirror until you get the hang over it. Look …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:24 PM
2

I get no razorburn. Zero.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:21 PM
1

"Funny you text, because I was just thinking about you--in panties..."
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:00 PM
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HAHAHAHA!!! YES! Then, radio silence for the entire weekend. Amazing.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:58 PM
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This is 100% the only way to handle this. In the meantime, read this guide on how to keep fuck buddies around in uncommited relationships (I recommend this to everybody, it's an amazing article): http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/retention-fuck-buddies/
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:56 PM
2

She's 30 minutes away, so I drive down to hang out with her on the weekends. So, your entire weekend is leaving campus (where there is fun to be had, friends to be made, and a dense concentration of hotter pussy) to spend time in your hometown with her? That's bullshit, man. What's happened is that you've put the pussy on a pedestal, and now she's going to see what she can get away with. Based on everything you've said, I think she's either currently cheating on you (maybe with Nick, maybe with …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:49 PM
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My advice to OP is to monitor this situation closely while running dread game. I think you should actually demote this girl from LTR to plate because this situation is really touch and go. She probably spends more time around him than she does around you. And if she is already asking you to look like him... !!! Unless you RP is up, or this dude fucks up in a massive way I don't see this situation getting any better for you. But if you decide to stay, you have to not react to anything she says. R…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:43 PM
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He's most likely right. My best guess is that this girl is cheating or will most likely cheat soon. Additionally, there are a ton of Red Flags here. She's not a girl you want for the long term anyway. You can find a better girl.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:41 PM
1

She may not be fucking Nick, but she's probably fucking someone else.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:40 PM
1

This reply is 100% correct. But, seeing as OP just swallowed TRP, he's not in a place where he'll take this advice to heart (yet). Dude needs to see for himself what happens when you invest too heavily in a girl like this. He needs to be shown what he can do to build additional attraction. He needs to be shown how to best handle this situation. Then, and only then, will he be in a position to make a good decision for himself.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:36 PM
1

Yup. That's my plan. So, how often do you go--one a week or more?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:34 PM
1

Interesting. Maybe this is something to do with my orbiters (I have girls that I treat as friends, in order to meet their friends). These girls are 6s and below, but are connected to higher SMV girls. I won't care if they dance with other men at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 05:14 PM
2

Me? Oh, hell no! When I suspected she was going to cheat, I went on the look out. Once I caught her, I moved out that day. We'd lived together for 4 years. I'm 100% No Contact--she is dead to me. TRP was one if the best things to ever happen to me, because I needed help coping after killing the LTR.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 05:10 PM
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Alright, I figured you would answer this way... Let's set a few things straight: Don't worry about meeting the same fate as I did. If she cheats, she a bad person. Period. She's dishonest, disloyal, unfit to mother your future children, and unfit to be a part of your life. While I'll be the first to admit that continual improvement and maintaining a higher SMV may have prolonged my previous relationship, I'll also be the first to factually state that my ex made a choice: if she decided I wasn't …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 07:28 AM
0

it provides me with a six-figure salary and a beautiful home with a garage full of motorcycles Look at how you described the benefit of your job. It makes you look like a Provider a/k/a Beta Bux when you say you work in tech. It's not hands on and manly and it's not celebrity status... It provided no vagina tingles and plants a seed in her head that you probably make good money, which could be useful. Girls are always going to ask what you do. I own a few businesses. I usually just gloss over wh…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:59 AM
2

Going to sound corny, but... What subjects are you currently interested most in at school? Any visions of what you'd like to be when you grow up (don't worry about the financials for this hypothetical question, just think of fields you think you might enjoy)? P.S. Going to an in-state state school is absolutely your best bet financially. If I had to pay for college right now, I'd pick the best public school in my state that I were accepted into.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:47 AM
1

I've heard that Reddit News(?) is good too. In any case, Alien Blue will most certainly be coming to Android now that reddit has acquired the app and made it the official reddit app. The AMA app is on Android, so I'm sure Alien Blue will follow, they'll just need a few months to code it up.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:43 AM
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Oh man... It sounds like she's trying to push the boundaries of your relationship with dread. For the immediate time being, remain non-reactive until you figure out absolute next steps to take. At this point, she's being disrespectful and you need to make changes to indirectly correct her behavior. If you make appropriate moves and she continues, it'll be time to establish an exit strategy... What are you currently doing to improve your SMV? Aside from spending time with your girlfriend, what el…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:25 AM
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Good for you, bro. I'm proud of you. Just remember, when your monkation ends, you're going to have to Approach higher value women, if that's what you want. The true challenge is to naturally hold your "I'm not trying" frame, while trying to bed a girl at your upper limit. In this scenario, you are trying, but need to 100% naturally hold yourself as if you are not. That is another side of the paradox. Having said that, by truly not trying, your improved self will attract girls. But, they will be …
/r/becomeaman24/10/14 06:17 AM
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Got it. That's called Last Minute Resistance or LMR. It's super common and it serves two purposes: 1) making it difficult makes her feel like she's less of a slut and 2) if she makes you "wait" for it, you more of a "nice guy" and she can start to think about a longer term relationship with you. Do a little research on LMR. Obviously, you're walking a line by pushing boundaries and you absolutely don't want to cross it. But, having said that, a lot of women want to have sex in the kind of moment…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:06 AM
1

And on Android, you want reddit sync pro. I actually prefer it to Alien Blue (which I use on my iPad).
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:04 AM
1

It seems like you had really good attraction going and seems like she was DTF. Why didn't you seal the deal with her?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 03:57 AM
1

I know you should never get married. But if you propose, video tape it. Additionally, add a clause about the right to your mandatory prenup.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:27 AM
1

Isn't this something you should get into work a girlfriend though? EDIT: I'm not trying to put this down. I'm just saying, don't you need to bring a girl with you who actively wants to do this for several months before you can even get started as a man?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 02:22 AM
2

interesting... i'd say go for the consultation just to check it out, but maybe also consult with a dermatologist or someone who isn't being paid only when they alter your body. basically, i'd want to know if it would be possible through continued lifting and time to have it go away? if not, then yeah, i'd probably have plastic surgery. you've worked your ass off and deserve you look your best. if you've saved the money, you deserve it.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:01 PM
1

Me too. I'm 5'9" and most women think I'm 6' when asked. Then, they hamster it by saying "it's because you're proportional." Women definitely over estimate height in person, and underestimate it on paper. Average height is 5'10".
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:37 AM
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I agree and disagree. I agree with the benefits to daygaming alone. And, if you really want to, I think it's smart to carve a few hours out weekly to do this. BUT, it should be because you're out anyway. For example, you're going to pick up groceries, so you're going to daygame nearby because you'd be in the area anyway. Having said that, when you're out with your friends, you should always be daygaming. Don't worry about missing out on the benefits of doing it alone. You should learn to game wo…
/r/trpGAME22/10/14 11:08 PM
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I wouldn't even change it to girls. "I know. All the guys I've met here want to get with me too. Guys are so thirsty."
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:34 PM
2

I think this is the correct advice. I see both pros and cons, but I think you'll need to actually go to find out if it was worth your time.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:27 PM
3

Great question. I do both, depending on the girl. Ultimately though (and I've experimented with both), you want to have her number if you intend on leading the interaction. I am trying to only fuck 8s and above. So, I take those girls numbers. Having said that, I'll still fuck 6s and 7s, but I'm not exerting any effort to do so. I approach these girls for practice and fun. At the end of my interaction, I'll give them my number and tell them to call. A lot of them do, a lot of them don't.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:02 PM
1

I don't disagree that they'd prefer a a taller man, much like I'd prefer a 10 more than an 8. But, if I've got an 8 who's DTF, I'm fucking her. Since I'm just looking to spin plates, it doesn't matter to me if a tall hottie is a ONS or if she gets a more permanent position in the soft harem.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:43 PM
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if a co-worker (who is a blocker) texts the girl I'm 9 dates in with that I'm seeing other people, would that make her more interested in me or less? It's a double-edged sword, with one side duller than the other: The dull side, which happens to be negative effects to you It could make the girl you're 9 dates in with angry/jealous. If you haven't discussed exclusivity with her, my recommendation is that you continue not to do so. If she brings it up, my recommendation is to tell her that you are…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 02:31 AM
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But, you need more than 1K "guys and girls" right? As a statistician, you think this survey makes reasonable inferences?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:25 AM
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Op isn't "WRONG!", just instantiated. No. He's wrong. He wrote: women say this because they really dont like overly muscular man A survey of 1K "guys and girls" doesn't statistically represent what women like at all (attractive, unattractive, or women as a whole). Basing anything on that linked survey is "wrong," flat-out.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:42 AM
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WRONG! 72.5% of women want Brad Pitt's Fight Club body... (per your foxhoundstudio.com link) What you're failing to realize is that this poll was open to anyone. So, unattractive women's opinions are included. Further, this was 1K "girls and guys" included in the survey that they're basing these results on (seriously, go check what you linked). So, what's that mean?, roughly 500! girls even answered this survey, at a site nobody has ever really heard of? Bro, that's a ridiculously statistically …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:22 PM
1

My brother is far more classically handsome than me too. But, he's in his 30s, is college educated, has never held a job other than temp work, and has had one girlfriend (for about 5 months, but he did F-close her...so, there's that). Still lives at home--never moved out. He spends 100% of his free time playing World of Warcraft, eating the worst foods, and destroying cans of Pepsi. The most socially insecure person I've ever met. Aside from our immediate family, he's absolutely petrified of peo…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:03 PM
2

Women love men who truly don't give a fuck about much. IDGAF is short for "I Don't Give a Fuck." Jeff Spicoli really doesn't give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:48 PM
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Whoops! I'll edit that real quick. Good catch.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:47 PM
2

Yeah... I feel for you guys. Growing up, I was the shortest in my grade, every single grade, until I got back from my Soph year of college and kind of "caught up" to most people. My mother is short (5'2") but my father is tall (6'2"). Most men, on both sides of my family, are over 6'. I was told growing up that I'd have a "growth spurt" because in 11th grade my father grew 10" in one year... Nope! I just grew at a steady pace until I stopped and wound up in-between my parents' heights, while my …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:09 PM
1

I feel like it's OK, provided you're able to flip-the-script and have her enter into your frame. If she's hot and opens you, uses lines, whatever, then I think you're be foolish to turn the hot girl away. But, having said that, you cannot let her run the show. At the end of the night, you should be fucking her and not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:06 PM
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Interesting point... I'm not tall. I'm 5'9" and if I've got dress shoes on (which I normally wear out) then I'm slightly over 5'10". I'm not considered "short" by most women (although taller men will exclaim so), but I'm certainly not "tall." In any case, I've been approaching women who are taller than me in heels (possibly not taller than me without heels) and I've been having really good results. I think what's happening is that these women are assuming they only have a shot with the men in th…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:51 PM
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So many male characters in this movie had Alpha traits. Spicoli does whatever he wants. Embodies the IDGAF frame. Damone is like a modern-day PUA. Sure, he gets laid every now and then, but when it all boils away, he's a pre-maturely ejaculating pussy who'll fuck over his best friend for some tail. Brad doesn't take shit at work, stops a robbery like a boss, and is down for his family. Mr. Hand is not taking shit from anybody. Ever. This movie is a product of the time. The writers back in 1982 k…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:23 PM
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Ratner and Stacy's caption ends with "they still haven't done it." Baaaaahahahaha! So much RP truth... The ending captions are one of the best parts of the movie!
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:17 PM
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The way he thinks about surfing competition is the way I try to think of anyone competing against me, for anything. No joke--my business partner and I play his reply as a sound byte whenever we get off a call when someone mentions a competitor.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:12 PM
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The full name of the movie is Fast Times at Ridgemont High. One of my favorite movies of all time! IMO, the largest display of Alpha traits in the movie is during Spicoli's dream about winning the surfing trophy. When asked about other top ranked surfers, his reply is amazing! Also, every time Stacy gets with a guy, the soundtrack music is Somebody's Baby by Jackson Browne. Too funny.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:22 PM
1

Bro... I was in a worse situation than you. I dated a girl for 5 years and lived together for 4 years in a place with both of our names on the lease. I thought I was going to marry her and my life would be butterflies and rainbows. Well, she cheated on me, got caught then wanted to "fix" things. We had both paid for a summer home and we both refused to lose it. So, we "made it work" for 3 months over the summer, although I immediately moved out. If I could do it all again, I would have cut ALL c…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:52 PM
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Ha! Don't do that. Just act normally. Don't do anything spiteful to show your GF who's boss. Show her who's boss by handling her tests with skill and by holding solid Alpha frame.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 07:58 PM
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This isn't Agreeing or Amplifying. What you're doing with those two replies is Defending yourself. Here are some better ways to handle this: "I didn't like when you pointed at your dick last Saturday". "I know." This your agree. "That could have been misinterpreted. Next time I'll just pull my cock out, so there's no confusion." Amplifying her issue, but it's hilarious. She's probably going to get a little pissy over this answer, but who cares? Keep A&Aing your way out of it. Better to piss her …
/r/askTRP16/10/14 07:43 PM
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"So you want me to strut around shirtless all the time? That's gonna cost ya." This is a perfect example of A&A. Before you reply to any shit-test, take half a second and consciously think "OK. I should A&S." before delivering any reply. 95+% of the time, you will pass with A&A.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 07:25 PM
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if it meant fucking her on a regular basis... :) Bzzt! Wrong answer... Oh, she'll tell you that you'll be fucking on a "regular basis." But the truth is this: You'll be busy at home with the kids because she's out doing a movie, modeling, or taking a trip to Pound Town with one of her Alpha side-pieces. And, when she finally returns to you, she'll be "waaaay too tired" to possibly fuck you. Why not just listen to her problems and cuddle instead? After all, you're her husband! There's no way this…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 05:56 PM
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Mystery is a real person, who actually wore make-up, and was laid a lot... Having said that, I think it's OK for men to wear make-up provided that women are unable to tell you are doing so... I don't personally wear make-up, but I know a guy with dark circles under his eyes who conceals them (he's been doing it for years and has been married over a year now) and no one really knows but him, his wife, and a few friends. I didn't even know for years myself. I think that it's OK for men to wear a m…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:26 AM
1

Read this: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 08:50 PM
1

I wanted her to be better, and I thought she was better. I can relate to this 100%. I felt and still feel (although I'm working on really not caring) the same way about my 5 year LTR ex. Here's the truth: She isn't what you thought, and you thought wrong. Don't burden yourself with this girl, especially since she's long distance.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:23 AM
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if you're getting the phone numbers, you're doing it right. your meet ups and, ultimately your lays, will be far less using Nervous Guy Game than if you use GLL's Screening. Having said that, with Screening, if you have low visible SMV, you'll be blow out a lot more. I use Screening. I'm attractive. I still get blown out a lot. But, to me, I'd rather ID girls that are DTF, than waste my time with girls who may be or may not be genuinely attracted to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:10 AM
1

Are you getting immediately blown out or are you managing to get phone numbers (regardless of whether they're real, fake, or if the girl never replies when you call/text)?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:57 PM
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What's been interesting to me has been my attempts to live an RP lifestyle... I've been reading for about 8 months and I've been truly active in real life for a bit longer than 3 months, realistically. In any case, I now immediately recognize social dynamics and shit tests. Today, for example... A lot of people were off from work for Columbus Day, so I went to lunch with a friend. At lunch, he called out to an HB8 whom I did not know. She kept walking. So I called out to her by name. She turned …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:09 AM
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Esoteric, fringe stuff: If you have significant neanderthal genetic ancestry (e.g. Basque people), your problem is that you are treating every attractive girl as part of your genetic ingroup, when she's likely not. This is part of your larger problem of defining everyone as within your ingroup. When you are rejected by a girl, you hate yourself because you have been designated by your "tribe" as unfit to mate. For an individual who thrives on deep bonding within a small group (as opposed to peop…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:53 AM
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You need to Approach women. There have to be women on campus that you see whom you find attractive. You need to start approaching them, getting their numbers, and dating them. You're on campus? Approach. You're studying at the library? Approach. You're in line getting food? Approach. You're at the mall? Approach. I understand that you'd like to be socially introduced to women by friends, but that's the easy way. If you're a loner (and there's nothing wrong with that if you're happy), then you ne…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:48 AM
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OK, I see what you're saying and I can understand how this would be really depressing to you. You're 100% right, you do need to go out there and get some sex and there are a lot of guys who have had sex and LTR experience before you. Having said that, you're still pretty young. And the good news is, you're aware of the problem and are actively looking for a solution. So, what do you think your issue is? Are you not physically attractive enough? Are you having issues when speaking with women? Are…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:16 AM
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Baaahahaha! You're 100% right too.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:10 AM
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I need more information before speaking to this... How old are you? Are you a virgin? How long since you've last had sex? Have you had LTRs? If so, what has your experience been like in LTRs?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:06 AM
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You don't reply to this message. If she never texts you again, you don't care, because you live in a world where women are abundant. Do not reply. Continue to game other women. Eventually, you'll have a few that are really into you and you won't care about this incident. In fact, you'll probably forget it even happened.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:44 AM
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I know a lot of the guys on here are getting to the same point that I'm about to make, but I want to say it a bit differently... Who cares about the circumstances? This is flat-out unacceptable. If the roles were reversed and he were getting back-stage passes to his favorite porn actress's next shoot, all the advice to the girl would be the same. Do not plate this girl. Do not talk to this girl about it. Do nothing for this girl. Fuck this girl. Here is what you do: Say nothing. Act as if this d…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:38 AM
2

Make sure you fully research your attorney and associated firm. You can do so at http://www.martindale.com You ideally want to hire an AV Preeminent attorney.. You can find an explanation of the Peer Review ratings here: http://www.martindale.com/Products_and_Services/Peer_Review_Ratings.aspx If you've got the cash, your attorney will save you far more than whatever the initial investment is. Better to pay $10K than lose more than $100K over 20 years because an unskilled attorney didn't represen…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:31 AM
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What hasn't she done yet that she'd like to do that you can treat her to? What's missing in her life that she used to love? I'm asking because I've had lots of relationships and I've run the gamut of gift giving. I've given women necklaces worth several thousands of dollars. I've bought iPads and iPhones. I've also listened closely and treated women to things like a nice tour around a neighboring city that would require a long car ride. I dated a girl who used to love drawing and simply stopped …
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:22 AM
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The only acceptable answer is to talk to a divorce lawyer ASAP. Act normally and do not let your wife suspect a thing. Prepare to prepare yourself for divorce. This shit is unacceptable--do not accept it.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:44 AM
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Is there ever a situation/opportunity where confronting her directly about this is appropriate? This needs to be reiterated. No. Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 03:42 AM
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You're not an asshole. In fact, kissing is an intimate activity and that's why make pornstars refuse to kiss during their scenes. Having said that, I am orally fixated. As a small child, I was obsessed with pacifiers (until my mother threw all of mine away when I was 2), I always chew gum, and smoked for 15 years. For me, kissing is one of my favorite things and it's not emotional, it's just what I want. I'd say, see how it goes. Maybe you can have hot sex without having to kiss her. Maybe you d…
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 07:02 AM
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Yeah, I go because I have access to tables and bottles and girls to fill those for free. It places me somewhere that I'm immediately "taking care of" a group of girls for the night, where they're out because they're DTF, where they're all as attractive as they can possibly be, and where the ratio is at least 5 girls per guy.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:03 AM
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You're good--this is a totally relevant question and what you're saying is somewhat correct. Traditionally feminine activities are a bit of a double-edged sword... On the one side, the sword cuts open the opportunity for you to meet new women in an environment where the male to female ratio is insanely skewed in your favor. Additionally, you've got something in common with these women off the bat and, although she may come with one friend, it's doubtful that any woman you approach will be with a…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:54 AM
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I haven't run into this... I don't currently attend yoga classes, but several years ago I used to attend yoga 5 days a week or more (I had an unlimited pass) at a pretty intimate studio. It was held in a renovated barn on a large farm, but outside of a major metro area that was pretty upscale. It was ALL women, myself, my buddy, and like 2 or 3 older guys (50 years and older) who happened to be very fit. None of the women judged me and all held good conversation with me. I scored a few dates fro…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:07 AM
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I have met guys who are hitting their 30s yet their spend their weekends at night clubs and pursuing the whole PUA sort of lifestyle. In talking to a lot of these guys, I find that they all have one thing in common, they missed out on the whole sex, love, and relationships during their adolescence and college years. I'm in my early 30s and still live that life... Had GFs since 6th grade. Got my first BJ at age 13. Lost my virginity at 14. First LTR of longer than 1 year was from 18-20 years old.…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 01:55 AM
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Live long enough and you''ll discover only one maybe two bros are loyal to the end. Yep. I've found that my buddies from early childhood (before I was 10 years old) are the only ones I can really rely on and who, most likely, wouldn't fuck me over. All other bros would fuck me over if there was enough benefit for them to do so. Especially if they're drunk and I'm not there.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:24 PM
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Desperate behavior both during a relationship and post-break up causes us to ego-invest ourselves into our girlfriends. Our minds place high value on that which we CHASE after. Following this train of thought we can assume that sluts won’t cure Oneitis. You need a girl who challenges your game, who makes it hard for you. If you spend your time chasing washed up tail with vaginas the size of the Grand Canyon, you’re never going to get over your Oneitis. So... Starting Oct. 1st, I made several com…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:09 PM
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I am not the father of a daughter. But, personally, buying me a car would really piss me off. I wouldn't want a son-in-law whom I do not approved of to "provide" anything for me. Here's the truth: This man is not accepting of the idea of his daughter marrying a Muslim and never will be accepting of this. So what? Fuck him. Treat him with respect, but ultimately do what you want. If he doesn't want to come to his own daughter's wedding, that's his decision. Let him deal with her disappointment.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 05:21 PM
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Wow! And just like that, I changed my mind, and in now a HUGE Tyrese fan. Never thought I'd say that. This video was the most inspiring shit ever. I'm probably going to watch it daily.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:52 PM
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I've posted about using this method to overcome LMR before and you're not the first to say it sounds like I'm acting butthurt. Hmmm... I don't know what to say because it's worked pretty good over the past few months at demolishing LMR for me.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 10:35 PM
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Correct. What do you think, Professor--Text back somewhere between 24-48 hours after she text?
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:48 PM
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I like this idea too. I'd probably give her one more chance to hang out and see if I can get sex. If not, I think it's hilarious to give her enough attention to be useful for dreading other girls. That's great!
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:47 PM
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Yes. This is correct and it happens frequently. It's an end-game shit test known as Last Minute Resistance (LMR). OP should search TRP, Seddit, links from the Sidebar, and Google for more information on how to handle LMR. Here is my basic strategy: Escalate as far as I can go before getting firm resistance. I like to just stare at here. I stare like, "Are you fucking kidding me?" and I make this uncomfortable to the point where she questions if I'm angry. I reply "No. Not at all." and get up, ge…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 09:44 PM
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I say: if you can take control of nature, and get that 4% "Pareto bump" in your favor, then, at least depending on your end game and strategy, 4% is still statistically significant, and worth the discipline you have to apply to swallow and live the red pill way. I think you're onto something here. Perhaps Fibonacci governs 76.4-80% of the human population (those who aren't consciously and actively going "the extra mile" to appear sexually marketable), while Pareto governs the remaining 20-23.6% …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:38 PM
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Thanks for this post--you bring up a lot of really good points. You're 100% correct, that the first post is written in such a way that it seems the 1-10 scale is based solely on appearance. I think it's important to make the distinction that there is a surface level 1-10 SMV rating and there are deeper level 1-10 SMV ratings for plates, FWBs, LTRs, and Wives. The more committed the relationship, the more the dynamic of the scale differs. Additionally, the more critical it is for the man to truly…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:47 PM
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Exactly. She's been with a ton of other guys and maybe you're not comfortable starting a family with her. OK. Is she still got enough to sleep with? Can you do so without catching feelings? I can. So, I get to sleep with hotties while OP sits at home masturbating.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:45 PM
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This goes to 44... Older women have lower partner counts than younger women. If this is broken down by age, then graphed, you'd see which way increasing partner counts are shifting. Also, this is on the "honor system" so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:43 PM
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You would never, ever seriously address this question so, as mentioned, just amplify you response to a ridiculous level with numbers or names of celebrities etc. Never ever? I don't know... I've been following GoodLookingLoser's (GLL) Rentention: How To Keep Fuck Buddies in Uncommited Relationships guide and I've found it to be super effective. Per GLL's advice, here is the Cliff's Notes on how to handle this situation (far more detailed advice if you watch his video and review his write-up on t…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:12 AM
2

You've got some great advice here about specifics on your date... I'll tell you about a girl I occasionally deal with... She has a boyfriend. But she invites me out. And when we have go out, we make out, and she rubs my dick, and I suck her tits, and she has slept in my bed in nothing but a G-String. But flat out fucking refuses to go further. And I'm a closer--she's the only girl who's ever done this to me in 30ish years of being alive. Girls like this are fucked up. They enjoy having your time…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:28 AM
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This is a great point, which I knew at the time of my initial writing, but chose not to include for exactly the same reasoning that you provided--Pareto matches up better to human created conditions whereas the Fibonacci sequence and golden ratio appear consistently without any human interference. The interesting thing is that, as humans, we're constantly meddling with our own SMV. Women are dieting and wearing make-up. Men are intentionally increasing their muscle mass and reading up on self im…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:15 AM
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As for dating down so to speak, very easy way to be an alpha in isolation. But consider being a 7 as a male, for example. You are not out of reach for the 8's and 9's if you are alpha in every other way. Plus, dating down will reflect poorly on your SMV in your community. So while it was fun in college to have a NO SHAME rule written in our house rules (actually) it isn't the best way to build long-term high-SMV behaviors and reputation. I'm not exactly advocating dating down. When a man rates a…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:09 AM
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Here's the deal... If you have money, it will raise your SMV. You're able to do whatever you want. That makes you extremely Alpha. Do not spend your money on girls. Use it as a means to do whatever YOU want to do, but do not turn it over to females unless she is giving you equal value. I fucked an HB9 this weekend. She bought me $50 worth of drinks earlier in exchange for nothing. I had a fucking Michael Jordan weekend. I paid $100 for a cab to get her home and fuck her twice. Was it worth it? H…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:02 AM
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I don't know, man... I hear these guys saying not to text her, but I would invite her out to something. It sounds like you've got a fun group of friends who go partying, etc. You've got nothing to lose by texting her IMO. I'd just wait for the next event to come up and text her with: "A few friends and I are doing ACTIVITY tonight at LOCATION at TIME. Come out and meet me up." Send nothing else. If she replies, that's good. If she replies and comes, that's even better. Make sure you text her aro…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 12:49 AM
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True story. But the real of it is that she was a person who treated me badly. If someone doesn't care about me, it makes no logical sense for me to care about them. I usually reply, "Do you really think my ex is crying alone at her apartment because she cheated on me and I left her? Hell no. She's out looking for dick right now, seeking attention, and hoping to win the approval of her girlfriends. I doubt she thinks about me at all. So... Why would I be hung up on her? Doesn't it make more sense…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 12:33 AM
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I really liked this analogy. It's simple and makes sense. I've got a lot of butthurt friends, for a variety of reasons, who just aren't ready to swallow the pill (and may never be). Having said that, they know I was in a 5 year LTR, was cheated on, and am now just fucking killing it. So... they say to me, "I don't know how you do it... How did you put everything behind you? How do you just act like you no longer care?" Like I said, these guys aren't ready to know about TRP as a philosophy, lifes…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 08:33 PM
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I consider at least 3 out of every 10 Men to be Alpha with little to no effort. Or are my figures way off base? You're off base... but not by much. The general consensus on TRP is that the Pareto principle (a/k/a the 80-20 rule or the law of the vital few) loosely governs the amount of men whom women view as Alpha. The rules states that, for many events (business, social, or otherwise), roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes. And thus, about 20% of men will be viewed as Alpha. Pe…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:59 PM
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When I was in HS, I had amazing car game... Do you know what a padiddle is? If not: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Padiddle In any case, what I would do when I was alone with a girl I liked or with groups of girls is I would play a game called "Stripadiddle." Every time you found a padiddle on the road, you'd say "stripadiddle" and the person who didn't see it first would have to strip. I'd play until girls were 100% naked and basically tell them how sexy they look, blah blah. Eventually, I'd get …
/r/askTRP07/10/14 02:19 AM
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You need to put yourself out there with an activity that brings people together. For me, it was getting a beach home every summer. We rent a new house every summer and, inevitably, some people don't come back so we replace them through friends-of-friends or through random people from Craigslist. After almost 10 years, my social circle is HUGE. (we interview everyone coming into the house... the girls we let in are all 8+'s. once you get involved in something like this, it's super easy to "make t…
/r/trpGAME03/10/14 05:22 AM
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That gives me so much hope! I'm dealing with early 20s girls and, in my early 30s, I was feeling like the window might be closing.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:18 AM
1

I'm reading this now and it seems pretty awesome. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:04 AM
1

It made me laugh when I read your comment along with your username. Hilarious!
/r/askTRP03/10/14 04:41 AM
1

To preface this the girl and I were snap chatting for about a week so we both knew what each other looked like. Text game was strong because she would constantly reply or text me randomly. Meh... Look at what you wrote. You were Snapchatting for a week or more. You were also texting. That's a lot of time to fuck things up for yourself. Why would you do this? Why didn't you just get her number and immediately text for a meet up? That's what I do--it's no BS and I don't fuck anything up. Before yo…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 04:32 AM
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This was a funny post. It made me laugh. But yeah, you're right. If you're going to get food or something, bring it back to your place so you have a shot at escalating.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 04:27 AM
2

This is completely true. I knew I was skinny-fat when I was dating my ex and she would flat-out tell me I needed to eat better and go to the gym. I wouldn't do it. I only started going to the gym when I felt like I was losing her (she was actually already lost) and then I really hurt myself. Now I'm just dieting and exercising, but after my surgery I fully intend on going HARD.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:09 AM
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This is the correct answer. Do not enter codes you do not know for certain. It will delay the ability to type new code attempts and will get you caught with your pants down!
/r/askTRP03/10/14 02:52 AM
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Right. It definitely is lack of options at that age. I'm about 10 years younger than you and I'm already seeing the transition. Ideally, at 41, you want to find a girl in her late 20s who's never been married and is also not a slut. Tough find, but possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:32 AM
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If it's a man asking for relationship advice. I usually say, "I know you're looking for a direct solution, but maybe she'd show you more respect if she was just attracted to you more in general. Why not hit the gym, start a diet, and start dressing better? Ever though about buying a new cologne and debuting it just before going out with the boys?" I won't delve into why this works, but it's the advice I offer. If the man continues to bitch, I just try to empathize and say shit like, "Well yeah, …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:10 AM
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As the child, do you really want to introduce your Father to TRP? If he's currently married, do you really want to be the reason waves begin to appear in the ocean that his his current relationship dynamic? I'm going to advise against doing this, unless your father is single.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 11:59 PM
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Oh yeah, I completely agree with you. I'm just saying that it's sad that writers understood exactly where American society was headed and figuratively illustrated it for the entire country to see. We laughed at it. And it all came true.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:54 PM
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Yo... This was a fucking awesome write-up! I remember watching the very first Simpsons episode as it aired as well. As I grew older, I stopped watching cartoons, but I did catch this episode time and time again during the Christmas season for several years. Recently, I watched the Family Guy and Simpsons crossover episode. It's nothing like when the series first started. That's for sure. In any case, I've need really looked back and analysed the first episode in the way that you have. You're 100…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:59 PM
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It's relevant but I think it runs the risk of overcomplicating the process of human interaction. He even says, "don't become too neurotic" when think about the epinet of any specific social dynamic you're involved in. This might be useful in reviewing specific high stakes interaction (much like a football team will review film), but it's not something that is immediately useful in the moment of any specific interaction. You'd simply take too long to offer or counter-offer. I guess it's useful to…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:01 PM
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Yes! When I was a younger man, I used to bang everything out with tits and an axe-wound. This was in my early 20s. Honestly, I think it really helped with my game and overall prowess in the bedroom. The two LTRs I had during my 20s were with solid 8s, possibly 9s in make-up. I was able to mack these girls because I really didn't care about anything--I could get laid, some how some way, every night. Now, in my early 30s, I'm really only aiming to fuck 8s, 9s, and 10s. I will absolutely fuck a 7, …
/r/askTRP02/10/14 06:24 PM
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Of course... It's "The Bitch" in you. Don't listen to The Bitch. Don't let The Bitch in you control your life.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 06:08 PM
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I'll ask tomorrow? NO. This is the worst possible move you can make. The best thing to do is act as if nothing has happened and that everything is normal. Go into immediate overdrive to increase your SMV (hit the gym, buy new clothing, buy a new cologne, get your hair styled, go tanning, get your teeth professionally whitened, whatever). If she questions it, just blow it off--you're just trying to be better every day. Start flirting up girls on the side. You don't need to take numbers, but you s…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:02 PM
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IF YOU GET CAUGHT SNOOPING THROUGH HER THINGS, THERE ARE VERY REAL LEGAL CONSEQUENCES. THIS POST IS FOR INFORMATION PURPOSES ONLY. I AM IN NO WAY LIABLE FOR WHAT YOU DO WITH THIS INFORMATION. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK! Here are a few things you could theoretically do: Go into her Facebook Activity Log and then select Searches from the left side of the page. Is she searching for this dude a lot? Any dude in particular she's searching for a lot? Log into her Gmail. Then go to www.google.com/searchh…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:01 AM
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Here's the thing... You're posting here because your gut is telling you something is wrong. Your gut is hardly ever wrong, even without proof. Additionally, she's talking to another guy. Maybe she's just good at hiding her tracks? Does she have other messaging apps that she could send nudes via? WhatsApp is a big one... I'd keep my eye on this, bro. I'd be ready to cut her off at a moment's notice.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:38 AM
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Thanks, bro. I appreciate the support!
/r/askTRP02/10/14 03:30 AM
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Why are you friends with these people on Facebook? WTF
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:56 PM
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Great question... They do have hobbies, but they're not enthusiastic about them like men are. A lot of hot girls will go to the gym daily, and frequently do so with their friends. Occasionally, these women will get together and take specialty fitness classes as a hobby. A big one right now is "barre" classes where women get a workout focused on a ballet barre. Additionally, a lot of these women are taking stripper pole classes for fun. Hot girls will do other fitness related things as well. I kn…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:14 PM
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This is a great video, in that it accurately does describe the life of a woman. My issue with it is that it's basically saying it's OK to hit the Wall, have a kid, then go out whoring again before your body collapses. Yes, this is the life of a typical American woman. But, this is not the life that they need to live. There was a study linked somewhere on the TRP network a fews days back--a study about how female happiness is declining with each generation. It's proof that women today are going f…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:05 PM
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Thanks for the great insight, as usual.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 03:28 AM
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Do you have to assign an orgasm as a set goal in all sex? Not at all. But, I feel like it's now becoming an assignment, since I haven't been having them and my plates have been asking what they're doing wrong. It's kind of weird when you fuck a girl 4 times and it's pro-level sex, but you're only cumming once out of every 5 times. Aside from that, everything you stated is pretty much exactly how I'm viewing sex these days. I've been focusing on how hot the naked girls are and on all of the amazi…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:13 PM
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No medications but I could be drunk, high on weed, or high on coke during some points. I would say there is a 20% chance I've taken cocaine and less than a 10% chance I've smoked while this is going on. I'm just being completely honest... I'll smoke a bowl maybe 3 or 4 times per months and I'll do key bumps of blow maybe 2 or 3 times per month. When I do blow, I'll do 4 or 5 keys of the course of 6-10 hours.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:06 PM
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No antidepressants or other medications. I used to Fap a lot (sometimes 5 times a day) because I actually felt like it kept me hornier. Overweight, yes. But only by about 5 lbs, nothing major. I'm exist right on the border of skinny and skinny-fat. I've never had my T-Levels checked. Maybe this is something I'll have done.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:04 PM
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I think this is the answer. I'm going to have to toughen the fuck up and just give up porn and masturbation completely.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:01 PM
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Perhaps, but at least I'm able to get an erection and maintain an erection for well over 30 minutes. Additionally, before TRP, I'd get all emotionally invested in the women I was sleeping with (yes, even ONS) and have never had this issue before. The only thing I can think of that's missing is the emotional attachment.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:57 PM
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Not even close. On a night with a poor turnout, we'd have at least 15 people at the same bar. 50/50 girls to guys.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:48 AM
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My social group is easily 50 or so total people. Hard to be the "Leader." Also, working against me, is that my ex exists within my group. Some females will bend the knee to her and others, who are not loyal to her, still seek to avoid drama.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:35 AM
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My female friends are all cock blockers. Seriously. They're great to have social proof, but whenever I game in front of them they'll come interrupt and shit. Doesn't matter if the girl is good looking or not. My female friends want my attention the moment they see me giving it to someone from outside of the group. Thus, I try to avoid my female friends while I'm out gaming.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:49 AM
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Ha! The only girls who have ever really wanted to wing me are my plates, and I know that they fully intend on taking me home later and not really "winging" for me. It's pretty funny.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:15 AM
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This is the major issue. He needs to leave her and these friends in his past.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:33 AM
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Sidebar > Required Theory Reading > Sexual strategy is amoral
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:11 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. Just because you won't fuck your friend's girlfriend doesn't mean one of your friends won't fuck your girlfriend. It happens all the time. I'm involved in a social circle of ravenous alcoholics, TBH. I was dating the best looking girl in the entire social circle (which sucks, because she's still the best looking girl in my circle of friends). My "friends" would get drunk and try to get handsy. I'd explained to my (at the time) GF that one of two things were going to ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:43 PM
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This is typical... Husband is her Beta Bux. She loves the feeling of knowing that he provides for the family, etc. and has been a constant for her. Having said that, he's just not that attractive to her. His friend is her Alpha. He's clearly not willing to provide her with anything but sex, but she can't help but feel so attracted to him. Her marriage has probably lacked attraction (and sex) for some time, so she loves the way this makes her feel. She doesn't actually love either of them. But sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:33 PM
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I love that she recorded this with a giant phallus taped to her forehead. I was especially surprised, since she's a Unicorn, that she would wear a phallus for the entire internet connected populace to see, for eternity. The fact that she even took the time to make this video and not have it be funny at all leads me to believe she's way crazier than a Unicorn. To be fair, she is definitely hot. I'd fuck this girl, even with that pink phallus taped to her head. Aside from that, I'm in agreement wi…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:50 PM
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Great question. If there's going to be a tab, just put it on your tag and ask her to split it at the end. Usually, I'll just look and say, "OK. Let's split this tab." If there's not a tab, I like to say, "I'll grab this round. Pick up the next." I've had ZERO girls I'm taking it even flinch at this. The only girls I've encountered who cry about not getting free drinks are ones I randomly approach in a bar who will straight up ask for a drink. I don't play that game unless she's made out with me …
/r/askTRP25/09/14 04:51 AM
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True story that you risk jail. In my experience, you get cuffed and held maybe 10% of the time. Also, very rarely has anyone ever pressed charges against me aside from the state itself. State has always dismissed when the victim refuses their request to come to court. If they do detain you though, you won't be in state or anything. It'll suck and you'll have to be with people who may want to start shit but you won't get raped. I've been cuffed and held, but never convicted of anything aside from…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 04:36 AM
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Yeah, yeah... keep reading the Sidebar. This is good advice. But, to give you a bit of guidance, I think you did fine. If she wanted to give the guy her number, she would have. But she didn't. My big concern with you is that you're worried about the interaction. You shouldn't be giving a fuck, because you're young, and in college, with the most abundant supply of women you're likely to have for your entire life. Why worry about one girl? Don't tell me you've already got feelz, bro? What you do n…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:58 AM
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100% true. Most girls I've been with have happily given me BJs. Most girls I've had on repeat will repeat those BJs. My LTRs I've had gave BJs. My ex, the one that eventually cheated on me, hardly ever gave BJs. And when she did, I had to act like a fucking baby and cry to get one. It was pathetic. This post is the truth. If she's hesitant to give you a BJ, she's probably just not attracted to you enough to blow you. It's a shitty reality, but (for me) it was the Truth.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 02:33 AM
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Ha! When I was growing up, I was forced to fight a lot of people bigger and older than me by my father. He told me that my younger brothers were my responsibility and that I had to earn the respect of the neighborhood (these kids would beat them up or steal from them, whatever, and it was MY responsibility to go ensure that wouldn't occur again [my father traveled 2/3rd of the year for work]). So, I started fighting a lot. It worked--nobody fucked with my brothers whether I'd win or lose fights.…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 09:15 PM
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I'd still fight them, but I am self-employed. Considering that your job is not worth losing (it isn't!), my recommendation would be to turn around and slap his ass, then blow him a kiss, put your arm around your girl, and walk away. You can't just "do nothing" bro. I saw a documentary of a silverback gorilla that has a few wives and babies. They stay with him because they know he will protect them to his DEATH. One night, a panther comes into the gorilla camp and the silverback fights it and kil…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 09:07 PM
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Can't believe I forgot to mention fishing. During summer months, on weekends, he'd wake up before dawn and fish until later afternoon. Did that until he started getting sick.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:02 PM
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Can't bro. She cheated on me. Aside from the most basic pleasantries, she gets nothing from me. No conversation, no check in on how I'm doing, no information on how my pets are. Since swallowing TRP, I understand how she felt, why she cheated, what I did incorrectly, etc. Having said that, there is no excuse for cheating in a 5 year LTR when you live with that person and have discussed marriage etc. If you don't want a commitment, you leave like an adult and both parties will deal with it. Inste…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:37 PM
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I'm less than 15 minutes in and can already see this being an amazingly truthful movie...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:06 PM
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I'm pretty small, but I fight a lot. I'm 5'9", 165, in terrible shape. The parent answer is correct, if you have the balls to do it. You're in a bar. You won't get stomped out that badly before it's broken up. He's playing college ball. He has more to lose fighting that you do. If this went to court, you say, "He struck my girlfriend so I retaliated in her defense!" Use the system, as it has used you, Young Jedi. As a small guy who wins a lot of fights, I would have planned a "devastating" attac…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:38 PM
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it's available to stream on Amazon Instant Prime
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:26 PM
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Terrible childhood. Broken home and abused. Given away to an inner city orphanage by a mother who never loved him. Joins Army. Golden Gloves boxer. Fights Korean War. Returns and works nonstop. Pays for his own education and earns a Masters degree in Electrical Engineering. Works for fucking NASA during Cold War. Works from literally nothing to America's Upper Middle Class. Takes his family on vacation for 2 weeks every year, no exceptions. Taught himself to code on an Apple II in his late 50s f…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:29 PM
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100% true. My grandfather kept his household in CHECK! When he died, my grandmother went from Woman to Child, real fucking quick. NO ONE realized what an incapable lunatic she was until he died, because he was really her Captain and she did what he said. And as a result, she was regarded as a kind and fully functioning person. Additionally, I grew up in a household where my mother got married, had babies fast, did all housework, cooked, cleaned, helped with homework, etc. for years. She never we…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:20 PM
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My mother's father was the most Red Pill man to ever life (maybe I'll post about him in the future). In any case, it's a "famous family story" but THIS is what he told my father (who was marrying his daughter!) on their wedding day: Always remember, they don't become bitches... They're born bitches.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:48 PM
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This advice is really what I needed to hear. And you're 100% right--I'm not bringing plates around my group of friends really. So, when I do bump into her, I keep things normal. She's a girl associated with my group of friends, but aside from that, we don't have much to talk about. I say my hello and meet the guy she's seeing, but I don't owe anyone more than that. And while she's handcuffed to this guy, having him judged by our friends and her judged by associative proxy. I'm free to Approach a…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:36 PM
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Thanks, bro. She's a miserable little girl too. One day, she's going to make someone very happy (sarcasm).
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:31 PM
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That was fucking EPIC!
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 06:05 AM
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This post is hilarious. I've got a guy in my social circle who is exactly like this. He's regarded as the Omega of both my male and female social circles. If he did this to me, here's what I would do: Me and the girl would relentlessly make fun of him at lunch. If she took it upon herself to invite him to our table. I'd look at her and laugh, then look at him and say "You can't sit with us!" in an almost gay voice. This is a Mean Girls reference--most girls will get it. Everyone will have a chuc…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:22 AM
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Here is my approach to plates and why I don't feel bad for them ever: I'm up-front with the fact that I'm seeing other women. I've never brought this up, but all of my current plates have brought it up rather immediately. They all assumed I was seeing other women, and they're right. I tell them so. I tell them all that I'm looking to meet a bunch of new women, because maybe one will spark my interest. Having said that, I'm definitely not looking for a relationship now or anytime soon. I don't co…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 12:01 AM
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This is how she ended her email: I hope you wind up with an abusive husband that beats on you every night. ROFLMAO! Disagreements with my ex constantly ended with her saying things of equal ridiculousness. "I hope you're fired from your job!" "I hope you die in a car accident tonight." Too funny.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:49 PM
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I don't fuck women on the first date and thats simply the way it is. I have my personal reasons but those are irrelevant. Good luck with all of that.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 05:21 PM
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Does it matter that shes fucked other guys now? It doesnt right? Is that just oneitis bullshit? If you're fucking other girls, she's allowed to fuck other guys. Guys she's fucked in the past? Who cares? She wasn't leased to you at that time. This is just you having Oneitis issues. And, since you are having Oneitis issues and you haven't even seen her yet, I'm going to strongly advise that you just ignore this girl and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 05:18 PM
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The best answer is: Ignore all of her messages and move on But, having had no contact with her for 4 years, it's completely acceptable for you to turn her into a plate. Having said that, I'm concerned that you said: I have a tiny bit of oneitus for this chick... You cannot have any Oneitis for any plates. But, let's just assume you have no Oneitis and are interested in spinning her as a plate. You would win the same way as you would with any other plate: You only exchange messages for logistical…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:39 PM
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I had a girl I was hooking up with last week and she asked me If i was hooking up or sleeping with other women out of the blue. Keep in mind I had met her about a week before. I wasn't sure how to respond so I simply said, "no". I feel like this wasn't the correct response, unfortunately I was not prepared for such a question. You're right. This isn't the correct response. And, even if you truly are not sleeping with other women currently, you still don't tell her no. Because, women are attracte…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:28 PM
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I'm not initiating or escalating intentionally. It's just happening. This never really happened before I started to implement TRP strategy. I'm curious to hear what other results people have seen without guiding other parties toward that result. Thanks for your insight.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:22 PM
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They are emotionally detached.Only come to you when they require food. stoic and expressionless. Moves with precision and control. hint of Dark triad. etc. All hallmarks of an RP alpha male. That's not true of all cats (although it is true of some). My cats come to me all the time. They'll frequently just lay down on either side of me on the couch and purr for hours and I don't need to pet them or touch them. In fact, I don't have to acknowledge them, as long as I'm not shooing them away. That i…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 06:09 PM
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Exactly. Nervous Guy Game is OK if you're just starting out, but ultimately won't work to really get you laid fast or with the kind of women you probably want to be splitting open. I use GLL's "Screening" approach. I'm bulletproof to rejection and I have no problem approaching 25+ girls a night. I've had really good results, although my game isn't "tight" yet. My male friends are all saying "he's the best guy I've ever seen with women" and my closing % is actually pretty terrible. I'm looking fo…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:38 AM
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True story. I always had dogs growing up. Dogs will love you, provided you treat them well. They'll love you in a way that cats never will. Having said that, it is impossible for me to own a dog. My building doesn't allow them and I don't have the time to commit to one. Men are like dogs and women are like cats.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:34 AM
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She was getting Dread earlier in the evening too... She's a bartender and has been begging me to come to her bar. So, two friends and I did come to her bar. And we hit on everything right in front of her while she flooded my table with pitchers of beer. I had 3 girls under my arm and at one point had a girl's legs across my lap. When we left, she said I didn't owe her anything for the pitchers, but I gave her a $50 tip (that's on probably 6-7 pitchers of Stella that she just GAVE us, which I was…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:26 AM
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What type of relationship for a rational male has the higher chance of lasting long term? One with an emotional or a rational partner? OK, I'll play... I understand what you're ultimately asking and I think there are Pros and Cons to each. But, for me, I'd rather be with the Emotional girl. Here's why: I want to dominate. I can't be satisfied with an "Agree to disagree." end to an argument, but I am OK with a hug. I need to win, or change my own mind because she's clearly correct. Additionally, …
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:17 AM
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You were conveniently present when she had a feeling Thank you. This is a great point and something I definitely need to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:02 AM
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Personally I don't have sex with drunk women either, not because I think its rape but because there is too much "false rape" risk involved. But I've had drunk sex before and ill probably do it again without regret, there's nothing wrong with it, the only problem is that women are encouraged to deflect responsibility for it by comments like yours. Leave that shit out man. That's a good policy. I'll have drunk sex if we've had consensual sex before. If it's a First Time, I judge it based on how dr…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:49 AM
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Thanks for the opposing view. I don't pretend to have all the answers and the FR is an accurate depiction of what I did and what the results were. I think you've provided me with some valuable food for thought. And, I promise you that I'll strong consider what you've wrote. Having said that, my initial reaction is that I disagree with your analysis. Although I understand how my actions may be viewed as passive-aggressive, I felt they were congruent with my Frame... There's an additional note tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:48 AM
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Search GLL for "Retention: How To Keep Fuck Buddies in Uncommitted Relationships and Profile of Guys"
/r/askTRP17/09/14 02:55 AM
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Yes. The GLL site has an article exactly for that. I'm mobile, but I'll reply back with the past Title to search for.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 02:20 AM
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Which one would you prefer? Either way, she's going to shit test you and you're going to have to pass with ease. She's going to try to make you Beta and you will need to remain Alpha. You will have to continually improve yourself to hold or exceed your current SMV so she does not stray. You'll have to keep life interesting, use amused mastery to diffuse booby traps, and lay the law down appropriately. It doesn't matter where her "core" stems from. You're going to need to deal with the same shit …
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:24 AM
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Real Social Dynamics
/r/seduction17/09/14 12:08 AM
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Thanks. Didn't realize there was a "Freeze Out" method but I'm going to search. And yeah...I decided that I'd rather be Too Bold and get shut down than try to act like a Loverboy in bed. Later this same day I completely gamed a different girl at a bar. IOIs like a motherfucker and we'd planned to meet up later in the night. Then, I decided to just grab her and go in for a random French kiss without warning. I got completely fucking posterized by this girl. It was like trying to do a 360 slam dun…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:48 PM
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Some truths are harder than others. You cannot pick your parents or the world you are born into, but you can choose your actions from this moment forward. Rise above and conquer.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:19 PM
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Google Good Looking Loser Nervous Guy Game. This is probably your best bet.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 10:43 PM
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There are some things I like and some things I don't like about GLL. I don't like that he's Affiliate Marketing shit like penis pumps, kartom, modafinil, etc. But it doesn't matter, because I really like how direct Chris is. His "Screening" approach was a game changer for me as well as his advice on how to spin plates, etc. He just simplifies shit and leaves you a lot of room to insert your own personality. He's not really into PUA details and I feel like, if you follow the advice on GLL, you'll…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:01 PM
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I own two cats and I really and truly believe that they have helped me to understand women more than anything I've experienced or read. I'll elaborate: My cats are one of my favorite things in my entire life. I, more or less, let them do as they please around the house and I assure their needs are met. Out of nowhere, they'll show me "love." They cuddle with me, they follow me around, they look at me with adoration, they play with me on my terms, and no one else in the world holds a relationship…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:32 PM
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You need to Accept that your mother is the only woman that will ever love you just for you. It's like Accepting that the sky is blue or that we cannot breathe under water. It just is. Once you've Accepted that, you can begin to enjoy women. How? Do you enjoy pets? Do you enjoy your clothing? Do you enjoy food? Do you enjoy sports? What do you enjoy? Nothing previously mentioned "loves" you, but you may still "love" those things. You don't bitch about it being unequal, because you Accept it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:32 PM
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Bro, if it makes you feel any better, I very rarely have performance issues (when I do, cocaine is always involved, which is why I don't do much blow) but I've ALWAYS had issues with hookers. Can't ever get hard unless it's with a girl I've decided I want and have worked to have. Just the way it is. Don't worry about it and keep approaching women. You'll dropped that V Card before you know it.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:20 PM
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Why don't you have a place to have sex, BTW?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:42 PM
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You can't have this mindset... If this turns into sex on a regular basis when we have a place to do it, I would love my life forever. You have the pussy on a pedestal right now. You need to change the former portion of that sentence to something more like this: "If I could figure out exactly what I want in life, and then successfully act on real plans to get what I want in life, I would love my life forever." You need to Man Up on life, bro. And it will start by giving this girl the same or less…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:41 PM
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OK--I'm going to answer your question, then I'm going to really answer your question... When I was in HS I worked at a restaurant that is exactly like Applebees. She's not lying when she says she doesn't know when she'll be done. There are typically 3 shifts: Open to a Set Hour (usually 4 or 5 PM) Set Hour (usually 4 or 5 PM ) to Close The "Swing" Shift (sometimes Open to Close, sometimes it's like Noon to Close. this is a super long shift.) If you're working until Close, and it's a busy night, …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:05 PM
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This makes me so happy. Best lulz I've had all week!
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:55 PM
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I went to a school like yours and specialized in fucking freshman. They will never be easier to lay than in those first few weeks! Honestly, forget this girl and start gaming others. Fucking freshman is like shooting fish in a barrel. You needed to act more amused at sushi. When she brought those guys up you should have responded like this... You should have laughed in her face and told he that her friends sound real fun, since they won't be attending any frat parties, rushing, or pledging. Then…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:48 AM
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Wow... Just wow. I'm astonished because the time length and fact set that you laid out is like 95% similar to what happened to me. Wow. These hoes ain't loyal. Stay frosty.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:16 AM
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I ended a 5year LTR this past year. Take my advice and go 100% no contact forever. She's dead to you and this will help you get over it quicker. Spinning her is just going to get messy and prolong any degree of Oneitis you've got. edit: I plated my ex for 6 months and it SUCKED
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:48 AM
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Is this in general or with a girl you've been seeing awhile? If the latter, did you swallow TRP before or after you'd become involved with her?
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:44 AM
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Agreed. I've got some shit to learn, bro.
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:54 PM
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Hilarious. You can choose to attempt to blow out an AMOG or you can just give it up and hope the girl comes to you. If you do choose to engage, the parent comment is my current recommendation. The choice is yours.
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:35 PM
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It makes sense and happens all the time. It really depends on context. If it's casual, you reply with something else. e.g. "Aw you're cute" plus a kiss on her forehead, then walk away. If you're laying next to each other with direct eye-contact and she says it, you kind of have to reply. Every rule is meant to be broken. It's about breaking them in the correct situations that counts.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 10:07 PM
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Haha! TBH, I don't have eyelash implants nor do I wear man make-up nor have I ever had my eyebrows sculpted. I do get spray tans, whiten my teeth, exercise (I can't lift right now, medically), and keep my hair and wardrobe on point. Having said that, I'm not opposed to doing any of that in the future, if I felt it would raise my SMV. My suggestions were just that, suggestions. If you feel you can succeed without changing your appearance in those manners, then do so by all means.
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:44 PM
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Or Cristiano Ronaldo. Hate on.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:37 PM
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so anyway, enough about me, let's talk about me some more. Hahaha! I'm seriously going to incorporate that into any conversation when I realize I've just talked about me longer than I should have. Amazing.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:28 PM
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My past 2 LTRs were smoking hot in make-up. Straight headturners. I'm currently spinning one plate who is like that too. I'm just terrified of them That's your problem. When I see a smoking hot girl, I will always approach. Typically, I get blown out within a minute or two. And that's OK. I totally accept it. I just met the girl and her first impression is what I look like. I can come with the most confidence and smoothest game and still get blown out based on appearance (I'm better looking than…
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:18 PM
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Interesting... I'm going to throw a mini-FR in here. This past weekend, I talked to a good amount of HBs in a local bar. The front of the bar is basically a square room which leads into a butt-funnel to the back of the bar, which is very large with tables, pillars, etc. So, I'm in the front because it's easier to talk. I mack HBs and I'm having successful opens, but my kino isn't going so well. I get tired of it and decide to "pose" in the middle. I'm literally striking poses as if I'm a model a…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 02:12 AM
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This is great. Also, I like to "surprise" my plates every now and then. Is there a food she likes or something you can take her to whatever? Preemptively do it. If she asks why, tell her it's because she's been such a good girl (said like you're talking to your naughty sex kitten). Again, like Skorch said, this isn't done for sex. And again, after you've given her a surprise, immediately move along as if nothing happened. You tell her it's because she's a good girl with a sexual undertone, then …
/r/askTRP10/09/14 01:54 AM
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IMO, the easiest thing to do is replace the word "you" with something you are happy about. Additionally, you never say anything like this unless you are rewarding her. Examples: You have a great day with her and then amazing sex. "I'm so happy I got to spend the day with you." You had amazing sex in general. "I love your tight little pussy." while you're fucking. She cooks you an amazing meal. "I'm so happy you're an amazing cook." The examples are endless. But never say you're "happy" or that y…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 11:58 PM
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I'd like some advice on this too. I've had it work for me before, and here's how: I explain that other girls have done it and that I think it's hot. She messes up and I go No Contact. Usually, there's a 20% chance that some nudes will come my way. I've also been successful when my ex got caught cheating and wanted to "make things work again." I told her I needed to be sexually satisfied and that some nudes would help. Additionally, since I could show them to mutual friends if I wanted, I'd view …
/r/askTRP09/09/14 11:18 PM
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Thanks, bro. I get as much out of helping people as they do from my advice. Take a look at my reply again, because I edited a few small things and added an additional bullet point (Point 8) for something I wanted to say but forgot once I got to typing.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 10:12 PM
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TBH, you don't start off badly. Here's what I took away from this and some advice: She initiates the conversation with some questions. This is great, it's an IOI. You reply with "I'm great!" I don't like this because it makes me feel like you're genuinely excited that she initiated a conversation with you. I think you needed something a bit more toned down (e.g. "I'm doing good. How about you?"). Also, I wanted to tell you that you did a good job waiting to text her. I can see by the timestamp t…
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 09:51 PM
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In a variety of different ways... If they're just trying to take her attention, go ahead and interrupt what he's saying. If he calls you out on it, laugh and tell him not to be so emotional. Always be placing your body physically between the AMOG and the HB. If they start to verbally attack you, ask them to repeat themselves two or three times, then tell them in flat tone that they're so funny or so smart, depending on what the attack was...unless they verbally threatened you. If they verbally t…
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 04:11 AM
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I saw the video. They were fighting before the security footage begins and, if you look closely, he spits in her face and that's why she slaps him. The correct way to handle a situation that gets you that heated is to leave. Just leave the hotel and go some place else. Anywhere. Come back the next day and tell her you'd like to talk about it when you get home and "make things right" with the two of you. Pack your stuff and don't talk on the journey back home. Once you get home, go ahead and "mak…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:01 AM
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Exactly. My ex, for example, hasn't contacted me at all since I've gone No Contact. She's over me. I know it. I accept that I know it. I work everyday to beat back The Bitch in me that feels butthurt. And you know what? It's hard, bro. But... you do it anyway because you're a Man, not a little boy.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:53 AM
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Put your dick in her mouth
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:48 AM
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Try not to smile as much when you talk, I think it subconsciously adds an inflection to words. It's not subconscious. I used to sing and smiling changes your pitch to Sharp, which is higher. Stop fucking smiling. Unless you're getting your dick sucked, there is no need to ever smile (I'm half joking).
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:57 AM
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You need to know, not think, that you're number one on average at a party with 19 other guys. Bingo. And it's extremely fucking hard if you aren't genetically blessed to be both attractive physically and with your personality. I see people posting that this is too much work, etc. Fine. But don't come on TRP and cry about how the HB9 shot you down and ask, "What did I do wrong?" when you know the answer is that you didn't make yourself attractive enough because it was too hard. Additionally, if y…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:53 AM
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I've read quite a few of your posts here bro and I enjoy many, and IMO your usernym does not suit you at all! lol .... you are not so BP at all! Inside all of us lives a little bitch. The Bitch will run your life if you let it. As a Man, part of your job is to lock that Bitch in a closet and never let it out. Mine's name is Bobby, and this account is a constant reminder that he'll always be with me, just waiting for me to get too fat and too comfortable to keep it locked away.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:21 PM
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I understand where you're coming from, but I disagree. We'd talked about the specific guy before (she had always brought him up to shit test me in the beginning--the guy is gorgeous and ripped) and I was told that I was the only guy she'd ever met that made her want to cut contact with him. Context: We'd gotten into a small altercation at a bar minutes before. A guy approached her while I was talking with my friend and bought her a drink. I reacted by not reacting, which I didn't realize was a g…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:39 PM
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You failed pretty badly... I'll explain why: So the ex tells me she wants to get back together and have dinner. I text her three days later, she said she's seeing someone and wants to be friends. She's your ex for a reason. You can spin her like a plate if you're able to hold frame doing it, meaning that you truly don't care what happens with her or if she's fucking other men. This is very hard to do. But, if that's what you wanted to do, you didn't really need to wait three full days or anythin…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 08:26 PM
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In a truly equal society, you'd approach the nearest employee and have them bounced out. If a guy wiped his hands on a girl like that, what would happen? I'm thinking a drink to the face, possibly a slap, and a prompt bouncing. Since we don't live in a truly equal society, here's what I imagine I would do in that situation: I'd turn to face them, stare the culprit dead in the eye, then say "Seriously? How old are you?" and just keep staring. Regardless of what they say or do next, wait for the r…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 08:15 PM
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Your mother's the one woman that will ever love you. Exactly. Since swallowing the pill, I've become insanely aware of exactly how much my own mother tests my father. In fact, her casual stories, etc. are attempts to validate her actions, using me. I won't play into it anymore. When she shit tests him in front of me or tells me about "what your father did earlier this week" I'll disengage from the conversation and immediately change the subject as soon as she's done making her point. My father h…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:14 PM
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Correct--Not a shit test because you asked about them and brought this on yourself. This is an entirely different can of worms... How long have you been dating? What did you say when you found the condoms?
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:24 PM
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In what context did you find this out? I'm suspecting that she's using this as a shit test. Tell us more about your relationship and how this conversation came up.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:33 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:11 PM
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I also ended a 5 year LTR. My ex had a brain tumor that screwed up her sex drive royally. During the course of our relationship, I was there for her while her condition was treated. Today, her tumor is gone and her sex drive is normal. Here is what happened... When we first started spending time together, she was such a fun person. We would go to bars by ourselves or just sit inside and talk. She understood so much about me and where I was coming from and told me she felt the same. We would star…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:28 PM
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This may or may not be the move to make. I'm living with him for the foreseeable future, so I won't react by deleting him from Facebook or anything like that. Also, I'm curious to see if he brings anything up and what he might say (he did try to speak with me, specifically, when he got home...he even tried to wake me up but yelling, "Yo Bobby! Are you sleeping?" then knocked again. This is atypical behavior for him to want to talk to me after half a day of drinking--I've lived with him since Mar…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:05 PM
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Exactly. And you're right about being guilty by association.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:43 AM
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This could be true. I don't think he'd play this game if he were sober. Thanks for the really though. It was interesting to me that he immediately came to knock on my door. He knocked, then asked if was asleep, then knocked again. Normally, he'd come home drunk and go right to sleep. He wants my approval because I think he felt guilty. Ultimately, I'm going to chalk this up to him taking sexual attention from an extremely hot girl because he'd been drinking hard, for twelve fucking hours. And if…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:32 AM
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Thanks. Yeah, the friends situation is tough... They're the most accepting and including people ever. Someone has something great going on, every night, and you're invited! But, no one has respect for people, property, or themselves. There is so much drugs, booze, and sex that people in this group feel no shame and the group mentality is that this behavior is acceptable. I've been really distancing myself for the past three months or so, seeing other friends, spending time with family, spinning …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:27 AM
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Thanks. I know I have to work harder. Defeating The Bitch in me is a 24/7 job but TRP has helped tremendously.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:45 AM
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This is my plan as well. But your post significantly lowered my blood pressure. I'm still upset, but I feel like I've got a better idea on how to focus on handling the situation and that's comforting. I can't believe how that video turned me to a bitch so quick...disappointing. I guess everybody fumbles the ball now and again though... Also, this is The Issue with my social circle--there is little to no respect for anyone or anything. It's great because everyone is down for whatever, lots of fun…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:41 AM
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Thank you so much
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:25 AM
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Great points. I was discussing this with my boy who just got ass-raped by his former LTR--I'm trying to RP school him. During that conversation, he asked what I thought and I told him there's a lot of possibilities. It was specifically that she didn't want me to get inside of her pussy--very specific. I doubt she's got the herp, or is worried about it if she does. My thoughts were that she could be on the rag or just dealing with a yeast infection or something. In any case, what do you think I s…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 11:05 PM
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I went overseas to visit family, LTR gf said I wasn't giving her enough attention - small fight & held frame but led to her/me withdrawing attention (non-official breakup) for a couple weeks. She came crying to hangout a week after I returned home. We spent a good couple days together, she is saying ILY and everything - but we never really discussed our status or what happened - it was kind of assumed we were or are mutually exclusive? This is a pretty big Red Flag--you're visiting family and sh…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:01 PM
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I hear you loud and clear but it would have been difficult to pull off without breaking frame with my friends. As we were walking to the front door, our mutual friends walked right in the door. My buddy, who bones out her best friend (who is a terrible person to my buddy and fucks other dudes on the reg), and her see each other and go crazy. She jumps into his arms and he spins her around. She hugs the rest of our mutual friends while I'm dishing out hand slaps, etc. Before either of us are fini…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 06:35 PM
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A Life Sentence is only 20 years, but marriages are til death!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:29 PM
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I'd have to because she doesn't have a car right now. Get this, she lost her job AND her car was totalled by flood water in the same week! This all happened to her over last weekend. (SIDE NOTE: I'm just realizing that this means that her man needs to drive to see her. He lives over an hour away. It's 100% on him to see her. This is good news for me.) In any case, I could tell her to call a cab and come over here, but no one really calls cabs like that mid-day. Why add in an obstacle when I can …
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 04:54 PM
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Your buddy sounds like a blue pill idiot, no offence. Agreed. He's completely BP but doesn't realize it because he's huge. He can press 400 lbs. and is in a 3 year LTR plus spinning 2 side plates. He thinks he a pimp, but it's just weak bitches who like muscles. No seduction skills aside from physical appeal. I would talk to her(she sounds conflicted; make it clear: you won't do that again, you know where I live, you know you want the D, when you figure it out drop by, maybe we can have that tre…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 04:29 PM
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Am I just trying to hamster away my failure/reluctance? Yes. Should I forget about women for now? No. Is the blue pill inside of me craving the satisfaction of a woman's approval? No. You are a man. You are not craving the satisfaction of a woman's approval. You are craving the sense of accomplishment of having a woman want you. It's different and it's natural. Whether this interaction with women occurs through a blue or red lens is entirely up to you. Can I make that feeling go away by pursuing…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 04:05 PM
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Next time just invite her over to go straight for the fucking. Tell her exactly what to wear, tell her you're going to fuck first before saying a word to her, etc. She sounds like the kind of kinkster that will get off on this, and it'll probably work. If that doesn't work something's not connecting, so move on. Under no circumstances should you agree to meet her out or go out with her again until she comes over and you fuck. Thank you. This is extremely helpful and exactly what I'm going to do.…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:46 PM
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The Post Title was essentially the TL;DR. IMO, everything seemed to go well until it came to the close. I got some LMR, but tried everything I knew to defeat it. Didn't work and I didn't fuck.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:44 PM
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You're right. Something definitely went wrong here... I doubt we're going to be able to pinpoint what, although I'm hoping this FR will lead to some additional insight. What do you think about next steps? My buddy is telling me to hit her up and try again ASAP because he saw how close this was to being a homerun. He's saying I need to strike while the iron is hot. I think he knows nothing about seduction and that I should run No Contact. Me hitting her up for a "date" is exactly what she'd expec…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:42 PM
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Ask and you shall receive. Search my submitted posts for my FR on last night.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:19 PM
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LOL! Just edited my Post. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 02:22 PM
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Anti-Slut Defense. Come on guys, just Google this shit.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 02:15 PM
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If/when I've got a serious amount of time, I'll write this up.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 01:55 PM
1

"What's today? Sunday?"
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 08:26 AM
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I'm currently spinning a plate who's into girls. I'm not on Tinder but she is, and she's sending me all her Female Matches to ask if I'd want to throw a threesome with them. Now, tonight's lucky lady is into rough sex. Her girl told me she judges the success of her hookups based on how many bruises she has. In any case, this one is also into girls. Both girls have met, briefly. My goal is to spin two plates that are cool being spun at the same damn time, on several occasions. Lots of opportunity…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:16 PM
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I'm going to see if I can use it tonight at some point. I've got a new candidate coming out with me and she's FREAKY. Her best friend is a good friend of mine and last time I saw this candidate I made out with her and told her I have a foot fetish. Told her I loved her shoes and would love to fuck her while she wears them. I planned the meet up for tonight and she agreed, then text, "Same shoes as last time?" to which I replied, "Good girl." If I play my cards right, this plate should start spin…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:28 PM
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Red Pill Frame. This is different for all men. Read the sidebar to start establishing your own. Essentially, once you become confident in who you are, and are able to "hold that frame," women start to notice.
/r/seduction04/09/14 09:26 PM
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Red Pill Frame. This is different for all men. Read the sidebar to start establishing your own. Essentially, once you become confident in who you are, and are able to "hold that frame," women start to notice.
/r/seduction04/09/14 09:26 PM
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"You're goofy." Great line. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:20 PM
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There are LOTS of parallels between Sales and Seduction, but lots of differences too... Here are a few things that stand out to me: Prospecting is aggressive in both arenas. In Sales, I'll make 100s of cold calls, send cold emails, arrive at conference and cold approach to get numbers, etc. I'm trying to find out who may actually want to buy and who is wasting my time. It's exactly the same. In Seduction, I used GLL's Screening method to rapidly weed out girls who are DTF from ones who aren't. E…
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 06:55 PM
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Thank you for posting this... I've heard this song my entire life and never paid it attention. This song pretty much explains exactly how I feel about women right now. It's halfway sad, but relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:15 PM
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Oh yeah, I'd agree. Remember: Even though there may be a best way to skin a cat... Ultimately, there are several ways to do it. I read your Update and her reply is definitely positive. Good luck tonight, bro!
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 05:49 PM
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Agreed--this is absolutely an IOI but it's also a shit test. I've been working in sales for a long time. If someone invites you in to give a presentation but prefaces the meeting by saying they're probably not going to buy, I always view that as the customer setting the groundwork to negotiate with me on price later this week or very early next.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 05:30 PM
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I like it too, but it's very aggressive. I think the "Good. I treasure my virginity." line is probably the best way to have handled it.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 05:28 PM
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Great FR. My only criticism is why you'd even reply to her text the next day? IMO, it'd be more amusing to ignore her forever and just watch the Walls of Text flood your phone. I did want to point one thing out though... I'm not trying to White Knight here and I don't know about Brazil. But, in Europe and Australia, it's common to have people buy rounds of drinks. You're considered very rude in some countries if you accept drinks from a round but do not buy drinks for the round in return. If you…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:15 PM
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This is absolutely a shit test... I'm not going to give you the best answer here, because I'm new to TRP. Having said that, I think there are two ways to handle this: Change Your Mind & Hold Frame: "You're right. I do want to change my mind." Go No Contact for awhile. Agree & Amplify: "No worries. I'm more of a 'Straight to the A' guy. See you tonight!"
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 05:04 PM
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Exactly. Even though we know this is the "best" way to handle tests, it's often hard to actually envision her as a child testing you. So, A&A is the default plan because it's easy to remember and you get significantly better at it with practice--it becomes pretty natural. Having said that, The Natural's handling of this test was exponentially better. I think this is just a place where we'll eventually get to, but most of us aren't ready for immediately.
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:58 PM
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OP, keep in mind that overcoming an ESTABLISHED sexual dynamic is extremely hard. I dated a girl for almost 5 years and we had an absolutely miserable sex life. I had exactly ONE blowjob during our entire relationship, within the first 2 weeks of dating her, and she sucked me off for MAYBE 45 seconds, total. I tried everything I could think of to make our sex life better and NOTHING worked. Eventually, she cheated on me and I swallowed the Red Pill. I immediately dumped her and moved out. I spun…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:52 PM
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Hahaha that made me laugh. I'm staying sober for all of September, but maybe I'll get drunk enough to say this randomly in October. Amazing.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:35 PM
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I got downvoted on this MateGuarding FR? Hilarious! In any case, OP is correct--when you start holding your RP frame naturally, you're going to encounter MateGuarding. You'll notice it in pretty much any situation where people are free to converse. If you're in a bar or club, it will be less obviously (unless you approach someone's GF, in which case, it should become obvious very fast).
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:32 PM
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Story of my weekend, bro. I was in a social setting with a 5 year LTR couple and the girl was ALL over me. I didn't even pursue her, I was just being social while holding a RP frame. The guy got really butthurt and handled everything wrong. He tried to put me down a few times... I ignored the first two comments and no one reacted to him. After the third comment, I said to his gf, "Jeeze, is he always this emotional? You're a Saint for being the Rock in his life." She laughed right in his face. F…
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:10 AM
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Here's what you need to do... You need to download and read The Sex God Method. You won't be able to employ all techniques immediately, but gradually work that into your sex life with her. Eventually, you want to get her all hot and bothered, at which point you just say, "Suck my cock." and move her head, with your hand wrapped in her hair by the scalp, down to your cock. You won't be able to do this based on your current sex dynamic, but you can work up to it. If you try some of the Sex God stu…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:01 AM
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Many years ago, before I'd found TRP or anything this used to be essential to my game. I'd tell girls that we could never hook up because it would probably be terrible. I'd joke that I have an insanely small penis. I'd tell girls we could never date. Etc. Ultimately, it works, but it's cheesy. I've had FAR more success with clearly stating my intentions, aggressively screening, and escalating fast. Instead of joking about sex, I'd rather escalate and attempt to move the girl to a location to act…
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 04:42 AM
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Just wait until you make a TRP-specific user name, sub to the entire TRP network of subs, and unsub from everything else. It makes your Front Page amazing.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:11 AM
1

This is the real answer here.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:04 AM
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"You seem like such a sissy. I bet we're have nooooo sexual chemistry at all!" No idea what you need this for.
/r/trpGAME04/09/14 02:55 AM
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This is a great question and I hope some of the guys will chime in. I'm in the middle of helping a friend right now but will write you a more detailed reply when I'm able to take a few minutes.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:16 AM
0

It wasn't even Oneitis that had me end it. It was that she wanted to "work things out" (I told her OK but planned to end it following the summer regardless) but she refused to allow me to reframe the relationship. She didn't want to lose her Beta Bux so I finally just ended it altogether.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:17 PM
1

I feel like he took food from my plate and owes me for it. He knew what he was doing. As a man, I feel like his teeth now belong to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:48 PM
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I feel like he took food from my plate and owes me for it. He knew what he was doing. As a man, I feel like his teeth now belong to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:48 PM
1

I feel like he took food from my plate and owes me for it. He knew what he was doing. As a man, I feel like his teeth now belong to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:47 PM
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I moved out immediately. We paid for a summer home with mutual friends (many of whom I currently live with) and she refused to sell her summer share. We we banging all summer but not "dating." I've been 100% no contact for exactly one month as of today.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:14 PM
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So, let's assume you dated for 5 years and she cheats with a co worker who knows about your relationship. What then? I've been thinking about it for six months. I read her texts and find out that he couldn't get it up twice. When I see him... And I will see him out eventually. I'm planning on walking up to him and saying, "I heard you couldn't get your duck up? So, I guess you're not a lover. Let's take a walk and see if you're a fighter." I'm bigger and have a fair amount of fight experience. I…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:55 PM
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Honestly, thinking about it, this is the better move.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 10:30 PM
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"Soooo bored. Our next date should be at a library or maybe we could hit up a knitting class."
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:40 PM
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Read up on handling LMR. If you go with a few strategies and still can't F-Close, just next her. She's a Plate--it's no big deal.
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 08:36 PM
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HA! I love this: You: Let's get together thursday night. What time are planning to have dinner? Her: Not sure, maybe seven? You: Great. Let's meet at XXXX at nine then for drinks. I'm going to use this for the next week or two and see how it goes. Thanks!
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:37 PM
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Like I said, I don't use Tinder. Maybe you're right?
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 07:35 PM
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This is too true. If she's got a bunch of friends, she won't come back unless you see her out drunk. At which point, the House that Hamster built will fall down all around her.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:30 PM
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Honestly, I hate all of these. You come off as a guy who needs rehearsed lines and that's creepy. jerdo's line is OK. I don't use Tinder, but if I did, I think I'd roll with what I usually roll with, something like, "Hey. I think you're cute." And then I'd immediately move the conversation off Tinder and to SMS. Once there, I'd move ASAP to set a date within the next day or two. I believe we should only be talking to women through digital means (SMS, Tinder, OKC, etc.) as a way to plan dates. I …
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 07:24 PM
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I got a blowjob from my girlfriend at the office and she swallowed it all which I never would have never imagined she would do for me previously all because of a little dread game. If she swallows it, it means she's VERY attracted to you. I use BJs as a litmus test for women. If she doesn't give you BJs, she's not attracted to you. Take appropriate action. If she's giving you BJs, but refusing to swallow, she's attracted but could be MORE attracted. Take appropriate action. If she's swallowing, …
/r/ThankTRP28/08/14 07:17 PM
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This is interesting... I would want to make it known in any LTR that cheating will not be tolerated. But, this could be conveyed through conversation, not as the answer to one of her tests. I feel like I'd ultimately A&A this one. e.g. "Sure. If you're into girls, I'd even bring her home!"
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:05 PM
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You can definitely roll with that.
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 05:25 PM
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I'm currently doing the same. My ex put up a fucking bikini picture on Tinder and my boys immediately told me about it. I had it sent to me and keep it on my phone. Whenever Oneitis hits, I pull that picture up and think to myself, "My God... This girl is absolutely gorgeous, but she's SO concerned with attention that she's resorted to posting this picture on fucking Tinder so she can finally have Every Boy... And I dated this person? And I was surprised she treated me like trash and cheated on …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:09 PM
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I get what you're saying... By saying that, you're immediately paying a compliment for nothing. Maybe someone else can suggest something better, but this is what works for me. Don't over think RP. As long as you're not worshipping her, I think it's OK to start with , "I thought you were cute."
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 04:26 AM
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Remember: Always be Hungry, but Never be Thirsty.
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:49 PM
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Not everyone will agree with what I'd suggest here... But, my thought is that you don't reply at all. Don't reply to anything all weekend, unless she seems like she's wanting to see you one-on-one. In which case, you may reply to plan the meetup. Then, on Monday, text her around 6 PM or so with, "How was your weekend?" and see what kind of response you get. At that point, try to plan a one-on-one date or try to run group game if she's opposed to it. If she's receptive to your Monday text, reply …
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:27 PM
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The additional context is helpful... I think you came out of the gate too strong. This was like introducing yourself to a girl at a bar and immediately asking her to go back to your place. Ultimately, it's what you should do but it's ineffective if her Buying Temperature and the Rapport with you just isn't there yet. I think her reply is ultimately Neutral. She's not teasing, but she's not blowing you off. I think she's subtly telling you that you came on too strong, but she's happy to entertain…
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:16 PM
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Yes--this would be extremely helpful. We'll call her and game her "for you."
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:06 PM
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If you commit to a girl who is riding the CC, then no, because you can't do that AND be Alpha. She wants an Alpha. The female ideal is to find a man who is better than them in every way AND someone who holds high SMV with EVERY other female he encounters. She knows he could have ANY other girl on the planet at any time, but her picked her. This man has everything going on for him, but, most importantly, he leads her in ALL things she does. She looks to him for guidance in almost all decisions an…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 08:04 PM
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I need more context... Can you post the ENTIRE conversation?
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 08:01 PM
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I went to a small school too (Class Sizes < 1K). You'll definitely run into these girls again. Honestly, don't sweat it. Here's the thing about women that I've seen to be true (I'm in my early 30s now): They don't really care about their past interactions with you, except initially. I've given this example before, but I'll give it again. One of my close friends is always bringing his younger brother around. The kid is a huge creep. He says the most inappropriate shit, constantly. He targets the …
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 07:22 PM
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As a man, any time you throw a shit test at a woman, you're acting Beta. If you do something looking for approval (e.g. look at my watch; look at my money; look at me physically; etc.), then you're testing her reaction to the presented stimulus. We don't test we lead and it's the woman's responsibility to qualify herself to the man through the course of that interaction.
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 06:41 PM
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This is exactly the question you need to ask, and you need to provide an honest answer. I just cut my ex off for good about a month ago. I was not able to hold a non-exclusive relationship, although I was able to improve myself and my SMV slightly. I tried changing the sexual dynamic, but could not hold frame. I was able to increase the frequency of sex, but the style of sex was just her laying there. Since I've ended things completely, it's like night and day. Whenever I'm feeling depressed, I …
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:38 PM
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Honestly, it's useful in different contexts. Women seek sexual Variety. If you've got her all hot and heavy and have her turned up, be super aggressive, dominant, command her to blow you, then straight fuck her. The above scenario is not 100% sustainable. You've got to mix it up. So, sometimes you may want to have her over for a "date" and then come back to a predetermined location for sex. You can gently escalate into sexual foreplay (keep in mind, just because you're moving slow DOES NOT mean …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 06:36 AM
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Unfortunately, this may be true.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:54 AM
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Exactly. It's really OK to make these mistakes. Now you know what happened, why it happened, and how it could have gone better. It's like studying film for any sport or studying you enemy in a war. Keep posting Field Reports like this in this sub and you'll get better and better. Here's what's MORE important though... Don't use girls you work with you practice on. You have to see these girls all the time. What would be a more productive use of your time would be to Approach outside of work like …
/r/trpGAME27/08/14 12:16 AM
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What you do instead is when she comes back you tell her that's a hot picture and then fuck her brains out. Then plate her. This is 100% on-point. Follow this plan, exactly as written.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:09 PM
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Exactly. I understand where AgentSmith27 is coming from, but I really think I'd rather just run my system and see what's good with it. I'm here, swallowing TRP. That means, I'm open to change if it leads to me being the best me possible. If what I'm preaching turns out to be completely unrealistic, I'll modify it so I get the best value possible for me in raising a child eventually. Honestly though, the most RP thing to do is make enough money to retire on without children. Then, figure out chil…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:08 PM
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I work at a gym, and this girl who used to work there as well invites me over to stretch. We get to talking about management, blah blah blah, and then she mentions she has this bruise on her forearm. I can't see it and I'm like oh huh. So she goes, "Feel it." and I feel it and go, "Wow, how did it happen?" That's kind of weird. It's a bruise on her forearm, but you couldn't see it? Was she wearing a long sleeve shirt? Why did you have to feel it? She wouldn't lift her sleeve up? In any case, wha…
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 09:56 PM
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Search TRP for GayLubeOil's post called "Show Me the Ho Facts" In your situation, you're 100% correct.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:06 PM
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PS A woman who will "do ANYTHING" for a high value male is, in my opinion, one who doesn't value herself very much. Not the sort of woman I'd like to associate with. I mean, would you "do ANYTHING" for a high value woman? Doesn't seem very RP to me. Men and women are different. You want a woman who will pedestal you, but it can't work the other way around. If you're happily married, that's great. Keep doing what you're doing. I hope it works out for you
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:54 PM
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Not that I'm aware of, but I'm opening to hearing anything you know about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:38 PM
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Look at that word: wedlock You're down to have everything about a marriage, even the ring and ceremony. But you're not down with signing a contract that effectively ties your assets to hers. Does it narrow the pool? Yes. Of course. Is it still possible to find? Yes--women are emotional and will do ANYTHING for a high value male. TRP is about taking the HARD ROAD to being a better man. I'm not sure if my scenario is "the best" but I don't have a better outline right now. Is the road harder? Yes. …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:19 PM
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IMHO, the way to establish a good environment to raise a child is the following: 1. Spin Plates Two Plates should be constantly competing to have a LTR with you. These are your "Top 2" and it may help to think of them as FWBs. You are under no obligation to choose either of them for an LTR, but in the future you may wish to. See these girls once a week, but put in very minimal effort to establish a relationship more than having sex and having fun. If one or both of these Plates remains in your T…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:04 PM
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How many women per week are you Approaching? I had sex three times last week, with a girl 9 years younger than me, one time being a threesome. Know how I did it? I approached almost 200 girls in two-three weeks. Know how I did that? By being INSANELY SOCIAL. I'd gone out during the day on weekends and five nights per week for at least an hour or two. Any girl I want to have sex with, I'd immediately approach and tell her I thought she was cute and that I wanted to introduce myself. I wound up te…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:26 AM
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This is a pretty awesome video and definitely held some RP truths. I'm a big fan of Bill Nye but hadn't seen this yet. Thanks for sharing! This is SCIENCE talking, folks!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:01 AM
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Here's a link that starts at the appropriate time: http://youtu.be/LPq7CyHqQ2I?t=1h15m35s
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:40 PM
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That makes so much sense, which is insane because most guys I know WANT women to know they're doing really well, etc. I'm thinking I shouldn't even tell them what I do if asked. Just saying that you own a business can be interpreted as you having money. In my mind, "What do you do?" now seems like a shit test... I'm going to roll for the next week or so without telling women what I do and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:06 PM
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PROFESSION Your profession is only relevant as a constituent of SMV if you are one of the following: Farmer, Cowboy, Cop, Fireman, Prince, Bodyguard, Rancher, bartender. If you earn a lot of money in your profession then do NOT advertise this. Lie about if you have to, or keep deflecting the question. The minute she finds out you're a dentist she's going to put you in the "provider" camp, whatever your SMV. Very curious about this... I own a small business. If asked more specifically about the a…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:40 PM
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This! Although my last LTR did cheat on me, it took almost 5 years for it to happen. When I met her, she had probably ten orbiters. I hooked up with her for 3 months and would intentionally make plans when she had something going on with an orbiter. When I'd encounter them personally, I'd blow their spots up but clowning them, constantly interrupting them, replying to them with completely off topic statements, and physically positioning myself between her and them as much as possible. I spun her…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:14 AM
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SIX One top tier. Two middle tier. Three you literally don't give a shit about but call every 10-14 days to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:01 AM
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I was accidentally RP for years as well. once a girl like me, I would go BP and lose them. Story of my life, with the exception of one long distance relationship. I'm hopeful that I never fall into the Blue ways again.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:19 PM
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This link should have been titled: A Disturbing Trend - Let Your Wife Borrow an Alpha I don't know if these two had sex during the vacation. Like others have mentioned, there were 2 children present, there is no mentioning of escalation in the article, and they may have had separate rooms and/or beds. The real horrifying thing about this article is that this woman is advocating to other women that it's acceptable practice to vacation with a man that isn't your husband. Hell, even bring along the…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:24 PM
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Thanks for the great advice. Ultimately, I think you're 100% correct. I need to focus, isolate, and escalate faster. My primary focus during that evening was acting aloof (I have to try) and displaying social proof. I wanted to take them to a place that was straight up aggressive and show that I could Lord it, no problem. The good news? I'm not out. I text her last night asking "so um... wtf happened the other night?" and responded instantaneously. She's hamstering that she was blacked out and t…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:17 PM
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Honestly, what a Boss. He hit her with a text saying it over and then never talked to her again. That's what's up!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:41 AM
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I'm early 30s and I deal with girls in their early 20s frequently. It usually doesn't come up immediately. But when it does come up, I just state my age as if it were nothing. Most of them tell me they think I'm younger. I get 25 all the time. In any case, I've never been blown out solely based on my age. Also, a lot of the smokeshows I went to HS with wound up marrying much older men. I think they're probably Golddiggers, but who knows. I'm just bringing it up because I've seen guys in their mi…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:05 AM
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This girl would EASILY be the ugliest girl I'd ever fucked, assuming I'd ever fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:53 AM
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I agree that 80/80 is a problem, but don't believe the 20/20 find each other. Of the Good Girls, 80% of them don't ride the CC because they're either sexually repulsive or religious zealots/batshit insane. That leaves a 5% overall for real deal GGs from the entire female population. Same with men. 80% of the AFs will either be husbands who cheat or will choose not to marry, etc. Only 5% of the entire male population is probably capable of capturing and tame the 5% of GGs while remaining truly ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:03 AM
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I was just about to write the same thing. Who on earth would fuck this broad? She's the sexual equivalent to eating a slice of pizza that was dropped on the ground in a bar bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:43 AM
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You're not using it wrong, it's just not a good response. Think about it. You'd only say that if you were disappointed or angry/hurt. More often than not, the best response is no response. Let her wonder if you're angry, never going to talk to her again, did she ruin what she had with you, etc. No response works because a woman's hamster needs to feel like it's running somewhere. If you don't respond, the hamster still runs, but it's running on a wheel until you stop it. So when you said "lame" …
/r/trpGAME19/08/14 03:10 AM
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Woah woah woah... Do you care if you get divorced? Are you trying to save the relationship or do you just not care?
/r/TRPOffTopic19/08/14 03:02 AM
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I'm not the most qualified to answer this, but when she said she was terrible I read that as a hard "not tonight." She wasn't saying she doesn't want to keep fucking you, but she wants you to understand that she's in a LTR and when they have dates or whatever it's probably hard for her to slip away. IMO, you did the right thing by telling her to come over after her date. But after she said the next line, you should have read it as a "no." My advice is to have not sent anything after that text. W…
/r/trpGAME19/08/14 02:57 AM
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This is something I absolutely need to work on.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:43 PM
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Ugh... Such a true story, man. I know it, and I have days when I'm good, but if I'm idle, I relapse. I'm really going to commit using it as one of my 30 Days of Discipline goals.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:11 PM
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It does help and I really appreciate this conversation. I am still angry, though now nearly as angry as I once was. I'm currently doing SOME of 30 Days of Discipline. While I'm not waking up at 5 AM (I should be and want to), I am eating healthy (but only during week days), taking cold showers, etc. The big thing for me is that I want to COMMIT to not speaking about my ex or checking in on her Facebook for at least 30 days. I won't block her on Facebook because it's been over for awhile and will…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 09:17 PM
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I've got no idea how old they are. My guess is mid to late 20s. You can consider my lifestyle a problem, but I consider it a double-edged sword. All of my friends in my age group are doing the same thing. I'm seriously social proofed in these places and there is a higher concentration of 20something hot girls where I frequent than anywhere else. The bars I go to spike buying temperature faster and more efficiently than anywhere else (I can do it just the same at a club with a table, but logistic…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 09:08 PM
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Thanks--I appreciate the insight. I actually didn't spend 80% of my night with Ashley. Once my friends got there, after I knew Cindy was crazy, and after I saw her at the bar with other guys, I just decided to ignore it. What screwed me was that Cindy left with her boyfriend and left Ashley and Becky at the bar. Becky turned around to buy drinks, and when she did, Ashley approached me and put her tongue in my mouth. I didn't know I had the Win earlier, but I knew it then. We made out for about 1…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:23 PM
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Oh, she's batshit insane. I already know. I know, I know... Don't stick your dick in crazy. But I think she's below the threshold on the Hot-Crazy Matrix. There's no long-term future. I just want to know what her pussy's like. One time is fine with me!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:54 PM
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Thanks bro, I'm going to do that
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:50 PM
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Haha 100% true. But, it works both ways. My buddy is a CREEP and a lot of girls know it, but he runs what I call "Caveman Game" where he just picks girls up, etc. (he's huge). The girls all DETEST him but if one gets drunk enough and he's able to raise that Buying Temperature, he still gets it in on occasion. The emotional drive is something to be capitalized on.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:46 PM
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THANK YOU! for taking a look at this. I think I'm going to text Ashley around 7 PM with a "How was your weekend?" and see what she comes back/if she comes back with anything.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:41 PM
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Yes! These girls were smashed. Becky dropped a full drink earlier in night and Ashley told me, "This bitch dropped one at the apartment too! I'm fucking DONE with this girl."
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:21 PM
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No idea. My best guess is that Becky and Cindy are extremely jealous of Ashley OR that Cindy somehow thought I knew the dude who grabbed her and assumed I was a perv. I'd never seen that guy before in my life. Keep in mind that Becky is not from this country. I think she was just taking orders from Cindy, saw that Cindy gets physically violent, and assumed that this is just the way things are handled in America. I think Cindy told Becky to keep Ashley away from me.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:14 PM
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I ended a 4.5 year LTR with a HARD 8. Men fall all over her and I could go on and on. We lived together for 4 years and our circles of friends are completely intertwined. We were sharing a vacation house for the summer that was paid for and we agreed that the LTR was over, but that we would act as if we were in an LTR during summer weekends (this is a long story, PM me if you want more info). The good news? My sex life was never better with her than over the past 6 months. I'd been spinning plat…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:09 PM
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Incorrect. I can easily approach 10 women in under an hour. I am fully committed to spending at LEAST 30 minutes per day just Approaching. I've found that the more I Approach, the better I get. And the positive responses have me buzzing on dopamine. I've never felt better. I've been going out for 30 minutes and forcing myself to get back home because I don't want to stop. Last week I probably averaged 2-3 hours daily. While out with friends and also just by myself.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:47 PM
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Guys, I'm from the same situation. I turned 18, went to college, and never came back. Picked the biggest and baddest city near there, found work, and moved. If you're young, do the best that you can and leave ASAP. If you're not going to college or have graduated and are currently working, YOU are keeping yourself in that situation. Large Metro Areas = ABUNDANCE And that goes for ALL areas of life. Sure, there are abundant women. But there are also abundant activities, new things to try, friends…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:43 PM
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Exactly. That's why I put the word "proven" in all caps. I want them to understand that this has all been a Test and that, so far, they've passed. But, my portion of the test is over. If they don't text me, they Fail. Women don't want to think they've ever Failed with a guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:38 PM
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Bro, I've been dealing with some Oneitis and for the past two weeks I FORCED myself to go out and talk to as many girls as possible. From this past Thursday - Saturday, I gave my phone number to over 100 women. No lie. I live in a large metro area, so I've just been walking and talking, day and night. I am also 5'9", with an above average face, and I'm skinny-fat but they'll only know if I get naked--in clothing I look like I'm built skinny. I cannot lift because of an injury that requires surge…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:36 AM
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Why would you buy her ammo? I wouldn't. She should expect to pay for half until she provides value, at which point you're free to spend equal to the amount of value she's providing (in your area is a hooker more or less than $100? what's the price? if you're having sex, you shouldn't feel bad spending that amount, but you should strive to spend less and consider it savings).
/r/trpGAME14/08/14 09:34 PM
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I think Webster Hall is 18 to party bro. Just take her to Mamoun's and try to make out in Washington Square.
/r/trpGAME14/08/14 03:37 AM
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Webster Hall
/r/trpGAME14/08/14 03:13 AM
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Yeah, that "don't panic" line probably came off cheesey. Also, you just said "if you hung out" instead of saying "Let's hang out" and setting a date and time. You were still looking for her to lead you. Women want to be led. You'd like he to have replied, "For sure. I'm free Saturday! Does 8 work for you?" but she's not going to do that ever. My advice now is to go complete No Contact as if you are Nexting her. If she does reply at some point though, reply back to her, regardless of what she say…
/r/trpGAME13/08/14 10:01 PM
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No. AWALT. She's trying to determine if you are really an Alpha worthy of spending time with her (she knows you want sex) or if you're just pretending (in which case, she's happy to take your attention and time via text, but will only meet up with you enough to keep that going, and you won't ever get sex). Prove to her that you're the real deal and she'll come meet you up. Prove it to her again, in person, and you can escalate to sex.
/r/trpGAME13/08/14 09:25 PM
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Her: Literally just got outta cheer like i'm sitting on the mat just listening to my coach and for some reason I cant get you off my mind today This is a great opportunity to set up another meet but I already did that last time. From what I’ve learned, it's her turn to tell me when we're meeting up. This is a really great IOI, so you're doing something right but just can't seem to meet up. Could this be a shit test? I do think you need to take the initiative to push for a meetup, even though she…
/r/trpGAME13/08/14 05:02 PM
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"Didn't get to my phone until today" is probably an excuse. No contact until Monday. On Monday, after work (so... 6 PM ish) you can text "how was your weekend?" If she replies, you can try to reschedule. If she doesn't appear FOR ANY REASON just move on, not worth your time. Use that time to find another girl who wants to see you.
/r/trpGAME13/08/14 02:04 AM
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You know... Given the context I don't think it's a booty call, but that's definitely possible.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:22 AM
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If you tell her that, then she'll believe she's decided to see you on HER terms. It'll almost read as if you miss her too. My reply would be, "lol I'm sure you do" I'd wait a good long time before reply and then probably ignore her for awhile after she responds. As suggested elsewhere, set another date to meet when you are ready to see her.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:18 AM
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It's true. For others reading this though, I'd like to disclaim a bit: I see a lot of people saying "get a job in sales--it will really help with your confidence!" Sure, it will. But, unless you're a naturally confident and non-anxious person, don't expect to just come out and kill it and make tons of loot. You won't. You'll get demolished. I'm not trying to discourage anyone from a career in sales (I also fell into it), but I want to be realistic. There are different kind of sales roles and sal…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:09 AM
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I worked sales and the company had to lay people off. Management gave my territory to a guy 35 years with the company and gave me a brand new territory that never existed that the company was never successful in. "Since you've been so successful over the past 4 years in your past two territories, this should be a great opportunity!" My ass. I got a raise, but not dominating my quota would mean far less money... like $150K less. So, I left and started my own company. It's been almost 3 years and …
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:38 AM
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Yes! I was not in this exact situation, but was mid twenties making $300k+ in one of the largest metro areas in the country. Wound up with a great girl on paper (less great in reality) but did not continue to self improve. I'm out of shape now, make less, and she cheated on me. Do not squander the money but DO use some to self improve (trainer, high end clothing, social trips, etc.) The girl I dated was from an extremely wealthy family so I didn't worry about gold digging (it was a HUGE factor i…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 01:09 AM
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You may not want to hear it... I had a somewhat similar situation (my ex was adverse to intimacy--no make out sessions, didn't like being naked, didn't like anything TOO freaky in bed) and my advice is to start looking for new options now. This is a Red Flag. There's something else going on that you don't know about (in my case, it was that she grew up in a household with parents who played the children against eachother, cheated, and abused each other daily [not the children, but they witnessed…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 07:15 PM
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Also, a safer bet is that you could reply with two OPTIONS. That's still you leading, but it's safer. For example, "Hey. What are you up to tonight? This movie plays tonight at TIME 1 & TIME 2." And then....wait until she replies. If she doesn't reply, ignore her completely until next Monday. Then text, "How was your weekend?" If she doesn't reply to that--NEXT! If she does, give her ONE more chance to catch the movie.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 04:37 PM
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You're over-thinking this. If it's inconvenient (out of your way) to get her, have her meet you. But, DO NOT have her pick you up. That is not advised. Nobody knows who will be available. I don't know if she's a student off for the summer, etc. Take a guess on when you think she'd have time to see the movie and tell her that's when you want to see it. ASSUME she's into it. If she's not, she'll let you know. If she's not available and doesn't reply with an alternative time, my advice is to comple…
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 04:34 PM
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Nope. Never ask "are you still interested" because it implies that you're low value. If she told you in person she was interested and wanted to schedule over text, why would she reconsider later...unless you were low value and insecure? Text her, "This movie is playing tonight at 5. Text me your address and I'll pick you up at 4:30" or whatever." Lead and make all decisions.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 04:17 PM
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You've got to do the same thing we all did... Take girls to dark places like the movies, the woods, behind the scoreboard of your hs football stadium. Also, be running girls in empty rooms when. Your friends parents are out of town, etc. Or, just bring a girl to your bedroom and shut and lock the door. Tell your parents you're 18 and want some alone time with your girl, who happens to be a friend. I lost my virginity at 14 and had a good amount of sexual encounters living at home. You can too!
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:30 AM
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That's BS. You shouldn't have to live your life actively trying to not be seen with other girls. OP has been honest with his ex-LTR. While OP sees a possible LTR future, by his own admission: . . . it's not even on [his] radar until she proves herself to [him]. OP even lists "drop her" as an option for how to deal with her shit test. My advice is that OP should continue treating her as his #1 ranked plate, but that he shouldn't have to compromise his other plates and be exclusive until she prove…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:09 PM
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Women want you to LEAD them. Thus, you can't say, "Any day is good..." and you need to actually reply with a firm date and time, when you are free. Now, let's assume she says she's busy. It's then up to her to also reply with a better date and time. So, if she replies with, "I'm working that day! How about Thursday?" Then, it's OK to reply with, "Great. Thursday at X time. See you then!" If she doesn't reply with an alternative time, ignore her. No contact. If you set a date and she doesn't show…
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 03:31 PM
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I really used to think this, but lately I've been noticing that this does not matter. In fact, I'm noticing that getting women (any women) causes more women to want you. I have a large social circle and the girls are very attractive (7's to 9's). The guys in my social circle who are casually fucking the hottest girls within my social circle are also taking home ugly girls left and right. NONE of the very high value women care. They'll take an ugly slut home right in front of these girls--zero fu…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:35 PM
1

I'm copying and pasting from another comment because it's more efficient, but this info is relevant to your question: There are 14 people total, no couples going, 1 of the girls is "her" friend, 3 of the guys are "his" friends, 5 people are acquaintances of both but tied to neither, and the remaining 3 people are friends of other people going. And, he didn't pay for her to go. Her and her friend paid the guy that organized it themselves, so it's not like my buddy can just "ask for a refund." The…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:02 PM
1

Great question. There are 14 people total, no couples going, 1 of the girls is "her" friend, 3 of the guys are "his" friends, 5 people are acquaintances of both but tied to neither, and the remaining 3 people are friends of other people going. And, he didn't pay for her to go. Her and her friend paid the guy that organized it themselves, so it's not like my buddy can just "ask for a refund." The guy who organized it has made it clear that he's not going to tell two girls (her and her friend) the…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:00 PM
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No, I do see it (e.g. when they get on that old nerd about writing the article from March and his expression just makes him look like an idiot). In my view though, this publicity will still be good publicity. Thousands of neckbeards will now flock to that webpage and go complain at the VFW with these guys. It'll grow their number.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:17 PM
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Maybe I'll catch shit for writing this... While it's cool that VICE did the short documentary, they focused the documentary on a bunch of neckbeards being led around by some old guy who thinks he's the smartest man in the world. The women supporters seemed like a bunch of neckbeards too! I agree with a lot of the points that these people are trying to make, but ultimately these "Men's Rights Activists" come across as a bunch of whiney nerds. DO: Go to the gym. Dress better. Understand women. Ref…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:15 PM
2

I've done it before... Here is how to REALLY make an attempt at getting out: Long story, short: I met an 8 and had a great night. We stayed up late, she slept in my bed. We didn't fuck but had a really fun time. Fast forward two months and I still had not fucked her... We'd make out a little and I'd get shut down. But eventually, I fucked her, dated her, and realized I should have nexted her fairly soon. If you need to exit the Friendzone, try what worked for me. I basically spent a month drilli…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 05:43 AM
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Thank for the reply--I get that and I've got other plates right now. I was really just pumped because I've had NC for five years. Thought I reestablished contact in an RP manner and was pumped to see that my previous interactions seemed pretty RP in nature.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:34 PM
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I'm not skilled enough to tell you how to handle this, but my brain thinks that /u/LeviGoldberg has the correct approach. Having said that, I can yell you this: Yes. You should be concerned. I can say this because I was in an almost 5 year LTR (lived together for 4) and she eventually cheated on me with this same guy. I heard the exact same sentence: . . . he is actually normal . . . This is a hamster excuse for her to continue her interactions with him. If you get angry, her hamster will make y…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:14 PM
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Befriend promoters. I can't speak for every city, but I can for where I live... These guys are busy escorting girls inside the club and managing the night itself (they need to make sure they've got bottles at the table, mixers, etc.). Plus, they need to scout the club for 20-50 new girls each night to take their numbers so they can invite them out to more events. My buddies promote 7 days a week, at 2-3 clubs per night. Last weekend they brought in over 250 women to a high end club, all of them …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:16 PM
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TRP is about self improvement. Seducing a girl who you'd lived with with no romantic involvement, who fucked a friend of yours, who is in legal trouble, is NOT going to improve your life. I guarantee it. If she isn't into you, awesome. It sounds to me like you've got oneitis for a girl who's probably bad news. This is a very beta frame to hold. IMO, the correct RP "help" is to tell you to mentally next her and find higher value women to go after. Begin your relationships with your intentions up …
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:07 AM
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She's not as socially naïve as you think. She didn't notify you because she didn't want you to know. A guy drives her to class every day. That's not a dealbreaker, but it's a red flag. You lost frame when you called her. What you should have done was immediately downgraded her to a plate in your mind and ignored her for a few days. During that time, you should have gone out exclusively with girls and had them tag you on Facebook or something--some way that she'd also find out. You are wrong to b…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:16 AM
2

Haha! Hadn't seen this before: Did you just try to kiss me? Yeah I did, you just wouldn't shut up. That's awesome. Also, a post from yesterday (Jon Stewart handling shit tests left and right on Crossfire) is an insanely relevant example of handling shit tests. I'm sure he answers a few questions with direct, Yes/No, answers while still maintaining frame. I advise everyone, regardless of skill level, check this out and revisit the video from time to time: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/commen…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:37 PM
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This is not a shit test. The only rag-related shit test is, "I can't bang tonight, because I'm on the rag." In which case, I usually just lay a dark colors towel down wherever I'm trying to lay pipe and continue to escalate.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:30 PM
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Almost everyone has this issue currently or has overcome this issue in the past. I know this is going to sound cheesy, but I read the A Song of Ice and Fire books (I'm not recommending that will help you at all, unless you're looking for a relaxing activity and enjoy fantasy books) and a few lines really stuck with me: Bran thought about it. "Can a man still be brave if he's afraid?" "That is the only time a man can be brave," his father told him. Ultimately, self doubt means that you are just a…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:25 PM
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You sound like you're in a more extreme relationship than the one I tolerated for several years. I never had my nose broken, but I was punched, slapped, and had dishes/glasses thrown at me. She even broke my eyeglasses one time. Here's the truth: My family and friends all thought she was great. She was so pretty, so much fun to be around, such a nice person, did charity work, was well educated, and from a wealthy family. What everyone didn't know is that all of that shit was an ACT to make peopl…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:17 PM
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He's saying that he thinks it's likely that neighbor bro and your girl either a) had a sexual relationship at some point during your relationship, maybe once, maybe a bunch or 2) that she may have had a relationship with him shortly after your breakup...maybe she's even telling you this now to try to steal the thunder if neighbor bro comes out and tells you more info at some point in the future. Cut this girl off like cancer.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:31 AM
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I hope you are a troll--this was insanely amusing. But, if you're not, read the side bar. Go find some examples for good Tinder game online, there are a ton of examples floating around. You should lurk more and post less. You just "joined" TRP 2 days ago... You shouldn't even be posting unless you've read the entire sidebar, have searched for answers on your own, and have been lurking daily for AT LEAST a month.
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 12:41 AM
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I like /u/trpMilo's test here. I'd recommend going for this. Additionally, keep in mind, women who work are going to get hit on. Her boss is Alpha to her in something she cares about and her boss could be male. She may have male coworkers who she views as Alpha. There are endless possibilities. The line of work doesn't really matter. Here's the fact: Attractive women who work will be hit on by other Alpha males at some point--her reaction is all that matters, not the threat of it happening. Here…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 09:43 PM
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This was a great post, especially following up your initial post. Would it be difficult for you to Edit your post to include time spans between events. I'm curious, and am sure others are as well, about how long it took you to get from where you were to where you are now. I'm curious about how long it took you to move from one RP realization to the next. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:48 PM
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"Hilarious! Who goes back and contacts their ex? Thanks for letting me know. If you feel like texting him back, let me know too and I'll contact my ex, that way the four can get together go out some time! Wouldn't that be fun?" If she's doesn't see how dumb of an idea this is, immediately demote her to plate status and actually follow through with the double-day. It'll be hilarious and your ex will probably make your current LTR jealous, leading to hot sex later. Having said that, if she's into …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 05:24 PM
2

It should be noted that a low partner count is desired, but you cannot change your past. I, personally, hate liars. If asked about your partner count, be honest. If you're providing high value overall, he may be able to see past your partner count if it is high (he also may not be able to see past it, but you've made your own bed). My advice to women: You can control your actions. If you have a high partner count now, no one is twisting your arm to increase it. Be the high value woman you want t…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:15 PM
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Why are we talking about drugs here? Your girlfriend went to a bar without you and wound up sitting at a table with another man who treated her to a bottle of champagne. This is enough to next her. But further, she just met this guy, and is about to get in his car? This is enough to next her. And finally, it sounds to me like she "did all of this" to "get even with you" for what she most likely viewed as "him choosing his brother over me." Girls who don't respect your family deserve an immediate…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:49 PM
1

Sorry, bro. This is an issue I've had as well and I don't know the best way to handle it either. I've been able to leave the questioning temporarily, but they've come back up on me repeatedly. Honestly, I think the issue is that you've established a social dynamic already that frames you as someone who answers all questions. If you frame any relationship like this, it's hard to reframe it at a later time--you're now expected to answer these questions and attempting to deflect an answer just inci…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 10:10 PM
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Half-true. We dated for almost 5 years, lived together for almost 4. She had a family emergency that required her to leave her job (she got family disability but her work let her go during that time, so she also go unemployment). Unemployment paid more or less the same as her job, so there was no income loss. Over the last 2 months of our relationship, she just started "hanging with the girls" nonstop and one night she just didn't come home. When she did get home, she lied to me about where she …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 08:55 PM
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That's terrible. I looked and ESPN has put up like 5 min and 10 minute "montage" versions but they're not as good as the full 15-minute thing that was linked here.
/r/becomeaman18/07/14 05:05 PM
3

That'd be nice if I didn't live with her for 3+ years at that point with both of our names on a lease and nowhere else to go. My response was, "Of all the girls I've slept with, you REALLY think you're the hottest?" Then, she'd FLIP THE FUCK OUT and I'd usually just withdraw at that point, say "whatever", and open my iPad ignoring her. The problem was she would relentlessly bring it back up, out of nowhere, days, weeks, or months later. If I didn't "admit" she was the prettiest girl I'd ever sle…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:55 PM
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Could be an excuse. I used to get that shit all the time in my last LTR and the girl was a solid 8 or 9 depending on who you asked. She knew it and would throw it in my face all the time if we fought ("I'm the hottest girl you've ever slept with" which is not true). The funny thing is, I had considered making a spreadsheet just like this one but ultimately decided not to because I knew she would have just laughed at me, lol. My guess is this guy fell into the common trap of allowing himself to g…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:42 PM
1

Meh. I got a liberal arts degree and went to law school. Dropped out and got into sales. I made $100k for the first time when I was just 26. Left the Fortune 500 sales world after 5 years and started my own business. Been doing that ever since. You degree does not dictate what you DO. I enjoyed my major and use aspects from it all the time, same with what I learned in law school. I could have majored in STEM and still wound up where I am today. But, more the most likely result is probably that I…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:26 AM
3

I'm skinny and look good in clothing, but I'm weak as hell and have been unable to lift for 15 years because of a shoulder injury. TRP inspired me to try lifting again. I got injured doing power cleans. Now I need shoulder surgery because that nagging 15 year old issue was something serious. I was an idiot because I didn't value strength or muscles (I've never had problems getting pussy but TRP shows me I could easily triple my results) and hamstered reasons why I didn't need the gym. In any cas…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:50 PM
2

Girls know if they will sleep with a guy within 5 minutes of meeting him I've heard this but completely disagree. I know a guy who is fugly and annoying, but he's BIG (6'5" 285 lbs). He's not pure muscle either, he's probably 40% BF. Girls see him and he's ugly. Girls meet him and he's both creepy AND annoying. BUT...he gets laid ALL THE TIME. How? He's a motherfucking caveman. He'll grab any girl in a bar and throw her on his shoulder and start spanking her. Bouncers won't fuck with him and gir…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:44 PM
1

We cannot control the tides nor the wind. But, we can educate ourselves on weather patterns and know when to wear a raincoat, when to stay indoors, and when to evacuate.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:38 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:24 PM
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While I agree that boundaries are essential to a healthy relationship, we all need to be careful to avoid overt mate-guarding. It's beta and makes us all appear insecure. I'm not an expert by any means, but here is how I propose boundaries be set... Everything must be on your terms. If she tells you that she wants to take the relationship to the next level--greats! She's putting you on a pedestal above other men. She wants to claim you all to herself. But wait...before you "decide to adopt her f…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:59 PM
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This is incredibly inspiring to myself and others. Continue to improve and update us. Your list of accomplishments motivate me to accomplish more. BOOM!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:45 PM
1

I just editing this post a bit and am hoping /r/AskTRP will take a second look at my real question. Is spinning plates amongst friends brocially acceptable?
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:12 PM
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I wanted to build upon my previous comment by saying that I know that her cheating my MY fault. I allowed myself to get betafied in my relationship. In the beginning, we fought a lot but I consistently held frame. What happened was that I just got exhausted and refused to "fight" with her--I'd just ignore shit but it was obvious to her that I was butthurt. Additionally, I put little to no effort into increasing my SMV during my LTR. More or less, had I constructed the social dynamic of my LTR by…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:04 PM
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This is spot-on! You, sir, have made me finally realize the answer to a burning question I've had... I think it's important to note that, although women may want a man who is better than them at EVERYTHING, they ultimately want a man who is better than them at their "important traits." I'm speaking from experience. Was in a 4+ year LTR and was cheated on. My woman was more physically attractive than me, but I was better than her at almost everything else. She eventually cheated on me with a guy …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 12:30 AM
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That's what I'm thinking too.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 11:03 PM
1

I started out angry too. What has helped the most has been reading everything I can on TRP in my free time. You'll read the same things over and over again, presented in different ways with different fact sets. And after awhile (months) I eventually just accepted that AWALT. Am I disgusted by the things I see in real life? Yes. Do I blame the women? No. Eventually, I just accepted that AWALT and that society is enabling this behavior. I believe that there will eventually be some kind of a readju…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:42 AM
2

From your post, it seems like you aren't attracted to her. Why make the conscious decision to bone someone you're not attracted to? Especially on your first time. I still wouldn't do it.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 01:05 AM
1

I get where you're coming from, but I'd advise you not to do it in this situation. I've smashed my fair share of ugly girls, but I only do so with random girls who don't know my name, never get my phone number, and don't find out where I live (I'll go to their place). Mostly I'll meet these women in bars, clubs, and at parties. Second, I won't do this if legit HBs I want to smash are in the area or have any way of finding out (if I'm with loose lipped buddies, etc.). The last thing you want is p…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 12:46 AM
2

Here's another thing I've been pondering: If you do decide to get married, you almost certainly need a pre-nup. I had an LTR cheat on me and she was worth easily 20X more than me with family money that she'd eventually inherit. Having said that, the situation really made me realize that pre-nups are necessary. It showed me how fast it can become apparent that your relationship is fucked up and needs to end, but it also showed me that I wouldn't want to "get" anything from a woman who'd fucked me…
/r/askTRP08/07/14 12:34 AM
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Find someone of the same value as you or lower. Really? We all know that women are hypergamous and that AWALT (All Women Are Like That). Isn't advising her to find someone of equal or lesser value just setting the scene for her to lose attraction in the future? IMO, women should always be looking for men of higher value. If the man is able to naturally hold frame, then chances of attraction remaining high is increased. Aside from that, I think the post above is pretty good advise. Thus, my advic…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 10:18 PM
2

Couldn't agree more.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 10:04 PM
3

You're in the earlier stages of something similar to what I went through (4.5 year long relationship, lived together after 6 months). In the beginning, we had sex 2-3 times per week and constantly hung out with each other. She was fun to be with and she viewed me as fun to be with too. Then, we decided to move in together. At this point, the sex started dying off (it got so bad that we wouldn't fuck 6 months at a time)... NOTE: My ex had a tumor on her pituitary gland and was placed on several m…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 08:57 PM
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^ This. I didn't reply. By hour 4 she started calling me. I let it ring to voicemail. She called again immediately, then again 30 minutes later which I answered. Me: "Hello" Her: "Did you get my text?" Me: "From earlier? Yeah, I got it. What's up?" Her: "You didn't reply?" Me: "Haha, I know. I've been working all day and still am, what's up?" Her: "Well, you didn't reply..." Me: "Was it a question?" Her: "No, I just want to make sure I'm not going to piss you off. I know you don't like orbiter."…
/r/askTRP21/05/14 09:13 PM
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Ha! The porno lingerie I'm KEEPING! She'll know it's in my closet for my other plates to use if she's not a good girl. Losing my temper with the dude was def a mistake though. It was just the easy move to make at the time.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 08:07 PM
1

I don't care that she's having lunch with him. I care about passing the shit test. My fear is that no response will play out in her mind as if I'm angry (I'm usually responsive eventually). I'm also afraid that Agree & Amplify could go the wrong way because of my history with this particular guy--I'm not sure how to Agree & Amp without looking like an asshole here. "Sounds good. He's a real nice guy, your mom would probably love him." I just don't think it's going to play well in this situation.…
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:57 PM
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It really depends on the situation. I'll give you a quick summary about why I recently did this... My 4.5 year LTR lost her job, got unemployment, and began going out with "the girls" A LOT. I'm the kind of guy who will actively "influence" my LTRs, but I will never try to outright "control." I told her I didn't appreciate the nights out because her friends are on average 25 and are all single (she's 28 and was in a 4.5 year LTR with me). I told her "I like your friends just fine, but I don't wa…
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