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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:40 AM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:15 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:45 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:50 AM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:19 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:58 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:13 AM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:24 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:45 PM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:48 PM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:21 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:12 PM
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FDS HUMORiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:31 PM
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LVM MYTHSiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:35 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:05 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:09 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:06 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:29 AM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:16 PM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:57 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:03 AM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:54 PM
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How-To High Valueiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:03 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:59 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:30 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:24 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:20 AM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:05 AM
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STAY WOKEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:18 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:43 PM
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FDS HUMORiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:27 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:19 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:18 PM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:22 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:22 AM
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FDS MEMESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:43 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:07 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:13 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:05 PM
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LIES MEN TELLiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:48 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:16 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:46 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:14 PM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:18 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:52 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:36 PM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:36 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:18 AM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:32 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:42 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:13 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:09 PM
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LIES MEN TELLiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:10 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:23 PM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:46 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:23 PM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:32 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:19 PM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:26 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:08 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:42 AM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:38 AM
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FDS HUMORiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:57 PM
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FDS MEMESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:03 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:40 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:26 PM
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SEX STRATEGYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:36 PM
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SCROTES MADiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:50 PM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:52 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:22 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:35 PM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:46 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:26 PM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:15 PM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:36 PM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:40 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:34 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:28 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:31 AM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:26 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:54 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:22 AM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:08 PM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:42 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:09 PM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:01 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:19 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:01 AM
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LIES MEN TELLiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:08 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:00 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:13 AM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:10 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:49 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:52 PM
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#JustLVMThingsiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:54 AM
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#KickHimOut2020iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:32 AM
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DISCUSSIONiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:56 PM
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FDS HUMORiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:29 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:22 PM
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LVM LOGICiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:19 PM
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NAH, SISiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:39 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:20 PM
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PICKME CULTUREiaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:15 PM
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REMINDER 👑iaintgonnacallyou/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:36 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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My ex used to yell at me and when I’d yell back, he’d blame his yelling on my yelling even though he did it first. I started feeling like a 2nd grader by saying “you started it” so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 05:05 AM
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I don’t believe that women can baby trap men. Men can either wear a condom or get a vasectomy. It’s their own fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:39 PM
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I just read a post full of comments saying that having a favorite pornstar isn’t a red flag. Tons of people agreeing that it’s normal and that “people have their favorites, it’s better than cheating”. No hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:08 AM
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Man what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:29 AM
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Jesus Christ the comments are vile. Telling her to sort out her drinking problem, telling her how she’s supposed to feel or what actually happened as if they know better than she did, “don’t ruin his life because you regret having sex”. Someone went as far as to say “everyone is talking about her but what about the guy? He was just as drunk!” Are you fucking kidding me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:09 PM
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I wish they would’ve went into this more. His storyline was basically forgotten by the middle of the season. He said in the season 2 finale that he used to have nightmares about his father raping him, all because he was exposed to violent sexual content as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:20 AM
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From how I’ve seen teenagers on TikTok talk about the show, it’s libfem propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:18 AM
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This is so important and not talked about enough on this sub. Should definitely be pinned. I’ve noticed some kicking while down comments on past posts looking for support, comments along the lines of “this is why vetting is so important”. Like cmon, read the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:08 AM
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Alexa, play He’s Mine by MoKenStef
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:03 AM
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How does Kim know he really wrote those posts? Because he posted a photo of himself ransom style and told everyone he wasn’t hacked, it was him making those posts. Or did he forget about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:48 AM
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Saying men experience postpartum depression is like saying men experience uterine cancer. It’s not possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:38 AM
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She also holds alot of libfem ideals though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:52 PM
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Also calling off work but going to pay for a hooker, then coming home claiming they sent everyone home early
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:50 AM
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I know how FDS feels about a certain mom sub here on Reddit, but I like that it’s strictly only moms. Mothers, also just women in general, need a space that’s not infiltrated with fathers giving their two cents on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:25 AM
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Straight out of The Handmaids Tale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:16 AM
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Sounds exactly like the last guy who ghosted me, to a T down to the texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:44 AM
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Too much detail in that first paragraph. Definitely fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:57 PM
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They think birth control is a good enough reason to go raw as if incurable STDs don’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:37 PM
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Same. Like a Kitchen Aid with all the attachments 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:17 AM
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feet (if you’re a degenerate) I’m sorry but that got me 😂 like ah yes, foot fetishes is where they draw the line. Objectifying and dehumanizing women isn’t what makes a man a degenerate, foot fetishes do lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:07 AM
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And I bet all the comments under that post were calling her a “Karen” aka a Bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:59 AM
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I’ve started saying “Congratulations” (along with something like “I’m so happy for you, I understand how difficult it must’ve been to leave, mentally and physically”) because it absolutely is something to congratulate. It’s incredibly hard and alot of women don’t survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:57 AM
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I honestly expected better of her. ASAP rocky has proven to be a shitty person time and time again. THIS is who she settles with? THIS is who she chose to be the father of her child? Highly disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:43 AM
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I’m so tired of this narrative that’s been pushed about sex work. Women who don’t have a choice aren’t calling this work. Libfems have successfully brainwashed young women into believing sex work is easy and without consequence because alot of it is being done virtually. “Sex work is work” is like saying “Rape is sex”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:18 PM
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It wasn’t a matter of “proving” myself to a teenager, more so trying to tell her that blocking is not a problem. Some context, it was under a video of a girl getting rude and disgusting messages from an ex fling, who she ended up responding to. I asked why she didn’t block him and WHY would she text back. Enter the teenager saying “queen shit is showing them you don’t care. Blocking means you care too much.” It got me thinking about how Gen Z views relationships. It quite literally is a competit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:36 AM
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I’m 24, so I’m very much elder Gen Z. Gen Z in general has an unhealthy view on relationships, sex, and communication. I have every right to point out the flaws in my generation same as anyone else does, especially considering how damaging this is to teenage girls. I opened a discussion about the boundaries they refuse to set because that would be viewed as “caring too much”. This is not a one off issue. This is a generational issue. You could’ve minded your own and scrolled past but here you ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:32 AM
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Right?! She’s been blowing up my notifications over it too, especially now that I’m not responding. The latest comment was “You can’t “limit access” to shit in life, you ain’t gonna be able to limit access to people in the workplace or place of study”. Like???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:19 PM
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I once heard someone say “for a generation that’s all about inclusivity, y’all sure are prejudiced.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:40 PM
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Yes yes yes! 16 year olds who are being raised on liberal feminism swear they know what they’re talking about when it comes to men, when they literally have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:37 PM
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So do I. It’s very easy to view people as profiles instead of actual human beings when you don’t know what life was like before smart phones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:36 PM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:40 PM
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Absolutely agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:40 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:27 PM
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I’ve only swiped right on 2 men on Hinge. I only date black men and there aren’t many black men in my area on Hinge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:05 AM
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“Unmatched 👌🏻👌🏻” then sends another paragraph lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:52 PM
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I only responded because I thought it was curiosity. Someone else I matched with asked me “I just have to ask… what kind of man is asking you to take walks as a date?” and proceeded to agree that a walk is not a date. I foolishly assumed this guy was asking the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:59 PM
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LMAO!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:05 PM
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Yup! I’m not gonna argue with some dude over my expectations. I already gave him too much of my time by even responding the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:03 PM
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On Hinge, I have a voice memo saying “My most controversial opinion is that walks are not dates. You shouldn’t be asking a woman you’re interested in to go for a walk with you.” This man asked why I feel this way. I responded “it’s low effort. If you’re interested in someone, you put effort into them. Plus, I’m not a dog.” This was his response. I’m so over my standards being challenged by scrotes who can’t meet the bare minimum requirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:28 PM
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To be quite honest, this is a terrible post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:23 AM
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Ah, the old “I’ll be in City from xx-xx, let’s get together!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:18 AM
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Elliot Birch in the show Big Mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:55 AM
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He tried embarrassing her and got mad when it didn’t work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:51 PM
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It does sound like it’s from the east coast. Maybe Philly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:22 PM
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Same here. I’ve definitely put myself back in the closet and honestly, I feel so much safer just not disclosing my sexuality. I’m tired of us being viewed as a hypersexual cheater that is down for threesomes and poly relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:10 PM
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There’s someone arguing with me, saying nothing about this says she’s a pick me. I was like babe, the fact that she made this video makes her a pick me regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:14 PM
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Definitely overcompensating for the lack of respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:25 PM
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“So you’re really not worried about your boyfriend looking at other girls boobs?” “Ummm, I’m looking too, to be honest.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:15 PM
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For a while, I kept seeing posts where women would be engaging with disrespect on dating apps, even going out of their way to message first to ask why he said whatever he said in his profile. If you choose to use OLD, don’t post about how you totally owned some rando with a thought out message that he isn’t even gonna read. We don’t encourage responding to abuse. Block and delete!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:01 PM
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Her disclaimer at the beginning “Please be nice.” She knows she shouldn’t be doing this for a grown ass man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:57 PM
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This is PEAK pick me behavior. You could imagine what the teenagers in the comments are saying. Apparently we have the term “pick me” all wrong and sexualizing other women with your porn sick boyfriend is NOT being a pick me because “it’s not throwing women under the bus, that’s what a pick me is.” 🙄 Idk about y’all, but I’m incredibly tired of high schoolers trying to tell me how women should accept any kind of behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:34 PM
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Gay men are just as misogynistic (if not more) as straight men. A conversation we need to have but nobody wants to talk about!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:35 AM
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Being a pick me does not justify abuse, no matter how brainwashed they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:33 AM
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The video of him antagonizing her while she’s feeding her daughter just to play victim is absolutely disgusting and triggered the hell out of me. ETA: The amount of women insinuating she deserves this is shameful. Being a pick me does NOT justify abuse. It might invite it but does not make it okay. Do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:31 AM
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Or manchild! AITA says it’s a slur 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:52 PM
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When they admit it, they’re “just being honest”. When we repeat it, we’re misandrists 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:53 PM
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12 comments, only 4 visible. Whew 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:52 PM
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Exactly. Even correcting people for using Karen incorrectly will result in you being called a Karen. Blatant misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 08:19 PM
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“Manchild” is apparently a slur to them. Yet the manchildren still post misogynistic crap with no repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:52 PM
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CLIPPING HIS TOENAILS?! I’d rather shoot myself in the face than ever touch a man’s foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:20 AM
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They are ANGRY! I got a RedditCareResources message, but it’s not the first time. They abuse that when they cant abuse us over PMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:05 AM
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He makes alot of great videos like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:43 PM
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I went on a date a few months back with this guy who was using photos from 3 years ago, at the very least. He had gained at least 100 lbs and wasnt even close to 6’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:04 AM
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Chris Watts is a perfect example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:59 PM
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”Anyone can claim abuse” Actually, no. They can’t. Plenty of states don’t recognize emotional abuse as abuse. Plenty of states punish women for taking their kids and leaving abusive relationships. Plenty of states view self defense as abuse. Unless you have documented proof, nobody is going to believe you. And even if you do have proof, you’re going to be chastised. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:07 AM
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You’re definitely gaslighting yourself. You will catch him lying about watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:18 AM
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Love how they show that abusers aren’t always mean and vicious. People act like abusers are always picking at you or beating you up and that’s not the case. The hot and cold is one reason why it’s hard to leave, you’re made out to feel as if “it isn’t that bad, he’s not like that all the time”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:14 PM
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Misandry doesn’t exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:10 PM
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Exactly what I thought too. A narc would never admit they were wrong or fucked up, they’d rather die for a lie than live for the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:05 PM
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The scrotes and pick mes are gonna love this 😂 “They’re admitting to hating men!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:58 PM
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This. Is. Horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:38 PM
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Like why do I, someone you want to date, need to know that you have friends you’re attracted to? That’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:09 PM
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Tryna triangulate from jump. They think it’s gonna make us chase them, “oh hes friends with women he would date if they gave him the time of day, let me show him how I’m so much more valuable than they are and why he should choose me instead!”, and it doesn’t. Immediate turn off, unmatch, unfollow, delete, block, forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:06 PM
42

My old apartment was like this too. The maintenance guy just walked in, no knocking. When I was pregnant with my oldest, I was dosing off on the couch and next thing I knew, my front door flew open and he walked in. Didn’t announce himself as maintenance, didn’t knock. After I had my oldest, he did it again, except this time I was in my bedroom pumping milk. He got cussed out that day and then chose not to fix anything in my apartment after that, claiming I refused to let him in. Like excuse me,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:01 AM
150

I’m willing to bet my entire house that she’s the one that left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:14 PM
29

Exactly, and it pits you against other girls and women in this invisible competition. I also used to get all giddy when boys would tell me I was “so chill” compared to other girls. I cringe. There was a 13 year old girl trending on TikTok because of how grown she looked, easily could’ve passed for 19. Women from all over were telling her that she doesn’t need to dress or act that way since she’s still a child, literally trying to protect her, but she made videos calling us jealous and that she l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:12 PM
418

So his standards are high yet he’s undesirable himself? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:52 AM
38

In my experience, it’s ALWAYS teenage girls that are saying that. Like honey, it’s not giving what you thought it was. You’re not cool or “not like other girls” because you convinced yourself that you like being harassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:49 AM
33

This is the #1 argument I’ve seen from sex workers and pickmes. They think it’s claiming their “power” back. If you have to rely on a man for your power, it isn’t real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:47 AM
36

An ugly LMFAO my favorite way to refer to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:58 AM
54

This is hilarious 😂 But yes, not responding is so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:56 AM
106

The girl he was sitting next to also had his phone. If you look close enough, you can see her hand it back to him when he puts his head down in fake surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:42 PM
6

And she’s defending him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:40 PM
19

Just one upping each other on how low maintenance they could be. At least they’re not as bad as the “I don’t believe in marriage, it’s a scam for men” pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:39 PM
116

He’s a walking noodle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:33 PM
18

Jada got tons of hate. Yeah there were people praising her for doing what men do, but the general consensus was that she was a shitty person. It’s pure hypocrisy. I highly doubt he’d be ripped into if the roles were reversed (especially considering their relationship, the whole “Jada still loves Tupac” thing, people pity Will). We see it all the time anyways and the men hardly get any backlash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:27 PM
10

Seriously!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:07 PM
29

My exact thoughts. Some people need to have something to complain about 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:03 PM
56

LMAOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:33 AM
29

I just saw this on my FYP. One of the comments said “me completely sober under no kind of anesthesia” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:52 PM
2

I actually don’t know one man who is friends with a woman he hasn’t slept with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:49 PM
30

When I was in 8th grade, we had an assembly about domestic violence. 3 people came to share their stories. One was a victim, one lost her sister and the other lost his daughter, who left behind a baby. They got a little graphic, but it was enough for me to remember. Teachers were crying, everyone was in a somber mood for the rest of the day. It was rough, but absolutely necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:56 AM
7

Chew-gee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:11 AM
23

They have a baby together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:09 PM
76

She’s wearing pajamas...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:21 AM
134

This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:35 AM
19

Yes, him cheating has nothing to do with her. You could give a man everything he wants and he would still cheat on you, we know this. But comforting him after he betrayed you? Speaking life into him after stepping out on you? The circus is missing a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:36 PM
61

He’ll also cry about paying child support, claiming his child’s mother is making him pay more than he should. Males don’t seem to grasp the fact that we don’t get to choose how much you pay in child support, the court decides that. But anything to demonize the mother of your child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:27 PM
135

Lil Duval is a well known misogynist. I’m never surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:44 PM
1195

At the end, you hear a male say “just for laughing at this, we’re going to hell.” Men will openly acknowledge what they’re saying is wrong, but won’t give a shit anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:41 AM
14

Proposing at a baby shower is so trashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:35 AM
34

My ex slept with some random girl 5 days after I ended things. We still live together. 5 days after that, he fucked a different girl in the house we currently share. On the couch my children sit on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:32 AM
4

“I haven’t been the same since my granny died” 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:26 AM
38

If a man ever pulled a gun on one of my boys, I don’t give a flying fuck if it’s a joke or not, I’m pressing charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:10 PM
278

Jesus Christ. She can’t even warn her daughters and their friends without losing custody. The children clearly don’t matter at all here. The judge has to be a “minor attracted person” aka PEDOPHILE as well because there’s no fucking way any sane person would allow this. This made me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:38 PM
70

This is just heartbreaking and plain ol pathetic. These poor women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:52 PM
113

Alot of her videos align with FDS. I’ve seen her posted on here a few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:57 PM
24

It’s still up for me too. I’m in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:31 PM
17

Took them long enough. There are literal porn and soft porn accounts I’ve reported that apparently don’t go against Instagrams TOS. Eta: their account is still up smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:30 PM
20

Right!! “56 year old man looking for roommate. Free rent as long as you sleep in the same bed as me. Women only. Preferably a college student. Reply to this with a picture and tell me about yourself.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:19 PM
66

Oh those ads are still alive, at least in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:25 PM
109

Sperm donor would absolutely continue to neglect his child if mom decided to clock out of parenting the way said sperm donor does. The child would starve. He’d sit in a soggy diaper all day and get a diaper rash. He’d be overtired because he missed the nap that no one put him down for. He’d turn into a tornado and get into a bunch of things because he’s bored and nobody is supervising him. If anything, sperm donor would tell OP that their child needs caring for instead of doing it himself. Sperm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:06 PM
14

They absolutely do assume most women have an OF. Any post on any social media platform made by an attractive woman is bombarded with “OF?? Whats your OF?? OF link??? You should make an OF!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:27 PM
11

Men love complaining about how women don’t care about men’s issues, then say this kind of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:22 PM
18

Recording a TikTok takes as long as it took you to type that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:54 AM
7

This is a PickMe Dance. Only insecure scrotes ask these kinds of questions and only pickmes answer them. Like why do I have to list off all my accomplishments to seem worthy of your time? Nah, blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:34 PM
4

This is what I was going to comment on. Even when you’re into it, it takes a little bit to get wet enough for penetration. This man has no experience, he’s just using women to masturbate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:05 PM
58

He wants kids, so he tries to permanently damage her uterus by ripping out her IUD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:43 PM
67

That kind of content was huge on vine. I never thought it was funny, but the biggest creators made videos making fun of women while dressed as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:22 PM
10

I believe that the proposal itself should be a surprise, not the idea of marrying your partner. You usually talk about marrying each other, then he plans the proposal. You go shopping for the wedding band after getting engaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:19 AM
106

Oh no! unfollows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:01 PM
17

I’ve seen beautiful private proposals. It absolutely can be done! One man hired a photographer to capture the moment while someone else recorded from farther away. Both looked totally natural, you wouldn’t have expected a proposal to happen! You could feel the love and excitement when his girlfriend turned around and saw him on one knee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:28 PM
46

I agree. Proposing after birth is the #1 worst one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:45 PM
3

It looks like Dose of Colors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:34 AM
28

I’m a mom of two boys and personally, I disagree. I will have failed as a mother if my children are anything like their abusive POS dad. I hate using this word, but they will be woke. I can’t speak for any other “boy moms” out there though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:41 AM
402

Here are a few comments under this post: “He got his step daddy license!” “So she doesn’t want a date with this thoughtful king?” “This is why I hate y’all, my dude wants to take you out AND found you a free sitter as well. And y’all just go and complain on Twitter” “This is lowkey wholesome” “Green flag! What’s his @? Asking for a friend” 🙄 They’re all blatantly ignoring the fact that this woman does not know this man, yet he wants her to leave her child with his mother, who could be a pedophil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:17 PM
25

A hit dog will holler 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:05 AM
177

While ranting about being the most accepting generation to exist 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:15 AM
395

I’m 23 as well and agree with you. There seems to be this secret competition of who can be the wokest. Social media makes it so easy, but throw in libfems preaching sex positivity to teens who don’t understand that “my body, my choice” does not apply to minors who want to illegally create OnlyFans accounts and you’ve got a huge demographic of teenagers who are unknowingly being groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:14 AM
29

Me neither. I started getting nauseous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:27 PM
12

He looks like he has asbestos on his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:23 PM
31

Uuugh the porn addicted brain comments. I’m so tired of seeing “sighs unzip” under literally every post. It’s not funny and it’s beyond creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:33 AM
53

I saw a TikTok a few months ago that said “life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself” and it completely changed my mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:45 PM
31

Just went through it. “As a woman” is rarely ever actually used by a real woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:35 PM
15

That part!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:21 PM
154

Whenever I hear a sex worker talk about how much she loves her job, I can’t help but think “who are you trying to convince, me or yourself?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:25 AM
2

That was a boy, not a man This is only ever used as a “loophole” to avoid accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:03 PM
8

This sounds like sugar baby propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:59 PM
178

It’s always either a child or their mom 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:08 AM
15

He’s even more sexy when you learn how amazing he treats the women in his life. HVM blueprint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:26 AM
15

This is terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:11 PM
12

Ignorance is bliss. It’s easier to play blind to the things you don’t like than it is to face them head on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:16 PM
33

For what? What is he bringing to the table? Dick is not good enough to do all this for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:16 PM
16

This was definitely written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:31 PM
81

And when you talked to him about it, he said “I don’t even do that!” And tries flipping it around on you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:54 PM
1

Hear, hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:34 AM
4

I think so. There have been times I couldn’t orgasm or it took me forever to because of the meds I was on, but the sex was still good. Not as good as it would’ve been had I orgasmed though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:38 PM
2

Yes that’s her username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:31 PM
68

I’d really like to see how daughters of prostitutes feel. I watched a documentary years ago called Whores’ Glory, it takes place in 3 different countries. In Bangladesh, daughters of prostitutes had no choice but to become prostitutes as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:20 PM
36

“I love independent women. By independent, I mean I move into her place and don’t pay any bills, she does all the housework and chores, never expects me to surprise her, and she comes running at my beck and call.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:11 PM
70

You never see this kind of shit aimed at men. Mothers are forced into putting our family’s needs before our wants. A mother who puts her oxygen mask on before helping her family with theirs is shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:59 PM
20

Agreed, but hookup culture and sex positivity is all the rage right now. They’re not pickmes for falling for a trash bag, it’s happened to the best of us. These kinds of men are pros at portraying a certain type of lifestyle. They’re pickmes for participating in hookup culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:47 PM
13

I don’t consider a manipulated woman a pickme. This is victim blaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:40 PM
67

In related news, water is wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:37 PM
5

It’s @chacherespice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:21 PM
44

Her response to “it’s probably cause of porn” is what got me. Ok curiosity whatever, but climaxing from anal penetration does not happen to women. He absolutely got the idea from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:52 PM
4

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:26 PM
23

People say she tried to slap him at the beginning of the clip. It doesn’t look like that at all, it looks like she’s trying to get out of his grasp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:09 AM
18

Oh it enraged me. It was also very invalidating because she was ready to give me antidepressants when I asked but reluctant about giving me anti anxieties or even discussing the OCD symptoms I’d been experiencing. She has access to my medical records, she can see what I’ve been diagnosed with. It was like my depression is the only thing worth treating because we all know how bad depression, especially postpartum depression cause you gotta care for that baby, can get. But anxiety? Take deep breat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:50 AM
65

Postpartum anxiety and OCD don’t get talked about enough either. At my prenatals, my doctors were constantly talking about my likelihood of developing postpartum depression because of my preexisting depression. I didn’t develop PPD, but I did develop PPA and PPOCD. I had no idea these even existed until I started doing research. I have anxiety as well so I thought this was just that. Then it got worse. First few times I brought it up to my doctor, she brushed it off with “having your heart outsi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:03 PM
65

Oooooh pregnancy eczema. I’ve had eczema my whole life but it was soooooooo bad when I was pregnant with my first, both of my hands were completely covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:58 PM
13

This is why I don’t disclose my sexual orientation. Men hear I’m bisexual and start asking about threesomes and assuming I’m open to polyamory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:51 PM
13

I was subscribed to him too and watched loads of his videos back to back to back. I’d only heard him mention his wife once, but the way he worded it sounded like past tense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:03 PM
144

A video of Quavo throwing Saweetie into an elevator went viral. In trash fashion, people don’t think it’s abusive for him to have strong armed her. “She hit him first!” “He didn’t even hit her like he should have.” “If that we’re me, she wouldn’t have gotten up.” “Saweetie is just as wrong as he is.” “We weren’t there so we don’t know the full story.” In the comments of this photo, people are saying this woman is childish for having ended a relationship over this, claiming it wasn’t that serious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:50 PM
83

This creator did a video on that one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:14 PM
83

This specific tiktoker definitely pays these girls to participate in their videos. His page is full of pickme behavior but anyone with eyeballs can see it’s staged for the views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:21 PM
55

Pregnancy is insane. I have 2 kids. My first pregnancy went pretty good, the labor was absolutely horrifying. My second pregnancy, lord I was in complete agony. Some days I couldn’t even walk, I was in so much pain to the point where I ended up being induced. That labor went exactly the way I wanted it to in terms of pain management and how long it took to actually get him out. My mom loved being pregnant. I don’t get it. The only fun part was finding out the gender and feeling the kicks. Other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:45 AM
115

I’m guessing men who wish they could do the same thing are awarding and upvoting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:18 AM
20

Apparently it’s a karma farming story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:16 AM
5

What kind of backwards ass thinking...??? This gave me whiplash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:10 AM
38

This is a clear cut case of “if he wanted to, he would”. I really feel for her. She needs to drop him like a hot potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:48 PM
6

Then I guess it’s good I ordered one 3 months ago That made ME smile! What an amazing surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:37 PM
22

Exactly. They like to use “not all men” so they can excuse themselves from the conversation, “well they’re not talking about me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:42 PM
16

She looks so out of it in the video. You can tell he no longer has her heart. I feel so embarrassed for her. Not to mention how he’s all dressed and ready to record but she’s wearing what looks like a bonnet and her glasses, like damn did you spring this on her last minute??? Maybe she’s comfortable just like that but it rubbed me the wrong way. At one point when his wife is talking, he straight up stares her down like “you better not stray off script.” It was very eerie and a few people called …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:42 AM
3

This 1000%!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:22 AM
15

Yesterday, he said they did not have sex and that him and his wife were separated at the time. Today in his video featuring his wife, he said there was sex and he brought other women into his marriage. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:15 AM
13

This reminded me of Promising Young Woman. Men would literally throw themselves onto the main character but once they realized she wasn’t as drunk as they thought, their whole tone changed to victim status and the gaslighting started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:02 AM
4

Know better? She’s not wrong. A woman who throws under women under the bus for “cool points” is a Pick Me. I’m not understanding why you’re being passive aggressive about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:44 AM
2

She’s been here a lot longer than 15 days, but shes the newbie? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:38 AM
68

I actually just read a pretty good article about this https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201005/foreplay-starts-7am It’s literally just common sense but gotta dumb it down for the males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:47 AM
22

Sharing the mental load!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:43 AM
23

A big problem with telling men this is that they’ll only do those things when they want some. They believe they should be rewarded for being a decent roommate. I’m not gonna fuck you just because you took out the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:43 AM
6

He’s nothing but a sperm donor yet swears he has some say in your child’s life 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:23 AM
3

A baby is forever. A man is only temporary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:21 AM
2

Jesus fucking Christ. How deranged!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:11 AM
4

I read this post as well and don’t believe the comments either. Of course it’s all men doubling down. If you get catfished, that’s on you. It’s 2021, there are tons of ways of figuring that out. But looking slightly different from your photos is not catfishing. But this is exactly what they’re getting at: if you don’t look exactly the same as this photo with great lighting and angles, you’re a catfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:41 PM
16

I looked it up, it’s The Challenge: Final Reckoning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:14 AM
72

Exactly!! He’s mad at her for doing the exact same thing he would’ve done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:48 PM
96

I wouldn’t let my guard down either. They may understand the threat of other men, but they’re still men too. My older brother is gay and has physically assaulted women, then bragged about “curb stomping a bitch”. I’ve witnessed gay men fight women then justify it using their sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:24 AM
12

I can relate all too well. It makes you feel like crawling out of your own skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:25 PM
15

WHEWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:23 PM
12

The men who complain about their dead bedrooms are the same men that emotionally abuse their wives but expect her to fuck him anyways because that’s what they’d do. Men could hate your guts and wish you dead, but would still have sex with you. A lot of these dead bedroom men do hate their wives but still demand her to touch their dicks, then place the blame on her when she refuses to be coerced. It’s almost like being treated like shit by your (not so) significant other severely affects your lib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:20 PM
60

I can’t stand how many women excuse his behavior by saying “Rihanna forgave him so y’all need to get over it.” First off all, no, I wont “get over” domestic violence. Second, Rihanna is NOT the only woman Christopher has brutalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:37 AM
45

Agreed. A few people in the comments called it out too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:56 AM
2

I thought she meant female abduction/ murder being rare as in women who are doing the abducting and murdering 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:01 PM
58

It’s somehow not misandry when men take steps to protect themselves from other men. Anybody can be anti feminist but only women can be misandrists apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:30 PM
33

This is the original!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:47 PM
3

Yup. They only stop watching porn because they’re scared their dick will stop working, if it hasn’t already. Not because they actually care about the abuse happening off and on screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:19 AM
281

Reading this made my stomach drop. How fucking evil of him. She will never forget those words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:11 AM
17

I was married to a woman who lied to me none stop. The fuck that gotta do with me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:05 PM
60

Quickest way to spot a pickme. “What if the roles were reversed?! Who’s thinking of the men??!” As if the roles haven’t already been reversed for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:33 PM
20

I hate to say this because it sounds like I’m tearing women down, but these kinds of women really hold us back. Imagine if pickmes didn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:40 PM
27

I’d rather shit my pants in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:01 PM
28

How often does anyone really even see a woman breastfeeding in public? It’s common, but it’s not like it’s inescapable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:09 AM
11

At this point, I don’t even think they know what incel means. We’re definitely not involuntarily celibate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:17 PM
27

Shameless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:56 PM
17

Oh you know it. Shes likely got loads of men in her inbox telling her what a cool girl she is for defending them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:14 PM
20

Not the libfems who are grooming teenage girls into accepting abuse masked as “sex positivity” and making sex work look fun despite ex sex workers publicly and loudly damning the sex industry. Not the libfems who bend over backwards for a male to call them cool, to the point where they throw their fellow woman under the bus, some have murdered another woman, in the name of Boy Points. Not the libfems who preach about porn being perfectly normal, and how dare you suppress your boyfriends sexual n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:10 PM
5

I once used the word “dumbass” in an Instagram comment, not even directing it toward anyone, and it was promptly removed with a “this goes against our Terms Of Use, blah blah bullying blah” notification. Yet there are thousands of literal porn accounts that apparently don’t go against their TOS 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:04 AM
8

You cannot keep a man who does not want to be kept. A kept man WILL BE KEPT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:43 AM
18

They create a narrative out of thin air and run with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:22 PM
13

Wesley Snipes beat Halle Berry so badly that he punctured one of her eardrums and she lost 80% of her hearing in it. I don’t think she ever named him, but everyone knows he did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:53 AM
1

Completely understandable! I’ve watched all four seasons and like the show, but it triggers me pretty hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:44 AM
5

The most simple case of “if he wanted to, he would.” The child doesn’t want to brush his teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:37 AM
7

It happened near the end of Season 2. That specific scene has since been removed from the show. ETA: It definitely left a lasting and noticeable effect on the character. We see him struggle and work to get better. He didn’t even tell Clay about it until the near end of Season 3, and then told Jessica a few episodes later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:24 AM
10

I was thinking the torture scene she was talking about was from Game Of Thrones. But there were loads of torture scenes in GoT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:22 AM
63

That’s what I was thinking while watching this. Like ok now you feel big and powerful, now what? You think she’s yours forever? What was the goal? Just to feel like a man? It’s just a deranged game I guess. Only narcissists do sick shit like this, and it’s no surprise that most men are narcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:07 PM
2

Bailey Sarian has a video about the case!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:18 PM
18

I’ve had literal teenagers argue with me about this. “You must not know what quality time is.” Uh, it’s literally in the name. It’s not quality time if you’re not even spending it together. Ignoring your girlfriend while you play a game is not quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:43 PM
20

I was watching a documentary a while ago, don’t remember what it’s called but it was about a county jail, and a woman came in. Said she’s there for domestic violence and she’s been there a few times. Her husband was a violent man and they frequently got physical. She’d fight back, call the cops, and because she also put hands on him (self defense, but it’s not like the cops care), she was arrested. Her husband wasn’t though. Her face was bright red, you could see the marks up her neck and arms. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:04 PM
30

I would CRY if a random woman went out of her way to make my life a little easier. This was so thoughtful. Absolutely the spirit of Valentines Day ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:59 AM
42

Right! It’s genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:41 PM
6

I get used for sex all the time, it’s no biggie. That’s... not the flex they think it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:31 PM
24

Somebody got a thesaurus for their birthday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:28 PM
26

Same here. All the times I’ve been cheated on, the other woman was fully aware of me. I’d always try to get information, they’d respond like “ask your man, he’s the one who’s supposed to be loyal to you” like girl you know damn well men lie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:52 PM
20

The idea that 'sex work' is easy money is totally fabricated by men who can't imagine being sexualized their entire life and bolstered by women trying to justify their choices to the rest of the world. PREACH 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:30 AM
10

While I agree with this, the tone and wording comes off as victim blaming and extremely unsupportive of the women who are in those situations. “You made your bed, now lie in it” is more often used than not. We must remember that society is not on our side and we literally live in a patriarchy. There are millions of women who believe things can be fixed in their shitty/abusive marriage, or believe they cannot ever leave. Every single one deserves support, this post seems to just be kicking someon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:18 PM
19

This makes me so sad 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:20 PM
10

I got that feeling too, but I read some of their comments and replies and it’s genuine! They made another TikTok account dedicated to making videos like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:48 PM
17

Let’s go out for an expensive Valentines dinner that you have to pay for because I forgot my wallet. How convenient. Am I supposed to be swooning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:01 PM
16

It’s @lalalashae7. She gives rich single auntie vibes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:26 PM
8

She should’ve just sat there and ate her food. Why would you even admit to this?? I’d rather suffer in silence than let everyone know I’m a clown😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:08 PM
72

This. They use “it’s empowering and for women to feel good about themselves” to hide behind the real reasoning: they’ll get loads of views by pandering to men. Nobody wants to admit who they’re really posting it for because, well, that’s just pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:21 PM
7

I can only imagine the comments from 15 year olds. “You wish that was you, huh?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:03 AM
146

I saw this last night and literally screamed. How shameless of him. He knew she’d see it, he just expected her not to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:02 AM
41

Probably didn’t even propose. I remember reading a story posted here a while ago of a man asking this girlfriend if she’d want to get married to him one day. She said yeah. He starts calling her his fiancée. Shes like “when did you propose to me?” He said “I asked if you’d want to marry me one day. That was me asking.” Like???? You skipped a bunch of steps there, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:49 PM
26

I have her trained well I nearly lost my lunch 🤢 ETA: i didn’t even read the whole thing. Just saw “I have her trained well”. VAG DAY??? Wtaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:45 PM
5

Flip it around to “normalize marrying to a woman who isn’t financially stable. You grow together. Don’t put pressure on women.” You’d be torn to shreds and called a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:52 PM
258

“I don’t want to play any mind games, I already wait hours in between responses even though I’m always on my phone, so what other mind games can I play to get this woman to give in and fuck me if she wants me to respond faster?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:55 PM
37

5’11 = he’s actually 5’6
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:21 AM
23

Scrotes and pickmeishas call this high maintenance 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:58 PM
11

Joined!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:12 AM
20

FDS mods work so hard, and we’re so appreciative!! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:03 AM
3

He definitely found somebody else he’s more interested in than her. That’s always the cause for a out of the blue breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:46 PM
33

Exactly. You know she’s already said something about it before, but these kinds of men have no self reflection and say shit like “no you don’t!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:41 PM
12

Super accurate 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:31 PM
16

Lysol?? In the vagina??!! I can only imagine the pain wtfff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:49 AM
20

Extremely well put! This is why I disagree when people say “this shouldn’t be on here, it’s too personal.” It’s evidence. And maybe, just maybe, another woman who experiences the same thing will realize that her partners very similar behavior is not okay or normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:27 PM
26

Instagram has vanish mode as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:52 PM
43

The girlfriend is just totally insecure and jealous! They’re just super close! 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:47 PM
597

The creator left a comment that said: “what I didn’t know then was he had a girlfriend 20yrs younger than me for 2 yrs 🤷‍♀️” Not even surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:31 PM
42

I was about to comment this. How disrespectful. He’d deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:53 AM
14

And the ones that attempt to argue down your boundaries are the same ones that don’t deserve access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:50 AM
3

The men who say shit like this are always guilty of doing it themselves. The projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:27 AM
50

They want women to repeat ourselves til we’re blue in the face and rely on the hope that maybe one day, it’ll get through his thick ass empty skull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:53 AM
6

I watched it on Soap2day.to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:50 AM
25

I despise when women are given the advice to create a chore chart. It’s blame shifting and continuing to pander to lazy “clueless” men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:45 AM
15

you are assuming women do these things to attract men. I enjoy being attractive, to attract men You’re doing the exact thing OP is talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:02 PM
7

And I bet he’s gaslighting the hell out of her for feeling this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:39 PM
40

Libfems are guilty of saying the same thing the man says. “Feminism is for everybody!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:44 AM
38

He wants a mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:42 AM
45

These women tell themselves they don’t owe anybody anything. “If he’s cheating, then you need to take that up with yOuR mAn. He’s the one that owes you loyalty, not me.” 🤮 Pick mes do this to avoid being accountability for their shitty morals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:40 AM
111

I verified he’s not trying to use me as an excuse to break up. Verified how? By asking him? Miss lady, men lie. Why would he be honest about that anyway when he’s already shown you the kind of man he is? He’s just trying to get some 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:36 AM
9

Period. If he wanted to, he would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:28 AM
23

My exact thoughts when I was reading this. Sex advice is always aimed at what women should do if they want to have an orgasm. Is it not a two party activity? Why is it on women to fix?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:27 AM
8

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:14 AM
12

They think it’s playful banter, but I see it as negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:14 AM
43

Facts! They pride themselves on the fact that a woman is “running from the dick”. Stop it. You’re hitting her cervix and it fucking hurts but sure, use the pain you’re causing her to get kudos points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:10 AM
105

The way males are so invested in other male’s sex lives is so incredibly gay to me. There’s no convincing me otherwise. Like why are you thinking about what that other guy does with his dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:08 AM
22

They wanna be interesting so badly yet they’re blander than cardboard. And the main group I always see talking about “living that kink life” are teenagers. They’re trying to out woke each other. But hey, don’t say anything because don’t you have a job to go to or something, old lady? Stay outta children’s business. 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:01 AM
56

He doesn’t even deserve the can of ravioli
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:55 AM
42

I hate when they straight up lie to their partner’s face and then get upset with her when she doesn’t believe what he says. They throw toddler sized temper tantrums!! “You really gon believe your own eyes over me?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:53 AM
16

He’s environmentally friendly! We love a woke bae!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:29 AM
5

It sounds like he didn’t lie about it, he just didn’t tell you about it. That’s called LYING by omission 🤦🏻‍♀️They’re so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:23 AM
65

Yet whenever we say this, the pick mes respond with “it shouldn’t be sexualized period!” Then turn around and show their butthole to the world for $5.99.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:17 AM
6

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:42 AM
53

I grew up witnessing domestic violence between my mom and my dad. There’s so many things I don’t remember because of all of the trauma. I have PTSD and men screaming triggers me really hard. Doesn’t even have to be a man yelling at me, just a man yelling is enough. It’s terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:23 AM
360

I’m dying at the image of him texting you “let yourself in” then setting up his sad music and curling up on the floor just for you to find him like “Oh... hey... ☹️” LMFAOOO 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:08 AM
55

They’re scared of being mugged. We’re scared of being kidnapped, raped, and murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:01 PM
8

It’s a voiceover
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:52 PM
10

Oh bless her little pick me heart. The lights aren’t on and nobody is home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:39 PM
3

“BuT wHaT aBoUt LeSbIaNs” would be the counter argument as means to derail the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:36 PM
10

The site b-ok.org has LOADS of ebooks. Every book on the FDS reading list is on there. I get all of my PDFs from there & read them through the Adobe Acrobat app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:31 PM
5

My freshman year of high school, I had a teacher that would single me out. He despised me and I had no clue why. One day, I was wearing a skirt that was slightly above my knees. He looked me up and down and told me my skirt was way too short, that he could easily look at my butt. Everyone in the class starts saying “why are you looking at her like that? Her skirt isn’t even short. You’re a pervert. That’s disgusting.” He called security to escort me to the office for dress code. The office woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:23 AM
6

They do it to argue down and get you to lower your standards. If they explain enough, they think they can get you to completely change your mindset. It’s so entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:16 AM
5

You know what they say, don’t let the wife get in the way of finding your husband 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:54 AM
3

Big yikes 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:45 AM
134

As Adriana Lima said, “It's flattering knowing men desire me. But then I remember a man would also have sex with a McChicken. So I don't let it get to my head.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:44 PM
8

I HATE when people say “have you tried playing with him? Finding a game you’d enjoy together?” Distracted time is not quality time and you do not reward negative behavior with positive reinforcement. This forces you into the position of being the bad guy because “you played with me before, now all the sudden you don’t want me playing?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:52 PM
30

I’m worried that she thinks it’s not that big of a deal because of how normalized kinks and BDSM are now. So many young women convince themselves that being hurt during sex is okay because it’s literally being shoved in their faces that you must be a sex positive feminist kinkmeisha or you’re not woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:32 PM
101

It’s hilarious honestly. Everytime I see that emoji, I think 🙂 internal screaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:18 PM
92

I shared this on Facebook and said “wtf this is peak lazy” and a handful of women I’m friends with (only on FB) commented “lol I’d do the same thing/well he did what she asked him to do/I don’t see the problem here haha”, as If it’s cute to have an incompetent partner because iD dO tHe SaMe ThInG 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:13 PM
23

YOUR UGLY COUSIN 😭😭😭 Way too accurate lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:49 AM
6

Practice makes “perfect”, but to error is human. I tell myself this when I feel like I’m not being strict (for lack of better words) enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:39 AM
9

This is a GREAT comparison!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:56 AM
37

That sub is full of abusive men complaining that their wives won’t fuck them anymore. How could you fuck, be intimate, or show affection toward someone that disrespects and hurts you? Your body will recoil at their touch. But “she just needs to get over it and fuck me before I threaten to cheat on her”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:38 PM
12

He was supposed to get his tire replaced the week before and decided not to do it so he had an “legit” excuse, knowing damn well he just didn’t wanna drive me. He couldn’t even stay for the birth (COVID limitations), all he had to do was drop me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:26 AM
21

Too similar. My ex didn’t want to drive me to the hospital when I was getting induced and I had no other way of getting there, couldn’t even call an Uber or take the bus, so I had to call an ambulance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:55 PM
27

There were multiple comments defending him under threads of this video, enough for her to make a response video to them, but they were mainly about it pOsSiBlY being an Uber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:53 PM
660

And of course people are defending the man, even going far enough to say “it could’ve been an Uber”. Since when do Uber drivers make their passengers get gas?! There couldn’t possibly be any other explanation other than that “man” being a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:05 PM
2

He’ll purposely trigger her more and more until she dies if she stays with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:11 PM
3

I watched it on Soap2day.to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:08 PM
1

I watched (pirated lol) this movie last night too. Absolutely amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:07 PM
16

“And in about 3 years, holla at me, Miley Cyrus” Mack Maine “Every Girl In The World” Miley was 15 when this song was recorded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:50 PM
1

It’s available on soap2day. I just finished watching it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:11 AM
23

You could accidentally bump into a man and he’d use that as an excuse to punch you in the back of the head while screaming “SELF DEFENSE!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:57 PM
11

She was a pick me queen. She lived and breathed for male validation. The same week this incident happened, she set me up to get beat up by one of her friends. I found out about her being a sugar baby to our best friend’s dad about a month later. He told me all the dirt about her and her sister. They were (probably still are) on some Clermont Twins shit. Me and that best friend had a falling out a few months later but to this day, I’ve always wanted to tell her about it anonymously, but I know sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:20 AM
26

Right? Umm 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:39 AM
5

Not just hard liquor, but good old beer because that’s what MEN like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:35 AM
3

I’m a horrible person to watch movies with because I talk shit about the movie the entire time. My whole family does the same thing 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:34 AM
37

There’s a trend on TikTok right now, “show a pic of you in January then show a pic of you in December”. I just saw one where a young woman went from being a prospective nurse to a stripper. Not to pay for medical school, but because she’s “selling her look”. She literally said stripping is all about selling your look. Anybody who commented stating that she’s romanticizing sex work got cursed out and called pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:27 AM
6

We don’t applaud fish for swimming, so why should men be treated any less? It’s so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:19 AM
88

I enjoy vanilla sex. Sorry not sorry. At least I don’t need to be ball gagged and slapped across the face til I’m crying just to fake an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:15 AM
17

I am INSPIRED!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:12 AM
42

They perceive Russian women as powerful (ie Svetlana from Shameless) because I guess Russian women take no shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:12 AM
25

There was a time my senior year in high school, my friends and I were drinking in one of their garages. Our friend group was an equal amount of guys and girls. We’re all pretty drunk and a girl I thought I was friends with slapped the shit out of me out of nowhere. She laughed and laughed. I nervously laughed because what the fuck just happened? She did it again and our other friend restrained her and took her out of the room. I quickly realized she was a pick me and did it for the guys attentio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:43 AM
11

My ex would say the same thing. He would just contact them, ask for their rates and ask to meet up because hE wAs CuRiOuS but he never fucked any of them. Yeah, ight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:42 PM
57

I wish I could’ve had a dad like this. It would’ve saved me alot of heartache and stress. This is such an important lesson for young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:00 AM
29

Seriously. For a while, I really beat myself up over it. I was a stupid teenager and I totally degraded myself by allowing it. A few years later and I’m at peace with it. You live and you learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:30 AM
28

I lost mine in a park bathroom 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:09 AM
9

R*tard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:06 AM
12

LMFAOO I didn’t even notice that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:44 AM
8

Preach. They love screaming “99% SuRvIvAl RaTe”, as if MILLIONS won’t still die globally. The epitome of selfish. I hope none of them procreate, but sadly there are alot of pickmeishas who parrot the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:04 AM
10

This!!! I’ve unfriended so many people, mainly men, who’ve come up with conspiracies that the government is putting trackers in us/experimenting on black folks (ie the Tuskegee experiment) via the COVID vaccine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:46 AM
2

We need FDS merch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:41 AM
5

Not that they would ever do anything dishonest According to her knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:40 AM
7

I remember going into a chat room when I was 11 and someone requested a private chat with me. That chat turned very sexual very fast. I was uncomfortable and I didn’t know what to do, so I went along with it. I thought I’d somehow get in trouble if I didn’t. My mom caught me and beat my ass, calling me a fast ass little hoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:32 AM
48

This is the “I ain’t ever seen two pretty best friends, always one of em gotta be ugly” scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:27 AM
39

I don’t compliment men because then they’ll never leave me alone and will think I’m interested in them because I complimented them. Like? Correlation???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:25 AM
1

Am I having a stroke or is that a really an article???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:17 AM
125

Exactly. He was an accessory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:07 AM
43

I was about to say this. He knows damn well this was inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:06 AM
48

“Take a fucking hint R Kelly” When I say I SCREAMED 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:04 AM
78

That part made my jaw drop. All of this was disgusting but that line really took the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:02 AM
96

Lmfao I’ve also been told I must be mistaken about my height. I’ve been the same 65 inches since 12 years old, I’m pretty sure I’m not mistaken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:02 AM
177

I genuinely believed male and female heights were recorded differently like BMIs 😭 I’m 5’5 and you say you’re 5’9, yet we’re the same height? One of us is lying and it ain’t me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:56 AM
15

“I’m loyal”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:32 PM
38

Either this is actually a man or she’s seriously trying to convince herself she likes this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:26 AM
4

My thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:36 PM
20

I believe they broke up a while ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:10 PM
3

NOBODY IS BETTER THAN ANYBODY. I’m definitely better than low value, cheating, narcissistic, porn sick, spiteful walking scrotums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:28 AM
11

The scrotes brigading her don’t care that she was abused. If anything, they’re going to go harder at her for opening up about this. Men hate the victims of abuse more than they hate the abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:16 AM
6

Shit, he doesnt even need to have a conversation with her. If he thinks she’s pretty, no other guy is allowed to match with her. I’m sick 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:59 PM
24

It bugs me more than I’d like to admit. LVM act like giving your significant other (emphasis on significant) a gift to show you love and care for them is materialistic. Symbolism doesn’t exist either, apparently. It’s materialistic to want a ring after a few years together, but it’s not materialistic if he gets you a ring “because it’d look good on you”. The hypocrisy is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:49 PM
114

The comments are all saying “He looks so sad! Apologize to him! You hurt his feelings! Get HIM a promise ring!” One male even went low enough to say “promise rings don’t matter, neither do engagement or marriage rings. you don’t need a ring to prove your loyalty or love”. Someone replied to him saying “And then there’s people like you. If you didn’t get a ring, just say that.” He responded “I got my girl a ring. Try again” so I asked “Why’d you get your girl a ring if rings don’t matter? 🤔 Accor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:03 PM
2

As if so many women don’t still end up single mothers. Marriage won’t change that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:36 PM
5

Lol that reminds me of that post on at the top of the sub yesterday: “why won’t women fuck me after I buy myself a plate of spaghetti in their presence”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:24 AM
3

“But letting a man do anything for you isn’t very feminist!” This is exactly what girls responding to the OP comment were saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:32 PM
24

I caved and downloaded it in October and honestly, I love it. I really like the algorithm, it’s pretty consistent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:38 PM
5

I commented “That’s a very “I’m not like other girls, pick me” thing to say” She responded “Lmao idgaf if I get picked or not. I don’t see the big deal in a man opening a door for you? I said what I said” Bless her heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:49 PM
14

This exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:03 PM
134

Yeah I was like sis that isn’t the flex you think it is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:03 PM
94

One comment: “Your worth gotta be pretty non existent if u need someone to open ur damn door for u” Young women are trying so hard to out woke each other and be the coolest girl that the bar for young men doesn’t even exist. They don’t care if their boyfriend cheats on them or if he’s into violent porn because “as long as he’s happy”. I really am worried for teenage girls these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:42 PM
8

I wonder if there’s a sub for men over 6 ft, because these scrotes would be throwing tantrums for it to be banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:04 AM
11

Oh god. I’m dry heaving. This is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:30 PM
225

I just checked it out too. One guy excused child porn by saying “pornhub never profited off of it”. That’s their excuse now, Pornhub never profited off child pornography or rape. But that guy isn’t pornsick, he only jerks his dick every night before going to bed because it helps him sleep! And he says the government would sue pornhub if there actually was illegal content! 🙄 They feel so entitled, it’s enraging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:33 PM
27

“Kinkshaming isn’t okay, but it’s okay to shame people who are into vanilla sex.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:11 AM
31

It’s sick how youre considered the weirdo for not wanting to watch people have sex. Also, talking about what gets you going and talking about jerking your dick with your homeboys seems very, very gay. Apparently watching porn with your friends/tagging them in porn on Twitter is super normal for younger men??? Like, are these men actually attracted to women? Because it’s not adding up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:05 AM
4

Completely agree. I have a tshirt with the Cool Girl monologue (the book one, not the movie one). Its too amazing. I just went back to check and it’s from a guided mediation course 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:27 AM
41

It is very important to have your feelings validated, but that’s where a therapist or good friends come in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:07 AM
74

What helped me when I was tempted is to write hand written letter addressed to that person. Every single time I got the temptation, I’d write a letter. Burn them or keep them to read back on, I just had to get those feelings out. It helped so incredibly much. I had a notebook specifically for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:01 AM
12

He needs some milk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:12 AM
11

Good catch!! I’m obsessed with that movie (don’t even get me started on the book!) and didn’t notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:12 AM
1

I’ve been seeing the last one shared all over my Facebook feed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:41 PM
11

I practice witchcraft and went on that sub yesterday. First post I see is “how can I incorporate BDSM into my craft?” I instantly closed the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:12 PM
12

I’m SO glad you brought this up!! It’s really not talked about. My ex would complain alot over my lack of affection toward him. When any little piece of affection I showed would be taken as an invitation for sex, I stopped being affectionate, even when I’d explicitly say “I just want to cuddle.” I shouldn’t have to give a disclaimer. He’d say “it’s not like that but ok” and catch an attitude, then claim he doesn’t have an attitude (classic gaslighting and attempts at coercion). How was it not li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:46 PM
177

In 2018, I was a 36DD. This year, I measure out to a 36K. I’ve had 2 kids (born in 2018 & 2020) so they’ve exploded in size. Everytime I’d talk about how badly I want a reduction, my children’s father (thankfully an ex now!!) would say “no you can’t do that. I love them too much.” Dude, fuck you and your pornsick dick. I do not exist for your pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:08 AM
14

Exactlyyyy. She called me petty for saying “as long as you got picked”. Like sis please, where is your dignity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:18 AM
11

She’s dead serious. Girls are saying this is what they experience too but they’re totally fine with it and she replies with solidarity. Uch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:31 AM
31

Oh but she’s so cool! She’s totally fine with no commitment. Like, having kids together is okay but marriage is too permanent. Also he can bang whoever he wants as long as he comes home to her every night. She’s such a cool girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:47 AM
124

I replied to a girl who said “when your love language is quality time and you also do your own thing” with “Quality time? He’s not even spending time with you”. She responded “just bc we aren’t doing the same activity together does not mean we aren’t spending time with each other. we talk while doing our own thing. just as long as we’re happy in each other’s presence why does it matter.” My reply back was “as long as you got picked, I guess”. Bless her heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:01 PM
71

Seriously. I just saw a comment where a girl tagged her boyfriend and said “can this be us” and he replied “any day of the week”. Of course he’d say that 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:52 PM
212

“When your love language is quality time” THIS IS NOT QUALITY TIME! HES NOT EVEN SPENDING TIME WITH YOU!! There are soooo many girls in the comments saying they’re okay with this and “as long as he’s happy”. I’m literally nauseous. This is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:47 PM
9

Yeah it’s a “normal” stoner gift. I smoke but I think it’s weird too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:39 PM
7

It’s a rolling tray for weed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:52 PM
6

Pack Lite by Queen Naija
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:03 AM
143

There are soooo many men in the comments of her video saying this is childish. But luckily, loads of women are saying that a woman can break up with a man for ANY REASON and it’ll still be valid, that this was most likely the straw that broke the camels back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:58 AM
1

Has anyone else seen the movie “Lars and The Real Girl” starring Ryan Gosling? That’s movie is literally this guy’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:21 AM
9

This is a fuckboy tactic. All you’ve done is swap roles. Please reread the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:58 PM
26

How about “but you do it so much better than me”? 🙄 Practice, motherfucker. It’s called practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:23 AM
8

Exactly, they just start talking in circles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:14 AM
38

“No no it’s okay because she’s a consenting adult pReTeNdInG to be a child who can’t consent!” “Ever heard of roleplaying.” “Kinkshaming isn’t ok” 🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:22 PM
6

I like to say that forgiveness is a crock of shit, I’ve earned my anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:19 PM
19

I saw a few comments on TheShadeRoom saying “you have an Olympic star for a girlfriend, tf you need a PS5 for?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:16 PM
7

She posted this right before her boyfriend was outed for paying a pornstar for sex. And it’s not the first time he’s been publicly outed for cheating on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:14 PM
1

I was hoping someone here would comment this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:51 AM
9

And you told no lies!! I guess it’s only funny and cute when you’re ignorant. Ignorance is bliss after all 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:19 PM
23

I come across this kind of shit on TikTok all the time and it irritates me. I don’t bother commenting though because i don’t want to be bombarded by a bunch of 15 year olds who think they have the whole world figured out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:16 PM
6

Pickmes agree too! It’s such an invasion of privacy to confirm your suspicions, no one should ever go through anyone else’s things. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for 30 years, have kids and own a house together, snooping is wRoNg. What if he was gonna buy you a present and you ruined your own surprise?! /s I think they try harder to convince themselves of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:13 PM
21

The women don’t want to talk about it because it might compromise their money. The men don’t want to talk about it for obvious reasons. They just justify it with “they’re gonna find it somewhere! May as well make it easy for them.” or “obviously his girl isn’t doing what she should be, he wouldn’t be looking elsewhere if she was.” Or with “stop trying to control what your partner does, you don’t own them.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:34 PM
22

In high school, my group of friends tried to shame me for not cleaning up this guys house after the party. He literally sat in there while they cleaned. They called me rude and disrespectful. I was invited as a guest, not as the help. No, none of them got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:09 AM
24

I absolutely love the idea of dating yourself! I struggle with self care so I think this is a great way to take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:21 PM
3

I think I had a stroke trying to read his comment 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:29 PM
4

Right. You’d tell him the city you live in and he’d say “aw damn”, then go ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:51 PM
1

Right?! My mom was such a clean freak while I was growing up, but it gave me standards for my cleanliness. I like things to be clean the way I clean, anything less than that means it’s still dirty 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:48 AM
15

I recently rewatched a movie called Beyond The Lights. I was obsessed with this movie when it came out (I was like 18). There’s this part where they’re in Mexico and the main character tells the love interest that her life was on pause and she needs to get back to work, they both do. He gets all mad and says “I give it a week. You’ll be back in a weave, singing about sucking dick.” Then throws the bracelet she got him in the ocean. They end up together at the end of the movie anyways. When I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:24 AM
12

I was thinking this same thing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:17 AM
140

The comment section is a mess. There are men clapping for this, saying they’d do the same for a woman they’re into. Women who are confused on why men feel the need to neg other men for treating their love interest well. But the pick mes and LVM really came out for this one. They’re so angry! One pick me commented that she’d never allow her boyfriend to drive that much back to back but that she’d have no problem doing it herself 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:13 AM
4

I’d 100% recommend a home birth if you decide to have kids. I would’ve definitely had a home birth if it weren’t illegal in my state!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:30 AM
25

Oh I didn’t cut her off because my trauma. My last straw with her was when her current boyfriend was arrested for putting his hands on my kid brother. She bailed him out of jail then had the nerve to ask me to take my brother on the weekends so her boyfriend’s visitation with his kids wouldn’t be compromised. I filed a CPS report when I learned they weren’t breaking up like she originally claimed. My family just couldn’t believe I’d file a CPS report on my own mother. Thank you so much ❤️ It’s h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:25 AM
22

I’m so sorry you had a shitty experience! Your team can really make or break it. I had a horrible team while delivering my first. My epidural stopped working, and they ended up using the vacuum. I kept telling them I could feel everything and they ignored me. They kept telling me to stop pushing when I needed to and to push when I didn’t need to. There were at least 9 doctors in the room, I don’t know how many nurses. Then when it came time to stitch me up and I said I could feel the needle, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:47 AM
20

Thank you! Sometimes I think about reaching out because there are times I just need my mom, yakno? I have kids of my own and I can’t imagine putting them through the shit she’s put me through. My boys seriously keep me grounded in my decision to be no contact. What sucks is that after I cut her off, my family cut me off. That hurts but it is what it is, they don’t deserve to be in mine or my children’s lives anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:33 AM
112

Uuuuugh “I was trying to see how little effort I could put in.” This guy asked me if I wanted to go to a dog park with him and his dog. I said I don’t do parks or walks (and I don’t even like dogs) He said “Oh alright. I was trying to be a gentleman and come up with something but whatever.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:21 AM
88

It drives them absolutely NUTS!! There was a guy I was briefly talking to. He seemed amazing, but was a little too pushy about meeting. Like he wanted to meet that same day. I told him I don’t do last minute plans and if he wants to see me, he needs to take me on a date. He was literally trying to jump through hoops. I don’t respond to texts from men between 9pm-9am. I always have Do Not Disturb on, so I only respond when I find the time. This man was messaging me frequently, as soon as I’d resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:04 AM
98

It’s so disgusting. When I was 17, my mom found out her husband was paying for hookers, one of them even went to my school. During an argument once, she yelled at him “are you gonna try to fuck my daughter next?!” She didn’t leave him though. They’d still be together if he hadn’t left her He came into my life at 14 and left my life at 19. Within those 5 years, he damaged me greatly and my mom sat by and allowed it to happen. I don’t speak to her anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:29 PM
3

I only half agree with #6. I don’t like the word simp. You’re a simp for treating a woman with respect? For treating a woman like a human being? Men trying to shame other men into treating women badly the way they do. But “let men love people and express their love”??? The only ones preventing men from doing that is men. Everything in her post is about men vs men. This isn’t women’s problem at all. I hope she gets picked. Women like this really hold us back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:09 PM
17

This. Abuse and assault would skyrocket. Men already feel entitled to us, imagine if we just acted like they didn’t exist? Hordes of angry men would take it out on any woman around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:01 PM
23

Why do men and libfems compare watching people have sex to actual art? Porn is not an art form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:57 PM
31

“WeRe TaKiNg BaCk OuR pOwEr!!1!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:52 PM
4

I’m screaming 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:51 PM
39

It’s such bullshit. She shouldn’t have to say “no gaming the entire time we’re in the hospital.” She shouldn’t have to physically remove a gaming console from their hospital bags. How fucking selfish. Males act like they don’t understand, yet are able to properly communicate a mission to their buddies through the mic. Lying ass scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:50 PM
83

Labor and delivery nurses are cut throat. Im willing to bet that a nurse told him he needs to focus on his child’s mother but he just didn’t give a fuck, and I have no doubts that everyone knew about the deadbeat in Room 6.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:44 PM
5

Larissa was such a great character. She refused to even share a house with her fiancé after they’d get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:33 PM
37

I saw a tweet where a woman asked “why do guys stop liking your photos when y’all get together?” And a man responded “cause we only do it for your attention” Another woman responded “so why you like that bitch pictures then?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:55 AM
12

He’s lying. They don’t do this for fun, he does it because he likes to argue and feel like a smart big boy for picking out every flaw in her hypothetical plans. I know it’s different for everyone but I have CPTSD and discussing hypotheticals makes me incredibly anxious to the point where I sometimes have anxiety attacks depending on what the topic was. I wouldn’t do this for fun knowing it triggers me and I doubt anyone else would either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:11 AM
2

I’m so fucking confused. You can tell this never even happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:03 AM
3

Ew. She thinks it’s cute when she knows damn well she was in that same position once. I will have failed as a mother if either of my sons treat women like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:02 AM
4

Prostitutes that say they enjoy their job are trying to convince themselves more than they’re trying to convince me and you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:58 AM
32

Shiddd, so many of them give it up after going on a walk “date”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:55 AM
30

I watched a documentary on YouTube called Hookers At The Point and the women were charging less than $20 for “going around the world” (if I remember correctly. That’s what they called giving oral and the coochie) So many of them just took whatever the man had. One woman let some dude fuck her for $5. The documentary came out about 24 years ago. Brent Owens has a few documentaries where he follows and interviews prostitutes throughout a few years, you can really see the damage the streets do to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:53 AM
10

Or they bring up “daddy issues”! As usual, blaming women for the actions of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:43 AM
3

Definitely a cool girl thing. They’re so not like the other girls, they can tAkE a JoKe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:41 AM
111

Im not sure. I personally know 3 women who could’ve written this word for word. One of them has been having an affair with a married man for over a decade, has 2 kids by him and is currently pregnant with their third. She proudly talks just like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:38 AM
30

This woman has so much bad karma coming her way. This is absolutely disgusting. Typical pickmeisha libfem bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:36 AM
24

Wait, THAT was Joe Rogan?! Wow. It’s been years since I’ve seen fear factor. Ive know him as that asshole Scrotes love jerking off because “he says what everyone else is scared to”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:10 AM
16

RIGHT. “TaKe A jOkE, kArEn” like nah sis go ahead and dance for crumbs, you were proud of it before you got called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:45 PM
195

I think it’s so disgusting when women brag about a taken man sliding in their dms. “He’s supposed to be the loyal one, not me.” As if morals mean nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:44 PM
42

When I was about 5, my mom once told me there were alligators in port-a-potties to get me to hurry up. Almost 20 years later and I’m still terrified of an alligator in an outhouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:16 PM
54

Oh god. That’s sad. Why would you embarrass yourself like that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:13 PM
1

There wasn’t a better fitting tag. What should I have tagged it as then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:17 PM
1

Exactly. It isn’t hard, so what’s the excuse? There isn’t one. That’s my point. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:24 PM
0

My whole point is “if he wanted to, he would.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:23 PM
3

I don’t know of one single man who would do something like this. Men where I’m from call this “doing the most” when something as little as this could put a smile on their partner’s face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:14 PM
-4

This is on Instagram, not TikTok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:07 AM
1

I wish. She also made that “it means he values you over a game” comment on the second slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:18 PM
75

Lmaoo! 99.9% of the comments are saying “you’re judging yet you don’t have a Chanel bag” like uhhhh, yeah I’m not materialistic and I’m sure as hell not gonna let some old dude fuck me for a purse so of course I’m judging. A bunch of teenagers brainwashed into thinking this is empowering. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:41 PM
2

I’m dry heaving 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:45 AM
49

“Get that bread, get that head, then leave”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:37 AM
36

LMFAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:37 AM
1

SUPER AGREE!! Ive made this mistake and now preach it to women who ask when they should share their sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:35 AM
11

Right. If he sold the PS5 he bought, that’s an entirely different story. But he sold the gift his girlfriend bought for him. Broke male activities 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:33 AM
7

I kept going back and forth with myself, should I comment or keep it to myself? I just had to say something. It’s aggravating to see women accept next to nothing and claim they’re being treated well! Calling it out means you get bombarded with “but that’s what makes her happy, it’s not your life, mInD yOuR bUsInEsS” pick mes but I’m alright with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:35 AM
18

Someone else commented “is that going toward the ring or is that the price of the ring? Regardless, I’m pissed”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:31 AM
30

“I sold this $500 game console you bought for me to buy you a ring, and you’re mad? You’re so ungrateful!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:30 AM
10

I was contemplating on commenting but I couldn’t resist. I guarantee I’ll have angry pick mes in my notifications
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:57 AM
6

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:00 PM
3

Yeah from reading the comments, I think it’s a preference thing. I was raised to put the food in Tupperware and wash the pans out instead of putting the whole thing in there. I thought everyone did that 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:53 PM
3

It means put the food up in the fridge lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:59 PM
13

Lol thank you! I was inspired by my favorite song, Ain’t Gonna Call by Yellow House
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:34 PM
1

The hell is a grown ass man doing making macaroni art to show his love?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:49 PM
14

How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:45 PM
13

100%. It’s just pandering to men and their fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:43 PM
8

Posing like hes doing chores knowing damn well shes the one who cleaned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:36 PM
14

I’ve been seeing this everywhere’s since it’s irritating me more and more. You cleaned the house you live in, and want a $400+ game console as a reward? We don’t applaud fish for swimming. You already know he doesn’t pull his own weight and this was a one time thing. They want positive reinforcement for negative behavior. He’s going right back to his usual ways since he got a present for doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:32 PM
18

This child’s parents are doing an excellent job!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:36 AM
3

I recently read something about “apology languages” and actually laughed out loud. It’s all an excuse for men to use to say they “dIdNt KnOw” and “I apologized, it’s not my fault your apology language is different”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:06 PM
6

“He WoUlD nEvEr HuRt Me LiKe ThAt” You don’t know he’ll do it until he does. Thats why it’s important to protect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:57 PM
169

“You’ll be single forever with that attitude!” And what about it? Being single is better than putting up with some douche canoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:14 AM
2

The song is used for a challenge where women show off their back arch they do during doggy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:48 PM
5

Saying “women aren’t objects” then actively objectifying yourself is hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:12 PM
8

They’re objectifying themselves. That is the point. Women don’t show off their arch for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:42 PM
11

The whole point of the challenge is to show off the arch they’d give during doggy. That’s not objectifying? Okaaaaaaaay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:20 PM
2

Right. Him and his brother just so happen to have the same hairstyle, have the same taste in clothes, and drive the same Tesla? Nay nay. That’s Kenneth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:04 PM
8

AGREED!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:36 PM
11

I really do think it’s for the male gaze and validation. Those videos get tons of engagement and likes, and these women know it. It is not empowering if our power lies in the hands of men. (I don’t consider “I take nudes/videos for free, may as well get paid for it” to be women’s empowerment like these new age “sex work is real work” activists are pushing down our throats). To me, it gives the same energy of women pushing their Onlyfans accounts (and alot of these women link their accounts in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:35 PM
6

I agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:13 PM
4

AND THEY DONT EVEN LOOK ALIKE!! They’re fraternal twins, not identical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:14 PM
5

This isnt even the first time he got caught publicly. The first time, they made a loooong video and she hardly let him speak the entire time, making sure their story stayed straight. I’m sure they’re only still together for the money, but De’arra could make SO MUCH MORE on her own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:25 PM
5

“Why do we always talk about what I’m doing wrong? Let’s talk about what YOU do!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:14 AM
12

I saw this on Instagram and commented “he’s just being polite. Y’all are sick” and SO MANY MALES responded “nah he knows what he’s doing/that’s what he wants you to think/my mans tryna slide up in that”. I responded with a general statement to all of them that said “No. this is a child. Y’all are disgusting” and of course, they retorted with “you’re so sensitive/take a joke/it’s not that serious.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:13 PM
3

They’re oatmeal creme pies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:54 PM
2

RIGHT! He looks like my toddler after he got caught in the fridge again 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:34 PM
71

It’s also ironic that he used oatmeal creme pies, considering we are entire snacks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:29 PM
394

So many scrotes in the comments are just dogging on women but luckily they’re all being called out. The rest of the comments are women posting their tiger stripes and talking about how proud they are to have created life. I’m so exhausted. Like geez, don’t y’all get tired of hating women, or pretending to hate women thinking that’ll help you get laid somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:05 PM
5

I was actually just talking about I read a theory about how the forbidden fruit was actually having sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:40 AM
12

I’m so interested in what her dresses look like. He says she dresses like Ms Frizzle and I LOVED Ms Frizzle’s clothes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:19 PM
2

I. Am. Furious. Absolutely speechless. The fucking audacity!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:16 PM
2

Men will fuck anything warm. Its absolutely not flattering and women everywhere should be treating it as an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:38 PM
33

This. I also feel this way about make up sex. Having sex and rugsweeping instead of talking about the issue like grown ass adults? Complete turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:57 AM
62

The idea of maintenance sex makes me nauseous. I don’t see much of a difference between forcing yourself to have sex because your man wants to and coercion. You’re coercing yourself instead of him coercing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:50 AM
12

I wanted to make a post about this so badly but you worded it way better than I could have!! Men don’t want to talk about how their attitude and treatment toward us affects our libido because they can’t imagine not being willing to fuck anything warm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:46 AM
10

It boils my blood when a LVM purposely tries to put you in a bad mood but when you finally have had enough and snap, suddenly it’s “wow, you have no reason to be mad. You’re overreacting/dramatic/argumentative/a bitch/uptight. You started all of this over nothing.” I could rip a man in half with all the anger those lines provide me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:00 AM
7

Uuuuuugh. “I only said that to hurt you”. still doesn’t apologize. Gets into another fight and says the same thing again. “I only said that to hurt you”. But don’t you dare say they don’t care about you, they were only mad! Can’t you see by all the halfassed effort and disrespect that they’re trying. I hate that word. Trying. There is no trying in a relationship, either you DO or you DONT. Sorry this turned into a rant. That “I only said that to hurt you” line enrages me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:56 PM
48

Same here. My mom would punish me for the most mundane things then tell me to get over it and stop pouting 10 minutes later. I wasn’t allowed to be upset and work through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:19 PM
2

Lmao sorry I got it mixed up. It’s Greatest Of All Time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:17 PM
2

It means Greatest Of Them All
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:09 PM
108

I see these kinds of posts shared on my Facebook constantly and take the time to comment how it’s pickme behavior. The woman who shares it always either deletes it or unfriends me 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:12 PM
5

I highly doubt victims care that much for arguing about semantics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:10 PM
1

I didn’t even see that!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:28 AM
31

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:08 AM
70

I was thinking exactly this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:44 AM
8

Does this fall under “home cooked dinner dates”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:42 AM
3

Is she?! She sounds like a madam from this post 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:38 AM
65

I’ve seen numerous posts on here where people will admit to swapping the genders of popular posts and seeing the difference in advice, most typically on AITA. Guess which gender is always called the asshole regardless of who was wrong? Men want to be oppressed so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:26 AM
30

This is Pick Me bait. Men always make posts like this as an attempt to get women to prove themselves, and it always works. I hate those kinds of posts so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:22 AM
44

“But he’s ChAnGeD! Rihanna forgave him, everyone else needs to get over it already! It’s been 11 years!” One woman actually called me a pick me for noting that he’s abused numerous women YEARS AFTER he abused Rihanna, so obviously he hasn’t changed. I’m a pick me for refusing to support a man who has a history of abusing women, but one of his victims forgave him so we should forget everything else? The projection is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:00 PM
23

“Someone fetch this child, he’s lost” LMAO 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:36 AM
24

This. My boobs are huge and heavy, they need support so it doesn’t hurt my back as much. Also not wearing a bra makes me extremely uncomfortable and I hate when my nipples brush against things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:18 AM
110

I don’t need a man, but I definitely need a bra. These babies cause too much pain to be let roam free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:15 AM
9

And this is why it irritates me when women say “it’s not your life, why do you care?” I care because you’re reinforcing the idea that men can treat women like shit! It’s alot bigger than just them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:41 PM
34

“A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:36 PM
7

As if a woman is going to accuse her man of cheating out of nowhere. WE ALWAYS KNOW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:30 PM
78

Or they completely ignore it and send “wyd tho”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:25 PM
15

“Stop making him so mad then.” - My mother, a domestic violence survivor, said to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:24 PM
20

“We talk about this all the time, how many more times do we need to?!” They avoid the conversation, get irritated when you say you need to talk, try to police the entire conversation, then get mad when the conversation has gone on for a too long. And it’s always less than a 30 minute talk, they’d just prefer if you had no needs. Uuuuuuuugh. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:19 PM
15

Everytime I’ve seen someone say that it’s inappropriate, a horde of teens hop on them and parrot the same thing “the fact that you think it’s inappropriate means you’re part of the problem.” Just yesterday I saw a TikTok of a 1 year old girl in shorts and a crop top and comments that were saying “this isn’t okay, stop dressing children like grown women” got beyond bashed with the same responses, “if you think it’s inappropriate then you’re part of the problem. Stop sexualizing children!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:00 PM
2

I loved the movie when it first came out, but then again I was only 14. I rewatched it recently and it aggravated me to my core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:19 PM
10

That’s so scary. The fact that our fears are brushed off because “he doesn’t give me, a man, those vibes” pisses me off so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:14 PM
30

More like women are raised to be people pleasers and cannot complain because we’re then called selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:37 PM
56

play FIFA with your girlfriend and stream together. That’s like giving a dog a treat after it shits on your carpet. He will then say “We do spend time together! We play video games!” And she will sound like the bad guy. That isn’t compromising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:12 PM
70

“There’s no need for me to come over if you’re livestreaming, like me watching you while you’re live-streaming, that’s stupid.” “It’s still cool while you’re there with me.” “It’s cool for you but not for me.” “But I’m bored.” He blatantly told her he doesn’t care about what she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:03 PM
6

This exactly. I once responded to an Instagram comment I was mentioned in and the scrote who’s thread it was started accusing me of arguing with him. I ignored him and continued the conversation with the person who mentioned me. He got so mad that I wasn’t feeding into his attempts to piss me off that he made multiple posts about me and tagged my account in his bio with “clown of the week” (which solidified the fact that he was a troll). I reported him, removed the tags so they wouldn’t show on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:56 PM
52

“Whoever catches feelings first loses.” LVM are pro athletes at that game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:48 PM
12

100% he doesn’t even believe the shit he’s saying. This is a front. “I thought we were just friends” nah, he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Im positive that this woman has attempted to DTR (thanks Awkward.) and he shut down the conversation. Men always know. And if they say they didn’t know, they absolutely did know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:44 PM
16

How did you get my texts?! I’ve sent this exact message before. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:14 PM
14

I don’t think she can be considered a pick me when she was coerced into having sex. She’s being abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:10 PM
38

She would be CRUCIFIED for leaving and men would manage to squeeze in a gold digger comment in there somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:28 AM
102

First person who popped into my head was Carlton from Love Is Blind. A perfect picture of a self hating closeted black man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:10 AM
29

What in the Kentucky fried hell... it be ya own race. Black men are so incredibly misogynistic but are the first ones to cry about “injustices” done to them by women. The projection chile the projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:09 AM
181

Ayesha Curry literally minds her business but everytime she posts a photo, the scrotes and pickmeishas come out the woodwork to put her down. This woman has a HVM who ADORES HER. They hate to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:51 PM
5

On my Facebook and Twitter, I see alot of men condemning Onlyfans, saying it’s just another form of prostitution and that it’s become trendy. And every pickme who responds says “Y’all are just mad that you actually have to pay for it now” and links their Onlyfans account. Any women who say it’s trendy prostitution gets called insecure and a “pickme”. The projection is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:54 AM
0

100%. I’d even say calling it depression is stretching. It’s the realization that they can no longer be selfish and do whatever the hell they want whenever they want (and the real shitty ones will continue on like nothing has changed), so it hurts their feelings. It’s a blow to their giant egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:31 AM
7

I had a friend who said the exact same thing. The mental gymnastics are insane!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:19 AM
2

Super agree. I was actually thinking about censoring that part out before posting the screenshot because I don’t like it either. It gives me the same feeling as when people say “uterus owners”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:06 AM
1

This. I’m still upset about R/GenderCritical getting shut down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:01 PM
11

I’ve seen so many women defending Onlyfans by saying it’s safer because women aren’t being forced into it. I’m pretty sure you can force someone into doing Onlyfans the same way you can force someone into doing porn. Same water, same bucket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:20 PM
44

And of course, nearly every comment is the same iteration of “How about teach our kids, male or female, to be respectful!” Thankfully, people are calling all of them out by responding with “the playing field is already uneven. Acting like it’s not isn’t doing you any favors.” 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:10 PM
3

Reading this actually pissed me off because it’s so fucking accurate!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:04 PM
18

There’s something called “The Walkaway Wife”, which is men victimizing themselves into believing that their wives just up and left without an explanation. Yes, because she never told you to step it up and help out around the house, never tried to have a heart to heart about how unappreciated she feels, never told you how she feels like a bangmaid. https://mustbethistalltoride.com/2016/01/14/she-divorced-me-because-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink/ They know what they’re doing. They just hope you’ll put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:02 PM
4

“He got me toilet paper! I’m so in love! I’ve never been gifted toilet paper before, it’s so thoughtful because he knows I use it everyday!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:55 PM
9

It’s absolutely disgusting and enraging. I witnessed domestic violence between my parents for the first 12 years of my life. The only times they weren’t fighting was when my dad was in jail or prison. I have C-PTSD and men yelling triggers me. But somehow, it’s on me to coddle a man to prevent angry outbursts if I don’t want to be triggered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:52 PM
24

“She just up and left without overexplaining! FeMaLeS are horrible at communicating.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:47 PM
6

What are we supposed to say? “Thank you so much for complimenting me!! Can I please suck your dick?” ??!?! I am confusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:41 PM
18

I was hoping someone else commented this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:36 PM
25

I watched a documentary on YouTube called Hookers At The Point a few years ago and one of the women talks about how many times she’s been raped, and one incident in specific when she was stabbed. One woman talked about how she was 9 months pregnant still working the corner and went right back to work the day after she gave birth. I doubt any of the women interviewed would say they were empowered and proud of their job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:16 PM
16

I thought so too, but I checked out their accounts and they’re both teenage girls with their onlyfans links in their bios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:41 PM
18

And I bet she told everyone he was slut shaming her 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:38 PM
22

Exactly. I wouldn’t even be able to feel sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:13 PM
50

I’m so over the narrative that you’re insecure if you don’t support sex work. It’s become another trend “I already send my nudes for free, may as well get paid for it”. I remember when becoming a sex worker was a last resort, not the first one. These women are lying to themselves about how empowered they felt busting it open on Live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:59 PM
9

Sex worker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:46 PM
36

“Don’t do it if it’s only for the money” What other reasons are there for being a sex worker???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:46 PM
71

I found this comment thread on an Instagram post how sex work is incredibly empowering and that every woman should do it at least once. The OP is a TEENAGER and the two women encouraging her to become a sex worker are also teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:44 PM
1

You can tell a man exactly what the problem is and he’ll still act like he didn’t know what you meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:20 PM
9

As damn. I can’t stand Neyo, I can’t even listen to his music anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:26 AM
23

Irreplaceable is THE JAMMM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:56 AM
76

It’s really just her music I’ve noticed. I don’t know if it’s because she knows it sells or if she’s genuinely a pick me, but I’m leaning toward the latter since she did make an entire album about how her husband cheated on her and she stayed with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:20 PM
135

I know it’s unpopular, but I really can’t listen to alot of her music because of the pickme antics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:08 PM
368

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Can’t turn a hoe into a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:06 PM
18

“You said your name was Jessica but I stalked you and found out your real name. Nice try.” What the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:57 PM
22

In my house, the rule is I cook, you clean, and vice versa. I’m not bout to stand in a hot kitchen cooking for hours AND have to wash the dishes! And if that’s a problem, no home cooked meals for you. You can watch me eat 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:47 PM
20

Doing laundry is the easiest household chore. If he won’t even do laundry, you know he doesn’t do shit around the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:43 PM
97

And you can tell he cheats on her with that “I wish she lived somewhere else” comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:31 PM
22

And the fact that libfems will call you an insecure pickme for not wanting to hear about how fat some chicks ass was at the corner store. They love mixing disrespect with bAsIC hUmAn BeHaViOr, “your partner is allowed to find other people attractive, that’s why I let my boyfriend degrade me and cheat right in my face, because I’m such a cool girl.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:40 PM
33

My oven caught on fire from this same thing, except it was from the previous tenets and apparently I didn’t clean the oven out well enough 🤦🏻‍♀️ It was terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:35 AM
10

I didn’t even notice that! Wow. People come on the internet just to lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:38 PM
7

You can get glass plates, silverware, and cups at the dollar store!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:33 PM
7

I’m so tired of seeing comments that respond to “Don’t hit women” with “How about don’t hit ANYBODY???!! Equal rights means equal lefts, anybody can get slapped.” It makes me dry heave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:46 PM
11

Comments are claiming this is racist because its a Nigerian thing while Nigerians in the comments are saying it’s not a Nigerian thing, it’s an incorrect grammar thing. Regardless, nearly every comment says the same iteration of “y’all gone pass up on a soul mate being so worried about proper spelling.” I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:30 PM
2

I keep seeing posts that say “Child support is for absent fathers, not failed relationships.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:29 AM
3

More like Darcey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:21 PM
2

Unless she explicitly says the words “I’m open for sex”, she is not open for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:10 PM
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