If he wanted to, HE WOULD

advice1988 · 2021-02-06T20:08:13+00:00

My sister’s husband puts her clothes on the radiator, so she has warm loungewear to put on when she gets home from teaching , starts their dinner and pours them glasses of wine so they can talk about her day while he cooks. Makes her a coffee to have in bed every morning despite the fact he can start his workday whenever he wants. Knows she hates anything involving water & chemicals when cleaning so he cleans the bathroom and kitchen and does the floors. The most I’ve seen her do is hoover the one carpet they have in the living room and water plants ?! Texts her what she wants to eat while she’s at work and sometimes drives to her work so he can take her to lunch if she doesn’t have marking to do. When she got her wisdom teeth out he took 2 weeks off “everyone heals differently’ work so he could look after her. They’ve been together for 5 years, he works in finance and has been working from home before the pandemic. Despite making a lot more money than her, he has never expect to be babied by her to make up for it. His mother is a true dime piece for raising her two sons to be full humans who don’t fear housework or showing attention and concern for their partners. it's no honeymoon phase. If he wanted to he would!

Now I know and have witnessed human males are capable of being considerate and nurturing.....I cannot in my right mind settle.

TheSuspiciousChard · 2021-02-06T23:05:17+00:00

Everyday I’m turning a bit more gay

LevelTurbulent · 2021-02-06T21:51:32+00:00

I slept in this morning and woke up to my boyfriend scrubbing my microwave. Something my ex husband never did in 20 years of marriage. My boyfriend is not a cat person but he's cleaned their box and will get up earlier in the morning and feed them if they cry for food while I sleep. He's cleaned my kitchen more in the past three months than my ex husband ever did in 20 years of marriage. And this is my kitchen and my cats, not his.

And he's a gorgeous man with a fantastic build that other women snatch my phone from me and go "Oh my God!" when I show them a picture of him. Friends have asked him if he's a bodybuilder upon meeting him and he just gets embarrassed and says no, I'm just built like this. There's no good reason to tolerate lazy men.

Sensitive-Shoe-1079 · 2021-02-06T21:53:06+00:00

Their laughs are contagious

Pahapan · 2021-02-07T03:20:50+00:00

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ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-02-06T20:35:19+00:00

Oh my god, I’m dying laughing. 😂

Sarcastic3 · 2021-02-06T21:40:40+00:00

Omg I love it😍 it's so nice to see smart women.they are absolutely right, if he wanted to he would.

forgivemefashion · 2021-02-07T05:00:18+00:00

My bf and I started dating a month before Covid, he lives in NJ I’m in Miami (so both huge hot spots) we’ve only been able to see each other three times in the last year. He FaceTime me every morning at 7am before my WFH shifts start (even on his days off, even on the weekends). First time we flew to see each other after 6 months of quarantine and uncertainty (about the relationship and the world) he lit up candles all over the house our first night together, then the next day we were talking and I cheapishly told him I didn’t know how to wash my white sneakers so I’ve just been wearing them dirty. Well the night before I left he did both our laundries, folded them and snuck out my sneakers, washed them and put a fan on them overnight so they were clean and dry before my flight. Oh and we wasn’t raised by his mom, he was raised by his dad! So no excuses there, IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!!!

leethevaultdweller · 2021-02-06T19:51:30+00:00

Two queens.

onceuponasea · 2021-02-06T20:45:46+00:00

Omg I love them

fdsftw · 2021-02-06T22:55:59+00:00

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2021-02-06T21:42:32+00:00

funny ladies!

iaintgonnacallyou · 2021-02-07T15:44:22+00:00

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Twolipz_78 · 2021-02-07T04:11:37+00:00

Consistently and genuinely!!

the_twilight_drone · 2021-02-08T16:08:52+00:00

I love this!

relationship_reddit · 2021-02-08T16:16:40+00:00

I love them.

Title	If he wanted to, HE WOULD
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	496
Comments	34
Date	February 6, 2021 7:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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