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[–]AuroraAustralxsFDS Newbie314 points315 points316 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Imagine being proud that your husband opted to pick virtual coochie over you. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH151 points152 points153 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And then telling the internet!
[–]bpoloanaFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This has Ben Shapiro being proud that his wife says having a wap is a medical condition vibes
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
when women's orgasm was called "paroxism" and automatically had them committed to asylums for "hysteria"...
[–]bluebird_wingsFDS Newbie267 points268 points269 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He's clearly trying to progress forward on a different path of his choosing and she's like "Hey alcoholic, it's ok to keep drinking."
What an absolutely clueless and classless move on her part.
[–]suckmypussy143FDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly he’s doing something great that most men wouldn’t even bother trying, I highkey feel bad that someone is trying to make him regress (and a woman of all people)
[–]Fun_SherbetFDS Apprentice189 points190 points191 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm a Christian woman but realistic, so my husband can do whatever the fuck he wants and I'll submit 😊 😊 😊
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple73 points74 points75 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ZeeZee has the lowest self esteem I’ve ever seen.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple174 points175 points176 points 5 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
Pornography is not natural. Also, pornography doesn't stop infidelity
[–]AimiHanibalFDS Newbie90 points91 points92 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If nothing else, it further encourages it, right?
[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah. The Coolidge effect. They will seek out more women because their sex drive became artificially high.
[–]Then_Advertising_773FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And then erection problems begin and they usually blame the woman
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. I think the majority of women are bothered by their significant other watching pornography. But society brainwashed women into thinking that men watching pornography is normal, healthy, and natural. Also, so many women try to rationalize this by saying, "At least he's not with another woman." But porn doesn't stop men from cheating.
[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lots of men have admitted that porn is what encouraged them to cheat. Just like pedophiles have admitted porn is what encouraged them to assault children. At the end of the day its on them, but this is why men who watch porn are always low value and cannot be trusted around women/children.
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True, it encourages infidelity, just go over to forums where men talk about porn addiction, they talk about this themselves, saying their porn use cause them to be unsatisfied with their partner and sex life and caused them to seek out the new and novelty. I've read some accounts where men admit their porn use destroyed their relationship or marriage but the women had no idea it was all because of his porn use, but the men admit they know for a fact it was their porn use they ruined things.
[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup and I’ve read the flip side. They quit porn, it improved their relationship and they realized their spouse is hot af. They definitely know.
[–]Delicious_Comfort000FDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
IT IS INFIDELITY!! I’m surprised she claims to be a Christian while being okay with it as a whole. I’m not religious at all, but I thought that was one of the major sins?
[–]Alarming-Midnight-73Throwaway Account3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It absolutely is. Even pleasuring yourself is technically a sin because those acts are supposed to be done with your spouse. I "get" that these sorts of addiction is challenging and common in men, but that's no excuse to encourage it.
[–]Delicious_Comfort000FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw the tweet’s responses and some are even arguing that it’s not a sin 🤡 sorry Pickmeishas, I don’t know how much Christianity has changed since I left, but as far as I remember lust and adultery ARE sins, the former being a deadly sin, and the latter going against one of the Ten Commandments. So, huge sins. I can’t believe this has to be explained.
[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice124 points125 points126 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“If my husband can’t orgasm at a moment’s notice, he’ll haaaave to sleep with other women.”
Embarrassing for her.
[–]RabidWenchFDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also, a weird flex to admit that he's never given her an orgasm.
[–]glittersparklesglitzFDS Newbie69 points70 points71 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤡🤡🤡
[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple68 points69 points70 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex is a natural thing, masturbatating is a natural thing but porn is not natural and it's dehumanising. Porn is not pro-sex it's anti-sex and more about hate and control of women, than sex. And I'm definitely not religious or conservative.
[–]souredskittlesFDS Disciple45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Proof that pickmes perpetuate low valueness in order to feel better about their own life. Admitting the poster has a problem is admitting her husband is shit.
[–]Snoo16620FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly
[–]Spiritual_FaceFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“not always available” - so we have to be always available or else they’ll cheat or watch porn? ew, no thanks!!
[–]biggestsighFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think maybe she doesn't know what being Christian is supposed to mean...because vices now and then is really supposed to be antithetical to that.
I wonder at the entitlement this woman feels to tell someone who is literally asking for prayer to consistently stay away from porn "I DoN't THinK tHeRe's ANytHINg WroNG WitH IT" Who cares what you think this dude is clearly saying he has a problem.
It's like telling someone who says they have a problem with alcohol. "I don't get it, I like to drink and it's fine". Well no one is talking about you.
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s so disrespectful to say to someone who is trying to better himself
[–]ima35yearoldwhitemanFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
right!!! I thought I was the only one who picked up on that
[–]weekend111FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A vice is jumping straight to rendering without doing character concepts first. As another Christian woman, I’m ashamed of this pickmeisha.
[–]skyerippaFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She openly admitted hes addicted and shes proud of this???
[–]perkypancakesFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe she trying to downplay the seriousness of his addiction because he’s not willing to seek help or change. Either way it’s gross that she’s enabling her husband’s addiction and telling a person struggling with recovery it’s not really that bad. Having an addiction to something is never good.
[–]YouKnowHowIBeFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s what really bothers me about this. She labels it as an addiction. She doesn’t say, “my husband watches porn sometimes and I think it’s fine!” Nope. She says he’s addicted and it’s fine. No addiction is fine. Addiction implies a problem. (Not that I think occasional porn use is fine either, but her wording really got to me)
[–]pozzalovahFDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she just said addicted, addiction ain't good.
[–]CarpedictumFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Porn is natural. Porn is ok because we all need [immoral or wicked things] now and then.”
Somebody get this woman a damned dictionary.
[–]Diamond_fairyFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
...and her opinion was requested exactly when? 🤡
She couldn't mind her own business: since she's miserable, better be proud of it and normalize it, just to drag in misery someone else.
She can keep her own NVM for herself, I highly doubt that there's any line of women trying to get him.
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Notice how Christian men don't follow bible but women are suppose to be submissive. How convenient these bible versus are never brought up to men.
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,"
He is committing adultery by their bible standards.
'You shall not commit adultery;' 28 but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a. woman to lust after her has committed. adultery with her already in his heart."
"Do not love the world, nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever."
"Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death."
"The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense; He who would destroy himself does it."
Its sin to death grip penis to porn. Supporting husband committing what her bible says is adultery is against the word of God. I'm not saying be Christian. So sick of their hypocrisy. Men have certain guides they have to follow. Christian women need to throw these in man face like they do to them about submitting.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They also ignore that the Bible’s curse for original sin in Genesis includes women wanting a husband ... and a husband “ruling over” a wife.
Imagine hearing that your spouse wanting you is a curse and the way you relate to her is a curse too. On par with pain in childbirth.
I think God has men’s number.
[–]iaintgonnacallyouFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She should’ve just sat there and ate her food. Why would you even admit to this?? I’d rather suffer in silence than let everyone know I’m a clown😭
[–]Imaginary_Bed_2572FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The audacity and disrespect of this woman. She would also tell an alcoholic that he can keep drinking.....I don't want to even think about how she and other comments like hers could affect this man who wants to better himself. Toxic masculinity everywhere
[–]onceuponaseaFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh girl you are coping by minimizing the Damaging impact his porn use has on your relationship.
I see this all the time. People have no idea when they are coping. It’s so sad.
[–]catsorbetFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
idiot
[–]light_workerx3FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ohhhh just shut uppp!!! These women need to stop . Please just stop. My ex PA was so out of control . It's not fair to condone this BS!! I'm so fed up .
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd rather be single than be married to a man who masturbates to other women.
[–]midwesternwindsFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lady whatever church you're going to is not a Christian one. Porn is so very anti-everything biblical. She worships having a husband more than Jesus (who actually valued women greatly) and has no love for herself. I hope she gets out before he cheats on her or hurts one of their kids. I'm sure her husband gaslit her into thinking husband = head of the home and therefore anything he does is godly by default. It's twisted.
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh sister, pls find FDS and dump that fucker 😤
[–]dzgataFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uhh Christianity literally forbids this, damn she only follow the convenient and misogynistic rules in religion huh
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean.... my vice is too many coffees.
His vice is watching trafficked trauma victims have painful sex they don’t actually want with people they don’t find attractive for cash to pay their subsistence -level bills and/or support their substance addiction.
Potato, poh-tah-toe. We all have vices. Even us Christians. Jesus made those women, but he’s a guy- he’ll understand.
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[–]miiju86FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's "realistic". Sounds more like she has given up and surrendered. Gaslighting herself to be able to live somehow with that.
Just take a look what kind of porn these men are watching - and you know it all. This us what they really think and feel about us women.
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