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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:37 AM
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Red Pill Examplekez88/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:33 AM
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Off Topickez88/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:49 AM
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Field Reportkez88/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:40 AM
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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 05:22 AM
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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 11:26 PM
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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 12:22 AM
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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:39 AM
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Red Pill Theorykez88/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 04:45 AM
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Field Reportkez88/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:11 AM
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kez88/r/MensRights27/09/13 03:42 AM
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kez88/r/seduction21/03/13 04:24 AM
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Field Reportkez88/r/seduction15/04/13 11:35 AM
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kez88/r/seduction29/05/13 02:45 AM
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kez88/r/seduction11/03/13 01:05 AM
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kez88/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:17 AM
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kez88/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:39 AM
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Field Reportkez88/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:39 AM
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What the fuck are you doing spending 2 years of your salary on a girl that sounds like you never saw. Hopefully this is a lesson for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 08:46 AM
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Stop worrying about alpha/beta bullshit, you sound like a douche trying to describe everyone as either alpha or beta. You probably failed for a few reasons; when you got the other chicks number and the blonde caught you and gives you a shit test you probably failed it by saying 'maybe'. Agree and amplify or lie about how you know her so there's plausible deniability. If multiple girls are saying they don't trust you then you either need to build more rapport, respond better to the 'I don't trust…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 09:34 PM
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Fuck it, do it. If you're young then it's probably not going to affect your career if it goes south. Depending on what country you live in you may want to tell your HR department ahead of time. But honestly in my experience, if you don't fuck her over and are a decent dude even if it ends it'll probably be fine. Too many reddit nerds spend all day lurking here and will tell you she'll call rape, that like 99.99% never happens.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 06:24 AM
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She was probably testing you to see if you'd hit on her after she said she was into you, knowing you were now seeing someone. As others have said, if you think there is a vibe there and the girl is attracted, just lean in and try to kiss her. If she pulls back, just brush it off. You'd be surprised how often girls will go along with you escalating sexually if they're into you. Just say come back to my place for xyz reason, and you'd be surprised how many actually do. Obviously if you meet any re…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 01:40 PM
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rofl good one. What the fuck you doing replying to comments from a month old thread?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/22 11:51 PM
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Learning how to have relationships in a red-pilled world can be a difficult thing. The problem a lot of newer guys generally have is they think they have to act one way with girls they don't like and another way with girls they do, which is your current problem. Nothing says you can't lead, ignore her responses, fuck other women, talk to her less etc etc and also like her and start to fall in love with her at the same time. Red pill isn't about being single and fucking women forever, it's about …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 01:03 PM
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Omg totally, you got me.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 04:14 PM
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Racists can get laid sure, but it portrays that he's probably a shitty person and this is all his side of the story. He's an AFC who is sour he can't get any pussy from the hot girls so he goes on a rant about how he's better than everyone and why it's everyone elses fault but his. No different than women wondering why they can't lock down chad when they're 35 and post wall. No clue and sense of what the world is really like.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 01:33 PM
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There's plenty of girls he could have tried dating to have a family with, but instead he chose the hot ones that obviously don't want one when they're fucking 18-21 in college. Like..not shit they don't want a family then? Then he gets butthurt because they won't immediately fall in love with him when they have obviously no reason to.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 01:31 PM
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This isn't a gem, this a pathetic excuse for a dude who has no game, is arrogant and entitled, and sounds like a aspy loser.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:49 PM
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No, he was definitely bitter and butthurt. He thinks he's better than everyone else and he deserves hot girls because....reasons? Then lashes out as them for being 'sluts' because he isn't getting what he wants and is refusing to change anything about that. I'm sure theres plently of girls at college he could have dated, but they probably aren't the ones he's trying to because they were only average looking and he feels entitled to the hot chicks.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:47 PM
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Michael sounds like a pathetic loser who doesn't like the reality of how things are. Also sounds kinda like a racist shitty person, no wonder no girls wanted to fuck him. Take this as a direct example of what not to do.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:46 PM
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How do you know this? Did you poll everyone in society and ask their opinion on what Kelsie did? Don't make assumptions, no point creating phantom enemies or strawmen when there may not be.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 05:03 PM
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I don't see how 'societys' perception has anything to do with this, it's your friend Kelsie's own perception of herself and of Ron that is at play here. Don't extrapolate out isolated examples of how this is a trademark of society and you'll be a lot happier and you'll make a lot less excuses about why and how things are the way they are.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 04:49 PM
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Be more sexually polarising with them. Don't just try to get along, say things that will get a positive or negative response. The opposite of attraction isn't negativity, it's boredom. Interview style dates are boring and all you're really doing is putting the onus on the girl to make the conversation. Try making statements and cold reads about her in a joking fashion and let her expand on them or talk further. Try more push pull and ways to spice up the conversation instead of just exchanging p…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 06:20 AM
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AHAHAHA rofl you're so pathetic.
/r/askTRP17/10/21 02:54 PM
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Plenty of guys don't have problems with topics of conversation and can get a woman to respond, but there's a difference between getting her to respond and getting her invested. Did you put any playful banter or spike her emotions in the texts before going straight for the logistics and to meet up? Don't change her mind, change her mood. For women it's all about emotions before making a decision to go on a date with you, if you just plainly ask to catch up without doing much beforehand it's likel…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:42 PM
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Yeah i'd try more polarising topics of conversation, or get her more invested by push/pulling or improving your texting game in general. I've gone out with plenty of girls for drinks as a first date from dating apps and day game and it usually goes pretty well. This is a symptom of needing to improve your game, not a symptom of drinks being a bad 1st date. However big ups to you for asking for her number and approaching women. A lot of guys just puss out.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 12:43 PM
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I disagree with the 'dominant' head position being tilted up. Tilting your head up is a submissive trait in in males as it exposes the neck, show casing that you aren't a threat. Head tilted down looks serial killer ish, but is better than tilted up. You want neutral, or ever so slightly tilted down.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 09:47 AM
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thanks m8, will do
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:43 PM
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usually it's been with girls who have either hooked up with chicks before or have always been a bit curious about it. But if you have the right frame of mind, i view every chick as slightly lesbian and that they'd all want to. Like 90% of chicks I meet have at least kissed another girl, and you should already be flirting and sexual with them to have that as a topic of conversation and it not be weird. Then from there it's just a matter of finding what kind of girls they like, joking around about…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:17 AM
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Good Podcast! Had a question about threesomes if you had any advice: My only question I guess is how to navigate the organising of a threesome? Mostly I've let my LTR run it as she's done them before, and I don't want to make it seem like I'm being a thirsty bitch trying to always organise them. However, I don't want to also seem meek or like a bitch for not making things happen. I've had about 7 or 8 threesomes in the past but most of those were whilst partying or random events, not a more orga…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 06:09 AM
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I'd say partly luck, partly working to put myself in situations where it's more likely to happen. Working out, being in shape, being sexual with all women I meet, game and being non-judgemental about women has generally meant that girls are open to talk or experiment with me + other girls. Once or twice was pure dumb luck, usually involving drugs or copious amounts of alcohol.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:47 AM
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I think a lot of people here have missed the point you're trying to make. I agree with your point that men do seem to have a dualistic mating strategy, however the extent to which he will fuck whores instead of or in addition to marrying madonna's will be dependent on how Alpha he is. A guy who is more alpha and therefore has more options will generally treat each option as less valuable, and when something is less valuable you will take risks like cheating because you're not afraid to lose it. …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 04:45 AM
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I think you're out of your mind if you think society still values post wall women more than Alpha males. I'd also say it's debatable it values pre-wall women more. You need to stop using this as an excuse and man the fuck and do shit about it
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 10:06 PM
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Hate to tell ya bud, but plenty of dudes were born to be beta. Beta's have existed for millennia, and will exist for millennia more. It's not society making more or less betas, it's just us being more aware of them when they are beta. It's also not society rewarding beta's like how it used to. Not every dude can be truly Alpha, society wouldn't work if it was. We'd all be fighting and slaying bitches 24/7 to do anything productive. There's a hierarchy for a reason. Just don't be the beta
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:53 PM
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To be fair, the article says the women still have to qualify for the lowest minimum requirement of the course, but once they meet the minimum they'll boost them to the middle-higher end with the points
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 10:56 PM
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Yes, it is relatively normal. Not every girl will jump on your dick and text you 24/7, but is still down to fuck if you make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 10:58 PM
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I know nothing about you and could very easily be wrong, but it sounds like the way you're approaching things with these women isn't in a fun, dating alpha frame. But instead in a logical beta mindset. Likely the same mindset you'd approach a logical business deal or something of that nature. When you speak to women in this logical way their logical hamster brain doesn't deal with it very well and you get these emotional outbursts. Maybe try playing with them more, having more fun, teasing, mess…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 11:35 PM
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Warning someone is fine. All i'm saying is there is a tactful way to do it so they actually might listen to you. Then theres the retarded way of doing it where all you'll do is throw up their defensive barriers and won't listen to shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 11:00 PM
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I think you talk together about life and problems and try to bring up red pill truths and knowledge through either your own stories or other analogies so they can possibly relate it to their own life. OR if you have a super strong bond with your friend you can privately sit them down to talk to them about their problems if they've asked your advice or you think they're the kind of person to take honest open advice on the chin. Lots of people just complain to blow off steam or to talk shit with t…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 05:13 AM
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You can be right and still be an asshole for how you say or do things. If you say straight to your mates face your relationship is in imminent demise then you're kind of being a prick.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:40 AM
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reads like an excuse for why he cant accomplish what he wants and giving himself an easy out for why he hasn't done so already
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 10:43 PM
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Stop fucking complaining about society like a bitch would and go out and fix and change it if you want.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 12:53 AM
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I can 100% guarantee you height is not the main issue. The main issue is your mentality around your height. Height, like looks, do matter, and you'd be retarded to say they don't. But you can definitely get around them as a dude once you actually meet someone in person and they get to see youre masculine, confident, charasmatic, funny, driven attitude. I know plenty of dudes who are sub 5'8 and pull lots of hot chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 03:50 AM
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Sounds like its a personality problem and not related to your height. I know plenty of guys who aren't tall who bang lots of chicks, also they never needed tren to do it either or look good. You're probably doing something wrong in your workouts if you can't get sub 14% fat on fucking TREN. The problem is always you, its never external.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:44 PM
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dude you need to start believing in yourself more and stop over thinking things. Just do what YOU want to do. Don't over think it. If you want to bend her over and whisper shit in her ear, do it. If you want to be rougher with her, do it (unless she explicitly tells you to stop obviously). Talk about whatever you like talking about, and be unapologetic about it . Being 'Alpha' isn't about doing what TRP or society thinks you should do, that's the antithesis of Alpha. It's about doing what you li…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 01:41 AM
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I said it before and I'll say it again. I think you need to get off the internet and go out in the real world for a while.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 05:43 AM
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I think you've highly exaggerated it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 11:53 PM
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Good work bud, just keep escalating and provide better logistics and it will happen in the next date probably. Not every chick is going to fuck you from a 30 min coffee date. Some will, and you should always be open to it and escalating towards it, but you have to make it happen, its not going to happen for you. And if it doesn't then no biggy. Some chicks just need more time sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:30 AM
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you need to calm down and get off the internet dude. Not everyone even remotely thinks like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 05:29 AM
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There's indicators in your writing that show you don't have the right mindset for how to approach things, but good luck buddy.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:06 AM
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but you did. In your mind, you still supplicate to an attractive woman. Your whole post reeks of supplicating and trying to be cool and fit in with society. The famous actors videos, the race, being there for the festival, it's all a front to try feel and act cool, and attractive women see through it in a second.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 12:33 AM
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you're pathetic. Either stop trolling, or go read the side bar and learn
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 10:58 PM
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And then everyone clapped and she sucked you off in front of the whole parking lot? get the fuck outta here
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 10:57 PM
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She's a feminist always because she's a 5
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 10:55 PM
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the first logical and reasoned comment in the post.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 10:45 PM
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I'm sure they make good progress and look pretty good with their shirt off compared to fatties who have never lifted. But having lifted for 4-5 years, competed in IFBB Mens physique and being 6'3 210+ pounds with abs, I didn't turn heads that often. I doubt an 18-19 year old kid whos been lifting a year would. They need to take their ego down a level
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 01:01 AM
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I'll also add that while she's with the Lambo she's subtly trying to turn it into a Prius so it's more useful to her long term.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:55 PM
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I'd love to see what guys look like who say 'I've been hitting the gym for a year and now i'm turning heads'. Reeks of narcissism and delusion
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 11:41 PM
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Practice + RSD For videos and mechanical tips to improve game. Any game resource is useless without going out and talking to women. But RSD does have great tools IMO (at least most of their vids pre 2017 did)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 12:47 AM
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Fantastic comment. Definitely opened my eyes to a few things
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 12:03 AM
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You realise Richard Pryor called him the most charming man he ever met because they used to suck each others dicks right? look it up lol
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 04:25 AM
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Then you need to get rid of your ego and outcome dependence. Nothing will cripple you more in life, and with women than only doing things to get a result or because your ego is invested in doing things.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 10:52 PM
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Yes. While I certainly agree with the principal of focusing on yourself and building yourself up and concentrating on improvement I don't believe you need to ostracize yourself to the woods to do it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 10:50 PM
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Stop being a bitch and just do it. Don't wait to 'complete' step 1, as you'll never feel ready. Just go out to a bar, or daygame, and go approach girls you're attracted to. Watch RSD vids if you want technical tips on what to do/say, but just be best self, be funny, be assertive and have the mindset that you're not trying to GET a girl, you're trying to learn, and getting a chick to fuck is just the bonus
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 03:19 AM
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I disagree with waiting to complete step 1 before doing step 2. You should 100% lift, work on yourself, excel in areas of your life etc, but you can also do this while going out once or twice a week, or doing 10 minutes of day game to/from work/classes etc. There's no point waiting 6 months-1 year to start learning how to approach etc. The reason i'm guessing is you'd advocate waiting is to protect your ego from getting rejected because you weren't quite in shape or 'ready' which is a bullshit f…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 03:18 AM
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probably what every hot chick on tinder thinks when you try start a convo with them
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 09:33 PM
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I actually semi agree with the premise that a woman may need some time to get turned on and anticipate/want sex. I disagree with the implementation of it. But nothing will turn your girl on more than saying 'looking forward to bending you over tonight' and you need your girl to be turned on to fuck you. You can't act like platonic roomates all day then get to bed and expect her to be in the mood. She might be sometimes, but it's not a great strategy
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 03:35 AM
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I dunno, I feel for women who are with a beta loser who acts like a complete bitch then expects her to be able to get wet at the drop of a hat and fuck him. Could you imagine being with a land whale and her expecting to fuck you boringly every time she wants to? ​ If you want sex from a woman get her mind worked up to it and her pussy will follow
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 03:34 AM
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Thanks i'll give it a look
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 10:48 PM
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I dont think the answer is trying to find a unicorn, awalt etc. It's more about the whole ideology and mentality behind trp, which I agree with, but not quite sure how to proceed
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 10:47 PM
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Does anyone else feel kinda lonely in a RP world? I look around me and just see everything as some sort of pre-conditioned game that we're all playing out where we all just seek validation from each other and nobody really connects or does anything meaningful. Then I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it because the notions and ideas in TRP are fairly unknown and people won't really understand. I can't/don't want to talk to any girls i'm seeing about it because any time you try confide in a …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 03:21 AM
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I watched the video, and you did a good job so keep on practicing. However, i'd probably work on your posture/body language a bit more. Your shoulders and back are very slumped, and when you're walking you don't really walk with a purpose or like you're in control. But keep up the good work dude
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 12:19 AM
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You could argue it's almost inversely proportional to your efforts.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 09:27 PM
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I don't think he has much of a point here. He's correct that women try cover for each other when their friends cheat on their partner, but men have been doing this forever as well. Theres been a joke around since forever about how a guy didn't come home from a night out, and the woman knew he slept with someone else because she rang 8 of his friends, 6 of them said he stayed with them last night, and two of them swore he was still at their house. Correct observation, but I think he's exaggerated…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:22 AM
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6 Months in the gym is nothing. Unless youre a freak with genes you're not gonna make that much progress. Keep going, it takes years to be a high value dude
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:26 AM
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Then you need to stop thinking that and stop using it as an excuse not to approach. Just because you may be right that she's getting dicked down doesn't mean its a helpful thought.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 01:36 AM
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I have no idea what you're arguing with. This has nothing to do with why the guy chose to cheat, it has to do with why OP's plate decided she wanted to seduce the guy. Obviously it's the girls perception that she's better. If she didn't perceive herself as better she wouldn't attempt to maintain her status in the dominance hierarchy by fucking the chicks bf.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:21 PM
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Women use sexuality the same way men use physical strength and being competent at a task, this is not news. The most sexually desirable woman IS the most physically dominant and imposing of the group. Fucking that chicks bf was your plates way of asserting that. The beauty of the red pill is seeing where this is possible and leveraging it to your own benefit.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:14 PM
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Then why bring up the divorce rape? To bring up the other as some sort of counter argument implies both are acceptable
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:16 AM
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2 wrongs don't make a right. Just because there is divorce rape doesn't mean there should be arranged marriages and slavery.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 04:04 AM
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Women have 2 biological imperatives, feeling safe and secure, and getting the best genes from a male. Ideally this will happen in a single male, but it's always a balancing act between trying to get the best sperm and feeling secure enough. In our day and age because women are usually safe and secure, they tend to cheat to get the better sperm and alpha dick. However that doesn't mean that occasionally if a women with a guy who is too alpha, too aloof, never around, all that shit, then she doesn…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 11:48 PM
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Sometimes I do worry Rollo get's a little too tin-foil-hat "the sky is falling" when he talks about the female imperative and how its systematically destroying society and men everywhere. I don't think anyone denies some aspects of it are detrimental to society, but I think there have also been positives. Also I get very worried when I see this sentence casually chucked in as some sort of proof that there might have been better times previously when there was less feminine view points in the wor…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:55 AM
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I haven't listed to RSD much in the last year or two, but all their old stuff was pretty much Red Pill in an easier to swallow form. But like most things mainstream, it's message usually gets watered down and the point is lost as it gets bigger and bigger and has to appeal to more and more people. Also don't forget, RSD is a business that's MAIN purpose is to make money. Not to be some Red Pill purest company or something. It's a trap to think a company SHOULD do one thing or another, when a com…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 11:56 PM
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This is still 100% confirmation bias and one single story. AWALT, there are no unicorns. Women absolutely can leave their husband if things go bad. But if the husband keeps his shit together they can also be very loyal and helping. I saw both my grandfathers treated extremely well by their wives. It just depends on the dude. Women acting shitty is a symptom of what kind of man you are (usually), not the cause.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:47 PM
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don't worry about it. It's Highschool, most dudes are going to be beta in some way in HS. You're 15-17 for gods sake, you don't know anything about the world yet. Just keep growing and learning and you'll get there eventually
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 11:31 PM
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that's what I would have thought based on my own experience. 5's to 8's are usually the easiest chicks to sleep with
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:17 PM
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then stop being a pussy and go out and meet people. Introvert is how you get your energy, it doesn't stop you from doing anything.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:09 AM
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Out of curiosity, does anyone have the numbers for what top% of women sleep with the most amount of dudes? I agree on the general 20% of men get 80% of women rule, but i wonder what the ratio is for women
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:03 AM
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old ladies never get the wisdom right either. instead they blame it on shit like sex and the city
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:03 AM
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you're putting so much pressure on yourself, no wonder you can't perform. Putting this much pressure on yourself highlights you need to do more work on yourself and respect and believe in yourself. If you have this inner monologue in yourself "Look i dont need any chad thundercock douchebag response on how im a loser. I know how much i fucked up. Im so pissed at myself. Idk how or why. Im so attracted to her and i wanna fuck her but i couldnt get hard." Then you have way bigger problems than not…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:56 PM
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I know youre being a facetious cunt, but the point of it isn't that it 'worked' it's that he had the leverage to not need her or it to 'work' that lead to it 'working'
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 08:26 AM
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Theres retards everywhere in society and every where you look. Whatever you want to find on the internet to confirm anything, you'll be able to find. Want to find a vid if ghosting is bad? You'll find it. Want to find a vid that ghosting is good? You'll find it. The trick is to have your own iron clad convictions in the world about how you see it and what that means about how you'll conduct yourself. This obviously comes with experience and you sound young but as long as you think critically abo…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 01:52 PM
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""But what if I cry again?" "Then I will eventually run out of shirts."" Probably the most poetic thing i've read on this sub, grats
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 12:12 AM
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then your experience is biased and full of cognitive dissonance. The only reason you have girls who like that, is because they're probably looking for some beta pussy who waits till the 2nd or 3rd date. All the girls that didn't stick around, who now sounds like this chick is one of them, probably don't really talk to you much or ghost you after the first date and you didnt fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 10:25 AM
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You had her at your place and her feet were on your dick and you made out and you DIDNT fuck her? What's wrong with you? Then it sounds like you did it AGAIN with the second chick? If all she did was 'play with your dick'. Learn to pull the trigger dude
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:06 AM
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"We talked business for some minutes; I try to flirt subtly but she always gave this resting bitch face so I stopped attempting. I suppose it’s cause she is obviously way older than I am (like near her wall old), but hey don’t blame a homey for being ambitious." No its because she hired you to do a job and she sensed you were so desperate attempting to flirt with her she was disgusted by beta tendencies. If you're a contractor your professional reputation MATTERS. You think she's going to refer …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 12:27 AM
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So what's this "10s" insta? I need to see this ass
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:53 PM
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honestly in this case i don't think you were around enough. A month break and a weak break and very little contact? Sounds like she was just bored tbh. Women have dick coming from all angles, she probably just found someone else cause you weren't around
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:06 AM
2

What the fuck kind of site is the daily caller? ' a whole bunch of times' What kind of writing is that? lol
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:29 PM
2

I suppose its okay to use alcohol at the start of your journey for confidence, but don't let it be a crutch. When I was going out a lot to get better with women I didn't drink. It helps for a few things, you can remember better what happened and know what to avoid, you save cash, and you don't get tired or too drunk later when you need your senses around you to pull. Also, if youre relying on being drunk for confidence then you're gonna be shit out of luck if you have to talk to a women sober. A…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:59 AM
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I think his point still stands. You still used a dumb click bait title for shit thats 100% obvious and been repeated on this sub like a thousand times
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:31 AM
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What are you talking about Frame is king. You lost frame, hard. Grabbing her by the forearm, trying to shit talk the guys sweater screams insecurity. Drop this chick your with, she obviously doesn't respect you, and giving her an ultimatum after she already did this to you screams you have no power. Powerful people don't need to give ultimatums. Go back to the drawing board about how you act and who you are, because what you were doing with this chick clearly didn't work too well.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:08 PM
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People are still human. You seem very angry. A woman still took her own life, I wouldn't be pointing fingers at why, when you have no idea about anything else in her life. Also, men have killed themselves at a higher rate than women since forever. Is that a fault of the patriarchy? Get off reddit and TRP for today, you've had enough
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:59 AM
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You still sound incredibly young. Don't use TRP as a sole place for your learning. A lot of what you say is true, but women do have a value, and prostitutes are not the way. Once or twice in life, sure. But paying for a prostitute regularly because you can't deal with women is the easy way out. A few studies and the science also generally agree that men live more fulfilled lives and longer lives when they have stable long term relationships with women.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 11:16 PM
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Good post. Another thing I'll tack on. Sometimes I've lost girls because they seemed keen and I thought I had to do more to win them over or fuck me. Things like put in some dirty talk or flirt more or something. When if I had just said 'cool, come back to my place for xyz' they probably would have.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 10:56 PM
2

Yeah, and I think it's a pretty terrible work culture and probably leads to the fact 4/5 Americans hate their job and/or suffer a lot of mental issues
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 10:40 PM
2

I'm not saying she's not better off. But this still feels like the american (i'm australian) mentality of 'you should feel lucky you have a job, doesn't matter how we treat you at it'. Which frankly disgusts me. A job should be a mutual benefit and mutually treated with respect to get the most out of both parties. But like I said, you can do whatever you like, and even though the 18 year old fuckwits on this forum will give you a high 5 cauz you got the evil womyn, I definitely think there was a…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 11:08 PM
2

So if OP pulled this shit on you you'd be totally fine getting routed to another shitty department because OP doesn't like you and possibly having your career ruined or at the very least have to find another job? I don't think so.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:23 PM
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No, that's a cop out. You don't have to be a shitty boss because you think 'everyone else is'. I'm a manager, only of a team of 10 roughly, but I would never pull the shit you did. How the hell do you even have an employee start without a contract detailing how long she will be there for an her expected term of employment? From the outcome, sure what you did was okay, but you went about it in a terrible way. The asian chicks mentality at work now is going to be that her work doesn't care about h…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 10:22 PM
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I mean, you sound like a fucking terrible boss and kind of fucked over the asian, but props on getting rid of the annoying cunt i guess
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:26 PM
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I agree 100% with this OP. Not EVERY girl ALL the time will fuck you on the first date even if you do literally everything 'right'. Some just won't do it. If you did everything right on your part you're pretty likely to hit it on the 2nd date. If you haven't hit it by the third barring VERY extraneous circumstances then you can probably forget about it or you actually have done something wrong
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:17 PM
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I have a feeling she might have been lying about finishing the dudes in her mouth or making them use a condom. Given that women will fuck alphas short term whilst they have a beta husband to try and get his better genetics but keep their beta provider i'm surprised she didn't 'accidentally' fall pregnant to some other dude. but who knows
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 02:37 AM
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Not needing revenge is probably the best indicator of how much you've progressed. Revenge is only for people who still have a chip on their shoulder, and the only people who still have a chip on their shoulder are butthurt betas who feel like they aren't good enough
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:59 AM
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This article more-so highlights how even though she can clearly see how come there are more men than women in tech, she still can't help but feel it's up to men to fix the problem and that we NEED to get more women into tech. Even thought they generally aren't as interested in it. Women just can't help but feel that what is good for a few women is good for society as a whole. I think she does draw a very good conclusion in the middle of the article for why some people hate women in tech, because…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:41 PM
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"Did I give her the impression that I was just a player / fuckboi when we hung out? " This is the impression you wan't to give girls. Just make sure you're funny as well and most girls won't give a fuck, you'll have too much value in her eyes not to fuck you. And even if she doesn't fuck you, as some won't because they think you're a player, you'll still be FARRRR ahead with all the other girls you've fucked because 95% of them don't care.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:01 AM
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OP was already only messaging her for logistics or something funny to give value (as long as it wasn't frequently) I think she was cool just having him as an orbiter and someone to chill with, but when he started joking about more she freaked and cut ties, probably because she had started dating someone else. Bad luck OP, this shit happens from time to time. Onto the next one
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 04:00 AM
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First, popular to what you might read here, false rape accusations are still VERY RARE. Worrying about them all the time will only fuck you up, and fuck your game up. Secondly, like others have said, its not uncommon to get performance anxiety, especially if you're a virgin. You're going to be nervous, it's okay, you'll fuck up a few lays or bj's here and there and eventually you'll be sweet. As long as you've cut out porn and are doing the things you need to do to be more confident eventually y…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:53 AM
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shoulda gone for the threesome
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 10:57 PM
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I don't think that its the bottom 80% are all playing video games and living in their mums basement. Even dudes who lift occasionally, a fairly normal and cool and go out here or there are still considered scrubs and in the bottom 80% by women. To be in the top 20% isn't necessarily HARD, but I think it takes a bit more than just lifting a bit and being normal. I find visualising it as 1 in 5 guys in your group is the 'cool' dude that everyone likes hanging around with a bit more, whos a bit mor…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 10:57 PM
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It's a good thing to be able to make conversation and say stuff without thinking it. It means you're more in the moment and not in your head which is good. The reason though it backfired is because you were intimidated and your mentality and confidence within yourself with big guys is lacking. So the first thing that came to your mind to say to list yourself as not a threat by asking how big the guy was or whatever. To me, this is the hardest part of my game as well. I could roll up to chicks no…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:52 PM
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Haha bad luck man, you'll never make the mistake again though. You also shot yourself in the foot by mentioning his size. Made you look like a beta supplicator in front of the chick. Once he saw this, decided fuck it and brought her inside. Nothin says supplication like asking a dude how big he is/weighs or whatever. I used to get it a bit when I was bodybuilding and it says a lot about a guy who asks.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:24 PM
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still better fucking a bunch of 8's whilst trying to find one that does have a personality than fuck a bunch of 2-5's that may or may not have a personality. Being ugly doesn't suddenly make you a good person or a girl with personality, it just means they're slightly more likely to be not completely retarded.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:31 PM
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You have fun banging ugly chicks in the 2-5 range mate. I'd rather fuck the 8's who still have personality.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:57 AM
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Why? So you can feel better about being superior to them or something? Who cares.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:53 AM
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You only pay 500 a month for threesomes with a hot 19 y.o? Shit some dudes would spend less on a gf whos an annoying piece of crap haha. good for you dude
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:11 AM
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that doesn't mean the cause is plastic
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 08:15 AM
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Meh I don't know how much I believe this is actually an issue. Whilst it may be true these things occur, how much does it affect testosterone and it's production? Everything 'affects' something, but until you can say it will decrease your test by 5% or 10% or whatever the number is, i'm not going to worry. If dudes on here are worried, get your test levels checked and see how you go. If its low, consider some options. To try cut EVERYTHING plastic out is incredibly hard and may not even be worth…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:06 AM
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thats a good story, but you know what would have been a great story? If you fucked the mom haha. You'd be surprised, people like funny notorious dudes who fucked hostesses moms
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 06:00 AM
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Meh its probably for the best to do that, but sometimes i dont care and do whatever the fuck i wanna do
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:17 AM
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honestly i've seen this shit so much i would have just called her on it. But I guess you wanted to be in with the group still
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 02:07 PM
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hahaha you sound like a cool dude
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:19 AM
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First of all, if you're referring to a woman the pronoun is 'her' not 'his' haha made me giggle a few times. Second, you were probably creeping the girl out. If you're dancing on the floor and she wants to dance with you, JUST DANCE WITH HER. Trying to talk to her when she wants to dance is stupid and slows down the whole interaction, not helps speed it up. Talking with her proves nothing to her about what kind of guy you are. Grabbing her and dancing with her with tell her a lot about what she …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 12:57 AM
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Fair enough, glad you like your job. Hopefully you'll be in a position to get rid of the dude you don't like eventually lol
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 08:14 AM
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I mean, this sucks and is annoying and everything, but why don't you quit then and find a better job? Nothing is forcing you to stay there. Being in situations you don't like and being at the reaction end of things is still inherently beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:03 AM
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I don't think its wrong or beta because someone else is paying your salary. Even if you own a company, then you're a little bit at the behest of your customers. You'll always have to work with and/or for people in the world.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 02:02 AM
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Go read a few more in depth reviews if you want to, its a recommendation, nothing else. I've provided a few details as to why I thought it was good and helpful, go decide for yourself if you want to read it. Theres a billion in depth reviews out there, I don't need to provide that. I just need to bring it to RP's attention that it's a useful RP book so people can go find out more about it if they wan't.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:19 AM
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I did say what it helps with, and the benefits of the book and a few examples of what it will specifically help with. I didn't add any transcripts from the book, because I'm not going to type out a page from the book. Go read more indepth reviews if you want in depth reviews, this is a post saying I recommend this book, heres a few ideas why, go decide for yourself if you want to read it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:18 AM
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Definitely agree with this. A fair bit of the advice in the thread wasn't actually THAT bad. It was mostly advocating non neediness and being free from the outcome, just using blue pill terminologies and reasoning to get it done
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 10:29 AM
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If you really thought we were overthinking it and it wasn't a big deal you wouldn't have deleted your post.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 09:41 PM
1

yesss thats right OP, keep telling everyone how you good you are. Let it alllllll out. Now that it's out, let go of your ego. No one here cares, and the sooner you realise nobody really cares about who you are, what you do in life, you'll be free to do whatever you want in life.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 09:39 PM
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him feeling that it was pertinent information he was reading politics instead of his friend is directly referencing the fact thinks he's using his time better than his friend. This along with the rest of the tonality in the post just reeks of chauvinism and IamVerySmart. If he really didnt care or thought he was better he just woulda said 'my friend was playing xbox while i was on the couch.'
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 12:22 PM
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"My roommate is on his PS4 he just bought with the money he worked oh so hard for and I'm lying on the couch reading a article about Korea threatening to attack Guam." This is some IamVerySmart shit. Just focus on your self and stop thinking you're so much better than someone because you read TRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 04:20 AM
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1) You can show up any time and pick up, it sounds like you're looking for excuses why you didn't pull. 2) the best time and place to pull girls is by getting food with them and then pulling from there. 3) if your conversations go sour and get boring or whatever then you're conversations weren't very good in the first place and the women were being polite. It sounds to me like you're trying to be nice and friendly and not get rejected, which means you're a beta bob in her eyes. 4) again, more 'f…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:58 AM
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she looks better in her younger photo. You can see bags under her eyes, her skin doesn't look as young and vibrant, and this is with a big floppy hoody on so you can't tell what her body looks like or has changed. Also, this is in a photo, which leaves out a lot of tiny details. In person I guarantee she would have looked better as her younger self than her older self. People may not deny black/hispanic women don't age better than white women, but they still age.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:48 AM
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Empires and great civilisations collapse for more reasons than because women and minorities get civil rights. I see your correlation between white men allowing others to govern power leading to bad choices and downfall, but all the other empires from the past haven't had this type of problem, or they had other issues causing the spiral downwards into chaos. To state that they only have them because white men failed and not that they should have them by default because they're a living, breathing…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 04:45 AM
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Congratulations, you're a terrible person but you're aware of the social dynamics that come into play. It's not thought police if the views you're spouting have nothing to do with the topic of the sub. Which is sexual strategy. Minorities and women having civil rights has very little to do with sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:49 AM
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Reported you. If you think women or minorities shouldn't have civil rights you're a complete fucking idiot and don't deserve to post on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:07 AM
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Meh, happens in a plethora of movies for guys as well. Knocked up, Superbad, She's out of my league, etc etc. Nerdy guy gets the girl
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:04 AM
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well at least you didn't goad her into buying more drinks, get your buddy over to show how cool you are, have her get the manager over to show her youre even STILL cooler, and then write a post about it and put it on an online forum to show how you got one over her!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:51 PM
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Are you trying to write RP porn or something? This sounds like something an incel would write because he got one over m'lady. You asked her what she was drinking WHILE AT THE BAR. If that isn't the biggest way to ask to buy a girl a drink then I don't know what is. Like others have said, say 'no', or engage smarter with her at the bar so you don't have to go through this charade with her/other women. Just seems stupid and you could have saved yourself a lot of effort.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:10 AM
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I live in Melbourne, I don't think its quite that bad actually. I've seen a fair few programs and ads and stuff around here that even show some support for men which is quite surprising. It's still more femcentric biased, but what first world country isn't these days. Girls here still put out super easy as well. Better quality average of girls as well than most other places I've been (europe, U.S etc)
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 10:25 AM
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he's still your father and provided for you your entire life up until now. He may not have been a great father, but that doesn't mean you can't be respectful and not a little shit about it. The world is much more than banging sluts in the back of your car. Be a better man, try help teach your father about these things if you want, but belittling him like this is just as disgraceful in my opinion
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:18 PM
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It seemed like a personal attack, of course I took it personally. Did it affect me? No. I've read the side bar. I hate stupid assumptions, generalisations and strawmen arguments like 'dating is taking her out and paying for her'.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 05:21 AM
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Of course they've hooked up before me, just like i've hooked up before them. Dating is whatever the fuck you want it to be. My dates are usually going out for coffee or a drink. Don't know what you're trying to gain by posting this
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 02:03 AM
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it could be because i'm from Australia but here it really is viewed as more of a dating app than a hookup app. hookups happen, but a lot of people just use it to date etc
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:23 AM
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Meh, people are week. Can't do much about it, if you tried helping them and they didn't see the light all you can do is move on with your life and make sure you don't make the same mistakes they did
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 11:49 PM
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Okay, what about a Hotel? Their place? A friends place? Women will often tell you whats up, then it's up to you to figure out the logistics so they can say 'it just happened'. P.S Fucking condomless in a dirty alley isn't that bad, getting head in one is even more fun haha
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:58 AM
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You're experiencing your first signs of TRP being correct and this is what works with women. You feel like an impostor at the moment because it doesn't feel natural and like you have to fake it, but if you keep going out and getting these type of results with women it will eventually feel normal and being alpha or holding frame will just be the default. Keep practicing meditation and whatever else helps you, but don't use it as a crutch or excuse not to escalate or open a chick because you 'have…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 12:35 AM
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Love these types of videos. How much he looks at her in relation to how much she looks at him is incredibly telling. Also his head is always tilted slightly up, indicating he finds her intimidating. Just so many body language queues that she doesn't find him the least bit attractive.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 12:27 AM
1

How did your friend find out? Did she tell him?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:22 PM
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These are definitely still outliers. Womens average is going up, and women like this exist, but 100 by the time they've left high school is definitely still not normal. Normal is closer to 20 by the time they're 20 or so in my estimate. It may not seem like much better, but meh
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 05:34 AM
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rofl don't patronise me by claiming i'll grow out of a phase. Paying for expensive things on a first date generally not a good idea. and like I said, if its cheap then go ahead. Don't claim you know everything or know every one of my points or arguments or thoughts, its stupid
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 02:20 AM
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but they don't give up the pussy when you pay, thats the point. Paying is stupid. Not because you're losing money (though that sucks too) but because women have no desire or need to put out when you pay, it signals all the wrong things to her. edit For expensive things, paying for a drink or coffee or 20 buck tickets is different. Cheap things that you do to organise the date they'll probably expect you to pay for, which im okay with if its less than ~20 bucks or so
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 01:47 AM
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Very interesting read actually. I like hearing field reports from the womans point of view when they deal with betas. Gives good insight into the mind. Wish I could see the thread if she replies to any comments or anything. It's always so interesting to me that they ALWAYS seem to know what the guy wants, and how they always seem to feel uncomfortable when he doesn't just admit to that
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 01:36 AM
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It's not. Women view 'he paid' like a guy would tell his mates about her sending him nudes or her fucking him or something. Actions that show a man gives time/resources to a woman indicate she is wanted, which is important she shows other people because its validating her.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 01:35 AM
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I don't have an issue with her taking care of her child, or even not working full time to do that. I'm pointing out that it's interesting she states how she did it 'all on her own' when she clearly didn't. This is a classic example of women re-writing the history books in her mind and bending the story to fit the narrative that she's a victim so people give her sympathy and support, which is currency in women's social dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 12:55 AM
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That's correct. I'm actually not blaming her for what she has done or the system. I think its interesting displaying how women shape the narrative of a story to make them seem so much more amazing or heroic, how to spot the signs of this and read between the bullshit to get the facts.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 05:53 AM
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This is a good point. It depends on the job, you're more likely to get a short term increase if you hop around, but if the place you're already at takes promoting its employees seriously then it may be beneficial to stay there. You have to vet the company well
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 01:32 AM
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This is a good point. It depends on the job, you're more likely to get a short term increase if you hop around, but if the place you're already at takes promoting its employees seriously then it may be beneficial to stay there. You have to vet the company well
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 01:30 AM
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I dunno, it's a nice sentiment. You can care about people, but not do everything for them and be their little bitch. You could even argue caring about people would lead you to wanting the best for them, so you teach them reasons for why blindly caring about people could lead to them being taken advantage of. You can't teach very nuanced points like in NMMNG to vast majority of people, it just doesn't work like that. Society is built for the lowest common denominator, and everybody has to sacrifi…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 12:10 AM
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Very rarely. It does happen, but its rare, and its usually ugly people you wouldnt want to bang anyway. Also, MUCH less common in any urbanised area where a majority of the population reside
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 11:01 AM
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Is english your first language? I'll help you out, but i'm at work at the moment so i'll have to do it a bit later
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 06:01 AM
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Like I said, thats an average across ugly people and people who aren't desirable. For attractive people who you would want to sleep with, it's probably a low estimate. Red Pill is not about wishing for ideals, it's about whats real.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:02 AM
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That average includes grandmas and grandpas pre sexual revolution, beta neckbeards, and fat ugly chicks. Attractive, cool women that you want to sleep with are generally going to have a number higher than that. At least in the teens and more likely in the 20's
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 12:41 AM
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I'm guessing English isn't your first language, but if it is you seriously need to read up on how to structure your thoughts, write coherent sentences and be articulate in how you construct paragraphs. That said.. 8 guys at 22 isn't that bad. If you had fucked 50 girls by your age would you care? Your'e just insecure, and still think that there are such things as good girls who won't have a high count. Get over it. Girls can be a good student and still fuck a few guys, shit, they can even be a g…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:48 PM
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Luckily I live in Australia where police aren't retarded like yours might be, cops are a solution. Even if you do live in the U.S, I really disagree they WILL 100% side with the woman. I believe this is highly exaggerated
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 01:20 AM
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Do NOT hit her back. Just call the cops, explain the situation, get rid of her, anything except hit her back. She'll probably immediately use it against you, and you're fucked. It's just not worth it
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 01:50 PM
1

Looks don't matter is like Just be yourself. If 'yourself' is a fat, Asperger's nerd who plays video games all day then you should probably change something. Look's don't matter, past a certain point. However if you're below that point, Ie. Fat, cheeto finger, fedora wearing neckbeard, yeah you're probably not going to be banging 9's and 10's
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 11:50 PM
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Pretty much what Walkebe said, just flirt with her and game her in front of her friends, she'll find it more attractive as it gives her extra value if her friends can see that a guy wants her in front of her friends. It's not weird, you just think it's weird. Then when you've flirted and escalated and depending if its the right circumstances just pull her away somewhere more private for a bit. Don't ask, just lead. If she wants to go with you she will, if she doesn't then she won't. She'll proba…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 11:14 PM
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IF you want some advice... The frame of mind it comes from to state this is your first 'practice' of red pill means you're putting way too much emphasis on interactions and you'll have a pretty high amount of outcome dependence, this is a bad thing which you should try to avoid. Just think of it like you're out there chilling with people and enjoying your time, which it sounds like you're trying to do. You can ALWAYS escalate on a chick who has beta orbiters. Especially if you recognise they're …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:59 PM
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Depends how long you can last and how good you are at sex I guess. If you're a spaz who comes in 1 minute and only care about yourself then you'll probably be shit in bed. But if you're good in bed, can last 5+ minutes and only care about your orgasm then you'll probably be pretty good in bed. I get your point, but you didnt make it well. You need to link between part of her enjoyment of sex is MAKING you cum, but thats only part of it. I'd also advocate that most guys enjoy making the girl cum …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 12:31 PM
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Read the side bar. She either wanted you to escalate when it was just you two, and you didn't, so she figured i'm not wasting my time. She then saw you out drunk, forgot you were a pussy, was interested again, and you STILL failed to escalate, until you 'suggested for a kiss' like a pussy, which probably grossed her out so she lost interest again. Always be escalating, girls would almost always rather you escalate, and then she can knock you back or not, but at least you know either way where yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 11:30 PM
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Depends how heavy you are when you start, but 30 lbs in 2 months is pretty doable
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 11:24 PM
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Part of the problem is that he felt like he was able to come into your set in the first place. Your frame and personal body language was probably giving off the vibe that you weren't together and that he would be able to open you both pretty easily with little risk of you actually being a boyfriend or a guy intimidating enough if things went bad. You sound very unsure of yourself in the way you post, so I'm probably going to guess you look timid and shy and not very in control and leading when y…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 12:59 AM
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you think its likely someone is going to be a hooker in their spare time? Come on man, don't be ridiculous. Being a hooker is still very rare, hookers still aren't more value in the smp than regular woman, when people know they are both hookers. ALL of this is also under the assumption that just because you're a hooker doesn't mean you can't also be intelligent or have other good qualities, which would be false. Just don't marry one.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 01:48 PM
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This is some on the spectrum shit right here. Sounds like she wasn't that into you, you were acting like a complete weirdo, you dumped a plate for her before anything even happened, the initial plate you dumped was your fucking ex, she ACTUALLY shows SOME interest in you despite the spectrum level behavior and then you do nothing about it and tell her to get a cab. I don't even know where to begin.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 12:03 AM
0

No, men did these things then because there was nothing else to do more likely. No TV, no internet, less sports/clubs/leagues to play etc. There have been, and will be, betas forever and ever. The world wouldn't work if it was 100 alpha men and women. What beta looks like will change over the years, and there was more of a need for beta men previously to help provide, but just because you can provide things doesn't mean you're alpha, in fact, that's pretty much the definition of a beta, only use…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:26 PM
1

then break up with her, still a scumbag
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:29 PM
2

He had a gf too, both scumbags
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:39 AM
76

Everybody likes it when people are attracted to them, they don't like it when people act on that attraction and attempt to get with them or make a move on them. This means you have something to deal with, and might result in a negative event happening, for example that person getting offended and possibly going crazy on you because you didn't find them attractive back. Its less of a problem from a mans point of view, but imagine being a 110 lb chick having to reject a 220 6'2 dude who she reject…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:49 AM
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we don't post details about sex here because this isn't a forum for sex, her forum was. It's too logical, well thought out, details pertaining to what guys talk about, to the point, and pretty much just not feminine sounding at all. It writes like a guy who thinks girls think about being fucked. Anyway like I said, whether its true or not, still a pretty crap post and you should definitely feel bad for having jerked off to it lol. Ps. just because I say its fake doesn't mean these things aren't …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:18 AM
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I'm trying to find a youtube example or something but not coming up with anything specific yet, but if you look up any RSD Tyler videos where he's picking up chicks, his head is usually tilted slightly forward/down, not up. It's more direct.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:51 AM
2

Correct, best thing you can do for this stuff is to practice it daily. To me these are the things that internalise everything in TRP. I couldn't give a fuck if someone dude brags about how many girls he's fucked, but if i'm chatting to him and his body language is off i'll know he's full of shit, and women are picking up on these things all the time. The reason its so important is because we control what we say and even how we say it, but nobody controls their body language, which really tells y…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:36 AM
2

You're correct that it's a defensive posture tilting your neck down, but only slightly indicates you're not around a friend or you're not submitting to someone by showing them your neck. By keeping your neck hidden you're indicating you're willing to fight. It should only be a SLIGHT tilt, probably 5-10 degrees, Not looking all the way down or avoiding eye contact or anything like that. Look at the way all alphas interact with people, their heads are usually tilted slightly down, not up.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:33 AM
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This doesn't sound at all like it was written by a woman. Even if it was, the fact you jerked off to it and posted about it is a little bit concerning.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:40 AM
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you need to learn that she doesn't all of a sudden find you extremely attractive and she tipped you double because she genuinly now likes you or something. She flirted, tipped you double so you'd keep doing your job and doing what she wants you to do. You think she cares about tipping you double if dudes can drop up to 400 bucks on her in a night? She's still getting you to do what she wants, but at least now that you've stood up for yourself you're getting treated better.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:15 AM
2

I wish you could get endorsed again for this post. So much about female mentality on how they interact with guys so clearly stated. Met a few girls like this in my life, typically fairly low n-count girls who everyone is like 'wow she's such a good girl' because by standards she is. She isn't a hoe, isn't crazy, is usually fairly intelligent, etc. She knows this, so she doesn't usually sleep with many guys, but it's a fucking nightmare actually getting them out and fucking them, because they pri…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 09:18 AM
1

fuck it, i'll take a look, im from melbourne as well haha
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:32 AM
5

How old are you? You said she was 19 so I'm going to guess around that age. Good FR, like others have said, everyone starts somewhere. But you're looking for the right things. If I had to make a suggestion besides the obvious 'you need to improve everywhere', I would suggest not worrying about comfort tests at the start and try to go full alpha/dick mode. It's a LOT harder to make a beta pussy turn into an alpha/asshole than it is to make an asshole a bit more of a pussy. I would suggest trying …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 12:14 AM
3

I'm on an SSRI at the moment for anxiety, its peroxetine, works amazing and brought be back to how i used to be before anxiety. Definitely recommend that. THey're much less harsh and addictive than benzos
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:30 PM
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Thats perfect advice, it's just not sugar coated to protect your ego, which is part of the problem for why you couldn't approach the 8's, 9's and 10's, because your ego can't handle rejection and you were worried something bad would happen if you went up and spoke to them, so your brain rationalises not to, you get approach anxiety, and you sit in your chair. Lots of women have shitty personalities, but you didn't feel the need to mention that, instead you mentioned how hot women have shit perso…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:24 AM
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"You are just making excuses to lower the bar for yourself instead of manning up and claiming what you want." This is the constructive criticism part. You wouldn't say that hot chicks have shit personalities if you WEREN'T trying to lower the bar for yourself. Some guys might be able to gain some insight from what you said, since what you inherently said is right, but you still have a lot of work to do.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:53 AM
1

You first said '90% of women have an orgasm during rape'. That isn't the same as '90% of women fantasize about being raped'. I have no idea what % of women fantasize about rape, or what % of women have an orgasm during rape. But it's wrong for you to throw out conjecture about how high the % of women is who have an orgasm during rape when you have no idea. And don't try to lecture me about woman like you know more than me.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:07 PM
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I mean not to be a dick buy you're balding, 46 with a son and overweight, I'm not surprised you're being rejected. However, lucky for you, looks don't really matter past a certain point. How you act, dress and your status or implied status mean more. So maximise those things, and start lifting/dieting if you want as well. To me it seems like you want to complain that hot chicks aren't fucking you, and then you want a pat on the back for fucking 25-30 crazy chicks who have issues according to you…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:00 AM
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You quoted 90% of women have an orgasm from rape, not 100% of women have had a rape fantasy. Being able to site facts, think rationally and break down an argument is how I collected points.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:27 AM
5

Exactly, its pretty much impossible so I wouldn't be throwing out random percentages, its speculation.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:17 AM
3

Where did you get 90% from? I've read its about 20% or so
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:44 AM
3

you're still responsible for your own life and to keep your shit together. If a girl fucks your shit up, you were never the shit in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:54 PM
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My guess is the bouncer knew the girls and wanted to fuck them, is already fucking one of them, or had some random chip on his shoulder for why he didn't want you talking to them. After like 6 years of gaming this has happened to me maybe once or twice. It's extremely rare, just go about your night as best you can after if it ever happens again. If it starts happening regularly maybe its a sign you're being creepy/weird/socially uncalibrated, but I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:51 AM
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Do NOT fight bouncers. Fucking dumbest thing to do, easiest way to get the shit beat out of you since theres more bouncers than you, bigger bouncers usually, and even if you win the fight police will side with a bouncer over you. Not only this, but lets say you win the fight, don't get arrested, you now can't game there ever again. You don't gain anything. +1 for holding frame and continuing your night
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:50 AM
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Lifting has nothing to do with AF/BB. Lifting gets your foot in the door for her to notice you, and gives you more confidence so you're more likely to act the AF side of things than the BB side of things. However, if youre BB then being big won't make a shit of difference once a girl realises this. But, better to be a big scary lookin BB than a weak looking BB.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:47 AM
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This is definitely possible. However I think more telling is OP feeling the need to tell us all about it like he has won a victory or something. You got a number from a hb6 bro. Good job. We're all real proud of you
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 10:56 AM
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"She is my first stable plate, and as soon as I begin lifting I plan on getting more plates." This is dangerous language. One event in your life beginning isn't pertinent to another starting. You should be adding plates regardless if you're lifting or not. Goes for everything else in your life. Don't wait till 'x' to start doing 'y'. Just do both and they'll fall into place.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:08 AM
2

don't fucking listed to 'RULES'. They're guidelines, you can either follow them or not. The guideline is not to text TOO MUCH except for logistics cauz it implies your needy and beta and don't have anything beta to do. But if you reply after a few hours and say reply then thats fine. The trick is BALANCE. You haven't really internalised anything on TRP. You've just applied a few things because people told you, and then you've lucked out and gotten a hot chick. You need to internalise abundance, …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:01 AM
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A plate is someone you're fucking. She's not your plate. She sounds more like your one-itis. Second, sounds like this girl was semi interested and as you pointed out, you bitched out and she pretty much ghosted you ever since. My guess is you were still acting pretty beta and you failed to realise it because you're still new. It'ls cool, keep practicing, keep going out, and keep reading and trying to apply the principles where you can. Also, its hung out, not hanged out.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:50 PM
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if she's asking you how much you make and is willing to break it off with you then you were never really her first choice anyway and youre simply her bb. An alpha with no money is fine and many women fuck these guys for ages because he brings other value besides wealth. A bb with no money however has no value so in her eyes you're worthless to her and thus she left. Start again, spin more plates, and question why you were viewed as a BB to this woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:42 PM
1

can i ask why youre in an LTR with a woman you'd be relieved to have broken up with? Just break up with her if thats the case
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:25 PM
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This is way over thinking it. 10's are the same as 6's, they're just fucking girls. Your game shouldn't change. You should still be outgoing, confident, unattached to the outcome, funny, cocky and everything else we say here. It's just harder cauz a 10 intimidates you
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 07:47 AM
10

Yeah you fucked this one up. Why take her to an expensive place? Do you want to try show her you're a provider or you're a lover. By saying come over, then taking her to an expensive bar, in her mind, you're sending her mixed messages. Women want to put you in a box, and they hate it when you try to jump from one box into another. You start off beta, then try to go alpha, then when she lays a few massive shit tests on you to see what you're really like, you fail them, she knows youre a beta, and…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:38 AM
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haha i was thinking that the whole time i was reading the post
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 05:28 AM
1

I've already read all that stuff. I was single for all my life until 24, went into a 2 year LTR, now I'm single again. I learned a whole shit load from both. It comes in waves and stages. I don't think you should forgoe being single at all. I'm merely stating there is a case to have a short LTR or two also whilst youre young. I'm a stripper, bodybuilder, work in STEM, and used to be a professional gamer. I've seen and done a lot of things mate. I believe you need both and can learn from both. Be…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:19 AM
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I wasn't pertaining to marriage, just being in an LTR or whatever arrangement you choose to have kids in. If you're just with a girl casually as your LTR then they can't take half your shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:22 AM
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It has nothing to do with her being a unicorn. It has to do with her being someone who CAN help and support you, but not someone you HAVE TO RELY ON to help and support you. Friends, family, relatinoships, co-workers, EVERYBODY gives you some form of help and support in some way, nobody is an island who has 0 contact with anybody from the world and gets their goals accomplished. It just doesn't happen like that. You have to be the driving force of your goals, vision and life, but other people ca…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:20 AM
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You can still have 100's of girls throw themselves at you and be in an ltr with someone. You get bored of women after hundreds mate. If you lost your virginity you'd know that
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:25 AM
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jesus did I hit a nerve or something lol? There's so many things wrong with what you said. Not many guys would want 0 interaction from a woman besides a ONS. Its not '100% TRUE'. Nothing is 100%. Theres billions of men on the planet, hundreds of millions of 'alphas'. No way 100% of them are like this. Some people like womens company, and theres are a hundred ways to go about enjoying their company. The one that typically works the best is where the man leads the interaction and the woman joins h…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:08 AM
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You're still coming at this from a blue pill frame that you should compromise on everything with your SO. If you're leading your relationship like you should be you won't have to move to canada instead of alaska if thats what you want to do, you move to alaska and your Partner can either move with you or break up. You can still have a family and be successful, you can still be in a relationship and successful. The commmon denominator is YOU, not if youre single or not. That's hamstering away you…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 11:53 PM
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If we're looking at what women do, then we would see that millions of them have rioted, picketed, screamed and complained to join the workforce and work full time. A lot of women do want to work, some women would rather be taken care of, almost all women want to work, feel valued for their work, AND be taken care of.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 11:45 PM
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No, keep doing it/saying it, and hold frame when people shit test you. Joke around and take it further if you have to, but try not to start and argument or a serious discussion about it, because that just leads to a shit storm.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 12:58 AM
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Give them a high-5 and say 'who are you'. Most importantly though is EYE CONTACT. my guess, and the reason they weren't stopping and were creeped out, is because you weren't looking them in the eye and that makes you look weird and people feel weird. Have you shoulders back, head level (not looking down, up or to the side) and look them directly in the eye with a slight smile and try giving them a high-five and say something like 'hey im xyz, who are you'.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 12:41 AM
1

Great FR, let me know how it goes with your theories!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:13 AM
1

if you think you have social proof because some guy comes up and talks to you then you have a looong way to go..
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 07:41 AM
1

Would you call a guy who fucks another guys girlfriend a piece of shit or a whore or some derogative term?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:49 AM
2

its possible, I wouldn't say its a rule
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:08 AM
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you wont be low t from a few cycles or short term blasting and cruising. Plus you get way better results than just shredding faster.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:00 AM
12

They aren't magic, but they're pretty close haha
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:00 AM
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Literally like everyone in this thread is blaming her and calling her a whore because of it and acting like she shouldn't have done it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:57 AM
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lmao jesus someone is a lil angry today. When you say 'girls tell this stuff for a reason' it would be logical to assume the reason is to do something about it, like beat someone up or kill them. Especially when you replied to my comment which was a reply to someone stating it was her fault the guy is dead, which is flat out wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:57 AM
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She can tell you for a reason, doesn't mean you have to go fucking kill someone. Have some agency and responsibility for your actions.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:05 AM
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Sexual strategy is immoral. She's using her traits to fuck chads who already have gf's. Why the fuck does she care about some chick she doesn't know if she gets what she wants out of it. We don't blame guys who fuck married chicks or dudes who have gf's, we shouldn't blame girls who do the same either.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:25 PM
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You can, it's called steroids! Much cheaper than fake tits too. Unfortunately you can't fix the 6'3 part
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:19 PM
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This isn't really chicks fault. She told a dude who told who then went with the guy who killed him. The guys are fucken idiots, and should take full responsibility for their actions. If you go kill someone cauz a grill told you 'he called me a slut' then you deserve what happens to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:08 PM
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I don't, especially since the very reason you're on this forum is so you can better attain the the low brow apes with a big ass that you don't have to club over the head lol. Also, women did serve a very real and different purpose back in cavemen days. It just happens that these days being a woman isn't a benefit to society the way it used to be
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:29 PM
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This is exactly the point. You shouldn't appreciate women for the same reasons as a man. I like to hang out with the women I date because they're the fun part of the day when I can stop stressing at work or the gym and just fuck around with and have fun, watch a movie, fuck them, tease them, do light hearted things with. Women should be the spice of your life, not the main aspect of your life
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:56 AM
1

Yeah English probably isn't. When people say WC it almost always means they're European
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:03 PM
11

haha shit I stand corrected. Does actually prove my point though, even he says its better to try have both, which is ideal, but having game is essential
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:30 AM
24

'A woman of any decent SMV shouldn't have debt because beta orbiters will buy her whatever she wants, up to and including a college education.' I think this is flatout wrong. Theres millions of women who are pretty attractive, there aren't that many betas willing to pay their college education. SOME will, but the vast majority wont.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:32 AM
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Anyone who says looks trump status hasn't internalized anything RP in my opinion. I don't think I can remember Rollo Tomassi mentioning looks once when talking about red pill concepts. It's almost always talking about how a man acts or status etc. Having a 6 pack is better than not having a 6 pack if you have nothing else going for you. But status, confidence, charisma etc will always be greater than the guy without it. Ideally you'd have a 6 pack with status + charisma etc
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:29 AM
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Use it as motivation if you want to. Nor does it give you an excuse not to try. Take the video for what it is. An extremely attractive guy in extraordinary circumstances that led to a few random 6's on the street being impressed. This shouldn't be your expectation, but doesn't mean it's not possible either
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:22 AM
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The point of looks don't matter isn't that hot guys don't pick up or it doesn't necessarily makes things easier. It's that you don't have to be a model top .1% of male looks to be able to attract and fuck hot chicks. This is an EXTREME example of an extremely attractive guy whos obviously got cameras and the entire thing is setup to show off his body and garner this kind of reaction from women. Looks matter, to a point. Beyond that, everything else maters more.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 10:57 PM
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It does encompass physique too usually, my misconception was with the 'pro' part, which there is a big difference between the pro's who make a living from it and the amateurs who do it for fun
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:10 AM
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I suppose. When I saw Pro bodybuilder I assume Pro to mean makes a living from bodybuilding, which are usually much bigger/leaner than the guys who have competed once or twice, like myself
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:08 AM
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6-8% at 6'3 195 lbs isn't pro body builder. Height makes a huge difference. I was those exact stats pretty much with some gear and 3-4 years training when I was prepping for my Mens Physique show
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 11:09 PM
1

I agree, but theres being congruent and theres being miserable because you think you can't do it or something. Also, you can have fun on the weekends and party and still have your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:54 AM
3

who said I was faking it and miserable the rest of the week? Stop projecting
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:41 AM
1

Your problem is 2 things: It seems like a big part of you is placing fulfillment you get from life on your fulfillment you get from women, which is just flat out the wrong way to go about things. Make your life awesome and interesting because you love doing things, and women will be a part of it, and usually they'll add more to it. You're probably the problem. As I briefly mentioned above, you are probably pretty boring, average, not that fun to be around, not cracking jokes, not the life of the…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 02:50 AM
3

Because most men have been raised to think a 31 year old attractive doctor is the jackpot. Now, depending how a 31 year old attractive doctor acts, I would say that is a good thing. But if shes a bitch, entitled etc then who cares what she does
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:48 PM
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your weight won't help things, but plenty of fatter guys pull chicks. My guess is you're trying way to hard and come off desperate and the girls can feel it and decide not to fuck you. You're being too outcome dependent. Making out and stuff is great, but if youre making out so that you can tick off in your head 'yes i made out with her, now im one step closer to the sex' then she's going to feel that and be turned off. Change you're attitude, act more aloof, be more alpha, care less about the o…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:02 PM
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You preface everything with saying you're not a noob and you've read a bunch of material, but if you've read a bunch of material then you'd know it doesn't matter if she's your wife or not you should act how you would act with any woman. Walk away, go to the gym, go do things you have to do, tell her she's being irrational and a bitch and walk away or tell her to talk to you later when she's less emotional.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 07:22 AM
2

I'm saying OP shouldn't have been surprised or even find it bad or dishonorable or something. He's complaining AWALT and acting like it's a pretty big deal, which I don't think it should be given RP principles. So I guess I'm agreeing with you. I thought by 100% RP all the time you meant acting alpha or something
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 03:48 AM
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Attraction for a woman is based on how much she can gain from you. If all she gains is fun and tingles then thats what she values in you, she was attracted to the boss because he could give her different things. But the point is that she's still gaining VALUE in her eyes, so its attraction either way. You can enjoy someone for one reason, and enjoy being with someone else for another reason. RP is 100% of the time, you just haven't internalised everything 100% yet. You don't have to hate women a…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 01:44 AM
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Why does this bother you? If you found out she fucked a co-worker previously or some random dude previously you wouldn't have cared, but because it was someone in a position of power and got some benefits suddenly its this horrible thing? Sounds like you're either jealous of her being able to do that, or insecure. Can't blame you for being jealous, shit I wish I could fuck someone and get benefits haha
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 11:34 PM
1

taking breaks is necessary, but probably not for 10-15 every 45-50. But like I said, its about your rhythm and habits and what works best for the individual
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 11:54 PM
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What does taking cold showers have to do with anything? lol. Btw, probably best you post in askTRP. To answer though, it just takes time, discipline, and a passion for what you do. Nobody can force themselves to work 80+ hours a week for something they don't love, or see a tangible good outcome from working 80+ hours per week. You probably don't need to, or should be, studying 80 hours a week. However, if you have a job, gym, study etc then they should all total up to something around the 80 hou…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:50 PM
2

Like others have said, you haven't even really begun to change yet. Training for 4 months and part of that being a break hasn't done shit. Keep doing what you're doing for the next year or two and come back and see how you go. Do you still have no job/future career prospects?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:09 PM
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I agree with OneRedYear, they aren't trying to get commitment from these dudes in the first place (usually) so they aren't getting something past their gate in the first place. For someone whos 26 to sleep with 20 guys is like 2 guys a year, assuming she lost her virginity around 16. Not really a huge deal in my opinion, but like you said, thats my opinion. If it works for you, then great. And my own thoughts are similar to yours. Just thought it would be good for other guys to see what might wo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:49 AM
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I think that's part of the problem with TRP mentality towards sex, partner count, CC riding and marriage. It's too black and white, the girls are either whore CC riders or virgins till marriage. I don't think its unreasonable to expert a girl to sleep with some people (maybe n count of 10-20) by the time she settles down. I don't see a problem with a girl deciding that she wants to be with you for the rest of the life, as long as she thinks you're settling for her and she's a great LTR and does …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:00 AM
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Take pussy off the pedestal. She's just a person. And people like fucking other attractive people. Get over it. You could be out there fucking attractive people too. Learn to take pussy off the pedestal for the good things they do, and also the bad. It doesn't lead to anything helpful, focus on the good things you're doing. Also, if there weren't hot chicks like her that liked fucking, then we wouldn't be fucking them either, and who want's to go through life banging ugly ass boring girls
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:37 PM
3

Doesn't matter. If OP is still acting like a autist then focus on that because thats what we can control
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:53 AM
1

Honestly if I had to take a guess i'd say you're approaching them weirdly or at the wrong times and you probably have a lot of outcome dependence. When you approach a woman and she feels like you're trying to get something from her (her number, sex, validation etc) she immediately shy's away because it feels gross and weird. My advice is to youtube RSD Tyler outcome independence and watch everything on it
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:51 AM
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I mean the pink haired chick probably over reacted but I'd think it was weird as fuck if im standing there and some guy just poked me. Man the fuck up and say excuse me, don't randomly touch/poke people
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:47 AM
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Exactly. It sucks whats happened OP, and analyzing why you fucked up is a good idea, but you didnt fuck up because you sucked at dancing. You fucked up because she could tell it affected you because you weren't good at dancing. You're not going to be good at everything, and someone will always be better than you at everything. So you have to find a way to deal with your shortcomings in an alpha way so that you don't let something like this affect you again
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:46 AM
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What are the drawbacks of fb? You can literally spend as little or as much time on it as you want. What are the benefits? It's way easier to keep in contact with people, organise events, display social status/proof, connect with girls, get hit up by girls, promote yourself and generally be a social outgoing person. What are the benefits of NOT having fb? Maybe you don't spend 5-10 minutes a day on it. Are you really being so productive 24/7 that you don't have 10 minutes a day to post or do some…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:34 PM
1

I pretty much guarantee no chick thinks 'oooo he's so mysterious' if you don't have a fb/insta/snapchat/whatever. She probably doesn't even think about it, or about you, because you never enter her mind now. If you can pull it off without it, good for you, but to me its just shooting yourself in the foot and then trying to say its to your benefit.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:29 PM
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All social media is for is to get pussy, stay in contact easier with mates and occasionally see what people are up to. Having a good fb or insta or snapchat or whatever doesn't take up that much time at all, and can give you a lot of benefits. Social media is just an amplification of who you already are. If you're already a loser, social media won't help you and you probably may as well delete it, if you're already a cool, social, alpha guy and it shows on social media, then it will be a good be…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:25 PM
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Quitting social media doesn't relate to any of those things. You can have a fb and snapchat and spend all of 2 minutes on them if you want. If you're the type of guy who can't have a fb or social media because you get addicted to it, then you need to change what kind of guy you are, not quit social media.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:21 PM
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I found this to be true as well, more chicks at my Highschool (university was physics so we had 0 girls, literally) studied WAY more than the guys did. Most of the girls studied a lot and just did as they were told. Most of the guys either went out drinking, were doing apprenticeships (a trade, I live in Australia) or doing other shit, some studied, and did better than the girls, but on average the girls did better.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 11:07 PM
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is your homework marked and graded? If you don't do homework you're still not doing course requirement and therefore you should still lose your marks. How is a school supposed to know you were going to do well on a test if you don't submit any of the homework showing you are doing well in your studies? The test doesn't come before the homework, they can't see you did well on the test and thus don't need to do the homework. It would be irresponsible and stupid of the school to not guide and asses…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 11:04 PM
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just gotta guess the best you can from experience what is your fault, and what is plain dumb luck or an act of god. You have a fantastic mindset for approaching everything as something you can fix and change and taking responsibility for it, because you'll be able to change a LOT and learn A LOT with that mentality. Only issue with that mentality is that's its possible you did the right thing, hit dumb bad luck, then throw out your theory for the wrong reason, not because it wasn't right, but be…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:15 AM
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Damn pretty good top comment in the dead bedroom subreddit, least he got some good advice
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:58 AM
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if you actually believe that you should probably go fuck off and join them then.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:46 AM
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men aren't supposed to lead women? Are you serious?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 01:01 PM
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This sub has gone to shit because of all the new nerdy red pill wannabees who don't believe that this sort of shit can happen if you have rock solid frame, confidence and lead women. They think it has to be made up because they haven't seen first hand what women can really be like, so in fact, this sub is shit because of people like you
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 08:33 AM
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Most prostitutes you've seen probably don't cost thousands of dollars for a night like the OP mentions. Having been to Amsterdam/Crotia/eastern european countries that only cost 50-100 euros, let me telll you, those girls are fucking AT LEAST 8's and usually 9's and 10's, they're fucken amazing.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 08:31 AM
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Meh I dunno, if I had a bunch of cash and was in town for a night I'd rather just hire a hot as fuck prostitute than try finding a chick to bang. Looks make things easier, it doesn't guarentee sex with 9's or 10's whenever you want like money/prostitution does
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:59 AM
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spoilers This is one of my favorite films because it shows TRP principles in a positive light OBVIOUSLY to the audience for the first time that i've seen. Unfortunately the movie does pussy out a little towards the end when the ryan gosling character does get with the chick because he 'shows his true side' etc etc and goes back to the blue pill ideology of having a girl will make you a better man and a unicorn blah blah blah. Still a great funny film though
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:25 PM
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I doubt it's made up. Plenty of times girls have fucked a guy within half an hour of meeting him. No reason this wouldn't have happened in the entire world EVER. Always assume attraction and lead and you'd be surprised where it can get you
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:15 PM
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Its literally as high as the chick wants it to be. I knew a few girls, 6's or 7's at best, who lost count at 60 when they were 20 or 21. I'd say on average most girls are around 20 by about 20 or 21, but like everyone says, you'll never ever know what the actual count is. Any girl in single digits for me i practically call a saint these days haha
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:47 AM
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He has a lot of other great youtube videos to watch about leadership, managing people, inspiring others and so on. I've read his book 'Start with Why' and it was really good. Not necessarily read pill, but for anyone looking at ways to better manage and lead people, definitely worth a read.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 10:58 PM
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I disagree, social media may not get you pussy directly ie. you message her on instagram and she comes and fucks you. But it will get you pussy indirectly. Maybe you meet a girl out, she adds your fb/insta/snapchat/whatever and see's youre a cool dude and you do cool 'insert activity here' and is now more attracted. Don't put time energy into pursuing girls purely through social media, but to not use social media as a tool in your tool belt for building attraction is just unnecessarily shooting …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 02:03 AM
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SMV is based on more than looks. I know lots of ugly guys who fuck tonnes of hot women because everyone knows who they are and that they fuck lots of women. I also know lots of hot guys who fuck lots of women because everyone knows who they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 10:23 AM
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There's some quote from RSD Tyler that goes something like 'People say successful people get lucky, which is true. But It's also not a coincidence that when you work on something day in day out for years you seem to get lucky a lot'. I've had a lot of similar situations like yours where I didn't do much, or 'stumbled' upon a girl or a situation where I could fuck a girl quicker than normal or we clicked better than normal and she was keen to fuck because of that. Well, thats because I put myself…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:21 AM
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Having integrity and getting a lot of pussy aren't mutually exclusive. You can get a lot of pussy and do it in the way you want to, you just can't be a doorknob pushover about it
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:11 AM
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You can show compassion for people and have it be okay. The reason you're pissed is because you still care, and you wanted validation from her for caring about her. This is where you went wrong. You can care about someone, hear their problems and try to help them, but not be attached to whether or not they take your advice, thank you for it, or reciprocate it. I feel like if you had simply said I miss you too, we had fun, hope you're all good, and then gone about your day happily and not expecte…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:37 PM
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You're right with all your points on dread game, dead bedroom, women weaponizing sex etc, however I think you were wrong to use the example from AskTRP which prompted this post. Personally I think the guy example in the AskTRP either failed a comfort test or something similar and messed up with his LTR which is why she didn't fuck him. Your post is however, correct, if your current LTR is constantly doing this to you. once every few months etc is fine imo
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:21 PM
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Where are these videos? The PUA vids I see of RSD shows them killing it with girls. Ugly movie stars will fuck countless girls because they have status, a shit tonne more than some random hot guy. Looks are important, but only to an extent. Then other facets are way more important
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:54 AM
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Probably the DJ and the game master if O'Pry is just sitting in the corner being a boring lil faggot. Looks matter to an extent, but they're probably least important behind status, charisma and game. They are probably ahead of money however, but usually the guy with money is pretty charismatic and has status.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:16 PM
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This is why Looks are the least important thing when it comes to attracting women in the order of: Status, Charisma, Game, Money, Looks. I used to be shredded 6'2 210 lb bodybuilder, and would get a good amount of girls. 2-3 years later im still good looking and in shape, but get more girls now than I did before. Confidence, game, improving status trump looks EVERY TIME. If you want to get back into shape then get back into shape, but no, you don't have to be in great shape to attract women. (Yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 01:01 AM
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Nothing matters. Go decide for yourself if it matters to you or not
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 08:54 PM
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Probably. Honestly, with how much women get hit on every single day, to have said yes 15-20 times over like 10 YEARS is pretty forgivable. If she loses her virginity at 16, then sleeps with a new guy every 6 MONTHS thats an n-count of 20 at 26. I've seen 18 or 19 y.o girls with an n-count of 20, still wasn't surprised
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 10:05 PM
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Sorry, but this doesn't sound like red flags on her part, more like your fuck up and letting yourself go and she branch swung. She doesn't sound BPD either. Sounds like a regular old chick who got tired of her guy because he became a chump
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:54 AM
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Also had a good lol at her n count being 20 making a guy go into beta shame. at 26 I hear a girl i'm banging has only had 20 I think thats about average haha. Anything in single digits I think shes a virgin haha
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:50 AM
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This is exactly what game is. You don't have to do a million fancy things to fuck a girl. You have to not be retarded, be in her vicinity, and act like you have a spine, and a girl will probably fuck you. Also, in the real world, people care about their friends and people in their social circle, and let them know if they're leaving. I treat female friends and acquaintances like I would males, I give them the option that we're going, come if they want, don't if they don't want. Good job OP, keep …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 11:25 PM
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The movie fucken sucked, the books were terribly written but were a bit more hardcore. It's the books everybody liked
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 10:59 PM
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dont overthink it, just say what you like
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 08:59 AM
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I listed a few examples above. But typically if you suggest to a girl 'i love when you wear dresses' and next time you see her shes in a dress then you can say 'I like you wore this dress for me, makes your ass look great.' You better believe if you tell a girl what you like them wearing they will usually wear it for you the next time you see them
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 08:51 AM
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2) is flat out wrong. You can't meet girls at the gym? You don't go to a cafe to get coffee and chat up the girl working there? You don't pass women on the street/tram/train? You don't ever go out to a bar/club/park/anything? Sounds to me like youre not really trying and are crying because it's a bit hard and difficult and you're trying to protect your ego. Go out, approach a woman IN PERSON and get REALLY Fucken rejected, and realise it doesn't make a shit of fucken difference. You'll go about …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:52 PM
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It depends on the values of the man. If a man values himself as not being someone who gets into conflict, holds frame etc and walks away, she will probably respect that more. If she knows though that he's running away because he's scared or a pussy then that's different. Honestly it's best not to get into these type of thoughts, because it's still placing the impetus of what you do on WOMEN. You want to do what you do because YOU want to do it. Not because a woman will find it more respectable o…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:47 PM
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Well thats just flat out wrong. Fuck tonnes of guys I know who are fat/overweight have fucked hot girls
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:41 PM
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Good points. Cohabitating actually makes it easier to dread IMO. When you're not living together and you go do your own thing for 5-6 hours, she has no idea you're doing your own thing. If she's sitting at home and you're out doing your own thing and she hasn't heard from you, you better believe she's going to be more worried and wonder where you are. I don't think cohabitating is a good thing though, as you're right that it kills attraction. When I was in a LTR I rarely saw my ex 2 days in a ro…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:06 PM
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This is retarded logic. You sound like a SJW saying a man can't talk about abortion or rape because he's never experienced it. Stop coming here to rant, complain and vent. Being short is a bit of a disadvantage, but it's nothing you can't overcome. Stop being a lil bitch and maybe you'll pick up women.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:11 AM
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Stop looking for confirmation bias. I'm 6'2, 210 lbs with abs, a stripper, and I still get rejected a whole bunch. I get laid a whole bunch too, but nothing will ever stop you being rejected.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 06:07 AM
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Post sounds a lil cringey but oh well, good work little one. Just make sure you don't get all attached now to the first girl who gave you validation and attention
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:24 AM
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It's possible you fucked something up, but by her initial texts with you from what you described she wasn't super keen or interested anyway to begin with. Sometimes girls go on dates cauz they're bored, or not sure about you, or any number of a hundred reasons. They'll also reject you for any number of a hundred reasons. Think about what you might have done wrong for a minute or two, but I wouldn't dwell on it or take it as an indication of your progress. If you only mark you progress from indiv…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:13 AM
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Exactly. I know for me I hated never being able to tell my plate I thought she was hot, it doesn't feel congruent and feels like I'm trying too hard to be 'RP'. This way it feels much more natural, and even works in your favor. Girls love doing little things like wearing this dress or that g string for the guy they respect and like.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:38 AM
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You can still give 'compliments' if you like, but it's more to frame it as you like what she's doing for YOU, and it feels more like shes submitting to you rather than you're complimenting her and raising her above you, if that makes sense. Ie "Wear this skirt, I like the way your ass looks in it' "Damn I love the way you bend over when I'm fucking you" "You're adorable, I might keep you around'. All these you're giving her a compliment and letting her know whats sexy FOR YOU, and yet you're not…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:28 AM
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Nope, just something to bear in mind
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:25 AM
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Girls will actually do this from time to time. It may not be that he turns her on really, but sometimes a girl will fuck a guy to throw him a bone so he keeps doing the things he's doing for her which she does appreciate in a BB kinda way. Don't be surprised if she is or isn't OP.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:48 AM
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only further enforces that women don't care all that much about looks, it matters how you make them feel
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:41 AM
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Women say lots of shit, and yet still date shorter guys. The amount of times I've heard a girl say they hate short guys, yet are dating a shortish guy or something like that is a lot. Watch what women do, not say.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:47 PM
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It's exactly because it can be controlled that people don't like being insulted for it. It's because being overweight says something about you. It says you don't care, are unmotivated, lazy, etc etc which makes people incredibly ashamed about themselves and don't want to hear the negative criticism over and over again. People hate it when the truth stares them in their fat ugly faces
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:45 PM
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Point #4 doesn't really prove much, it shows women are victims of more sexual assault than men, when the point you're going for is that men are victims of sexual assault at higher rates than publicly thought. Especially since the once place the public does generally acknowledge a lot of male victims of rape takes place is in prison, and even in prison women are sexually assaulted 3 times more than men! See the point? I'm very clearly looking directly at the facts, and the facts are about what I …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:16 AM
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He's stating men rape women more than women rape men, which would be true. The whole study you linked is stating, of MALE VICTIMS, the % of perpetrators being male or female, more females are sexual assaulting/raping Males, than Males are sexually assaulting Males. Not that males are being sexually assaulted more than females.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:07 AM
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This study doesn't indicate women rape more than men. It indicates that women rape men more than men rape men. Even then, point number 2 states that of male victims, 34.7% reported a female perpetrator, meaning 65.3% of perpetrators were men, meaning men do rape men more than women rape men. You're not drawing the right conclusion from the evidence in the survey.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:39 AM
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No don't apologize, however that shit is tough as fuck if its both of them in your face haha, woulda been funny as fuck to see. Just say yeah so what when they ask you and state you weren't exclusive and you did nothing wrong, and if you really got balls coulda said something like 'there enough of me for both of you' hahaha. The trick is to have fun with it and be amused that they're pissed at you. You're amused because you know you have 10 other girls and it doesn't bother you to lose 2, and yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:24 AM
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As others mentioned "You're not attractive enough to treat women the way you do." is simply a shit test to see if you are as confident/cocky as you seem to be. Whatever you replied with probably confirmed to her that you aren't, so she left, shit test worked perfectly. Keep reading the sidebar, improve yourself, drop the weight etc and start fixing things now. You don't have to be a model to do well with girls, as you've found at since you were able to talk and attract at least 2 girls whilst be…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:35 AM
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Stop with that whiny faceitious crap, it's what pussy BP men do. Spot on ozaku7. If you're on TRP saying my girl did xyz with some guy and not me then it's already too late and its your own fault.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:27 AM
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don't be deceitful about it if you're gonna do it, just throw in a cocky up-front joke about it or something. To hide it and try to dig her own grave is just petty and stupid, and something a child would do
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 11:30 PM
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Having sex in your teens doesn't mean you also can't have a lot of sex later as well, missing out in your teens and getting a lot of sex later aren't correlated either. If you miss out then you miss out, end of story, work on yourself and make sure you don't miss out any longer. This just sounds like hamstering why you don't wanna be one of 'the cool kids'. Teenage years are fantastic for doing all the shit you described, cauz you're only a young teen once. Enjoy that shit
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:00 AM
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If you can't go hang out with mates because you don't wanna eat junk food then I do question where your head is at. Go out with them, just don't eat junk food. If you don't like them anyway then that's fine, you don't have to be a stoic island of a guy just because you're 'improving' yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 02:57 AM
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I think this is wrong. You have control over how people treat/act towards you. Act like a doormat, people will treat you like a doormat. Act like a boss, people will treat you like one. OP your problem is that you probably view your highschool friends as cooler than you, or more popular/alpha/funnier or whatever than you are, and your confidence, body language, social attitude reflect this. Whether this is STILL the case, or it simply was and you haven't changed enough for the them to realise th…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:41 PM
1

Just knew a guy from the gym who was in the industry, I asked him if I could come try it out and worked from there
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:33 PM
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Just depends on the girl, how many girls there are and how hot they are on a given night.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:32 PM
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The shows don't pay as well as private gigs at a hens night or something. We get around 300 dollars for 3 hours. Private shows are usually 150-250 for 30 mins or so, and depending how popular your company or you are as an individual will determine how frequently you book your gigs. However, stage shows are way more fun, easier to hook up with girls, and are a much better night. You seriously don't have to be that ripped, I used to be in much better shape, and a lot of the guys are in okay shape,…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:32 PM
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maybe 20%? Bangs them maybe 5% of the time
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:22 PM
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I don't have a high natural energy state, it's like anything you want to train, you have to practice and work at it until it looks like it becomes natural.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:21 PM
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Ahhh okay, fair enough. My bad!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:30 PM
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You're right, theres no ONE thing, but all those factors contribute to Status or State. I think you're splitting hairs tbh
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:14 PM
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Definitely agree, they matter to an extent. But once you've done what you can you really have to stop worrying so much about it and just have fun
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:11 PM
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Youre right, i am a monkey. The brain hasn't really since then, which is why it still works. Chances are I'll be fucking your bride to be while you're sitting in a corner somewhere having the most intellectual conversation you can think of
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:11 PM
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My teacher told me my reading is at a 3rd grade level, moving up in the world!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:06 PM
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Yup, it's a beautiful thing haha. Can also be a bit of a curse at the same time if you can't get the ball rolling enough to get you some momentum in your night
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:05 PM
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Was exactly the point of me posting it here. Once you maximize looks how you can ie. dress well, good body language etc, it really is so much more important how you act than how good looking you are. You'll get easy ones every now and then because you're good looking I won't lie, but it pales in comparison to how much more action you get by being more outgoing and the center of attention
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:04 PM
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No one is forcing you to do anything. You can literally do whatever you want. However, being loud, the center of attention, having fun and fucking around is generally what attracts a lot of women to you. Use it if you want to, don't if you don't want to.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:35 AM
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Knew a guy from the gym who was looking for topless waiters, worked for a company that also had strippers, eventually I filled in for a guy and just practiced and then started doing it. Just fell into it really
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:02 AM
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Who said you have to be some chicks clown or dancing monkey? You're not doing it FOR them. You're doing it because its fun, and then they come to you. It's an entirely different mental point of origin
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 03:28 AM
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Nah mate they're probably cheating on you with each other haha
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 01:18 AM
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Nothing will destroy the last remnants of being able to trust a girl like seeing a hundred of them at a strip show.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:59 AM
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I agree. Overall not really a fan of 'being quiet' or giving her less than she is giving you in conversation, to an EXTENT. I think the reason this is seen generally as good advice is because a lot of guys are fucking themselves over with conversation so being quieter does help them. However, if you can chat well or generate great vibes and energy by talking with a girl, that will be much better than being more reserved or quiet, in my opinion. The most alpha guys I know do tend to talk quiet a …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:20 AM
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Well obviously not, otherwise this FR wouldnt be here haha. You can have the highest SMV, but if you act like a needy pussy then you will still turn women off
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 11:03 PM
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You need outcome independence, which it sounds like you already know, but you don't know how to get. Try searching on youtube for RSD Tyler Outcome independence, he has a fuck tonne of great videos on the topic that can help you re-train your thoughts around the issue. One good way, which you already did pretty much, is to re-value what you did well. Don't put your value and therefore your emotions on getting the 'result', put it on the fact you went out and practiced and got better and know you…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:30 AM
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SMV, Alpha widowing girls, being 'alpha' etc is more about how you ACT than how you LOOK. One of the most 'alpha' guys in our group was a 5'8 skinny guy with decent facial aesthetics, but he grew up having 4 brothers who were also very alpha and was never afraid of anything, so everyone knew who he was and nobody fucked with him, guys showed him tonnes of respect and girls flocked to him. Also know, you don't really have a choice. Get better at it. What else are you gonna do? Never speak to wome…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 12:56 AM
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Just get started. Do whatever you think it is will get you on the path the fastest. This could be working out more, approaching more girls, doing better in school if you study, all that shit. Just start doing it, stop making excuses, and keep on doing it. The worst thing you can do is think you need to wait for the right time to get started. You're going to get some things wrong, change your approach to how you improve yourself, make mistakes, and a whole bunch of other things, but these are imp…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 11:12 PM
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Thats giving them too much credit. IMO they simply have no idea about all that shit and just vote for her because she's a woman and trump is a 'misogynist'
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 11:11 PM
1

the % of divorce rate initiated by women is like 75-80%. Thats a pretty indicative number right there.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 09:32 AM
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Thats true, however women will tend to branch swing or dump a guy much more readily if he's not providing what he once used to
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 04:28 AM
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the 'blue pill' way is that she loves you because you're 'special' or some shit and that even when you lose the things she loved you for in the first place, she would still love you because thats generally how men love women. As shown on TRP often women love because of how a guy is at a given moment, not what they were or did for them in the past. You have to be your best version of yourself all the time
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:01 AM
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Women can and do love men, just like you said, not in the way men expected to be loved. I love it when I hear a woman say she loves me because I'm driven, masculine, take care of things, lead her etc etc. Just redefine the things you're looking for when hearing a woman talk about why she loves you, and you'll realize it's still possible
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:17 PM
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Nice work mate, trying to get the technique down with one of my plates who is relatively open to threesomes, I'll definitely put some of what you say into action! Definitely my hardest thing is girls seeming to be picky, and if you're plate isnt like a hb8+ it gets harder since girls only like the top 20% of girls as well, not just men Question, with tinder is your profile saying you're a guy or a couple looking for a third girl to fuck? Whats your tinder profile and bio look like in general?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 03:05 AM
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Not Rollo but just get the fuck out there and start doing it. Action is the biggest advantage a man can have. There is literally nothing stopping you from leaving your house right now and going and approaching girls on the street and start talking to them. There is nothing stopping you from going to the gym, throwing a party, trying to meet up with friends, finding a hobby to meet MORE friends. There is nothing stopping you from cutting off the women in your life who are using you as an emotiona…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:29 AM
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It's great you've made progress don't get me wrong, but don't get caught up in identifying yourself now as 'that guy'. Because nights will happen where things don't go well and your ego/identity will take a hit and you'll feel like shit. Know you had a good night, you'll have bad nights and it doesn't matter either way, and you're still no real different. Being 'RP' doesn't all of a sudden make you better or different
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 03:26 AM
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You need to take your self down a peg mate, youre not some fucking god cauz you got a few numbers one night. You're not better than your friends, shit happens.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:59 PM
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Depends how much size you have when you're <15% or not. After I did my mens physique show and put back on a few pounds and went to around 9-10% bodyfat girls were all over me, but I used steroids and would still fill a large whilst being really lean. 12ish % for natty guys might still be okay, but it depends how well you dress for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 12:03 AM
3

Eh this is true, but it's the same for guys. Do we give a fuck if a girl worked hard to be hot is just hot feminine fun care-free etc? No, we just like her because we like her.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 11:22 PM
1

I think this is flat out wrong. Sure social media is dominated by women, but you still need it. If you have an active and status giving social media, chicks will flock and recognise you for it. You don't need it to cold approach, but it sure as shit helps for social circle game, or tinder, or any other way to meet/fuck hot girls
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 01:52 AM
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Well they don't have an option. So you can sit in a corner and fucking cry about it, or you can improve yourself and do everything you can to improve yourself with game, success, gym etc so you get better results than just being ugly. Theres plenty of guys with good game who aren't that attractive who still fuck plenty of attractive girls. stop complaining
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:36 PM
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Meh this is fine. If she's told him repeatedly what she wants and he's dumb enough to still try for more then it's on him. If we switched the genders and made it about a girl complaining she's just a plate after the guy told her multiple times he just wants sex then we'd tell her she's a fucking idiot. Girls are completely within their right to be friends with a guy who's interested in them, if they've told them thats all they want. And guys are completely within their right to stay or walk away…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:09 PM
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Good field report, also highlights that shit happens, you don't have to bang everyone, and helping out a bro never hurts
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 11:32 PM
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Good story. I find it funny Amanda blocked and deleted her etc when she STILL hooked up with her. A second AWALT example in the story, how women can never own up to their actions and take the blame for anything.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:02 AM
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This is a good point, good observation
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:01 AM
1

Cool thanks, I'll keep it in mind for the next time. Got the threesome done btw! A friend of my plates ended up coming out for plates bday and we fucked her. Plate pretty much initiated it. Initially the 3rd girl just didnt say no when we asked her, so figured it was pretty much down. Just continued partying and drinking until was time to go and plate just said 'hey come with us we're getting a ride home' and the rest was history. Plate gets an extra point in my book haha. Will defs be a bit mor…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 04:09 AM
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because hormones are only a slight indication and change, not a drastic change that 100% indicates something will happen. Also, depending on the girl, the guy, if shes actuallly on the pill or not, and a hundred other reasons, she'll still bang a type of guy if she wants to
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 12:20 PM
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A girl I knew cheated on her bf with me cauz she came off the pill and was horny as fucking and wanted someone more dangerous and 'alpha'. But chicks cheat for a whole lot of reasons, the pill just adds one possibility to the list
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 12:18 PM
2

You can't be half a gangsta. You told B it was unacceptable what she did and she hasn't come back, so you have to live with it as you nexted her. You can try contacting her on fb if you want and see what happens, but who knows how you'll go. With A I wouldn't bother trying to go back, just go find someone else
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:46 AM
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People, but women especially, often hate what they are the most. Sounds like this chick has a tonne of issues, particularly self-esteem issues, which makes girls sluts the easiest.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 12:12 AM
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This is all true, but everyone has their own brand of 'alpha'. If you're worried that you don't have enough friends, chances are you're insecure, not that confident, and therefore aren't 'alpha'. It's all semantics and kinda bs anyways. However one thing your missing is that men are defined by how they see themselves. Women are defined by how others see them. So saying we're acting like the women who are overweight defining whats attractive isn't quite applicable
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 02:47 AM
1

I had a good laugh at this as well. So many newbies try to overuse RP lingo to sound like they know what they're talking about or something
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:36 AM
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Yeah with an LTR, but if its a girl you haven't met yet, then just fuck her
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 11:30 PM
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It isn't beneficial, period, with any type of girl.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 12:40 PM
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Its a yahoo post from years ago, and 99% a troll. If you are concerned or worried about this, you need to get better problems to worry about
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:34 AM
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I wonder HOW you went about telling them. A funny story about you banging a girl or something and told to entertain the group is very different from a creepy lil beta saying 'hey man guess what, I had SEX last night, with a GIRL'. I have nfi how it came up or how you said it, but its food for thought. Could be you came off as desperate or needy to your mates, which doesn't generally do well
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:15 AM
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Like others have said, you can meet new friends through social circles, going out and chatting to a dude at the bar, any sporting club/setting is fantastic, hobbies where you interact with other guys is good, cars, shooting etc
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:11 AM
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And how you act as a man (status, fame, wealth, looks) are a really damn important part as well, thats his point
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:05 AM
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Looks like you kept reading.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:47 AM
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thats how it works in a girls MIND from her perspective. However, I can't tell you how many girls I've spoken to and when I asked them why they slept with a guy they said 'Eh i dunno, he was just kind of there'. Rarely is it 'he was really hot and I was keen on him all night'. OP didnt mention it, but I wonder how many other guys were gaming her that night, bet your ass if one was good at game she probably would have banged him, but we didn't really hear about that or get to that point as she sl…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:31 AM
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Why are people surprised by this and see it as a negative thing? Of COURSE a chick is going to go for the high SMV dude, thats like complaining all the frat bros go for the hot skinny fit chick with a nice ass and big tits. However, every girl has a different interpretation of what 'high smv' is and thats why a bunch of different dudes get laid. From the photos her and the guy are nothing special, anyone can do this crap
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:18 AM
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I think he has a fair point. Look at porn, that shit can definitely be addicting and have detrimental effects to men. I think it's incredibly beta to prefer staying at home and fucking a robot rather than go out and try to meet real women to fuck, but shit, I'm all for more guys staying inside so theres less competition for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 01:11 AM
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2 Things happening here. She probably just wants attention and a shoulder to cry on and validation from that. Her saying she doesn't feel comfortable etc etc is just her worried she'll be used n hurt again etc etc. My acting MORE alpha during this you actually turn her off because she can't trust you'll stick around afterwards or some bull shit. Women do still have TWO sexual strategies, and at times you do need to cater to both. Throwing more 'alpha' traits at the situation doesn't always work.…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 12:51 AM
1

It's hard to explain and it sounds a bit contradictory. But really it boils down to the fact that you shouldn't be worried about what you're going to say or what you can say, because then you're in your head, and your best most charismatic conversation isn't going to come out if you're worried about what you should or shouldn't say. With that being said though, there are obviously dumb things to say you probably shouldn't, as its more risky and more LIKELY to lose her, although, you can usually …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 11:56 PM
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You can be alpha and an imposing person without lifting or being huge. Another generic thought: You can take a mans advice without him being perfect or 'alpha' and its still right.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 06:50 AM
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Validation is fine in the beginning, because as humans being rewarded for our hard work is what keeps us doing it usually. Just know that eventually you have to shed it in light of much more grounded and non-external things, like your passion, your goal in life etc etc, which can't be given, accepted, taken away or changed by other people, its what makes you, YOU
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 05:12 AM
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You're way over thinking this. A plate is just a one night stand that you message and see again, and then again, and again, until it becomes something regular. You're putting too much emphasis on labels and what something or someone 'is'. This girl isn't a slut, or a good girl, shes just a GIRL. You messed this up in many ways, by not escalating when you should have, by getting too drunk so you passed out, by putting too much emphasis on what she is or what she wants. You have to do what YOU wan…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:29 AM
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It can be easy to see it as validation that TRP is 'working', however, this is the wrong thought pattern to take. Because what happens when a woman doesn't approach you, or doesn't reciprocate your interested, all of a sudden, TRP isn't 'working' and your progress feels lost and stunted. This is why we say not to put any importance on external validation and walk your own path and not care about peoples thoughts or opinions about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:11 AM
1

Yeah I'm gonna go ahead and guess you're not as amazing as you think you are, or you're too invested in the outcome of the 'hot girls' and they can sense this so they don't fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:06 AM
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No it's not. Women are the gatekeepers to sex, fact. We just advocate the best strategy here to get sex from them and how sexual dynamics work.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 12:00 AM
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This is all correct, but not all applicable to every man. One of the fundamentals of TRP is, or at least should be, that it's a tool box, and a description of the way we interpret the world. Nothing more. What guys do with that interpretation, how they apply it, and where they take it is entirely up to them. Some guys might just love slaying pussy and use the tools to help him do that, some guys, like yourself, use it so they have a better chance of securing a better quality girl, or more import…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 06:31 AM
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Most women won't gladly share an alpha when they're married to him, they're too worried their meal ticket will fuck off an go for the younger, hotter chick, but thats besides the point. If you want to have an open marriage then have an open marriage, but why you'd bother keeping up the facade of a marriage and cheat and see other women you may as well be single and he's being a pussy staying in it. But OP can do whatever he wants to do, just dont expect to get high fived and applauded for it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:26 AM
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Wrong. I'm in IT and used to study physics. Girls would fucking love it when you act like an alpha/playboy/dick and then turn out to study something nerdy/stem related. It's about who you are. Not what you do
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:58 AM
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The reason you're not getting 9's and 10's isn't because of your career, it's because you think your career matters, and that thought belief and where it stems from is holding you back. You probably have other areas that are doing the same thing, and they can tell, so they dont fuck you. How many business owners don't have a very exciting job title, but still pull hot women all the time. Sure, musicians and whatever else creative do as well, but that's because they have status, something you can…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:56 AM
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Why is this an issue? You didn't click with her, so what? People have bad dates all the time for a million different reasons. Not everyone has to like everyone, and you don't have to look for a RP reason as to why.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 01:15 AM
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You're married. You should divorce your wife if you want a life of short relationships or short LTR's. We'd crucify the fuck out of a woman for a post like this, you're no better just because you're a guy. You still CHOOSE to be in a marriage or not.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:30 AM
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Asshole was the wrong word. But very conceited. What you did is the right way to go about things, the way you portray yourself as so much better than everyone else because of what you did is not a good trait though.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:35 AM
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Jesus christ could you come off as more of a smug arrogant asshole haha. Grats on what you did, but take your self accomplished attitude down a notch IMO
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:02 AM
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Actually I think thats one of the biggest problem with todays generation, and it directly contrasts with your opinion. MOST parents or people these days advocate going travelling, dicking around, not pushing yourself and having fuuuuunnn because all the baby boomers and hippies kids wanted to grow up fun and free. Most people these days have no drive or work ethic. Back in the 30's-50's you weren't forced to go to uni or become a doctor, you were probably forced to work grueling manual labor and…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:48 AM
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After having cum in a 10, let me tell you, it's really not all that great. During sex before you blow is fantastic, sure, but it's no where near as great as everyone goes on about, or as great as you would think it is considering how much effort and time people put in trying to get 10's. As soon as you really understand this, getting 10's becomes quite a lot easier, because they just become a girl like everybody else.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 12:13 AM
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Yeah true. My favorite way of saying it is 'Be your BEST self'
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 11:47 PM
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Its really semantics saying theres a difference between JBY and being 'authentic'. They mean the same shit. Girls really do want you to be yourself, as 99% of guys get all fucken weird around them and feel they have to be extra funny/charming/good looking etc to try impress them. The guys with the best game are just as funny and relaxed with women as they are with their buddies. PUA/TRP community is just sick of hearing JBY so we use 'authentic' or 'congruent' to make it sound like we have contr…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 05:47 AM
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Yeah that shit is fucked up, and I'm not saying it to try make you feel bad/insult you or whatever, just the way it is really. But what happened to your brother is preventable, or at least the risk of it can be mitigated, which is whats important
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:37 AM
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Haha no idea why you're so angry. Of course I read his post? Would have been dumb to comment on a post you don't read. He's unplugged himself at 14, good work, doesn't mean he has nothing to learn or no insight to gain. He seems to place a lot of blame on the woman in his post, but his brother is to blame as well
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:01 AM
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This is correct, I briefly covered dealing with rejection but this is a better followup post. My reaction to being rejected is to find something funny about the interaction or just ignore it and do what I was doing anyway, 9/10 out of 10 you don't look like you got rejected or the girl looks silly for rejecting you
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:09 AM
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Because I'm not waiting for an IOI before opening the conversation to them, I just do it in the moment when I feel like it or the opportunity arises. Other times I'll deliberately go approach a woman that I like and think is hot, it just depends on the situation. Depends what bad tactics you're using are, you won't always have the opportunity with every girl you want to be around friends and joking and laughing and looking cool, sometimes you will be alone and see a girl you like and will just h…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:41 PM
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I figured that was obvious, don't escalate if shes clearly not interested and or showing negative signs. But a lot of the time a girl will just go along with it if you say 'come here with me...' etc. She can say no if she wants to, but the simple act of you leading will generally create the interest she needs
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:38 PM
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Don't worry about it. If a girl is into you it will be obvious. If it's not obvious, act as you were anyway. Thats the whole point of this post
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:34 PM
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lol sorry mate but it sounds like you've got a lot of issues with womens 'entitlement'. You will get no where in a club or big social environment if all you do is wait around and have them come to you. Men approach women, it's what we do, deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:32 PM
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This sub is mostly just a bunch of people giving their opinions. Any random person can pretty much post here. Make your own decisions and see if it correlates with your own experience. Throw it away if it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:30 PM
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Depends how you look when you 'approach'. For me, opening is simply bringing girls into the conversation or saying something. If they don't respond well or I get 'rejected' I'm still having fun with my friends and talking shit and its a good time, so it's not big deal, and chances are even if the 3 girls ARE looking at you then it looks like youre a fun guy whos talking to everybody, likely raising your social proof. Also, your post STILL says you're not abundant. So what if you bomb out one nig…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 06:46 AM
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There is a lesson to learn here, don't be like your brother doing nothing at 19 but playing video games and knocking a girl up. Be better than him and improve and work on yourself
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 05:39 AM
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I think a combination of both is best, approach what you want, and if you're happy chillin and see her make eye contact then go for it, but guys seem to place too much importance if they have or havent gotten one in my opinion
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:23 AM
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Yeah thats what sparked the thought for this post. I also mean it in terms of waiting for a girl to be sufficiently 'interested and giving IOI's ' before trying to pull her to your place to fuck her, but it applies to everything in life, starting a business, moving houses..anything. And the fact that you place any importance or attempt to notice an IOI means you still haven't really gotten the whole picture of what you're trying to accomplish, its an honest indicator you still have to change you…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:55 AM
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What he's saying is that only truly alpha men really put themselves out there because they have the courage to be 'vulnerable', which leads them to greater possibility of being rejected. It's a very nuanced point, but it is one thats more true. Who do you think is more confident and secure in himself, the guy who feels he has to hide who he is, or the guy who is exactly who he is and doesn't care if people take it or leave it. The problem is he uses the word 'vulnerable' to describe this, which …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:24 AM
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If your mentality is hard next and then you still text her again before meeting and then talk to her when out and then message her AGAIN then you didn't hard next her. Stop spinning your hamster. Youre still too invested in women, especially this girl, and it showed. Your ACTIONS still scream it, even if you claim to be over it or hard nexted her. Then when someone calls you on it you get all defensive and call him and asshat and give him a faggoty passive aggressive compliment. Hate to break it…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:08 AM
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It's always been said that TRP is a toolbox, use what you want, don't use what you don't want. The ideologies of TRP are pretty sound, however TRP reddit can be really depressing and only looks at information to confirm its bias about how bad women are etc. However, just because you don't like spinning plates and having sex with various women, doesn't mean other men don't, so to call it empty and have negative connotations isn't right either. So you're being yourself and doing your own thing, wh…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 03:46 AM
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What are you texting them the next day? If its only 3 or 4 girls that shit happens, maybe next time you'll go out and a whole bunch will text you back in a row, its a numbers game, and sometimes random shit happens. my guess is you're being too 'friendly' to girls and not polarising enough. You're being a 'friendly guy' who in the moment they like talking to and is fun, but when you text them the next day when they're in a different mood and dont just want some friendly guy friend type of dude t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:49 PM
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You're putting her on a pedestal. She's just a girl like the other 3 billion on the planet who shit, burp, fart make dumb decisions and do whatever they want to. Stop being worried if you're 'too beta' or if shes trying to use you as beta bux or the other million things going on in your head. Just relax, be your best self, be funny, be confident, fuck around with her, stop worrying if shes a 'slutty' or 'good girl'. She's just a fucken girl, good girls will sleep with guys quickly, sometimes a '…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 11:44 PM
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Stop holding yourself to a standard of what you think is 'good enough' or 'funny enough' to say, and instead say the first thing that comes into your head and own it. When you stop questioning whether something is the best or right or funniest thing to say you'll find you're inhibited a lot less, and in general, a lot more funny
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:16 AM
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Could be both. Some girls can be really attracted to you but just won't sleep with you on a given night. Some girls will, some girls won't, even the very same girl would have slept with you the first time 6 months ago but didn't tonight because maybe she just didn't feel like it. The trick is to have enough going on in your life that this doesn't matter if she takes 1 or 2 or 3 dates to sleep with you, because you have other options, and you're taking her out to have fun and amuse yourself, not …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 12:33 AM
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Are you guys really surprised by this? This is the same when women say 'Omg I can't believe he likes the hot 21 y.o with perky tits and an amazing ass'. Shit at least this woman has the ability to say it all and not just cheat on him or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 07:19 AM
1

Don't even worry about plates atm, just get used to cold approaching women and talking to them and being interesting
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 03:13 AM
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You're not getting the point. Shit isn't going to just happen with ONE girl. You need to talk to LOTS of girls so you can gauge what you're doing wrong and improve. You're not going to understand a mathematical theory or how any scientific theory works from doing 1 question and getting it wrong. You need to rinse and repeat talking to women and failing a LOT to learn. However, you have to believe in your mind its going to work, but not be attached to it working. it sounds like a paradox, but nee…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:31 AM
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What I'm saying is that you're using the wrong terminology, indicating all you have is theory, which is why I'm telling you that you need to GO OUT AND SOCIALIZE and talk to women. Any 5 girls mate. You need to go out and learn the real world of talking, flirting, and interacting with women in a sexual manner. You can be selective once you've fucked girls and are obviously much more confident and have experience under your belt and know what you're doing. Right now you just need to go out and ge…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:20 AM
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You don't need to 'approach' women you call your friends. And if they were actually just your FRIENDS you wouldn't care about trying to fuck them, which it sounds like you are. Walk out your front door and approach the first 5 girls you see, should take you all of 5 minutes. If you don't have time for that, you're going to die a lonely virgin
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:38 AM
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Fuck your fucking time constraints. You're using this as an excuse for why you aren't getting anywhere with women, so you can rationalise and tell yourself you just need 'more time' or learn some new RP principle to be able to get girls. News flash mate, guys have been fucking girls for millennia without TRP. Go out and fucking talk to a girl. Do you get coffee at work? Try picking up the barista making your coffee, do you pass attractive women at work, to and from your car, at the gym while you…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:36 AM
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Muscle looks good on everyones frame.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:33 AM
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Despite what just about everybody on TRP advocates, women love getting to see insight into your life. Just don't be a beta about it and open up them about every insight and detail into your life thinking it will help them 'connect' with you or some shit. The dates where I've had the girls the most attractive and fucked them the easiest were typically dates that revolved around my life somehow and I worked them into it because 'I was going to do it anyway'. Things like picking something up from a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 12:07 AM
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If youre saying t hings like 'got very lucky' and 'things got very heavy and we made out' in relation to women you have a very long way to go my friend. Go out and fuck 20 bitches and tell me you're grossed out because you got a sore throat once. Go out and have a lot of fun and fuck women and you'll get over this shit. Mods should delete this whiny thread. If i wanted to hear beta bitches complaining I'd go back to my FB feed
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:49 AM
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I think you're confusing unpredictability with whats called 'Outcome Dependence'. Betas don't like confidence because they're insecure and don't have it, and find it intimidating when men do have it. Betas don't like things to be unpredictable because then they can't calculate and plan and use their head, which they have to more than general alphas because they lack confidence. When you are dependent on an outcome you get anxious and wonder/worry with excitement if it will work or not. Your reas…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:45 AM
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Who says the owner of the club is hiding? haha. You know what I see owners of clubs doing? Usually fucking the shit out of hot little 21 y.o's or having threesomes after clubs. Also, It's hard as fuck running a club, so he's still challenging himself by running a successful business
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 01:06 AM
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Status is strength. Who's more in the position of power, the big ass bouncer at the front of the club, or the owner of the club whos 150 lbs and 5'5? At the drop of a hat he could fire the bouncers and have them replaced in a second. Status is strength/power, hands down.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 11:51 PM
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This happens to everybody, and is part of the process. It takes a relapse like this to really cement what you you've learned and know to put things back in perspective and keep you on your game. At least you seemed to have figured it out relatively quickly with this girl so you can move on to better things
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:55 AM
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RSD and tyler more specifically is the perfect mix of RP truths but real world application and finding a good balance between RP and still enjoying and loving women
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:51 AM
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Exactly! Just a lot of posts on here (and reddit/internet in general) seems to be very polarised, either 1 or the other, but with women and pickup in general its often shades of grey
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:32 AM
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Possibly, depends how high her SMV is, how horny she is, how much she has decided she wants to sleep with SOMEONE that night. Generally the higher SMV a girl is the less she cares about looks, ironically enough. She gets hot guys hitting on her all the time, another hot guy hitting on her is like a drop in the ocean. How you act will almost always differentiate yourself from the other plethora of attractive dudes that are hitting on her
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:33 PM
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Well first I'd ask what the girls look like, an ugly broke fucker can still pick up a fat ugly chick. Secondly, this is why how a guy ACTS is much more important than how he LOOKS. How he acts will display so many more attractive qualities than purely his physical features.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:31 PM
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True, But I still feel personality matters more. This comes with the caveat that I assume guys are still lifting, dressing well, keeping themselves groomed and not looking like a neckbeard. Outside of maximizing those areas looks only help you a little bit more. Being assertive, dominating, funny, good body language, a fun and good vibe other like to be around and other demonstrative qualities are much more important than your physical hair/eye colour/cheek bones etc etc (not that those ever hur…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 06:47 AM
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I was going to suggest you needed it make it more obvious you were going to surprise her with something before reading this reply, but if it was already discussed she clearly fucked up. I think something along the other lines of saying "I was going to do xyz until you chucked a shit fit".
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:09 AM
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good post, most are generalisations and people should go find out for themselves, but generally hold true. Except perhaps #11. Your personality and status matter more than looks. It's better to be good looking and have a good personality and status, but lots of ugly movie stars with a good personality would fuck a loooooot more bitches than a good looking college guy. I know you said personality and not status, but I'd say the 2 are fairly linked. A guy with a good personality lots of people lik…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:00 AM
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Everybody is talk. Shit 75% of the posts here are just guys talking about some shit they did so they feel better about themselves and get validation from the rest of TRP users. Best thing you can ever do when you're trying to improve yourself is not tell ANYONE. Telling people you're going to do xyz ALREADY gives your brain the chemicals and endorphins it needs to feel like its achieved and done something, before you've even lifted a finger. This is why you see so much talk and so little action,…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 04:44 AM
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Of course its from a self centered place, everything ever human does ever is from a self centered place. Would it be self centered for a dude to say "Hey I'm 45 and I want to settle down and have some kids now" This is honestly just retarded
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 04:41 AM
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This is seriously not that bad. A woman wants to propose to some dude and we're calling her out for it because...? This is fucking dumb. Also, you forgot to link the original OP.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:52 AM
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I think it used to, but we really are the first generation where everyone is in continuous contact with the people and you interact with them every day, just like you did in highschool, which means we no longer leave that dynamic of a constant popularity contest. You don't HAVE to play it, I've also pulled plenty of girls from cold approach who have no idea who I am, but there's no point not maximizing both areas
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:01 AM
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Congrats man, hope you're enjoying yourself, but honestly, this doesn't really offer shit, besides what we all knew, work on yourself, improve yourself, and good situations tend to happen or you get invited out. This isn't anything new or rocket science. The only useful thing I suppose is that social media/instagram can play a huge role, despite many guys on TRP hating it. Simply being known as 'that guy' on fb or instagram does go a long way, and i've pulled quite a lot of girls just from havin…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 04:56 AM
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What do you look like? Sorry mate, theres no way with 45 mins a week you have much muscle
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:29 AM
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He would have had to agree to do this interview, then he just acts like a fucken weirdo giving either 1 or 2 word answers or flat out ignoring questions. What the fuck is the point of this? This doesn't prove anything. Beta antagonists are out there, this isn't one of them.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 10:55 PM
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I refuse to believe someone who says their 'chest and arms are getting pretty big' is anywhere near big enough to illicit the kind of response you think you got by lifting.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:55 AM
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This is just an internet forum with ideas. The ideas here are all pretty solid with a lot of observation to back it up. However, the people practicing these ideas can take them wherever the fuck they want and misconstrue or extrapolate them however they want. TRP itself isn't inherently sexist or insecure, but a lot of the men on here probably are. We're not perfect, so take everything with a grain of salt and form your own opinions
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 04:07 AM
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Not that it really matters, but you can hate someone/something and it still be a necessary part of evolution. Betas are necessary, not everyone can be alpha, just stating why men/women won't typically like betas in general, and its just one reason, there will be multiple.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:07 AM
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As someone else said, be careful with correlation and causation. It's probably something of: Beta guys do more housework because they think thats what they need to do to 'win her affection'. Where as an alpha guy could do as much housework as the beta, but he does it of his own volition and because it needs to be done. The issue isn't that its housework being done, it's the reason why the housework is being done by him in the first place thats the problem
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:30 AM
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Pretty much sums up exactly what goes through a womans head when she realises he's a pussy and does what she says
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:12 AM
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That is also true, but there have always been betas for as long as there have been humans, and females and males would have always been disgusted by them. I would argue if you have friends who are 'alpha' in areas of life then they aren't really alpha, and instead are just competent in certain areas of life, but are beta overall.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 01:54 AM
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Sounds to me like youre butthurt you can't join in on the party, and you put wayyy to much importance on validation and attention from girls. Girls should be the spice on your already well built and delicious life. They shouldn't be the main part of your life. Ironically, when you treat women as if they are the added benefit of an already good life, is when there are the most women around you. This is because women don't want to be a winner, they want to be with a man who wins. Thats why men of …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:46 AM
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Betas are disgusting to men as well. I have a friend whos fairly beta, and the shit he says or the way he just bends over backwards because a woman asks him to is literally disgusting. From an evolutionary standpoint Men hate betas because we view them as unreliable in case shit ever goes down and we need to be able to rely on them to fight or defend the village etc etc. Woman hate betas for the same reason, because they cant protect them
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:33 AM
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Stop blaming everybody else and being angry at other people. Be a man and decide to change yourself and take responsibility for your own actions
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 05:16 AM
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Could be yourself putting too much pressure on it to 'work'. It could be you've gotten too comfortable making fun of people and you're pushing things a bit further without realising. I'd say most likely its just dumb luck and bad phases happen. Some weeks ill strike out, not close, and get flaked on by most girls. The next week I'll fuck 4 new girls, just kinda happens like that sometimes
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 05:14 AM
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He didn't do the right thing, he failed to escalate, acted liek a lil bitch, was insecure, in scarcity, fucked up his timings of when to apply dread or not, and pretty much screwed up a sure thing. In his own words he thought she was really hot, implying he wanted to fuck her. At least you've realised your mistakes OP. Next time, just fucking go for it, get out of your head and go have some fun.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:56 PM
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Yeah thats about right, probably the odd random cookie or piece of chocolate or whatever, but yeah mostly that was about it. I had to cut from 240 to 205 pretty quick so had to have pretty low calories
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 10:47 PM
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Thanks! Yeah my arms have always been a weak point, I've tried everything, just seems to be a genetic weakness, RIP. However I'd trade smaller arms for being 6'2 any day of the week
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 05:48 AM
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Morning was coffee, Lunch was a 600 or 700 calorie beef/chicken and rice meal with about 50 grams protein and 2 scoops Whey, fairly similar thing for dinner or steak or something. 45mins-hour cardio every day + weight training. Note, it was an untested show so I was also running test and tren
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:56 AM
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From previous post, just prior to my show. Pics are blurry but about all I got without digging through and uploading more. http://imgur.com/a/q1Nao#GGfCCyq 6'2 I was about 205 lbs here, about 220 now
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:41 AM
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Definitely maximize it, but I would say OP is letting it get in his way by making such a big deal out of it. Dress well, lift, be in good shape and take care of yourself, beyond that don't stress
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:50 AM
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GOOD looks don't hurt, but they aren't mandatory. A lot of actors/rich guys who get a lot of hot pussy aren't PHYSICALLY attractive, but because they have status, charisma and frame, they are attractive to women. Good looks sometimes helps, or gets your foot in the door, but doesn't really do anything more than that. You're not doing well with women because you sound very insecure among a whole other list of reasons for why you probably can't get the women you want
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 04:43 AM
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No, I think he just likes variety haha.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 01:58 AM
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See those women walking around on the street literally everywhere? Go and talk to one you find attractive and ask her out, rinse and repeat until you have a few you like you are seeing
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:34 AM
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What is the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:20 AM
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depends what u define attractive as, but honestly id say a girl who is a hb 7 or 8+ whos 21, 10 is a low number lol. These days expect it to be around 20+ in my opinion. However, yours should be at least double that.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 07:31 AM
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Fair enough, personally I always rather date multiple girls, but im horny as fuck 24/7 so i have to have sex like every day lol. Gl OP
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:19 AM
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You'd be fine if you had 5 other girls to text/see. Just gotta stay in abundance, sounds like you were in a bit of scarcity with her. Plenty more fish out there, just keep doin what you're doin
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:11 AM
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If shes attractive women have a tonne of options, I remember a HB9 plate I had let me look at her phone one day out of curiosity, it's incredible the amount of messages/attention they get regularly. On TRP we always advocate hard nexting someone, well guess what, women can do it too lol.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:03 AM
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You can either hide it, play it down, act modest etc etc. Imagine how a movie star would act with a random girl on the street. Or, find better social circles/people to hang out with where women are used to high quality men and it doesn't affect them so much. Sounds to me like you're going after unattractive girls or not high smv girls. HB9's etc can handle top% dudes pretty easily. It's hard to tell what your issue is from a single text post, but women are attracted to high status guys, so you'r…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:00 AM
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Yeah despite what this sub suggests you do have to throw women a bone every now and then. Some will need less than others, but eventually if they get sick enough of it without you being high status/high SVM enough they will just leave. Women are also incredibly self conscious, chances are she got sick of being rejected and her ego couldn't take it so she went with some safe beta and got a bf to make herself feel better. I wouldn't stop playing ball or anything, just expect that sometimes this wi…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 11:56 PM
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You can escalate whenever and however you want, but being a creeper from the opening trying to get something from the girl is gonna weird her out
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:19 AM
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This is true, unfortunately the onus is generally on men to make things happen. I do however feel very sad for fat ugly women, they're pretty much fucked entirely
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 03:59 AM
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It's astounding just how shit 90% of men are at social interactions with women. Shit its a good thing women only find the top 20% of men attractive, we'd breed so many fucken losers otherwise. Walking up and approaching a girl puts you ahead of like 90-95% of guys as long as you aren't being a creepy weirdo and just have the intention of saying hey and meeting them
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 11:39 PM
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Yeah I saw this experiment and gave it a try, results werent nearly as close to his, the guy who did the experiment definitely cherry picked his results. Even if you could get an initial number/reply from women, ACTUALLY getting them out was extremely hard
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 11:59 PM
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This is probably the most important aspect. You should be paying close attention to her and how shes reacting to everything you do
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 11:50 PM
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I feel like this is coming from the wrong frame entirely. Guys aren't thugs because thugs get women, guys are thugs, which GETS women. Alphas aren't the ones doing things to try to get girls, their the ones who do their own thing and because of that, girls are DRAWN to them. It's the same end result, but the place its coming from is entirely different.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 03:17 PM
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Correct, currently most people advise somewhere between 3-500 per sales order to make the profits worth your time, which can be tough, so you have to pick your niche market very well. Typically hobbies that people don't mind spending a decent chunk of change on in one go, and they are very passionate about.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 12:27 AM
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I'm in Supply Chain mangement business and let me tell you, the first people who can successfully crack the issues drop shipping have are going to make a whooooooleeee shitload of money.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 01:23 AM
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Sorry bro, but if you went through college mostly as a virgin, then your looks and game aren't good at all. Even as a 'nerd' at my highschool i was still able to have sex with a few girls here n there every year. Status helps with HOT women, its not a pre requisite to get all women
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 09:01 AM
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Johnny Depp's status was high to a random female on the street. His status wasn't quite so high to Amber Heard, who is also an actor. Even then, status helps you attract women, you still have to display high status and alpha qualities to KEEP them attracted.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 08:58 AM
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im sorry but this is TRP theory and shit gone fucking wild. Fuck her if you can fuck her. Dread game or some shit so she wants it more when you could have ALREADY FUCKED HER is so pointless its not even funny. Dread game her next time by flirting with someone or act aloof afterwards or whatever and she'll still really want to have sex with you. Not having sex with her probably makes her think youre a pussy. Youre WAY overthinking this
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 11:56 PM
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I'd argue if you're still relapsing and having these issues then you haven't mastered or even really internalised a lot of what TRP teaches. Theres levels to the understanding and it comes in different stages. Just keep going along the path
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 06:32 AM
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Your problems should be something along the lines of 'im too tired from fucking 1 plate this morning that I have to explain to my another plate why I don't want to fuck tonight'. Or it should be 'The company I run has just lost 2 of our biggest clients and I need to find a way to restructure things to keep us afloat." Not 'A woman I took on a date and spent 10 bucks on looked older than 35." wah wah wah
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:56 AM
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What is the point of this post? A girl you met online looked over 35, so? How fucking scarce is your life that this is a big deal. You need to find better problems mate
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:31 AM
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Meh, If I saw a post from a dude saying "my stepmom will only pay for my college if i dont have sex" we would probably be saying some very different shit. More women hating for the sake of women hating
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:25 AM
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If youre one on one with the girl and friends come in, try notice them approaching before they say anything and introduce yourself and game them for 20 seconds and be friendly social not a retard etc etc and they'll usually be a lot more receptive. But sometimes they're bitches because they're just bitches, in that case just hope youve gotten her number, done enough game, and youll see her later when shes not with them. Or you could throw a Hail Mary and try to be dominant over the friends and t…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:39 PM
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Usually theres showers or bathrooms or something that have some space, thats what I did in europe 90% of the time unless the hostel also had a twin share bedroom that was available. But yeah it sucks ass tbh and can be hard. Theres also a beach if youre in a beachy area and its not cold
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:37 PM
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Yeah I know the feeling man, just stay busy, go gym work study learn read books schedule dates go out see friends, anythin really to keep your mind off shit, you'll bounce back eventually
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:06 PM
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This is correct, but I feel like RSD does address these issues, and its why I love them so much as a pickup company. Tyler addresses a whole host of these issues, as well as advocating meditation, personal success, building yourself as a person, fixing the root cause of issues, and structuring your inner monologue and internalising all these things so that picking up women isn't something you 'do' but instead its someone who you 'are'. Anyway, people are going to have their own opinions at the e…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 10:56 AM
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This is correct, but that is your definition of a certain woman, and there are different levels of attraction, but that attraction may not directly correlate with how physically close to 'perfect' they are, but it might be the way they smelll, move, walk, sound etc that makes them much more attractive
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 10:53 AM
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I don't know why we view womens feelings in relationships negatively so much. Feelings are fucking important in a LTR. If she didn't have feels and did everything rationally she'd be a fucking dude, this is not what we want, and even then, as men we don't 'decide' to love a woman, it just happen and we act accordingly. You're acting like she should have stayed with you out of some 'word' she had and not the attraction she HAS. This is stupid from a womens point of view, and as a mans. Anyways, t…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 06:59 AM
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You can do whatever you want. "Hey I'm Kerry I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you' is literally my go to opener. If you hold eye contact, walk up like a man, have good frame and body language, and come from a place of value, she's going to fucking love it. If you act like a lil bitch, look at the ground, and call her cute so she'll think youre nice and like you, its going to fucking fail.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:12 AM
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RSD is amazing for game man. Game isn't hard or complicated, you're absolutely right, but guys think it is and this fear of not 'knowing what to do' are holding guys back, and RSD gives them the 'what to do' so they feel more confident and CAN go out and approach etc. RSD Tyler even says this shit multiple times. But theres a huge gap between saying 'just go out and get girls man' and actually approaching and getting them that guys have a lot of fear about. They shouldn't, but its there.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:07 AM
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This is a fantastic point. On TRP we advocate taking pussy off a pedestal, but by simply having a rating scaled of 1-10 and advocating doing 'x' to sleep with 9's and 10's you're putting pussy on a pedestal. Pussy is pussy, women are women. I remember fucking a plethora of 7's and 8's waiting for the day I got a 10. You know what I felt after fucking a 10? The same feeling I felt after fucking a 7 or 8, but now I couldn't wait to tell my friends. That's about it, it's just an ego and mental mast…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 01:05 AM
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I think this is a great part of the article actually, as it states why we always advocate being extremely direct with making plans via text. It shows women don't like fucking around for ages with meaningless texts as well
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:39 AM
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You did well, but it can hurt. Women's attraction to you is a knob that you dial up slowly, but once its on, its on, and sometimes by trying to throwing more things at her to get her attracted to you just gives you more chances to fuck something up. Also, not to detract from your story, but this shit happens all the time and isn't that rare or uncommon in my opinion, and the quicker you believe this is commonplace the quicker it will happen to you more regularly. Keep doin what youre doin OP
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:05 AM
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lol theres no rule man, just gauge how many shit tests shes throwing compared to how many comfort tests and adjust accordingly
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:18 AM
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I don't really care what she does, as long as shes fun, feminine, hot and able to carry a conversation, and won't be reliant on me financially, at least in the short run (only being 25 I'm not making a million bucks yet). One thing I'll mention though is typically I don't like a woman with a demanding career, as it takes up most of her time and focus, which I find annoying for a LTR. But every guy is different and will have different values, so it's up to you!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:59 AM
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I even wrote a post on it haha. Its the natural over correction most guys make. I would say 99% of guys on here came from an extreme beta mindset, so they way over correct and think going 100% alpha is the answer, its probably about 80/20
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:36 AM
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If she's a plate you pretty much have to be expecting her to be able to sleep with other dudes. The trick is that if you're great to your plate, chances are she won't fuck other dudes anyway. 9/10 of my plates stop seeing other guys as long you're giving them enough, and showing just enough beta qualities keeps them on the hook with a possibility of a LTR so they don't want to fuck it up. An interesting note is that the times my plates fucked other guys was when I was most alpha and purely used …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 12:47 AM
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You don't have to control them, just respect yourself more than you respect some random girl who you don't even know
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 04:37 AM
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Whats the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 04:28 AM
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I Agree, but a lot of girls are on the fence if they've only just met you or only seen you once or something, sometimes a few extra lines here or there can tip the scale and get her over the line. This isn't about whats possible as much as whats more effective. A woman who hasn't spoken to you prior and suddenly gets a text 'be at x in 2 hours' isn't going to be nearly as effective as a woman who's had her emotions and tingles spiked by a few lines and then gets asked to come out
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:41 PM
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Both ways can definitely work, and like I said, they're quite similar, I just feel the more direct way limits you a little bit, where as a bit of fluff gives you a bit more wiggle room
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:26 AM
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I'm all for abundance too, but honestly I cbf texting the same thing to 20 girls when i could text something slightly different to 5-10 and get a similar response. My point is that it won't make too much of a difference either way as long as your mentality is right and the girl is already attracted/slightly invested. However being extremely short and blunt only hurts you, where as a few extra words here and there probably helps you slightly. It's a nuanced point and can be up for debate, but I'v…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:04 AM
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This is true, but leaving 0 room for compromise or leaving a slightly open ended question where she needs to comply or answer is better in my opinion, since it's not as easy just to say 'no' and move on with her day. Despite what a lot of this sub thinks, in my experience woman don't like being demanded around by robots, they think its fucken weird and the guy has a problem a lot of the time. You can lead, be dominant and in control whilst still being fun and having some fluff. At least for myse…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 04:53 AM
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I feel like this is really hit and miss tbh. I've tested this a LOT recently, and I've had mixed results. If you state 'I'm here at x blah blah' it leaves you open for her to simply say 'no i'm not free' and then you either have to follow up with something else or leave it, theres not much wiggle room. I understand if she doesn't want to see you then asking her a time is no better either, as she'll simply say 'im busy all week' or something along those lines. If you state a time and place someti…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 12:40 AM
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You can admit your stressed or 'x' is bothering you, but you have to frame it in a way that you have it under control and that you're not coming to her to fix your problem for you or anything like that. For example, a bad way is "Man I've had the worst day today :( everything is going wrong I don't know what to do" compared to "Man today was hard but I smashed this project, im nearly done figuring out this problem, and I cant figure out why this isnt working but its interesting as fuck". Both wa…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:06 AM
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Probably better of in ask red pill, but anyways. You should have been lifting, watching PUA videos, improving yourself in the first place. Probably added to why she dumped you. Second, who the fuck cares if you dump her or she dumps her, having you care about this indicates you need to work on your inner game and core confidence. Go lift, go pick up girls, do well in school, improve yourself, get hobbies, do things to fill up your time so you don't think about her/are to busy to actually think a…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:42 AM
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This is true, but shes not an ugly fat 50 y.o. Shes still a pretty attractive 29 y.o multiple millionaire (maybe?) with billions of youtube views. She's far from being unable to find a good partner I think. Don't know why we're even bothering to argue about her opportunities like it has any relevance to our lives what so ever
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:16 AM
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I suppose you yourself aren't too bad, but this thread is pretty terrible excuse for a rp thread. All things considered I'd say she's done pretty well for herself
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:34 PM
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Because you know her so well and know she'll absolutely 100% never find a man of value? I'd guess she'll do a lot better than 99% of women in trying to find a man with value. I don't get why you're so angry at her, who cares man. It's her life, she can do whatever she wants
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:34 AM
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You really think she's going to have issues finding a guy? This is just retarded hating on women for no reason at all besides the fact shes hot and used it to further her position in society
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:29 AM
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lol, so? She can do whatever the fuck she wants to do with her life. Shit I'd probably do the same if I made as much money from youtube as she did
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:19 AM
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Who cares about this shit? People age, I don't know what you think we're learning from this. She's one of the most popular youtubers out there, and whilst I've literally only seen 1 or 2 of her vids, she seems to be a lot more self aware than most women in regards to their looks and mentality.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 05:59 AM
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Seems like you're over thinking it and trying to 'prove yourself' by acting very dominant when it might not yet be entirely congruent. This is fine, its part of the learning process of trying out different things and seeing how they feel with you. But honestly, the default state a woman feels for you should be submissive, and you being a man in general will feel dominant for her. IE. youre already dominant and you just have to sit there and not fuck things up. Also not to harp, but you can't get…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 01:06 AM
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its really same as life in general with pickup, they say its creepy and cringey or whatever, until brad pitt comes up and tries to pick them up. Generally in the gym just do your thing, don't be a weirdo and stare at them, but if you notice they look your way once or twice chances are youre good to approach them. You can do it indirectly by saying 'how many sets you have left' etc and then transition from there, but usually I go direct and say something like 'hey im kerry, i thought you were cut…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 12:52 AM
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Yeah this is why I thought it wouldn't be an ideal way to respond
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:35 PM
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Yeah I thought that, but honestly i think im pretty good in bed, very dominant, they came a few times etc. Its even happened with 1 or 2 girls I haven't slept with, so i doubt its that. Think its the stripper thing and I need to show a few more beta qualities or something
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:35 PM
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Haha thanks, but this is something weird and new happening with me, so its a good chance to learn
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:31 PM
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Hey man, I did bodybuilding and competed in a Mens Physique show (IFBB) before I did stripping so I already had the body from that, I didn't set out to be a stripper really if you get me. Just keep pluggin away at the gym and try to get as big as possible, most strippers aren't actually super shredded and huge. Most girls standards are actually pretty low for what I'd consider to be big and ripped compared to what they think are big and ripped, so get pretty lean whilst having size and just give…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:30 PM
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Either out at a bar/club, at the gym, on tinder, and a few through social circles
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:12 AM
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I don't believe ~35 is the peak SMV for men. If it is, thats just because thats a general median of population and u can date a few years higher or lower and be socially acceptable. Being 25, I can't speak from experience about how much vag u can slay in your mid 30's, but i very rarely hear of girls who are low 20's sleeping with guys in mid 30's. I've heard of it, but I MUCH more commonly hear of girls in low 20's sleeping with guys in mid 20's or a few years older than them. I'd definitely sa…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:35 AM
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Fair enough, I'll give it a crack and see how it goes
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:30 AM
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tl;dr Alpha fucks; beta bucks
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:23 AM
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Hmm you think? I feel like thats childish to reply the same way and goes into their frame since I'm replying to the shit test on their level
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:16 AM
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Yeah I think thats a good point. Judging from experience it seems when you're lower smv their ASD doesn't seem to kick in as much, probably because they don't care about you as much. But now I'm higher its VERY quick it kicks in. I could usually get girls to sleep with me pretty quickly before, but I never had this much blow back from it. Just something I'll have to tinker with I guess, add a few more beta qualities in
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:10 AM
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I was a nerd prior to starting gym and learning game, so I have mixed interests haha. Yeah I understand its a very specific situation. Only started happening recently but prior to that I was in a 2 year LTR I ended (due to started stripping). All the girls know about it, fucked a few whilst doing it which I assumed thats why they bounced, just wanted fun and that was it. I'll give flipping the sluttyness on them. Generally when they brough this up I'd say 'I like hanging out with you, but sex is…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:04 AM
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Is the wheelchair permanent? If not, just try to act normal and apply general RP philosophies. If you're stuck in it forever that sucks ass, but still apply RP philosophies and see how you go. What other choices do you have really? You can be fucked and give up, or you can be fucked and still going as normal and give yourself the best chance you can
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:59 AM
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I'm having trouble at the moment with women thinking all I want is sex and running away after we only sleep together once or twice. Any ideas? To be honest I consider myself high SMV. I've banged about 10 or 15 girls in the last 3-4 months, I'm a stripper, 6'2 and 220 lbs with a 6 pack, have a stable job in IT earning good money, I'm wondering what the issue is. I interpreted this as a comfort test, maybe I need to drop down the 'Alpha' shit a touch?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:48 AM
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Can mods delete this troll post plz
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:46 AM
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Which is exactly why it can be bad for you. Go out and earn money and work on your career, but man, its a sad life if all you have at the end of the day is your hand and some chick on a computer screen.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 01:59 PM
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you are WAYYYY over thinking this lol. HB came from 'The Game'. They just added the hot babe part in for shits and giggles. Go outside, you've had enough internet for today
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:25 AM
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Are we really discussing that women might like a big dick and thats trashy? You realise thats like women saying 'omg i can't believe he likes a girl with a tight ass and great tits'. Are you that insecure about what women find enjoyable?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 06:34 AM
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U done jerking yourself off yet?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:51 AM
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Exactly why BP guys talk to women about their feelings and problems and issues, because if roles were reversed thats how we'd like to be talked to or how we'd talk with other guys to try and work things out. Both genders are generally pretty clueless about what might attract the other. Girls are just lucky in that they are the non-initiating gender and have to worry about it less
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 12:42 AM
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If youre friends are giving you shit everytime you fuck up with a girl, you have some shit friends. Ofc rejection should be funny and not matter anyway, but still
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:52 AM
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IMO its the only way to go about it. If you look at pictures of them or have them pop up on your fb feed it just makes it harder. Out of sight really is out of mind. It won't be perfect and you'll probs still think about her, but its a hell of a lot easier. Just make sure to stay busy and see other girls
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:52 AM
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Don't fall into the trap of thinking that because you have a history it somehow means more. Girls can and will still drop you regardless of all that shit. It can be hard, I just dumped my LTR of 2 years and it can be tough to move past. Just keep doing your own thing, lifting, talking to girls, work, things that are important to you. Delete her off social media/snapchat/whatever and just stop talking to her in general. Cut people out of your life who don't add to it, and it deosnt sound like she…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:23 AM
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I think people need to realise this is a rare case. AWALT sure, but this is still a pretty fucked up individual, guy or girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:01 AM
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This is a good point, and definitely you shouldnt have the mentality that you might be more likely to fail. I just more mean for afterwards I guess when texting her or whatever afterwards and it sort of fizzles out, not to think you necessarily did something wrong, but some people just don't click that well
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:49 PM
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You can try putting the foot down and say you don't want hear this shit from her day after day, I did that with my previous LTR and she cut out the needless bitching and whining. She still would sometimes, but when it was more important or pressing issues, not with the little meaningless crap. Just make sure you're playful with her otherwise. Remember, change her mood, not her mind
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 05:19 AM
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Thats why I made this post, all we talk about here are how chads must fuck everything etc etc. It's a success bias, we only see the 'chads' when they succeed, you don't see all the times they've failed. The point of my post was that you could be failing 2/3 times, but the times you succeed it will look awesome and you'll have a good result from it, rather than a lot of mediocre results. Every girl can be a slut for the right guy, which actually feeds into what im saying. For the RIGHT guy, not e…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:19 AM
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Hate to say it mate, but most interactions with women are pretty generalized, normal and not that exciting. You don't have to do a lot to sleep with women if you have all the mental and body language queues
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:17 AM
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Absolutely focus on your grades and doing well in school. Maybe give yourself the weekend or 1 day a week where you go out and game and focus on girls, and the other days focus on school/lifting. Not to say you cant do a quick approach here and there when you see a girl you like, but just focus less on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:20 AM
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I think you make a great point about not over correcting either, but honestly you should probably be willing to walk away and not bend to any girls random crap, its just especially true with 10's I think is the point he's trying to make
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 11:32 PM
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Yeah unfortunately haha. Physical looks are lower on the list of important things for a guy anyway, if you can act/behave masculine and have social proof/status you'll be just fine 95% of women
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:36 AM
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How old are you? It's possible you are still growing. I'm 25 now and look masculine, but up until about 23 or so I still looked quite boyish despite being 6'2. Body language, eye contact, social group and other things will also display masculine traits. You can be a physically weaker looking guy but still look very dominant to a woman
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 01:29 AM
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IMO it doesn't really matter if they apologise for what they did or not verbally. By pulling away and her instigating sex using her tools, it evens things out. She wouldn't do it if she didn't know what she did was wrong. Pushing for the literal 'apology's is the masculine way of communication, not the feminine. She's gonna get mad again and do a similar thing anyway probably because, feels. Well handled imo OP
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 04:55 AM
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I made a post on this topic if you want to check it out, its my newest submission, can't link because reddit deletes it, check it out if you want
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:22 AM
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Honestly only you can make that choice. Finance can make you a lot of money, but its not a guarantee, personal training can be tough, but its not a certainty. Who's to say you can't run your own PT business or sell a product along with being a PT and make a lot of money. You just have to think outside the box and apply yourself and work your ass off and you might be able to make something work. Finance could also prove to make you a shit tonne of cash and you can keep PT on the side or train on …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:44 AM
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I don't mean to find your passion and do that for work, I mean find what you enjoy doing in life and try to do it, either as pure enjoyment or as a business, its entirely up to you
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 12:39 AM
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Work hard, and try to find your 'passion' in life. Could be the gym, could be business, could be arts and crafts, but be introspective about what makes you tick and find a way to get fulfillment from your life outside of work and/or women. If you can turn this passion into work, all the better and you'll probably make a tonne of money. Start lifting and practicing discipline, but also go out and have fun when you have done what you have needed to for the day. Find a good group of males you love …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 05:03 AM
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Yeah i wanted to write this as well, but wanted to keep the post short. Definitely recommend that vid to anyone
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 08:20 AM
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This is correct. The problem here was that she didnt already view you as a high status guy, so ratio of alpha and beta was probably already skewed towards the beta side in her mind, so when you showed more of it you just turned her off and grossed her out. Better luck next time
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:03 AM
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I don't believe frame has much to do with this
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:57 AM
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Yeah just tell her shes cute or you like her or something. Pretty much what society has always said to tell girls haha. Imagine a screaming fan with brad pitt, hes not gonna be like 'whatever girl do what you want' hes gonna try comfort her and be a bit of a pushover because hes fucking brad pitt and obviously way higher on the smv scale than she is
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:41 PM
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This is a good point. You can definitely have one without the other
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:40 PM
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Pretty much. I think that a lot of guys though who have been a bit more on the beta side feel like they have something to prove and show too much alpha, this is really just more of a reminder that you still need both
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:39 PM
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She could throw you a comfort test "Go see those other girls you were talking too" etc etc, or it could just be more shy and reserved body language. It depends, and it comes with experience. Be mindful of where your smv sits relative to hers, and try to guess as best you can. Either way, push or pull her with something and see how she reacts, that will typically tell you
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:47 AM
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I feel like theres 0 point posting since it looks like you won't take anything in. But there is a direct correlation between when you stimulate her gspot, when she squirts, and the pleasure gained from it. Isn't an orgasm just a release of stress? If you're releasing her stress, she feels an orgasm and squirts shit, who the fuck cares? And I've heard scientists debate back and forth what it actually is coming out, theres obviously other fluid in the area because it's not piss that is coming out …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:45 AM
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Just wrote a post on this, check it out if you like
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:41 AM
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Theres no point trying to think about what a woman is thinking. You can't solve a problem on the paradigm in which it was created. Why is why as a man you have to follow your own path and actions and she can either come along or not. All her emotional bs and thoughts will vanish when she just has to follow your path
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:24 AM
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I think with a little more comfort you probably could have avoided a lot of this and kept fucking her. Despite what TRP would tell you, girls do still a decent amount of reassurance and BP tendencies, especially if youre status in the group is already someone of high status who is known to be with a lot of girls. But oh well, you still banged her so could have gone worse
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:05 AM
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I agree, its ironic as well since we hate on them for hamstering all their shit away, yet guys here do the exact same thing for why they were so beta/shit in the first place and how its all the womyns fault and their all sluts/whores/liars etc
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:58 PM
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"Being a good husband isn’t good enough. Husband sounds like a good guy and he could be in divorce court right now." It depends on your definition of a 'good husband'. This sounds like a BP definition to me. A RP husband is a 'good husband'. Someone who still makes her feel tingles, handles shit, fucks her right, all that shit. If your woman and/or her friends ever get complacent about you, then you haven't been a good husband
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:05 AM
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"I don't like going out to the clubs, and the few bars I go to are not full of women. In fact, I am perfectly content staying in and saving money vs going out." "I work 8-5 then hit the gym for an hour or 2 so day gaming is basically a no go." This is your problem. I don't particularly love working out everyday for an hour+, or working my ass off at my job so I can be set up later on in life, but these are things I do because I know I will benefit if I do them. If you don't like going to clubs o…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 12:24 AM
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Maybe, but we would have seen more hamstering about how she 'missed out on her youth' if that were the case
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:39 AM
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I think its a bit of a stretch to imply she resents him because shes more attractive now. I think its actually similar how guys go through the anger stage on TRP. Shes realising feminism lied to her about attraction and shes angry and taking it out on her husband rather than realising she has been lied to this whole time.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:03 AM
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Thats why I hate certain RP 'rules'. They aren't laws that are 100% iron clad. Its a person you're talking to, nothing is 100% predictable or certain or will or won't work. They're simply general tendencies to try avoid. In this case, try to avoid super long conversations purely over text without escalating and trying to meet up with the girl. A one sentence text saying 'do this' will usually be just fine. Judge everything on a case by case basis, and keep rules and laws etc as theories that you…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:53 AM
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I don't know how else you could communicate this prior to your date without a text, I definitely don't see a problem with this either
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 03:35 AM
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Because their beta fathers passed down bitch qualities to them. If we didnt live in a feminized society that still rewards betas a lot, their fathers wouldnt have had children and they wouldnt be here. At least thats how i took it
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 11:12 AM
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It may sound bad to head 'a lot of guys' but honestly some girls view a lot of dudes as like 2 guys or something. And like other guys here have said, very few women these days don't fall into some guys definition of 'slut'. Women like to have sex, you just have to be the kind of guy they can be open with sexually. No women is going to see that you judge them for sex, and then completely open up to you sexually. So you kind of have to take it as a double edged sword and have so many of ur own sex…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:16 AM
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That quote is correct, its just that BP definition of 'Right' and RP definition of 'Right' are completely different
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:52 PM
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"but comically enough they fail to realize that if we didn't they probably would not be around." This is a fucking fantastic way to sum on a lot of guys on here. Totally going to steal this in the future
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 04:21 AM
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"Female solipsism at work. "I don't have a high sex drive, so I'll assume that men are perverts because they do"." Ehhh this point isn't the best. Ive been on one of my plates phones thats a solid HB9. Its actually retarded how many dudes message her per day with the most retarded desperate shit. That shit would get old FAST I reckon. It doesn't matter that we find it annoying they get this attention and take it for granted, because everything someone doesn't have that someone else takes for gra…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 04:19 AM
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Honestly I think the Tinder and Online dating generation is fantastic. Do you know how easy it is to go out and fuck women now? This is the EASIEST period of time for sex EVER. I dunno about you guys, but I have no issues fucking a few new girls a week until the cows come home and they all hit the wall. It's a bad period of time for betas, but its their fault for being beta in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:32 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 12:34 AM
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Definitely agree to live in the moment and get out of your head and not be thinking about everything. Thats why I mentioned its probably a good idea to spend 5 minutes at the start of your day/date/whatever whilst your still alone, so you know you have all the shit handled so that when you go out you can only deal with minor things that are easy to stay in the moment with
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 09:35 AM
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It's not about saving her, it takes 2 seconds, literally, to say 'do this' when she asks something. Reframe it in a way you can get enjoyment out of it, trust me, when it comes to it, little shit like this matters in the long run and maintaining the overall dynamic of your relationships with women
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 09:34 AM
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Thats my point though, you should reframe it as a good thing. How long does it take to say 'Wear this". If she doesn't want to, she'll say so and probably wear something else, but at least you stepped up and showed initiative. Of course if she takes 10 minutes and fucks around for ages, time after time, then next her. But its more about the subtle communication, rather than literally trying to find something for her to wear
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 09:33 AM
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I don't really mean problems as in 'This bad thing happened to me'. I more mean logistical or practical problems that she expects you to handle for her, so when she raises them and you lead her or fix it, it builds trust and attraction and affirms to her that you can lead. I agree with you though on her emotional problems that she may come and vent to you about etc
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:49 AM
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I think this post is a classic example of male hamstering and going to extreme lengths to try and justify things
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:18 AM
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Relationship market value I believe
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:02 AM
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I think thats true, especially from a mans perspective. But women are hard wired to want to be desired and needed like that, so a lot of them would enjoy it to an extent, as long as its not 100% be all end all. Which I believe is also a part of why they hate it when guys just want them for sex
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:39 AM
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Great fucking comment. This is precisely why women hate it when men treat them 'nice' and like a 'princess'. Because she knows herself she can be an evil catty bitch etc, and hates it when guys are being nice to her for the sake of being nice
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:02 AM
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Maybe she didn't have time for a relationship? If you don't want to be in a relationship with someone then you don't want to be in a relationship with someone. The reason she gives doesn't really matter. Not everything has to be some RP example or terminology
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:30 AM
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I have a few times at clubs/bars etc. Its uncommon and completely unreliable, but every now and then it does happen. At social gatherings its more common, because its easy for her to be like 'so how do you know xyz person'
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:13 AM
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What the hell are you guys talking about. You're acting like breaking up with someone and then spending time with someone else is a fucking crime. WHAT ELSE DO YOU EXPECT HER TO DO. So many guys on here think that because they took pussy off the pedestal they now have to throw it in the dirt. There is a happy medium
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 11:52 PM
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Its about finding the difference between WANT and NEED. We all WANT women, but when you actively show that you NEED her is when you become too desperate. Showing her that you want her, but also that you can walk away is generally the place to try to come from
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 11:08 PM
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This is the redpill gone fucking retarded. The levels guys are going to just to protect their ego and be 'alpha' is getting ridiculous
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 11:03 PM
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Stop thinking so much, stop being so analytical, stop thinking theres rules, or laws, or a way society is. Go read Eckart Tolle 'The power of now'. It sounds like youre stuck in your head and you can't let go and LIVE and feel alive and be in the moment. You can't solve problems on the paradigms in which they were created. You need to go a level higher. And right now you're like a hamster running around in a maze. We're all going to die. This life is completely pointless. Even when we die, our k…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 05:31 AM
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Definitely should have taken her in the back seat. When a woman is turned on and wants to fuck she will give you the excuses holding her back. To us it sounds like an excuse saying she doesn't want to because of 'x' but in reality shes saying IF YOU FIX 'x' I WILL FUCK YOU. At least you'll know better for next time
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:53 PM
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No shit? Why do we put this negative spin on hypergamy? No shit a woman would get a better man if she could, ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS ALREADY SINGLE. Are you saying a guy wouldn't trade up from his hb5 fat wife to a hb9 if given the chance?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:47 PM
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"The number one reason guys don't get laid is ugliness". You make a lot of good points about social constructs. But this is just flat out wrong. A socially well connected man that everybody knows will fuck sooo many more girls than a good looking shy guy who doesn't talk to many people.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:39 PM
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All of that is true, if you were asking a specific question or giving specific ideas or theories that you were wondering if anyone else has found. All you've said is hey guys look at all this shit I've done, am I doing good what should I do next? Thats so broad and generalised theres nothing we can say to help you really, and the way you were phrasing everything came across very humblebrag or like you're trying to stroke your own ego.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:13 PM
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lmao alright m8 believe what you want
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 05:00 AM
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14 for a girl whos 22 is not a big number. If she started having sex at 16 or 17 which is about normal, that would be about 2 per year. Do you have any idea how often a girl whos attractive gets hit up to try and have sex? and 2 PER YEAR is a lot? Get over it man. Girls have sex, shit happens, the sky is blue the world is round and we're all gonna die some day
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 04:44 AM
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Good points. Love the part about killing your ego, and it seems to be the biggest problem on here. So many guys have a chip on their shoulder from their past because they feel they weren't good enough and now their ego wayy over compensates. At the same time however, rating a woman 1-10 can just be a tool to give an idea. Gaming a 2 may not be that hard, but employing some tactics and strategies to gaming a 9 may be more useful. I think the problem comes when you only date girls above some numbe…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 11:02 PM
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Go do whatever it is you want to do. Why are you asking a bunch of internet strangers to assess you when we know next to nothing about you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:54 PM
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To be fair, 14 for a 22-23 year old hot chick really isn't that bad of a number. You were being a little insecure beta bitch. Do you think you'd care as much if you had fucked 100 girls by this time?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:48 PM
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Of course they can, their entire biological makeup is designed to find alphas dude. Being 'alpha' isn't something you do, it's something that you are. You can try tone it down, but generally it still comes out in ways. How you walk, talk, carry yourself, hundreds of tiny little cues you aren't even aware youre putting out all lead to the alpha sort of vibe
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:33 PM
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I like a few of the underlying concepts, but I can't help but feel like you made things wayy to hard on yourself. Sometimes the right line before the hampster really begins spinning can stop the whole thing before it even gets going and has a lot of momentum. Who can be stuffed dealing with that shit and not getting laid for 3-4 days? That or this chick is just crazy, I've had a lot of plates and this shit never seems to happen to me
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:23 PM
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Women like men who don't "need" them because it implies he can sustain himself, lead, fight, hunt etc etc. Men like women who "need" them because we like to feel big and strong protecting our woman etc etc. It's just the polar nature of men and women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:17 AM
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This is fucking stupid. A kid went through her phone and found nudes and this is claimed as bringing porn into school? The kid should be punished for grabbing a teachers phone and going through it, that's fucked up. I honestly don't think a male teacher would be reprimanded for this either. and even if he WAS to be, it doesn't mean a woman should be as well, it means that a man shouldn't be in the first place. Don't bring both people down, lift both people up
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 10:34 PM
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Why are you showing us that you were able to get another girl? Stop looking on the internet for validation
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:33 PM
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Any activity will work if it comes from a place of being alpha and something you enjoy. If you think that women will like walks along the beach and u suggest it because u think she'll like and that will make her like you, then youve lost. if you suggest a walk along the beach cauz you fucken love walking along the beach then she'll probably enjoy it and want to fuck you
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 01:13 AM
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I'd have to disagree. Girls get tingles, but they aren't stupid. They just need the plausible deniability to not seem like a 'slut'. Some girls don't need it and will just go back with you, but many do
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:51 AM
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Good FR. Not being butt-hurt and just enjoying your time are the best things you can do whilst going out and gaming
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:25 PM
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Honestly, stop paying attention to SJW/Feminists, this isn't a male version of feminism, this is just a bunch of guys looking to improve their lives. If you're constantly trying be better than feminists or something you're still in a paradigm of us vs them mentality, which doesn't help anybody. Just grow, read, learn, take action, and take everything with a grain of salt (even RP).
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:22 PM
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Damn, that's pretty messed up. Maybe speak to your mum about it and see what she said. Maybe they had an open relationship and didn't tell you, maybe they were on a break when she conceived you, who knows. See what she says, then use that judgement if you want to tell your Dad or not I guess. If it were me in your dads position i'd want to know, but thats just me
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 06:04 AM
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Shes not thinking it, its subconscious
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:22 AM
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Lots of girls go clubbing, just don't date girls who only go clubbing. Some of the most high quality girls I've met are girls I either met in a club or a bar, you just have to pick the right one
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:23 AM
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Honestly I couldn't give you a specific post, but a lot of posts breakdown their observation, why it occurs and what to do about it. A lot of the themes OP discussed have been discussed before or are general RP knowledge, but never hurts to go over it again because like you, not everyone has seen it before
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:27 PM
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Like with most things in TRP, it's not 'being funny' that women find attractive, its what being funny generally implies about a guy, and more so, how people react to the 'funny guy'. If youre funny with quick wit and good calls, people react and respond to you, which shows people respect and listen to you, which generally implies youre an alpha of the group. Women like to be around guys who make them feel comfortable, at ease, like they can relax, and who doesn't really give a shit, humor displa…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:53 AM
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Not really, I fucked my LTR, took her virginity, she dumped me like 2 months later cauz i was being a lil bitch haha. Women don't care about that stuff nearly as much as society makes it out to be
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 05:59 AM
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Ah yeah makes sense. Yeah thats what I do as well. I text 'Hey its Kez' like 10 mins after I meet them so they have my number. Then when I text them whenever i'm free its not some random thing popping up in their phone. Really the point of brad pitt was just to demonstrate if you have high enough value, you can break a lot of the so called 'rules' of TRP, which is why I don't think of them as rules but rather guidelines
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 05:18 AM
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Healthy; 2000 calories. Pick one
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:22 AM
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Honestly I don't believe it matters when you text her really. If Brad Pitt texted her an hour after he met her u better believe she'd reply. You just have to make a good impression, have abundance so you don't care if she replies or not, and keep going about your day. Women flake, for a million possible reasons. The trick is to have enough going on outside of your life that it doesn't matter when they flake
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:21 AM
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Lmao. Women have sex, get over it. She probably dumped you for a whole host of reasons. Better she dumped you before college rather than fucking a whole bunch of dudes behind your back. Move on with your life, she has clearly moved on with hers. Women aren't evil for choosing another guy to be with. Just become a better guy and not as many women will leave you
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:14 AM
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Bit of the same, but a good post non-the-less. A sign of good game isn't about how smooth you look or how quick the pull was, but about how compliant she is. If you say jump and she says how high, then you're very polar and have good game
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:11 AM
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Great post. Definitely wayyyyy to much sheep mentality and not enough critical thinking and evaluating circumstances on a case by case basis here. Which is ironic, considering the reason so many of us came to TRP is because we were sick of being told a story by society, only to come here to be told a different story that we can all blindy follow as well. As with most things in life, the truth is somewhere in the middle and you have to think and evaluate for yourself which parts you choose to uti…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:48 AM
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What others think about you does matter, but the way to get them thinking good things about you isn't by seeking their validation or approval
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 11:10 PM
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Chasing validation can be useful for improving yourself, but it shouldn't be the end goal. You'll have a hard time feeling fulfilled because you'll always be chasing something that you can never fully catch. You have to be able to take the time to slow down and appreciate what you have. Also notice I said EXTERNAL validation. There's a difference between improving so you feel better and more confident about yourself and therefore validate yourself, and seeking the validation/approval of others, …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 10:45 PM
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Good post, however I think you're trying to fix the problem on the level of which it was created. Trying to seek validation later on in life because you missed out on it in your teens doesn't fix the problem of missing out on it in the first place. It's better to be getting it later than never, but holding a bit of a chip on your shoulder because you never got it doesn't help anyone. Live the life you want to live and people will join you on it. I feel like you do cover this a little bit in your…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:03 AM
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Yeah I don't believe this for a second.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:01 AM
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Good work, good points and good semi-field report. Just note though, in a relationship you do still need some beta mixed in. If you go full alpha and don't throw comfort in she might cheat on you with a beta because he comforts her. There does still need to be a balance, but it looks like you got a pretty good grasp on it
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 04:52 AM
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These sorts of moments are often the ones you'll remember and will forever fix afterwards because its so obvious what you should have done. So at least you won't have to worry about it from now on. In terms of her LMR, she's not looking for an answer, she's just looking for you to tell her its fine and shes not a slut because she banged you on the first night. Moldy_gecko's replys are good. Try to use humour, ignore, or agree and amplify. Something like 'I never sleep with guys on the first nigh…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:00 AM
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Sounds like a pretty good gig to me. Give your room mate a high 5
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:30 AM
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This is a big problem will correlating a mans SMV with his looks, even a really good looking guy acting like a beta will still be low smv to a woman
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:27 AM
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It is if you're already a cool guy. Saying to Brad Pitt be yourself and have fun would probably work. He's right to an extent.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:07 AM
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Most things where you are the boss/ceo and in charge will give you pretty good social proof. However, social proof can be gained in other ways. Being a popular guy at the bar or the alpha of your group of friends will still give you social proof to women. Be successful and powerful because having money gives you abundance, not because it gives you social proof. Also as an aside, having a 'dark personality' typically isn't a trait of a popular alpha male, its typically of a butt-hurt beta who has…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:43 PM
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Being angry all the time is a terrible way to live life. Everybody is lied to one way or another. You're right, no one gets to decide how you react to the shit that happens to you in life. Only YOU can decide how to react. In my opinion there are many better reactions than going around being angry at women because society told us something different. It's not even womens fault. You think they have big women meetings where they all collectively decide how they're going to lie to us today? Thats a…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:15 PM
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I'd say they're linked. If you're in a place where you're social proofed you'll probably feel more confident, and the more confident you feel the more social proof you'll generally get. But there are other ways to be confident
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:11 PM
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Social proof is being a person of interest to a girl for some reason. Could be someone famous, the bar owner, some tall good looking guy with a bunch of girls around him. Its a verification that hes a cool dude that a woman would want to try to meet because she can see other people want to be around him too, which is very attractive to a woman
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:51 PM
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hahaha well at least youre honest
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 01:18 AM
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TRP is a great source of material, but if you think a lot of the posters here don't actually hate women I think you've been blinded a bit. A lot of guys are angry and hate/take it out on women. They might move past it eventually, but it is definitely there.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:44 PM
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Great posts, are there any books that are good reads on ideas like "never letting a company be more than 10% of your income". I'm interested in starting my own company and I'm trying to read as much as I can. Actual rules of business like this are great. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:42 PM
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This has no relevance to what i said lol
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:26 PM
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When they say they want a nice guy, they are picturing it coming from a handsome, tall, good looking, social proofed man. Because him being nice to her would be a sign that she has value. Shes picturing brad pitt being nice to her, which she would genuinely like. Of course, then all the beta faggots hear this and be nice to her and wonder why she won't fuck them. It's the same when guys say they want a respectable girl who can cook, clean, be submissive, support us, not be a slut etc. We do wan'…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:00 PM
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I think pickup can come from 2 places. You can use it because you feel women are above you and you need 'tricks' or 'techniques' or whatever to equalize the game. Or pickup can simply be a set of ideas and theories on how to put your best foot forward when talking to women and it just gives you a few nuts and bolts instructions to help your confidence. My favorite (only one i listen to) Pickup company is RSD, and its really more of a philosophy about how to interact as a man to a women rather th…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:49 PM
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I honestly don't get the fascination with showing everyone that women like sex. Could you imagine how retarded it would be if a women went to RedPill Women and said "I asked my guy mates if they'd fuck 4 of the hottest Victoria secret models and they said they would! What do you guys think?" I think this post is dumb
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:49 AM
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Sounds to me like he does genuinely enjoy doing it, with the added benefit of picking up women
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:03 PM
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Its not a good idea to say 'I was just kidding'. It screams youre insecure about your wants as a man and it destroys any frame you had
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:56 PM
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The most alpha guys are not stoic boring unhappy men to be around. The most alpha guys are typically the life of the party, who people want to know and be around because theyre fun and give them good energy and emotions. So many people on TRP get caught up trying to be James Bond or something because its seen as cool or something. I think you need to let go of the anger and resentment you hold, anger breeds scarcity and scarcity is a trait of being beta. Try to have fun, don't judge people, try …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:40 PM
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This happened a hundred years ago, no reason to get butthurt over the past. This has nothing to do with feminism, nor has any relevance or discussion. If you want to go complain to try and get some attention, there are plenty of womens parties you can go to to talk about your feels
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:49 AM
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Haha relax mate. Johnny cash is one person, i'm sure an entire generation of woman around the world don't suddenly just up and change their entire biology because of a pill in the span of around 10 years. Lots of girls are on the pill, not every girl. And exactly, women are heard animals, which is why status is so important, because they see the man has status and it tells them hes attractive, not because hes physically more imposing. Not that i would even say johnny cash is physically more impo…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 08:50 AM
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Skinny, scrawny beta looking types have been sex symbols for ages if they're famous and/or a musician. Women place a much greater emphasis on STATUS as opposed to physical dominance for attraction. Physicality does have its place, but it pales in comparison to millions of people re-affirming that this man of status is attractive. Back in the 60's and 70's the sex symbols were the beatles (who strike a similar resemblance to early justin bieber) Mick Jagger whos about as skinny as they come, KISS…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:53 PM
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If you want to listen to PUA content, I HIGHLY recommend RSD, especially Tyler and Julien. Its Pickup content, but through a more lifestyle approach. Theres lots of redpill truths in there and they have a great mindset for building an attractive lifestyle
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:29 PM
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Yeah definitely. I didn't mean to imply lifting isn't good for other things, just that it's not the most important thing for picking up women. Definitely doesn't hurt tho. If i could choose between being a jacked guy with good game and a fat gross guy with good game id definitely choose the former
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:50 PM
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youre right, I was using a lot of generalizing terms. Its rare for a girl to open me, but even then you still have to not be a retard and have to have some idea how to control logistics, make things happen, lead and keep the interaction going, which lots of guys don't know how to do.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:18 PM
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Definitely agree. Lifting often cultivates good mentalities and principles, but there are other ways to obtain them
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:30 AM
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Honestly I'd say lifting is the least important aspect of picking up women. If you can be confident, have an attractive social group, and know the game and picking up woman, having an attractive body is merely the icing on top. Being in great shape gives you an 'in' sometimes and will make a girl open you, but if you're being active and social in an area you should have already opened her, or there are other reasons why she would come up and talk to you. The only time I've found lifting to be be…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:49 AM
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The issue wasn't that you got oneitis, it's that you stopped being the person she liked you for in the first place. You can have feelings for a woman and only want to be with her, and still be a man, handle your shit, go to the gym, see friends and be social. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater just because you had a bad experience with it
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:47 AM
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I'm not sure what this is called in TRP community, but in pickup I know this as situational confidence. Its easier to be confident when youre in your group who know you and accept you to go off and find girls and then come back to the group, its social proofing and it works. But it ties into my idea that being alpha is on a scale, which is why even chodes can be alpha with a 3 or 4, but not a 7, it also ties in with SMV etc. But the more confident and alpha you are then you won't NEED your own g…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:55 PM
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Thanks m8. Tren for life haha
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 10:50 PM
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This is another topic I want to make a post on. Being Alpha is a completely relative term. Its easy to be alpha and display alpha qualities when talking to a 5. Not so easy when youre chatting up the only 10 at a party. One womans chad is another womans Beta Bux
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:32 AM
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This is exactly the point I'm trying to get across
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 12:20 AM
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I think this is one of those things on the Red Pill that conveys more of an idea than a law. The idea being you don't want to be 'an interviewer' because it typically leads to generic boring answers and gets the girl logically thinking. However, done right, demanding answers gives you great frame control and puts a lot of pressure on the girl, qualifying herself for you. Its harder to pull off and not nooby friendly so people just say don't do it. Anything and EVERYTHING in game and conversing w…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 03:35 AM
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ahahah you have no idea how long it takes me to sleep with someone dude, if you think you have to follow some bs 'rules' then youre clearly missing the point. Ive slept with girls on the first date after dinner, after coffee, after just a walk in the park, theres no difference as long as you arent a dipshit
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 03:20 AM
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you can do it however you want to do it. I just think its silly to say 'you can NEVER DO X' the whole point about being alpha and RP in the first place is doing things on your own terms and how you want
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:43 PM
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"Do not EVER take a women out to dinner you are not at least fucking or as a first date" You can absolutely take a woman on a dinner first date if you want, I've fucked plenty of girls this way. The issue isn't that youre taking her to dinner, it's what taking her to dinner and paying for her usually IMPLIES about you. If you're an attractive (physically or personality) guy and you push all her buttons, she's not gonna say 'oh damn I really want to fuck this guy but I won't because he took me to…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:16 PM
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I love hearing 'Im not having sex with you tonight'. It pretty much means 'Don't fuck this up and ill fuck you'. Just smile and say 'yeah sure' and keep going about your day
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:18 PM
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I don't think its real in the traditional Blue Pill sense, but having a great relationship and leading and being dominant and the man in the relationship and having her react and be very feminine is extremely rewarding, and with a great girl you can definitely love her, even if its only for the moment and not some 'for life' sort of thing
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 03:36 AM
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I'm not 30, I'm 25, but am starting to experience friends, girls being less available and in serious relationships and working full time whilst pursuing hobbies/interests like the gym and starting my own company. Honestly, Its hard. I have virtually no free time other than the weekends during the day, or monday/tuesday nights after about 9pm. But if you want it bad enough of course you can have a modified version. If you live in a big enough city there are enough clubs/bars open that there is al…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:50 AM
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Youre definitely taking the right steps, I dont think anyone is doubting that. Youve done 95% of the work and taken action which is great, but something is definitely not quite right in the process if youre getting this much lmr from different girls. True, bad weeks and random shit happens, but 4 or 5 different girls all at once does generally point to something. My gut feeling is that youre over thinking things and pickup hasn't become 'natural' or instinctual yet, and girls can kind of feel th…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:29 AM
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Good FR. To me it feels like youre too invested in the outcome of the game. Having an average number of approaches before a number screams outcome dependence. Who cares how many girls you have to approach before you can get a number? Game should be about enjoying the process of meeting and enjoying women and taking action, not about end results. If you can get girls over to your place and onto your bed but can't fuck them, id suggest you are building too much comfort and not enough attraction, a…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:56 PM
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Ehhhh 5 by the time shes 20 is fine dude. Women fuck guys, get over it. It sounds like youre in massive scarcity and still very young, just a growing phase.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:02 AM
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I definitely don't think its a hard rule or law or anything, just something that can tend to happen. It's possible you didn't notice any they gave you, or you interacted in a way that means they didnt need to give you any. Obviously the proof is in the pudding that you did something right.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:28 AM
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Shit tests really aren't a bad thing. You want her to be shit testing you. It means shes trying to see what you're really like, and whether you'd be a good mate with her. Know who she doesn't shit test? The beta at the bar who she hasn't even noticed, her oribiters and other guys shes never ever going to fuck. Welcome the shit tests, pass them, and then bang her brains out
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:06 AM
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Its no secret girls like attractive guys, and being attractive will help you, but being physically attractive is just one aspect of a girls attraction for you, if you can display it in other areas being tall and in good shape will only help you a little bit more, it won't do everything for you, at least most of the time. Like i said, every now and then you will get a freebie and a girl will sleep with you because youre hot, but these are rarely anything about a 7 and even below a 7 its still qui…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:28 PM
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Actually yeah I wish to add a caveat to my statement, being in good shape does help a lot with 5's and 6's and even some 7's. Any girl with a high SMV won't just suddenly suck your dick because you have abs tho unfortunately lol
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:21 AM
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Honestly I don't think lifting helps with game and girls that much. It beats being a skinny DYEL or a fat ass but you still have to be confident, hold frame and not be a retard when talking to women. If youre more confident because you look better and feel better then that probably helps a lot more. Every now and then you'll get an easy lay from being in good shape, but thats rare. It will usually just give you an easier time approaching girls, but you still have to approach. In my experience ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:44 AM
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This is great advice. Being RP and 'alpha' (I dont like using that word really) is really just about doing whatever it is you want to do, and giving you logical advice, structure and reason so that you can have a strategy to get the things you want. At first it will feel uncomfortable, but after a while it sort of becomes a part of who you are and you won't have to think about it. It's sort of a 'fake it till you make it'. Ironically the more worried you are about if youre using the RP truths an…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:05 AM
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This is a damn good explanation. I've always interpreted JBY as be exactly yourself. No filters, not stifled, but unapologetically yourself
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 05:03 AM
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Thats because most guys who talk and interact with them are probably not that beta to being with. Its a survival bias. Women think every guy is really confident because only the really confident ones come up and talk to them.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 05:00 AM
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I agree you never want to jump through hoops, but seriously sometimes all you have to do is just do the thing their asking (especially something hygenic) and they'll fuck your brains out. Its really a non-issue in my opinion
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:01 AM
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I mean to be fair, it is a movie and is probably exaggerated for the sake of humour. Sure there are some underlying concepts in it that are true, but its not literal piece by any means
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 06:48 AM
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Women like a RANGE of emotions. Joy doesnt feel good if you don't have pain, happiness is meaningless if you haven't experienced being sad. Learn to give her a full range of emotions and she'll be much more thankful for it
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:17 AM
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Its actually a really good movie, all other shit aside. Perhaps less so now as it seems youve read spoilers
/r/MensRights09/10/14 06:14 AM
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chances are it's not what you physically say, probably more how you say it. Most of your interactions with girls is subconscious, and the words you say have very little meaning. Hows your tonality, body language, are you free from outcome? How congruent are you? Typically when you 'can't think of anything to say' its because you don't think what you say will be good enough ,which is typically a sign that you don't have enough core confidence and aren't congruent enough with who you are as a pers…
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:41 AM
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Yeah I would definitely say tonality, body language etc needs to improve. Also it could be they saw you previously and recognised you don't have much 'social value or proof' and had already decided you were a chode etc. Getting good at game isn't about really about 'what is this x thing i need to improve' but more about what 100 little things did i subconsciously do well. Also just about every night if you open a group you're going to get completely ignored, it happens, re-open later if you want…
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:35 AM
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You left her, of course another guy is going to dance with her. You just hope you've done enough ground work that she will still remember you, or you hope the guy isn't good at game and blows himself out of the set. In addition to this, it shouldn't really bother you that she is dancing with someone else, even though it was you who left her in the first place, since you should be having an abundance mentality and be talking to other girls etc (which you were, which is good). If you've talked to …
/r/seduction20/11/13 05:58 AM
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Chances are she might have actually had a boyfriend. You win some, you lose some. How did you leave with the danish girl and not get her number? Is she a friend of a friend? Are you going to see her again? She might wonder why you didn't get her number, for about 10 seconds until some other dude comes along lol. Always get the number. So many times in game guys think they have to do something to show they aren't interested and that this 'technique' will cause the girl wondering why they aren't i…
/r/seduction11/11/13 02:19 PM
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Pretty good read, that last sentence killed it for me tho. "There aren’t yet places where women can go pay hot young men to stroke their egos. That may come in the future." Pretty sure just about every woman ever has their ego's stroked daily by guys hitting on them and then turn around and call it harassment or some bull shit
/r/MensRights30/08/13 06:36 AM
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Probably shows how much work and how difficult it CAN be to get a womans attention
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:55 AM
1

Actually if you listen closely, at the end of the sentence she says "More women are killed from dv than in the 9/11 attacks and iraq war." I could be wrong but wouldnt that point to her meaning more women died in iraq war and 9/11, not more women die from dv than PEOPLE in the 9/11 and iraq war combined? Which of course would be silly since how many women died in the iraq war compared to men? Also, since patriarchy is so prominent I'm assuming it was mostly men in the twin towers working /s
/r/MensRights16/08/13 05:22 AM
1

True for you perhaps, but when you're a guy you deal with multiple girls who are all different, and often thats the better option to take, but of course you have to be reactive with all girls and calibrate after the fact
/r/seduction12/08/13 04:21 AM
1

When I had this problem I was younger (around 17-18) (now nearly 23) so it could be girls have grown up more etc, but try negging them more. If all you are is nice/good/intelligent/smart etc then they associate that with being a bf, but if you're the 'playful asshole' then they usually on associate that with guys they fuck every now and then. However I wouldn't necessarily say what you have now is a bad thing, just try reframing it so they buy into what you have to offer more (or less for that m…
/r/seduction07/08/13 07:02 AM
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I think he's worried that the only thing stopping his gf from cheating is not finding a guy who knows what to say to get her to sleep with him.
/r/seduction28/07/13 12:11 PM
1

Rofl. You have literally 0 idea what I do with my life, how are you to know I'm not a laborer myself. Nice arguement bro, wanna sound more like a whiney feminist with all your feels about how much of a victim you are?
/r/MensRights27/06/13 12:54 PM
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Did you read anything I wrote at all? I said it shouldn't be the only factor.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 08:54 AM
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Who cares which one is more than the other? This isn't a competition to see who has the shittier more stressful job and then get rewarded for it. Who cares if manual laborers are far more likely to die on the job? The basis of being paid isn't how close to death you are. You simply look like a fucking idiot who is so cognitively dissonant from the situation no amount of soothing could heal your butt hurt
/r/MensRights26/06/13 11:57 PM
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Oh come on man, dont get so picky. We aren't talking about fucking maths solutions, we're talking about people. Who cares exactly why she might be driven to accomplish the things she accomplishes. It's not unreasonable to think shes equally as driven or competitive as some men are.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 03:02 PM
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You make a lot of valid points, but I don't believe the entire basis of wage is on supply and demand. I'm not saying laboring isn't hard work, many of my friends are laborers and tradies. But usually skilled positions requiring university are paid more. I would have a problem with women earning more doing a laboring job than a man doing a nursing job, and I have the same problem with a man earning more doing a laboring job than a man doing a nursing job. Theres a reason lots of guys are in labor…
/r/MensRights26/06/13 02:49 PM
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Rofl. I am by no means a feminist. I read this sub every day and share many of the same views as the rest of the MRA's. The problem I have is that you are all acting like a bunch of circle jerking femnazis over this when people need to keep a calm head and discuss things without shaming and blaming her. It gives the feminists more fuel for saying we hate them and treat women like shit purely because they are women and not on the merits of what they have done.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 02:39 PM
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Men. How competitive a gender USUALLY is doesn't mean much tho when comparing the top percentile of a group of people. I presume you're implying that since men are more competitive of course they'll work harder and try more things to get the top positions. Perhaps this is true for a majority of things, but I'd assume that you have to have a pretty equal level of a competitive drive to get to where she was in the first place, same goes for any woman in a position of power.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:50 PM
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That's a very narrow viewpoint. You're going to tell me that shoveling dirt is as hard and stressful on you as the possibility of killing somebody? Or dealing with people dying on you from illness every day? Sure it might be more physically challenging, but thats only 1 aspect of a job.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:40 PM
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That has no relevance what-so-ever? 99.999999% of people don't get near the job, I'm fine with a woman getting it if she deserves it.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 12:35 PM
-23

You can't really say that since the majority of people in power have been men forever. Say she did a terrible job if you want, but you cant put blame on her for being in a position of power "most men get nowhere near" when it is obvious there are more men in power.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 12:19 PM
-25

Whilst I agree many things on the wage gap are incorrect, I'm actually ok with nurses getting payed "equal to males doing manual labour". Nurses do work incredibly long hours, and have to deal/put up with a lot of shit (literally). As long as this doesn't snowball into all other fields where women might legitimately work less hours and still expect to get payed the same I'm all for this
/r/MensRights26/06/13 12:16 PM
7

It does affect them tho. How would you feel if you were with a woman and you wanted kids, only to find out after you've fallen in love with her that she can't have kids? I'd imagine you'd be pretty upset/disappointed. I wouldn't bring it up on a first date, but I feel it would be moral to tell them when the conversation comes up about kids that he physically can't have them. They probably shouldn't get mad however, and should be understanding, but they do deserve to know your intentions, just as…
/r/MensRights31/05/13 01:06 AM
1

There is a law against assaulting a minor tho, Implying that the law does indeed take size into account. This is still an over reaction from him, even if it was a man he punched, and should probably be charged.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 07:09 AM
1

Well as I said in the OP it's for my friend, as I am currently an active member of the 'pick-up' community. I think she just wants to feel like she has more control over when she meets someone and doesn't like the random feeling of waiting for some guy to make the first move
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:43 PM
1

??
/r/seduction29/05/13 01:00 PM
1

I'm well aware of this, however I don't believe its impossible, and you could argue, its even more important to be good at game then if you aren't very attractive then, as you'll have to rely on it more.
/r/seduction29/05/13 09:19 AM
0

No, I meant, that you would have had sex with a girl you don't consider to be 'hot'. Probably because she changed herself some way, or said the right things to you, to attract you, think about her sexually, and want to have sex with her. We do the exact same things to women when we pick women up
/r/seduction29/05/13 06:42 AM
1

Not every girl is attractive, and if you think you haven't been talked into having sex with less than a hb5 or 6 whilst you've been a bit drunk or something then you're lying or haven't slept with many girls
/r/seduction29/05/13 06:19 AM
1

Nah I don't really. Most of the girls I know who get a lot of guys are typically really hot (My friend is probably a 7 or 8). I Figured a lot of principles about being congruent and confident and grounded and displaying value would hold true for girls as well, but wasn't really sure/those are pretty complicated topics to teach her, and would rather she learns from women who know it better
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:56 AM
4

Sounds like you have a bit of a nooby complex tbh. You're getting good with women and are now actively trying to be the polar opposite of what you were. You have to re-adjust your mentality. Like others have said, there's a difference between not being needy, and literally throwing girls out like trash once they say something bad or challenge you. Chances are they're challenging you because they do see you as an alpha guy, and want to see what you're really like when shit hits the fan. Also, the…
/r/seduction29/05/13 02:52 AM
1

This is the single best thing I've heard as well. It frees up SOOOO much shit when you're genuinely curious about what she's like. Suddenly its easier to bring up things to say, you don't seem needy, you're free from outcome, plenty of intent of just getting to know her, you seem genuine (because you are). So much good shit comes from wondering what shes actually like as a person
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:27 AM
-3

Would probably call myself an attractive guy. The only difference I notice between myself and when I see 'unattractive' guys pick-up is that anything around a HB7 and below become a lot easier because they naturally give you higher value than them, and they essentially frame themselves as wanting you before you even speak to them. Secondly, girls a lot of the time give you eye contact, making it obvious you can go talk to them or gives you the opportunity to hold eye-contact, thus making approac…
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:27 AM
6

Ok, I have nearly 0 reference to who you are as a person, guy, how far along with your game you are, all that sort of thing, so I could be COMPLETELY wrong, but this is my guess. It sounds like you're way over thinking things and are/were (with this girl) in your head. When you are over analyzing things that they said because of something you said earlier in interactions and whether this is good or bad, it tends to lead to outcome dependence. And when you're relying on a good outcome when you ar…
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:42 AM
2

It can be awkward, but are your parents cool with you bringing a girl home? Don't forget emotional state transfer. If you are cool with bringing a girl back to your place with your parents, then she will be cool with it
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:29 AM
2

"I'm free next week sometime" usually isn't a good sign, if she actually wanted to see you she probably would have suggested a time, then not replying until 12:13 when you asked to see her at 12. You can bet if she was seeing someone at 12 she would have gotten your message and had the chance to reply to it. Also, I feel like the "Hey you im serious!" felt a bit needy. If you had the chance to fuck 10 other girls would you be texting one saying I'm serious about meeting up? Probably not. Like I …
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:23 AM
3

Great blog/Field report!
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:13 AM
2

Actually meeting up with you is usually a good one. Sorry to say man, but chances are you'll never see this one again. Give it one more go maybe and move on. And if i'm wrong, ill be the first one to congratulate you!
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:01 AM
2

There are lots of ways you can go about this, and you don't even have to. You don't HAVE to sleep with more than 1 woman at a time, if YOU don't want to. You can still be coming from a place of abundance whilst only sleeping with 1 woman at a time. That being said, I would only offer this. Don't treat women like they're some fragile little china doll that if you do something wrong they're going to break. This is actually incredibly demeaning to them, and gives you a whole shit tonne of problems …
/r/seduction17/04/13 06:42 AM
5

When a girl is at a club, lots of guys/people come up talking to her, and she may even make out with a few of them. Different guys are simply 'emotions' to her at different stages of the night. She'll remember you as 'oh yeah that fun guy who kissed me'. Ask her the next day tho who you are, she'll be out of state, and out of that emotional zone, and when the girls emotions change she's not going to keep investing in you. This is typically the reason why girls flake/don't reply. There's a great …
/r/seduction17/04/13 12:25 AM
3

I think the most important question here, was it good head?
/r/seduction16/04/13 06:29 AM
1

You're absolutely right, there isn't really anything to write home about, which is why I thought it would be interesting to post. Because in my experience, 80-90% of pickups are pretty basic, similar, and aren't all that exciting. All you need are the basic concepts of good body language, confidence, eye contact, and being upfront, and girls generally respond pretty well. I'd say we had pretty boring conversational reactions, but just being laid back and confident in yourself is very effective i…
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:28 AM
1

I thought she was keen from the texts as she told me to hurry up and stuff. When I got back there her eyes were 'popped' if you know the reference from RSD. We were playing pool, escalated kino from high-fiving, to touching her waist etc, but personally I hate the term 'kino' as I view touching/flirting with a girl to be something you do for fun, not another staged part of the pick-up routine that you escalate after x time if you get me. I feel like it should just be something natural that occur…
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:26 AM
1

thanks man gotta own who you are!!
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:06 AM
1

well thats like 2 hours of stuff, and most of it is just normal chatting and didnt think it was that interesting tbh :(
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:06 AM
3

By 'texting a rando' you mean replying when he texts them yeh? (as I ALWAYS get there number instead of me giving them mine). You do get a decent amount of girls who don't reply, but thats fairly uncommon. More common is you talk a bit, realise you don't have any chemistry anyway and don't pursue them. Sometimes you get along and have a date or two and it doesn't go anywhere, but maybe 5-10% of the time you get along, go on a date, and then have sex and see where it goes from there. Get 4-5 girl…
/r/seduction11/04/13 05:53 AM
2

Hi is a pretty good start. What words you use to talk to a women are usually of no importance, HOW you say those words and your body language etc is much more important.
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:52 AM
2

You'll never close until you actually close. You can keep a conversation going for HOURS but if all you do when you have to leave is say "bye" then it doesn't matter. All you have to say is "Hey I have to go, whats your number?". The girl will either give it to you, or she won't. There is never a 'perfect' time to transition the convo from whatever you're talking about to "Give me your number/make out/pull from club". The perfect time is when YOU DECIDE TO DO IT because that is what YOU want to …
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:40 AM
2

Tbh I feel like your nitpicking and miss the overarching idea of what I was saying. Like I said, everybody has their own ideas/definition about what an 'alpha male' is, those were simply a few ideas of mine, not the all encompassing hard core definition that must be adhered to 100% of the time. In regards to the 'No true Scotsman' informal fallacy, you'll never hear a confident/alpha male walk around to people telling them how much of a confident alpha male he is. It's assumed, implied, obvious …
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:10 AM
5

The reason people typically get oneitis is because they don't feel they deserve or can attract more women, so they invest in this one girl because its all they have. Really the key is to know that there are billions of other girls out there and you just need to go talk to them and attract them, and then if 1 girl flakes on you it doesn't matter because you have several others.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:39 AM
47

Ironically the most alpha guys never consider themselves alpha, nor never strive to be. Everybody has their own interpretation of what "Being alpha" is, similar to peoples interpretation of "Being happy". In GENERAL though, being alpha is typically being totally comfortable in who you are as a man, what you are about, and not being influenced by other people. You are totally okay with any outcome because in the very core of your being you know that it will be okay, and at the end of the day it d…
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:23 AM
1

got ya
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:41 PM
4

A pork one instead of venison?
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:46 AM
2

definitely just go around the club/place talking to girls. Always come from a frame of abundance. You want this HB8, but you NEED her. Go try to hook up with/fuck other girls, whilst keeping her in your frame and showing her that you're not a chode
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:45 AM
1

Yeah, thinking about it after the fact I think it's probably best. It's also what I appreciate most when I compliment a girl
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:39 AM
5

yeah I did that and felt her boobs, feltgoodman.jpg
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:37 AM
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