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Victim PukematrixtospartanatLV/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:04 AM
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“The answer to my problem cannot be ‘you have low testosterone levels’. Not the case. Really? What IS the case. More specifically, what IS your level? One friend told you that you are exceptionally intelligent. It seems to me your intelligence would require you to deal with the facts, because this post seems to be an awful lot about your feelz. It’s your life and your call, but I’d suggest you KNOW your level before building your response to a problem you haven’t factually diagnosed.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:28 PM
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The tone and tenor of your post, specifically the reference to your parents 15 year age gap relative to your 15 year age gap, indicate that you are thinking of an LTR towards cohabitation and marriage. The only reason to cohabitate is to get married. The only reason to get married is to have children. And there is only one reason to have children, but the real question is whether or not you know why. Her age at 21 years is the problem because her brain is not fully formed yet. In spite of the nu…
/r/askMRP22/07/20 01:43 AM
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The age gap isn’t the biggest problem. Her AGE, is the biggest problem. BEFORE you do stupid shit, read “The Ultimate Younger Woman Manual,” by Blackdragon, (Caleb Jones). And talk to a Family Law attorney in your area if she is going to spend more than 3 nights a week at your place. My youngest sugarbaby is 41 years younger than me. Talking to an attorney first cost me $150 and saved me, maybe everything. It’s like having a nuke. You’ll never know how much of a deterrent it is, you just pray yo…
/r/askMRP21/07/20 01:37 AM
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A lot of LIFE is in front of you. This is a journey, not a project. As you have already learned, your results will stop when you do. Like losing weight, you can ‘diet’ until the weight is gone, and then gain it back when you stop dieting.. OR, You can change the way you eat forever. You don’t have a ‘lot of work’ in front of you as much as you are going to change the way you live your life, and this time add 30 minutes a day of learning MRP on an intellectual level.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 09:16 PM
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Don’t settle for sitting on the shore of life with your little pole and a single line in the water, hoping to catch just one fish. Become the man that travels across the lake of life, and as you do, the fish jump in your boat.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:38 AM
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I raised seven children. Six of them were boys. Remember the ultimate goal: to raise your children to be self-sustaining adults and good citizens of the community; or more specifically in my case, to get off my payroll and move the fuck out of my house, happily. I wanted to teach my children what would happen when they didn’t do what they were supposed to do. When you don’t get out of bed and go to work, when you don’t pay your bills on time, when you don’t do the right thing, the good things in…
/r/askMRP11/04/20 01:57 AM
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Get circumcised.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:45 PM
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He was evidently happy for 8 years. NOT a waste of time. The only wasted time is every moment he spends with her from here on out. Dogs bark. Babies cry. Women cheat. Move on.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:57 PM
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Sounds like she found a bigger diamond.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:31 AM
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He needs to pull his head out of his own ass since that’s where he’s looking for her.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:44 PM
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She didn’t say, “Let’s FUCK.” She didn’t say, “I don’t want to fuck you.” She DID say, “I want to get to know you better.” She added ‘non-romantically’ as part of her ASD and plausible deniability because in womanese, she just all but directly asked you out on a date. To which YOU responded, ‘Ew,’ and walked away. You’re probably NOT stupid, but you ARE one ignorant fuck. You can’t fix stupid. You CAN fix ignorance with acquiring and applying information. All the information you need is in the s…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 07:41 PM
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>Or in other words, if you were suddenly single again, knowing what you know now, what would be your most important qualities to screen or look for? I'm suddenly single again. The most important qualities? Would you marry her mother if she was her daughter's age. My ex-wife was nothing like her mother. My ex-wife even complained about her mother. My ex-wife, after 5 years of marriage, turned into the hypergamous, lying, cheating whore that her mother is. I'll never get married again, and I won't…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 08:32 PM
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5) DON’T LIVE WITH HER UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED OR ENGAGED AND ABOUT TO BE MARRIED. 6) NO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS. And my advice to my son in the US Army; NEVER GET MARRIED WHILE IN THE MILITARY. So yeah, he didn’t listen, and now he’s getting divorced.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:17 PM
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Great fucking comment.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:24 PM
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Few people change, until it's too late on many levels. I'm in the twilight of my life, and I'm just getting started. I used to be you, for 35 years. I lost $1,600,000 and almost 25 years of my life to two bad marriages and a mediocre attitude like yours. That fire you're looking for is motivation, and like the fire, motivation dies. Fuck motivation. You need self-discipline. YouTube Jocko Willink. He doesn't have all the answers, but he's a good place to start. This isn't about women, it's about…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:17 PM
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>>Last night, we were eating a snack together, and the topic of her weight came up. (She was on her period FYI) Making excuses for her behavior is always wrong. Let's see in your post how this plays out for you. >>She gained some weight last year, and made a comment towards the end of summer that she doesn't feel as confident in a bikini as she once did. She was looking for comfort and leadership. I don't get the sense that you have given her much of either, but I could be wrong... >>She said at…
/r/askMRP04/02/20 07:05 PM
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Yes. So what? The earlier you start, the better it is. “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is today.” Google ‘mewing’ for a better jawline. Eat a diet that promotes testosterone and reduces estrogen. Lift wisely. You missed what, 5 years? I started at 57yo and it’s going great. You’re...18? Fuck you. Get back to fucking work. Edit: Later on, women will care less that you are jacked and tan and juicy as fuck. If you’re ‘squishy’ on the inside, no frame or game, t…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:48 PM
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>>’ll start off with stating I’ve half assed the side bar and only briefly participated in OYS Well, a nugget of truth from someone new. You may yet be salvageable. >>>>I found it difficult to stay consistent when I was lying to myself about what my intentions were. This is because you HAVEN'T read the sidebar and you don't understand one of the cornerstones of MRP; the consistency of applying its tenets apply to EVERY situation as a man. It doesn't matter if you are single, getting married, mar…
/r/askMRP01/02/20 07:31 PM
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I’d rather replace a plate than fix it.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:23 PM
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It’s no longer possible.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:11 PM
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My (ex)wife, without my knowledge or consent, opened my marriage and started dating and fucking other men. When I found out, I confronted her many times about it and she never stopped. She didn't care if we were married or divorced, and if I stayed or if I left. Eventually I inherited a fuck-ton of money and divorced her. I kept the money, and she kept her boyfriend. At the time the pain I felt rivaled that of burying my 17yo son. I felt like I was getting foot-stomped in my guts and groin every…
/r/askMRP30/01/20 04:48 PM
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Wait...what? Women are human, too? Huh... Never thought of them that way...
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:23 PM
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If the time it takes to read two books to give context to a third book is causing you this much trouble, you’re not going to get anything out of the third book because you’re a lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:33 AM
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“God gave me an extra 2” somewhere else.”
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:25 PM
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Read, “The Ultimate Younger Woman Manual” by Blackdragon, aka Caleb Jones. At 40yo, you are his target audience. He has many other books and an online presence you will appreciate.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:48 PM
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If you do take this lying, cheating, whore back, you deserve every fucked up thing she does to you for the rest of your life. You have been given a gift. ACCEPT it.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:50 PM
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Bathmate
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:26 PM
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“Not mad. Happy. Thanks for asking.”
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:04 PM
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The guy she fucked last night wasn’t as good as she thought he was going to be. NEXT!
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:33 PM
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Are you seriously choosing between grades and girls? Reward yourself with pussy AFTER you are getting good grades. Good grades are what get you competitively into the field of your choice, whether that’s college, trade school, military, etc. Become high value and you no longer have to chase women. Women chase men of high value.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:00 PM
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Someone who specializes in this area of law.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:22 AM
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You need a FAMILY lawyer, RIGHT FUCKING NOW. If you sign, say, or do anything without the advice of a FAMILY attorney, you deserve every fucked up thing that happens to you. You raw-dogged a plate, didn’t you? You fucked up. Your next fuckup, without getting fucked, might put you in financial servitude for 18 years. Stop fucking around. Lawyer the fuck up. You fuck.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 03:19 AM
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Her: “I’ll wear what I want and you have no say in the matter.” You: “True, but there is one matter I will always have say in. Goodbye.” At the end of the day, you don’t want to control a woman. Always give her the freedom to be who she really is. NEXT as appropriate. When you’re with one for THREE YEARS you haven’t found a reason to hard next, she might be mommy material, AFTER you vet her parents in general, and mom in particular. Edit: you’re in high school. Read The Rational Male. RIGHT FUCK…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:03 PM
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28-29 nervous. 30...panic sets in
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:58 PM
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Bathmate
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:01 AM
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He was slow, relatively inexperienced, and over confident. His size and strength had always been the answer to all of his problems. He met ‘technique’ in the unfamiliar and learned his first lesson in humility.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:37 AM
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He was allowed to practice in house, but at meets he could only wrestle if someone else wanted to for the experience.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:33 AM
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I don’t disagree with you. Lifting and MMA are different for me. Lifting is learning to use self-discipline to deal with internal pressure. MMA is about learning to deal with external pressure. OP is looking for a crucible of sorts to learn some of those life lessons sooner than later. It wasn’t MMA in general, but BJJ in particular that I was recommending. And yes, I have some life experience. Thrown out 3 months before HS graduation. I started life as a HS dropout with the clothes on my back a…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:41 AM
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He had his own padding all over, I won’t deny it. But it was spread out enough that he didn’t look gross with his 44” waist.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:41 AM
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It’s not about the martial art. Learning that skill is a bonus. The point here is to conquer fear, to deal with embarrassment and humiliation, to remain calm when under duress/pressure, and enjoy the confidence and mental toughness that comes as a result. Move one of your lifting days to Saturday. Give up one day of lifting during the week. Now you have 2 days a week for BJJ class. But don’t take just my word for it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rX23PKDGcXk&t=606s Jocko Willink is arguably one …
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:35 AM
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My 17yo son was 6’5”, 335 lbs, starting center varsity football, wrestled, and could bench his own body weight. He had an attitude. He was submitted his first day in BJJ in less than 20 seconds by a 15yo boy weighing maybe 150lbs. Which is why the Gracies dominated the Octogon for so long.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:25 AM
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Stop ‘thinking’, KNOW, you fucking moron. You are gambling your freedom and your future over...pussy? At 17 you are the age of consent in most places, even though you’re not an adult. Get caught tapping a 15yo, who is NOT the age of consent in most places, and you will be... Charged, tried, convicted, and incarcerated for the crime of rape, and have to register as a sex offender everywhere you are allowed to reside for the rest of your life. All the milfs, cougars, et al that would LOVE to have …
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:51 PM
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Mixed martial arts. By ‘tough’ I think you meant strong, as opposed to some dark, narcissistic asshole douchebag fuck. Toughness occurs when something is torn down and built back stronger, over and over and over again. Go to a BJJ gym and get humbled by a 110lb, 15yo girl with a green belt. The range of emotions you will feel, confront, and control as you roll will help develop toughness over the long term. YouTube it.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 09:36 PM
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She moved on. You’re stuck on why. It doesn’t matter why. The answer she gives you in the moment will be different than the answer she would have given you six months ago, or six months from now. 3.5 BILLION cunts on this planet and you’re worried about what THIS ONE thinks? Grow the fuck up. Move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 12:38 PM
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I’m 57. Found this place through MRP at 55 due to (now) ex-wife’s hypergamy. The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi says you are at your absolute peak, and it’s a long, slow decline from here if you work at it. u/VasiliyZaitzev has a lot of posts here for the older crowd. He’s 50 and crushing it. All the same rules apply. Be fit, be smart, be smooth, and have absolute confidence in yourself. For EVERY SINGLE PROBLEM you think you have, there is an answer. In addition to the sidebar, add the collecti…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:13 PM
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“practiced RP for years...” You haven’t practiced SHIT. But I’ll take you at your word, because I feel as lazy as you sound. So RP for years means you HAVE ALL the answers, you’ve just chosen not to implement them. I’m grateful for guys like you. You make those single moms so fuckable for months, until the sex dries up before the commitment they won’t get from me.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 02:39 AM
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All I need is popcorn with some butter.
/r/askMRP05/11/19 02:34 AM
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You needy, insecure, fucking little bitch. The problem here is not your special little snowflake...it is YOU. Just like the 99% of other (wannabe) motherfuckers that end up here, YOU ARE THE FUCKING PROBLEM. So, right or wrong, you snooped your girl's shit and you found out she is 100% devoted, faithful, and loyal to you on every level. But, THAT isn't good enough for you. You wanted her to be 100% devoted, loyal, and faithful to you BEFORE she ever met you, you delusional fucking little moronic…
/r/askMRP05/11/19 02:20 AM
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You’ve dated girls who didn’t let you dig deep into their cell phone text threads. Let’s not get confused about what you found
/r/askMRP05/11/19 12:51 AM
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This is the shortest, most complete answer
/r/askTRP03/11/19 05:01 PM
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The bottom line is, you have your shit together on every level, and she doesn’t. She is an HB9 to you, but for her, that is a source of insecurity for her. There are articles coming out that say secure HB6-7s are getting more sex than HB9-10s. Inside her ocean of emotion, like most women, she’s a raging, fucking mess, and she knew you were about to find that out, so she started walling up. Because of your high status on many levels, you will be able to fuck a lot of women, but you will have to v…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 04:53 PM
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This is askMRP, not fucking askDearAbby. Your ‘friend’ knows we are here. Stop spoonfeeding him and let him do his own work. We don’t work by proxy.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 03:31 PM
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You don’t compete. If you aren’t more interesting than the phone, then get up and in the moment, WALK.THE.FUCK.AWAY
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:35 PM
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Why is this nearly zero effort post on the main sub? This motherfucker did literally nothing before posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 12:23 PM
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I married a fat woman. I’m talking a 5’7”, 335lb land whale. She had been cheated on by two previous husbands. Blue Pill me thought I was safe. I loved her and made her feel special and beautiful. She asked me to help her lose weight, for me, so I did. She lost 175lbs, went from a size 28 to a size 6 through diet and exercise. She became a Zumba and Pilates instructor. She had curves that had men staring at her. For the first time in her life she was getting a fuckton of attention, from men. She…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:18 AM
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Promote masculinity and femininity and you may be onto something there. ALL women are thirsty for masculinity.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:39 AM
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Glover just came out with a new book just 7 weeks ago. “Dating Essentials for Men.” I’ve read it four times in the last two weeks. Excellent. Check it out
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:50 PM
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Yeah, well, I didn’t read all the comments. She’s no longer marriage material. Thank her for opening the relationship and grudge/hate fuck her while you look for new women, improve yourself, and get ready to move on. Read The Rational Male and The Unchained Man right now. You are not broken, and neither is she. She is simply...AWALT. It’s almost 2020, not 1920. Stop wallowing, start reading, and grow the fuck up. Dogs bark, babies cry, women cheat.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:08 PM
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There’s PUA, a kind-of cheat code, and then there’s TRP, which is more a response to women’s hypergamous and biological nature. ‘Game’ should not be a SUBSTITUTE for TRP, it is a PART of TRP. Women will ALWAYS be attracted to men who have built their bodies, their careers, their minds, AND, have the confidence to interact with them well. Don’t fight their hypergamy; Become the ANSWER to it. Become... the PRIZE
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:44 PM
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Think of the books you’ve read from the sidebar, and give him the one that would most directly influence him. Dr. Robert Glover, author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy”, just came out with a new book: “Dating Essentials for Men.” Buy him a copy and just give it to him. Tell him it changed your life or some encouraging shit like that. In the meantime, you can’t RedPill him, but you CAN throw him a bone.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:37 PM
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You are ready for, “The Unchained Man” by Caleb Jones of Blackdragon fame. Read it twice and feel the scales drop from your eyes.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:33 PM
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Bounce back? You don’t. You go on and live your life like nothing happened, and be DAMN SURE it never happens again. Everyone makes mistakes. Make the same mistake twice and you are starting a trend. And never DEER... Do NOT; Defend Explain Evade Rationalize Your behavior. If someone brings it up, smile big and STFU.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 09:30 PM
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Make it all about him. Talk about his strengths, not his weaknesses. Only talk about yourself as an anecdote of how his strength has helped you. Mention his POSITIVE impact on your mom, siblings, and family as appropriate. Glorify anything he does in the community and/or charity work.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:25 PM
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Yes, you fucked this up. She lost all attraction for you? So what. Give her the gift of missing you. 1 down, 3,499,999,999 to go. Move ON. She will let you know when and if she’s interested in you. As in, if she reaches out to you, turn it into a date and escalate to sex. She wants attention, you want sex. If ANY of the above is new to you, you have a lot of work to do on the sidebar. Remember, attention for sex. Sounds like you have the beginning of oneitis, arguably the greatest threat to masc…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:21 PM
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Toastmasters. Join ANY kind of direct speech club where you get to speak and have immediate feedback. That will get you started. Other than that, do the fucking work yourself. Google it and YouTube it. Look for the resources mentioned in your area.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:12 PM
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Yes, you handled it right, this one time, with this one woman, because you got what you want. In other words, you got lucky. Read, “The Rational Male”, by Rollo Tomassi. It’s a cornerstone of TRP. If you already read it, read it again; you forgot it.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:09 PM
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You should be seeing 2-3 women at a time, casually. As you spend time with them, one will be better than the others and you, based on her ‘qualities’, might start dating her more often. Under NO circumstances should you LTR a woman in less than 6 months. I won’t say ILY before a year. I won’t consider living together/marriage for at least 3 years. As time goes by, women will self-select themselves in and out of this process with their BEHAVIOR. Continue to plate and vet as long as it takes. I’m …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:04 PM
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In the vernacular, “kill the puppy.” If you don’t know exactly what that means, you can use your new single free time to find it amongst all the other shit you haven’t read on the sidebar at least 9 times. You have feelings. We get it. Break up with her lovingly if you want, FWB if you can, but absolutely end this LTR. You’re on the pain train. How long you choose to ride is COMPLETELY up to you. 3.5 BILLION women on the planet. She’s not 1 IN a million; she’s 1 OF a million. And even if she WER…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:55 PM
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Read, “Dating Essentials for Men” by Dr. Robert Glover of “No More Mr. Nice Guy” fame. If after you’ve read it three times you STILL can’t get your shit together, consider therapy.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:44 PM
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Fucking children... Happiness comes as you build your health and wealth. Beauty is what shines though the combination of those three. Now, stop the mental masturbation and get back to fucking work.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:40 PM
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Evidently, you can’t.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:37 PM
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metoo Pun intended
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:34 PM
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Well, that about sums it ALL up. Great fucking job. HEY OP, when you come to the realization that YOU are 100% responsible for your mess that you call a life, then YOU will be at the starting line to fix your shit. Until then, all this shit you posted is just mental masturbation.
/r/askMRP15/10/19 10:55 AM
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redditorFORredditor
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:25 AM
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If you take this whore back, you deserve every fucked up thing that she does to you.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 04:39 AM
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F20 made a bad choice/decision. Shocker. Learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:19 AM
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You were crushing life. Now the Universe is shit-testing you. Do you deserve the good? Did you earn it? Or were you just lucky, once. Weather the storm. Stay the course. Persevere. You WILL be better for it. And you WILL have BETTER for it. Source: me. 57yo, been through the storms, stayed the course, living my best life now.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:20 AM
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Fucking excellent. This is where the real learning takes place. It is often the annoying little jackass in class that does his homework, asks the most questions and has the greatest understanding. Continue to speak up. Accept the feedback. Learn your shit. The shit you think you know is different than what you REALLY know. Or in your vernacular, you can’t learn BJJ by just watching. It is when you ENGAGE, that you learn and GROW.
/r/askMRP06/10/19 02:02 PM
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In other words, they need to stop being askholes
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:38 PM
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Every answer to every query you have regarding this situation is contained in one book of the sidebar. You are about to fuck this up. The chances of you going the distance with this woman, at your age, are really fucking low. The chances of going the distance, with ANY woman, are just fucking low in general. You wanna know what the most expensive decision you will ever make in your entire fucking life? More than the cost of your car? More than the cost of your education? More than the cost of yo…
/r/askMRP24/09/19 07:54 PM
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It depends on which you get first; the horse trailer, or the horse. TRP is SEXUAL STRATEGY. Not ironically, being masculine and living a better life are foundational to implementing TRP as a sexual strategy. You’re not wrong, but you’re not technically right, either. The horse trailer increases the range of the horse. The horse is the reason for the horse trailer. They are interdependent.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:51 AM
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I’m 57. Check out askMRP and MRP. Along the way check out The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones at Blackdragon. Welcome to your new reality. It can suck for awhile, but it is ultimately much better than the alternative.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:26 AM
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I’m 57. Check out askMRP and MRP. Along the way check out The Unchained Man by Caleb Jones at Blackdragon. Welcome to your new reality. It can suck for awhile, but it is ultimately much better than the alternative.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:26 AM
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The MRP answer is, you actively go through the levels of dread, and in a year to 18 months you’re either fucking her every day, or fucking someone else. You can’t make her do shit. She has to decide for herself based on the leadership and example you provide. If you want a different answer, go to another sub. This is a sub for sexual strategy. Don’t be an askhole Now shut the fuck up and, GET TO FUCKING WORK!
/r/askMRP19/09/19 11:37 AM
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IF his head was up his own ass, it would be an improvement over it being currently up HER ass.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 03:11 PM
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Yes. This is the one who is going to threaten suicide, throw your shit away, set your car on fire, lie to your friends about you, and ask a friend to punch her in the face and charge you with assault. Time to slowly weed yourself out of the relationship. From everything I’ve read, the FASTEST most RELIABLE way to end a relationship with a woman is for the man to become needy, clingy, whiny, controlling, possessive, and display low libido. In other words, make HER leave YOU. Every RP sub and most…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:59 PM
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“She’s your fucking wife...’ Or not. There might be some root cause analysis, right there.
/r/askMRP15/09/19 06:16 PM
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It’s both
/r/askMRP13/09/19 07:12 PM
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I miss being younger, too. Did it change with time? No. Because I didn’t change with time. I woke the fuck up at 55yo. WAKE THE FUCK UP! Every minute you waste lamenting yesterday, you steal from your future as you prepare for it today. Pull your head out of your ass, and start working today to make tomorrow better. 21 years old. I would give body parts to go back to 21 again.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:44 AM
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You sound boring in the bedroom. You listed 3 or 4 presentations. So you got a turbo 4-cylinder, 4-speed automatic she’s gotten bored of. She wants a v-12, 6-speed manual with double the torque at the low end and all power and drive at the top end. Finish Sex God Method and start adding in some light bdsm. Keep reading, lifting, and cutting.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:43 PM
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Didn’t you already achieve it? Do you think NRE, the ‘honeymoon phase’ lasts forever? Or even a long time? No, they don’t. You have up to 24 months for this shit and then the hormones, the ‘newness’, subside. Are you cohabitating? That speeds up the time to familiarity and boredom. If you want to stay on that hormone high all the time, then get ready to replace your LTR every 6-18 months.’ OTOH, your LTR could be a real person, affected by all kinds of shit, and maybe just hit a flat spot in her…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:34 PM
1

You can’t fix the ‘situation.’ You cannot control her, or him. You are only in control of, YOU. Decide what you want, based on reality, not how you WISH things to be. So, based on the CURRENT circumstances, what is YOUR best outcome? Make it happen. Her changing her mind about going to lunch with him took her from a hard next to a red flag. How do YOU want to handle that. And whatever you do, no talking, whining, negotiating, or crying about it with her. Communication is the battlefield SHE cont…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:38 AM
2

Let me put your heart to rest. She CAN do better. And in 1 to 2 years, she WILL do better. The only question you need to answer now is, what kind of a woman do YOU want to have in 1-2 years when your current relationship ends. The burden of performance is on YOU. But, you have to do it for yourself. Do it for her, and you will fail. Start becoming a better man because it is the right thing to do. If you do it for HER, you will be nothing better than a dancing monkey. Bitches do not respect danci…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:57 AM
1

It doesn’t matter what SHE thinks. Who gives a fuck? You fucked up. Fix your shit. Fuck what’s willing. If she is no longer willing, then fuck something else.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:48 AM
7

I have said it before and I will say it again. The other guy doesn’t have to be Chad, or even very much alpha. He just has to be different. And she is right in the sweet spot of getting over the new relationship energy, or the honeymoon phase of her current relationship to OP. At the 1-2 year mark, and she is at the exact 1.5 year mark, she is unconsciously shopping for something new to give her the tingles and excitement that are now wearing down in her current relationship to OP. Hypergamy is …
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:33 AM
1

Here are the next two books you should read. 1) “The Unchained Man,” by Blackdragon/Caleb Jones. 2) “The Ultimate Open Relationships Manual,” by Blackdragon/Caleb Jones
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:44 AM
6

Nah...I don’t want to get pegged...ever. But.. You do you. Double pun intended. How the fuck are you Red? I read with anger your last post on your divorce. I hope it’s a temporary setback pending the outcome of your DV trial pending a forced recusal. THEN, I hope you have the ability to counter-sue, filing charges for perjury, harassment, and defamation.
/r/askMRP02/09/19 10:41 PM
1

TL;DR He doesn’t have to be better, only DIFFERENT
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/19 04:58 PM
1

He has a zero obligation to be honest with her, but what obligation does he have to be honest with himself? Being honest means if she is ok with it, she stays. If not, she walks. Zero bullshit for him either way. There is just way too much pussy to ever have to lie about anything. Be honest, and live a happy, drama free life.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:41 PM
5

If she’s the only one he’s fucking, she’s his girlfriend.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:33 PM
2

“I feel that I messed up somewhere. I think it could’ve been in my acknowledging how much I liked her, or it could have been in showing my insecurities. It could have been in my expectations of what all this was supposed to lead to instead of just letting it be.” Your shit stinks, and you know it. The key to fixing your shit, is self improvement. The key to self-improvement, is self-discipline. The key to self-discipline, is being a fucking man. And not ironically, that is when you become a man …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 10:37 AM
16

Look dude, just man the fuck up and tell her like it is. She caught you off guard and in a moment of weakness you implied exclusivity. Tell her that while that MAY be an option in the future, you’re not ready to commit to it right now. She’ll either get shitty and walk out, or start the water works complete with sobs and snot bubbles. So fucking what... She’s NOT an LTR, so...plates break. If you’re not willing to let them fall, you’re not ready to spin ‘em.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 12:20 AM
9

There isn’t when they are young. A young (<23yo) woman just wants to fuck. Hypergamy doesn’t start to kick in until she starts evaluating the Quality of the seed for long term provisioning.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:20 AM
61

The CC is a ride. One cock doesn’t have to be BETTER than the other, it just has to be DIFFERENT.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 09:13 AM
1

YOU built the pedestal. Take that fucker down and build yourself instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/19 11:04 PM
1

Answering WHY you are so emotional would release your repressed feelings. Ask the question, ‘why’, and see what answers you get
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:56 PM
1

I get it, I really do. And you do, too, in the last sentence of your reply to me. That’s called ‘oneitis’ where you target one individual as the object of your attention. It’s considered a very negative and self-destructive state of mind. At the top of this sub, if you search oneitis, you will get hundreds and hundreds of results. Read a few... You choose to live your life the way you want. You can live hung up on that one special guy, or you can live having a lot of special guys, just not THIS …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:27 PM
3

Be a friend and a demonstrable leader in your own life. When his eyes open, he will see the difference between him and you. When he asks questions, answer them directly and completely. Do not try to chop up TRP and sneak it into the food of your advice. Be honest, straightforward, when he asks, and he will RP himself when he is ready.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:20 PM
2

And that, right there, is your problem. Your attitude sucks. You’ve given up, given in, and are making excuses NOT to do the work necessary to maximize your own femininity. The majority of men are thirsty. The average woman on OLD has scores to hundreds of suitors. Most of them are douchebags and assholes, but that’s because it works for them often enough not to see the need to change. I’m 57yo and just conquered this feeling of being ‘too old.’ I thought, ‘what’s the use? Nobody wants to fuck a…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:10 PM
1

No, it’s not. Because at the end of the day, aren’t you really looking for somebody who chooses... You? This sub, at its core, is about maximizing sexual strategy through self-improvement. Are you doing everything you can to maximize yours? To become someone else’s first choice? You won’t be free to do that until you get over your oneitis. Search it here and apply the principles to yourself.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:47 PM
6

10 minutes? Most men can’t properly vet a woman in 10 months. Past that it doesn’t make much difference because women, as impossible as it may sound, CHANGE. The best you can do is vet her family. Your parents have chosen her for you based on them. Talk to your parents about her older female siblings and what her parents are like, specifically the mother. All you can do, in 10 minutes, is decide if you actually want to fuck this woman. I get the wide, disparate cultural differences, but at the e…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:39 PM
2

Best month of my life was 5 days in Pattaya Beach, Thailand.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:42 PM
2

What the fuck is wrong with me? You are a highly estrogenic, beta butthurt little bitch with no abundance, no outcome independence, low self-esteem, little confidence, and a severe lack of understanding of inter-gender and inter-sexual dynamics, evolutionary psychology, masculinity, and men and women in general. In short, you are an ignorant little bitch and you are now paying the price and feeling the pain of your ignorance and your laziness. The good news is that you're probably not stupid. Th…
/r/askMRP16/08/19 12:59 AM
1

Life has smiled on me generously in many ways. ($$) I made a splash last night with a poster. I hope he makes it.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 11:05 PM
1

I don’t know what that means, but how the fuck are you?
/r/askMRP15/08/19 10:30 PM
5

You, sir, are a beacon of hope for the young.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 09:52 PM
3

Yep. “I’ve lost 30# in the last 6 weeks.”
/r/askMRP15/08/19 06:09 PM
4

DEVI
/r/askMRP15/08/19 03:37 PM
66

Need advice with wife falling out of love with me No, you don't. You focusing on your wife falling out of love with you is PRECISELY why you haven't already figured this shit out on your own and why you are here now. You're the idiot that goes to the shop and tells them your car is running rough and you think you need new tires. The shop tells you you need a major tune-up. Don't be the stupid fuck that tells the shop to put the new tires on the car. There are a few fundamental truths that you wi…
/r/askMRP15/08/19 04:22 AM
3

Ethical non- monogamy. When your SMV is high enough, she will accept it, or wish she had.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 12:54 AM
2

BJJ
/r/askTRP15/08/19 12:42 AM
1

Winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 11:22 PM
2

Fuck. All this time I thought it was a train coming the other way..
/r/askMRP12/08/19 10:34 AM
1

Your post, sans query, IS your response. Now STFU, go forth, and SLAY..
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:00 AM
3

Fucking children with dynamite... Check out: “The Ultimate Open Relationships Manual,” by BlackDragon (Caleb Jones)
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:58 AM
1

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rX23PKDGcXk&t=600s
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:49 AM
2

Kettlebell swings. Use the StrongFirst method. Simple and Sinister program. Start with 16kg (35lbs) You only need one kettlebell. This will strengthen ever muscle from your toes to your neck when you add Turkish Get-Ups. The kettlebell swing generates stamina and power in your hip drive. YouTube.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:43 AM
1

“Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.” ~Tao of Yoda
/r/askMRP11/08/19 11:22 PM
3

Yes
/r/askMRP11/08/19 02:43 AM
2

In order to give r/anakun a more complete answer, I went back to some of his previous posts to better understand his query of askMRP. The four pillars are a fundamental value set used by the US Air Force to train their airmen. Anakun used them in his posts and I used them as a touchstone in my response. You can learn more about them here: https://www.ramstein.af.mil/Resiliency/
/r/askMRP06/08/19 01:54 PM
9

Posts like yours, myopic in nature, always make me wonder. I read what you write, and wonder what you didn’t say. You didn’t say A LOT. But you didn’t whine so I won’t harass you. Plus, you’re a veteran so...professional courtesy. Considering your circumstances, I see your post as more of a cry for help than asking a nearly rhetorical question. Specifically, since your last blow up two months ago, you have been going through a prolonged period of hysterical bonding. It usually lasts 2-3 weeks, b…
/r/askMRP05/08/19 06:48 PM
3

Fuck... I feel like I just witnessed a driveby but I'm not sure what I saw. There's a grassy knoll and some poor fucker with a camera named Zapruder. Let's go take a look... You skipped the "cut the shit" post at the top of this sub and chose not to give us any information about you. This is not a walk-in clinic. This is a long-term care facility that requires a tremendous amount of work on your part to cure you of being a loser, beta, useless, cuckold piece of fucking dog shit. You have to swal…
/r/askMRP03/08/19 03:01 AM
3

YES!!! But.. NOT ALL THE FUCKING TIME
/r/askMRP03/08/19 01:42 AM
2

You will grow so much faster if you pick yourself up. Look away from her, and look down the path you need to take now. Go monk mode 30 days, get your shit together, and be a better man. She is not history to you. She is nothing. Your present, and future, are all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 09:36 PM
4

Body fat is controlled by diet, not lifts.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 08:57 PM
30

Well Captain Rambo, it looks like the FO has acceded to every one of your demands but one: she will not bend her knee to you. And so, in your infinite wisdom, despite having been a shit Captain from the beginning, and hiring a known mutinous FO in the first place, you have ordered the FO to walk the plank. Since the time YOU have started acting like a Captain in the last year, your FO has stopped their mutinous tendencies, gotten their shit together, demonstrated their loyalty, and followed ever…
/r/askMRP22/07/19 03:11 AM
3

Jocko Willink was a Navy Seal commander in the battle of Ramadi. He is a subject matter expert in this area as a Navy Seal with real world application in a war zone. You are about to commit a significant amount of time and a little money to something. It’s worth 30 minutes of your time to include this man’s perspective. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SGpDVCkhtD4 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rX23PKDGcXk&t=590s https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CHydmR0hL3s https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xVZpA8ZWulY&t=2…
/r/askMRP20/07/19 10:00 AM
47

My goal is to remain married and grow together "Goal: the object of a person's ambition or effort; an aim or desired result." All you have is aim. You lack ambition, effort, and desire. In short, the fun is no longer easy in your life or your marriage, the motivation has run out, and now you don't know what to DO. What you need to DO is GET TO WORK. "You rack disciprin'" (Cartman--SouthPark) I've just felt like nothing is easy or chill or fun anymore. You have no self-discipline. You are weak an…
/r/askMRP16/07/19 04:10 AM
15

This IS the answer. Great job.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 11:33 AM
4

This is fucking beautiful.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 03:04 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ios_share_flow_optimization&utm_term=enabled
/r/askMRP02/07/19 02:52 PM
26

You made mistakes. HER behavior does not not make you a “blue pill pussy faggot.” But YOUR behavior now, might. I choose option one. Completely ghost. NEVER disclose what you know. NEVER talk to her again. Give her no reason and no closure. If you fuck her as a FWB and she finds a way to impregnate herself, even from a used condom you leave behind, then she wins the lottery. And YOU WILL PAY FOR IT THE NEXT 18 YEARS. Ghost. Next. Done. Or, you can always choose to be a blue pill pussy faggot. Li…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 02:45 PM
9

You posted this OP, almost word for word, to r/MGTOW as well. I am pleased, if not a little proud, that nearly 100% of our responses are about what you should DO to fix yourself, as well as your situation. Nearly 100% of their responses are about what a piece of shit she is, how much better off you are without her, and how you'll get over it. The choice is yours. You can wallow in the mud with the pigs until the mud dries up, or you can stand up like a fucking man, climb out of the mud pit of de…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:14 AM
5

Good luck to you. I hope things turn out well for the sake of your kid.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 01:06 AM
9

“That is not going to happen unless the mother is a junkie or mentally ill.” My first wife was a prescription drug addict AND 100% disabled for mental health reasons as described by the Social Security Administration, and still kept the kids. She draws $27,000 a year in benefits because she doesn’t ‘feel good’. One of my children died in her custody. At the time of our divorce, I had a lot of documentation and ‘compelling evidence’ of her mental deficiencies. My attorney told me it would take an…
/r/askMRP30/06/19 10:54 PM
3

You are looking for r/BDSMadvice. Spanking your wife as punishment is a CONSENSUAL act, often with sexual overtones, that is agreed upon in advance with safewords and boundaries firmly established by BOTH, or ALL parties involved; like if you’re a cuck. If you have a question about your marriage, your wife’s affairs or your emotional IQ of 14, pun intended, read the sidebar. Ask questions about THAT. Otherwise... GTFO.
/r/askMRP27/06/19 05:07 PM
2

Yes. But judge yourself, for yourself. Go to the search engine for this sub, type in ‘crying’ and start reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 11:20 PM
3

“...a wrong move.”? Fuck... Your entire post is a living example of what NOT to do. You’ve read the sidebar...🐂💩 You do realize we mean all the stuff BELOW the word, “sidebar”, not JUST the word, sidebar. But you’re in luck, because I’m busy as shit this morning and don’t have time to gape your faggot ass. I WILL tell you to read the post above you by u/InChargeMan. He is a motherfucker who has done the work, and reaped the rewards. Reading his lengthy post, word for word, should be nothing to y…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 01:17 PM
1

Here’s your upvote...
/r/askMRP18/06/19 12:39 PM
1

Fuck no
/r/askMRP11/06/19 06:37 PM
12

Fuck. For as short as this is, it’s... Brilliant.
/r/askMRP29/05/19 11:53 PM
3

In general, your life would be considered more important than a college class. How many classes did you attend where you read the book once, in a week or two, and then took the final exam? And if you did, and passed with a 71, was being low-average, good enough for you? Is that good enough for life? Read 10-15 times to LEARN it. Work is what will lift you from mediocrity to excellence. It always does...
/r/askMRP08/04/19 10:04 AM
5

"When you do what you have always done, you will get what you've always got." "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, and expecting a different result." There is a difference between ignorance and stupidity. Ignorance is not knowing something and having the capability of learning when confronted with the knowledge of it. Stupidity is not knowing something and NOT being able to learn it when confronted with the knowledge of it. I would also add, stupidity include…
/r/askMRP08/04/19 01:07 AM
2

The ‘once a BB, always a BB’ triggered me. I see you doing the work, but your wife is not responding, and she might not ever. I understand you have 2 young children. Is that why you stay?
/r/askMRP31/03/19 10:36 PM
1

The ‘once a BB, always a BB’ triggered me. You are doing the work, but the wife is not responding, and she might not ever. I understand you have 2 young children. Is that why you stay? EDIT: sorry, this reply to wrong comment
/r/askMRP31/03/19 10:34 PM
2

I’d give her a 12 and make it hurt. But then I’d have to fuck her twice and slap her.
/r/askMRP31/03/19 02:35 PM
2

Dude. No. Just fucking stop. I’ve really enjoyed a lot of your shit, but you showed your ass In this comment and I absolutely have to call you out on this shit. She may be “in her masculine”, but that’s a reflection of your lack of displayed masculinity. Look at the yin/yang symbol. The whole premise of LIFT, READ, STFU is that as you move into your masculine, she will move back into her feminine. If “once a BB, always a BB” were even close to being true; this sub, and a half a dozen others just…
/r/askMRP31/03/19 02:31 PM
1

Wrong. Do not underestimate YOUR ability to fuck things up even worse than you already have. I’ve seen too many posts here confirming that very fact. The only thing between you and success is DOING the work. The only thing between you and abysmal failure is TALKING about doing the work. So... STFU and GET TO FUCKING WORK!
/r/askMRP30/03/19 12:57 AM
1

I admit, it IS possible that she has very few friends, and NOT ONE of them has a phone OR a computer...that she could use for just a minute. I guess that’s possible. In your relationship with her, it will become increasingly more important that you have low expectations of, and continue to make excuses for, her. Edit; And the direct answer to your original question is that it was a comfort test. You should have provided some comfort with a pressure flip in light of the circumstances.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:04 AM
1

Your frame with her is exactly summed up in the fact that she lost her phone, and didn’t give a fuck whether YOU heard from HER, or not. She was disappointed YOU only tried 5 times to contact her. I’d tell her you were disappointed SHE thought to contact you 0 times to tell you what was going on. As far as I’m concerned, you should have called her disappointment out with her disrespect of you.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:57 PM
5

My condolences on the loss of your son. I lost a 17yo son suddenly in a car wreck. You have evidently handled it far better than I did. 7 months after my son’s passing, my wife started branch swinging, and found a solid branch to hold on to. As far as I’m concerned, you have a pass. Under the pressure of all the shit in your life, you are bettering yourself and doing your best to lead your wife and family to a safe harbor. All my best to you and yours.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 01:00 AM
1

You are 24yo and she is 21yo. You are in an LTR? Fuck you. Her brain won’t be fully formed for another 3-4 years. The person she is, in 5 years will be nearly unrecognizable to who she is now except for her face. The chances of you two being together then are really low. If you decide to wife up this slut-in-training, to lock her down, your chances of getting divorced are over 60%. Your problem isn’t being young, it’s being ignorant. You think you know everything at this age. In 5 years you will…
/r/askMRP04/03/19 12:27 AM
9

“Why the fuck are these men so fixated on that golden vagina that is their wives’...” Because for the majority of the ‘men’ that come here, it IS the golden vagina. There is no thought they would ever leave or have non-monogamous sex. They are NOT men. They are BETA males, grown, harvested, and brainwashed by feminism to serve, or worship as you say, the gynocracy. And so, like Neo, they come here looking for the truth. They come here because they’ve seen a moment of deja vu, a glitch, and they …
/r/askMRP02/03/19 04:47 PM
7

He’s not Chad to you, to me, or even OP. But he’s Chad to OPs wife, who was/is obviously getting ready to fuck him. That doesn’t matter directly to OP, except he needs to pay attention so if/when she steps outside the marriage, OP is ready/willing to burn the shit to the ground.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 01:42 AM
2

It’s ironic; I was such a ‘nice guy’ for well over 50 years, but the last few years have, quite simply, just fucking pissed me off. I hope to meet you at the 21 Convention this October in Florida.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 12:58 AM
2

YouTube Jocko Willink self-discipline. By way of introduction, he was the Commander of Seal Team 3 during the Battle of Ramadi, and he earned the Silver Star and Bronze star. Author, speaker, and general bad-ass.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 12:56 AM
1

Dude, when I read your shit, I don’t know whether to laugh, cry, drink, masturbate, or take a warm shower. Always a pleasure. Glad you’re well. No homo.
/r/askMRP23/02/19 07:30 PM
7

My last wife dressed better when I started telling her what I liked. I started shopping with her. “That dress is too long.” “Those jeans don’t flatter your ass.” “The A-line style top no longer flatters your new figure.” One day I noticed I had a hand in almost every piece of her wardrobe. “Do you like this outfit, Matrix?” “Of course baby, I picked it out.” Of course, she took her hot new look and left beta, pre-RP me for a better man. Now I’m RP and she wants me back. Too fucking late, you dis…
/r/askMRP23/02/19 07:21 PM
52

Today you meet, greet, ingratiate yourself and befriend him. No fear. This is exactly how my ex-wife started with her boyfriend, the one she moved in with, 6 months before the divorce. As long as you remain outcome dependent, you will continue to suffer, feel real pain, and lose in the attraction game with your wife. You skipped the “cut the shit” post and posted here anyway. Doesn’t really matter. You don’t follow directions and you are likely too fucked up to post that you are big, fat, beta, …
/r/askMRP23/02/19 07:08 PM
1

Don’t overanalyze why. You can be the engineer or the mechanic on the vehicle of your life. The engineer sits around the office and theorizes about why the harmonic balancer failed and how to redesign a better one for the next time. The mechanic looks at it, replaces it, and gets the car running smooth again. Be the mechanic right now. Find the broken shit, fix your shit, and move on. Enjoy the ride. I saw your PM. I’ll be in touch.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:48 AM
2

Fair warning, it’s going to challenge every traditional paradigm you have. Read it with an OPEN mind.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:42 AM
3

If you have to DEMAND anal sex from a college girl, you’re doing it(her) wrong! How the FUCK are YOU doing?
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:38 AM
1

Around...like a hole in a donut, and the less doughnuts I have, the more holes I’ll enjoy! My ship is on the horizon, with 30% more cargo than initially expected. Had to dredge the harbor and build a bigger pier. Logistically, I have accounted for every dollar and where it’s going, including the extra. In the meantime I have a LOT to learn about plate spinning. I’ve never done it before, not ever. I’ve been in 3 monogamous relationships the last 32 years. I’m at the point where I’m coming to a f…
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:37 AM
29

You’re afraid. Scared. You fear some other alpha will out-alpha you and cuck you in your own relationship. You are losing your abundance mentality and outcome independence as a result. All of the shit that makes her want to fuck you and blow you every single day, is the same shit she will complain about in 3-5 years as she tries to betaize you to keep you from leaving the nest she has built with you with the new hatchlings. It’s her nature to do so. Dogs bark. Babies cry. Women betaize. Physical…
/r/askMRP20/02/19 04:03 AM
13

You fuck. Read the last paragraph of your OP. Read R316s comment again. Now read your response. Read the last paragraph of your OP. Read R316s comment again. Read your response, again. You ARE focused on her. Now, can you see your ego? Instead of defending yourself, TRY to see WHY someone would take the time to write something to you.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 03:22 AM
1

Exactly
/r/askMRP15/02/19 01:33 PM
5

Your post touched me. Not because it resonated with me, because it didn’t. Not because I feel sorry for you, because I don’t. And your post really didn’t touch me, either. It triggered me. As short as it is, it is full of weakness, neediness, insecurity, and left me wondering,… WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? “Do the shit tests ever end?” You better hope not. If they do, she’s done with you. If they don’t slow down, or if they increase, it’s because you are failing them. “I’m 58, married for 18…
/r/askMRP09/02/19 11:24 PM
5

Your wife writes the test. That’s the end of her participation in the event. YOU decide when, where, and how to answer the test. STFU? AA? AM? Now? Later? At all? Sometimes you win the game by refusing to play. Then, YOU grade your response, because YOU are the final arbiter of your frame, and if your actions are congruent with your frame, not hers. These are terms you should search for and study until you can explain it to the next newbie. Frame. Outcome Independence. This is arguably one of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 06:12 PM
4

Posts of enlightenment. Love ‘em. Progress being made. You wrote about passing and failing shit tests. Frame question; WHO or WHAT determines if you have PASSED or FAILED a shit test? In other words, in a world of pass/fail for shit tests, who is the arbiter? And continuing in the vernacular, who wrote the test? And is the proctor ALWAYS or EVER the test writer? 3 roles, 2 players. How do YOU assign responsibility?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 12:22 PM
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You nailed it right here in this comment. Fear. You’re afraid. Yes, you may also be codependent and some other shit, too. Fix your shit. Oh, wait, you can’t. In the wake of your addiction, relapses, and broken relationships, you haven’t fully accepted TARFU. You need to act while in TARFU before you hit FUBAR, again. So GET HELP to FIX YOUR SHIT. Or stay on that emotional roller coaster. Your choice. Find a good head doctor.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 03:31 AM
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More specifically, one of 40,000,000 single women in this country. 39,999,999.. to go.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:02 PM
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Insecurity, lack of abundance, lack of self esteem, neediness, all have one, core, fundamental commonality.... Fear. You’re afraid. You’re scared. You have someone now, a fresh LTR, and you’re probably getting laid more than usual, for you, right now. And you’re scared. She might find someone better. She might leave you for someone else. Let me put your fears to rest. THERE ARE A LOT OF MEN BETTER THAN YOU. And... SHE WILL PROBABLY LEAVE YOU IF YOU DON’T GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER RIGHT NOW. And... …
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:21 AM
1

“Raising Men,” by Eric Davis Rollo Tomassi’s Rational Male series, 3 books, in order, with focus and extra reads on 3rd book.
/r/askMRP20/01/19 08:36 PM
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For Dread game and aesthetics you want to focus on lowering your BF%. The first thought through her mind when she sees you naked is not, “I wonder how much he can lift?” On the other hand, it’s not an either/or proposition. People that lift don’t stop lifting during a cutting phase. My suggestion is the keto diet while lifting. It’s high in fat and protein, proven to work well for weight loss, and has the nutrients to put on some muscle while you lean out so you don’t look skinny at a low BF%.
/r/askMRP13/01/19 04:19 PM
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60 years of feminism. Addiction to porn and video games. “Do the right thing” becoming a national cliche. Allowing and subscribing to the fucked up models of inter-gender and inter-sexual dynamics written by the sexually rejected and frustrated men who used to sit in the back of class, writing and promoting their fucked up views through all forms of media including movies and television shows. The aforementioned all contributes to men looking outward instead of inward for answers to their proble…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 06:49 PM
2

“Can and does this stuff work for rebuilding desire that I know can’t be negotiated?” No. In your question you are sowing the seeds of your own failure. Your question is a covert contract. You have failed yourself as a man. You may lose your marriage and your wife as a result. Sucks, doesn’t it? Hurts like a bitch, don’t it? Welcome to the Red Pill. You’re 3 days old. Not much older than Neo when he first looked at Morpheus and asked why his eyes hurt. Morpheus replied, “You’ve never used them b…
/r/askMRP10/01/19 02:52 PM
2

“Dread is about you being a man worthy of fucking.” FTFY
/r/askMRP08/01/19 12:08 AM
1

Because you are uninvested in them and therefore not needy or insecure.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:49 AM
1

Women want an ugly man with no money like you want a 300lb chick with a big, fat ass. What the fuck is wrong with you? So they want an attractive man with enough money to share. So fucking what? Their definition of attractive and your definition of attractive are two different definitions. All of your questions, fears, and insecurities are answered in “The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi. Invest $20 and 5 hours of your time fixing your fucked up outlook on life. You’re welcome. Youth really is w…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 12:47 AM
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The reason they ask if they should tell their wife about NMMNG is because they instinctively know they SHOULDN’T.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:05 AM
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You lost your motivation, you know, that emotional shit that helps you start..anything and everything. In the words of Cartman, “you ‘rack disciprin.” Motivation gets you started. Discipline gets you to the finish line. Start here: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QQTYWxeAy9k&t=38s Now, fix your shit and.. GET BACK TO FUCKING WORK!
/r/askMRP20/12/18 01:01 PM
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I completely agree. The pill is a bitter motherfucker. It is usually only after an emotionally traumatic experience that the red pill is even sought.
/r/askMRP18/12/18 12:22 AM
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You can bring a horse to water, AND make him drink. First, make him thirsty. Then, show him where the water hole is.
/r/askMRP17/12/18 11:46 PM
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They do not want to take responsibility for the consequences of their decisions. Ever.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:40 PM
1

Thank you man. I feel like I’m just climbing out of the valley... Looking up I have such a long way to go. But it’s good to look back and see the progress
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 02:23 AM
1

Actually, yes, a happy drunk. I’ll check out House of Cards.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 11:44 PM
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The younger ones are actually easier to line up. All you have to do is spend a little extra time laying a foundation so you don’t come off with the creepy old man vibe. There is less baggage, they are more open and even more trusting after you establish yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 11:42 PM
1

I wanted to check back AFTER I did what I set out to do. I am a big fan of the medical community and believe they know more than ever. I take my prescription, follow the prognosis, then research the shit out of my problem and see what MORE I can do, using common sense. 6 years ago I got taken off the road for diabetes. They told me it would take me 12 weeks to fix it. I did it in 4 weeks. 3 years ago I had my first round of blood clots in my lungs. They told me a minimum of 30 days before I woul…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 04:32 AM
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For those of you not familiar with the ‘Siren’s song’ and also wonder where the word ‘harpy’ comes from...I offer you this... https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.greekmythology.com/Myths/Creatures/Sirens/sirens.html.amp JohnnyFuckinA.... Great message. It has been a long time coming for me, but I’m finally beginning to believe I CAN be a prize. I honestly thought my place left on earth was to coach others to NOT be like me. I even told my sons if they lost their shit and started being like me, I wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 03:26 AM
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We have traded comments and PMed each other. You have been nothing but supportive and encouraging to my whining and faggotry. Last Monday I received a life changing diagnosis that I refuse to accept, or give in to. In your world, mine is a problem you probably wish you had. Blood clots. Lots of them. Third event, while already on blood thinners. They are trying to take me off my job for 2 months, while telling me to continue to move around all day long. What the fuck do they think a local delive…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 01:36 AM
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And if your intention is to look at marriage as the finish line, then she will divorce you. Just. Like. That. Marriage is not the finish line of being single, it’s being single, on hard mode. If you don’t plan to improve, every, single, day, for the rest of your life, inside or outside a marriage, then you, my young friend, are fucked anyway. The ultimate answer is to continue to grow, in every single way, every single day. Stay her best option. And IF she opts out, find a better one. Ask me how…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:57 PM
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‘Rejection is better than regret.’ Rollo Tomassi? What if they all said yes? What if you had to go out with every woman, at least twice, to find out they won’t fuck you? Be thankful for their rejection. They aren’t attracted to you. They just saved you time and money, better spent on ‘FUCK YES,’ instead of, ‘no.’
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:10 PM
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Himself
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:53 PM
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Pursuing the ideal? Sounds like you’re pursuing a fucking number. Will that number be tattooed on your face and be how you present yourself to women? “Hi, I’m 11%BF.” My personal trainer and I have started discussing my goals until I am medically cleared to lift. Currently getting rid of my latest round of blood clots. Hereditary... Goals: 32” waist 0.6 ratio 1000lb club. Weight, BF, IQ, credit score... IDNGAF I want to be strong and look good. Now, stop distracting yourself with bullshit and co…
/r/askMRP20/11/18 12:22 PM
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I’ve said before that the MRP mountain is the toughest and tallest mountain to climb in all of Reddit nation. Your post is all about reading the books, accumulating the gear, learning how to use it, and starting your ascent. You’ve reached the last plateau and there’s a lovely meadow there, overlooking some of the best vistas you’ve ever seen. Still, the peak looms above you. You feel pretty good where you are at, but that peak, it really would be the pinnacle of your success. Pun intended. The …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/18 10:55 PM
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You got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 11:46 PM
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You KEEP IMPROVING until other people see you for the man that you are, instead of your current people that judge you against the man you used to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 10:25 PM
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From your post 40 days ago; “It’s unfortunate too because I’d taken all the precautions given by this sub.” No, you didn’t. You are delusional. You are the poster boy for why the MAN is supposed to be ABCBC~ALWAYS BE in CHARGE of the BIRTH CONTROL. For review and the benefit of any others reading this in your situation, ABCBC means a vasectomy or a condom. Period. And YOU were not an exception. “We’re both on the same page. We both want to stay together (we’re very happy together), and after muc…
/r/askMRP15/11/18 01:09 AM
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I read your post from 206 days ago, 137 days ago, and today. They all read relatively the same. 7 months in MRP and you’re still having the same problems and at Dread level 2? I’d ask what the fuck is wrong with you but I already know... Fuckarounditis and a lack of core belief in the praxeology here. Yes, it’s a toolbox, but you won’t seriously engage in the process long enough to learn how to understand how to use the tools and what they do individually. Your wife is not any more or less broke…
/r/askMRP14/11/18 11:21 PM
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“I told her early on that if other men do not want to fuck my woman, then I picked the wrong woman. It’s on her to stay faithful if she wants me to stick around.” I wrote that one down.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/18 10:20 PM
2

Drunk Captain. Fantastic cruise planned for benefit of the Captain and the crew. First Officer acting shitty. Captain considering canceling cruise. Fuck. Sober up, Captain. LEAD the First Officer. Yes, you can tell her, “...or walk the plank!” You can demand compliance, or lead her to give discretionary effort. Find out what the fuck her problem is and lead her to fix it. Maybe she is looking at this ‘working vacation’ as a week when SHE is doing all the work. After all, in her solipsistic mind,…
/r/askMRP10/11/18 07:49 PM
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I can’t believe I’m late to a party that started only 6 hours ago. Normally I would go through your post and write you 2,000 words about what a colossal fuckup you are. That’s been covered pretty well. So instead of my usual loquaciousness I’ll opt for a moment of brevity. The fruits of the poisonous tree.... ALL of the problems you are having are due to your first, fucked-up decision. Care to guess what it is? I think you are looking for more help than you are willing to admit to in finding a ‘…
/r/askMRP09/11/18 02:37 AM
3

So, you’re the only mid-30’s father within 50 miles? Where do you live, the fucking Twilight Zone? Take your kids to the park, the playground, the mall. Unless you are severely autistic, you should be able to connect with any male or female that has one or more children your child’s age. If it’s a male, great. If it’s a female, great. Believe it or not, some females still have males in their lives. Whether you connect directly or indirectly, it doesn’t matter. Either path will get you there.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 11:53 AM
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“Don’t drive in your rear-view mirror.” There’s an entire post waiting to be written about that. Fucking awesome.
/r/askMRP05/11/18 11:46 AM
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I’m almost 57yo and I can smell your desperation and neediness for an LTR. If I can smell it.... You need to change your mindset. If everything is as you say it is, you have plates, dates, and flakes...what do they ALL have in common? YOU. But what’s consistently different about YOU with ALL of THEM? NGAF you and over-invested, needy you. Stop LOOKING for an LTR. You’re 25. Read “The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi and get your shit together. If you’ve already read it... READ IT AGAIN.
/r/askMRP27/10/18 09:18 PM
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Wait... Nowhere in your post did you say you CONFIRMED she was a stripper. Was she? Or wasn’t she? If she was...huge red flag. If she wasn’t, you need new ‘boys.’
/r/askMRP25/10/18 02:44 AM
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Dude, I’m really sorry to hear that. I hope it ends for you, very, very soon. More FIELD REPORTS!!
/r/askMRP24/10/18 01:12 AM
2

Stolen from “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida. If you like the concept, you’ll really like the book.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 11:40 AM
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Divorce almost complete. Just starting to step out and socialize. The world in general, and women in particular, make sense through a red pill lens. “I am not in the old age of my youth. I am in the youth of my old age.” I intend to kick ass, pull ass, and fuck ass.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 04:53 AM
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Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. He explains plates and plate spinning in DETAIL. To give you the short answer, plates do not have to be physical. Some plates you fuck. Some you don’t. Plates to men are like orbiters to women, just more often physical. That’s all I’m going to say. Read The Rational Male. There are 100’s of things to learn from that book.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:27 AM
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Go to the main page of askMRP. Tap on the three dots in the upper right corner. Select ‘community info’ from the drop down menu. That’s how it works on my iPhone. YMMV.
/r/askMRP21/10/18 06:04 PM
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“Should I move on?” No. YOU shouldn’t go anywhere. You are a mountain. She is the weather. Does the rain change the mountain? The sun? The cold? The night? The snow? No. The weather is what it is. Sometimes it’s a beautiful, sunny day. Sometimes it’s a raging storm. But the mountain doesn’t change. Your text was cringey as fuck. Needy. Almost desperate. Overly invested. I assume you meant seeing her since August, 2018. You don’t really know her. For all you know, she shuts down over life events …
/r/askMRP21/10/18 05:49 PM
1

I like that. My Father-in-law always said, “The harder you work at it, the easier it gets.”
/r/askMRP20/10/18 10:19 PM
3

She’s shit testing you because she’s unhaaaapy in some way. She knows directly, or instinctively, that you are sensitive about your income relative to her. Women are brutal. You may have to come to grips with the fact that you married a gold-digging whore. ALL OF THAT DOESN’T MATTER. All that matters is you. Engage the sidebar and do the work. She’ll respond or not. Whether she does or not, it doesn’t matter. You’ll be ready for the next one.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 09:41 PM
4

Go to the beginning of the sidebar. You want this? 1 year and 350+ hours of work. Ready?
/r/askMRP20/10/18 09:36 PM
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You come here looking for a bandaid to cover a gunshot wound. We don’t really do bandaids. We know nothing about you, and this is a moderately serious problem. At the end of the day all you can do is engage the praxeology in the sidebar and become awesome. If she responds, great. If not, greater. You get a do-over. In the meantime, you must accept there is nothing you can do about her or the marriage. You’re the conductor. She rides your train, or not.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 09:13 PM
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Good luck to you. I’ll make some more popcorn.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 08:51 PM
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I find the ones in the quarter mil a year + category often feel entitled to pussy and they have GIANT egos writing checks their dicks can’t cash. I poke them the hardest to bring that out on the front end if it’s there. Ego+entitlement=abysmal failure. I guess he’s never been in the military or a locker room.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 08:50 PM
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Your loss. You should have followed up with questions to get more information. “Those of you who think you know everything are really annoying to those of us who do.”
/r/askMRP20/10/18 06:38 PM
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Wow. Unfuckingbelievable. I hate you. The reason I hate you is because your pathetic life and even more pathetic description of it reminds me that the lack of money is not the only reason my STBX opened my marriage and started dating and fucking other men. But you didn’t come here to hear about me. Well, God bless you, at least you’re looking for answers. The thing you need to figure out now are the questions. The answer was, is, and always will be; YOU. History is important. Since you didn’t gi…
/r/askMRP20/10/18 03:44 PM
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Fuckin’ Awesome.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 04:20 AM
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When all is said and done, her texting another man while engaged in an activity with you is only a symptom of the real problem. Until you come to the fullness of your understanding of the real problem, you will continue to put up these shituational posts to address the symptoms of your REAL problem.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:21 AM
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Aside from the lunch my wife had with her boss, my marriage was perfect. Aside from them going to spin class together, my marriage was perfect. Aside from them getting dinner after spin class, my marriage was perfect. Aside from them getting drinks after dinner, going to music venues together, dancing, and finally, overnight out of town trips together... And now they are full blown lovers and I have been cucked in my own marriage and the divorce is almost final. Men and women cannot be ‘just fri…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:14 AM
1

There is more than one benefit to lifting. First, the aesthetic. Obviously. But second, and more importantly, two of the three primary compound lifts involve the legs. The use of the legs, the biggest muscles in the body, produces significant amounts of testosterone. Testosterone keeps you from being a whiny little bitch simp. You can do the work, or.. Make excuses NOT to do the work. But NEVER, complain about a lack of results after NOT doing the work.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:34 PM
3

Hanging out will lead to a confrontation. Does he own a gun? Can you kick his ass? All the single women to play with and you want to play Russian Roulette with this one? Don’t blow your dick off.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:35 PM
1

Most women nowadays appreciate a man who is direct, and horny, just don’t be an asshole about it. Don’t believe the “Something About Mary” trope.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:29 PM
2

“That’s cool. I’d like to see you one-on-one a few times before you bring him along. I’m not sure I’m down for a threesome with him. Maybe with one of your girlfriends?”
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:05 PM
1

Yeah, the journey sucked. But the dichotomy of being a complete simp or RP aware is huge. The process to get here was tough, but toughest part is yet to come. Considering the totality of the circumstances, even if I was at my best, I could have never competed with him and her hypergamous nature. He is just simply that much better. I’m not mad about it. It simply is what it is. Like, as a truck driver, do I really think I could walk into a country club and pull a woman? Not without at least a gre…
/r/askMRP09/10/18 11:38 PM
2

By ‘getting over it’, I was referencing some lingering anger issues, about almost everything, but specifically, about my wife’s hypergamous nature. Kind of like my dead kid. Everyone wanted me to go to grief counseling. Fuck that. My emotions are the last physical manifestation of him being a part of my life. I’ll boohoo whenever I want. So yeah, the past never disappears. And good thing, too. Some things shouldn’t be forgotten. No grandkids, yet. I have one 21 year old, and two 18 year olds. I …
/r/askMRP09/10/18 11:16 PM
1

Nature abhors a vacuum. Create that vacuum by pulling ‘away’ and allow him to fill it.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 02:21 AM
2

I know he’s right. Ask me how I know.... Wait.. Better not.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 11:01 PM
1

That is beautiful
/r/askMRP08/10/18 11:00 PM
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I WAS slowly killing myself. The driving was part of it. The majority was spending 24 years, married, raising two families, working 1-2 jobs, sometimes 30-40 days in a row without a day off. I was so fucking beta. I was honest, loyal, trustworthy, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent. Sound familiar? I was also faithful, devoted, caring, loving, supplicating, the ultimate beta fucking pussy bitch to the core. And I sacrificed, everything. My educational opportunities at …
/r/askMRP07/10/18 12:39 AM
1

So do I. I’ve learned shit about myself I’d rather not know. Knowledge is the first step to enlightenment. And yes, there will be an update/FR after a year of not posting. If only these noobs would get the message to read the sidebar instead of posting every, fucking, question that crosses their weak, pathetic, beta-fucked minds.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 11:53 PM
2

“...was I always destined to fail due to my lack of vetting awareness?” Yes. You will always fail due to a lack of vetting awareness, and as one commenter reminded us from The Rational Male, people change in marriage. More specifically, Rollo said that no man, in the history of mankind, has every fully vetted a woman. But there’s more, much, much more to say about your whining, sniveling little missive. I have to go to work now and make more money than our politicians think I should be allowed t…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 12:55 PM
3

“...trying to see the forest of reality from within the trees of my anger.” Fucking brilliant. I’m stealing it...
/r/askMRP06/10/18 12:48 PM
4

I read somewhere that all these modern conveniences women enjoy were invented by men, so their women would have time to do, you know, ‘other’ things. What a lark
/r/askMRP04/10/18 03:15 PM
2

I AM the grizzled old dude. No nice guy covert contract. No expectations. But I’ll cogitate on your comment a bit.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 03:00 PM
3

Yeah, I haven’t posted in OYS. And I should have. I’ve lost almost 40lbs in the last year, by accident. My head is a little fucked up from my STBX shenanigans, and I buried my father last November. Honestly, I just put some shit on hold. My inheritance arrives in a few weeks. I’ve lined up a personal trainer. She’s a bikini fitness competitor and a sports nutrition major at the local university. That should get me to the gym.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 11:51 AM
4

That would be EPIC!
/r/askMRP04/10/18 06:33 AM
2

My weight loss?
/r/askMRP04/10/18 01:39 AM
3

Yeah, well, when this divorce is over I’m going to shit a 4 carat, round brilliant, VVSI1, D color monstrosity. Fuck, what a ride!
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:48 AM
3

Fuck man, No pressure there... 🤔
/r/askMRP04/10/18 12:23 AM
4

I would have set him on fire but I was at lunch. He can save himself. But HE has to want to.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 10:56 PM
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No. You have no hope. This isn’t the lottery and there is no winning ticket to hope for. You will get out of this exactly what you put in, and not all at once. Sometimes you will work for days, weeks, even months, without any tangible reward or feedback. It is a path you walk, alone, and wonder while you wander, if you are still on the right path. There is no hope, for you. You will falter, fail, get lost, get hurt, and question almost every step you take in the beginning if it’s the right one. …
/r/askMRP03/10/18 09:24 PM
2

And not ironically, they NEVER WILL meet your expectations.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 04:22 PM
2

In Nov of ‘42, the Brits had experienced a few victories. Of those, Churchill famously said: “Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end, but it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning.” “...there is nothing new under the sun.” Ecclesiastes 1:9 The ability to change is the essence of survival.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 05:16 AM
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If your wife served you divorce and was GONE in 7 days, What kind of shit would you do that made YOU happy, manly, and self-assured? That’s your answer. Stop fucking around and GET TO FUCKING WORK. If she doesn’t like the man you become, find someone who does. You’re failing because SHE IS your frame. Stop being a pussy and start being a dick.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 06:41 PM
1

The ONLY issue resolved is paying Alimony post-divorce. EVERY OTHER ISSUE is on the table. Hypergamy Infidelity Et al
/r/askMRP30/09/18 05:59 PM
10

Listen closely to momma. She is creating the narrative and frame that paints her little unicorn as the victim, and thereby technically worthy of the best society has to offer.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:27 PM
1

I completely disagree. Testosterone can be greatly influenced by the amount of fat you eat, zinc, and how you control estrogen in your body through diet and exposure to various chemicals you use in your daily life. After a year I still have weight to lose, but I’ve put 2” on each forearm and 1.5” on each bicep. I’m more aggressive, take much less shit, and feel way more confident with women. My test last year was 231. I can FEEL the difference in my body and mind as I adjust my diet to increase …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 04:24 PM
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No. What you’re REALLY asking, even if only from your subconscious, is if this potential unicorn could be a possible exception to TRP praxeology about wifing up single moms considering the sperm donor ran back home to Europe? SURVEY SAYS?... NO!! DINGDINGDING! Now, don’t worry or fret. She WILL find a beta bucks willing to put up with her shit because she is young and pretty... Just don’t let it be... YOU.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 03:04 PM
1

Your BOY friends can’t see it because most of them are autistic, binary thinking, overt communicators. GIRLS, through evolutionary psychology, are expert, natural, covert communicators. They pick up on the subtle, nearly nonexistent social cues, to the point that they respond to your scent, and the pheromones contained therein when you sweat, like Androstadienone, a signal of testosterone. It won’t do you any good to be one buffed motherfucker, if in your heart you are a beta bitch. Conversely, …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:47 PM
4

This, right here, IS your problem. You have NOT fully ingested TRP if you truly believe this. And you have NOT immersed yourself in the sidebar if you truly believe this. Study after study after study shows one trait that almost always trumps all others... CONFIDENCE. Get some.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:29 PM
6

Your attitude SUCKS. If we can see it on the Internet, I’m guessing she can see it on you like a fucking billboard.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:22 PM
4

Live your life. Along the way, talk to the pretty ones.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:14 PM
2

You are asking this question because you are already emotionally invested in her and the outcome of the date. And for the record, it IS a date. You have mutually agreed to meet, one-on-one, for the purpose of getting to know each other. You’ve only seen her picture. She might have herpes. She might have BPD. She might have raging bitch tendencies. Don’t give a fuck if SHE likes YOU, or not. YOU are vetting HER. SHE has to qualify herself to YOU. You are the prize, aren’t you? If you’re not willi…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:06 PM
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Fog; “I don’t kiss and tell.” Agree and Amplify; “It was a tie. Why don’t the three of us get together one evening and you can decide yourself who’s better..” Or, you can always be honest. How would you answer this question... “Do these jeans make me look fat?” Remember, it’s NOT the answer that matters...it’s that you make them feel. Doesn’t have to be good feels, or bad feels, just feels. So have fun with it, and them. Looking forward to your next FR; THREESOME!!
/r/askTRP30/09/18 01:53 PM
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It’s time to educate yourself on a broader level. Read “48 Laws of Power.” After reading this tome three times, you will never again question how to deal with entitled bitches, en masse, or any other asshole(s) that come and go in your life like the flotsam and jetsam in an ocean of shit.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:48 PM
2

I didn’t cheat. I didn’t desire a more attractive woman. And she won’t regret it, she won the man lottery. I appreciate your comment, thank you.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 08:45 PM
3

So THAT’S why you squat ass to grass....
/r/askMRP24/09/18 02:29 PM
3

A lot of things have occurred to me since I discovered her infidelity. I spent two years vetting her and had many green flags, no yellow flags, and no red flags. I’ve really thought about it. I can’t think of what I missed. In the echo chamber of these RP subs, AWALT seems to rule the day. Intellectually, I understand that not all women are EXACTLY like that. Emotionally, I’ve developed some major trust issues to work on. That’s cool, I’ll need a few hobbies post divorce.
/r/RPChristians24/09/18 12:50 AM
2

It IS all messed up. And WE messed it up. GOD gave us free will to choose HIM or reject HIM. Maybe our drive was meant to keep us interested in our wives to continue procreating, but that drive, like everything else human, was corrupted in the Garden of Eden. You mentioned Solomon and his 700 wives. Do you remember how/why his reign ended? Is there a place in the Bible where GOD blessed a multiple union?
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 11:30 PM
1

You bring up an excellent point. Why DID GOD create men to be ‘pigs’ when what HE wanted for us all along is to be in a monogamous relationship?
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 10:51 PM
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This has been my truth for a time I am too embarrassed to admit. For me, it is: Men are pigs, Women are hypergamous. Also, when men cheat, they are pigs. When a woman cheats, the man is a loser. I make $68k a year. Her boyfriend makes $700k a year. I get it. I really do. And I’ve forgiven her. But, knowing this hypergamous nature in advance, what do we, as Christian men, DO with this information? I married a Christian woman, in a church, and we both went on to serve that church and be faithful t…
/r/RPChristians23/09/18 10:34 PM
2

For many women, the infidelity is not about the sex, it’s about the broken trust.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 06:55 PM
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If you marry this woman, you will deserve every fucked up thing that happens to you for the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 06:54 PM
1

Lying to absolve yourself from guilt because you are a weak little bitch IS cowardly. Telling her the truth about your needs and explaining why you need to be in an OLTR, is honesty. The benefit of contradicting posts is that there really IS more than one answer. I made my suggestion based on you fucking up what you have and lying to everyone, including yourself. The only right answer is the one that works for YOU. Lying and cheating doesn’t seem to be working out for you. Try honesty. “Women wo…
/r/askMRP23/09/18 06:23 PM
4

My daughter was 11yo when I divorced her mother. Daughter had a lot of anger and resentment towards me about it. Over the years, she grew more hostile. It came to a head one day. I don’t remember what we were arguing about, but she called me a fucking dick. I snapped, in reverse, and very calmly replied, “Having a dick doesn’t make me a dick, any more than you having a vagina makes you a cunt.” She was shocked. And it’s been good since. Most of the time, you just need to call them on their bulls…
/r/askMRP23/09/18 02:03 PM
2

You may be right, but he’s.. Not fucking listening! Or maybe he IS. Either way, he needs to shut the fuck up and get to work.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 01:42 PM
5

If your wife’s SMV is 1/3 to 1/2 of yours and she is obese, not much more is going to ‘weigh her down.’
/r/askMRP23/09/18 01:20 PM
2

What you are missing is... YOU. What work have you done? What progress have you made? Where did you start? Where are you now? You: “Hey doc, I’m sweating during the day, trouble sleeping at night, and my piss is dark brown.” Doc: “That could be serious. Let’s get your medical history and run some tests.” You: “No.” Fuck you. I don’t know how you’ve done RP for two years in the context of a marriage and NOT been on askMRP and MRP subs. Because if you HAD been on this sub at all in the last two ye…
/r/askMRP23/09/18 01:14 PM
4

Dude, stop it. Just fucking stop. Grow the fuck up. Tell your LTR who and what you are and OWN YOUR FUCKING SHIT. She will decide to be with you or not. Under your circumstances, some actually do. In the meantime, be who the fuck you are and STOP lying about it. Your lease is your problem. It is the ‘stupid tax’ you pay for being a weak little bitch. If you want to start making all your decisions in life based on the value of a dollar, then become the shallow, soulless person you need to be to m…
/r/askMRP23/09/18 04:09 AM
2

Audible.com Make the time in your car useful.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 07:44 PM
2

I like that. I’m stealing it.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 02:11 AM
3

I completely disagree based on my own personal experience. My daughter was seven years old when I divorced her mother. She went through an anger and rejection phase, but by the time she turned 11, things started to come around. In the last 11 years I have missed one visitation with my children when I was out of the state on a trip. That kind of consistency and being there, has resulted in a very strong relationship with my daughter. When statistics do not support my position, my mantra is to be …
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:29 AM
3

Some settling of contents may occur during shipping(aging)
/r/askMRP20/09/18 10:48 PM
5

You can.... It’s called.... Reddit Gold
/r/askMRP20/09/18 10:39 PM
1

As I enter singlehood for the third time, I am blessed that none of my missions need, or desire, a woman’s input. I see them as a distraction. I do not believe GOD would distract me from my missions to serve HIM. So any woman that approaches me out of context is actually an agent of the devil, sent to distract me. One time I had a woman asking me about bananas, how I picked the ones I like. This seemed stupid to me. I picked up a bunch, gave her a big smile, she smiled, and I said, “I don’t have…
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 04:02 AM
1

The truth may set you free, but nobody said it would make you feel good. The truth hurts; I guess that’s the other side of the coin.
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 03:50 AM
2

First, you stole me closing line. Second, afraid to do the work... That right there is 95% of what holds the boys back around here... The fucking work. All of their whining, bitching, moaning, DEERing, ALL OF IT, is about hamstering a reason to NOT do the fucking work. I know, because I’ve done it, too. What we are watching, in real time I believe, is NEO going from dodging bullets to simply stopping them in midair. You are one badass motherfucker. No homo. Congratulations on your nomination to …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 02:30 AM
5

I’ve looked at your post history and you have posted every day for five straight days. To put that in perspective, I’ve posted twice in 16 months. Pull your head out of your ass. “How to get energized and motivation.“ You don’t. You are a man, or at least you identify currently as a male. So “energized“ and “motivation“ are feelz that women float along on. Get out of your ocean of emotion before the estrogenic sharks eat you alive. You are looking for self-discipline. Watch this: https://m.youtu…
/r/askMRP18/09/18 01:21 AM
3

Show off
/r/askMRP17/09/18 11:14 PM
2

She may have a significant other that will scroll her contacts on the phone, so in the meantime by having them in the memo section they are more secure if her phone is unlocked to her SO. My phone is unlocked. I hide all kinds of shit in the memo section.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 11:32 PM
1

He wrote it for me. Because.. “I rack disciprin.”
/r/askMRP14/09/18 12:07 AM
2

You’re confused because you are looking at the foundation of the sidebar. Because you have not read it, internalized it, and put it into practice, you don’t understand the pipe, conduit, and other shit sticking up as it’s pointed out to you. It’s like you’re in a psychology class and the fourth day of class you are arguing with the professor and YOU haven’t read the book yet. It DOES make sense when you increase your understanding. Sidebar. Immerse yourself. It will come together.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 09:28 PM
2

Here’s your interpretation: She’s getting sick of you being a BPD little bitch and she’s getting ready to open the marriage if she hasn’t already. Stop fucking around. You’ve been thinking and talking about TRP in general and MRP in particular for ~17 months. At this rate, she’ll be fucking someone else in 60 days and divorcing your fat ass in 90 days. Your marriage may already be over due to your inability and unwillingness to START. You are not in the USA, so you’re probably ESL. Cool, you do …
/r/askMRP12/09/18 02:00 AM
1

“I like to come here to vent at times....” Where? When? This is your first post to askMRP. Did you read the guidelines for posting in the sidebar? Did you see the stickied post at the top of this sub entitled “Cut the Shit”? I’m not usually unkind, except maybe in a good way, but your rant, without history or requested information in advance, or even a fucking question, was a complete waste of my time. So cowboy, if you just need to vent and rant, do it somewhere else. This is askMRP, not ventMR…
/r/askMRP12/09/18 01:35 AM
2

I hope he considers it, then. 20k is a lot of money, to me.
/r/askMRP10/09/18 09:04 PM
1

Natural selection. Simple. Pure. and Very Effective.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 08:39 PM
3

askMRP does not have thoughts on having a kid. I have raised a total of seven children into families, and so I will give you my thoughts on the subject. There is only one reason to get married, and that is to have children. The question then becomes, why have children? Is it for your legacy? No. Right now, you can name both your parents, probably all four of your grandparents, but how many of your 8 great grandparents can you name? Boom! Your memory is gone in three generations. But that still l…
/r/askMRP10/09/18 03:08 AM
1

Yes, there is, tangible cost saving benefits. WHY do you want kids?
/r/askMRP10/09/18 02:24 AM
4

Threesome!!
/r/askMRP10/09/18 01:39 AM
3

I like the way you think
/r/askMRP09/09/18 02:57 PM
2

Apparently she will be...soon.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 12:43 AM
1

This right here. Respect. To a woman who understands that men and women cannot be, ‘just friends.’ Somebody is always attracted on more than one level, usually the guy. I lost my wife to hypergamy, ‘we are just friends.’ Now they are lovers, he left his wife and kids for her, and our divorce is nearly final.
/r/RPChristians08/09/18 11:13 PM
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You write well enough. Your thoughts/logic are reasoned and passionate. There is a dearth of RPC work to read. Put it together and publish. You have 1,555 potential customers right now on this sub alone.
/r/RPChristians08/09/18 10:43 PM
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It was suggested I dial it back a bit. I thought about it... And no. Why would I do that? The whining triggers me. If a grown man would whine like that, like I used to, then he literally needs his ass beat, like I did. Shock therapy. In a 5 minute comment I’m trying to wake him out of the stupor of 36 years (or more) of being plugged in. Me, and 25-75 others just like me. I love the dictation feature on my phone. 10 minutes to rant, 5 minutes to clean up. Blast and cruise, baby.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 10:29 PM
7

You may be right. Maybe some OTHER weak little bitch will get something out of my missive.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 09:14 PM
5

CAN you accept it? And if she is TRULY done, it doesn’t matter. I’m sorry, man. My hot, beautiful, wife cheated on me for over two years. We are all here for a reason, and not fucking one of them is good.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 09:10 PM
3

It’s a trophy, a consolation prize. And depending on the rock, worth 1000’s in pawn or resale.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:52 PM
9

I don’t normally comment twice on the same post, but this morning I responded as I was waiting to start work. First, because it may be the only positive thing I say to you, THANK YOU for your service. Because of men like you, I have the freedom and safety to fuck around on Reddit. That being said... I’ve gone back and read most of your old posts, all in the same sub, and I must admit, for all your heroism on the battlefield, you really have turned into a weak, needy, dependent, addictive, little…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:11 PM
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“How to hold frame when u’re tired?” “...how can I have the strength to carry on?” Are you fucking kidding me? What the fuck is wrong with you? Did your doctor not complete the operation to turn you from a woman into a man? 36/M Professional... At what? Being a slack-jawed faggot? For fucks sake, MAN THE FUCK UP! You sound like my 9 year old daughter having a bad day. Want more sleep? Simple. You do know the best answers in life are simple, right? But fuck you if you think simple is easy. Ready?…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 06:38 PM
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It’s over. Your presence, while not being ‘present’, ended it. I’m all for alcohol. I love a shot and a beer. But, I don’t have a problem with it. You do. Do you see that, now? You can keep drinking, you are a free man. How’s THAT working out for you? The only way SHE is going to change HER mind is time and distance. You need to move out, now. Be very kind, polite, but firm on moving out. She doesn’t want to be your mother. Your childlike behavior put her in that role. Unattractive as fuck. Afte…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:08 PM
2

I’ve done this. It can be... refreshing.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 08:07 AM
1

Your perspective based on your current frame of reference has A LOT to do with what information you come away with when reading a book. The average person retains 7-10% of what they read. Now that my divorce is almost over, I’ve started the sidebar again. The Rational Male is almost like a different book to me now, and I’ve been through it several times. I very strongly recommend TRM “Preventative Medicine” next, and then TWOTSM, again.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 03:52 AM
1

TWOTSM NMMNG WISNIFG MMSLP The Rational Male, books 1,2, and 3 That will get you started. You missed out on 15 years of child raising as an only child and a fucked up finally dynamic. You won’t fix that in a post here with 20-100 shades of answers in one evening. You won’t fix that in a couple sessions with a counselor. You need to layer in 100’s to 1000’s of hours of reading and information assimilation like here AND maybe counseling to lay the foundation you are missing to deal with these day-…
/r/askMRP08/09/18 03:20 AM
5

Almost always, STFU is not literal, but metaphorical. In your case, if you are NOT in control of your anger, and stupid shit falls out of your filthy little pie hole, then you need to literally STFU before you speak. There are books written about this shit. Counselors trained in this shit. But the simple answer is usually the best, not the easiest, but the best. You know what you feel like when you are angry. Literally press your lips together and do not say anything until you actually think of …
/r/askMRP08/09/18 02:47 AM
2

Oh. I thought you asked a question at the end of your post about how we control our anger. I answered you out of my own experience, which is long and full of anger.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 02:10 AM
3

Are you fucking kidding me? Read the first paragraph of your post, three times, and realize your entire post is in contradiction to that first paragraph. You are deluding yourself with the jargon. And like a little bitch, YOUR actions do not match YOUR words. What the fuck is the matter with you? Can you even name a body part smaller than your tongue, besides your dick? Grow the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. And if you can’t handle the test, get off it until you can. The only thing you really have …
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:27 AM
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It shattered for me when my wife came home from a business trip to Las Vegas for a conference attended by doctors. She was a different person upon her return. I felt the earthquake in our marriage within 5 minutes of her arrival. She gaslighted me and said she was just overwhelmed by all the lights and noise. 35 days later I knew who her boyfriend was/is. A year later I found RP. And now I’m divorcing the lying, cheating, whore. What a fucking waste of time. I CANNOT WAIT TO HAVE MY FREEDOM AND …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 01:56 AM
3

A fun asshole. That gave me pause...🤔
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 01:33 AM
1

THAT, would most likely NOT be a good idea, but it could be a great test of your frame...
/r/askMRP05/09/18 07:13 PM
2

The effort you put into this now is the effort you will have to put in to maintain this shit show, forever. You are at the front end of an LTR. This is the best it’s ever going to be, unless you are BOTH committed to improving individually, incrementally, every day, in every way, for the benefit of the relationship and each other. If one or both of you is operating at status quo and comfortable, the relationship will die, and you’ll experience every moment of the pain of that death. There are 40…
/r/askMRP05/09/18 02:05 AM
3

Perfect. Yes, moving in together, changed stuff. OPSEC is OPerational SECurity. As in, she DID find your other account. Hopefully you have that under control now. BEFORE YOU SIGN A NEW LEASE, read “The Rational Male” by Rollo Tomassi. You have probably already read it, but if it wasn’t in the last 3 months, do it again. It sounds like you are mismatched. OTOH, full application of dread, as prescribed, might have her purring like a sex kitten within 6 months. My immediate advice is to move out. T…
/r/askMRP04/09/18 02:30 AM
2

Thank you for not DEERing. I’m guessing your lack of desire in her is a reflection of her lack of desire towards you. So as I thought, and there almost always is, more. Is this a wife or gf? Do you cohabitate? If so, for how long? Any children? Why the throwaway account? OPSEC issues? Or relatively new to MRP? Are you working Dread? If so, what level are you solidly on? What is the source of resentment? Why isn’t she as much fun as she used to be? All of the answers to the above questions lead t…
/r/askMRP03/09/18 11:41 PM
5

Pressure flip. YOU, “What are you doing that you are afraid if I find out, I’ll leave you?” HER, “Nothing.” YOU, “Then you have nothing to worry about, do you?”
/r/askMRP03/09/18 11:33 PM
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Thank you for your service, and sorry you’re getting fucked without getting laid by the one bitch that should be the most thankful of all. Do not enter into any verbal, personally negotiated agreements with a lying, cheating, deceitful whore. Every step of the way needs to be negotiated through TWO lawyers, yours and hers, NOT FOR HARASSMENT, but for the PRESERVATION OF YOUR PARENTAL AND CUSTODIAL RIGHTS BOTH NOW AND IN THE FUTURE. And that’s your only answer to her questions about why you are d…
/r/askMRP03/09/18 11:22 PM
4

“Got good at STFU and really starting to NGAF. It’s allowing me to use AM better. Gym. Cleaning. Getting finances in order. Reading. Growing. Things are going really good.“ Really? Wow. I mean, just fucking WOW! All that in six hours. At the rate you’re going, you’ll be asked to speak as an expert at the upcoming 21 Convention in October. Did you miss the stickied post at the top of this sub? Please say you missed it, and didn’t just ignore it. More specifically, your post asking for help as shi…
/r/askMRP03/09/18 11:00 PM
5

Two questions: 1) How satisfied are you with YOUR sex life? 2) If there were photos of YOU and her on the hard drive, which ones would she be thinking about the most? You’re new to MRP. You have a LOT to learn, and even more WORK to do. Work your way up the levels of dread. In the meantime, you can stir that pot of shit if you want, but I’ll bet you’re not ready to deal with the smell. So STFU, and... GET TO FUCKING WORK!
/r/askMRP03/09/18 10:09 PM
5

I respectfully disagree with the premise of your assertion of the need for TRP/MRP. I submit that you have it exactly backwards. The Red Pill came into existence as a continuation of the original PUA strategies that were a first response to the rise of the feminine imperative in mating strategies as created by the gynocracy. Specifically, The Red Pill is a sexual strategy which has becoming a man/masculine as a natural consequence. The following is submitted for your edification: https://www.red…
/r/askMRP02/09/18 07:54 PM
2

Moby? Or the sailor?... Lol
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 12:34 AM
2

“I guess I’m struggling with putting a boundary on this long distance issue.” Let’s back up for a moment. Your account and your post are 9 hours old. We know next to nothing about you, and you blew right past the ‘Cut the Shit’ post stickied at the top of this sub. So in the last nine hours, the only sidebar you have read is if it was the actual word in a comment. You are reading some fairly consistent answers because they issue forth from the same source, the sidebar. You are reading echoes of …
/r/askMRP31/08/18 01:35 AM
2

Ah, the ubiquitous ‘break phase.’ I know it well.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 12:50 AM
6

Absofuckinglutely.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 12:47 AM
3

Kind of like my second marriage. There won’t be a third.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 12:47 AM
1

See a family law attorney in YOUR state. They will know the mechanisms used to take your money, hence; how to protect it. It’s a great question, it may not have a great answer. MY suggestion? Give it to your parents to add to your inheritance. In most states, receiving an inheritance is untouchable by the spouse.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 03:32 AM
1

Sent you a PM response.
/r/askMRP28/08/18 02:28 AM
13

Read, “The Rational Male”, by Rollo Tomassi. He discusses LDRs at length. If you still want an LDR after that, then learn to enjoy that feeling of being kicked in the nuts, every, single, day. But once you have the information, there will be no fucking whining aloud (pun intended).
/r/askMRP27/08/18 10:16 AM
2

No sarcasm. It was really good. If he took that one nugget to heart, He wouldn’t have any doubt
/r/askMRP26/08/18 06:13 PM
2

I don’t see the disconnect, but I’m not a student of the Dark Triad. If you feel so inclined, maybe you can enlighten me?
/r/askMRP26/08/18 04:27 PM
1

Well, that was perfect in its simplicity. Just perfect.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 03:30 PM
5

“I can feel my doubts and lack of abundance pulling me down but I keep coming back to the comments here for strength.” Why? Not because of your dick. It likes getting wet in that hole. Not because of your heart. You caught feelz for this one, and that’s ok. It’s the price you pay to play. YOU COME BACK HERE FOR STRENGTH BECAUSE IN YOUR MIND, YOU KNOW WHAT’S RIGHT. ‘...I really let this woman get under my skin and it feels like quitting a drug.’ You are absolutely correct. In his first tome, RT i…
/r/askMRP26/08/18 03:23 PM
5

Start here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/7koh8d/113_christian_frame_part_1_an_introduction/?st=JLALXJHR&sh=f9b81fb2 If I give you a fish, I feed you for a day. If I teach you to fish, I feed you for a lifetime. Depending on the device you are using to access this sub, along the top or possibly along the side of your viewing window you will see a search function. Simply type in the subject that you wish to search, and you will see dozens, if not scores, of articles related to th…
/r/RPChristians26/08/18 08:51 AM
1

Yeah, I fucked that up. Just wanted your take.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 03:10 AM
2

There is a difference between literal STFU and being a blithering idiot. Try stoicism. It’s worked for thousands of years, and created by a bunch of old guys who spoke or wrote when they actually had something to say. Don’t become a rocking mute and retire early from life while destroying your body. Have more to give, and LIVE.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 01:20 AM
1

“Everything in moderation.. Including moderation.” 5 words. 2 ideas. 2600 years in the making. Perfect.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 01:16 AM
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No. “When my wife tries to argue...” No. When your wife defines the terms and conditions of engagement, you enter her frame by engaging. That is the time for STFU, AA, and AM. YOU are the leader. YOU dictate the terms of engagement. YOU decide when to give her the feelz, and lead them where you want to go. The roller coaster is a great analogy. So, are you going to be the car? Or THE TRACK!
/r/askMRP26/08/18 01:02 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8l3fno/establishing_an_emotional_connection_with_a_woman/?st=JLA5485C&sh=5d683f60
/r/askMRP26/08/18 12:53 AM
2

And honestly, if that becomes his last step, he’s fucked. Let’s hope he keeps steppin’!
/r/askMRP25/08/18 11:54 PM
1

For clarity, does this apply to single Dads, too?
/r/askMRP25/08/18 11:40 PM
2

I just went back and read all 5 of your posts (excluding the one to me) and put together with this one, that’s some real inspirational shit. You know the shit I whine about. I feel like a camel’s fart in the desert compared to what you’ve gone through. Thanks for hanging in there and being a positive part of this community! (0% homo) I don’t often drink so I’m not good at it, but I like being a cheap drunk. Rock on, brother.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 11:32 PM
3

That was rough.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 10:48 PM
1

Wow. Science behind the feels... Awesome.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:27 PM
1

This comment deserves way more upvotes than mine. Have another.. +1
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 05:05 PM
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I’ll comment again when I have more time, but for now, I’ll share something my mother taught me. What you don’t like about her before marriage, you will loathe about her after marriage. For a whole LOT of reasons, this marriage will result in a dumpster fire YOU lit. Pray for wisdom and strength to end it. Do you see now how premarital sex can skew things? Edit: u/Red-Curious gave you a much better long-version than I had in mind. Read it more than once.
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 03:45 AM
28

So here you are. That damn forest. It’s so beautiful but now, there’s too many fucking trees in the way to see it! Look, you’re RP. You can’t quit, give up, or walk away. It’s in you. And you KNOW, even if you DID take her in now, the relationship you had, would still be dead. Your frame would be gone, she’d have power she would ultimately resent having and lose respect for you. The universe has given you a gift. Accept it, gratefully and graciously, and.. DO NOT GIVE IT BACK! Let’s look at this…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 03:33 AM
4

Yeah, I have. I almost went off the reservation. My story may yet be one of redemption. I didn’t shake my fist at GOD when my son died. I’m not blaming HIM for my wife’s hypergamy. There may be a testimony, if I can hold it together. Thank you for your encouragement.
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 12:10 AM
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I appreciate that, thank you. It’s not much of a story. I was beta. She got hot. Hypergamy. That’s the readers digest version. Maybe when the divorce is final....
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 11:57 PM
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By being too young I mean your low SMV, your current financial situation/status, your maturity, your age, your lack of life experience, everything. I’m not going to beat you up about any of that. I don’t know you. I’m just a faceless, pseudo-named stranger on the Internet. To put my opinion in perspective, I raised 6 boys, buried a 17yo a few years back, and his twin brother is now getting married at 21 years old. I was far gentler on you than him. At the end of the day, he is a grown adult and …
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 03:42 AM
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I’ll spare you my marriage rant because of 1 Cor 7:9. But for the record, IMHO, you are too young and you haven’t dated long enough. Beyond that, congratulations and I truly pray your RPC marriage works out for you. I do have a bit of advice. Your marriage is not the finish line of being single. It is the starting line of being single on hard mode: married. The day of your wedding is the baseline. Dip below that line and you’re in trouble. Flat line and you will experience a slow retrograde. Upo…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 11:00 PM
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They are, but is he whining about it? Or simply stating they are a priority... It’s the whining that triggers me... No fucking whining. Grown ass men whining about their shit need their ass beat. Period.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 08:45 PM
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Dude. You have your priorities. You’re owning it. Don’t give that shit up and don’t apologize for it. THAT’S Owning Your Shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 08:42 PM
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Well, you’re half right. And I completely agree with you. But he’s hesitating, and I think it’s all about the kids, as he alluded to earlier.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 08:00 PM
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This is what I learned from my first two posts and reaction to subsequent comments; One can lift, read, and STFU all day long, but it’s not until you voice what you have learned that you are able to refine your thought process as others give you feedback. There is often a difference between what one thinks he knows, and what his true foundation is. And then, there is IamSteveMcQueen, who seems to defy...everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 05:27 PM
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I believe in the 100% inerrant, 66 book bible as it is presented to me as a Methodist. John Wesley’s ‘method’, which he was obviously BIG on methods, was to use scripture, tradition, reason, and experience to establish theology. Scripture is the absolute authority. Tradition, reason, and experience are subordinate to it. When you postulate something using this paradigm, if the theology disagrees with Scripture, then it is unsound and should be discarded. It was Outler with his damnable ‘Wesleyan…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 03:45 PM
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My personal favorite
/r/askMRP22/08/18 12:08 PM
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She IS grieving, you piece of shit. And if she is grieving the loss of a child, she can grieve ANY FUCKING WAY SHE WANTS, you autistic moron. You don’t dread a woman who’s pregnant. Don’t expect much from a parent grieving the loss of a child.
/r/askMRP22/08/18 12:07 PM
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I think u/fuckmrp nailed it when he pointed out Steve isn’t looking for advice, he’s seeking validation.
/r/askMRP22/08/18 11:48 AM
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I taught a class on the Bible. It’s physicality, books, chapters, verses, origins, authors, translations, the Canon, etc. The one question I wasn’t sure of at the time was, how do WE know THEY got it right? I reflected on this and answered, “This is the Word you have been given. This is what GOD will hold you accountable to.” The issue was then placed below the line.
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 11:28 AM
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Fuck. Just FUCK! And Fuck YOU Steve. I buried a 17yo son. 6 months later my wife branch swung blaming my depression and impotence. Fine. I’ve learned to deal with it. In the meantime, fuck you, you insensitive little prick.
/r/askMRP22/08/18 03:07 AM
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I use biblehub.com quite a bit. 23 translations and over a dozen commentaries on every verse and passage. Really deep understanding, there.
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 02:51 PM
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Talking about love is an exercise in semantics. There are MANY different kinds of love, and ways of loving. In the English language, we have one word for love. We can qualify it, brotherly love, romantic love, et al, but because of that word specific limitation in our language, that’s what we have to work with. From there, we can use the scriptures to qualify and quantify (For GOD SO LOVED the world) our interpretation and use of the word, Love, but I will always remain, and be leery of those th…
/r/RPChristians20/08/18 09:02 PM
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Graham, baby, I’m not a fan. I’ve beat you up in the past, because you deserved it. Quite frankly, if this was a college sports locker room, you’d have your ass hazed and shoved into a locker. I’m not going to pull any punches, but I will give you some actionable advice. There is something wrong with you. Somewhere at your base, your foundation, around the chemical processes in your brain at the hormonal or synaptic level; there is something wrong with you. At the very minimum, you are HIGHLY es…
/r/askMRP20/08/18 06:45 PM
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Yep. Oneitis. She’s welcome to stay. It’s okay if she leaves. You’re not incompatible, just two different rhythms for living life right now. You can do better. You just have to... Want to.
/r/askMRP19/08/18 10:23 PM
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I am five years older than you. Each set of my twins are exactly 5 years older than each one of your boys. My step twins are exactly 5 years older than her son. My divorce will be final soon. This is who is talking to you. If you took your original post, pulled out all your stats, wrote an FR about your TRP journey, you are practically a poster child for doing it right. That was 46% of your post. The other 54%? Well, that was all about her. And right now, from where I sit, that’s the percentage …
/r/askMRP19/08/18 08:36 PM
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Yeah. He’s got his shit together, living the dream as a man. She (shockingly(not)) wants to literally be the oldest teenager in the house. No surprise there
/r/askMRP19/08/18 03:11 PM
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That’s my first project after my divorce. Life coaching. I hadn’t learned this was a model. Are you certified?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/18 01:54 AM
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The Guardian doesn’t have any natural orientations.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 12:47 AM
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Great post. This topic is one of the most underrated areas of opportunity for noobs struggling to get their shit together. Thank you for posting this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/18 11:57 PM
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This is the ‘rest of the story.’ I’m actually doing EXACTLY this. I wrote down my negative self talk story, and am rewriting it, like rewriting a program. I’m going to include it in my post-divorce FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/18 11:52 PM
2

Well, big P, that was a ‘cliffhanger.’ What happened at the bottom? Please tell us you fell on some strange!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/18 11:49 PM
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“Even Uncle Chad suffered from negative self talk and crippling low self confidence prior to red pill.” Well, you’ve certainly come a long way, motherfucker. Thank you for your comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/18 11:46 PM
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Wow. Good on you. I forgot JimboCaan! Graham, 46 days ago you responded to this commenter, “Can’t you see I am in serious trouble here?” My answer is YES!!! Everyone can see it. But quite honestly, you are having a moderate, ongoing, psychotic episode. GET PROFESSIONAL HELP! NOW!!!!!
/r/askMRP18/08/18 02:48 AM
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No, that’s a joke, right?
/r/askMRP18/08/18 02:41 AM
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Graham, I’m going to piss you off and call you out. This is at least your SECOND Reddit name, and honestly, if I dig deep enough, I truly believe I could prove it’s at least your THIRD. 46 days ago you were posting shit about your oneitis under a second name, and I believe about 8-9 months ago you did under a third name as well. Based on how long you’ve been lamenting the same issue, and powerless to do anything about it, please know that a bunch of faceless, pseudo-named strangers on the intern…
/r/askMRP18/08/18 02:31 AM
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The only thing you need to learn is IF there is a NEXT time, vet much more carefully. Remember, the red flags that you ignore, will eventually find their way into your ass. Handle your shit. Turn the corner. Life gets BETTER...
/r/askMRP18/08/18 02:17 AM
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Then let her have her innocence. Do not destroy it by drilling and grilling her about mommy, Jody, or Chad. Do not teach her to trash her mommy by entertaining negative comments or by getting angry at information. IT IS NOT A CRIME TO BE A BAD PARENT. Leave that fucking cunt OUT of your life, and STAY OUT OF HERS. All communication is by text or email. Don’t answer the phone, unless you know it’s your daughter calling. You can do this. AFTER the divorce is final, get your contact to zero. I had …
/r/askMRP18/08/18 01:58 AM
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I ‘duty fucked’ my wife at the beginning of shark week. She specifically requested I fuck her, said it was my duty, the day before she really started flowing to ‘relieve the pressure and stir it all up to get it moving’...that’s a direct quote. But, you do you. I did me, And her.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 09:47 PM
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This right here. Game...Game....think about it. How much thought goes into deer hunting? Fishing? But remember, when you are the most attractive thing in the field, they will come to you. Fishing with dynamite. Spontaneous, enthusiastic blowjobs are on their way. She will up her performance, when you.. Up YOURS. Track her cycle. Hunt at dusk. Fish at night with a flashlight. Use soap embedded with pheromones. You know... CHEAT! And then, fuck her good.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 03:52 AM
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Thank you very much for your thoughtful reply. She has had the boyfriend for over two years. I’m embarrassed to admit that. But I have tried, and now, #3 would be impossible. I still love her, but the level of lying and deceit she is capable of is truly astonishing. I am going to struggle mightily with #4. And not the marriage, but the sex. After sinking $1.4m into two marriages and 24 years of my life gone, the shiny has worn off the marriage ideal for me. I know the right thing to do. James is…
/r/RPChristians17/08/18 12:57 AM
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Every time I read one of your posts I am reminded that I didn’t finish high school. I think I know the answer to this, and this is more for levity here... I am divorcing my wife because she has a boyfriend. There are sexually active, and she says she still loves me, but he gives her things I can’t, like 11x my yearly income. I drive the truck. He’s a high ranking hospital doctor. For all of that, she has made it clear she wants to remain FWB after the divorce. Evidently I was doing SOMETHING rig…
/r/RPChristians16/08/18 08:10 PM
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That is very hopeful for guys like us. Thanks
/r/askMRP14/08/18 09:31 PM
3

That was a little dark...
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 12:51 AM
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The seed corn. Excellent.
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 12:48 AM
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I’m going to take some time to digest that. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing that.
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 12:47 AM
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I COMPLETELY AGREE. Now, what exactly does that mean? When I could not find this answer, I found MRP. I want the answer.
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 09:58 PM
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They are a cultural product because of weak Christian parenting.
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 09:56 PM
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There is the Jesus you described. And Hollywood masculinity in the form of Vin Diesel, Statham, Bond, Willis, etc. But what is OUR Christian example? Jesus Christ himself? We were called to be perfect, but NOT the Son of God. We use Jesus as an example, but are we called to be just like HIM? In every way? Walking the streets, preaching from the intersections, calling out to others to follow us? There has to be more. Am I doing it wrong because I got married? Because I had children? Because I hav…
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 09:54 PM
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I agree there needs to be strong leadership. But is there anything WE can do at a grass roots level?
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 09:47 PM
2

So what is the answer for Christian men, today? What is our example? Is our Testosterone truly poisoning us as the gynocracy would suggest?
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 09:46 PM
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What the church is lacking, and where the message is muted and failing, is presenting Jesus Christ as a masculine man. He is, too often, portrayed as a bearded, robed, sandaled, long haired, peacenik talking about peace, and love, mannnnn... The great deceiver has co-opted the image of Jesus Christ and turned HIM into a flower child of the 60’s. So the question now becomes, how do we resurrect the masculinity of Jesus Christ in the church to lead our daughters and be an example for our sons to f…
/r/RPChristians13/08/18 02:13 AM
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It looks like you are doing well improving your lifts. It is my understanding that when your BF <15%, AND your SMV is 1.5-2 points higher than hers, things begin to shift. Are you following Dread? What level are you on? Are you addressing grooming and style, even around the house? And are you OYS around the house? This is what I see/don’t see in your post. Everything is about the sex. You even acknowledged some covert contracts. And it could be your seemingly myopic missive is in keeping with a …
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 11:59 PM
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I saw that. He posted inside a linked post? I quit posting after my second post a year ago and made an effort to figure this shit out myself. I thought it would mean more to me. So far I’m right. I comment to test my understanding. That works pretty well, too. But yeah, Reddit fuckarounditis. They post and post and post, instead of actually doing the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/18 07:13 PM
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This sub can’t help him at all. We are not counselors, therapists, doctors, or even faceless, nameless fucks that give a shit about anyone but ourselves, most of the time. We are practitioners of MRP praxeology. It’s rough, it’s tough, and it’s self help. In this dojo of our lives, we can no more help him through you than we could explain to you how to tell your friend how to defend himself in a fight. And make no mistake. He is in a fight. His health, sanity, self-esteem, dignity, self-respect,…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/18 05:45 PM
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When you don’t give her skittles, make sure she knows she can still taste the ‘rainbow.’
/r/askMRP10/08/18 10:16 PM
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You’re in your 30’s. Do not give up. Do not despair. https://www.reddit.com/r/Christianity/comments/955oa0/i_have_prayed_for_36_years_for_god_to_send_the/?st=JKM0HLB0&sh=d5260884
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 03:39 AM
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Yeah, well, 🤮 Seriously. Word vomit. The BOTTOM LINE is... WTF DO YOU WANT? If you want to stay married, then go to the sidebar and start acting like a man. If you want to get divorced, then do it. You can be a real loquacious pain in the ass to read. How do you have an RP divorce/separation? By going first to u/Red-Curious (not a call for help, Red) posts and reading ALL of his divorce posts. Next, use the search function for MRP, askMRP, TRP, and askTRP, and research divorce, divorce rape, cus…
/r/askMRP09/08/18 03:17 AM
2

He’s missing more than one component
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:29 AM
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Of course it comes up every time she feels insecure. That’s how women are. They can instantaneously access any random or periodic bit of behavior from any moment in time and use it to justify their feelings in the moment. Why do I feel like you have not read the entire sidebar? Why do I feel like you have not read ‘The Way of the Superior Man’? Why am I having all these feeewings? You inconsolate bastard. Fix your shit.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:25 AM
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They sell anchors without boats. Just sayin’...
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:13 AM
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Odds are 1/100 On a GOOD day.
/r/askMRP09/08/18 02:08 AM
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No. It’s just not my style! 😱
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 02:06 AM
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Lots of great comments here. I can’t add much, but a quick recap. Go read u/Red-Curious 115 post right now. You have oneitis. And it’s leading you to sin. It lead David to sin. It literally killed Samson. Abraham didn’t have oneitis, but his failure to wait on the Lord created a NATION AGAINST ISRAEL until the end of this age. GOD is moving this woman, and her family, out of your life right now. Accept it. LDRs generally suck. So man up, buttercup. Have Jesus as your oneitis. Matt 6:33 That will…
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 01:14 AM
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When I got married I weighed 273lbs at 6’. My wife weighed 335lbs at 5’7” My wife then lost 170lbs through diet and exercise over 2+ years. I lost about 35lbs during the same time. She went from a size 28 to a size 8. Shapely, sexy, and got LOTS of ioi everywhere she went. One time we were in the grocery store. I went ‘in search of’, and came up the aisle to a man just staring at my wife’s butt as she got something off a lower shelf. I walked up next to him and just said, “damn.” As he shook his…
/r/RPChristians08/08/18 09:42 PM
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“Back in the old days...” Before feminism? Context. What might have been part of a shtick or a joke, 50 years ago, is now a diatribe and part of a growing dogma of control. Reverse the roles. How funny do you think it would be if he started talking about the ‘little lady’ and what she couldn’t do around the house? I see feminism as a tool used by Lucifer to weaken the church, destroy the marriage paradigm, and directly attack the relationship between a man and a woman in GOD’s name. Not much has…
/r/RPChristians08/08/18 11:45 AM
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Hi Doc. I am your future, if you don’t settle down, get your priorities straight, and get back into fellowship with HIM. It’s ok to be upset, but lay it at HIS feet. We are emotional beings, created in HIS image. Genesis 1:27 does NOT mean that my GOD is a white, Western European man. It means that my being, and all of its complexities, are facets of GOD’s image. Specifically, here, we deal with the emotion of anger. Where do you think that basic emotion comes from? The image of GOD... Deut 6:15…
/r/RPChristians07/08/18 03:37 AM
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I’ve spent quite a bit of time studying this story. I spent a year, teaching Genesis to an adult Sunday School class. The real story, for me, is not the fall, but the consequences of their actions. Study those, and you will understand the nature of men and women today. Matthew 5:48 (controversial in interpretation), commands us to be perfect. We never will be, in this lifetime, but the seeking of that perfection (lift, read, stfu) makes us a leader worth following. It’s probably been done, and u…
/r/RPChristians06/08/18 02:25 AM
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What we are all waiting on is for u/Red-Curious to figure out he could make more money writing than representing. u/RedPillCoach may have some recommendations. Not necessarily scripture based, but certainly less provocative and inflammatory than some of your current choices. But to be sure, there is a dearth of this kind of information available.
/r/RPChristians05/08/18 07:44 PM
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I read somewhere around here that plates are not good LTR material. I I come across that again, I will forward it to you.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 04:47 PM
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As a one-off situation, this absolutely needs to be addressed. But there is a MUCH BIGGER ISSUE. Your wife’s willingness to drug a nine month old for her own, personal convenience. No, your kid probably wouldn’t die, but there could be other, long term effects that HAVE NOT been studied because nobody wants to fuck up a bunch of infants to find out you shouldn’t give them medicine for 3yo and up. I’m not going to freak your shit out by telling you all the bad shit that could happen, but I will m…
/r/askMRP05/08/18 03:23 PM
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“Been with my LTR for one year, we cohabitate.” Well, there’s some root cause analysis for you, right there. When you say you’re a TRP OG, you mean MORE than a year, right? I mean, LONGER than you’ve been cohabitating with your LTR? As a TRP OG, have you ever heard of Rollo Tomassi? Did you know he’s written a (few) books? I digress. Not really, that was a standard segue back to your situation. You really need to (re)read Rollo’s first book. This isn’t about your travel diarrhea, cooking the big…
/r/askMRP05/08/18 03:07 PM
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So you woke up this morning, running naked through a field of lollipops, and got one stuck up your ass. Hurts like a bitch, don’t it? The choice is yours. The reason for your indecision is you don’t see yourself as a sexually active man that cavemans his wife on a regular basis because she is still butthurt about you getting nudes from her sister back in the day. OTOH, in looking at your marriage ending or just thinking about a plate, your first thought is about having your chemically supported,…
/r/askMRP05/08/18 02:44 PM
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The trial IS the gift. The trial IS the blessing. James 1: 2-8
/r/RPChristians05/08/18 03:40 AM
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Your wife isn’t OCD. Your wife doesn’t have hangups. Your wife is not attracted to you. But prove me wrong. Your account is 16 minutes older than your post. I have spent twice that time commenting on a post I consider worthy of my time, which yours is not. If you want advice from someone who has turned his ex-wife into a plate, or someone else who has had 10 women in 30 days, or maybe some salient, cogent tips from one of the other 5,000+ members here, I suggest you... CUT THE SHIT. How? Easy. G…
/r/askMRP04/08/18 11:39 PM
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Duplicate by mistake
/r/askMRP04/08/18 11:38 PM
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Your wife isn’t OCD. Your wife doesn’t have hangups. Your wife is not attracted to you. But prove me wrong. Your account is 16 minutes older than your post. I have spent twice that time commenting on a post I consider worthy of my time, which yours is not. If you want advice from someone who has turned his ex-wife into a plate, or someone else who has had 10 women in 30 days, or maybe some salient, cogent tips from one of the other 5,000+ members here, I suggest you... CUT THE SHIT. How? Easy. G…
/r/askMRP04/08/18 11:38 PM
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“Choose wisely. Choose early. And don’t suck.” GOLDEN ADVICE. I failed all 3. Twice VERY EXPENSIVE. And deadly.
/r/RPChristians04/08/18 10:46 PM
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This is what happens when I look at Reddit before work. I don’t get to post a long answer. The short answer is, GOD did not build into women their nature. He CURSED US with it. Read Genesis 3. Look very carefully at the punishments given to each of the 3 characters. Perfect, isn’t it? Man was the leader of a woman and the authority and dominion of all that was in the world. Because of our failure in the Garden, we have to deal with their rebelliousness and hypergamy, until the end of this age.
/r/RPChristians04/08/18 12:27 PM
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Simple. Not easy. Fuck
/r/askMRP03/08/18 09:18 PM
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Hey Zeus. I dunno man, I probably just don’t get it. But this is what I think... You are SURROUNDED by atheists and immoral people, 24/7. You are looking for a mission. What does GOD want more than anything else? Read Matthew 28. You are IN a wide open mission field. Witnessing is tough, but GOD is tougher. Read, ‘Share Jesus Without Fear,’ by William Fay. Now, you have your mission, mission field, purpose, BUT, there’s that whole woman/sex thing. Read Matthew 6. I’ll bet you can guess which ver…
/r/RPChristians03/08/18 07:16 PM
1

I’m a high school dropout. I struggle to ‘paragraph.’ I’ll work on it.
/r/RPChristians03/08/18 04:25 AM
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Ok, Ken. Let’s review. You’re stuck on the other side of the planet because you are a military officer. Air Force? You have been having problems in this relationshit from day one. From your extensive post history I gather you are HEAVILY invested in this woman, including a $15,000 engagement ring bought not long after college, and you are completely unaware of sunk cost fallacy. Your father in law was completely against this marriage because he knew his daughter would not do well in a military m…
/r/askMRP03/08/18 04:17 AM
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You may be right. Yes, he was posting the requirements of Rule#2. No, he didn’t ask a question. Yes, I took it as a cry for help in a specific area, and I acknowledge that cry for help might have been an echo from another cry for help, some 20+ years ago. With much due respect, I pray we can agree, to disagree, agreeably. His lifts look good. His finances look good. His spirituality seems on point. But he led with his negative BF%, like I lead negatively with my age. 33% of his post talks/lament…
/r/RPChristians02/08/18 12:05 AM
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There is a stark difference between a relapse and a mistake. Identify which it was and move forward. Like u/OsmiumZulu tried to say, if you are having an ongoing battle with addiction, then be honest and separate for a time while you fix and heal yourself. If you made a mistake, then own it, confess it to GOD, ask forgiveness, and move on. NEVER burden your SO with your guilt. It’s weak, and will only ever serve to ease your conscience at the expense of hers.
/r/RPChristians01/08/18 11:23 PM
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Yes. Exactly this. Your analogy was on point. This level of ‘openness’ in a marriage will close everything else... ifyaknowwhatimean..
/r/RPChristians01/08/18 11:17 PM
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Yeah...that whole.. “In the event of an emergency, please put on YOUR oxygen mask first before assisting others.”
/r/askMRP01/08/18 11:06 PM
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Ok, so I’m new here, but I’m not new to life, Christianity, being fat, or being a man. I’m also not good at spoon feeding, hand holding, butt wiping, or nose blowing, and I raised 6 boys into men. Your handle is slightly off... NoFaithInMyself Your introduction led with your BF%. I don’t remember seeing that before. It indicates your biggest problem, to you. I’m going to offend you, and maybe some mods here, they can take my post down if I’m wrong. I was overweight for over 50 years. At my highe…
/r/RPChristians01/08/18 11:07 AM
3

Wait, you’re expecting brevity from a.... Woman?
/r/askMRP31/07/18 11:36 PM
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Now prioritize them. The top 3-7 will be, in order, the absolute ‘I will not compromise these points for any man. After you prioritize them, start looking how your current love interest ‘matches’ up. He’s NOT the one for you. He’s not even good filler material. He’s a life lesson. Learn the lesson and move on. Stay a member in your church. My mantra is you should never hunt where you prey. (Pun intended.) it creates distractions and negative vibes. Branch out socially to other church singles gro…
/r/RPChristians31/07/18 07:44 PM
1

Yeah. Me too
/r/askMRP31/07/18 07:29 PM
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You will have absolutely no control over your STBX when your daughter is with her. Short of legal child endangerment or physical/sexual abuse, it is NOT against the law to be a bad parent. I had scores of examples of mine doing stupid, nasty, shit to the kids. Nobody cares. When your daughter brings up stupid shit your ex does, listen empathetically and move on with little comment. I lived 20 minutes away from it. The kids had until the car ride to my home to get it off their chest. My home was …
/r/askMRP31/07/18 01:06 AM
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I lived this story. All 3 children now know their mother is a useless, worthless, dry old hole. I did the right thing while it took shots at me every chance it got. There is a way to parent effectively and never speak to it again. I’ve spoken 4 words to it in four years.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 12:42 AM
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Blue. Has to be a blue crayon.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 11:00 PM
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I’m over 55, so I thought I’d need TWO!!
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:48 AM
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“Even fat ugly old guys can get laid with a motorcycle.” Does it matter which kind? Because I’m getting two Harley’s. I’m going to put your assertion to the test.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:06 AM
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From an RP perspective, her N-count is 2-3x what she reported. Statistically, it’s part of her ASD. Pursuing Christ WITH this girl will be harder than WITHOUT. Read 1 Cor 7. She WILL be a distraction. Is it possible? Matt 19: 26-29 I advise against it. Evangedating is really hard. And you’ve already crossed all the boundaries you will now attempt to set up as boundaries. Try it. Set STRONG boundaries. Develop and test your ability to lead. If you can’t do it now with her, you won’t do it later. …
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 09:26 PM
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Brit, I understand. You want this man to work out for you. I get it. You are in a RedPill sub, with a Christian emphasis. Several of the commenters have elucidated their points well. The sleep apnea isn’t the problem. How he handled it with you, is. I’m avoiding badgering you and beating down on him because I don’t want you to get any further on the defensive than you already are. I raised 7 children and I understand what’s down that road. You have received advice from a Christian, male, masculi…
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 07:45 PM
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My biggest concern for you is not straying off topic, but straying from your faith. I have a homework assignment for you. As much as you can, completely independent of this man, I want you to make a list of your ideal Christian man. List EVERYTHING! Age, height, weight, eye/hair color, muscularity, facial hair, temperament, voice, vocation, churchgoer, spiritual leader, age, attitude about money, attitude about sex before marriage and after marriage, what kind of father, what kind of husband to …
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 06:57 AM
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Oh honey, and I mean that as a term of endearment. I’m new around here and have a reputation for being a little rough around the edges. But I’m not new to Christianity or relationships. My heart aches for you, and it’s refreshing to see that you actually have one. I have two words for you: Unequally yoked. From a Christian perspective, I see this as a toxic relationship to YOUR Christianity. The man is called to be the spiritual leader in a relationship. It sounds as if his ‘complicated’ Christi…
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 04:58 AM
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Well Tim, your account is 19 minutes older than your post. No other history. You write as if you’ve posted before and have history and we know your story. I feel like I walked into the end of a counseling session just in time to hear the recap and was then asked for my advice. My advice? Rewrite your post. Are you married? What verbal abuse? Over what period of time? What exactly ARE you guilty of? Who’s really trying to leave? You’re getting a house ready to sell but trying to salvage a relatio…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 08:55 PM
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That protocol might be gender specific. I attended 4 months of marriage counseling, 90 minutes a week. Not ONCE was a session spent talking about HER infidelity or the marriage. After 4 months, it was firmly established that I am a uniquely flawed and broken man that has failed on every plane of existence as a husband, a father, a son, and as a man. When I stopped going I realized I’m no more flawed or broken than the next man. And in spite of the support she received from her family and friends…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 08:27 PM
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Ah, fashion. There is a difference between fashion and style. I’m older so I am working on my personal style as I become single again and inherit enough money to do whatever I want. For me, I’m starting with the basics and then will explore some additional individual pieces. You won’t have the whole image in advance. There will be some experimentation, successes, and learning opportunities. To begin, make sure they fit well. Stick to solids, earth tones, and mild designs. You could pay a persona…
/r/RPChristians26/07/18 09:11 PM
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Two verses, out of context, sprang to my mind: Isaiah 36:12 Isaiah 59:10 More to the point, none of this surprises me anymore. Yes, we should resist, create pockets of peace and safety for those who believe, or would believe, (and we don’t get to know definitively who that is before the mark of the believer during the tribulation), but nothing we do will stop the earth from its pangs of birthing the anti-christ. We look at everything going on and shake our heads. From a theological perspective i…
/r/RPChristians26/07/18 10:49 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=real+men+real+style https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=alpha+m https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=weston+fashion https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/how-to-build-a-manly-wardrobe-1/ Educate yourself. Edit: it’s been my experience that your wife will up her Game when you,.. Up yours.
/r/RPChristians26/07/18 04:06 AM
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I’m going to make you president of my fan club. Thank you for your support.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 03:51 AM
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Ok, so you’ve done SOMETHING with your time. Rejection is a good thing. It’s GOING TO HAPPEN, so learn to embrace it, and experience it for what it is. Mark Manson, in ‘Models, Attracting Women Through Honesty,’ has an excellent breakdown of rejection and why it’s a GOOD thing. The book is slightly blue pill, but is great overall, in context. Rejection is a message. It tells you different things based on where you are coming from. In your case, rejection from your wife means your SMV isn’t high …
/r/askMRP26/07/18 03:49 AM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP26/07/18 03:36 AM
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No, I can’t quit. I thought I could, but I couldn’t. There was a day, a few weeks back, when I felt like Connor McGregor used me for practice, all day long. I’m working on an FR. I’ve been through some shit the last few years, but the wife’s affair....what a ball-buster. She asked me recently if there was any hope for us. I told her I’ve been her husband, and her lover. I WILL stop being her husband, but we’ll never be ‘just friends.’ More on that in the FR. Thank you all for the support, the se…
/r/askMRP26/07/18 03:34 AM
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So, tell us, Mike, because this next step is really, really important to the rest of your life; what ‘work’ are you going to do? Be specific
/r/askMRP25/07/18 11:50 AM
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The answer to ‘why try?’ is in his comment. Read it again. Tell us, why try? That unanswered question, right there, is at the root of my lost DECADES. Seriously. Find the answer in his comment and post it here. The war you are now fighting will be won or lost on the battlefield of your mind.
/r/askMRP25/07/18 11:45 AM
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True. All true. He came here because his asshole got sore from sitting on the fence. I say we push him off and see what happens. You do know that Humpty Dumpty was pushed, right?
/r/askMRP25/07/18 02:15 AM
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I quit. Two weeks ago I sent out a few PMs and I quit MRP, TRP, and basically life. I was ready to spend the rest of my life here on earth at the bottom of the pit of despair. But I still had my cell phone. And I still lurked. A few posts tugged at me to respond. I found my way out of the pit, had a few epiphanies, and still I lurked; determined to take a month off as suggested by the likes of u/88Will88, and u/FireTempered. It was u/Red-Curious that pointed out my lingering bit of oneitis. Than…
/r/askMRP25/07/18 01:55 AM
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“...the mystery of women’s life-giving capacity.” I stride against this thinking. Women give life like an oven creates the dish that’s in it. The egg lies dormant, waiting to be penetrated by the life-giving sperm. It is the sperm that is active, alive, and gives life. Beautiful metaphor, and example of patterns in our existence. We men, create life. Women bake that shit, so we can remain free to create, and care for indirectly, the oven. A great chef is known for the dishes he creates, not the …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 04:32 PM
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FINALLY! I’ve been at MRP for over a year while my BP marriage went to shit with a branch swinging wife. I’m spending more time here as I embrace my new freedom, with resources all my own. I’m 56. Married 23 years total to two women. Here is my RP perspective on marriage. I will be gentle... WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??!! Have you read The Rational Male? No? Obviously not. Nothing gets easier, or better, with marriage. Absolutely NOTHING. You lose freedom, sex, autonomy, sex, money, sex, co…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:28 PM
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My condolences. I’ve buried 3, immediate family members in the last 5 years. I really do empathize with your loss. As a med user, you need to be vigilant about one thing. Are THEY on psych meds, and are you likely to give them a pass as a result? I ignored that red flag, wasted 12 years of my life, lost $800,000, and buried a son because of it. Women handle shit differently than men, which is to say, generally, not much to, not at all.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:27 PM
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This right here ^ I had ‘terrible twos’, two at a time. I remember it as happy times for each set of twins. I don’t remember having discipline and behavior problems until they started in public school. As teenagers they have been relatively easy, but I have always been a very involved father. “Parenting from the very beginning”. Who woulda’ thunk it?...
/r/askMRP08/07/18 11:48 AM
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I’m 56 and almost divorced, so not crushing it yet, but intend to. I’m losing weight, lifting, educating myself about style and fashion, and planning on how to hit the dating scene after 24 years of marriage. After the divorce, new wardrobe, that fits well, with an understanding about the difference between fashion and style. Daygame, dance classes, Match for plates, more daygame, and travel. Branch out from there. You’re 54. How’s your hair? How’s your style/dress? How are your teeth? How tight…
/r/askMRP07/07/18 02:24 AM
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If you want to stay married you might consider upping your game and kino with her. Who knows? She might up her interest in sex, when you.. up yours. Don’t turn it into an arms race.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 02:04 AM
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A-fucking-men. Too few, when approaching a woman, forget this very excellent point.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:33 PM
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Which is better than try-sexual; Try sex with women Try sex with with men Try sex with everything else
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:32 PM
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I’ve posted twice in the last year in askMRP. The rest of the time I’ve been working the sidebar there like a cheap prostitute. The first post was the most cogent and salient. Scroll through my comment history. Read the shit with more than 10 upvotes. You’ll get a sense of who I am. And yes, I’m starting to branch out.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:28 PM
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I neglected myself for DECADES, I mean, half a century. You got this. You know what to do. Now, just fucking execute.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:38 PM
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BTW, you counteract this by getting into, and staying in, the top 20%. Then the top 15%. Then the top 10%. See where I am going with this? You should be picking from what’s presented to you. Don’t be a bottom feeder. And never settle.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:37 PM
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“The truth will set you free.” They never mention it hurts like fuck, sometimes.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:14 PM
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Yeah. I’ll save you my sob story about ignoring red flags about head issues. She’s either manipulative as fuck, or has the lowest self-esteem, ever. Walk away.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:13 PM
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Dude, it’s tough, I know. My first wife had head issues she took psych meds for, and BP me ignored that red flag. 12 years later, after 4 kids and a DB for 6 years, she was swallowing $26k a year in Rx and seeing 3 doctors every month. Then one of those kids died in her custody and nobody cared because she has a hole between her legs. My cautionary tale is.... Be happy to move on. If the first year has problems, walk away.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:59 PM
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The ability to change is the essence of survival. You are growing. Growing is a process of change. So is declination. But growth is painful, otherwise EVERYONE would be doing it, and too few ever do. Embrace it. Embrace the suck. Fill that time you feel the pain with something else. Lift. Read. Socialize. See something new. Learn something new. I’m leaving a 2nd marriage of 8 years I REALLY wanted to stay in. I had oneitis. She was beautiful to me. I enjoyed her company. She travelled well. She …
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:48 PM
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My point is, SOMEONE is always going to get hurt. LTR, marriage, short term, long term, doesn’t matter. So feel bad, and be glad YOU weren’t hurt. Embrace the emotion, feel it for what it is, and then move the fuck on. Be glad you are a man. You can do this.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:34 PM
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Exactly this. SHE knows this is how she would poach another man. The medium is the message. She’s projecting
/r/askMRP06/07/18 04:15 PM
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He’s afraid of this... https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8tqzdq/my_wife_hate_fired_me_and_blew_up_our_family/?st=JJA6IMSP&sh=147a4df4
/r/askMRP06/07/18 04:13 PM
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TRP is ingested and used like a muscle is built in the gym. Stop digesting TRP and it becomes less effective, just like a lack of lifting decreases muscle mass. It’s your call.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:43 PM
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As for the ex, you ended your turn before she did. So fucking what? As for the date, enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:40 PM
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“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” “I think, therefore I am.” “...we are nothing more than a rock...” How’s that working out for ya’, sport? Don’t get caught up in the paralysis of analysis. Don’t allow this shit to be hamster food to NOT do the work and LIVE your life. Life is hard. Life is a struggle. The harder you work at it, the easier it gets. ‘You rack disciprine’ Watch this. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QQTYWxeAy9k Now STFU and GET BACK TO FUCKING WORK
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:36 PM
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If ignorance is bliss, I’ll choose being a happy motherfucker every time.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:26 PM
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Society is going to collapse. The world is going to end. If Saddam Hussein lights the oil fields in Iraq in 1991, we will be in a nuclear winter in 1993. If we don’t start to conserve water now (1995), there will be a world wide water shortage in 2000. Y2K is going to reset every computer on earth. Dude, WTF. You are being a lazy, whining, useless fuck. You are hamstering reasons NOT to do the WORK, right now. Yes, you can become a survivalist for the next 15 years, and HOPE everything goes to s…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:23 PM
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I’ll bet... If you added up all the TIME and energy you have NOT been fucking this plate... you could be spinning TWO more plates instead. Ghost and next. Or are you thirsty? She’s an accessory. If she is wasting your time, like a broken watch, throw it away and get a watch that works. Or TWO!
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:14 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:07 PM
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What changes is the level of responsibility and the cost of fucking up. THE MOST expensive decision you will ever make is the woman/women you commit to. Yes, more than all the cars and houses you will ever purchase. Vet very carefully. My poor (BP) choices in two women cost me 23 years of my life and $1.3million. I’m 56yo, and (happily) starting over in life. Do it better than I did.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:50 PM
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AWALT All Women Are Like That. EWILT Every Woman Is Like That. There is a difference. Look up difference between Every and All. There are exceptions, to All. Don’t get distracted from the core fundamentals by the exceptions.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:34 PM
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You kind of buried the lead there, cowboy. Why’d you break up? Doesn’t really matter; I’m just a nosy little prick. The Rx is the same. Get fucking busy. Get busy fucking. Your day should be so busy you can’t remember what you did this morning, and you should be asleep 15 seconds after getting horizontal, if you’re alone.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 02:24 PM
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“...because it freaks me out she will have beef (sic).” Just keep the ‘steak sauce’ handy, and you’ll never have a problem with that ‘beef.’
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 02:18 PM
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First, he needs to get his head out of HER ass.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:39 PM
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Your wannabe girlfriend is a slut that doesn’t want to fuck YOU. Grow the fuck up and get on with your life. Or, you can waste almost 3 decades of your life and $1.3million on the wrong women, like I did. You can learn from your own mistakes, or someone else’s. I’ll leave it up to you to figure out the easier row to hoe.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:38 PM
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We all have stories we tell ourselves. “I am ...” “I am not....” And these stories subconsciously prescreen for the women that come into our lives. For example, if you, deep down, think of yourself as a relatively weak, beta bitch pussy, then you will attract harpy bitch females who will dominate you with an attitude. I’m not going to ask you how much of the sidebar you’ve read, because it doesn’t fucking matter. How much have you INTERNALIZED? Become a high value man. INSIDE as well as outside.…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:24 PM
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The only thing that needs to thicken is YOUR penis. If not, move on quickly. Don’t be thirsty, be willing to pass on a glass of dirty water.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:16 PM
2

“..smash and dash..” Lol I’m stealing that
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:14 PM
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My grandfather taught me to watch out for, “A little powder and a little paint, to make it look like, what it ain’t.”
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:11 PM
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My understanding is MRP is TRP on hard mode because you do everything RP in front of an antagonistic protagonist. Imagine going to MRP boot camp, life gives you the equivalent of 20+ field manuals, and every single day, while reading the manuals and trying to figure shit out, one of the cadre is constantly screaming at you, “WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?!!” “WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING THAT?!!” “STOP DOING THAT!!” All the while the only help you get are letters from home (askMRP) and to almost eve…
/r/askMRP06/07/18 12:07 PM
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I saw what you did, there.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:18 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:36 PM
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Read, “My Secret Garden,” by Nancy Friday. It explains why Romance Novels are a $1.4billion a year industry. Dangerous, powerful, emotionally unavailable men who are controlling and protective, taps into their base biological programming even feminism cannot overwrite. This shit to them is like pornography is to us
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:05 PM
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“Thanks? I’m finding one now about twice a week!”
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 01:58 PM
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Hot, too.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 01:47 AM
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No context. No cogent or salient information. Sounds like a humblebrag. Go to the sidebar and read the ‘posting guidelines’ again.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 01:46 AM
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Yeah, so, I’ll try to say this in less than 10,000 words. I wasted six years of my first marriage and two years of my second, not executing. Talk to more attorneys. Find out what you need to fix before you leave. Use her as a practice dummy for your self improvement. And like every woman, her response doesn’t matter. Your marriage is over. Figure the shit out and pull the fucking plug. And dude, there ARE things more important than money.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 10:39 PM
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The rational male The way of the Superior Man How to be a 3% man Can’t choose a 4th from this list
/r/askTRP03/07/18 09:41 PM
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I’ve only been around TRP for a year. You are the very FIRST person I’ve heard say this. Thanks for popping my cherry
/r/askTRP03/07/18 09:31 PM
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Know the facts. Get a blood test.
/r/askMRP03/07/18 06:00 PM
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I couldn’t even read all the comments; unusual for me. You are over-complicating this shit. I know, because I did it for 6 YEARS. Here’s the 90 day version; You; “You have two choices. Do your fucking job as a full time, SAHM, or get a job to pay for the consequences of you working.” Her; “Or what?” You; “I’ll divorce you and hire someone cheaper and more competent to take care of our children.” It took me 6 years to get to that conversation. She failed. I left. Take as long as you like. Complic…
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:13 PM
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Mine too. You’re not alone
/r/askMRP03/07/18 04:04 PM
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Women who serve alcohol, prostitute their smiles and friendliness for tip$$. Expect it when you visit. If it bothers you...move on.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:57 PM
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There is a huge difference between things “materializing naturally,” and leadership. When you figure out the difference, you’ll get what you want.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:53 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Skipping to DL 10, doing none of the work, no other conscious application of dread, and only being exposed to MRP for two months would be tantamount to relationshit suicide. He doesn’t need to do this. He doesn’t want the relationshit to continue. She cheated on him. She doesn’t want his children. She is repulsed by him sexually. FMOFY at this point would result in some sex at best, but probably bad sex and more bad time in an LTR that should have ended 8 years ago.
/r/askMRP03/07/18 03:34 PM
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Lose the gut. You mentioned it, so it’s a problem for you. Hint; the problem is your DIET. Talking to women. Easy. Don’t talk. Listen. Ask great questions. Open ended questions. What do girls like to talk about? Everything besides the shit they put in a fucking job application. Don’t interview them. Ask them about their travel experiences or desires. Ask them if they can explain the difference between style and fashion to you. Ask them about their passions, desires, what have they done or want t…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:22 PM
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What you learn from this is: The solution to their problem isn’t money, because their real problem isn’t a lack of money. When people ask me for money, I tell them to find another job. It’s worked so far on 5 out of 7 kids.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:14 PM
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For clarity, I’m all for burning this shit to the ground. She doesn’t want kids: red flag. She cheated on you: solar flare. The mother of all deal breakers: LEAVE. BUT; “Had a Tinder date and now I realize what I’m missing in my life.” NO, you don’t. You had a tinder date and realized you look good enough to get fucked once, maybe twice, by the same woman. This is a sexual strategy sub. From that standpoint, CONGRATUFUCKINGLATIONS!! Fucking fresh randoms off a hookup site IS a sexual strategy, a…
/r/askMRP03/07/18 02:59 PM
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Fuck. I was really hoping she didn’t. Oh well... MORE FOR ME!!!!
/r/askMRP02/07/18 11:59 PM
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Well, graham...baby... Fuck you. This is a chemical process in your brain, an emotion, that as men we can control intellectually. If you can’t, or won’t, control your shit, then you.. DESERVE TO LOSE EVERYTHING. There’s your reality check. You’ve already DEERed in advance some of the answers you’d get. I want to kill my wife with my bare hands. She is responsible for the death of one of my 17yo sons. I’m not going to do it. I will it to be so. This isn’t a question about sexual strategy for askM…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 09:59 PM
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If you want her to FUCK you, then you must become FUCKable. She responds, but you really want her to, WANT you. You must work the dread levels, AND get out of the house. Can you work from a Starbucks sometimes? Is there an office share collective somewhere? Usually in medium-large to large cities. The answers are in your post. You’ve done some reading. You really know what needs to be done. So quit talking about it.. Figure your shit out, and.. EXECUTE
/r/askMRP02/07/18 07:48 PM
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On a mobile, on the subreddit home page, NOT within a post, hit the 3 horizontal dots in the upper right corner. Then select, Community Info.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 07:42 PM
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The good news is that you’re normal. We all want to be rich and live a sustainable life. The bad news is that you haven’t lived long enough to work hard enough to get there. And damn few ever do. I’m sorry if you lost your ass in Crypto. There’s an old saying about eggs and baskets... You have oneitis for your ex. Until you intellectually force yourself to let go emotionally, it will fuck you up. Use the search function in TRP and askTRP for getting rid of oneitis. Sounds like the BJ chick might…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:13 PM
1

In what way do you find this depressing?
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:36 PM
1

MAP is a definitive way to look at the core areas of your life, determine what needs to be done, and prioritize those activities for your benefit. Look at the synopsis, read a couple of reviews. DWOY was boot camp. MAP is the real world application and ongoing training.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:30 PM
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So, exactly how many red flags will it take? Just curious. I’ve counted 3 already.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 04:32 PM
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You have oneitis. YOU know it. WE know it. When SHE knows it, your relationshit will be over. You decide when to get your shit together and move on.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:19 PM
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And yet, at the end of the day, her “heartless unemotional bitch” mother, IS her model for behavior as she gets older. ESPECIALLY in times of stress when her self-esteem is low, she’s tired, etc., this imbedded operant conditioning is what she will revert to. Look, my first wife took “just one pill a day” to “take the edge off.” When I finally climbed out of that dumpster fire she was swallowing $26,000 a year in prescription medication and seeing 3 different psych doctors on a rotating basis ev…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 03:12 PM
1

I think you scared him. “Gone in 60 seconds”....
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:58 PM
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How old are you? Don’t answer. Doesn’t matter. Have you read The Rational Male? There is no such thing as relational equity. You may allow her to have some with you, but SHE will NEVER give a shit that you cared. When it comes time for her to fold, fail, swing, or whatever fucked up thing comes to her mind, ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE EVER DONE FOR HER WON’T AMOUNT TO A PILE OF DOG SHIT ON HOT PAVEMENT ON A SUNNY DAY. Fuck. If someone, ANYONE, had told me that shit 23 years ago, I’d have $1…
/r/askMRP01/07/18 02:45 PM
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BONUS!
/r/askMRP29/06/18 12:42 PM
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I haven’t posted in almost a year. A FR after my divorce might be a good idea. I’m always up for good, unsolicited advice in advance.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 11:52 AM
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I divorced my first wife, nine years before finding MRP. I got custody of two, and she got custody of two. Child arrangements worked out pretty well. It was better than I expected, and very few people are happy with the outcome of the divorce. I think the judges have an unwritten rule to make it that way
/r/askMRP29/06/18 11:05 AM
2

TRP lessons for whom? You? Him?
/r/askMRP28/06/18 11:01 PM
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The trick is to show him where the water is after you make him thirsty.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:57 PM
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Yeah, I thought about giving him a run for his money, but he’s just not worth the time. Too many legit fucktards here need good advice. I don’t drink and I already buried my father.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 06:40 PM
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Thank you for saving me the next 30 minutes of my time writing you a cogent and salient response to your op.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 05:54 PM
1

Why would anyone think that? We only know what you have told us in your four posts in eight days.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 05:48 PM
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That fighter doesn’t work as hard. He doesn’t have your back. You have to fight your battle and his too, because he’s unprepared and getting his ass beat, so now you’re less effective.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 05:46 PM
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Fuck, that was painful. I summed up the first 20 paragraphs for you; ‘I married a loser.’ Next time, and every time, your wife is drunk, zoned out, or being too lazy to give a fuck about your daughter, dress your kid, take her out, feed her, and have FUN! Your wife’s issue is not that you’re an improving, fat, beta, loser, piece of shit. She is a fucked up mess. Women can be fucked up. But really? “My Captain isn’t leading so I’m going to become a drunk, solipsistic, narcissistic mess that ignor…
/r/askMRP28/06/18 05:41 PM
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“How can I stop feeling the need to explain myself all the time?” You will stop feeling that way when you STOP being a weak, needy, insecure, little bitch. Your self-confidence and self-esteem are low. You are too invested in what other people think because you don’t think enough of yourself. I read your post and comment history. Along the way you say you’re jacked, your game is on point, been with over 100 women as a grade A manwhore, and you are shacking up with a loyal, successful, beautiful …
/r/askMRP28/06/18 04:16 PM
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Do NOT tell them right now. Ask your attorney. This can play out different ways in court. Remember, messengers and bearers of bad tidings often get shot, or pushed into an abyss. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4Prc1UfuokY Fuck. My divorce rant is about to come out like the Hulk out of Bruce Banner. Get ready to fight like the future of your boys depends on it. Because it does. Do NOT get lazy and depend solely on your attorney. They get paid whether you win or lose. Right now, your emotions are r…
/r/askMRP28/06/18 11:34 AM
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“Why can’t you guys figure out how to properly boil a frog?” That’s beautiful. I’m stealing that.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 11:13 AM
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😂
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:51 AM
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Wait, does he mean that ONE person hit the down arrow instead of the up arrow and he actually noticed it?
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:24 AM
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Going Rambo is always an option. You could go Nuclear, too. Have the papers drawn up and and as you serve her divorce, scream, “You’re out!” What the fuck is wrong with you? It sounds like you are doing okay with this shit, but you got lazy and you don’t want to OYS in this issue because, goddammit, “Not EVERYTHING is MY responsibility.” Well, FUCK YOU Captain, YES IT IS!! So, all of the answers are in your post. You outlined pretty well where YOU failed your FO. I have a novel idea, instead of …
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:20 AM
7

So you’re making life decisions based on the availability of women in your life? Have you ever heard the expression, “Women are a lagging indicator of success.” If not, you have a lot of reading to do. All this energy spent on women. Spend that energy on you. Become AWESOME! Become your own mental point of origin. If you still want to go MGTOW, go ahead. It is YOUR LIFE. Live it the way you want. But NOT for women. They are an accessory, not a reason to live.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:20 AM
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I’m 56 so my experience is a little different. I hadn’t seen him in 15 years. We had a rocky relationship. But I knew he was sick so I went to see him in September. He passed in November. I’m okay. I knew he was sick and I spent the weekend with him, paid my respect and told him I loved him. 3 years ago I buried a 17yo son. 5 years ago I buried my mom. I read a lot of comments about unfinished business. You are a grown man and make your own decisions. But there should be no fucking whining about…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:12 AM
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Congratulations on the bj. Human interaction is always good. On your ex and my contradictory statement I’m sorry I was unclear. She’s fucked up, AND you weren’t the one. Thank GOD. Fixing broken women is a messy business. Change the way you look at problems in your life. Everything can’t be 100% fixed, but everything can be made better. Start here; http://pectusexcavatumfix.com/pectus-excavatum-bodybuilding-exercises/#comment-434 This may not be the answer, but it may lead you to the answer. Bot…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:38 AM
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Dude, that sucks. I hate it for you. In my situation, it started as an emotional affair. I caught it early, but it didn’t stop. I caught her again and again and again. She fucked him at some point because he was more important to her than me, our marriage, and her job. She would have lost her job if discovered with this guy. So in the beginning I forgave her and was ok with it. But she lied, again and again and again. And it hurt, over and over and over. I take an absolute shit on the noobs that…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:13 PM
1

You still plugging away? I haven’t forgotten you.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:44 PM
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For the record, the answer is an emphatic YES! The ‘work’ is what you need to do for yourself. Doesn’t matter if you’re married, single, divorced, engaged, divorcing.... The ‘work’ is what you need to do to become a man other men want to be, and other women want to fuck. Waiting is why you’re here.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 10:39 PM
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Op, I’m tired. Your post fired me up and I was ready to set you on fire. But, I’ve had a long day. I went through this exact same shit. Did she or didn’t she? Will she or won’t she? Just an emotional affair? None of that matters. She had reasons, but no damned excuse to be a lying, deceitful, cheating, slut, whore cunt. Divorce her now and save yourself the pain and anguish. Or stay, reconcile, and waste 2 years of your life like I did. The choice is yours. Choose wisely. If I had to do it all o…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 08:59 PM
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I don’t. I don’t know ANY man that says he is better off in his marriage now and happier since he found out his wife cheated on him. Not one.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 08:53 PM
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You asked our advice. You will receive much here. This is a volatile situation where either you, or us, is going to say,.. I fucking told you so. Choose carefully. Your future happiness and freedom are on the line.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:43 PM
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Well then, you know if you crossed the line or not. The issue here is trust. If you fucked up, then own your shit and get what you want. If she fucked up, then trust is dead and she can/will do it again. Get your shit together, literally and figuratively, out of the house, lawyer up, divorce the lying whore, next, and ghost. Edit: 4 children. You can still next and ghost. I did, with 4 children. I haven’t spoken to the ex dry old hole in 4 years. One text in 2016. Plug into your children’s lives…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:20 PM
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If you are guilty of DV then reconcile if you truly want to. Learn your lesson and continue to improve. If you are NOT guilty of DV, then play the game, tell her what she wants to hear while you get the shit that’s truly important to you, see several attorneys, and be ready to burn this shit to the ground. If you are NOT guilty of DV, and you reconcile after WHAT SHE DID TO YOU, then you.. DESERVE EVERY FUCKED UP THING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU INCLUDING JAIL TIME. Doc: “I see you shot yourself in the…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 02:58 PM
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Look, schedule a meet in a public place, agree to talk(but don’t), and when she hands you your shit, make sure the hat is in the bag and then... WALK THE FUCK AWAY
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:44 PM
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“Hello? 911? There’s some guy I barely know at my front door. He’s trying to break into my house and I’m really scared. Please help me...”
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:41 PM
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Robotic discipline? Really? Self-discipline is the key to happiness. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QQTYWxeAy9k If you are not enjoying your alone time, if you are not delighting in your increases and results during these natural ‘monk modes’, if you are not better today than yesterday by one more pound, one more rep, one more minute, or one more thing learned, you’re doing it wrong. You’re boring. You’re unimaginative. If you can go 3-4 months in ‘robotic discipline,’ and be unhappy about it, th…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:37 PM
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If any woman is ‘just sitting there waiting on your text’... She’s not worth your time.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:35 PM
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You are 19 (20 now?) years old. I have lived your life 3 times. I currently have a house, 5 cars, 6 children, and a great job of 28 years. That’s what OTHER people see. Do I have it easy? In the last 5 years I have buried my father, my mother, one of my sons, caught my wife cheating, and am now getting divorced. That’s what other people, like you, DON’T see. SOMETIMES, you will feel alone. Embrace it. SECURE men can be happy, alone. And just as happy, with someone. You are 19 years old. You won’…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:16 PM
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You are probably right. The scourge of 3rd wave feminism, as it spreads throughout the world from Western civilization, continues to fuck up cultures and traditions that have existed for millennia. I grew up at ground zero, and tend to write from that perspective.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:59 AM
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RoastMe? I’m going to have to step up my game. My intention is to set them on fire. Shock them out of decades or maybe half a lifetime of being a highly estrogenic beta bitch. If you are truly offended here, but like the look of the Red Pill without actually having to swallow it, you will feel more at home at r/purplepilldebate.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 04:14 AM
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I personally think spoon-feeding is why most of these fucks end up here in the first place. They were spoon-fed feminism all their lives and don’t know how to live without it.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 04:10 AM
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ATTENTION!!! Noobs, spergs, asspies, whiners, complainers, autists, retards, the weak, frail, sick, lame, and lazy... Some of us here have embraced MRP praxeology, ingested and internalized the sidebar, made positive changes in our lives and continue to do so. Therefore,.. WE DO NOT GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU THINK OF THIS SUB and the methodology employed that makes this shit work for those willing to do the WORK. This is the toughest sub in all of Reddit Nation. It is similar to a football locker roo…
/r/askMRP24/06/18 03:49 AM
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Yes. So much this. 10 years after the divorce and my daughter seeks my attention EVERY DAY. Her mother is the whole entire pile of shit. And even my daughter knows it. Be awesome. Let the mother...be. Your daughter WILL figure it out.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 02:37 AM
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Yeah, the update thing...
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:10 AM
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So you shouldn’t try to RP them. BUT, you could try some leadership and get them to some conflict resolution at work (rehearsal). Above all, lead by example. Make them wonder where your confidence and happiness comes from.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:35 PM
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Start here: https://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ A lot of it will be review, and that, in and of itself, will be good. But, some of it should be new and will help prevent cracks in your foundation later when you really start to put that shit under load. Next, go to the MRP sidebar, find the beginner tab, read about the four drunk captains and decide which one you are. Next, go to the MRP sidebar WIKI, scroll down to ‘Misc’, find “12 Levels of Dread.” This …
/r/askMRP22/06/18 10:36 PM
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And when they’re done ruining your shit, they move on to another man with interesting shit, only to eventually ruin him as well.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:59 PM
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Okay, so I understand now. You got RP down as a PUA tactic and found out, like everyone else, it doesn’t do shit for you past getting laid. BUT... You ended up here where your training can be completed. So right now, you’ve swallowed TRP. You are currently in the dojo and getting your ass kicked by Morpheus. You need to upload the next routine that will help you on your journey so you can eventually see the code. Before I waste my time, are you ready for one possible key to MRP?
/r/askMRP22/06/18 09:44 PM
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Wait, have you previously read the sidebar, or not?
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:20 PM
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Sidebar. Dread. It ALWAYS works.. For YOU!
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:19 PM
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And we see from your post how effective you are as Captain of your shit...oops, I meant, ship. Did you know a woman is capable of lying? Put on a fucking condom, BEFORE you start fucking. Stop standing OUTSIDE the rail at the Grand Canyon to get that cool selfie.,,,, YOU ARE ABOUT TO FALL INTO THE ABYSS.. And the fuck of it is, it takes TWO DECADES to reach bottom.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:17 PM
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Have you read NMMNG? Being aggressive with your words during a fight IS beta!! Being the biggest, loudest asshole in the room during an argument doesn’t make you Alpha. It just makes you a BIG pussy full of shit.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:14 PM
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Wait, I’m confused again. What about RP were you at the beginning of your marriage if you can ask a question like this?
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:12 PM
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I’ve only been here a year, but I do believe you are the first to ever say you STARTED a marriage being RP. THAT’S FUCKING AWESOME!! Oh, wait, this isn’t an FR about an RP marriage... Damn.. You fell off the RP horse. You lost your shit in a big blow-up. Then there’s the yard sale debacle. Of course, the best time to confront anyone about their attitude is when they are grieving. YOU moved out of the marital bedroom. Why? Are YOU guilty of something? You’re not sure you are right for each other.…
/r/askMRP22/06/18 07:05 PM
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Fucking awesome comment. Right on the money.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 06:43 PM
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Yeah, the distance thing before she left. It was already on her mind and being planned. Cancel everything. Make sure you both are in possession of your own shit. Ghost. It’s not that simple, though. She will come back and do everything within her considerable power to have this marriage go forward for her pride and ego. It will start with a Tsunami of emotion, followed by begging/pleading, followed by hysterical bonding, followed by shaming, and then anger and threats. Or, it really could be jus…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:14 AM
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I came to post this. “Trust issues before marriage turn into DIVORCE.” FTFY
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:06 AM
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Get a free consultation with a family law attorney, or offer him $100 or a blow job or whatever you got. Every state is different. See an expert in YOUR state. What is THE MOST expensive decision you will ever make? Nope, not buying a car. Nope, not buying a house. DING DING DING!!!!! Yep, the woman you commit to. Now, take this shit SERIOUSLY, like your life and future depends on it, because they fucking do. I sunk 24 years and $1.4million into my last two marriages. Let that sink in for a mome…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:25 PM
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So it was just a statement of fact. Not a problem for you to fix. Most here are trying to fix it. Glad you’re happy with your stats. Thanks for stopping by.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 09:36 PM
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That’s a joke, right? You’ve been on Reddit for 6 years. You’re probably a fat chef. You stumble into the greatest sexual strategy sub in all of the Reddit nation and all you have to say is, “I haven’t been laid in 2 years!!!”? I guess you’ll start, when you’re ready.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 07:54 PM
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I agree except if she has cucked him. She’s already a disloyal bitch, but if she’s been unfaithful, he needs to terminate the marriage with extreme prejudice.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:36 PM
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Timing is everything. My soon to be ex after 8 years of marriage got caught cheating again just in time for me to divorce her BEFORE I receive a fuck-ton of money in an inheritance. Saved me $225,000. I was going to buy her the home she grew up in and a brand new car. Now, all I’m paying for is a $300 online divorce. I’ll send her a fucking Thank You card when the divorce is final. YIPPEEEE!!!! MORE $$$ FOR ME!!!!!! Always thank them for being themselves and then walk the fuck away. Read The Rat…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:20 PM
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Fuck, do I feel sorry for you autistic fucking retards that come bumbling in here for the first time like freshmen in a high school locker room before football practice. Someone shoves a playbook (sidebar) into your chest and screams, “READ IT!!” And so you dutifully look at a few pages before running out onto the field (of your life), and you get fucking slammed into the ground. Hurts like a bitch, don’t it? You’ve been here 3 weeks. 28 years old, in a 9 year relationship with a new baby. For t…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 02:19 AM
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LTR/MARRIAGE of 15 years. About 3 months ago you found out about her affair. About 3 weeks ago she moved out. Divorce is settled, but not final. There IS a difference. When you get a copy of the final decree, signed by a judge, you will feel better, and relieved. You’re 6 weeks into the rebound girl and what should be the very best part of the relationship, well, it’s, not so much. You’re very busy at work. You started smoking again. You’re not sleeping enough. “My sex drive seems to have bottom…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:20 AM
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You don’t have kids. The marriage is over. You are now free to fix yourself. Just YOURSELF. Go to the sidebar, Lift, Read, and STFU. Just do it. Become the prize. Work on you until women start approaching YOU. That’s how you’ll know you’re doing it right and ready to get back out there. Pro-tip: never, Never, EVER stop improving yourself as a man, in or out of relationships. An LTR/Marriage is NOT the finish line...it’s the STARTING line. Now stop whining and.. GET TO FUCKING WORK Edit: Read thi…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:22 PM
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I’ve been in and out of here lately. But Steve, did you flair yourself? Can we do that?
/r/askMRP19/06/18 08:24 PM
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Yeah, well, I’m flattered my post helped you in some way but, fuck, really? You sound like a bitch (I know, I just lost your upvote) on a GIANT emotional roller coaster. We can talk later about about your investment in the sidebar, what’s really going on and all that happy shit. For now, you need to run down to your local male clinic and get your T-levels checked. Seriously. We throw shit around here like turd-flinging monkeys in a zoo because, well, it can be fun. But you, my friend, on these l…
/r/askMRP19/06/18 11:56 AM
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Dude. No. Say it isn’t so. Please, DO NOT date her again. Please...
/r/askMRP19/06/18 11:43 AM
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The biggest mistake men make in getting married is that they think they’ve crossed the finish line on their wedding day and slowly go to shit. The woman gets to her wedding day and she thinks she’s crossed the finish line and she slowly goes to shit in different ways. He becomes less attractive, she becomes less interested, he becomes more beta, and right before the whole thing explodes, her hypergamous nature kicks in. She starts going to the gym, has more “girls night outs,” and the next thing…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:04 PM
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If you feel like a bitch it may be because you have the hormones of a bitch. You live in a big city. Go to a male clinic and have your test levels checked and evaluated. Late 20’s? If you are anywhere below 600 you need to google, “Foods that boost testosterone.” Next, google, “Exercise/activity that increases testosterone.” Don’t do TRT unless/until you fully educate yourself about the risks/rewards, because there are large amounts of both.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:05 PM
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You may be right. This might be of interest to him... https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8pkkmg/fr_calculate_your_cost_per_fuck/?st=JIKB58FI&sh=a972ef16
/r/askMRP18/06/18 01:41 PM
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Thank you for the edit. Here’s what I think. Let me know how close I am. Because you look okay, because you bank pretty well, because you have viewed porn as instructional videos, and because you have not internalized the sidebar... You are an entitled little fuck that thinks your wife will lick whip cream off your cock because you tell her to. Well, no she won’t. And the chicks you’ve seen do it in the “movies” are being paid a helluva lot more than your wife and they don’t have to put up with …
/r/askMRP18/06/18 03:21 AM
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I’m not going to lie, this is one of the weakest and poorest cries for help I’ve read here. You: “Hey doc, it hurts when I do something.” Doc: “What are you doing?” You: “I’m not really going to tell you.” Doc: “Ok. Stop doing it.” You: “Thanks doc!!” Look, if you want good information, you have to give good information. You’ve been here over a year? Read the entire sidebar? Still being an autistic Rambo asshole (pussy full of shit)? I call bullshit on one of those. Care to guess which one? What…
/r/askMRP18/06/18 02:05 AM
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I just finished my second pass of DWOY. How are you doing with it? When you finish I have some questions for you. I googled ‘funnel chest.’ You said it’s mild but still fucks with you. In what way? Physically? Mentally? Or both? NoFap isn’t a cure-all for brain fog. Frequent PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm) slows your cognitive functions and leaves you feeling lethargic. Check out the Reddit, r/nofap and yourbrainonporn.com About your ex. She will always be a little fucked up. She may find someone…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:10 AM
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I just read your two previous posts. Yes, you are being next level shit tested and controlled because of your previous behavior. She is attempting to bring you down a few notches, tame you, knock you off your high horse, whatever. She WANTS the alpha that you are, to fuck her right. She ALSO wants you to be beta and commit and give her the comfort and security feeelz. But being a woman, she doesn’t understand that Alpha and Beta are nearly mutually exclusive in a man. And I’d venture to guess yo…
/r/askMRP17/06/18 12:21 AM
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So you lost your motivation. It no longer just ‘feels good’ to do all the shit you’re supposed to do. Enter, the grind. What separates the men from the boys is what they do when the ‘motivation’ runs out. Men tap into self-discipline. Self-discipline is an act of the will. So, will you, or won’t you, get your shit together? The mind will do more to avoid pain than it will to seek pleasure. Two suggestions; 1) Youtube Jocko Willink and his treatise on self-discipline. 2) Make a list of all the sh…
/r/askMRP16/06/18 09:43 PM
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Social hobbies? The list can be huge. Using it as a mixer? Indoor? Outdoor? Physical? For older men who are, or are becoming fit, and want to be in the company of fit, like-minded women, I recommend OCR; obstacle course racing. I’m entering at the Spartan level. A few free classes, races run about $100, and a growing presence in social media. About 35% of women are racers, and that number is growing faster than the male rate of participation. Then there are all the classics like dance classes. M…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:41 PM
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No
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:48 AM
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2 weeks. 14 days. 336 hours. Shacking up (engaged to) the bosses’ daughter. (No red flag there?) Want to have a family. When? Reading NMMNG. You enjoy her company and have fun together. BUT.... She’s not a house cleaner. And this is an issue to you, as it should be. YOU are the Captain of your ship and you are currently evaluating a potential FO. On the face of it, they do pretty well, but one critical area needs a fair amount of work. And by this post, I’m guessing you wished she’d just ‘get it…
/r/askMRP16/06/18 03:20 AM
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This. Stop chasing a number on a fucking scale. “Mirror Mirror on the wall, how close am I to being the most bad ass of all?”
/r/askMRP16/06/18 12:36 AM
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Become your own mental point of origin. You’re lonely because all the shit you’re doing is a giant covert contract with the female gender and they aren’t responding. Get on with your business and your life. You won’t even reach your SMV peak in the SMP for another ~13 years. Settle the fuck down. Have you read The Rational Male? If you are struggling to actually get your shit together to become a man other men want to be and other women want to fuck, then read “Declare War on Yourself” by Marc S…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:17 PM
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“I’m starting to feel that a big problem with my relationship lately has been uncommunicated desire.” No. The big problem in your relationship is you are undesirable. There is no dread. There is no competition anxiety. She will up her desire for you when you...up yours. “In spite of my weaknesses and how hard our lives had become with the new baby, I still needed to be loved and touched and desired.” Give me a fucking break. I had two sets of twins, 41 months apart. Don’t you fucking whine about…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 11:02 PM
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Just facing the truth for the first time. After reading The Rational Male, you will begin to understand why women and their hypergamous nature have been subverted for millennia, how feminism has unleashed their dual sexuality in mating, and how The Red Pill has come about to understand it.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:54 PM
1

Did you see the movie, The Matrix?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:17 PM
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You have a ‘story’ that you tell yourself based on your negative upbringing and your negative life experience. That story, unsurprisingly, is negative. The mind actively seeks to follow your story. You need to change your story. You are the result of a self-fulfilling prophecy. You wasted your 20’s? That’s it? I wasted my 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, and half my 50’s. Stop your fucking whining, grow a pair with hair, and fix your shit. Start with The Rational Male. Swallow the Red Pill. Read the sidebar. G…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:56 AM
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I just reread your post. The Rational Male is highly recommended. After you read it the first time you may feel slightly depressed. The truth may set you free, but with freedom comes responsibility. The Red Pill can be one bitter motherfucker. If you’re done with thots and looking for an LTR, read The Tactical Guide to Women, by Shawn Smith. And for fucks sakes, perk the fuck up! It is a great time to be a man, and you are at the perfect age. One year of work and you could be at your peak SMV in…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:10 PM
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Are you married? Why? If you want to be alone between times you fuck a woman, then do that.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 10:28 PM
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Have you read The Rational Male? If not, read it right fucking now. It was written for you. Secondly, learn daygame. Live your life and as you transit through it, approach approach approach. Men who get laid the most, get rejected the most because they approach the most. But first, read The Rational Male. It will put most of your post in perspective for you. You’ll understand when you read it.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:22 PM
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The Rational Male
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:41 AM
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So, you have a relative unicorn on your hands. Do you want to know how to fuck that up? Go read your first paragraph again.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 11:44 AM
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Why do you want to get married, ever?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:28 PM
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In light of the comments already made here, if you move in with her you will deserve EVERY FUCKING THING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU. If in doubt, read The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:19 PM
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Motivation is the temporal feel good emotion when something is shiny and new. So you’ve been there, done that, and the motivation is gone. Now is the time for self discipline. Self discipline is an act of the will. Read “Declare War on Yourself” by Marc Summers. Youtube Jocko Willink and search his vids on self discipline. Pull your head out of your ass before you piss it all away...like I did. Fuck. We need an MRP boot camp where someone can go for two weeks and just simply get their ass kicked…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 08:06 PM
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I’ve just finished my second listen of “Declare War on Yourself,” written and read by Marc Summers. Basic shit, but will definitely knock you out of your rut.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 08:00 PM
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The universe just gave you a gift. Yes, it’s a few days late so there is some disappointment mixed with joy as you open it, but it’s still a gift. Realize a few things; Your next relationship will be RP, from the beginning, without all the fucking baggage this one would drag around, forever. If you get anywhere close to 50% custody, or even 40%, you will be AMAZED at the quality as well as quantity of time you get with your daughter, one to one. It’s fucking precious, and priceless without the b…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:23 AM
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The dumpster fire of my life is nothing compared to the major conflagration presented here, by you. My comment will primarily echo what you have already read, but in a way that hopefully resonates with you. You’re 29, your DF is 23, and you’re shacking up. This is where you read The Rational Male (TRM) and fix your shit. Seriously, if you haven’t read TRM, skip my comment and read TRM instead. If you have read TRM, then read my comment, and then read TRM again because you didn’t learn anything t…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:03 AM
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A MAN peaks in his mid/late 30’s overall. Some even later. THAT is when you date/marry the 25ish woman for the sake of making babies, to create your progeny, NOT your legacy, to take care of you in your old age. Read The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:36 PM
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Catching my wife cheating on me. Catching my wife cheating on me again. Forgive wife. Found RP. Father died. Inheritance imminent. Caught wife cheating, again Oooops!! NEXT!!!! And bonus, she no longer gets the $225,000 I was going to spend just on her. MORE FOR ME!! But fuck me, really, she was pretty good at everything, except for the cheating. No bueno. No mas. And now I’m a free man, with resources ALL MY OWN!!!!
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:45 AM
1

Stop fucking around. “A good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed next week.” ~George S. Patton. Just start.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 12:31 AM
2

Well, is FB the ONLY platform at her disposal? Her hamster may have fallen off the wheel, or maybe it was pushed by DEER and PROJECTION.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 12:21 AM
1

Start here. https://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ This is the cornerstone of the foundation. Everything RP is built off this. Then go to the very fucking beginning of the MRP sidebar and start reading. Click every link, explore every rabbit hole. Nobody gets everything the first time they read it, unless they are an idiot-savant, in which case they probably won’t need MRP anyway. The average person reads at the rate of 220wpm and retains 7-10% of what they …
/r/askMRP09/06/18 12:17 AM
1

Ok. So your wife had a shitty start in life and she’s a bit fucked up about it. Usually that’s a reflection of you, but in this case, maybe not. So that concludes the discussion of the wife. How about you? Reddit 7 years. Moderately healthy subs for enjoyment and seeking information, but this is your first foray into RP in at least 3 years. You are responsible for the container your wife fills in a marriage, and she is often a reflection, or negative(opposite) of you. So where are YOU in this pr…
/r/askMRP08/06/18 11:33 PM
1

“Is it possible to reform a LTR?” No. It is possible for you to improve yourself, for yourself, and anecdotally experience a rise in SMV, which may or may not bring her along. Sounds like you have relatively low SMV and some asshole tendencies, as in a pussy full of shit. Break up, fix yourself, re-enter the SMP with your new, higher SMV, and slay. You’re welcome.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 05:11 PM
3

Your ability and willingness to be alone gives you abundance in EVERY relationship in your life. Think about it...
/r/askTRP08/06/18 05:02 PM
3

OMG Yes! The ultimate tool to enslave men.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 11:36 PM
1

The trick to leading a horse to water and making him drink is to first make him thirsty, and then show him where the water hole is.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 11:35 PM
3

Yes. You need to downplay the money. My father passed. Then I found out my wife was still cheating on me. Now I’m getting a fuckton of money and she is doing everything she can to get me to stop the divorce. Women want AF or BB. If you’re not both, she’ll settle for the money. Be very careful of hysterical bonding. All women are whores. She will fuck your brains out and drain you dry... for money.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:52 PM
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You are looking for her desire as an AF. You slipped into betadom and she may see you as a giant ATM machine now. You need to minimize, AA, and AM the money.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:45 PM
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I’m in the same position, but my divorce is imminent. IF YOU DO NOT SEE AN ATTORNEY ASAP YOU DESERVE TO LOSE THE FUCKING MONEY. Own your shit. And I’ve read many of your posts. Your ability to sincerely fix your marriage just dropped. Good luck with that.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:04 PM
1

Might be your poor choice of venues. You’re in bars where it’s all about peacocking and amogging? Can you think of ANY other venue to meet women in? Where peacocking and amogging are not the norm?
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:09 AM
1

As long as your honest and it’s from the heart, the receiver understands the message. Unless the receiver is a woman. DOH!
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:34 AM
1

You have mentioned several times you are lean and skinny. There are several gradations between where you are and what a full bodybuilder is. Some studies suggest women like to look at them, but not fuck them. My suggestion is you pack on enough muscle to where you no longer describe yourself as lean and skinny. Like go from what a marathon runner looks like, to more what a sprinter looks like. Your mind is still smart. You’re not losing it. You are experiencing what is known as ‘brain fog’, brou…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 02:33 AM
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Negative self talk is a script your mind writes to keep you lazy and comfortable. Rewrite the script. Google ‘personal creed’ and write a positive script that you say to yourself every time you start to go negative in your thinking. It’s self talk. It’s powerful. Take control of it.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:35 PM
1

Google, ‘questions women like to answer.’ Get THEM talking, because chances are, YOU will talk them right out of liking you, given the chance.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:01 PM
1

I didn’t talk to my father for almost 20 years. I saw him for the first time in decades on Labor Day, 2017. He died 9 weeks later. I’m glad I told him I loved him.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:27 PM
2

And yet, she has no trouble ‘kissing ‘ guys she just met
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:32 PM
2

So, what you are really saying here is that you have no worth as an individual man. Your worth, your masculinity, needs the validation of a woman in order for you to feel good about yourself, because you don’t feel good about yourself all on your own. You need to become your own mental point of origin. You need to learn to be happy, content, and complete all on your own. You need to figure this shit out before your NEXT girlfriend NEXTS you, again. Because you are not secure, proud, and happy wi…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:02 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=alpha+m https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=rmrs https://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/04/16/how-to-build-a-manly-wardrobe-1/ https://m.youtube.com/results?search_query=ashley+weston
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:47 AM
3

Enjoy your turn, however long it lasts. Trust is earned, continually. Trust can be broken. There are NO guarantees.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:02 AM
1

It’s been 48 days since your OP. How many of those 6 books have you read? Have you read any, more than once? Did you study them on an academic level? Or just read through them recreationally? For example, I have read The Rational Male 4x in the last year. I’m having a slow day in my favorite sports bar. I will comment on your post to lay the foundation for the explanation of my comment and add to it just a bit. “I don’t consider myself Alpha Male or Red Pill and it needs to change as that is whe…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:12 AM
1

Please look up the stats. Only 30% of divorces are started by men. She’s not irking him, she is gaming a system designed to separate a man from his children and his assets.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:22 AM
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70% of all women that initiate divorces say so. The odds are against you. Do unicorns exist? Yes. But you won’t know that because, SHOCKER, women are (mostly) people, too; subject to change at any time, without notice, any direction they please. Your whore might become a unicorn. Or your unicorn may, as another commenter said, take roughly half your shit, fuck someone else, and teach your children to hate you.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:09 AM
1

NEXT! And if you can’t, find out why YOU’RE fucked up.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:59 AM
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My answer to your question is.. Yes, I do. Your faith is shit. Your entire post says, “I believe in the GOD of the universe, but even HE can’t find a worthy woman for me in this Tsunami of feminism.” Oh ye of little faith. Paul said it is better to marry than to burn (with passion?). I swallowed the pill almost a year ago. This is what I tell my 5 sons.. Nothing gets better with marriage. Absolutely nothing. There is only one legitimate reason to marry. When you DO get married, that becomes your…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:47 PM
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Here’s some motivation for you. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LQNFWnwxCzM Also, check into using kettlebells as therapy using ballistic exercises while strengthening tendons, muscles, and connective tissues.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 10:20 PM
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Welcome to ASKMRP. You asked two questions. 1) is this a victim puke? Yes. 2) will this help get it out? Well, did it? Women TALK. Men DO. You’re done talking. Your shit is poetic, floating, mindless drivel, like the ramblings of a drunken 20yo girl on a Saturday night. Get your shit together. Reading this post all the way through was painful. Yes, you are fucked. Yes, your marriage is fucked. Yes, your wife is fucked. You can only fix one. After that post I don’t have the energy to go into my u…
/r/askMRP29/05/18 07:00 PM
3

🍿 Don’t forget the 🍿
/r/askMRP29/05/18 06:47 PM
3

You need to download or purchase a hard copy of this right fucking now: “Declare War on Yourself” by Marc Summers. Read it and get your shit together. That’s all the help you need. If that book doesn’t get you started and give you an absolute blueprint for success, then yes, what you have right now is all you will ever get. Following is your ass-kicking. Reading optional. You arrogant, insolent, whining little fuck. I found TRP six months before you. I’ve spent more time married than you have be…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:07 PM
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After my first divorce, my 13yo daughter was on her way to being a carbon copy of her biological birth unit, a harpy, bitchy little cunt. I had to shut that shit down. I raised my voice a couple times, I might have used a few well-timed expletives, and she is a different person now. I receive accolades from her friends and teachers who tell me my daughter says I am the coolest Dad on the planet. TRP: for ALL women in all stages of all ages.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/18 08:32 PM
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Fuck. Yeah. Okay, I get it. I’m getting divorced. My soon to be ex-wife knows ALL my fucked up shit about me. I’m divorcing her because she cheated on me. We are Russia and America during the Cold War. We are cordial, polite, and have both hinted at what amounts to mutually assured destruction if one lets an information missile fly in our church or social circles. Not exactly the same, except this: The man I am becoming, and have always presented myself to be, is completely incongruent with what…
/r/askMRP26/05/18 02:38 AM
1

Who does Mark Zuckerberg work for? Who did John Rockefeller work for? Who did Donald Trump work for? Who did Steve Jobs work work? Who did Walt Disney work for? The list goes on and on and on. You have skills, talents, experience, and intelligence. Now all you need is the drive and ambition to do for yourself what you so willingly do for others. I’ve worked at my job for 28+ years. And I lament that if I had worked half as hard for myself as I have for them, I’d probably be a multimillionaire. I…
/r/askMRP26/05/18 02:18 AM
1

Desperation. Lack of abundance. Oneitis
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:57 PM
1

Desperation. Lack of abundance. Oneitis
/r/askMRP25/05/18 11:54 AM
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Thank you for making my point.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 12:03 AM
1

life insurance... with a RIDER!!
/r/askMRP25/05/18 12:02 AM
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I’ll save you my rant on marriage. I don’t know why, maybe I’m just tired. Fuck man, I sure hope you dodge this bullet. You are like that asshole standing next to an Iraqi munitions bunker in 1991, looking at something through his binoculars that is dark and getting bigger, but not seemingly moving. Fuck. 30yo and already ‘settling down.’ Think about that. You. Settle. Down. I hate to lose one like this. Let me know if ANYTHING I say in a rant would keep you from making the BIGGEST FUCKING MISTA…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 11:57 PM
3

That’s okay, when he puts some weight on again and she is running more than the social activities, she won’t remember her vows either.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 11:49 PM
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Are you doing the right thing or not? If you were alone raising your 7yo, how would your behavior be different? Do that. You are reacting/responding to her irrational behavior by adjusting and calibrating your behavior in an effort to get her to change her behavior. Are you keeping up with this so far? Look, I’m getting fucking sick and tired of reading about men, grown fucking men, that get run by a (non) fucking woman. Fuck that shit. Put her BPD ass in the dinghy. Let the 1000’ rope play out.…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 11:45 PM
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I use Reddit exclusively on my mobile. At the top of my mobile screen is something that looks like a magnifying glass. I typed in ‘mateguarding’ and ‘setting boundaries’ both here and in MRP and found scores of results. You are challenging and even deering some of the responses here, understandably so since your foundation is weak, your understanding limited, and you don’t like what you are reading. Educate yourself. My wife said she should be allowed to go out for a drink with another man after…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 11:31 PM
2

Both. You are drowning. We are throwing you a life ring. You actually have to grab that motherfucker.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:04 PM
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OUTfuckingSTANDING! You should be this months poster boy for MRP, and I’d personally nominate you for MRP man of the quarter. If you want to test your OI, mental point of origin, and where you truly stand on on covert contracts, just ask. You can PM me if you like. But all in all, it sounds like it’s working for you, mostly because YOU are working IT. Congratulations.
/r/askMRP23/05/18 11:53 AM
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Yes and no. It’s not BP so much as it is simply wrong to think that the love from a woman is something more intimate/personal. The ONLY exception I see is the love from your own mother. For most of us, that is a complete love that we will never experience again. We go into our LTRs and marriages looking for it from our SO, and we are continually disappointed. This seriously needs to be explained to men by their fathers, but too few fathers are real men. I have failed in many ways, but I’m fixing…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 03:02 AM
1

I just reread this entire OP and thread. Is it possible your wife is simply broken?
/r/askMRP22/05/18 10:03 PM
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MRP is a toolkit. Some of the tools work on cars. Some on appliances. Don’t pick a pair of vice grips to twist a screw into the wall to hang a picture. Just because you own a hammer does not mean every problem is a nail. Your challenge is to continue to raise your SMV while employing the right tools to work dread. So yeah, physically leaving the house that triggers her PTSD for days may not be the right option. Maybe going into another room or outside to work on the yard or maintain the car woul…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 09:27 PM
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Romantic love from men has indirectly served the feminine imperative for hundreds of years, and directly served the gynocracy for decades. Love is no more than a chemical process in the brain and can be traced to the endorphins like oxytocin, vasopressin, and dopamine that all lead to the feelings of ‘love.’ Understanding this supports hypergamy. When you (in general) act like a masculine man with Outcome Independence and as your own mental point of origin, then it supports your own masculinity …
/r/askMRP22/05/18 09:14 PM
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From the perspective of a faceless, nameless, internet stranger, things like PTSD, depression, menopause, etc., only means your game has to be that much tighter and better to overcome the obstacle. Do the best you can to treat her ‘normal,” without being placating or condescending. Those are ‘weak’ markers.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 08:33 PM
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The feminine imperative is alive and well as manifested through the gynocracy. We see it in our schools, churches, media of all kinds, and in work in the Human Resources department. For all of the reasons YOU listed as benefits of legal prostitution, why WOULD they ever allow it? And you hit on a point for the elite that enslave us; between porn and video games, what % of the male population now lives to work, to support their video game and open habits? Subjugation of the masses is what allows …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:46 PM
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“Lighten up, PUSSY.” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0OnpkDWbeJs This keyboard warrior divorced a cunt bitch with four kids and got custody of two of them. Along the way I’ve buried both my parents, one of my sons, and am now divorcing my second wife because she is a lying, cheating whore. So if you don’t want my advice, filter it and fuck off. Your preselection criteria will limit the overall quality and quantity of advice that you get. Don’t be the asshole (pussy full of shit) who shows up to a …
/r/askMRP20/05/18 10:51 PM
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If you engage with this woman in any way beyond what would be considered ‘reasonable’ in a court of law for the sake of parenting your child, and you will DESERVE EVERY FUCKING THING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU. She is a lying cunt whore, like most of them, and whether you fuck her or not; never, ever forget her objectives: 1) Separate you from your hot wife 2) Separate you from your money. NEVER, EVER, NEGOTIATE WITH TERRORISTS. First, TAKE CONTROL of this situation and keep the wife INFORMED. Do NOT g…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 09:26 PM
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Men have been trying to turn lead into gold for a long time. Remove 3 protons (~4%) from lead and you have gold. The problem is that they have been using chemical processes to induce this change, when protons are electrical in nature. They have figured out how to split an atom, and when they do, really bad shit happens. The next step would be to figure out how to ‘shave’ 3 protons off an atom of lead to create an atom of gold. The fuck of it is, that will probably happen before he can ever let h…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 09:00 PM
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Copy and paste your OP, or print it out. Delete or line through every thing you think, feel, lament, and every reference to every other person in your post. Get it down to what you are doing today, not in the past. Just what you are doing right now, for you. That’s your baseline. I’ll bet you spend 90% of your energy on your external life on the past and what is outside your circle of influence, and 10% on what is actually you. Here’s the point. Get selfish, develop YOURSELF, GROW, and when you …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:22 PM
1

“I was wondering if this always works.” Yes, it always does. At the end of the day, or beginning depending on your perspective, MRP is a sexual strategy based on improvement of the mind and the body. As you improve and work up the levels of dread to awesome, if your wife isn’t fucking you, someone else will.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 12:42 AM
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What was your weight 13 years ago? What was the difference in your relative SMV then? Was the sex any better than it is now? She doesn’t swallow? No anal? You picked some pretty small fuckin’ hills to die on. You diet to lose weight, exercise to look great, and sidebar to fix everything else. “Anger phase, does it ever leave?” Yes, mostly, when you GROW the fuck out of it. ANGER: a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility. So your feefees are out of whack. You can search the anger …
/r/askMRP19/05/18 12:07 AM
1

I’m going for a Chris Farley delivery.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 12:52 PM
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Actually, I feel more like Chris Farley as I type.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 03:12 AM
2

Ok, THATS IT! Scwew you guys I’m gaoin haimm
/r/askMRP16/05/18 02:30 AM
2

Cartman... Fucking hilarious
/r/askMRP15/05/18 10:14 PM
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Wow. I mean....WOW! I had to read your post twice to be sure I didn’t miss any subtlety, nuance, sarcasm, pun, etc. Then I worked the rest of the day, thinking about you and your post, and now, at dinner, I’m left with just one question for you... WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!! This is where men come when their LTR/Marriage has declined to the point you are at right now. I mean, you’re the asshole who sees black smoke coming out of the hood and says, “Now’s a good time to take this fucker …
/r/askMRP15/05/18 12:15 AM
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I never doubted you.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 11:34 PM
2

Yeah. Only... I don’t wear a tie. 😝
/r/askMRP14/05/18 08:13 PM
2

Unless you specifically like glass in your dick, I suggest you remove it, and the rest of you, from her glass case (frame). Learn the lesson and move the fuck on before you get... Glass in your dick. Look, there are about a billion women available to you. If you banged a different one every day it would take you, like, 2.7 million fucking years to get through them all. She’s not one IN a million, she’s one OF a million. Oneitis is a cancer of the mind that must be terminated and eradicated with …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:25 AM
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And just for the record, what is your new favorite brand of condom, since the last one failed you? It would be easy to pull your head out of your ass, but you have to pull it out of HER ass first. Look... MRP builds the man, not the woman or the relationship. Whether you want to stay with this one, or another, the work is exactly the same. Women respond to masculinity. Shitty women, broken women, feminist women, they have all been biologically programmed for millennia to respond to masculinity. …
/r/askMRP14/05/18 01:19 AM
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Motherfucker I may be.. But the mother I fuck Doesn’t belong to Meeeee. And I gave up fucking bad mother’s. Next month is... Happy MotherFuckers Day.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:36 PM
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Including you
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:34 PM
1

Blue Pill me would say, no. Wait. Red Pill me says, ... Fuck YES
/r/askMRP12/05/18 10:16 PM
2

Look up Iron Rule of Tomassi #7. Memorize it.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:16 AM
8

Concrete dildo? Really? Do I get to pick the insertion point? Look, you have/are REALLY FUCKED UP. None of that matters anymore because it’s in the past and you can’t change it. All you can do now is mitigate the circumstances, change the course of your life and become a fucking man. A man that fucks. Your new mantra is that you want to become a man that other men want to be, and other women want to fuck. (You will see this again in your reading) Sounds like you went to the sidebar, cherry picke…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 11:55 PM
1

Stop talking like a bitch and start acting like a man. Become a man other men want to be, and other women want to fuck
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:07 PM
2

Bingo. The plugged in don’t understand they even need help.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:15 AM
1

Graham? Baby? You are 38 years old. A father, husband, and a male, trying to become a man. OPSEC. Google it. Even better, search for it here, in MRP, and TRP. You will find scores of relatable posts with advice. In the meantime, stop posting. You have posted more in 8 days than I have in a year. SHUT THE FUCK UP. Stop typing, start reading, and FOCUS.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 01:06 AM
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It is rare that I read a story about a man where he is so directly responsible for fucking up his life, and the lives of so many others. In your case, you’re fucking over four people, including yourself. At this point I usually go into a mini tirade, tell you how fucked you are, how fucked up your wife and marriage are, and what a loser beta cock-sucking faggot you are. But I’m tired so I won’t do that, now. You seem to have a pretty good grasp of how much you have fucked up. That’s the bad news…
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:55 AM
1

What is your favorite brand of condoms now?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:37 PM
1

I see MRP as a sexual strategy that uses the sidebar of self-improvement as the vehicle. It’s basic, man-shit 101 that allows a blue pill beta to unplug from his life, and then plug back into it as a growing red pill alpha. When one falters, they only need to reach out to the sidebar, the community here, or both, to help them on their way again. My read is that you are looking for a specific, long term MRP lifestyle beyond the basics. That would take away from the effectiveness of the basic prem…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 01:32 AM
1

My son’s unit had a 26% attrition rate. From fucking BASIC! 3 attempted suicides. All unsuccessful. One bitch jumped off a 30’ tower. Knocked her sorry ass unconscious. That’s all. I’m thinking they should have sent her ass straight to Airborne
/r/askMRP06/05/18 06:24 PM
2

Yep. When I was Navy, the Chief ALWAYS found a way to motivate you. Nobody was allowed to just, QUIT.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 03:12 PM
3

Passive aggressive is aggressiveness that is weak. We are aggressive. u/Triadis3 covered the locker room analogy. Men end up here because they are in a catatonic state: non-responsive to life. They end up in the ER, and hooked up to a defibrillator. You think jumpstarting the heart is passive aggressive? What about when that doesn’t work? They crack your sternum open, use a chest spreader, and work directly on the heart. Is that passive aggressive? My son finished Army OSUT training. Basically 4…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 03:00 PM
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Fuck. After that response I’d let you snap my nuts with a towel. Great response.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 02:36 PM
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I’m thinking....threesome!
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:47 AM
5

OP, you are living this shit right now. The post it would take to tell us everything about all of this wouldn’t fit here and most of us wouldn’t read it. You’ve been around TRP for four YEARS, and have read the ENTIRE sidebar once, and parts of it multiple times. It might be fun to know what drove you to MRP. So you understand dread, lift, read, and STFU. From Rollo T you’ve learned about hypergamy, inter gender and intersexual dynamics. You learned about her emotional state from David Deida. Yo…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 12:16 AM
2

Why are you getting married? What do you expect to improve with marriage?
/r/askMRP04/05/18 12:57 PM
1

Read The Rational Male, by Rollo Tomassi, right now. If you already have read it, you forgot it. Read it again.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:58 PM
1

I didn’t read the magic word in your reply. Without it, you will fail.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:22 AM
2

Well, your reply shows you’ve actually though about this shit and you’re NOT giving up. Good. Let’s go back and put your existence in perspective. You were created, farmed, and harvested to serve the gynocracy through the feminine imperative. From the nurses in the hospital, to your mother, all your female relatives, all your female teachers, almost all of the male counterparts, the media, social media, movies, literature, and even the music you listen to, have contributed to creating the beta c…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:16 AM
3

Stick to the path.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 03:03 PM
0

Probably. And the OI that OP desires means it doesn’t matter, because the work he does is for him, because of him. She comes, she goes. Frankly, in less than a year he will KNOW he is better off without her.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 03:02 PM
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OP, this is the cycle of your life, you should embrace it, because it is a reflection of you. Your wife of one year, with PTSD, ~60lbs overweight?, low libido (dry honeymoon?), is quite aptly filling the container of marriage you have provided for her. You have been in askMRP for over a year. Near as I can tell, you haven’t read the sidebar, aren’t working any dread, and instead of using this program that works, you reach in here once in awhile looking for a band-aid to your problems. Please cor…
/r/askMRP02/05/18 02:25 AM
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Well, you left out a few special nuggets. Based on those, I have the following to offer; You’re fucked. Your life is fucked. Your wife is fucked. Your marriage is fucked. Now, let’s review. Your wife is diagnosed BPD. She has had at least one known affair during a manic episode, and you suspect at least one more. You are a cuck. You hold your dick in one hand and a controller in the other while you play CoD BO3. You have been married almost 7 years but together 9-10? And a drunk captain for at l…
/r/askMRP02/05/18 01:27 AM
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I’m about to be comfortably wealthy. Inheritance. In one day, I will receive enough money to turn each one of my children into millionaires, buy a new car, a new Harley, a boat, a small plane, and a nice house. Amongst the leftover will be $75,000 that I could use for a body lift, a new grill, and make my cock bigger. I’m getting divorced, (so yeah, the soon to be ex-wife doesn’t get shit. She should have stuck with Mr Dependable instead of gone with Mr Exciting. Ooops...the branch broke!! I’ll …
/r/askMRP02/05/18 12:32 AM
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And that is exactly my thought. How fucked up will he feel if he gets his shit fixed and STILL feeeelz fucked up?
/r/askMRP01/05/18 11:02 PM
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Oh. My. God. I wasn’t going to post until I read the update that you are in a blended family. I did this. And I’m divorcing her now. DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!! If you do, then you deserve EVERYTHING that happens to you for the NEXT 20 years. She’s cooking, cleaning, fucking, being submissive... BECAUSE... she knows she fucked up. And now she has to lock you down AGAIN. She has her exit already planned. You saw her heart before the wedding. She is INVESTED in you. She has fucked you and hooked you…
/r/askMRP30/04/18 10:38 PM
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Hey, if your 9mm gets you laid more than his muscles.....
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:20 PM
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A word of caution, if you truly read it, it will depress you. Much like how Neo felt after he swallowed the red pill, unplugged, and found himself throwing up on the deck of the Nebuchadnezzar. And remember these three things; 1) Internalizing The Rational Male will almost certainly save you way more than $10,000 in dealing with the wrong women in your life. The wrong women in my life has cost me 22 years of my life and $1,300,000. 2) The truth will set you free, but that doesn’t mean it will be…
/r/askMRP29/04/18 03:32 AM
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IMO, the benchmark for sex in an LTR/marriage is in the beginning of the relationship when the newness, passion, desire, and competition anxiety are all at their highest. If you intend to get more sex now than you did then, that sir, would make for a very fine and unique FR indeed. Your only hope is to become hawter and more alpha than you EVER were with her and give her tingles she’s NEVER felt before. You married a low-sex woman. You’ve already gotten her best. Only the very best in you will h…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 03:23 AM
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She has her shit and you have your shit. The kids are in the middle. Next time she plans to leave the house and your on-time departure depends on her timely return, tell her she needs to schedule the babysitter in advance. You can’t and don’t trust her to be on time. If the babysitter shows up and your wife is there, pay the sitter for two hours and send her home. Best part, pay the sitter out of HER budgeted money. Tell her on time 5x in a row and she can stop scheduling a sitter. Source; my fi…
/r/askMRP29/04/18 03:04 AM
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The ONLY reason to get married is to have children. And that has NOTHING to do with your legacy. Fuck your legacy. If your last name isn’t Rockefeller or Vanderbilt, you don’t have a legacy. For example, you have 8 GREAT grandparents. Probably all dead. How many can you name? BOOM! Legacy dead in four generations. And their genetic material has been diluted more than 90%. All explained in The Rational Male. Now, why kids? They are, and always will be, your flesh and blood. You can fuck your wife…
/r/askMRP29/04/18 12:37 AM
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My only question for you is, the improvements and changes you have made in yourself, for yourself; do they create a successful, clear vision for you in your next relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 11:23 PM
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I disagree. He is owning his shit, using the applicable tools, demonstrating awareness of the process, not invested with oneitis. He understands his personal boundaries, has defined what’s important to him, and from that perspective, is operating in his own frame. His wife remaining a piece of shit throughout this problem does not make him a MRP failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 11:13 PM
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In my world, I am the reason for her behavior. But I will always hold her accountable for that same behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 11:06 PM
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A nice beach in a big college town. Go there.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/18 11:03 PM
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There is one, and only one reason to get married. And as soon as there is a good way around that, there will be far fewer marriages in Western society. Nothing gets better when you get married. NOTHING. Not sex. Not money. Not love. Not passion. Not loyalty, fidelity, or whatever your expectation of monogamy is. Sources; r/deadbedrooms r/divorce r/adultery The divorce rate cited by the census bureau. Read The Rational Male. If you still want to get married after that, go ahead. But before you co…
/r/askMRP28/04/18 09:36 PM
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56 years old. Found TRP formally about 11 months ago. Entering monk mode as I go through my second divorce. Almost over. At 34, you are not even at your peak for another 3-4 years according to Rollo Tomassi. Do not regret one single second of your past. You have more life ahead of you than behind you. Be fucking grateful. I HIGHLY recommend The Rational Male, by Rollo Tomassi. And also his second tome, Preventative Medicine. The Red Pill is tough to swallow, it’s bitter, but it is most definitel…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 09:33 PM
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Finish it? Depressed? Good. The truth will set you free. Nobody said it would make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, or that it wouldn’t hurt. Listen to it again. His second book, “Preventative Medicine,” is a bit more hopeful, but not by much. The truth is a bitch. That’s why we’ve avoided it so long.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 01:26 AM
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Thank you for making me feel better about myself. Like most, I have low moments when I feel down, even a bit depressed, and then I read something like what you wrote because, NOT ON MY WORST FUCKING DAY, EVER!!! Listen up you useless, worthless, piece of fucking shit. You are in your early forties? You have a daughter? Your wife is mid/late 20’s? Fuck. You talk too much. You think too much. You wrote too much. And you... DO TOO FUCKING LITTLE. I wish my life was as fucked up and simple to fix as…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 01:27 AM
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It’s a life phase. And, what if it was a gift? Lost interest in women? Become interested in yourself. Mind. Body. Spirit. Are you the man of YOUR dreams? Are you everything YOU want to be? In all of your interactions with women, what is the greatest common denominator? You. Now, figure out what you SHOULD be doing instead of mental masturbation on dating apps. Time to swipe right on your life. It’s a gift. Accept it.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 11:54 AM
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Thank you for your reply. What I got out of it is this... What I am doing now in self improvement is not the goal, but merely the path I am taking to get to where I want to be, achieving greater things. Reminds me of that scene with Yoda and Luke in the swamp with the sunken X-wing fighter. The goal wasn’t to levitate the fighter, but to do it so the developed skill would lead to doing greater things. Thank you for your condolences. Life has kicked me in the nuts every year for five straight yea…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 08:36 AM
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“Self improvement is mental masturbation.” I’m divorcing my cheating wife. I’m about to inherit a fuck-ton of money. I’m in a massive, monk-mode, self improvement phase of 8-12 months. Would you explain the masturbation part to me?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 03:12 AM
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And, upon reflection, sex as a byproduct of self improvement appeals to me. I’ll stay. MMA looks a bit beyond my 56 years. What do you think of Krav Maga?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 09:31 PM
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I started reading this and by sentence three I thought, “I’d better get the popcorn and extra butter ready because this guy is going to feel like a princess after an afternoon in a prison yard.” Before I got to the end I was laughing so hard I couldn’t see the text. Awesome
/r/askMRP21/04/18 12:19 PM
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I respectfully agree to disagree agreeably. More specifically, I got here because of my wife’s affair(s?), but I have stayed for the structure of the self-improvement. I’ve never had a dead bedroom, and I can see clearly how this is a sexual strategy, but it has been awesome for me as a map to masculinity.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/18 03:27 AM
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You’ll know you are getting closer to internalizing all this shit and becoming self actualized with it, when you can write a post about YOU that does not mention HER or your marriage.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 02:56 AM
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Have you ever heard the expression, “Men are like microwaves, and women are like ovens”? If you want instant, transactional sex; hire a hooker. FFS. Do you kino throughout the day? Do you engage her emotions? Do you game your wife? Does she feel any competition anxiety? Does she find you attractive? Do you give her tingles, when you’re NOT around? Married sex is way harder than single sex. If you want to put it in the pussy, you’ll have to put something in the kitty, first. She’s not a fuckdoll.…
/r/askMRP21/04/18 02:34 AM
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There are 3+Billion women on the planet. If you dated a different woman every DAY for the next 60 years, you’d only meet ~22,000. That’s .000007% Your vetting process sucks. Your thought process sucks. You suck. I can’t speak to your culture, and that will have SOME effect on a woman, but learn this lesson well, ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. So, what to do? Mitigate the circumstances. My oldest son is on his way to the US ARMY RANGERS. I’m ex-military. I gave my son a pocket Bible and wrote MY Ten Co…
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:57 PM
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I can’t recommend becoming a fat fuck. But it is another example of how low the ‘bar’ is.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:42 PM
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re•sent•ment (noun) bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly. So you want to run with that? Or maybe pick a better word? How about some details? Have you been treated unfairly? What does she do that you resent? Short story... You: “Hey doc. It really hurts.” docMRP: “Where exactly does it hurt?” You: “I dunno, it just hurts. What do you think?” I think your answers are going to reflect the level of investment and detail in your OP. Not much to nothing. So... Try again.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:26 PM
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Cool. Great addition to your original post. You’re buff. You bank. And you can boss your wife around. So Alpha on the outside, BETA on the inside. STFU. Literally, don’t argue with or defend yourself from comments here. You want to hear it all. The sidebar is touted because your thought process is beta. Period. She doesn’t care, hypergamy doesn’t care, about your accomplishments. She KNOWS you, so your current body, your Ducati, and your bank doesn’t mean SHIT to her. You’re not giving her the t…
/r/askMRP20/04/18 06:11 PM
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That’s good, right? I just read all your shit. Good work.
/r/askMRP18/04/18 01:08 AM
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As a sign of solidarity, and because I haven’t listened to it since I left my wife, I’m listening to it again this week as well. I hope your primary takeaway is that you need to listen to it again! This is my fourth time through
/r/askMRP18/04/18 12:51 AM
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I just checked out wherehaveallthegoodmengone. Wild shit. Thanks for the upvote
/r/askMRP18/04/18 12:49 AM
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And when they do have to lead, they get bitter, resentful, and turn into harpy, shit-testing bitches.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 05:46 PM
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I’m nearly twice your age and going through my second divorce. I swallowed TRP 10 months ago. First wife was a blue pill disaster. Second wife started cheating on me when I got depressed after the third time life kicked me in the nuts. Blue pill me FORGAVE her the cheating and lying. And she KEPT DOING IT. Red Pill me found out she was still lying and cheating and....I pulled the plug. Look, the trust is gone. This will eat at you, forever. Now let’s back up and talk about you. You’re 29? Shacki…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:42 PM
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Youtube is your friend. Explanations with visuals from men and women. Educate yourself.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:08 PM
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Look man, I know you’re hurting. I get it, I really do. When I divorced my first wife I had two 11 year olds and two 8 year olds. One of the 8 year olds is a girl. She is 17 now and she tells me I am the coolest Dad ever. I have been redpilling her for 10 months. She is far better for the divorce, and all three say as much. IF you get your shit together and man the fuck up, you will look back on this time in your life as the best thing that has ever happened to you. My current wife cheated on me…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:02 PM
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No, they aren’t mutually exclusive, but they are not inter-dependent, either.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 01:50 AM
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Outside of sex, women want commitment and men want loyalty. And men want loyalty WITH sex. Destroy the loyalty and the sex almost never makes up for it. In other words, if you are getting it 5x a week, why do you care if another guy gets it 1x a week from her? Because of loyalty.... and trust. And here’s where I am going with this... You have one question to answer. You alluded to it in your OP and several times in your comments. That question is... Can you ever trust her again? If yes, then wor…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 11:56 PM
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Maybe, just maaaayyyybe, your girlfriend, your SO, that special someone in your life, wanted, I dunno, a special invitation, even first? You treated her like one of the gang, so she acted like one of the gang. Shocker. Leave it alone. You fucked it up. Live with the results. Party like a rockstar!
/r/askMRP14/04/18 10:37 PM
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That’s some cringey shit you wrote right here. I mean....fuck. Discovered TRP too late in life? Too late for what? You’ve been around for a year, but missed one of the cornerstones of TRP? Is that even possible? I mean, have you read more than 1 minute a day for a year? Even that would be six hours of reading. Ten minutes a day would be 60 hours of reading and yet you missed this IMPORTANT little nugget.... TRP DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOUR WIFE OR YOUR MARRIAGE. Specifically, here at MRP, all…
/r/askMRP13/04/18 01:47 AM
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You’re 40. I’m 56. Your age doesn’t mean shit. My mountain is a lot taller than yours. Start climbing. The bottom line is, do you want to become the man your wife, and other women want to fuck, or not? Ironically, if you try to become a man to get laid, you will fail. You are your wife’s problem. You are your problem. You are the reason your marriage is failing. You are the reason she moved out of the bedroom. Unless and until you kill your ego and take responsibility for being less than a man, …
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:35 AM
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Her behavior has already told you what the fuck her problem is. Ironically, you both have the same problem... YOU. You are a firefighter. You are in good/great shape. And yet, YOU are the fucking problem, or at least the problem with fucking, between you and your wife. This shit works, it really does. But until you kill your fucking EGO and truly embrace the praxeology here, you’re going to continue to focus on what you see in the mirror and between the sheets, and, well, FAIL. How’s that workin…
/r/askMRP11/04/18 01:21 AM
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I AMOST completely agree with you. Those men aren’t over-invested, they are... AFRAID. Why? Because they have nothing going on themselves and lack the confidence to actually man the fuck up and be responsible for their own shit. I divorced my first wife because she is a useless piece of shit. I am divorcing my second wife because she is a liar and a cheater. Ironically, I forgave the cheating on blue pill me. But she continued to lie to Red Pill me. Bye-bye
/r/askMRP06/04/18 08:42 PM
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“ two kids is not a lot of work for a minimally confident person.” Amen. I worked 60 hours a week so my new wife in a blended family of seven children could remain part time at 24 hours a week. She rode herd on seven children, 6 of them boys, and the house was ALWAYS ready to receive company. Two 9 year olds, Four 11 year olds, and one 13 year old. We worked that shit out, and the few times she faltered I said, “No problem. I’ll stop working overtime, you get a full time job, and I’ll pick up th…
/r/askMRP06/04/18 08:36 PM
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I’m late to the party and I’m not reading 118 comments before I make mine. I have 6 boys and a girl. My girl is 17. I talked to them all, early and often. The boy side was easy. Matter of fact, to the point, direct, honest, ask followup questions to ensure their understanding. My daughter tells her teachers I am the wisest man she knows. One of her teachers told me so. She tells her friends we can talk about ANYTHING, and it’s true. Periods, pads or tampons, crushes, dating, sex, what to expect,…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 12:49 AM
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Your problem is you’re studying for the test. You only care about the score; not really learning anything you can apply anywhere else besides the test. You were on point in the gym for two years because you got results you can see. Great. A 3 year old wipes his ass and announces he can do it himself and that’s seen as cute. A 13 year old does the same thing, and nobody cares. So here you are in the locker room of your life. You’re buff, you’re tuff, and you wear your diapers low. But you will ne…
/r/askMRP05/04/18 08:29 PM
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Have her tested for menopause. Some of them go batshit crazy. Full blood work-up. No, it’s not an excuse. But a potential reason and will give you the impetus to lay down the law. After that shit show I’d announce you are the proud new owner of a Burger King franchise and from now on you are having it your way, or she can GTFO. And for the record, if YOU had behaved that way toward her, YOU would be in jail while she was seizing and liquidating your assets. Life is too short. I held onto the fir…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 01:36 AM
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Ok BasicIdiotGuy, here’s the deal. In the ocean of your life, you are drowning. The Captain of the ship jumped overboard. Now your stomach is full of water, you’re starting to aspirate water, and it looks like another wave is about to crash down on you. Those of us on shore have seen this shit before and we’ve thrown you a life ring(MRP). All you have to do is quit trying to learn how to swim while you’re drowning and grab the fucking life ring. Trust us. Memorize the levels of dread and follow …
/r/askMRP01/03/18 05:08 PM
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You’re wasting time not doing both! Embracing MRP is not an option unless you plan to give up totally and go MGTOW. In that case, go away and don’t come back. You still here? Then commit to the program. Completely. Or you will fail. Completely.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 04:39 PM
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You cannot out-exercise a bad diet.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 04:01 PM
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My wife started hanging out with her divorced friends. She is now becoming my ex wife. Look into that shit. Not to mateguard, just don’t become a cuck and stick your manhood into a poisoned well.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:14 PM
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Amen. OP, what you are doing building and framing yourself should be completely independent of her on every level. The only thing that changes is whether she receives any time or attention from you.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:59 AM
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Very wise man
/r/askMRP17/02/18 12:56 AM
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Ok, you got me. You sucked me in. I’ve read all your posts from the first one 113 days ago to the one 26 days ago to this one. You’ve read the entire sidebar except for WOTSM? And probably finished that one by now, too. Well counselor, you failed. You did not ingest and embrace the intent of the course material in becoming a man, you are failing the quizzes and unit tests, the final exam is coming and with your current display of your understanding of MRP, you are going to fail it, too. First, I…
/r/askMRP11/02/18 01:33 AM
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The responsibility you feel for your child’s happiness.... Do you also hold your parents responsible for your happiness? Yes, you could have done something better. Yes, you could have done something different. Yes, you could have worked harder to be a perfect parent. And then what? You expect your kid to be perfect, too? Because they aren’t. Because no matter WHAT you do, they still act out of free will...to be imperfect..unhappy...stupid...or whatever THEY want. I’ve been through this thought p…
/r/askMRP10/02/18 09:02 PM
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Coffee. Coffee? Really? You wrote more about the coffee than the instructions the barista had to follow to make that shit. My wife complains about not getting shit when I’m out. 2 of the kids who stayed home complain about not getting shit when the 2 that went with me did. It’s now a family saying, and spreading, “Must be present to win.” She’s (not that) sick. What....if she had to go to the doctor she’d call a fuckin’ helicopter because she’s too sick to ride in a car? Dude, ‘coffee’ is not yo…
/r/askMRP10/02/18 08:22 PM
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Ok, you got 3 years on me. I wasted 2 years. But 2 years at 56yo is like wasting the first 5 minutes of the 4th quarter. Nervous at 50? Don’t be. Right now, or as soon as you can, envision your life, single, alone, at 51yo. And for the record, being alone is not an illness that needs to be cured. The threat of being alone is how the gynocracy controls the weak. The ability/willingness to be alone is how the strong tell the gynocracy to go fuck itself. I’ve already heard it. “Aren’t you afraid of…
/r/askMRP10/02/18 02:16 PM
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“She should improve her girl game to get your attention again.” Thanks for that gold nugget.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/18 01:10 PM
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The sidebar changed my life. For the better. I get a little passionate about it.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 01:33 AM
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Your comment inspired me. I hope he gets it. No surprise if he doesn’t.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 04:11 AM
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Fuck. I mean... Unfuckingbelievable. So you’re jacked, you bank pretty well, and the land whale won’t fuck you, but most any random would... Until they got to know you.. Like your wife knows you. You came here and got your ass handed to you. Wanna know why? You just got out of middle school and showed up to the locker room in the game of life thinking you got all the shit figured out because you are in great shape and wear the best gear money can buy. The vets in the locker room see you for the …
/r/askMRP09/02/18 03:18 AM
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I have a thought... Why don’t you take ALL the advice here and become one awesome motherfucker? And the mother you fuck might appreciate it, too.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 03:24 AM
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This post struck me as being all about your feeewings and your fucked up outlook on life. Your “feeewings” are nothing more than a manifestation of a chemical process taking place in your brain. And what are you feeding your brain? Shit. Alcohol, nicotine, junk food. Absolute shit. So you’re asexual, unmotivated, and thinking about how do die at 65. You wrote that wall of shit because you are reaching out for help. Here’s your help. CLEAN UP YOUR DIET. No processed food. None. If it has more tha…
/r/askMRP08/02/18 03:17 AM
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Two questions for you; 1) Have you read The Rational Male at least twice? 2) Why would you EVER get married?
/r/askMRP05/02/18 01:04 AM
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I got your back. Have an upvote
/r/askMRP05/02/18 12:49 AM
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You missed the main point of MRP. MRP IS DRP. MRP fixes the man. Not the wife. Not the sex. Not the marriage. When you are fixed by MRP, sometimes you find out the wife and marriage are irretrievably broken. Move on. If you DON’T/HAVEN’T fixed you, whatever you just went through, you will go through again. Yeah, it can be fucked up. The universe has kicked me in the nuts every year for the last 5 years, from burying both my parents, burying one of my 17yo sons, to finding out my wife is cheating…
/r/askMRP05/02/18 12:36 AM
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For the record, the standard list is; Being incarcerated. Being cheated on. Burying a spouse or child. Divorce. The order fluctuates depending on the man, but this one is the most usual. And the order applies to me. 3 years after burying one of my 17 year old sons, and 2 years after my wife’s affair, I can say from experience the affair is tougher to deal with. I will say, that burying the first spouse would have been, and still would be, an absolute joy.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 07:15 PM
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That’s pretty good.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 07:11 PM
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So you slit your wrists and the only thing you care about is the bleeding? WTF? There is only ONE reason to live with a woman. ONE. And it’s not marriage. So you are shacking up, You’ve given up your freedom, your autonomy, at least half your frame, and you’re complaining about the Silent Treatment? You should be celebrating! Act like she doesn’t exist. Go see your friends. Get shit done. Lift. Read. STFU. Read The Rational Male. If you are not going to stop slitting your wrists, quit fucking wh…
/r/askMRP03/02/18 06:31 PM
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My wife had lunch with a work colleague. My wife had drinks with a work colleague. My wife had dinner with a work colleague. My wife started seeing the work colleague twice a week for exercise, dinner, drinks, dancing, etc. I found out and put her on notice that MY wife doesn’t date other men while married to me. All this time I was chewing blue bubble gum. Then I spit that shit out and swallowed the red pill. Late 2017 I found out she was still dating him and had dated other men as well. I left…
/r/askMRP03/02/18 01:32 AM
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As I effect and navigate my divorce, you are absolutely right
/r/askMRP10/01/18 08:06 AM
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Back at ya’, man. You doing good?
/r/askMRP10/01/18 01:09 AM
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Um, he didn’t specifically say it was a girl that sucked him off. It IS 2018, after all.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 11:23 PM
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Thanks for the shout out. For the record, this decision was simple, but it wasn’t easy. The hardest part is yet to come as I’ve heard she is launching an effort through mutual friends to get me back. Unfortunately, time is not on her side. I’ve been going through this shit for 19 months. And now, the pain is almost gone, and for the first time in a long time I feel something different.... Hope. And the promise of freedom.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 04:15 PM
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Let’s see, you’ve failed with a stem degree. You’ve failed with your wife. You failed to learn Chinese. You’re in a country full of people who want to learn English. You speak English. Fuck. I have no fucking idea what you can do.
/r/askMRP09/01/18 02:12 PM
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Yeah, it reads here like you may get it. But for clarity, yours as well as ours, we already know how you handled it like a child. Just how, exactly, would you handle it like a man?
/r/askMRP08/01/18 03:50 PM
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No. She’s no longer your girlfriend. You don’t “get it.” NEXT!!
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:48 AM
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Seventy fucking TWO!! Unfuckingbelievable
/r/askMRP08/01/18 04:44 AM
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Why would you confront the other man? Is he cheating on you? Is he the ONLY man who will ever express an interest in your wife? You have much deeper issues than this one man. Classic case for MRP. You’re fucked up. Your marriage is fucked up. Your wife is fucked up. Guess which one you can UNfuck? Ding ding ding.... Time’s up. YOU! If you guessed anything else, then you may be fubar; Fucked Up Beyond All Repair. The wife no longer matters. The marriage no longer matters. You’re only hope is YOU.…
/r/askMRP08/01/18 04:39 AM
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Lots of gold nuggets here. Great responses. Most of them come right from the sidebar, which you are reading, right? Here’s one response I DIDN’T see: Next time your WIFE disrespects you in front of your CHILD, grab your balls with your left hand, your child with your right, and TAKE HER WITH YOU for daddy time. Stay out all day. Do fun shit. Go to Chuck E. Cheese. Go camper shopping. Yes, camper shopping. Little fuckers LOVE going through them, sit in every seat, climb in every bed. It’s like a …
/r/askMRP08/01/18 03:26 AM
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Yeah, my bad. Your comments contradict your OP. In the OP you talk about being monogamous, but in your comments you talk about it being so fucking hard. Look, I get it. You have oneitis, no OI, no abundance. You also have no kids, no fanancial shit like a house to split, and no appreciable history. I’ll tell you what you DO have; you have a not yet fully developed woman who will go through a minimum of two emotional phase shifts in the next ten years, and NOBODY KNOWS how she’ll turn out. You al…
/r/askMRP07/01/18 07:21 PM
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Do you have any children with this female?
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:38 PM
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Dude, you are seriously fucked up. Your OP contradicts itself all over the place. Walk away WHILE YOU STILL CAN. She is not, THE ONE. She is one OF a million, not one IN a million. Walk away. Get your shit together. Have your relationships mirror your true, internal value system. You are not ready to be monogamous, because you’re TOO FUCKING YOUNG. Spin plates, have fun, get your shit together, live life, and when you are 35 years old, reach back and snatch up a 25 year old, IF, and only IF, you…
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:36 PM
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Your LTR will not be fully developed intellectually and emotionally for ~4 more years. She is going to go through at least 2, if not 3, breaking points in the next ten years. You will learn about that shit when you read The Rational Male.
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:30 PM
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That’s because you are TOO FUCKING YOUNG to be in an exclusive LTR. Read The Rational Male right fucking now. TWICE. Manshit, 101
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:27 PM
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Well, you may find the answers here are as thoughtfully produced as your OP. Why don’t you go back and clean some of that shit up? Or are we not worth the effort...
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:26 PM
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.71. Seventyfuckingone posts in the last year asking for information about how to handle your LTR specifically and women in general. Read much? You’re the lazy fuck standing at the bottom of the MRP mountain who won’t climb it. Instead, you stand at the bottom and ask everyone else what THEY have learned. I’ve been here for <8 months and I’ve posted... Twice. But I will answer your question, not with what I know from the reading, but my PERSONAL EXPERIENCE based on what I’ve READ the past 8 mont…
/r/askMRP07/01/18 06:18 PM
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Ground Rules? The only ground rule you need to know is that you never live with a woman. General advice? The only advice I have for you is that you never live with a woman. Read The Rational Male. If after reading it, twice, you still want to “move in” with a woman, go ahead. But change your username before coming back here asking for advice on how to fix your fucked up relationship, “roommate”, and deadbedroom. I’ll remember you, and I will lead the chorus of ‘we told you so.’
/r/askMRP07/01/18 03:55 AM
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Stoicism. Stoics. Fucking google it and start reading. You feel useless and insignificant because you are a black hole of resources. You suck in but you don’t blow out. You need one area of your life where you give of yourself to another human being and help them. Not your fucking money, your time. 1-2 hours a week should do it. I’m not going to suggest in what way. The way you find for yourself will give you the meaning you search for. Now quit sniveling and get back to fucking work
/r/askMRP27/12/17 05:27 PM
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Yeah, well... Fuck. You have been given a gift. Do not give it back and do not throw it away. You are not a broken man. Life has just finished surgery on you and your terminal disease has been removed. This shit fucks up a lot of men because they are afraid of the surgery. You are ~7 YEARS from your peak SMV and you will be able to embrace it... IF.... You get your shit together, keep your shit together, and don’t fuck up again. Lift and sidebar. Lift and sidebar. Lift and sidebar. The universe …
/r/askMRP23/12/17 03:14 AM
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Really? Google Nuts.com Found that for you in 10 seconds. You do the rest.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 02:57 AM
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“...sex would be the solution. So I suppose my question is how do I lead her to that solution?” Keep doing the work. Don’t quit. Don’t give up. Don’t get impatient. Become more attractive, and she will become more attracted. This process never ends. But you know you are doing it right when she crawls naked to you on her hands and knees, sucks you like a vacuum cleaner for 5 minutes, and then turns around and suggests you finish in her ass. You don’t need to ask me how I know that. You’re on the …
/r/askMRP21/12/17 08:14 PM
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“There is no lo lose. You win or you learn.” Fucking awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 12:58 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20 when your head is NOT up your own ass. You, my young friend, were on your way to being a life member here before your SO lovingly dropped that bomb on you. She just saved you decades of angst, hundreds of thousands of dollars, years of deadbedroom betadom, and more years of feeling the way you just previously did. Nothing gets better when you get married. Absolutely nothing, without a massive amount of effort. Read The Rational Male right now. If you already have, read it agai…
/r/askMRP07/12/17 03:38 AM
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From where I sit, you have no Game, she’s not attracted because you’re not attractive. And it has nothing to do with your body. There are plenty of in shape guys not getting laid because they are unattractive. Women want/need more than a tight waist and a hard dick...most of the time. Your attitude sucks. You have no Game. You’re in her frame. An alpha body + beta mindset = no sex. So now you have to make a decision. Are you going to do the work to improve? or not. Because if not, don’t stay her…
/r/askMRP04/12/17 05:13 PM
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His post is actually in the comments. He fucked that up. Start at the top and scroll down and you will see his submissions, along with several telling him to get his posting shit together. Context matters. Worth a look. After reading everything here and coming to your understanding, how do you plan to polarize your marriage?
/r/askMRP28/11/17 03:04 AM
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Your OYS posts continue to be about her. You mentioning yourself seems to simply be the catalyst for her behavior. I’m not saying that the way I want, but it feeeels like you are living your life for her, doing all this shit for her, instead of doing it for you and she’s welcome to join you, or not. This perspective can affect your frame heavily and create neediness on your part, which is a gigantic turnoff for women. Mark Manson in MODELS talks about this extensively. Have you read that yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 02:32 AM
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It’s the basics. The mantra is LIFT READ STFU You got the LIFT part down. You READ the sidebar. Now you need to STFU. MRP is sexual strategy at its core. You’re not getting the sex you want. The basics say to withdraw time and attention when you’re not getting what YOU want. It sounds like she’s drowning in your time and attention. And again, at the end of the day, she just may be retired. Activate dread, follow it to the letter, and see if it makes ANY difference in six months.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 02:23 AM
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I just reread your post and all the comments so far. I’m convinced there is no sexual tension. She sees you as her roommate, her BFF. Since she’s probably not a lesbian or bisexual, she’s just not interested in fucking a male version of herself. You need to increase your masculinity, decrease your availability, and create sexual tension. You have no game. Great body, but no game. The good news is that you are half way there. The bad news is, the other half is usually a lot harder. My recommendat…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 08:17 PM
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She sees you as her BFF, not her lover. There is no sexual tension between you because you two are so similar. Your relationship has become androgynous, to the point of being asexual. My wife is going through menopause. Having swallowed TRP recently, I am slowly improving and early Dread is working well. The joke is, the first one to find lube on sale should buy it. And then she winks and says, “I hear it has all kinds of uses.” I’m 55, she’s 47. You need to polarize your marriage. You need to r…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 06:41 PM
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Your life got better; your frame, not so much. Anybody can handle the good times. You don’t need frame for that. Your frame is tested and defined by what you do when you’re stressed, sick, and tired. “In the unlikely event of a loss of cabin air pressure, please place YOUR MASK ON FIRST, and then assist those around you...” You are the Captain. It sounds like you’re not leading as much as enjoying a lucky streak of good weather. Now the storm is coming in and you’re... fucked up. Lead yourself f…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 06:21 PM
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First, read The Rational Male. It’s a $10 investment in the rest of your life. Nothing I tell you right now won’t already be in that book. Start there, come back if you have questions.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 06:09 PM
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This should be mandatory reading for every noob motherfucker that comes here whining about sex. Great fucking post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 07:16 PM
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I went back through your post history and found your problem. You’ve been at this for 36 days of a minimum course expectation of 14 months for phase one of ingesting the Red Pill by MRP standards. Compounding your problem is that you are a smart motherfucker, think deeply about shit, you are a master negotiator, and probably bank pretty well. And at the end of the day, all of that doesn’t amount to a cup of warm piss to your wife on a cold day, because while you are Alpha as fuck in the courtroo…
/r/askMRP25/11/17 07:07 PM
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I was born in 1961, right around the birth of feminism. I, and the majority of men living today, have never known anything but feminism. We were raised and groomed to serve the feminist imperative as manifested in the gynocracy. This indoctrination has taken place on every level. Churches, schools, media, social media. We were separated from our fathers from the beginning in modern society and shit has deteriorated ever since. I am no exception. Not much more than 6 months ago I was unhaaaaapy. …
/r/askMRP25/11/17 06:11 PM
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You’re about 60% through phase one. I think you’re still in her frame. Yes, you are an awesome motherfucker. Yes, you’ve had some wins. Think of this as you against the competition in the ring. Your last bout you almost won. Now, post fight, you are thinking ONLY of the counters to the shots that landed on you. You are thinking ONLY of this one fight, and using that singular, specific information to get ready for your next fight with a different opponent. (At this point you understand every enco…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 12:04 AM
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You may not be having PIV sex, but you are mind-fucking yourself pretty well. You are 36 years old, a fucking perfect age to start over. You are RP aware. If you could have picked the circumstances, you couldn’t do any better. Embrace the spartan life and stoicism. Start reading books about game and approaching women. Models. Art of seduction. The Way of the Superior Man. Bang. Day Bang. Etc... Yes, you’ve already read all that shit. Now read it again from your new perspective. The goal here is …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 09:54 PM
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Awesome fucking comment.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 06:32 PM
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This is where you fucked up. “ and said ok won’t do it again.” This is NOT STFU. Read NMMNG
/r/askMRP24/11/17 04:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/
/r/askMRP24/11/17 04:33 AM
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Fuck dude. You’re EVERYWHERE. Happy Thanksgiving
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:28 PM
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Sure, UNTIL I get a better option. FTFY
/r/askMRP22/11/17 04:01 PM
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Don’t DEER the comments you get. It demotivates others from helping you. I recommend The Rational Male and Models, by Mark Manson. In this case, having your cake and eating it too would be to have an OLTR and your ex-wife as one of your plates. Edit: Don’t respond to her messages.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 03:56 PM
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That’s a good idea. I’ll work on it. Maybe it’s time to finish it and post it once and for all. I think u/Rian_Stone asked me to do that awhile back
/r/askMRP21/11/17 02:14 AM
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Ray, I’m going to be honest with you, as I usually am, and please take this with the brotherly love it is intended and not be offended.... But it is past time for you to COMMIT to MRP or... WALK THE FUCK AWAY. Seriously dude, you’ve been posting here for at least a year and you’ve done next to fucking nothing. You’re the asshole who shows up to math class 4 times in a semester, fails the final, and asks everyone who’s put in the work and passed the final to please help you get ready for the make…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 01:53 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? The section on dread works great, when you work it. What have you done in MRP so far?
/r/askMRP20/11/17 11:35 PM
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Wait, that’s MY WIFE, and I’m NOT HER EX... Lol
/r/askMRP20/11/17 11:32 PM
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Is she planning to go without you?
/r/askMRP20/11/17 11:30 PM
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Yes, you swallowed the pill, but it takes months to a year to digest. I just sent this to someone a day or two ago. It almost completely applies to you, too. Once you unfuck yourself and pull your head out of your own ass, do NOT insert it into hers. Here we go... I’ve posted twice. Go read my victim puke now. I’ve been through some of your shit. The point is, nobody came here because their life was so fucking great. Most of us that have stayed, did so because the praxeology worked for us and no…
/r/askMRP20/11/17 09:19 PM
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“When your self worth is defined by other people’s behavior...” Fucking gold nugget right there.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 09:12 PM
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Thank you. Now get to fucking work
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 08:28 PM
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Thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 06:44 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 06:43 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 06:42 PM
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I’ve posted twice. Go read my victim puke now. I’ve been through some of your shit. I’ve been laying low this past week because my father passed away 9 days ago. The point is, nobody came here because their life was so fucking great. Most of us that have stayed, did so because the praxeology worked for us and now we’re less fucked up. I’ve been here about 6 months, and I have longer to go today than I did last week since I had a meltdown with the wife after my dad died. One would think after bur…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 02:14 AM
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“In The Heart of the Sea” True story that inspired Moby Dick. Great movie
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 03:15 AM
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Chasing unicorns and hunting whales... Aaaaarrrrrhggggg.... Blimey, it’s Captain fuckin’ AHAB!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 10:24 PM
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You have been given a gift from the universe. Do not give it back. Do not throw it away. You have been given six months notice of what the rest of your life is going to be like. Why are you getting married? Do you like the way you feel right now? What is wrong with you? I mean that inquisitively. Why would you enter a marriage, give up your freedom, your options, your autonomy, your sexual frequency, your...everything, and start it out by apologizing for who you are. How old are you? Have you re…
/r/askMRP17/11/17 04:10 PM
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Ok. Let’s talk about how you can have a fucked up frame after being here for a year and reading the sidebar multiple times. Tell me what you have read.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 12:58 PM
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It reads like you have spent some time in the sidebar, but your weak area(s) are probably sidebar items you skipped or need to revisit. Go here, start from the beginning, and do it by the numbers https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 02:53 AM
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That’s fucking beautiful
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 02:49 AM
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This is probably the best OYS post I’ve ever read. Steady results. Ownership. No bitching and whining, and very little about her. Great fucking job, OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 01:06 PM
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“I’d never even consider taking her back.” IF you did, you would deserve every mother fucking thing that happened to you.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:50 AM
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Him acting like a pussy, IS the problem.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:54 PM
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Just show him the sub here and let him run with it
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:11 PM
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When she leaves, she’s gone. Read The Rational Male. NOW
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:55 PM
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Your wife is experiencing a lot of grief, and if you could open her up you’d probably find a lot of guilt, too, which is one of the biggest components of grief. A woman had a baby die. She feels guilt, rational or not. You are fucked up, too, but in different ways. I buried a kid, too. So, your wife will feel guilty about feeling any pleasure right now, but she wants to, and she NEEDS that release. If that door opens again, step through and close it quietly behind you. Start out slowly, and as s…
/r/askMRP09/11/17 12:58 PM
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Wow, I went through the exact same thought process. Please keep in mind the following is PRE-MRP. I decided I needed some closure, because I was a drunk captain #4 and about as weak and beta as they come. I bought the whole Disney fairy tale. I’m one of the best betas the gynocracy has ever harvested. I poured $1,300,000 into two marriages over 23 years and raised 2 families. I worked an average of 300 days a year, 55 hours a week. You know what I have to show for that? Fucking nothing. Anyway, …
/r/askMRP09/11/17 12:31 AM
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Sounds like your wife got the ‘for better’ part down pretty well; the ‘for worse’ part, not so much. Take one year. Immerse yourself in the sidebar. Get to operating solidly at DL 6. THEN, if you still feel like shit about it, leave, knowing you’re ‘fixed’ and ready to date and plate. Children are the ONLY reason to get married. Period. If you’re not having any, no reason to wife up AWALT and jeopardize your time and resources. If you want some help with the sidebar, let me know. And yeah, no ma…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:26 PM
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You are test driving a car. It’s fucking great. The paint is nearly perfect. The driver seat is like a giant memory pillow. And the engine...oh the engine. At idle this thing purrs like a lioness, and opened up it roars like a lion. This car is perfect, except for a couple of things.... You’re pretty sure the starter motor may go out soon after you buy it. The brakes don’t work well. That could be expensive, as well as dangerous. The transmission oil is more black than red, the viscosity seems o…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:02 PM
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Google Frank Sinatra height and Frank Sinatra dick. Realize that if you are not slaying pussy at 5‘8“ tall, your problem is not your height. I recommend you DON’T spend the money on leg extensions, and instead on hobbies and interest and pursuits that develop your mind and make you an awesome, interesting individual as well as putting you next to pussy.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:48 PM
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Letting it go seems like the easy way out because you’ve already dealt with the shit. The work is done. A tornado came through your life and really fucked shit up. You’ve spent years cleaning up and now your house is clean but you’ve got this big pile of trash left over. Take it to the curb and let it go. When I was a manager I had employees fuck up bad sometimes and I had the right to fire them. A few times my boss expected me to. These employees were already trained, uniformed, benefitted, and…
/r/askMRP08/11/17 12:01 PM
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Good comment.
/r/askMRP08/11/17 01:59 AM
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I am going through this shit right now, in almost the same way, for slightly different reasons. So from that perspective, please accept what I have to say in a spirit of love and kindness.... STOP BEING A PUSSY! I’m totally fucking serious. This is exactly the kind of shit I’d expect to hear a woman telling her girlfriend, “Well yeah, he’s great and all, takes care of himself, and his cock gets so hard sometimes I swear he’s bouncing it off my cervix, great sex, lot’s of fun, and a great father.…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 04:47 PM
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You’ve gotten a fuckton of great advice here and a little bit of asskicking, but you are DEERing the comments which means you aren’t listening to and internalizing the information, you are defending your current position. Stupid is as stupid does. Celibate is as celibate does. You piss me off because finding this shit at YOUR age is a gift, and you are throwing it away with your piss poor attitude. I’m 55yo. I unplugged this year. I do not intend to ‘peak’ for years! Your life is dark and smells…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:57 PM
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No personal experience in Chicago, but I live in a medium-sized University town and the flora and fauna is incredible. Most of the university specific groups are closed except to students and alumni, but you can always find spinoff and splinter groups. The key is to engage in activities YOU are passionate about, and then have that common ground where you meet them. Don’t forget about the old standbys, coffee houses, art galleries, museums, exhibits. Great places to find them alone. Festivals, li…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 03:23 AM
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Um, your mission sucks. It’s not a bad thing to do, and you should totally do it, but as a mission statement for your life, it sucks. Think about it. What if the mission statement of retail was: “We’re here to make money.” It’s UNDERSTOOD they’re there to make money, but if that’s all they do, that’s rather one dimensional. You need to be as attractive on the inside as you are on the outside. Now, pussy is often about, location location location. Where could a reasonably fit, attractive successf…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:34 AM
2

Never underestimate the power and influence the steps of your journey can have on those behind you; those at 33%, 35%, or more. You do you, but you are not alone.
/r/askMRP07/11/17 02:02 AM
2

Here is the answer to your original question right here. And it’s something that has already proven to work for you, and may still be working for you now if you figure out how to get the glowing coals to flame up again. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/ Start again, lock it in. Next, make exercise fun. Lead. Your kids are old enough to hike, bike, canoe, camp, play, etc. Make it a family activity and let the kids put the natur…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 01:49 AM
2

Amen. And, he’s gone. Imagine that. Still climbing here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 05:33 PM
3

Basically, the choice you have to make is the money you save at work, or the marriage/wife you save at home. Because right now, you’re about to lose both. Man the fuck up, pay a legitimate PA, and never mix business and pleasure again unless you’re fucking a hooker.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 04:07 PM
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“What to do until then?” Stop fucking around and finish it. It’s only just YOUR LIFE you are wasting. Not every hole you stick your dick into is worth the effort. And this dumpster fire will never go out. Devote 100% of your energy to your children and your divorce. Your little game playing special snowflake is going to become Lucifer’s personal cock-sucking whore in hell, swallow his fiery cum and spew it all over you in court to burn your shit down. They always fucking do. Your life right now …
/r/askMRP06/11/17 04:01 PM
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Wow. I thought I was fucked up. I probably used to be this fucked up, but I’m NOT as fucked up as you, anymore. U/Triadis3 comment is one of the best I’ve ever read. You couldn’t get more direct, honest, actionable advice than that if you paid for it in a counselor’s office. You should end up divorced. When you do, accept it and move on. And then... DO NOT GET MARRIED FOR AT LEAST TEN MORE FUCKING YEARS! Here is how I unfucked myself. I don’t wish people luck. Luck is for the lazy that don’t do …
/r/askMRP06/11/17 03:48 PM
2

Fuck dude, you’re on vacation, speed, a rampage, or some wicked combination of those. Great fucking comment.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 03:34 PM
1

Look, it may be on her that you may have been cucked into saying, “I do.” But it is fucking totally on you that you continue to say, “I will.” You are married to a guy with boobs and a hole between his legs. That makes you gay, married to a transsexual. You need to leave this selfish, spoiled, entitled, solipsistic, feminist, bitchy man-woman. As soon as you do, go to the sidebar and start reading. You’re a smart motherfucker, figure it out. Next, but a fucking Honda Accord, dress well, but all …
/r/askMRP06/11/17 03:55 AM
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Yeah. There’s some shit I wish I never wrote. I can’t believe how fucked up I was. Here’s to not being as fucked up as I used to be! 🍻
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 02:17 AM
1

Sorry I didn’t send it to you sooner. Busy weekend.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 01:19 AM
2

When my marriage counselor suggested a trial separation, I stood up, announced “I know what that means (with a smile on my face) and walked out. Within 3 minutes the wife was blowing up my phone telling me we don’t HAVE TO follow ALL of his advice. My SMV may be lower than hers, but I have status and strong communication skills. I might not attract women in the traditional sense, but once I start talking I usually get their attention. I gotta check more into the IOIs thing. As I lose more weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 01:16 AM
1

I like it when she’s 10 minutes in, and I go back to confirm a detail, and she confirms it wrong. I know she can lie, but fuck, honestly, sometimes I think they get caught up in their own bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 12:05 AM
2

My reputation precedes me...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/17 12:00 AM
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Wow rhugg, it’s been a rough first seven hours for you in MRP. Did you get the feeling that there was some passion coming from a deep, personal place with these men? Did you identify any commonalities amongst the comments that indicate there was a common source for their intellectual discourse if not downright preaching? I want you to realize one thing, every swinging dick here, including mine, wifed up or LTRd their special (blue pill) unicorn, and then got their dick foot-stomped by the gynocr…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 06:12 PM
2

The FIRST time is never a waste of pixels. I admit, though, they all start to look the same after a while. I’ll post it in a bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 05:46 PM
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Fuck man, Rampage much? This is exactly the kind of shit that will turn him around. Lovin’ it
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 12:34 PM
3

“What strategies you gentlemen use to identify and correct this weakness?” On your next time through NMMNG... DO THE FUCKING EXERCISES. My first time through I didn’t get it. The second time through I started to get it and realized the value of the exercises. The third time through I did the exercises and realized it had to be this way for me because I was so fucked up in my thinking. When it comes to the sidebar, don’t leave a reading until you understand the value of its presence.
/r/askMRP05/11/17 05:19 AM
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Wow, we don’t have much to work with here, do we? For all we know, our boy Techno is gay, married to a man, and the kids are adopted. BUT, He hasn’t deleted his posts yet after 12 hours and having his ass handed to him 55 times across two posts. OP, are you paying attention? After reading over 1000 comments across 10 posts in askTRP today, almost every single post had at least one turd flinging monkey lobbing shit at us. But almost always in a, ‘don’t poke the bear’ kind of way. Now why the fuck…
/r/askMRP04/11/17 10:13 PM
4

You are not about to jump ship. You are the fucking Captain. Start acting like it. You’ve been drunk and locked yourself in your at-sea cabin. The FO has all but announced her intentions to abandon ship. So now you’re out, sobering up, and you KNOW the FO has committed acts of mutiny, disloyalty, and infidelity against your flag. You know she’s just waiting for the right time to jump ship when the other one is close enough for her to get to. Nothing you can do about that now. Forget about the FO…
/r/askMRP03/11/17 01:27 AM
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Think of it this way, this is askMRP, not Dear Abbey. If you have a question about something you’ve read, or applying it in your marriage, askMRP, The ones who have a problem talk about things like: I got ghosted on twatfuck by my wife while I was on a business trip, what do I do? I got mad and kicked my dog and my wife got pissed, did I break frame? My wife told me my little boys have more testosterone than I do. I play basketball with my homies every Saturday morning. How do I handle this? I’v…
/r/askMRP02/11/17 12:09 AM
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It’s a longstanding axiom of war that you don’t throw nukes at handgrenades. Read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
/r/askMRP01/11/17 07:30 PM
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You chose the wrong fucking hill.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 07:25 PM
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Good LORD, and I mean that literally, you are a ‘wordy’ bunch. Read the Great Commission in the Bible. Start reading C.S. Lewis. Give up Zelda. Join the Gideons. There is no higher purpose than fulfilling the Great Commission. Everything else in your life is a means to that end. Matthew 17:20 Philippians 4:13 Proverbs 3:5-6 Life is simple, but not easy. Pray for guidance, and move in the direction you want to go. Keep praying, keep moving. GOD will take care of the rest.
/r/RPChristians01/11/17 12:37 PM
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First, watch the movie, The Matrix. I don't give a fuck if you've already seen it 3 times. Watch it right now. 80% of the metaphors here are based on that movie. Next, as an overview, read this: https://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ Before you ever post again anywhere around askMRP or MRP, read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/ Now, go here; find out which drunk Captain you are and WRITE…
/r/askMRP01/11/17 12:02 PM
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“This shit sucks...I need guidance, where the hell do I go from here?” For the record, I tried, I really tried. I read. I STFU. I read again, I STFU. I read this post again, and I just can’t help myself. He’s begging for it. Hey OP! Where you go from here is right back to the beginning. Because in the classroom of MRP for the past 8 months you didn’t learn a fucking thing before life came along and tested you. You failed. Yes, you learned some buzzwords. Yes, you did some of the reading. Yes, yo…
/r/askMRP01/11/17 11:56 AM
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Bobby, with due respect, I disagree. I don’t think it amounts to a cup of piss and a bowl of shit what OP wants. He can want in one hand and shit in the other, and marvel at which one fills up first. It comes down to what OP truly DOES.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 10:56 AM
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OP, please answer this correctly...please please please.... I feel the nukes spinning up already... 😱
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 02:14 PM
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Have you ever heard the expression; “She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn.”? Well, your turn is over. Time to move on and NEVER look back In the next 10 days, approach 50 women, number close 10, kiss close 5, and fuck 2. Oneitis....cut it from your life like a cancer, because it is.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:48 AM
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Yes. “Number One.” And yet, he was number two, wasn’t he? When you get far enough along and take in the bigger picture, you’ll realize YOU control HER reality, and you can make that anything you want. What kind of wife do you want to have? REALLY think that one through, and then.. “Make it so, Number One.”
/r/RPChristians27/10/17 04:28 PM
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Interesting. I don’t think that will change the foundation of the praxeology
/r/askMRP26/10/17 11:13 PM
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What, the movie?
/r/askMRP26/10/17 10:02 PM
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FRAME is built by reading ANYTHING that helps you understand what you are looking at, as well as dealing with. Without the MRP sidebar, in the context of your marriage, I can make a few suggestions. MODELS, by Mark Manson. If you don’t date and game your wife, someone else will. I’m on my 5th time through it. Outstanding tome on game and quite frankly, refreshing. The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida. There are some passages I could live without, but his general treatise on intergender dy…
/r/RPChristians26/10/17 03:40 PM
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First, thank you for your service, and I’m glad you are enjoying it! My son is Army, 11x, at Ft Benning working towards being a Ranger. Awesome shit. Now, for all that, you’re buff, tuff, and can kill people with your thumb. Your wife knows you’re a badass, you can lift her 6” off the ground and fingerfuck her, or throw her down at your whim and drive your cock into her like a railroad spike. Great. You got the LIFT part down. Mental health issues, PTSD, you sound confident it is under control, …
/r/askMRP26/10/17 02:52 PM
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Your physical stats are impressive. She’s impressed, too. But that’s not enough, is it? I mean, for all your lifts and muscles, you’re still unsure enough about this whole potential LTR thing to post here. Over time, as she gets used to you, your stats will mean less to her. Just make sure you maintain them. Let’s talk about the REAL reason you are here. The OTHER half of you as a man. Your MIND. Your mind, your personality, the very essence that is you. All of this creates your... FRAME. And yo…
/r/askMRP26/10/17 12:37 AM
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From what I’ve seen in just six months, this place is going to grow as 3rd wave feminism continues its march against masculinity, no matter what I say. But thank you. I find this forum cathartic for me.
/r/askMRP25/10/17 11:59 AM
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“Did any of you have a hard time with this?“ I did. I got here and I thought, WTF?! Why bother being married. After listening to The Rational Male and reading a bunch of posts here I actually thought about divorcing my wife just to avoid the inevitable, again. Understand, my wife had an affair last year, before my MRP discovery. We have largely worked through the problem, but the trust issue remains a biggie. Marriage counseling, shocker, was a colossal failure. I see all the things I did wrong,…
/r/askMRP25/10/17 01:12 AM
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I just reread your post. Vulnerability. Mark Manson in MODELS builds his thesis around this concept. You CAN be vulnerable while maintaining your strength and power, but that vulnerability must COME FROM that very same strength and power, or as Mark calls it, non-neediness. I now recommend you read MODELS next. It’s a book about attracting women and such, but if you have stopped dating and gaming your wife, it is not too soon to start again. As for the responsibilities, yes, she needs some. She …
/r/RPChristians25/10/17 12:15 AM
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Yes, you are a needy, worthless, spergy piece of shit. You do NOT, however, need to be eliminated from the gene pool. What you need to DO, is EVOLVE. Evolve into a confident, worthwhile man that women want, eye-fuck, make their intentions known to, and you pick from the offerings or have the confidence to go after exactly what you want. That will NOT happen as you are right now. If you continue to do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. So it’s time to take a short brea…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 04:19 PM
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Take a 4x8 sheet of plywood. Cut in half. Lay half on top of two sawhorses and secure to same. Cover the whole thing with thick, Red felt. Pad one end with a 4 inch plush finish rail like around a fancy bar. About 3’ up from there install two handholds, or a handrail. Go inside, tell the wife you’ve made something she might like, and ask her to come to the garage to see it. It’s called...wait for it....almost ready....The BUSHWACKER. Show her how it works. First she stands at the padded end, the…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/17 03:43 PM
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THAT was the best laugh I’ve had in weeks. Thanks for sharing. And when I comment, I don’t feel that way, it’s usually a reflection of the neediness in a post. That neediness, as explained in MODELS, is most often at the core of the problem in the first place.
/r/askMRP24/10/17 03:18 PM
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It sounds like you have the Alpha part down, and borderline Rambo. Sprinkle some beta on it. If you don’t date and game your wife, someone else will. You pulled back too far and now she feels alone. The Captain has set the course for the ship, taken care of everything and now it’s all on autopilot. So the Captain leaves the bridge and the FO wonders what to do next, cause the Captain’s gone and the FO is alone on the bridge with nothing to do. She wants connection and inclusion. Delegate, but do…
/r/RPChristians24/10/17 02:13 AM
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Sometimes it’s tough to know to set boundaries from the beginning. Some things are just assumed. I assumed my wife wipes her ass after she takes a shit. I never asked her about it. I assumed my wife would never date another man while married to me. I never asked her about it. So she started dating another man and had an affair. I then set the boundary: MY wife will not have intimate, one on one relationships with ANY men while married to me. Her next date with a man will be the end of our marria…
/r/askMRP23/10/17 03:01 PM
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First, DO NOT build a social circle at work. It can devolve into a sociopolitical shitstorm you end up fucked over in. You’re looking for activities that are free or nearly free, that develop you as a man and expose you to available pussy. Spartan.com. There will be some free fitness classes you can go to. Save up $100 and go to a race. 1000’s of fit women. The community is over 1 million, growing, and 35+% are women. San Diego? I remember the beaches there were pretty nice, 35 years ago. Start …
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:29 AM
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Is there a sidebar yet? It won’t come up on my phone
/r/RPChristians22/10/17 09:59 PM
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That seems to work, some of the time... 💩
/r/askMRP22/10/17 07:54 PM
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The mantra is, “Be attractive, don’t be unattractive.” Your wife’s attitude about sex with you will change when.... YOU DO. Your wife is not attracted to you sexually because you are not physically AND emotionally attractive to her. If this were MRP I’d direct you to the sidebar and tell you to shut up and get to work. You have two things to improve, body AND mind. Your body is built in the gym. If you are not <15%BF and at 1000lbs on the 3 combined primary lifts, then you have two new goals to …
/r/RPChristians22/10/17 07:34 PM
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In my personal, limited experience in dealing with all kinds of ... whatever... here, it is almost always because the sidebar has not been fully engaged. I’m going to go out on a limb for the sake of argument, assume you are <15% BF, and 1000lbs on the three primary lifts. You said you lifted. So let’s say you are one buffed motherfucker (well, not your children’s mother), and you could get laid any time you want by someone who doesn’t know you. But that’s exactly the problem, isn’t it? The one …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 11:58 PM
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Well, there’s 11 minutes of my life I’ll never get back. But MAN, what a ride...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 11:43 PM
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This is a test, right? u/Rian_Stone pulled you out of his ass and posted this in the wrong sub just to see who would say what...because... THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL YOU HAVE BEEN IN MRP FOR TWO FUCKING YEARS AND POST THIS SHIT. NO FUCKING WAY!!! After 5 months, reading all the fucktard nymphs that come lollipopping their way in here for the first time because they smacked their dog too hard, or got ghosted in twatfuck while out of town, or their LTR wants to be an escort. or my favorite, the assho…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 11:23 PM
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A female coworker recently called me an asshole. I told her; “Having an anal orifice doesn’t make me an asshole any more than you having a vagina makes you a cu..” At that I smiled and walked away. Not related, just wanted to share...
/r/askMRP21/10/17 07:13 PM
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“Learn to channel your inner asshole...” Lol
/r/askMRP21/10/17 07:08 PM
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If you continue to treat your wife like a college roommate that isn’t doing what he’s supposed to, then that’s what she will continue to act like. You got the Rambo part down. You are a badass, you rule, you can kick her ass and insult her to boot. How’s that working out for you? Sprinkle a little beta on it. Read MMSLP and TWOTSM. Along the way, immerse yourself in the sidebar and become THE man. Chances are, she’ll WANT to fuck you. If not, it will be easy enough to find someone who will.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:59 PM
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“Obligatory lurking and sidebar reading.” I’m a simple man. I like simple answers, and the older I get (55 now) the more I realize the answers are simple. Simple is NOT easy. That’s why “Do the Right Thing” is a cliche in American society. Your answer is simple. It’s in the sidebar, specifically the dread levels. Caveat: this only applies if you actually give a shit at all about your wife or marriage. If you truly don’t, and NOTHING she could do would make a damn bit of difference, then lawyer u…
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:46 PM
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You are not the first to comment on the temerity, veracity, if not loquaciousness of my comments. It is with the fire and passion of being here for only six months, and immersing myself in the sidebar, and realizing the benefits of all that the red pill has to offer, I write for a different audience than most. MRP, for me, is a sounding board where I get to promulgate the interpretation of my reading and have it commented on by others. So, my comments are written for myself first, My second audi…
/r/askMRP21/10/17 03:24 PM
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They are not hypocritical, per se, and they are definitely not content. The answer is: 3) They are BP, and by definition, weak, and have chosen the path of least resistance. Which came first, the chicken or the egg? My faith answers that categorically and definitively as the chicken. So why does a BP marriage exist? Did the man quit? Or did the woman act as she was instructed as part of her curse after she bit of the apple? It doesn’t matter. It is the MAN’s responsibility to fix himself, and mo…
/r/RPChristians21/10/17 01:28 PM
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I read The Tender Warrior by Stuart K Weber some 20+ years ago. Don’t remember it enough to comment on it now. Looking at google, he seems to have been a little prolific in the Christian masculine genre with his most recent tome circa 2015. Worth a look. If I have a chance I’ll read his most recent in a month and tell you what I think. Heard of him?
/r/RPChristians21/10/17 02:58 AM
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For those of us with weaker faith than yours, we need a little set of rules like this to help us get by in the meantime. I’m glad that you did well.
/r/RPChristians20/10/17 06:38 PM
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Church is not off-limits, only YOUR church is off-limits. Your first order of business is to find a theological house of worship where you can go and worship, hear sound theology, and not be distracted by women. You can imagine how distracting worship would be when you’re looking at and being looked at by women and experiencing the sexual tension that goes with that. Also, you need to understand that singles groups inside of churches tend to be very exclusive and exclusionary at the same time. T…
/r/RPChristians20/10/17 06:08 PM
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NMMNG involves revealing some very deep, personal things of a negative nature that the promulgation of wouldn’t go well for group members outside the group. Build trust early and demand confidentiality.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 04:30 PM
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Think about the feelings you had when you read my comment and posted your reply. Your continued DEERing of the answers here are indicative of your core issues. At your core, deep down inside in a place you don’t even talk about with mommy, you KNOW staying with this female is going to go badly for you. You came to askMRP thinking you’d get sympathy and validation for your current decision to wife up a slut. After all, this is MARRIEDRedPill, right? The only part of MARRIED in this Red Pill is th…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 04:21 PM
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Caution: Never ‘hunt’ where you ‘prey’
/r/RPChristians20/10/17 04:07 PM
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Awesome. You disagree with MRP. Follow the advice you want. Remember, you, and you alone are responsible for your decisions. Choose wisely. Edit; This is like talking to a rebellious, head strong teenager. “Do whatever you want, and when you fail, I reserve the right to say ‘I told you so’ for the rest of your life.”
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:58 PM
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That’s beautiful. I may use that without permission
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:53 PM
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“Is there any way I can know she is trustworthy?” Yes. Look at her behavior. Oh, she’s a lying, cheating, manipulative, slut whore. What the fuck is wrong with you? I know... You’re a weak, sniveling, low self-esteem beta pussy who thinks he can’t do any better than to settle for the shit show that you’ve been told to watch and like by your mommy. You CAN do better. The only question is whether you will or not. How? Read the sidebar, man the fuck up, create and embrace your masculinity and becom…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 03:39 PM
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People, especially women, will do what they have a reasonable expectation of getting away with. She lies to you because she think she can get away with it. She thinks she can get away with it because you are weak. You are weak because you have no frame. You have no frame because you're not investing in yourself, you're investing in other people instead. Build your frame. Your frame is your mind, and it is built by reading the sidebar. Get to work
/r/askMRP17/10/17 11:53 AM
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They want to be on their backs at the altar. Or on all fours..
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 04:35 PM
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Fucking EXCELLENT. Some fucktard bitches found their way into the locker room of life, got offended by what goes on in here, and went outside to play in the sandbox. I don't see the problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 02:33 PM
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Cool. How close am I?
/r/askMRP14/10/17 09:40 PM
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Fuck man... Respect.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 08:10 PM
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I'm grateful for this place, not for all the noobie fucktards that come skipping through here like faggots in drag, but for all the veteran motherfuckers that gave me a good old fashioned foot stomping in my ass with my first post. I'm not here for sexual strategy. I'm old, fat, wrinkled, and I still get sex on demand and she initiates at least twice a week. I could probably have sex every day, but 3-4 days a week is enough, right now. I came here because I knew I was fucked up in my head. I wor…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 07:13 PM
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Oh fuck, no pressure there! I'll polish it and make it shiny, just for you.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 04:05 PM
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Exactly. Since the praxeology applies nearly universally to noob problems, the standard answer will apply almost universally. It's kind of like lifting. There are different ways to do it, but the answer is still, LIFT. My 'auto-reply' should be done this weekend. Shouldn't take long to peg my first victim with it.
/r/askMRP13/10/17 03:11 PM
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I'm new, and learning to channel my inner asshole.,. It's just not as BIG as yours...yet. ;p
/r/askMRP13/10/17 03:08 PM
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You are weak, needy, insecure, lack self confidence, and project that as well. You sound young, inexperienced, whiny, bitchy, and highly estrogenic. You may or may not be good looking and/or in shape, and possibly have some money to flash, but for all that with an n-count of over 80, you don't have a fucking clue. Your life experience is shallow, if much, and whatever it is, it is very shallow. You need a life, with a mission, hobbies, diversity, depth, and all about YOU. You obviously have some…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 02:42 PM
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My children ask a LOT of questions about the divorce because they know how fucked up their mom is, and they know I divorced her. The only answer they get is; "I'll tell you when the youngest turns 18. In the meantime, a great book on fatherhood is Raising Men by Dina Santorelli. It's not about raising divorced kids, just raising awesome men by being an awesome Dad. I am divorced with 3 sons and 3 stepsons. Don't focus on the divorce and the fallout. Focus on your son and creating an awesome real…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 11:57 AM
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I actually read every word of your post. I know, right? I'm now too tired to give you my usual response. You need to change your operating paradigm to something positive in order to put the negative behind you. It seems you're cruising on looks and money. But you need substance, and you need to know how to handle your shit. Time to grow up and have the masculine man inside you be bigger than your bank account and family lineage. These two books are a little further down the line, but you may ben…
/r/askMRP13/10/17 12:26 AM
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"Vagina" is usually the PROBLEM. MRP PRAXEOLOGY is almost always the answer.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 10:06 PM
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Wow. This was probably one of the best AYS (acknowledge your shit) posts I have read here. I got here almost exactly the same way as you, but I was a career beta when my wife started up her shit with other men. I'm not going to address your post line by line, but I would like to comment on a few things starting with the ending... "Any kind, gentle words for a poor faggot like me would be appreciated." That's sarcasm, right? Because your needle-dicked, bug fucking, fucktard moronic Rambo narcissi…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 03:34 PM
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You set up your covert contract on the couch.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 01:38 AM
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200+ days ago you posted about shit tests from your LTR. Today you post about shit tests from your wife. Which is it? Both? Did you wife up a disrespectful cunt shrew and then actually come in here wondering why she is a cunt shrew? You have been MRP over a year. You HAVE to be operating solidly at DL6 and based on her behavior, you should be pushing DL9 with HER understanding if she doesn't knock that shit off, you're done. You are married to a cunt shrew. Accept it, or divorce it; I don't give…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 12:44 AM
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"What do you do late at night when you can't simply leave the room?" Why can't you simply leave the room? Are you wearing an ankle monitoring bracelet? Do you wear a shock collar that prevents you from leaving because the wire is around the bedroom door? Are you THAT fucking pussy whipped that you can't leave the room without her permission? I get that none of these things are (probably) true, but fuck, man, walk the fuck out of there. My wife is a BIG fan of Michael Fassbender. Even if she does…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 04:40 PM
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Back to basics for you. Your hamster is getting the best of you. Have you heard the 'stay' plan is the same as the 'go' plan? Divorce may be imminent. You cannot stop it. You cannot control it. But you DO control YOU. So get your shit back together, refocus your energy and effort, and stick to the script. This is what you need to do, by the numbers; 1) Continue in MRP. Period. No wavering, no stepping off the line, no rest days, ...MRP. 2) Talk to 3 attorneys, and be READY to respond if she open…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 01:51 AM
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Probably not. Most of this is done on the job and on the clock at the job I have been at for 27 years. It is mindless, mindnumbing work, where I execute 41 movements every 4minutes28seconds to nearly flawless precision. I perform in the top 3% of my company. My pay started at double the minimum wage, and is now almost 300% of that these nearly 3 decades later. Reddit keeps my mind active while my body is on auto pilot.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:19 PM
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I want you to look at the information you gave us in your original post, and the information you gave us just now after I challenged you. What do you think would be the level and content of your responses if you had given this information in the first place? Somehow I just knew that you were wanting to get a whole lot more information than you were willing to give. I could tell from your original posts back in the day that you had several unresolved issues, and with that in mind how appropriate …
/r/askMRP10/10/17 06:52 PM
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Helping men unplug one comment at a time. It's a calling.... To call them on their own bullshit!! ..LOL
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:56 PM
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This is your 12th post in 7 months, and the first in the last 4 1/2 months. Last we heard you are in your early thirties, good shape, newlywed, wife has combat related PTSD, a weight problem, and quite frankly, you have some (unresolved?) issues as well. We haven't forgotten you, but your current post indicates you've forgotten a lot. So, I've read this post, trolled your previous posts, obviously, and I have just one question for YOU... Just exactly WHAT THE FUCK HAVE YOU DONE IN THE SIDEBAR TH…
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:45 PM
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Fuck. I had to read this shit twice. Excellent comment.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:59 PM
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Lead your brother by example. Become the change you want to see in him. Become the awesome motherfucker you can be, and when he asks, spoon feed him out of the largess of your study and implementation of MRP as a praxeology. In other words, learn the sidebar for yourself well enough to teach it to someone else. If you feel you HAVE to give him a book, I recommend MMSLP. It is the softest of the 3 prerequisites and paints with the broadest strokes addressing his overall marriage which you said wa…
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:48 PM
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But, why? Why do so many of them quit? Is it the work?
/r/askMRP10/10/17 08:46 AM
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Thanks. I'm working on it now in iPhone Notes. Tired of typing it out; copy-paste coming soon to a post near you!
/r/askMRP09/10/17 03:18 AM
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"Smart women will demand marriage for (continuing)sex." I have heard very few women successfully demanding marriage BEFORE sex. I have read, here, of many virgins marrying and the very things that allowed them to hold out for marriage, also created the stigmas and blocks to sexual fulfillment AFTER the marriage. So marrying a virgin is as much a dice roll as not. I am not AGAINST marriage. I am not advocating surrogates. I AM suggesting that if you are not intending to impregnate her on the hone…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 01:18 AM
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First, watch the movie, The Matrix. I don't give a fuck if you've already seen it 3 times. Watch it right now. 80% of the metaphors here are based on that movie. Next, as an overview, read this: https://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ Before you ever post again anywhere around askMRP or MRP, read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/ Now, go here; find out which drunk Captain you are and WRITE…
/r/askMRP09/10/17 12:52 AM
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"But we were high school sweethearts and have so far beat the odds." Good on you, man. This is the shit that gives 'em hope. But without a plan, and a reason, and an investment like you in your last two primary OPs coaching your kids and operating at DL8, they'll end up in r/deadbedrooms and right back here whining about their shit. My kids are dating. My oldest son is Alpha as fuck with a beta side that leaves broken alpha widows. One went lesbian when he left her. Another stalked him, rammed h…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 12:13 AM
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"Wife texts terrible things about me." So fucking what? "That makes me angry at her and not care about making her happy." FUCKING EXCELLENT! "How do I turn that into fuel for self improvement instead?" You... DON'T. MRP is a little different from other subs and maybe not what you expected. The only Married part of the Red Pill here is that it's understood you are married or in an LTR. Otherwise... MRP doesn't give a fuck about the disrespectful cunt shrew you're married to. MRP doesn't give a fu…
/r/askMRP08/10/17 11:50 PM
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I know. I've read and appreciated your shit here, too. The ice on my knee has almost melted...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 11:20 PM
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40+ years (I'm 55yo) of being a beta cuck for the gynocracy and serving the feminine imperative in every single way. The anger rages within me and I rage against the matrix of the gynocracy on this forum, challenging every one who is willing to read my shit to fix their own shit. These battles are being fought not on a field of honor with big muscles and bigger weapons, but rather in the arena of ideas. I intend to win mine, and help others win theirs. /u/VasiliyZaitzev is a silent mentor. This …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 10:57 PM
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Um, date/vet her first? I dunno. Are you facing an arranged marriage to a career-minded feminazi? Do you have no say in who you marry? Why ARE you getting married? I have 7 children. I now understand the one reason to get married. It's not the money. I have poured $1,200,000 into two marriages. I live in a rented house and drive a 17 year old car with 305,000 miles on it. It's not love. That shit ebbs and flows like the tide on the seashore. It's not devotion or loyalty or fidelity. My 1st wife …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 10:43 PM
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Ok. I'll bite. What kind of sex makes you cry...LOL
/r/askMRP08/10/17 08:50 PM
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Ok Rambo. I've trolled your posts and found your problem. You are ALL about the T, the body, the physical. You can pin her against the wall, 6" off the ground and finger fuck her. You can put her over your head, then roll her down and after laying her out on the floor, you can drive your cock into her like a railroad spike. You are one bad-ass motherfucker with high T and a built body and everyone knows it. And yet, here you are, in askMRP instead of MRP with an awesome FR about high T and great…
/r/askMRP08/10/17 08:24 PM
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Um, if she had it to do again, right now, why would she limit herself to 50-somethings? Would you? If you are getting IOIs from other women, are they ALL over 50? No. I don't see this as a comfort test. It's a shit test from your self-avowed 'fuck-up and drama issues.' After you demonstrate weakness, she needs to feel your strength. You are applying logic to a situation that requires feelings. That's why you are failing and posting here about it. She CAN do better, so after you fuck up she is sh…
/r/askMRP08/10/17 07:01 PM
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That's because you are not leading the discussions like a man, you are whining about it like a child.
/r/askMRP08/10/17 04:41 PM
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"...peeling back the layers." Just like in lifting... Noob gains. Then the rapid gains stop, reality hits, and the grind begins. But they don't want to grind, because that's too much like work. The work they wouldn't do which made them the beta cucks they are now. They remind me of Stewie from Family Guy. They come in here, challenge the program and DEER the comments that their posts until they shit their diaper, and then it's.... Waaaa, someone change my dipeeee!!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 11:28 AM
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Man, I feel your pain, I really do, but THE answer to your situation is so SIMPLE. Maybe not easy, but so very fucking simple. Sidebar. Go through the steps by the numbers. Dread. DREAD. Ask if you want a starter outline. It sounds like you're familiar with it. Option 1) Leave her 80lb ass right now. Period. Just fucking go. Option 2) Work your way through level 6 of DREAD and if she hasn't responded in 6 months, leave her 80lb ass right then. Period. Just fucking go. Option 3) Work your way thr…
/r/askMRP07/10/17 12:44 AM
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Faggot is as faggot does.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 05:01 PM
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While he's walking add some weight. Farmer's walks. Kettle bells are great. Use a different weight in each hand, switch off. Starts to work the core as well as shoulders, arms, etc.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:29 PM
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DUDE! WAKE THE FUCK UP!! I paid $23,000 for a divorce in a town where people live on fucking $12hr. It won't fuck up your kids unless YOU let it. Start thinking about YOU. What kind of life do YOU want for YOU and YOUR kids? Write it the fuck down. Seriously, write the shit down about the kind of life you want for you and your kids. Now get the fuck up and MAKE IT A REALITY.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 02:44 AM
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The info you are getting here is NEVER too late. It's ALWAYS right on time. Know why? Because it's ALL FOR YOU. YOU, right this very second, pull your head out of HER ass, LIFT, READ, and STFU. WHY? Because as you progress, SOMEONE will want to fuck you. If not her, somebody. MRP doesn't give a fuck about your wife. MRP doesn't give a fuck about your marriage. MRP is YOUR sexual strategy to get laid, and if not by the wife, then by NEXT! Along the way you become a man, get your shit together, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 02:39 AM
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Perfect. You get the kids AND child support AND alimony. You've got a lot of work to do
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 02:29 AM
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My thoughts, exactly. What bothers me the MOST is that they come here only to take, and once they receive, they will contribute nothing.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 02:21 AM
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As our reputation and readership grows, so will the number of retards and fucktards that find their way here. You hope they are mature men in serious relationships; when in reality they come here as broken and submissive beta cucks trying to get one last big gulp of air before they drown in the gynocracy that subjugated them in the first place. You can almost guess their Test levels by their responses to the locker room mentality here. Some of them are almost sophisticated in DEERing the comment…
/r/askMRP06/10/17 02:18 AM
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This. And 'throwaway' accounts have started to offend my sensibilities.
/r/askMRP06/10/17 01:58 AM
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No. I'm not going to do it. You've put up the same number of posts in 3 hours that I have in 4 months. Stop it. Give a man a fish you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for life. I'm out of fish. Start fishing (read the fucking sidebar).
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:44 PM
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Old guys are reading your shit, too. Throw us a bone now and then. Thank you for your time in Reddit.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:30 PM
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I am 'beta-testing' (pun intended) a frame formula for noob posts. It goes like this: (# sentences about her) / (total post sentences) = % you are in her frame. Your percentage is 60%. I personally feel that's low, but it may account for the small sample you provided. Typically I get 15-20 sentences to work with and the % is almost always >80%. Whatever; let's run with it. So you read MMSLP and are getting your shit together. Next read NMMNG and find out why your shit still stinks. THEN, go to t…
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:16 PM
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Random thoughts... Is her illness passed? Does she have that as an excuse? You led with that so I'm looking for relevance. I would never leave my drunken wife... anywhere. Maybe I'm just old fashioned. She's developing an alcohol problem. She doesn't have to be a teetotaler...yet. But if she can't control her alcohol intake and starts behaving in ways incongruous with her personality, something is amiss you need to plug into. My wife almost fell off the edge last year. The night I was keeping he…
/r/askMRP04/10/17 12:53 AM
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You: "Hey doc, thanks for seeing me on such short notice." Doc: "You're welcome. I'm taking new patients right now. Your medical history is missing from my computer profile." You: "Yeah, don't worry about that. I'm not providing any." Doc: "O-kaaaay...so why did you come in today?" You: "I have a pain in my ass and I need you to fix it for me." Doc: "Ok. What kind of a pain is it and where is it exactly." You: "I can't give you any details. I just have a pain in my ass and it keeps me awake at n…
/r/askMRP04/10/17 12:29 AM
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I know they are going to talk. I'm training her to want to just hang up when I come home. It's working. Telling her she is not allowed to speak to her mother is not an enforceable boundary. Telling her not to talk to her when I'm around is. I just have fun with it. Never pass up an opportunity to call your MIL a cunt if she is one. I referred to the MIL as a cunt in marriage counseling. That was a show stopper. Funny as shit.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:37 PM
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I don't understand your question
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:19 PM
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Both. It's an issue on the list of things to work on. Page 2, probably around the summer of 2019.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:17 PM
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Have you started spinning that plate from a month ago? Or did that gig end already? You work two jobs, the LTR works a half a job. Cleaning a 4 bedroom house and doing laundry for 6 people takes 4 hours a day, and that includes dinner prep, pool maintenance, mowing the lawn and one oil change a week. Guess how I KNOW that? I'd tell her she needs to get a full time job to pay for a maid and daycare if she doesn't want to take care of shit. Or she can get 2 jobs, like you, and you'll cut back and …
/r/askMRP03/10/17 03:11 PM
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It's a throwaway account. He has invested nothing here and intends to give nothing, but thinks our time is worthless which is why he is willing to take it, for nothing. I say we fuck with him and have a great time. Throwaway accounts should be... Thrown away.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 01:03 PM
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My filthy cunt-rag douchebag MIL was so close to my wife she eventually fucked with my marriage. If it was legal, I'd kill Lucifer's personal cock-sucking whore from hell with my fucking bare hands, slowly. I can't stop my wife from talking to or seeing that waste of humanity and resource depleting scum, but I DID set a couple of boundaries. My wife doesn't want to talk to her biological birth unit on the phone when I am around. I get loud, call the MIL a cunt and it goes downhill from there. Th…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 11:52 AM
1

The 'counseling' is for the officiant, not for you. If it is a precondition to having the officiant you want, do it. You won't take sodium Pentothal before the counseling, say whatever you want. Calm your red pill bride by telling her to follow your lead. Find out if the man has a sense of humor. Have fun with it. When I realized what a colossal waste of time traditional marriage counseling is, I used fogging, AA, and AM the last few sessions before I stopped going. Now I use fogging, negative a…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 08:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/73tpaa/dont_get_married_that_is_all/?st=J8AX2TA6&sh=a183a8ff AND https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/73o5wp/dont_tell_her_shit_the_fallacy_of_disclosure/?st=J8AX4TIS&sh=afa235d5 Food for thought
/r/askMRP03/10/17 01:20 AM
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You fucked yourself in the short term. You have to do 11 months penance to learn the lesson well. No more joint accounts, contracts, leases, shacking up, not even shared pets. You mentioned starting a family someday. Again. Read The Rational Male and pay the fuck attention to his treatise on your legacy. As I see it now, for me, the only reason to have kids is to raise them right and have them take care of YOU in your old age. Otherwise, I can tell you after 7 children, they are expensive as hel…
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:22 AM
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11 months to go. Read The Rational Male. NEVER enter into a contractual obligation with a woman for ANY reason. And now you know why.
/r/askMRP02/10/17 11:27 PM
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"You haven't even met her yet, you're still interacting with her representative." That's fucking gold right there; made me stop and think. OP, not 100% of all this applies to you, right now. THINK it all through....
/r/askMRP02/10/17 09:04 PM
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You're learning....
/r/askMRP02/10/17 06:10 PM
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You are weak. You DEER the comments to your posts and insult the people who you feel insulted by. The atmosphere here is one of a locker room. Your mindset, your frame, is the portal through which you project yourself as well as receive information. Your frame is weak. MY assertion, based on your behavior, is that you are highly estrogenic and therefore very low in testosterone. My suggestion is that you have your levels checked, and research the meaning of the results on your own. The average d…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 04:32 PM
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Starting...tomorrow!!!
/r/askMRP02/10/17 04:10 PM
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Yeah, he probably downvoted me. I kinda roughed him up a bit in his "Complete Breakdown: HELP" post. He DEERed the answers and then sunk to name calling. I feel sorry for him. I started out pretty weak myself, but made the decision to grow instead of making excuses to remain the same. For me, these guys are a hobby. Something to do while I take a 💩
/r/askMRP02/10/17 04:01 PM
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Hey OP, this alludes to a very important point. If YOU are not German, be SURE to understand the cultural expectations of extended family. I.E., what will be expected of YOU in the future? Beta Bucks on hard mode? My mother-in-law has spent every penny of her retirement. Her life fits in 13 moving boxes and she lives in a commune. I've already told MY wife if her mother moves in, I'm leaving. Permanently. She has had her whole life to get ready for the end. I will not give up literally part of m…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 03:51 PM
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You've come to the tallest, toughest mountain of sub-reddits to climb. I just got here, the climb sucked, and unplugging from the matrix of the gynocracy is the toughest thing I've ever done. Learning to defend nuclear weapons against terrorists was easier than this shit. I'm not fucking kidding. Those goals weren't 1000lb combined primary lifts, <15%BF, and 1000 hours or more of intensive study. My answer to your questions at askMRP are from an MRP perspective. Imagine that? Q1: "Are women just…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 03:40 PM
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I FUCKING KNEW IT. Always trust your instincts. I found my reply to his OTHER account. He's not getting any 'good' advice? It's all a cliche and meaningless? This motherfucker has been handed the keys to the kingdom, and is too lazy to insert the key and open the door.. From awhile ago...to his alter ego... Let's start from the beginning, once upon a time a mommy and a daddy were trying to create a little version of themselves. Daddy fucked mommy really really hard, I mean, he railed her, and af…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 02:50 PM
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"How should I handle this?" You should, at the next opportunity, when you are NOT butthurt or mad, explain to her how and why this was inappropriate. Explain to her that if she communicated to you in advance, ALL the prep work could have been done easily the night before. Explain to her how you need to be able to get adequate rest so you can function well at work so trips to the zoo are possible. LISTEN to her answers. HER RESPONSE is her level of respect for and acceptance of you as the man and…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 01:20 PM
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Ah, young love. The only thing sweeter is the juice from the pussy that provides it. I'm glad you think you're red pill and your LTR is red pill. Excellent. Except, you and your LTR are NOT red pill. SHE is more red pill than you are. SHE is owning HER shit. SHE controls the dynamic in the relationship and accordingly, YOU are in HER frame, that's why YOU are worried about meeting HER parents. STOP IT. This post is all about her, her parents, and their collective acceptance of you. Your frame is…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 12:47 PM
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I'm not sorry I hurt your feelings, I know how important they are to you. I will leave you alone. Since you have read through the sidebar you know more about this than I do, because I'm only about half done. All of my advice will come from the sidebar and my life experience. And you're right, EVERYTHING I do is more constructive than commenting on your post. Time to take a 💩
/r/askMRP30/09/17 03:19 PM
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Thanks for the spoiler alert. I'll watch it anyway.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 02:53 PM
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When you have a moment, go over to r/marriedredpill and read the post 'Time and Attention' by u/ReddJive. Great stuff.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 02:51 PM
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That's a start, but there are many immediate different directions you can go. Do not over analyze this shit. Notice the first four letters of analyze... It's not complicated. You do the shit that needs to be done because it's the right thing to do. Thinking about her makes it choreplay. Not good. Here is the mindset you want to work towards: I do shit because it needs to be done. I'm improving myself and becoming a better man every day. Period. I want sex, and as a result, many women will fuck m…
/r/askMRP30/09/17 02:39 PM
2

Anything by Laura Doyle
/r/askMRP30/09/17 02:19 PM
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I stayed 6 years for my kids. My daughter resents the divorce, and she asked me if I knew then what I know now, would I do anything different. I said, "Why YES, I would have left her 5 years sooner." I had a morals clause put into the settlement agreement. Members of the opposite sex not allowed at the house between 9p and 8am. Not a catch all, but neither is staying married. But everyone's situation is different, so let's take a look at yours. You've been bouncing around TRP and MRP for about 4…
/r/askMRP30/09/17 02:03 PM
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You have 2 stated goals in your post. Goal 1 is a good start. Goal 2 is the foundation of your failure. Read the sidebar to find out why.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 01:04 PM
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