Horrendously blue pill beta for years. I woke up to this around a year ago, and have been making changes that have worked to some extent.

Problem is, both wife and her family all still think I’m a beta. They make comments that make me fucking cringe now, things like “you’re more sensitive” (puke).

When I hear stuff like this it makes my stomach turn.

I am at the point where I genuinely don’t know if I will be able to ever lose the beta tag without basically getting a new family?