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10

How do you go about it? You don't. End of story. Real life or bust.
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:26 PM
1

Yeah they do, so you have to be extra ballsy. Go out and do it. Stick a hand out as they're walking by to stop them.
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:39 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks Pretty much, but don't discount the immense amount of tension you can build up through text.
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:38 PM
2

Don't do it accidentally.
/r/seduction26/05/14 06:46 PM
14

Dance. Classes. Met tons of girls recently due to this, and the social aspect of the classes (they have picnics, nights out, etc) have landed me tons of new friends. We went to a day club just yesterday for example.
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:45 PM
1

No way, it just means you're human. Go for what you want, don't live life for others.
/r/seduction07/08/13 01:59 PM
1

Never too young to get exposure, but I'm not sure how much of it will resonate with you.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:19 PM
1

I don't judge and I don't care what you do with who, so I'm going to ask you what you want. Do you care that she has a boyfriend? If no then proceed to direct seduction. If yes then escalate but tell her flat out that you're not a homewrecker, then let her decide what to do.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:16 PM
1

Agreed, except I'd change the framing from a question to a suggestion. "Let's go out for drinks on Thursday".
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:08 PM
1

Unless that's the truth don't use it. That's a fairly relationship-y thing to say.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:07 PM
2

Agree and amplify. One of my favorite amplifiers: "Only on Saturdays." (or whatever day of the week it is) It immediately confirms and dismisses their claim in a funny way.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:06 PM
6

Just straight up say "I want to fuck you right now". Watch how receptive she becomes. Don't be ashamed or shy about it.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:04 PM
1

I was in the market for new headphones once and asked a girl if I could listen to her beats headphones just to see what the hype/popularity was about. Worked quite well.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:01 PM
1

I disagree about the never asking part. Sometimes it's highly effective when you know she's into you. The whole lead into the kiss question has worked wonders for me: "Do you have a boyfriend?" "Do you find me attractive?" "Why aren't we making out right now?"
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:00 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1jaq3w/transitioning_to_honest_casual_and_open/
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:49 PM
5

If this isn't your priority it should be.
/r/seduction02/08/13 08:05 PM
2

I once had an epic tryst with a girl from south america. We ended up traveling around together and really getting to know each other. I made her aware of a lot of strengths she didn't have, taught her how to ride a motorcycle, and pushed her out of her comfort zone. We both grew as individuals and learned a lot from each other. So that. Do that. I don't view women I'm interested in as pieces of meat. I view them as valuable partners who share important moments in my life.
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:45 PM
2

To each their own. I just find it to be a huge waste of time. Two outcomes happen from this: 1. You take the approach to it's logical conclusion, get her number, make out, take her home, bang the shit out of her. Whatever. You didn't really want it and you're not entirely happy about it. 2. You stop it short at any one of those points, the entire time realizing that you're not really into her and you've just wasted all that time. So in my mind why not just go for what you're attracted to from th…
/r/seduction02/08/13 05:40 PM
1

This sounds like you're looking at being dishonest with women. Why would you be dishonest? The answer should be that you should always be working towards what you want. If that means dating multiple people then do it. Don't hide it from others.
/r/seduction01/08/13 07:26 PM
68

As long as you're honest about the real reason I don't see an issue. Focus on what you want and go for it. If that's your studies, cool. If you find you're isolating yourself from everyone though, friends included, you might be depressed.
/r/seduction01/08/13 02:19 PM
2

Friction would be the applicable term for the blow off there. You picked a bad time. Oh well. You gave it a shot. You're a busy dude leading a busy life, no worries. If the time is right you can try again but don't get hung up on her, plenty of other opportunities for you. Plus didn't you just state you don't like to shit where you eat? Wouldn't you be doing the same thing over again by dating this one?
/r/seduction01/08/13 11:06 AM
5

If you guys were talking and having a conversation it's completely normal to break eye contact every so often as you actually talk. If you're describing a scene and use your hands for a gesture, if you're pointing at something, if you stop to think, etc. This is totally normal. What you shouldn't do is look away at the ground and be all embarrassed. Be willing to re-engage that eye contact as soon as you start talking to them again. Edit: And don't be playful about the eye contact (i.e. triangle…
/r/seduction01/08/13 11:02 AM
2

You think lovers don't seduce each other? You think attraction just "happens"? There's a reason all the pieces fall into place. Being aware of the process doesn't invalidate it.
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:41 PM
14

You don't bring it up unless she asks, really. Look, fuck what she thinks ultimately, you're leading the life you want. If she doesn't want on board that's fine, that just means you saved time in going for what you do. But for the duration of the date, be there, enjoy it, go for the ride. That's the ethos I take on my dates and after we have the chat (when it comes up) I'm open and honest, and say I'm looking to keep things casual. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1jaq3w/transitioning_…
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:37 PM
17

It's solid. It's a change from what I consider PUA tricks to real material that is going to make you grow as an individual.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:58 PM
1

Yeah, not really that great advice. I think the original point was not to be a pushover or put the girl on a pedestal. That I can get behind. Having strict rules about how to achieve that not so much. Sometimes buying a drink for a girl isn't a bad thing. Sometimes you genuinely want to do it. Intention and motivation is the real key as to why I buy drinks.
/r/seduction30/07/13 02:13 PM
3

I don't see how that invalidates my point.
/r/seduction30/07/13 12:55 PM
2

Is it ok for me to be always available for online/text conversations, Skyping multiple times in the week, starting lots of conversations -- or should I still be playing it cooler than this? Be honest about it, but don't be needy. I do try to disclose my feelings in a way that would make Mark Manson proud , but to what degree should I do this? Obviously, disclosing some of my most needy thoughts would not be a good idea, but can I whip out the L- word or tell her I miss her sometimes? The l-word …
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:38 PM
2

we're out with our friends, doing friend stuff You go out to be in a social atmosphere, otherwise you'd be doing friend stuff at home. Why do girls try to deny this? This is why female opinions are pretty shitty when it comes to this sort of thing.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:16 PM
1

Sometimes. But that's not an active number close, which I consider to be something like "You seem really interesting, I want to continue this conversation, how do we make that happen", or "I'm going to stop you right there and get your number because I'm taking you out". etc. etc.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:10 PM
1

I may flirt with them if they've got a cool personality but I never actively try for a number close. If they're interesting enough to actually hang out with in a non-sexual way then I'll schedule that, invite them to parties (and tell them to bring friends) etc.
/r/seduction24/07/13 02:51 AM
4

All of my last relationships have come after same night seductions. Personally I think it's better to know if you're sexually compatible before moving on to anything more serious.
/r/seduction22/07/13 09:54 PM
4

Demographics, vulnerability and honest action. These are three key principles Manson talks about in Models. If the OP honesty wants to wear the sunglasses and isn't projecting insecurity he'll have success.
/r/seduction17/07/13 02:32 AM
1

Jesus. This is what's wrong with the community. It's not a scientific method. It's a general guide. Get the fuck out there and start approaching and stop analyzing so much.
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:27 PM
2

I have a friend who is pretty awesome at approaching girls and striking up conversation about whatever. He gets numbers. He goes on 'dates', and they never, ever lead anywhere. I've observed his interactions personally, and what he's doing wrong is that he never steers the conversation towards a sexual nature. He never makes his intentions about wanting more than just conversation clear. From the get go it's about interesting conversational topics, but it's always only that. It's like if you att…
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:13 AM
1

Polarization will still get you women. You don't have to stop being an asshole if you don't want to. And that's the key. Motivation/intent.
/r/seduction29/06/13 12:09 AM
2

This isn't really pick up related, what you're asking for is relationship advice. But I can say that you need to be happy with whatever you decide for your interactions, and if that means you're not getting what you want from her you need to man up and communicate that. If you want an exclusive relationship with all the titles, responsibilities and addendums then straight up tell her. She may not be cool with that, and that'll be the end of it. Sounds like you already know what you need to do.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:45 PM
4

I would argue that's still direct, it's just that your communication is body language as opposed to verbal.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:29 PM
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You aren't following the conversation, you're leading it. You aren't putting up with the conversation, you're allowing it to continue. You aren't looking for validation on communication, you're merely choosing to listen. A confident male can interrupt a girl mid sentence without a second thought and give his opinions on whatever, or even straight up switch up the topic. This past weekend I had a girl keep going on about a topic I found really interesting, and half way through it I just stopped h…
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:27 PM
3

It can work. I text a lot with women I close. Don't worry about it. I feel like the anti-text segment of the community may be aiming for a slightly different demographic? Who knows. The young ones always always always love my text game.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:12 PM
4

I've f-closed a few girls that never texted first. Don't write it off just yet.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:11 PM
2

Some girls just do not initiate. Accept this now. If things are going well otherwise don't even give it a second thought. You're the one chasing after all.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:10 PM
3

Failing is really important. I've been doing this for a while now and I still have huge AA, it just won't go away. The times I do succeed are usually situational, which I've identified, but I need to work on moving past that comfort zone because frankly I've sort of forgotten what it's like to fail. And failure is the only way you make progress.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:07 PM
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You can't feel awkward about it. That's the biggest thing. Next biggest thing is to do it subtly and indirectly unless you're in group talk. Example, I was in mixed set of guys/girls and we were talking about phones. I said I could never switch from my iPhone because I've bought too many apps, and the one girl asked why I pay for apps, there's tons of free ones. Then I whipped out the phone, completely forgot I had iKamasutra on there and said "look at this, it's the best kamasutra version, I ca…
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:04 PM
3

Nah. Weddings are the best place to run game. You can be overt and everyone will be accepting about it.
/r/seduction15/06/13 06:50 PM
2

It is if you're using it as a crutch not to approach.
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:37 PM
3

The more I interact with females the less I think that shit tests are actually a thing. She's just teasing you the way you likely tease her. Don't get all defensive.
/r/seduction10/06/13 12:15 AM
1

Demographics. Read Models by Mark Manson. Your presentation will work for certain types of groups.
/r/seduction07/06/13 09:15 PM
1

You're not really care free if you think you're doing something wrong. If you're only going out dancing because you think it's going to attract women, then you care about what you're doing. Listen I think it's great that you dance but be honest with yourself. You want to meet women. So take the initiative and approach.
/r/seduction07/06/13 09:08 PM
1

Here's a useful tip. You will never completely remove approach anxiety. Accept this now. What will change is the way you handle it. With more work and approaches you'll learn that it's just a social cue about what you're about to do. That's really it. Understand why you're afraid of approaching. Is it because you're afraid of rejection? Why? Do you value her opinion? But you don't even know her. Just go for what you want and be honest with her but more importantly with yourself. Rejection is fin…
/r/seduction07/06/13 09:00 PM
2

Two options here. They're telling the truth. They are lesbians. I'd continue talking to them and ask all kinds of sexual stuff because I'm honestly curious. They're not lesbians. I would still ask the sexual stuff and find out if they're interesting enough to continue talking to. If they fumble or make shit up call them on it. Also intensity is fine. If they say so ask if it makes them uncomfortable. If they say yes then no harm done, nice to meet you, walk off.
/r/seduction07/06/13 08:56 PM
1

Honestly the more you write the more it seems like you're trying to qualify. That means you need her approval. Girls aren't interested in taking that to a sexual level. Less is more. Get to the point, don't apologize, don't make excuses. Own it. Edit: This goes for real life conversation as well. Slow your speech down, say less. Be expressive. Don't capitulate. Be polarizing. Don't agree just because you want to keep talking to her. Agree if you agree, disagree if you don't. It'll lead to better…
/r/seduction07/06/13 08:19 PM
1

I use it all the time. I can't think back to an instance where I didn't, to be honest. It was one of the first videos I ever saw after being exposed to seduction and it really stuck with me. Made a huge difference in my interactions. And if you can isolate a girl and continue to ramp things up this way it's going to end in a makeout session pretty much every time.
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:54 AM
7

Solid advice but I disagree about #3 slightly. Even if it's not loud getting in close for conversation can get really sexual, especially if it's not the head tilt direct ear talk, but more of the cheek-to-cheek-almost-like-you're-going-in-for-the-kiss talk. I do agree that you don't want to seem overly eager. This is the best video I've ever seen that demonstrates how to get sexual in close conversation. Practice this, it will do wonders.
/r/seduction28/05/13 01:28 PM
3

You might be taking the seduction personas a bit far. That said, enjoy the summer. On a side note is smoking seriously gross? Some girls don't care. Others like it, some will be put off. Do what you want. Edit: Basically girls can tell when you're faking it too much or being supplicating. Don't do it for them. Do it because you honestly want to/don't want to.
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:04 PM
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You were embarrassed because you placed value in the outcome, meaning you wanted her to like you and accept you. When you approach from the position of wondering if she's someone that might be cool to get to know, then her rejection won't matter, it'll just be a natural consequence of finding out you may not have been compatible. And there's nothing wrong or awkward about that! Basically, get your shit together, and don't stop approaching. Also, avoiding that hall doesn't tell anyone anything. I…
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:59 PM
2

If you're doing it because you suck at social interaction then I would say you need to work on your social interaction. For example for a while my dry sarcastic humour went completely unnoticed by everyone. I mean fucking everyone except my closest friends. Waitresses, girls, bus drivers, servers would all think I was dead serious when I was making what I thought was an obvious joke. As my conversational skills and self consciousness subsided I found myself being more natural. Thus my jokes are …
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:55 PM
1

LOL While hilarious I wouldn't advocate this merely because it will draw attention and make you look needy. Ultimately rejection is a fact of life, you shouldn't care, thus College_Game's suggestion works best.
/r/seduction24/05/13 02:08 PM
2

It's fucking summer. Go for a jog, join a sports league, start a reading club (sounds lame but whatever), take a yoga class in the park, go for dance lessons, find some public gardens - go for a walk. Damn son just get out of that basement.
/r/seduction24/05/13 02:06 PM
7

Are you afraid of what other people think of you? Are you afraid the girl might feel awkward? These all speak to insecurities and needing validation from others. You gotta man up and just do it. Step out of that comfort zone.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:49 PM
1

That can be ok, but you have to understand the real reasons you don't enjoy them. Are there underlying anxieties that come into play? If so you need to address that and re-evaluate your social interactions. If you seriously don't like anything then you're going to have a tough time with life in general, forget pickup.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:47 PM
3

nothing to memorable about me in her mind, no rapport or comfort building in the dialogue really Blah blah blah excuses excuses. Why haven't you really asked for her number? Are you afraid of rejection? If what you say is true then there should be nothing memorable about her to cause a fear of rejection either. You can get her number within minutes of meeting her. Honestly just go for what you want, don't be ashamed or afraid of it. Do you think she's interesting? Do you think you two might have…
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:35 PM
1

I love that city, and approaching there was fairly easy for me as a foreign visitor. If I were nearby I'd go out with you in a heartbeat. Best of luck!
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:35 AM
3

I tried the three question approach on multiple sets last weekend, bombed on ALL OF THEM, and it was awesome. My friends who saw me couldn't believe I had the nerve to continue trying it. The best part is the next day I f-closed a same night pickup but didn't even try to use it. I'll have to keep it in mind to incorporate during the questions game though.
/r/seduction20/05/13 03:05 AM
1

You have to realize first and foremost that guilt is a completely internal feeling. The only person that can make you feel guilty is yourself. External influences can lead you down the path but only you can make the decision to feel it. Kind of obvious right? But when I first realized this it was liberating, because it meant that I had the power to reject the guilt. Instead replace it with inquiry. Why do you think you should feel bad? You're not with your girlfriend any more. Do you still have …
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:42 PM
3

Agreed. The difference between friends and sexual partners mostly comes down to sexual innuendo and kino.
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:36 PM
4

Ah, dude, you haven't picked her up yet. You've just got her attention. This is an important distinction because from the sounds of it, or at least how you've framed the context, it's as though you're ready to jump through a hoop for her. Don't! As stated, go for what you want when you want and if she flakes so what you're a confident male with plenty of options.
/r/seduction17/05/13 02:42 PM
1

I've picked up gym staff but never other club members. I just kept the interaction fun and flirty, got her name by saying something like "I see you every day and don't know your name". She was all smiles. Next time in she comes over during one of my sets and asks what music I'm listening to, we have a conversation about it and I tease her but tell her I'm kinda busy and get back to my workout. Third time in we're talking about backgrounds and something we could connect on came up. I told her we …
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:57 AM
2

I'd be careful with that because some girls equate getting smashed with a guy to being taken advantage of, and their self preservation shields might kick in. Instead I'd make fun of her drink selection or clothing choice. Something stupid like "you know this bar only lets you in if you wear a jumpsuit, so I hope you're prepared".
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:14 PM
1

I text leading up to it. I tend to poke fun of them about whatever date we've set up. I call her out on her ability to handle <insert whatever we're doing> and they typically try and validate. It's led to some hilarious banter and builds the tension nicely.
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:38 PM
5

Honestly if things go sour what's the worst that happens? You go back to doing what you were doing before? Being awesome? Not so bad sounding, is it. For cold approaches, you don't know the person. You can't possibly have any emotional investment in them right? So don't worry about making an ass of yourself. Keep telling yourself how much of a badass you are. Internalize that. Then no outcome truly matters because a badass carries on like a boss. Make sure you're passionate in at least one area,…
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:32 PM
21

Honestly the best relationships I've had have all started as hookups.
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:41 PM
0

Spot on. It probably wouldn't even take much.
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:38 PM
2

Toronto was the birthplace of seduction, so lots of PUAs are running game all up in this town. There's nothing specific that needs to be said about Toronto that you can't find here. You may want to check out /r/torontoseddit for local meet ups but honestly that subreddit sees very little action.
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:20 PM
6

Getting in shape was a huge confidence booster. Finding supportive friends allowed me to practice approaches without being judged. Instead, they helped, encouraged and gave me tips. Talking to everyone in a friendly manner. This one is awesome because it eventually becomes second nature and makes indirect openers pretty easy. Example: You're chatting up an old dude taking his cool dog for a walk when a cute girl walks by and is interested by your energy/conversation/demeanor. Makes it super easy…
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:08 PM
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Yep; agree and amplify. "He doesn't even lift" -> "It's true, I used to do it professionally and got addicted to the fame. The drugs went right to my head so now I give lectures to schools about the dangers..." If you can play these things off and make her laugh she'll be impressed that you a) don't give a shit what your friend thinks b) can spin something so stupid into something funny and c) make your friend look like an idiot without calling him that outright. It's like a social parry. A deft…
/r/seduction14/05/13 02:38 AM
1

Let me tell you a story. When I was in highschool I had a good friend who I'd hang out with all the time. We talked, laughed, did things we both enjoyed. It was cool. I started developing feelings for her. Thought I was in love. One day in a bold romantic gesture I bought some roses and showed up with them to one of her classes, and flat out asked her if she'd go out with me. Well, the look on her face was pure embarrassment. She accepted the flowers and said we'd talk later. All day I remember …
/r/seduction13/05/13 07:57 PM
1

If you want more, you will have to do more than just talk. Can't stress that enough. I've seen so many friends who are awesome at talking and intellectual conversation fall flat on their face time and again because they don't take further initiative sexually. You need to let the girl know what your intentions are!
/r/seduction13/05/13 07:39 PM
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That there are so many nice guys? Agreed. Listen you can keep doing everything you love, just be confident and passionate about it. Don't supplicate, don't apologize for what you like, and be opinionated. Don't agree with everything they say just because you think that's agreeable; it's not, that makes you a pussy who can't deal with basic confrontation.
/r/seduction13/05/13 07:09 PM
3

Last point especially. 2up is serious business. Mind your brakes since the stopping distance is going to be increased a lot, and having them shift even slightly in the seat will impact your balance.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:00 PM
2

But I also love to play guitar :)
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:30 PM
5

I'm... not? Just sharing my experiences.
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:08 PM
4

She very well may have been, I wouldn't know. I'm not here to pass judgement on women. I'm commenting how it can help attraction. Whether or not you want a whore or not is entirely up to you.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:58 PM
4

I don't need material items to seduce. This is just one aspect that, when a woman finds out about, amps things up. I thought I'd share my experience with that. All you're doing is threadshitting. Take a look at some of the more well written and thought out rebukes to my presentation, unless of course you're too busy trying to tear down others from your high horse.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:52 PM
1

Very true. My passion for riding was sparked on a trip abroad where I decided I needed to learn and be in control of one after being a passenger. Prior to that I never imagined I would even be remotely interested in bikes. I fell in love immediately.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:49 PM
1

More dangerous than driving a car? Yes. I think a motorcycle safety course is a must especially if you're not completely confident. On the upside riding a motorcycle will make you a better driver. You just become more aware of everything.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:45 PM
6

Constructive input. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/05/13 06:44 PM
3

That hasn't been the case in my experience. I've had young professionals (nurses, physiotherapists, engineers), young college girls, young waitresses/bartenders, an interior decorator, an HR girl, you name it; all different types, all attractive and all with really different personalities, and they all loved it.
/r/seduction08/05/13 05:46 PM
6

Indeed; I've submitted pics to /r/motorcycles in the past. It's a 650r.
/r/seduction08/05/13 05:11 PM
4

I think just having the balls to go up to a girl is enough to get them interested especially during the day. There's no expectation (at least where I'm from) that girls will be approached that way so they don't have crazy shields up either. I've done the "hey I think you're really cute and had to come talk to you" approach with a few follow up questions and it's work really well.
/r/seduction08/05/13 02:03 PM
5

Not quite disaster if you can still manage some basics. I ate on a patio last week with a girl and the only seating available was across the table. Things that I did to get the kino going: asked her what <specific jewellery item> was and had her hold it out for me at which point I grabbed her arm and inspected it shared food with her and played the "that's my piece of <food item>" and then removing it from her fork eventually feeding her off of my fork footsies By the end of the meal she was rub…
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:56 PM
1

Completely disagree, I've had some one night stands with less than smoking hot girls and still had a great time. You really have no idea what kind of girl she is in bed until you start the seductive process.
/r/seduction07/05/13 06:30 PM
10

Just grab her hand and bring her closer. Say something like "let's pretend we like each other", then start chatting. I used this on a date the other night after meeting with the girl at the corner of the street. The meet up went like this: "Hey" -> hug -> hand grab/lead to destination -> "Let's pretend we like each other" -> big smile -> huge reciprocation on the grip. Instant kino right from the get go. But of course you don't want to do this if you haven't already engaged the girl. This is a n…
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:35 PM
1

The sidebar has a lot of really useful info. You should check it.
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:15 AM
30

Lol love the descriptions. But seriously op, this. Read up on the escalation ladder.
/r/seduction05/05/13 02:07 AM
5

If women were good at understanding what they find attractive then the things they list would be enough to actually attract them and the community wouldn't even need to exist.
/r/seduction04/05/13 06:48 PM
1

When I'm actually out I don't think about the techniques or community very much. I just get in there. My interactions are now just fluid and natural. So definitely don't overthink things once you've got a steady rhythm figured out.
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:23 AM
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Two separate f-closes in one day. This year it's going to be two-at-once or at least three f-closes in the same day. Gotta keep moving forward.
/r/seduction30/04/13 06:45 PM
1

Sounds like you didn't build up enough comfort. Tell me you tried to steer the conversation to a sexual tone. It's easy if you start talking about relationship crap (do drunk I love you's count? is a bad first kiss a deal breaker? if a hot guy/girl is bad at sex do you keep seeing them? etc).
/r/seduction30/04/13 02:17 PM
47

Jesus dude. Stop texting them about never talking to them again. Just don't talk to them again. Stop projecting ideas of your relationship together. In fact stop thinking about any interaction beyond what is happening at the here and now. Don't imagine a life with this girl you barely know. Since you barely know them, why should it matter to you if they flake or reject you? You've got a busy day ahead of you and you've got lots of awesome things coming up in your own right, so stay focused on th…
/r/seduction30/04/13 02:10 PM
1

Day game in general has netted me far more followup dates. Get to it.
/r/seduction30/04/13 02:02 PM
1

Yes. This. Slower speech oozes confidence and comfort. The introduction of pauses is also great to build sexual tension, especially when coupled with the right body language (triangle gaze, sly smiles, slow methodical movement toward her).
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:58 PM
2

You have the ability to identify when it's going to happen before it happens? That's pretty useful, and can actually give you a moment to slow the conversation down. Which is pretty fucking crucial in building sexual tension through conversation actually. Just ... slow down the conversation. Introduce pauses while looking at her intensely.
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:56 PM
1

Just be up front and honest about what you're doing and you'll save a lot of headache later. There's a lot of girls who are actually ok with just having sex a few times.
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:47 PM
2

Ask her out now. Say something like "hey once these exams are over I'm taking you to <insert really cool place>". Then follow through.
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:45 PM
1

no big deal just had some fun That's just it. What you're feeling is normal but let me tell you it gets easier the more it happens (and it will happen). In my opinion the handling of the rejection is just as important as closing because ultimately both affect your inner game. The key is to continue identifying that it was just a bit of fun and in the end you are absolutely no worse off than you were pre-approach, which means the approach was successful in and of itself. Good on you. Also smooth …
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:39 PM
1

15 minutes is way too long dude. You need to move immediately. If you were running kino escalation at the bar/club/lounge you need to amplify that immediately. As for wet clothes chick I'd have brought her to my room and said I have a change of clothes for you. Also never settle for LMR. If she's not responding the way you want don't be a chump and accept it. Go do something else, stop paying attention to her or flat out be up front about what's going on.
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:17 PM
9

Imagine she's your girl and you're just comfortable holding her however. Hold her hand, support her back, leave your hand on her thigh, hold her neck when you come in close to talk/whisper in her ear.
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:13 PM
2

What brings you joy in life? Focus on that. Remind yourself of it when you're about to go out; let it charge you up. How close are your personal relationships? Build on your friendships.
/r/seduction26/04/13 12:59 AM
13

/r/relationships <- is that way. Don't point them back here, they hate us. And I hate them.
/r/seduction26/04/13 12:57 AM
8

Good advice. Every party I've thrown I've just naturally settled into the good host groove, talking to everyone, mingling, enjoying life. Inevitably people come looking for me to have a drink/shot/smoke with. I've hooked up at every single party I've thrown.
/r/seduction24/04/13 06:32 PM
1

That's the best way to do it. "I don't need your company so badly that I'm willing to pay for it."
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:49 PM
1

I remember reading an article way back about how girls are more likely to form long term relationships with guys they've been fucking versus the nice guy who takes them on dates even though the nice guy might have all the right attributes like a stable job, good finances, a nice home/car, etc.
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:46 PM
12

I build robots that go into space. We've got a lot of technology in use by NASA, The European Space Agency and the Canadian Space Agency. We have shit in low/high earth orbit. We have shit on other planets. I've met an Apollo astronaut who did some consulting for some of our projects. The job and the projects we work on are really fucking cool. Now for the kicker. I don't mention it during pickup. I don't even hint at it. I hate interview style questions about it and really only share this detai…
/r/seduction24/04/13 01:37 PM
3

This particular line is kind of specific to college campuses Negative! I've used it at sporting events for food, movie theatres for seats, bars for coats/drinks... works awesome everywhere.
/r/seduction24/04/13 12:44 PM
7

I think that's exactly what this graph shows. The natural outcome of you thinking something is a shit test is to shut it down. If it was a shit test, you win. If she's not interested (or crazy) then you still win.
/r/seduction23/04/13 03:08 PM
2

That's awesome. I would have offered to just fuck her. Unless, you know, not hot. In which case good call.
/r/seduction23/04/13 03:34 AM
1

If you're doing something for yourself, then you're not being a "nice guy". If you genuinely get pleasure out of whatever it is you're doing (volunteering, donating money, helping granny cross the street) then it's just you doing your thing. Nothing wrong with that. If you're nice because you expect that person to thank you, or because you want them to acknowledge you, or gain favor with someone else, that makes you manipulative. Don't do it (unless that's your ultimate goal).
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:21 PM
78

The look on their faces when you get it off so fast is truly worth knowing the technique well.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:16 PM
5

Get to know the bartender early. Get her name. Get her knowing what you like to order, even if that's a diet coke or simply water. If it's a dude it's cool too but it's less fun in my opinion. The point is this builds social proof for when you eventually take a girl to the bar or just happen to bump into one there. Last time I ordered three waters and as the girl was pouring I said "no make them doubles, I like them strong" she laughed and we started some witty banter. She gave me a business car…
/r/seduction19/04/13 08:03 PM
0

Agreed. I just ended a relationship specifically because I never stopped interacting. The ex didn't like that. C'est la vie.
/r/seduction19/04/13 07:59 PM
1

I got her number but didn't want to try to make out with her just yet as I didn't want to be just another drunk hook-up Sounds like you're trying to be a "nice guy". Stop. Outcome independence is where your head should be. If you want to make out with her make out with here and don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction19/04/13 02:50 PM
1

You waited to open her, don't do that in the future. Don't hang either, unless you're looking for a friend. Date and make your intentions clear.
/r/seduction18/04/13 09:52 PM
3

Your mistake is assuming those attractive guys don't work for what they have, be that in styling, grooming, body language (posture in this case) or hitting the gym. Take a look at a ton of actors who have let themselves go. You need no further proof.
/r/seduction18/04/13 06:07 PM
1

You're right though there needs to be more FRs for successful closes. I'm guilty. The only ones I've posted were my failures. I guess I save the successes for imparting nuggets of wisdom as comments to other comments.
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:43 PM
26

Advice? Embrace it. Don't apologize. Walk a girl through the routine as you pull it, most will find it fascinating and surprisingly it will still work on them. Here, check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DsVwYqVhdU The video is pretty good in it's own right but I want you to notice how the girl he's using (who fucking knows what this is all about) is still responding positively to his seduction attempts. She can't help it. It's innate. Edit: The biggest thing is there's no need to hide…
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:52 PM
1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70yHawu-pyY
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:44 PM
1

Cheers. Forwarded to a friend. He's got it bad.
/r/seduction17/04/13 06:09 PM
1

Here are some things that worked incredibly well for me at getting dates. If it's not a same night f-close, text her that night. Be witty, poke fun at something you did with her (inside joke) or mention how you're about to partake in some really fun event/activity that you talked about earlier. Don't ask her for a date. In fact never ask anything. The only 'asking' text that's ever worked for me is the classic "Drinks? Tomorrow?" line. Instead, dictate. "I'm biking to such and such a place tomor…
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:57 PM
2

I like this a lot. Teasing her about her poor flirting would only get her to qualify herself to you. Brilliant.
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:39 PM
2

It is but there may be a psychological element in play. I wouldn't downvote the guy. When I remove porn from the equation I am physically more motivated to get out there because if I don't pick up, I'm not getting my rocks off.
/r/seduction17/04/13 05:33 PM
3

"I'll take that as a compliment." "What's your point?" "So? Wanna fight about it?" Whatever, just don't take offense and play it off in a joking manner. I had a girl once tell me that I had an intense gaze, and that she was sure I was a player. All I said was "thank you" and we proceeded to have a fucking epic make out session on the beach that would have been an f-close had she not been on her period. I eventually did end up f-closing at a later date at which point she went on to tell me she wa…
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:42 AM
3

The community exists to examine what actually attracts women, not what they claim they're attracted to. If it were as simple as the latter nice guys would finish first, and the community wouldn't exist. You should really stick around, you'll get a perspective on how we think based on the various interactions with the opposite sex. The field reports in particular are all the evidence you need about what does and doesn't work. The themes are incredibly consistent throughout.
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:31 AM
14

Be straight up about the no-sex once the heavy make out happens too. You'll be surprised how much further they'll want to push it if you push them off you mid make-out and say "Listen don't try to take advantage I'm not sleeping with you."
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:25 PM
4

Solid advice. Start building rapport immediately.
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:23 PM
0

Tell her how you're naughty where it counts. Let that last word hang when you say it. Give her a knowing smirk, bedroom eyes, wink, whatever. Also when you say hook up you mean f-close or what, that's how I use the term.
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:23 PM
1

Don't rely on that possibility, instead go out and create another one. Like, right now.
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:05 PM
14

I've been telling you chucklefucks forever that text game works. You absolutely have to stay flirty and non-serious. I managed a double f-close in a single day out of getting girls to meet up with me through texting. The first f-close had actually already happened that morning after a weekly build of sexual texts. After an early morning romp I bailed and started up with girl #2, who in particular had flaked on a few dates already. I had never met up with her before. Essentially I told her that I…
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:04 PM
3

Tucker Max, asshole extraordinaire, is king at this. Reading his books makes me want to just go out and have a blast.
/r/seduction16/04/13 06:26 PM
0

So... you came to complain about the scene at a forum dedicated to the scene. Makes sense.
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:40 PM
6

Exactly. Smiling, glances/eye contact followed by quick evasion? That's a go. I'm going in. Hair playing? I've practically already got her number. Nervous fidgeting? We're having dinner tonight.
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:54 PM
2

I'm going to say some things that you might not like. Brace yourself. In my experience the only girls who are uncomfortable being complimented on their looks are girls who aren't used to it. That is to say, they're probably not very hot. However I agree that in the case of a super hot chick you don't want to be complimenting her anyway. This shit works. It's not bullshit. It's tried, field tested and true. You do want to make your advances forward but it's all in the tone and implications. Anoth…
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:53 PM
1

When this happens don't break eye contact. Force her to look away if you have to but start approaching her without looking elsewhere. "You can't look at me like that and not say hi. I'm He25."
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:48 PM
18

Tease her. A few weeks ago I was at a bar and this smoking girl was looking for the bathroom in the wrong area. She came up asking where the bathroom was and I just placed my arms around her waist/back and said "I'll show you". On the way over I asked if she's normally that bad with orientation and she was immediately fumbling trying not to look dumb. When we got to the stairwell that led to the ladies room I told her I wouldn't be here when she got back, so I'd just kiss her now. Bam. Instant m…
/r/seduction20/03/13 03:02 PM
1

He's being downvoted because he's saying these things as if they're true. No, it's not true that in most cases texting isn't building attraction. It's true in his experience, which leads me to believe he's not at all good at text game.
/r/seduction12/01/13 03:27 AM
2

You really shouldn't be doling out this advice. I've managed to take girls interests from close to nothing to "can't wait to meet up for a drink" after having their number for weeks and not even meeting up. Scenario: meet girl, grab her number, text her next day. Don't text for a while. Out of the blue text her and start initiating text game, escalate, be spontaneous, let them know what kind of awesome things you're up to, tell her to meet you somewhere. Bam. She's there. I've done this on multi…
/r/seduction12/01/13 03:24 AM
13

Try the escalation ladder. You don't immediately go for grabbing the goods. That's inappropriate. Seriously just start simple. Shoulder tapping. A light hand on her back when you lean in to hear her better or guide her or even when you're pointing something out. Did you just think of something relevant to the conversation? Do the "oh hey guess what" and as you do that tap them on the arm/thigh with the back of your hand. It's a completely innocent (and acceptable) way to get their attention or h…
/r/seduction03/07/12 07:59 PM
2

Ridiculous game is such a fucking hilarious way to open. Things don't have to make sense to get their attention. You better be witty enough to keep up the game though.
/r/seduction11/04/12 02:49 AM
1

Not sure about the downvotes, you're spot on. Shit, even Feynman talks about this in one his books, *Surely You're joking Mr. Feynman". Don't buy drinks, be upfront about the sex. It works.
/r/seduction18/12/11 11:07 PM
2

From everything I've read that's the way to get it done, but honestly whenever I've taken it to a comfortable isolated setting it's just progressed to full out sex so I can't quite verify this advice.
/r/seduction25/11/11 01:20 AM
1

Bands don't usually get a cut of the drinks I don't think, it's not unusual for them to ask for donations. He was a jerk for saying what he did, but it would have been worse by escalating. If the girl acknowledged you buying the drinks she doesn't think you a cheapskate, but you could have played it off by saying she was your sugarmama that night. Or something.
/r/seduction27/10/11 12:18 AM
3

Jenny eh. 867-5309
/r/seduction06/10/11 01:33 AM
1

A good friend and I went out with sombreros a week after cinco de mayo and WE were getting approached. Sure, they were initially interested only in the hats but it did a few things for us right off the bay. 1. They approached us. AA need not apply. We were approach by groups of guys, groups of girls, individual girls, and in a bar/lounge setting that attention brings even more of it. Laugh it off and play it cool and you won't look the douche. 2. Gave us both an opening conversation piece. "Why …
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:12 AM
2

Seconded. Reading your post was like dejavu for how I hooked up with a hottie hb9 waitress. I basically told her I was going to watch a movie after our date and that she should join me.
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:04 AM
1

However, she tells me that she won't do casual sex That's just her anti slut defense kicking in. Ramp up the kino escalation ladder, do the push/pull when she rejects. She's a sexual creature, we all are.
/r/seduction16/09/11 08:23 AM
1

I'm not sure why this is the opposite of "girls we game". Every girl is susceptible to falling for the best version of yourself, which is pretty much what "gaming" is trying to do; at least, that's how I view it. You can have everything you have just listed in a woman. Just be confident and go out and search for it. If you want it quicker than later, be up front about it in your conversations - women appreciate directness! If she's interested often times you may find they start to qualify themse…
/r/seduction05/09/11 02:40 PM
1

Does this guy have videos in the field? It seems like he's always just talking about it, which is good, but I want to see him in action.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:35 PM
2

There are times when I have absolutely no desire to approach women, even though I've acknowledged they're attractive. I think when you're starting out on this road it's important to put yourself out there, but once you're comfortable talking to and approaching women there's no reason to always be "on" - after all this is about living your ideal lifestyle and if you would rather read your book in the park than approach every girl you see that's more than ok, that means you're doing what you want.…
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:31 PM
1

Working towards bettering yourself in areas you lack confidence in will give you huge results, even if your efforts are modest at first. This is your inner game we're talking about, and it's the most important part of pickup, in fact. It will also just make you feel good overall, and you're worth the investment. So check your options. Some have mentioned college dental programs, others have recommended getting a part time job to help pay for it. Hell, just buy some whitening toothpaste and those…
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:27 PM
1

It's easier to find higher quality because they're not immediately on the defensive, you're sober, and you can actually tell/remember who/what is going on. But even still, my night game has given me good success so I love them both equally, for different reasons.
/r/seduction01/09/11 12:20 AM
1

You don't need to impress or lie, that's right, which is why a playful dismissal will usually win her comfort and get her laughing. I can't think of a single situation where this hasn't worked, to be honest.
/r/seduction01/09/11 12:00 AM
3

Because that usually leads to boring interview like conversations that keep people on auto pilot. When you break someone's expected answer usually they do a double take, even if it's ridiculous, and forces them to refocus and find out what just happened. This jolt from the ordinary will get you noticed, and your playful nature will build comfort. That's why.
/r/seduction31/08/11 11:59 PM
-16

Oh god yes. I did this with a girl at a house party a few weeks ago. She resisted hard but I pushed on. We ended up disappearing from the party and just going at it all night. By the end she was begging for more. In the morning we continued. A week and a half later we went out for drinks and she insisted we wouldn't go back to my place. I basically forced her there, and back in my bed she kept resisting. I just plowed through to another marathon sex session and at the end she again commented on …
/r/seduction20/08/11 01:40 AM
2

Rejection happens to everyone, you just gotta keep at it. After breaking up I went on an 8 week cold streak. I was getting rejected left right and center but you know what? I was still getting numbers and interacting as much as I could. It's just a numbers game, and sure enough this past weekend the cold spell ended in a mighty spectacular fashion, and I've got three to four spinning plates lined up. Just. Keep. At. It. And when you get rejected, just remember, you're not invested enough in thos…
/r/seduction09/08/11 11:05 AM
2

You want it because you can't have it. It's simple. And you are over-analyzing everything. You keep saying you're awesome and doing what you want, but clearly this guy is getting under your skin. Man up and move on, don't get oneitis.
/r/seduction09/08/11 03:22 AM
1

Park. To quote another sedditor: bitches love taboo sex.
/r/seduction07/08/11 08:23 PM
2

It's too bad when people get caught up in the HB scales, but if I had to rate, it'd be an HB8.5.
/r/seduction07/08/11 08:23 PM
4

Pick them up. I had a date with a girl last Monday, the initial plan was to meet at a restaurant but I picked her up instead. We did the eating and sat side by side so lots of kino, which put everything into a good mood for when I took her to the park by the waterfront. I came prepared with a blanket and shit got serious. Even though I live in the city this date was worth it.
/r/seduction06/08/11 11:10 PM
1

The only reason I'd be hesitant is because she lives in your building, otherwise, I'd be all over that. Fuck the haters.
/r/seduction06/08/11 12:21 AM
2

Perfect. I'd even extend it further: "I'd hope so, I'm a retired hand model after all." then play up some ridiculous angle.
/r/seduction01/08/11 11:03 PM
1

I got an HB7s number 15 minutes before a morning flight to Vegas. Here's how it went down: I just made it past security and was starving (it's about 6am at this point) and am looking around for some good food. I spot a place that has an awesome food advert and waltz in. The place is kind of a restaurant/bar - typical airport style. There are few people around but I spot the HB7 at the bar about to order. I sit two seats down and start chatting with the waitress, ignoring HB7. After perusing thro…
/r/seduction31/07/11 02:00 AM
1

No, definitely not. I push limits sometimes a bit hard with negging and I'm consciously trying to pull more recently to balance it - and it's working. You can be cocky and even arrogant but just be sure of it internally (they'll know if you're faking it) and be sure to pull them in where necessary. Two steps forward, one step back.
/r/seduction29/07/11 12:19 PM
13

I saw a girl in the park at a distance with a bandaged up forefinger/thumb and meant to ask if she was a professional thumb wrestler, but she left before I had made my way across the path. I'm still eagerly anticipating using this one again though.
/r/seduction26/07/11 09:52 PM
2

Seriously. I can do cardio and love soccer, but just running? Get away from me.
/r/seduction26/07/11 09:51 PM
0

Well about a year ago I discovered seddit and had amazing success, then dove into a relationship which ended a few weeks ago. I've been going out and doing approaches, getting numbers, etc., but for whatever reason I was still in some kind of AFC funk. This weekend has been not bad getting a shitload of numbers and interacting lots. Last night I met a gorgeous babe who seemed into me but had to bail, so hopefully that goes somewhere. Basically I need to be more aggressive and move into a serious…
/r/seduction25/07/11 12:22 AM
1

Seems like a great article. I've had a bit of of a tough time recently moving beyond but I think I'll give some of this a shot.
/r/seduction24/07/11 02:14 AM
4

I usually joke about it. For example, if someone says they like my shirt, I'll say "thanks, I like it too" with a big grin on my face. That either gets them to punch me in the arm or laughing. Either way it's a good start. Works great with people you already know especially.
/r/seduction21/07/11 10:44 PM
8

Snappy with the "yeah lets". I like it. Well done.
/r/seduction21/07/11 01:30 AM
3

I would have gotten the number anyway, just because it'd put you into state. You don't have to act on anything beyond that!
/r/seduction14/07/11 12:31 AM
1

How would you protect your girlfriend from getting seduced by other PUAs? When I was in a relationship, I didn't worry about it. I focused on being as awesome as I could be; I did what I wanted as often as I wanted. This doesn't mean being a jerk, but rather doing those things which I truly enjoyed and not being apologetic about it. I think that's one of the strong qualities women look for in partners anyway so as long as you don't lose that she'll stay more than interested, and at the same time…
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:04 AM
2

You probably were intimidating, maybe too interrogative? Next time you ask a question follow through with it, don't just be like "ok" "yeah" "uh huh". Make jokes about her answer, propose alternative ways to twist her response, get her laughing. Maybe you did do this though I don't know. Also try to match her body language in a humorous way if she's kind of closing up, and if she notices it tease her about hers.
/r/seduction30/06/11 01:23 AM
2

Some more Toronto sedditors eh, nice FR. Perhaps I should meet up with some of you guys at some point. I'm on the prowl again.
/r/seduction29/06/11 03:32 AM
3

Gym pickup is tough since you're likely to bump into them if things go really bad (ie bad date/poor fclose) but that shouldn't stop you from at least getting their name and making friends. Think about their potential social network they could hook you up with. Take the pressure off by saying "I just want their name", especially if you see then often enough.
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:49 AM
1

Ultimate first date? Jesus Christ no. Keep your interests mysterious. Hint at them and tease her but never give them up outright. The mystery will keep her interest at least for now. Wearing yourself on your sleeve leaves it all open for scrutiny(and rejection). So your geeky hobbies? Maybe make passing hints about it. This doesn't mean don't be yourself, it just means don't be all of yourself at once.
/r/seduction26/06/11 01:04 PM
8

Focused with her life planned out? At 16? No. Stop putting her on a pedestal. This almost sounds like oneitis. Mental note for yourself: imagine when talking to a girl (any girl) that they played with themselves last night thinking about you. This makes talking to any woman so much easier, and you'll likely go into bedroom eyes mode, which is good. Also, if this is illegal where you ate due to age I'd tread immensely carefully to the point of bailing. It sounds like he's into you while drunk bec…
/r/seduction26/06/11 12:55 PM
1

Right, just making sure he's got his goals in mind.
/r/seduction23/06/11 12:42 AM
5

*Was that the right response? * Whoah... you're thinking about it way too much man! Just loosen up and have a good time. It matters less what you say and more how you say it. What you said wasn't bad. Sure it's not witty or particularly playful, but if you had a bit of a smirk/wry smile with some bedroom eyes I'm sure it would have been fine. Now the real question here is what's the deal with a 4th date - have you closed that yet? This isn't oneitis is it?
/r/seduction21/06/11 02:08 AM
1

I think of my best successes/nights and I'm instantly in that state. It's fucking awesome.
/r/seduction21/06/11 01:47 AM
2

I kind of agree. The thing with OKC is that unless you've got some kind of super profile (which takes time to craft) chicks that you want aren't going to be messaging you in droves. So in addition to crafting a good profile you have to invest some time. And you may not hear back. That sucks. Move on, etc, whatever. The point is in the real world you can spot the attractive ones right away, and approach right away, and provided you don't spout vaginal fluids when you open your mouth the chances a…
/r/seduction21/06/11 12:11 AM
1

Shit these are awesome, thanks!
/r/seduction18/06/11 12:55 PM
1

There's truth to this but we're also here to point out that you can just, you know, withdraw completely if it's not working out. I'm assuming you're not hanging out with her ultimately for friendship (if you were you wouldn't be posting here about it) and if she won't let you into that space, or you can't penetrate it, then you need to move on right?
/r/seduction18/06/11 12:50 PM
2

Being yourself is part and parcel of the confidence. This is good. If you wanted to see her again you need to build on a connection and give her a reason to continue that interaction. I'm not sure you achieved this, but giving out your number isn't likely to get a call. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying stop doing that - it might work out for you at some point, but if you're going to go for what you want (and my guess is you want the girl) then you need to use more effective strategies. Get her …
/r/seduction10/06/11 12:22 PM
17

By extension, no one is better than you. I see everyone as equals. This makes approaching anyone a lot easier, not just hot chicks but even in terms of life in general. Dealing with figures of authority becomes so much easier. Bouncers, cops, bosses, etc. That doesn't mean you can be a dick, it just means you can talk to them earnestly a lot easier, and most everyone responds well to earnest conversation.
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:53 PM
5

spending your entire day hiden away from public eyes inside your cubicle or basement Wut? this loser getting ripped off Easy there judgmentbot. People find value in different things. why did you bring your relationship history in...and who were those women you were so successful with? your mother and aunt? Believe what you like. I'm just being as forthcoming as I can be on the subject instead of being a condescending douchebag.
/r/seduction26/05/11 03:02 AM
3

I'm from Canada too and while I haven't had a $150 cut I don't scoff at the notion. I've had lots of $15 cuts, and they all sucked. That's not to say I haven't had great success with women - above all confidence rules - but knowing that you look your best helps with that. Lately I've been really disappointed with the cuts I've been getting so I need to find a decent salon/stylist and I'm not afraid to try dropping some cash on one.
/r/seduction25/05/11 11:30 PM
10

I'm so glad you're just friends. Alright here comes the threesome. Giggity
/r/seduction25/05/11 11:26 PM
1

By hooking up you don't mean f-closing?
/r/seduction25/05/11 11:19 PM
3

I once used the team name Barristers Barristers Barristers, Barristers and Solicitors for trivia.
/r/seduction18/05/11 11:25 PM
2

Everyone has natural game, you just have to know how to tap into it. You're doing awesome, keep it up.
/r/seduction30/04/11 02:41 PM
2

Relevant. Also, I'm totally stealing the "that must have looked unbelievably impressive" line. Nicely done.
/r/seduction29/04/11 11:17 PM
5

I think, as with all interactions, that your body language and tone matter more than what you say. I can see the op pulling off that original line smoothly and with a wry smile to indicate the playful nature. A serious reply is of course going to indicate you're on the defensive which will likely turn them off.
/r/seduction19/12/10 03:00 PM
1

This times one hundred. You, like the girls you're trying to go up to, are just people. No more, no less. Forget categories and forget what you think you want in women. Instead go out and experience it Stop thinking, start doing. Use the doubt to fuel the approach. Tell yourself it's normal, and go.
/r/seduction03/12/10 09:22 PM
3

Absolutely. FR's are not restricted to club game only. Someone posted a FR about their day a while back that involved starting out in a grocery store, then he talked about a date he had later on. It was both entertaining and useful. Please share!
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:55 PM
1

Just to be clear I'm not paying for sex, ever. Also I'd be worried about locals wanting to sleep with me because I have money, seems like a great way to catch an STI.
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:54 PM
3

There's some pretty good stuff in here, I especially like the pivot. Comfort building and social proof in one shot. Well done.
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:11 PM
3

You know as well as I do that's a lie. If your routine is anything like mine was, I was up between midnight and three in the morning wasting time on the internet, doing absolutely nothing. I still graduated and got a job. You can do it. You just don't want to! :D
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:03 PM
1

I don't think seddit is for you. Go back to /r/cuddlybears or something. Seriously you're having a hard time understanding that precisely what attracts us to one another is not based on rational well thought out characteristics. That's why every girl on earth will tell you they look for the same qualities in guys that, invariably, are not a part of what forms the initial attraction.
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:26 PM
1

If she's not brushing you off or giving you signals to stop, it's all kosher. For example, at a bar one time I was working on a double set, strong eye contact, good jokes, light arm kino. No problem. One of the ladies said something I didn't quite understand and I tried to escalate a little more by moving in and putting my arm on her back to bring her in. Except I messed it up and accidentally ended up holding her purse. She looked down immediately at her purse which was an indirect queue that s…
/r/seduction30/11/10 04:26 PM
1

Pretty much this. You don't want to linger on that first approach, it gives a sense that you lack better things to do. Being busy makes you interesting.
/r/seduction30/11/10 04:16 PM
1

You're not doing stupid misguided shit if you're confident about it. It's only if you second guess yourself that she will pick up on this fact, and then get weirded out by it. Also, don't get hung up on impressing anyone - you don't know them and if you get rejected so what, time to move on.
/r/seduction23/11/10 03:20 PM
12

"I basically have to analyze everything that she's doing, figure out what to do in my head" Stop this. Stop it right fucking now. You are getting friend zoned because you're trying to steer the interaction in a manner that you think they'll like as opposed to being a confident person. It really doesn't matter what you say or do when you flirt, but how you project yourself both as a confident and sexual person.
/r/seduction23/11/10 03:18 PM
3

checking out different social environments/groups and finding the one that works best for you Nail. Head. There are plenty of groups and people for you to have interesting conversations with. Get out there! Check out things like meetup.com
/r/seduction18/11/10 02:48 PM
2

Are you finding it hard to talk to hot girls? Just remind yourself that they're people just like anyone else, including whoever it is that you're comfortable talking to regularly.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:57 PM
9

Yep. I once picked up a chick at a bar who somehow let it slip that she knew more about phones than the average girl. I was interested. Another conversation later it slipped out that she was a huge nerd, and she actually loved Star Trek and ran her own linux boxes at home. And this was after the initial attraction building pickup phase. I never once dropped hints at my own nerd status but I'm sure some of my conversations may have hinted at it. So just play the numbers game, enjoy your youth, an…
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:28 PM
1

She's in town, she's surprised you have no gf, she gave you her card. Email her and fclose tonight, god damnit, not next time. Don't ask. Tell.
/r/seduction12/11/10 09:21 PM
2

Directions are always awesome. I got a girl to actually walk me to where I was looking to go and in that short period of time she completely opened up to me. I got a number close and she said she'd be give me a personalized tour later on. She is gorgeous too.
/r/seduction12/11/10 09:13 PM
2

When she's present, firstly, but also when you've got the balls to go through with being confident.
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:57 PM
9

Courage wolf is the ideal inner game personified.
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:26 PM
1

First off, be super comfortable with yourself. Imagine that you are the man and just do what your ideal self would do in any situation. If you see a cute girl, smile, maybe wave. Go talk to her. You may have approach anxiety, most people do, but just remind yourself that your ideal you is going to take advantage of any opportunities tonight and anxiety be damned.
/r/seduction12/11/10 06:06 PM
1

I use both of these: Dove Men's Body Wash and Old Spice Dry Defense. Not at the same time mind you, but they're both around depending on what I feel like smelling. I use those exact versions you see in the images but they have other ones as well. I've been complimented a few times by the girl I'm seeing and she loves to get up in my shit after a shower. She wouldn't let go of me this morning. It was awesome.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:39 PM
1

The same colognes and perfumes will not smell the same on everyone, your body chemistry will mix things up enough to give it a unique scent!
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:35 PM
-1

Why would you pick up a girl if you're not planning on staying out late? You can answer that yourself perfectly well. The point is why would you intentionally limit yourself in your interaction? If you're having a good time, go with the flow. If you can get an fclose, why the hell not? Second, the fclose is presumably worth the earlier wakeup.
/r/seduction11/11/10 07:40 PM
-1

Either go to her place or let her know you've got an early morning.
/r/seduction11/11/10 06:48 PM
3

Girls notice. I made out with just one a month back or so on the dance floor but ended up going home with a group of friends (and some hot girls) to hang out. I was getting playful and kinoing up on these girls but they refused additional advances stating directly that "they didn't want to catch whatever I caught earlier", making a direct reference to my makeout session. Sooooooo yeah, just be sure to isolate for those make out sessions if you can. Other people can and do notice.
/r/seduction11/11/10 06:47 PM
1

Practice on her but know, I mean really know, that there are plenty of other girls for you to meet in your area. Don't get hung up on this one.
/r/seduction09/11/10 08:16 PM
1

You don't want a relationship but you like sex, and you guys hit it off. I really don't see the problem. If he uses these "techniques" and you get a great night, why does it matter? If you can get to know him better because of it also, why does it matter? Stop with the anti-slut defense shit, you want sex, maybe with him. Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction08/11/10 05:51 PM
1

It's context dependent. For example, one time I was chatting up a cute chick at the bar of a concert hall, we talked about music for a good forty minutes and she recommended a whole bunch of similar artists to the one we were there watching that night. I told here there was no way I'd remember them all and that she should just text me the list instead. I gave her my number and continued the conversation. It was just a natural progression. If you can find something like that to tie it into why yo…
/r/seduction02/11/10 03:32 PM
1

Stop being so stuck up/elitist. Step out of your comfort zone, and exercise for fucks sake.
/r/seduction01/11/10 05:18 PM
11

Don't do this.
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:05 PM
1

Bam. Perfect advice right here.
/r/seduction27/10/10 06:40 PM
1

Be a tease and talk about situational things. Personally, I think people asking what you do is terribly cliche, and I'll often say that outright, and throw it back in their face with a more interesting question like "what's your favorite type of ice cream". They might laugh at this or start to question how that's any better than "what do you do", and you can make up a story about how ice cream flavour choices are indicative of the type of person you are. Just tease them. If you really want to do…
/r/seduction27/10/10 06:37 PM
1

Also don't get upset when girls flake. THEY WILL FLAKE. Learn this now, learn this early. The key is to not give a shit, you're a busy guy with many things to do and many people to meet (including more girls), which means you should never become emotionally invested in a girl that you're not in a relationship with. That means no more calling them out if they flake.
/r/seduction27/10/10 06:33 PM
1

You've done enough. Don't keep trying. I won't judge going after committed girls, that's for you to decide. If she bites, you're in. If not, again, move on.
/r/seduction27/10/10 06:28 PM
1

This. By hook up do you mean "had sex"? That's the only way I'd use it, and if it didn't happen, you likely got friend zone'd. Another thing - if you didn't get the fclose but were available two days in a row it might show a bit of desperation? Girls want busy interesting guys right, so don't jump at her every invitation or suggestion. In fact, make your own, and if she bails, play it off cool because her being in your life isn't what defines you.
/r/seduction27/10/10 06:22 PM
2

I appreciate your advice and will take it into consideration. Thank you. I have strong feelings for this girl, after all. Also, as far as I know "ltr" is not pick up artist lingo.
/r/seduction26/10/10 03:49 PM
1

My reservation lies less with the "game" and more with having come out of a serious ltr, 9+ years, my only one, and having zero experience with anyone else up until about a month ago. Is jumping into another ltr really the smart move, despite how infatuated we are at this point? Even bigger than that is the problem of proximity. Say I go for it and it just naturally doesn't work out anyway, that's still risky too.
/r/seduction26/10/10 03:23 PM
2

Keep it up my friend, this sounds like great progress. Also, props on continuing to push yourself despite your initial set backs that night. You will have times when you're anxious and shy, that's ok, but know you can get over it. We're looking forward to the rest of your reports!
/r/seduction22/10/10 07:36 PM
0

I sort of did the reverse, by teasing a girl about her halloween picture from last year saying I had the same costume only it looked better on me. She then said she was sorry she missed it to which I replied if she's lucky later that night we can get up to some hijinks. She replied to that saying we should meet another night instead but still do the hijinks. Booyah.
/r/seduction22/10/10 06:40 PM
3

Yep. The setup was easy too, she's super eager. Game on.
/r/seduction22/10/10 02:23 AM
5

This. I was at a bar last night for some live jazz, no intention of actually running game because I was just way too tired for it. I did strike up conversation normally though without fear of approaching anyone as I have now learned to do. Anyway when I walk in there are two cute girls having a conversation at the bar, alone. I come up next to them and order a drink, then ask if the live music here is good while kinoing. The response is immediately playful, they turn and engage me, we chat for a…
/r/seduction21/10/10 04:03 PM
25

It's weird, my club game is my best game. Easy things to do: go up to the bar next to them to order a drink, find situational things to have a conversation about. Be sure to kino early when you do this. I posted about how one club I went to required stamps, and I opened up the set by touching her hand at the stamp and saying "Nice tattoo, I think I have the same". It got her laughing and things just progressed naturally. Yeah it was a little loud but I actually like this because you can move in …
/r/seduction20/10/10 03:43 PM
6

The biggest things I've taken out of the PUA community are being confident and assertive about what you want. Sometimes, you can use techniques that people respond to, these are the body language and verbal queues that go back and forth that are an innate part of the seduction process, but aren't necessarily logical. They work. I too am an engineer, and yes you are selling something here, but the key is that deep down you believe what you're selling - that cool, calm and confident demeanor. Girl…
/r/seduction19/10/10 08:07 PM
10

Agreed, the downvoting is hilarious. It's as though there are some people around who are entirely anti-seduction just running around hitting downvote as fast as they can.
/r/seduction19/10/10 06:06 PM
4

Oh, also, I should mention you should be ok with her flaking. As in, you're doing those interesting things because they're interesting, not because you want her to come along. Although that would be nice, the thing itself is desirable enough to do alone/with friends.
/r/seduction19/10/10 01:50 PM
4

Terrible. You're a busy guy doing busy things. Get involved in more things, and invite her along. "Going for drinks later, stop on by."
/r/seduction19/10/10 01:48 PM
3

This is some afc way of looking at stuff right here. You need to up your inner game and not worry about other people. In fact, befriend the guy.
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:40 PM
12

This is going to be hard, but, try to go at it alone. A bad wingman is worse than no wingman, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:16 PM
7

This is a great report. Damn son, props.
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:14 PM
1

At first I had shitty luck with okc, and I realized I was doing a few things wrong. #1: I was trying too hard, writing too much, and visiting their profiles too often. I kind of got oneitis going on with a few of them because of the match algorithm - I thought these should be the girls of my dreams. Don't do this. In fact, fuck the matching algorithm altogether. #2. I was not being direct enough. My messages were far too friendly and familiar. I've since switched it up and have gone from few rep…
/r/seduction15/10/10 01:04 PM
1

Yes. The how conveys meaning just as well if not not better. In fact better.
/r/seduction12/10/10 03:57 PM
2

It's alright, it's a transition process to get comfortable. Do you remember the first few times you approached? I bet you were anxious as hell. It just takes time and practice. Keep it up though, and try to push yourself that slight bit beyond your comfort zone. It's the only way to grow.
/r/seduction12/10/10 02:15 PM
4

It's a shit test. Don't compliment her. Say something like "Yeah yeah whatever gelatinasaurous rex, listen I have something important to ask you..." and move the conversation in a direction you want, preferably to something she's actually interested in, or just topical.
/r/seduction12/10/10 02:04 PM
2

I'd go with this. Sometimes if you were prevented from physically being able to do this it might even be natural that you didn't make contact at first. Case in point. I went out this past Thursday and Friday to the same bar because Thursday was cheap drink night and my friend really wanted to go back on Friday. Anyway, the point is that I was chatting up this bartender and getting friendly with her on Thursday, but she was behind the bar the whole time, so kino was super minimal (hand touching w…
/r/seduction12/10/10 12:53 PM
1

Don't let the target know she's good looking!
/r/seduction12/10/10 12:48 PM
2

You can but you should step out of your shell. There is no reason you can't be confident enough to do it and you will gain not only rapport with those guys but social proof with others around you. When you game, you're not just gaming women. You're working on your inner game and also including those around your target.
/r/seduction12/10/10 12:37 PM
1

Not bad, but you could have finished with something flirty like "what makes you think we're in a relationship?" with a coy smile. Always smile after shit like this otherwise it will come off as an insult.
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:11 PM
2

This is awesome. I will steal this for public transit use.
/r/seduction07/10/10 03:16 PM
1

Tell her you can do one better and have her over.
/r/seduction07/10/10 02:16 PM
1

Actually I saw a friend pull this one off to wild success. We were out at a restaurant and it was his birthday, so the waitress congratulates him with the traditional "Happy birthday!", to which he replies (without missing a beat) "Thank you so much! You have a happy birthday too!". He said it confidently knowing exactly how absurd it was and gave her a big smile at the end. We all broke out in laughter and the waitress was extra friendly with us the rest of the night. Just know what you're doin…
/r/seduction07/10/10 02:15 PM
1

It's just as important to analyze what went right to continue using it for the future.
/r/seduction07/10/10 01:40 PM
0

Something flirtatious and a bit of a neg would have worked. "You're too kinky for me!" "Oh really? Not sure if I'm into that kind of girl." etc.
/r/seduction07/10/10 01:25 PM
2

I tend to go for topical openers, they immediately give us things to talk about. So what you did here definitely could have worked and was already flirtatious. Next time give her a wry smile, maybe tilt your body slightly so it faces her from the side (like a sneaky pose) but don't force it if it doesn't feel natural. It's playful and they tend to respond well to it. Yesterday I was at a clothing store buying some blazers and a girl was standing in front of the mirror I was trying to use to chec…
/r/seduction07/10/10 01:22 PM
10

Toss out some courage wolf lines. "You know, you and I are both winners. We were both the fastest sperm. We were destined to meet."
/r/seduction06/10/10 06:17 PM
1

Pretty much. Just text her "who's playing who?"
/r/seduction05/10/10 06:35 PM
29

No such thing. Move on.
/r/seduction05/10/10 04:28 PM
3

I thought you never want to let a target know they're good looking. I think using a situational line would work better such as "I can't forget a girl who wears big green shoes" or something to that effect.
/r/seduction04/10/10 06:23 PM
5

I disagree completely. Your "creepiest" one honestly sounds like the least creepy to me. It shows two things First, that you're confident enough to approach strangers. This is important and not creepy precisely because you're confident. Second, it shows that you don't value them unnecessarily high or were stalking/obsessing over it. This also demonstrates that you're a busy guy who is into their own thing, another good quality to have. As you go down your list I see more and more AFC material go…
/r/seduction04/10/10 06:11 PM
2

I usually do, and I've built up some rapport with the staff at my gym. That is probably a bigger confidence booster than the workout itself since all of the staff are really fit and lively, but they know my name, stop and say hi, and just shoot the shit with me. Before I took the initiative to introduce myself and get their names we barely said more than hi. After yesterday's workout I stopped by the counter to pick up some protein and ended up talking about travel and having some good laughs wi…
/r/seduction01/10/10 01:46 PM
1

I wouldn't do this, it's just kind of a creepy one-sided approach at getting information. That's not seduction, that's akin to stalking. I think maybe this is why I can't deal with okc too well.
/r/seduction30/09/10 01:55 PM
1

It's not what you said but how you said it. Were you flirty, with a wry smile as the words came out or were you just blunt? If she was noticeably older you could have left out the "you're too old" part and just gone with the "think you can keep up?". Either way though good for you for trying and as mentioned already live and learn - you don't know her enough to be emotionally invested when she rejects you. Just don't care. There are billions of women out there. One isn't worth getting upset over…
/r/seduction30/09/10 01:47 PM
1

I find the online game to be hard as hell to work, it's just easier to approach and seal the deal with women in real life from my experience. Be sure to have good photos, and keep your profile interesting but don't pour out your life's biography, no one wants to read that. Also check this out.
/r/seduction30/09/10 01:43 PM
3

Two things: first you probably got friended early on by not making a move anyway so your chances were shot and second it sounds like you've got some kind of oneitis. You don't know her, stop investing emotionally into her. Focus elsewhere.
/r/seduction29/09/10 06:03 PM
8

Sounds like things are already taking care of themselves. Just keep it cool and continue with the playful banter, and keep that aloof attitude - you're spending time with her but you could be doing tons of other things. Remember, you don't need sex. Live that mentality.
/r/seduction29/09/10 03:15 PM
10

The solution is to just keep ignoring them while using game tactics on other women in front of them. Neg them when you can, and maybe use a bit of kino but focus on others and build it. If they know you'll turn to mush as soon as they're interested then you've failed their test.
/r/seduction29/09/10 03:34 AM
3

Whatever you do don't put her on a pedestal - she's just another person like you who happens to share some similar interests. Approach it this way, and just talk naturally about these interests. If you're into the whole seduction angle (well you did post on seddit) then I recommend checking up at least some of the basics of the rest of the posts around here. Kino is important, as well as light teasing and depending on the type of girl maybe additional negs but it's hard to say without meeting he…
/r/seduction29/09/10 03:30 AM
3

The key with this one is not to fake it. You genuinely have to be happy as much as possible. Going through shit? Look to the positives. In difficulty lies opportunity. Seize that shit.
/r/seduction28/09/10 03:49 PM
2

Just keep some courage wolf images around in an album and flip through them. Shit like: "You were born a winner. You were the fastest sperm." (my current background image - it's actually got a few girls asking about it and led to natural openers, hah) "Bite off more than you can chew. Then chew it." "An obstacle is something you haven't torn through yet" "If you never give up, you never lose." http://fc09.deviantart.net/fs45/f/2009/082/9/8/FUCK_YEAH_COURAGE_WOLF_by_leebyrne.jpg
/r/seduction28/09/10 03:23 PM
1

Perhaps but there's no single formula that works for everyone.
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:49 PM
1

I agree, the drinking wasn't the issue it was the over indulgence. Better luck next time though. You seem to know what's up though so this is just another lesson learned. No harm done.
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:27 PM
4

If she looks at you and then averts her gaze there is at least an inkling of interest and you have an in. Next time it happens go over to them and say that they shouldn't be staring down a stranger without the intention of introducing themselves, or something to that effect. Your issue right now is that you're thinking too much. Get out of your head and into the moment - take in the scenery and what's going on around you (including the class of course!) and you'll have many more situational open…
/r/seduction28/09/10 12:09 PM
2

I think the idea is (at least for me this was the case) that you fake it at first to get over the AA. Once the approach and initiation of conversation becomes mechanical you can drop the fake part entirely and be your happy natural self.
/r/seduction28/09/10 11:55 AM
3

Please don't let your thoughts about other people stop you from exercising. Believe me when I say that I admire those who come into the gym who may not look like the Brad Pitts and Mina Kunis' but are still giving it a shot. That takes courage and effort and can only be commended. Edit: Whoops, Mila, not Mina.
/r/seduction28/09/10 11:54 AM
2

Excellent stuff.
/r/seduction27/09/10 07:34 PM
4

I smell oneitis. Unless you bump into her coincidentally don't even bother trying.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:37 PM
4

I posted about it in my first FR. Kino is the secret weapon. Touch early, touch often.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:08 PM
3

Being able to diffuse a situation logically and with wit is an equally if not more valuable a mechanism for defending and standing your ground than fighting in my opinion. He touched a nerve with you, but you lost your frame when he did it. That means your inner game is shakable. Solidify that first.
/r/seduction27/09/10 02:17 PM
2

Shiiit I'm so busy this week; moving cities and running around getting things finalized here. Can my Saturday exploits count toward this? That advanced one is a sweet target though.
/r/seduction27/09/10 01:59 PM
2

So true. Even better. If she claims the boyfriend is present at the location and points to a guy, acknowledge but keep talking. When there's a natural break in the conversation (or if you create one) go chat up the supposed boyfriend. Get to know him as a friend, shoot the shit. This will work for you whether he is or isn't her actual boyfriend. If he's not actually a boyfriend, you will get his (and any friends watching) approval/trust. This is huge for rapport, and the girl will notice. Last t…
/r/seduction26/09/10 05:56 PM
1

This is hilarious, thanks for sharing, hahaha.
/r/seduction26/09/10 05:52 PM
1

I'd still try to keep it cool and casual, but every situation is different. Do what feels right but never stop being the string.
/r/seduction24/09/10 05:41 PM
1

Careful with the under-agers. At 17 she's prone to be more volatile than others and possibly more self conscious than you care to deal with. Congrats on the progress though. If you don't mind me asking what type of comment turned her off, and how'd you recover? Also, how would you rank her on the HB scale?
/r/seduction24/09/10 10:11 AM
1

I wouldn't tell an HB they're pretty, they get plenty of those comments already and will file you under regular schmuck if you try it. The hotter they are the more negs can do for you apparently. Try something like "that sweater is kind of cute; seems really popular" or something to that effect.
/r/seduction24/09/10 10:05 AM
1

This was kind of situational and the atmosphere fit the approach but last weekend some friends and I were heading to a club and these two hotties were walking down the street, dressed up looking like they're also going to a club. HB7 and 8 respectively. So I break from the group, intercept them with my arm and ask for directions to where we're headed. They start feigning directions with their arms and giving locations. I play it off as if I'm confused since "I'm from out of town" (I was) and get…
/r/seduction23/09/10 04:36 PM
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Call her moleskin girl when you see her too, even if you got her name (pretend like you forgot).
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:33 PM
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Don't even ask if she has recipes, demand that she show you. If she claims she's not really familiar ask her how she got the job without any knowledge about the lifestyle. Say it in clear jest, with a wry smile. Eaaaasy. I love chatting people up now I feel like a new person.
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:29 PM
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And please post the results!
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:27 PM
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It's the best reddit as far as I'm concerned. The application of these principles has improved my life dramatically in less than a month.
/r/seduction22/09/10 08:21 PM
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On #14... I found it waaaaaaaay easy to jump into a group of girls taking photos and offering to do it for them. Fumble a little bit with it and ask them if you're doing it right, get in close to one of the girls (brush up arms, midsections, whatever) and get her to confirm you're doing it right before actually taking it. This is a great opener. Ask questions about the camera afterward.
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:41 PM
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Honestly I've just been studying seddit, and things that get linked here. There was a post about touching that I took to heart, and as I described above I've had wild success with it. As for comfort building I very well could have but I'm not familiar with the term. Looks like I have more reading to do.
/r/seduction20/09/10 04:07 PM
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I think I have natural game that I was just never aware of, but reading a bit more about what and why some of those things worked for me helped me hone it a little more. Swallowing the AA was the hardest pill but I've been trying to have conversations with everyone lately (not just HBs) to get over that.
/r/seduction20/09/10 04:01 PM
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This is like the model of an AFC: you're looking to mold yourself around the girls you want - stop. Work on yourself first. Be happy and confident. Once you do that you can be flirty and confident without going overboard. And competition happens everywhere, you have to face it. The sooner you do the sooner you can get over this anxiety that is just seeping through your post. Be witty and curt, don't talk about your personality or theirs initially, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Take in th…
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:10 PM
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I don't think girls are turned on by a simple touch so much as the whole atmosphere and mood - you need to rebuild that. Think about your most ticklish spots for example, and then touch yourself there. Do you squirm as much as when someone else does it? Probably not right, now consider that girls require more mental work to open up.
/r/seduction20/09/10 02:32 PM
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